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Started off like it was going to be a question, but then turned into advice... 🤔 Thoroughly confused by the point of your post. If you’re asking for help, the details make sense; victim puke is ok, but you need to have tangible questions at the end of your post that we can help with. If your giving advice, then you need to process a lot of these details on your own time, and not make me process it with you.
/r/RPChristians20/01/23 05:39 PM
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So your position is that reading the Bible, meditation and prayer makes you feeeeeeel saaaaad :( How do we come to know more about Jesus? By reading his Word. How do we become more like Jesus? By meditating on his Word which then produces in us obedience. How do we grow in relationship with Jesus? Through prayer and trying to speak to Him as He Speaks to us through His Word. All of this is done through the power of the Holy Spirit who gives us these desires, so there is no room for boasting.
/r/RPChristians03/01/23 04:19 PM
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Welcome to the sub. You need to get your reading up, big dog. Just reading a little bit of Scripture every now and then is not going to result in any spiritual growth. Go buy this book immediately: Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life by Donald S. Whitney. It’s a game changer and you’ll see results if you put into practice what that book teaches. As for your girl probs, getting jacked is going to be the best means for ease of conversing with women/creating attraction. Biggest thing you n…
/r/RPChristians02/01/23 04:27 PM
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Any christian with an ounce of discernment would be able to tell you are having sex outside of marriage based on your admitted 4 year relationship. Your caveat is gratuitous. Are you attending a biblical church? Because if you were, this would inevitably be called out. You are in sin. Going on 4 years. That’s quite a lot of time to believe one is “saved” and have only a parcel of regret about it. I.E. “getting married to assuage my guilt”. As Paul stated, speaking about people like you, your “co…
/r/RPChristians01/12/22 01:53 AM
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a certain sub group of women are attracted to these traits, but not the kind you’d want to wife up
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 08:04 PM
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Dear diary, Today I made a Reddit post about my day. I’m not gonna actually write in you about my day at chipotle, diary; because I want people to pat me on the back for how cool I am. Oh diary, I can not wait until I get all those red upvotes. People will think I’m such a stud and a true Alpha male. Bye for now, diary. I love you.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 10:23 PM
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Wish I could verify your claim with text evidence, but there isn’t much!
/r/TheRedPill10/09/22 04:55 PM
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I’m angry over this post because I don’t fully understand what the heck you’re talking about. My desire is for you to slow down and take more time breaking down the concepts you have presented, with a longer and more thought out essay. Example: “The normative claim is the zero level of your desire and will.“ Seems intriguing, but it’s lost on me. If you bring these foreign concepts before me and want me to care/implement them in my own life, then the burden is upon you to actually explain your i…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/22 03:58 PM
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I’m a teacher by trade. Love the tool belt analogy. That’s the exact analogy I try to implement in the classroom, which gains me lots of dedication from kiddos. The default is to be positive and upbeat; cocky and funny; agree and amplify, etc…but sometimes a harsh rebuke is what is needed. All these factors(tools) combined, garners love and respect(builds me a great house). It makes my teaching much smoother, because I am disregarded way less(way less maintenance on the house). Paul and Timothy …
/r/RPChristians10/09/22 01:25 PM
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You’re viewing attraction through the myopic lens of how men see women. Yes, physical features play a role in how women judge men, but there are far more factors involved than how we judge women. Think about the dynamic between Saul and David. Saul was literally the 10 you just described in your post, but women judged these two men, not by physical features, but by their achievements on the battlefield: “When the men were returning home after David had killed the Philistine, the women came out f…
/r/RPChristians12/08/22 05:53 PM
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and I realise how disgusting this must be for straight men to read. I apologise You are most welcome here. Humility is the first step in any christian‘s spiritual journey; as Christ points out in one of his first public teachings, “blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Your post has a healthy dose of this very attitude in which Christ commends. Which is to say, that it seems like you’re already making strides to become the kind of man that Christ desires you to be…
/r/RPChristians09/08/22 02:29 AM
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Thank you, Deep!
/r/RPChristians03/06/22 10:00 PM
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“Do you know how to integrate the fruit of the Spirit into frame? If so, why are you not doing that?”…. I could actually benefit greatly from a simple elaboration on this. u/Deep_Strength
/r/RPChristians01/06/22 12:53 AM
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What is your view on (insert godly behavior) with the rise of (insert sinful behavior)? Why are you looking to the world as your compass for one of life’s biggest decisions? Christ followers are a people set apart to model Christ to the world. One of the chief displays of that model is a biblical marriage. How are you meant to lead others to Christ(which is one of your chief purposes while living on earth), while simultaneously living out a sinful and faulty model, namely, cohabitation? Think of…
/r/RPChristians25/05/22 12:12 PM
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Part 2 post on Jesus’ leadership qualities as it pertains to the household?? Loving the content.
/r/RPChristians01/03/22 04:44 AM
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Meh, more of study on specific women who are into this kind of life-style(clubbing). Never wife a chick at the club, because of these very reasons.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 03:17 PM
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The response to this post is overwhelmingly negative, which it seems that you understand. However, instead of humbly accepting that you have erred and removing it, you proceed to call users spineless. It shows that you don’t even believe what you wrote because instead of engaging in debate, you attack and excuse. Not surprising though, on account of your bizarre post, which would be difficult to defend.
/r/RPChristians30/12/21 08:41 PM
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When did OP say he had sex with this woman?
