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I thought I'm doing something wrong. I still don't know and, if I'm getting played, I would never forgive myself for it. But if I'm not and she still waits for me, it means she either knows I'm coming back or she's not afraid of losing me. Or already think she lost me. Honestly, the only true thing I'm afraid right now is blocking her and actually not hearing from her again. Like blocking her for good and helping her move on. And all this to be because of me.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:05 PM
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Ok. Thanks, man. I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:56 PM
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Ok. So block or not block? Should I block her because I'm whining? If you'd be me, would you just drop her, no blocking or would you block her?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:53 PM
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If she doesn't, why the signals and the orbiting?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:48 PM
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I suppose you are right. But she doesn't know I'm giving her that much. All she knows is that she posts every day something to remind me that she's there and I don't tap on it and that's it. And 1-2 weeks ago I posted a story, she saw it in 30 minutes, I blocked her and unblocked her after 2 days. Since then, I never posted for her. Blocking will do a thing, for sure. Will tell her that I did care. And that I do care. And she'll give her closure / validation. I don't expect her to chase. She may…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:44 PM
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Well.. She was ways there for me, tbh When we were together. I just didn't accept some of her stuff, but she tried to change. Like having exes in background, although she blocked an ex, but she was a client at her work. And hid it from me, cause I would have freaked out. Long story, I digress. She's the afraid / avoidant type. But she chased me like crazy on the beginning. And most of our relationship. I like 75-80% I was the higher value one. And she also asked like I do some stuff just cause s…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:25 PM
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Ok. And.. As a last question.. isn't this a chicken move?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:19 PM
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Idgaf cause I entered the conversation with her and blocked her on purpose? Or Idgaf cause I cleared some bullshit and nonsense and cleaned my list? Thanks, btw.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:18 PM
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Isn't a chicken move?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:15 PM
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So because I can get her again, I should block her? I don't know if to block her or not.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:12 PM
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Afraid of regretting this and because of this I won't find better. Afraid of being the masculine version of alpha widow, if that makes any sense. Although I act like a bitch now, but you get the idea. Afraid of messing up with a submissive woman, because of failed comfort tests and not being a man in the end.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:11 PM
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She was submissive like shit, but also had issues, avoidant personality. She had some red flags and wronged me, but I exaggerated with a lot of shit ans (sometimes purposefully) failed some comfort tests or didn't want to give her some comfort. She did almost everything for me. But she tended to quit fast. And she somehow knows or expects for me to return. But I don't know if it's an illusion and I'll enter the wolf's cave like this.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:07 PM
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OK.. Thanks.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:05 PM
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I want.. But the only way I see it is for her to come back at this point. And I'm not sure about this. With blocking it means I'm walking away, but she may also get it like closure. And I'll regret. But this uncertainty, I'm tired, man. She isn't even contacting me and I don't know who she fucks, how much fun she has or stuff like that. I feel like a loser.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:04 PM
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And give her closure? What if this situation can be turned around, how would I feel if I don't find a better one than her?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:01 PM
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What if I'll regret not contacting her?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:58 PM
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I feel like I can't.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:56 PM
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Also, so far, she seems the one orbiting, she's blocked on Facebook since last summer, when she came back once, and this behavior is on WhatsApp. She seems to orbit a lot tbh, but she's not making any move towards me, other than seeing my stories almost instantly and putting a new landscape story every day. EVERY DAY. WHY?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:37 PM
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I lift, I fucked other chicks, I don't want to fuck other chicks for now, I feel this remorse or guilt towards her or this situation. Please tell me if I'm being played or I'm too autistic and I should've contacted her long ago. Regret is the worst feeling.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:32 PM
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I feel this. But why? Does this mean she met a higher SMV guy? Or wants a relationship, but also wants me as a backup, in case shit fails with the other guy(s)? Would blocking her solve this issue FOR Me, while (hopefully and simultaneously) not giving her any sort of closure?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:29 PM
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Cause I'm keeping my word and frame? Did I get TRP wrong?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:43 PM
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Cause I will be the one contacting her, after I said I won't and although she gives me all the signals that she wants me to contact her. I don't know why she wants that. I suspect she's with a dude. I don't mind that dude, I know I'm better, but honestly it's something fishy and shitty here. How can she be stronger than me, instead of contacting me, giving me all the signals just to have her closure? I don't think so. Would I give her closure by blocking her. I don't know. I just don't want to r…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:09 PM
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I may have some feelings for her or, at least, if I plate her, I'm thinking of all that drama that I will get into again.. Why doesn't she contact me? If I block her, doesn't this mean I'm doing it out of frustration?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 12:57 PM
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So basically if an average girl senses some game or even fakeness, it's still attractive to her, cause you know how to reach (immediate) goals? And willingness meaning will power meaning strength?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 12:41 AM
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Interesting point of view about starting the chick fight and heightening her state of arousal. For a strong frame, do you train yourself to like something or actually a strong frame is built on what you already like? Example: I invested a lot in game and, for me, to remain with a chick, she has to do anal and at least a 3some with me. Although none of these I want very much. But just to not regret entering a LTR with someone who I don't know I can do whatever I want, thus forming a relationship …
/r/askTRP07/05/20 09:27 PM
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Ok, it makes sense. Thank you.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:37 PM
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Perhaps, I don't know. What I know for sure is that 2 years ago I had a rotation of 3 women, one of them was having 4 tattoos and I stayed with the one with tattoos. My thought at that moment was "well, if things won't work out, at least I had a great time with her, starting with bed and not only." And indeed, a lot of drama, I also created drama as fuckboys probably do, although now I think it was insecure from my part, but somehow, in a strange way, it was worth it.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 12:15 PM
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OK, tks.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 11:35 AM
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What's the blog?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 11:34 AM
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It may be a valid point, I don't know.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:57 AM
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Yes! Exactly what I needed to hear.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:26 AM
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Thanks, Andy.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:06 AM
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Thanks! Keep up the good work!
