I had this annoying habit of talking to women much different then I would talk to guys. At the time I had my first girlfriend I would not give a fuck and treat women like men (Atleast talk to them alike). In retrospective probably the reason I, a mid looking short guy had a pretty girlfriend in the first place.

As I grew up I began talking to women overly cautious, especially the ones I found attractive made me treat them very cautious and nice. I had absolutely 0 success with any of these women.

I recently started not giving a fuck again because most likely its not going to turn out the way I imagined, so why not talk to them like I would with my dudes. I feel like this way women are MUCH more interested then if putting them on a pedestal. Not meant to sound like an asshole or degrading women in any way. Just wondering if thats just me.