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/r/Divorce_Men29/10/20 11:55 PM
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If I decide to take it, I hope she doesn't smell blood and vindictiveness and decide she doesn't want to now. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/20 03:07 AM
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If you can say 41% is fair. I assumed 50% was fair. But I dont want to spend 30K or more, have our son forensically investigated and spend more time bickering in this house if all ill get is 30% time with our son.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/20 02:41 AM
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Yes. Ive had an attorney for a year. Where did you read or hear NY is 50/50? There is no presumption of equal time and in fact, case law here dictates that once a matter is litigated, it is inappropriate to order joint custody unless the parties agree. See Brahmain v brahmain. They still rule based on this archaic decision.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/20 02:39 AM
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I hear you brother. I agree. Yet child support is a flat thing here in the Empire State. 17% whether you have the child 1% or 49% of the time. The child support will keep me from getting my own home and having to live with my parents at almost 40. Again, if she earns more than I do and is comfortable, im hoping the court won't be hellbent on seeing me homeless just to make a point. Who knows. I worry about that and the 50/50 after 5th grade because it isn't enforceable I dont think.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/20 12:12 AM
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I just began considering this now. Yet I can't help but worry she'll smell blood in the water and just say nope, let's go to court tough guy. Those offers were made between January and April.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/20 12:04 AM
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In NYS its 17% for each child. We have 1. CS goes to non custodial parent regardless of income though I earn 20% less than wife.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/20 12:02 AM
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EOW is not a parent. It's a visitor. EOW is good if you're unable or unwilling to parent your children.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/20 05:38 PM
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Which state?
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/20 08:03 PM
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This guy is 100% right. Don't fall on your sword. Don't feel the need to be chivalrous. This isn't the time. Be strong. By keeping the peace, I mean limit arguing and bickering especially in front of the child. Also, do not ever email, text or leave aggressive, offensive messages. You be calm as a cucumber.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/20 11:34 AM
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Both. Assuming the home is marital property, if you move out and find other accommodations, you are telling the court that you don't need the home and can afford other accommodations. This makes it more likely your spouse will get the house in some sort of distribution of assets. As far as thr children go, you're going to argue that the kids are your life. Moving out doesn't illustrate that they are your world. You may also argue that the children have only known a world with you in it every day…
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/20 10:38 AM
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Hey man. I'm in the middle of the same thing. It heavily depends on state and judge. Some states have practically default equal time. Some do not. I live in NY, which does not. But I'm still fighting. I've met and talked with men that have gotten the best outcome for their kids, namely equal time. You have to get a good, family law attorney. You must remain in the marital home. Judges love status quo and of the children are parented by you every day, they are hard-pressed to change that. Make su…
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/20 03:08 AM
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I'm with ya. Same here. Im a completely involved father. Im talking cooking, laundry, baths, play, bedtime stories, reading, taking him to libraries, parks, festivals, staying home from work when he's sick,, you name it. In fact, I dare say I did more than his mother. Nevertheless, his mother is not a bad mom and has always taken the lead in medical and education things though we've always make decisions collaboratively. Since i initiated divorce she's tried to edge me out. Cooking more, making …
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/20 06:18 PM
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I hear ya. I'm lucky to have a flexible schedule. The only reason I'm not home with our son now is because my wife is there with him and made it difficult for me to be there. I don't want our son to see tension all day so I go to the office while she works from home during this pandemic. So far wife won't agree to an equitable parenting schedule, so we have to go through this battle royal for no reason. Sad.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/20 05:54 PM
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Wow. I always hear the UK is worse than the states for kids and their fathers. Congratulations. I'm going through the process in NY and the hardest part is not knowing how or why the judge is going to order one way or the other.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/20 05:01 PM
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How'd you get such a fair parenting schedule for your child?
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/20 04:38 PM
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What state?
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/20 09:54 AM
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I have a claim to the equity in the house. That should offset her claim on my retirement so. Plus she wants me to pay half her credit card bills. She's not good with money and spends too much. We have no joint accounts. I recently paid off all my debt in preparation for this battle. Let her try to prove its marital debt and not just her wine bill.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/20 05:46 PM
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Yes. I saw a video from one of these YouTube guys about that. The hypocrisy is hilarious. These discussions should be gender neutral. Person A and Person B. They wouldn't know how who to be pissed at. Anyway, the house is gonna be hers because she owned it before marriage but we were dating. 401k sucks because she stopped contributing less than a year after we married and I really ramped mine up after we were married. But whatever. I just want to be a full time father and have a chance to own my…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/20 05:43 PM
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Yes yes. I've heard that. I dont know. At the same time, if it gets really trivial with her saying "he's nasty to me in front of our child." Or claims she never cursed me out in front of our child. Or if someone asks "did you refuse to allow father to attend a school event and then when father said he was going anyway, did you threaten to bring the child elsewhere to make sure father couldn't attend with child?" I feel like having a tape for that helps. If anything I can transcribe the audio for…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/20 05:36 PM
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Thank you so much! But you'll be happy to know I'm way ahead on that. If anyone wants to lie about something that has gone on in my house, they're going to have a rude awakening.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/20 05:14 PM
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Btw... what state are you in and did it go to trial?
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/20 04:57 PM
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I agree 100% with you. Thats exactly what I'm doing. And just like you, we happen to be right. I know it sounds like I'm being weak with a few things but I cant help but believe I gotta pick my battles and keep conflict to a minimum. Hey, this all started last year when in the midst of her being mad at me, demanded I leave the house. I said no. I said I'm not going anywhere. She threatened to call the police. I said go ahead. She actually did it. They came, saw and left as there was nothing to r…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/20 04:57 PM
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Thanks again. One thing I have to mention. She didn't initiate this process. I did. I live in the home and I dont have any girlfriend or anything, I just couldn't take it anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/20 04:29 PM
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I understand. I would only assume the information is relevant in terms of how her behavior affects my parenting. I wouldn't want them to think oh look, mother does all this but not understanding why. If that should happen then my wife's tactics would be successful and that would be a great disgrace. If they ask me who puts your child to bed at night on most evenings, how do I answer that? Do I say oh my wife does that? Do I say I primarily did that until January 22nd, 2020? And if they ask what …
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/20 03:11 PM
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I wonder how the GAL makes this recommendation. Its a very nuanced thing. For example, she could say "i read our child a bedtime story and put him to bed every night." I can say AND prove that prior to divorce, I handled that responsibility and since divorce began, mother has refused to let me do so. She could say "I do our child's laundry every week." I could say AND prove that I soley did this for years until divorce began at which time mother told me not to do so and placed a security lock on…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/20 02:34 PM
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