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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Hot Take on Friends’ Boyfriends’ Parents??? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/03/20 07:46 PM |
| 3 | An MRP Mod makes a discipleHe will def know it's me. I've been talking about red pill for myself. | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | An MRP Mod makes a discipleMore specifically how do I do that without making my husband feel bad. Lol | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/20 07:12 PM |
| 2 | An MRP Mod makes a discipleOmg yeah. So I really want to share some of his posts with my husband...how do I do that. | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/20 05:17 PM |
| 6 | High Maintenance, but on a budgetNot necessarily true. There are many brands that do not carcinogenic chemicals like Tarte, bare minerals, etc. Also if you have proper occlusives from your skincare routine, the makeup should not penetrate the skin. Makeup will not do a toll on your face like alcohol, sugar, and smoking will. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/20 09:24 PM |
| 4 | High Maintenance, but on a budgetI do not think your skincare routine is excessive. You know what you want and what works and you can budget for that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/20 09:22 PM |
| 4 | High Maintenance, but on a budgetPoshmark!!! Sell and buy!! I sell alot of my clothes on their since I have alot of name brand. I currently have a $70 balance on their and can cash that out or buy clothes on the app. I recommend creating a look book of clothes you must have and the ones that are missing from that , only stick to purchasing those. If not you'll be impulsive which can cause you to buy more because you can't wear black shoes with that brown jumper you just bought, it's going to prompt you to buy more. Stick to you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/20 09:20 PM |
| 10 | High Maintenance, but on a budgetIs this real life? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/20 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Advice on Dealing With Insecurity About Being Attractive?Nothing made me embrace my feminine energy more than motherhood (not saying the solution is having children), but think about your mind, body, and how it was created to bear life, in all aspects of your life not just physical. We have had periods since we were in early middle school. Months and months of shedding and forgotten reminders of our capabilities. Once i carried my child in my womb I thought to myself, "do I even love this thing inside of me?" "am I capable of loving this human inside … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/20 12:04 PM |
| 3 | Are women allowed to post?Yes yes. Thank you so much for your encouraging response. I think alot of my reasoning in posting in this sub is looking for the strength and encouragement to keep going as I have had many seasons of praising him and seeing him with a lens of gratitude. I really do. It gets hard and very lonely and as I expressed, I feel at a lull. But I haven't given up. It would be great to have a community of women who praised their husbands and were pleased to serve them. In every church community I've been … | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/20 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Are women allowed to post?Thank you I needed to hear this...also we don't have a Christian red pill women sub. There is a stark difference between the elite 1960's social club at r/redpillwomen than living a Christian Life. They advocate for whatever the flesh desires and tie it up with a bow and an apron. I.e. "open relationships." Etc. | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/20 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Are women allowed to post?I wish. I did but stopped recently. He hasn't for well over a year. | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/20 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Are women allowed to post?I appreciate the compassion in your post. I do believe it is an emotional root and it is covered. There was a big stress from a job that emasculated him. He just ended that job after 7 years and is now entering a new one next week!! Praise God I am eagerly waiting to see if that helps. But the emotion is definitely a root that is hard to uncover. I do suspect he is depressed. He has alot of physical issues that only seem to manifest on days like Sunday (day before work) or leading up to a stress… | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/20 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Are women allowed to post?I don't think we will be divorced. | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/20 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Are women allowed to post?Yeah I have suggested it. He does not want to divorce. I am really trying to get the idea in his head that it might be a good option for us. I wouldn't call him a loser, I love him. I want him to be better. I also want to accept him for his faults. That is a fault of mine. :( | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/20 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Are women allowed to post?Ok same | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/20 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Are women allowed to post?I am a part of that sub along with r/redpillwives. I want a man's perspective. | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/20 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Struggling with jealousy of a new friendThank you! For some reason my phone showed me a notification that you commented but I was unable to see it until this morning. I am welcome to all of the above, that's why I'm here, so thank you. I guess I do struggle with working on my insecurities the most. I really do not know how to progress from this state of feeling "less than." Especially in my marriage. It would be worth having a conversation with him, but he is really weak in the area of affirmation, he's also expressed to me that he do… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with jealousy of a new friendInteresting! Can't wait to check it out. Thanks | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/20 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with jealousy of a new friendHuh. What resources do you have on the subject?? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/20 03:59 AM |