/r/RPChristians03/10/21 02:15 PM
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I would take a step back and really assess if this woman would be an asset or a liability to me in marriage. In order to do that though, you’ll need to strategize and pray about the mission that God wants you to fulfill while you’re here on earth. Then you’ll need to discern if she fits into that equation. Again, if being a virgin is a deal breaker for you(which is totally valid), then end the relationship and head into monk mode. You’ll easily be able to find a young, hot virgin with those stat…
/r/RPChristians03/10/21 01:53 PM
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Disagree. Some men want a virgin and view that as crucial to a marital relationship. You should read up on Deep’s statistics on virgins vs. non-virgins in marriage. I understand your sentiments on AWALT but there is a difference when it comes to notch-count amongst women.
/r/RPChristians03/10/21 02:03 AM
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She said on the first date that we have to wait until marriage to have sex or even kiss?? and you should have responded by agreeing and amplifying: “I don’t think we should even be making eye contact at least until the third date.” Instead you got all caught up in her frame, because you don’t have one. No sex before marriage is an obvious tenet of every Christian‘s frame, and yet you seem to be missing this one. Also, watch what girls do, not what they say: However since then we have kissed. As …
/r/RPChristians03/10/21 01:45 AM
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Blaming your drug addiction on your mother’s affair from 20+ years ago. Doesn’t get much more Blue Pill than that.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 04:03 PM
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Your stuff is usually ok, but this reads like a Cosmo article.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 04:05 PM
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This is awesome. Reflecting a little bit on how I would put some of this into play and thought of a funny one. The Bodyguard “Get down there’s a sniper!” *soft tackle your wife onto the couch *look around a bit confused “Never mind, false alarm..." *Smirking "but since we're here...”
/r/RPChristians26/12/20 05:49 PM
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Post this question in r/askRPC
/r/RPChristians24/12/20 10:22 PM
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Was about to go in, but you beat me to the punch.
/r/RPChristians15/12/20 01:55 PM
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OP is correct. He does not need stats.
/r/RPChristians13/12/20 11:51 PM
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Happy to hear it. You’re already on the right path then, in terms of the aim that this sub is trying to produce in men that gather here. I would still recommend you give it a read. Many times when we go to church, we are not there to learn new things, but to be reminded of things we already know to be a verity of Scripture. I would argue the same is true for that post in reminding us the importance of lifting and how that correlates to RP. After that start with the 100s series.
/r/RPChristians13/12/20 05:33 PM
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Hey there, welcome! “Lifting is not a suggestion”.
/r/RPChristians13/12/20 05:25 PM
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Define mental strength
/r/RPChristians13/12/20 05:02 AM
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Agreed.
/r/RPChristians12/12/20 06:03 PM
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Delilah was the ultimate thot in Scripture.
/r/RPChristians12/12/20 02:12 PM
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Was about to go in, but I guess you handled it. Well said.
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 11:04 PM
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All of Scripture testifies to the identity of Christ. Therefore, Scripture is the Word of God. That’s not to say the Jesus is literally 66 books, but rather Christ is the Living Word. He is the embodiment and fulfillment of all that Scripture speaks of. So when I say that the Word of God holds the power to call sinners to repentance, I’m speaking of that fact that when Scripture is revealed to a man or woman, the very identity of Christ is revealed, which is whom we must believe in to be saved. …
/r/RPChristians07/12/20 01:45 AM
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Needs to lurk more, apparently. Btw, looking forward to seeing you post more around here. Welcome!
/r/RPChristians06/12/20 12:10 AM
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2 things: First, you can bet 100% that they are going to believe That is quite a bold gauranette. Especially in light of Jesus' earthly ministry. Have you not read when Jesus cast out the demon-possessed man in Gerasenes? How did the people react when they witnessed such an awesome display of power over the spirit world by the Messiah Himself? There are numerous accounts in the gospels where Jesus performs miracles amongst crowds who still continue in unbelief, even after seeing the Hand of God(…
/r/RPChristians05/12/20 08:10 PM
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Curious, what is the purpose of signs, wonders and miracles?
/r/RPChristians05/12/20 01:10 PM
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I appreciate the Corinthians verse, although it seems that you are using it out of spite rather than attempting to persuade. This post is not a 101 on rule following, but rather a guide on building worldview. Believe it or not, I do want new users to flourish here, but that is best done through listening first. Let's say a man has a thousand questions when he stumbles upon this sub. But instead of spewing out his babble, he is wise and decides to read the sidebar and study up on all of the moder…
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 03:12 AM
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Friend, I’m right there along with you, in terms of encouraging new users and welcoming people into this community. I appreciate your Corinthians quote and I take it to heart. I think you might have misunderstood me. This post is not meant to be a 101 on rule following, but rather a guide on building worldview. My heart truly is for new users to flourish, but that is best done through listening first. Perhaps a man comes here with a thousand questions and has yet to read the sidebar. But let’s s…
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 02:59 AM
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*Sighs in frustration; rolls eyes; flaps purse; leaves in a huff.
