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A supposed red piller recommending him to listen to “actual expert advice.” 😅
/r/RPChristians13/07/26 12:01 PM
-7

Get over it. How about next time you don’t use the Red Pill?
/r/RPChristians16/04/26 11:04 AM
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You said it yourself, it works in real life to build social repertoire with both genders. I use it with my wife and she loves it, because it’s flirting and it keeps our relationship interesting. I also use it with other women and men in my life to build rapport. Trolling and toxicity online is something else altogether
/r/RPChristians04/04/26 05:10 PM
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So what, going to the gym is a pain, but something we have to continuously do. Just like courting a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:18 PM
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Why did it turn toxic and why did she cheat on you? That’s the important question here.
/r/RPChristians11/03/26 02:51 PM
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Oh you’re a woman. Forget my comments.
/r/RPChristians25/12/25 06:17 PM
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You might be focused on the wrong thing.
/r/RPChristians25/12/25 06:16 PM
4

I would consider it a win to marry a woman you can have a loving, peaceful and fruitful relationship with.
/r/RPChristians25/12/25 04:18 PM
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Exactly, there are deeper issues there. Which you either don’t know, or you’re not telling us.
/r/RPChristians20/12/25 08:09 PM
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First of all, why did you divorce?
/r/RPChristians20/12/25 07:51 PM
2

You planning on telling her your history with girls is ridiculous. Please don’t, it won’t go like you think it will. It’s almost as silly as asking her to be your GF. Anyway just freakin date her and practice red pill with her. You obviously don’t know much about it, and that’s fine. There’s so much more to learn. But kudos to you for cold approaching, that’s a great step! Also, I’m not into skinny girls. I want em slim thicc 🍑
/r/RPChristians11/11/25 10:36 AM
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Because I’m aware of the risks and I’m not scared. Why start a business if 95% of them fail?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/25 11:52 PM
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This is fairly common knowledge. And it works the other way too. Men lose desire for their wife too and in the event of a divorce regain it with other women. Again fairly common knowledge. Not sure of the point of this post. Is it “don’t get married!” ? If you’re getting married for unlimited sex then sure. But there’s a million other more important reasons to get married as a red pill man.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 11:34 AM
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What the heck are your thoughts? I don’t even know your question? Yes, a red pill man should listen to his woman, and not expect to be listened to. That’s part of the game. Your thoughts and feelings are not important to her. She only wants to express her thoughts and feelings and she wants you to truly listen and understand. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/25 01:29 PM
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It’s not necessarily blue pill. It’s only blue pill if her response is to have you do something you know is counter productive to attraction and you do it. As red pill men we know better than our wives what we need to do to make them love us. But that doesn’t mean we don’t overlook things or some things escape our notice. So asking her could make you aware of some things that you lacked. But if I’m honest, I don’t see the point of asking. Women don’t exactly bottle things up. She’s going to tell…
/r/RPChristians28/09/25 03:08 AM
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Looks like a whole bunch of justification to excuse oneself from approaching women.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/25 05:41 PM
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I always said a man should fuck a wife before he gets married.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/25 02:07 PM
4

About a decade since I swallowed the red pill. Slayed girls for years until I swallowed the orange pill and realized I needed to settle down. Married a beautiful Eastern European 12 years younger than me. Not a bad life.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/25 04:11 PM
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Angelina Jolie begs to differ
/r/TheRedPill13/07/25 11:50 AM
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Sometimes women need space. It helps them miss you and process their feelings. Let them. It’s not more complicated than that. The whole “hit the gym, hit your purpose” is something you’re doing anyway, regardless of her pulling away.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/25 04:55 PM
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I actually agree with her — you’re hooked on sex with her, and probably for the lame reason that it makes you feel validated afterward. But that’s not how it should be. You shouldn’t need sex from your woman. You should be able to go weeks, even months, without it because your life is driven by bigger priorities. The less you obsess over whether you’re getting laid, the more naturally it comes. You even said this yourself — when you pull back your attention, she gives you more. That shouldn’t be…
/r/RPChristians01/07/25 03:42 PM
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Corey Wayne. AMS. Todd Valentine.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/25 02:29 AM
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Alexander Grace is a black pilled crybaby but unfortunately the best answer to this dumb question.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/25 10:51 AM
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Stop playing the “gotcha” games with women, as if your exposition of their irrationality is actually good game. It’s childish and you should be working at a deeper level. Those interviews of “women telling on themselves” are the worst part of the red pill to me.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/25 02:11 AM
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If it’s annoying for a girl to feel you hot all the time, then why burden her with it? Give her some cool moments so she can feel her feelings without you all up on her.
/r/RPChristians22/06/25 03:26 PM
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She told you that you were boring before you went in for the kiss. So you are way slow according to her.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/25 02:02 AM
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You were boring her because you weren’t moving fast enough on her. Fuck waiting for her to reply on Tinder, when you see her in real life, you need to escalate.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/25 10:51 PM
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“Commitment, or new pussy. That is the question.”
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 05:38 PM
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He literally said he “was trying to be a nice guy” 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 06:29 PM
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Dancing ~> Kissing -> Fucking
/r/TheRedPill03/04/25 06:27 PM
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Is it really your dream to have a large family with a beautiful wife? Sounds pretty gay bro. No disrespect, wanting a family is fine, but is that really your dream? No wonder you’re failing miserably at it. You’re desperate. Sounds very validation seeking. And this is probably why you’re sucking socially and romantically. You need a purpose in your life bigger than your desire for a family. You need to be proud of yourself such that you don’t seek validation in a family or wife. In your conditio…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/25 11:13 AM
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Your story tells us nothing that enables us to give advice. You basically vomited a bunch of nonsense on the page. Read the sidebar, you need it.
/r/RPChristians28/02/25 01:42 PM
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You told us nothing of why you and your wife broke up, so it’s kinda hard for me to see the significance of this post.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/25 02:35 AM
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You’re still way too emotional. I wouldn’t even consider you red pilled. You’re literally shouting at your wife? Keep grinding .
/r/RPChristians05/01/25 09:49 PM
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Hilary Clinton. Jackie Kennedy. Melania Trump
/r/TheRedPill08/12/24 09:54 PM
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Sounds like you still haven’t swallowed the red pill.
/r/RPChristians05/12/24 08:42 PM
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Keep reading and applying the side bar. You need to internalize more.
/r/RPChristians23/10/24 09:57 PM
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You’re an introvert, she’s an extrovert. Doesn’t seem much more than that. The only issue I see is your stomach sinking at her exclamation of your mutual friend. Also you having a conversation with her about boundaries after that is pretty weird. It shows your fearful which will make her feel unsafe.
/r/RPChristians23/10/24 09:49 PM
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Love it!
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 10:09 PM
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Read the side bar. There’s enough in there to keep you busy for years. Get to work
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 04:52 PM
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Welcome to the real world, which is making you realize who you really are. The fact that you think the difference between then and now is that you were leaner shows how clueless you are. You’ve got a lot of self improvement to do. Start working.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 04:17 PM
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What country is she from?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 04:11 PM
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You went up, down, and all around, but lots of decent stuff. Thanks for posting
/r/TheRedPill05/10/24 03:46 AM
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I’ll take it as a compliment I don’t know what Genshin is
/r/TheRedPill29/09/24 03:55 PM
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It’s not just eye contact, it’s a certain type of eye contact. Look deeper. Also, do you know the difference between a bitchy woman who likes you, vs a bitchy woman who doesn’t? Learn to tell the difference.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/24 02:01 PM
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I don’t disagree that men were naturally selected to be this way. That makes me even more firm in my position, knowing that I am following the laws of nature and evolution. Men are designed to be replaceable. Many of us are destined for nothing more than dying on the battlefield as young men. Only one man is needed to populate the earth. But you need many women to populate the earth. Therefore each woman is crucial and special. This is why we say “women and children first.” Evolution has taught …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/24 07:44 PM
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What you don’t realize is that there are men who are quite willing to love their women and children without “true love” in return. Many of us know that we will never receive the love we once received from our mother, but we Don’t Care. Our lives are driven by a higher purpose than genetic driven love. That higher purpose and the responsibility of being in a relationship with those who cannot love is back give us tremendous satisfaction. That is the true definition of man. You fall a step short o…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/24 05:35 PM
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Good red pill content.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/24 05:36 AM
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You all broad stroke so much in this group it’s ridiculous. Do you really think you can’t meet a well adjusted girl with tattoos? Also - I love fuckin a slutty tatted girl.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/24 06:04 PM
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Welcome to the Red Pill! Your life is going to get way better. I have no doubt you will learn the content and put in the work.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 09:44 AM
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Whatever man, there’s nothing mentally taxing about a shit test. It’s funny, and I love it. You’re just too uptight. However, I also do wonder why in the love of God they don’t realize they’re doing it.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/24 08:26 AM
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I wouldn’t say it’s bullshit, both things can be true. My wife never shit tests me. But other women do.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/24 08:24 AM
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Read the Sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/24 12:28 PM
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You guys are bunch of pansies. He fucking hot, and I’m not even gay. Crazy that you can’t admit it
/r/TheRedPill14/07/24 11:52 PM
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The one thing your post screams out is that you have NO PURPOSE. Figure that out.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/24 02:41 PM
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Beauty and the Beast predated the woke nonsense Disney is putting out now. I can tell the difference even if you can’t.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/24 04:20 PM
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Completely wrong. The story is very red pilled. Here’s another example: the Beast is hiding from Belle the most intimate and emotional part of his life: the magical rose. This magical rose is a metaphor for our emotional lives as men, which a woman is not to know. But all women, just like Belle, will seek out that magical rose and ask the Beast to share it with her. What did the Beast do when he saw Belle had found the rose? He recaptured it and kicked her out the room, screaming “Do you know wh…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/24 03:19 PM
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Dan Bacon is red pill like the rest of them. Don’t blame him or his methods for your failures.
/r/RPChristians15/06/24 12:26 PM
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This dude was just waiting for this question to be asked
/r/RPChristians11/06/24 02:41 AM
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I still don’t understand why you guys need so much sex from your wives. Am I the only one who gets tired of having sex with the same person over and over? Certainly women feel the same way too, and in most cases I think that is what your wives are feeling. Not some hormonal issue, or you not acting man enough. It’s just pure boredom. Once a week is fine for me, I don’t need more.
/r/askMRP29/05/24 03:55 PM
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Bro, are you even listening to your wife? Or are you ramboing because you learnt some RP stuff? Every night I come home from work I have to listen to my wife ramble for an hour about shit I don’t care about. I do it, because I love and am committed to her, and I know it makes her feel good.
/r/askMRP28/05/24 06:16 PM
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All normal positive signs, there’s nothing like the red pill, upwards and onwards
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/24 05:44 PM
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She’s calling your bluff. She’s also scared by your sudden change. All of a sudden you want a new church? Heck, all be of a sudden you may want a new woman. Why do you want to go to this new church?
/r/askMRP27/05/24 12:34 PM
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What do you do with your life besides care about how much sex you’re getting?
/r/askMRP24/05/24 07:59 PM
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Here’s an opinion: STFU, Lift, read sidebar
/r/askMRP24/05/24 05:09 PM
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Bro read the sidebar and start implementing the red pill. Your situation is no worse than thousands of others who have turned their life around.
/r/askMRP20/05/24 02:25 PM
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You don’t have power over your or her past, but you have power over the present. Presently, are you higher SMV than her? Presently, could you fuck other girls if you wanted? Presently, are you a beast in life? If so, these present realities will become more real and outshine the past realities of which you’re afraid.
/r/askMRP19/05/24 08:14 PM
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How about just stop expecting sex completely and see what happens?
/r/askMRP11/05/24 09:57 PM
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When someone distinguishes between sober and drunk females I know they don’t know what they’re talking about.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/24 01:03 PM
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She can shift her tone, and she probably is moving towards main event, but you have to be committed to her in order to push through that main event. If you are mentally and emotionally checked out, she will sense that in you, and simply go into hysteria. You have to be HER rock, not just a rock.
/r/askMRP10/05/24 04:15 PM
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Based on what you’ve said, I can’t tell if you want to stay with her or not. And that being the case, I can’t offer advice.
/r/askMRP10/05/24 04:09 PM
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I come home late pretty much every night and my woman always comes to give me a hug and a kiss at the front door (with cooked food on the stove.) You can change it by studying and implementing the red pill. Please keep at it and working and grinding. You have to put in the work! As for this silly situation you have yourself in, the thing is you’re taking her protests way too seriously. Almost as if she’s your mother. If she asks you again why you’re late just say “I was out conquering dragons my…
/r/askMRP08/05/24 02:37 PM
1

