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DiscussionJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:53 PM
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Question For MenJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 02:18 PM
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DiscussionJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 09:15 AM
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DiscussionJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:32 PM
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J_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 09:47 AM
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Question For MenJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:55 PM
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Question For MenJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 01:39 PM
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J_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 12:45 PM
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Question For WomenJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:55 AM
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DiscussionJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 08:16 AM
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DiscussionJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 07:36 AM
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DiscussionJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 07:04 AM
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Question For WomenJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:43 AM
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DiscussionJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:13 PM
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CMVJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 09:22 AM
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Q4AllJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:35 AM
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Question for AllJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 11:14 AM
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J_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:49 AM
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J_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:03 AM
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Question For WomenJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:38 AM
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Question for AllJ_Milton_Jr/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:31 PM
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Most men (who watch these videos) aren't models and they know that, they're normal guys, and that's why they want to see videos of normal looking guys they identify with. It's always about being relatable for your audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 09:05 AM
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Because attractive men get no / less negative feedback from women and therefore arent as likely to search for redpill content. Good-looking men have no problems with women, why would they question and investigate women's behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:45 AM
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But lately, it seems fewer men on this sub even like the idea of casual sex or dating sour grapes obviously ...incels can't have casual sex and therefor the "dOnT wAnT iT aNyWaY" the majority of men who are actually able to have and enjoy casual sex arent on this sub discussing it...and no, thats not just chad, thats all normal young men who arent weird like incels here who obsess over n count and shit also...foreigners
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 10:39 AM
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Most men (in western countries) don't ask for the N-Count number. Most women do not have to lie because most men simply do not ask. This idea of ​​universal justice that women who have had many partners stay alone and never marry is a revenge fantasy of sexless, frustrated men, nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 06:10 AM
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because they dont want to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 06:05 AM
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What do your strange hypothetical questions have to do with my claim that racism is biological and not learned? Perhaps you don’t mind these traditions because it doesn’t negatively effect you, as a privileged white heterosexual man, living in a patriarchal heteronormative society... im not a man and im not white...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:34 AM
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ut a lot of westerners seem to forget that when people from other ethnic groups migrate to western countries, they don’t leave their culture behind. so their western children also have those cultural roots influencing them (i am one of those people) nah, western people are confronted with these backwards cultures on a daily basis and foreigners don't let them forget about it... The good thing is that the internet and porn are driving these traditions out of young people (see birth rates of secon…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:13 AM
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everything we are debating here is based on western standards, so who are you talking about then? you do realize that people babysit as a job & don’t always just babysit only their siblings right? and you do realize that this isnt as common as you might think right? you’ve clearly never been an elder sister so don’t speak for them i actually have a younger sister XD a common theme is that the elder sister is often regarded as an extra parent and many older siblings HATE that maybe not in america…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:41 AM
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a lot of women get to have firsthand experience with childcare before they have kids, either with younger siblings, babysitting, daycare/school/camp counselor jobs, etc. not to mention how common it is for moms to describe how difficult it is being a mother, so you know what you’re getting into most of the time. i.e. 1/4 of all germans dont have siblings, a lot of women who do have siblings have older siblings and afaik its not so common that young women actually babysit alot (like it is portray…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:21 AM
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Having a wrong idea of ​​something ( and i think most people have a wrong conception of big life events like i.e. building a house ) does not mean that you regret this decision every single minute for the rest of your life, regret comes and goes and depends on the situation, just as unhappiness comes and goes... I'm just saying that I can imagine that for most people parenthood turned out differently than they imagined Nobody thinks of a sick, handicapped child, nobody thinks that children die t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:34 AM
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so, just like it is now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 06:46 AM
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And women who want kids know what it means and all the responsibilities that come with them. you said for women who want to have children, it is clear what it means to be a mother ... but that is often not true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 06:38 AM
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And women who want kids know what it means and all the responsibilities that come with them They know kids will be hard work and destroy a lot of things. You make it sound like women have no idea what parenting is about and think it's all fun and games. No one thinks that, men or women. Just because you have a rough idea of ​​what motherhood means doesn't mean that many women arent still surprised HOW MUCH sacrifice and emotional and financial investments come with motherhood. That even happens …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 06:12 AM
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All women born after June 1968 have to work til the age of 65 ...just like men...get your facts straight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:19 AM
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austrians (my age; mid-late twenties, early thirties) have little idea about trp because it is not a topic in our culture and many people of this age only use the internet in german, but that does not mean that the red pill philosophy does not apply to our country and our behavior. As with every "trend" that begins in the USA, it reaches us some time later, so sooner or later the terminology will become more popular and more familiar here as well... Austria may differ culturally from the USA in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:17 AM
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No, that doesn't seem accurate to me in any way, it may be that austrian citizens (including men) are less open and more distant, but I would not call that shy...I don't have the impression that our men are exceptionally feminine and our women are exceptionally more masculine (except in a global context, compared to previous generations, but all western countries are experiencing pretty much the same thing right now), and I think we are more conservative than the Germans in many respects
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:07 AM
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yes ... yes right ... first world war ... exactly ... good that we had nothing to do with the second one \ puts germany in the spotlight **
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:04 AM
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The Op's statement leaves out important parts 1) you do not have to join the armed forces but can also do community service (at the red cross or, for example, in an old people's home) and many men actually do this 2) It is also not difficult to act so stupid/weird with the psychological report that one is considered "unfit" and does not even have to go In addition, you can't really take our armed forces seriously and it is severely underfunded and is being starved to death
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:55 PM
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You dont have any idea about the USA or Austria! The "being less materialistic" and "military teaches our men discipline" stuff is hilarous tho... ​ Ps: It has been greatly remarked among the US and other English speaking nations that Austria is a cold hearted semi-fascist big gov state, a statement which is not true and asking an Austrian citizen can certainly enlighten one more on the topic. nah , they dont even think about us
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 04:48 PM
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thats not abuse ....wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:03 AM
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Mind you they are all well educated with masters degrees are they hot tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:32 AM
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no, why should you, it was no different in their youth and drinking is allowed at the age of 16, so it is not that bad if a 14 or 15 year old comes home drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:48 PM
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German parents usually don't scold a lot when the teen child comes home drunk, that's the most normal thing in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 11:33 AM
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Because men have penises but also brains, and sometimes these two disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:46 PM
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dude no, yaoi is PORN! If you want something less pornographic you go for Shonen-ai ...thats the pg13 version where its about two men falling love, romance and all that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:17 PM
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Yaoi (/ˈjaʊi/; Japanese: やおい [ja.o.i]), also known as boys' love (ボーイズ ラブ, bōizu rabu) or BL (ビーエル, bīeru), is a genre of fictional media originating in Japan that features homoerotic relationships between male characters.[1] It is typically created by women for women and is distinct from homoerotic media marketed to gay and bisexual male audiences, such as bara, but it can also attract male readers and male creators can also produce it. Yaoi finds its origins in both fan culture and commercial …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:09 PM
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Was it men or women who were obsessed with 50 shades of gray?? (btw originally a twilight fanfiction) Yaoi is porn from women for women...most erotic fanfics are read by women, why do i know that, i read and wrote them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:06 PM
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if you desire romance and love u dont read yaoi that would be like watching porn for the plot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:57 AM
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scream? i just dont belive you...thats all, stop projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:12 AM
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the best proof for what im saying is women getting mad/freaking out if a guy doesnt get hard when they're about to fuck...its, at least in her mind, a slap in her face cause its actual proof that the guy doesnt desire her....most porn doesnt work for women bc women arent as visual as men are, thats why women dont get much out of a dick pic while men always like a vag pic or boob pic...guys always assume what works for them, works for women too, but thats not the case, women need to feel desired …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:06 AM
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but it doesn't answer WHY all male characters in yaoi are so necessary feminine looking bc its less intimidating to younger women...thats why 30 something women like Jason Momoa while 16 smth women like Zayn Malik (that one feminine dude from one direction)...masculinity isnt looks only but behaviour too like i.e. dgaf-mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:54 AM
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regardless of whether its straight or gay porn, regardless of what women are into... desire / being desired are always the common denominator of what makes women horny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:48 AM
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ok dude, whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:38 AM
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ok now im sure ur a guy larping as a woman... i mean "love wands"? srsly? c'mon dude, try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:26 AM