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 01:48 AM
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Right?! I don’t know all the ins and outs of TULIP, so I’m definitely looking forward to it as well. Hopefully this post will spur him on. “And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works” - Hebrews 10:24
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 12:45 AM
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Fair enough
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 09:27 PM
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Great quote
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 08:17 PM
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Disagreed on your first point. Girls do not speak plainly lol. Secondly, “she’s not the girl for you” excuses any form of self-improvement that this guy instinctively felt like he needs from this interaction. He wasn’t the guy for her because he is unattractive. It’s cold, I know, but Hypergamy is ruthless.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 06:57 PM
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Women speak covertly. She said he was kind, gentle and curious, but she sure as heck meant something completely different. When a girl let’s you down in a positive way, you need to read between the lines. There is something more negative at play. So the instinct he got of feeling like he needs to “toughen up” is completely on point because the girl essentially called him a wimp.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 06:50 PM
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You “got a break-up text” after going on one date?? Lol bro, that’s not a chick breaking up with you. You’re way too invested.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 03:43 PM
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Thanks for the quick replies, brother. I will think on this, and get back to you. As I’ve said, I’ve been there before.(co-worker who broke up with me). It sucks for sure, but this community really helped me through. You’re in the right place.
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 05:59 PM
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There’s your first red flag. Height and weight?
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 05:47 PM
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Do you lift? And if so, what are your stats in the gym in terms of bench and squat? Also, give us your specific height and weight.
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 05:43 PM
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Feel for you man, I've been there. But in order for any real help to come your way, you're going to need to post your stats. SEE Rule 2 on sidebar for more direction on this.
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 05:29 PM
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I think Paul would very much agree with you. “Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation” 2 Corinthians 7:10
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 05:11 AM
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Repentance does not mean to change one’s life as a result of having a complete change of thought. Rather, the change in life is a bi-product of genuine repentance(a complete change in thought). This is why John tells his listeners to bear fruit in keeping with repentance. In other words, once you’ve had the experience of repentance, the change in life should be a natural outflow of that. I know it sounds like semantics, but it is a very important distinction because it really turns into a works …
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 04:41 AM
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Also, the text you quoted is from the old testament. That word is also mistranslated from the hebrew word: teshuvah. Teshuvah literally means "to return". How the Hebrew word for repentance connects to New testament word for repentance involves more study on my part, but I'm sure it will be enriching and transforming.
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 02:34 AM
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Thank you. I've studied this subject quite a bit. Again, I think that misunderstanding, which you've rightly pointed out, comes from the mistranslation of repentance. An understandable mistake, since the mistranslation of metanoia has crept its way into the Church's psyche from an early age.(Oh that the Church would heed the call of the reformation: "Ad Fontes!") And like you said, the misunderstanding of a word leads people to a misunderstanding of the gospel as a whole. If we take a look at th…
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 02:22 AM
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Close, but not quite. A lot of people have a wrong idea of repentance because it's translated flat out wrong from Greek to English. The word "repentance" comes from the Latin-Vulgate translation, which means to "do penance": voluntary self-punishment inflicted as an outward expression for having done wrong. Unfortunately the men who translated this word from the greek, also translated their theology into the word, because that is nowhere near the original meaning in greek. That word is metanoia.…
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 01:09 AM
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Hmm, I did no such thing and I made no such leap. In fact, you just put words in my original comment that I never actually wrote. If you go reread what I wrote you will not find the quote "repent of your sins". Curious, what do you think the word repentance means?
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 12:41 AM
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Strange, you seem to be implying that repentance is not necessary for salvation? "Repent and believe for the kingdom of heaven is at hand" - Jesus. EDIT: Not a big fan of Ray Comfort either.
/r/RPChristians30/11/20 12:22 AM
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wow, this almost slipped my mind... WHAT ARE YOUR STATS???
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 04:54 PM
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I think an important question to ask is, “Do I need a wife at this stage in my mission?” If the answer is yes, then take the proper measures/time in prayer, to see that come to fruition. If the answer is no, then continue working on your mission until the point where a wife would be necessary. This doesn’t mean to close off all women in your life if you answered no to this question. But it should be a rather low priority, because again, you are not at a point in life where having a wife would be…
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 04:36 PM
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Meh. I’ve read the sidebar and can see the aforementioned conundrum it would produce for a man who is interested in dating/finding a wife.
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 02:42 PM
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In terms of a biblical understanding of marriage? Yes.
/r/RPChristians28/11/20 02:56 AM
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What you are describing is Monk Mode, not MGTOW. I'm a very strong proponent of Monk Mode.
/r/RPChristians27/11/20 04:27 AM
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Figured I'd make this comment thread more streamlined. Insert emotionally distressed comments about OZ's use of the word "bullshit" below this one. ⬇️
/r/RPChristians26/11/20 03:19 PM
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Mission first. If there comes a time when a wife would be useful in the fulfillment of your mission, then seek one out, but don’t chase. “He who finds a wife finds a good thing.” - Proverbs 18:22 MGTOW is unbiblical unless God has specifically called you to be a eunuch for His Kingdom.
/r/RPChristians25/11/20 02:51 AM
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I take it you got a divorce. Where are you at in your walk at the moment?
/r/RPChristians25/11/20 02:45 AM
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Simple question: why don’t you now start pursuing some of those things you’ve listed?
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 04:06 PM
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Amen, look at how many times the psalmist relies upon God for support.
/r/RPChristians28/09/20 03:30 PM
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A lot of people are going to try to make you feel good about your sin in here. Calm down there, bud
/r/RPChristians20/09/20 01:51 AM
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You have openly boasted in these comments that you are not only involved in sexual relations with women outside the covenant of marriage, but that you have actually raped one of them. You are no brother of mine. "But now I am writing to you not to associate with anyone who bears the name of brother if he is guilty of sexual immorality or greed, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or swindler—not even to eat with such a one." "For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside…
/r/RPChristians06/09/20 03:00 AM
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Since we are keeping this post open, this is the most important comment on this thread. Amen, brother.
