Do bees like pollen? Do fish like water?

So women like men; she likes you.

I’ve always been a strong proponent of the idea that you should always assume attraction. However, over the past year I have realized how many reasons there are to not do so, but I’ve done some thinking. If an act makes no difference to your outcome, or makes it worse, than you should refrain from enacting it.

Now, I cannot think of one instance where assuming she doesn’t like you will assist you in any way because chances are, if you have a penis and are not shitfuck weird, she likes you. Better yet, she wants to like you. You are the only thing preventing her from liking you.

But how do I get a girl to like me? Live deep within your own reality. With or without the girl your life should still be fun. You don’t have to have an up and coming business or stupid assets, but you should be able to be comfortable being your own man. You enjoy your life so much. More than you enjoy anything else. Your life is the best life you have ever lived, because it is the only life you will ever live. She should be able to sense this. Women look for men who show dominance over their reality, and a sure fire way to not be on that list is to be worrying about what everyone else is thinking or how you could say this line or make that move to impress this or that person. “Oh but it’s not that simple” yes it fucking is. What is more simple that doing; more simple than simply being.

Your desired state is built within you. That shit came with the package. You need to find the discipline within yourself to be able to access it. I used to be afraid of not always using game because I feared that it was my only shot of being liked by women. Game is useful don’t get me wrong, but what is a house without a foundation to be built on?

Im sorry but I just came here to rant a little because I see so many posts in this sub Reddit from guys seem to have no faith in themselves, when truly that is where the game starts: yourself. Now I’m no pickup guru. I just thought that I might as well write out my thoughts here to hopefully help someone out, because I need this advice just as much as you guys.

“It is nothing to die. It is frightful not to live.” -Victor Hugo