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| -5 | The Ultimate Red PillEdit tl;dr - you're a terrible person and you should feel bad. The world thinks you're an imbecile. Gfy. Lol, look at your diatribe because your feelings are hurt that people, rightly, hate nazis. Trying to compare hating nazis with muslim extremism. Thats quite the reach, lol. You're a bunch of ignorant buffoons, there is no reason to spend the brain power to argue with fucking nazis on their belief system. Again, nazis should be punched. Why? Because fuck nazis and everything you believe. The … | /r/PussyPass | 15/04/17 03:14 PM |
| -1 | The Ultimate Red PillGfy. | /r/PussyPass | 14/04/17 11:27 PM |
| -2 | The Ultimate Red PillStill haven't gotten punched yet, you triggered Nazi? Go whine and cry to your alt reich friends. Maybe one of them will blow your limp dick. | /r/PussyPass | 14/04/17 11:26 PM |
| 4 | The Ultimate Red PillI'm not trying to offend you by calling you nazis. I'm just pointing out the fact so anyone with two brain cells to rub together can see you and your ilk are crazy and not worth consideration, just punching. Hope you get punched in the face, Nazi! | /r/PussyPass | 14/04/17 07:25 PM |
| 2 | The Ultimate Red Pilltriggered What a snowflake you are, Nazi. You bring shame to your "master race". Nazis suck and so do you. | /r/PussyPass | 14/04/17 06:59 PM |
| -4 | The Ultimate Red PillDidn't enter WWII and beat the nazis the first time so we could then counter their bullshit on youtube 70 years later. /r/punchnazis | /r/PussyPass | 14/04/17 06:35 PM |
| -4 | The Ultimate Red PillThat's because there's no point arguing with Nazis. Only good thing to do with a Nazi is punch the fucker in the face and/or balls. | /r/PussyPass | 14/04/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Iama BP male. AMAAh yes, the feminists won't allow research because somehow feminists rule the world of academics. No. If your theories are based in science, then the science had to exist before the theories. That's how drawing conclusions works. If red pill is 100% true across the board, getting evidence should be the simplest thing ever. After all, AWALT so it's not hard to make observations about it! I would dearly love to see your evidence on how women are incapable of love and are eternally child-like in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/14 04:01 PM |
| -2 | I am a Heterosexual Woman AMADing ding ding! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/14 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Iama BP male. AMAOr you're just incapable of defending your position? If your ideology is so based in science and fact, you should be able to provide a ton of evidence to shut down dissent. Since you can't, and your claiming you can't have questions to your ideology without having an opposing ideology to attack in turn, then I'd say that's more your inability to answer questions or field them than a bad debate sub. But I've given up on PPD. Arguing with the other side reminds me way too much of arguing with crea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/14 08:33 PM |
| 7 | Iama BP male. AMAThere is not a blue pill ideology. The blue pill, if you had to give it a position, is the current status quo and/or some of the not total horse shit ideas that trp has (just without the rampant misogyny and bitter undertones). The point is - the blue pill doesn't exist in the sense of it being a different approach. The sub exists to make fun of trp posts and members. The reason there is any sort of debate is one - to make red pill posters provide actual evidence for why they think their positio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/14 06:44 PM |
| 1 | What do redpillers think about the perception of them as white trash wife beaters? Is that alpha? Do they want to be perceived as socially wealthy or powerful? Or does red pill knowingly and cunningly market downward?Then sounds like you just have a crap social group with not awesome standards. When my friend's boyfriend cheated on him, the cheater was tossed from the friend group for being a douche. Kind of a zero tolerance. But hey, whatever works for you guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/14 05:19 PM |
| 1 | What do redpillers think about the perception of them as white trash wife beaters? Is that alpha? Do they want to be perceived as socially wealthy or powerful? Or does red pill knowingly and cunningly market downward?Maybe you're just picking really shitty women since I don't think I've heard of this kind of stuff outside of high school or TV shows. If all your exes are crazy and all the women you date are terrible, well there's only one common denominator between your past relationships and that would be you. So maybe the type of person you were or are attracts terrible women more than all women being evil conniving sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/14 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What do redpillers think about the perception of them as white trash wife beaters? Is that alpha? Do they want to be perceived as socially wealthy or powerful? Or does red pill knowingly and cunningly market downward?I'm too busy to go search for it right now, but it was posted in TBP a while ago. NP link to a comment made by a red piller about how he goes into the ask subs and brings up TRP to try to bring people in. No idea how many do this, but I would imagine some would - no such thing as bad publicity. Not to mention all the day after posts that TRP makes after being featured as one of the worst subs and all the new subscribers, etc, etc. So they do enjoy the attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/14 05:45 AM |
| 1 | What do redpillers think about the perception of them as white trash wife beaters? Is that alpha? Do they want to be perceived as socially wealthy or powerful? Or does red pill knowingly and cunningly market downward?According to their own members, I've seen admission of going into default sub discussions on "worst subreddits" and mentioning trp to get their name out there. But I don't know how much is from the average person saying the sub is shit versus trp members trying to get publicity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 06:43 PM |
| 4 | XKCD ComicThey tend to go for a very specific sort of woman who their techniques work on. The sort of woman who is looking for the best of the best and only the best of the best will suffice (best of the best typically limited to best available at that moment). That's why you get ideas like hypergamy and women being sluts who will cheat on you at a moment's notice the minute you show weakness or lose frame. The women they're going after are typically shallow and not good for any sort of material investmen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Financial Abortionsame thing as growing a person in your body and birthing it And providing for it financially (and emotionally and physically) for the next 18 years (minimum). Yeah, I'd say having to provide a check every month is the easy end of that deal. It might be a pain in the butt to have to pay a percentage of your income (and the guy may think it's FAR too much money!), but at least that guy doesn't have to worry about soccer practice, sleep overs, parties, afterschool activities, PTA meetings, potty tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 01:06 AM |
| 3 | XKCD ComicPut shit out, get shit back. Aka, if you go for women of little substance or who tend to be vain, shallow, narcissistic, etc, don't be shocked when they act that way. Alternatively, if acting like an asshole attracts these shallow/vain/etc women, don't be shocked when that's what you get. Sure, they may be great for a casual thing or fwb or ones, but don't be surprised when your shitty attitude and techniques bring back shitty people. Good attitudes, being respectful and looking for people with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/14 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Financial Abortionjust that if men not wanting to take on parenthood is a problematic thing, then women not wanting to take on parenthood is the same level of problematic Oftentimes the woman chooses abortion because the man won't help to pay to support his child and she doesn't want to have to go through the hassle of getting child support payments. Whether she wants one or not, she figures it's the best choice at that time, regardless of how it may affect her. But hey, what's a little emotional and physical tra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/14 04:48 AM |
| 0 | What do redpillers think about the perception of them as white trash wife beaters? Is that alpha? Do they want to be perceived as socially wealthy or powerful? Or does red pill knowingly and cunningly market downward?It's called getting new subscribers to spread the ideology. That would be the currency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/14 02:01 AM |
| 1 | being passive and letting people pick you up?Ah, cell phone autocorrect, gotta love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 04:19 PM |
| 2 | being passive and letting people pick you up?The fuck did I just read? Was there English or even a question that's relevant in that mess? Because I'm not seeing it. Why are you getting hit on by Gary guys? Because they want to have sex with you and think you might be gay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Financial AbortionSo when a man sabotages birth control, the woman consented to motherhood? She consented to sex and to the risk of pregnancy. Did you know bc isn't 100% effective? So even if you wrap it up every time, you could still get someone pregnant? Pregnancy leads to babies. It's kind of how sex works. The difference between men and women is the woman can then make a choice with her doctor to terminate the medical condition of pregnancy. Right, and these women would be free to continue doing that. The onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Financial AbortionIt's the same bogeyman as the welfare queens. You know, the ones who live on welfare but somehow lead a better lifestyle than your average Joe. None of these people have been found, but it's a convenient bogeyman to keep people from supporting a social safety net. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Financial AbortionYou don't understand consent to fatherhood and financial abortion. Because it's a bogus concept. Did you consent to sex? Then you consented to the risk of fatherhood. Can you carry a baby to term and become pregnant yourself? No? Then you cannot make a medical choice to terminate a pregnancy. Is it unfair and unbalanced? Yes - but it's biology. And for you guys, biology reigns supreme. In a culture with these things present, there is no such thing as women that believe that its normal to just ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Financial AbortionBiotroofs and biology are king (especially where it can be used to "prove" how inferior women are), unless it causes them to have to spend money on their kid. Then biology can go take a hike. Because these guys are all universally so rich and powerful that every woman would totally love to get pregnant, go through 9 months of physical bullshit, labor, then 18 (at a minimum) years to raise their kid, all for a monthly check. The self delusion and narcissism is strong with this group. Unless you'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Financial AbortionIt was all manner of unpleasant - the insertion and dilation were the worst pain I think I've experienced to date. The two or three weeks of cramping and spotting. Then the hormonal rollercoaster since I'd never been on hormonal bc before. But I think it was the best choice for me - mostly because it's a few weeks of discomfort then out of sight, out of mind for 5 years. Probably tmi, but it was the best form for me (especially since my obgyn was saying that the arm implant one has an increased … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Financial AbortionGood luck getting that through the republican party though. Social services are the bane of their existence. Either way, holding biodad's responsible for providing financial support for their kids or implementing some sort of excellent social safety net for single parents is the way to go, IMO. Not this ridiculous idea of financial abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Financial AbortionA man can terminate his pregnancy by means of abortion the minute he can grow a uterus to have one. For a whole bunch of guys talking about reality and differences in gender, you sure do seem to miss the fact that men don't have to undergo the medical condition of pregnancy. The minute a guy can get pregnant, he can run right down to planned parenthood and get his abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 02:40 AM |
| 0 | Financial AbortionNot to mention how terrible the current adoption program in the US is. Don't need to look much farther than foster home conditions and orphanages to see that adoption is almost a worse choice for a kid than just an outright abortion or trying to raise it yourself in poverty. But, that's just a pesky little detail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Financial AbortionWhat I don't understand about TRPs and MRAs when it comes to the concept of financial abortion is why they don't want to care for their own offspring. This is their bloody kid (who exists as a person now, not just a fetus) for Christ's sake. I find it pretty telling that instead of petitioning for child support reform, they're off talking about how they should just not have to pay at all because reasons. I would be totally for child support reform. Have a system in place where the mother has to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 02:28 AM |
| 6 | Financial AbortionDude, if my boyfriend could do the birth control so I wouldn't have to worry about having to get my cervix dilated for an IUD ever again, I would be all over that shit like white on rice. Because holy fuckballs, is female birth control ever a pain in the fucking ass. It most usually fucks with the plumbing and with emotions for at least the first few months while things get oriented. Since male birth control wouldn't really rely on hormonal methods, that would be amaze-balls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 02:13 AM |
| 10 | Why are redpillers so unexpectedly lacking in skepticism about stories about women, field reports, etc?SRS is often mocked reddit-wide for that very position themselves. And TRP's position of banning concern trolling makes any form of dissent at risk of a bannable offense. Since concern trolling covers all manners of dissent (from actual trolling to honest questions to differing opinions). Point is, TRP wants to keep the stories that maintain the confirmation bias. Or will even seek out ways blatantly false or even questionable stories still maintain the narrative of how terribles women are. It s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 02:08 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of Chateau Heartiste's "thermonuclear option"?I guess I just can't wrap my head around that level of narcissism. Not to mention that level of double standard. Because this concept: if you commit to a monogamous relationship and then find yourself in circumstance that cause you to be non monogamous, the relationship is then defacto non monogamous. Logically makes zero sense to me. Mostly because a relationship is, by definition almost, a contract of sorts between two people. Now, if both parties agree it's non-monogamous, then it's not cheat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/14 01:51 AM |
