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PICKME CULTUREEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:17 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:25 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 11:16 PM
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STRATEGYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:31 AM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢EurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:39 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?EurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:16 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:28 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:34 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:41 PM
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PICKME CULTUREEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:34 AM
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STRATEGYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:11 AM
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STRATEGYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:50 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:00 PM
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#JustLVMThingsEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:48 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 06:56 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:49 AM
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SNATCH THEM COINSEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:58 PM
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REMINDER 👑EurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:22 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:24 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:53 PM
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STRATEGYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 02:50 PM
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NAH, SISEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:57 PM
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EurasianEmpress/r/askFDS23/08/21 02:52 AM
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STRATEGYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:02 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:46 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:47 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:21 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:59 PM
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REMINDER 👑EurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:04 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEurasianEmpress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:57 PM
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Why tf should she have to wash his sheets? She could have just not slept there, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/22 03:32 PM
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Also watch out for LV/NV qualities that may be more prominent in other scrotes than they are in your father. E.g. Some men might not be an alcoholic or abuse other substances, but he might still abuse or neglect you in other ways. And be careful not the set the bar too low. Just because a man is better than your father doesn’t mean he’s not also a LVM or can’t be horrible to you. Your father is so terrible that simply being somewhat better than him would not be good enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 01:38 PM
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I bet HE’s the one not in good enough shape and he’s trying to force her to be “perfect” to compensate for his own rotting looks. I bet he will cheat on her and leave her, anyway. He’s already planning it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 03:44 AM
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plucked like a farm chicken I absolutely LOVE this sub lmao 🤣🤣🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 03:22 PM
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I’d rather stay single for my entire life and ever get fisted 🤷‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:47 PM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:05 PM
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Those boys are fucking disgusting. Scrotes learn to prey on women and girls at a very young age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:04 PM
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I absolutely hate women who tell other women to feel grateful for being fetishized. These same women will victim blame sexual assault survivors and, if their husbands cheat on them, will fight the mistress or victim while defending their cheating husbands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:03 PM
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It’s like men appear to single out women for our ethnicities/races but they actually fetishize all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 10:38 PM
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Asian women and girls also face insane fetishization. I know men fetishize all races of women, but yeah many scrotes get extra creepy towards East Asian women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:57 AM
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The fetishization of Ukrainian and Russian women is fucking insane. When men fixate on a woman’s ethnicity, they’re most likely fetishizing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:45 AM
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sock fuckers I love this term so much lmao 😂. I will be using it the next chance I get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:52 PM
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And the women are far better-looking than the men in both cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 10:56 AM
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I went on that website and couldn’t find records of someone who I’m 100% positive has a criminal record in which he was found guilty. Any other resources to look?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:07 PM
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I think so, too, considering how she hasn’t gotten pregnant (or hasn’t announced/went through with a pregnancy) from all the other relationships she’s had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:58 PM
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So are the men fine with their male friends masturbating to them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 11:50 PM
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Getting drunk at his own wedding and to the point of blacking out at that is a HUGE red flag 🚩🚩🚩. I’m sure he’s shown signs of heavy drinking long before the wedding, too. And as other commenters have said, absolutely trust your instincts.
/r/askFDS28/01/22 10:24 PM
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I plan to look into electric toothbrushes for children. I have a smaller mouth so I already use regular toothbrushes for children, anyway. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:20 PM
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Thanks so much for the explanation! I have some sensitive teeth but every dentist/dental hygienist I went to still recommended an electric toothbrush so I’ll definitely look into getting one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:52 AM
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Her husband is right that it’s unnatural for a woman to be making more than her man, that’s why she’s right to not support him and should leave him for a man who earns even more than she does lol. I love it when the scrote is the 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:34 AM
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A guy being put off by the fact that your parents provide you with financial support could also be because he’s mad that he can’t use finances to control and trap you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:25 AM
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Off topic but is an electric toothbrush really that much better than a regular one? What makes it so much better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:22 AM
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I think it would be easy to identify EurasianTiger’s alt accounts since his writing style is uniquely unhinged. The other “Eurasian” accounts sounded quite different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:34 AM
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Thank you for sharing :).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:35 AM
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I would love to read a thread from you on warning signs. That would super helpful for all the women here. I’m personally super interested to know how you became a forensic psychologist, how you chose grad schools and your research interests, what your job is like, and the pay (if you’re comfortable sharing any or none of these).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:49 PM
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May I PM you to ask about your career and professional experience working with pedophiles and rapists?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:36 PM
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Absolutely. The lack of LV traits doesn’t indicate the presence of HV traits. And lol the Hapas sub hated Eurasian/Hapa women (especially from WMAF) when I stumbled on it years ago. It’s toned down over the years but it’s still male dominated and would never accept FDS principles. (Edit: are there any particular members whom my username reminds you of?) I really like your username, though 🔥🌳🧚.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:13 PM
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While I appreciate this art, I want to give a friendly reminder that Asian scrotes and non-Asian scrotes can come in all shapes and sizes. Even men who are very successful in their careers (Edit: and attractive) can be predatory and hostile towards Asian women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:13 PM
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I don’t think the useless Dad trope needs to die, it just needs to be portrayed as the serious deal-breaking issue that it is instead of being portrayed as a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:44 PM
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That’s a great point, although IIRC there were a bunch of women who attended the trial just to ogle/fangirl at him or sth. Please correct me if I’m wrong about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:49 PM
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When I first heard Ted Bundy attributing his violent tendencies to porn, I thought-and still think-that he was just trying to shift some of the blame for his crimes away from himself. Don’t get me wrong, I know porn is built on sex-trafficking and the exploitation, violence, and abuse of women and girls. I would just look out for men who try to avoid self-accountability. EDA: Btw, Ted Bundy was never good-looking at all, plain at best. Idk why the media and people back then made it seem like he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:46 AM
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Yeah I really wouldn’t tell anyone about my goals, at least not until I’ve already accomplished them. People who are nosy, jealous, or otherwise judgmental can really wear you down and make it harder to reach your goals. Only immediate family members know I bought a home and I told one friend after I have already moved in. Some of my coworkers bought houses, too, and shared it with the whole workplace and I chose not to share mine. Their houses are likely larger/nicer than mine since they earn m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:43 AM
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This is why dating is not worth it to me. Why risk my own safety at all just for a chance at a fulfilling relationship? Even if it turns into the best relationship that can ever exist, it’s not worth the risk. I’m not going to gamble my life for companionship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:13 PM
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Let them be surrounded by their own floating piss. That’s what they get for being so fragile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:14 PM
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This sounds like my Dad except he didn’t call my Mom names so often but he was still disrespectful and looked down on her for many years, and for the last 10+ years he hasn’t even had a job and refused to find one. If I wasn’t doing well in school, he would just scream at me to do better but wouldn’t do anything to actually help. I’d rather be broke than ever be at the mercy of a man, even a “HVM.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 12:47 PM
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Do you know the difference now and can you kindly share what that difference is? Asking for a friend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 02:57 AM
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That was my first thought, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 02:53 AM
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Yeah he begged for Cardi back only to cheat on her again. And he’s really ugly, too. And he looks like he doesn’t bathe properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:45 PM
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I think it’s a pineapple drink 😅. But I get your point that it wouldn’t be mistaken for apple juice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:54 AM
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This boils my blood more than I expected it to and is wrong on so many levels. The teacher making the quiet girl do the adult job of “managing” the scrotlet’s behavior, already making it her responsibility to raise him, only for him to abuse her and drag down her academic performance. Even if I COULD fix a man/boy, I will never do so, especially not at my own expense in any way whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:30 AM
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I wish he was actually locked up, though. You had hard evidence against him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:17 PM
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The first red flag was calling a woman a bitch for doing her job and not giving him a handout. The second red flag was “if it wasn’t illegal I’ll hit you in the face.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:41 PM
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Men like the officers are far more common than I ever thought, and they exist in many other professions, too. Women’s deaths, pain, torture are a spectacle to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:40 AM
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I changed my last name earlier this year (not married) to one that can also be used as a woman’s first name. I didn’t want my last name to come from any man, not even my father. It sounded almost odd at first, but I’ve gotten used to it by now, especially since I’ve had new accomplishments under this name. I’m also surrounded with many people with “unconventional” names, too, so I don’t feel out of place, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:17 AM
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It’s not even about the paperwork for her. Her gut is telling her that her last name is a HUGE part of her identity and she can’t give it up for any man at all. She will literally lose herself in this marriage. A HVM wouldn’t even feel entitled enough to grant her “permission” to keep her last name; A HVM would understand that women keeping their last names should be a given like it is for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:15 AM
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May I ask what herbs these are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:58 PM
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And if the towel is sooo trivial and insignificant then why did he have to go behind her back to unpack it and make sure she wouldn’t have it? He knows his own motives better than anyone else. He knew what he was doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:14 PM
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Right? But what’s considered feminine is still dictated mostly by men’s desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 05:04 PM
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Yeah smoking is a sign of masculinity over there and men who don’t smoke in China are seen as not masculine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:23 PM
