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DebateAI_CODE_MONKEY/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:40 PM
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Teachers The majority of K12 education is a waste of time and money, teaching knowledge with no everyday or professional applicability. Nurses The trend of keeping the elderly alive for longer but in ill health has been one of the greatest catastrophes in modern times. People are spending an ever greater portion of their lives in poor health and dependent, increasing the burden on working age adults. social workers Serve only to help the poorest and least productive people out of pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:32 AM
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https://statutes.capitol.texas.gov/Docs/HS/htm/HS.170A.htm This is a lie. There exemption for therapeutic abortions in Texas law does not stipulate a term limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:38 AM
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Ok, find one state where there are no medical exceptions to abortion restrictions. Just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:32 AM
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"Affirmative action" policies are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:29 AM
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and included exemptions for medical necessity in their abortion restrictions. Learn to read please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:07 PM
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Depends on which job. And frankly the vast majority of people would rather be at home than in an office, look at how employees overwhelmingly hated RTO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:05 PM
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When every time women stop doing it their partners complain Can't say I've ever seen this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:42 PM
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and men who don't want me able to access abortion even in cases of medical emergency This is a strawman, the vast majority of conservatives and Republicans are okay with medically necessary abortions, have stated as much, and included exemptions for medical necessity in their abortion restrictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:15 PM
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Ronald Reagan signed the biggest amnesty to illegal immigrants. This was supposed to be a compromise with the Dems, amnesty for secure borders going forward. The latter didn't happen...... The capital wants immigrants because they need more workers. The "labor shortage" is a myth, in markets demand can almost always be fulfilled by adjusting wages, and the labor market still generally favors employers. As for seasonal workers, especially agricultural workers, there are easy-to-obtain visas for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:09 PM
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it was easy to get them to blame feminism and leftists for their struggles Of course it is, because leftists and feminists regularly spew vitriol towards men and champion policies in education/employment that disadvantage men at the expense of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:05 PM
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People can be lazy about actually doing it, but it really is a full time job. No, I don't think agree. Most of the time you aren't actively tending to them, you just need to be around to watch them while they do their own thing. And statistically most kids in the US do attend preschool, starting at the age of 3 or 4, so they will be away for much of the day for the vast majority of their childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:01 PM
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Part of being an adult is the freedom to decide your standards of cleanliness for your own home. Few men do no cleaning at all, dishes have to be done eventually, garbage will fill up, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:49 AM
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Part of being an adult is the freedom to decide your standards of cleanliness for your own home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:49 AM
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This is wrong. Her work is just as valuable as his. It really isn't. Money is what provides the essentials of life, a roof over your head, food in the fridge, etc. And children themselves can more easily handle handle housework and childcare than financially supporting a family. A single parent working full time can use childcare services, prepared foods, meal-prep, cleaning services, etc. Kids can learn to cook and clean, and older children can watch their siblings. A single parent without a jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:39 AM
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effort required for raising children does not scale linearly. But let's assume she loves every minute of the time she spends looking after kids, cooking and cleaning, organising play dates, paying bills, buying gifts for family members etc etc etc. The latter 3 are not regular occurences and/or require an insignificant amount of time. And "looking after kids" is not necessarily active time most of them time you just need to be around at home while they do their own thing, kids don't need to be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:10 PM
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And women don't do the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:08 PM
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He probably works 70 hours a week because he wants to be out of the house Exhibit A: women not appreciating male breadwinners
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:11 AM
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Are you on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:03 AM
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What does ND mean in your flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:48 AM
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Honestly I think he wasn't so bad, apart from the coomer shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:47 AM
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Seeing self-described "progressive" and "liberal" women bend over backwards to defend a certain medieval Arabian/neo-Christian ideology because "brown people" or something never gets old LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:44 AM
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Lawyer dude, those are largely unenforceable, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:42 AM
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because he was at work 70 hours a week. I also worked 20 hours a week but he didn't seem to care about this So he's working more than 3 times as much. Yeah, you should be doing basically all of the housework and childcare at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:39 AM
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To women, chad not committing is "mistreatment" if they want it enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:37 AM
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Because generally it's not the number on the scale that people notice, talk about, and are impacted by. It's the change in appearance, primarily due to fat and other things to a lesser extent like fluid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:35 AM
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I explicitly said otherwise, why are you asking me this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:17 AM
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My point is none of those things are fat, most of the weight gain is not attributable to fat, so if her husband is losing attraction because she's too fat then pregnancy-related weight gain is a poor excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:09 AM
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Most women don't want to have sex with these kinds of men. People do things they don't want to do all the time, for a number of reasons. Sexual attraction is a spectrum It's a form of deception when a man promises commitment but then ghosts. "Guys in every community know of AT LEAST 1 or 2 guys that are NO GOOD (talking about will use and discard the girl, caring nothing for her)" This is what you were responding to. He mentioned nothing about promising commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:08 AM
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Women can get SEX more easily, not relationships. They can get both more easily, relationships to a lesser extent. Chances are some portion of the men willing to fuck you would also be willing to have a relationship. Most men do not have many options, and even the most desirable men usually settle down eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:47 PM
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To them, a man whom they are not attracted to is not "better than nothing". The vast majority of women are not single and celibate. Even men they find less attractive can be useful to them, if they want a simp to pay the bills and buy her things, or a husband to support a family. is that men have evolved an ability to deceive women into sex. Are they really being deceived? Or do they just feel entitled to commitment, and end up bitter when their baseless expectations are not met?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:44 PM
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https://americanpregnancy.org/healthy-pregnancy/pregnancy-health-wellness/pregnancy-weight-gain/ You're forgetting a whole lot of other things......
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:41 PM
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You’re growing an entire person. And what does this have to do with stuffing your face with ice cream lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:39 PM
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Overeating is not and has nothing to do with being pregnant. When most women believe that they're "eating for two", or just use it as an excuse to pig out. but because they're unable to be as physically active. Obesity is primarily caused by diet, not activity or lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:54 PM
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This attitude is exactly why marriage is a bad idea for men. Once women have you locked down they will take advantage of any excuse to let themselves go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:51 PM
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Per the article I linked most women gain too much weight during pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:50 PM
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Avocado toast and peanut butter sandwiches are a "normal" part of diets here in North America. Too many people fail to understand that even fatty "whole/unprocessed" foods in excess are undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:13 PM
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I love how women are supposed to look for marriage and be pure when they’re in their late teens or earlier 20s but men are expected to fuck around when they’re young. Who's saying this? Most tradcons are also telling men to marry younger and stop fucking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:08 PM
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"Pregnancy weight" is not biological, it's primarily due to women using the "I'm eating for two" excuse to overeat during pregnancy. The truth is very different from that. "Your doctor may recommend eating an extra 200 to 400 calories a day in the second trimester and about 500 calories a day in the third trimester. You may need less if you’re overweight or more if you are underweight. More will be recommended if you’re expecting twins or triplets. It may sound like a lot, but 350 calories isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:07 PM
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cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:26 AM
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This isn’t just for women this is for men also so they can have unprotected sex and then not have to pay child support. Men have no say in your pregnancy. Outside of marriage people generally make contraceptive decisions for themselves independently, without the input of their partners. If a man specifically requested his GF who wasn't already on the pill to get on it, because he wanted to have unprotected sex, without being willing to chip in, then yeah I would also consider that parasitic. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:01 AM
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Cool, I wasn't responding to you I was responding to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:57 PM
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Men have an undeniable preference for women who wear make up. Curling my hair is cheap, make up is not ($100 a month), and the prices are raising. Even men who say they don’t like make up they unknowingly praise us for wearing it contributing to our usage of it. This is a bad analogy, you're not providing with them with a good or service like men who pay for your meals. You're improving your appearance attract more and higher quality partners, it's more comparable to men hitting the gym. Most me…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:40 AM
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Obviously the actions are not the same but the motivations are the same, at least in the example I gave. She criticized men for planning for the worst and ensuring an easy way out, but women advise each other to do this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:53 AM
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You're missing my point. Why is it only problematic when men make decisions with the goal of being able to easily leave a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:52 AM
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otherwise I'd have to assume he is simply keeping his options open. When women advise each other to have their money so they are not dependent and stuck, are they not doing the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:59 PM
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Why is it "bad faith" from men to expect women to do more around the house but not "bad faith" for women to expect men to pay for dating expenses?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:29 PM
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Not if it was your wife Then it's not relevant to dating/sexual strategy, is it? or you married the victim, or if you paid her dad Not in the US, maybe in some shithole country. or if you were rich/powerful, or if no one believed the victim, or if there were no witnesses By that logic there is no such thing as a crime and we are living in a lawless society, because people get away with all sorts of crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:28 PM
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Don’t put up with bullshit y’all respect yourselves Why didn't you call women's expectation for men to pay as "bullshit" as well? You defended it, rather. This proves my point exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:02 PM
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and the women are expected to doll up. If a guy said that he expected women to do full makeup/hair on a first date to look good for him he would probably get called misogynistic as well lol. Men don't say shit like this. Women do it themselves to make themselves more desirable. Whereas there are plenty of women online saying explicitly that they expect men to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:00 PM
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Inequality is inequality and not a household chores are daily. If they split regular chores like cooking/dishes evenly but the woman did other things like shopping and cleaning y'all would still be bitching, I guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:59 PM
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Rape has always been illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:57 PM
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What gets women upset is the constant “I deserve a hot, thin, 21 year old virgin who gives me constant sex and affection and pays for her own dates and also wants to be a SAHM but works full time” and I’m a neckbeard living in my mothers basement and I let everyone know that if you do not meet this requirement, you are subhuman. nice strawman lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:10 AM
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if i say "i prefere virgins and every woman who isn't a virgin is a dirty slut with no moral values, who will die alone" This is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:35 AM
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Lots of male dating and sexual strategy involves trying to make women do things they don’t want to, from talking to men to sex acts No, it's about making them want to do these things. The overwhelming majority of male dating advice does not advocate forcing women to engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:35 AM
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I don't see any men defending unequal housework burdens unless it's balanced with unequal financial contribution/work hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:32 AM
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You have to seek out partners that share your values and preferences, not continually lament to the internet that the world isn’t conforming to yours. I hope you have this attitude towards women who often complain about men being lazy not doing enough around the house. That frankly describes the vast majority of women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:31 AM
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Many women are not the best at explicitly communicating their issues
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/195rx6d/my_girlfriend_28f_wants_to_break_up_cause_i_30m/?sort=top look at the responses. it's like they expect men to read minds or something. i fucking hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:46 PM
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Alpha fucks beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:34 PM
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At an individual level it's a mere value judgement, you thinking they're "below average" isn't a fact, it's your personal preference. I was talking about the broader data, those dudes weren't the only guys rated. If they rate most men as below average that shows they overestimate how attractive the "average" man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:34 PM
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Those dudes specifically are irrelevant. which is that most men are rated as below-average by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:42 AM
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All the women I know who talk about men to pay for dates and buy them flowers aren't reciprocating. The former is explicitly non-reciprocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:01 PM
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the pictures of those guys are below average It seems like this type delusion is not limited to women. And the sample pictures are besides the point, which is that most men are rated as below-average by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:00 PM
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Because that's the content you engage with. No, these are girls I know and follow through my personal and high school/college social circles. It is far more used than Reddit, that doesn't make the opinions expressed "mainstream." TikTok is very much a mainstream social media for Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:59 PM
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Expecting men to spend a lot of money and time on you without reciprocating in kind is expecting subservience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:57 PM
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Being subservient is cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:50 PM
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https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/okcupid/yourlooksandyourinbox.html
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:43 PM
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It's women that have a skewed perspective on what "average" is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:39 PM
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I see women bitch about short guys on TikTok all the time which is far more mainstream than Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:38 PM
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with the things that men around here say every single day and act like they're two sides of the same coin. What things? Can you give some examples? It's crazy how bluepill loves to strawman here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:37 PM
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Stop coping. The primary reasons men get rejected are appearance and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:34 PM
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saying that personhood/human rights is contingent on current medical technology is insane lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:31 PM
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…they literally reference this report “The National Analysis of Police-Recorded Child Sexual Abuse and Exploitation Crimes Report” several times in the article bro. Cmon. Right, checked it and as I suspected it was only based on criminal complaints. If we want to judge reality based on criminal complaints then sexual assault must be incredibly rare! You can believe frequency and impact of sexual assault is equal between the sexes if it makes you sleep better than not, I do not. The impact may no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:58 PM
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"More women" is still not "every woman", is it? And anyone can make things up based on alleged personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:48 PM
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Your post is a massive strawman. Most people who say these things are not claiming they are true literally all the time, rather they are simply talking about what is true most of the time or a general trend. And sometimes there are genuinely very few exceptions, if that is the case then why should one pretend otherwise? Categorical thinking is everywhere in life, for instance in French class we were taught numerous grammatical rules that almost always had exceptions. The exceptions to the rules …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:37 PM
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In the past most men married young as well. And the "problem" is not their different priorities per se but the fact that the "settle down" guy is chosen for transactional/financial reasons and often isn't treated as well(sexually and otherwise) as her exes. All while he is deceived by her and society broadly to think otherwise. I mean, would you be happy to be a human ATM?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:54 AM
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Because it's not my personal preference. And I never said it should be yours, so quit your yapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:53 AM
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that the woman accepting the sperm agrees to assume the responsibility for the child's financial well-being. This contradicts what you said about child support being the right of the child, and, I quote, "from both parents". It's different because men and women have vastly differing roles in reproduction The comparison was between a single woman having a child with donor sperm and a woman getting pregnant from a man who is unwilling to be a father. The comparison is not between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:51 AM
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Charging people for double homicide for killing pregnant women and their child while simultaneously allowing pregnant women to kill their own child is some clown shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:48 AM
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it means that a substantial majority of men are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:46 AM
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because i only read like 1 page ...... cherrypicking due to laziness is still cherrypicking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:45 AM
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Those are just two sources you cherry picked lol, most of them are about men's sexual success and how it correlates based on behavior/personality. And as I already said women self-reporting liking benevolent traits doesn't at all contradict what I said since in my original comment which is that they consciously like betabux partners because they make their lives easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:43 AM
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The guys I'e known who really "played the field" were usually like 6-8/10. I know plenty of conventionally attractive guys who settled down early by contrast. I don't care about your anecdotal experiences, and nor should anyone else. Men by and large value sexual variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:41 AM
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Men who are less sexist are more likely to have long term partners, so they rack up less "numbers". Men overwhelmingly value sexual variety from all the sociological and psychological research I've seen so if a guy isn't playing the field, at least when they're young, it's probably not voluntary. Point is, being a misogynist doesn't inherently make you get laid more. I never said it did. Obviously nice chad is getting a lot more pussy than the average ink well. Being "disagreeable" does, but bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:35 AM
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If you had actually read it you would know that most of the research cited in that link focusing on comparing sexual success between men and not on women's reported preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:31 AM
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I can't say I've ever seen members of this group cite that study. Participants rated willingness to protect with items asking how safe, vulnerable, and cared for they would feel with him (α = .73); willingness to provide with items asking how generous, helpful, and selfish he would be toward them (α = .84); willingness to commit with items asking how dependable, loyal, and committed he would be (α = .86); attractiveness asking how attractive they find him and how good a boyfriend/husband he woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:22 AM
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Basically yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:14 AM
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even if it isn't your personal preference. Learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:07 AM
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Only one part is about benevolent sexism and it's about social approval and not sexual attraction/real sexual success. The overwhelming consensus is that disagreeableness/misogyny in men is positively associated with sexual success. Latent class group Number of sexual partners Mean SD Normative 8.31 17.18 Norm/male activities 7.55 14.86 Misogynistic men 15.53 17.51 Sex focused men 52.00 29.54 This part was really eye-opening, misogynistic men(not as in "benevolent sexism", as in hostility toward…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:02 AM
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You'd be very hard pressed to find an escort charging less than 100/hour in the US, and usually it's substantially more. Other forms of sex work like stripping or OF might pay less but are also less taxing. Like OF is literally just snapping some nudes and uploading it, you don't even have to include your face and many successful creators don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:59 AM
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My theory is that women consciously like "betabux" guys but are subconsciously less attracted to them, all else being equal. I mean, who doesn't like having an easier life and constant validation? That's not mutually exclusive with subconsciously lower attraction to them, you can "like" someone for primarily transactional/material reasons. It's like the female version of the alleged "Madonna-Whore complex" in men, only this one isn't pure conjecture and actually has a substantial amount of evide…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:49 AM
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Apparently people like money or something. Shocking news, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:30 AM
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It's a career with minimal barrier to entry, high earning potential, and low+flexible time commitment. Having easy access to this career path absolutely is a privilege, even if it isn't your personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:29 AM
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when every woman has a story of being 10 and some adult creep making sexual advances, leers, or catcalls at her Have you spoken to every woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:26 AM
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“Children are committing 18 rapes a DAY and 15,000 rapes and sex attacks every year, shocking report finds as police warn sexual violence has been 'normalised' by online pornography” according to this DailyMail headline. Right, the Daily Mail, definitely a great source of unbiased news. The meat of the article clarified that it’s not “children,” but mostly boys: Since they are citing police officials I presume it's only accounting for police complaints. I think it's disingenuous for feminists to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:25 AM
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That's literally the same article you posted in the OP and it doesn't link any data or studies, it only quotes police officials. We have no idea how they got these statistics or what their definitions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:22 AM
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A donation is made with the understanding that that's what it will be used for. You claimed that child support is the right of the child and it's not something between the parents, a sperm donor is the biological father of a child is he not? If the child exists, the responsibility does as well. If the mother chooses to have and keep the child knowing full well that the father wants nothing to do with it, then I don't see it as being any different from having a child alone through a sperm donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:17 AM
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It's reasonable to assume simply by accepting the donor sperm, the woman is releasing the donor from financial responsibility. Why not? "I disagree. Child support is the right of every child, from both parents. It is not something between you and the child's mother." How would a man be given an abortion, then Exactly how OP described in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:34 AM
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I've read that splitting the bill is the overwhelming norm in western/central Europe and IMO that's a good litmus test for whether a progressive woman is a more genuine egalitarian or whether they're parasites that only support equality when it benefits them, like most women here. Of course, maybe I'm wrong, I don't know, what's your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:52 PM
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But being offended that guys discuss differences in women? They're offended that men are assessing them(American women) as low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:39 PM
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r/nothingeverhappens
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:37 PM
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OP said she was central european. Regardless euro women generally seem to be less unpleasant and fat than american women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:37 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/193da1t/my_22f_boyfriend_24m_is_a_passport_bro_and_i_had this post really triggered the american women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:30 PM
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Why would a younger better looking woman have lower financial standards? Because they're not interested in starting a family yet so money matters less. Sound more like exploitation if your just using your money to buy a partner. It's the opposite, they don't have the money that older women demand so they go for women that demand less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:17 PM
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Why do women portray it as a bad thing for men to pursue younger women or women from other countries because they are less demanding? Men aren't evil just because they don't meet older women's insane financial standards. How is this any different from a fat chick looking for partners that will accept her body?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:44 PM
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I've expressed it several times over, unless you are in your 30s and seeking to be in a relationship with a literal teenager or an adult who can't legally drink, I don't give a rat's ass. The drinking age is 16-18 in most western countries, it's weird that you think America's puritanical drinking age is somehow relevant. I'm sorry, but nothing compares to the abs, stamina, and rock hard dick of a man chad in his mid 20s FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:38 PM
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Everyone should have at least minimal access to both biological parents Right to contact information and right to child support are two entirely different things. I'm talking about the latter not the former. Gestation. Everyone knows that's not the primary reason for abortion, even pro-choice advocates on the left. The primary reason is to avoid having to raise kids you don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:27 PM
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So do men? Woman are regularly dumped with kids they didn’t want cause a guy changed his mind How common is this? Men are less interested in children than women are to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:56 AM
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Paying a small percentage of your salary It's not a "small percentage" and you mentioned "can’t afford them" instead of giving up your independence and freedom to do 24/7 care Children don't need care 24/7 and grandparents often take a substantial share of childcare for single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:55 AM
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It's not kidnapping if you're a parent with custodial rights......