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its not about kinks or whatever , its about women wanting to be wanted by men...or as in fanfictions want to read about men wanting someone... how this desire is expressed (sometimes romantically) differs, but it is the common denominator
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:25 AM
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the idea of two men loving each other so deeply that they wanna fuck each others brains out all day, every day is sexy and cute to me. would the stories do the same for you if these two loving men actually never fuck but just go togehter to ikea and pick out a a new lamp? cause if not, its not romance that makes u like these stories but men desiring other men sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:18 AM
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The common denominator of all yaoi stories is desire... not romance! You guys seem to think whats most important for women in porn is "romance" and thats not true AT ALL! Its unrestrained desire in various forms (romantic desire, brutal desire, desire for the unknown, forbidden desire ...)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:12 AM
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I just assume it's because some women secretly like homo-erotica as long as it's sensual and loving. thats not true at all, there are enough brutal and grusome ff's and women dig them as well...its not necessarily romance that makes yaoi stories appealing to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 09:39 AM
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not romance, whats important is desire! there are lots of yaoi stories that arent romantic at all but rather brutal...men desiring someone sexually is whats doing the trick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 09:36 AM
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Two reasons imo: 1 ) Women find men who desire something erotic, especially when it is, as is often the case in yaoi, a "forbidden desire" to which the male protagonists surrender anyway because the desire is so immense (thats btw imo also the reason many women dig rape fantasies...the idea that you're so desirable, the man cant hold back even if you say no) 2) Yaoi offers a possibility to observe pure desire of men without having a female being with whom one can or must identify oneself...where…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 09:14 AM
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A delusional dude thinks that men tend to overrate their own attractivness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 10:08 AM
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if ur a woman and u date down, the guy just thinks thats now his new standard...dating down has no benifits for women, the guy just thinks he's more attractive than he is...dating down (lookswise) as a women doest necessarily give u power, it just boosts the mans ego
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 08:36 AM
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If we don't live together and sleep in the same bed every day, it's not a relationship for me ... I don't want to "visit" my partner and take "overnight things" with me, that's weird to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 07:20 AM
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female
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:05 PM
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yeah well, much of what makes a man physically attractive is genetics and cant be improved...ugly men are ugly with or without their sleeves rolled up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:48 AM
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Women are not forearm fetishists, women (at least the majority of women) do not see forearms like men, e.g. breasts ... if an attractive man has good forearms it is noticeable and you like it, but if an unattractive man has nice forearms nobody cares its the same as a man who notices beautiful feet in a beautiful woman even though he does not have a foot fetish ... the feet are and never were a criterion, but he notices them if the chick is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:20 AM
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It is crazy to think that every little thing (like sleeves) has a serious impact on a man's attractiveness 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:13 AM
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" My main question is do I even need sleeves? Can I get the same effect just wearing a short sleeved teeshirt that shows my full arms instead of just the forearms? Or just a tanktop? " then why are u asking this? If ur hot it dosnt matter and if ur unattractive/ average, it also doesnt matter...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:11 AM
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Its hot when hot guys do it...its whatever when average guys do it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:07 AM
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its starting to change...thanks to tinder, IG and smartphones
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:03 PM
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they drink less than they used to, use more drugs tho imo...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 08:03 AM
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Lets say youre on a date with a woman and she comes out as transgender, how would you react? Id recommend an ophthalmologist appointment if you see her in RL and still dont realize she a transvestite xD What is it about transgender women that you are turned off by? probably their dick but that's just a wild guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:57 AM
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Because people often do not know what makes them happy in a relationship, and because the characteristics of a person who is "good on paper" are often not those that give you the feeling of security and satisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 07:28 AM
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but why have u tolerated it for so long? have you thought thats normal? or was it fear of rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:52 AM
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they ask so much but give nothing even if asked and I'm not asking for anything they can't do Why do you tolerate this kind of behavior? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 07:40 AM
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sorry dude, not my experience ...i treat my male friends the same as i treat my female friends (only exception is my best female friend, i sometimes give her gifts if i see anything she might like and vice versa) and all my other friends do the exact same thing, i dont offer anything to my friends but good company for a finite amount of time....idk how you guys friendship but the expectations seem really high (especially on the emotional labour part...id never be down for that)...like, cant u ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:28 PM
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also, when i meet with my male friends we go to a bar or for a cup of coffee, we chat, we rant about work, we laugh and then we go home, just like i do with my female friends....its not a big deal...the fact that u act so weird about this chick just shows shes not ur friend but smth else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:11 PM
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fear of being exploited for their resources by women (which is mainly their job in a relationship) without getting anything in return? it shouldnt matter in a friendship tho...not talking about a "dated her and she said she wants to be friends" situation, i mean real friendship A straight woman, on the other hand, might be more willing to go to a straight female friend's apartment in the evening to watch a movie, drink wine and talk, than she would to go to a straight man's home if you cant be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:50 PM
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You sound more like an orbiter, than a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:36 PM
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hmmm...ok, that sounds like a really minor issue one can get rid of with one conversation but yeah, i can see why these sort of issues make male/female friendships harder But quesiton: would you have felt offended/exploited if you made plans with a male friend and the male friend assumed you would come over? To me it seems this sort of behavior is accepted when its a male/male friendship but with females its different because the guy feels exploited (even tho he wouldnt feel exploited if a male …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:50 AM
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or u know...some women are just less communicative bc thats how they are, just like some men are like that? Hoping the other person carries the conversation is not a female trait, some men are like that too ...sounds more like a intro/extro thing rather than a male/female thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:49 AM
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Heterosexual women are not willing to spend resources to provide things of value unto men what would these "things of value" be? Like...be specific...what do men want to "have" from female friends that they are not providing (but their male friends do provide)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:56 AM
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could u be more specific pls? like, what do you want from a friend where men say "ok sure" and women say "nah dude sorry" ? like, i almost never have to do stuff for my friends, we spend time together but we arent helping each other out in any major way...i dont need help from male OR female friends so what favours do you talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:48 AM
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Women don't make for good friends care to explain why? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:10 AM
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Even so, just by being in your 30s and having sex with 2 or 3 people a year puts you well over 20 sexual partners. Even on my own experience, being a person who is often too lazy to date; I still hop on tinder from time to time and have dates and have the odd hook up every month or so. Personal experience but most people are not single for years, a series of LTR's is far more common than people who have been single for years and sleep with strangers again and again Also, even if you are single y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:09 AM
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Just where are these women that are worth all the effort? Married / LTR'd
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 08:20 AM
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Of course i don't know what was going on in his head, but his behavior would never have made me suspect that .... if id judge people for what might be going on in their heads i would never had any friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:14 PM
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I have one very close male friend with whom I have already attended kindergarden, elementary school and secondary school. Our parents were quasi neighbors and even before kindergarten we often played together ... he has been in a relationship for 10 years now and is now a father, I like his girlfriend alot (she is great and the best thing that could ever have happened to him) and their daughter is super cute. There was never any sexual tensions and we've never saw each other as potential relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:13 PM
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It is not about the dynamics of the relationship but about the financial situation of the women... no matter what dynamic your relationship has, if you are not rich and have not had any work experience for years, you're fucked if your husband leaves you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 09:24 AM
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It would probably be more tempting if many hadn't already seen what happens to women who have done nothing for years but to run the household and raise the children and then are being cheated / abandoned by their husband
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 09:07 AM
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Depends on the topic, but no I don't want to have decision-making power in all areas, I think it's very nice that some things don't have to concern me at all, especially when it comes to things I don’t really understand (like cars) ... conversely, I find it very pleasant that he stays out of certain topics and does not try to influence my decision ... but that only works because we are both basically normal, sane people who never really make serious mistakes when making big decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:05 AM
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yes, did martial arts for years
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:13 AM
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blind obedience is certainly not the right way to be outstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:13 AM
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men like seeing naked women...always been like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:00 AM
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car selfies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:31 PM
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bathroom selfies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:54 PM
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if these are implants, these are the best ass implants (or however you can enlarge an ass) that I have ever seen O.O ...impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:01 PM
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sex dolls will not change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:58 PM
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wouldnt chadly be rejecting chad because you have something better to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:57 AM
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xD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:35 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:31 AM
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thats sad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:41 PM
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most men arent attractive enough to have lots of causal sex ...most men are aware of that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:10 AM
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Only a widower, i dont wanna have to deal with an ex...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:27 AM
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never said otherwise...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:02 PM