You understand you have to initiate? That sounds like your problem. Stop trying to fuck her all the time and find something else to do. Something that is difficult, takes time and is valuable. Are you that needy for sex? Wait for her initiate and see how long it takes before you actually become attractive.
/r/askMRP07/05/24 06:09 AM
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You knew nothing about him or her. But came out of this thinking you had them all seized up. Talk to them. Steal his girl. Give me something besides this valueless story.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/24 09:19 PM
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Your wife seems fine. You seem confused. What’s this sex issue you can’t seem to resolve?
/r/askMRP06/05/24 09:15 PM
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You have a high time preference buddy. I was there. Eventually I found the girl you’re looking for. Classic Eastern European. Intelligent, gorgeous, driven. Cooks, cleans and irons my fucking clothes. She turns down billionaires constantly for my broke ass, and brings home flowers (which we both admire) that other guys send her. She loves me to death and always wants my dick in her mouth. I eventually broke up with her. I wanted short term flings - the drug of the new hot plate. But then somethi…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/24 11:38 AM
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Should have tried very hard to fuck her that very night. After that, your chances plummeted.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/24 03:22 AM
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Your wife doesn’t need you to tell her you’re getting attention for her to know you’re getting attention. So STFU about it.
/r/askMRP20/04/24 06:35 PM
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I can’t imagine enforcing that boundary on my LTR. 😂
/r/askMRP20/04/24 03:43 AM
0

It’s not impossible, like you said it’s the same as increasing any low desire scenario. In fact it’s probably easier because she once had an emotional connection with you
/r/askMRP18/12/23 09:03 PM
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You found the solution, congrats and welcome. Starting putting in the work. You have no idea how much better your life is going to be. You’re going to meet many more amazing women and none of them will hurt you the way this one did. Because you’re awake now. It only gets better. Bless
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/23 05:18 AM
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There is a red pill women subReddit and community around the world
/r/TheRedPill02/12/23 04:17 PM
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Love is my choice, which in turn dictates my actions towards my woman. Those actions are interpreted by my woman as love. Those actions are game. Game is love.
/r/askMRP29/11/23 01:11 AM
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Well it seems like you’re correctly assessing the situation and know what you need to do. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 03:48 PM
1

Give us more information. What happened between heading three research projects and almost failing out of college?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/23 12:58 AM
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Lift is literally the second rule of the RP after STFU
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 05:53 PM
1

You’re putting way too much emphasis and self worth by having sex with her. Can you honestly not go a few weeks without sex? Is your life that boring? My woman begs sex from me and wants it in her mouth as much as she can. She has to work for this. You said you read DEVI, remember that’s an important principle in that book, your woman has to WORK for sex with you.
/r/askMRP24/11/23 04:58 PM
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You’re 34, and can probably be dating sexy and childless 20 year olds. Why are you so hung up on this woman? Oh I see, cause you approached other girls and got rejected. Were your feelings hurt when you got rejected? If so, you haven’t approached enough women. That would literally be my solution for you : approach more women. Hundreds of them. Learn to embrace the rejection. Eventually you will become outcome independent. But you’re not there yet, you have a lot more to learn and grow. 2 years o…
/r/askMRP24/11/23 04:49 PM
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There’s no answer here that will help you more than reading the sidebar. So get with it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/23 01:55 AM
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Awesome, great write up, keep it up
/r/TheRedPill02/11/23 12:45 AM
1

Okay now start applying red pill principles. You can get past this
/r/TheRedPill30/10/23 01:49 AM
3

Congrats bro! Nothing better than these field reports
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 08:13 PM
1

Logic going out the window is Your fear, but it’s definitely not hers
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 12:56 PM
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If we haven’t had sex in awhile my chick will feign anger at me and I’ll know it’s time to fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 11:59 AM
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I thought it was a unique DM and these fools making fun of it have nothing smart to offer
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 11:58 AM
5

Don’t try and rationalize it. It’s not a double ghost, it’s simply a ghost. Stick to the code and act appropriately. Find another girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 02:56 PM
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You’re not as old as you think, you’re judging yourself as if you’re 40. As an entrepreneur and your history, you’re obviously a competent and confident individual. Women are going to see you that way and you should rightly see yourself that way too. You feel you wasted your 20’s, great. Use your 30s wisely, it’s a whole decade, and when you’re 40 you’ll still be young. However, I would reconsider the competitive restaurant market, from one fellow entrepreneur to another, there’s far more bluer …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/23 10:23 PM
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It’s a good question and I don’t know the real answer. But here are two: men are more romantic than women, because we ideal romanticism more than women. We travel across oceans, to the moon, and into cyberspace for the romanticism of discovery. Women generally are more practical and pragmatic, and don’t go chasing the romanticism of life like men do. This is obviously evolutionary because nature can lose men on the battlefield of life with no worries, but it certainly can’t risk losing women. Me…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 02:46 PM
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Great job bro, you’ve got the framework now
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 03:17 AM
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I haven’t been in that position since I became red pilled seven years so I guess it’s hard to remember. My point is that being “unsure, listening to my gut, wanting to snoop” is not something I ever worry about ANYMORE with the full awareness that my girlfriend could cheat on me. I simply don’t care. Ive accepted I can get cheated on and that I can’t control that. I’ve fucked married women before. I know it’s a reality. Frankly if my girl cheated I’d be happy cause I’d get to fuck someone else i…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/23 10:59 PM
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You’re being insecure bro. But you have the facts: she’s a single mom who hooked up with her bestie after hers husband passed. That’s the base level of what you have to accept to move forward in a relationship with her. Everything else about her friends and social media is none of your business and shouldn’t even be a concern of yours.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/23 03:22 AM
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Bro please, he was done with her. She was thinking that whether he said it or not.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/23 08:22 PM
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Yes she’s interested in you.
/r/askRPC06/09/23 11:46 AM
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Stop “encouraging” her to have self-control during PMS. Let her have a hissy fit and ignore her. She’s a teenager, treat her as such. Your job is to be unfazed through it all. Iron, like a Lion, in Zion.
/r/askRPC06/09/23 04:33 AM
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Congrats, you’re already ahead of 90% of the guys there. I’m going to assume your campus is pretty small. Word of advice. Be careful of getting a reputation, and know that you don’t need all these girls numbers straight off the bat cause you’ll run into them again.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/23 04:08 AM
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Whatever, bro, are you sure you’re just not jealous? Sounds like a good strategy to me, and we always need a strategy. Not saying this guy is Alpha Chad just because he has a pad next to the night club, [in fact, that might also appear try hard!] But if he’s looking numbers, above average in looks, and a decent handle of the red pill, this is a good opportunity for growth.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 10:50 PM
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Good piece bro, I always enjoy your work. Thought you could have lost a few paragraphs in there, but still stronger than 75% of the shit posted in here.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 07:02 PM
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It’s an obvious joke which she will laugh at and I’ve used it before with many a success 👍🏽
/r/TheRedPill11/08/23 07:29 PM
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Her: “sure, but I have a boyfriend.” You: “are you asking for a threesome?”
/r/TheRedPill10/08/23 01:46 PM
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Tell us how you confronted her
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 12:24 PM
6

Lol you’re right. Even Adam was betaized in the Garden of Eden and we all been suffering since. The man couldn’t say “No.”
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/23 01:33 PM
8

You can go even further back to Charles Darwin and Freud. Red Pill has its roots in evolutionary biology and psychology.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/23 01:11 PM
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No need to read. Look for IOIs and approach. You hesitated on IOIs in the club. Believe them. And you don’t only need IOIs to approach. Learn to blind approach and work with what you get.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/23 04:32 PM
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It’s a club, you need to match the energy of the club. Like that guy you met. Practice day game, way better results.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/23 04:27 PM
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If you only knew how much better you could be doing. Keep it up. That was sad. But you will definitely grow if you keep approaching.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/23 01:54 PM
3