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:46 AM
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Realistically men cannot get away with this because the mother would notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:21 AM
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because it’s unfair to dump a human being on someone that potentially can’t care for them, can’t afford them, and is likely going to fuck them up. Only when that "someone" is a woman apparently. Clearly you have no problem with men being forced to pay child support for children they never wanted. Everyone that doesn’t want kids should take measures to avoid them, but why should only woman have to deal with the fallout of both their mistakes? Who's saying that? Most of the pro financial abortion …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:19 AM
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Child support is the right of every child, from both parents. The fact that sperm donations and surrogacies exist undermines this claim. Men have an option: Don't leave your sperm where it may conceive. Abstinence/contraception wasn't good enough for all the women bitching about Roe being overturned. Why should it be for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:17 AM
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He consented when he had sex. Ok, then so do women, and banning abortion isn't forcing them to do anything they hadn't already consented to. He also should have had at least one conversation with his potential sex partner about what they would do should pregnancy happen This is not a guarantee of anything. Women can and frequently do change their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:15 AM
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there isn’t a million families that will take it in. In the US at least there is, figuratively. There has always been a shortage of infants to adopt, families have to wait years for the opportunity. And of course there is abortion which remains legal for most Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:14 AM
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"Hateful" is a stretch but it's highly plausible that sexually successful men are more likely to use sexually coercive tactics and less willing to commit, both of which women don't like. I mean look at frat dudes, they tend to be sexually successful and they don't exactly have the best reputation......
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:55 AM
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Obesity is not excess weight, it's excess fat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:48 AM
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هههههههههه ripbozo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:16 AM
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what is this username LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:38 PM
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Being necessary is not the same thing as being sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:28 AM
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uday hussein rapemaxxed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:56 AM
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This is a cut and dry example of female privilege and you're still doing mental gymnastics to deny it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:02 AM
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"ugly guys aren't any nicer i gave an ugly guy a chance and he was abusive teehee"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:17 PM
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I've been on the receiving end of that retardation several times and it's cringe as hell, I would never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:12 PM
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Attraction built purely on physical features can help with short term relationships, but if there’s nothing else, you won’t last long. Saying that "chad has to be compatible with me too teehee" is not the gotcha that you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:47 PM
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Salt water cannot sustain humans and swamp water is filthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:46 PM
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Which people in the """manosphere""" have claimed that height is a guarantee of success? Can you give examples? Or are you just building strawmen? And for white American men 6ft isn't even that tall, the average is like 5'10".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:43 PM
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I really dislike the saying that "dating as a man is like looking for water in a desert but dating as a woman is like looking for water in an ocean/swamp" because it implies that men are somehow at fault for not being desirable enough to meet women's insane standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:34 PM
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You didn’t answer me back then, but I’m still curious whether you’d help your SO to pay their medical bills. What about losing their job or you losing your job? I don't remember you asking, and also those are exceptional circumstances, not habitual dependency. It's like saying asking a woman who expects her husband to do more around the house if she would leave him if he became temporarily disabled and unable to do housework. This is why I said "around half". Like…we spent pretty much all our sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:29 PM
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Plenty of people do it for tax reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:21 PM
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Google translate and mandatory grade school French lessons courtesy of the Government of Canada can take me pretty far, thanks. These comments are overwhelmingly siding with the girlfriend. By Allah the Fr*nch are truly a nation of cuckolds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:04 PM
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He's tall and has good eye area, also a lightskin which is a + for a lot of chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:54 PM
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There is no way that a childless household require anything close 40 hours of housework a week. Were you making five-course breakfasts and dinners for your husband every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:53 PM
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Nah fuck that, women wanted more independence and you deserve it. What's yours is yours and what's mine is mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:50 PM
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I think expecting your partner to pay around half of living expenses is ALWAYS fair, so long as you're willing to live within their means. I'm sick of parasitic women insisting that when guys make more(as they usually do) they should split expenses proportionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:46 PM
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do me a solid and link that shit fr
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:44 PM
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I would never be okay with that, because realistically being a "housewife" in 2023 means lounging around all day and leeching off of your husband unless you have a lot of kids and/or are homeschooling them. But normally, kids are often at school, they don't need to be constantly watched when they aren't, and chores are a breeze thanks to household appliances. I've witnessed it first hand with several of my friend's families and I will die on this hill. Of course, realistically if a high-earning …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:29 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/18skrhx/my_27f_fianc%C3%A9_30m_is_angry_that_he_pays_for/ LMAO I saw this and couldn't help but repost it here. So which one of you women wrote this retarded and absurd ragebait, raise your hand. Did my post from 3 months ago about splitting expenses piss you off that much? how do u kno its fake It's virtually impossible for someone to not be able to afford 10% of household expenses as OP suggests on a 60k income. Or even 25-30%. Even in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:13 PM
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If you ask me, joining hobbies to meet women is pathetic and I genuinely sympathize with women when they complain about men doing this. And statistically it's very uncommon for couples to meet this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:40 AM
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Transitioning is the equivalent of rage hacking. Everyone can tell you're not legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:37 AM
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Sometimes people are just unlucky tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:32 AM
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I think most women hold the feminist belief that women should be free to chose their life on their own individual terms as long as they're not hurting anyone and to have the same legal and social rights and opportunities as men. I don't entirely agree, for one I think prostitution and sex work is a contentious topic among women, and feminist/conservative/older women often dislike it and support legal restrictions on it. Maybe not directly on the women, but on the male buyers, which is still indi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:28 AM
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but in the long term, they will have to face severe mental health problems, by continuously withholding their emotional side for sex. Do you have a crystal ball? They will most probably still end up lonely whilst having sex with no intimacy. What makes you so sure that men value emotional intimacy as much as women do, and that they can't get it from close friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:17 AM
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and women still have to do the breastfeeding, birthing etc. How many men have you been on dates with and how many men have you had children with? Saying that a stranger you literally just met has an obligation to pay for you because of childcare and pregnancy is ridiculous. And who's supporting mothers when they're not working to raise the baby? Usually her husband. Women want equality If you really did, then why vocally oppose some gendered expectations that hurt you while defending other gende…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:10 AM
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It's not incompatible with feminist goals as a whole as women paying for or splitting on dates is unlikely to further the cause of gender equality If one sex is expected to pay that is textbook inequality. Maybe feminists are only concerned with gender inequality when women are the ones negatively affected 🤷‍♂️ indeed, an argument could be made that it furthers inequality to expect women, who are already poorer, to pay equal or greater points for men Claudia Goldin's research indicates that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:05 AM
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I have two (female) partners I doubt that a man who is attractive enough to have a mini harem would be posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:03 AM
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Realistically how many women are "choice feminists" now? I feel like women are becoming increasingly critical of libertarian "choice feminism".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:02 AM
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bro fucking fat chicks be like: "I can't breathe" https://preview.redd.it/3w350456be7c1.png?width=220&format=png&auto=webp&s=724f083c76b9ce9ed3964fa540d174235be7e22f
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:40 AM
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As usual, women blame it on the man by implying there is something sinister about him, ignoring the most obvious explanations as to why such a man has been alone all this time: that he's unattractive, that he suffers from social anxiety, that he lacks the necessary social skills. You undermine your own point here. It may not be a "red flag" indicating that "this man is dangerous", but it is very much a "red flag" in the sense of "this man is likely sexually undesirable". "Red flags" aren't just …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:36 AM
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If you ask me on a date and then ask me to split the check This is such a cop out talking point when everyone knows full well that men are generally expected to initiate. And when your coworkers ask you to go out to lunch or dinner with them, do you expect them to pay for you? Ridiculous. Expecting the other party to pay is only reasonable if the invitation is phrased in a way that indicates as much, such as "let me treat you to __" or "let me take you out to ___".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:34 AM
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What country are you in, if you don't mind me asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:32 AM
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Some women argue that even with lower birthrates and modern medicine greatly reducing women's greater reproductive costs, the costs remain greater. Demanding to be compensated for childrearing by someone you literally just met, and will in all likelihood not have kids with, is absurd. And who's paying the bills when they take time off work to care for the baby? Usually her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:31 AM
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Fat women are truly revolting. Not just because of their appearance, but because they overwhelmingly seem to have a chip on their shoulder. At least fat guys are better at taking a ribbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:54 AM
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Ah, so TRP is some degree of stoic dominance? Detachment and dominance are not synonyms. The only "dominant" behaviors that TRP advocates for are superficial aspects of dominance such as in the bedroom or planning dates. TRP is generally skeptical to serious commitment, interdependence, and especially marriage that would enable a man to have meaningful control over his partner's life(or vice versa). it centers around demonstrating that you need the other person less. Having the power to walk awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:50 AM
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Can you read his mind? Do you even know what his standards are? PPD women don't pull shit out of their ass challenge(impossible do not attempt)!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:40 AM
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Honestly what you're describing is the perfect textbook example of establishing boundaries without being domineering over the other person. You state what you are and aren't okay with, and if they violate those boundaries you leave. And women still have a problem with this. It's hilarious. It's almost as if they hate the idea of men having standards and will make up bullshit to criticize men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:38 AM
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I think it's ideal to discuss expectations at the beginning of the relationship to ensure compatibility and make sure both parties are on the same page 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:36 AM
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iz chewsday innit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:00 AM
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Do you know many self-described "redpill" men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:11 AM
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Glad we agree I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:06 AM
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but I am curious about the mentally part. Can you expand? There are significant cognitive and behavioral differences between men and women. In terms of intelligence, interests, emotionality, etc. You are saying that men have a higher sex drive, are programed to be polyamorous but its women that cheat more? I don't know dude. The flip side is that it's much harder for men to find a willing sexual partner than women, and women more easily get bored in committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:53 AM
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yap yap yap yap We at least have evidence to point to “people with this ideology tend to believe this.” What evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:54 AM
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Most of the time, it's basically just sour grapes Again, can you read their minds? I could make the same accusation towards literally any preference lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:51 AM
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Let's not pretend this is the reason. What do you think is the reason then? And how would you know, can you read their minds? And these "stats" basically boil down to the extremes (traditional religious people who are chaste and "loyal" due to religious communities frowning on divorce on one end vs. very free and lose outliers who are less loyal because they are socially or temperamentally not cut out for monogamy) How would you know? And do you unironically attitudes towards sex and monogamy ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:40 AM
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The red pill is about control — by putting responsibility for success on the man’s presentation rather than the woman’s choice. It requires nothing but a change in perspective I'm objecting to the accusation that it's about "controlling women" specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:35 AM
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thats literally hyper-individualism lmao To sane people, the philosophy that people should act as family units and by interdependent with the family is not "hyper-individualism". Because the family is not the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:23 AM
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has volunteered the preference in a vulgar and demeaning manner. To you, preferring less promiscuous women because promiscuous women are less likely to be loyal will always be considered "demeaning". Again, it's about the substance, not the tone. This man is almost always himself someone with lots of sexual experience so it's a twofer of double-standards. It's called sexual dimorphism. Why do women prefer men that are significantly taller? Why do women prefer men that outearn them? Why do women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:22 AM
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it is kind of a big deal when you run into a fragile insecure person on whom it works as intended aka makes them feel the need to prove themselves. Those people ARE fragile, that doesn't mean it's ok to exploit their fragility for personal gain. Most people are insecure to some extent. And I don't see the harm in someone seeking sexual validation from you unless you exploit that to be violent or controlling towards them. I don't get the impression that those are supposed to be fully transparent …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:16 AM
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never met a red piller who wants free housing for all Most people are not this insane. thats what i mean lol obviously this is individualism No, there are forms of interdependence other than state-mandated wealth redistribution. Namely, within the family, or even say, non-coercive forms of social control by society at large. Look at Japan during the COVID pandemic, there were generally no mask mandates but everyone wore one due to a sense of social responsibility and social pressure. That's cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:11 AM
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As I mentioned at the outset: most of the angst around on this topic boils down to whether or not one is publicly volunteering information about their preferences and how it's being said. Women complain about men's preferences independently of how and when they're voiced. For instance, men's aversion to promiscuous women is regularly criticized by feminist women on the basis that it stereotypes them, is sexist, is based on patriarchal values, etc, whatever. The criticism is frequently levelled a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:02 AM
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Because people find the descriptive theories of TRP morally objectionable on their own (and not without good reason since they tend to naturalize very negative characterizations of both men and women) Many of these same women will go out of their way to defend female hostility towards men, i.e. making excuses for popular phrases like #KillAllMen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:01 AM
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I doubt that considering how vigorously women defend their right to have aesthetic preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:51 PM
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People may go as far as to encourage individual men to be introspective about these preferences, their origin, and how essential they are. This Nobody is claiming that is the responsibility of a given, individual man to modify his existing preferences. Is just a softened version of this. If a man was encouraging women to re-evaluate their standards on height and facial aesthetics I'd bet money that he would get called an incel and be met with an outcry from women saying that they have a right to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:34 PM
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Plenty of fat, ugly, black, etc women complain about getting less attention/interest from men. There's plenty of criticism of beauty standards held by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:15 PM
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I mean, if you're doing things to benefit your partner without anything in exchange then yeah, I consider that subservience. I'm sure you would too if a woman was the one doing it, like a woman who takes cooks and cleans for her partner while still splitting the bills 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:11 PM
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but it condones things like negging I don't think negging is a big deal 🤷‍♂️, and people who think so are too fragile IMO. lying, cheating, not respecting stated boundaries, etc. Can you give specific examples of these? I can't say I've seen TRP advocate for lying or cheating except for maybe lying about your sexual history if you're inexperienced, but again, I don't see that as a big deal. Not any more than women downplaying their sexual history to men or deceiving men with makeup. edit: And wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:09 PM
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F&F talk about red pill all the time Do they identify with it though? Tate literally uses the phrase "the matrix" all the damned time I'm talking about the specific sexual strategy community. Not "redpilled" as a general term for being aware to some hidden reality, a term which is used by unrelated movements like Trump supporters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:05 PM
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You haven't quoted domestic violence rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:01 PM
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I don't think they are necessarily hyper-individualists, they emphasize the family to an extent. Being opposed to social welfare and wealth redistribution doesn't necessarily make someone an individualist IMO. Although American conservatives specifically are somewhat more individualist and have more of a "bootstrap" mentality, and are less likely to believe that children are entitled to inherit their parents wealth. Either way those ideas about gender roles and relationships can be traced back t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:58 PM
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There's plenty of advice on how to get women interesred, how to pass shit-tests, how to treat them in general, which, as you say, is aimed at producing a certain response, be it attraction or whatever else. I don't think trying to get people to like you is "controlling" them. Everyone wants others to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:24 PM
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we are missing a colloquial word for "men with exploitative conservative ideas that can be traced back to the red pill movement" They can be traced back to traditionalist conservatism more so than RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:11 PM
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Just look at the archetypical "tradwife" depicted in redpill media TRP doesn't really care about "tradwives" or marriage for that matter. You're presumably talking about the new "trad" manosphere(Andrew Tate, F&F, etc.) but I've never seen them refer to themselves as "redpill", only by their critics who like lumping all manosphere beliefs together. There are no (or very few) ex-boyfriends for the redpilled man to be compared to You say this like it's a bad thing. Why would I want to be constantl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:39 PM
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Two-thirds of lesbian women (67.4%) reported having only female perpetrators of intimate partner violence. • Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:12 PM
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Correlation =/= causation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:09 PM
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Anything that benefits the females and she isnt instantly trying to suck your dick is simping I was responding to this part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:09 PM
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Women feel entitled to generosity from men and rarely show us generosity in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:59 PM
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Male subservience fuels female expectations of male subservience, and female entitlement. It's rarely give and take, men are expected to perform chivalrous gestures(google sidewalk rule), buy flowers and gifts, pay for dates, etc. What do women do for them in return? Zilch. Simping must be called out 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:56 PM
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extremely based
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:55 PM
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it’s all one sided and being given to them by others without reciprocation. Relationships are overwhelmingly one-sided in favor of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:40 PM
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a decent rentoid, rare sight to behold.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:30 PM
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the STEMcel epidemic is so real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:26 PM
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also aren't you finnish? i once posted in the finland subreddit asking about the migrant issue and someone posted police statistics showing that migrants from certain backgrounds are over 10x more likely to be prosecuted for SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:25 PM
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let me rant smh reeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:23 PM
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Why do women overwhelmingly support profiling men because men are "statistically more dangerous", but overwhelmingly oppose profiling certain racial/ethnic groups that are also "statistically more dangerous"? The math isn't mathing. Seems like they just want an excuse to hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:19 PM
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remember to tip your landlord, chud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:14 PM
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a conservative but not conservative type What did he mean by this? Christian Republican in the streets and turbosluts under the sheets?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:11 PM
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Women yapping about how most rapists are male so being afraid of men is justified: 🗣️🗣️🗣️😤😤😤 Women when you point out that African and Arab men are several times more likely to be rapists: 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:10 PM
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u/PurplePillDebate-ModTeam how come the other blackpill comment gets to stay up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:29 AM
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I don't buy into height being an issue at all Then you're delusional. There's plenty of research that proves women value height a lot in a partner. For instance, this study, analyzing data from speed dating events involving over 5000 total participants found that women's mean stated minimum preferred partner height ranged from 5'7" to 5'10" depending on their own height.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:41 AM
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Which part did you get lengthened, femurs, tibia, or both? Where did you do it? Who paid for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:39 AM
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to a 5'5, lean, contacts using, healthy skin, cute looking confident twink with long curly hair 👀👀👀👀👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:38 AM
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Blackpill I live in Toronto and some autistic incel went on a rampage with a van a few years back, that's where I first learned about them. Discovered r/Braincels and realized that for the most part they were spitting facts. Millimeters of bone can mean the difference between an incel and a slayer No, it does not consume my life I have lost a significant amount of weight and got plastic surgery, I would not have done those things had I not discovered the incel community. No, it hasn't made me de…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:36 AM
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I think most sane people do, it's the causes of the gap that are controversial. Also, the gap is especially large for married men and women, and smaller for their unmarried counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:20 AM
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"Dating apps" are real life, this is the digital age. Most people, especially young people, meet their partners online now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:22 AM
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Because they have a skewed perspective on how attractive the average man is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:47 AM
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what does politics have to do with this? does trump live in your brain rent free or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:28 AM
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why are female nurses a red flag? imo it's a green flag because it's an indicator of a caring nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:17 AM
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feel free to keep the training wheels on for the rest of your life, none of my business
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:16 AM
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you don’t think having a “men are better than women” attitude is gonna hurt your prospects of finding a woman They don't need to know what I say to autists here. and doesn’t want to only be taken care of? I would never "take care" of a woman that wasn't my mother. That's some cringe simp shit. someone like that would probably avoid people who can’t see them as equals, because they see themselves in a equal partnership. I see them as less capable but that doesn't mean I'd want an unequal relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:12 AM
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recipes are training wheels. with enough experience they become an inspiration and not a step by step guide.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:07 AM
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green flag. it's like having a new gf every time she changes her hair color 😂. if you get bored of her current look just ask her to change it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:06 AM
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I've seen it go both ways but like a handful of nuts, string cheese and peanut butter toast and candy = girl dinner this type of content(small "girl dinners") is frequently criticized on the basis promoting anorexia/undereating and aren't you like 30 something you're too old for tiktok smh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:57 AM
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It's not impossible but it is a high and very comfortable income in most of the US. Maybe not in places like NYC or the Bay Area.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:53 AM
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Many of the things I say here about men/women generally aren't really applicable to me because my values/priorities are very different from most men. Me personally I don't know if I'd even ever want to live with a woman. But if I did I would not be willing to contribute more than half of expenses, so I wouldn't mind doing a lot of housework. I wouldn't feel like I was being taken advantage of. And I'm probably a better cook than most girls my age since I've been doing most of the cooking since I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:50 AM
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cultural appropriation smh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:41 AM
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🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 women ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:37 AM
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What did you eat today? And no this isn't about making fancy dinners these "girl dinners" are like boxed mac and cheese, chicken tenders, and chips and stuff. Why would you want to live off that garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:37 AM
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you’d probably be happier cohabiting with a man. Unironically yes, probably. you resent women for being SAHM, If they're putting 110% into being an amazing mother and do most/all of the housework then no. I still think it's a more desirable role than the breadwinner most of the time but it's not egregiously imbalanced if she's serious about it. But often times it's just an excuse for not wanting to work. And I can't say I blame them fully because I would love to be a SAHD. you resent them for no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:36 AM
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Most young women around me see relationships like this. "What can he do for me", "how does he make my life better", etc. Women here say this all the time when women's standards comes up . "We're liberated so we don't need to be with men, we choose to be with men that make our lives better" or whatever. And women everywhere complain endlessly about men being broke, being cheap, not doing enough around the house, etc. I don't think there's anything wrong with this transactional mindset but don't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:32 AM
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Being a guy who can cook well, seeing zoomer girls my age post their shitty "girl dinners" on TikTok is so cringe lmao. It's like they take pride in being a bad cook to "stick it to the patriarchy" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:29 AM
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America's public enemy #1 Iran now has a new proxy in the region thanks to Saddam's overthrow lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:21 AM
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>muh 6 gorillion kurds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:20 AM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:20 AM
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I agree men are better than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:16 AM
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Are you korean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:15 AM
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What do you think of Saddam Hussein and the invasion of Iraq?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:12 AM
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Amen to that brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:10 AM
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If you approach him and pursue him he's going to be all like " Well i didn't even approach you and you wanted me first." It's gonna set the tone to the entire relationship. The more you like the man the less he likes you. Many men would say the inverse is true as well. "Treat her like a your queen and she'll treat you like a servant" All my friends that have approached men have gotten shot down because that's not the way its supposed to be. Or maybe they were just ugly and/or weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:00 AM
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I think it might be illegal? Establishments aren’t supposed to discriminate by race, gender etc. It's not, there's precedent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:57 AM
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Many words have multiple definitions, the everyday definition is not "less correct" than the technical definition. Language changes and evolves organically. And can you even provide a "clinical definition of maturity"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:56 AM
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I assure you I got woken up plenty when he was a newborn. By 2 months or so he was sleeping through the night, and this is the case for most babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:53 AM
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I have a baby brother 12 years younger and when he was little most of the time he would be sleeping, chilling in a carrier, his crib, playing with his toys, or watching tv. None of these things involve constant active attention and my mom was able to do other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:45 AM
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You were one step away from accusing me of using him for his money while I did nothing at home and leached off of him I think it was reasonable to assume that you were married and had combined finances since that's virtually all stay at home moms. Your relationship, if it is as you described with the loan repayments and child support, is very businesslike. Very few people are willing to have that kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:42 AM
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women who don't like "male attention" usually are only getting attention from Persians and black guys your comments never fail to disappoint 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:39 AM
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If you actually read the article you would know that they had to back down from their male-exclusionary policy(at least on paper) due to a complaint to the human rights commission.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:38 AM
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Being a sahm shouldn't be a 24/7 job It isn't. Doing housework doesn't take that much time and kids are at school for most of the day 9 months a year. The only way it might be is if she's homeschooling the kids, or if they're too young for school. And then then young children don't need to be tended 24/7, you can do other tasks while you're watching them or they're sleeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:34 AM
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Babies sleep 14+ hours a day, she absolutely has time to take a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:32 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/wp-content/uploads/sites/3/2023/04/st_2023.04.13_breadwinner-wives_03.png Men are the sole or primary(>60% of household income) breadwinner in half of all CHILDLESS marriages in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:30 AM
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He also pays child support Are you even together?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:29 AM
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Tears are an extremely common way for women to express and experience anger. I was talking about men. Men tend to direct anger externally, women tend to direct it internally. "Women are leeches disguised as humans" See I can make things up too!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:27 AM
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Aren't you Russian or something? No offense but I think most of your comments are quite out of touch with dating culture in the west. If your sentiments are genuine and honest, well the vast majority of women here are not like you. I’d prefer to seek someone who actually does care for me and my well being Finding a needle in a haystack is not a viable strategy for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:23 AM
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I just think you're taking it too far, the conclusions you're making are too specific, with insufficient supporting evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:22 AM
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We're not married and have no plans of getting married. We don't have combined finances either. I don't want either. Incredibly, incredibly, few unmarried women with separate finances would be willing to be a stay at home mother for an extended period of time. There's nothing for me to say other than your situation is highly atypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:21 AM
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It does make sense when you view your couple as a team and value each other’s well-being above “what do I get” mentality. The latter is literally how most western women view relationships now. "What does he bring to the table", "what does he do for me", etc. Don't blame us for playing the same game as our female counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:19 AM
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There is also a clinical definition of "pedophilia" and it's much more limited than how that word is used in everyday parlance. There is a botanical definition of "vegetable" and it's not the same as the everyday definition. Technical language used in professional contexts is different from everyday language and people don't necessarily have to accept the technical definition. And can you even provide a "clinical definition of maturity"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:18 AM
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The difference is that he gets paid. For married couples the money he earns is shared. I am cleaning all day, running errands, and taking care of his children. We both work all day. There is only so much cleaning and so many errands than need to be done. If you're cleaning 24/7 you're probably a germaphobe. SAHMs have a lot of free tim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:15 AM
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Women saying that chores should be split evenly just because both partners work 9-5 is the dumbest cop out. Spending time at work in of itself doesn't do anything for the family, the money that you get for doing that does, and men usually earn a lot more per hour. Women saying this proves they don't actually care about contributing equally, and don't appreciate their male partner's breadwinning. If say, your husband or boyfriend took 1 hour to clean the house, when you would only take 30 minutes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:12 AM
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Babies sleep for most of the day and even when they're awake they can be left in their crib while you do other things unless they need something. He's already working a 9-5 job when you aren't, and you still expect him to split the rest of the work evenly with you? Why not just be honest and say that you expect him to do way more than you? I hope to God no man ever has the misfortune of starting a family with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:08 AM
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what is mandatory public education.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:11 AM
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It was over for you the moment you were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:09 AM
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big boobs are overrated, they're saggy af
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:09 AM
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If you view raising your own kids as just work then I don't think you should be a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:54 AM
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I was talking about raising your own kids.......
