So, ok, I have no problem with the more "obvious" IOI's: women approaching, proximity, staring, etc.

However, I've become "desensitized" to subtler IOI's. If you're constantly drinking the strongest black coffee you can find with 300 mg's of caffeine in a cup, decaf won't affect you much, if at all. After a while, you might not even get your buzz from MULTIPLE cups of black coffee.

I feel like the same thing is happening, or has happened with women. The more women approach, and the less subtle their signs of interest are, the more likely I am to ignore or not notice, subtler signs.

For example, there was this stunning blonde gal who I caught staring several times. She looked away immediately each time, and I do mean instantaneously. She wouldn't allow herself a lingering glance at all after I caught her. Also, she passed by directly in front of me over and over again, to get my attention, but I took almost no note of it. I literally said to myself "she'll actually approach if she's TRULY interested."

I'm going to do have to do some sort of exercise to resensitize myself, to recalibrate my IOI meter. Right now, it's only registering when the meter reaches "eleven" so to speak lol.

So, here it is: approach or reciprocate with ANY sign of interest I detect, however slight. Don't wait for the meter to hit "eleven."

Furthermore, I don't even have to register an IOI at all. I'll just approach. There are dozens of women who show IOI's but I figure every woman who sees me will show IOI's or approach eventually anyway so I guess it doesn't make much of a difference.