/r/RPChristians06/09/20 02:24 AM
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Ok, but I think this needs to be said for anyone who reads the comments: OP is not a Christian. Although he seemingly agrees with the whole notion of "Christianity", he most certainly is not a follower of Jesus. Yes, I wanted this post taken down, but I will agree with your decision as a leader of this sub to keep it open. With that being said, no one should be holding fellowship with a man who boasts of raping women. I see this sub as a group of men who are sharing the deep wisdom of God and ho…
/r/RPChristians06/09/20 02:04 AM
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Op is talking about raping girls. Can we take this post down, Mods? u/deep_strength u/RedPillWonder u/red-curious u/OsmiumZulu u/rocknrollchuck
/r/RPChristians05/09/20 10:00 PM
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Cheers! Sam Meier is awesome. u/OsmiumZulu also pointed out a podcast(the naked bible) that is hosted by Dr. Michael S Heiser. Every time I listen to him I learn something new. The man is like a walking Alexandrian library.
/r/RPChristians29/08/20 03:22 PM
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Samuel A. Meier has the most comprehensive definition of meekness I've come across. It echoes your point. Here it is: "Late twentieth-century Western culture does not hold meekness to be a virtue, in contrast to the ancient Near East and the Greco-Roman world, which placed a high premium on it. This dramatic shift in values is problematic for contemporary biblical translation. Most modern versions replace the noun "meekness" by "gentleness" or "humility, " largely as a result of the pejorative o…
/r/RPChristians28/08/20 08:24 PM
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Agreed on all points, brother. This parable came to mind when thinking about the implementation of Machiavellian philosophy within the Christian framework: The Parable of the Dishonest Manager 16 He also said to the disciples, “There was a rich man who had a manager, and charges were brought to him that this man was wasting his possessions. 2 And he called him and said to him, ‘What is this that I hear about you? Turn in the account of your management, for you can no longer be manager.’ 3 And th…
/r/RPChristians28/08/20 04:27 PM
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Kinda tough to tell when you're writing things like this. In that case, it seems like the men you've been dating have been pressuring you for sex. Immediate red flag. Run as fast as you can.
/r/RPChristians22/08/20 07:16 PM
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You do realize this is a Christian based forum. I've seen twice now you alluding to having sex outside the confines of biblical marriage. Perhaps this is why you find it troubling attracting "traditional" men. If we were on a date and you began talking about your careless attitude toward being chaste in previous relationships like you have on here, its gonna be a hard next. If you've been given a new life in Christ, then that means you need to start living a new lifestyle of purity. If you haven…
/r/RPChristians22/08/20 07:08 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/m680c2T
/r/RPChristians22/08/20 06:55 PM
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I really appreciate this post. It paints a very clear and memorable archetype to adhere to within the household. I'd be curious to see what archetypes you'd ascribe to the task of evangelism and discipleship.
/r/RPChristians13/08/20 06:20 PM
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False. It does not depend upon the woman, it depends upon the man and his frame.
/r/askRPC12/08/20 02:16 PM
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But I am thinking rather about something that could as a best case scenario bring scientists into the frame of the bible, based on a purely rational approach, that does not request belief but opens the door to believing by showing the meaning behind the symbols. I'm not quite sure what you mean by "symbols" in the Bible. But I'll address the overarching question you're asking, which is, "Is there a purely rational approach to the bible that would help unbelievers see the truth?". That answer is.…
/r/RPChristians09/08/20 06:49 AM
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What is God? god is that feeling inside yourself that something in life is wrong and you can do better - God is a better version for yourself and a way to reach something higher. I agreed with you up until this point. This was really the crux of your argument, where you attempted to persuade u/JGparty to turn away from himself and look to God; which I commend you for. However, there are a few key aspects in this comment that don't pair with Scripture. When a man or woman is living a life of sin …
/r/RPChristians02/08/20 06:55 PM
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I can see you writing up a great post entitled, "You Might Be a Churchian If..." And then proceed to make a brutally convicting list.
/r/RPChristians29/07/20 08:18 PM
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Keep studying, writing and posting on here. This kind of historical/theological approach to RPC is more than welcome on this sub as far as I'm concerned.
/r/RPChristians28/07/20 03:53 AM
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Seems like most other people in the community liked your post, so perhaps it's just me. I studied history for my undergrad, and as a result I have a pretty judgemental eye on these topics.
/r/RPChristians28/07/20 03:42 AM
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Gonna have to agree with our visiting infidel on this one. I'm not really sure what I was meant to take away from this post. I'm sure there is some jewel to be found within the narrative of Alexander the Great that is edifying to the body, but you definitely have not drawn it out in this post.
/r/RPChristians28/07/20 12:14 AM
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Lol... Yeah, u/dechef2 go read the sidebar. Better yet, could you possibly read the sidebar then compile it into a more easily accesdible format?
/r/askRPC25/07/20 12:31 AM
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Could you actually give the quick and dirty versions of NI and fogging like you did the others?
/r/RPChristians19/07/20 12:53 PM
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u/r3dtul1p hmm...maybe someone should write a post about this...
/r/RPChristians18/07/20 03:48 AM
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The Office is the ultimate glorification of Beta via Pam and Jim. Towards the end of the series it really hurts to watch. Jim ends his entire mission because his greatest treasure is his wife and it's making her unhappy.