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:32 AM
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Looking isn't SA lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:31 AM
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Thee only situation where raising kids would be equivalent to a full time job is if you're homeschooling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:52 AM
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Why are you complaining, you gay or something? Just enjoy the view lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:44 AM
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I did say "maybe", didn't I? The person I was responding to insinuated that women are underrepresented in tech because they are being "bullied out", with no evidence, and I merely provided a possible alternative explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:35 AM
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early to mid 20th century blue-collar man who will be home shortly after a 12-hour shift "Men in the past were so privileged to be allowed to bust their ass and be a human ATM for their families teehee"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:34 AM
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Stay-at-home moms who expect their husbands to do anything more than a token amount of housework are absolute clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:31 AM
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I think if someone cries frequently they probably have some mental health issue, or allergies. https://www.apa.org/monitor/2017/07-08/numbers#:~:text=30%20to%2064,7%2C000%20people%20in%2037%20countries. Women on average cry once very 1-2 weeks. Women being moody is basically always seen as hostile. Bullshit, being "moody" can mean simply being sad or upset and doesn't necessarily involve hostility towards others. And I made the exception for caring for a partner, even an unemployed single mum is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:30 AM
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What's an opinion? That enjoying humor that makes people uncomfortable is considered "immature/childish"? I'm literally just going by the definition of "immature". Whose definition of "immature"? Like how some men are sensitive to getting called "immature" and "childish" lol. Stop trying to deflect from the point. You seem to think women "crying" is worse than men... being hostile and violent? Because it's less "neurotic"? You clearly have atrocious literacy skills. Think I'll call it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:22 AM
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I don’t think they need to be stigmatized for people to see this position as undesirable. What do you think "stigmatize" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:42 AM
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It's rarely considered healthy to frequently cry Most women I've talked to seem to think so. I'd bet money that you think so. and a woman who is a bit moody ever will generally get called a bitch Only if that is expressed as hostility/aggression towards others. A woman who earns no income is called lazy, especially if she doesn't have a partner she's caring for as a full time job. I can't say I've seen many people call SAHMs lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:41 AM
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If you think it's funny to make jokes that make people uncomfortable, that would be an example of an "immature" sense of humor. There is no law against being immature - you're allowed to be immature. But that's just what it's called when you don't mine making people upset because you personally find it funny. That's your normative opinion, not a fact. I think some people are overly sensitive You... seem to think women all uniformly express emotions in the same way? Did I say that? Don't put word…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:37 AM
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You’re not TRYING to hurt the other person, but you’re not mature enough to understand why you shouldn’t make people uncomfortable even if you aren’t hurting them. Just because you're uncomfortable doesn't mean I'm doing anything wrong. You can’t compare that to “feeling emotions”. It's not about how you feel, it's about excessive outward expression of those emotions. Men are JUST as prone to emotion as women Men are less prone to neuroticism(negative emotions) than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:15 AM
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However, the presence of monetary responsibility and support, just like the presence of emotional support, and many other "beta" behaviors, grants a man in any relationship more leverage. Divorce and asset division says hello!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:14 AM
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I think so? It's not super easy to tell because I grew my hair out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:36 AM
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One can have childish hobbies air childish humor and still be a mature adult capable of taking care of themselves. Plenty of women do have problems with popular male hobbies and humor because they think it's "childish". Also being financially dependent is largely considered a negative thing The only people I see stigmatizing SAHMs are hardcore feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:26 AM
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I think I have neanderthal skull genes. My cranium is oblong and extends backwards, my forehead is tiny(less than 3 fingers) and heavily sloped, my brow ridge(ridge of bone where your eyebrows are) is fairly prominent, and my jaw is very forward grown. Basically the left skull in the linked article. Is this an incel or chad phenotype?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:23 AM
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small forehead or big forehead?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:18 AM
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the norwood reaper does not take prisoners
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:14 AM
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when people talk about the wall Maybe when white people talk about it, sure. I'm not white and I always take racial differences into account, as evidenced by my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:46 AM
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social democracy is considered solidly left-wing in the anglosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:45 AM
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that i still have some soft conservative values Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:45 AM
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Skin ageing also affects non-white people, just not as severely. And there are other factors to "the wall" like age-related obesity and sagging facial fat that affect everyone similarly regardless of ancestry. I think black women especially are disproportionately obese, although I'm not sure how much age has to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:41 AM
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retinoid products >>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:39 AM
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"I'm not like the other girls teehee" Good on you though fr. I would also recommend using a retinoid skin product for everyone, it's probably the best anti-aging skincare ingredient there is. Personally I use a prescription strength gel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:36 AM
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Physical aging affects everyone, male or female, white black brown or yellow, negatively, so no, it's not just "European". It's merely worse for them, white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:34 AM
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Yes this also. Sunlight is not as intense in northern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:33 AM
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nah that's cap ageing is one of the few silver linings of being a ricecel. it's not much solace when you're less attractive to begin with but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:17 AM
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"The wall" is probably not as bad outside of white countries because white girls are more prone to UV radiation skin damage, and it's made worse by their addiction to tanning. Like, do they not realize that they'll end up looking like prunes 15-20 years down the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:13 AM
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Then perhaps we need a bigger carrot? Or a different flavoured carrot that is desired by the public. Be a lot simpler to just use the stick......
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:27 AM
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Can you link this study?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:26 AM
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Evolutionary psychology and biology can be useful tools but I think you're looking too much into it, to the point of conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:26 AM
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Source: "I made it up" And what does that have to do with dating anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:44 PM
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Maybe women are just bad at coding lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:05 PM
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Do you have a source for this or are you just pulling stuff out of your ass again?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:03 PM
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Nah that genuinely seems like 85% of those guys are really shitty. Skill based matchmaking. You say that if most women are such great catches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:01 PM
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Sounds like lazy. Virtually everyone would be "lazy" by your definition. It’s good that THAT continues to fail. It only "fails" if you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:57 PM
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If women are so scared of men then why do they so often start fights they can't win? Men definitely need to be more willing to smack a bitch if she starts acting up, because right now it seems like many women think they can bully and attack us with immunity since we're conditioned from childhood to not retaliate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:07 PM
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Gauging by how easily the average person woman seems to find a partner FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:51 AM
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People here act like privilege is to be envied. The things privilege Can’t buy: hunger, drive and a backbone. if you actually have those then why would you want “privilege”? Because people would rather get what they want without busting their ass? How hard is this to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:55 AM
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Also, I already have trouble finding women in America and China is on super hard mode, If you're an average looking white dude it's recruit difficulty. JBW is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:53 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_differences_in_psychology https://www.amazon.ca/Blank-Slate-Modern-Denial-Nature/dp/0142003344 https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/beautiful-minds/taking-sex-differences-in-personality-seriously/ Kindly educate yourself. Experiments have found the existence of gendered toy preferences in human babies and in monkeys. Sex differences in behavior and social roles are fairly consistent across all known cultures across the world. To argue that biology doesn't play a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:17 AM
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For one there is no concerted campaign and male-favorable policies intended to get men into nursing like there is for women and STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:04 AM
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Only if you're an anti-science conspiracy theorist who denies the existence of biological differences in cognition and behavior between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:02 AM
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It's not western countries that are contributing to overpopulation.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:58 AM
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Something like low birth rates is a serious risk for the future of many countries, and governments should step in to try to prevent this. However, I believe the right way to do this is to reward marriage and childbirth with economic incentives, as well as reduce the cost of raising a child, rather than force women to become baby making factories. Western European countries have incredible benefits for parents, their birth rates are still in the gutter, even more so if you exclude Arab/African mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:56 AM
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You missed my point. I'm not say men are quitting their jobs to spend more time with their kids, obviously there are financial implications of that. Rather my point is I think most men(and women) would enjoy raising their kids more than they enjoy their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:47 AM
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In this economy? I think there are plenty of men that will appreciate and take advantage of the oppurtunity lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:44 AM
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I haven't "preyed on" anyone. I'm not responsible for the actions of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:43 AM
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Why would he do that if you're not married? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:02 AM
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If women didn't have double standards they'd have no standards, they only support equality of outcome when it benefits them. Quotas for women in boardrooms? Yes. Quotas for women in STEM programs? No. Quotas for women in prison? Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:59 AM
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wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:58 AM
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That's the whole point of the quotas, to try to balance it out a bit. You are talking about equality of outcome. He is talking about equal treatment. I wonder, how come feminists only care about equality of outcome when women are the beneficiaries? Why are there no quotas for the minimum proportion of incarcerated people that should be female?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:56 AM
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Foreskin does not impact your normal bodily function or determine your ability to experience sexual pleasure Bullshit, the foreskin is full of nerve endings. And losing for your foreskin impedes your ability to masturbate. This is why men and boys in predominantly circumcised countries like the US rely on lubricant for masturbation, whereas uncircumcised guys don't need it at all(ask me how I know). And the retraction and extension of foreskin is just as much of a "normal bodily function" as mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:53 AM
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That’s when you hash out a solution that works for both of you Sometimes there isn't one. Look at the Israel/Palestine conflict. They don’t want a partner - they want a subordinate. I think most people, irrespective of sex, would rather have their way than have to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:39 AM
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Owning a valuable company =/= sitting on gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:32 AM
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most young women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:31 AM
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saying they want quiet guys chads with dark circles under their eyes, who have scruffy hair and are tired, etc. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:31 AM
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Baking is not that hard....... women born after 1993 ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:25 AM
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Who doesn't like money? That doesn't mean I like the work itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:24 AM
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ripbozo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:22 AM
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If one thinks abortion is murder then this attitude makes perfect sense. An eye for an eye.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:16 AM
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When Republicans say these words all of you start crying misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:15 AM
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https://web.archive.org/web/20200102220428/https://web.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:13 AM
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Yes. Any man who would rather be at the office than raising their own kids is not a good father. But it's not as if men are clamoring to be human ATMs, it's a gender role that they are usually expected to fulfill by their partners, families, and society as a whole. Women on the other hand, regularly compare the the childrearing they do to men working for pay, as if these jobs are equally undesirable. They tell on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:11 AM
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How about you don't cause male neuroticism by painting us all as predators?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:07 AM
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If you think working for pay and raising your own children that YOU wanted are even remotely comparable, then you should not have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:05 AM
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that you will not be assisting in any way including financially Yeah, the more difficult part is making good on this threat and successfully avoiding child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:11 PM
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fitting flair tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:09 PM
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Here's an idea: how about we don't give men crippling anxiety and force them to walk on eggshells 24/7 for the sake of accommodating female neuroticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:09 PM
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have you tried a very low carb diet? i hate to be "that guy" but there's a lot of evidence that it's more effective for fat loss than conventional low fat weight loss diets(specifically, higher energy expenditure, less hunger, less muscle loss, and above all better results).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:25 PM
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Truer words have never been said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:22 PM
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simp game doesn't work bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:21 PM
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milk truck arrive!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:21 PM
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The kid is my responsibility once birth happens and one does not have an option when it comes to responsibility. You can arguably be "responsible" for your child by coparenting and/or paying child support without staying with the BM. My question is which would you rather do? I prefer to use the carrot. Well, there's no reason you couldn't use both. The stick is not enough of an incentive unless it is really big. I'd say the risk of being left as a single mom with no child support is a pretty big…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:13 PM
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Better than this bullshit tbh, and mahr is an unspecified amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:33 PM
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I think it's amusing how the richest women in the world all gained their wealth from either inheritance or divorce lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:48 AM
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On another note, Sharia marriage is based AF because there is no such thing as common property, so women can't divorce rape men. What's yours is yours and what's mine is mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:43 AM
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I will never take women's complaints about incels and nice guys sexual entitlement seriously until they stop acting entitled to men's(or chad's I should say) commitment. They will deny it up and down but press them more and the truth always comes out. They make up retarded reasons like "he never explicitly stated he only wanted something casual" or "he did nice things for me" to claim that they were lied to or misled but anyone with more than two brain cells can see it for what it is: a sense of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:38 AM
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We have vibrators You do, yet the majority of young women in the west still participate in hookup culture. We are the ones who are making more money than men. You do? That's great, I don't want to hear another word about the "wage gap". And also, if women are all using men as personal dildos, where exactly do you come in? I said chad. I am not chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:31 AM
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What I mean by my title is, does anyone else feel like they don’t fit at all into the supposed “nature” of their gender? I get this from my dad all the time, he's definitely a little disappointed that I'm not more of a traditional man like he is. In many ways my life circumstances have forced me to assume aspects of the feminine gender role. For one, I spent most of my teens living with him and he is a very busy man who works two jobs and was often away from home, so I have been cooking for myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:04 AM
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The fact that “here” can’t be discerned from a post ON this post That was my tentative assumption but as I said multiple times, using "here" in this context makes no sense grammatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:59 AM
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I think it would be the opposite really, they're more likely to accept being part of chad's soft harem when they're young and as they get older the less desirable women lower their standards so they can have a real relationship and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:32 AM
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Sure, but personal, exclusive, human dildo(chad). She would probably have to share and they don't like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:05 AM
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congratulations you are not in the category of "most PPD women" here is your star ⭐
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:36 AM
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Have smooth skin and a good hairline. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:33 AM
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I bet you were the class tattletale in elementary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:33 AM
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Why is it that when women control household spending it's a "burden" and a "chore" but when men do it it's an exercise of "power" and "authority"????? I would bet money that most PPD women would react differently to a family where a woman makes most purchasing decisions("look at the all the mental labor she has to do") vs. a family where a man does("another example of patriarchal power").