| 8 | What do you think of Chateau Heartiste's "thermonuclear option"?No. Relationships, even open relationships, have rules. Casual relationships don't have rules as no commitment has been made. If a rule is broken, and it's a big enough deal, then the relationship is dissolved. For most people, cheating is a 100% deal breaker. As is abuse. The quote in the OP is both advocating cheating and abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 09:09 PM |
| 7 | What do you think of Chateau Heartiste's "thermonuclear option"?Da fuck are you on about? I'm pretty sure relationships are either closed or open and that is decided by the couple. If one of them breaks the agreement, then that's cheating. And it is possible to cheat in an open relationship if you break the terms that exist. Cheating is for scummy people who aren't mature enough to address their relationship problems in an adult manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Do red pill men typically agree with the goals of r/redpillwomen?That's especially a lot of effort to put in to cook for a guy who isn't even committed to dating you. I'd totally cook for my boyfriend if he wanted me to. But I'm not going to go on for this three day drawn out cooking deal to try to get him to want to commit. At that point it's shit or get off the pot lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 08:28 PM |
| 3 | PPD what's the course of action here? How should this guy feel about this situation? And what should he do?Eh, I have a really good relationship with my mom so it wouldn't hurt my pride too much. You can always pay them back too. But really, in this case, it's more important to GTFO so you can move on than worry about pride. That bitch of a person already fucked over his pride it sounds like. I hate cheaters and selfish asshats like that girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?First of all, men always want sex. Sounds like an absolute to me. Unless you'd like to adjust your initial claim to something like "In general, most men I know want sex all the time" or "In general, many men want sex most of the time". how did I know you had a dog? Actually, you were only half right about the dog. I have my boyfriend's female dog. Who is spayed. I've never had a non-neutered male dog, so haven't had to ever deal with the random humping, though I've seen it at the dog park, etc. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 03:58 AM |
| 6 | PPD what's the course of action here? How should this guy feel about this situation? And what should he do?Personally, I'd call up my friends on the phone and cry for a bit. Then I'd have some alcohol. Then I'd call my parents, explain the situation, and beg them to buy me a plane ticket or train ticket or anything back home before Valentine's Day. I'd ask for the engagement ring back (pawn it for some cash and since it's a conditional gift, it's not hers anyway), pack my stuff and go the fuck home. Block her on all social media, phone numbers, etc. Call the places where deposits had been put down an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 03:40 AM |
| 3 | The Quiz: Mating IQ .How did you do?I got a 10. But that's just because I have low self esteem and assume people aren't flirting with me even if they are. Hell I didn't even know my current SO liked me until he kissed me (had an inkling but I want sure if he was just nice or what). But then I'm also not a gold digger or a 'slut' so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 12:43 AM |
| 9 | Dan Savage's advice to a lonely young guy...I'm blue pill and I hate this guy's "advice". It's usually bull and this looks to be more of the same. Color me unsurprised that an internet stranger gives out terrible advice for someone's love life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?Oh it was. Especially since it's not a hard idea to reiterate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?I'm a responsible pet owner who spays and neuters her pets. But that aside, yes men produce more testosterone than the average woman. This is not true for all men and all women. A woman's sex drive is not tied to when she's ovulating only (thus your female dog analogy falls apart). Dogs also hump to show dominance and not just for reproduction, otherwise you would have females humping males, males humping males and females humping females. So there goes that part of your example. But clearly you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?I wouldn't say so, no. You're more qualified to talk about how you are or how your friends or or how guys you know are, but not guys in general. I don't think guys necessarily have higher sex drives - it is a commonly held belief, I won't deny that, but that's also a source of where guys feel bad about themselves because they think they're supposed to be horny 24/7 but aren't so something must be wrong with them (hint, there usually isn't). And I know I have yet to meet a guy who can match my dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?I think he said he was trying to establish a point, any point, that both red and blue can agree on to move forward from. Except for the advice that nice thing gave is kind of the opposite of what most of red pill advocates. I've seen a ton of "don't be honest about other girls" and "don't lie but evade the question" and "if they have any objections to you seeing other women then next the dumb slut", but haven't seen much in the way of "treat your flings and ONS with the respect and courtesy you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?Isn't that the very definition of solipsism? Being unable to see the world from a perspective that doesn't match yours and so having to relate it to yourself instead? I get it - you have never turned down a girl for sex. Congrats! Your friends tell you they're the same - whether they're telling the truth or lying, I can't say, but let's assume they're telling the truth. Congrats to them! But you and your friends are not a large enough sample size to say how most men are. If you want to qualify t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?Sounds very solipsistic of you. Your experience and your sexual leanings are, of course, the only options possible for guys and any guys who don't feel the way you do towards sex are lying or bad. And no guy would ever not want to have sex because, well, you would never not want to have sex and your experience must be true for all guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?I've been turned down for sex by ex-boyfriends and by my current boyfriend. Sometimes guys are too tired from work or too stressed to be aroused or too sore from the gym or have a headache or just don't feel like it because of whatever reason. Kind of the same as girls. Who'd've thunk it?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?No science, just on average from personal experience, and what I know from friends and people I respect. Cool. But that doesn't prove that women have a harder time. It may show that the women you know or you have heard about in your extended circle may have a harder time. But then I'd wonder how often you and your friends are discussing their girlfriends/wives old ONS exploits and think maybe you should get a hobby. The thing is that it's not always raw willpower. (nature vs nurture) a lot of it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 04:10 AM |
| 5 | What would you want your love life to be like if you were somehow desired, unconditionally, by every single person you desired?You forgot the bald eagle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?Women have a much harder time. Much, much harder time. I would LOVE to see your science behind this! IMO. Oh. Just anecdotes and opinions. Look, I'm glad you have the ability to get whatever you set your mind to accomplished. It's a great skill and I'm happy you've been able to make changes you felt necessary in your life. But it's not solely a male trait, there is no evidence that men can do it easier or better than women (or vice versa) and there are likely a good number of women who can do th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?Except red pill frames it as only women have issues bonding after having sex with multiple partners. Men can sleep with thousands of women and never have any issues bonding. So, if red pill will admit that both men and women may have trouble forming a strong bond after engaging in multiple strings of short term or ONS relationships, then I agree the members aren't entirely ridiculous on this count. But I've overwhelmingly seen claims from users and ECs that this phenomenon does not affect men, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Question for Blue: What's the problem with this strategy?Obviously if one post doesn't show the poster as a giant asshole then the whole of red pill isn't comprised of giant assholes! Besides, that's one good post from that person - but I've seen far more posts that were terrible that outweigh the one good post (which has advice he could've found on blue pill as well - be honest about seeing other people/not being exclusive). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 03:22 AM |
| 5 | What would you want your love life to be like if you were somehow desired, unconditionally, by every single person you desired?Your condescension sounded more like you thought our fantasies were intellectually inferior, like "ha look at these uncultured brutes, so uncivilized". This sounds like some projection on your part as I simply said I don't have a high opinion of empty, casual, meaningless sex. I don't care if someone else thinks it's the best thing since sliced bread - I don't understand the appeal. Thus, I don't understand the appeal of the cookie cutter red pill fantasies (since they all seem relegated to bang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 01:31 AM |
| 2 | What is your dark triad scoreSince I was on my phone when I took it, the highest was the Machiavellian which was 15. The psycho one was 1. I think the first one was 4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/14 10:49 PM |
| 6 | What is your dark triad score1.1, 1.8 and 0.7... so not high at all. Highest one was machiavellianism and on that one it's because people can be manipulated, I just don't think they should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/14 09:15 PM |
| 7 | What would you want your love life to be like if you were somehow desired, unconditionally, by every single person you desired?No more condescending than your assertion that the blue pill women are either lying or have boring fantasies :-) you find our fantasies boring. I find the red pill fantasies boring. At least I gave an explanation for why I don't understand the appeal. You just made a baseless claim with nothing to back it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/14 04:59 PM |
| 5 | What would you want your love life to be like if you were somehow desired, unconditionally, by every single person you desired?Actually, the red pill fantasies read as really boring to me. And very caricature-like. But then, I don't have a high opinion of empty, casual, emotionless sex so I definitely don't understand any of the appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/14 02:43 AM |
| 7 | What would you want your love life to be like if you were somehow desired, unconditionally, by every single person you desired?Probably the same way it is now. Find a good guy who I like and who likes me and date monogamously until we either realize we aren't compatible or get married. I wouldn't do any casual relationships or casual sex because I'm just hard wired for monogamy. Of probably have an easier time finding a boyfriend? But when I'm dating someone I don't find myself attracted to other people. I may think they have cute facial features, but I really don't evaluate them beyond a casual glance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/14 03:03 PM |
| 3 | How many subs on reddit exist with the explicit purpose of advising and analyzing the best way for women attract a long term male partner?Every time I hear a red pill man talk about how he runs his relationships, it makes me so much happier that in dating the beta I have. See, he actually cares about how I'm doing emotionally, mentally and physically beyond just getting me functioning to service him sexually. You should try it some time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/14 09:24 PM |
| 2 | How many subs on reddit exist with the explicit purpose of advising and analyzing the best way for women attract a long term male partner?Actually, rpw comes across as a forum to keep very insecure and frequently threatened men around in a ltr. For example, they commonly claim that a woman should always have a smile on her face and her main goal should be pleasing her husband and she needs to keep quiet about her emotional upsets because he can't be bothered with it. Now, I'm all for keeping your SO happy and relaxed, but if I have a bad day or if I'm in a bad mood, I'm not going to put on a happy face so my SO doesn't have to dea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/14 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Non-RP advice?So now you're comparing the inherent sexism in a document written in biblical times (of which you'll find fee people except for people who follow the religion and trpers who would agree with the sexism) and the mass genocide of a large volume of the population (during war and with a law created under a fascist regime) as the same type of discrimination and horrible oppression against guys who want to leer at young girls/teens. Yup. Total misandry. Because, y'know, leering at young girls and teen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/14 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Non-RP advice?So you're going to compare leering at young women in a sexual manner which is borderline pedophilic (we're taking preteen and teen who are not fully developed) to women driving cars in a country based on biblical law (which is, by its definition, sexist as fuck). Yes the misandry is strong in a country that tells you to not follow your base instincts. How dare they tell you to not perv on preteens and teens! Still hoping you never have daughters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/14 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Non-RP advice?I dearly hope you never have daughters. I can't even imagine what you'd do to her friends on the basis of "biology". Just because they're developing (BTW, few teenage girls are fully developed - full maturity isn't really reached until 18-20), doesn't mean that you shouldn't try to act like a civilized person (civilized defined by the morals and code and law of your country) rather than some instinct driven animal. Otherwise what's to stop you from killing our raping someone? If you're just foll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/14 05:24 PM |
| 4 | How many subs on reddit exist with the explicit purpose of advising and analyzing the best way for women attract a long term male partner?I tried asking a question in rpw. I was banned within a few hours for concern trolling. There is no such thing as asking a question in trp or rpw because it's just concern trolling (which I got clarified before - that concern trolling encapsulates actual trolls, dissenting opinions and honest questions). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/14 04:02 PM |
| 3 | How many subs on reddit exist with the explicit purpose of advising and analyzing the best way for women attract a long term male partner?Nice strawman feminist you got there. Yup, every feminist ever hates men and penises. Because there's never been a moderate feminist or male feminists. Nope. They're all feminazis who want to castrate men. There's really no point arguing against an opinion like yours because it's so utterly misinformed and extremist that you'd have a better time beating your head against the wall. There is literally nothing I could say to get you to even think about opening your mind to the possibility that your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/14 04:00 PM |