/r/askTRP07/05/20 12:00 AM
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The conversation wasn't quite pleasant, I contacted her one more time, she was bitchy and told me she doesn't want to be unblocked on WhatsApp, I told her Ok, hung up, went to sleep, she called 6 times, messaged sms once. In the morning I told her via sms I fell asleep, she was mad in one message and wished a passive aggressive "have a nice day!". :)) Sent her an Ok message and an "You know.." message in the afternoon, she replied later with "Yes!" like something to continue conversation (I'm fr…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:57 PM
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Nice! This makes sense. Thanks. In regards to the blocking thing from above... Yes, on Facebook it was a joke. But on WhatsApp she shit tested me by acting goofy there, while I was on the phone with her, and, in a moment of silence, I blocked her, for her to not be able to write silly lines anymore. She got upset, I hung up, called her again, etc. It was childish. Happens Sunday night. And I'm supposed to go to her place Friday, as set since Sunday. Hopefully nothing broke from this.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:45 PM
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Will do, God bless you.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:41 PM
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Ok. Thank you for your input, mate. I may overthink this, indeed...
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:37 PM
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Lol, so this is why I got massive feelings for most of my recent ones? Overthinking my game and projecting this on them?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:36 PM
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Thank you! I was making moves on extremes usually with them and this creates massive instability for both them and me. This is a breath of fresh air.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:32 PM
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Being too available from start (which I reframed by blocking her as a joke to see if she resists until we meet, technically it's Friday, but I may have been an asshole a little).. Hmm.. Getting upset or even a little butthurt at the fact that she tends to get butthurt over stupid things once in a while (I even told her that she does this on purpose to make me chase!)... Yeah..
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:31 PM
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Thanks, dude!
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:27 PM
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I know that the next one will be bigger, from my experience, it's like making my life harder for not passing the first one and, by provoking it, at least I'm in control :))
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:25 PM
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Thanks, this is a breath of fresh air! I tend to see everything as medium or advanced manipulation tactics if I'm interacting long enough with a chick. I also verbalized it with one, saying that I don't like games etc. I will take a break from theory.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:24 PM
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Please. If you advise to not go, I would love to hear it and reconsider my options. But I think I don't want to be flaked on or rejected, from an ego point of view, cause I would know it's my fault for being stupid. Although she's imature too, but I was more.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:21 PM
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I gamed her at first, then found myself actually playing stupid games, hence my concern.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:18 PM
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Three parts? I suppose dick, which is ignored, mind, which is on 120% and full on theory and self preservation and.. Heart? Or what?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:11 PM
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Honestly, yes, but not fully, more like 80-85% now. But why is my ego playing with me? I suppose it's my ego, right?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:07 PM
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Should I cancel for Friday? Will she cancel it?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:45 PM
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But Friday I have a date set at her place. Set since this Sunday evening. Should I cancel? Should I call just to give the impression that I may cancel and dread her a little?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:43 PM
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I think I'm missing something. Do plates act like this? Or only when they think they are your only option?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 05:49 PM
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Well, to be honest, it went like this: We spoke on the phone Sunday evening. I told her to send me a picture with her. She said OK, but took her time to send it (12 mins or so). But she sent a clip 5 seconds. Shit test. I told her to redo, she sent another one. I called her on testing me and made her aware she is insecure or playing games, one of them. Frame broken. I told her to delete the photos. She deleted them. I told her to send me a new one, fresh, no edits. She sent me in 2-3 minutes. Co…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 05:43 PM
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The problem with me texting "?" is cause I had to acknowledge her tantrum and validate it by sending "?", showing that I do care enough to change my emotional state, cause she changed it. And I don't want her to abuse this and I felt to set a boundary. Which, obviously, made me butthurt, hence this post..
