Almost every action we take is controlled by our subconscious mind. The subconscious mind is like a reservoir that gets filled with experiences, belief systems....Thoughts...If the past years have been dominated by negative experiences and belief systems, that is exactly what your subconscious has chose to harbor. This makes the information easy to retrieve so that change does not occur, because as we know, the brain despises change.

This type of unconscious thinking is controlled by themes of scarcity and anxiety. Both of these themes feed off of each other and the brain creates a feedback loop to retain familiarity. While it is not likely that your subconscious will ever be controlled, it MUST be observed. This is not new news, our thoughts create our reality.

*Try this mantra to repopulate your subconscious\*

--my subconscious harbors my reality, my subconscious is filled with abundance and positivity--

If you don't think this relates to getting girls then you have a lot of learning to do. Engaging girls from a standpoint of abundance/positive self talk is the key. 

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"We are what we think about, all day long" - Ralph Waldo Emerson