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| 13 | "Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date.It’s funny. When I look back on my life, I’ve experienced both the OP’s viewpoint(not to as seemingly spiteful and angry of an extent, though) and your viewpoint. And my transition directly correlates with the wisdom I’ve acquired as I’ve gotten older and wiser. In my teens, when I used to strike out, or have a woman tease me and withhold sex, I used to blame the woman, or say “I got played” or something. As I’ve gone through my early 20’s, though, I’ve started to notice sexual tension and the a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to recover an LTR after cheating is exposed?How long ago did it come out for you? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to recover an LTR after cheating is exposed?She knew something was amiss already, there was tension in the air. What I felt I did was tell the truth. If we don’t end up together, so be it. I was simply asking if it’s salvageable. I’ve been cheated on before and I’ve cheated on someone before, so I’m familiar with this cycle. You’re right, it’s a good thing I didn’t wait another five years until I might have been married and had children. This is much more ideal happening now, thank god. Taking shit to your grave doesn’t seem ideal to me b… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to recover an LTR after cheating is exposed?I know that now, but there was never any other option for me. It was bothering me and I had to say it, unfortunately. Most of the time, I don’t think through my actions before I do them. It either turns up horribly or for the better. Thanks for your wisdom, though. You think it is salvageable? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 09:48 PM |
| 3 | The "alpha rock star" myth and other traps of the celebrity industrial complex.He’s not half black. He’s Jewish and Irish. Sure looks it, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Rant: Eastern Europe is not the Red Pill Paradise you think it isRelevant> https://youtu.be/XuI6GTY9eVc | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 04:51 AM |
| 2 | A guide to having fun & hooking up at music festivalsMy method is to mosh so hard at raves that I’m exhausted and all the tension is out of my body. It makes me super relaxed, especially when you have a great mosh, with good friends, in the pit. It’s truly a bonding experience, like war to music. After this, I almost always start dancing with a girl who was around the pit or one who I later approach. I also roll pretty hard though, so that could influence how much enjoyment I get out of moshing. Who’s going to moonrise? Hope to see you in a mosh. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Starting Your First Steroid Cycle (Or Thinking About It). Things You Should Be Aware Of...Yea right on the money. I’ve been lifting for 8 years and when I was in 8th grade I set my middle schools pull-up record at 41 reps. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Starting Your First Steroid Cycle (Or Thinking About It). Things You Should Be Aware Of...Yea but I was super curious haha | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Starting Your First Steroid Cycle (Or Thinking About It). Things You Should Be Aware Of...My beard is full in everywhere except the corners of my mustache, where It connects to my beard. Helped mainly the last 5 weeks of my cycle and continuously after. It like helped my body kickstart a beard. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Starting Your First Steroid Cycle (Or Thinking About It). Things You Should Be Aware Of...Sadly no 😂. I had scruff but never a connecting beard I could shape up. Now, at 22, I finally do lol | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Starting Your First Steroid Cycle (Or Thinking About It). Things You Should Be Aware Of...Yea exactly. It got me damn near my genetic max though but I had a great base going in. Today(3 months off): https://imgur.com/a/5LflUy2 | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/18 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Starting Your First Steroid Cycle (Or Thinking About It). Things You Should Be Aware Of...I’m about 3 months off now. Strength has gone down a little more but I can feel myself getting naturally stronger again and increasing my weights. I completely redid my diet and eat way more now, to keep a hold of the mass. In that regard, I look the same size as my post cycle picture. I can take a pic after the gym today if you want my current physique. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Starting Your First Steroid Cycle (Or Thinking About It). Things You Should Be Aware Of...The amount you’ll keep is dependent on genetics https://imgur.com/a/FDRTsi8 Left is natty, middle is 8 weeks in to my test-500 cycle, and right is a week after my pct ended. Strength has dropped but I kept most of the size in everywhere but my calves. I also have a beard now, which is pretty rad. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 09:22 PM |
| 9 | Starting Your First Steroid Cycle (Or Thinking About It). Things You Should Be Aware Of...Concerning how much muscle you keep: https://imgur.com/a/FDRTsi8 Left is natty, middle is 8 weeks in to my test-500 cycle, and right is two weeks after my 6 week pct ended. Strength has dropped but I kept most of the size in everywhere but my calves. I also have a beard now, which is pretty rad. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Starting Your First Steroid Cycle (Or Thinking About It). Things You Should Be Aware Of...Trying steroids was one of the most eye opening and worth it things I’ve ever done. For those curious about how much muscle you keep, I’ll let you be the judge: https://imgur.com/a/FDRTsi8 Left is natty, middle is 8 weeks in to my test-500 cycle, and right is a week after my pct ended. Strength has dropped but I kept most of the size in everywhere but my calves. I also have a beard now, which is pretty rad. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How to Win at Day Game – 3 Keys for Attracting Women During the DayThis is copied directly from either Conquer your Campus, or the Book of Pook. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 05:41 AM |
| 11 | [FR] Girls refuses sex, talks about Alpha ex, then my dick gets soft. But none of it matters in light of solid frame.I believe the precursor you're thinking of is L-Citrulline. Not really a precursor, but it has a more efficient absorption and won't activate cold sores to those predisposed to them like L-Arginine would. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:29 AM |