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I mean, it’s better to be single than choose between two evils.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:30 PM
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Meanwhile, mediocre and ugly looking men being with drop dead gorgeous women is the fucking norm and no one bats an eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:32 PM
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Then there literally would be no incels and they wouldn’t need so many manipulation tactics to get their dicks wet. Most men who get raped are raped by other men and that’s not my problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:24 PM
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The fact that your ex needed you to remind him to give his own mother a birthday present, to speak with his own father, to plan dates and vacations, etc means he was low effort and not “perfectly nice” at all. He simply wasn’t invested in the relationship or in you and didn’t care enough about you to put in the effort. That ex was dragging you down and he seemed like a parasite draining your energy. He was never a good man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 06:09 PM
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It’s also an underhanded kind of negging. Make the woman look unflattering to lower her self esteem and “knock her down a peg.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:47 AM
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Probably the same reason why some LVMs don’t want their girlfriends/wives to get in better shape or dress how they (the women) like. They want to make them look unflattering/unattractive so that other men don’t pursue them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:22 PM
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Most celebrity women-especially A-list celebrities-are Pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 03:22 PM
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That’s setting the bar pretty low. Basic human functioning is not a turn on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:41 PM
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His “feelings” always stayed the same, though, he never wanted her or valued her. Ugh what a Machiavellian tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 04:15 AM
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That’s so weird and abusive! Men probably insist we have no friends because they want to be the only person we have? Also you can block him on Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:35 PM
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More than one man tried this on me when I was underage. They tried too hard to sound fake deep. They thought if they could get me comfortable enough to open up to them and get vulnerable then I would also be comfortable enough to have sex with them. They were all wrong. I did end up trusting one of them to open up about something personal and even broke down in front of him, but that didn’t make me want sex from him because he couldn’t change how ugly he was 🤷‍♀️. Also beware of men who seem to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 03:22 AM
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Traditional conservative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:10 PM
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THIS LMAO 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:35 AM
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So he just admitted how severe and prevalent misogyny is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:30 AM
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Right?! What a callous little shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:42 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:02 PM
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This is why I will never let a man mentor me (again). I do not look up to men, anymore, no matter how skilled and successful they are in their field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:01 PM
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Took me an extra second to get that but OOF 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:00 AM
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Wouldn’t it be much easier to learn to cook instead of getting a whole girlfriend/wife just to cook (and clean) for you? Shit, if I were to choose between learning to make all of my favorite foods or maintaining a relationship just to have a man cook all of it for me, I’d rather learn to do it my damn self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:38 PM
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When I was a teen, at least 2 grown married men have acted a little too interested in wanting to know what I can cook when I casually mentioned making dinner for myself. Even back then, their interest in the idea of me cooking made my skin crawl. I knew they were fantasizing about me cooking for them/being their “wife material” eww 🤢.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:35 PM
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Now I want that shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:19 PM
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Very similar is to not share your past trauma with men. They will either try to re-enact that very trauma (especially sexual trauma) or use it against you. I always thought that a fulfilling and healthy relationship is with someone that I could open up to about my traumas. But HVM wouldn’t ask about them and they wouldn’t have to know about your trauma in order to make you feel safe with them and trust them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:37 PM
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This sounds so much like those Asian parents who spoil the crap out of their sons to make their sons completely dependent on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:02 PM
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I bet these scrotes (if they’re American) would get pissed if anyone joked about 9/11. Calm down, it’s just a joke, bruh /s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:47 PM
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Do you know if this is the case for New York State? I’m struggling to find the public database, if there is one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:59 PM
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Thank you so much and I’m SO glad you stayed calm while getting them all triggered and emotional lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:46 PM
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Can you give a TL;DR?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:22 PM
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I mean, if they crack under the pressure, then they weren’t HV enough in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:38 PM
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Long before I reached legal drinking age, I’ve already decided to never drink alcohol at all for multiple reasons, and not wanting to become even more vulnerable was one of them. No one can pressure me in to drinking for any reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:03 AM
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Damn is there a way to tell if a hot guy won’t hit the wall like that? Other than looking at his Dad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:25 PM
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Older married men creeping on me as an underage teen is why I’m afraid of married men. I feel like they’re even more likely to prey on me than single men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:24 PM
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Right?? Plus those scrotes are probably around god when they have skid marks in their undergarments. Edit: Spelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:14 PM
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As a fellow small woman, this really resonates with me. I’m just too small to protect myself and I hate feeling so vulnerable and defenseless. I’ve suffered so much violence due to my height from both men AND women (motivated by other reasons like racism, but my height just made it so much easier for predators to abuse me). I have never been in a relationship even though I’m almost 25 because I never felt safe enough with a man. I want intimacy so badly, but I can’t experience it with someone I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:32 AM
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Fat men actually look even shorter than they are, so that’s funny lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:24 AM
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Omg yes ladies, please do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:03 PM
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Wow I didn’t know Olivia Munn was his side chick. I really wished it wouldn’t be her who got pregnant by this guy (or any other trash man). Edit: Spelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 10:46 PM
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Fetishizing and chasing women outside their race while shitting on women of their own race, but then getting mad at women of their own race who also date interracially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:53 PM
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Wow I didn’t know Beyoncé did that. Ugh that’s such a cOoL gIrL thing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:49 PM
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OP, do you know if there is anything we can do to help? This issue really hits home for me even though I’m not Uighur, so I would love to get involved in helping these Uighur women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:40 PM
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Come on, this NV trait MUST have come up as huge red flags before they even got married or had a child together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:52 AM
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On a related note, I’m not getting into a relationship at all until I can easily get out of one whenever I need/want to, and that means being financially and professionally stable and not getting attached to a guy until I’ve extensively vetted him and he’s consistently proven his commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:39 AM
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“But you’d like it if he was attractive.” So creepy scrotes know they’re unattractive, and that we wouldn’t like for them to approach us, and they still do it, anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:06 AM
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If a man even brings up threesomes in a conversation then I’m gonna run. Dump and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 11:18 PM
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Thank you, this was the first thing that came to my mind and you worded it so well. The scene really teaches boys (and children in general, but especially boys since this character is male) that it’s okay to not hold themselves accountable, and they don’t need to correct their mistakes in order to be forgiven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:51 AM
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I was thinking the same. Not that being in his 40s would have been any better or any less pedophilic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:01 PM
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I hope he keeps ignoring that tumor and he dies a painful death, even better if it’s before he thinks about changing his life insurance policy (if he has one) so that OP could at least get whatever inheritance he has. It’s so awful to me that a Pickme who’s only my age could do this to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:47 PM
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Thank you. She’s been staying with us for the past week or so and idk how much longer she’ll be staying, so I’ve been feeling much worse about it. But at least it has pushed me to finally call my experience what it was. I’ll be physically safe as long as I actively avoid them, which isn’t too hard to do even in the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:08 AM
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I was also diagnosed with gastritis, but unfortunately prescription meds have made me feel worse, but the other diagnosis is something I can look into. Thank you so much 🙏!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:06 AM
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This really hits home. My brother has been dating a girl who looks like me for over 2 years and I’m becoming increasingly disturbed by it. He’s even mistaken me for her more than once. This on top of the fact that he would (TW) inappropriately touch me and sexually harass me sporadically throughout our childhood makes their relationship so much more fucked up to me. I fucking hate their relationship even though she’s such a nice woman and he seems to treat her well. God I want her to dump him so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:30 AM
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May I send you a PM to ask what condition this was? I have been suffering with similar symptoms despite many exams saying my heart is fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:15 AM
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Unfortunately, female doctors do this to us, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:12 AM
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Shouldn’t doctors do this, anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:11 AM
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Only predators-male and female-complained about my being reserved or “too serious.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:49 PM
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AND she’s friends with/collaborates with other men who are known for abusing and raping women like Chris Brown and Tekashi69. I’d rather stay broke than be the huge successful Pickme that she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:04 PM
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I would want a man who would be willing and able to do this for me, but if there are other ways to ruin the ex’s life without facing charges himself then that’d be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:01 PM
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i.e. He hit the wall all by himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:35 PM
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He should have cOmMuNiCaTeD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:24 AM
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No, throw that man on the sun instead 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:27 PM
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IME men who felt emasculated by me were actually very disrespectful and nasty and catty towards me. More than one of them still wanted to get with me. Men are always conflicted about their feelings towards women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:06 AM
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This may be the case for some, but this is not always what a “crush” means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:27 PM
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Yeah I just think the other person is dumb for spelling my name the other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:42 PM
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Thank you for sharing. I actually saw a therapist 2 years ago who introduced me to tapping but it didn’t work for me at the time. But I’ve thought about revisiting tapping and, hopefully, this might work better under different guidance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:07 AM
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There are 2 different spellings for the way that my name is pronounced, and if someone automatically uses the other one then I immediately think less of them lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:25 AM
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And they still never learn and it would be too late to learn only when they have daughters of their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:41 AM
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Ehhh I’d hate to say this but plenty of NVMs reproduce so I wouldn’t be surprised if he has a kid or two down the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:38 AM
13