Welcome to the NFL, rookie.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/23 02:01 PM
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You need to FAIL. Over and over again. And you will develop emotional intelligence. But if you’re afraid to be embarrassed, get rejected and look ridiculous, then you will never develop it. The number one thing I get from your post and those who agree with you, is that you’re all afraid to fail. Failure strikes deep into your heart. I don’t know, maybe it’s easier for some than others…I have a friend who knows everything about the Red Pill, but he literally can’t execute any of the principles in…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 02:25 PM
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Bro, all I can say is that this better be the worse it ever gets for you from here on out. You’re getting great advice from everyone. Listen to them, Put in the work, it’s fucking worth it. My advice from what you wrote: you talk too much, and you react emotionally easily. STFU & Lift.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/23 05:09 AM
1

Ya you’re probably right. I was exactly trying to be mathematically accurate tbh.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 09:36 PM
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Great job!!! Keep that shit up. You’re are in the top 10% of guys who actually have the balls to cold approach like this.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 04:43 PM
3

All you can do is agree and amplify or casually dismiss, but if she’s gung-ho on a committed relationship there’s not anything you can do about it. Eventually she’ll just leave you.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 03:36 PM
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What’s your question? Plates drop. And this one is dropping. Nothing new here.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 02:23 PM
2

I don’t have sex with multiple women because my woman doesn’t want me to. Her love for me keeps me strong and is ultimately better for me than sex with multiple women. In my life I have many things more important to me than sex. I regularly choose these over having sex with my girl. Even though I miss other girls, I fuck my girl good (usually when I want but sometimes when she wants) and I practice semen retention. This is like catnip to her and she insists on putting my cock in her mouth as muc…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/23 02:06 PM
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I don’t how you guys are so invested in sex with your wives. I could care less and my girl jumps my bones and wishes she could have more sex with me. I get bored of having sex with the same woman, and you guys out there acting like you can’t live without it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 04:21 AM
3

Congrats big man! Glad that LJBF jolted you awake. Time to implement! Reading Mystery Method is fine, I read that shit too. It’s basically a psychology book. Consume it all and implement it all. Send us updates as you improve and can’t wait to hear all about it.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/23 12:25 PM
2

And I disagree. Not all men are born equal. Some need to fake it before they make it. Being a clown is an easier first step than becoming a man. Don’t get so hung up on the word “clown.”The point isn’t to be a literal clown, but to learn to be outgoing and sociable.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 06:16 PM
1

Many guys need this as a first step before the next step of being a good man for his own sake.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 05:49 PM
-4

AI summarising this article in ten points: Luke burning the body of his father in Return of the Jedi is seen as the climax of his journey and a rite of passage into manhood. A man's relationship with his father reflects Luke's struggle with Darth Vader in the Star Wars saga. Men often struggle to understand and reconcile with their fathers before their passing. Luke's perception of his father was tarnished by his father's perceived failures and inability to contribute in a way that Luke valued. …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 02:13 PM
1

Quite the stretch! The word forgiven is not even used in that quote! It literally says whose sin is not counted against them and you’re all like “it’s not when they sin, it’s not counted as sin.” Literally contradicting the verse! Sorry bro, I’ll trust scripture and not your interpretation of it. I’m not dumb enough to think that verse allows me to sin. But I’m also not going to do mental gymnastics around it because it doesn’t fit my preconceived notion.
/r/RPChristians08/05/23 10:32 PM
1

Romans 7: 8 - “blessed is the one whose sin the Lord will never count against them.” Paul is quoting the Psalms in that verse. There’s also another instance where Paul says he can do something and it’s not a sin, but if others do it it’s a sin. Because of the difference in mindsets. I’ll find that one day and post here.
/r/RPChristians07/05/23 11:29 PM
56

Okay I’ll be the first to say it: YOU HAVE A GOOD POINT
/r/TheRedPill06/05/23 11:59 AM
1

Haha, okay sure, now that you’ve poked me again, I’ll find them. However, if I’m honest, I would expect that you should know the verses I speak of! I’ll get back to you soon.
/r/RPChristians03/05/23 11:16 PM
10

She didn’t get extremely sleepy , she got extremely bored. That’s why she told you to leave. Don’t let her put things in your mouth. Grab her hand and say No.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/23 03:22 AM
3

“I don’t daygame or nightgame at all” - major problem. Stop being scared you’re in a big city. Get used to being embarrassed. One day you’ll get rejected and you’ll laugh and you’ll realize it’s not that serious. But it takes awhile. Start approaching!!!!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/23 05:57 AM
22

Learn about auto-suggestion. Fill your subconscious with positive thoughts about yourself. Do it every day and every night. Also, start cold approaching and put yourself through rejection. Look at the most confident guys you know, they aren’t afraid of rejection. They’re used to it. Read side bar. Keep going
/r/TheRedPill07/04/23 06:27 PM
22

We don’t get interesting posts all that often, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/23 04:07 PM
1

You didn’t talk about your purpose bro. That what the obvious hole.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 01:33 PM
45

You won’t fuck her until she sees you with a hotter girl. Flake on her. Tell her you just want to be friends. Pull another girl in front of her. Think about her less. So that you don’t ever feel the need to write a post like this about her
/r/TheRedPill22/03/23 11:56 PM
44

I’ve met 21 year olds more mature than 40 year olds. I sincerely believe a woman is mature at a young age or never really at all. Keep looking.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/23 01:23 AM
1

I didn’t understand what you meant by the chores story?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/23 01:23 AM
5

Sounds like someone who hasn’t put in the work, cause when you do, it’s worth it!!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 04:22 PM
1

I'll have to get back to you on specifics - but there is often mentioned that some of David's acts were not looked upon as sin. Also in the NT, St. Paul talks a lot in one of his letters about how some people can do things and its a sin, but if he does them it's not.
/r/RPChristians20/12/22 07:58 PM
0

Some people can sin and God doesn't count it as a sin. Depends on the person. The basis for this is strong in Scripture.
/r/RPChristians17/12/22 12:35 PM
1

Are you not happy with your marriage?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 12:31 PM
16

Take her out to lunch playa.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/22 02:43 PM
3

Thank you, I'll keep a closer eye on length
/r/TheRedPill09/12/22 01:02 PM
24

I’m in the same position as you, with the same mentality. Broke up a healthy LTR with a great woman because I ultimately don’t want to be monogamous. I don’t have answers. But maybe I’ll just quote Kierkegaard on this issue: “Marry her and you’ll regret it. Don’t marry her and you’ll regret it. Either way, you’ll regret it.”
/r/TheRedPill09/11/22 06:40 PM
4

I love when women wear hijabs or veils. Makes them super intriguing to me
/r/RPChristians05/11/22 12:25 PM
1

Even in that case, doesn’t mean you should divorce.
/r/RPChristians20/10/22 02:21 AM
2

You may be right, but I fear you’re missing a fundamental red pill tenant: you can’t negotiate desire. According to the letter of the law she should fulfill your basic desires, yes, but only you can make her want to do that. You seem to be looking at sex as something contractually promised as opposed to something you have to make happen yourself.
/r/RPChristians19/10/22 03:56 AM
2

Let your yes mean yes and your no mean no. What do your marriage vows say?
/r/RPChristians19/10/22 03:50 AM
4

Can we not block these useless and contentless posts? OP took a personal problem of his and decided to bother all of us with it. Take your own advice OP and please stop.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 12:36 AM
2

“Verbose and pedantic” you said it!!
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 05:27 AM
1

Will you be my “mommy bird” homo?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/22 06:40 PM
2

Rollo’s writing is just as convoluted. We don’t need elaborate poetry or unintelligible words that show us how smart you are. Give us the damn content. This post is like those marvel movies - tons of special effects, but what is the point exactly??
/r/TheRedPill03/10/22 06:40 PM
1

I want to be smart like you, so I can read this gobble-gook: “Putrid throne of Bhaal” “clown world” “microwaved chicken tendies” - if this guy would lay off the John of Patmos terminology then maybe I could read the real substance of what he has to say.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/22 04:53 PM
-4

I wish I could read this gobble-gook
/r/TheRedPill03/10/22 02:49 PM
13

OP isn’t having any success and because he’s not, he’s hoping no one else is. And if nobody posts receipts he can sleep better at night knowing he’s not the only loser out there. STFU and go lift and close some girls. Shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 02:05 PM
1

I’m probably not looking at it backwards, because Christ is the Beginning and the End, from which everything derives, including the red pill, which is essentially just evolutionary psychology anyway. I can’t imagine reading the Bible with a red pill lens, much less a blue pill lens. I’m aware of Dalrock and his blog, and I’ve read several of his articles. I don’t relate to it that much as it’s obviously from a protestant point of you, but he does have interesting points. I’m also aware of chival…
/r/RPChristians29/09/22 02:33 AM
1

I’ve read his response three times and still can’t see how anything he wrote even touches on my argument. Your response to my argument was slightly better. But only slightly.
/r/RPChristians28/09/22 11:12 PM
0

Whatever his history, I thought this was an interesting post
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 12:08 PM
12

What’s so bad about donating to women’s charities? And what’s so bad about not hating women? That doesn’t mean he supported his opponents. I didn’t even follow Tate. Just looking at your post objectively I see nothing wrong with what Tate did, and it seems more like you’re envious because you “would have done better.”
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 10:16 PM
2

Women control access to sex, so they have the keys to change promiscuous behavior. Heck, they’re the ones who enabled OP to spread his seed all over the place. OP is only observing and sending feedback. Is being annoyed at women for being so promiscuous while fucking them at the same time hypocritical? Sure, but that’s a secondary point. The bigger point is that women have the keys to affect the change in society that they want to see. They control access to sex. OP realizes this and feels power…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/22 12:28 AM
11

Congrats on finally swallowing. Now there’s only one way to go: up.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/22 01:21 AM
5

She’s way into you. Just follow the progression the Red Pill has laid out for you. Watch it all unfold as predicted.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 07:35 AM
11

You have no purpose. You’re making love from a woman your purpose. And this is the majority of your problem. Also, do you even lift?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 01:17 PM
1

Cool story bro, except the “he’s in jail now” part.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/22 01:15 PM
2

“ Are you free from such a commitment? Do not look for a wife.”
/r/RPChristians26/06/22 02:36 AM
-5

Fuck, I’ve never met another ENTP. Hello brother. The Red Pill changed my life too. Godspeed!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/22 02:32 AM
10

Sounds like you need to STFU. You’re doing a lot of whining to your woman.
/r/RPChristians22/06/22 11:08 PM
31

Female virginity takes effort to keep. Male virginity takes effort to lose. They're both completely different.
/r/RPChristians21/05/22 03:35 PM
7

