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How to meet fit / sporty / athletic women?

Androex · 2018-08-14T18:12:31+00:00

Fit women who like sports and working out? I like fitness and I want to meet girls who feel the same way....

Androex

August 14, 2018

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Title	How to meet fit / sporty / athletic women?
Author	Androex
Upvotes	8
Comments	15
Date	August 14, 2018 6:12 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/97apis/how_to_meet_fit_sporty_athletic_women/
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Yeah I mean this is just my two cents but I'll lay it out.

1) By climbing I mean bouldering, lead climbing/top rope is a very one on one activity

2) Climbing requires a lot of rest and sitting around (more than in a gym) this naturally leads to conversation

3) its a very social sport, people share lots of tips and tricks while sitting around (called beta) and in general are just happy to make conversation while resting (MUCH more than at a normal gym)

4) ~%60 of people climb indoors to get stronger and do fun cool climbs outdoors, if you make friends with climbers chances are you will go on camping/climbing trips with them

5) climbing hard typically requires a high level of fitness so the women there (and unfortunately the guys as well) look great

5b) you can also get pretty ripped climbing, not big but definitely can develop a nice body

6) finally the "ratio" is pretty solid, better than probably all the other options mentioned here outside of spin classes IMO

unrelated but I would say climbing is also a funner option than the others, I'm pretty new to this sub and event been on any real dates before (hooked up with women, but am kinda afraid to do the first date thing) but I would imagine a climbing gym would be a good first date spot (I see guys using it as such semi often)

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[–]hunterpua 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Everything I and everyone else listed can be creepy as fuck when you handle it like a cold approach.

That's the mistake a lot of guys that learn game make because 99% of the people in game think cold approach=game. I mean just look at what the easiest kind of game to find learning materials on is.

You need to understand, when you cold approach its pretty much your only chance of meeting that specific girl which is why there is an emphasis on speed, being able to get her number and a date set up within a few minutes of meeting her.

If you do one yoga session and hit on a girl so aggressively like a cold approach trying to get her number or set up a date with her right then and there, for sure it'll be creepy.

The key is to play the long game. Getting everyone's collective trust is more important than getting any one girl because if you go to a yoga studio or crossfit box or some other place like that and you do see that hot girls go to it then you know that there will be more hot girls coming in so you'll want to be able to "drink from the well repeatedly" so you almost have to treat it like a work place situation. When you're the newbie outsider, nobody will really be cool with you picking off girls one by one but when everyone there loves you they'll even push girls to go out with you.

That, which is already a damn good approach is even a little inefficient for me. What I'd recommend the most is still be friendly and earn everyone's trust but instead of going for dates with individual girls when everyone's cool with you, invite the whole group out for a regular happy hour or something. Maybe for yoga it'd be more like healthy smoothies. One, it just strengthens your bond with the group to the point where you'd have access to that "well" even if you stopped doing yoga and two, it builds more attraction with the individual girls than you would have with one on one dates anyway.

When you game like that sometimes when you do go on a one on one date it will no longer be to get to know each other because you already know each other so damn well from the yoga and weekly smoothies, it will just be to make you two having sex a little more discreet or basically just a meet up to fuck.

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