| 20 | Attraction, Arousal, Agitation, Anxiety: ALL good things! Also, why you get punched in the arm and called an assholeInsanely digestible content and easy to understand/apply. Thank you for writing. I agree with the other poster, I'd like to see more content from you. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/17 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Things My Father Taught Me: Advice for guys raised by single momsI am currently 20 right now, and working 3 jobs over the summer totalling 70 hours a week. I need to work this hard to pay for my chemical engineering degree when I go back to school. I don't think there is anything wrong with working as hard as you can manage, as long as that's not the end goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me wanting to know sexual strategy as an Indian guy when my path is clearly different from that of a white guy?Dude you've watched "Get Out" too many times if you think all white people and the media are trying to make black people "the new cool". | /r/askTRP | 29/05/17 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Joining high school a capella group. Yay or nay?You won't regret it. If you're not a senior, I recommend trying out for the musical next year, too. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/17 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Joining high school a capella group. Yay or nay?I just graduated high school 2 years ago. I was in the choir and musicals; I can undoubtably say that joining the musical my junior year was the best decision of my high school career. I also lifted and wrestled. It's funny; I was fucking the hottest girl in the choir and musical department. Trust me, that ratio of girls to guys is in your benefit. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Meditation?Do you take yoga classes or self teach? | /r/askTRP | 27/11/16 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Meditation?None taken. I will meditate deeply on your response ;) | /r/askTRP | 27/11/16 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Half a Century and I just DNGAF.You're awesome. I'm 20 now and want to be at your point one day. I have a question, though. I want to have kids like you do, but I don't know how to go about it. Do you have to suck up child support or just screen for a great, one of a kind plate? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/16 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Tinder profile while on a USA road trip? Looking for ONSI eat anything I get my hands on, except I haven't touched junk food or soda in a while. That's about to change on this trip. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Tinder profile while on a USA road trip? Looking for ONSI hail from Philadelphia | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Tinder profile while on a USA road trip? Looking for ONSSolid, honest advice. Thanks. I'll be dropping that photo and Casey Anthony joke, I had it up for Mother's Day. (Even worse taste but fuck it) | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 07:07 AM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill Stunts Man's Natural Drives and Ability to Self-ActualizeHave you read King, Warrior, Magician, Lover by Robert Moore? It highlights many of the points you've made. In our society, the guiding and selfless King energy is being suppressed in the masses. The warrior energy is guide-less and shows itself in selfish thugs and passive aggressive behavior by bitch-men. It's truly sad to see this happening. I'm only 19 and I long for a time where men were respectable and self-sufficient, and gave the excess love they had to those around them. The best I can … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/16 10:34 PM |
| 8 | Leadership 101: How to Motivate Others to Get Shit DoneGreat post! I feel the most important rule for a great leadership capacity is just to slow. down. and. LISTEN. to. people. Every great and inspiring leader I've ever known has always listened intently to their subordinates/comrades. By simply not waiting for your turn to talk, you make other people feel insanely valued; it takes a truly self-aware and honorable individual to value and provide someone's opinion with their full attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Learn To Be AloneI disagree. Sith is force, seeking control from fear. Jedi is power, seeking to inspire from love. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 12:35 AM |
| 16 | A Little Mistake That Cost My Best Friend 5 Years of His Life.Mind=blown Dragon whips and scimitars are where it was at, though. Balance the dragon slaying part of your life with some pussy slaying in the present. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Depressed girlfriend broke up with me, starting to think I have anxiety and depression. Recommend me books so that I can improve myself.I'm glad you realize that you have problems, as that's the first step on the path to fixing them. Good luck man. | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Depressed girlfriend broke up with me, starting to think I have anxiety and depression. Recommend me books so that I can improve myself.I wish you the best of luck on your journey. Make yourself proud. | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Depressed girlfriend broke up with me, starting to think I have anxiety and depression. Recommend me books so that I can improve myself.Honestly, I'm not in a position to judge you, but it sounds like you're torn up because you had centered your life around your girlfriend. The relationship seems to have been a mask for underlying problems that you, yourself, had. Now that you're out of the relationship, all of the anxiety you had been hiding from in comfort is coming to the surface. I could be wrong, but if I'm not, you need to focus on yourself for a bit. Helping someone out who is depressed is great and all, but not if you ha… | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 01:14 PM |
| 8 | Depressed girlfriend broke up with me, starting to think I have anxiety and depression. Recommend me books so that I can improve myself.Fuck waiting to become a better man. Start lifting and making lifestyle changes now, while you're in a depression, or else it will linger. I was depressed once, and you literally have to crawl and scrap your way out of the hole. Waiting to "make a resurgence" will never work out, as it will always seem to be on the horizon. Start right now. Go out of your comfort zone, lift, and meet new people. By the time she wants you again, it will be too late for her, as you'll be miles ahead. | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Ex-GF plate doesn't want LTR?Thank you, I needed a wake up. Nobody is immune or special to the effects of AWALT. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/16 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Ex-GF plate doesn't want LTR?It's a long story, short. It didn't start off no-contact. In fact, I regretted it and tried to reconcile a couple days later. She needed time and we ended up just not talking until she sent me that text. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 04:01 PM |