/r/askTRP06/05/20 05:13 PM
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You ignore it as in continue like nothing happened?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 05:01 PM
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She's a plate, only saw her twice since 19 April, but spoke a lot on phone and lost frame with her! It's like if she's damaged I can't fuck her no more? Or.. If I lost frame, I can't recover it?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:48 PM
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Dude, thank you. I have a date set with her for Friday, at her place. She sent a message Monday night to check on me, I kind of played a validation game with her. Sent her a message something in the lines of "You know,"then she said" yes!", then I intentionally left her hanging. Then 4 hours later, at midnight, she texted" hey, sleeping?". Then no talk after this. She knows that after she calls me, if it's a 1 day break in-between, I usuualy I am the one calling her next. Now, no reply to that m…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:40 PM
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So should I contact her? I assumed she was doing it on purpose and I think I reacted from ego. Contact & game, or radio silence and wait for her to come back? I also may have been a little douche with her.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:19 PM
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It may be, but I'm not (especially) looking for quick fixes. More like for frame improvements/updates.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:14 AM
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There is a benefit for her. Doesn't mean I recognize that benefit being valid in that moment. For example, if I am Spain and I recognize Kosovo as a state, Barcelona would want more independence. Not sure if you get me. If I'm AF, but I continue in a relationship with her and I'm jobless, the moment I get affected by another man's money means that having money is a big deal for me and I'm not on the way to achieve them, while that other guy already has them and is not a big deal for him (he is a…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:13 AM
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You should only fight to achieve something great or to remove something bad from your life. And a girl being involved with another guy (I only read the title) is already a toxic/bad thing. So, yes. Fight. But fight against this situation, not for her. Fight against her, if she is still involved with him. And fight against him, if she is not involved with him anymore, submits to you, wants to be only with you and he is an aggressor which doesn't leave her alone. But I suppose it's more of the fir…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:49 AM
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Started keto.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:38 AM
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It's only stupid and childish to assume that the way I replied to your comment on a fucking reddit forum from the fucking internet is the same way I am with girls, with women, with mom, with grandma.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:34 AM
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Also.. Women are not that desperate after sex, like we are. Women are desperate after GOOD SEX with strong men. And a lot of us are fucking weak nowadays. So let's have some standards too and, if you have a valuable input, I'm glad to hear it. If not, this is my mission and I'm sharing a part here, as a thought. You are free to contribute or avoid. But, at least, choose one.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:24 AM
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True. But Stacy and Becky can wait. And there is also Tracy and Vicky.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:22 AM
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Interesting. I don't quite actually believe that, once it's done, it's done, but I do believe that you, indeed, have to 'kill the beast', or 'kill the puppy', depending on the relationship. But it's more about the investment you're willing to put in. I'll check what you said about quantum mechanics.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:16 PM
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It's like a trade-up for her that, when it happens, it's already done and she'll look up for trading up again. If you don't change something or take your power back, she'll trade-up for and, then, with another guy. The already known branch swing. But I got a liitle more abstract here. So, yes.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:11 PM
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So it's not a general rule. It's more like the (perhaps only true) power they hold.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:02 AM
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No, so far she doesn't. But my ex does. And my ex is an avoidant personality type. And I also heard about her. It fucking for 1-2 months in the past, while being in a fight with her boyfriend at that time. But she also cheated on him, she admitted it. So it doesn't seem to be like a rule here.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:01 AM
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So welcome to the normal world, then? Then what's up with all this whiny thing about "she will fuck another guy in several days" that TRP advocates here? Isn't TRP about low tier women?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:59 AM
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So it's true and there are women out there that don't prioritize sex like men do? She also said "I'm not looking just for sex. Sex I can have, if I want." I know it's also LMR and I know that this is because the chick digged me for more than sex (or perhaps some BB trains or signalling from me, as well), but, if true, this means that we might tend to project our prioritization on sex on them and think that, just because they can have sex easier, they also do it a lot more often and easier than u…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:48 AM
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OK thanks. I broke up with her and, at that time until now, I was willing to give her another chance if she would have come to me. When I ended it, we had a fight over the phone and initially we were supposed to see each other, then I tested her and asked her again and she said she doesn't want to see each other (changing her mind in the moment), then I was something like "I'm not interested in this, if you wanna contact me, fine, if not, fine, but I will not be contacting you again." She said "…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:07 AM
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Thank you for your honest and simple reply. What kind of effort should I put in, that you say I might not be willing to put in? If you can give me an example, would be great...
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:56 PM
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When I posted the entire fucking Cinderella story with her, guys like you said I'm autistic and I'm idiot to play her like this and still think about her, although no real power was given to her and I maintained frame in most cases, although with struggle sometimes. But 1 year and 3-4 months, seeing each other 1-3 times a week, every fucking night at least 2 times sex, every fucking night she sucked my dick, only one night she refused to fuck and I ghosted her while she was asleep for 4 days in …
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:54 PM
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So.. The reason is the fear of having a defeat? Or it's not necessarily about fear, but rather about being wise and having more with less investment, with new prospects? What if she was a chick already trained by others in other LTRs very well? Should I follow this "recipe" for new girls, like getting chicks that were in long term relationships?
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:45 PM
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Thanks for the detailed answer. But.. If the only reason is this - which I translate it to fear - is it OK, thus, to.. Avoid it? To be "defeated" by fear? Is this how a man acts?
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:40 PM
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I dumped her, but kind of played a game of hide and seek in the last months with her via WhatsApp stories. But yes, I was the one that ended it, but somehow I think she was thinking about it for some moments, but still.. I know it got her by surprise, that's for sure.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:38 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:37 PM
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I know, but based on this logic, why do some ECs here or experienced users still plate their ex? So it's possible to make it easy.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 10:42 AM
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You are the idiot here, I'm not looking for all that drama and I'm looking for SPECIFIC points to avoid it, from game perspective. Not mindset perspective. And it's my first time when I'm attempting to plate an ex, did not do it before. She wants a relationship from her, if I'm coming back to her OR, at least, closure. And I don't want to give he any of them, at all. Stupid user.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 10:04 AM
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Stupid comment, I already said I'm looking to fuck / plate her, not to have a relationship with her and I just fucked another bitch last night.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 09:56 AM
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Thank you. Și if you are a clever guy and work on your empathy and emotional intelligence, you can make your life a lot easier in the SMP?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 02:17 PM
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Well, this is one extremity of men. But what about the other extremity of men? The top x percent that TRP advocates about? Aren't women very stupid compared to them? And I'm not talking necessarily about scientists. But about the guys that actually fuck a lot of the women out there, leaving nothing for the afore-mentioned extremity.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 10:56 AM
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Good answer. Tks
/r/askTRP02/03/20 10:54 AM
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Stupid only from a mental point of view and emotionally more intelligent, would you say?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:38 AM
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Correct, Todd Valentine had a video in which he explained the extremities of IQ in men vs women (men being the ones more extreme in regards to this). But I like your point about rationality, it's refreshing. Thanks.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:37 AM
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I know this, of course. Just curious about the overall mindset of the almighty redpillers, cause some play it the tough alpha here. Nonetheless, thank you.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:36 AM
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Why do you think I'm an incel without actually knowing me? Just curious about your projection.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:34 AM
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Yes, I started feeling it, at very micro levels! This has to be the truth, cause it felt so good and natural. Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:06 AM
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She came back this summer, after kicking her to the curb, but when she contacted me, I gamed her. Not seeing each other right away. I created a BDSM master - slave (or more like Dominant - Submissive) dynamic, where I stayed that the benefits that the Dom has are not equal to the Submissive's ones. But the Sub, if she is very good, will feel powerful feelings with the Dom. And also our secret, of course. Well.. I kept saying in a covert manner that we will have to go out, planted the idea into h…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:01 AM
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I like this, yep.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:50 AM
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What about she doesn't initiate cause she knows I'm only interested in BDSM dynamic (meaning I'll punish her first, probably in public, if she comes back - but with the current mindset I'm not willing to do this anymore, but she doesn't know it)?