| 3 | What is it that you want? Ideally? Realistically? How are you working on making that happen?Short term: I have an amazing boyfriend who will be a fiance at some point in the not too distant future. We have one cute dog and two adorable cats, and I'd like to add a Newf to the mix (because big dogs are <3). As far as our relationship dynamic, it's pretty perfect. Lots of cuddling, sex, video gaming, tv watching, working out and it's an amazing experience. We have a perfect balance of "alone time" and together time (I say alone time, but it's mostly hang out in the same room but do other … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/14 01:13 AM |
| 3 | RPS Banned?Because if there is no set definition for concern trolling and it applies equally to legitimate trolls, honest questions and dissenting opinions, it's nothing more than censorship. And for a sub that's all about free speech and men talking like men without worrying about poor women's delicate sensibilities, I would hope they would frown equally on this censorship that's carried by a limited number of mods and applies to their entire userbase. I would be hesitant to be part of a serious life-view… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/14 05:34 PM |
| 2 | RPS Banned?Then I would argue that the concern trolling rule is no more than a desire to remove any and all dissenting opinions, regardless of whether the opinions have merit. And that just proves to me that trp exists solely as an echo chamber with limited basis in reality (after all, dissenting opinions are banned full stop, so don't question the procedures or the methods because that's concern trolling - which is some sort of nebulous definition not stated anywhere but instead decided upon by some very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/14 05:18 PM |
| 9 | How is "hypergamy" different from "standards"?Based on posts and comments I've seen made on top, yes. Wasn't soft harem's entire rant about she doesn't love you to have his recognize that fact? Is that not why guys have to maintain frame in a relationship? Because if your girlfriend sees you with any weakness then she'll next you for a new alpha? That's all I've seen on trp about the principle anyway. Unless of course hypergamy means different things to different terpers as it seems to be the excuse for everything in trip (the old "I don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/14 04:16 PM |
| 18 | How is "hypergamy" different from "standards"?I think hypergamy is more constantly looking for an upgrade, even while in a committed relationship. In other words, if you're not the alpha-est alpha she's ever seen, show any weakness or any emotion or ever lose frame, she will lose all attraction to you and leave you for the next alpha she can find. Or try to reduce you to a beta bux. I don't believe any of that is true, BTW. I'm sure it applies to some very terrible people but it is not the majority. In other words, as one user tried to get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/14 03:37 PM |
| 5 | RPS Banned?So what is concern trolling then? Does it only cover legitimate trolling attempts? Does it apply to honest questions? Does it apply to dissenting opinions? And how or who defines the concern trolling and by what criteria? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/14 05:10 AM |
| 2 | RPS Banned?I think we found RPS' alt ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/14 04:53 AM |
| 6 | Hostility to Submissive women. Is it acceptable?Well my life isn't a disaster so I can't speak for those whose life is one. But no, I think those disaster moments, while frustrating, are character building. I like being able to make my own way in the world and do what I like. For example, I would never have been able to be into dinosaurs or be a geologist in a red pill world. They are not feminine interests and, in red pill land, my genitals determine what I can and cannot pursue. Because, as a woman, my only goal should be marrying the bigge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/14 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Hostility to Submissive women. Is it acceptable?I think it's a good thing. Can you imagine how dull life would be if everything were already figured out? It'd be easier, sure, but way too boring for me. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/14 10:54 PM |
| 18 | Hostility to Submissive women. Is it acceptable?I couldn't give two fucks about how you live your life. If you're happy and making the choice from a healthy perspective (i.e. choosing to be submissive because it makes you happiest versus choosing to be submissive because women are inferior to men because biotruths). What I object to is the red pill idea that all women are inferior and must be submissive because biology says so and anyone thinking otherwise is mentally ill (yes, I did see a terper calling women who desired equal partnerships m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/14 07:11 PM |
| 2 | In regards to women who cut their hair shortIt was more of a bob. Don't have the guts to go for a full pixie cut. Especially if it looks bad and I need to grow it out, lol. The awkward hair stages suck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/14 03:58 PM |
| 1 | In regards to women who cut their hair shortHalf my hair cut as it is is the shears. It's really depressing how long it takes to get the keratin treatment (doors wonders for smoothing and keeping hair soft) and the cut/shear. It's a good 3 to 4 hour marathon. I feel sorry for my hair stylist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/14 07:01 AM |
| 4 | Study: Men and Women Happier with ChivalryWhat does population growth and disposability of men have to do with chivalry? Chivalry is antiquated and hasn't really existed for centuries (seriously, the chivalry we think of and the original chivalry code are quite different). People should just work on being polite. And if someone (X) is only kind/does a favor for someone else (Y) because Y is "weaker", that is not a compliment for X. Instead it says that X wants to get some brownie points and wouldn't give two shits about Y's circumstance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/14 04:06 PM |
| 4 | In regards to women who cut their hair shortI wish I could do short hair. I tried once... there is way too much volume and wave to my hair to ever try again. So I have to keep it shoulder length. The extra weight keeps it down a bit more and makes it less of a pain to deal with. My attractiveness to men never factored into my hair style decisions. Fact is, I have ton of hair that's very voluminous. In summer, it's very hot and uncomfortable. I'm wearing it at the shortest I can to try to manage that. It's a matter of utility. If I were pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/14 03:05 PM |
| 1 | In regards to women who cut their hair shortDepends on the work environment. Something very casual it's probably not a huge deal. Something where you need to wear business casual or professional attire, I'm guessing it's right out. I'd love to get a dinosaur tattoo, but my fear of needles and work requirements may make that impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/14 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I am the virgin loser strawman you all talk off. Ask me anything.Which is why I said if he's that desperate and his only goal is getting laid, then he should go that route since it's easiest. He should first get see if he's clinically depressed. Then he should work on improving his self esteem. Those two things will make his life better than getting laid (whether through prostitution out through casual sex). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/14 10:12 PM |
| 1 | I am the virgin loser strawman you all talk off. Ask me anything.I just checked to make sure I'm replying to the right person. You were the one talking about how being incel was psychologically damaging. I think perhaps you should reread your comment and mine to see if it makes more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/14 09:48 PM |
| 1 | I am the virgin loser strawman you all talk off. Ask me anything.My point is that telling people that they are silly for being depressed and ashamed for suffering from involuntary celibacy is unconscionable, given the importance of sex in the human psyche. He doesn't sound depressed or ashamed because he can't get laid. He sounds depressed because he is aimless in life (no friend, no job, etc). These are likely bigger causes for depression than not getting your dick wet. But I find the concept of incel silly from the get go. I've gone for longer periods witho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/14 09:24 PM |
| 1 | I am the virgin loser strawman you all talk off. Ask me anything.You are wrong for being ashamed. You are wrong for being depressed. Exploit those who have no alternative but to sell their body. Be a good prole and it will help your self-image. Suppress bad feelings with mind-altering substances. Let's see if I can make some sense of this disjointed ramble. Being ashamed of being a virgin is a pretty silly thing, imo. Unless getting sex is literally your only goal in life, then sure, you can be ashamed you haven't met your goal by 24. It doesn't sound like OP… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/14 08:26 PM |
| 2 | I am the virgin loser strawman you all talk off. Ask me anything.It sounds like you're pretty depressed and that's not a good thing. I'd advise a visit to your doctor to see what can be done. As for the rest... Handholdless Kissless Virgin 24 years old with virtually no friends , never getting outside , no job , no driver licence, no life experience,living with parents. I'm also an atheist (but in an europe country, so probably no value),living in junk, listening to vidya music and fapping to animu, the whole package. Being a virgin at 24 isn't something to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/14 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Interesting article about the origins of redpill / redpillwomen psychologyWhile trp does romanticize becoming a narcissist (dark triad), you'd have to establish that they are narcissists. Though if they are working towards becoming narcissists then I could see how that applies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/14 04:56 PM |
| 1 | This place isn't even supposed to have downvotes. And yet RP viewpoints are regularly voted into the negatives.Usually this is how a debate works: 1 an idea or belief is presented. This idea can exist in a vacuum or it can be based on other ideas or beliefs. 2 if everyone agrees on the foundation of the belief (or definition of the term), then the idea presented in 1 can be debated. If the definition is challenged (in this case, your belief that women can't live the same way men do), then the definition can be challenged and the person making the claim, in this case you, must now provide evidence for why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/14 03:06 PM |
| 3 | This place isn't even supposed to have downvotes. And yet RP viewpoints are regularly voted into the negatives.Except for the fact that there is no evidence for women loving differently than men, right? Different in the sense that men love unconditionally and purely and honorably (because these are male traits) and women only love the feelings you give her and what you can provide for her (because women have no honor or good male traits) - these are statements that have been made by red pill over time, including endorsed contributors. I mean, after all, this is a pretty extreme claim! Half the human race… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/14 04:34 AM |
| 2 | This place isn't even supposed to have downvotes. And yet RP viewpoints are regularly voted into the negatives.I only haven't because I have CSS enabled and I'm too lazy to look up the thread on my mobile ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/14 04:21 AM |
| 6 | This place isn't even supposed to have downvotes. And yet RP viewpoints are regularly voted into the negatives.Really? Because I've seen some really back-asswards generalizations on their sub which they defend, even in the face of counter evidence. Or is it only generalizations that they come up with are correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 03:28 AM |
| 10 | This place isn't even supposed to have downvotes. And yet RP viewpoints are regularly voted into the negatives.So does TRP. What's your point? Some people have too much free time or don't understand how the downvote button works? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 03:03 AM |
| 10 | This place isn't even supposed to have downvotes. And yet RP viewpoints are regularly voted into the negatives.Then welcome the downvotes or don't participate, I'd recommend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 01:30 AM |
| 6 | This place isn't even supposed to have downvotes. And yet RP viewpoints are regularly voted into the negatives.You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar. This may be good advice for you if you choose to continue to debate in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 12:55 AM |
| 17 | This place isn't even supposed to have downvotes. And yet RP viewpoints are regularly voted into the negatives.Eh, if you engaged in better debate tactics you'd probably get a better response from the legitimate debaters in this sub. Some of the downvotes are probably just related to you being you and that's not ok for a debate sub. But many of them are also related to you being perceived as rude, condescending or patronizing as well. Is that your intent? No idea. But it appears to be a pretty widespread opinion of people on this sub. Now, for someone who runs a sub that thrives on generalizations and pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 12:48 AM |
| 25 | This place isn't even supposed to have downvotes. And yet RP viewpoints are regularly voted into the negatives.I didn't attack your character. I said you're a dishonest debater. Don't need to look past your comments in this sub to see that you employ bad debate tactics. It's an assessment of your debating methods. A generalization, if you will. And here I thought you guys loved generalizations! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 12:36 AM |