| 1 | The downfall of the first and greatest Redpill (sad...)The line between a self-aware genius and insanity is very, very thin. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Reaching out to girls online?You're right. I'm still newer to this and it just felt like it went too easily and smoothly. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Libido problems at 19?Just picked up red Korean ginseng, gelatinized maca powder, and tribulus terrestris. Did it help you personally? | /r/askTRP | 12/12/15 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Libido problems at 19?Awesome, thanks for the advice. I'll probably go monk over Christmas break and then come back afterwords with a resurgence. It's unfortunate because I could be plating sexually and working on game over that time but I guess I'll just work on escalation and k-closes to dates. I mean if I pop a random chub on a date though, there's only one way it's going away ;) | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Libido problems at 19?I have a few dates lined up, but I personally get anxious thinking about sex with new girls because I have had times where I wasn't in the mood and couldn't get it up. I'd rather fix this problem before I start diving back in but sometimes I realize it's better to go in balls and all right away. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Libido problems at 19?I'm definitely in a flatline now, now that I think about it. I haven't nutted to porn in around a month and the way you describe it is about right. Any estimates on when I'll be back to normal, based on your experiences? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Libido problems at 19?Thanks, I'll up my calories | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Libido problems at 19?Thanks, asshole | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Libido problems at 19?I thought about that and have been practicing nofap for about a year. I figured it would have fixed itself by now. I got into some fetishes that didn't match up with my real life interests tbh and that's what caused me to stop. I have been drastically cutting down on it in that year and haven't seen a significant change. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Libido problems at 19?Well, all of my meals are usually home cooked, lean meat and beef. I'm from an upper-middle class family, so we're not scrapping by with malnutrition and cheap food. I take a higher quality protein powder to meet my protein intake goals and I eat my greens and veggies. I also take optimen vitamins and fish oil regularly. I'd say I'm moderately health-conscious. My only lacking aspect is my hydration, as I've never been a big water drinker. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Libido problems at 19?I'll be honest, that may have been a low estimate. I have the most defined abs I know irl and I'm lean muscle mass, so I just assumed I was that low. I'm probably around 9 or 10 tbh. I'm an ectomorph that has a hard time gaining fat, but I'm not freakishly vascular and bony. I'll try to put on more weight though, thanks! And no, I am usually high energy and always feel exhilarated after a workout, and could go more if I wanted to and wasn't pressed on time. I am not lethargic in day-to-day inter… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Libido problems at 19?I'd tentatively say 6-8%. I'm cut and muscular, though. Hardly anorexic or skeletal looking. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Libido problems at 19?I think so. I don't eat fast food, don't drink soda, and try to cut down on processed foods. I eat four meals a day and it's usually healthy. My mom home cooks large meals. Nothing that is suspect and I am low BF % too. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Channels on Youtube with IDGAF mentalityThey are doing these pranks to entertain. They are clowns. I like clowns. Nobody wants to fuck a clown. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 12:41 AM |
| 1 | LSD enhancing natural awareness of the game?When I do acid, I go absolutely ballistic. I am everywhere, all of my masculine drive has no bars holding it back. If I want to walk in a north Philadelphia ghetto at 3 am, that's what I do, and that's what I did. My friends with me actually had to remind me that I physically couldn't do some things. I did shrooms and went rock climbing without a rope one time. That was fun and definitely tested my mettle and adrenal glands. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 04:48 AM |
| 2 | What to do about a close friend?I am now looking at my friendships as boulders. THANKS! No really, great analogy. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you personally require that your plates remain loyal? Or don't you care?Solid advice. I recently plowed my ex-girlfriend and I'm attempting to spin her as a plate(probably not a good idea but I've made a lot of progress since we dated, something she is envious of). I know she's been with other guys, so I don't really give a fuck, but some repressed feelings came back when I nutted out my soul, especially because I originally took her virginity. I'm just going to keep it casual w/ her though and put in minimal effort. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Ex-girlfriend reinitiated with me via text. How to plate her?Update: banged her three times yesterday. She said "I love you", I said "I know". Smack on the ass goodbye. And I got a text showing how much she loved my plowing. Overall, I'd say the strategy was successful, and I have a plate. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 04:41 PM |
| 9 | A golden example of social conformityLesson learned: Do acid -> be "leader" | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/15 01:13 AM |
| 1 | I've become reclusive. Help?How did you get yourself to get out of your head and be more present with people? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/15 06:58 PM |
| 11 | Ex-girlfriend reinitiated with me via text. How to plate her?Her fat ass and pussy | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Ex-girlfriend reinitiated with me via text. How to plate her?THANK YOU! I read this a while ago and could not find it when I was looking for it again. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 07:22 PM |
| 2 | My Fiancee Wants to "Open" our Relationship. WTF.It depends; you can jailbreak it, install the key logger, then hide the Cydia(main jailbreak) app. It would take a very experienced jail breaker to tell. And look it up, iOS 9.0.2 is jail breakable by the Pangu tool. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Ex-girlfriend reinitiated with me via text. How to plate her?She actually never said that, I was confused by that portion. She actively kissed me back and said she missed kissing me. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 05:48 PM |
| 4 | My Fiancee Wants to "Open" our Relationship. WTF.Yes, but my ex desperately wanted to personalize her iPhone to show off and I was fine taking advantage of that. Jailbreaking it has many other upsides you can use to your benefit. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/15 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How to split bills on datesPersonally, when I take a girl on a date, I'll split the total date cost. They accept it so much better and it's easier for them to hamster it away. For example, "I'll get the movie tickets while you go grab us snacks". Or yesterday I used, "I'll drive, you bring the weed/alcohol/etc." referring to a hiking trip. For a dinner try, "I'll buy the meals, you get drinks and dessert" and then proceed to order the largest cake they have. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/15 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Gaming while high and drunk?Not much. I prefer to act and get analysis on my actions to learn from it. Game, in my opinion, will work differently for every personality, and I try to be as authentic to myself as possible. And yea, I'm guessing it was the bud that got me. My brain just clocked out a couple times during the night and I just started laughing at how stupid I was. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/15 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Gaming while high and drunk?At what point do you consciously decide to game a girl though? If it feels right? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/15 07:03 PM |
