Anyone else not enjoying socializing?

BilmeyenAdam · 2017-03-23T07:27:01+00:00

I feel same. I don't feel it inside me before TRP too. I really don't like %95 of people. I see they are not natural and often socialize because of being social and i don't want to meet that people. I don't see a point to talk them.

flatox · 2017-03-23T11:05:26+00:00

Yes I never felt like socializing, but i think it is because throughout my childhood i was always told to "Act right" and be a "good boy" and this has ended up with me lying like there's no end to it so that i could fit into whatever setting i was in, not do what i want because what if this or that guy doesn't like me then, and so on.

It's a hardwiring that's hard to drop and exausting to be honest and i just prefer not to have company at all except for close friends because of this.

blackedoutfast · 2017-03-23T16:27:11+00:00

no you are just trying to rationalize your avoidance of social situations.

you've been spending too much time on the internet or something. if you actually went out and made friends and socialized and all that, you would realize there's no bluepill shitstorm out there.

even in large cities with a reputation for being liberal, if you go to a bar or club or whatev it's not going to be full of crazy bluehair tumblr feminists and shit. you might run into a few dopey BP beta guys, but almost all of the rest, male and female, are neutral or leaning toward RP realism if they feel like they can be honest and candid.

Lazysaurus · 2017-03-23T16:56:07+00:00

My problem is now socializing with the married men in my family. They all let their wives run everything and tell them what to do and walk all over them. They say things like "I have a good wife, she puts up with me and sometimes she lets me do what I want." This annoyed me pre-RP, but now it enrages me.

cirrusice · 2017-03-23T09:32:58+00:00

I feel you. It's exactly like this scene.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zeRJ52Xnjt8

And not just about relationships, in every aspect of life, %99 of people are in a unconscious trance.

DonaldBaelish · 2017-03-23T08:18:23+00:00

How do you see the "blue pill shitstorm" in every person you socialize with? Do you ask them if they believe in AWALT or some shit? Ever tried talking about cars for example? Never have I ever spoken with some lad about Porsches where he would reply with his beta love life.

You either don't know how to socialize or just socialize with complete idiots.

[deleted] · 2017-03-23T15:33:20+00:00

Never did. I think the older men get the more they want to be left alone.

inaddictaquate · 2017-03-23T12:15:02+00:00

Yeah, I felt the same way. Then, I realized it was an excuse to stay inside and avoid people.

Meet better people. Be better so you can meet better.

vorverk · 2017-03-23T12:33:57+00:00

I enjoy it. The unaware people are so easy to AMOG. They don't have a clue what's going on....

I hate socializing when I'm not feeling it and when I sucked at it. With practice I became good and thats how you start loving it...

TehJimmyy · 2017-03-23T13:47:57+00:00

Me too man. I am sitting today at college alone reading your post while people talk about silly stuff. I dont know ifthis feeling of discomfort will ever go away.

ARedPillUser · 2017-03-23T14:14:31+00:00

The problem is you view socializing as a task. It's no wonder you're not enjoying it.

Try finding other social spaces that match your interests. If you like cars, go to car related events and talk your heart out. Chances are you will meet like-minded people there. They may be "blue" or they might be "red", but you'll have shared interests. You can grow your circle selectively by taking the best people into your life and then meeting even more potential mates through your growing list of friends and connections.

You can whine and complain about the "blue pill shitstorm" everywhere but it won't do you any good. It will never change. All that you can change is how you react to it and what you do about it.

WhorehouseVet · 2017-03-23T15:19:59+00:00

For me, I'm the only single guy in my group, everyone has paired off or married, so whenever we have a get together, I see they actively try to not include me in their conversation. At a recent conference, no one came to say hi to me. The only person who came was a beta cuck because I was talking to 2 chicks. Didn't realize at that point that I should've ask his wife and daughter's whereabouts to AMOG him.

MrB0gus · 2017-03-23T16:54:16+00:00

Look at it like a game.

Think to yourself: "I'm going to have fun learning about how pathetic this idiot is."

Mess with people. Challenge them and see how they react. Do it in a funny way, not a mean bully way.

[deleted] · 2017-03-24T20:14:03+00:00

you eat food right? hit on women at the grocery store. you fill your car with gas right? hit on that qt in the lane next to you. you to the bank right? tease the sexy milf teller when you're making a deposit. You get the point.

Ubiquitous-Toss · 2017-03-23T15:48:16+00:00

If you think you hate the opinions or thoughts of most other people then why come running to a forum if strangers. Doesn't sound like you'll respect anyone's opinions here. Such a sad sack thread

Title	Anyone else not enjoying socializing?
Author	silver-gun
Upvotes	32
Comments	24
Date	March 23, 2017 6:16 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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