What do you prioritize? What is important? How do you know that you are improving?

Let me real here: you need to have a system for HOW to implement what you learn, if you are serious about improving.

This is my suggestion for beginners especially. Follow these 5 rules and improve your game fast.

I say this as a guy who has complete abundance mindset; I have picked between girls the same night and I have rejected more girls in total than I have had sex with with or dated

A) FOCUS ON ONE THING AT A TIME

  • Do not try to master many things at the same time.

  • Pick one major thing at a time and work on it.

B) INNER GAME > OUTER GAME

This one deserves an explanation.

To be frank, inner game is everything when you start out, because without good inner game, it is really hard to be consistently good with your outer game, at least after the ice-breakers and getting numbers.

However, many learn inner game by using outer game. You need to pick a style and focus on a few simple techniques (one at a time) that will support your inner game.

The goal is not to perfect technique here, but to perfect mindset. THEN you can start experimenting with techniques.

C) WARM UP before going out.

Hanging with friends, phone calls, or even just pumping yourself up before going out and hitting the club/party/whatever, will greatly increase your success.

D) ALWAYS, ALWAYS REVIEW the interactions afterwards. (Note: afterwards)

  • What went well?

  • What went less well?

  • Why did you react that way? Why did she react that way?

  • What could you have done better?

Suggestion: take notes.

E) RESPECT the girl/guy

Whenever you start thinking about the other person as just an object or mere practise without real emotions, you slip up. This mindset is detrimental to your success. We are all living beings, never forget that.

In PUA some guys preach being cold and heartless. Let me tell you, they are not very good at it. All good PUA deliver value on all levels.

Good luck!