Fine gentlemen, as a new sedditor, I am starting to appreciate the gold in this community. I have 4 questions for you regarding foreplay that hopefully others can benefit from as well.

1) One thing I love to do is finger a woman to the verge of clitoral orgasm, then stopping before she cums. I will do this about 4-5 times in succession until she is begging for me to make her cum. Yesterday I was with a girl who seemed so frustrated by it, but cummed violently after about 20 minutes of build up-stop. Do any of you more experienced guys find this is a good tactic to build her up and make her want you more?

2) Taking order in bed...We read here that alpha males do not take orders from women, whether it be buying drinks or going out to eat. Does this apply to sex? Some women love to say "kiss my neck", "lick my nipples", etc. Should one follow what she says, or will doing so cause you to seem weak-willed and beta?

3) A girl said to me yesterday "you are so giving" because I kept fingering/massaging her even while she gave me head. Is giving her too much attention not alpha? I genuinely love making women happy, which is what a told her yesterday.

4) I've never liked eating women out because I have never had a pussy that smelled "good". Am I just too picky? It smells like a rotting fish market. I thought it was only the "types of women", but of the 5 i've been with, never have I experienced the "sweet" smell some people talk about. Does anyone find this? PS these are college girls who presumably shower/aren't disgusting.