A good technique is to use cold reading. Apply cold reading and barnum statements This will make the girl think you know a lot about her, when you don't. It helps the sense of connection. I used a simple statement:. "You are usually sociable but you sometimes like to be alone....". These statements apply to most people, she will feel that you know her. She said I like to be alone. I said I like to be alone. Mirror her. Rapport techniques. I'll ask if she is lonely, make her talk about herself. Things I use to get into her head.

You can find these canned patterns online. Learn some and try them.