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they're popular bc its funny to feel the thrill of being scared...not bc they're safe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:57 PM
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I remember a girl getting quite openly horny while watching a bunch of us smash a house before it was to demolished. She seemed a little surprised. She said watching men be violent just drove her nuts. She loved it. yeah... just like watching men fight! ...but men building a house can also be hot...idk, maybe I just like watching men doing things with physical effort
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:46 PM
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Nobody likes to be scared. the existance of horror films, horror games and other scary stuff proves the opposite...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:41 PM
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In any case, hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary hardwiring cannot, and will not be changed by feelings , modern culture or perceived ”double standards” In the middle ages, death penalty and high fines were punishments for sex outside of marriage, today it is quite normal for unmarried people to have sex (at least in the western world) Many men don't mind and a woman with a high N-Count (even if there are many here who claim that a high N count is a massive disadvantage for women) and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:46 PM
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Do you think you will lose any attraction to him ? yes i would...the idea that my man has slept with other man (and is turned on by other men) disgusts me. Idc if he's the "giver" or the "taker", men who are into other men arent sexually attractive to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:28 AM
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didn't read it , just googled "Differences in breathing between men and women" and picked the first link...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:48 PM
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I meant that as a joke but whatever ....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:44 PM
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Both are shamed when they leave their children
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:32 PM
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Women Get Short Of Breath Faster Than Men While Exercising, Study Says Apparently, you can blame this on biology. Healthy young women report greater shortness of breath than healthy young men, according to a new study in the journal Experimental Physiology. Sounds pretty unfair, if you ask us. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/women-short-of-breath_n_4241728 heuheuheu
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:30 PM
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Because otherwise we keep it very lowkey, we dress very neutrally, have normal hair colors etc. ... we try to attract as little attention as possible You absolutly notice which people want to attract attention and are out for a fight, its often the people with extraordinary hairstyles, lots of piercings, terrible clothes and tattoos that are pissed off if you just look too long ...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 07:59 AM
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Its probably due to your overall appearance, and not specifically because the of tattoos ...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 07:13 AM
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You get a tattoo and people go "what does your SO think of that?" lol what? thats just bullshit... That doesn't happen to many people in a big way, the question "what does your SO think?" is very rarely asked if it is not about real estate or major changes in lifestyle like moving to another country...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 07:01 AM
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What social signal show STABILITY and COMPETENCE ? It is very easy to prove your own stupidity, but that doesnt mean it works the same in the other direction, there is no small "thing" like a facial tattoo that shows that you are stable and safe. It's like a reputation, you can ruin your reputation very quickly, but building a very good reputation takes longer. Giving a person the feeling of stability and security takes much longer than showing someone that you are an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:55 AM
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still a thief 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:34 PM
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you're still a thief tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:29 PM
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no...I would even say that the poorer woman is more dangerous ... a creature that struggles to survive is more dangerous than one that hunts for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:22 PM
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both are gold diggers if they are just in it for the money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:12 PM
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I think many men find the idea of ​​keeping a beautiful woman with money on the line quite nice and pleasant ( and are explicitly looking for such arrangements ), until they really are in this sort of situation and gradually start to believe it could become love ... friends and family have probably told him a thousand times before that it's all about money, but love is blind and many of these men are oblivious about their own value in the SMP and RMP. It is not that the gold diggers hide their i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:03 PM
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Actual gold diggers usually are women are can do fine on their own, they just want to get super rich. Thats your own personal interpretation of the word "gold digger" but normally you simply mean a woman who is with a man for financial reasons, regardless of how she is financially positioned A gold digger is a person, typically a woman, who engages in a type of transactional relationship for money rather than love. When it turns into marriage, it is a type of marriage of convenience https://en.w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:34 AM
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"earning a lot" is relative, a normal income in one country can still be a small fortune for a woman from a poorer country or a woman who comes from low-income backgrounds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:31 AM
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I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or Less both
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:59 PM
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What’s with women’s obsession with feeling special when they clearly are not? Everyone wants to be a special person in the life of the person you love / desire... Why don’t they just accept being plain and average like men do? Because many men give women the feeling of being something special...also, neither men nor women collectively accept that they are all the same and not special And why don’t get try to become special and instead go the easy way and find a special man that makes them feel s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:58 PM
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Its this "he is a monster EXCEPT to me" thing, makes you feel special...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:28 PM
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So what you REALLY want is to feel desirable. yep If you flash your parts on gonewild and get validation from that isn't that basically enough? My body can only be viewed in 3D...I don't want to be one of many women that a nasty guy at the toilet gazes at for two seconds while scrolling through ... I also like to abstain from things that I would actually like to have (i.e. attention, certain foods, social media etc...), which gives me a feeling of control
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:24 PM
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They will replace women for men who would otherwise be alone and gave up trying, not for men who have a chance with women... sure, the progress of sex robots is impressive, but compared to a real women, they are still just expensive sex toys which are good alternatives for EXTREMELY desperate men and for bridging thirsty stretches. They can never replace the the real thing ( unless at some point they are so realistic that you can no longer distinguish them from real people )
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:24 AM
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It still doesn't mean that a guy needs sex every time he's aroused It means that the male is in a physical situation where he has to satisfy his sexual needs in order not to remain in a state of physical discomfort ... women have no such feeling, women are never in a state of physical discomfort because they have not had sex... Of course, it would be evolutionarily stupid if men couldn't correct this condition themselves, but that doesn't mean that having sex is not the better alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:45 PM
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I equate the need to ejaculate with the need for sex because sperm has only one purpose; to generate life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:38 PM
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thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:23 PM
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never said I want to learn something ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:23 PM
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Tl;dr pls?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:14 PM
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I meant it more in the way that men feel physical "pain" (--> blue balls) when they haven't had sex for a long time, compared to my female desire for sex in order to feel desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:12 PM
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You asked if people do that nowadays and that you think only "redpillers" act like that, i just answered ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 12:38 PM
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In my experience, men between 15 and 22 years have various changing sexual partners (and short-lived relationships) if they have the opportunity...that's how it was in my social environment when i was a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 12:32 PM
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I def need it but i can imagine that its more a psychological need & less a physical need
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 12:26 PM
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Yet... those who can mostly don't do it... These men probably did it in younger years...the vast majority of men who have the opportunity to mate with different women do exactly that to a point where something special suddenly becomes standard, then they're looking for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 12:12 PM
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If something is too simple, people don't appreciate it ... having you is too easy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:24 AM
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Cheerleader effect ( group attractiveness effect) , if you look at each one individually, they're not attractive. (Exceptions: guy in blue sweater first row & behind him, white boy in green sweater and white guy in jeans shirt) Befor being with one of them, I prefer to stay alone, maybe most women think that way...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:09 AM
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Men definitely, as society is set up to make sure we can't express our biological imperative. Most men would not have the opportunity to mate with many different females; its not society that keeps most men from fucking diff chicks every day, most men simply dont have the looks/money/status to be in this position...you see this when men propose open relationships, and then get disappointed when their GF/Wife receives various offers from different men, while they themselves get always rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:34 AM
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Exercising and getting thinner will only make them better to SOME MOST guys. ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:44 AM
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"They're just jealous" --> things we tell ourselves to feel better about ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:41 AM
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oh ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:49 PM
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didnt sound very facetious but whatever...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 11:24 AM
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Im not claiming to have reinvented the wheel, i just explained that it is not the fact that his penis was in many vaginas (which seems to be a problem for lots of guys when its about promiscuous women) why promiscuity is a deal breaker but because of the fact that promiscuous guys behave in an unattractive way... why so bitchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 11:02 AM
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The men i know who have the highest n counts are not men who are attractive to me, and its not really about the n-count ( even if it's kinda gross ). They are loud, pushy and very talkative, they like to party (A LOT!) and have very little real interest otherwise. These people are nice to have as friends and you can have a lot of fun with them, but I would never want to have a relationship with them...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:09 AM
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Learn to hug your bros. Tell your bros you love em. It's okay, theyll prolly tell you they love ya too. or we simply accept that friendship does not necessarily include cuddling and saying "I love you"? At least not for everyone? o.O if a friend (no matter if male or female) would be so "touchy feely" it would be very uncomfortable for me and id ask them to stop at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:38 AM
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I don't mean the the women you cheat with have to be ugly.But it's not necessarily about being better than wifey. I think it is not so easy for the average Joe to find a woman he finds attractive to cheat on his wife , i mean, he has to find a woman who is willing to be the "side chick" or a ONS... women often only agree to such sexual escapades if the man is handsome enough or has other HVM qualities...imo i think the average woman has more options to find a "better" man than married men have c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:30 PM