Well, he answered his own question: women aren’t dumb, anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:38 PM
3

So would they want to fuck the male politicians, then? I mean, almost all male politicians are old and ugly as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:06 PM
6

I felt so much second hand embarrassment from reading that poem. And she’s a DOCTOR!!!??? She is literally out of league for almost every Black man and most non-Black men. Damn, anytime I feel inadequate in my career/academics, I guess I’ll know that there are people who are super successful in these arenas who are still extreme Pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:19 AM
40

Why tf do some men even want to be in a relationship with someone that they would/want to be so nasty and mean to? If I had any urge to say or do horrible things to an SO, then I wouldn’t event want to stay with them just to abuse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 12:45 PM
5

Thank you so much for sharing and I’m glad that you’ve grown a lot since!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:56 AM
48

Ugh you’re so lucky. I’m a virgin, so at least I never had bad sex or been with unhygienic men, but GOD do I want sex with a handsome HVM. Do you mind sharing how/why things ended with this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:47 PM
14

Even if the man is not doing any scrote-y shit, I would be so lonely in a relationship with a workaholic. What’s the point in being in a relationship with them if you rarely ever see them? And if you have kids with him, he’d basically be an absent father/husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:28 PM
2

Then they wonder why women initiate 80% of divorces when they know damn well they don’t do nearly as much for their wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:27 AM
50

Potatos look way more appetizing than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:37 PM
11

Honestly, I couldn’t be bothered to read her paragraphs, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:48 AM
46

She is making WAY more than him, too. Naomi is worth at least $25 mil, but her boyfriend has nit even reached $1 mil. Dude should make at least close to her earnings, but he’s way far off. Ugh, Naomi really downgraded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 09:32 PM
1

Thanks for the tip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:38 PM
14

I figured that it was no coincidence that almost all the men who creeped on me were already married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:43 PM
25

“Fully developed” 17 year olds look their age and no older. Trust me, when I saw a bunch of high school teenagers when I turned 21, they obviously looked way younger than me no matter what their bodies looked like. Even the OP acknowledges this. SHE could tell that the fUlLy DeVeLoPeD child was obviously a fucking child, so why is she making excuses for her predatory husband?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:37 PM
12

If men really hated gold diggers, then they would not go after much younger women at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:31 PM
19

