I’m looking for convo topics that are different and exciting for girls. Just a little context, I’m 21, I go to college in New Orleans and I’m from the Bay Area (California). I’m an extrovert and love talking to people but I find that sometimes my conversations can be more on the vanilla side of things, or on the contrary, they’re fun conversations but they fizzle out easily because I run out of material/things to say.

I try to stay away from basic conversations about family, where the girl is from, what she majors in, what she wants to do after she graduates because she’s heard that script a million times. So I’m really looking for any advice or tested out topics that get and keep girls interested and wanting to stay and talk to me while also letting them know that I’m not like some average guy.

After a conversation I want them to keep the thought of me and our conversation in their head so they 1) remember me 2) think of me as more than just a friend, but as a possible (sexual) mate or a guy they can see themselves sleeping with. So any and all advice is appreciated.