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:31 AM
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they are individuals who should be free to live their lives freely as they choose; they were not put on this earth to serve you and be your breeding mare. More women need to understand that men are also individuals who should be free to lives freely as they choose; they were not put on this earth to be your ATM(betabux) or personal, exclusive, human dildo(chad).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:26 AM
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but the man's behavior is why she is catching feels A man could treat a woman like a literal sex toy and she can still catch feelings. The physical act of intercourse itself results in the release of bonding hormones. and men do it purposefully too It's ridiculous to claim that men showing affection is necessarily a manipulation tactic, instead of, you know, part of being human. If you hate men this much then why aren't you celibate? I very rarely see men into casual sex stating thats what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:19 AM
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when guys end up marrying those options as well Do they? What makes you so sure men prioritize stability and materialistic traits as much as women do for marriage? I have some guy friends who used to go after much hotter women, who were probably a lot more sexually adventurous, but then after failing to lock them down, they end up with a partner who is much more good girl-ish and more plain and vanilla. Or maybe they are just taking what they can get? You said it yourself, they couldn't lock dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:12 AM
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I hope you extend the same level of sympathy and understanding to men in those situations, instead of castigating them as "entitled" or "nice guys" as women often do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:06 AM
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It's not his fault if you're making unreasonable inferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:02 AM
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People often see what they want to see and hear what they want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:01 AM
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I think men do the "bait and switch" tactic If genuinely loses feelings then it's not really a "tactic", is it? Men can also often dramatically change their demeanor, previously stated preferences, personality and values Source: "I made it up"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:58 PM
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Surely you aren't entitled. Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:59 PM
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Women should practise more caution but it’s also pretty shitty for a man to do all the things I listed above I already said that some of those things you listed can be misleading. But others arguably aren't, and moreover even when guys keep things 100% casual and display minimal/no affection women can catch feelings and blame him when he doesn't reciprocate(while being supported by other women). That's some major BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:23 PM
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If he doesn't want to end it then why should he?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:20 PM
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People too often use the word "empathy" to mean "sympathy". That is what you are doing. And some people deserve to have bad things happen to them 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:19 PM
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the woman FEELS led on so she complains he led her on I mean friendzoned guys also "feel" led on all the time, what's your point? Does that mean the woman did anything wrong? Some people see what they want to see and hear what they want to hear. And if a guy was only interested in sex and literally nothing else I'd bet money that you would be jumping on the female bandwagon calling him a callous fuckboy like all the women in that other post about the AITA story. So it seems like the goal is to j…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:15 PM
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that’s why I think unless you’re very good at separating feelings from sex (which most women aren’t) just don’t have sex unless it’s explicitly clear both of you want a relationship or are already in one. Then tell that to women, don't blame men for women catching feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:14 PM
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The issue is not that he asked her to leave, it was how he asked her to leave. He could have very easily said, "I appreciate how you're feeling, but I'm not interested in anything more, so it's probably best if we end things." That's not asking her to leave, that's asking to end their fuckbuddy relationship. There isn't really a "nice" way to explicitly ask someone to leave your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:10 PM
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"She said how she wanted to be more to me than just a hole to put my dick in and wanted to have a conversation." According to the OP this was all she said, she never brought up moving towards a relationship or anything like that. Although it does seem plausible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:07 PM
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Women sexually assault men at significant rates: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/x45mq1/the_cdcs_definition_of_rape_vs_a_genderneutral/ I definitely wouldn't want a scorned woman to sleep over, there are a ton of things she could do to me or my property other than rape. There are countless reasons why someone may not want a guest sleeping over. At the end of the day it's his home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:06 PM
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I don’t share these feelings for you Per the OP she never flat-out stated that she wanted things to become more serious, although it does plausible that she caught feelings. Let’s stop having sex so that you don’t get hurt. She's a big girl who can make decisions for herself. If she doesn't want to hook up anymore she can break things off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:00 PM
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I read the OP, it very much sounds like she caught feelings and wants things to become more serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:57 PM
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It wasn't clear whether you were talking about these behaviors individually or the combination of all of them. The most efficient “strictly sex” situations I’ve seen where nobody gets attached - they usually only talk occasionally to plan the next hookup and some small talk. Going on date nights and paying for romantic getaways is not typical “I only want sex” behaviour. Emotional investment in a sexual relationship exists on a spectrum. There's another post on the front page about an AITA post …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:54 PM
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What the hell are you talking about? Regardless of your intents, not stating them doesn't mean you've led the other person on. They shouldn't have made assumptions if you haven't indicated your intentions one way or another, that's entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:50 PM
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I think they are very few situations where commitment would reasonably be assumed and referring to someone as a "girlfriend" is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:49 PM
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Some of these make sense. However, long phone calls/facetimes take her on dates/trips away have long, deep conversations where he opens up about his past traumas, mental health etc. the ole “I’ve never told anyone this but…” I mean, even platonic friends do these things, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:35 PM
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There are ways a guy can mislead without explicitly stating that he is interested in a relationship, sure, which is why I said "or something to that effect". My point is that women shouldn't assume intentions for a relationship just because he hasn't stated otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:33 PM
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they act romantic and boyfriendlike with their actions and non commital with their words What's "romantic" and "boyfriendlike" to one person might just be "friendly" or "kind" or "giving" to another. And even if he does express affection I don't think that necessarily means he wants commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:29 PM
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Why would you assume that someone is interested in a committed relationship if they haven't said so, or something to that effect? Sounds like entitlement to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:28 PM
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Since men started making fun of each other's dicks Women make fun of small dicks too........
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:39 AM
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Why didn't his family like you, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:36 AM
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I think some lies are worse than others. Lying about your height, your sexual history, how much you make, or something like that, is trivial IMO. But if you were to, say, lie about your intentions and tell them that you want a relationship when you don't, well that's a recipe for heartbreak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:35 AM
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Thank you, that sounds reasonable, it is textbook lying. Some women take this a step further though, and claim that if he hasn't explicitly defined the relationship and stated that he's not looking for commitment, then he is "stringing her along".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:30 AM
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Doubting an honest rape complainant won't un-rape her. Believing the word of a fraudulent rape complainant can ruin the life an innocent man. You're comparing apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:26 AM
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My personal view is to avoid making a judgement until there is evidence other than the word of the complainant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:25 AM
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Why would it be bait? I'm 100% serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:24 AM
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Years? I wouldn't wish that upon anyone. You have my sympathy, for what it's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:20 AM
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But my problem is that I still love my ex and only him... For years. I can't get over him. Who ended things?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:50 AM
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Men focus so much on looks Women are far more physically selective than men, especially when they're young and having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:44 AM
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Any pathetic excuse of a man who says retarded shit like "Believe Women" deserves to be falsely accused of sexual assault. No exceptions. It's always fun seeing them squirm when the retardation backfires and affects them. And women who say shit like that deserve to be falsely accused of crimes as well. Frankly they need it to hopefully develop something called "empathy".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:49 PM
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You posted here. That’s not clear?! Where is "here"? This post? Then what would you mean by "posting here [in this post]"? What you said made zero sense. Normally people would say said "posted this" if you wanted to refer to the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:45 PM
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You ok? Following along ok today? "The dude who posted here" isn't a very specific description. Where is "here"? This subreddit? Then which post? This post? Then which guy posting here under this post? And your description of the linked post is the other thread. I was aware of that, and I asked you where in the other thread "fuckboi is being used synonymously with 'young and broke'"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:41 PM
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The dude who posted here is a guy Who? Which dude? Sounds more like the other thread fuckboi is being used synonymously with “young and broke”. By who and where?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:34 PM
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What do you mean by "caring"? Caring for them as a friend? A baseline level of consideration for their wishes/interests that is afforded to strangers? And what makes you think that TRP doesn't "care" about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:30 PM
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If it's not discrimination, why are there fewer women in positions of power as not every woman? Countless possible reasons. A non-exhaustive list: motherhood, career choice, career ambition, behavior in the workplace, etc. Motherhood is for sure the issue, and some of it us a women coming out if the workforce but this only happens for about a year. .......... If you think parenthood only lasts a year, I hope to God you never have kids. So the rest is discrimination It sounds like you've already …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:26 PM
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"It's only a minority of shallow women most women aren't like that teehee #NotAllWomen" This is what you sound like right now. Curious how you feel about #NotAllMen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:09 PM
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"I've seen many posts about adult men, who act like children. Some of them don't even work, but expect their gfs/wives to do everything around the house, and dote on them like they are babies." And both of us are judging things based on our experience. If it's valid for you, it's valid for me too. If you were making statements about a small group, based on interactions with a significant portion of that group, that would be more reasonable. That's what I am doing, I was talking about how women o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:08 PM
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Not sure why the dudes here act like fuckbois aren’t/wouldn’t be willing to take a girl out for a nice meal or pay for it. Dudes? In this thread and the other thread about paying for dates, it's mostly WOMEN defending the expectation of the man paying to filter out fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:01 PM
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Why would someone want a career for a reason other than money? If you like doing it without money it’s a hobby. There are plenty of careers where self-fulfillment is a significant motive, like being an astronaut, or a game development, or even teaching. If you still earn money doing it then it's still a career. If a woman who had all the money she could ever want was denied from having a career she wanted, would you consider it oppression? If you want to die on this hill and consider the jobs in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:58 PM
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Your question was irrelevant to the point I was making, I have no reason to answer it. What was your mother's maiden name? What city were you born in? How tall are you? See? I can ask irrelevant questions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:55 PM
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If it's just a few drinks or coffee then I doubt the vast majority of men would mind paying, that would be a trivial expense to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:54 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:52 PM
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I’ve not seen that be the case when the man also fulfills the traditional husband role Women react harshly when men expect her to do all the tradcon work while he cannot or will not provide fully. If you're upset at the inequality, well, men paying for the entire bill is textbook inequality. What does he get in exchange? Also ROFL at pretending that being a SAHM is anywhere near as taxing as being a sole provider. Housework and childcare isn't really that much of a burden if you're not doing any…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:51 PM
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"well women want stuff to be to an unnecessarily high standard, while the dude doesn't care so really it's on her to clean the toilet" This is an important point though. People have different standards for cleanliness and women's tends to be higher. Both standards are value judgements and there is no "correct" one. So what makes you think women's standards should take priority over men's and workloads should be based on women's standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:49 PM
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No one denies the existence of the pay gap, the debate is over the causes. And Goldin primarily attributes it to motherhood, not discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:47 PM
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What's the contradiction? Just because the average income for unmarried men and women is similar doesn't mean unmarried women can't select higher earning unmarried men for marriage. It's just an average. You think all of these people will get married soon? You think their incomes can't change? Give me a break. This is a great example of why girls are underrepresented in STEM lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:45 PM
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No, no I don't think I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:42 PM
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I never claimed in my post that most women were parasitic, and I never claimed exactly how common it was for women to expect men to pay for dinner dates. My post wasn't about characterizing female behavior, it was about how one specific talking point doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:39 PM
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Depending on the age of the child, childrearing is not necessarily a full time job. Kids are at school for half the day starting from age 5/6 at the latest. And you ignored the rest of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:38 PM
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they usually just want to come straight to my place. I have a hard time believing that many women are like this after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:27 PM
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But I gotta challenge this: And I highly doubt the women here who say things "if you don't like it then don't date them" have the same attitude towards men who expect their wives and girlfriends to do the lion's share of housework and childcare. This is not the same thing at all. If a woman chooses to refuse to date a man who won’t buy expensive dinners, that’s a filter on a guy on date one or two. The guy will know very very quickly that they’re not compatible and that he won’t want to date her…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:26 PM
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"You have implied it" You asked because you strawmanned me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:19 PM
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In Barbie Land, and in real life as well, there are reasons for careers other than money..... I would bet money that you would consider it oppressive if a woman who had all the money she could ever want was barred from a career. If feminists didn't have double standards they would have no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:10 PM
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Some dependents are owed care for various reasons, such as children (you created them). And arguably elderly parents as well (if they were good to you and raised you well, you ought to return the favor). There is generally no convincing reason that an unrelated woman you are dating would be owed care from you. It's like the distinction between a bird's own offspring and a parasitic cuckoo chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:05 PM
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They're sticking to the gender roles, why would they complain about having a provider? Women pick and choose when they support traditional gender roles only when it benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:56 AM
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Sounds to me like you want to take advantage of the partner that earns more(usually the man).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:54 AM
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Ok, then you should have said that instead of putting words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:40 AM
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when comparing childless, unmarried, men and women. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:39 AM
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By your logic parasitism doesn't exist unless it involves theft.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:38 AM
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There is a pay gap overall, yes. Although the pay gap is significantly smaller, or virtually nonexistent, when comparing childless, unmarried, men and women. This implies female selection of higher earning men for marriage and not merely chance. The issue is when the woman pays more This is incredibly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:31 AM
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Parasitism is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:26 AM
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Nope. All I said that the prevalence of women earning similar or more income than their husbands is greatly exaggerated. Even the user I responded to didn't mention wives doing all of the housework, she mentioned wives doing "more than half". You were the one introduce that to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:25 AM
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Plenty of "normal" young women on tiktok talk about expecting men to pay for dinner dates. Finally, I'm saying this AS A RED PILL OG Right, you're a "red pill OG" and you seem to have forgotten one of the most important TRP idioms: "alpha fucks beta bucks".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:21 AM
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Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:19 AM
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by your own belief you are devaluing the woman you have casual sex with, by your own principles. One can argue that she is choosing to "devalue" herself by having casual sex. It takes two to tango. And liking someone is not mutually exclusive with doing things that may result in them being less desirable to men in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:18 AM
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Young women are more likely to be in school than young men. And generally speaking, postsecondary programs dominated by women have significantly worse career prospects compared to those dominated by men. Attending postsecondary education shouldn't always be considered as a productive venture, there are many programs that have limited relevance in the job market(english, psychology, etc). Many people attend college for the partying/fun/hookups, and/or extend their postsecondary education because …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:04 AM
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If it was, men wouldn't treat N-counts like they made a woman filthy. Otherwise they're saying "I like women so much that I want to PERMENANTLY RUIN AS MANY AS POSSIBLE". What makes you think they're seeking out casual sex with many women because they want to "ruin" women and not because they, you know, like sex? Why jump to malice?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:58 AM
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You're shifting the goalposts from earning and household work to just household work. Partnered men significantly outearn their female counterparts, it shouldn't be surprising that women do more around the house. No, it's not "valid" to draw broad conclusions about millions or billions of men and women based on your interactions with a select few of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:36 AM
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I am talking about women on Reddit, especially women on this subreddit. A tiny subset of all women, and I am familiar with most of the female users here. You are talking about men as a whole, of which there are over 100 million in the US alone. You're comparing apples and oranges. And statistics contradict your claim. Young men are more likely to be employed and they outearn young women. Older men even more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:30 AM
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They aren't actually expecting men to pay for dinner dates to select for commitment-oriented men, that's just an excuse. They're doing this because they're leeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:26 AM
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At the same time, as a man, you don't have to take a woman out to expensive restaurants. I agree, going for drinks seems like a better idea and paying for her is more doable. But the problem is that too many women are parasitic and feel entitled to dinner dates. But either way I wouldn't have a woman pay for me on our date. This isn't about paying for you, this is about paying for herself. I've seen many posts about adult men, who act like children. Ok, what's your point? How many men are like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:07 AM
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It's the last bit women often leave relationships because they bring in half the income I think the prevalence of this is grossly exaggerated. Husbands significantly outearn wives overall, even in childless marriages(1, 2).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:03 AM
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Or are you asking specifically in the context of a relationship? Yes, what do you give to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:55 AM
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Men here routinely say they don’t care about a woman’s career, interests, or morals as long as she’s hot. Can you provide examples of men saying this? I've only seen some guys here say that career women making a lot of money isn't a big draw, especially if it comes at the cost of other things like age, agreeableness, etc. That doesn't mean they would date or marry a bum who can't support herself. Most men here definitely don't seem keen on being a sole provider. Women's morality is probably the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:36 AM
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I have at times asked/offered to pay It's the polite thing to do and it's a bad look if you straight up say that you expect them to pay. That doesn't mean they won't be upset if he takes them up on the offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:09 AM
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Plenty of women, including on this very subreddit, complain about men not being good enough in some way. I doubt you have the same energy towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:02 AM
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so yeah, I can understand you not relating to the joy of giving. What do these women give? Or do they just take endlessly, like parasites?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:51 AM
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If you don’t want to be the provider man, what does it matter if that was the woman’s expectation because it’s not something you can fulfill I hope you have the same attitude towards Reddit women who complain about men expecting their partners to do most or all of the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:49 AM
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You don't need to be a leech to filter out men seeking casual sex, you can just make them wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:47 AM
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What kind of date do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:46 AM
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Oh no, you won't get another date with a ::checks notes:: ... Shallow, selfish, and conceited woman? This talking point is literally just #NotAllWomen lmao. The point OP is making is that many if not most women are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:45 AM
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it is tighter lmao tf u smoking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:44 AM
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Bro is just pulling numbers out of his ass lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:33 AM
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Damn congrats, do you mind me asking your age?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:33 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/duplicates/14pwm5g/aita_for_being_honest_about_my_wifes_appearance/ This guy was pressed by his wife on what he thinks about her stretch marks, he gave an honest answer that was couched as much as possible. Reddit w*men are still tearing a new one lol. So let's be clear, by your logic he did nothing wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:46 AM
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Where's the coercion? What do you mean by "manipulation"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:44 AM
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Damn, are you NC with her now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:43 AM
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That's not much better, what constitutes "talking disrespectfully" or "treating disrespectfully"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:40 AM
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reddit avatars are cringe and saddam hussein is based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:37 AM
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You have no argument lol. You're accusing them of being disrespectful/exploitative without elaborating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:29 AM
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I've had a lot of major fights with my mom. Once she said she would disown me. But she still ended up buying me an investment property lol and we have a good relationship now. Does that still count?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:24 AM
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^^^
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:23 AM
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You're in Thailand? Are you on vacation or is your job remote?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:22 AM
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I don't think there is an evopsych explanation for it, many guys are probably interested because it's tighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:21 AM
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You're just repeating yourself and talking in circles. What specifically about spinning plates is disrespectful or exploitative?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:18 AM
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And a lot of men wont date a 6ft woman either/women inches taller than them. This is a ridiculous comparison because that is an extreme case. Very few women are 6ft or taller, that would be at the 99.9th percentile for female height according to CDC data, meaning that only around 1 in 1000 women are 6ft or taller. The equivalent for men would be around 5'1" for a guy, approximately the 0.1th percentile, and I'd bet money that the vast majority of men would not label that shallow or unreasonable.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:14 AM
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What makes it exploitative?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:01 AM
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its perfectly possible to have wholesome casual relationships or just neutral casual relationships What makes "spinning plates" uniquely problematic then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:02 AM
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Yeah I’m defending women by pointing out the desperation of dudes trying to find examples of things ? Everyone uses examples of things to start discussions about those topics, what are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:08 PM
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discussion about why women are upset about x thing "durr you must be triggered" Rushing to the defense of women, as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:35 PM
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Do you have a problem with women avoiding insecure men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:30 PM
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He isn't talking about how it affects Charlie. He's talking about the older women and why they're so mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:27 PM
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Alright but do you fault the guys for feeling insecure Feeling insecure? No. But expressing that insecurity to the point of pressuring their partner to validate them? Yeah. FYI plenty of women on Reddit claim that short guys often act insecure over their height so they avoid dating them Regardless of whether that's true or not, it's something to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:13 PM
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She's getting uglier and fattsr because she's carrying your child. What's it with this talking point? How do you know she wasn't the one who pushed for having a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:02 PM
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and you're not looking to date seriously Can you read? Besides, STD testing is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:00 PM
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I mean yeah, if a girl like everything about her short BF except for his height, and he pressed her on this issue, I wouldn't fault her for answering honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:00 PM
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A lot of people don't get acne anymore, such as myself. Clear skin is not that unattainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:59 PM
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Because plastic surgery makes permanent or at the very least lasting changes to your appearance. It is what you look like all the time. It's not a superficial change like makeup, she won't look like that when she doesn't have makeup on, which will be a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:56 PM
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He merely finds one specific trait unattractive lol, calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:54 PM
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It doesn’t necessarily mean they are happy with those women, Do you have evidence of this? I’m not sure how a study on divorce risk would prove that women aren’t expected to provide service in a relationship? If they aren't being divorced for not doing it, then how is it an expectation? Women are also generally expected to put their own goals, hobbies, lifestyles, and desires on the back burner when a man comes into the picture and take a supporting role in his life instead. Marriage, and especi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:51 PM
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My college program is fully online lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:47 AM
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Okay grandpa, it's time for bed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:21 AM
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face and height>>>>>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:16 AM
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👑 how did u meet her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:13 AM
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Well for starters I am a zoomer lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:08 AM
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what “wxmen” need to bring to the table is looks Most ugly men are more than willing to be with ugly women. Ugly women have plenty of options. and service (which is also implicitly expected) Research by Harvard sociologist Alexandra Killewald found that women's proportion of household labor is not significantly correlated with divorce risk. they don’t care about women’s careers I care, and I think most men care to an extent since wealthier men tend to marry wealthier women. education Nope. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:01 AM
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Not according to the lawyers in that article LMAO. i’m not a cheater Virtually all people will say that, until they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:52 AM
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Yes, and men have penises too. What other obvious facts do you want to point out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:45 AM
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Those types of clauses are generally not enforceable. Just because it's on a contract doesn't mean a court will enforce it. There are limits to the powers of contracts. Most educated w*man lmao if you cheat on me What if you cheat on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:42 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/duplicates/14pwm5g/aita_for_being_honest_about_my_wifes_appearance/ When will w*men learn? Never ask someone for their opinion on your appearance if you aren't willing to accept an honest answer. This guy even went the extra mile to avoid answering the question but she pressed anyways, and somehow he's still the bad guy to these clowns. As a matter of fact, I think men should start giving negative responses whenever women fish for validation like this, irre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:37 AM
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Girls: "We don't care that much about looks, I see pretty girls dating ugly guys all the time teehee" The """pretty girl""" in question Look at the fucking comments lmao. Never trust female evaluations of beauty, it's always so laughably skewed. To them most girls are pretty and most guys are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:48 AM
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this is coming from the sex that believes the positions of stars influences personality 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:19 AM
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but a full face of foundation masks any imperfections on the skin which is not normal With dry skin and/or a religious skin care routine this is perfectly doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:17 AM
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First impressions matter the most, a woman who is more easily able to get away with showing her less attractive bare face after a few dates and the guy is invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:09 AM
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how many of them are there. here in canada the rich international students are like all chinese, not many koreans. which makes sense because korea is less of a shithole so they have less incentive to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:07 AM
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Depends on the makeup type. I think I'm fairly observant and can identify most types of makeup apart from foundation/concealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:06 AM
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TRP "looksmaxxing" advice is just retarded normie shit like "lift" and "dress better". In reality face and height are law, although being lean can improve your facial aesthetics. Looksmaxxing is firmly in the domain of the pill that shall not be named.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:04 AM
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I think its often the case that in female-dominated environments, men tend to have an easier time attracting women simply due to a relative scarcity of competition. Like colleges are majority female now, especially outside of nerdy majors like math or physics or CS. That's what getting laid is easier for guys in college. If you don’t mind kids this could be an option for you. This sentence really came out wrong.......
