New account specifically for this and similar sub reddits. I've been reading up in these forums for the last couple of weeks but already some minor experiences with this in my past.
Quick history, this would June will be my 8 year anniversary, except that my wife decided that she needs some space and wants to try dating other people. Good times. I'm done crying about that though have been putting some of this great advice into action. I've opened up a few sets over the last couple weeks, but always fell back into AFC mode when it was time to close. Last weekend I had a HB7-ish tell me how her last boyfriend and her just fucked for three months and she doesn't understand why people her age (24) are looking for more then that at the moment. And I couldn't find my balls to get the number. Kino, social proof, all that was going great. But on to last night. Went to a basketball game with a buddy who brought along an HB9 (just friends though). We couldn't end up sitting together, but when I met her, I already knew I had to see where this could go. After the game we were walking back to the car and I started with questions to get her to open up, threw in some light negs, and started with some kino (told me she's wearing her new jeans, so I grab her hand and spin her to get a good look, and it looked good). In the car, the high fives for liking Girl Talk lingered longer then usual and the eye fucking began. My buddy was nice enough to sit in between us so any chance of kino would be awkward. This wasn't on purpose; he definitely doesn't know any better. So I worked at turning the conversation in to a more sexual in nature. She's a dancer, so I made a few jokes about me being a stripper that got some good laughs and then she used that to suggest we go to a strip club down the road.
This is where it went from a good night to great night. It was loud, so there was a lot of leaning in and talking in each other's ears, which led to her hand on my thigh for balance, my hand in the small of her back while listening, etc. She said that she had never had a private dance, so when her favorite dancer walked by I got her to give us a couples dance. In the back room, with a hot stripper grinding up on us both, we end up making out while stripper rubs her tits up in HB9's face. Hands are going everywhere and the rest of the night is her in my lap, more making out, etc. She had a long drive to make today and my buddy was her ride, so I couldn't be her "ride" last night. But she's coming back into town (she lives like 45 minutes away) on Tuesday and she already said if we have too much fun, she'll have to crash at my place. Life's good guys. Thanks for the help.