| 5 | “Such is Our Nature”"Writers" are just creators who know how to use a pen, and your statement is spot on. You're either a creator in this life or you're not. I believe that men like OmLaLa who can convey a message like this, in such a way, are creators. In fact, I love the redpill so much due to the fact that so many of us creators seem to have been enlightened and congregated in one area, albeit it's the Internet. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 12:33 AM |
| 1 | "You're so full of yourself"Brilliant | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Girl I started talking to on Saturday is randomly back with an ex?My problem is that I am 19 and live with strict-ish parents who won't let me have a girl over. I've made it work, but it's a lot of sneaking around/their house. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/15 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl I started talking to on Saturday is randomly back with an ex?Will do, thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/15 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Plate timingAlright, I'm fucking the hiking girl. I also plan on fucking the girl from Saturday within the next couple days. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/15 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Plate timingSo go with my bro, only. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/15 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Plate timingThanks man. After 3 days, should I text with logistics for another date? Or small talk? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/15 06:07 PM |
| 1 | First date ideas for 19 year old getting over oneitis?I'm curious what makes you suggest this? | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 05:16 PM |
| 2 | First date ideas for 19 year old getting over oneitis?I have two vouchers for zip lining and an obstacle course. That's my current go-to. I was gonna save them but this seems fun to do. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/15 06:09 PM |
| 27 | Don't mess up your hard work. (Thoughts about frame regarding reformed betas)Thanks for this comment. I used to be the faux-alpha that would yell over people and always had to get the last funny comment in, but the more I read, absorb, and improve, the more content I get just letting events unfold. Instead of putting myself onto everyone, I let them come to me, and make them feel comfortable doing so. Not to say I don't take risks, or approach, but in social settings I have been valuing individuals more than the whole group's opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 09:09 PM |
| -1 | Just broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years. Where to next?Deadlifted yesterday dude, cut me some slack. Going to the second stop now. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 06:29 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Told LTR about dad problems, worst mistake.I am slightly looking negatively into this. Arguing(with my dad, in this instance) tends to do that to me and I extrapolated the situation instead of just brushing it under the rug. I'll put it behind me and frame up. Would you still recommend NoFap btw? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 09:47 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Told LTR about dad problems, worst mistake.I've never fully understood that until now, thank you. It seems to me that the only time where it is advantageous to tell an LTR about your emotions is when you are currently fully experiencing them and not observing them from an analytical perspective. That way they can feel it with you in the moment and not empathize with you, per se, but rather just feel how you feel and sympathize. My mistake was that I told her later on while expecting her to be able to relate to me like a man could. Also, … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 10:32 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Told LTR about dad problems, worst mistake.I'm very sorry about your mom. I opened up to my girlfriend with the intentions of letting her know why I may not have been as happy in the next couple days while I deal with this and trying to express how I felt to her, but without seeking pity. Still, I feel as if it backfired. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 09:27 PM |
| 13 | [FR] Told LTR about dad problems, worst mistake.I've been thinking about that also. I'm just gonna try to deal with my father with male friends, and trustworthy male family members. Not bring her into it again, because it is my problem, and just focus on having fun when I'm with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Help with LTRYou need to be single and work on yourself for a long, long time. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/15 12:42 AM |
| 2 | What are some hard mistakes you learned from and what did you do to avoid it next time?How can you draw conclusions about his relationship from a small comment on a website. Take what he said and ponder it while you sit in your bubble. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/15 12:35 AM |
| 7 | Women think the average guy is a HG1.8I'm a little over 5'7" and I just fucked a HB9 yesterday. I also lift 5 days a week and am cut as fuck. I don't fool myself though, it would be easier to pull bitches if I had a couple inches, but it's not impossible to get 9's and 10's, at least for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 01:53 PM |
| 11 | Book about teasingUpvoted for the teases you remembered. They're solid. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 04:44 PM |
| 2 | How to downgrade GF to plate?Solid advice, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How to downgrade GF to plate?Thanks for the feedback. The only option appears to be to end it with her and focus on myself. If I wanted to stay with her and improve myself/get over oneitis, do you have any suggestions? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 04:13 PM |
| 0 | How to downgrade GF to plate?Is it possible to get over oneitis without cheating, and developing a healthy relationship? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 04:11 PM |
| 2 | How to downgrade GF to plate?That is wonderful. I overlooked simplicity. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 04:04 PM |
