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Maybe made a mistake

Luke_Tahoe · 2021-07-09T15:07:03+00:00

You might have seen my previous question post about how often to hang out with a new girl I'm dating. Well, I have no clue how I could only hang out...

Luke_Tahoe

July 9, 2021

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Title	Maybe made a mistake
Author	Luke_Tahoe
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	July 9, 2021 3:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ogxi0z/maybe_made_a_mistake/
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[–]Kenic_In_MD 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Like, my heart hurts when she's not around

You need hobbies and other things to keep you busy. Early on in the relationship, depending on the girl, this could back fire. Try not to smother her from the get go. This is likely coming from a place of scarcity as well. Now that you have abundance with this girl in your life you are clinging to it and doing too much to soon.

Imagine you are in the desert and you've been in this desert for awhile. You're thirsty, dying and need water. You find an Oasis, the first thing you do is get on your knees and drink as much water as you can, enough to puke. With girls its similar but you gotta take it easy, if you go to fast too hard coming from a place of scarcity you risk scaring them off.

Chill out a bit, find some hobbies and relax a little. You can still yearn for this chick but expose that more a bit later, give it a few months.

Some issues

You said she is leaving in a few months? Is this a long distance relationship?

she doesn't respond to texts

Are you guys actually dating or just "seeing each other?"

[–]Luke_Tahoe[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That's a lot to discuss. I'll do my best.

I have two businesses, working out, biking, my dog, music, twitter, and am soon going to pursue religion. I'm currently working on cleaning my place up, eating even healthier.

It's just a real epic connection. I might be in scarcity but it's not for dates. I feel like most girls I interact me are interested. But most of them kinda bore me and or I'm not attracted to them.

She's leaving in August. No clue what this will be.

Are you guys actually dating or just "seeing each other

We're non exclusive. But she tells me she's jealous whenever I even talk about chatting with other girls.

Alright, I'll definitely chill and find more ways to channel this anxiety and these feelings.

I've stopped inviting her over. She keeps saying she wants to see me and we usually hang out when she says that.

[–]Kenic_In_MD 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Luke_Tahoe[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link