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:50 AM
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After almost 1.5 years is it still possible to spin her as a plate? I'm not interested in only 1 fuck. And also I don't think she is interested in 1 fuck either. She may want a relationship from me. But I sure do want to spin her as a plate WITHOUT THE WHOLE DRAMA brought by the stupid me from the past and her, as well.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:48 AM
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Probably, but my issue and post still remain.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:47 AM
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Dude, she fucking orbits me like hell. Read about avoidants. She thinks I'm not trustworthy. I do not care about other guys from her orbit or in her life, at this moment.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:46 AM
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Thank you, Sir. So I shouldn't block her, nor give her (or myself) any closure by giving her a message, then blocking her?
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:45 AM
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I know it isn't, but I find it very hard to cope with the regret feeling and it's the worst one.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 10:43 AM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:41 PM
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But like don't answer, but with an Amused Mastery vibe, right? I noticed it works wonders FIRSTLY on you, then on them.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:56 PM
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Guys, thanks for all your responses. Seriously. For me they helped. I like it here hmm.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:55 PM
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So if my ex is 27 and exceptional in bed, if I broke up with her and I regret breaking up with her due to her excellent skills and obedience (although serious game was needed in some moments), are you telling me that I can get a 21 years old chick better than her, with at least the same skill level like her? And more "mentally sane"? And not in like fucking 10 years or so (more like quite fast)? Just asking.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:54 PM
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I sure hope this is more than just a corner case and definitely not a unicorn.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:52 PM
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Also, I loved your staircases-mountains analogy. I'll steal it from now mwahaha.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:51 PM
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So a slut or a promiscuous woman isn't necessarily one with a high n-count (this one almost surely is), but also can be one that cheated on more than 1 previous guys (getting the taste of having your cake and eating it too, cause no one lays strong boundaries and you're used to getting away with it and weak men). Also, low-quality, since you only fuck with the above-mentioned weak men. Hmm.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:50 PM
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I do recall some of their replies, to be honest, I don't have them right now, but I can put my hand if fire for reading some shit like this here from the so-called almighty ECs. Well, some of them, of course.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:42 PM
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But the fuck I know whom.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:40 PM
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So a shy younger woman, with SOME experience, with your addition, can give you almost the same experience as one above 27-28 years old, already experienced and probably alpha widow as well, in some cases?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:40 PM
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Ok, understood, but somehow I see the slut in every woman. I don't categorize women into sluts and not sluts, but into promiscuous or not (outside of bed with their partner - and I'm saying partner, not partners). So.. You have a point and I have a question. What does it mean to be a questionable partner mean, from a RP point of view?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:37 PM
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Or 3. Be more alpha than that guy and get new skills in bed, while also experience with her something new and/or teach her something new. Why not 3? Why waste time with inexperienced chicks, if you don't plan on getting married AND you do vet and check them very well beforehand? Let's be hypergamous ourselves as men too, why the fuck not (PS: this does not mean she's on a pedestal; this means that, if she is alpha widowed, be more of an alpha than that guy, then take an honest decision in regard…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:33 PM
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Agree and thanks for clarification. I used to project this into a girl which was very good in bed: that she has a very high n-count. But by this logic of yours, doesn't this mean that girls with tattoos don't necessarily have a high n-count either? Especially (I know a case) if she did 3 out of her 4 tattoos while in a relationship (4 years LTR) and another one at the start of another relationship?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:30 PM
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Dude, first of all, I love you and thanks. Second, I regret breaking up with my ex several months ago and we both did some therapy sessions meantime. Separately. I'm living in the "what if..." area and I'm stuck there. It's like a bad dream slowly transforming into a nightmare. I was her "Chad" but in a purple pill way, I know I did a lot of gamey stuff with her, in order to display even higher value, but the chick got tired to work for the commitment. It's both fault, but with the current minds…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:41 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:25 PM
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Bedding women will be easier, you say? From RP perspective? Isn't game part of RP?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:25 PM
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Thanks for the cold shower. My pua background still hinders me from time to time, I admit.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:12 PM
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Lol, I'm not about "that special girl", but I do tend to go a little on the purple pill side or mtrp in the future. Nevertheless, let's talk redpill: you say that you shouldn't stay with a girl that fucks good just cause there is a higher risk? What if she goes to take blood tests regularly? Why would I buy a motorcycle, if the risk of dying is way higher than in a Volvo? (Example 1) Example 2 Another thing: if you get a virgin or a girl not that experienced and you train her, by the very nature…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:42 PM
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Don't play cause you never win and it's a waste of time? Or don't play cause you might win, but by you playing is in itself an attention reward and creates a toxic habit for future relationship interactions?
