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Backthatpassup451/r/askTRP13/01/19 10:45 PM
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Backthatpassup451/r/askTRP16/06/19 08:16 PM
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Backthatpassup451/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:51 PM
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Backthatpassup451/r/askTRP09/10/19 07:17 PM
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You have 3 plates and you’re over there worrying about orbiters sending stuff to your LTR. Do you hear how ridiculous you sound?
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:28 AM
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She has a better option hitting her up. Her getting sick all of a sudden is chad hitting her up to hangout.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 08:19 PM
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Tired of guys on here that will sacrifice their self respect just to get laid. I get it that plans change but if I have my mind set on something I’m not gonna switch it up because my SO wants to change plans all of a sudden.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 03:26 PM
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I honestly think she was only looking for an extra follower on IG and Snapchat. She made it believable that she wanted to meet up but what she got your follows she dipped. Every time I match with a girl online and she asks for my snap and IG, this is always the case.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 03:25 PM
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I hope you’re being sarcastic because that’s terrible advice. What he needs to do is stop giving her head when he’s not getting any in return.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 06:55 PM
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Why are you taking the girl to the club?
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:06 PM
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He had his answer last year lol
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:05 PM
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But she remembered her ex number perfectly fine though. I wouldn’t want to be exclusive with someone like that.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:54 PM
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Well she just sent me another text saying if I have to work later today, I don’t mind moving back Things until Wednesday, if it make things easier. Sounds to me that something better came up.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 09:24 PM
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Dont make assumptions. I was never orbiting her. Have other women Im dating. She’s the one who contacted me out of the blue.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 09:45 PM
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Yea I don’t plan on hitting her up first. She keeps trying to make small talk but I’m keeping it short and saying I have to go.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:48 PM
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She’s not sorry.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:12 PM
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How come you didn’t get her number instead? Also stop texting women the same day you get their number. At least wait until the next day to send a text. It’s comes off as clingy when you text so soon.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 10:18 PM
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Lol that’s what you get for making her your gf
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:35 PM
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Where is this studying taking place?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:44 PM
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Thank you! Some of these dudes are stupid!
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:03 PM
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Why would he do that when she’s been resisting him the whole night?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:55 PM
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Why reward her for bad behavior?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:38 PM
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I would’ve cancelled once she kept telling me to hurry up. You told her 9, no need for her to keep rushing you.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:16 PM
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Go to to wynnwood I believe that’s the correct spelling. Lots of cool bars and art scene. Met some down to earth women when I went during the summer. South beach, downtown etc you are wasting your time if you don’t have money.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 09:26 PM
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That’s the thing! He doesn’t have to get used to it.She was being a woman and he was being a man by walking away.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:11 PM
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He left because she was being ridiculous.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 04:19 PM
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Stop trying to make him apologize. He didn’t do anything wrong. She was being a brat and he left.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:25 PM
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Don’t rationalize it. And don’t meet up with her for the concert unless its only you and her. Ask her before you accept the invite. If you don’t you’re gonna show up there and she will be other friends barely paying you any attention.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 10:06 PM
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It’s not a yes. That’s code for I’m gonna flake last second. Been there done that.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:08 PM
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"Hmm I think I can do that!" She’s not interested enough. When they “I think” “I should be” “I’ll let you know” etc that means no. Or if I don’t have anything better to do than I’ll go out for free drinks.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:07 PM
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It’s your ego and your selfishness
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:03 PM
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It does makes sense. Women are crazy and want what they can’t have. His ex has the mentality of if I can’t have him no one else can. What she’s doing is straight up harrassment! They split meaning they broke up. She knows what that means, she’s just being difficult.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 07:41 PM
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There’s was no need to tell him all that. Just say you won’t be able to make it.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:27 PM
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You’re done asking her out. No more texting her first either. Let her reach out to you and when she does, be short and quick and say you have to go. If she wants to do something let her bring it up.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 08:36 PM
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You’re insecure bro. “I wanted to see what new iPhone was like” stop lying. You wanted to snoop through her phone.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:01 PM
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He didn’t storm off. He simply walked away to find someone who would enjoy his attention. How do you know he didn’t try to insert himself into the conversation and they treated him with indifference?
/r/askTRP17/11/19 02:28 AM
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She’s looking for attention. You asked her out twice and she flaked on you both times. When she hits you up, send her a couple texts and tell her you have to go. No more asking her out. Let her bring up getting together and invite her to your place. She doesn’t show up? Oh well, you made no effort on your part.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 10:19 PM
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I read enough after 2 paragraphs. You seen all of the red flags and you still made her your gf and moved in with her. I knew she had to be gorgeous if you were doing all that. Men gotta stop ignoring red flags just because she’s hot.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 01:49 PM
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Good point!