Read the sidebar, where all your answers are. And only post here again if you have something to actually contribute.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/22 01:58 AM
-2

You sound hotheaded and immature. Like your emotions run your life.
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 01:55 AM
1

Tell that to my friend’s husband. There’s a reason red pill men renounce marriage. It’s a whole new world.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 01:18 AM
1

Full of it? You’re obviously unaware of the risks men take in marriages. My girlfriend is sick because her good friend is cheating on her husband and wants a divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 12:51 AM
1

It’s still true, just need to be clarified. Men and women are both polygamous and hypergamous. But polygamy is stronger in men than women, and hypergamy is stronger in women than men.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 09:12 PM
-1

But why exit the page if you’re here to learn? Guy is right, too many newbs. This page should be moderated. So much trash to wade through in order to find something decent
/r/TheRedPill09/05/22 04:55 PM
0

Jesus didn’t seen too impressed with the wedding he attended.
/r/RPChristians08/05/22 02:06 PM
0

Sure cold approaches suck, yet its probably the best way to learn game. So he’s doing positive things sure. Sorry I didn’t cater to his emotions the way you queens wanted. I was simply pointing out the chink in his armor so he can work on it.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/22 02:24 AM
-4

You have no purpose and it shows.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/22 12:11 AM
2

READ THE SIDEBAR. All the answers you want are there. You’re not too old. You have 10 years before you reach your prime. Read the side bar now and take action.
/r/RPChristians05/05/22 03:33 PM
2

In the book Deida talks about “softening your mid section” while you breath in and loosening this “mid-section” up. The “midsection“ is made up of the throat, chest and stomach area. He says this “mid-section” is the area you interact with the world most directly. I find this to be true. When a beautiful woman is in my presence I find the midsection is the area I can appreciate her beauty as I breathe in slowly, very slowly through the neck chest and stomach. Interestingly it often works best wh…
/r/RPChristians05/05/22 05:41 AM
2

I guess these posts aren’t moderated? OP should be relegated to the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 03:34 AM
2

Why do you like to give her attention?
/r/RPChristians03/05/22 01:29 AM
1

Because it’s so lame we thought it must be fake. A red piller does not harbour such resentment and seek such revenge.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/22 02:12 AM
5

I’ve read a lot more ridiculous things on this sub
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 10:15 PM
3

Sounds like you’re being too serious with her. Inject a little humor in your answers of her comfort tests. DEERIng is always serious. Try A&Aing more
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 05:05 AM
1

Read the sidebar and start doing the work. It’s fun, and worth it.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 11:56 PM
12

Be yourself guys, and if it’s meant to happen it will! Stellar advice over here.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 12:14 PM
6

That’s always going to be the question when you’re in an LTR!
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 03:46 AM
3

Since I became RP aware five years ago I’ve been banging ho’s as a single dude. Last year I decided I wanted to experience game inside an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 03:44 AM
20

I often hope my girl would cheat on me so I could break up with her and fuck other girls. I almost welcome her cheating. And I certainly expect it one day. Anyway this attitude keeps me completely outcome dependent. I never get jealous. She says “you are a 0 of out 10 when it comes to jealousy.” She loves telling her friends that I never get jealous of her. I guess it makes me seem super confident. How do I react when she shit-tests me with stupid stuff like that? I tell her to go for it. Also, …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 01:54 AM
9

I have often thanked God during my prayers for introducing me to the RP.
/r/RPChristians24/08/21 12:34 PM
1

Doesn’t change the fact that a woman is more valuable than a man, biologically speaking.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 02:27 PM
8

Good piece but you’re missing an important concept. From a biological perspective a woman is more valuable than a man. One woman equals thousands, if not hundreds of thousands, of men. Both men and women subconsciously recognize this, which is why women are naturally entitled and why men perpetuate male chivalry : women and children first. Few red pillars realize this unique biological value of women, but some do, including that great Russian red pill book “The Treatise of Love, as it is recogni…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 01:50 PM
4

Can an admin not block this garbage?
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:46 PM
0

Don’t tell her unless you don’t want to have sex with her. She secretly wants to think you’re a Chad. Anyway you’re so clueless this won’t last long. If you’re asking this type of question you have a lot more to learn about women .
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:04 PM
3

Welcome to the NFL, rookie.
/r/RPChristians19/08/21 04:46 AM
5

Men are the real seducers. Not women. This is because women don’t need to seduce to attract men, they only need to be. Men have to seduce to attract women. The male displays, the women chooses. This is why women give bad seduction advice.
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:35 AM
0

AWALT
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:24 AM
2

Someone here said you have to get better at reading the girls. I think this is your problem. Approaching for the sake of approaching isn’t the way. You need to learn with each approach. Eventually you will see patterns. And then you’re getting there.
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:22 AM
5

If you approached a dozen girls, that’s a major success
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:19 AM
2

Go to the restaurant by yourself or with someone else. Don’t cancel any bit of your life for a flake
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:17 PM
4

Well thank goodness you’re “extremely straight” and not just “straight” - or things might have turned out bad for you.
/r/RPChristians12/08/21 01:12 PM
1

Don’t hint at sex man. Next time just suggest the coffee and go from there.
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:15 AM
2

Of course that’s seduction! I don’t particularly condone it, but it’s still seduction. Women use men all the time with no regards to their feelings, it’s part of the war. You should push seduction as much as you can. If she falls for it, her bad. A woman can always keep her legs closed if she’s not getting what she wants. Part of society’s problems is that women are openly encouraged to engage in promiscuous sex. If women are fucking, men will follow suit and fuck without regard for feelings. Th…
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:33 PM
26

That’s crazy to me that you don’t get that...
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:07 AM
4

I wish I was around back then...
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 04:42 AM
16

God to Eve: “You will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.”
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 04:41 AM
0

Where are these chapters you say? Good stuff
/r/TheRedPill09/08/21 09:46 PM
1

Okay fair enough. Then I think you missed the opportunity to see her. Phone chat is superficial. Upping her comfort and attraction level can only happen in person. Next time act fast to meet her. You’re not the only guy she’s matched with! You’re one of hundreds. Speed is king.
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:15 PM
1

Why on earth did she have to make a “decision?” So much pressure. Sheesh.
/r/seduction09/08/21 01:34 PM
1

If she was a virgin, then maybe 🤔
/r/RPChristians08/08/21 11:03 PM
1

If you say Yes without a second thought she’s hardly seducing you...
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:41 PM
1

You need something in your life more compelling than women. You need a purpose and reason to be alive. It’s obvious you don’t have that
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:39 PM
37

It’s a compliment dumb ass. Women love fuck boys. Women want a fuck boy that can be tamed enough to commit to them.
/r/seduction08/08/21 04:03 PM
106

It’s probably the opposite. I would wager he’s coming off too relationship-hungry.
/r/seduction08/08/21 02:31 AM
1

This is the answer. You’re far too concerned with having sex. Sex should not be your goal. Sex is only the crowning of a long day of other glorious achievements. She should be pressuring you for sex, not the other way around. Take her on several dates in one week with the intention of NOT having sex on any of those dates. Do you have the will power to do that?
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:25 AM
3

You’ve got to get better as a man. They aren’t just going to fall in your lap. I finally found a girl who I find completely sexy and there’s nothing that beats that. You’re proud to walk around with her in public and literally everyone looks at you. I had to approach many women and go on many dates for many years before I acquired the game to seduce my current woman and others like her.
/r/seduction04/08/21 11:36 PM
0

This guy needs way important advice than this
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:40 AM
3

She has very high interest in you, but you’re acting like a little bitch so she’s not sure about you. Keep doing exactly what you’re doing and in one month she won’t be talking to you anymore.
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:05 AM
1

My girlfriend is super cute. She showed high interest in me from the very beginning and I knew enough game to keep her interested and bug me for exclusivity. So two things: high initial interest, and game. For context I’m a 7/10 physically.
/r/seduction01/08/21 12:00 PM
1

For the record, the woman doesn’t know or mean to be disrespectful. It’s just an unfortunate result of the sexual liberation.
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:14 AM
2

This is the real advice
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:04 AM
1

That’s exactly my point.
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:54 AM
1

I’m actually only making one assumption, which OP didn’t dispute.
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:27 AM
1

Take care too.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:51 PM
12

If you’re correct, then she should be able to tell this guy that other men did not have to wait, but that he has to wait because she sees him as relationship material. And he will be perfectly fine with that, right? Right???
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:50 PM
4

Ah, so you won’t accept what I’m saying huh? It just means you don’t understand men. Beauty and youth are of primary importance for men. I’m 42. I don’t want to be mean, but I wouldn’t get in an LTR with someone your age. Why would I, when I date girls in their 20’s? I’m not bragging. I’m just trying to wake you up. You asked the question, I’m trying to help!
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:35 PM
5

It’s not a good point. It’s completely incorrect. Wake up
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:28 PM
11

No one has the balls to tell you that because you’re 42 that only a small percentage of men (the ones you swipe left on) will enter an LTR with you.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:20 PM
-3

Why don’t you tell him how many other guys you slept with before 3 dates and see how he feels?
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:10 PM
11

Yup. She fucks other guys on the first date, but a guy she likes, she makes him wait. If you’re a virgin, then it would be worth the wait. But you’re not, so it’s actually disrespectful.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:09 PM
1

Yea helps for me too. But when you’re trying to run an LTR, it’s not so useful
/r/TheRedPill31/07/21 08:06 PM
-22

Worst advice ever
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:20 AM
2

There’s no way you keep this girl. You already have oneitis.
/r/seduction30/07/21 06:58 PM
3

It’s subtle and you can’t put it into words. You can only learn through experience approaching. Approach, approach, approach. Flirt, flirt, flirt. Eventually you learn the subtle signals of women and it becomes second nature. You know if a woman is interested in you, and just as importantly, you know if she’s not. And you’re in a win-win. And then everyone think you’re a “player.” But it’s only because you can recognition attraction a mile away now and you capitalize on it. You can even generate…
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:29 AM
10

It’s not even worth it
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:21 AM
3

Just fucking kiss her, sheesh
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:12 AM
2

Even Jesus found believers outside the fold, for “Not even in Israel have I found such faith.”
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 07:19 PM
0

Just read your damn post sheesh
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 07:15 PM
5

Yes but after I fuck a woman for a few weeks I begin to lose desire for her. I’ve never found a reasonable solution to this problem. That’s why pump and dump is attractive.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 06:58 PM
90

