So, I (30M) had a match (28F) who I initiated the chat with - Got a response within a few hours despite being in different countries and time zones (US/Canada but close to borders and drive able distances).

Conversation started and there were genuine questions about who we are/what we do etc. and even some long paragraphs on opinions about what's happening in our worlds and what each of us would want (like a long term connection if we feel a click etc..). This went on for 3-4 days of back to back texts on the app itself (I didn't ask for her number or social media details yet to use Instagram/face timing etc. as I wanted to avoid looking pushy - been there done that, never got good results by projecting that vibe..)

Now, the last time she texted was a week ago with 5-6 long messages asking me questions and telling stuff about herself as well to which I responded the same day with similar cadence answering all hers and carrying the convo forward with a few questions of my own....... ; No response and I got ghosted for this whole week.

Today, I get a message on the app asking - Do I have messenger/whatsapp ?

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Question: Is there a recourse here? Should I respond? What/how do I respond back?

(I would like if this works but don't want to be desperate by responding to being ghosted with - Yes here's my number to which she could easily loose interest. IMO: Once a person is ghosted - it usually means the end of whatever was started. Restarting the convo is not the same as it's more like she had nothing better going on maybe..🤔)

Appreciate the feedback :)