| 27 | This place isn't even supposed to have downvotes. And yet RP viewpoints are regularly voted into the negatives.Not to mention people who are on mobile can still downvote. But really, I think it's a lot more him not giving clear answers, changing his answers midway or not debating honestly that garners the downvotes. But the downvoting does need to stop because it's a pretty daft move in a debate sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill isn't "beta"Then they can look for advice and should. But that advice didn't have to be wrapped up in misogyny as it is on trp. They can get advice to dress better, work out and be interesting from any number of sources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/14 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill isn't "beta"Yeah. I have my good male friends who I don't have sexual interest in. We hang out and he'll buy my lunch here, I'll buy his dinner there. Try to keep things on an equal trade off so neither of us feels like the other is mooching. Hell, i even pay for my boyfriend's best friend's dinner if we're all hanging out together. It's a relatively fair trade off because I think that's how friends should treat each other. Money is just money and if someone can't come do something because they're low on ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/14 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill isn't "beta"Why is someone looking for a ltr (or even just sex) at 12? Edit to add: I grew up on romantic comedies. It only took one or two relationships to realize that it was all bull. Was it a harsh lesson? Oh yeah. But I didn't need to go full on hate all men mode to make it (even if the guy's I dated made a terrible representation of men). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/14 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill isn't "beta"I wasn't aware I should be taking life advice from Hollywood movies. In that case, I will be quitting my job and finding a gym that specializes in montages so I can lose weight fast and get some massive gainz and become a female Rocky Balboa. But more seriously, someone who takes love or life advice from movies is, by definition, not mature. Why? Because they haven't experienced enough to recognize that life, and especially love, does not follow Hollywood's version of how a story should go. Love… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/14 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill isn't "beta"You'll be hard pressed to find a mature person suggesting a guy should be a "nice guy". Being a nice person is important and most people should strive to be nice in their everyday life (random acts of kindness are good). Most advice you'll find for dating will include improving your looks (style or fitness) and being an interesting person (hobbies, job, traveling, etc). Nobody should rely on being nice to get laid. It'll make people more likely to respond to you (get more flies with honey and al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/14 06:33 PM |
| 4 | 'The Dark Enlightenment'I know. I was using that low number (low number for the elite rich who would run things in a noon democratic society anyway - I wish I made something closer to that) as an example figure. Most of the red pill bloggers and commenters probably are lucky to hold more than a minimum wage to slightly above job, for the ones who aren't still in high school or college. They're going to get a rude awakening when they graduate with their uber STEM degrees and find out that the job market still hasn't ful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/14 11:35 PM |
| 4 | 'The Dark Enlightenment'This is very true. Even the most terrible college student can pretend he or she is a success merely for the fact that they are in college. Their experience and opinions are somehow more important, despite how misinformed or outright stupid they may be. If you make more than 75k a year you are now, in their minds, in the upper echelon of society and totes alpha. In reality, the upper echelon are laughing their assess off at you thinking you're hot shit. It also seems to me that red pill types (ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/14 07:57 PM |
| 9 | 'The Dark Enlightenment'Yes. I'd like to see how in favor of autocratic or monarchistic rule red pill types would be when they realize since they are not in the upper 10% (and now have no means to advance themselves in society), they would be the peasants working the fields. Education is right out. As are any worker rights. Don't like having to work a 16 hour day? Too damn bad! It's that or starve. And don't even think about making any groups to discuss how to improve your lot in life. I'd rather move towards something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/14 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Study: Women misperceived a lack of benevolent sexism (or chivalry) as hostile to women (sexist/misogynistic/etc)I always feel super awkward if a guy pays for a first date. Mostly because of the implication that I now "owe" him something because he spent money on me. I usually try to go dutch or I'll pay for one activity (like movie tickets or whatever) and he can pay for the other one (lunch or whatever). That way we both paid and there's no sense of entitlement on either side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/14 04:20 PM |
| 6 | What's the most passionate thing BP did for you that you believe a RP could never do for you?But I don't understand your definition of passion. For me, one version of passion is a sort of indescribable "I love my SO do much" feeling that just puts a smile on your face and make you think about the future. Another version of passion is a "I want to jump your bones now" animal lust. My boyfriend gets that second one just for being his sexy self. I'm super attracted to him and he doesn't have to play at any games for that to be true. He gets the former one quite often too since he's a very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/14 04:51 PM |
| 10 | What's the most passionate thing BP did for you that you believe a RP could never do for you?Well since the basis of red pill (for relationships and based on what I've observed) seems to be the man doing whatever he wants whenever he wants and not giving in to a females demands because that's beta, just about everything my boyfriend does increases my passion for him. Granted, he's already playing with a stacked deck since I find him sexy as all fuck and would be totally happy having sex all day every day, so it doesn't take much to "increase my passion" (I'm not even sure what you mean … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/14 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Why does both TRP and TBP view the red pill as inherently anti feminist?I would hardly say that America is the greatest civilization of all time. Especially since it seems we're going into our last glory days, presuming the tea partiers keep up their bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/14 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Last Minute Resistance in a porn flickYes because porn is never scripted or fake. Those young college girls applying for a job totally think that that random guy is a porn agent with a huge casting couch! And that hot mom totally just wanted to bang the appliance repair man! And those girls got on those strange men's bus because it totally was the most obvious mode of transport! In other words, never assume a porn scene is unscripted or real. You'll make yourself look like an idiot. As for this scenario, probably scripted. And even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/14 08:13 PM |
| 6 | Women Find Sexually Explicit Ads Unappealing — Unless the Price Is RightAfter age 23, a woman is about as mature as she'll ever be, and she's less likely to have been through a really horrible break up that creates baggage too. I'd love to see your evidence of that one. There are plenty of teenagers with baggage from crappy exes and plenty of older women who have been able to put their baggage mostly behind them. Not to mention, if RP states that guys shouldn't get married until they're in their early 30s or older, is it safe to say that they have too much baggage a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/13 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Women Find Sexually Explicit Ads Unappealing — Unless the Price Is RightIt is the feminist bed you have made for us males to lay down on. Hmm... well, my boyfriend and the guys I know seem to be pretty well adjusted when it comes to interpersonal relationship with women. I suspect you're feeling used and abused and treated like a resource vending machine probably because you're a) projecting (you're treating women the way you think they're treating you and using them purely for holes for your penis - or a vagina vending machine, if you will) and b) you're chasing af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/13 02:20 AM |
| 6 | Women Find Sexually Explicit Ads Unappealing — Unless the Price Is RightWhen you cut through love and all the emotions that revolve around relationships and reproduction, men are just DNA donors and resource providers, they are disposable people that have a purpose to fulfill, and that's it. Geez, if that's how you think women and men interact, no wonder you're red pill. If I had that bleak of an outlook on relationships and the opposite sex, I'd just forgo the sex and become a hermit. Because holy shitballs that's a depressing perspective (and in my opinion complet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/13 02:08 AM |
| 4 | "Marriage isnt for you"That made me smile. How accurate is it? I couldn't say. I know that there are way too many selfish people who, when the going gets tough, get up and leave. You don't have to look much further than the relationships subs for that - multi-year relationship that's going down the drain a bit? DTMFA! Now are there some scenarios where, yes, the motherfucker should be dumped? Totally. Among those are cheating or abusive situations. But in the case where one partner is unhappy due to a breakdown in com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/13 09:10 PM |
| 1 | So, i have some questions....And some men can't have emotionless sex, just like some women can. What's your point? That since you can, that all your friends should as well? Because that's just silly. If you're fine with casual sex, awesome. But don't pressure someone who isn't into having sex with you... especially if they want a relationship. Bad idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/13 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Hunger Games: Catching FireThis is what happens when people make grand claims from a movie without reading the source material. They don't grasp the undertones and don't know when the movie is accurate or inaccurate. It'd be like debating the Harry Potter movies and ignoring the books. So much is left out of the movie for time or action/flow that it isn't the same. Edit: and not to mention that people who have read the books can't really debate it with people who haven't because we know how the story goes and caught all t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/13 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Hunger Games: Catching FireFWIW, having read the books as well, I never much cared for Gale. I liked Peeta better and I still think he gets the short end of the stick in the series precisely because Katniss is a teenage girl with confusing emotions and a world revolt based around her. My vote is totally for a more Peeta like guy. But then I don't like alpha guys to begin with - especially not red pill versions of alpha types (who really just come across as controlling and insecure in themselves and their ability to have a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/13 07:51 PM |
| 3 | How should you deal with childish acts of your partner?The only relationships I've been in where one or the other party acted childishly (as in throwing a tantrum - my boyfriend and I act silly and childish sometimes because we know how to have fun and laugh at ourselves) was because the parties involved were immature and, essentially, children (at least in terms of being in a relationship). Now that I'm an adult and am in an adult relationship, if my boyfriend and I get into a fight or argument about something, we discuss it like rational people. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/13 11:58 PM |
| 2 | How to blue pillers explain the prevalence of violence against men?I'd say part of it is in the perception that a strong manly man could never be hurt by physical force coming from a woman (because all women are week and timid things, apparently). The macho manly man stereotype, perpetuated by the red pill itself and the adherence to traditional gender roles, must always be stronger and tougher than any and all women he comes into contact with. If a woman slaps him or smacks him, with the intention of violence, and he's injured, then he's obviously not a macho … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/13 02:40 AM |
| 2 | How does TBP feel about TRP's "pedestalization-of-women" stance?But I... don't have it in me to let go of my preteen/teenage girl-self. May I ask how old you are? It sounds like you're probably early 20's. And while there isn't anything wrong with liking girly things or manly things or any particular sort of things, the fanatacism/obsession with them can be detrimental in some respects. So keep on liking your girly things, just don't be shocked when you start liking them a little less intensely as you get older. But there is sort of a small core collection I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/13 03:51 AM |
| 3 | How does TBP feel about TRP's "pedestalization-of-women" stance?I don't think you understood my comment. If you're keeping some form of media around (be it visual, audio, text) and you're using it as a masturbatory aid, then it's porn (for you). If you're stockpiling a bunch of pictures of a celebrity, even if they're not sexual, but you're using them to fap, then you've made them pornographic. Based on your comments about batgirl, supergirl and your paris hilton picture collection, you sound kind similar to a preteen or teenage girl - you know, giggling ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/13 12:50 AM |
| 6 | How does TBP feel about TRP's "pedestalization-of-women" stance?The pedestalization is more a metric of how immature and inexperienced someone is. I'd say the first few relationships a guy or girl is in, pedestals everywhere. But once they get a bit more mature and grow up, the pedestalizing stops (except for maybe the honeymoon phase). At least that's my take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/13 04:24 PM |
| 7 | How does TBP feel about TRP's "pedestalization-of-women" stance?So semantics. Because you also said used to rub one out. Now, I don't know about you, but if you're using some media to rub one out, it's being used as pornography. Whether the material is actually porn or just classy naked pictures, it's porn to you. And I don't doubt that most red pill types are also close to or recovering porn addicts, but that's my own personal opinion with limited evidence (in the way of reddit posts and the number of red pill alphas who participate in nofap). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/13 04:10 PM |
| 3 | 16 Commandments of Poon - Is this how to attract a girlfriend?I went through this list with my boyfriend yesterday. Apart from commandments III, IX, XII, and XIV, he failed all of them (and I'm glad for this because it means he's a good match for me). Here is why those commandments aren't total bollocks: III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority This is generally good advice, otherwise you run the risk of pedestalizing or otherwise worshipping. You should never forget that the person you're dating is still a human being with faults, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/13 06:31 PM |
| 4 | I want my wife to be a stay at home mom. Is this wrong according to TBPI want my wife to be a stay at home mom. Is this wrong according to TBP If you both want it, go for it! If she doesn't want it and you do, that'd be a negatory. Do not proceed with this arrangement. It's pretty simple, really. If you both agree that for your relationship, having the stereotypical gender roles makes you both happiest, then have at it. If you agree that one person must act like a platypus during sex to be your happiest, then go for that. The point is to find an arrangement that ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/13 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Happy Thanksgiving from TRP!Happy Thanksgiving to you as well. I'm thankful for good health, my family (what's left if it anyway) and my wonderful beta boyfriend. Also thankful to finally get a few days of vacation! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/13 03:11 PM |