Why is being funny such a big deal to LVM that they have to turn it into a pissing contest against women? Why do they feel so mad and threatened that women can be funny? And I personally don’t even like really funny men. I don’t mean the ones who crack jokes with just their friends, I mean the type of men who has to crack jokes with everyone no matter who they are or how little they know them. My child molester was like this and he would make people laugh to get their guard down so that they won…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:26 PM
20

Unfortunately, my male family members are also LV and useless 🙃. And it’s hard enough to open up about this to male friends, but they wouldn’t have “handled” my abuser off the record, anyway, even if they were HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:54 AM
73

Ehh, my abuser didn’t have money and he was also only sentenced to probation (his mother, however, had some money, so idk 🤷‍♀️).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:29 PM
123

My great-great-grandmother still had bound feet and could barely walk (also one of multiple wives to a much older man). Imagine all that pain they force women into since a really young age. It’s basically amputation but more painful. Scrotes had to literally immobilize women and girls to keep them around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:53 AM
24

he made a joke about how if he accidentally slit my throat during sex would turn him on. He was not joking and he would do it on purpose, not “accidentally.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:16 PM
1

That’s awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:55 PM
1

Thank you for sharing and I’m really sorry to hear that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:45 PM
28

If you don’t mind sharing, I was wondering why a relationship with that man ended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:25 AM
3

This is HV behavior as long as it is not love bombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 11:00 PM
1

I’ve tried that, too, and it still pilled. I don’t know what else to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:22 AM
4

The tret 0.025% pills a lot when I mix it with moisturizer. Any way around that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:25 AM
5

I was on tretinoin for about 9 months last year, but had to stop because I was still breaking out a lot (not really a purge, but broke out just as much as before tret) and it made me lose facial volume and actually gave me a faint smile line when I didn’t have one before. The only thing that’s helping with my moisture barrier is stop using cleanser and just washing my face with raw honey. Wondering if anyone else struggled with this could give me advice. I used 0.06% every other day then 0.1%, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:21 AM
8

Insecure men treated me like shit even when I wasn’t even dating them. We were strictly platonic and they were still negging me so I always knew to avoid them as much as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 02:02 AM
27

Honestly, even if I were in perfect conditions to have a child-100% supportive husband who pulls his weight and then some, no health risks for me and my body snaps right back, the child is easy to raise, still have freedom and time and low-stress, financially stable with more than enough money to afford whatever a family wants or needs-I still wouldn’t want to have kids. And all of these huge risks just solidifies that choice for me. I guess I really am child free and would be no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:06 AM
6

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:53 AM
339

LMAO gay men are exposing these scrotes 🤣🤣!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:28 AM
44

Every guy who referred to me as “like a sister” or “like my 2-year old” tried to get with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:59 AM
43

“Men need sex.” Okay, then that includes gay men. Should we mandate some straight men to give gay men sex, then? Hhhmm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:25 AM
46

He does this so he can keep other people away from you, isolate you from them so that he can easily control you if he gets you back. It may also be to deter other men from pursuing you. He wants himself to be your only option.
/r/askFDS01/06/21 01:20 PM
13

gargling balls I can’t 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:42 AM
18

😮 This is why I’m scared to date White guys lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:05 PM
37

Why tf do men like this even get married and have children in the first place? Muh LeGaCy??? It’s gotta be more than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:00 PM
80

👏👏👏 The men who already meet my standards don’t need me to explain and the ones who don’t won’t genuinely change to meet them, anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:57 PM
32

Or he could get the affection from his Dad, instead. Edit: Spelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:48 PM
15

I wanna see the screenshot 😂. “I’m so mad that I got exactly what I wanted!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:48 PM
36

Block his number. Just don’t show up to meet him; you don’t have to explain anything to him. The feeling of missing him will fade. Or if you do end up seeing him again, then you’ll probably be reminded of why you stopped contact with him in the first place, but that’s too risky imo.
/r/askFDS24/04/21 03:15 AM
9

You might mean well but this sounds like white savior complex and you’re patting yourself on the back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:00 PM
39

For one (multiple, actually), she called a Desi woman a “curry-scented bitch,” Zayn Malik a “sand n-gg-r,” and she still supported Trump. Oh, and she lost a Twitter spat with then-14 year old Skai Jackson after cursing her out and body-shaming her (Skai).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:13 AM
29

Before FDS I wouldn’t catch anything wrong with this. Now I know better so thank you OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:47 PM
40

If the friend-ish is always asking you for dating advice, maybe you’re the one he wants to date and he is being really passive aggressive in his pursuit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:43 PM
2

That is one of the least intimidating dogs that I’ve ever seen. I’d be more afraid of feisty chihuahuas 😂 but I’m glad that scrotes are afraid of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:15 AM
5

Why tf do detectives do this? I figure that they must have some kind of financial incentive to protect sex offenders and threaten victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:18 AM
14

Ooh what breed is she?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:30 PM
14

Or I can just illegally download their music so I get to listen to their music for free without giving them any profit. I don’t suggest anyone else do this, but one’s not likely to get caught doing this 🤷‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:37 AM
158

Wait women were DYING from Yaz and my doctor prescribed it to me? Luckily, I stopped after just one dose but holy shit did I dodge a bullet. Edit: Spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:13 AM
24

Drop those friends. They will only enable predators and put you in danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:07 AM
28

more hair on his ass than on his head. OOF that sent me 🤣🤣🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:55 PM
5

Thank you. I have my own reasons for not trusting the medical community and I’m not in the medical field, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:43 PM
18

YES. These are the men who compete with women. I didn’t know that being funny was such a masculinity passing contest until men started insisting women weren’t funny to soothe their fragile egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:21 PM
3

I’m mixed Asian/White and have actually been preyed on my Asian men who fetishized my White side and thought that my being mixed with Asian meant they had a chance with me (clearly they didn’t). So now seeing the Asian American/mixed Asian (predominantly male) forums on Reddit where they fetishize White women (and sometimes even underage White/mixed White girls) is soooo triggering. Honestly, if most Asian men weren’t so creepy about mixed children, mixed women, and White women, then I definitel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:51 PM
2

Oooh which episode is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:33 PM
28

Exactly. LVW harm themselves and/or other women for the benefit of men. LVM harm women for their own benefit at the expense of all women. Low value-ness in men is fundamentally different from low valueness in women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:14 AM
135

George Clooney is 16 years older than Amal. That’s still old enough to be her father and that age gap is still really gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:30 PM
26

Some of the more observant women noted how he likely made her dress down for the video on purpose to subtly hint at his viewers that her “homely” appearance was why he serially cheated and was therefore justified in doing so. I can definitely see him having this kind of intention and it just makes him so much more evil. I think this was her first appearance on his channel, too, and he has been hiding her from his (mostly Black female) viewers to make himself seem like an eligible bachelor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:16 PM
87