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:01 AM
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chad only as always
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:58 AM
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people should stop saying "asian" when they're really talking about chinese international students lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:58 AM
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Daily reminder for moids that you only notice cosmetic procedures when they're badly done or overdone. Foids are not spending tens of thousands of dollars to make themselves ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:54 AM
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Our appearance is not purely determined by genetics, and the vast majority of people aren't blackpilled to the point of consciously selecting for desirable genes in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:49 AM
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Maybe I'm biased because I've had plastic surgery done, but IMO it's not deceptive like makeup is, and I don't see an equivalence between the two. To me whether something is "natural" or "artificial" is irrelevant, the important part is whether the change in appearance is superficial or not. Plastic surgery procedures are often permanent, or if not permanent(botox, implants, lip fillers, etc) then at least it lasts for a while before needing to be reapplied. It's not superficial like makeup is, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:46 AM
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It's not racist to dislike certain physical traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:34 AM
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Most people need scalp hair to be attractive, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:33 AM
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Funny, I think it's the opposite. Women are far more interested in reading fiction than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:25 AM
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They may not be unrecognizable but there is a lot of research to indicate that even regular makeup makes women significantly more attractive to men. Concealer/foundation creates the impression of perfect skin, contour can make your face look leaner. Eye shadow conceals bags and lines, and for Asian women eyeliner can hide their monolids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:24 AM
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Beards are neither artificial or superficial, facial hair is a natural part of the male body just like scalp hair is for both sexes. It isn't comparable to makeup. Growing a beard is not any more deceptive than not shaving yourself bald to expose your skull shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:21 AM
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Way to avoid the point. Women know that makeup improves their appearance by a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:19 AM
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"Makeup" isn't one thing, it's a broad category of cosmetic products. Sure, we may be able to easily identify cherry red lipstick, or dark eye shadow. But what about concealer/foundation that is used to conceal blemishes? Contour used to create the impression of a leaner face? Not necessarily. And even when makeup is noticeable it can still be used to hide things, like many Asian girls heavily rely on eyeliner to conceal their ugly monolid eyes. That's one of the most severe forms of makeupfraud…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:18 AM
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I think it was interesting seeing the huge disparity in how the tributes were treated then vs 75 years later. And the capitol residents looked normal, not garish, which is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:57 PM
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I think its because of the female protagonist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:52 PM
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What did you think of the prequel?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:47 PM
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Das rite!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:40 PM
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most people here live in the west and talk about western gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:39 PM
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wtf that's insane
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:39 PM
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Do people think it's gay/effeminate for a guy to like the Hunger Games? I've heard it said before and the fandom seems to be female-dominated. I personally quite enjoyed the series and the prequel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:38 PM
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I don't think genuine upset is mutually exclusive with seeking to garner sympathy with tears. but you should definitely take a step back from the situation to figure out if you should have done something or said something differently. I am always right and women are always wrong 🗿
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:37 PM
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anything to bring more women in the bedroom 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:27 PM
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I think one important thing men need to be aware of is how women weaponize their tears. Women's tears are very effective in triggering a sympathy response, especially in men. Women know this and will use them in arguments to make their partners feel bad, back down, and apologize, even if she was in the wrong. Stand your ground. Don't let her manipulate you, like a spoiled child throwing a tantrum. If you reward it they will keep doing it, and you will have no peace in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:19 PM
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As per the CDC NISVS cited by another user here, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:01 PM
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Men aren't conditioned to avoid violence against women In the west they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:01 PM
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I don't like that you are paranoid of us and act like being called pretty is the end of the world lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:21 PM
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If you think being complimented is scary and threatening then you need to be medicated for everyone's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:53 PM
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And the 12 month data still indicates that there was a 2.4% prevalence of sexual violence by an intimate partner for women and 1.6% for men? That's only 50% greater, whereas the lifetime figures you're citing are more than twice as high for women than men. Are we reading the same thing? The document I linked defines sexual violence as: I am talking about the most severe form of the various behaviors they characterize as "sexual violence", rape/MTP, which are the only ones of those behaviors you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:51 PM
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Did you even read my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:46 PM
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Source? Even if that were true, that doesn't mean it's common. Death for pregnant women, and anyone who isn't old really, is incredibly uncommon in western countries to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:43 PM
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If the big guy inflicts injuries beyond a certain point, it doesn’t matter that the small guy started it. Even in self defence there’s limitations. So long as he does not continue using force after his assailant is either incapacitated or backs off, then he would generally be in the clear. That is the primary limitation of self defense in Anglo common law countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:39 PM
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It's possible that there is evidence of single women being happier, but this hack Dolan is not it, and he is the commonly cited source by these "girlboss" types. I doubt it though, the trend of significant numbers of older women remaining unmarried and childless is fairly recent. They are pioneers in a sense, and we can only guess how they will turn out. I think the manosphere is similarly rash in confidently declaring that these women will be miserable. Let's wait and see.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:49 PM
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But that same article that you posted (3rd link) shows that men are the primary ones who inflict actual injury towards their partner. Per that paper(Whitaker et al) the odds ratio was 1.3 which is not a huge disparity. Men do take it a step further. (Whether from capability or desire - idk, that’s it’s own debate) A lot of the figures from the second link suggest that women are experiencing SV at about 2x the rate that men are It depends on the study, some are broader and include non-criminal se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:35 PM
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When we point out that men are most likely to be victims of violent crime, many women just deflect and say “yes, and other men are the perpetrators” This is the case for most crime, yes. Not IPV and sexual assaults(emphasis on the latter). The majority of sexual assaults against men are perpetrated by women, and if you were to exclude homosexual and incarcerated men I think it would be virtually all. In other words, if you're an average heterosexual, non-institutionalized man(the vast majority o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:30 PM
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And you know this......how? I see this talking point get endlessly parroted by feminists but they never cite any supporting evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:26 PM
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When a small guy picks a fight with a big guy and gets his ass beat, few people would be sympathetic to him just because of the power disparity. He started it. Why should it be any different when it's a small woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:23 PM
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Without dismissing the non-physical harms that can be inflicted in relationships, I think discussing "emotional/psychological" abuse is usually fruitless because there are no widely accepted specific definitions and standards, and non-physical conflicts are highly subject to interpretation. As the other commenter pointed out, this does not contradict my point in the OP. I'm not sure if you were trying to, or if you were just adding something to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:20 PM
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The raw numbers say that men and women experience any kind of physical or psychological abuse in equal numbers, but that more women than men experience any contact sexual violence,physical violence, and/or stalking with IPV-related impact (Tables 9 and 11) with IPV-related impact meaning: I don't think it's helpful to lump all the categories together. And yes, disparities are greater with lifetime data, but smaller with 12-month data(whether the respondent has experienced something within the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:12 PM
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"Golden retriever boy" will never not sound like a dogwhistle for a tall, blond guy. Hitler would be proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:05 PM
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Well I don't live in Saudi Arabia or India or whatever, and this post isn't about what goes in those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:26 AM
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My comment was about sexual violence, not physical violence. But yes, I think your assessment of female-perpetrated domestic violence sounds plausible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:25 AM
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I acknowledge that the majority of domestic homicides are perpetrated by men, but they are incredibly uncommon and represent a tiny sliver of all intimate partner violence. Many if not most people will experience intimate partner violence in their lifetime but very few will be murdered by one, especially in western countries. Focusing on this particular subset that is far from representative of men or women as a whole is dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:07 AM
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To add, I am frankly surprised that female perpetrated sexual aggression is as common as it is, since it is incredibly easy for women to find willing sexual partners. My best guess is that this can be attributed to women being unaccustomed to sexual rejection, which breeds a sense of entitlement. Women and girls are also arguably not conditioned and taught to accept sexual rejection in the same way, to the same extent, that men and boys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:04 AM
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Spoiler alert: bisexual men can be denied sexual and romantic intimacy by women as well. And often they are, on the basis of their sexual orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:35 AM
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i previously brought up eye area once in a conversation with you what are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:54 AM
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there are so many fish in this sea youll have a pool to look into unless you're chad virtually all of those fish live somewhere else, are taken, or aren't interested in you. most men have limited options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:49 AM
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sounds like i struck a nerve. do you have bulging bug eyes or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:47 AM
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Do you tell every single man you're involved with about your sexual history? Without them asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:38 AM
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Why don't you just not tell women you're bi? I don't think it's a big deal unless you're getting married or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:36 AM
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I think women denying men sexual and romantic intimacy due to failure to adhere to masculine norms is a far stronger enforcement mechanism than other men name calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:34 AM
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How is it a cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:11 AM
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You are an honorary male what I said doesn't apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:10 AM
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Means and medians indicate what our options are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:10 AM
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i wish. deep-set for an asian = average compared to white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:24 AM
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PPD women value anecdotal evidence only when it suits their agenda. When a woman reports having negative experiences with men, her mistrust, or even outright hostility, towards men is validated and affirmed. It's used as evidence that there's something "wrong" with men and we need to "do better" in some way. When a man reports having positive experiences with women it's used as a counterargument to manosphere talking points. An individual man's experience with a select few women is portrayed as …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:12 AM
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If you were trying to hook up with a chick would you tell her that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:49 AM
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My in-closet bi guy friend just got married to his wife, and she had no idea. Hiding something like that from your WIFE seems like a bad idea......
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:47 AM
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Why is it wrong to your country or cultural sphere as a frame of reference? Liberals and leftists do the same thing when they refer to traditional gender roles or intolerance of homosexuals as "far-right" when those things are ubiquitous outside of the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:44 AM
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Why are mustaches without beards not in style anymore? Saddam's mustache looked fly as hell(rest in power king).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:34 AM
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Are you open with women about sexual orientation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:31 AM
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If I accept this argument, it is just one aspect of the masculine gender role. Your conclusion is quite overstated based upon your evidence and argument. It isn't. Every time the topic of masculine gender roles gets brought up there's always some feminist bitch yapping about how it's other men enforcing them. That's what I was referring to. I don't need to address every single aspect of masculinity to refute that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:28 AM
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Do you think there's anything wrong with men not wanting to date bi girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:26 AM
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There is potentially some truth to this. Research on female arousal indicates that self-identified "lesbian" women also respond to male stimuli. However, the inverse is also true, where self-identified "straight" women respond to female stimuli. This is tentative evidence for female sexuality being a lot more fluid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:24 AM
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She used David Bowie as an example for her claim that "bisexual men are hot", can you read? As if some manosphere e-celebrity could compare to the likes of David Bowie. And she has no idea what Tate's sex is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:22 AM
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Talking about the lives of individual celebrities is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:21 AM
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it's not actually anything positive or genuinely supportive of bi girls and them being in homosexual relations No one said it was? Who's out here claiming that most men are active allies to bi girls? Having a neutral attitude towards a group is still preferable by far than having a negative attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:20 AM
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What point? You haven't explained at all why you think it's due to misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:18 AM
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But sure, men are less homophobic. Now, I don’t like the way women stereotype gay men too, but it isn’t “homophobic” TL;DR "men bad women good teehee" 🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱 a mot of this ties into misogyny and for women, internalized misogyny - i truly think that many women dislike bi men because of misogynistic views on homosexuality What does misogyny have to do with this? And can you read their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:17 AM
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I don't think this makes anyone look bad, frankly. It is perfectly normal, logical and reasonable to not want to date someone who is bisexual. To you, someone who is not particularly socially progressive, sure. To many zoomers now, absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:15 AM
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What is he doing that makes people go “I want to hang around with him!” This is meaningless. Women hang out with guys they wouldn't date or fuck all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:13 AM
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Paul Dolan(which both of your articles cite) is full of shit, he made a lot of mistakes in his "research". The most egregious one was with one finding that married women reported being less happy when spouse was "not present". He interpreted this to mean "not in the room during the interview", when in actuality it meant that the spouse was not present in the household, and living away. If anything that statistic undermines his point. Women's version of using science in debate is copying and past…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:10 AM
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Nice creative writing exercise bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:02 AM
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liberals are far, FAR more ubiquitous in politics and media than actual left-wing figures. Who made you the CEO of deciding what is and isn't "left-wing"? Social liberals and social democrats are generally on the left side of the political spectrum/Overton window in Anglo countries, therefore they are labelled "left-wing". Doesn't take a genius to understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:02 AM
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That's just you, your experiences are not universal. There is a lot of female anger and bitterness over male sexual partners who are hesitant to commit, or have some other alleged behavioral flaws. Those men clearly aren't incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:59 AM
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I will treat my man like a man What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:50 AM
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Look up who's initiating homophobic attacks or hate speech Hate crimes targeted towards a homosexuals are a small sliver of the intolerance they face. And what does this even have to do with the topic? I am talking about homophobia broadly. Your comments are whataboutism. Look at who votes for and against pro-gay policies, like decriminalisation and gay marriage. Generally speaking the populace does not vote on policies, elected representatives do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:35 PM
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Your own studies were showing it isn't gendered "Preferences against dating bisexual men appeared particularly strong, even among bisexual women" "These results support previous research findings that indicate more negative attitudes toward dating bisexual men than bisexual women." "suggesting that lesbians and heterosexual women may be more concerned than gay and heterosexual men about bisexual partners"" Did you even read my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:32 PM
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Generally it's men who are showing disgust at male homosexuality much more blatantly and frequently Do you have a source for this? Or are you just making things up (again)? Your own studies were showing it isn't gendered "Preferences against dating bisexual men appeared particularly strong, even among bisexual women" "These results support previous research findings that indicate more negative attitudes toward dating bisexual men than bisexual women." "suggesting that lesbians and heterosexual w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:29 PM
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You said "lying by omission", not "lying by omission about (specific thing)". A reasonable person would interpret this as you referring to a failure to disclose anything a partner might find undesirable. And how and which differences between men and women relevant to this? Your comment is laughable, as if saying "men and women are different" can be used to justify any gendered double standard. What about a bisexual woman who does not disclose her orientation to men she dates? If she a rapist? If…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:26 PM
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How is it not the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:20 PM
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Lying by omission is like sexual assault or coercion. Not telling sexual partners about your sexual orientation, or anything else, is not lying. And if lying about yourself to sexual partners was assault then every woman who has downplayed their sexual history is a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:15 PM
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Actually, none of it is saying where these norms come from Where else could aversion to male homosexuality come from? that non-bisexual people aren't as likely to date bisexuals as the other way around I think it's funny how women always try to downplay the gendered aspect of things when it makes them look bad. Hetero/bi women are FAR more averse to dating bisexual men than vice versa. Even if you seriously want to hide your orientation from "serious" dates I said the opposite. It's a good idea …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:12 PM
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If you're averse to dating bisexual men then you are upholding the norm of male heterosexuality, part of the masculine gender role.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:09 PM
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and you're not looking to date seriously This is the part you're missing. Date a bisexual woman maybe there’s plenty of us out there Even bisexual women are often averse to dating bisexual men unfortunately, as per the research cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:08 PM
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By your logic watching lesbian porn means a man has no prejudices against lesbian/bisexual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:06 PM
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just be a rock star bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:05 PM
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Why is it that every time research comes out making women look bad someone inevitably shows up to do mental gymnastics to defend them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:05 PM
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If the guys here were realistic about threats to long term monogymy instead of fantansing about a threesome they would worry as much about bisexual women as they would male friends. Most young people, especially young women, would consider this rhetoric(characterization of bisexual women as promiscuous and prone to infidelity) to be biphobic/homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:04 PM
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There are plenty of women that aren't interested in befriending men for a number of reasons. By your logic do they all hate/dislike men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:36 PM
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Can you read their minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:34 PM
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That’s why sugaring and escort services are the most common kind of interaction of that nature instead of actual dating or marriage. You realize that it's very common for people to have casual sex without paying, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:30 PM
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well i know a...... shut the fuck up no one cares about your stupid anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:28 PM
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And he's clearly still very desirable at that age. Too young to lock himself down unless he was genuinely infatuated with someone, which doesn't seem to be the case here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:13 PM
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Men like him shouldn't get married, or at least not that young.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:58 PM
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buys me anything i want and sends me money if i want it Women don't be parasitic challenge(any%)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:49 PM
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you're missing the point. this guy loves landwhales.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:46 PM
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right, because women just LOVE balding meatheads gymcopers need a reality check
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:42 PM
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She'll come around to his views eventually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:40 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/C0kcAOzPqnv/?igshid=ZDE1MWVjZGVmZQ%3D%3D The victim blaming in this comment is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:39 PM
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The IDF does and the Shin Bet(Israel's internal security service) does as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:33 PM
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it’s likely males on both sides causing all of the violence and damage dumb cunt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:32 PM
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Because males are. Being in military doesn’t stop males and females from having different proclivities and different desires for violence and execution of violence. How would you know this. If you didn’t know, it’s mostly males doing violence. Up until very recently women were largely excluded from military service.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:32 PM
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Women are 1/3 of the IDF and a substantial portion of the Shin Bet(internal security).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:31 PM
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she said "all", can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:29 PM
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hamas women are busy giving birth to strong muslim warriors
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:27 PM
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If women are in the military as well why assume that "men" are the ones causing all the violence and damage dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:25 PM
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women are conscripted into Israeli military it’s likely males on both sides causing all of the violence and damage 🤏🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:21 PM
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Women overwhelmingly serve in non-combat units.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:07 PM
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That makes it even worse in this context. The phrase erases women's participation in the IDF and their transgressions against Palestinians, and insinuates that a female combatant is more innocent than a male civilian.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:06 PM
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The phrase "women and children" being thrown around so much after the Hamas offensive is one of the best examples of female privilege and gynocentrism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:59 PM
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Old men’s value is in his money, not his old looks. you can be old without looking old. case in point this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:18 AM
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wtf what's her @. he doesn't link it so i don't see how could it be a promo for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:17 AM
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but 3 women still die daily from what we’re talking about. You’re acting like it’s a nonissue. It is. Do you also take showers during a lightning storm or walk out with an umbrella for fun? I wouldn't because I don't want to get wet, not because I'm afraid of being struck by lightning lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:35 AM
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he doesn't provide any links to her social media anywhere and they have been seeing each other on and off for over a year
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:33 AM
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they just don't wanna date a balding old prune (which is, of course, understandable) why do they feel the need to express such a visceral negative to other women dating men they don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:17 AM
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nice strawman creative writing exercise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:16 AM
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you were talking about murder, stop shifting the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:15 AM
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tell to the women here who bitch about age gaps lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:14 AM
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I never disputed that it's higher than vice versa but it's still incredibly rare and unlikely to happen. You're more likely to die in a car accident by orders of magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:07 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15npmps/pew_analysis_husbands_are_the_sole_or_primary/ I wouldn't say women bring nothing of value to relationships, but they're definitely more likely to be net "takers" than "givers".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:05 AM
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https://youtu.be/ohNnuZ2mINI?t=462 this korean vlogger is dating a 19yo chick, i thought he was in like his mid 20s but apparently he's 35. ppd women are going to hate this lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:03 AM
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very high rate Put down the crack pipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:23 AM
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If you're the one claiming it the burden of proof is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:01 AM
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no point arguing with a christcuck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:08 PM
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lol at "legit church" The only difference between a "cult" and a "religion" is the speaker's attitude towards the movement. If I started a religious movement claiming to be god in human form and threatened people with eternal punishment if they didn't worship me, I'd bet money you would call that a cult. That's exactly how many atheists feel about your "legit churches".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:01 PM
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"That’s a cult tactic bro. Anyone on a real church will tell you that."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:39 PM
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The only difference between a "cult" and a "religion" is the speaker's attitude towards the movement. If you're referring to Tate I wasn't even talking about him, I was responding to some post here about RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:29 PM