| 2 | How TRP misidentifies the cause of "reproductive inequality." Also, transgender people are not a "feminist fantasy" or semantic trick.Actually, I'd be fine with that sort of scenario. But only if access to abortion is equal in every state (so fully legal and accessible up to 20 weeks without requiring all the conservative wet dream inclusions, like forcing an ultrasound, etc). If you can get access to abortion equal in every state, then this would be a great solution. However, given the unequal access to abortion, writing a law like this would be a nightmare since it would be different from state to state and have to be based … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/13 04:23 PM |
| 2 | [Dumb question] TRP vs. the World?I'm just a snarky bitch some days and I'd rather be bitchy online in a parody sub than taking stress out on the people around me. I use tbp as a sorry of stress relief. Where I can be as bratty as I'd like to be to my boss when he starts asking for 50 projects at the same time. I'm apparently much nicer in person. And less argumentative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/13 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?You're also assuming that the anecdotes you're hearing on the internet are 100% true as the person describes. There are always three sides to every story in a relationship: his, hers and the truth. I would not trust anecdotes online as something to start living my life by. Hell I could bullshit some story about how I'm some femme Dom and run a bdsm club. It's completely untrue, but since I said it online as an anecdote it must be worth listening to. Only not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/13 06:30 PM |
| 7 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?I detect a distinct prison warden vibe with that whole dynamic. What kind of adult texts their SO for permission to have birthday cake? If you're overweight and trying to lose weight you don't have it or you have s very small piece to be part of the event. If you're healthy you have a piece if you feel like it. But texting to ask if you can have a piece? Definite ick factor to that dynamic and, IMO, incredibly unhealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/13 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Two recent studies on hypergamy from Archives of Sexual Behavior, a top journal in sociologyI have to say a special thank you to the mods for being as fair as you are. Especially with some users being deliberately obtuse and willfully misunderstanding you despite multiple repetitions. I applaud you, mods! Edits: autocorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?-_- did I say it did? I was making a facetious claim. Since red pill insists that men only like certain traits (skinny, good cook, will clean the house, is submissive) that according to red pill I need to tell my bf to dump me because I'm not to their standards. What is with putting words in my mouth or trying to make claims I wasn't making? Are my statements really that unclear? Or are people being purposefully obtuse in their comprehension on this thread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?So the ability to have an attitude now makes you as guilty as those that display it constantly. That's quite an enlightening view into the red pill mentality. All women are capable of being hypergamous slutbags, therefore, they are! I think we figured out the issue with this one comment, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Please take your comment and replace the captain/first mate and submission bits and replace it with "independence/equal relationship" and "independence/assertiveness/responsibility" and see how your advice can be completely flipped around as well. How about we go with my original proposal and say that people should be able to choose to have their relationships however they like, whether it be captain/first mate or equal and agree that no one model is better than the other because it may or may n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Even if what you say is totally correct and all the proper evidence can be brought for review, the heart of TRP is the scientific method, and as such it's a self correcting process. Sorry, I've seen enough delusion and echo chambering on the red pill sub to observe that it is not based on any sort of scientific method and the members are not up for discussing the pros and cons of positions (concern trolling) or whether they're right or not. They want a boy's club where they can pat themselves on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Because clearly giving an adult woman a curfew is the most logical approach to keeping her respecting you... or, y'know, running for the hills because that is uber controlling. Either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 12:46 AM |
| 6 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?You can't quilt and type at the same time? Failure! Must be the feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Some guys are genuinely good men. And some, like my dad, are really skeezy slimeballs. This was only discovered after he'd spent over a grand on a stripper he was planning on moving in with after almost 30 years of marriage to my mom. So people do change over time, and it's not always for the better. There's no telling what a mid-life crisis will do to a person, much less what a major upset or disaster might do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?That would require a lot of alts, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?No, it was a list of traits that would make me unfuckable and definitely not ltr material for the average red pill man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?So the fact that I don't hate myself for being fat means I'm proud of it. The fact that I'm happy with myself as a person means I'm proud of being far. You guys have some screwy reasoning processes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Being RedPill (as a woman) does not mean being un-educated and useless. I'm a business owner, I was a collegiate athlete (I had a full-ride), I graduated from college, and I continue to study and learn. Then by your own group's standards, you're an outlier and you're an example of NARPWALT. Frustrating, isn't it? To have your opinion thrown aside because you don't fit into their nice little box for you? Are all red pill women who are subservient to their husbands uneducated or useless? No, of co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 09:15 PM |
| 7 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Sorry for the delay - wanted to wait until I got to my computer so I could quote and reference properly. i think the confusion comes between the sides in how both sides see what the bulk of the humans are like. one side (tbp) seems overly concerned with what the other side sees as outliers. i emphasize seems because it is of course only my perception of the other side. This may well be true. But I'm not sure the generalizations red pill men claim are even representative of the majority of women.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?women who aren't sub are outliers Did you even read OP's comment? He's the one that said that women who aren't submissive are outliers and nuts. If you want to instruct him differently, please do so as that's what I was doing. im not putting words in your mouth I have know desire to do so. I will believe that when I stop seeing you do it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Some men want short term arrangements and are not interested in actual relationships. Good for them. As long as they have honest techniques to pick up women, they'll be able to find many like-minded women who are also into casual sex. Amazing, non? RedPill women use their understanding of male/female dynamics (and the fact that men and women are different) to inform their lifestyle and have fulfilling relationships. So all men who want relationships want the exact same thing in their women? I'll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 08:52 PM |
| 4 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?I'm putting your quote here in the same category I put TRP extremists when they say things like you need to treat women like children, or train them like dogs. I don't see how you can when in your own sidebar you have an article about how women are the most mature teenager in the house. The top stickied post is all about how women are incapable of proper love (which I call bullshit on, because, being a woman, I would say I love my boyfriend as well as he loves me). Here's a post (66 upvotes) on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 08:46 PM |
| 5 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?1) I am a woman indeed. 2) I never claimed to have such infinite wisdom of how their minds work. But please show me where I did claim such wisdom. 3) I don't see how "Submissive women that have men make their decisions for them may or may not use their brains." is claiming I have infinite wisdom on how other women, apart from myself, think. Please, do show me your infinite wisdom of putting more words, ideas and phrases in my mouth to make it seem like I'm calling people who think differently th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Then it sounds like you've found a decent SO. However, reading the "tips" on red pill (such as dread game, freezing out and otherwise throwing temper tantrums when they don't get their way to assert their dominance), I don't believe the "alphas" of the red pill are suited to have a devoted follower (as you have in your relationship dynamic). Because they require a sycophant to appease their egos, not someone they care about. Maybe the more rational guys that visit red pill could get away with it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 08:31 PM |
| 8 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Very and very. What's your point? I also recognize that the dynamic in my relationship (equal partners) isn't ideal for everyone. Some do better with men leaders some do better with women leaders. I'm not saying people can't want to be subservient, but I'm saying not everyone wants to be so don't assume it's the only right way to do things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?If it works for them, that's great. It wouldn't work for me because I have a stubborn streak and don't do well with following orders, especially if it's just expected because genders. Same reason I could never be in the military. But if someone else chooses that lifestyle for themselves, then it's great they found what they like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 07:38 PM |
| 6 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?I didn't say they were brainless. Please point out where I said as much. I don't even care if someone chooses to live that way. The issue I have is saying it's the only right way and women that desire otherwise are both outliers and nuts. Just because I wouldn't do that doesn't mean you can't. In fact, have fun with it and if it works great! But it's not the only way and red pillers saying it should be is, in my mind, stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Nothing, if that's the model you both choose to follow. But saying everyone needs to follow this method is naive and closed minded. What's wrong with having a woman captain/man first mate? Why would this model not be just as legitimate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?No, I'm extrapolating from his comment that women that aren't submissive are both outliers and nuts. Submissive women that have men make their decisions for them may or may not use their brains. It really is immaterial for them, though, as their man makes their decisions for them so what they think doesn't matter for the decision making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 07:06 PM |
| 10 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Chauvinism is generally a negative personality trait asking civilized society. Believing women are inferior to men is an unhealthy mindset, no matter how you want to dress it up in tradition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Then I would recommend therapy to work through your issues toward women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 05:10 PM |
| 7 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?I guess it's more an issue of the red pill participants in this sub are usually rational. This guy doesn't appear to be rational at all, based on some of the comments he's made. Especially in the discussions I've had with him. I don't don't that there are some crazy chauvinists in the world. They just usually don't venture into this sub. Color me surprised I suppose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?No. I usually call him if there are dangerous driving conditions so he doesn't worry, but he does the same. And no, he had never told me to be back by a certain time because he doesn't impose a curfew because he's not my father or mother. Your first example is called common courtesy in a relationship. The second veers on controlling behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 05:07 PM |
| 14 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?While I don't disagree that some feminists are hypocritical in that way (i.e. you can choose whatever part in life....... but only if it makes you string and independent otherwise you're just misguided or wrong or stupid or whatever), I would say that if a woman chooses that being a housewife or submissive in her relationships makes her happiest, then that's what she should do. Where I take issue is when red pill tours start saying (like the OP) that that arrangement is the only good one and ask… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 05:04 PM |
| 10 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?I'm going to call poe's law on you. The amount if insane in your posts is too damn high to be realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 04:43 PM |
| 8 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?I am a woman and I guarantee that if my boyfriend started treating me like a child and incapable of solving or thinking about problems I'd nope right the fuck out of there. This is true of my mother and grandmother and my female friends as well. So does my anecdotal experience count more than yours? Or can we agree that anecdotal evidence is a terrible basis for a generalization for half the human population? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 04:37 PM |
| 10 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?So women that aren't submissive and like to use their brains to think for themselves and work together with their partner equally to solve issues in and outside of a relationship are "outliers and nuts". I think we're done here guys. There's no debate with this type of chauvinism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Martial Rape: Why the confusion?comfort and love they receive from their SO's, why is that not a fair trade? Because demanding your SO put a happy face on while requiring them to perform sex acts they don't feel like doing isn't a comforting or loving activity on either spouse's part? But I guess that's a foreign concept for you. Demanding an activity your spouse doesn't want to do isn't comforting or loving. And your spouse giving in to your nagging to just get it over with isn't comforting or loving. I would even argue that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Martial Rape: Why the confusion?And what is 10 minutes of your time to make the person you love feel great. Maybe the fact that it's only 10 minutes would be why the partner doesn't want to have sex with them. But sarcasm aside, some guys (and girls) take a fuckton of time to get off. And if you're not in the mood to have sex, why would you be any more in the mood for any other type of sexual activity? Or do you imagine that giving blow jobs or hand jobs doesn't take much work? Because they usually take more work than actually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 07:34 AM |
