This may seem like basic advice, but it may help some of you. If you’re like me you’re quick to heat up, quick to cool down. And let’s face it, people can piss us off. When they don’t reply to texts, or give some attitude, its easy to ‘punish’ them by being cold or sending a sharp text ‘calling them out’ or not replying back. We can even do or say something past the point of no return - Like blocking or saying something hurtful. Especially with the abundance mentality we’ve carefully worked on. , thats an option. Cutting them off completely can be an easy and satisfying response that gives a temporary ego boost, but there may be better things coming if you don’t.

However satisfying it may seem at the time to do or say something that cuts them off forever, you’re not doing yourself any favors by cutting them off completely. Because in my experience, if you just keep your cool: They always come back. The more you hold back, usually the better they come back and apologize and want to make things right.

I’ve had two magical experiences where I lost my cool to a certain extent but I didn’t go all out. Then they came back and things got stronger and heated up to high levels ;)

So yes, you can stand your ground but be careful not to completely cut people off because eventually they can be some of the most rewarding experiences.