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:14 PM
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The big deal is that you need to keep applying dread. She came over worried that you blocked her. You should’ve told her you were busy and can’t really hang out now and then send her on her way. Try initiating less and let her do the reaching out.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 10:31 PM
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I mean it is his weight. As soon as he lost weight she was no longer interested in him. Physical attraction is important. If a girl doesn’t like you physically, weather it’s your body, face etc all the confidence in the world went help.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:07 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I felt like I did everything right and chalking it up to her interest level not being high enough. I believe she wanted me to chase her and ask if she was still coming. That comes off as needy.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:42 PM
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What’s more heads up then telling her exactly the time, place and day? I can see if it was a week before the date, but 2 days?
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:18 PM
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They opened to him. Literally made eye contact with him, came up and complimented his clothes.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 07:51 PM
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Looks def matter! My good friend is attractive. We went to a party last weekend and it was crazy how he wasn’t doing anything but standing there talking to us and women would come up and talk to him. That’s why I don’t believe in cold approaching. Why do I gotta do the work if my friend doesn’t do shit and women still come up to him and make it easy to talk. I just work on my smv the best I can and let women that find attractive come to me.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 07:04 PM
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Yes you cancel everything. Don’t set yourself up to be cock blocked. You’re going to get there, and she’s not going to focus on you at all. Tell her “no thanks, i asked YOU on a date. HMU when you change your mind.”Then you go radio silence. No texts, calls, liking her posts etc.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:35 PM
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Or he is and she’s not interested enough or she’s testing him
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:32 PM
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Shit test. I would break up with her if I were in your shoes. Say something like “I respect your decision to be celibate but I didn’t sign up for this. I think it’s best if we end this relationship so that you can find someone who shares the same views as you.”
/r/askTRP15/09/19 08:02 PM
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Do not start texting a woman immediately after you get her number. That’s needy. Only time you should text that fast is to text your number to her, thats it. I do agree 3 days is too long. I would’ve waited 24 hours and then texted her.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:02 PM
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Asking a girl out on a date is not cringey. If she’s attracted enough asking her out will work. He hasn’t even fucked the girl yet, so saying meet me here for a drink is not going to work.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:58 PM
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Exactly what I did. I walked passed her earlier today and she gave a short and dry “hey.” I said hi back and kept moving and was laughing a little about how silly she’s acting.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:44 PM
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Def hard next! Physical violence, throwing a drink in your face and yelling at you in front of your friends should not fly. Were you flirting with this girl or being super friendly? Does she know you two had history? If so I can understand why she would be upset but what she did was unacceptable.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:08 PM
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Thank you! The first sentence in the your last paragraph is all you needed to say.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:39 PM
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That’s fine too
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:02 PM
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I appreciate the advice but You’re not answering my question. Shoud I even respond to her latest text or just ignore it? It seems like you’re implying that I’m asking her out on the weekends? I clearly said we had a date for tonight.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:00 PM
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I’m not gonna contact her in 2weeks. I’ll let her contact me.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 06:01 PM
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Should I respond to her text? Or don’t reply until she contacts me again?
/r/askTRP22/04/19 06:00 PM
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Does she knows she’s your gf or are you projecting your own interest? Maybe she does think you’re a fwb. Have you 2 discussed being exclusive?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:14 PM
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You fucked up when you didn’t invite her back to your place. Your friend would’ve understood. The second time you fucked up was when after she said she was busy, you proposed another day. Don’t do that! Now you’re chasing and being needy. Say that’s fine, hit me up when your schedule is clear. Soft next her and go talk to other women.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:01 PM
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I never understood this either. “Oh just demote her. And don’t let her know you’re doing it.” No no and no. If she pulls disrespectful stuff like in this post basically tell her “I can’t tell you what to do but I can tell you what I’m willing to put up with. What you did was disrespectful and I don’t want to be exclusive with you anymore.We can still hangout and have fun but we should see other people as well.” Than go soft next her. If she wants to hangout only invite her to your place.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:56 PM
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I should’ve clarified more. But this works in heavy populated areas (LA, Chicago, NYC etc.) I put my location to the downtown area and set the mile range to 5.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:44 PM
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Nope. Tell her to let’s do it some other time. Just say “no offense to your friend but I wanted to take YOU out.”
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:17 PM
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I been down this road in all aspects in dating, not just tinder.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 01:35 AM
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Know what? I didn't mess anything up. It was a simple case of she wasn't as interested as I assumed. It's no big deal. I've literally sent 2 messages to women, asked them out and had them met me for a date. If a woman really likes you, it will happen this way. Stop being a bitch and assuming. That's a female trait.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 01:31 AM
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How’s that weird? It’s a date in public.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:29 PM
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I don’t. Just asking if anyone’s been in this situation.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:28 PM
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Switch what up? Doing this allows me to see who has a high level of interest in me. I can simply weed out the ones who don’t.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:27 PM
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That’s what the date is for!!!
