Hi All,
I'm having this immense issue going on, where I have acquired tons of knowledge around pua. I know I'm a funny individual, I have passions, very good job that I'm happy in (well paid too!), I do play guitar, cycle and all that funky jazz that'll add the colours to your life.
In addition, to what I've learnt, I look a little better than our not so distant relatives, yes the chimpanzees. Having that said, I used to be able to approach women as I may, not in a pickup manner but more of a natural easy going friendly social butterfly style. However, after been stuck in masters and a full time job, my social life had to come at a sacrifice. I've managed to pick myself up, slowly rebuilding my social circle but still....
I find it hard to approach a stranger on the streets, especially a beautiful woman. Running with thoughts (that I never had) of what will I say, how it will look like, it's too close to my job, or where I live, not wanting to look like a loser.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I know that I need to go out and desensitize myself, however, how do I get on about it and overcome the fear of rejection.
Last known situation to my mind was - i see a beautiful woman and there I think she's gorgeous, but as soon as I think let's go and have a chat, I get paralyzed with intense emotions flowing throughout my entire body.
The current situation adds frustration to my life and is negatively affecting me, my social life and work.
I'm looking for some practical advices here to get out and snowball it to where I see myself.
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