| 5 | Martial Rape: Why the confusion?And what is 10 minutes of your time to make the person you love feel great. Maybe the fact that it's only 10 minutes would be why the partner doesn't want to have sex with them. But sarcasm aside, some guys (and girls) take a fuckton of time to get off. And if you're not in the mood to have sex, why would you be any more in the mood for any other type of sexual activity? Or do you imagine that giving blow jobs or hand jobs doesn't take much work? Because they usually take more work than actually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 07:34 AM |
| 7 | Martial Rape: Why the confusion?Well, see, that's why it's an attempt at a compromise. And if partner b is going to be so unreasonable as to expect the same terms from partner a as a demands from b, then partner a can choose that a sexless relationship is unacceptable and get a divorce. There's no guarantee that the compromise or discussion will work. It's an attempt at a repair. And if a compromise can't be reached, or the situation is untenable, then one or both parties can choose to dissolve the relationship. But no, partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Martial Rape: Why the confusion?I don't think you understand how compromise or discussions on opening relationships work. Partner A doesn't get to decide unilaterally that they get to sleep with other people and then say that partner b can't as well. If partner a wants to sleep with other people and partner b will only be comfortable with that if they can as well, then that's the arrangement you have to go with. That or not opening the relationship. But therapy should come first since opening relationships when there are alrea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 03:40 AM |
| 9 | Martial Rape: Why the confusion?I didn't say that's how it works. But if both parties tried to work on things they would be more likely to end things amicably than if the other party just went and cheated. Because cheating is betrayal and heartache for the wounded party. And that's when "getting even" would be an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/13 06:28 PM |
| 11 | Martial Rape: Why the confusion?Depends on what the parties want. I would think it's pretty unfair for one spouse to demand an open relationship without giving the other spouse the opportunity. And you have to remember that opening a relationship when there are already issues with dissatisfaction usually doesn't end well. It'd be better to do couples therapy first, then if the one side has low libido, then talk about opening the relationship. I could never do an open relationship myself but I also have a high libido so it's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/13 06:26 PM |
| 12 | Martial Rape: Why the confusion?That's where you discuss, like adults, about opening up the marriage. There are discussions and emotions to work through. You don't just go if and cheat. And if you can't understand why cheating on your wife instead of working it the issues is wrong, then there's no further point to this discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/13 05:16 PM |
| 11 | Martial Rape: Why the confusion?I'm pretty sure I can guarantee trying to work through problems and then leaving will get you a better result in the divorce than cheating and your ex filling for divorce unilaterally. But then again, you usually get better results when you act like an adult and not a teenager. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/13 05:13 PM |
| 6 | Sexism made Me Sexy?How about this: explain to me the the theory of quantum physics. Don't feel like retyping it when there's a whole internet full of resources out there? Why ever not? Except someone who studies quantum physics can pick up a text book or take a class and arrive at the same conclusions and mathematics as their peers who also understand the theory. You keep pointing out how examples of red pillers and posts by red pillers aren't true red pill even though they, you and blue pillers have all read the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/13 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Discuss whether TRP has misandristic elements.Oh I know, but it seems any time someone makes a generalization about them based on posts in their group they come out saying "I don't believe that" or "I'm not like that" or "that's not what we really believe". So I threw in that disclaimer so they don't get all uppity about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/13 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Discuss whether TRP has misandristic elements.I think that's a major part of the issue. Red pill types go for the stereotypical high school cheerleader as portrayed in movies - young, attractive, generally dumb as a brick and always going for the high school jock. They pursue this type of immaturity as their ideal woman (god only knows why) and so they work on emulating the stereotypical high school jock as portrayed in movies (hyper aggressive, bully, hyper buff, treat women as disposable toys). Then they are astonished to find that these … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/13 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Should Men Raise Children?Do you think there is a difference in generalizations then? For example, men don't choose to be men or women (and vice versa). They are born with the genes they have and the respective natured and nurtured traits. Someone could observe that generally, men are more aggressive than women (whether due to higher testosterone or being raised that men aren't emotional except for anger or both), so it's not completely off-base to say that, in general, a man will be more aggressive than a woman in a giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/13 03:47 AM |
| 7 | Should Men Raise Children?Why wouldn't it be? To quote nicething: it would not mean that any individual man is less fit than any individual woman. Just because women are generally not as good as sprinting or as strong as men, doesn't mean that of the applicant pool you receive that the women will all be weaker or slower than the men applying. And if you toss out the women's applications because of a generalization, then you're being prejudiced. This should not be a difficult concept :-/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/13 03:32 AM |
| 1 | TRP: what is an example of misogyny?No, but calling someone a basement dwelling neckbeard or saying red pillers are could be considered such because, side from whatever comment we're making fun of, we know nothing about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 10:20 PM |
| 2 | TRP: what is an example of misogyny?I think it's supposed to be an individual blue piller mocking/insulting a red piller would be an instance of misandry, but it's not a cultural insurance of it. So individuals can be misandric, but culture isn't (in general). At least I think that's what was being said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 10:13 PM |
| 7 | Why is the idea that men have needs offensive to blue pillers?I'm saying your generalization doesn't even apply to the bell curve of the average man. I'm sure it does apply to the average red pill male (as represented by trp posts) though, as they tend to be hyper stereotypical man (which would be the aggressive, overbearing, domineering bully/jock stereotype from high school). So you're right if you're talking about red pill men only. But don't pretend that your opinion of what men feel applies to the general men of the world. Because that would be pretty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/13 09:07 PM |
| 7 | Why is the idea that men have needs offensive to blue pillers?I find it interesting that you have such an intimate knowledge of what the entirety of the male half of the human population feels. Absolutely amazing to have such insight. I would say, yes, some men are as you describe. And you wouldn't be able to fathom the rest of men who don't feel that way because it doesn't conform to your (and the red pill's) narrow definition of masculinity. Here's a bit of a newsflash - men are just as emotional as women, they are just encouraged to show aggression over… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/13 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Why is the idea that men have needs offensive to blue pillers?I'm not sure about that stigma, especially in the younger generation, and especially among club goers as they are usually out for a night of casual sex. But there are definitely more honest ways to go about it and more honorable ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/13 06:21 PM |
| 8 | Why is the idea that men have needs offensive to blue pillers?Maybe it's being a girl, but I've had dry spells of over two years and never got into sex, sex, sex mode (and I can assure you that I'm pretty high libido when in a relationship). I don't really count that as an excuse to put putting your penis in someone else as your all consuming goal when socializing with someone. But I guess I can see your point? Just make men (at least red pill men) seem weak and absolutely ruled by their baser instincts since they apparently can't function without that one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/13 05:30 PM |
| 9 | Why is the idea that men have needs offensive to blue pillers?I can't speak for that poster, but the fact that he's saying his only need from this woman he was engaging is to "put his penis in her", is crass and desperate. It means, to me, that any action or thought or activity he does with her is to get his penis wet. It doesn't matter whether she likes him, wants to, or enjoys the experience, so long as his need is met, then it's all good. Then again, I don't really understand people who can do casual sex, so I don't understand most red pill (or even blu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/13 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Can a woman be alpha?Yes, it's pretty amazing that teenagers and young women are immature. Since red pill advocates pursuing 18 to 23 year olds, they seem to be incredibly astonished that young people who are just barely out of their teenage years are immature. I guess I'd say, if you're pursuing teenagers and expect them to be mature, tie going to have a bad time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/13 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Women are incapable of contributing to societyI don't know. The guy who started up Tesla motors is pretty fan-fucking-tastic. Not a Mozart, but definitely awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/13 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Does this comport with Red Pill beliefs?I would think they'd agree with the first bullet, but then they'd say that being confident, working on being fit and being interesting would make up for the ugly or balding points and would make you more attractive (plus balding can be combated by just shaving your head). Also a need to stop relying on other people for self worth (whether that be women or beta men or alpha men. Whether they can actually do this is less apparent since most of the posts that aren't about how terrible women are -an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/13 04:15 PM |
| 2 | National Geographic Agrees the Human Alpha Male is Real--What Does PPD think?Seems to me like reading into the beta comment a lot. But who knows? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 08:16 PM |
| 3 | National Geographic Agrees the Human Alpha Male is Real--What Does PPD think?I thought red pill philosophy was completely against getting any special treatment or tone for being female. Actually, they pride themselves on having harsher tones than is pc because it's manly. So why, if you subscribe to this thought and "reality", are you using the "I'm a girl don't use a harsh tone" complaint? Or are you expecting to get a different sort of logic or debate by virtue of your genitals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Does the "concern troll policy" prevent reasonable criticism? What would be so offensive that TRP would not endorse it?I choose stem because I like it, go figure. But I'm also a woman, so I guess I don't count. Why someone would choose to go into a major and career they don't at least somewhat like, I couldn't tell you. But if getting laid is your motivation, that's a pretty depressing way to go through life - here, work a career path you don't like on the off chance some girl may want sex with you because of it. But maybe that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/13 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Does the "concern troll policy" prevent reasonable criticism? What would be so offensive that TRP would not endorse it?You can't be Hitler - remember, Roosh said Hitler was a total beta. Go for Goebels instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/13 09:13 PM |
| 7 | Does the "concern troll policy" prevent reasonable criticism? What would be so offensive that TRP would not endorse it?Machiavellian principals are meant for leadership in the context of politics and war. It's simply good strategy. Then if you're applying Machiavellian principles to a relationship, you view it the same as winning a political battle or a war. That explains a lot of the idiocy in red pill writings then. If you approach relationships in an adversarial manner with you as the center that it should revolve around, then yeah, you're going to be incredibly disappointed when women don't put your needs at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/13 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Does the "concern troll policy" prevent reasonable criticism? What would be so offensive that TRP would not endorse it?Hmm, easier to change a mindset of young people versus not catering to their whim. Yes, since teenagers are so easy to convince to think logically and for their future, that would definitely be easier than having adult men not act like these sociopaths to get young women into bed /s. What was I thinking asking adults to act their age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/13 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Does the "concern troll policy" prevent reasonable criticism? What would be so offensive that TRP would not endorse it?Using Machiavellian principles is destructive to men and women in society. It's the epitome of "me me me" because you are, by the very nature, saying that nothing matters but the end goal. If sex with hot women is your only purpose, you will have no qualms with rape or murdering male competition because it stand in the way of the sex. But your entire hypothesis of "social conduct" depends on the definition of women being subservient to men. That is their "role", in your ideal society. They are t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/13 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Does the "concern troll policy" prevent reasonable criticism? What would be so offensive that TRP would not endorse it?Machiavelli is a concerning role model. Ends justify the means is not a constructive life philosophy for society. And since humans are social, society is a good thing. It can be changed and altered, but shouldn't be outright destroyed. P.S., red pill is not under rule of "thought police". Nobody is. But once they take an actions, they will be judged by society's standards. No one is saying you can't think women are inferior by nature. We're just saying you can't and shouldn't act out by Machiave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/13 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Why are blue-pillers so quick to excuse poor decisions that women make?That's kind of the difference between the relationships sub and the rest of reddit though - most of reddit will repeat the tired meme. Relationships will try to offer advice as the meme provides nothing useful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/13 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Is Dread Game effective? Against all people?Not that I want to give red pill any help, but I think there was a thread in this sub about the concept of taken men as more attractive to single girls. On my phone, so can't link, but I don't think it's too far back. Might be some studies in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/13 06:06 PM |
