So my problem isnt with pickup or talking to girls as I don't have any immediate problems in that respect.

I have a problem with oneitis constantly.

An example being, last night I was at a house party and # closed 5 different girls. I didn't really expect any of them to go anywhere, but now I "probably" have a date set up in about a week’s time. (I’m going to be out of town for a week)

Now my problem is I can’t stop thinking about this girl. I can't stop running scenarios in my head about where we're going to go, what we're going to talk about, what’s going to happen, sleeping with her etc etc.

I just met this girl and don't even know if the dates even going to happen but I can’t stop thinking about it! I have many different girls I can text so it’s not a problem with not meeting enough girls it’s just consuming my mind!

I know not to text her anymore and wait until i get back, don't want to seem needy etc. But i just cant stop thinking about it.

Any insight on the best way to stop this/thinking about it?

This is just one example but stuff like this seems to happen often.