How do I?

Turlast · 2015-08-05T17:07:27+00:00

Well, the fact that you're looking for helps shows that you're not okay with being forever alone. That's good. Some guys would rather hear nothing.

You have to look at it like this: what's the alternative? It sucks to continuously be knocked down, but it's the key to living the life you want to live. Some will disagree and say it'll do nothing but create more bitterness, but you know what giving up will create? Infinite regret.

A bruised ego from being turned down countless times sucks, but it's nowhere near as bad as the feeling of regret and knowing you threw away the opportunity to create the life you wanted.

Trust me, I feel so much regret as we speak, but I also understand that it doesn't have to always be this way as long as I'm down to work at it.

There are hurdles, bro. Some of it is from our own doing, but a lot of it comes from negative experiences, too. There is no special answer that'll change your situation. All I ask is that you don't give up and continue expanding your comfort zone.

I see no reason why there are guys who can go from being kissless, 30 yr old virgins to being able to meet and have sex with women. You just don't think it's possible for anything to go right for you. Prove that wrong by pushing through the negativity.

tooeasilybored · 2015-08-05T17:49:07+00:00

Don't focus so much on getting a girl, focus on enjoying yourself. Find yourself, what do you like to do? People say "be confident" because it is the easiest way to express to the opposite sex that you, are in fact not a creeper.

You have a few seconds before you open your mouth, and a few seconds after you open your mouth to make an impression on a girl. If you're in a place that doesn't make you feel comfortable...you bet your ass women will pick up on that vibe and you will get rejected right away.

Stop thinking about how you've been single for so long, start figuring out what you enjoy doing. Going out anywhere to pick up girls only works for alphas, why? It works because alphas are confident in most situations. Being confident changes your body language to relaxed, comfortable and welcoming. These are the small things girls pick up on. Non alphas give off the same vibe as creepers as far as a girl is concerned. Think about it, awkward unsure body language, no natural charm, not at all confident in the way they approach or speak, no happy spark in their voice. Of course girls will reject you, no one likes a creep!

I don't mean to be an ass, but you gotta go out and find yourself. That way your relationship will be more fun/meaningful. Take my advice, I went from your situation to bagging me a 10/10 natural korean beauty and kept her around for a couple of years.

Title	How do I?
Author	Throw5698
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	August 5, 2015 4:39 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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