| 0 | How to downgrade GF to plate?My next question naturally is: How do I get over oneitis? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/15 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How to reconcile TRP with being sexually submissive? NSFWHow would you suggest one overcomes a porn induced fetish? | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 01:39 PM |
| 5 | How to reconcile TRP with being sexually submissive? NSFWI disagree. If a fetish is induced by watching too much porn, it can be unwired the opposite way it was wired, by not watching porn anymore. If you're naturally into things like brunettes, or latinas, or high socks or something, it's impossible to get rid of. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 01:38 PM |
| 1 | GF has a secondary Instagram accountI joked that she was catfishing to bust her balls. She wasn't actually catfishing people. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 01:07 PM |
| 2 | GF has a secondary Instagram accountShe did slightly react defensively, barely showing me the pictures just to "prove" there weren't nudes. I don't think she wanted to reveal her dirty thoughts to me because I simply wasn't able to see them before she hid it away. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 12:54 AM |
| 5 | The Critical Importance of Approaching Attractive Women in Real LifeWhat are he TAO of badass books? I would very much like to read these | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How did I handle this situation?Anything I could do to remediate the situation now? Should I just ignore, withdraw until she apologizes? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How did I handle this situation?I may have been lapsing into occasional beta behaviors lately. I haven't really had my game up actively, I've been more passive with it. If I want to stay with her, what are some ideas you have on actions I could take or implement. Dread? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/15 01:50 AM |
| 5 | How to tell your girl her pussy smells?No STD's. I took her virginity. Been together for a year. Just stank pussy. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 04:15 AM |
| 9 | How to tell your girl her pussy smells?Hahaha I'm doing this solely for the story retell value. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Surviving the decline?Don't patronize me when you haven't proven one point yourself. The U.S. Dollar is not backed by the government. It's printed by the Federal Reserve, destroyed by the Federal Reserve, and is not backed by any resource. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Surviving the decline?Alright, man. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Surviving the decline?You can search for sources yourself, it's not hard to find. It is backed only by the belief it has value, and we are astronomically in debt. It doesn't take an idiot to figure that out. Couple it with the fact that China and Russia are currently resorting back to backing all of their international currency with resources(for use with gasoline or other forms of energy sold internationally), and you can piece together the rest. The dollar is a sham, it's a belief that it is worth one dollar, and a… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Surviving the decline?Space programs in general. NASA is hardly valuable outside of the U.S., but in the event of a collapse, I'm sure other countries would want those skills. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Surviving the decline?Currently teaching myself Russian and plan on going to NASA or any space program. Got any tips, GLO? | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Cheated on my girlfriendHah you can bet I won't let myself get in situations like that again. I'd blame it on being young and horny at 18, but we always have a choice. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 04:23 PM |
| 0 | Cheated on my girlfriendIt wasn't alcohol, it was another substance. And yes, I cheated physically, but I still emotionally have a connection with my GF and I still care about her. Any suggestions? You were the most honest, so should I confess, or deny. Or just act ambivalent and vague? | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 03:09 PM |
| 0 | LTR and Gaming other ChicksWhat are your thoughts on a one time incident where you cheat? Is that still condemning? | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 02:19 PM |
| 2 | LTR and Gaming other ChicksI recently cheated on my girlfriend. I let myself get into a compromising situation and I paid the price for it. While I would never admit it to her at this point(it would do more harm to her than good, confession is only for the benefit of me at this point), I do feel guilty and I am starting to project my guilt and suspicion onto her. I do not recommend it. I did it because the girl I cheated with was the "one that got away" before my girlfriend and I did it for the ego trip I got from it. Stu… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Keeping LTR fresh after 1 year markThis is the same situation I was in. Long story short: you don't. If you really must have that connection with someone, make sure those moments are heavily balanced with some RP on the side, and make sure to NEVER complain to her. It all depends on what that "connection" means to you. Also, you have a precious time window right after you've given her a good pounding where you can be as BP as you like. Don't let it become habit, though. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/15 10:33 PM |
| 1 | LTR slapped me.I would have forcibly removed her from my company if we weren't in a filled prestigious theatre auditorium, believe me. If I had done anything in response, I would have been swarmed with theatre white knights. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/15 05:04 PM |
| 1 | LTR slapped me.My plan is to leave her after prom tomorrow. When she apologized, she admitted I never laid a hand on her out of anger and I have it recorded. Unless some act of God salvages how I perceive the situation or want out of my future, I'm out. Plus, she paid me for her ticket already and it'd be against my principles to take some other girl instead. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/15 05:01 PM |
| 2 | LTR slapped me.She didn't say it loud enough so other people could hear it, so it was definitely gas lighting. Also, when she apologized later, she admitted that I never laid hands on her out of anger, and I recorded the fuck out of that conversation. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/15 04:58 PM |