The way that he has destroyed her psychologically is so scary. She’s shared her manifesto on how she’s become so obsessed with her husband’s side chicks and how she has started to resent her own daughter for her dark skin just because some of her husband’s mistresses had dark skin. They are both very dangerous people and I’m scared for their daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:33 AM
124

You can make the post under a throwaway if you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:09 AM
29

My guess is that they’re afraid that you’ll treat them the same way they treat smaller women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:09 PM
7

Terry Crews serially cheated on his wife (he and his wife talked about it on Oprah) and no man can redeem himself from that so he’s still a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:12 AM
24

That was Daniel Holtzclaw, who is biracial White/Asian. Sexual violence against women and girls is always a hate crime not just because of the victims’ races but also more so because we are WOMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:06 AM
2

Idk, I felt like that response from Saweetie was too nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:14 PM
6

Fucking leeches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:02 PM
71

And to think this was made out to be a heartwarming story...hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:23 PM
10

Women hate other women with higher standards because that makes them regret their own decision of not choosing better and they don’t want you to have a HVM when they don’t have one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:39 PM
17

Men who try to one-up women really just emasculate themselves. They’re such bitchy drama queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:37 AM
3

Thanks a lot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:38 PM
8

Any recommendations on what breeds are best for protecting us? I’m a small woman so I was thinking of getting a dog that’s large but also fast. Also should we start with a puppy and train them (if so, how?) or get a dog that’s already trained?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:13 PM
73

His youngest child, Kal-El Cage, is 15. But their age gap is still gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:26 AM
18

Not to mention that any straight guy can pretend to be gay to get in and prey on the women there. I swear that some gay guys want to be women so bad but still want that male privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:10 AM
25

As a child free woman who already deals with chronic (undiagnosed) illness and mental health issues, this scares the crap out of me. Lately I’ve been leaning closer to deciding to stop wanting a relationship at all, and I’m even more determined to stand my ground on being child free. I will not be physically and mentally tortured for the rest of my life for anyone; being a mother is not fucking worth any of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:35 AM
35

This should be considered emotional incest. One time, when my Mom became the sole breadwinner of our family but could only come back from work during the weekend, my Dad beat me for not making dinner to his satisfaction. I was 12. Somehow he didn’t blame my older brother for not cooking at all and HE was the parent so he should have been the one cooking for ME. My Mom is a strong woman but she’s still a huge Pickme as she excuses his abuse towards me with his mental illness. But I’ve been mental…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:26 AM
52

Great point. I didn’t catch that and honestly I wasn’t able to follow his car analogy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:18 AM
8

I might add that if you talk to a potential rapist (i.e. any man) to audio record every. single. interaction and phone call. I have an iPhone so I turn on the Voice Memo feature every time I go out so that if anything happens or if anyone says anything incriminating to me, I won’t even have to take my phone out to record it. The sound is great and even if you have it in your pocket you can hear the recording very clearly. I use this to record my doctors’ appointments and therapy appointments, to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:05 AM
3

If he can afford to pay the bills then he can afford some fucking flowers...unless he doesn’t mind another man buying them for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:50 PM
2

Same. I don’t like body hair on a man nor on myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:10 PM
10

So being 30 would get a man to back off but not being a minor...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:11 PM
8

I can’t upvote this enough. I get fetishized by East Asian men for my White side and grew up being treated like a trophy and a zoo animal by East Asian adults and it’s really gross. I did not know about the Avril Lavigne thing lol but it’s not surprising now that I think about it. Super pale and blonde is their ideal. I’ve also heard of some stories of East Asian men with mixed East Asian/White girlfriends trying to pass them off as White and deny their Asian side. It’s like they’re ashamed of d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:30 PM
7

WTF makes men think that negging would ever work? And why tf do they date women who they know they don’t want (I think I already know this, men can’t handle being alone)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:17 PM
7

And have the tables turned on them by other men, because they don’t see it as harmful to them unless another man does it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:49 PM
9

Exactly what I was thinking. That age gap with an 18 year-old was the first huge red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:48 PM
10

Every surname comes from a man. This patriarchal tradition is why I have trouble tracing my maternal line and why it would also be pointless to take my mother’s maiden name because even that came from a man (i.e. her father). I just started the process of changing my name a month ago, and I decided to change my last name to a woman’s first name. I don’t want kids, but if I had any, then they would definitely have my last name, especially my daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:02 PM
47

Then why don’t more women murder their husbands/ex-husbands?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:51 PM
11

As scrotes love to say, he should have chosen better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:43 PM
6

Yet they shame us for our periods even when we don’t even show it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:06 PM
32

So, she’s been proposed to a shitload of times, which means she’s highly desirable by multiple men who wanted to commit to her and this guy’s salty about that? Imagine the hit to his ego when a woman that desirable says that he’s useless 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:31 PM
30

Use those dangerous skin bleaching products that WOC have been pressured into using for decades and masturbate using skin bleaching lotion instead of Vaseline. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:06 AM
48

Petition for men to bleach their dicks and balls /s. Can’t have their dick and balls being darker than the rest of their body; that’s just gross. I always preferred dicks that matched the rest of the guy’s complexion. Seriously, though, men with dicks that matched the rest of their body always looked more appealing in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:48 AM
40

Good catch. Really only men are that obsessed with women that they would pretend to be one of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:33 PM
16

Wow I never thought of this. It makes so much sense. Saving this comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:20 PM
10

Same. If I need to wear a belt to hang out with a man, then I would avoid ever having to be around him in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:02 AM
10

Why can’t they just be straightforward and cOmMuNiCaTe???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:06 PM
5

If they’re insecure about it then they’re not high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:58 PM
8

You definitely have a point. I will say, though, that as a 5’0” woman the men who have been violent towards me tend to also be super short and closer to my height, like 5’6” max. So I’m more afraid of short dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:54 PM
1

TLDR: Growing up around different races as a mixed woman has made me wary of men of all races and hesitant to be in an interracial relationship, which makes dating extra difficult because there are already barley other men of my mix within my age range who are also HV, compatible, and attractive. I’m mixed White/Asian and I grew up around a lot of POC of different races in the U.S. as well as lots of Asians from Asia. Some people nice I look stereotypically Hispanic while others think I look jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:47 PM
30

So it’s like thinking a mediocre meal is the most amazing thing you’ve ever tasted only because you’ve been starving for too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:16 PM
36

Men are “sexually compatible” with any woman they want to have sex with, which is pretty much all women he lays eyes on. For women, sexual compatibility is based on feeling safe and respected by the man, matching libidos, the man’s size, attractiveness, lack of STIs, and-for me-being snipped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:05 PM
26

If she could snag a 60 year old who is insanely rich, who also has a great personality and is in great shape, then she’s definitely a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 11:53 PM
72