/r/askRPC13/07/20 07:54 PM
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Username checks out. Great post. No time for big post with long word. Need lift weight, so make small post with small word. Make others feel they need lift weight too.
/r/RPChristians07/07/20 03:14 PM
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Amen, brother!
/r/askRPC06/07/20 05:12 PM
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Sounds like 2 Peter: "make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love. For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. For whoever lacks these qualities is so nearsighted that he is blind,…
/r/askRPC27/06/20 01:03 AM
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I like your conclusion. One of my more popular MRP posts ("Initiate Often, Confident Always") was based on the same premise (RPC Draft Here). You might find it useful in bolstering your own view on the value of facing rejection. Funny enough, I was thinking about that post while writing this one. Good reference. I'm not sure why the "missional dating" thing had to come up as a preface here. A buddy of mine asked the same question. Figured it'd help with context as to why I'd be inclined to appro…
/r/RPChristians25/06/20 10:59 PM
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You're better off amplifying even worse and go with a number like 42. Copy that. Big fan of that list as well. All of em' made me chuckle.
/r/RPChristians25/06/20 10:49 PM
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I agree with your points. For sure, good talks
/r/RPChristians19/06/20 07:46 PM
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I'm aware of ASD. Like you said, I think that concept is only really applicable to an imminent sexual encounter. Not sure why a girl would need plausible deniability when getting asked out on a normal date. In essence, you're saying she actually did want to go on a date with me, but didn't want to seem like a slut because she felt like I wanted to have sex on the first date, so she gave the excuse of a boyfriend, but secretly she was hoping I would persist. I then failed to realize this, and in …
/r/RPChristians19/06/20 06:47 PM
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Nope, that's not a TRP mindset and this is where you rejected yourself. TRP makes the distinction between ASD and a hard no, which are different. I would call he IHAB rejection more of an example of ASD, especially because she was flirting with you. I guess I'm still a little confused how I rejected myself, when she said "I have a boyfriend". Upon acquiring that information, I ceased initiation because there was a clear sign put up by her saying, "I'm not going out with you". Mind bearing this d…
/r/RPChristians19/06/20 05:53 PM
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Agreed! But just to simplify things down, at the end of the day it's a no, which I place in the rejection category.
/r/RPChristians19/06/20 04:28 PM
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it's so much harder to legitimately convert a girl and then start to lead her in her faith, than to just start leading a girl in her faith (which is hard enough in itself). Agreed. This "hard mode on hard mode" hasn't deterred me, but rather stirred me on to keep this mindset. I've had some awesome opportunities in presenting the gospel, where I would not have been able to if I did not have this personal framework(which is a bit more nuanced than Oz's post). Just an example: I went on a date wit…
/r/RPChristians19/06/20 04:25 PM
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Amazed how you can give us a truly groundbreaking insight into Scripture, while simultaneously clearing up a ton of other confusing passages. Praise God for this sub!
/r/RPChristians16/06/20 09:35 PM
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Amen
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 01:31 PM
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Get on a computer, much easier that way. Invest the time(it's a lot of reading). Lift the weights. Eat the meat. Transform your mind. Transform your life. Glorify God. I'm excited to see your growth brother!
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 11:10 PM
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Do us all a favor. Before you comment or post any further on this sub...I'm guessing you know what's coming next...that's right, go read the sidebar!
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 11:06 PM
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This is a good word
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 10:30 PM
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at the top where it says "About"
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 09:25 PM
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Sidebar ---> Read these 2 first: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/9l4fij/lifting_is_not_a_suggestion/ https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/dftxcg/your_problem_hardware_or_software/
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 09:20 PM
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Stop excusing your stats. Get. Your. Weight. Up. Putting on at least 20 pounds of muscle should be a minimum goal for you.
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 09:17 PM
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but the point of my post had nothing to do with physical fitness or health Ooohh, but your post really does have everything to do with your physical fitness.
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 09:14 PM
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Amen..."For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." - Ephesians 6:12
/r/askRPC09/06/20 01:16 PM
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Biggest piece of advice I can give you is the exact same as Nike's motto: "Just Do It". After spending a few months in the gym(heck, even a couple weeks), you'll get a better idea of the direction you want to head in. Also, chart your progress in the notes section of your phone! If your serious about putting on muscle, this will be the key to opening that door. Reaserch what "Progressive Overloading" is, then implement accordingly.
/r/RPChristians08/06/20 03:21 PM
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It involves dicernment on a case by case basis in terms vocalizing boundries for disrespect. On the one hand we see Jesus flipping money tables and calling out the Pharisees for their malicious hypocrisy. On the other, when he is standing trial before the Sanhedrin, we don't see him calling out, "WhY ArEn'T YoU rEsPeCtInG mE??" But rather, "He kept silent and did not answer."
/r/RPChristians08/06/20 03:07 PM
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you'll be the best version of you this side of Heaven, and very likely, a good and godly woman (or many) will cross your path and you may choose one to bring her alongside you (and never in front) as you continue the cause you've set out to accomplish. I think you just summarized this entire sub in one sentence...well done.
/r/RPChristians07/06/20 11:45 AM
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All of Scripture is God inspired and is profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for instruction in righteousness. Therefore, having a strong working knowledge of the bible as a whole is where you want to be. You'll find that the more you read and more you commit to memory, the more opportunities God will place before you to use that ammunition.
/r/askRPC06/06/20 05:52 PM
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seemingly unnecessarily expanding on that which is spiritually quite simple Bro, what are you even saying here??