| 6 | Struggling with jealousy of a new friendAgree with all of what you are saying. I am not 100% happy with my life. I feel like a lot of what I am doing as a wife and mom is often not appreciated. I feel like my husband moreso appreciates worldly women too. He loves characters in movies that potray exactly that: confidence, attractiveness, successful business prowess and independence. I am not happy because I feel like I am living a life of serventude and not one of partnership. Feel like i'm paying for the mistakes of entering this marr… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/20 02:32 AM |
| 2 | What is being submissive to you? I’m loving to read the threads here but it’s all so philosophical! What is a practical everyday example of submission? Thank you!Reasonably yes. We have been married long enough that my husband knows my desires | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/20 12:00 AM |
| 4 | What is being submissive to you? I’m loving to read the threads here but it’s all so philosophical! What is a practical everyday example of submission? Thank you!Husband saying he no longer desires to watch something or do something with me, me respecting his "no" and not trying to convince him out of my own desire. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Identity Crisis 2020You have to drown out the negativity from others. Because they will make you feel resentful toward your husband if they are the only ones you can vent to in an emotional time for you. Find one good friend who will not rag on you but build you up in your goals. Even me in a conservative christian community finds it hard to find women who won't rag on my husband. I have one best friend who constantly builds me up even if my husband is being lazy, etc. She gives me motivation to keep treating him w… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/02/20 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Mini Update on Trying again with Ex-husbandHoping and praying your marriage is restored!!! Sounds like he's receptive!! Also, don't think because you have had a break and a change in believes that you can't revert back to old behavior. You might. It's your default. Tell him you'd be willing to go to therapy with him to continue on your streak! All marriages are hard and usually the worst behavior is brought out behind closed doors. Just wouldn't want you to be blind sided again if you do get back together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/20 10:07 PM |
| 9 | Mini Update on Trying again with Ex-husbandI would just be 100% honest with him. Guys want straight up honesty. They cannot read our minds and usually when they tell us something, they tell it how it is. If he asks if you are you dating, that's when you say, "I really want to long term commitment. I really desire that for my life. And I want things to workout between us. I continue to talk to guys on the dating app because I am not very hopeful of us working out, I know I've screwed up alot in the past and I don't expect you to take me b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Mini Update on Trying again with Ex-husbandYes beer | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?We do live close to both of our parents. I am involved in a church..workimg on building those relationships but haven't gotten to a place where I feel like I could ask anyone for help. I feel like that's just the fast paced culture of living in South Florida. And I hear you on the last part. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?Thank you. That is essentially why I am on RPW, to be emersed in a culture of being sweet to my husband even when it's hard. Would you have any words of advice for my unique situation of needing extra help? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?I see what you mean. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?Of course. I don't think it's a sin that he helps me around the house. Unfortunately he isn't willing to assist me and lay down his life for me. And unfortunately he hasn't been to church with me for one year now. So we have not been very involved with couples in the church or getting familiar with older couples. I wish we did. The only seasoned Christian couple I know a little more closely and admire are his parents and I actually had a heart to heart with his mom about everything before the ho… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?Thanks, I love him. I don't want to attack him. I haven't been perfect in the past, but I really just need basic help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 08:35 PM |
| 6 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?Idk if this was very benefial at all, but I asked him to stay with his parents for one week starting tonight so I could think about my needs and clearly list them to him when he comes back. (I spent the night at my mom's with my daughter last night since im so sick with the flu). | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 07:38 PM |
| 9 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?I appreciate your response and I think it help to explain it in those terms. Splitting the male and female roles. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?Ok. I agree with all of your points...but what can I do? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/20 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?I keep hearing that same theme. I am really going to invest in looking to make it work. Even if it's once a month, it's something I can look forward to and hopefully my husband can compromise with giving me the time I need once a month too! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/20 06:03 PM |
| 10 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?Yeah so his mom worked full time with three kids. (She also got her master's degree in the midst of it that might have been when she only had one.) She is OCD and when I asked her how she did it all with three kids she told me that she's "addicted to adrenaline." So I feel like that's my husbands subconscious standard of me. She's nearing 60 and she still works full-time like a crazy lady, just recently stepped down from a directors position at an IT department. I don't think she'll stop working… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/20 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband?Yes, I have been thinking about this for a while now and proposed the idea to him a few times met with him not wanting to hire a housekeeper. I actually just need to sit down and take money out of my personal budget to make it happen because I'm desperate. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/02/20 05:22 PM |
