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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Jealous Worried Boyfriend Syndrome: How to Deal with Girlfriend Going OutInteresting conclusion. What about no girls, no problems instead? ;) | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Sarging Sucks: The Wrong way to Approach girls, and the Right way to Get LaidI think if you spend two years going out 'the wrong way' (there is nothing inherently free of learning experience, of course), a little bit of overthinking might be beneficial! Or maybe I'm just projecting, and nobody else ever made the same mistake. | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Advice for becoming more confident and less jealous?Well it's normal (as in everybody's doing it), but not normal (as in it makes sense). Think of it like that: If she want's to cheat on you, she will--regardless of how much you worry about it. So to worry is really a decision--because it won't alter reality for you. Trust hard and risk being kicked in the face, but it's unlikely that you ever will. | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Advice for becoming more confident and less jealous?I think there is no way around practicing to take control of your imagination after that initial trigger. I mean, we all get these triggers, right, but it's the second after it where it goes down. In my opinion, it's really a process of developing a mind that is a bit more calm, through meditation, or simply breathing when 'it' happens to delay the emotion, and then look at it from a more rational perspective. We, who care about out ladies, are all jealous, but the difference lies in what we do … | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Learned a New TechniqueNot sure if that's a cool way to interact with another human being. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 05:01 AM |
| 1 | My close friends all gets girls but I got no luckYou're being massively honest with yourself, and that's great. I think you see how taking action will be the only solution to your problem, which is, as you defined it: *not having a interesting life, *not having a fulfilling career *wanting to have relationships with girls Now, this is about you, so correct me if the points raised are wrong. Acknowledge that it is never too late to grow as a person, seriously, even a 50-year-old man saying that is pathetic. Start life seeing as a game, your per… | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Pre-date nervesCongratulations. I guess the most important thing about your nervousness is to realize that it's nothing but a passing wave of emotion. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Going on first date tomorrow - How to be fun ?Don't try to say funny things. Instead, have a good time, and make sure you're not afraid to say stupid things. Think of it like that: The more stupid things you say, the more fun you will have, and the more fun she will have. And I'm not kidding. Focus on saying arousing things, instead of things that make you attractive. "I like birds. You look like my favourite bird" is pretty fun, and makes her feel good. "What?! You creeper!" is arousing in a different way. Focus on saying stuff that is aro… | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Pre-date nervesI can totally relate. I agree with the suggestion to have something planned before, so you don't have to sit with your own anxiety. Also, it might be perfectly fine to tell her in the beginning, that you're a bit nervous--as long as you still behave like the guy you truly are. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 05:34 AM |
| 4 | Can an alpha be truly funny?In my opinion, 'frame' is fundamentally misunderstood. We picture it as something rigid--unshakable confidence. To me, however--and that would permit for a self-aware and funny 'alpha guy' to exist--frame is to be profoundly rooted in the moment as opposed to having delusional self-trust. Whose 'frame' is more likely to crumble: He, who has an extremely big ego, completely caught up in his self image, or he, who doesn't really care about what he represents, who doesn't have any intentional ident… | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Hi, firsttimer. Dated on friday, kissclosed, i wanted to meet up agian on sunday but she couldnt, now what?She is going to wait, too, until you text her. People just play those stupid games. Wait a day, start texting again, just back and forth for a bit, and next time you ask to hang out, you figure out whether she has time BEFORE you do. | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Blowjob in a Night Club?I had sex in a nightclub before. Most of my 'normal' (meaning non pickup friends) have. What is takes in my opinion? Being a cool guy and going to the right clubs. Try Berlin! | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 06:10 AM |
| 1 | College virgin need helpI got one advice for you, and I was a late-bloomer, too. I know it's really counter-intuitive, but don't try to hide your inexperience, ever, meaning that when somebody asks, you won't lie about it. This will allow your mind to feel comfortable with your current situation, with which there is really nothing wrong but the fact that you would like to have sex, right? Everything else--"too late, blabla"--that's in your head. Do not try to 'fake it until you make it'. Because if you do that, you wil… | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 06:07 AM |
| 1 | 26y/o moving downtown. How to get into the young/college/cool crowds?Just start chatting people up as you go out. Making one mate is all it takes. Next time you go out with him or her. And then you know their friends, and you go from there. It's really simple! | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 06:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys psych yourself up before going out?Don't 'psych yourself up' before you go out. What is it that you want to feel? Awesome and self-confident? As in "empty-pumped-up-state-which-goes-away-after-two-hours", that state that makes girls kiss you within a minute and then realize that you have nothing behind your energetic facade? Or did you plan on feeling actually grounded, actually confident, in yourself--not your state--and possibly creating a deep connection with the lady, able to keep the mood up all night? If the latter was what… | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Is The Sex God Method good?Yes sir. I consider giving advice based on my imagination to be rather inappropriate. | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 05:50 AM |
| 3 | How should I respond when girls comment on my baby face?I have a baby face too. I used to say: "What can I do..", or laugh. Keep in mind that it's not necessarily a bad thing. Some ladies like it, actually. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Suggested summer readings?Goldmund and Narziss -- Herman Hesse. It's a fantastic story with lots of embedded lessons. Complicated read though--It's a German writer. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 06:09 AM |
| 3 | What tips do you guys have on coming across as charming?Having an empty mind, and being so bored of life that the only thing that could possibly entertain you are your own stupid utterances. Charming means cheeky, spontaneous, like a child almost. To get into that state the fastest, I'd advise you to consciously relax whenever you start interacting with girls, and to practice saying whatever you think is funny. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 06:08 AM |
| 2 | How to become desensitized to pretty girlsYou need to get an insight into what girls are really like, and the only way to get that is to get into intimate contact with one. Then, you will realize how they are just people, who poop, as someone already mentioned. You'll see that they have just as many fucked up issues as you do, and that they worry about life in the same way, maybe more. And also you realize that it's these things that make them even more beautiful, and real. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 06:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling so crushed when I get rejected?It's good that you realised that more materials won't help you. What will help you, is the experience that in the end, it doesn't matter much when you get rejected. How do you internalize that experience? By getting it some more. Sorry, but that's how it works. Another approach I could think of would be to get into some meditation, and practice that, which will basically lead you to the realisation that nothing really matters, including you being rejected. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 06:00 AM |
| 7 | How to change reputation in high school?It's hard, since everybody around has formed an image of you. The easiest route to take is to change schools, that's what I did, and start as a new person there. But I understand that might be highly unrealistic for you. The other option is that you start becoming social with everyone, that's the next simple way. You won't suddenly be received as super-cool, but in order to get you where you want to get, being social and liked will be enough. So make an effort, on a daily basis, to chat to peopl… | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 05:58 AM |
| 3 | Is The Sex God Method good?I communicates some deep truths, but on a superficial level. Basically, it's all about "playing your masculine role", meaning to be dominant, and do arouse her emotions. It's a good read, but make sure to think about the fundamentals behind the writing: If you want her to be emotional, you better be emotionally involved yourself. Also, freeing yourself from what you think a woman might want in bed--and go with your intuition. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Rewarding Good behaviour with women.Right, because a woman is nothing to be a dog to be conditioned... I find that approach really controlling. | /r/seduction | 09/05/15 04:13 PM |
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