| 4 | My TRP Introduction - seeking growth/accountability partnerExactly. Porn desensitized your dopamine system, but it's anxiety and nerves that kill boners. Unless your dick is raw from hours of whackin when you try to have sex. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/15 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Mechanical/chemical Engineer or Ironworker?I'll do that tomorrow, thanks. Edit: absolutely no sarcasm in that. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Mechanical/chemical Engineer or Ironworker?I see your point. I'm more using it as a tool to get experienced answers on this question, as a more personal means of doing my own research to determine what will fit me better. I've already statistically and factually done the research, I'm just looking for some actual life experiences. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Mechanical/chemical Engineer or Ironworker?Asking advice from a group of seasoned men who come from different walks of life and can give accurate advice on almost any topic? TRP isn't just game and PUA and holding frame, theredpill is a lifestyle. And this is a life question. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 01:26 AM |
| 6 | [PSA] Mad Max: is a ‘Feminist Action Film’ - Don't expect a masculine movieI know Jamie Foxx is a racist and all, but I personally didn't see "white guilt" that much in Tarantinos Django. I thought it was awesome, and I'm white. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 10:37 PM |
| 54 | Woman suggests to her husband that they get a sperm donor because he's short.We already have that: /r/theredpill | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Lifting Supplement AdviceI've been lifting for roughly five years, but wouldn't steroids fuck with my endocrine systems at 18? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/15 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Lifting Supplement AdviceI don't know if it will improve me, that's why I am asking for advice from those far more knowledgeable. This isn't a decision that follows my principles and morals that I have to "stand by" in order to hold frame. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/15 01:29 PM |
| 1 | STEM jobs?That sounds awesome! I was always interested in chemistry and biomed, etc., as radio frequencies have always seemed out of my skill set and interests. I'm glad it makes you happy though, I'm hoping I can get the same satisfaction out of developing prosthetic limbs and enhanced bodysuits. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 02:53 AM |
| 2 | STEM jobs?I actually was just wondering how fulfilling of a job engineering is, from the experience of those actually in the field. If you want specifics I'm going for chemical or biochemical. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 01:52 AM |
| 1 | STEM jobs?I expect work to suck, but I also expect to feel like I'm doing something important and not just filing documents for someone else. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 01:42 AM |
| 2 | STEM jobs?Enjoyment is subject. I enjoy feeling fulfilled. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 01:16 AM |
| 2 | STEM jobs?That's why I didn't use the word "fun". If you read closely, you'll realize I used the words "fulfilled" and "worth", which I understand are perfectly acceptable to want out of a career. A lack of fun in a job does not have to mean you drone and stumble through it without purpose. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many RPillers seem spiteful of women?Can you explain SWABTO to me? I have no idea what it is. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/15 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many RPillers seem spiteful of women?Also, I agree with the degrees of AWALT. I think the main reason feminism and its advocates are so batshit crazy is because they attempt to deny that women inherently have any flaws. In doing so, they over exaggerate previous negative aspects of their personality in an attempt to make them socially acceptable and commonplace and assert their "control" over their "independence" and "PERSONALOTAY". It's insane. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/15 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many RPillers seem spiteful of women?You're really opening my mind, man. Do you mind explaining to me what you mean by you're always ready to jump ship? Do you mean that you don't try to work problems out w/ women or you just keep an eye out for funky stuff? It just seems weird if you think that way and still have regrets about not wifing some women. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/15 12:40 AM |
| -3 | Why do so many RPillers seem spiteful of women?Agreed. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/15 12:22 AM |
| -4 | Why do so many RPillers seem spiteful of women?I agree. I think that, as humans, everyone has their flaws. On the flip-side, I think everyone can work on them and is not destined for how society labels and places them. I have met some awesome women and some douchebag, spiteful ones. I've met some women who make me think AWALT occasionally and I've met some that seem like strong arguments for NAWALT. The men who are still stuck and spiteful are the ones who pity themselves and are angry they don't get as much pussy as Chad Thundercock. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/15 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many RPillers seem spiteful of women?If society promotes and gives the opportunity to act like how you just described, do you really blame women for taking advantage of it? Im sure in the off, and unfortunate, event that you were born a woman, you wouldn't think twice about taking that path. Of course, if someone is blatantly blind to the causes of this, or a huge feminazi, it is very likely I will dislike them. Also, everything you just described is your choice. If you do everything you just described to be a "perfect" man, you sh… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/15 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Father helpYou're absolutely right. I've realized that dealing with her is not going to accomplish anything. It's just hard to open my dad's eyes when he is constantly worried about pleasing my stepmom. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Father helpI could do that, it's just she has my dad wrapped up by the short and curlies. No matter how stoic I am to her, I am not the one who deals with her. I don't even bother with her anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Father helpI agree. I really only called her out and exploded once, and it followed her trying to join a very important conversation that I was privately having with my dad. It just sucks because this all is "surprisingly" getting worse the closer I get to college and having to financially deal with it. They are starting to shine me in the light of renegade child and make themselves look like super parents on social media and the like. My stepdad and mom offered to pay for a quarter of my college with the … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How to increase attention span?Thanks for the advice. I was unsure about what you meant during the second paragraph about writing stuff down, though. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/15 02:49 AM |
| 1 | VirginityThanks for the response, it was well thought out and easy to understand. I've been in two relationships with virgins in my relatively short life. In the first relationship, I lost my virginity also, and I feel like this blinded me and made me think she was "the one". I was young and retarded. My current relationship is much more smooth and settling and I took my current girlfriends virginity. It's different this time, though, as I am not blinded by sex and can see from an outside perspective how… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 06:44 PM |