/r/RPChristians06/06/20 03:33 PM
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Thanks for all the U.K. political context lol. I would have no idea what you were saying without it. Looks like your family has willingly thrown themselves headlong into the religion of "Wokeness"(I was once a believer). Where salvation is received based upon your profession of white privilege and sanctification is brought about by publicly proclaiming the reality of institutional racism. Everything must be viewed through the lens of racism, because it is western civilization's "original sin". O…
/r/askRPC06/06/20 02:01 PM
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after passionately articulating, expressing and defending my views (like any self respecting man would do) on current affairs. Interested to see what you said. Care to share?
/r/askRPC05/06/20 08:49 PM
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Didn't even read all of it because I couldn't. Paragraphs, man. They're your friend.
/r/askRPC05/06/20 01:53 PM
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Dude, I was so creeped out the first 10 seconds of that video hahaha that was gold!
/r/RPChristians03/06/20 02:51 PM
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Great attitude! "Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a righteous man, and he will increase in learning." - proverbs 9:9
/r/RPChristians01/06/20 09:35 PM
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Rule 2 of this sub: ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize Scripture, etc.
/r/RPChristians01/06/20 04:46 PM
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What are your stats? That will give us a pretty good idea of your femininity
/r/RPChristians01/06/20 04:37 PM
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I wish there was an Upvote million button.
/r/RPChristians01/06/20 01:11 PM
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You're on a roll brother!
/r/RPChristians30/05/20 01:50 PM
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"To The Jew First: The Case for Jewish Evangelism in Scripture and History"
/r/RPChristians30/05/20 11:38 AM
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Really solid advice! My predictions were correct; this definitely applies to all us singles out there.
/r/RPChristians29/05/20 06:59 PM
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Loving the cat theory, that's gold :D
/r/RPChristians29/05/20 01:41 PM
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My recommendation is to invite her to come along in something you want to do. Right. I thought I made that pretty clear when I said "I plan on inviting her to join me for lunch" You like Mediterranean food? Have the best pita-house in town? Eat gyros with her. That's actually hilarious, because that's exactly what I'm doing.
/r/RPChristians29/05/20 01:09 PM
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"She's either a hell yes girl, or it's a hell no"
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 10:14 PM
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Love this ^. Faith in God produces the virtue of faithfulness in us.
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 12:18 PM
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OP, I'm still a little confused. Are you attracted to this girl or not?
/r/RPChristians23/05/20 03:44 PM
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Right. While it is good you are concerned about lifting people up the socioeconomic ladder, your focus should be on leading them through the narrow gate. The more your life is oriented towards that direction, the less time you will have for the kinds of situations you find yourself in.
/r/RPChristians23/05/20 03:22 PM
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What is your mission?
/r/RPChristians23/05/20 04:40 AM
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I recently introduced a brother to this sub after having multiple conversations about RP theory. I directed him to go straight to the sidebar, but that didn't prevent him from seeing a new post entitled, "Should we guys listen to our mommas??"...smh.
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 02:45 PM
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I disagree that entering into a conversation with false premises is entering into their frame. What would you say to Jesus, who constantly engaged with those who were trying to trap him with their world view i.e. the saduucees and their question of the resurrection. Again, I'm not looking to remain silent. I'm looking for beneficial ways to engage with these people, who are lost and in need of truth spoken in love.
/r/askRPC19/05/20 01:56 AM
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people would probably lash at me and I want to believe this sub will at least hear me out before anything I'm assuming English is not your first language. People might be lashing out at you because of the incoherent wall of texts that you post. I was going to lash out as well, but as you can see, I'm taking a different approach. Go check out the sidebar and study the pattern of a well-put-together post. Notice the use of paragraph breaks and subheadings. Just using those alone will help tremendo…
/r/RPChristians16/05/20 05:19 AM
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An interesting side note: The idea of wisdom in the book of Proverbs is personified as a woman. Not making any claims here, but perhaps there is a deeper, spiritual truth behind that fact. Edit: Giving this some more thought... Solomon is writing to his son, whom we can presume is a virile, young man, about to embark on the journey of life. As men, we all know at that stage of life, women list high on our priorities. Recognizing this, Solomon says to his son, "So, it's women you desire? Well, le…
/r/RPChristians15/05/20 03:28 PM
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Here ya go mate https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/85wf8w/is_sex_outside_of_marriage_a_sin_an_official/
/r/RPChristians14/05/20 09:39 PM
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The idea being that men communicate overtly; women covertly. So when you say, "throw some ribeye on the grill", she's thinking...well, I'll let your imagination do the rest.
/r/RPChristians14/05/20 05:21 PM
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falsguy
/r/RPChristians14/05/20 04:57 PM
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"come over and we'll throw some ribeyes on the grill" doesn't actually get interpreted literally any more in 2020. lol, takes "medium is the message" to a whole different level
/r/RPChristians14/05/20 04:55 PM
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Wow, yeah, totally missed that! The appropriate rebuke to Israel would have been, "Ask not what God can do for your nation, but what your nation can do for God".
/r/RPChristians14/05/20 03:07 PM
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looking for a sign doesn't make you an adulterer; but people who already are adulterers are the ones who will ask for one. Yeah, that was a great takeaway that I couldn't see before posting.