/r/askTRP24/02/20 07:45 AM
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I mean shit tests with the purpose to take the leadership of the relationship, after some time, space and other investments.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 03:32 PM
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Try seducing him with some photos (not nudes, but quite close, escalate if you want) and make him wait A LITTLE (don't overdo this, cause he'll say you're playing games and it's quite unattractive, if the desire is there), then wait for him to initiate conversation again and you can tell him that you miss him, but pay attention to have the sexual frame in which you state this. From there, go with the logistics which he will set almost for sure, if he isn't stupid of course, but you also have to …
/r/seduction23/02/20 01:07 PM
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In general, does the power play ever stop?
/r/askTRP23/02/20 12:59 PM
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AHAHAHAHA
/r/askTRP23/02/20 12:58 PM
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Edited
/r/askTRP23/02/20 11:36 AM
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I'm kind of coming to a conclusion now, that shit tests are women using their mind too, not only their emotions (by being carried on by them). So shit tests are somewhat emotions + mind = (can be viewed as a type of) strategy. Like her trying to game me, if you want.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:46 AM
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Guys, perhaps I didn't say it right. I'm talking about the process of MAKING MONEY itself. It's fucking good to have money, duh. But the process of making them, the grinding, the hassle and the hustle, aren't these from planet BB? I know Alpha Fucks and has fun and doesn't grind and etc. If the answer for my question is yes, then I can answer another old question of mine - that you shouldn't mix business and grinding with women and fun. Cause every man has some AF and some BB, but they exhibit t…
/r/askTRP20/02/20 08:33 AM
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Dude, you said exactly what I meant, with other words. So, yes, exactly my thoughts.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:14 AM
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I totally agree. Fake vs Authentic
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:22 PM
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It's only losers and idiots that make others losers and idiots, just to say something without (at least trying to) deeply understand it (see "projection", as mentioned in this post). At its core, the world really is that simple.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:10 PM
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I know that alpha is a state of mind and a mindset, which reflects into your current being. What does alpha mean if you exclude morality and virtue? I don't agree with the vision that virtue shouldn't be included in the alpha mindset. I actually advocate that virtue is the nucleus of an alpha mindset. Jordan Peterson, for example, has some interesting insights on this.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:53 PM
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[email protected]
/r/seduction11/02/20 10:47 PM
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So it's possible with ACTUALLY BUILDING LESS COMFORT during a LTR conflict. Thank you. This last girl is an avoidant, which is not that bad as it sounds, but it was also spoiled by her father (very beta masculine model) and ignored (in moments of her drunkeness and slutness) by her mother. She is very polite when she wants something, very submissive when things are good in LTR, but runs away very fast when things go south and you always have to, in one form or another, go after her a little and,…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 03:31 PM
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Not quite. I want a relationship with a woman with no sexual boundaries IN CASE I REMAIN A MAN and after the attachment has been built and, at least some sort of, boundaries have been established from my part and some light form of LTR negociation as been made, covert or direct, don't care (after around 1-3 months). But not with traumatised, crazy girls, not mature in their femininity, which they don't know how to own and respect, but also not too mature and old in their thinking, if you know wh…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 03:00 PM
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Thanks, dude.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 12:05 PM
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Actually, I had those issues and for the past several months I did therapy, I restarted lifting, this is not my problem, and I know what I want and what I don't want from a LTR. And it starts with the sexual part. My problem is that what I want sexually, described above, can be accomplished only with crazy girls, which I still tend to refuse to believe, but if anyone here knows better, please let me know the contrary.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 10:53 AM
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Ha. Bluepill professor?
/r/askTRP11/01/20 10:49 AM
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OK, I have some questions: You mean she's more submissive in bed? Does she initiate sex? Does she always do oral? Does she occasionally do anal? Does she want to do fantasies like in public, bdsm, MFF 3somes? I don't want to believe that only crazy chicks do these or make this easy with these. Also, 11 years is a long time. It's normal for sex to dry up a little, I think. But still, she pleases you, so it's still very good.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:27 PM
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"Crazy in bed" this is what I want. It's my confusion and lack of confidence at this moment. I start to think that she has to be crazy in the head to be very crazy in bed and I quit. Can you find "crazy in bed" without victim mentality and without "crazy all around too"?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 01:00 PM
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And all this comes from not wanting to be affected by her drama, but it's like resistance energy, where you avoid her drama, but at some point, with all the game and rp in the world, you still get sucked into it. And you know the rest.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 12:20 AM
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I'm starting to lose confidence, cause women like this don't know anything to give to a man but crazy sex and total (apparent) submission, just for that man "to be there for her". But she abuses this, since you'll have to somehow chase her everytime she reacts from childhood trauma. And this sets up a very bad dynamic for you. They also tend to cause oneitis fast, once you get exclusive with her (even though after 6-9 months of venting), this if you have the "good guy" instinct and feel bad abou…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 12:18 AM
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But I said to her "talk to you soon" and haven't spoken since. Do you tell me she'll take advantage of this? Isn't this low value from me to contact her after this long just to break up with her? Isn't this butthurt? If I let it like this, it can be said that I ghosted her. Somehow. I sense she will come back.. But.. Will this be after checking other cocks? Am I a cuckold? Or simply not interested to lower my value for closure?
