Guys, I know from game and self-love (for God's sake) that, when encountering mixed signals, to communicate your intention and extract yourself from the situation - not gonna play games, my attention is scarce etc

But I also remember something vaguely that you can "beat" a girl at her own game, as long as she's still invested in you somehow and starts sending mixed signals during a pull away, in a relationship.. By mirroring.. And making her give up.

Does any of you have some insight in the second part? How do you make someone like this to seek rapport with you again, with at least one foot into your frame (signaling some interest in the way you like it)? Cause attraction comes from being polarizing, but if you seek rapport more than her, with her, you're lower value (in that moment and context, ofc), hence you cannot be polarizing for her. How to trigger this and overcome mixed signals, while bypassing the option of pure no contact and full retreat? How to engage her even more, that much that she gives up and comes to you?

I'm not looking for "let her come to you", "no contact" type of advice. I want faster solutions and, like Todd Valentine said and it's also known, "give her something to chase". But, in my case, if I give more... It's a trap. And I'll be chasing. Additional details: no contact since 7 days ago, had a fight 10 days ago, she communicates covertly, through stories and a new profile picture (only on whatsapp and, as how I know her, firstly directed towards me). I feel like I can contact her, it can work, but next time it will happen the same... I also can refuse to play the game and I also can play it, hence the question about mirroring someone's actions, when they give you mixed shit. But I don't know how far or the psychology behind triggering that person that these actions actually make things worse.

PS: mixed signals can start from a lot of things - her having other options or you screwing up at some level. In my case, although it may be the first part as well, it's mostly the second (failed an intense comfort test). Then some shit tests as well (big ego - beta move, I know). It's basically her emotions still being directed to me in a way, but her logical brain says that I have to chase her a bit more (which I don't want, cause it flips the dynamic, gives her more power and it's a loss on attraction, power and value.. Basically, it'll make things better for the moment, but worse next time our frames collide).

I mean, I'm on the verge of breaking up and if I chase a little more, it may happen. But I also see it as an opportunity to spark even more attraction. It's a big, long shit test and power play the whole situation, but I sense that, if I play it wrong, it may transform into her branch swinging for good, having closure with me or me losing the entire frame (not parts, as per the current situation).

Thanks.