| 2 | VirginityI agree, AWALT. I'm simply curious that if you look at the bare bone basics, and you are 100% positive(felt the hyman pop, other resources) that you took her virginity, will she have a more special connection to you than a normal sexual encounter? And I agree that you'll have to stand firm against what the media says and set your own boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Is porn anti-rp?It's an upper, I'm referring to weed and alcohol. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/15 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Is porn anti-rp?Never gone farther than bud, never will. Even then, I don't like impairing my control over my body with any substance. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/15 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Is porn anti-rp?See that's a problem of mine, I don't watch it often, but when I do, I'll watch it for an hour straight. And over time it conditions our brains to take the easy way out(porn) instead of putting in effort to meet a real chick. That's just simple dopamine release and how our brains were evolutionarily not prepared for internet porn. Of course, we can counter that with knowledge and will, but the urge is there. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/15 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Is porn anti-rp?Oh trust me, I know the results. I've been there, done that. Shooting the seed too much, too often(without a girl) leaves me feeling pretty lazy and unenthused. It's something I try to avoid because it brings more energy when you aren't choking the chicken. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/15 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Is porn anti-rp?It was more NoFap language than tumblr, I've never gone on tumblr in my life. I guess I could've used a different choice of words though, kind've like using "plate" in a separate sub. And I only watch it like once a month when I feel like it. But still, I feel lethargic after and that it is counterproductive. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/15 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Is porn anti-rp?Trust me, I know. I was hooked on porn in the fifth grade and there were periods where I had girlfriends in high school and didn't watch porn, for obvious reasons. But it IS highly addicting, it's almost like your brain is overriden by urges. Right now, I keep myself so busy I barely have time for porn and when I do watch it, I feel highly dissatisfied and disappointed. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/15 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Is porn anti-rp?Haha that's funny man. I actually laughed reading that. What could the benefits possibly be? I figure its better jerking it to imagining actually having sex with a real life girl, if you do at all. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/15 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Is porn anti-rp?I can tell you haven't had your line of coke in a while. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/15 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Is porn anti-rp?Good outlook, I'll probably just cut out porn than and use imagination. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/15 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Is porn anti-rp?I'm guessing it builds up your libido and stops you from becoming overly sensitive? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/15 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Front Row Seats to BSCan you recommend any good insoles? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Beware of the envious white knightsGoogled equanimity definition to make sure I had it down pat, example sentence it gave me: "SHE accepted both the good and the bad with equanimity", well fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Front Row Seats to BSIsn't he like 5'7" or 5'6"? But no I don't, I do like wearing Shox, though. Edit: I didn't mention anything about woman troubles haha | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Front Row Seats to BSGoing off on a tangent about the short stature and fitness. Short guys are basically fucked if they don't get into shape. You can counter the height problem if you build an imposing torso and shoulder breadth. Being 5'8" myself, I have had much more success after starting lifting. Granted, I started lifting at 13, so I'm not really a good control to base this off of. Also, that is inspiring that he would ask that, especially with you in the picture(being better than him and all). It's a shame it… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 04:37 AM |
| 10 | Front Row Seats to BSI once had a moderately alpha friend become so betafied over the course of his three year emotionally abusive relationship with a gold digger, that when she broke up with him for another schlub he put his head in the frame of a car door and told her to slam it on his head. "I don't want to live without you" he cried. Keep in mind this was a 16 year old kid who had just spent $300 on her the day before. This was the first time I ever actually started realizing how messed up society was. Fast forw… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 04:31 AM |
| 2 | relationship adviceYea, most theatre kids are unfuckable lmao. My bad, I see your perspective now. Looking introspectively, I shouldn't have gotten that defensive about it, maybe that says something. Ahh well, I appreciate your advice, and just wanted affirmation that I was going about it the right way. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/15 01:44 PM |
| 1 | relationship advice10% of everybody. The 1% of theatre department. I was simply looking for some advice that actually applies to me because it appears I didn't give you much detail and understanding about the situation. When I said I ignore it, I literally meant it, because there is nothing I can do to control other people, only myself. So I do me. And no, he was the running back who outweighed me by 50+ lbs and we stalemated. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/15 01:29 PM |
| 1 | relationship advice"She is dating you to keep her shoulder warm" http://imgur.com/IOtfdqW.jpg. This was my post to the fitness subreddit a couple days ago. I chose her when I wanted to get another girlfriend and she is the opposite of an emo chick. She does have alpha options and I am that option. Does that change your advice at all? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/15 01:14 PM |
| 1 | relationship adviceYes, I've wrestled football, basketball, and soccer players before. I've played track, football, and soccer for multiple years of my life, too. Wrestling is, by far, the hardest and most physically and mentally demanding out of all of them. Where I am in Pennsylvania, wrestling is the hardest it is in the whole country. Whenever someone from our area travels to a different state, we mop them off the floor. I'll take this as why it is amateur in your area. I can confidently say my girlfriend and … | /r/askTRP | 23/01/15 01:06 PM |