Excellent refreshing post. You are completely right about men’s birth control. We need to figure that shit out quick, I need to get on that birth control! I kinda disagree with #3. Fembots can never adequately replace a real woman. It’s not even on the same paradigm. Not saying fembots aren’t a threat, they are, as an extension of porn.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 05:31 AM
2

Unmatch her
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:56 AM
2

Sounds like you’re too into the mechanics of it. Allow yourself to experience the emotions more and slowly. You can make a woman come without doing half the things you just described when you are present with her in the moment, and not treating her as if she’s a calculator.
/r/seduction18/07/21 09:09 PM
6

But Kahn is a perfect example of why a man is less valuable, you only need one of them to populate the earth. It’s almost a waste of time for mother nature to create more men. More women means more population. Men are sacrificed on the altar of life in place of the more valuable female. Women and children first. A man instinctively acts to protect women, why? He acknowledges her value.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:35 AM
1

Stop telling them you like them and that they are cute. The fact you approached them is telling them exactly that. But when you verbalize it, you kill it.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:18 AM
3

Their entitlement doesn’t come out of thin air. It’s a biological fact that women are more valuable than men.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 02:17 AM
6

They’re fucking other guys and there’s nothing you can do about it. Just accept that and your jealousy will disappear.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 03:39 AM
29

Don’t listen to this person. A woman will not accept responsibility to make you “feel comfortable.” That will turn her off. Remember sexual tension is the OPPOSITE of comfort. It’s “tension.”
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:33 PM
3

Typical scriptural response, which I don’t disagree with totally. But I just wonder what’s the biological answer? God implanted those sexual desires in us in order to propagate the earth and “be fruitful and multiply.” It’s not enough for me that the desire to sleep with lots of women is “my sinful desires.” There’s more to it than that
/r/RPChristians04/07/21 02:05 AM
0

For me his issue is how do you transmute the “wiring in your brain that seeks sexual release with multiple partners, and leaves you with zero accountability to the children that would otherwise be born out of those unions” so that you have a sexually fulfilling marriage.
/r/RPChristians03/07/21 06:26 PM
1

Good explanation of the issue, but no answer to this universal problem
/r/RPChristians03/07/21 06:21 PM
4

Learn to separate theory from practice. You can’t rely on them chasing you until you’ve built enough value in their eyes. He’s just another average guy in the gym.
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:58 AM
2

Because your future wife will have a far higher body count than you. That’s a recipe for disaster
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:24 PM
1

If you’re a woman, you’re good. If you’re a man, you’re in for some problems
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:41 PM
2

Stop acting like a little bitch. You’re just not man enough for her. A real man would take the FWB in a heart beat, treat her like a Ho and see a bunch of other women. Only after you are consistently doing this will she want more with you.
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:37 PM
46

Even if she IS interested, she may not text him. He should have asked for her number.
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:28 PM
4

Dude you didn’t get the number - but cool story bro
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:43 AM
6

She’s a masculine bitch. But you played it right. The best is when you start zeroing in on feminine chicks only.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 04:22 AM
2

The only way to get over the nerves is to approach hundreds of women. Stop being a bitch and start approaching.
/r/seduction28/06/21 03:06 AM
2

She’s got more options than you buddy.
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:21 AM
3

Trust your gut
/r/seduction28/06/21 12:34 AM
1

You have to do the dates man. You need that plausible deniability. The chances of her coming over just to fuck without a date isn’t high.
/r/seduction27/06/21 07:26 PM
1

Descartes explaining that jealousy arises when we put the woman on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 01:59 PM
1

The point pretending to be someone you are not, is because you are not someone worth being yet
/r/seduction27/06/21 11:28 AM
6

He’s saying you don’t have the balls. And in a sense he’s right. We can give you all the theories in the world, but until you’re brave enough to embarrass yourself by approaching women and getting rejected you’ll never really learn how to do it.
/r/seduction27/06/21 02:49 AM
2

I would suggest practice flirting with women you like rather than ask for their number. Flirting with a woman is like asking for her number without really asking for it. As you flirt with a girl (read her eyes!) and continually escalate it will soon be natural to be like “what’s your number” as you type it in your phone and she doesn’t hesitate. Seamless, a natural end to the interaction with her. Anyway sounds like you’re problem is flirting. Tease her. Obfuscate. Annoy her. Then ask for her nu…
/r/seduction27/06/21 02:45 AM
1

Find another girl at the party to be your first point of interest. Don’t deviate from this first girl. Your crush should be your second, or better, third point of interest.
/r/seduction27/06/21 12:04 AM
2

“Girls want guys who don’t need girls.” - Pook
/r/seduction26/06/21 08:21 PM
3

When you’re flirting with women you really like you have to learn to purposely annoy them by being arrogant. Push them away, get them upset with you. And then walk away and don’t look back. And the reason you don’t look back is cause you don’t give a fuck. There aren’t many Virgin Mary’s in the world, stop acting like there are. You’re a man, you don’t need a woman. Embody this attitude.
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:05 PM
10

While still married?
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:55 AM
1

Four paragraphs from a throwaway account to justify why you’re marrying at 30. I’m 40 and I consistently date 20 year olds.
/r/seduction24/06/21 12:39 PM
10

It’s you, not them. Your solicitous attitude is attracting the girls you don’t want. Learn to not give AF. Annoy them. Offend them
/r/seduction23/06/21 11:23 PM
-2

Nope, it’s 36-43
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:24 AM
-6

Dude you’re getting married at 26. WTF. When you’re in your prime at 40, how old will your wife be?
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:56 PM
1

Women don’t need to seduce because men are already buying. Men are the great seducers because women have to be convinced.
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:51 PM
5

I want you to tell me how at ease your mind is when fucking and coming - sheesh
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 06:23 PM
5

Yea, but WHATS IT LIKE FUCKING GIRLS AFTER THE VASECTOMY?!!
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 04:22 AM
2

Dude that’s hot. It’s an RP dream. Fuck career women. Stay home, cook, clean and take care of the damn kids.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:59 AM
6

This is the real litmus test isn’t it
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:32 AM
4

You’re whole perspective is warped because you’re looking for logical and rational arguments. Who are you trying to convince actually?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:56 AM
3

I love it when they call me big poppa.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:21 AM
3

Welcome to the real world...
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:51 AM
0

It shows submissiveness
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:51 AM
5

Hot tip, I will definitely use this one
/r/seduction20/06/21 09:47 PM
2

The Wall doesn’t mean a woman can’t find a man (she will always be able to) but she can’t find a man she really wants.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:44 PM
8

People are making fun of you because it’s kind of a low value question. Both girls who are attracted to you, and girls who are not, will cover their breasts from time to time. Learn to know the difference.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:35 PM
2

If he had side vag, he would be fucking his wife with lots of passion
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/21 02:02 AM
5

Thanks for articulating a phenomenon I’ve always experienced because I was always friendly to everyone. You are completely right - they always get bitter. Bitch, I was just being your friend! I’ve recently just started to not say Hi to UW now. I do feel sorry for UW though, it’s sad. I don’t mind seeing men live the incel life, but when it’s a woman, it kinda hurts my heart.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 01:18 AM
2

Your fault buddy, begging like a bitch. She knows she can do better now. I don’t even follow my chick on IG, I could give zero fucks. I hear from her friends that she posts about me. Anyways you know what you have to do
/r/RPChristians17/06/21 06:02 AM
1

Na bro, you’re more red pill than me
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:43 AM
3

He didn’t hug back, instead he grabbed her ass, hilarious.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:49 AM
1

Did anyone even understand this post?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:45 AM
31

It’s not necessarily oneitis. Men naturally care for and love women. We don’t like to see them hurt. It’s our weakness.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:44 AM
2

Hypergamy man. Really simple. (And I’m not white.)
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:42 AM
6

What makes a woman attractive to a man is if she’s fertile. End of story.
/r/seduction16/06/21 03:16 AM
-2

That’s exactly what it means, what are you talking about??
/r/seduction16/06/21 12:48 AM
-5

Failed the shit test buddy.
/r/seduction16/06/21 12:45 AM
38

You’re probably talking too much. Being friendly means LISTENING.
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:55 AM
1

He’s not over-thinking, he’s exactly right, and I’ve seen the benefits myself. Archetypes are real powerful.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:11 PM
4

He’s an idiot.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 05:37 PM
1

Give her what she wants, what’s the big deal
/r/askTRP11/06/21 03:59 AM
9

Yea he’s not wrong. The who hurt ya comment is a BPilled comment
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:35 PM
0

What you did to lose her interest was “carried on speaking after the date.” You’re not a high value man if you are messaging her throughout the day.
/r/seduction04/06/21 01:48 PM
54

She can smell your thirst a mile away. Even I can smell your thirst a mile away
/r/seduction04/06/21 01:47 PM
6

It has nothing to do with her job, and everything to do with you. STOP MESSAGING HER THROUGHOUT THE DAY. Starting dating other girls and wait for her to reach out to you and then plan a date.
/r/seduction04/06/21 01:46 PM
0

Agree and amplify with her. You’re not being fun. Say with a slight smile “bitch I don’t need anyone to tell me how to make a sandwich.”
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:14 AM
3

As it was in the beginning, so shall it be in the end.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:12 AM
1

Before you is correct, and after you is correct. It depends if you jerked off or not. Practicing semen retention is a good way of making the “before you” more consistent
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:11 AM
3

You get used to it. Stop caring what others think. I’ve had people react to me approaching women in different ways: some of them admire me, some hate me. I’ve had a woman become interested in me only after she saw me approaching another woman. You’re too worried about what others think. Toughen up and start approaching
/r/seduction01/06/21 06:02 PM
1

Show him by action
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:27 AM
1

You still have blind spots in your RP knowledge. This is evidenced by your post. One small example is you not noticing her attraction waning. Your time should be spent learning more RP knowledge and applying the principles.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 11:20 PM
9

Yea OPs being a bitch. Get out there and make it happen. We all had to do it. I have a list of cold approaches and 90% of them are failures and when I look back on them I feel proud
/r/askTRP25/05/21 09:14 PM
0

That was hardly a successful seduction. She just gave him her number, that’s all.
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:49 PM
2

No of course they don’t stop shit-testing, my mother shit tests me all the time. She even did so today. Agree & Amplify with your mom and see what happens. Wake up.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:42 PM
1