/r/seduction10/10/19 08:26 AM
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So what should I believe? That with a woman where feelings are involved (i.e. LTR), if I initiate a soft next, she will surely cheat / sleep with someone else?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 07:03 PM
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Yo, mister, it's Internet here, pay attention to projection. Yes, I'm only thinking about posting on asktrp all day and, other than that, I jerk off watching your comments and overthinking every concept (not deep thinking, search for the difference, but no, overthinking). But I refuse to ejaculate, since I only get off being validated as a redpiller, that's why I post stuff, not cause I'm oriented to newer, deeper meanings and perspectives. Cause, when you post stuff like I do, it means I'm not …
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:07 PM
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Define overthinking.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:55 PM
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Yes, but isn't this view attacking one's self-esteem? Isn't this triggering unnecessary insecurity? Why view it like this? If it can be, does it necessarily mean it's always? Isn't this a self-fulfilling prophecy in itself, to project possibility as a primary assumption? I know friends who are naturals and don't jump to conclusions like "she may have another dick - other option(s)", when things go south. It may happen, but not always. If you always take this as first assumption, isn't it increas…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:42 PM
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So other options cannot also mean like doing any other stuff, it's just other dick all the time? I don't know, but for me, this concept screams of insecurity. Women pulling away only for another dick, in every possible case and every time? Can't digest it, tbh We, men, value sex first, then attention. They value attention, then sex. Doesn't mean they don't like sex. They may like it even more... But doesn't this mean that, sometimes, women pull away just to do other stuff that brings them good e…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:11 AM
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Ok, thanks.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:33 PM
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Where should I have posted this instead?
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:29 PM
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It's true I didn't filter myself at all while writing this post. Only slight calibration in-between phrases. In regards to the main page, I'll pay attention to it, of course. I'm regards to overthinking, if your imagination is big or you can make connections fast, doesn't necessarily mean it's overthinking. It's a difference between something with the effect of a revelation that had to be written now (at least for me, see the enthusiasm from my post, except the lack of formatting and the ton of …
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:03 AM
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The one in the BEING gets to have the CHOOSING. The one in the DOING is getting CHOSEN. The powerful chooses, cause the powerful acts from own intent. Own paradigm. Own frame. When you are DOING, you are GATHERING, you don't HAVE (yet..final).
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:44 AM
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Yes, but let me justify my 10 pages by pointing out your mindset's fallacy. You are not her God. You can be one (another discussion). But not for her. You don't become her God. God is already there. God is. God chooses. You just choose and give freedom. You intervene, but respect. You love, but leave if not (truly) wanted. You sacrifice, but only after testing and displaying of possible more (check the Bible for more). You want respect out of love and, if not, at least out of fear. You don't act…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:34 AM
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The truest sense of her investing for you / Briffault's Law completion / why game works / expectations and getting vs being in love
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:24 AM
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Thanks. Agree. I would reframe Soft Next with genuinely losing interest on your side, though. But this means constant check to be on your path and not making her your actual path, but mostly a part of it.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:04 PM
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Yes. But I saw an endorsed contributor stating that soft next is a disciplinary measure. Disciplinary for what? If you cross my boundary that hard, I will be disappointed and not care to even punish/discipline you anymore. Until proven contrary and with more investment from your side. Also depending of the boundary you crossed, of course.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:21 PM
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TL,DR Instead of viewing the method as a punishment (for others, you didn't meet expectations), isn't it best to view it as growth (for me, my time and attention matter more)? Cause only someone above you can punish you and the punishment is your.. Abandonment, instead investition. But you do have to appreciate yourself and not play the mind games. Let others project and think that you play them. The way soft next seems to be reframed on some topics here is more as a mind game or dominance, but …
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:15 PM
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Haha it hurts. Good. Reaction seeking value taker, stupid cunt. Die. Last reaction. Cheers.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:48 PM
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And yours to see how not to do it. Search Simon Sinek - about the Why. Go back to playing Paladin or wtf was that.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:44 PM
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I'm curious how you are in real life. I bet you suck. Internet warrior. Have fun.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:39 PM
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Take what you want
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:54 PM
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Well perhaps my words weren't chosen very good. I never advocate for breaking frame. Giving the impression that you are not controlling the frame ca still be in your frame, though. Even though you do. It's what I meant. Faggot.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:48 PM
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You're too much in the box. GTFO and live.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:32 PM
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Well, then I'm guess I'm talking about empathy then and you and I are not on the same page. I never said suspend your values or make compromises just to avoid something. Or breaking frame. But you're still a stupid idiot, who talks like an insecure asshole who, at first shit tests, tends to lose control and didn't get past the anger phase. But maybe it's only your language and you are not an idiot who refuses to see "past his frame", cause his frame is already developed and it's all done. Die, i…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:28 PM
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What you're saying is like, in soccer, "I'm afraid to play away, I only play best when I play home". Or if the other team is using a formation, sometimes mirroring that formation cannot be useful. Which is not true. Everything can be used, if you do it with your own intent, not by reaction (RSD Blueprint). You can still have a weak frame while trying too hard to maintain yours or while being only in your frame. Or you can still have a powerful frame and actively choosing to (temporarily and exce…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:59 AM
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And you haven't read Antifragile. You are talking about Robust. I will read what you suggested, although I won't expect you to read or try to understand Antifragile, since now it would represent a Covert Contract, wouldn't it? Think a little outside the fucking box.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:07 AM
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Ok. I won't call you a fag. Retarded idiot who only sees binary and who, otherwise, would have had some good insight, but he's also autistically uncalibrated.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:00 AM
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Why the fuck to you talk like that, when I talk with respect? How the fuck do you fucking expect to be taken seriously?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:52 AM
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I only allow control if I want something bigger. I control or I run game only for something bigger or as a damage control, but on myself and the situation, not on the situation and her. I assume attraction, I'm OK with the tension, but I avoid getting too cocky about it, cause I saw it can make me slip and become unaware. I put emphasis on awareness, leadership, thriving (not copping), true self expression, confidence, trust, good emotions, empathy, understanding, connection and communication. A…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:55 PM
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Yes, I experienced the power of dread on myself. Both from me and from her, in some occasions. So dread is the only way to avoid being controlled.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:17 PM
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Of course, but I mean attempts to control.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 06:27 PM
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Another example: in the beginning, she goes cold or acts a little dramatic and you treat it as a shit test (agree and amplify). If you remain with this chick, she'll start drama, just for that attention. Isn't best to treat them as it is easiest right from the get-go?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 06:25 PM
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What's the difference between psychopaths and sociopaths, then?