| 6 | Does the "concern troll policy" prevent reasonable criticism? What would be so offensive that TRP would not endorse it?I would say red pill's Machiavellian approach to human interaction would make it difficult if not impossible to debate anything on a moral or equal level. When the end justify the means, it can't matter whether the means are tolerable or moral or not. The end (getting laid) trumps any other potential issues. Now, if that's the approach red pill takers want to have for their lifestyle choice, then I would say, in an equally Machiavellian manner, that society needs to end this sort of lifestyle or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/13 05:34 PM |
| 6 | Is Dread Game effective? Against all people?Being personable and having social skills does not instill a sense of dread or "he had options". It means you have a modicum of decency. Dread implies a sense of feast or impending doom. Being nice to strangers doesn't do that. And if you are proposing it does, then your definition of dread game becomes useless as it encompasses every personable interaction with a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/13 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Is Dread Game effective? Against all people?Well, considering you counted a normal, decent social interaction as "showing options" (being nice to a cashier, really?), that definition of dread game is too expansive to be useful. Going outside and talking to anyone would be dread game by that definition. Edit: fuck you autocorrect. Spelling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/13 06:32 PM |
| 8 | Is Dread Game effective? Against all people?And if you can't acknowledge that dread is a manipulation tactic, then that says a lot about red pill tactics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/13 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Is Dread Game effective? Against all people?So manipulating someone to think you may leave them or cheat isn't game playing. Good to know. Then I assume you have no objections when your plates do the same to you. After all, it's not a shit test or game playing. But yes, this sort of manipulation is ideal for young/immature women and abused women. Women with half a brain would tell you to go have at it with the other women and stop wasting their time. And it's not unfair to call the women red pill wants young - you guys are chasing after 1… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/13 04:49 PM |
| 8 | Is Dread Game effective? Against all people?I would disagree with your hypothesis. Personally, dread game is an instant turn off. If a guy starts treating me like I'm not as important as he is to me, I check out of the relationship. Just not worth the shit testing games he wants to play (because dread game is just a make shit test). Then again, I'm also older than college age and more mature, so I know what I want and don't want. I would suspect dread game would work very well on immature women or women used to abusive relationships, espe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/13 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Moral absolutismBut if neither group agree on the definitions, what purpose does this nonsense speak serve? What does house mean? Why does house mean what it does? Could it be because people created the word and figured out a definition amongst themselves? How does any word gain "meaning"? The point in a debate is to establish the definition of the position you are fighting for or against. Then you make your point. If someone disagrees with your definition, then you take a step back to come to an agreement. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/13 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Moral absolutismThe hell is beauragamy? I think we need a red pill dictionary since it seems few of their words mean what they're supposed to and the rest are made up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/13 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Is it intentionally misleading to increase your own physical attractiveness?Well, arguably, if you have blotchy skin, using a foundation would make your skin more evenly toned, which is usually more attractive. If you're wearing a low cut top designed for cleavage but you have small breast, wearing a push up bra would make that shirt look more attractive (or at least more how it's "supposed" to look). I wouldn't say either of those are "lying". Most girls wear make up when they go out, it's kind of a given. Push up bras I guess could be misleading? But if your biggest i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/13 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Lying about yourself to get laid.Can we submit a petition to just get him banned? If he's not going to participate, what's the point in showing up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/13 05:34 AM |
| 5 | "All women are sheep."It's a hive mind collective of bad science and anecdotal evidence proving their confirmation bias. The pinnacle of scientific observation and improvement! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/13 08:43 PM |
| 10 | "All women are sheep."Except not all blue pill members are women... But go ahead and think that, if it gives you comfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/13 08:41 PM |
| 9 | "All women are sheep."I find it hilarious that someone who claims to be the representative of red pill thought and accuses blue pill people of misrepresenting him and making him seem like a terrible person goes through the trouble of leaving such an inane and useless comment on his own article that he posted to his sub. But not sure what else I'd expect really. I guess the idea is obfuscation so no one can make any claim on the red pill perspective and outright disrespect for people trying to initiate any sort of dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/13 06:00 PM |
| 2 | And now for something a bit more lightheartedI like fedoras. There's just too many jackasses who have worn them and given them a bad name. It's like guys who pop the collar on their polo shirt - it's not attractive or cool, it just comes across as trying to hard and douchey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/13 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Question for BluePillersShort answer? It's far easier to approach more women or memorize pick up lines than it is to actually improve your own life. And most pick up artists aren't looking for anything long term, one night is good enough and counts as success, so having an improved product isn't all that useful - you're looking for one night with a stranger, not a lifelong commitment. To this end, improving the cosmetic aspects (clothes, grooming, hair) is good enough to get the close for the night. And I think that's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/13 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Question for BluePillersThe way I see it, PUA tactics will be excellent for flings. It's a get-in-get-out, pretend to be someone you're not so you can get in a girl's pants approach. The more "be yourself" approach is better for ltr, because, realistically, you want a ltr where you don't have to put on a façade and be something you're not. Now, be yourself is lacking in that if you aren't very fun or enjoyable to be around, or if you're not interesting, or if you're unattractive, you likely won't find someone intereste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/13 05:02 PM |
| 4 | When presenting information that is controversial or detrimental to one's worldview, people tend to react negatively. Is critiquing the red pill on moral argument and character assessment productive or fair?Ah, so you just label any dissention that says "maybe this is going too far" or "maybe this is a bit antagonistic or outright stupid" as concern trolling then. Very convenient, I grant you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/13 09:06 PM |
| 4 | When presenting information that is controversial or detrimental to one's worldview, people tend to react negatively. Is critiquing the red pill on moral argument and character assessment productive or fair?The idea is not banning discussion because it may lead to conclusions some would find offensive. Unless, of course, the discussion is counter to your views and offends your delicate sensibilities or is labeled as "concern trolling" (i.e., any world view or opinion that is different from your own). Because you and your mod team are rather liberal with the banhammer on your sub for the express purpose of stifling outside opinions or offensive conclusions. Heck, I've seen posts on bluepill by self-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/13 05:55 PM |
| 2 | When presenting information that is controversial or detrimental to one's worldview, people tend to react negatively. Is critiquing the red pill on moral argument and character assessment productive or fair?I didn't know that. That is a hard thing to enforce though, you're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/13 03:09 AM |
| 6 | Demonizing Game - Myths and factsI have no problem with guys going to a community to learn how to be more confident. Using techniques to increase their confidence, learning to not take rejection personally - all good things to do. I also don't think it should be entirely up to the man to approach women. I think women need to start upping their own game and start approaching men so there's a bit more equality in that respect. I don't think it's fair to leave it up to the guys to face the rejection. (And I recognize that there ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/13 11:31 PM |
| 5 | When presenting information that is controversial or detrimental to one's worldview, people tend to react negatively. Is critiquing the red pill on moral argument and character assessment productive or fair?However, doing so by misrepresenting the redpill position is not. But this contention makes it nearly impossible to debate with a redpiller at present. Why? Because there isn't any agreement among the group. If someone quotes something from the sidebar, then you get "Well I don't believe that" or if you quote an endorsed member or rps himself, you get the same response. Quotes from manosphere blogs meet the same response. Which makes me wonder what exactly does red pill even stand for? If they c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/13 11:21 PM |
| 3 | When presenting information that is controversial or detrimental to one's worldview, people tend to react negatively. Is critiquing the red pill on moral argument and character assessment productive or fair?I also really do wish the downvoting of Red Pill ideas would stop. This is a common fault with reddit entirely. I'm wondering if we maybe shouldn't just remove the downvote ability entirely in this sub (obviously not perfect as there are ways to get past the css, but still) and just reporting the offensive/attacking comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/13 11:11 PM |
| 7 | When presenting information that is controversial or detrimental to one's worldview, people tend to react negatively. Is critiquing the red pill on moral argument and character assessment productive or fair?If removing half the population's right to vote is considered thinking "outside the box" (which I would argue it isn't in the first place since women, historically, haven't had the right to vote and have been treated more like property than humans), I'm not sure that "outside the box" thinking is a good thing to even pursue. I just don't see any inherent value in the positions theredpill takes that are different from other advice forums (i.e., become attractive, be interesting, have goals, don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/13 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Abortion and Child SupportYeah, I'm not a fan of Capitalism. One of the many reasons my boyfriend and I are looking at moving to another country once we get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/13 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Abortion and Child SupportI was stating that in response to: Namely, if large numbers of men go out and get RISUG/Vasal Gel which they almost certainly will, then couldn't big pharma expect that women will feel a lot less pressure to take the pill, which would hurt sales of the pill? Men using BC would only affect sales of the pill for women who are taking it only for BC (and who also completely trust the man to be truthful about taking his BC). So sales would be affected by women who were only taking it as BC and not fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/13 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Abortion and Child SupportAs an anecdote, I once dated a guy who bemoaned the fact that women can abort a pregnancy against the man's wishes. I asked him what a solution would be - he had no good answer. Why? Because the reality is, the woman carries the child. They have to face the health risks, disadvantages, etc of carrying a child to term. You can't force someone to undergo a medical procedure because you want it (thankfully). So there isn't a way to solve the first issue (abort against the man's wishes) - at least u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/13 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Abortion and Child SupportYou're assuming that women only take BC pills to prevent pregnancy. This is, most assuredly, not the case. Many women do, I'm sure, and they may stop taking the pill after a male BC treatment came out (but really probably not as they would still want to take charge of their own reproductive health). But the many women who take BC to regulate their periods, relieve period symptoms, etc would continue to take the pill because they aren't just using it to prevent pregnancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/13 06:55 PM |
| 18 | For TRPers, how has adopting TRP lifestyle changed how you think of your sisters/mothers/female friends?Had a bunch of shitty guys ask me out and I figured I'd give them a chance. Same thing redpillers bitch about girls not doing for them. So please, save the moral high horse bit. Point is - if you don't want to end up with a horrible person, don't pursue a horrible person. Which, I grant you, is easier said than done. But following the red pill approach of going after the young girls will just expose you to more immaturity which will simply reinforce that all women are immature. A person doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/13 06:45 AM |
| 16 | For TRPers, how has adopting TRP lifestyle changed how you think of your sisters/mothers/female friends?Sounds like your sister is just a shitty person, and not representative of all women. Would you hate all men equally if they routinely used women for their money, as you believe your sister is trying to use her ex? Because I can tell you, my last four boyfriends did exactly that. They had no car, crappy or no jobs, and they expected me to be their cash cow in return for what passed for a relationship by their standards. If you take one, or even four, terrible representations of one gender and us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/13 05:27 AM |