It’s a shit test fool.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:32 PM
3

Yes I’ve gone from someone who got lucky every now and then, to someone who elevated his n-count to a number he didn’t think possible. All because of TRP. I did the work. I applied the principles. I hold classes on TRP. Men pay me to consult for them. You can do it, but only with the hard work. I’ve coached men in your position who are now banging several women a week. You have to slog through the 5’s and 6’s, but eventually you start landing 8’s and 9’s. I found the pill in 2016. So I’ve been d…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:58 PM
0

You’re missing purpose. Once your purpose becomes more important than women, you won’t hate women’s antics anymore. They actually become funny.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:12 PM
1

Outcome independence. It shows it doesn’t bother you whether you have sex or not. Which by the way, it shouldn’t.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:10 AM
6

You made the right move. But you have to ask yourself how you acted on the date that made her form that opinion of you?
/r/seduction18/05/21 02:46 AM
41

Fuck her, but withhold your orgasm. Then STFU.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:37 AM
7

Hamster spins, and it shows OI.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:36 AM
2

You’re blind. Most of those women do NOT have higher value than you. Get over it. Wake up! You’re going back to university at 30. You can KILL it with the women there, trust me.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:52 AM
2

Fair enough, but I can tell from OPs post he doesn’t have the non-emotional and strong frame to set a boundary, so his best option is to STFU. Whenever in doubt, STFU.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:49 AM
14

STFU
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:16 PM
3

Shit tests & IDGAF.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:37 AM
-2

It’s a normal reaction if someone has something to lose. An alpha doesn’t have something to lose.
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:21 AM
6

“I’m afraid” and “I’m worried.” Stop being a bitch and open. It’s not the end of the world.
/r/seduction09/05/21 08:46 AM
1

“Commitment or new pussy? That is the question. Commitment will give you a headache every now and then. New pussy always clears the mind!” -Chris Rock
/r/seduction08/05/21 06:47 AM
1

Time
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:39 PM
3

It was overly complicated and I couldn’t read it all. “Society is trying to control men.” You said that in the first paragraph and when I realized you had nothing more than that to say, I stopped reading. Sorry I know this makes me a dick, but just being honest. There was a lot of unecessary writing for something we all know anyway.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 01:34 PM
1

Lack of logistics messed this one up.
/r/seduction03/05/21 12:26 AM
9

You don’t know shit about TRP.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:24 AM
1

The Red Pill is a beautiful thing.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 11:38 AM
5

Hey buddy, your post only showed everyone that you have a lot of work to do. The woman in the story is a non entity.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 07:22 PM
4

Screwing lots of girls does make you happy though...
/r/seduction26/04/21 09:44 AM
-4

If you have a high quality man, you need to learn to feed him. Cook for him EVERYDAY. Good looks and sex are easy to come by for a high quality man. Being domesticated and homely will keep him always coming back to you.
/r/seduction24/04/21 07:15 PM
4

Read the sidebar, noob. You’re clogging this subreddit with basic questions.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:48 PM
5

Hoping someone can answer intelligently because I have the same issue. It’s not a low n-count thing , and it’s not a low value woman thing. I just want variety. Is it an ego thing? I wanna know.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:44 PM
3

You lost me at “find your sexual release from porn.”
/r/TheRedPill19/04/21 08:16 PM
3

What is your crippling disease? St Therese de Lisieux had a crippling disease and died in obscurity at 24 years of age. Before she died she wrote one or two books which were of such magnitude that the papacy pronounced her a Doctor of the Church, an extremely exclusive list.
/r/askRPC05/04/21 11:09 PM
1

The different reasons for relationships between slutty women and average men that you highlighted in this piece was illuminating and seems lost on most of the commentaries here. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/21 05:24 PM
18

You’re jaded because you haven’t fully grasped the RP yet. It will take you many years. I was once jaded like you, but now I love, respect and appreciate women’s nature. You still have a job to finish here, get back to us on the results.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:08 AM
2

You’re just processing everything. It took Neo a little while to calibrate. You’ll regain your emotions in a short period. A red pill man needs to understand his emotions and integrate them into his life properly to achieve his directives.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 01:00 AM
2

I agree buddy, it’s a cliche suggestion. Everyone posting here already knows we need to read the Bible. Reading the Bible is as mandatory as lifting. So what’s the point of recommending it? Sometimes we need more practical suggestions than “reading the Bible.”
/r/askRPC13/03/21 04:11 PM
5

You’re obviously new to this
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 01:21 AM
2

Next time don’t call them during the middle of the day “to see what’s up.” That’s a novice move buddy.
/r/seduction03/03/21 12:03 PM
2

Just get a day of fasting done. Don’t stress about whether you’ll have time to “get away.” Fasting is itself a prayer.
/r/askRPC27/02/21 09:00 PM
1

Yea he did, that’s why he made a whole post about her
/r/seduction26/02/21 08:30 PM
1

That woman shit-tested you and you failed. You could have had her...
/r/seduction21/02/21 10:32 PM
1

Flirting is the creation of fun tension. Which is why teasing a girl is flirting. This is also why PUAs recommend negging. If you want to flirt, you must create conflict. This is why girls love bad guys and hate good guys. Bad guys create conflict and good guys are too scared to do so.
/r/seduction13/02/21 12:21 PM
1

It took years of practice buddy. But yes it’s possible. You have to be willing to deny yourself little pleasures for the greater goal. I deny my current girl sex and it drives her crazy.
/r/seduction04/02/21 10:42 PM
2

Treat the girls you like, like the girls you don’t like. With Indifference. That’s how I snagged my current girl.
/r/seduction04/02/21 10:53 AM
2

I’m on my third rewatch of WWII in Color
/r/RPChristians03/02/21 05:24 PM
1

Can Christ not work through a secular author? Peterson’s biblical lectures far exceed in quality anything I’ve seen written in this sub.
/r/RPChristians04/01/21 09:41 PM
1

Disciples: “Teacher we saw someone driving out demons in your name but we stopped him because he wasn’t one of us.” Jesus: “Why did you stop him? Whoever is not against us, is for us.”
/r/RPChristians04/01/21 06:10 PM
2

Sounds like need some Jordan Peterson in your life. Also - you’re way young, you have so much time it’s ridiculous
/r/RPChristians03/01/21 02:11 AM
3

Treat her like a bratty little niece or cousin of yours. You love your niece and want only what’s best for her, but yet you mess with her to show your dominance. It’s fun
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 05:12 AM
2

Not if you do it with a smile. This is quite funny.
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 05:11 AM
7

Couldn’t really make sense of this post. It seems like you can’t decide whether marriage is good, or marriage is bad.
/r/RPChristians31/12/20 05:43 PM
0

Lol - I think you’re in the wrong sub. Also - learn some biology.
/r/seduction28/12/20 04:37 PM
3

Everything in this post has already been said in a much better way in the sidebar. Thanks for taking a moment to complain about the shit posts by posting another shit post.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 07:10 PM
1

The reason the RP suggests not escalating a friendship into a romantic relationship is because the woman has already formed a non-sexual opinion about you and any actions you take to change that will be out of sequence with your previous behavior and she will instinctively recoil from you both romantically and in friendship. She will see the contradiction in your past and present behavior and assume you were too weak to show her sexual behavior in the past and thereby too weak to be the man she …
/r/RPChristians26/12/20 02:45 PM
5

Doesn’t matter, that is timeless advice
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 06:04 AM
2

Interesting that no one has been able to give you an answer to your legitimate question about how to maintain sexualized attraction to your pregnant wife, choosing instead to shame you and remind you (which you already know) that marriage isn’t just about sex. It’s a real good question and I don’t know that I have the answer but I do have some suggestions. Stay away from her. Maintain distance between you too. Magnets lose attraction when they rub together. You’re watching her get out of the sho…
/r/RPChristians18/12/20 11:48 PM
-6

If God wanted you to date the Muslim girl, could you even get her?
/r/RPChristians15/12/20 12:07 PM
1

It’s difficult to see what the main thread of your argument is, but it’s probably “anti-capitalism.” I kept waiting for you to propose communism/socialism, but you either didn’t have the balls, or you simply don’t have an alternative. Lots of problems here, but no solutions. I’d take an incisive tearful Jordan Peterson over incoherent black pilled rambling any day.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 07:16 PM
2

Dude you need to STFU. That’s the most practical advice I can give you. It’s fine to freak out on Reddit, but you’re freaking out in front of her too. Getting her to call her boss was a beta move. STFU. Focus on yourself. You should be busy AF. Of course scenes from this unfortunate situation will flood your mind but you must resist on acting on any of them. STFU. A bomb has gone off and you need to wait for the dust to settle. Study RP harder, it’s obvious you’re not that immersed in it. It wil…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/20 08:03 PM
1

He should retain his semen throughout multiple sex acts.
/r/seduction29/11/20 07:35 PM
1

You need to integrate your shadow buddy. Many guys would die to have the looks you have. Maximize it!
/r/seduction22/11/20 06:08 AM
-3

I don’t agree with this at all. STFU is one of the first rules we learn. Joseph went to quietly divorce Mary instead of publicizing her “sin.” STFU.
/r/RPChristians19/11/20 03:09 PM
21

You aren’t incorrect in your assessment of society. But I don’t think you should have apologized. Say what you mean and mean what you say. A little conflict is good. She might have kept attraction for you if you stood your ground.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 02:22 AM
2

Yes of course. Showing sexual intent to a woman is a language without words and she loves reading it. It makes her feel beautiful, as long as the guy is attractive in her eyes. Several times when making love women have said to me, “You make me feel so sexy” and it’s because they’re feeding off my desire for her.
/r/seduction29/10/20 09:09 PM
4

She would be lying if she was a man. Don’t judge women by the standard of men, you’re still in the denial or trying to bargain stage. That her mode of operation, how can it be a lie? It’s natural to her very nature.
/r/RPChristians23/10/20 03:04 AM
3

“I know. I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have done that.” “Of course I care about you.” Her pussy must be so dry with a man like that in the house. Read the sidebar buddy, you’re not even at the beginning of your journey yet.
/r/askRPC18/10/20 06:25 PM
13

“When I was a child, I used to speak as a child, reason as a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things.” - St. Paul But yea I hear you buddy.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/20 02:53 PM
3

I’ve felt. I’ve known. I needed. I don’t. I need. I hate. I feel. I have no idea. I need. I don’t feel. I need. I felt so distant... and that’s all from the first part of your post. Do you see a pattern?
/r/RPChristians03/10/20 02:05 PM
4