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For men the concept of "good enough" is very real.Men cheat for variety's sake ,not necessarily because the other women is better I don't know how true that really is tbh, I know a bunch of men who who prefer not to have sex at all than having sex with a woman whom they find meh, but maybe these men i know are more the exception, not the norm ... arnold schwarzenegger is a very strange example because this man could have attractive women without problems, and still took the housekeeper ... I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 11:59 AM
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All people want to have the best partner possible , the criteria for "best partner" are different for men and women though. Men want the most beautiful woman, women the most successful man ( broadly speaking)... if you feel you can get it better you run the risk of becoming unfaithful. Men as well leave their women for a better option if there is one ... its probably less common because men often have no better option than their own wife... so i kinda say yes, hypergamy might be worse for a rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 11:29 AM
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but OP described a daily life obsession that's even rarer than cosplayers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:20 AM
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if something is simple/easy , it doesnt seem precious...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:12 AM
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I agree, just like people who dress up at conventions as anime or video game characters, very strange, not really common and I think these people will date like-minded people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:10 AM
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ur 7 - 7,5 imo...tall, good face, you're good 👍🏽 idgaf about r/truerateme, ive seen them rating gorgeous ppl 5 and 6, its ridiculous edit: the hair dont do it for me but thats just my personal opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:59 PM
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idk 7 or smth, height?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:52 PM
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ur not a 3!! (ノ≧∇≦)ノ ミ ┻━┻
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:50 PM
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ur not a 5 imo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:48 PM
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8ish or smth
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:37 PM
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Your argument is basically Less options is better than more! It's not, in any rational sense. Why not? Online dating and the associated opportunity to date a lot more people than 40 years ago, when you had to choose from the ppl you knew in RL, did not make people happier. Actually the opposite happened, everyone is afraid of not making the best choice! You can see it here on reddit in some subs, people (especially men) are afraid that they are just the safe choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:43 AM
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Most people don’t like fucking someone who is fucking other people on the side yep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:53 AM
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People don't talk to strangers ...and the older you get, the less you want it imo, two friends of mine who have children find it terrible to meet other parents and even say "I don't want to meet any new people, I already know enough"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:44 PM
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I'd rather be the queen of nerds than the weird cheerleader everyone pities furthermore, the king of nerds is more attractive than the guy at the bottom of the food chain in the soccer team
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:50 PM
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Nah man, obtaining something under the pretense of false facts (i.e. lying) is immoral and is considered false by all cultures and people across human history Just because life is like that does not mean that it is not morally reprehensible people have always murdered other people, that's life, but does the fact that "thats life" makes it less wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:07 PM
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Am I doing a bad job of screening the people I date yes or is this the norm you have to find someone with the "right" kind of damage, a damage that suits your own damage ...most ppl have problems, mentally and otherwise, life is hard and we all have scars, the older you get the worse it gets
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:03 PM
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If you notice someone wants to buy your car with counterfeit money, are you the asshole if you don't want to sell the car, or is the one with the counterfeit money the asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:47 AM
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Neither thats where youre wrong kiddo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:41 AM
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srsly?!...i mean yeah she pretty but there are tons of equally or more beautiful women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:53 AM
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The natural state is that which a large number of people consider correct. That changes due to natural influences, culture, religion, population growth etc Man is part of nature and everything that man does is more or less natural as it is a consequence of our increased intelligence that distinguishes our behavior from animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:28 PM
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Validation mostly, if I were cursed and would never have an orgasm again from having sex with a man, I would still have sex...the feeling of being desired is what makes sex exciting... no matter how good or bad he is in bed, if he's enthusiastic about it, I am as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:50 AM
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You know I'm not lacking money though, I'm lacking time, the time to buy these shit and cook them. :/ being healthy takes time (not even that much time) and effort, if ppl dont take the time to cook, they're fat because you're lazy, not because they're poor...fat ppl are mostly just lazy in many areas of their life, they are too lazy too cook and too lazy to work out...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:42 AM
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No, bad food is cheap, good food isn't cheap. check this out http://www.goodcook.com/8-healthy-dinners-that-cost-less-than-5/ https://tasty.co/article/marietelling/healthy-meals-under-10-dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:26 AM
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Data released by the World Health Organisation in 2014 showed that while an issue of growing concern, within the European Union, Germany had incidence of overweight and obese adults as a percentage of the total population at 54.8% as in comparison with France at 60.7%, Spain at 60.9% or the United Kingdom at 63.4%. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity_in_Germany its not as bad as in the US but it seems its just a matter of time...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 10:53 AM
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Maybe obesity to that extend is a mostly american issue tho im european myself and no, its not an american only issue, check the statistics, germans get fatter each year as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:40 AM
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Agreed but what should we do? Fat shame them til they're skinny?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:22 AM
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eh 🤷🏽‍♀️...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:19 AM
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feeling sorry for the fatties wont change their situation tho, the only person who can do something about being overweight is the overweight person himself...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:18 AM
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according to your logic, an unemployed mc donalds salesperson is on the same level as a medical student lol, good to know XD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:04 AM
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It's called dating in your teens being a student =/= unemployed -.-
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:01 AM
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I wouldn't call Ashley Graham "fat" I would
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:57 AM
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heart face is good i mean what if the guy simply loses his phone? 🤷🏽‍♀️ thats why i dont take nudes, i dont even want them on MY phone, what if i lose it or it gets stolen 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 05:12 PM
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curious what was the reason for that if everything else was fine to the point where you broke up because of it? i have no idea what the reason was, it just...happend
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:45 PM
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Hell no! I broke up with my ex because I didn't want to sleep with him anymore (everything else was fine)...I can still vividly remember how uncomfortable his touch was at the end of our relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:21 AM
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you don't really know the other person. its not like i need to know every aspect of a person to love said person, actually, some things might better be left unsaid/ unheard/ unseen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:18 AM
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Would it hurt you if your edit: boyfriend suggested moving into his own apartment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:10 AM
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polite =/= nice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:35 AM
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in theory yes, in RL the difference is often not noticeable, "being nice" is often associated with weakness and you will be treated accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:52 AM
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Sorry dude, this man fucks women most men only see on instagram and he doesnt have to work for it, that's the reality no matter what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:17 AM
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The point in life is to build meaningful connections- if you go around insulting everyone, you’ll be alone. This hyper focus on looks just makes people feel bad. Why are we doing this to others? Yes it’s amazing to see people take care of themselves. I wish everyone could but it’s not super easy. People struggle through life, be fucking kind to one another. Life isn’t easy. Being nice doesn't take you very far (i was way to nice for a long time), you're a doormat and people take you for granted.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:15 AM
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ok, our definitions of whats an alpha and a beta arent the same, that explains alot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:40 AM
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it's unlikely that he bangs 8/10 women everyday actually, its not (also, why every day?... chad doesnt bang different chicks each day, im pretty sure almost nobody bangs different ppl every day beside hookers and pornstars) A guy i met a few weeks ago is the literal definition of a chad. Tall, broad shoulders, great jawline, lawyer, sporty, extremely pretty face, funny, super friendly ... the whole package (I instantly hated him XD) I already know three women (two are my best friends) who occasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:38 AM
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If your only option is a fat woman, you're definitely not an alpha XD Alphas have women to choose from, heck even average guys have women to choose from...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:19 AM
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So successful, attractive men are just animals that fuck everything that is not on the trees at three?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:16 AM
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Maybe there are only fat chicks available? Please tell me where this mysterious place is where all women are fat and ugly and the men are chad because I want to live there! I mean alpha attractive males probably can, but some women are more work and you won't get sex tonight if you start now, while the fat chick will be low effort cmon man, u can do better than that! We both know that chad doesn't regularly bang unattractive fat women -.- if he does, its an exception
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:14 AM
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The best from his options, from available women, not the best from all women. obviously im not talking about all the women on the planet -.- Which means he'll often fuck average women or even bellow because those are the most available women. I doubt that a handsome chad will take a big whale home with him if other women are available, and there are never only fat chicks available The alpha male has sex with whatever woman he can. <--Thats what OP is saying, and its clearly bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:04 AM
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Doesn't it feel a bit weird to call yourself an alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:53 AM
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Isn't an alpha rather the man who could have all women but only chooses the best? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:26 AM
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Of course it is immoral to lie to a person to have sex with said person? what a strange question ...wtf, since when is it not immoral to get something under false pretenses? In other areas of life (eg on the job) nobody would ever ask whether it is immoral or not to pretend to be something that you are not and it would have serious (sometimes legal) consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:07 AM
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ooops sry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:00 PM
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tell him about the selfies tho xD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:57 PM
