Now I’m nowhere crazy hot and sexy but I confident enough to know im above average looking. I would say I have a pleasant personality and dress well. I have dated and slept with women so I know I have not much trouble attracting and seducing. But upon reflecting I find myself having to initiate stuff and flirt more often rather than the other way round. I would bag the first date and still find myself having to put in effort that I feel is not reciprocating back which turns me off. The idea of knowing a girl wants me as much as I want her is so attractive. I want to be in the front line of dudes she’s talking to .

I get the don’t waste your time and find a new girl advice and i definitely practice that but that resulted in me just hopping around constantly. I have gotten myself busy recently and don’t bother too much about women so this isn’t on the forefront of issues I have in my life. But I feel while working on my mission, I need to start working on my game too.

How do I go about showing my value not in a cocky way. i used to post actively on my Instagram stories about the stuff I be on (and occasional thirst traps) but it went nowhere with it. And also, how much effort do you all put in before calling it quits?