| 1 | What are the best books you've found for weeding out your own victim mentality and codependency from the root up?Love your initiative to be better! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | What are the best books you've found for weeding out your own victim mentality and codependency from the root up?Love your initiative to be better! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Is there a gentle way to recommend to a good friend that she might try channeling her feminine energy through dress & fitness?I absolutely love that! & it sounds like something I would already do. We briefly texted about the topic of insecurities, but i am excited to have coffee with her tomorrow and dive in a little bit deeper. I think it's perfect timing as her wedding is not until May and we are really starting to buckle down and will be spending a lot of time coming up! I was also thinking of taking her to a burlesque show, she loves art history & theater, and I noticed burlesque is a great way to exemplify how any… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/20 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Is there a gentle way to recommend to a good friend that she might try channeling her feminine energy through dress & fitness?This is a great reply and you touched great points. I do like the personal approach and tend to "lower" myself down so to speak by being vunerable about my own experience. And you're absolutely right it has become more tricky to navigate the conversation in light of the body positivity movement. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/20 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Marriage after baby.... HelpYou have a very unique situation that I have not experienced. But you are still early in the game. 6 months. At 9 months I started to experience relief as I can guarantee she sleeps through the night every night. My life has felt a little back to normal since then. One day at a time. Just look at today and know that this time will pass and once she becomes more independent you yourself will have more freedoms. Also I have experienced the most ease with everything my last month as I started an SS… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/01/20 06:35 PM |
| – | Self CareI love pedicures. Thrift/consignment shopping. Dreaming about home decor. Reading a book in my living room, overlooking our lake. Sitting on the patio, no electronics, overlooking the lake- getting sunshine. Having a night with my bestfriend drinking craft beer. Making coffee on the weekends, really enjoying the process. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Wanted to share with you ladies how beneficial eyelash lifts are, IMO they rival getting eyelash extensions.Personally love the natural eye for everyday versus the lash lift. My husband agrees. I curl my lashes with a lash curl every morning as part of my routine. Even without mascara it makes a slight nice difference. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Any recommendations for flirty nightwear/loungewear?Amazing! Thank you. Ethically made is the firstmost important to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Christmas showed me how much my marriage needed RPWYes 100% | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Hello ladies, what routines do you think will help in aging well?What collagen do you recommend? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/19 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Any recommendations for flirty nightwear/loungewear?That's very cute!!! Thank you for the rec | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/12/19 10:52 PM |
| 101 | Christmas showed me how much my marriage needed RPWYou are absolutely right! Traditional values are wonderful and work very well for a marriage. After Christmas with the family this morning my husband just said, "I'm tired, I could fall asleep right now." In the past I would have discouraged him from this for selfish reasons, but after motivation from this sub I said to him, "go take a nap babe, you deserve it, I'll take care of the baby." He was like, "really?" I want to continue this behavior to encourage him to be at ease, to help him be the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/12/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How to dress feminine when you have a masculine figure.I would say I have a Kate Hudson Body Type. This is great advice thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How to dress feminine when you have a masculine figure.Thanks for this. It's no surprise that I played basketball and volleyball in Highschool. My husband does say he loves my shoulders and prefers them over narrow shoulders. My point is it's VERY hard to dress feminine for this body type. Most clothing models have very symmetrical proportions. But I will follow some of these fitness models and maybe get some inspo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/19 07:40 PM |
| 8 | Any advice on how to be married to a Beta Husband?On what basis do you have to say I sound aweful? I am trying to learn how to live with him. We clearly know the difference between beta and alpha and I acknowledge that my husband is beta and I was wondering if the sub has resources for this relationship dynamic. I am sincerely trying to live in peace and honor him knowing his downfalls. I hope this sub would have a resource or recommendation for my situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/19 01:35 AM |
| 4 | How to dress feminine when you have a masculine figure.I have a Gamine Kibbe type. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/19 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Do any of you worry about the future of male and female relationship?Ooof you're right. Another paradigm thing that I dont run into. Christianity also speaks about not depriving the other sexually so I guess that's a mutual thing we had going into marriage as well. That must suck. Sometimes there's times where I'm not in the mood to have sex, new mom i have every reason not to, but it just takes a little effort to get in that sexy mindset and switch gears. I think the rare exception is asexual, etc and yes it's important to discuss before marriage. I don't like t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/19 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Do any of you worry about the future of male and female relationship?I don't believe in sexually incompatible. If that was anyone it was my husband and I when we first got married. But four years later we have learned to communicate and have amazing sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/19 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you worry about the future of male and female relationship?I don't find issues like this in my paradigm. I believe it's because I started dating when I was apart of church culture. Most of my friends in church are married, had no problem finding a partner, dating, and getting married. I think this has to do with the culture we are in and the support the church has to offer couples with dating and counseling the relationships. Also accountability. There is accountability to remain faithful to a partner, for men to uphold male roles of leadership, headshi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/19 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Do any of you worry about the future of male and female relationship?Smart | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/19 05:05 PM |