| 3 | I can't even . . . seriously, what *is* this?He's trolling. Wouldn't be bad if it were tbp, but for a debate sub - this is not appropriate behavior and deserves a banhammer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/13 04:47 PM |
| 17 | I can't even . . . seriously, what *is* this?That first line is misogynistic. The rest of it is emulating sociopathic behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/13 04:45 PM |
| 1 | RedPillers: Does sexual value go down for men the more partners they have?People you've had sexual contact with, i'd imagine. Or whatever trpers would count as an increase in the partner count. Simply prefering someone or desiring someone doesn't count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/13 04:28 AM |
| 7 | RedPillers: Does sexual value go down for men the more partners they have?I was arguing with an ex-mod of trp on askmen the other day (you can check in my submissions). He was guilty of everything you described of feminists - little logic and ad hominem attacks. This phenomena you speak of is prevalent in everyone who sucks at debating - red pill or blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/13 04:23 AM |
| 5 | Token ResistanceYeah, I figured that's the point you were making - which is why I was trying to clarify for the red pill interpretation on what you were trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/13 06:07 PM |
| 13 | Token ResistanceMen should withhold sex so women will finally learn the meaning of words? No, men should treat a verbal no as a verbal no. They should not push for a yes when there is a no response. If a woman is going to try to present token resistance in the belief that the man will push for sex anyway (because they don't treat no as no), then she will be disappointed when no means no. When men expect token resistance, then they perpetuate the token resistance - they communicate that she can say no when she m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/13 05:17 PM |
| 2 | The Pareto PrincipleAnd i know there was a population bottleneck when tonga erupted - almost wiped out humans as it is. Learned about it in my volcanology class, i'll see if i can find some more info when i'm not on my phone. But, iirc, it was a supervolcano, so eruption size similar to if yellowstone went off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/13 03:15 PM |
| 6 | Game.Indeed - apparently wanting to be clear or tell a guy he's full of himself and you aren't into being treated like that must mean... you're totally into him and want the D? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/13 08:55 PM |
| 12 | Game.Here's a helpful hint - read tbp sidebar. The purpose of the sub is to mock trp. There is not overriding goal on better PUA techniques or better advice. We take the drivel and idiocy that comes out of the mouths of trp and mock it. Very simple purpose. Now, some may say participating in a subreddit whose sole purpose is to mock another is a waste of time, to which i will say, so? I challenge you to find someone who doesn't participate in time-wasting activities (i'm thinking tv, video games, dri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/13 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Rape, responsibility, and firearmsYou're assuming a first-time non-convicted rapist. CCW isn't supposed to be a right. Are convicted felons allowed to own guns in the US? Convincted felons own guns - they just own them illegally. Trust me, a license only deters law abiding citizens. If a criminal wants to own a gun, they will. That's one of the arguments against gun control in american actually. That stopping law abiding citizens from buying guns just leaves criminals with guns. So i don't think having to get a permit will deter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/13 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Rape, responsibility, and firearmsI don't think giving out guns to everyone is a great idea - 1) there's nothing stopping the rapist from CCW as well, 2) if a rapist is the person's friend, there'll be a lot of issues with shooting them beyond just the rape trauma, 3) if a girl is drunk and CCW, then she just gave her rapist an awesome weapon to use against her during the rape. Now, if everyone is properly trained and within their faculties and the rapist doesn't have a gun, then it may be useful. Chances of this being the case … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/13 04:54 PM |
| 16 | What is there to debate?Not to mention all their evopsych claims about women being inferior to men on just about every level. Pigeon-holing women into sluts (unfit for marriage) or virgins (the only women worth having), then decrying the entire gender when either group acts the way trp believes they should. All i know is, if i were a member of a self-help forum that claimed to have some secret truth, i'd want to determine that the truth is an actual truth and not some bogus claim. Most redpill generalizations about wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/13 03:03 AM |
| 6 | Blue pillers: do you assume all red pillers are the same?I wonder if there should be a link on the sidebar in how debates work and what constitudes "evidence". All these anecdotes make debating impossible because a redpiller has one story and a bluepiller has a completely opposite story - and both are equally valid on the evidence scale (i.e., not). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/13 07:05 PM |
| 9 | Blue pillers: do you assume all red pillers are the same?And yet you come to a debate sub to try to prove your perspective without any evidence. Perhaps you should acquaint yourself with how to conduct a proper debate before commenting on a thread. Anecdotal evidence is not sufficient to prove anything aside from your own life experience. It cannot be used to draw massive generalizations about half the population. Similarly, unsupported blog posts by internet users are not sufficient evidence for claims - anyone can say anything online. And even blogg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/13 06:57 PM |
| 7 | Nature Versus NurtureI would think that we can agree that blog posts do not constitute evidence of a claim, aside from anecdotally. Studies or surveys of representative populations should be adequate. But most claims i've observed on trp are from roosh, heartiste and the like - in other words, anonymous online users who can write whatever they feel like without presenting any verifiable evidence for their claims. It's like PUA/redpillers lamenting that women are immature when they go to a club to hit on younger wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/13 01:18 AM |
| 6 | Redpillers, which parts of TRP do you believe to be false? Bluepillers (or non redpillers) which parts of TRP do you believe to be true?With possibly the exception to the 'women don't mature mentally past their adolescence' example, I don't really see TRP as a misogynistic hate group. A few tidbits from the sidebar required reading: Executive Summary : The Western World has quietly become a civilization that undervalues men and overvalues women, where the state forcibly transfers resources from men to women creating various perverse incentives for otherwise good women to conduct great evil against men and children, and where mal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/13 03:22 AM |
| 6 | Confessions of A Reformed Incel from theRedPill sidebar. I'm interested in Feminist/ Blue pillers reaction to this.Um... I didn't get any sexual attention from the opposite sex until I was about 20 or 21. I had some male friends, but one is gay and the other is essentially asexual (in the almost 10 years we've been friends, I haven't seen him have a girlfriend). So I can understand not feeling desired or wanted by the opposite sex. The difference is I didn't wallow in being ignored - I focused my attention on my friends and my education. I know it sucks to be unwanted and outright insulted by the opposite se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/13 02:43 AM |
| 10 | Redpillers, which parts of TRP do you believe to be false? Bluepillers (or non redpillers) which parts of TRP do you believe to be true?See, I have no issue with guys wanting a support group on how to become a better person - whether that be defined as more interesting, more successful, better shape, more interesting hobbies, better traveled, whatever. I think it's great to have a group of people get together to bounce ideas off of (for example, groups for exploring new hobbies you wouldn't normally think of, groups to help with exercise routines so you don't hurt yourself or so you can get the results you want, networking group… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/13 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Confessions of A Reformed Incel from theRedPill sidebar. I'm interested in Feminist/ Blue pillers reaction to this.This reminds me of the guys who go to strip clubs and boast about how the stripper was totally into him and totally wanted his boner. Yup, it has nothing to do with the fact that if she pretends she wants to sleep with you, she'll end up getting more money out of you. Nope, nothing about making money doing her JOB at all. She wants the D*. *This isn't to say that strippers aren't attracted to some of the customers they get. But it's the same concept as saying a bartender was flirting with you - … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/13 11:10 PM |
| 18 | Confessions of A Reformed Incel from theRedPill sidebar. I'm interested in Feminist/ Blue pillers reaction to this.You do understand that the rational response to this is "Go die in a fire!", right? Telling someone they should die because they don't have much sympathy for guys who whine online about not being able to get laid is a rational response now? Yup, go die in a fire is definitely "based on or in accordance with reason or logic." No emotional response there at all. And no exaggeration either. Seriously, put yourself in this guy's position. Pretend he's a horrible asshole neckbeard basement brony, all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/13 10:39 PM |
| 0 | I think this is kinda cool, so I'll start. What do you think about the 3/2 ratio for affection from the 16 Commandments? If you implement it, has it enhanced your relationship?I guess my take home point for this is - if the guy wants to evaluate people he would or wouldn't find attractive, that's fine and something everyone does (just not in convenient quiz format). If he wants to make a silly internet quiz for women to take for a self-evaluation, that's silly, but have at it. But trying to say that his personal preferences are absolutely universal is ridiculous. Hell, trying to say that any two people's preferences are the same is pretty silly. But he doesn't present… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/13 03:43 PM |
| 18 | Confessions of A Reformed Incel from theRedPill sidebar. I'm interested in Feminist/ Blue pillers reaction to this.I don't have much sympathy for the InCel crowd - mostly because there's far too much self-pity. 1) nobody is entitled to sex. Just because you want to have it doesn't mean you're guaranteed to have it. 2) it doesn't take much observational skill to observe what is stylish and what isn't (and if you need someone to tell you long hair isn't especially attractive, you've got more issues than not just getting sex). 3) blaming other people and society for why you couldn't get laid is rather pathetic.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/13 06:05 AM |
| 2 | I think this is kinda cool, so I'll start. What do you think about the 3/2 ratio for affection from the 16 Commandments? If you implement it, has it enhanced your relationship?I get the go and die because you dare to be fat. I'll let my boyfriend know that he should go find a younger and thinner girlfriend because the redpill test determined i'm absolutely worthless because i'm fat (and intelligent, working in STEM and a college grad and more tomboy than feminist because, go figure, skirts don't work well on drill rigs). -_- I don't deny that attractive people have more options. But saying someone is worthless as a potential partner across the board (or marketplace, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 08:59 PM |
| 6 | Let's ask one of the big questions, shall we?That's because the blue pill doesn't represent any particular ideology. Redpillers are presenting a contrary perspective with some very controversial ideas regarding gender. Bluepillers just say that these perspectives and ideas are bollocks and mock it. But we don't have an "opposing ideology" to present because the only thing we all agree on is that redpill is mock-worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Would it be beneficial to come up with rules, agreed upon definitions, etc.?I think this is a vital procedure. Otherwise we'll have blupillers bringing up quotes or ideas we've seen and redpillers arguing that it's not a basic belief or that they don't believe that particular idea, etc. And in that case, we get nowhere. I think what we should possibly look into is either setting aside time to create a glossary for every idea or figure out a way to determine what is accepted ideology or fringe stuff (i.e., if it's highly upvoted, can it be safe to claim it's accepted? If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/13 03:33 PM |
| -1 | I think this is kinda cool, so I'll start. What do you think about the 3/2 ratio for affection from the 16 Commandments? If you implement it, has it enhanced your relationship?I also wonder if this is a factor of the woman. For example, to use RP terms, maybe a high SMV woman reacts this way to the approach while the low SMV woman does not. Since high SMV women are usually very attractive, in excellent shape and dress/style well, when she goes out, she gets hit on all the time. They're also young, so likely immature and more concerned with having fun than settling down (assumptions EVERYWHERE!) If a guy hits on her she has to find him attractive back or intruiging in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/13 11:29 PM |
| 3 | I think this is kinda cool, so I'll start. What do you think about the 3/2 ratio for affection from the 16 Commandments? If you implement it, has it enhanced your relationship?I'll reply in more depth once the pain pills kick in, but if you look at the question again, i believe you'll see it says "what do you think" and "how has it affected your relationships", thus it's not asking for generalities (which are based on huge assumptions that don't work for 3.5 billion people), but it's asking for specifics in your own observations and desires. So i did answer the question that was asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/13 11:09 PM |
| 0 | I think this is kinda cool, so I'll start. What do you think about the 3/2 ratio for affection from the 16 Commandments? If you implement it, has it enhanced your relationship?I haven't experienced this first-hand (or if i had, i quickly disengaged from the relationship), but this sort of ratio would not work for me. I'm very affectionate and cuddly and if my SO (especially after any sort of longer timeframe) maintained a ratio like that, i would think he didn't love me as much as i did him and i would actively start preparing myself for a break up. I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who parses out affection - that's not what a relationship means to me.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/13 04:16 PM |
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