Did I get this right?

How can you be human with her, then? I imagine you have to be affected by something, at some point, in your life.

For example, with one of my last girls, in the beginning, I knew that her talking about some guys was a shit test, so I treated it accordingly (not being affected or, at least, not showing her I'm affected). Even more, I purposely made her think I'm being affected by other subjects (which I didn't actually cared about), just to play with her hamster and give her some other (apparent) tools. To keep her mind preoccupied, but I noticed that this sets the tone for more energy investment in terms of game and is not that reliable in the future that some well established boundaries, in a calm, collected, manly manner, in the beginning.

What's your strategy or take on this?

I'm curious about hearing more thoughts, since I honestly want to have my cake and eat it too as long as possible with a girl, before her needing that commitment that much, like, for example, if she's very good in bed, a very good fuck, but she has some issues or is ONLY a slut or bad family etc and is not LTR material, but I want to continue having my fun with her and consume everything in terms of fun, sex, honeymoon period, vetting and evaluating her before taking the final decision, which, in most cases, is something in the lines of "I'm not ready for this now.".