The fact that this is so common proves that men are not worth our trust. None of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 01:35 AM
55

These kinds of women are so bitter and evil, like they want every other woman to experience the same pain they felt as a “rite of passage” of some sort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:41 AM
17

No, you shouldn’t try to change that about yourself. That only benefits the predatory performative male “feminists.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:47 PM
3

I have almost never been catcalled before and I used to think it was because of a combination of being very small and dressing modestly, but seeing so many women ITT who were also petite and looked younger than they were and STILL got regularly harassed by grown men showed me I was wrong. I was fetishized a lot growing up but I guess catcalling from men was sth I never had to worry about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:46 PM
7

Ehh I think it’s too late for this scrotelet. He’ll just find a LVW who will take his shit and pamper him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:11 AM
15

Or they’ll just insert a different narrative in their head to ease what little conscience they have. They’ll brainwash themselves into either “not remembering” what they did, doing something completely different, or believing that what they did was excusable. And even if they happen to remember everything they did to women, that will not stop them from repeating their actions. And their acknowledgment at their deathbed won’t do shot for women because they get to die without being punished for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:50 PM
9

This is what we mean when we say Men Are Trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:10 PM
13

I still expect real sex to be like those steamy scenes on TV. Am I wrong to think that good sex can only be like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:45 PM
48

I bet all the men on that show are, but thankfully I always found that show off-putting so I barely ever watched it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:31 AM
136

Ugh this looks like me and the man-child who molested me as a teen, except he looks and acts even more disgusting than Peter Griffin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:42 AM
10

I’d have to say that the bit about asking foreign White women if they’re “open” or Russian is also a Chinese thing. I haven’t experienced this myself in China as I was just a kid, but plenty of White women have discussed this regarding their experience in China.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:46 PM
9

If a man does not respect bisexual women then he most likely does not respect other aspects of you, either. This is more for weeding out/vetting a man within the first few months of knowing them. You don’t want a relationship with a man from whom you have to hide in order for him to respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:25 AM
6

When I was 5 I was sexually harassed all day by a 6 year old and a 7 year old, the 7 year old being by my brother. The fact that so many little boys pull this shit means that being a sex offender is innate in males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:09 PM
15

And a woman he (wanted to) HAD SEX WITH! These scrotes are sexualizing their own daughters for the rest of their fucking lives. Very time they call out their daughter’s name or think of their daughter they think of women they wanted to fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:24 PM
34

And a woman he (wanted to) HAD SEX WITH! These scrotes are sexualizing their own daughters for the rest of their fucking lives. Very time they call out their daughter’s name or think of their daughter they think of women they wanted to fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:23 PM
11

If he’s the one who invited them over for dinner then HE’S the one who should have prepared the meal/dessert and tidied up the house. And do the dishes afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:59 AM
11

TIL looking early 20s is now considered aging and we’re supposed to look like teenagers until we’re 50. And I also see many IG posts on how Selena Gomez “hasn’t aged!!!” Like WTF is she supposed to? She’s still only 28!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:54 PM
18

I’ve noticed that LVMs love to call good-looking men effeminate. They get so catty LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:27 PM
5

Men who are good in men don’t tell you that they’re good in bed or brag about their sex lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:14 PM
8

Definitely not. She divorced him over this. Edit: And I agree they do seem like those hippy, zen, Earth-lovers lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 11:15 PM
28

Too bad he serially cheated on his ex-wife Lisa Bonet. They were perfect for each other and he really fucked that up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:09 PM
4

That’s amazing and you’re amazing! Happy Birthday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:06 PM
19

But let gay men stare at them the same way they stare at women. It’s a male-dominated space, after all. There’s bound to be some gay men there and that’s just how their brains work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:59 AM
25

When a woman does something bad, no one says, “that’s not a woman; that’s a girl.” Keep that same energy for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:53 AM
28

Completely agree. A sexually violent lil ass boy is a full on sex offender who’s completely responsible for his own actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:50 AM
8

😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:21 PM
38

I take it a step further since I’m child free: Vasectomy or no sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:55 PM
3

Why the FUCK is it ever okay for a boy to abuse a girl if he DOES like her? Liking a girl doesn’t give the scrotelet the right to bully her. So if she “likes” him back, can he get the shit beaten out of him? EDA: As if being liked by a boy is the ultimate compliment/advantage that trumps personal safety and boundaries. As if this is what we’re supposed to want the most. This is what’s teaching girls and women to accept abuse from men who love/“love” them. Holy shit if I ever have a daughter, she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:20 PM
3

Please DM me, too,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:07 AM
9

I’m glad things appear to have worked out for Michelle. But if it were me, I would not have given Barrack another chance if he was not willing to commit initially. He’d have to go through therapy before even thinking about courting me. The truth is that Michelle made Barrack a HVM. Usually building a man doesn’t work out so I wouldn’t have taken that risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:37 PM
106

Aaannnd now I’ll never go to Ireland.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:07 PM
5

Yeah I’m not so suspicious. I do wish to be more intimidating, though lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:29 PM
5

I’ve heard people say this about me behind my back, as well, so I’m pretty sure they meant it lol. Maybe this is wishful thinking but it might make people more likely to help me, while making some others more likely to bully, harass, or prey on me. People will do whatever they can get away with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:28 PM
28

Aaww fuck so many people-although more women-have commented that I’m really sweet when I honestly never even particularly try to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:31 AM
4

Said every mother ever. The best chance to not raise a son who preys on women is for him to turn out to be gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:56 AM
47

These hoes only go for Chads when I’m such a nIcE gUy, as if hot men can’t also be nice. They’re actually way less likely to be bitter or to neg you lot of their own insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:18 PM
17

It’s INSANE how far men will go and how much effort they will put into a facade in order to get in a woman’s pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:49 PM
51

And she makes more money than him so if anything HE’S the one who has to cook and clean lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:36 PM
7

Or they think being “fake deep” will get me to fall in love with them, and they think getting me to fall in love with them will get me to have sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:03 AM
6

Woah you dodged a bullet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:00 AM
31

When a man does this, I assume he’s lying about his trauma because he thinks that “opening up” and/or getting me to open up would get them inside my pants. Men have tried to groom me with this tactic before. I did trust them, but it didn’t get me to want to have sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:14 PM
38

It’s their fault for choosing gold diggers in the first place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:13 AM
66

I won’t say your boyfriend is not HV but that’s just men wanting what they can’t have (as much) and it’s characteristic of all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:18 PM
180

He thinks she’s faking it probably because that’s what HE would do to get away from his responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:12 AM
1

I wished that I could take my mother’s surname so that it would be easier to trace our maternal lineage. But then again, my mother has her father’s surname, and my mother’s mother (and so on) has her father last name, as well. Every woman’s maiden name still belongs to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:46 PM
2

The gunmen should have...I’m not gonna say it but you all know what I mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:25 PM
4