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:16 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:16 PM
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True story, yes. I agree.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:39 PM
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Yes! Thanks.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:39 PM
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Or isn't it TRUE PSYCHOPATH knowing that everything can be used, even psychopathy itself? Knowing that you can, but doesn't necessarily apply anytime? Like TRP?
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:16 PM
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Yeah, but isn't the reason behind putting yourself first more important? Like, if you put yourself first as your end goal, doesn't this make you a beta which learned how to act like a psychopath? Or does this make you a psychopath by itself? If it's the latter, psychopaths are betas, due to the chosen end goal. Aren't alphas sacrificial? But not for them, not for others, for a higher purpose? So, if not all alphas (apparent selfishness) are psychopaths and psychopathy (true selfishness) is beta,…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:15 PM
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Are all psychopaths alphas? Or Are all aphas psychopaths? Can you be alpha without being a psychopath? Does your goal / mission actually make the difference? Example: if you are a psychopath and not looking to leave a legacy, but to take whatever you want, isn't this make you beta? Conversely, if you take what you want, doesn't this make you alpha? Which defines an alpha? Taking what he wants, how he does it or why he does it? And, if it's the latter, does alpha mean leaving something for others…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:11 PM
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So.. Psychopath = Alpha? Or Alpha = Psychopath?
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:06 PM
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When you want. Don't look for permission. But use it responsible. As an action, not reaction.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:06 PM
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"Why do you have it?"
/r/askTRP15/09/19 10:36 PM
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After commenting on her photo that she sent me 3 days later, I initiated the proper soft next, which is 2 days long at the current moment. But I posted some stories and it's the first time in a while when she doesn't see them. It happened before, when she detached and I went to her place, we fucked, but she wanted power, then it ended things with me. It's something similar to her not respecting me for not being able to acknowledge my impulsiveness and me hitting her, although I won't apologize. …
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:29 PM
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I hit her before. It's not the first time. She was addicted to me. Don't know now, but I'm willing to, at least, not offer her closure, by admitting my mistake and leave it as is...
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:25 PM
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Can't I fix?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 06:16 PM
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Thanks. So I'll admit my wrongs. Hopefully it's not too late, cause she doesn't contact me and doesn't see my stories anymore. I know it's shit test, but you know..
/r/askTRP12/09/19 04:37 PM
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Ok, but... Now she tests and actually wants me to get to her. If I'm doing this now, doesn't this mean I'm doing it because of pressure?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:52 AM
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A flaw is something that keeps me down. If I can use it as a fuel to propel me up, I see its utility and it becomes a strength catalyst. Its utility is totally dependent on the given context and what I want (not need!) to achieve.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:36 AM
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It's not a flaw if you acknowledge it. If you acknowledge it, you can work on it and use it. Like you said above, when someone points it at you OR when you try to.. hmm.. manipulate someone. There. Did I speak to your language now? :) It's my entire point.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:34 AM
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It's not my goal, so me neither.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:17 AM
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All I'm saying is women are naturally more weak than men. Men more powerful. But they are more cunning, with more finesse, knowing that everything can be used. Why not copy this or take this from them? And to truly do it, we have to.. I know, I know... Respect their nature as it is. Arrogance never helped anyone. But intended arrogance...
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:13 AM
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Inspiration can be help. If you are too fixated on something, no ideas etc, you only need some inspiration. In the right moment and time, it can be help-ful.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:10 AM
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I think you totally missed the point. And Amused Mastery is above A&A. And includes it, as well. And also doesn't mean abusive use of them, but if you don't want to take the time to try to understand, I respect that, and I'm also not going to take the time to make you understand what I wanted to say. I already did.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:08 AM
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Dude.. What are you talking about with fucked feminist bs? IT'S FIRST EVE'S FAULT, VIRGIN MARY IS THE NEW EVE And man comes first, women later. When Jesus came, Virgin Mary was for Him ready. The entire Christianity revolves around this Even Judaism. Man first. Woman for man. What are we talking about?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:06 AM
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Inspiration is the true word, yes. But also help. Haven't you had any moment when you felt inspired by children? They helped you. But their nature helped you. They didn't do it by themselves. I don't know how to tell you this, other than I believe that all things are connected. And there is a means to anything. My opinion.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:03 AM
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Bro, just cause it hit me and I make fast connections, doesn't mean I'm not having a life. It could be this, but doesn't guarantee. Perhaps you're right, perhaps you're not. Same with me.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:00 AM
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Still doing it
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:58 AM
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Christianity relates, betrayal had to happen and Adam had to regain the Paradise. The New Adam is Jesus Christ and sacrifice is the price. Love is the currency and understanding is the market. Children help you. They don't know much, but sometimes this is better. And they show this to us. They are more happy than us, it that invested. They have more genuine fun. But they are incapable. But.. If you learn how to have fun by choosing to have fun, how now have the power to be a child when you want …
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:58 AM
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Only ego? Expected more
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:47 AM
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If it's validation seeking, come on brother let's be 2! But, at least, try to be constructive. Don't be a leech. I mean.. You can, but not worth it. Trust me.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:46 AM
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They help you without wanting to. Women are here for men. In Bible, Eve was made for Adam. One of the biggest energies in the universe is sexual energy. Throughout history, empires were destroyed for women. Women are for men. For pleasure and help (indirect help). But to use this, you have to accept this. You have to accept them. It's like, in a soccer match, Germany meets Samoa Islands and Germany underestimates the utility of the game and etc. Even if it's a friendly match, if Germany loses, e…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:43 AM