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thanks but just like you, i'm glad I dont have to play the dating game anymore :) It makes them look like teenage girls. I don't understand why they don't just take the self-timer, no weird angles, photo quality is better and the pic generally looks more natural
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:41 PM
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for some reason What you feel is shame for showing off your narcissism openly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:04 PM
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It has ruined dating. A young guy I was working with once told me that you aren't going to get a gf unless you are IG famous Thats funny, i would never date a guy who is really active on IG and tries to get attention there (unless his job requires having an IG account and he posts his work there) The worst is guys taking selfies, its such a huge turn off!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 12:10 PM
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In times of IG and social media I'm honestly more surprised that not more people go to the gym...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:18 PM
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i 100% understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:41 PM
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long enough, ur wife doesnt complain 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:35 PM
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oops
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:12 PM
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men overestimate themselves when it comes to attractiveness AND their estimation matters less bc its women who decide which man is worthy or not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:50 PM
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Because if you're rating everyone more attractively then your sense of self isn't inflated in relation to others, you effectively think that everyone is more attractive than they are Only neither you nor the others actually ARE that attractive. So, men's "attractiveness detector" is broken ( for their own good ), you can neither estimate how handsome you are, nor how handsome others are. Of course, you dont overestimate yourself in your own idea of ​​what is attractive, but your own idea of ​​wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:32 PM
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You neglected to incorporate into your premise that the "inflated" men are rating everyone more highly, not just themselves... Why is this relevant when it comes to men having no realistic idea of ​​how smart / handsome they are? However, it would be another explanation for male thirst Seems like men are apparently not thirstier than women, but their "eyesight is worse" and therefore they cannot assess a woman's "attractiveness" correctly...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:13 PM
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But in contrast to animals, men have brains and do not have to be slaves to their instincts... Justifying your own undisciplinedness with "nature" and "instincts" makes you a mindless monkey and you should sit in a zoo rather than be a free citizen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:57 PM
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Why? While past research suggests that men exaggerate their own level of attractiveness to make themselves seem more competitive in the dating pool (even if only to themselves), this study suggests other factors might be at play. Perhaps attractive males are simply more comfortable rating others highly because they feel secure and unthreatened—but the same does not apply to attractive women. Or, maybe it’s that men who perceive themselves to be attractive (but aren’t) are more lenient grading ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:33 PM
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best thing since sliced bread sliced bread sucks, just sayin...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:23 PM
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I'd drop them in the coldest way that I believe would fuck their ego up the most i know i already said it but i really enjoy your comments XD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:13 PM
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Did you deliberately formulate the post as you have because you know that statistically speaking, it is men who overestimate themselves, and you just want to trigger a strong reaction with the title? If so, its pretty obvious, maybe be more subtle next time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:39 AM
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If this should happen (which i highly doubt), I would leave the relationship because it would hurt my ego too much and because I know that I am not the "safe option" for someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:37 AM
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Congratulations! This is really great :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:33 AM
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Honesty is a means of preventing these conflicts. But where there is human self-interest, honesty is often absent ​ you're making some really articulate (and well phrased) statements about the human condition and the struggles that come with it thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:10 AM
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From 520 to 240! DAMN! How did u do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:08 AM
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Is the fear of "being settled for" just a complicated way of articulating the fear "what if it doesn't work out"? I think it's more a look in a mirror that you don't want to see. You see yourself through someone else's eyes ( the eyes of a person you love / appreciate, so it hurts even more) and according to them, you are boring and have nothing to offer except XYZ. That's unconfortable. Treason hurts so much because we recognize that we have lived a lie, that the reality as we perceived it is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:29 AM
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Well, in my opinion, farts (and a number of other things) kill romance and sexual tension If you let yourself go too much in front of your partner, you quickly become the buddy and not a person with whom the partner wants to have sex. I know that there are couples farting in front of each other, and these people rarley have the relationship dynamics I want and are usually not in their best physical shape, but to each their own. maybe try a game of musical chair farts with your SO and you'll open…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:13 AM
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these men are afraid of being loved only for what they can offer (money, house, car), not for who they are ... and what's interesting for one person can be boring for another. What you described about yourself (going skiing and hiking) doesn't sound interesting to me at all, but another woman might feel different about it and yes, there are a lot of very, very boring basic people out there that you could easily replace with another person, it isnt easy to be a person who is not easily replaceabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:06 AM
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What does "being settled for as a safe option" mean? When a woman deliberately chooses a man who loves her more than she loves him in order to gain something (eg more money). What values and traits mark a man as "safe" - are these traits some men hate about themselves and don't want women to be attracted to? Safe job, attractive enough to look at him, but not attractive enough that other women care about him, loyal, reliable, calm, stable are these traits some men hate about themselves and don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:50 AM
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You try not to fart in the presence of strangers because it's disgusting and rude, isn't it strange that you then show your nastiest side in front of your own partner who should find you attractive? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:20 AM
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even if, that would only be part of the childless women and not all childless women...according to OP not a single childless woman enjoys sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:09 PM
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When I was younger (teens to early 20’s), everything happened in gradual steps: kissing feeling up (outside clothes) less clothes What you describe here was everything before i had sex for the first time ... After i have had sex for the first time...oral was (and will always be) just foreplay If i had a starter i also want the main course ...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:08 PM
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If something has to be super top tier in order for you to enjoy it, you probably don’t truly like that thing. Men also have standards and dont bang everything that is not on the tree at three. For example, there are enough men who would never sleep with a fat woman, according to your logic, these men generally don't like women, which is not true, they simply have higher standards than other men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:56 PM
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i see, you're a man with taste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:52 PM
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According to this logic, all childless/childfree women would live in celibacy ...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:47 PM
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yes yes; no disadvantages for me when i'm not married idk but more than in previous years yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:35 PM
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When I was a young lad... a fanciful daydream was to have mind control powers in that and other scenarios. Not to rape (or "coerce" lol) but just have my way with enthusiast participants. https://i.imgur.com/DintvmI.mp4
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:18 PM
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W are equally possibly everything any woman not tricking could want not really
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:53 PM
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lol wut? o.O What does that have to do with the fact that being poor sucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:56 PM
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lol men arent forced...you guys are just too thirsty XD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:49 PM
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I'm sorry but if you have no money, no car AND debt, your options are very limited ...of course you make the best of the situation, but I don't think it's very funny compared to what you can do with money and a car (and I'm not even talking about a lot of money, just a normal, monthly income)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:45 PM
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even being friends with a person like that doesnt sound fun o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:13 PM
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Who told you that these things are unimportant? Your mom? and don't say "society" please. "Society" says nothing to the individual, it merely shows the direction in which social development is going but for some reason many prefer to just say they don't matter. I can tell you the reason, no woman (men dont like it to btw) likes to say "you are too ugly" to someone's face, its because, at best, it is uncomfortable, at worst it ends in physical violence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:56 PM
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sometimes they're entertaining though 🤷🏽‍♀️😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:40 PM
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Women sure do, you just don't see it because you don't read about in InTouch magazine -.-
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:17 PM
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omg pls, dude, u think if tyga worked at Mc Donalds women would still line up to suck his dick? its not about his looks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:14 PM
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I've enjoyed reading many of your posts and discussions here and they have helped me to gain a wider understanding of many things. awww thats nice, I like it here too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:13 PM
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lol seriously? I will certainly not discuss why the Kardashians do what they do, with famous people you never know whether a relationship is just a PR gig or not, even marriages are only for advertising and to become famous again I've also heard women on this very sub say Chris Brown is hotter than young Dolph Ludgren and because a few women say that on the internet is it true?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:12 PM
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women are attracted to tyga because he's rich and famous, not because he has the body of a 14 year old xD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:05 PM
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What can he do to be desired sexually (alpha), rather than for comfort (beta) ? Dating an even more unattractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:53 AM
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But for the most part, it will not solve your problems with women as a muscular body is in my observation, very low on women's priority list in terms of what they look for in a man. Dead bedrooms don't come out of nowhere (and i think many low libido women are low libidio only because they find their men sexually unattractive) and the men in my gym would be 100% more attractive with more muscles and if they weren't just on the treadmill and/or crosstrainer... and it's not just me, you can see ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:46 AM
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You'd wait 90 days for prime Princess Diana just like prince charles did..while banging a woman they nicknamed "The Rottweiler"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:07 AM
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ew 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:33 AM
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I felt fear and anger (Fear of loosing her), therefore I got back together with her once again. Only thing thats good when it's reheated is goulash
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 07:10 AM