Those “unclear” sexual situations that the OP gave as examples are CLEARLY rape!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:01 PM
10

That would be weird. If you have a trusted male acquaintance who is close enough with both you and your son then maybe you can ask him to share this with your son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:15 PM
2

So that’s why men don’t wipe their asses properly and leave shit stains on their underwear? Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:02 PM
25

What do you think makes Bavaria, Germany safer compared to the rest of the world?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:29 PM
9

I don’t want a man who has no intrinsic motivation to be successful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:45 PM
4

“I’m so nice, you fucking bitch!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:32 PM
34

This guy’s basically telling us to abort men. I’m not saying he’s wrong, but that is what he’s telling us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:15 PM
2

My Mom excuses my Dad’s abuse against me because of his mental illness. She doesn’t love him, doesn’t like him, knows he doesn’t appreciate her, complains about him every other day, yet still comes up with excuses to keep him around when she’s been the sole breadwinner/head of household for over a decade. She thinks “no means yes” when it comes to women turning down men’s advances. She held me partially responsible for my sexual abuse and she put me in environments that she knew and should have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:58 AM
2

He’s too damn fat and ugly to get away with this, too, not that I’d still tolerate it from a hot guy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:35 PM
14

As a tomboy, I 100% agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:19 AM
27

Oh I don’t watch that show, but damn. That’s insane! How tall was Amber? Edit: I just looked it up and she’s only 5’2. If she were like 5’11”+ then I’d be a little more understanding of the hype around a 6’9” dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:03 PM
77

Why do so many women put extremely tall men on a pedestal? And who needs a man that tall, anyway (other than maybe tall women)? I understand wanting a guy who’s at least noticeably/easily taller than them, but there’s absolutely no need to fucking worship them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:51 PM
130

This is beyond being a Pickme. She’s an honorary scrote now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:06 PM
8

I wonder why the women would think that were after their men. I’m inclined to believe that only men act nice if they want sex and women would treat anybody nicely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:19 AM
36

THIS. It’s all projection and wishful thinking. I’m sure plenty of male employees in retail/customer service are just as friendly towards them but they never think those men want to fuck them. They really cannot imagine people being genuinely nice without the ulterior motive for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:16 AM
43

Men are literal parasites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:50 PM
6

Sure but it shouldn’t have taken him so many years to realize that his wife was suffering and he could have easily relieved that suffering without harming himself in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 09:39 PM
31

If he was really HV, then he would have never put his wife through that in the first place, let alone for 15 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:18 PM
34

I’m a 23 year-old virgin who has never been in a relationship and I’m SO relieved that I’ve never bothered with any men at all. I still struggle with feeling like I’m in a hurry to start a career and make a living, though. I graduated last year and haven’t worked since and I don’t even know if I should or want to go to grad school or if I could even get in 😢.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:16 PM
3

I completely agree that short men get rejected through self-sabotage, and also agree that women can reject a man for any reason or even seemingly no reason at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 01:24 AM
54

I guess it’s really good that OP gained the weight, then, otherwise she may have gotten more attached before seeing the scrote for the trash he is. Imagine how he would have treated her if they started a family together and she gained normal pregnancy weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:24 PM
8

Completely agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:14 PM
43

Don’t know why you’re being downvoted. Women forcing themselves to find a man attractive when they normally wouldn’t seems to be a pretty widespread problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:51 AM
32

Men are so pathetically petty lmao. If a woman is funny, then she’s funny they don’t have to make it that deep lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:45 AM
10

Imagine working your ass off to become a lawyer to still be a pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:18 AM
44

Also don’t tell him that you don’t like being referred to like that. Otherwise he might treat you decently in front of you only to fetishize you behind your back to his friends. A HVM would not need to be taught how to respect WOC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:11 PM
22

She can instantly lose 190 lbs of scrote trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:35 PM
1

Thank you so much! I’ll be looking into that, too :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:40 AM
2

Unfortunately, I was molested in a martial arts school so even the thought of practicing martial arts/self-defense is triggering for me and I don’t feel safe learning it form anyone, but I have always wanted to get back into it. And Krav Maga would be a different style from the one I was molested with. Does anyone happen to know any online sources for self-learning Krav Maga or any other kind of self-defense/martial arts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:26 AM
-15

Okay but why adopt a son rather than a daughter? I’m still happy for Sia but even boys with great mothers still end up being misogynists and predators. Edit: Looks like I hit a nerve with a lot of women who become total Pickmeishas when it comes to their sons, including a mod who just banned me lol. It’s common sense that foster girls are way more vulnerable than foster boys, so saving a girl from the foster system would have made way more sense for Sia, anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:59 PM
2

This is awesome advice but I really hope her husband does not know about this Twitter account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:56 PM
8

Find me a bunch of man-hating “monsters” who have asked for CP. I’ll wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:21 PM
137

If they have to learn this then they have never respected women to begin with nor will they ever genuinely respect women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:02 PM
8

So it’s as if he was doomed to fail and crumble from the very beginning. Justice is delicious. Treat yourself and celebrate, girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:38 AM
22

I still don’t believe in karma but I’m very happy for you! That feeling must be awesome and I can’t wait to experience the same feeling towards all the people who have wronged me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:23 AM
2

She’s given up and is now telling herself this bullshit in an attempt to protect the last bit of sanity she thinks she has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:05 PM
98

She’s absolutely gorgeous in both photos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:00 PM
381

So she’s still planning on getting married to him???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:50 PM
19

A grown man calling himself “lilbaby” is just looking for a mom that he could fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:13 PM
0

Okay but what’s the point of the comparison, though? You’re the one reading too much into my first reply lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:46 PM
-1

What was the point in your OP comment, then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:47 PM
6

That’s setting the bar pretty low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:56 PM
29

bUt MgToWs ArE nOt InCeLs!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:34 PM
376

And scrotes say that we’re the female version of incels. Find me a woman on this sub-or anywhere-who thinks this way about men or underage boys. I’ll wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:02 PM
11

Performative advocacy for women that turned out to ironically be misogynistic. Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:12 AM
1

Nope, plenty of middle class ugly men get with middle class women who are more attractive than they are. Ugly men want women for their attractiveness but expect attractive women to be swooned by their “personality.” And the use of the term, “divorce rape,” proves that actual rape is not a concern for men as it is for women. Go ask men if they would rather get fucked over in a divorce settlement or get raped by another man and let me know what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:23 AM
4

they have the power and privilege to demand more attractive sex partners and so they do. Then why is it that an ugly man can get a girlfriend/wife who is noticeably more attractive than he is but an ugly woman cannot get a boyfriend/husband who is more attractive and only get used for sex? It is totally and completely unearned and arises out of biology and nothing else. If it arises out of nothing but biology then there’s no point in dwelling on it. If you want less attractive women to not get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:33 AM
8

