I am Indian, bald, 29 and live in Redwood City, CA.

So I went on a date with girl I met through OKC. She was Asian girl. Had not seen me before ( blind date from her side ). She knew I am American Indian.

I could sense she was little shocked when she saw me first. She was from China and spoke broken english ( ivy league graduate though ) and was too shy.

We got a drink. I was asking questions, trying to make conversation but she was just answering them and then quiet. We had awkward silence moments few times ( 3 - 4 times ). That's when I decided to take the command and kept asking her multiple questions such as career, relationship, why she broke off. Told her few stories and made her laugh from heart. Also, touched her few times ( friendly way ) but she was giving cold response.

After 1 1/2 hour she was insisting that we should go. After more 15 min. we left. I dropped her by calling Taxi and kissed her hand before she left.

Today, I sent text that I may have spoken a bit more but I hope that she had good time. No response. Later , after 4 hours I sent couple of more texts but no response. Its clear to me that she is not interested in me.

  1. What did I do right and what did I do wrong?
  2. Since I am bald, as soon as I put my picture on dating site I get no response. Without picture I get tons of response and which gets converted into dates sometime.
  3. I tried on-field direct approach but women either shrug me or show extremely cold response.
    I am competing against best looking men in white /asian ( chinese) dominant place.

What can I do to improve my game and have women respond to me more and more apart from obvious advice of try more.

Cheers.