/r/RPChristians14/05/20 01:49 AM
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All throughout the OT, God talks about how Israel has been an adulterous nation (esp. Hosea), and when that comes up, Israel is always becoming best buds (and then some) with the surrounding nations, Egypt being the first one. They start relying on their newfound friends instead of God. This is what is meant when Jesus says they are an adulterous nation. I totally agree here. Just to add to this: the egocentrism of the feminine imperative, which is geared towards survival, parallels nicely with …
/r/RPChristians13/05/20 07:45 PM
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good stuff..."Instruct the wise and they will be wiser still; teach the righteous and they will add to their learning." -- Proverbs 9:9
/r/RPChristians13/05/20 01:43 AM
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"Thus says the Lord: 'Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the Lord who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the Lord'" -- Jeremiah 9:23-24
/r/RPChristians13/05/20 12:14 AM
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bingo
/r/RPChristians12/05/20 09:01 PM
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Define "being a servant". And define "sexy".
/r/RPChristians12/05/20 08:50 PM
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That's some strange logic: *Asks OP stats to figure out more about her. **OP feels like I'm making assumptions about her.
/r/askRPC09/05/20 11:40 PM
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What are your stats? Perhaps it will shed some light on the importance of stats in your life.
/r/askRPC09/05/20 11:01 PM
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I would NEVER FaceTime or call a coworker about non work related things outside of work hours. Wow! What a statement! Not only is this prideful, and representative of feminine solipsistic logic. It also does an amazing job of flying in the face of one of RP's strongest tenets: AWALT. Robert Murray McCheyne, a 19th century preacher, once said, "The seeds of every sin known to man is in my heart". In other words, those seeds of "beginning an inappropriate relationship with a coworker" exist in tha…
/r/RPChristians09/05/20 06:00 PM
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Your whole post makes my blood boil. A verse came to mind when reflecting on your situation: "Jesus looked around at them in anger and, deeply distressed at their stubborn hearts." As you mentioned, just goes to show how true RP wisdom is. You have a justified righteous anger as Jesus similarly did in the situation above, but you also possess a priceless rationality about this whole thing. God bless you, and I pray she finds true repentance. EDIT: Although Jesus was distressed about the hardness…
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 11:45 PM
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You made the specific claim that John wrote "he carried it all by himself". Not sure where it says that. Let's say I went to the grocery store and two men came along and wrote reports of what I did there: Report 1: Continuous-metanoia went to the store and bought pineapples. Report 2: Continuous-metanoia went to the store with his son and bought pineapples. Both reports are true. Just because the 2nd report adds more information does not make the 1st report any less true. Likewise for the gospel…
/r/askRPC18/04/20 09:38 PM
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Hmm, where does John specifically say "he carried it all by himself"?
/r/askRPC17/04/20 11:18 PM
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Buy this book. It will change your prayer life. https://www.amazon.com/Praying-Bible-Donald-S-Whitney/dp/1433547848
/r/askRPC08/04/20 01:48 PM
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Can you clarify what you mean by ideas, things and feelings? Perhaps give some examples.
/r/askRPC08/04/20 01:29 PM
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Great read. I was reminded of a John Newton quote that nicely compliments your section on repentance: “I am not what I ought to be, I am not what I want to be, I am not what I hope to be in another world; but still I am not what I once used to be, and by the grace of God I am what I am” -- Note that he doesn't say, "Who I truly am is trying to be what God wants me to be."(external), but rather "Who I truly am is what God has done in me."(internal). Also, this post couples nicely with this one th…
/r/RPChristians08/04/20 01:16 AM
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Work Online personal training certification program. This one is crucial. My advice would be to find something you can sink all of your free time into that will give you some return after COVID. That looks different for everyone. Reading books in relation to my mission Devotional time (Bible/prayer) Diet/Exercise Rinse and repeat
/r/askRPC08/04/20 12:25 AM
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My own advice, which I'm currently adhering to as well is to go monk mode for now. The use of a FB message is good if the conversation moves relatively quickly to an in-person interaction. That is kind of off the table at the moment (unless you're willing to push that boundary, which is completely your prerogative). As a side note, spending hours on texts and messages is one of the ultimate beta moves, which I fell into recently with a girl (which ended in me being ghosted). Much time wasted. My…
/r/askRPC07/04/20 05:44 PM
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Well to be fair to the defintion, when you bring up the subject of SMV, you are then talking about all women in said marketplace, not just your wife. But to your point, that is why choosing your wife out of abundance before marriage is crucial to attraction post marriage. u/OsmiumZulu does an amazing job of fleshing out this concept in this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/7aewjo/for_singles_getting_laid_like_a_christian_part_2/ Here is an excerpt from post that drives home m…
/r/askRPC06/04/20 01:26 AM
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This is the sidebar definition from r/RPChristians Preselection - The idea that women are more attracted to men who already have the interest of other women. This saves the woman time in judging a man by using the idea that other women have already judged him favorably. Full list of terms here--> https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/wiki/glossary
/r/askRPC06/04/20 01:09 AM
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Yes, but that also means you will live a life of celibacy. Ideally, you should be living a mission that attracts the interest of women who will be more than willing to be your helper. :) If you can't control your desire of having sex with one of those aforementioned women, then marry! If you can, then hire an assistant.
/r/askRPC06/04/20 12:59 AM
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Just in my own humble opinion, a man who is married(especially to an HB) has a high SMV because it shows his pre-selection. More importantly, if he is managing his household well(enthusiastic wife and submissive children) it raises his usefulness in the kingdom of God, as that is a qualification that Paul submits for an elder. In other words, a successful marriage means you have your head on straight and can handle your mission with refined skill.
