So there's this extremely cute girl in my lunch period and I've wanted to approach her for quite a while now. I've been thinking it through and learning a good amount of PUA stuff. After today, is winter break so what better time is there than to ask her now?
Saw her in the morning, approached her and said
"Hey! I know this is random, but i've seen you around a lot lately and you look really cute, so i had to come say hi"
"Hi"
"Does this happen to you often?"
"No not really"
Now, my prepared line was "I find that hard to believe, because you probably walk around the lunch room winking at all the cute boys to come talk to you". So I said the first few lines and stopped because i noticed it wasn't lunch. But i fucked up because it wasn't lunch and my anxiety came right in, so most of the canned/prepared materials were forgotten.
"My names Frankie, nice to meet you!"
"Nice to meet you too!"
"Your name is?"
"Girl"
I shook her hand and instead of pulling away after the handshake, i held onto it. I made sure she wasn't resisting so i held on to it lightly, she didn't pull away until like a minute or two later.
"Im in a hurry to advisory" "Alright, I have you in lunch right?" "Yea" "Okay I'll talk to you there!"
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Okay, so I know the basic fundamental. Approach the girl, introduce yourself, spark a conversation/emotion, use a little push-pull, disqualifications and qualifications, end and grab the number.
I approached her during lunch, but again I did it as lunch was ending and people were leaving. I stopped her, said hey and she was like "i have to go, my friends are waiting". Which is true, her friends were waiting. So i was like,
"Here, put your number into my phone and we can talk later!"
Puts number in my phone and continues on her way. In my mind, i wanted to give her a hug, but unfortunately, something was holding me back, telling me not to.
Note, that the entire conversation, she had a smile on her face and so did I. She gave her number without hesitation, but then again, it's just a fucking number.
- I didn't get a chance to spark a good conversation and emotions.
- But i did set the frame at the beginning for both physically and mentally.
*Now what should i do? Isn't numbers just good for setting up dates? Should i do some texting and find out about her or just set up a date right away?
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