Maybe Christ is preparing an army of single men devoted to the proclamation of God’s kingdom? Do not be afraid, I’m with you! “A married man is concerned about the affairs of the world and of his wife. A single man is concerned about the affairs of God.”
/r/RPChristians27/09/20 03:51 PM
1

Yes
/r/RPChristians27/09/20 01:09 PM
2

I think it’s a good question. So far, I’ve chosen the latter. And so did Christ for that matter. And Paul recommended it
/r/RPChristians27/09/20 01:04 AM
0

Well you my friend are in the correct sub. I would recommend joining the other red pill subreddits too
/r/RPChristians21/09/20 09:38 PM
0

Na you just got the oneitis.
/r/RPChristians17/09/20 12:37 AM
21

You are probably reflecting your anima on her. So no, she’s not a unicorn. She probably has many flaws that will surprise you. You don’t listen to what she says, you watch what she does. As of right now you have no idea if she’s a unicorn. You sound young. And you already told us you’re chubby. You want my advice? You need to spend more time focusing on and disciplining yourself. You have much to learn and more to grow.
/r/RPChristians13/09/20 02:33 AM
-3

Excellent theory thanks for posting I think you’re on to something
/r/RPChristians08/09/20 02:16 AM
1

Now thats a great story. Thanks brother. Been there!!
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 02:10 AM
2

I thought he meant checking the time to give the impression he had to go soon, a trick that actually works.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 08:32 PM
277

Welcome to the NFL, rookie.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 05:01 PM
3

“Remember when” is the lowest form of conversation. - Tony Soprano
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 01:58 PM
3

There’s a fair amount of “hate” that comes from these posts so I can see why they would think that. Of course we know that half these posts aren’t really red pill, it’s RP commentary. Random guys at random times in life expressing their experience of the red pill. Not saying that’s all invalid, because this sort of data is useful to the science, but it’s imperfect and so a lot of “hate” comes out. Every red piller is a scientist, whether they have scientific skills or not...
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 01:45 AM
6

Yes we need to do better. That is the purpose of the Red Pill. We can build an army of young men in time. Anyway it seems like only a RP Christian man can fulfill your requirements, so at least you’re in the right place.
/r/RPChristians21/08/20 08:02 PM
1

You didn’t want her to know something that is integral to your life view, so you lied to her. You believe one thing, and you tell her another. Technically you didn’t break frame, but your frame is a fake one anyway. I’m not saying we need to publicize the Red Pill, but if someone point blank asks me about it I will tell them exactly what I think and DNGAF.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 06:39 PM
3

Who gives a fuck if your girl finds out? Stand by the truth. If you break frame just because your girl finds out your a red piller it just proves you’re still a little bitch.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 01:46 AM
4

What’s your porn use like?
/r/RPChristians13/07/20 10:00 PM
7

Frodo starts beta and ends up Alpha. Luke Skywalker starts beta and ends up Alpha. Neo starts beta and ends up Alpha.
/r/askRPC11/07/20 05:15 PM
3

There’s nothing inherently unfair with these findings. 💪🏼
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 05:06 PM
0

You could have been a lot more helpful in this post if you explained what happened and how you reacted.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 02:36 PM
1

From your post it seems you lack any grounding of your faith in history, science or psychology. My guess is that your faith was kept tied up in a nice little package and hidden away from any rigorous examination. And now your middle age is forcing you to confront your faith for any substance. You have a lot of work to do in this regard. I have tons of advice and don’t know where to point you. Do you understand how Christianity informed and was influenced by ancient Greek philosophy? How did Aris…
/r/RPChristians29/06/20 06:03 PM
30

Agreed 100%, but until someone has learned all this they should continue to cold approach.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:28 AM
0

The ability to remain undisturbed by anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/20 01:27 PM
-1

There’s a reason the greatest female archetype in human history is the Virgin Mary. But it sounds like you have other issues you’re not telling him which could be worse...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/20 03:35 PM
9

You can’t “convince” a woman to sleep with you, that’s ridiculous. There’s lots more to that story that she didn’t tell you. She only gave you a piece of the story to see how you would react and you certainly reacted! You’re acting like a “white knight” telling her to end that friendship for her own sake, when in reality it’s for your sake. I feel your focus is off. What’s your stats? What’s your mission?
/r/RPChristians13/06/20 07:23 PM
8

Congrats man! You’re doing it. You found the problem and you’re actively working towards the solution. The regret will be there for awhile, but it will get easier over time. And then when you get with a woman more beautiful than your wife you will no longer regret but look on it with peace and appreciation. As far as emptiness, yes your mission and purpose will to a large extent fill that, but I think we have to remember that emptiness is just a part of life. We all have our death hanging over o…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 03:49 PM
18

As much as I disagree with this, I can’t help but think Mary Magdalene falls into this category. High N count, but complete faithfulness after her conversion. But it took the frame of Christ for her to submit. My advice to OP is move on, you won’t be able to reconcile her N count.
/r/RPChristians13/06/20 01:02 AM
1

I always wondered what AMS books were like. But better than The Rational Male??
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 03:12 AM
3

Agree and amplify. Don’t break frame. You are focussing on more important things.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 05:11 AM
2

Read red pill content to understand what it is men want from a woman, there’s tons of information that should keep you occupied and that can help you discover your feminine sexuality.
/r/RPChristians01/06/20 04:53 PM
13

SIDEBAR
/r/RPChristians01/06/20 12:53 PM
3

Telling someone to not play games is Blue Pill advice. And if I see it, I’ll call you out on it. Here’s a perfect example of a guy not playing games: Guy meets a girl he likes. He buys her flowers and tells her how much he likes her. I mean, he’s not playing games right? He’s telling her exactly how he feels. Fail. That’s basically the worst advice you can give a man. Game is called game for a reason. The point of RP is to teach a man game. What does “not playing games” look like for you?
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 11:38 PM
9

So you don’t play games, but “initially I let the guy start.” Newsflash: that’s playing games. There’s a reason we at RP call game, GAME. Acting in such a way as to attract another person is GAME. Telling a man not to play games is terrible advice to give. It’s confusing, misleading, and potentially destructive to their relationships.
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 10:15 PM
6

Pick up the New Testament. Very often Christ does not appear as a nice guy. The Christ in Matthew frightens me actually. He’s very overbearing. “Do you think I came to bring peace? I came to bring the sword.”
/r/RPChristians26/05/20 11:31 PM
21

In a sense you deserved it cause you led her on for a long time. If not by your words, definitely your actions. So she kinda got you back for that. So she was in an LTR, and you didn’t appreciate her flirting, but you thought it was fine to hang out and get coffee with her? Hello? Also, mysteries abound as to whether you’re sexually attracted to this woman or not. You blocked her because you “didn’t deserve to be treated like that” so no you didn’t do the right thing. She shook you out your fram…
/r/RPChristians23/05/20 04:43 AM
2

Message it to me too please. I saved to read later and now it’s gone.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 06:57 PM
5

Is your husband RP aware? If so, he lacks understanding of comfort tests.
/r/RPChristians18/05/20 06:12 PM
-11

Ivanka Trump responds with “Taken!” - she’s even hotter to me now
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 02:33 AM
6

Marrying will bring the state on her side and give her more leverage than she currently has. So yes the power dynamic will shift. Not to say that you can’t compensate for this shift with a strong frame, but I don’t think it’s reasonable to assume marrying will make no difference to your current situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/20 04:19 PM
3

“I wish everyone were single, just as I am.” -St Paul in the New Testament. Dude had to get some shit done. There’s a reason priests don’t get married. Keep the focus. Not saying it’s the only way, but it has been observed.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:46 PM
7

Guy negotiates sex and then asks us what we think. I wish we could delete these time-wasting posts.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 02:11 PM
3

You know what is your fault? Choosing this particular woman. Start studying the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 05:36 PM
77

You should never act butt hurt. Also, did you actually DO your own thing that 3rd night? Or did you just sulk?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 03:19 PM
8

The shows are written by betas who write based on experience. These TV shows are a great window into the state of society.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:27 PM
1

Shes into you and is pissed off that you don’t have the balls to escalate. Happened to me many times before I swallowed the pill.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:44 PM
5

Jung (or was it Freud?) says that a man is not a man until his father dies (literally, or metaphorically.)
/r/askTRP02/05/20 01:11 AM
2

Messaged her once so she has my number. Will not escalate until after quarantine.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:04 PM
2

I cold approached recently and pulled a number. She had a mask on and so did I. (She couldn’t mask that ass though!)
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:08 PM
1

You are correct, you acted like a needy bitch. And the only reason it felt good to tell her what you did was because you enjoy acting like a bitch. Read the sidebar, pussy.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 04:20 AM
0

Your problem is simple and obvious and if you’re unable to diagnose it then you need to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:30 PM
2

The Vatican, FIFA, court proceedings
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:25 PM
2

Nowadays I prefer the “indirect-direct” cold approach. In this method you cold approach and indirectly converse with a woman in such a manner that you purposely make it obvious it’s a direct approach. Your words say one thing (this is a casual conversation) but your body language strongly suggests something else (I want to fuck the shit out of you.) This has the advantage of building tons of sexual tension and double-meaning into the conversation and it shows your socially savvy because you’re g…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:28 PM
1

Read the sidebar. You will learn much more there than you will reading these responses.
/r/RPChristians26/04/20 06:04 PM
1

I wouldn’t get caught up in feelings of guilt like the previous responder would have you do, but instead read the sidebar. The fact that you desire her to start initiating sex shows how clueless you are and how much you have to learn. Stop reading these responses and read the sidebar.
/r/RPChristians26/04/20 05:15 PM
26

Who says it has to be subtly? Men communicate directly. Sure he may get butt hurt but he’ll probably get over it.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:21 AM
2

Touché
/r/askTRP26/04/20 01:36 AM
1

This here is what you’re missing in your evolutionary knowledge OP.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:53 PM
4

The non physical attribute of Competence
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:06 PM
1

Ass, because it signifies more than anything her reproductive capability
/r/askTRP25/04/20 08:02 PM
5

This is a good question I’ve never seen satisfactorily answered by anyone. Maybe the answer is, “it depends.” It depends on your current goals. If your goal is to bone as many girls as possible, then not getting butt-hurt when a girl returns to you is a good course of action. AMS recommends this principle (even though he recommends “punishing” them for this behavior as well.) If vetting for an appropriate LTR is your goal, then hard-nexting girls who return after ghosting may be the best course …
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:15 PM
1