| 0 | relationship adviceI seriously think you have me and the theatre department as a whole pegged the wrong way. I have lifted and wrestled for the past five years and am in better shape mentally and physically than 95% of the population. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/15 12:48 PM |
| 1 | LTR seemingly seeks validation through social media.So play the same game back at her? I can get girls to follow me quite easily, it seems the longer I stay in a relationship the more lax I get on keeping and gaming my side girls. Thank you, sir. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/15 01:48 AM |
| 1 | LTR seemingly seeks validation through social media.Thanks bro. I'll consider it. It wasn't an argument and I dislike arguing because it shows that the other person has emotionally affected you and gotten control of you. I might add she responded well to my concerns. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 10:39 PM |
| 1 | LTR seemingly seeks validation through social media.I guess I shouldn't worry, the only person I can directly influence is myself. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 10:14 PM |
| 1 | LTR seemingly seeks validation through social media.That could be right. I already strive to improve my value every day. So there is no direct way to approach the subject? | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 10:13 PM |
| 1 | LTR seemingly seeks validation through social media.I already lift, implement dread, and dress well. Any further dread would feel like infidelity to me. I am surrounded by girls who vie for me. So the only way to approach the situation is to not approach the situation? Or could I have done something else? | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Alpha and ControlHaha I like that. Unfortunately I'm pretty sure I scared myself into never smoking again(for now at least, said every smoker ever). | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Fucking Grocery Stores, man.I was actually offered a transfer to the meat department, is it worth the switch? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Fucking Grocery Stores, man.Today was leg day for me at the gym, the last thing I need is more exercise. But yea, it is a pretty fun work environment for me, temporarily. It's quite an easy place to practice redpill theories. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 02:01 AM |
| 8 | Fucking Grocery Stores, man.Biomedical engineering all the way! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 01:46 AM |
| 1 | There is hope that NAWALTIf this was made unclear by my post: I am not supporting BP behavior and I agree with 99% of what RP stands for, I am simply stating that there are some happier endings. Not all women are sluts; granted only a few good ones are out there, and most of them have an alpha that keeps them submissive, but they DO exist. Is everyone so quick to turn down every story with a good ending just because it didn't follow the traditional RP LTR "guideline"? You do realize the world isn't black and white right… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 03:17 PM |
| 1 | There is hope that NAWALTNot at all, I would never marry a single mother at 18. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 05:44 AM |
| 0 | There is hope that NAWALTThank you CommodoreSillyPants, that is some wise advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 05:43 AM |
| 2 | There is hope that NAWALTI was a broken condom AND birth control baby, something tells me my mother didn't "choose" a reliable mate. Secondly, my stepdad married her when I was six, not when she was 35+. She was far from washed up and from what I have gathered from literally everyone who knew or knows her, she never rode the CC or went through that stage. Also, in the sense of "guy who bangs all the girls and doesn't give a fuck about anyone" alpha, no, thats not my stepdad. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How to tell your friend that his girlfriend is a grade A bitch?Yea I didn't really understand what the original commenter meant by jealousy. I assumed he meant I was worried my friend was showing more attention to his gf than me or something but I couldn't care less about that; I'm simply looking out for his happiness and fulfillment. I just didn't care enough to debate the comment in the first place. You are right though, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 10:35 PM |
| 0 | How to tell your friend that his girlfriend is a grade A bitch?I guess I am exhibiting jealousy. I'm not necessarily jealous of his relationship, or his life, because I already am more fulfilled than him in both of those aspects. It just sucks when you have so much time and emotions invested into a guy friend and I see him going down a bitchy and unfulfilled path, Ya know? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | On gifts...Respect | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 07:44 PM |
| – | How to tactfully cancel plans?Thanks for the advice. What do you mean by "logistic"? | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Advice on plating ex?I've had multiple casual encounters and ONS. Single as in not in an LTR. My fault for not specifying. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | LMR troubles at collegeThanks man, how should I isolate sooner? | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Cheated on my girlfriendBy emote do you mean don't confess? She doesn't know about it, and I don't feel like bringing it up. If she finds out I'll probably not confess. Should I just work on what I learned from the experience and not repeat it? | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Cheated on my girlfriendThat's what I needed to hear. I fucked up in the beginning, and confession will hurt her more than help the situation. I'm responsible for how I feel and I will control it. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | LTR slapped me.I play around with her, but I have never slapped her. She slapped me out of spite. I could sense the lack of respect in the air for that second. I never have done anything like that. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Is my college plan smart?My stepdad isn't willing to pay, he doesn't make ABSURD amounts, just enough for me not to get any financial aid. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Pleasure guilt? I have trouble letting myself feel good.In areas of improvement under my own control, I don't want to be outcome independent. I care about whether I'm sculpted like a Greek god or a fat gamer. I also care about getting good grades and would be negatively effected if they went down. If this was about me being unable to get girls, I would agree with you but it's totally with things under my own control. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Pleasure guilt? I have trouble letting myself feel good.Do you have any suggestions on where I should begin researching stoicism? | /r/askTRP |
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