So you agree that women have standards. And you say that as if it’s unfair that women want attractive men and not you. Women, just like men, get more out of sex from an attractive partner than an unattractive one. Men get aroused too easily. For women to get aroused, we need the man to be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:15 AM
1

Yeah, but don’t men use such women as placeholders for the women that they actually prefer more?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:26 PM
3

Saying that women can get laid easier than men, and that they don't need to be good-looking in order to get laid left and right, seems to light up firecrackers up their behinds. Any idea why is that? This is because being more likely to get laid is not the result of privilege for women as it would be for men. Men are far more dangerous to women than vice versa so a man whom we don’t want wanting to have sex with us poses a far greater threat to our safety. Women also want to be valued for more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:24 PM
23

He just admitted that most men have no basic life skills and can’t do shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:09 AM
4

Women are far more rational than men, which makes us more intelligent. They really do think with their dicks, which makes them very dangerous to women but also very easy to manipulate if we learn how. And they know this. Also, due to toxic masculinity, men are stuck having to constantly prove their manhood to one another whereas we women do not need to prove that we’re women. Their definition of being a man is being better than women, and that’s why they go through great measures to keep us bene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:58 AM
5

Men can’t make up their fucking minds. They don’t want us to need them but they don’t want us to not need them, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:09 AM
11

Asshole is an understatement. This self-absorbed piece of shit is absolute scum of the Earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:44 AM
3

Crabs-in-a-barrel mentality and/or they prefer to be in denial about their sad situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 09:30 PM
13

I bet the boyfriend is already sharing himself with other women lmao. Even Pickmeishas deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:36 PM
13

I HATE men holding women and children like that, with his hand on her neck as if she’s cattle or his fucking property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:34 PM
80

That’s a good shift in thinking, so how exactly do we make ourselves difficult for abusers to love without getting killed? I would think it’s to make them not want us in the first place. But then again, an abusive man who doesn’t want a woman would still feel entitled to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 09:56 PM
92

Restaurants are shut down.. Y’all gon wish you picked a girl that can cook knew how to cook. Fixed that for her. What fucking grown ass man can’t cook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 09:53 PM
10

You’re so insecure that you have the bare-minimum standards! Any scrote who shames you for being cautious is EXACTLY the kind who is violent against women and the VERY reason why you should be cautious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:11 AM
42

He’s got that beanie to hide his inflated bald head, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:17 PM
8

But then when they do find a female pedophile they would say shit like, “lucky kid,” or “I wish a grown woman raped me as a kid” and shit on boys who didn’t like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:53 PM
18

This can absolutely be unlearned, No it cannot, not after this point. I hate to say it, but the depravity is already set in those boys’ psyche. Maybe this could have been fixed if the boys were <10 years old and did not really know what they were saying, but by their teens (I’m assuming they’re teens since they were taking an economics class) this severe degree of misogyny/misogynoir has been set. At most, people can make them censor themselves and stop bullying the Black girl on the surface, bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 06:39 AM
2

I completely agree with everything you said. So would a more honest guy have a social media that is active enough to be posting regularly (but not necessarily very often) AND let me know about that social media account? My main concern is online safety (e.g. not being internet-stalked) and not being paraded like a shiny object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:59 PM
0

What do you mean? Not a very helpful response... EDA: My OP comment was not a rhetorical question. I wasn’t in anyway defending “private” men who may not truly value me. I genuinely want to know how to vet men without compromising my own boundaries for privacy. I don’t see how that makes me an “At-Risk Pick Me Youth.” I’m here to ask for dating strategies, which, namely, is exactly what this sub is supposedly for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:42 PM
1

Obviously, a man should still let everyone he knows that he’s dating me. But what if I’m also a very private person who doesn’t do social media, don’t want to be discovered online, and hates being shown off like a status symbol? I assume that I prefer men who are also very private. So how would I vet them, then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:08 PM
3

But no where near as good as Gwen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:56 AM
7

She’s very respectfully disagreeing with this post. She’s providing her perspective and experiences without asking for you to feel the same as she does. You’re the one taking it personally with your little “feefees.” Quit being a little bitch. And u/Rachel-Lioness, no one should get to bully you out of this sub, and I hope the mods take action against the people ITT who are being disrespectful directly towards others, but if you still decide to leave for a space where you’re not invalidated, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:19 AM
15

While I agree porn and men have skewed our perception of sexuality, there’s no need for some of the women ITT to be a bitch to those who actually still describe themselves as demisexual and say they find the label really helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:11 AM
2

I have always been most afraid of settling, but I saved this post anyway in case I need to quote this for anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:53 AM
16

This is why men are the ones who need to prove themselves to women and not the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 01:10 PM
24

Looking your age and aging at a natural pace is not hitting the wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:16 PM
23

At least he acknowledges that the problem is him and not his GF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:39 AM
3

I most likely won’t get an orgasm from most fuckboys, anyway, so I’ll stay entertaining myself lol. And I’m sure there are attractive HVM out there, they are hard to find but I’m not giving up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:45 PM
7

If HVM don’t exist, then I’m staying a single virgin forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:10 PM
9

Thank goodness the daughters inherited the mother’s looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:31 PM
2

Still never get them from men who wanna fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 04:57 PM
1

And don’t take drugs at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:21 AM
5

u/trouble_ u/lightningboltx These women put up a HVW persona because that sells, but their actions are actually more influential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:23 PM
27

bUt He WaS hAcKeD, tHo!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:46 PM
29

Why the fuck do women even do this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:32 PM
19

I'm not surprised at all. Offset was cheating on her when they were still engaged and she STILL went on to marry him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:31 PM
16

I can only be soft and "submissive" to a reliable man whom I feel safe with. I have never been soft nor submissive before...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 10:54 PM
12

You know your boyfriend better than we do. If there are no red flags then I wouldn't worry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 12:41 AM
13

Yeah, men need women more than we need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 02:18 PM
6

She could be a 29 yr.old and look curvy as fuck for all I care. That’s his fucking DAUGHTER. No father should jerk off to his own DAUGHTER at any fucking age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 04:51 AM
2

Abstaining from alcohol altogether just makes life so much more convenient. As someone who has never had alcohol before, there are a lot of things that I don’t have to worry about nearly as much as I otherwise would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:46 AM
10

It’s not just about physical health, either. Just being proactive in taking taking care of himself is the bare minimum of being a grown ass man (as it is for women). If he won’t take care of himself, then he won’t take care of you, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:33 AM
12

I'm not any man's daddy so I shouldn't be teaching him how to treat a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 09:45 PM
16

Part of me hoped she would call my bluff, that she would return I don't think I have the guts to even contact her if I could. So he's mad that she wouldn't go back to him but he won't reach out and go back to her? LMAO Glad she's not gonna waste her young adulthood on such a tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 09:28 PM
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