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Having a tinder profile would be reason enough to break up with a guy, whether he cheated on me at that point or not would be irrelevant ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:57 PM
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Do you think you can be authentic if you imitate how someone speaks, dresses and acts? And if so, how long can you do that? Maybe you can get a date with this imitated persona , but the woman will find out that it is an act and she will not find it nice to see the real you... also, i would be very careful to deliberately imitate friends, most people don't like being copied
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:51 PM
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if you are in a relationship and have a tinder profile, you shouldn't be surprised if people who know you have an opinion and express concerns There is no right to an "uncommented" life, if you act on the internet in front of everyone, you will be judged by the eyes of everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:12 PM
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When it comes to character traits, facial expressions and gestures, I actually do not think that you should copy other people, rather buy a book on psychology or body language and learn it in theory I think if you try to take on characteristics from other people, it ends up like unfunny people trying to imitate funny people, cringeworthy and unpleasant for everyone involved
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:30 AM
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I was talking more about watching guys who are successful at finding a partner and looking at how they present themselves and behave. What's the point in it? Your friend has character traits that make him popular for a certain type of women, imitating these traits (if they are not your own) will result in you finding a woman who does not suit you. If your best friend is an eloquent well-trained football player and you are a skinny, introverted architect, you probably won't be attractive to the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:27 AM
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what these people have with each other, what makes them harmonize well, does not necessarily apply to you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:18 AM
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a lot of people have no idea what they're talking about and fall into relationships kinda by accident. I think that's a lot more common than we think
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:15 AM
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isn't it the same as buying a red car (without knowing the mechanics, the interior, the advantages and disadvantages) just because a friend also has a red car and gets along well with it? You never know how a relationship really is, how happy people really are, how people behave when they are alone ... moreover, people tend to over-correct when they come from a relationship (the next partner is exactly the opposite of the previous partner). What woman A appreciates about her current partner can …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:04 AM
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Mgtows are like atheists, they are not incorrect and some of them have good arguments, but they are annoying, sensitive, butthurt and at some point you can no longer listen ... rarely does the quote "you're not wrong, you're just an asshole" fit better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:05 AM
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A true MGTOW group that is not dominted by men in their anger phase (and not hating on women) would actually be such a great community. But of what / why would this group consist? Men meet in groups for different things like fishing or camping or because they play in a band or smth, the only common narrative in an MGTOW group is "wE dO wHaT wE wAnT"...that's not enough to start a group (and as we see thats mostly not what mgtow is about)... what would the men of a mgtow group do, sit around the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 08:59 AM
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I've already mentioned below that I don't think an inflated male ego is something generally bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:26 PM
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especially married old dudes that act like they are sexy. That's because a lot of these men didn't have to struggle for sex for so long. They have no sense of their own worth on the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:03 PM
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If there is one thing the women on fds are right about, it is that ugly men are not grateful if they have a beautiful woman, they believe that this is now the standard they always get
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:55 PM
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What do you mean by overestimate? I mean men who are experts in one area, but idiots in other areas (but dont recognize that they are stupid in this area) I work in an insurance company and the number of arrogant doctors and academics I deal with every day who don't understand the most simple things (but can't believe they're just too stupid) is amazing. It is actually hilarious how often they think the system or the computer must be broken, when in fact, they're just dumb... The way you wrote t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:47 PM
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The inflated male ego is responsible for ensuring that men are in positions of power, you have to really believe you are the best to be convincing, even if it isnt true, its not enough to fake it...it is generalizing I know, but ALL men I know overestimate their looks and/or their intellect or some other quality/character trait, for women its mostly the other way round
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:31 PM
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Women use sex to extort value out of men, typically money if that would be the case i and all other female friends of mine wouldnt have had sex with anyone in our teenage years cause all the guys were broke AF... if anything Women use sex marriage to extort value out of men, typically money Id say women (and ppl in general) mostly have sex because they want to feel and be desired, i know thats one big reason im having sex, i want to be wanted, and as far as im concerned, thats what most women wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:27 PM
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idk what u mean sry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:18 PM
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if he wants kids he'll find another woman, as i said, i think the trend is moving towards "life section partners"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 12:13 PM
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But it's a matter of will women who have some sex in the city life style be willing to down size their entire life, work part time, lose their social life, move out of the city, become effectively undatable, while paying someone else to raise their child who they barely get to see yes they will, because most women want children really bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 12:00 PM
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Why would a guy who can marry down and have kids waste their time with a women who refuses to have his children? maybe because he already has a child he's paying for maybe because he isnt too thrilled to have children in the first place maybe because she's hot idk dude, imo guys arent rly rational when they enter a relationship, they dont think ahead and about what will be in 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:58 AM
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It depends on your priorities and on your job I know women who normally work 40 hours and have a small child, I know women who work part time and have a small child and I know women who do not work at all and have a child. Every woman has different priorities, and each woman organizes her days differently. Is it easy? no It is doable if it is REALLY important to you? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:53 AM
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who won't be able to find a guy to settle with they will find a guy to settle with (or be in a ltr for a couple of years), they prob not gonna marry him but they'll find a partner one way or another Multiple life stage partners are the new "...till death do us part" imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:46 AM
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If she wants to go part time and look after the kids she's looking at a huge decrease in money with a massive increase in expenses with the children. As a wealthy woman you can easily return to work after 1-2 years and pay nannies or kindergartens to take care of the child.. Maybe its cultural, in many countries its totally normal that your child is looked after by non-family members for 6-8 hours a day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:37 AM
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A woman who has an average salary still has higher demands on her man than one who has no salary at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:27 AM
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Many men do not want to be the primary caregiver and dont want to reduce hours to take over a large part of child rearing. In addition, companies accept it even less when men reduce hours due to raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:05 AM
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Fewer marriages because marrying is no longer a financial necessity Fewer divorces because marriages are no longer only for financial reasons More singles ( because women [more than men imo] prefer to be alone rather than settle for less )
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:37 AM
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The USA is much younger than the country i come from, maybe a more chilled out attitude on these issues comes with age :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:42 AM
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Prostitution should be legalized and made widespread. I wonder what would happen to the sexual market if that occurred though Nothing happens, i live in a city with a couple of brothels (i live 5 minutes walk from the oldest brothel in town) and young men don't want to lose their virginity to prostitutes in most cases. A well-known brothel owner had to close some brothels and commented on it in the local newspaper article and said that the demand was simply decreasing also... although prostituti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:54 AM
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Literally no culture befor us had washing machines, internet access, smartphones etc...whats ur point? Should we cling to the stupid things of the past without evolving because we "aLwAyS diD iT tHaT wAy"?..that sounds like my 84 y/o grandmother who cant understand that a student really needs a computer and internet access for school because "when I was young we didn't have these things and we grew up fine". Some things that used to be normal (such as racial segregation) will be reconsidered and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:26 AM
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imo choleric doesnt mean someone is a physical threat 🤷🏽‍♀️ its also not a character trait im activly looking for (even though quiet, gentle guys dont rly do it for me, cant help it), it was just an example of smth i could deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:25 PM
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Wait, did you just accept that you lose sexual interest in men who show weakness? There are exceptions like the death of a relative, the death of a pet, other tragedies idk ... but basically yes, I don't like men who are "whiny" and who complain alot and feel sorry for themselves (I can deal with choleric men for example, so the word "emotional" would not fit)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:40 AM
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none! never talked to my parents about boys, that would have been weiiird
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:45 PM
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exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:44 PM
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how do i lack of awareness? also, there are plenty of men out there who say they want a stay at home wife and homemaker, nothing wrong with that 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:44 PM
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What about women sitting down learning how to use make-up on internet, looking at product reviews, and then going shopping to buy the right things that will make them look better? Or people going to the gym so they can fake having a general fit lifestyle despite they sit 90% of the day. People do everything consciously, they just do not call it manipulation. ;( I think the intentionen "imma make myself pretty to attract a cute guy" or "ill be the next schwarzenegger to get a hot chick" is more d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:42 AM
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What gets you the most attention is giving attention not really, reducing attention creates interest if a certain attraction already exists beforehand ... if something is too easy, you don’t feel like you’ve won anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:24 AM
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So why are people talking of TRP's manipulation as if it was a bad thing, when it's just how every interaction works? Few people consciously try to manipulate others in the sense that they sit down and read about the human psyche... this seems strange to many people who are not interested in why people tick how they tick Pretty sure we had this conversation already and we ended up agreeing :P haha yeah i think so too...now say that im right!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:22 AM
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Do you not consider female make-up and artifices to all be manipulative as well? ofc it is!!! Every interaction where one person consciously exhibits certain behavior in order to generate a certain reaction in the other person is manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:28 AM
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All women like men who are tall, have broad shoulders, have masculine face, are fit/muscular, are high status, wealthy, with sightly above average penises, and who are into them Just as men want young, attractive, agreeable women...whats your point? Of course, ALL people (men and women) want the best of the best, but that doesn't mean that people can't be happy with anything else. You (and trp in general) care too much about what the perfect man would be for women (honestly red pill are more obs…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:23 AM