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"anything i don't like is a cult" the mind of a lib is truly fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:16 PM
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Men kill women more than women kill men. You initially claimed that "Men kill women more than women commit violent crime." Don't shift the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:13 PM
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its easier with the strength behind it It's easy for either party. You don't need to be strong to severely maim or kill someone with a blade. That's why hominins started using them so much millions of years ago. NTM, even if a woman owns a gun Source? And are we talking about a gun she PERSONALLY owns and maintains primary control over or a gun in the household? Here's a TLDR from the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence: https://ncadv.org/STATISTICS#:~:text=1%20in%204%20women%20and%201%…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:11 PM
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you should speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:32 PM
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the quality of women has skyocketed nice cope lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:31 PM
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how did u react
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:30 PM
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fat woman who doesnt work there comes up to us and says "you know you're only supposed to have one" I don't think she practiced what she preached.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:29 PM
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how are you failing physics then if you're this smart
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:28 PM
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apes together strong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:27 PM
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frfr hear hear it's like men's lives don't matter. i lean towards palestine overall but it's still unfortunate that people are being killed, civilians and soldiers. although in both israel and gaza the lines are quite blurred.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:25 PM
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yes he's the resident lawyer single dad with a fat fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:24 PM
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coom moar
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:20 PM
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The belief that women are essentially children in adult bodies that are ruled by their emotions, whereas men are mature and logical. This is why men are the leaders in the relationships - because women cannot lead themselves. based Strong aversion to government programs, especially those that allegedly incentivize women to divorce men and break up the family unit based It’s pretty much impossible for a woman to be a “good woman” if she’s not religious or has slept with more than 5 men cringe Bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:17 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:14 PM
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You say " Women turn down certain guys in the past then double back because they cant fuck the guys they used to fuck" But men would do the same thing. If a man was poor and could only date average women, and then became rich and started to date supermodels you would think that was fine. Whats wrong with women being selective based on their options? I don't think there's anything wrong with women being selective. I think there's something wrong with women leeching off of us, or trying to. That's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:13 PM
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So why do men begrudge women for doing the same? Chad doesn't commit because he has better options and they end up hating all men lol. I don't believe that women's SMV declines with age You're delusional if you don't think men find younger women more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:12 PM
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Their main objective is to get off. I really think they’re better off having sex with a sex worker rather than trying to get pity sex hoes cost money, pity sex is free
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:08 AM
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"femcels" seething at this comment lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:06 AM
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what the fuck cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:05 AM
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your brother's friends with your mom's ex? that's crazy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:04 AM
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Depends on how you define "need". they how come you never see homeless men holding up signs asking for sex over food and water? They're not holding up signs asking for healthcare or housing either, yet those are widely considered "needs".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:03 AM
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honestly i have very little sympathy for women whose nudes get shared. like if you share a photo with someone it's no longer yours, is it? you have no right to tell them what to do with it. if you don't want people sharing a photo then you shouldn't be sending it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:01 AM
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Why do you take issue with this statement when it is quite clear that many young males do not understand consent? Is it? How would you know? For example, there are young males constantly sharing nude images of their female peers. That's not rape. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:38 AM
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i mean we have no way of knowing they're all covered up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:31 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/liazion/ wtf i love israel now ✡️✡️✡️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:13 AM
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A non-insignificant number of men are progressives/feminists who support misandrist policies or sentiments. Like erasure of male DV/sexual assault victims, saying things like "teach boys not to rape", supporting policies in education/employment that favor women, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:01 AM
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imo big tits only look good when they're supported otherwise they're just saggy, and it gets worse with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:00 PM
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Men can kill women easily. The same can be said in the inverse, all it takes is a kitchen knife. Men kill women more than women commit violent crime. Source? If a man is getting agitated and is using his stature What do you mean by these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:59 AM
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that's an incredibly homophobic reaction to gay black men proudly twerking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:15 AM
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are u blind nigga do u not see the tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:13 AM
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she always struck me as kinda sus frfr ඞඞඞඞඞ u/Ainsleygz face reveal with verification or you're LARP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:11 AM
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if you don't think gay black men twerking is funny then you're a homophobe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:07 AM
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homophobe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:06 AM
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for me it would have to be u/Ainsleygz
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:55 AM
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she still matched with him lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:54 AM
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counterpoint: wagyu beef and lobster everyday and a custom water-cooled gaming PC with double RTX __90 series GPUs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:31 AM
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did u go with her and if so how did ur current partner feel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:30 AM
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I understand, that's an explanation not a justification. Sleeping around often does make a woman significantly less desirable for LTRs(if the guy knows, which is difficult in practice) but IMO that's a good reason to "shame" women for it. Unless you count polite rejections as "shaming" which i don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:29 AM
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🤲🏾 اللهم انصر اخواننا المجاهدين في فلسطين
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:11 AM
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unlimited money nigga did u not read this part
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:11 AM
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Or unlimited money, huge land under your control and a huge house but no woman would ever be with you. this one and anyone who says otherwise is a 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:39 AM
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that's a convincing justification for this part this is why a man who sleeps with many women is praised but not this part while a woman who sleeps with many men is shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:37 AM
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do you know what a "thug shaker" is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:36 AM
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You're going on an unrelated tangent. Not every conversation about misandry has to include male misandrists just like how not every single conversation about misogyny has to include female misogynists. I was responding to another user claiming that misandry by definition has to be perpetrated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:48 AM
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of course men can be misandrist. but that's deflection, OP is talking about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:15 AM
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"just because people distrust a group doesn't mean that mistrust is justified" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:28 PM
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no, it isn't. you haven't actually pointed to any data on wrongdoing by men. you're arguing that because some men are overprotective of their daughters from other men/boys, there must be something wrong with men. that's no different from other groups being the target of suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:58 PM
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>just run pity game bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:37 PM
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just because a man's paying doesn't mean you have to fuck him. women take advantage of male generosity without fucking them all the time. prostitution is an opportunity to make money, like any other opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:01 PM
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I don't care because fathers being overprotective of their daughters doesn't reflect badly on men as a whole, any more than vice versa. People can be afraid of dumb things. Look at conservatives being scared that the trannies and gays are going to molest and convert their kids. There's a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:59 AM
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that's a stretch yes it still applies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:49 AM
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Dads are overprotective. I don't care. In many cultures mothers are overprotective of their sons like that, does that reflect badly on the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:48 AM
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opportunities are a privilege. if some job opportunities were reserved for men you would call that a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:46 AM
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she was arguing a comment blaming men for something and social tropes that portray male sexuality as predatory. that's a W in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:52 AM
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fucking gypsies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:53 AM
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You can't avoid them in professional or educational contexts You absolutely could if you gained enough institutional power/influence to start excluding us. Also there are more forms of misandry. Such as policies by universities and employers that favor women in STEM, male-only conscription(which still exists in several progressive European countries), harsher criminal sentences against men for comparable crimes, erasure of male DV and sexual assault victims(which you demonstrated), etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:49 AM
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the girls on that podcast used to be pretty hot, mostly college girls. then they started having more higher profile OF producers/influencers with too much makeup and garish cosmetic procedures
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:32 AM
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i agree, they all belong on my dinner table
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:30 AM
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bro needs to spend some time on an aim trainer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:44 AM
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"female privilege isn't real teehee"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:43 AM
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was this in response to a rape story?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:42 AM
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happy for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:17 AM
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im already in an online bachelors program from some mediocre public university lol. not that it will matter a few years into my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:17 AM
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i’m a “ten separate products for my nighttime skincare routine” girlie. one of those products better be a retinoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:15 AM
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most inkwells here are pretty mild 🙄 this is like me blaming most women here for the shit that comes out of gridrexx or BVE's mouths
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:14 AM
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me seeing "facials": oh she must be really into skincare me reading the rest of the sentence: 😐 anyways stop posting coomer bait here 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:06 AM
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nah you can go to a prestigious school without a crazy workload, depending on major. how do you think all the rich white kids at USC have so much time to party lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:03 AM
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it's possible that it was photoshopped but it was from some guys post on finnish 4chan and not her social media or anything like that, so idk. it may be lighting but she sure is yellow for the background shes against lmao white girls love tanning i'm not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:01 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:52 AM
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i think it's mainly the lightning. her boobs are the same shade as her face lol. tanning/makeup might also play a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:51 AM
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I think the average for South Koreans is like 5'9", idk about china
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:50 AM
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In order for it to be misandry, they would have to be things that women did. In what world? Feminists say that women can perpetrate misogyny all the time, why should misandry be regarded any differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:48 AM
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You don't live in countries like that. Misogyny may be severe in the global south but in developed western countries it isn't. In western countries women enjoy all kinds of institutional advantages in professional, educational, and legal contexts that men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:43 AM
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What happens when women want to avoid men in professional or educational contexts? One party has got to go, who do you think it'll be? And why is it that when men abuse or assault women it's attributed to "misogyny", but when women do the same to men at comparable rates(1, 2) it's never attributed to "misandry"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:41 AM
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rare based take from a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:40 AM
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Fathers greet prom dates at the door with shotgun in hand This is a dumb overblown stereotype, if it ever does happen it's limited to conservative America. Using a gun to threaten people is literally a crime. That’s the message every single one of women’s fathers, grandfathers, brothers, and uncles gave women. A lot of dads feel uncomfortable with even the idea of their daughters having 100% consensual sex, dads are overprotective. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:39 AM
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i love you too <3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:28 AM
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now that i think of it i don't know any chinese people with wavy hair either except my mom and maybe my dad(???). it's not super wavy it's like gentle waves, mine is medium length you can easily tell from the look and feel of the back and sides. in reality i am 5'11" but i wear boots and lifts normally so i tell people I'm 6'1" and frankly I'm starting to believe it myself. delusionmaxxing is real. yeah northern chinese and south koreans are the tallest east asians and comparable to europeans. w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:25 AM
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im in an online cs bachelors program living with my dad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:23 AM
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yes, northwestern chinese to be specific. not a lot of us around these parts. nothing wrong with using "asian" to refer to east/southeast asians specifically, pajeets can cope. it's the opposite in the uk where they use "asian" to refer to ppl like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:12 AM
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🧔🏻‍♂️ 🍆 🍑👨🏾‍🦱
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:11 AM
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like all east asians damn i guess my asian card has been revoked 😔 i didn't realize that most asians had really straight hair until a few weeks ago. mine is wavy for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:09 AM
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did the hair naturally get darker with age. i heard it's common for blond people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:06 AM
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u/Ok_Bear976 bro u go to UofT? i heard people say the workload is pure ropefuel, is that true? my parents wanted me to go there or waterloo and i was like "hell no".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:05 AM
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what's your hair texture like. bone straight or wavy? if it's straight you won't be able to look like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:59 AM
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most people just say "dirty blonde" do u have a photo of ur old hair 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:58 AM
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imo the wrinkled skirt and slightly pudgy arms make it believable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:56 AM
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cringe sobercel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:56 AM
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alcoholic 100/10 and based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:55 AM
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you sound like one lol why is it to hard imagine that most women can enjoy attention from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:54 AM
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👨🏾‍🦱🍑🧂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:52 AM
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there is little that can be done to make bottom-of-the-barrel men ignore their deeply ingrained reproductive drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:49 AM
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unless she is fat and ugly 🗿
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:47 AM
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start drinking it helps me sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:44 AM
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best flirty emojis to use?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:44 AM
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5head/10
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:41 AM
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how can u tell
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:41 AM
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unfortunately most women are not mentally ill radfems like you lol. they like attention from men they find attractive and sometimes even attention from men they don't, depending on context.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:40 AM
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i think most non fat white girls are hot tbh also if you're an incel you should count lucky to land a "mid" girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:39 AM
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i thought u were a childless cat lady tf personally i try to keep my mom from meeting or interacting with my dad's new partner. easier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:37 AM
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some random photo from ylilauta(finnish 4chan)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:35 AM
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but she has narrow af hips could just be the angle. jfl bro is unironically stacy-only
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:34 AM
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🗿
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:33 AM
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no mindset will grow your leg bones or improve your face bones. no mindset will cure him of his mental disabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:27 AM
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i think he meant "blackpill"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:27 AM
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do you still keep in touch with him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:25 AM
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yeah i agree but maybe it's just the hair on one side being swept back. most foids have too big of a forehead for my taste but it's less noticeable if they don't pull their hair back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:21 AM
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she probably mogs you, volcel if you wouldn't. This lady can get on top of me naked and I wouldn’t get a boner. i doubt this has ever happened to you, how would you know how you'd react?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:19 AM
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over for standardcels
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:16 AM
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go to germany lol it's cheap and legal there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:15 AM
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wallahi this is the only acceptable way for women to dress in public <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:12 AM
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i <3 basic white girls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:11 AM
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why don't you smash your looksmatch first then we'll talk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:10 AM
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the vast majority of chicks dress like this at least sometimes lmao, especially when they're going out. bro is trying to hunt for unicorns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:09 AM
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its from ylilauta(finnish 4chan)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:08 AM
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me being a moid i was too distracted by the booba to notice much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:07 AM
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yeah, i can empathize with women being frustrated by endless sexual/romantic interest from their male "friends".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:06 AM
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not enough fat rolls for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:06 AM
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no woman is "wifey material", marriage is a scam for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:05 AM
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Her skirt is supposed to be short and hug her body, and yet it has flaps all over the place. Wrinkly. maybe it's just the style, or her posture Top doesn't show off the boobs as well as it could, they look too separated. imo it would look weird if they were pressed together, this is more natural looking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:04 AM
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really? these days it's pretty normal for girls to dress like this. and personally i don't mind sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:02 AM
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fr many of the ethnicels thought that white guys can't be truecels because they can just SEAmaxx also im looking at the old data and half of the respondents didn't consider themselves incels. interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:01 AM
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why do you think this one isn't flattering. to me it doesn't make her look fat or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:59 AM
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idk what you mean but i meant like "friends friends", if you're just acquaintances/hang out in the same social groups then it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:57 AM
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🍈🍈 it doesn't strike me as particularly trampy, like these days it's normal for girls dress like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:55 AM
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"ew my male 'friends' are disgusting they all want to fuck me 🤬" "women i befriend never view me as a sexual being 😔" in general it's not good for either sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:53 AM
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https://i.ylilauta.org/42/69/4269051ad11348a7.jpg rate her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:51 AM
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i remember posting several demographic surveys on braincels back in the day, something like half of the users there were non-white. pretty brutal racepill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:50 AM
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braincels was so funny lmao i miss it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:40 AM
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based. the sun is death for your skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:40 AM
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you forgot retinoids. they're by far the most effective anti-aging skincare product. use it consistently and avoid the sun, and you'll still have smooth skin into your 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:39 AM
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I think womens' obsession with tanning really screws them over as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:38 AM
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why didn't you take her up on that offer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:36 PM
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have you ever had a SB who became willing to date you without an allowance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:46 PM
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There's no other way of looking at LGBT rights and existence as anything but a neutral-to-good thing for society to tolerate. If your religion teaches that it's evil, or you simply don't like it, then there very much is. Whether LGBT rights/acceptance is a good thing or not is a value judgement, there is no such thing as a factually correct answer. We know liberal progressive Muslims have zero issues with LGBT education. They support it. Heck, there are even some queer Muslims in Canada. So we k…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:41 PM
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i think women are overrating this guys beauty but he still turbomogs short curries. obviously aesthetics still matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:36 AM
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There's a lot of virtue signaling about supporting "diversity" and "tolerance" in western countries but I think this is largely limited to superficial differences. Things like food, clothing, language, ceremonial aspects of religion, etc. But deeper cultural differences almost always cause problems. Things like views on family, the relationship between parents and children, the role of women, core religious beliefs, sexual morality, criminality, etc. A good example of this is the backlash agains…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:45 AM
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no this is rare based take from a woman. fuck math
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:38 AM
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still hit tho 💯🗿
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:23 AM
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ah yes black hair and brown eyes 😍 so exotic on a global scale it's basic af but in europe where the vast vast majority of people are white it kinda is. and their largest racial minority groups are middle eastern and black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:20 AM
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i think they're just interested in him because he's different and the don't see people like him. there's more to attraction than just beauty lmao. in countries where east asians are a significant minority like canada and the US, guys that are as good looking as him or better don't get treated like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:15 AM
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Yes! My point exactly! This post shows that you should never give a woman the security of marriage, because if she acts up like this you're stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:02 PM
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I was thinking moreso white person with asian fetish In the context of this guy most of the white european girls he features don't seem like koreaboos. They probably just don't see very many people like him and were interested. I wouldn't call it a fetish thing. I would like to see a good comparison between asian deep eyes vs shallow eyes Mine are moderately deep and I have a pretty prominent brow ridge, not chad hunter eyes deep but probably comparable to the average white guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:54 PM
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technically makes asian people stand out both negatively (some people think narrow eyes are ugly) or positive (asian look!) narrow eyes in of itself can be desirable but there are other asiatic traits that are generally considered undesirable, namely a lack of eyelid crease, extreme positive canthal tilt, and shallow eyes. either way somehow I have a hard time believing shallow eyes is that significant of a concern for his attractiveness😂 for women it's not a big ideal, for men it makes a big di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:37 PM
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by exotic i just mean standing out. hair color, eye color, and the lack of a nose bridge which I think are basically universal for us, are enough to do that. that doesn't mean standing out in any way is desirable, like many asians are short but i doubt being short would help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:26 PM
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She shouldn't have gotten married, she clearly wasn't ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:24 PM
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A married man with a vasectomy? Give me a break lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:04 PM
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Yep. What kind of man would want to spend the rest of his life fucking with rubbers on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:55 PM
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"we're just as intelligent as you teehee"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:49 PM
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This post shows that you should never give a woman the security of marriage, because if she acts up like this you're stuck. If you're not married(and ideally don't have kids) you could just kick that bitch to the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:48 PM
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they're overrepresented on FDS too, probably because they're salty that their men go for white chicks lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:22 PM
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women in asia don't really have other options asian women, and other women, here do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:20 PM
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Abortion Gun rights Affirmative Action Any or all, or any other issue you want really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:20 PM
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From the gals’ perspective, very rarely (if never) does someone’s character/worldviews not apply to or influence their choices and the outcomes. It's almost always irrelevant to a debate over any given subject. When you ignore someone’s character you end up with Trump and Elon Musk and then people saying stuff like “I never saw this coming 😦” when those people do batshit insane things. What does this have to do with debates......
