College virgin need help

davidjascha · 2015-05-11T06:07:06+00:00

I got one advice for you, and I was a late-bloomer, too.

I know it's really counter-intuitive, but don't try to hide your inexperience, ever, meaning that when somebody asks, you won't lie about it. This will allow your mind to feel comfortable with your current situation, with which there is really nothing wrong but the fact that you would like to have sex, right? Everything else--"too late, blabla"--that's in your head.

Do not try to 'fake it until you make it'. Because if you do that, you will have to play the role of the experienced player/lover, which you are not at that point, and you will train your mind and body to behave as a fake persona. Then, years later, you will have to unwire all of that 'fake it'-shit again, because you realize that you ultimately want to be yourself.

So basically:

Accept reality and don't be ashamed for it. Make yourself vulnerable. Make an active effort to get involved with a girl (lots of material on that here), but when it's about to go down, don't hesitate to tell her that you feel nervous or even that you're a virgin, because otherwise you'll add stress FOR YOURSELF. Enjoy, and go from there.

OGmarc · 2015-05-11T14:45:14+00:00

Build your confidence. Easiest way is to simply walk up to an attractive girl(even if you think she's "out of your league") say "hi what's your name?" then introduce yourself. Without hesitation, tell her she's pretty and hand over your phone and tell her to put her number in your phone. Throw in some small talk or ask her a question while she puts her number in there then tell her you gotta go you have somewhere to go or a friend waiting some shit like that. Then on to the next...Or instead of asking for her number you could ask her if she's free at the moment and invite her to go do something. I'm 22, I do this often and most of the time it works. When I go out with friends to some bars in college areas, I can get about 10 numbers a night even though i get turned down half the time. So it won't always work but it's better than not approaching. Hope you get laid soon.

Title	College virgin need help
Author	fosterthesheeple21
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	May 11, 2015 4:56 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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