/r/askRPC06/04/20 12:47 AM
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u/Red-Curious touches on this topic in this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/fdaaai/the_wife_who_truly_loves_you/ Here is a snippet that has stayed with me in terms of frame: This is not "living in God's frame" (though at times it is easier to explain things in those terms). This is living in your own frame out of the "new heart" that God gives us. Definitely recommend the full read ^
/r/RPChristians04/04/20 04:39 PM
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I agree 100% with u/Rifleshoot. God is constantly calling His people to make a black and white choice, and that choice doesn't have any grey areas (a little leaven leavens the whole lump). When Adonai gives the law to His people, the essential covenant is this: "You have two options: death or life...so choose life!" That same binary option is given in the new covenant: Repent and believe and receive eternal life or die in your sins and face eternal punishment...so choose to believe!" I think you…
/r/RPChristians04/04/20 02:18 PM
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This is a pretty big red flag, OP. Before you go seeking out how to be in a healthy relationship with a girl, you need to be in a healthy relationship with Christ. Sounds like you were quite possibly the worst witness in her life. Her "taking a break from Christianity" sounds pretty reasonable, if the Christianity she's been receiving is the one you've been dishing up to her.
/r/RPChristians04/04/20 12:55 PM
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That's a solid resource, especially on the divisions of the law. Never seen an argument against that. Thank you for the link. From my understanding, this was the basic premise of that post -- "Do all things through faith. Anything not done is faith is sin" <--I agree! "Therefore, we don't need the law, all we need is faith" <-- a bit tougher to swallow. I guess my only question is what do we do with the law? Do we just let it sit in Deuteronomy, and skip over it in our reading plans? It seems to…
/r/askRPC03/04/20 11:03 PM
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Perhaps I should take my foot off the gas pedal a little. I can see where you're coming from and I think the argument for the use of the Mosaic law is a bit more nuanced than what I wrote. To clarify, when I say that we use the Mosaic law for sanctification, I mean that it is the Spirit who sanctifies us and the moral principles embodied in the Mosaic law is the goal of a Spirit-directed life. Hence why 9 of the 10 commandments have been carried over and are part of the law of the Spirit of life…
/r/askRPC03/04/20 03:10 AM
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Biblically, Christians are not to follow God using Mosaic law or the old covenant since it is not 100% a work based Faith. I think you might be viewing the purpose of the Mosaic law incorrectly. The law was never meant to be used as a "work based faith" in the Old Covenant Scriptures. -- Incidentally, that's exactly how the Pharisees viewed the law, ergo Jesus corrected their thinking. The law is a tool that can be used to point us towards Messiah. A measuring stick if you will. "How am I doing …
/r/askRPC02/04/20 02:57 PM
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Here we go...
/r/askRPC01/04/20 05:23 PM
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I've watched a few of his videos before I swallowed the pill. Admittley, I'm not fully competent on the worldview he presents. However, just from the videos I've seen, he does come off a bit Blue Pill. (well intentioned, but missing the mark) My suggestion would be to read the r/RPChristians sidebar, as well as everything u/red-curious and u/deep_strength has posted and use that as your platform for discerning "Christian dating advice". The two themes that you will see constantly in that sub and…
/r/askRPC29/03/20 02:34 AM
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Or r/askRPC
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 12:26 AM
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That's a very succinct reply. Thank you. This verse came to mind as I was reading: "Jesus replied, 'But even more blessed are all who hear the word of God and put it into practice.'"
/r/askRPC11/02/20 12:46 AM
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I appreciate the response! To quote my words exactly: "I've woken up to a lot of RP ideas". I agree with you that I'm still living in a BP frame. I actually did some research on what it means to have fully swallowed the pill, but came up empty handed. I'm interested to hear your thoughts on this. How will I know when I've been fully redpilled, so to speak? How long do you think that process takes?
/r/askRPC10/02/20 10:34 PM
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Will do! Already started checking out some of your posts on growing a social network.
/r/askRPC28/01/20 10:45 PM
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I appreciate the caution.
/r/askRPC28/01/20 10:43 PM
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Thank you, this very encouraging to read.
/r/askRPC26/01/20 09:23 PM
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Yes to both.
/r/askRPC26/01/20 09:22 PM
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Ok, here's my advice: read your Bible, learn the principles, grow in your walk with the Lord through prayer, Bible reading, learning, sharing the Gospel, and reading the Sidebar and posts here. Don't worry about a relationship right now, just focus on your Mission. This kind of thinking is so brand new to me, however, this is the direction I know God is calling me towards. My life orientation seems completely different compared to a month ago. Praise God for this subbredit!
/r/askRPC23/01/20 10:12 PM
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So for instance an actionable step may be instead of thinking about yourself and being in her frame or whatever,.. since you're called to be a pastor how can you minister to her and make sure she's doing well in her walk with God. Thank you for this! This was actually the solution I landed upon when thinking about a different approach if I were to see her again. It is immensely helpful to have this reaffirmed by an outside voice.
/r/askRPC23/01/20 10:03 PM
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2/2 After combing through hours upon hours of online content, much of which I had to throw out for its detestable solutions to a very real problem, I stumbled upon this sub-reddit. After scouring each thread, I realized the biggest issue in the relationship I had with this girl was the lack of my mission. She became the mission, while I sat in the dark as to what more God could want out of my life. In fact, I was doing mental gymnastics in my head in planning about my future around this girl. "I…
/r/askRPC22/01/20 11:53 PM
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