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How can you reach the top, if you're not starting from the bottom? How can you start from the bottom, if you're not acknowledging it? How can you continuously improve (reach new tops), without always keeping and eye on your bottom(s)? How can you keep an eye on your bottom(s), if you are afraid to expose them? How can you be proud of them, if you don't see their utility for your strengths to get bigger and bigger? How can you keep calm during pressure, if they are exposed then? Isn't the solutio…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:30 AM
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"The biggest"
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:17 AM
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I don't think TRP is the absolute truth. I do think it can be, if it's part of the absolute truth. As an expression of the absolute truth. I think it's a new way to see what has to be seen. Which was already there. I don't think TRP is new. It's only uncovering of something that is old. And was already there. TRP is a tool. A powerful one. But it's like having a knife. You have to be willing, in case of emergency or any other situation, to adapt without the knife, as well. Hence, the exception o…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:57 AM
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I listened to the audio book last year. So.. Acknowledge it, at the cost of not keeping my word? Like the better deal? Can't it be both? Not call her and do it proactively if she expresses desire towards me again? Why to move, in order to resolve? But also... Why not attract? How do I proactively attract? Instead of reverting only to gym and frame reset? It's like... I know she wants me... I know she needs space. I also know she needs me to take charge again and see it by herself that this is ag…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:05 AM
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I like this one.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:34 PM
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I started something like this and she's seeing a psychologist, at my advice, since our first breakup, since the beginning of year, when I initially wanted to breakup from her, then told her if she sees a psychologist and does some changes, I won't. Funny thing, she broke up from me a month later, which made me do something similar to her therapy to myself. And it helped. But here is the tricky part (and fucking annoying). Now, since last weekend, I feel odd inside, I did a NLP stuff with a frien…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 10:04 PM
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I told her I won't contact her again and I said it by a text message which I regret, cause it was in the moment, for something smaller than other stuff for which I didn't, in the past. So I think she lost respect for me and now, if I contact her again, the respect will be even lower. Although I replied to her photo and I'm willing to reply to any text from her. Perhaps she feels this off me and I'm subcommunicating weakness?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:36 PM
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I hit her. And she's an ex who came back to me. After I came back to her. So she broke up with me (cause I lost frame, I hit her in the past, talked about her past and ex and red flags), then I went back o her and, through game, I was ok with her again. Then I lost a little bit of frame again, the disrespect and the flakes started, now massively, to the point where I over gamed (even sent another chick I fucked to her house to take my charger back), then attraction went back for several days, bu…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:33 PM
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Yes! :( now I feel understood, thanks. I don't know how to get out of this, though. Call her or what? I feel like contacting her, but whenever I want to, if I'm feeling needy, I refrain myself. She also said on the phone that I'm very unpredictable and she expects anything from me. And this can be a downside as well, I know. Eh, fuck me, right?...
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:57 PM
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Very summarized: How can I end the soft next, if I caused the drama that led to it, then, when I soft nexted her, I texted her that I won't contact her anymore? Even more, she sent me a photo, to which I replied with "Nice" over the weekend, 3 days later, and she replied with "Yes:)" the next day and that's it. She seems a little in drama mode, I know her, and she wants me to chase her, cause she knows she is more right than me overall. But it would imply that I don't keep my word if I contact h…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:48 PM
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So basically to break up.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:44 PM
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Thank you, sir!
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:07 PM
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Welcome to game. It's called teasing. It's fun. It's game. It's emotions. They want to feel. They want emotions.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:08 AM
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I know about female hypergamy, menstrual cycle and emotions, the impact of sexual revolution and feminism in Western society, game, men's decadent period, lack of inspired core values, alpha fucks / beta bucks, Rollo Tomassi, illimitable Man and other manosphere blogs, fuck it I even have them at follow on Twitter, just to receive notifications with their posts, but I admit. Almost 2 years ago, when I stumbled upon TRP, I couldn't read the entire sidebar, due to the following 2 reasons: hatred t…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:03 AM
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Ok, thanks. But, if I do get some plates. Is there a chance for that 3some? :))
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:51 AM
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Is there something within the sidebar that states that what I'm doing now is wrong and why? I admit, I'm close to oneitis. I admit, if she makes an FFM 3some with me, this certainly has the potential to get me even more invested in someone that, long term, is a no-no. But isn't this also a fear? For example, I listened to this today, from a (quite experienced, I would say) fellow redpiller: https://youtu.be/iKAJ8Z7bq9Y Perhaps I'm wrong, but I want to know why. If I'm wrong with something I don'…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:46 AM
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Yes, I have a question before reading the sidebar, if you may.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:39 AM
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I admit, not fully.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:37 AM
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Actually I made this post after gym. I'm not necessarily relationship oriented, I'm game oriented and I want to use this relationship at this point..
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:35 AM
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I had to. I made a promise to myself that I'll admit whenever I'm invested and not try to supplicate it. But to embrace it, in order to transform it. Sounds funny, but in English sounds odd.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:31 AM
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I'm no captain save a hoe, but, in my mind, past whores are the best candidates for fun and experiments. This doesn't mean that I'm not invested or isn't risky. And this is why I posted this here, cause I know it's a grey area and I'm fully aware that, if I were to marry this chick, I wouldn't marry her. Actually, the only way I would do it with someone like her is if she is willing to do what I want and shows me this and, then, converts to Christianity. More like gets a little religious and sta…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:30 AM
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