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Hobbies and your mission, to some, are the path to better manhood. That's off topic and covered extensively elsewhere, though. Talk with people to have fun. When it's not fun anymore, go back to your friends, or try to inject some enthusiasm into the conversation. You're in control. You choose when you leave to convo, if you leave it. If it's a babe, say anything you feel like and don't worry about it. You're you. You're the prize. You're there for fun, and if she's no fun, you're not there for …
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:40 PM
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Oh okay. Well, first, I'd like to know more about you. Age, hobby, in school?
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:30 PM
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Don't think about her while you're there. Don't think about her the day before. Think about girls. Plural. If you want. But, you go to parties to have fun. Make that your focus. Any girl you bump into will pick up on that and might want to play along.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:22 PM
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Don't go there for the girl
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:01 PM
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That was the underlying point I was getting at. Thank you for putting it out in the open. Perhaps next time try adding some insight for the OP. Like this: OP, I would warn against trying to attain the perfect bod for someone else. You will find yourself struggling with the external motivation. Instead, look internally for motivation. Which body type do you prefer? What do you want to change? Knowing this will help you in your efforts to attain that body. Do it for yourself.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 09:30 PM
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Some women prefer bulk. Some prefer lean. Doesn't matter. What do you prefer?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:17 PM
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You never met her. You don't know her. Wanna get over her? Then BE over her. DO over her. The only reason you're still thinking about her is because you're choosing to. You're throwing yourself a fucking pity party. Stop that. Never talk to this woman again. Never even THINK of her again. Even if she were to completely change herself. Even if she fell in love with you. You cannot do anything with this girl. You have given her all your power. You have invested totally in someone you've never seen…
/r/askTRP20/05/17 07:46 PM
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How do you currently talk to people? What are you thinking as you talk?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 07:28 PM
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I really like the way you think. You don't read a post but you still leave a comment. You must think rather highly of yourself and your opinion to do that. Why in hell would anyone take your comment seriously when you don't even take the time to read two paragraphs?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 07:17 PM
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Some pretty bold claims there yourself. Gonna back any of that up or do you just talk big to feel better?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 07:08 PM
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Or just actually get a vasectomy and take yourself (and your words) seriously. I got mine. I realized that I might want kids some day down the road. Highly unlikely, but it's best to plan for anything. The urologist told me that they can pull sperm from your testes. Yes, this is expensive. But That's The Point (for me). If I want to have a kid, I want to be in a good enough financial position that I can support it and give it a leg up in the world. If I can't afford to pull a sperm out of myself…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 04:29 AM
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You're talking about polyphasic sleep. I suggest anyone looking into this area also check out this article and take it seriously. Read the whole damn thing. If you're still convinced you want to try then go ahead. If it works for you let me know.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 04:06 AM
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Step 1: Actually want to stop Step 2: Actually stop Anything else means you're lying to yourself. Either you want something bad enough to do something about it, or you don't. Live with and accept your choices for what they are.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 03:55 AM
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Remember it's just your turn. You're more than likely going to be another story she'll tell to someone else. Acceptance of reality is a big part of swallowing the pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 03:53 AM
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I don't have facebook, or snapchat, or anything. I ask for their number. I text them mine. That's all there is to it. When asked why they can't find me on Facebook I tell them I don't have one. "Why?" "Because I'm too busy for that shit."
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:09 AM
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It's also important to note that humans are cyclical creatures. Men and women both have mood cycles. Like you said, a sine wave.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 11:17 PM
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AWALT. My man, their whole sexual game is looking for an upgrade. They're content until they can get someone better, or their hair has a bad day, or you were an ass the other night, or because it's Tuesday. That's why all those women are looking for men with goals who improve themselves. If they can snag a man that keeps getting better, then they have to work less to get what they want.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 08:18 PM
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Stay in college. You need the degree to get entry level IT jobs beyond help desk. You likely won't leave college and get a Sec. job right off the bat. Checkout 0x00sec.org, opensecuritytraining.info, the netsec subreddit, and keep teaching yourself.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 07:54 PM
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Go for long walks with earbuds in. Meditate as you walk.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 07:28 PM
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You've answered your question. You know the answer. Let go and live your life. Holding onto that girl is only holding you back.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 07:27 PM
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You're 14. Focus on school and learning about the world. Overcoming laziness is something you have to work at day by day. Build up your willpower. Recognize that some days you won't get much done. Some days you'll have no motivation. Push through it to at least get something done. Even something small. Don't waste a single day you get to live. Get started in some sports or physical activities if you're afraid of weights. But, don't be afraid of weights, just make sure you know what you're doing.…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 07:25 PM
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Don't? Just have fun. Plate some girls. They don't need to stimulate you mentally, just sexually and physically. You can find mental stimulation applying game.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 05:05 PM
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If you're open to it I can give you my RedPill lens of LTR advice. But, as you've said, you're both already quite happy. You're cherry picking. Did you also see the "Lead and Inspire Her" thread? Did you read any of the comments? Most of the time I skim the OP and dig into the comments. That's where conversation is. And that's where learning is. A lot of the posts here are full of rhetoric and dogma. The comments are a different story. There's a balance between the new angry guys, the old season…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 04:47 PM
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I feel all the same love from my partners. They feel it too. Different strokes for different folks. I called you small minded for posting here when all you're doing is serving yourself. Not for knowing the way you do things. Changing a belief for novelty is dumb. Agreed. Challenging a belief to grow and improve is not.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 04:27 PM