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:13 PM
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no just pinned back to be normal when they used to stick out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:10 PM
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For example, Benedict Cumberbatch has been described as looking like an alien but that never stopped him from winning sexiest man alive awards. I will never understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:37 AM
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damn im not that pale time to michaeljacksonmaxx i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:19 AM
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bro has a weak jaw and shallow eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:16 AM
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how do u know his height tf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:05 AM
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Idk any asian guy that look korean has girls who are crazy about kpop approaching them. Exactly like the dude in the video. how did you witness this you said none of your classmates were like that? and you mean like the porcelain skin and the kinda childish/bowl looking haircut? because koreans don't have a unique facial structure compared to other asians afaik. if so then it's more of a style thing. but we have ton of asian (mostly chineses / viet). Really? that's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:01 AM
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bros skin is amazing and i think hes fairly tall, but he has shallow eyes(pretty typical for ricecels tbh) and a pretty weak jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:49 AM
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wdym "what is my deal"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:46 AM
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as if white people can tell between a korean and a chinese. hell, not even I can. also wdym koreans have higher smv than chinese in your country? because as i said we more or less look the same. is it because they have a better perception of the country korea than china?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:46 AM
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just lie about your ethnicity bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:43 AM
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https://youtu.be/EdoWYmz6p1s?t=1474 this mid korean dude has girls approaching him left and right in europe, it's insane. ricecels here can only dream of slaying like that. just be exotic theory confirmed. i have gyatt to get my ass over there 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:32 AM
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ew fat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:24 AM
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you're not gonna see anything on instagram that you don't see IRL lol, that's all im sayin
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:10 AM
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bro no offense her voice is so weird wtf do most of y'all talk like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:32 AM
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your possessions are not part of you lmao By your logic escorts are attracted to their clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:26 AM
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This adds to my point not yours Do you not understand what "average" means? That means around half of women have a HIGHER stated minimum height preference. And that's just the minimum, a guy who just barely meets that will still be way less desirable than a guy who significantly exceeds that. https://youtube.com/shorts/VDC5i67CNrk?si=-LepKBnxif6BHOYd How often are you shirtless. The youthful look only works on some guys, most guys are better off banking on rational masculinity I never said men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:18 AM
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don't try and play hero if you're not either jacked or packing heat lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:05 AM
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probably going through soy withdrawal or something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:04 AM
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Like what if your husband sucked his pal a few times, is that cheating? wtf why would that be cheating? thats just a platonic thing bros do for each other. What if they fued each other, is that cheating? if they said "no homo" and wore socks, again, it's purely platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:48 AM
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Once you hit average height, this becomes false King of manlets copium lmao. A 5'9" guy will always get heightmogged by a 6'+ guy and women notice. one speed dating study found that women on average state a minimum preferred height of 5'7" to 5'10" depending on her own height. What does this even mean It's over for uneducatedcels Most people recognise this. Not basic ass moids who think it's about being as masculine as possible. This is objectively false. Women like Men with muscle. They don't l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:41 AM
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any woman will be more attracted to the software dev. to his money not to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:24 AM
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He certainly doesn’t seem to care about things man here do, though, like n counts or if his gf wearing an outfit that shows off her boobs. good, lmao. time machines haven't been invented yet so there's no going back to the 1950s. men who obsess over those things are only shooting themselves in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:22 AM
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have you not tried minoxidil/finasteride?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:20 AM
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telling men to rely on money to attract women is leading them down the miserable path of betabuxxing. women will PAY for chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:18 AM
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It has been said that if a woman wants to tease a man, she can wear clothes that reveal her curves and skin This is literally the norm for young women now. Come summer like every other chick is wearing a cropped/backless top and booty shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:16 AM
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Too many parents either expect their kids to move out at 18 I'm pretty sure half of all people 18-29 in the US are living with their parents. And for those that don't that includes residential college students and college grads with decent jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:08 AM
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the vast majority of east asian guys do not look like kpop stars lmao. and i think people exaggerate how mainstream kpop is. and the fanbase is mostly teenage girls, that's playing with fire right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:06 AM
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For the college thing I meant while in college, not after. I see, but that's kinda shifting the goalposts from being able to pay for basic living expenses AND paying for an education(not to mention the time commitment of education, which can impact their ability to work full time). IMO working college students should definitely be living with their parents if they can. I'm actually in an online bachelors degree program right now, I think it's great and I hope they become more common because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:00 AM
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black guys have it far better than asian and indian guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:56 AM
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I think incels understand female attraction and the female gaze far better than most men, especially when it comes to younger women. Like incels widely recognize that: - height is king - skin is the vizier - a youthful looking face can still be attractive - lean/skinny guys are usually preferred over really muscular guys - money generally doesn't increase sexual attraction it only makes them see you as an ATM Whereas basic dudes think making themselves more desirable essentially boils down to "g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:54 AM
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volcel if you wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:34 AM
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what would a skimpy janitor outfit look like.......
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:31 AM
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bro can't even get one bitch and he's already bragging about how he's gonna get two. put down the crack pipe nigga.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:28 AM
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you could have been a bartender or a janitor or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:26 AM
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yeah thanks captain obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:25 AM
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Keep in mind that the lower the rent is, the further you’ll be from a city center and probably your work. You don't need to move to the city center for a minimum wage job lmao. People move there to look for high-paying jobs, minimum wage is the same everywhere in the state. You also need to factor in taxes (12% federal income tax+state income tax). Even the 30% guideline is for net pay, not gross pay. On top of that, the egregious price of medical care in the US is made even worse by the fact th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:24 AM
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big eyes are always ideal by asian standards unfortunately i only like white chicks (veteran difficulty)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:15 AM
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yeah but then he has to live in peru lmao. looksmax your way to a tall white girl and your son can be a castizo chadriguez in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:13 AM
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if you like asian chicks i got bad news for you, they have zero interest in black guys. even the ones that were born and raised here and are outwardly progressive. it's joever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:10 AM
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are you white looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:07 AM
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my mom always hyped up mine, i didn't really understand it until i got older and noticed how many other asians have funny looking eyes. prolly sounds weird to white people but my parents are like this too so im genuinely not used to that look. actually they used to be asymmetrical, but i got pink eye when i was 16 and the eye that was a lil chinky looking(i forgot which one) changed afterwards and had a prominent eye crease. one of the best things that ever happened to me lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:03 AM
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no y'all are basically like white people to me. many latinos are literally white and even the mestizo ones look whiter than other racial minorities. why the fuck are we the "white-adjacent" ones and not you it's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:59 AM
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east or southeast asian male the "cel" part comes from the fact that women here don't like us very much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:57 AM
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ew foid 🤢 do you have chinky eyes, like narrow with no eyelid crease?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:56 AM
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According to the Yahoo article you linked most recently, in almost every state I checked(the most populous + most expensive ones) with rough calculations, sharing an average rent 2bd with a roommate would be around 30% or less of annual income on minimum wage. With the exception of California where it was around 40%. Washington: 6000(half of 2bd annual rent)/28000(annual min wage salary) Florida: 6000/17000 Tennessee: 4500/15000 New York State: 6000/24000 California: 9000/24000 Texas: 5000/15000…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:53 AM
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if they don't mind me eating meat then nah, but i do eat way more than most people, most of my diet is meat. vegan chicks tend to be skinny/fit which i like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:36 AM
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30 years from now your son will be a KHHV manlet and end up posting on whatever incel forums exist then, hating you and blaming you for throwing away your height genes by marrying a foidlet. Don't do it bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:34 AM
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i missed out on high school and college because i dropped out at 15 and am doing an online bachelors. but i don't regret it for the most part, because of all the free time i have and had.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:32 AM
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are there any other ricecels here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:31 AM
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It takes 3-4 people working full time at minimum wage to be able to afford to rent a 2 bedroom in most states (as per several of the sources I linked). Which one? As many people here on PPD will tell you, the partner option is not an easy solution. Depends on if you're a man or a woman tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:25 AM
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Studio, roommates, partner, or parents. Also for someone making minimum wage, the 30% rule they're using is overly conservative. 30% is supposed to be a general rule of thumb, if you're earnings are literally at the bottom of the ladder then there's nothing wrong with spending more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:59 AM
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Source for all of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:06 AM
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why should an able bodied, single person working fulltime be a tax burden? Because they're paying far less in taxes than they're costing. Even without cash welfare or food stamps, they still cost the government and society in other ways. Most government spending isn't on those things. that’s essentially throwing a subsidy to their employer. No, it's realizing that you can only take so much from someone making 20-30k a year. Even with a flat percentage based income tax(which is a bad idea IMO) th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:05 AM
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IMO social welfare should be structured so that clawbacks aren't as severe the more you earn. People working minimum wage full time should still get a little bit. This way it incentivizes people to work and earn more instead of being dependent on welfare. If you're reducing social welfare by 50 cents for every dollar they earn, that would be a huge incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:02 AM
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bro is winning in life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:56 AM
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with the dresses they wear it's not too far off imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:54 AM
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if you work full time, you should be able to support your own ass and pay some taxes. Nah, if they're not making much it would be like trying to squeeze blood from a stone. Unless you have a poll tax, some citizens are going to be net tax payers and some are going to net tax burdens. It is the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:53 AM
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Nobody is entitled to comfort but you're against making others comfortable because you would be less comfortable? But you aren't entitled to that? Never said I was, I'm not the one arguing for others to provide me with a comfortable life. I'm arguing against high minimum wage policies that indirectly FORCE me to pay more for goods and services.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:16 AM
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single parents should be getting child support from their exes. and frankly if you can't afford to raise a child you shouldn't have kept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:15 AM
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In 2023, a full-time worker needs to earn an hourly wage of $28.58 on average to afford a modest, two-bedroom rental home in the U.S. why the fuck would one person need to live in a two bedroom home by themselves. or even a one bedroom for that matter, studio apartments and living with roommates exists, you're not going to die doing it. that's how most college students live. living alone is frankly an anomaly, most people in the past and even today live with family or a partner. you could probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:13 AM
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i was talking about your first comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:05 AM
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"Enough to pay for essential needs without government assistance" is a fair benchmark, sure. Where I live(Ontario, Canada) though minimum wage is 16.55, and I think it's above $10 where most Americans live, so people earning minimum wage wouldn't be eligible for much social welfare. I do actually dislike how social welfare is implemented because of the severe clawbacks, which discourages recipients from working and earning more. the negative income tax friedman proposed is a better idea IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:03 AM
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I was trying to do low carb but I eventually gave up Why? It is too much effort to weigh ingredients. You don't need to weigh ingredients for low carb, if anything calorie counting is less important. and even if you aren't doing low carb it's better to eat a lot of vegetables instead of frozen processed foods because at least they are less calorically dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:00 AM
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profit margins for grocery stores and restaurants are incredibly low. especially restaurants, i think most restaurants that are opened end up closing in a few years because of how competitive it is. blaming "the rich" is not the answer to everything, chapocel. for the most part we don't live in a cartoonish fantasy world where companies charge whatever they feel like, and can absorb unlimited costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:57 AM
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maybe it's just the foids idk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:56 AM
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eating a carb heavy diet like you are is the worst way to lose fat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:55 AM
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their comfort comes at the expense of mine in the form of higher prices, dingus
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:54 AM
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Plus drug addicts and sex workers often run in the same circles. They have a lot in common. I imagine the venn diagram of "female drug addicts" and "sex workers" has a sizeable overlap. Additionally heroin addicts really don't give a shit about anything. More than any other type of addict. Are you speaking from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:48 AM
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this takes the cake for goyslop diet lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:45 AM
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大盘鸡
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:44 AM
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I find it weird how western people hug so much, like even just friends hug all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:43 AM
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Sure. that's fair, but the minimum wage where I live(Ontario, Canada) has outstripped inflation by far. The minimum wage from '94 adjusted for inflation would be $12 an hour today but in reality it's $16.55. I hate how expensive eating out is because of that now. And these leftists arguing for a $20+ minimum wage are smoking crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:42 AM
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yeah but that's really scraping the bottom of the barrel lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:38 AM
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I'm against policies that make life more expensive for the majority, and the idea that you're entitled to a comfortable standard of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:37 AM
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I used to work at a strip club as a stripper?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:26 AM
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fakecel if you don't do 10 000 cold approaches a day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:26 AM
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what do you mean by "quality bf"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:25 AM
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Can you link the study in question?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:25 AM
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what makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:24 AM
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I swear to god "living wage" is the most retarded buzzword ever. People making minimum wage in developed, western, countries are not starving to death or dying from exposure so they have enough to live. When leftoids say "living wage" they're just referring to some arbitrary standard of living that they think everyone should be entitled to. I've seen people argue that $25 an hour is the "living wage" in big cities because that's how much you need to rent your own place, as if living with roommat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:23 AM
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how have you tried to get with chicks? and have you actually failed every single time?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:14 AM
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send chicks bait and switch videos with gay black men twerking, its like a cheat code frfr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:12 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:11 AM
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bro better get a cut of the $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:08 AM
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Most women's height standards go way beyond "he just has to be taller than me"......
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:07 AM
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are you paying child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:05 AM
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u/FunEducation1434 have you even tried pursuing women at all, whether through dating apps or in person? lazycel is fakecel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:03 AM
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fuck you tard i just ate and this is the first thing i see when i come back?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:01 AM
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Make good money, but see none of it. Wait, are you paying child support? While you're the one taking care of them most of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:23 PM
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Once you go bidet you never go back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:16 PM
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I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:15 PM
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Do you guys think sex workers have a difficult time finding guys who aren't jealous and willing to date them seriously? Asking for a friend 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:13 PM
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For men, height is mild preference. For women, it's a strong preference or a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:07 PM
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for example, the military straight up have classes imploring new boots to not rush into marriage Privates on their way to marry the first stripper they meet to get out the barracks: This wouldn't be as big of a problem if the military didn't provide better housing to married guys lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:05 PM
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They could even be forced to initiate. Oh, the travesty!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:03 PM
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based and homopilled
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:01 PM
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You have a point but the women and their white knights here are guilty of this far more often. "Well I know a _____ guy who slayed" "Yeah but my boyfriend isn't _____" "Go outside and look around statistics don't matter!" Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:41 PM
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only men who are struggling would turn to AI gfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:25 PM
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More likely that those men wanted a real girlfriend but kept getting rejected because they were too short or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:20 PM
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Well are those for the same aspect(height, eye area, hair, etc.) or just different guys talking about different aspects? Because if not they would only conflict in their assessments of what women value the most, not what they prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:03 PM
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they metabolize and maintain homeostasis within their niche Can't say I've ever heard of a sperm cell or ovum doing this lmao. Neither source you linked indicates that gametes are considered organisms, if it was really a widely accepted fact then you would be able to find something saying this to that effect. And this contradicts the brief by a dozen biologists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:47 PM
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What's your basis for claiming that human gametes are individual, human, organisms? Sounds like you pulled that out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:34 AM
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I don't care about your anecdotes, nor should anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:53 AM
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most literate woman be like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:52 AM
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Individuation may not be clear cut for all organisms but for humans it is, according to the consensus outlined above. I trust a letter signed by dozens of confirmed biologists(as in they have PhDs and work primarily in academia) over the word of a redditor that's likely politically biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:51 AM
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the vast majority of women aren't ugly enough to say shit like that and that includes you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:44 AM
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it's a fair point though. why are you playing the "woe is me im so ugly" game if you have a fiance. what do you look like anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:39 AM
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Do you frequently have arguments with yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:38 AM
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honestly i skipped that by dropping out of high school and doing online university. i wouldn't give up all the free time i have anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:35 AM
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This is how we know you're wrong lmao. But this is probably the worst and most cringeworthy way to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:31 AM
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that states that most of the biologists they know Most biologists polled by various surveys. Also (drumroll) I’m a biologist. I have a piece of paper to prove it and everything If you're arguing that an ovum is an organism then your degree should be revoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:30 AM
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oldest men + youngest women: around 40% youngest men + youngest women: around 40% oldest women + youngest men: around 12% oldest women + oldest men: around 17% You: "um akshually men and women both contribute equally to age-related fertility decline" 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:27 AM
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God, no wonder women are underrepresented in STEM. This is peak "girl math" lmao. You do realize this doesn’t refute anything i said? A less than 20% LBR is terrible. It is only that low because both the male and female’s fertility is in the dumps. It's pretty good when older men are trying to conceive with women <35, as good as younger men. It's dogshit when older women are trying to conceive with younger men. The numbers are literally right in front of you. you’re trying to isolate male fertil…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:21 AM
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It's possible but incredibly difficult. Menopause merely marks the point where it becomes literally impossible, but in the years prior to that female fertility has already hit rock bottom. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16z4wtb/daily_community_chat_megathread/k3dy8va/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:12 AM
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is being "beta-widowed" a thing 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:01 AM
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Holy shit, please put down the crack pipe lmao. the study says that paternal age doesn’t have as much of an effect on live birth rate when a man is conceiving with a women younger than 35. Or older than 40. You're leaving that part out. "Similar trend was observed in women aged 40-44 years: LBRs were 12.3%, 11.9%, and 17.4% in men aged <35, 40-44, and >55 year, respectively" And with women aged 35-39 the decline in male fertility quite small, 32.8% for men <35, to 25% to men >55. Whereas it's vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:54 AM
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I've read it and I do. It says saying that when controlling for maternal age, live birth rates for IVF procedures generally don't decrease with advanced paternal age into the early 50s, except for a very modest decrease for women aged 35-40. So men's ability to conceive a child does not decrease significantly with age. Do YOU understand what it means? If so, please enlighten us 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:34 AM
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Then you will be an incel unless you lower your standards. We will see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:26 AM
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However, in the subgroups of women <35 years, the LBRs were no different whether men were of < 35 (41.3%), 40-45 (40.8%) or > 55 (41.7%) years. Similar trend was observed in women aged 40-44 years: LBRs were 12.3%, 11.9%, and 17.4% in men aged <35, 40-44, and >55 year, respectively. Only in women aged 35-40 years, LBRs dropped from 32.8% in men aged <35 years down to 27.9% (p = 0.004), 28.1% (p = 0.04), 28.7% (p = 0.33) and 25% (p = 0.22) in 40-44, 45-50, 51-55 and >55 years, respectively. The f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:24 AM
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just because a guy doesn't approach doesn't mean he'd reject an approach from the girl. maybe he just doesn't have the confidence/bravery, maybe he doesn't want to risk making things awkward, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:09 AM
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ask your mom all about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:08 AM
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women stop ovulating around the time of menopause which is often later in life, and around the same age when men’s sperm volume, fertility, and ability to conceive naturally, hits a major dud. Men may become somewhat less fertile with age but women become less fertile by orders of magnitude. You're comparing apples and oranges. Most men in their 40s can still conceive relatively easily, the same can't be said for their female counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:07 AM
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unfortunately i am stacysexual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:03 AM
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Guys "reject" women by not approaching them in the first place. woman-tier IQ lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:03 AM
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you're the one bragging about sex with your "chad boyfriend" to a bunch of internet autists. pot meet kettle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:02 AM
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I always felt the same way, like you can't call yourself an incel if you haven't even tried but IME most incels have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:02 AM
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If I started searching for an intimate relationship, could I get one within approx ~6 months If I lowered my standards significantly, then almost certainly. Otherwise, I don't know. So go out there and spend half a year trying to find intimacy I don't think I will until I can move away from here. It's brutal for ricecels in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:00 AM
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ITcel cope https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2Fdwx2c3c33bk21.jpg incel = "involuntarily celibate"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:44 AM
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Is someone an incel if they've never had sex or a relationship because they haven't been around girls since they were 11? This person started going to all boys school at that age, dropped out of school completely when they were 15 to chill and do basically nothing for a few years(mostly gaming), and started an online bachelor's degree program when he was 20. Asking for a friend 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:38 AM
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cringe r/ihavesex moment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:35 AM
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Latin America is still quite socially conservative, even if there are few or no legal restrictions on women's sexual freedoms, there is still social conditioning and expectations by family and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:33 AM
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Some states legalized it earlier and seven years is plenty of time to see divorce rates. And the US is not the only country in the world https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce\_of\_same-sex\_couples Data from both the Netherlands and UK indicate that lesbian couples are far more likely to get divorced than heterosexual or gay male couples. So whatever the most common reasons for divorce between two women are, division of household labor is a lot less likely to be one of them. Maybe women aren't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:31 AM
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Funny, considering that we all live in a world where the majority of men who end up getting married, fucking and having children are NOT tall men. Women in most of the world don't have much sexual freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:12 AM