It’s not outdated. Don’t believe everything you read.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:26 PM
1

Send me the link (and note I’m arguing for dual mating strategy, not hypergamy. Men aren’t hypergamous.)
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/20 02:25 AM
2

Great - you’re getting somewhere. You’re figuring out your purpose, it’s not meant to be easy.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:35 PM
1

You obviously didn’t read the book
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 11:01 PM
3

Great job moving in with her 👍🏽
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:52 PM
3

That ass.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:23 PM
2

Is the first “contradiction” you’ve ever come across in the Bible or even the life of Christ? There are thousands more - keep reading. You might want to google “literary criticism of New Testament” - scholars have spent hundreds of years analyzing the amazing history of the development of the scriptures.
/r/askRPC17/04/20 10:53 PM
5

Your biggest blind spot is that you don’t realize your 15 years away from your prime.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:11 AM
-1

Thank God you wrote this to counter that misguided previous post.
/r/RPChristians14/04/20 03:29 PM
2

If you tell her you looked at porn you might as well tell her every other stupid thing in your life 😅 Keep some mystery in your relationship. It helps maintains attraction
/r/RPChristians14/04/20 06:26 AM
3

ADHD is not a sickness, you’re just hyper interested in every thing. It’s a creative and high intelligence trait. It does however prevent you from the doing the practical things in life. I was diagnosed with ADHD and took meds (Adderall and then Ritalin) for a few years and then stopped because they were affecting my body. I learned what really helps me is to journal. I’m a journaling freak now. It puts all the random thoughts in my head onto paper where I can assess and analyze them. I see them…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 08:30 AM
1

Some women will be attracted to you. Learn to figure that out quickly. Then escalate.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:23 AM
1

Excellence chases perfection and "we must be perfect as our heavenly Father is perfect." While chasing excellence might be "dangerous" for its secular ambiguity, as Christians we're clear about what excellence means for us. The RP principle to chase excellence is therefore not "a lie and deception" as you purport it to be. Making ourselves our own MPO is simply a reminder for us that God is our MPO. Even you yourself stated "God's seat is within us," so that by making ourselves our own MPO we in…
/r/RPChristians07/04/20 09:26 PM
2

He’s still got virgins all around the world dedicating their life to him.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 02:02 PM
1

“Those who seek to save their life will lose it, but those who lose it will find it.” Says the Lord
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 04:00 AM
1

Why start them on calculus if they don’t even have the basic math classes? Proverbs/Ecclesiastes are easy and digestible and almost secular. If you’re Catholic you can include Wisdom. Finally, Revelation makes an impact on everyone regardless of their beliefs! Anything else has the potential to be off-putting for nonbelievers if you ask me.
/r/askRPC03/04/20 06:52 PM
23

The obvious problem is you’re way too needy for sex and she’s uses this as power over you. The solution is to show her you can do without sex by not bringing sex up EVER, and by not escalating. Let her escalate always and even when she escalates don’t fuck her every time. Send her ass home and tell her you got shit to do. She will hamster like fuck. The Sex God Method recommends making a woman work for your sex. You don’t seem to do that.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:50 PM
17

It’s the ingestion of that smell thats the difference between sex and fapping.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 05:22 PM
0

We recommend the sidebar for people who by their posts make it obvious they have not earned nor can contribute useful commentary to the body of knowledge which is the RP. You are such a person. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:11 AM
19

I’m 40 and can still get college girls at bars. You’ll feel lonely and different, but my married friends are envious of me. You pick your poison.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:42 AM
2

Stop making excuses and make a plan. You lack courage. Get the fuck out of Germany. Your LTR is not the problem, you are. She will eventually give up on you.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 05:18 PM
1

Were you really going to text her saying “kinda bored.” WTF?! Dude READ THE SIDEBAR you lame ass.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 05:00 AM
1

I disagree, she does want to have sex with you. But she wants to know it’s more than just sex for you. One of my plates tried this on me once. So what did I do? I took her for dinner and showed her a good time. Then drove right past my place and dropped her ass home. Non needy - had a great time. Her hamster went hay-wire and she had messaged me a million times before I got home. We fucked the next time we met up. Sometimes take a break from fucking man.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:57 AM
1

The despair you feel is not from God. He does share the horrible feelings you have for yourself. That is a dark illusion. All sins are already forgiven in Christ. You need a task, a goal, a purpose to accomplish each day. It should challenge you. Little by little you will pull yourself away from porn. “Do not let your heart be troubled. And do not be afraid.”
/r/askRPC30/03/20 07:28 AM
53

A man’s future matters more to a woman than his past. But a woman’s past matters more to a man than her future. It’s a legitimate question, but I would have asked it before getting into an LTR.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:58 PM
3

It’s written into the fabric of evolution and seems to be an effect of natural selection. It’s called the Pareto Principle
/r/askTRP27/03/20 01:21 AM
1

In your post you never once mentioned what your purpose was. I’m guessing you have no purpose. More important than messaging your ex back is finding and living your purpose. What the heck will you do with yourself when you retire at 45? You’re still young at 45. Do not message her back. Instead, find and live your purpose. Without purpose you will fall into her frame and hate yourself for it. You’re a great man who only had sex within your marriage. You will find a better, younger Christian woma…
/r/RPChristians26/03/20 05:47 PM
9

AMS
/r/askTRP25/03/20 11:19 PM
1

Comment on the music, or the towels
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:40 PM
1

I guess in a situation like this the Catholic’s would proudly assert their apostolic tradition as they’ve never limited Christ’s teaching to ‘sola scriptura.’ In any case I don’t understand why you’re so hyper focused on someone with this power changing the Bible when they could in fact change ANYTHING and still proclaim themself as Christ.
/r/askRPC25/03/20 08:39 PM
3

OP this is all you need to read.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:56 AM
0

Cancel on her first - “something came up”
/r/askTRP22/03/20 01:49 AM
1

When you orgasm in sex there’s something about a woman’s pheromones that rejuvenates you. You can sense it, smell it, feel it. When you Fap you don’t get rejuvenated, you just get emptied.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 01:56 AM
5

No, good game alone is not always enough as you proved in your story. There could be a hundred reasons she rejected cutting your hair again, but it wasn’t because of bad game.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 12:47 AM
1

Is the opposite true: if a woman denies her biological nature of AF/BB does that also make the woman less attractive to us?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 06:38 PM
1

She’s only bantering with you. Keep bantering back.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:59 PM
2

Oh is that what she SAID? What did she actually DO? STFU
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:41 PM
3

STFU. I would have ghosted you too.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:14 PM
-5

He can lead you in the long run, you just need to kickstart him. Otherwise you might just wait forever?
/r/askRPC15/03/20 04:25 AM
-5

You definitely DO want to change him. Luckily he’s a man, so he will listen to step by step instructions. The hard part will be you getting over your own cognitive dissonance and TELLING him what to do.
/r/askRPC15/03/20 04:15 AM
1

It was a shit test and you failed. You should have said “I’m saving it for our grandkids” or something like that. Better luck next time brother. Just because a woman appears mad at you, doesn’t mean she is.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:39 PM
20

Feminism was established in the Garden of Eden.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 12:52 AM
2

She’s not aroused by you anymore. Adjust accordingly.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:50 PM
2

Looks are important for a man, even more important than all those nice things she did for you. You made the right decision, doesn’t mean it won’t hurt though.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:41 PM
3

OP gets a compliment and is like “is this a red flag??”
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:13 AM
1

It has no relevance on RP and you can learn a lot about yourself. Take it. ENTP.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:49 AM
47

“Hello love of my life.” It’s just banter - banter back
/r/askTRP09/03/20 09:17 PM
2

It’s a comfort test. This is the only moment when your love, compliments and reassurances actually make her love you more.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 09:36 PM
1

Despite that, I still agree with this guy, it could have been more concise. I would suggest re-editing it over time. It’s a great analysis.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 07:21 PM
4

Hear hear. ☝🏽
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:46 AM
3

Sure everyone glances but if they’re attracted to you they will unconsciously give subtle cues in that very same glance.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:35 PM
1

I think this is a natural fear for polygamous animals. Firmly let her know it’s not allowed if she wants exclusivity. If she bucks, just walk away.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:52 AM
2

Read the sidebar and actually learn a thing or two before you ask anymore questions.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:42 AM
1

When I first cold approached I would think up elaborate and deep questions. But these questions, though sometimes successful, felt uncalibrated because I was just meeting the girl. I find when I cold approach now I ask far simpler questions that directly relate to the moment so I don’t have to think about them beforehand. Keep it simple stupid: What’s your name? (Neg name.) Where are you from? (Neg where she’s from.) Whats that tattoo? What are you doing today? Etc. Etc. Where I’m actually elabo…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:15 AM
5

You did well. This is normal flakiness from women. Don’t follow up with a text , you’ve already done that. However you should play pool regardless of whether she responds because isn’t that what you were going to do anyway???
/r/askRPC02/03/20 04:45 PM
2

It won’t be easy, but you’ll get over it eventually. Might take months or even years. Sorry buddy, you have to suffer through it. You have to feel it to heal it. But you aren’t the first, and you won’t be the last. The good news is now your eyes are opened and you can still come out on top when she sees you with a sexier girl. Do the work and play the long game.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:12 AM
2

What are you, her guardian?
/r/askRPC01/03/20 04:16 AM
2

Write out and answer this two part question: what do you want, and why do you want it? If you don’t struggle over a few days/weeks with this question you’re not doing it properly.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 04:14 AM
1

When you sleep with a woman you receive/breathe in her pheromones. It’s rejuvenating. Needless to say, you don’t get those pheromones when you Fap. I can see why you may not believe in the “powers” of NoFap, but I cant see how you can believe fapping is the same as sex.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:40 AM
3

“Just then his disciples returned and were surprised to find him talking with a woman. But no one asked, “What do you want?” or “Why are you talking with her?” The disciples thought it strange he was talking to this woman, yet through this woman (a non Jew/ie Non Christian) he brought the news of Messiahship to a whole town. Take the damn girl out - sheesh.
/r/RPChristians25/02/20 12:06 PM
1

My guess is 7-10% of the population. “small is the gate and narrow the way that leads to life, and only a few find it.”
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:51 AM
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