| 10 | Do any of you worry about the future of male and female relationship?Sad thing is there's alot of women who are down for a settle down lifestyle from the beginning, at church. My cousin is one great example of that. 25 year old virgin who has not even entered one serious relationship in her life because men out here fooling around too. She has alot of friends in the church like that too. But they get called, "prude" all the time. But prude is not a bad thing. Marriage is where sexuality should be cultivated, period. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/19 04:59 PM |
| 12 | Would he rather be with her?When he says he doesn't care about any of his exes, he means that he really doesn't care about any of his exes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/19 02:38 AM |
| 3 | The Consequences of PornographyAweh man. Wow that is alot and I am so so sorry to hear that. Must have been really painful to go through. :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/19 07:58 PM |
| 7 | The Consequences of PornographyI'm so sorry. How frequently did he watch porn throughout the week ?? One of my good friends is married to someone who watches it every single day even though he agrees it's not desirable, he is addicted. He has done counseling, N.A. ext, to no avail, yet still watches everyday. I fear something like this happening to their marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/19 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep yourself looking presentable?Let me know if it works for you!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/19 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Your Wife Is Not Your MissionHow do I share this with my husband gracefully, if at all? I am afraid this might crush him and come off as harsh criticism toward him. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/19 04:39 PM |
| 5 | How do you keep yourself looking presentable?What kinda of deodorant do you use? I have found more compliments from my husband by wearing ONLY Dove Fresh deodorant and no perfume. However the deodorant has a fragrance added. He thought I was wearing lotion or fragrance. No, it was my underarms. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 08:55 PM |
| 16 | I hate this regret so muchThere is a difference between someone who is promiscuous that sleeps around, and someone who had had sex with one or two partners in less mature phases of their lives. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | This is why Red Pill Women Exist. 22yr old female. "Made my first phone call, cheers to adulting."Correct, I don't know you, I'm sure you got to your point by multiple circumstances, but you are represent a generalization of a point I'm trying to make on the internet. Don't take it personally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 12:49 AM |
| 2 | This is why Red Pill Women Exist. 22yr old female. "Made my first phone call, cheers to adulting."Well I guess that is my point. RPW exists to acknowledge this and help people change. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 10:22 PM |
| -1 | This is why Red Pill Women Exist. 22yr old female. "Made my first phone call, cheers to adulting."OK, For one). Society is NOT teaching women basic skills to survive. If she could not call her doctors she would potentially not survive by mixing medications. Two). Anxiety is not something that "happens" to you. It is a learned behavior through negative learned neural connections. To have red pill theory is to ascend from this and get help through things like CBT. Three). She calls this adulting...I guess you could call calling your doctor an adult thing to do. As someone who has suffered inte… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 10:05 PM |
| 4 | How do you feel about men who watch porn/have addictions?It should make you buy clothes ethically. Its perfectly feasable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Best feminine and classy beauty/style tips?Where did you find all the information on clothing fabrics, etc? Source? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 05:05 PM |
| 9 | How do you feel about men who watch porn/have addictions?Yes. I will say that my husband also chooses not to watch porn. He doesn't like it and thinks it's wrong. He still does watch it occasionally though. It's not an easy switch. Which is why I say all men watch porn. They do to some degree or another. And I don't think it's something that will never not be apart of our lives in this technological era. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Affordable/DIY gift ideas for boyfriendThis is what I'm doing to by $100 worth of a gift for my husband. Currently we have Amazon prime, and we shop on it alot, we shop at Wholefoods too. If you sign up for an Amazon rewards C.C. they give you a free $100. The card is 5% cash back on all whole foods and Amazon purchases. Only do this if you are not in debt or working to pay off debt, and 100% responsible with finances. If you get this card and do not make payments it will screw your financial situation thus "lowering value." If the s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 06:37 PM |
| 16 | How do you feel about men who watch porn/have addictions?Here is a survey that asked 12,000 participants about their porn use. 96% of men said that they used porn. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/health-family/sex-survey/the-sex-survey-how-you-answered-the-porn-questions-1.2310018%3fmode=amp I guess your conclusion that couples watching it together makes sense as there is compromise in red pill theory. Although generally, I'd advise against it. But it's not a hard rule, just my opinion. That's why I'm posting my opinion … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 06:24 PM |
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