Alright so back in my high school day I had a pretty big ego , and I think that's what attracted girls I barley ever had to come up to a girl they would come up too me . Than I dated this one girl for a year and a half during my high school year to the end of my high school year . Lost my ego now I am out of high school , now when I go to the bar I generally go up to the girls I'm pretty good at what I do , but I found when I was in high school I made it seem like girls are lucky to have me type of ego . Something like a nothin like me I'm the first of me ego . Should I go back to that ego and let girls try approaching me / showing me that their interested first . Or should I just stick with what I am doing and approach them / show them that I am interested first .