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:26 PM
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Wrong. How do you seduce someone over the phone?? Seduction needs to happen face to face.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:24 PM
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Obviously your comprehension is terrible. Where in my text exchange did I ever demanded anything from her? Could’ve fooled me about texting is not just for logistics. That’s all I read here on rp. It’s apparent her attraction level is not high. A guy can be funny and witty for those whooping five minutes and then show his true colors the day of the date. I didn’t blow anything. I left the bridge opened for a girl who clearly has medicore interest in me. If you like being women’s text buddies go …
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:21 PM
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You sound like a fool. Just because she said something doesn’t make it better. She still disrespected my time. And I did learn something. I learnt how to respect my time. You should try it buddy. That was not a warning. That was a last second flake.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:48 AM
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Ok well keep that same energy with me. She doesn’t owe me anything, I agree with that. Just like I don’t owe her anything . Doesn’t make me bitter. Just shows I have self respect.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:19 AM
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I dont think i did. It's not the flake that annoyed me, it's how soon to the date she did it. If you're ok with people treating you like that, then more power to you.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:45 PM
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That sounds needy as hell. I did lead. I asked for her number and asked her out on the date. The ball was in her court. I'm not gonna push the issue if she says she can't make it.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:43 PM
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Go ahead and keep those bridges open buddy so she can continue to waste your time more.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:09 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? I never said I was upset. I don’t care if I get rejected, because it happens I get it. But when you waste my time like that especially from the beginning, I’m good with future dates.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:08 PM
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Me having many options is the main reason why I said what I said. Too many women out to there to be giving second chances like that.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:05 PM
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I just might lol.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 05:30 PM
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Who said tinder was my only option with dating?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:54 PM
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She hasn’t replied.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:48 PM
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No reply yet
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:00 AM
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Hmmm had no idea saying "nah I'm good" is sounding like a baby. How is saying what i said and what you recommend any different?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 02:59 AM
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So what if i ruined my "tiny chance"? There's too many women out here to be giving out second chances to people who waste your time.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 02:57 AM
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That makes no sense. Saying “nah I’m good” means I could care less. Flaking like that is a complete disrespect to my time. Like I said earlier, if she would’ve flaked earlier in the day, then I would be more accepting.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:20 AM
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I highly disagree with that being a butthurt response. What ReturnsOver stated I upheld my self respect. If I went ape shit and chewed her out, blocked her on everything and tried to point out everything she did wrong, then I can see that I was butthurt. If I would’ve kept the option opened especially after cancelling 30 min prior to the date it would be teaching her that it’s ok to flake when she wants because she expects me to leave the option open.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:17 AM
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Isn’t that letting her know that I’m always getting flaked on? Doesn’t make me look masculine asking her to tell me if she’s gonna flake. Now asking her to tell me if she’s running late is a different story.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:20 AM
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Gotcha
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:28 PM
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It wasn’t necessary? How so? She asked me a question and I gave her an answer.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:15 PM
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Probably so. I’m huge on first impressions so she failed massively. Her excuse wasn’t even that good.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 10:58 PM
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I agree it’s on the man to make the FIRST move and I did. It gets confusing because half say you should ask what her schedule is like and the other half say you should ask her to join you on what you were already planning on doing.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:19 PM
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You’re right. And in my gut I kinda knew it was a mistake to text her that night .
/r/askTRP03/01/19 10:42 PM
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I'm not wine and dining her. Just going out for a drink. But the rest of what you said makes sense. Stop wasting my time going out with her when shes just going to get D down by the other guy.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:28 PM
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She's not angry, she's just has no interest in you. You can tell alot by how a woman answers you.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 09:33 PM
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True. I will start doing that with future women. I was just over it and reacted on impulse.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:40 AM
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Yea I agree I didn’t handle that part well. I was drunk and horny and made a mistake on doing that.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:38 AM
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How is it childish when she pulled the same thing 3 times in a row? I lost the attraction and felt like it just wasn’t worth it.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:37 AM
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This girl is bad news. So If you just wanna bang, then go for it. But break up with your gf first dude. You know you would be crying like a wimp if you found out your gf was acting like you. I don’t understand people who are in relationships but still want to act single.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:05 PM
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Def a test. At least she was honest and told you. Most women will just stop talking hoping that you take the hint. When a woman say “let’s be friends” she wants you to be her oribiter. Kindly reject her off and tell her to hit you up if she wants something more than friends.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:04 PM
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