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And women consistently spend more time on domestic duties even when they outearn their husbands. Where are you getting this from? And even if that was true, why focus on the situation in a minority of marriages? The vast majority of women do not outearn their husbands. I’m totally okay with the fact that lesbians are more likely to divorce. You're missing the point. You blamed men for heterosexual divorce rates on the alleged basis that they don't do enough, but lesbian marriages are even MORE l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:55 AM
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That’s a legal brief which worst even try to establish ‘scientific fact.’ It's a brief by biologists for a legal context. Subject area experts provide information in legal cases all the time. but an ovum is a new, living, genetically unique, 1n human organism. No, it isn't. It's just one of the mother's cells, it's not a new individual human organism. If you had read the brief and listened to the experts you would have understood this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:52 AM
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They basically just didn’t want to lose out on having a live in maid who paid half the rent. Sorry to hear that. Most husbands significantly outearn their wives even in childless marriages. I have never had to ask my wife to do her fair share around the house. Good for you. Lesbian marriages are still far more likely to end in divorce than heterosexual or gay male marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:25 AM
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I don't want to go in circles with someone who doesn't read. Nah, unless you actually want the casual side and don’t mind it, having sex with him is not going to benefit you. This is the last time I will say this. Wanting to have sex with a man and wanting a relationship with him are not mutually exclusive. If he rejects a woman for a relationship but not for sex she could still be getting one of the things she wanted, so she's still benefitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:23 AM
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In the real life I’ve only ever encountered the “tit for tat” man maybe once?" What do you mean by this? Is getting a wife that doesn’t have sex with you a better result than being single? Men don't have crystal balls and as I said many of them lack the social intelligence to tell when a woman they're dating isn't that attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:04 AM
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because she likes him and likes sex? how is this hard to understand lmao. What’s the benefit of continuing to fuck someone that has no interest in you? not being interested in a committed monogamous relationship with her doesn't mean he has "no interest". If you can just go get a different person to do it? how many times do i have say this, women don't have to pick just one they can have a buffet of chads if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:03 AM
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Women don’t benefit from it, unless they only wanted the causal sex. If she keeps having sex with him after he rejects her then she’s not benefiting at all. Then your understanding of "benefit" is very different from most peoples'. You can be denied what you want the most and still get something you like/want. This shouldn't be hard to understand. She can go find another chad to have sex with. If she's not in an exclusive relationship yet then she doesn't have to limit herself to just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:57 AM
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Your view is probably skewed by spending too much time around manosphere-around men. IMO most men are ignorant, too ignorant for their own good, and should be more discerning when it comes to evaluating how genuine a woman's interest is. Then you get a bitter guy who snatched defeat from the jaws of victory because he got self-conscious that the woman he’s seeing made him wait four dates instead of three. As I said, how long she makes you wait is just one factor, it shouldn't be considered the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:54 AM
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Those ova are not individual human organisms. An individual human organism comes into existence at fertilization. A human fetus or embryo are individual human organisms, and the living offspring of its mother. As dozens of neutral biologists explained to the Supreme Court during Dobbs, this is a scientific fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:44 AM
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I never saw anything in the original comment asking that, he was arguing that it's wrong to say that women don't benefit just because they don't get the relationship they wanted the most, which I agree with. Why should this woman go on having sex with a man who doesn’t want her? She can do what she wants. Many of them enjoy it, even if they don't get what they want the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:42 AM
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men that like you will want to treat you To me, the mere act of offering is a green flag. Like even if they weren’t paying for dates, men still get mad when you don’t put out. Sure, I understand that it can happen. And I'm not saying that making a guy wait in of itself is a sure indicator that a woman's looking for a BB. But it's one factor to consider in evaluating interest, and arguably a fairly reliable one since most women these days don't seem to be averse to casual sex or having sex early …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:39 AM
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I'm aware of that subreddit, it seems to be a refuge of sorts for short guys who feel that r/short has become too repressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:34 AM
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So he wants more than sex from her? Because casual sex partners don’t hangout or do anything that might be blurring the lines into friendship. I think it's a lot messier than you're making it out to be. How many casual sexual relationships do you see where literally all they do is meet, have sex, and split, "wham bam thank you ma'am/sir". It's very difficult to completely divorce intercourse from emotions and attachment. The physical act itself literally causing the release of bonding hormones l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:33 AM
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They're her offspring, therefore her children in the sense of familial relations. You're an adult but you're still your parents' child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:28 AM
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If men are not filing nearly as often, then it’s reasonable to conclude that a higher percentage of them are okay with how things are going. That may be one reason. Another possible reason being that men have more to lose from divorce, mainly access to their kids and money. I’ve been married twice before, plus one additional long term relationship, and all three were men. All three were Pikachu shocked when I told them I was leaving, despite the fact that I had communicated with all of them ad n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:27 AM
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she might very well be under the legal BAC limit with two glasses of wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:24 AM
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If she was not doing all these things you need in a relationship to be happy and making you feel like shit why are you with her?!!?? I was responding to this part, you asking why men in BB relationships stay in them. Also sometimes they don't realize the lack of attraction, the wife is just giving excuses to avoid sex like "I'm depressed" or "I have a headache" or whatever, and he buys it. Making assumptions for the few women that do show interest I think it's fairly easy to tell based on things…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:23 AM
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That doesn't matter, you're a narcissist if the only thing you value is being special to a man. If she finds him attractive and enjoyed banging and hanging out with him then she benefitted from the casual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:16 AM
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also true, men are conditioned into believing that they should be providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:15 AM
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internet janitors(reddit moderators)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:14 AM
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i stg my dad is the chad that women divorce their bb husbands for. he is in a relationship with a really divorced woman who doesn't work at all, she must have gotten her wealth from her ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:09 AM
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unironically driving while mildly intoxicated is not that dangerous the vast majority of drunk driver crashes are caused by drivers with 0.15+ BAC. this was brought to you by drunk driver gang.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:07 AM
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It depends on if she liked/enjoyed the casual sex. If say I entered a raffle for a new RTX 4070 and ended up with the second place prize of an AIO cooler or something I'd still be happy. Grown ups that we don't always get everything we want in life, and it's important to appreciate the consolation prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:06 AM
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For many men the only alternative to BB is a lifetime of celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:02 AM
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r/short is such a toxically positive environment. Jannies crack down hard on any discussion of women's preferences, and the simps and women are always there to spout dumb and baseless platitudes like "plenty of women don't care" or "you'll find someone eventually", or even worse gaslighting the poor manlets into thinking that it's THEIR fault ("you're insecure, you're entitled, you're misogynistic teehee"). You NEVER this in subreddits for women with less desirable body types such as r/tallgirls…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:01 AM
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Why even bother debating if you're just going to spout low-effort garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:52 PM
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It might be a good way to get the ball rolling if men could support other men similarly. They do. I do. Women don't care, most of them are cruel by nature towards men they don't find attractive. Talking to a brick wall would be more productive than trying to get women to stop mocking manlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:49 PM
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She's one of the most hateful and toxic users here, she deserves it and much worse frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:36 PM
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Also, lame as it sounds, “short king” reaching the public lexicon This is mostly manlets coping or other guys trying to boost them up. Women have almost no empathy or sympathy for any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:34 PM
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you also find attractive Maybe you swing that way, nothing wrong with that. Personally, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:31 PM
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Most women who have abortions don't feel guilty or sad about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:02 PM
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All research done on this topic indicates that women are less interested in sex generally, and casual sex specifically, than men are. The vast majority of men and women here would probably agree with that assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:00 PM
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Its so funny how almost all women always know a victim or are one themselves Have you spoken to almost all women? This is why I'm asking for polling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:00 PM
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You're just vomiting statistics at this point, the only one that would be relevant to the topic is the " 38% of the students were harassed by teachers or school employees." And even that one is wrong, from the study, 38% is the proportion of students that were aware of sexual harassment by teachers (which is defined broadly and highly subject to personal interpretation). For the proportion that personally reported being harassed by teacher, it was 7% for nonphysical harassment for both sexes. Fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:52 PM
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Most women would sleep with an average guy who actually shows her a good time and makes her feel special and sexy. Lots of average men would rather bitch and complain than learn to do the above. The average to above average men shut the fuck up and just date women. Then your original point is moot, in reality it's not easy to get laid as an average guy just by doing those things because she has to be interested in you first. That's mostly based on appearance and women are pretty selective in tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:37 PM
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You don’t usually file for divorce if you think you’re the problem. Virtually no one thinks that they're the problem in marital conflicts, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:33 PM
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Not for women who have abortions apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:32 PM
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I was talking about the consequences for the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:29 PM
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https://issuu.com/hollaback/docs/hollaback_resultsusa The researcher notes in the "procedures" page that the surveys were distributed by leaders of the organization "Hollaback!", an anti-street harassment organization. She explicitly that it cannot be generalized to a country broadly. She further notes on page 12 that 63% have visited "Hollaback!" online, so this is a highly skewed sample. Also, how much of that was from men significantly older than them, and not boys their age or a few years ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:29 PM
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I watch mom bloggers sometimes and can't say I've ever seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:19 PM
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Obviously it’s not sexual harassment to approach and saying that undermines all of the real victims who don’t get taken seriously because of men like you. If your approach is so intense that you're trying to make her feel "special" and "sexy", as you said, then it would almost be universally labelled as creepy (if she doesn't find you attractive). Most approaches aren't that intense. If you think hitting on someone with a compliment falls under that label, well those are dime a dozen. Women get …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:18 PM
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Women who claim that most of you get sexual attention from grown men from a very young age, do you have any evidence other than anecdotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:12 PM
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Sexual interest is always valuable if it comes from people you also find attractive. And even if doesn't, it can be valuable if it can be leveraged into money or something else of value. You see this in the form of women making good money through stripping, prostitution, sometimes OF. Gold-digging. Etc. Hell, even men buying you drinks at a bar is nice, costs an arm and a leg these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:08 PM
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Most women would sleep with an average guy who actually shows her a good time and makes her feel special and sexy. To show women a "good time" she has to first agree to a date. To make a woman feel "special and sexy" she has to be interested in the first place. Women usually don't value attention from men they don't find attractive to begin with, it's usually referred to as "sexual harassment".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:48 PM
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if they're actively pursuing abusive women then yeah it's kinda on them. i'd still feel bad for them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:45 PM
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Women too apparently.... <image> From the Netherlands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:43 PM
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I highly doubt that ethnic groups violent enough to commit genocide would be that egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:40 PM
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Female sexuality was generally severely restricted since the start of written history until the sexual revolution. So understandably, women expressing their natural sexual/reproductive behaviors does seem like a "new" phenomenon to many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:37 PM
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I don't think older single mothers are exactly swimming in options, or at least attractive options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:33 PM
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Women are way less likely to blow their brains out They are more likely to "attempt" suicide. Of course, the sincerity of those attempts is anyone's guess. commit familycide Depends on if one's unborn children are considered family. get into a screaming tantrum at a fast food worker or a health care worker I'm not so sure about this one, how would you know? Regardless, these are all extreme examples, that's like saying the Hong Kong is wealthier than Norway because there are more billionaires pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:29 PM
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Unless you’re suggesting several countries openly support and consider themselves practitioners of murder. Im pretty sure none of them do. "Murder" is usually undefined as the unjustified or unlawful killing of a human. There are situations where killing humans is considered justified and/or lawful. Clearly pro-choice countries and individuals that have adopted that view with regards to abortion. But it's a fact that abortion involves the killing of a human individual. This is not a scientific q…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:25 PM
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This is a non-argument because "consequences" are largely decided by society, and the controversy is what those "consequences" should be. Many red states have decided that requiring women gestate unwanted fetuses until birth should be a "consequence" of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:20 PM
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Average Cost of raising a child a year in US: estimated $16,005 per year. Child support should be based on the minimum cost to raise a child, not the average cost. Average child support payment in US per year (this includes women as well as men paying): $5,150 This includes parents who share parenting time, even those with 50/50 parenting time, some child support is still often ordered because one makes more than the other. For cases where one parent(usually the father) spends little/no time wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:18 PM
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there are exceptions to every rule, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:07 PM
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"I have told I'm not ready to settle down and I am dating others and got a few other FWBs, but she said she's willing to wait." If he is telling the truth here, then no one is being "strung along", he made it crystal clear what's going on and she is choosing to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:24 PM
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🧱🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:22 PM
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how old is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:20 PM
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am sure they had trouble organizing that, if they even could, depending on where they live. Cost was involved, days taken of work or school as well as pain and potentially a surgical abortion if the fetal matter doesn’t pass by it self. Again, all of this is peanuts compared to the burden of raising a children. Abortion, where it's still legal at least, is generally widely accessible. Onerous barriers to abortion access were limited to red states that wanted to ban abortion but couldn't because …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:19 PM
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um hello? cringe department?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:15 PM
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Imagine having standards of “kind, empathetic and not fat”, being the beta buxx that earns $300k per year and pays for everything for his post CC riding gf then complaining about women having it easy. where are you getting all this from? u/throwaway164_3 how much of this is true lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:14 PM
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This is how the vast majority of women who have had abortions felt about it, according to opinion polling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:07 PM
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If you honestly believe that the correct solution is to ban abortion then I just have no idea what you're even talking about. I didn't say this, I'm just pointing out that when abortion is banned or severely restricted, reproductive rights are more or less equal between men and women. It's not "impossible" as you said it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:05 PM
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Most abortions these days usually involve just swallowing a pill and expelling or reabsorbing the fetal tissue. Even more invasive abortions are nothing compared to the burden of raising a child. That's why abortions are so popular for unwanted pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:04 PM
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Notice you how didn’t quote “no real argument” lol You replied with a gif....... You can’t possibly want a civil conversation with your OP and how you’re replying to everyone under it. You started this conversation off by insulting our "coomer brains"...... I’m suggesting they use the countless options that idk isn’t a cumming into a baby making cervix. There are plenty of options other than abortion for women who don't want kids, that doesn't stop people like you from advocating for abortion ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:02 PM
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single mothers with children are the biggest beneficiaries of social welfare programs by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:52 PM
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abortion depends on your perspective. for the woman it's certainly no great burden. there is massive demand to adopt newborns, they won't end up in foster care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:51 PM
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Isn’t this the infamous “ad hom” Reddit dweebs bring up 24/7 No, that would be you. You’ve done it twice now with the no real argument “you’re a GOPer” retorts. I was making a comparison between your rhetoric and social conservative rhetoric which I would bet money that you disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:50 PM
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You're starting to sound more and more like hardcore social conservatives, they're quite fond of calling women sluts for having sex without wanting to be a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:45 PM
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Men simply don’t have the same level of responsibilities……and the only thing they do have, that little tiny sliver of financial responsibility It's not a "little tiny sliver" you clown, child support is easily a quarter or more of your take home pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:44 PM
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what makes you figure that? an abortion, or putting it up for adoption, does not derail your life and burden you for 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:42 PM
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She will say she is feminist for women and non feminist for men I guess. ah, classic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:37 PM
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Then maybe women shouldn't insist on keeping a child if the father doesn't want anything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:37 PM
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https://www.supremecourt.gov/DocketPDF/19/19-1392/185346/20210729162737297_19-1392%20BRIEF%20OF%20BIOLOGISTS%20AS%20AMICI%20CURIAE%20IN%20SUPPORT%20OF%20NEITHER%20PARTY.pdf "Human" is generally understood to refer to an individual of our species, and by that definition a human fetus is a human. An neutral informative brief submitted by dozens of biologists during the Dobbs deliberation confirms as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:20 PM
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many guys have said that women are quite malleable if they're attracted to you and respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:12 PM
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Can you indicate where I have ever criticized childfree women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:11 PM
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So I guess we’re at an impasse there. No, we're not. This isn't a question of moral values and preferences, this is a [scientific fact.](So I guess we’re at an impasse there.) Because in the abortion situation there is no child that comes to be and has needs and requirements The child has needs in part because she chose to keep it, as opposed to having an abortion or giving it up for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:09 PM
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zero argument as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:44 AM
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Abortion is essentially the abdication of a potential occurrence. An individual human's life begins at fertilization. One is a refusal to allow a certain situation to manifest, the other is a refusal to engage with a situation that has manifested, they are not equal at all. Both involve avoiding parental responsibilities after a child has already been conceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:44 AM
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Look man, there is no reasonably fair way to grant men the same rights as women in when it comes to responsibility for pregnancy. Frankly this has happened in states that have banned or severely restricted abortion. What's so unfair if the mother KNOWS that he won't stick around and will avoid child support, and still decides to keep it? Your whole argument boils down to "women can choose to not have a baby, so I should be able to choose to not support a baby" Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:42 AM
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wtf how old is she I'd probably consider wifing her. bro.........
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:37 AM
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"don't have sex if you don't want to have a child" starting to sound a lot like the GOP there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:37 AM
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It's the same in the sense that she can opt out as well but consciously not to, and to become a parent with an unwilling co-parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:36 AM
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Yeah I noticed that too from the trailers and clips, there were no fat or even pudgy kens lol, they were all quite fit. She simply doesn’t understand how or why i struggled with dating when young since it was so “easy” for her. If I were you I wouldn't try too hard to make her understand this, might end up undermining her attraction towards you. It is what it is. Other things are fair game though, if it doesn't paint you as undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:20 AM
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Abandoning a baby will cause it to die, so of course you can't do that. Denying a baby tangible help will cause that baby harm, so of course you can't do that. The mother can choose to abort it or give it up for adoption. If she doesn't, then at that point how is it any different than a single person adopting a child or having a child via sperm donation/surrogacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:18 AM
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The fact women can abort is irrelevant. That’s a fundamental difference borne of biology. Abortion is of course biologically possible, but societies permitting it is not a-given.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:17 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dUD3V1TA1YY daily reality check for short gymcels
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:04 AM
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the best part is that they're not even considered fully domesticated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:51 AM
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It costs a couple hundred dollars a year to freeze your sperm and there is always a chance of something happening. He would be placing a lot of trust in the storage facility. I have actually considered that personally but only because I don't really want kids, so it would just be a contingency plan on the off chance that I change my mind. And I don't feel the need to have a contingency plan for the contingency plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:50 AM
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My current gf (not really official but she wants to be). If you're calling her that sounds like you already are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:43 AM
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and never signed up on online dating, went to parties, hooked up with guys. Well, as far as you know she hasn't.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:43 AM
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Cats are by far the most based animal, dog lovers can cope. While almighty man exploits countless other animals for food or labor, cats have somehow tricked man into being subservient to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:41 AM
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I’m joking lol. I'm not 🥩
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:37 AM
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There's absolutely no reason to believe that humans evolved a behavioral drive to want children, it would have been unnecessary. For the vast majority of human existence reproduction was the merely the result of the human(mostly male) sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:34 AM
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aw is it that time of the month again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:30 AM
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"milady" i can smell your fucking stench from my keyboard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:29 AM
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LARP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:25 AM
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Vasectomies are often not reversible, they should be regarded as a permanent sterilization procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:19 AM
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In general, it seems they're better at it. How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:15 AM
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But eventually, after sex, you stop being an entertainer and start being yourself. And she leaves. This is perfectly acceptable to many guys. TRP advice is primarily catered towards short-term sexual success. You're just arguing past them if you're claiming that their strategies won't result in a lasting relationship. but as a fat old guy I shouldn't be surprised, no wonder you're so out of touch. Well there are studies, like one in particular I remember where women started with a 'perfect' look…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:04 AM
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Compared to men, women are more interested in relationships and less interested in casual sex. Therefore women are far less likely than men to sleep with someone without being interested in a relationship with them. When women gatekeep relationships from a man they're usually gatekeeping sex as well. In this case I was talking about men gatekeeping relationships from women they're sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:15 AM
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behavioral drives that have evolved over millions of years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:22 AM
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by default they mate with whoever the dominant male in their group is. they're not "choosing" any more than you "choose" to breathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:15 AM
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Not busting your ass to make money makes a man a bad person? I doubt you would say the same thing about a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:14 AM
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frat bros there's your answer. honestly frats exist to help their members get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:29 AM
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they're not doing any "selecting", males fight each other for the position and the female mate with whoever that male is right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:10 AM
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Bullshit. Off the top of my head, lionesses and most female great apes do not behave this way. They mate with the dominant breeding male in their group, and males fight one another for that position. There is little to no selection on the part of the females.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:00 AM
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Both sexes are treated differently by the opposite sex based on their appearance. Attractive men merely getting more interest and attention from women is an example of them being treated differently. But the phenomenon men here talk about is especially undesirable for us, which is being selected primarily for your ability/willingness to provide as opposed to attraction. Few people like being treated as a human ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:57 PM
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Being the "hookup guy" doesn't mean she wouldn't want a relationship with him. Men, especially very desirable men, often gatekeep relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:54 PM
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Do you think it's a stretch to say that men want to have sex fast?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:52 PM
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Men pine after and obsess over women they claim to hate (ig/of, high body count, single moms) while neglecting/resenting/minimizing their wives and girlfriends. Men and women initiate breakups of non-marital relationships at similar rates. And women are very likely to divorce even when marrying other women, men are not the common denominator here, women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:51 PM
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this is a really overbroad and inaccurate generalization, reproductive behaviors vary a lot between different animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:36 PM
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least narcissistic woman be like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:36 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/Xzz4zDMdm7U?si=3HOFhGl8hRT7lSUo the wall hit momma like a truck RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:18 PM
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