Hi, New to this Forum. My wife and I just agreed on a mutual point of interest. We agreed to relieve ourselves of the constraints of marriage. So she will be seeing other men. I will be seeing other women, just for fun or sex. I'm not interested in opinions of other but I'm looking forward to some tips on good literature for my age or just plain tips. It's easy for me to walk up to a girl and start a conversation. I'm not lacking the confidence... only... most evenings end up with me just talking to 1 or 2 girls in a club. Nothing more. Suddenly a girl said: "Sometimes you get hit on by a guy and if you agree on sleeping with him, he just backs down". Made me think: I didn't even asked! What are the best steps from here on? Appreciate the help! Thx!