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where you pack a bag to get ready for work at the girl’s house. just curious, what would you pack in said bag?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:17 AM
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What's manipulative about TRP? Whats not manipulative about learning what makes women tick and then scratching exactly that spot to get ur dick wet? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:10 AM
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All people like the same things to a certain degree, and after that there are gradations! ( all heterosexual men like vaginas, but do they like every vagina because of that? Ofc not, that would be ridiculous) All people like to eat...but what ppl like to eat varies All people are similar (two arms, two legs, one head etc) , but only to a certain extent, TRP sometimes exaggerates when it comes to how much women are alike, and how little they differ
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:45 AM
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but never any males. Rather sad. i think its waaay easier to listen to my friends problems (doesnt matter if they're male or female) than to my BF's ... imo its not so much about gender and more about what role the man should play in my life. For a friend the bar is much lower, he has much more scope for what is appropriate and what is not ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:18 AM
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choose to foresake all other sexual options to be around just one girl 24/7, Do you think most women are a realistic option for an average guy.. for many men the girlfriend is the best option compared to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:00 AM
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idk, ive never been that way (never tell/told any of my friends who i have a crush on) , my younger sister neither, i think it just depends on the person...often when ppl tell me stuff i secretly think " omg i would never tell anyone "
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:55 AM
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Not op but to me it is exhausting to talk about such things. When I have to discuss things that are "in the making", like a job change, they become more real if i talk about them, not only for me but also for my environment and I have to justify my decisions. I don't want to justify my decisions and be questioned about it every phase of my decision-making process (therefor i keep it to myself). Also, in certain decisions, I don't want to be influenced by my partner's opinion (even if he means it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:07 AM
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Honestly, relationships and loving people are not actually about constantly “expressing” every random feeling and thought, the sooner you learn that the better. this! I can't and don't want to be my partner's emotional sponge, and i don't want to have to share every emotion with my partner, such needy people are exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:00 AM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:13 PM
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It's not me choosing them, it's them choosing me. It is definitely in your power to change your environment, I dont know a single polygamous person (there are not many of them), the fact that you know several of these women shows in which circles you move. It's like complaining that Mc Donalds only has burgers and fries and no lobster and carviar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:44 PM
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But the fact of the matter is that most of them are thinking with a mindset of what is he giving me, what does he bring to the table, what has he done for ME lately. Nobody spends time with someone who has nothing to offer you, be it emotional support, love, sex, money or whatever ... men AND women want something in return for the time they invested!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:16 PM
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yeah nah, never met a woman who actually lowered her standards when she got older, also, idk any desperate woman who is looking for a man but cant find one, to me it seems most women who want to be in a relationship, are in a relationship, mostly with guys they choose and are attracted to (or have been attracted to at some point)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:52 AM
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Exactly! Its rather strange that he can't find a woman who wants that with him, even though they sleep with him... he's either not attractive or has some other major flaws...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:36 AM
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"where are all the good men gone" yeah... i dont really hear that in RL...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:32 AM
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If he says no woman wants a relationship and the women he sleeps with aren't really hot (I think he said they are "not ugly") then I somehow don't think he's that attractive. Unattractive men have casual sex as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:30 AM
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Which is going to hit their face hard when they realize their huge SMV is just temporary. even when their SMV decreases, there are still enough men left to settle with...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:26 AM
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that doesn't mean that its realistic for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:21 AM
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It is irrelevant whether the wall exists or not because the vast majority of men cannot attract young beautiful women and the majority of young beautiful women have no interest in old, average men. Of course, there are always exceptions and there are 40 average men with 20 years old and pretty young women, just as there are lottery winners, but how likely is it? No matter how old a woman is, there will always be (older) men who flirt with her and woo her. What you describe is for most average ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:06 AM
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non chads doing "chadly hobbies" doesnt make them more "chadly", worst case scenario...unattractive weight lifting, gun enthusiasts can come off as weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:37 AM
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dont forget about physical attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:29 AM
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looks, money, status
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:17 AM
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yep...this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:11 AM
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nope but whatever makes u feel good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:00 AM
4

A woman who refutes all aspects of AWALT is known as a unicorn, mythologically named, because such things do not exist. Just as mythology is fiction, so is the woman who refutes all aspects of AWALT. Outlier women and self-aware women who work to mitigate their nature will behaviourally refute some aspects of AWALT, but most women will refute none. https://illimitablemen.com/tag/unicorn/ afaik this is the common definition of a unicorn in the red pill world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 06:47 PM
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japanese ppl arent all nice either, it is a facade that needs to be maintained in everyday life, for a grumpy person like me an absolute horrorible idea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:05 PM
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Most men just want someone attractive. That's it. Just don't be a fatass and practically any non deformed woman is golden. What women ​ The men you see "choosing" aren't fucking choosing anything Maybe you don't have as much choice as the men I know? Each of them chose their wife and girlfriend and they also had no problems with being single (and also no problems with getting to know different women) maybe your standards are simply lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:04 PM
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If your wife happily joins a threesome with another woman, id say she is the unicorn :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:51 PM
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Just like women want a monogamous, well-earning, loyal, loving, chad... but how realistic is that? How many of them even exist, and also, even these people get abandoned and / or cheated on... also, I've seen men choose the objectively less attractive woman because she was more interesting / funny or whatever ... yes, men look at how you look, but not exclusively
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:49 PM
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Who wants some meek doll? I think many men want that in their imagination, but if they have to choose, they often don't feel drawn to the "safe" choice ... i think a lot of people just like the unknown and the challenges, the feeling of having conquered a person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:28 PM
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I meant that more related to every situation in life... "Being nice" often doesn't get you very far
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:24 PM
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One man's "red flag" is another man's "cute quirk" who makes his wife a "unicorn" In addition, people subconsciously do not necessarily choose their partners based on what is emotionally "healthy", but rather on what feels familiar
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:11 PM
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Being nice often doesnt lead to the desired results
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:01 PM
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Blaming nice guys for being nice and winding up in abusive relationships is tantamount to victim blaming. If you choose to stay in a relationship with someone who is not good for you / does not treat you well...who is to blame other than yourself? Of course the other person is an ass, but its still you who decides to stay in the relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:00 PM
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I love such theories (seriously, i really do). I like conspiracy theories and have often imagined whether movements like MGTOW or REDPILL are a subproject of some small crazy elite subgroup who simply enjoys observing people under different influences and get a thrill out of being able to manipulate people and predict their behavior ( and idk, make million dollar bets on how this all will turn out five years form now xD ) In the end, however, I think this is all pretty unlikely, the current soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:33 AM
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Idk, one time per hour or smth, not necessarily because im horny, more in a curious "I wonder what he look like during sex?" way. 28, f
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 04:50 PM
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Idk how good his advice really is but i like Mindful Attraction's videos
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 04:41 PM
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probably all people from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:55 PM
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no, never said that, read again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:53 PM
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Don't marry a woman who wasn't really "into you" from the start because she probably is just that...not that into you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:52 PM
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nah, still on the fence ...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:46 PM
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I have had other experiences, for example an introverted friend has extroverted, bubbly girlfriends without exception, another rather plain friend wants his women to be dolled up, I could go on for quite some time talking about men and women who are completely opposite in certain things ... i think that's also one reason why men like/are fascinated by overly emotional/dramatic women, they like to be part of the emotional roller coaster because they can't feel it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:44 PM
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Maybe it's the "bitter" kind of older women who turn men off? Younger women are more naive and therefore more enthusiastic, they are more "alive". I assume men are looking for traits in women that they lack / cannot express themselves, i.e. the ability to live out zest for life, passion, devotion and curiosity in a childlike manner... all these characteristics disappear / become less with increasing life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:29 PM
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On another note, no one has or should have kids for their own personal happiness. lol so why should ppl have children then? For the benefit of the people / the party / the collective?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 12:52 PM
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Sometimes we just have to lie to ourselves that we have made the best decisions possible in order to continue to live without being consumed by frustration and regret...the ability to do that makes life more bearable, everyone does it in one way or another
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 12:45 PM
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Because you tell yourself that such irreversible decisions must be great (people have to justify the effort they brought in), regardless of whether you have children or not, very few will admit they regret their decisions..why? Because then you have to admit you're stupid, and no one likes to be the stupid one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 12:05 PM
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When it starts nearing 20-s. oh ok, I thought we were talking about a time and age when parents are still responsible for their children...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:25 AM
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What age are we talking about? Because playing video games all day and not telling parents about relationships sounds like the most normal thing in the world of a teenager...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 08:56 AM
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Aren't such conversations uncomfortable with your own parents? Most ppl tried to avoid such conversations afaik
