I am 36 years old, slightly overweight and average looking. I have been lurking here for the past few months since my marriage broke up. OK, so I joined a online dating site a week or so ago. I eventually fixed up a date with a fairly nice looking (hb7 judging by her pics) 24 year old. I was supposed to meet her in town and received a txt from her saying she was there. I couldn`t see her anywhere, so I txt'd her back "where". From the corner of my eye I seen this gorgeous looking girl looking at her phone about 100 yards away. I thought to my self it can't be her. Turns out it was her and I had underestimated her looks due to her pictures. Anyway... she turned out to be a HB9 so on first sight I sort of decided in my mind that I wasn't gonna get anywhere with her so braced myself for a fun night with no sort or romantic events. I think the fact that I kinda ruled these things out attracted her more to me, she must have been like "wtf? how come this guy isn't interested in me". As the night went on, I realised that a lot of guys were looking at me in awe.... how did he get that girl?, also I noticed a lot of other girls smiling and giving me IOI's at me when she went to the toilet or when she wasn't looking. It felt good to be the centre of attention in the various clubs and pubs we visited. I was an accidental alpha for the entire evening, as the night wore on I was peacocking around like billy-big-bollocks. To cut a long story short #close, k-close, f-close.

So to summarise, PUA isn't really my bag, but I can see the science behind it. Maybe it was unintentional, but by me being uninterested and alpha worked a treat.

Just sayin'