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Hey, it's you again. And you're wrong, again. There is a LTR dedicated portion of TRP. Sexual strategy isn't just getting laid by strangers. For me and many others, TRP principles help guide our interactions in our relationships. You're not going to keep a high value woman around if you've got no game and no frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 04:24 PM
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That's the trick. Remember, it's a man's job to initiate conversation and to guide/escalate an interaction. When you're not feeling the natural confidence, fake it. Trick your mind, trick the girl, trick the world.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 04:19 PM
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Introspection is something to hold onto. It will guide you to be better. Just don't let the constant critique drown out how awesome you already are. Take time to appreciate yourself, too. It's very easy to get lost in self improvement. And yes, self image was what I was working towards. The biggest change for me was learning mental game. Building my frame. I am great, and getting greater. You're already doing it too. You're building a better you. Keep with it and you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 04:00 PM
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Your view of RedPill is superficial and surface level. Respect, kindness, and empathy are all parts of a healthy relationship. I don't know where you got the idea that RedPill relationships don't have that. We talk about Comfort Tests in LTRs a lot. Perhaps if you weren't so close minded to the insight here, you might learn. Perhaps you don't need to. Either way, you're small-minded​ for thinking this comment will impact us in anyway. You've simply validated your own ego with your own ideas. Is …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:54 PM
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You ever seen Patrice O'neal? Dude wasn't ripped. Still got plenty. Muscle helps, but you need game first. There are many big jacked dudes that rely only in their appearance to get laid, then there are less attractive men that have game and get laid. Imagine if you had both?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:48 PM
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I phrase it slightly different. If I told you that for every 10 girls you talk to, 1 is inherently going to dig you just because you're you, what does that make you want to do? Go talk to ten girls. It's still 9 nos, but it's a better mental frame than approaching each girl as an individual experience.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:43 PM
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You're looking for a unicorn. They don't exist. Look for a horse, you'll find plenty. A girl won't match you in your work ethic, education, or stability. That's not what girls are. Girls are cute, sexy, fun, and childish. High quality girls are girls that accept your leadership, fill your frame, and make your life easier. If you want someone that will match your level, go gay. Girls aren't built to be your equal. They're built to be your counterpart.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:38 PM
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Don't define yourself by your condition. You are not "the guy with Asperger's". You are a confident man that knows himself. If you frame all your interactions with Asperger's, people will pick up on it. If you instead frame all your interactions as "I am my own man, this is how I am", people will pick up on that instead. They'll see you as strange, or different, sure! But that's not a bad thing when you consider normal and ordinary people are boring, beta losers. Maybe try talking less. Still le…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:31 PM
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Sure. You answered the question. But look at your answer. Very critical of yourself. I was asking a bigger picture question. What have you done on your own to fix this? What are you doing now that works?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:23 PM
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Some things that work for me: Framing myself mentally that I am confident, even when I'm not feeling that way. Walking up to someone and saying the first thing that pops up. Referencing something nearby, with humor. Example, my campus was recently doing a lot of construction that involved big machines piling up dirt two stories high. On the bus, I sat down in my favorite spot and a girl sat next to me. I said, "Man, I used to do the same thing as those guys (pointing to construction) as a little…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:19 PM
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A hot girl is still just a girl. And girls still like guys. And you're still a guy. Nothing has changed except your mental perspective.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:09 PM
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How do you view yourself?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:06 PM
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Work within your constraints. Stay off TRP (and reddit) for a week and see how much sticks with you. Internalize what you can. Evaluate your understanding, cone back to TRP, read the quality posts, and repeat. If you have a strong base and frame, you can start to build the network of people you're looking for. Your vibe attracts your tribe, so be the kind of man you want to have around you. If you find a group of guys that are more "Red Pill" than not, befriend them. Your not likely to find a po…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:03 PM
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How many times have you seen a girl say one thing and do another? How many times have you said one thing and done another? "I'm not going to sleep with him" "I'm going to workout tomorrow" "I'm done masturbating" "I don't like men like that" More often then not, people are just saying what they want to hear. How often are they doing what they want to do?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 02:59 PM
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Campuses usually have a large variety of activities. Look at bulletin boards as you walk around, and be sure to check in more than your usual buildings. People go to these events to meet other people so you shouldn't feel weird "cold approaching" everyone. Then you get the reputation of a guy that talks to everybody and is very active in the community. What's the harm there?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 02:55 PM
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Well, your anxiety helps me a ton when I'm out there walking up and talking to everyone, babe or not. What are you afraid of? A "no"? Why is that so scary? Is a "no" going to hurt you? Does hearing 10 "no"s is a row change your inner frame?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 02:51 PM
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Well said. Confidence is action and self image bleeds into every action. Socially, people are attracted to a confident man, not necessarily man the speaks carefully. You can, however, be both.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 07:07 PM
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Not hard at all my man. You're perception of it's difficulty is what makes it hard for you. Change your outlook and you'll see better results.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 06:22 PM
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Watching every word you say will drive you nuts. Certainly you shouldn't say something you'll regret, but you should feel comfortable speaking your mind. Also, focusing so heavily on the Machiavellian side of conversation and interaction might get you further in life, but it will pull the fun out of it. How can you have fun bullshitting with your buds when you're so caught up in manipulating the interaction? There are times when you can relax.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 06:11 PM
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The problem is you view socializing as a task. It's no wonder you're not enjoying it. Try finding other social spaces that match your interests. If you like cars, go to car related events and talk your heart out. Chances are you will meet like-minded people there. They may be "blue" or they might be "red", but you'll have shared interests. You can grow your circle selectively by taking the best people into your life and then meeting even more potential mates through your growing list of friends …
/r/askTRP23/03/17 02:14 PM
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