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 08:49 AM
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Anytime I mentioned staying alone forever, they brushed it off and told me that's bs What did you expect your parents to do? What advice would have helped you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:32 AM
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Yummy! *_*
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:37 PM
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Agree that it's attractive, but disagree that it's a dad bod. yep yep, i thought so too, men with dad bods are more doughy and unmuscular
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:17 AM
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nope, i dont like it! I dont like guys who are out of shape and dont work out, they're just not sexy imo! I like 'em sportyish/ripped...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:32 AM
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The average age of menopause is 51 years old https://www.medicinenet.com/menopause/article.htm#what_is_menopause
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:01 PM
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i want to hear about it! stop "we'ing" here...just speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:33 AM
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Its one of the reasons sluts find it hard to get a HVM to commit. But it's actually not hard! XD It's just hard for the (as I said, stupid) women who you seem to be interacting with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 10:13 AM
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its easy to lie to young guys, old guys, smart guys, dumb guys, its easy to lie to all sorts of guys (heck my 10 year old niece is able to manipulate my BF and her Grandfather in a way that its hard for me not to laugh when im seeing it xD... its not working with the grandma, the aunt or me, so she doesnt even try)...men have other departments where they outperform women,but body language, reading between the lines and deceiving ppl is not mens strength... and that does not change with age or ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:57 AM
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ur boring...bye
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:48 AM
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After reading this, and having read your other expamples you're either lying or you're surrounded by exceptionally dumb women, none of my high n-count friends has these sort problems, its ridiculously easy to hide stuff from a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:46 AM
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Everyone holds definitions based on their preferences, but how they’re actually used is what matters. thats not how language works but whatever...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:26 AM
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How would you KNOW if she lies? You CAN’T. So how would you like it or not? Some men think they have a sixth sense for it and "see through" women with a high n-count, which is hilarious! Men are so oblivious about thousands of other things ( the best example is the men who were "left out of the blue" by their women. It is not "out of the blue" in 99% of cases, only men do not recognize the signs. They see what they wanna see, women do this as well but imo it happens more often with men) and dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:23 AM
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im a 28 y/o woman and the definition hasnt changed ...nobody cares what you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:08 AM
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I know that young people tend to interpret words as they would like them to be (and are horrified when the world is not playing along) but nevertheless the definition of the word has not changed We have clear definitions of what each relationship model is called (monogamy, polygamy, poliandry etc ...) there are all separate terms for this, if young people think they still have to occupy one term, even though there is already another, it is just stupid and irrelevant and the rest of the world wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:37 AM
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but banging one or multiple people on the side is still monogamy. it isnt (Just like that one extremly tanned lady doesnt turn into a black woman, just because she adjusts her exterior ) only the facade is maintained, we call it "cheating" for a reason -.-
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:29 AM
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we all do stuff we don’t want to do for the satisfaction of our partners. in the bedroom? no "we" dont o.O wtf Part of intimacy is learning to enjoy stuff you probably wouldn’t choose to do eh, not really, i have a pretty good imagination and can imagine if i like smth or not, pleasing my partner is one thing but doing something that actually makes me uncomfortable is another...intimacy is being able to voice what you would like and talk about what might be good without feeling uncomfortable but…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:44 AM
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its not necessarily lack of experience but simply lack of empathy 🤷🏽‍♀️...i dont have the life experience either but i can imagine how it must be like...he's not able to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:11 PM
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idk, to me, the right leaning people i know are more willing to take risks jobwise, thats just what i have observed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:19 PM
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I'm mansplaining to you that this is the age where you have the most power and fewer responsibilities having power = / = being happy fewer responsiblities --> are you crazy? so you're telling me people 18 til 30 have FEWER responsibilities than people in their 50s or 60s? I don't know when the last time was you saw women 50+ but these ladies have no responsibilities except for themselves (and their husbands) AND they are financially stable...they literally have the BEST OF BOTH WORLDS. 18-20 may…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:16 PM
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Women are neurotic and their best position isn't exactly indicated by how happy they feel. so you, A MAN, explain to women now when their best years actually are despite the fact that they dont feel like what you said is true? Thats like saying you're comfortable with your car but some weird sales person still tries to sell you a motorcycle and even belives himself that you would be happier with it I said choose,not get.They only get the assholes for a little while.But they still choose them ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:41 PM
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dude, whatever....so, there are other reasons why politically left-wing people are more likely to become teachers, does not change the end result
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:31 PM
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When you talk about "good years" / "the good years of women", the happiness of the group of people we're talking about does not matter? Why? Are we soley talking about fertility? o.O The point is that this is the time they are able to choose what they want lol no, not EVERY woman gets the guy she REALLY wants, id say MOST women settle for some stable dude (they do like) and dont get the guy they REALLY want ... (i think most ppl do that, not just women) without taking into account providership a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:15 PM
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sometimes that's true, but not always
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:44 AM
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This is the time they are most desired. but its not the time when they're the happiest...self confidence peaks around 60 i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:39 AM
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yeah, thats why i pointed it out ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:07 AM
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it is a bad job if you are ambitious and want to be successful, its a nice job for people who value security and steadyness ... right-leaning people are mostly more ambitious than left-leaningpeople
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:27 AM
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My point is these things aren't only discussed on some shady internet place. It's interesting how different our experiences are, even though only a couple of hundred km separate us...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:13 AM
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This "top down agenda" that you are talking about is called a curriculum and is given by the state / government. I'm the last one to joke about conspiracy theories, but schools being left-wing breeding stations, arises all by itself. Being a teacher is a thankless job with no prospect of salary or prestige. The only good thing about this job is job security. Why should many politically right-wing people do such a job? This job is perfect for people with a left-wing stance...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:04 AM
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This is more scarcely seen, but women have sometimes complained IRL you do realize there is a difference whether you complain about an everyday situation that really affects you in that exact moment, or if you take an internet hype and make a straw man out of it -.- I already thought that you mixed two different things here, your example is not about feminists who act up for no reason, but about a woman in the subway who complained about another passenger who needs too much space, not a man who …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:58 AM
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Most teachers (at least where i live) are extremly left leaning, even my friends who are going to be teachers are extremly left leaning (i think being a teacher isnt an attractive job opportunity for a right winged person), therefor, schools are often left leaning environments and teachers dont hold back their political beliefs ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:50 AM
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dafuq?! Thats weird...they even use the word "menspreading"? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:44 AM
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Air conditioning, rape culture, manspreading and feminicid are subjects women complain about in real life. Maybe this is just france but feminist bullshit is not some shady internet thing. women in your social environment/at work, or women in the newspaper and on tv? Cause i NEVER heard anyone complain in RL about rape culture or menspreading or some feminist stuff in general, Air condition on the other hand is a much discussed topic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:42 AM
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In bad times the true nature of man and how he behaves in bad times is shown, in good times it shows the true nature of man and how he behaves in good times. People want to "feel good" as often and as long as possible ...depending on what we have available, we will try to get what feels "good" in every situation in life ... when you are rich, ofc it’s different from when you’re poor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:29 AM
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same where i live, if you live in the same household long enough, you have advantages that you can only get thourgh marriage in other countries... as far as I know there are no disadvantages similar to what would happen when you get divorced, but idk, maybe people just don't know about it...i know two couples where im sure they wouldve gotten married if this wouldnt be the case, but since you only need to cohabite for i.e. health insurancy, marriage is just not that necessary and people postpone…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:16 AM
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Stopping taking the pill can have a massive impact on what/who you find attractive , just sayin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:02 AM
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cool, ur special, congrats...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:45 AM
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i can only speak from my own experience and what ive seen in RL is that women dont go crazy when to guys make out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:18 PM
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If i had to name the primary feeling i felt for all of my boyfriends without using the word love, the next best word would be admiration. Idk if that answers your question, but thats all ive got... F; 28 y/o, 3 LTR's
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:31 AM
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They didn't really do it for attention though. and thats one difference between men and women, alot of women do make out because they know men will like it Much of what we see as masculine/feminine is just based on the culture we grew up in. So you think it's cultural that it's emasculating when a man and another man make out/have sex?! And I'm assuming youre from a different gestation than me (I'm 19) so our experiences are prolly gonna be pretty different I am 28, but I have an 18 year old sis…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:12 AM
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women being into gay porn =/= women in RL enjoying seeing two guys making out It's not until very recently that men have even been allowed to "experiment" without harsh social punishment. Women on the other hand have been praised for doing so. men and women are not the same so ofc social norms and rulse dont apply to them equally, a man making out with another guy will ALWAYS be seen differently than two chicks making out As the stigma fades alot more men are doing it a lot more guys make out wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:32 AM
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The majority of women don't go crazy when they see two men making out the way men go crazy ... and none of this really has anything to do with homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:19 AM
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I almost wanted to add "... and yes, of course there are exceptions and men who don't like it, but I'm only talking about the classic broad mass of men here" if only I had done that ...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:01 AM
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If you tried it once or twice when you where younger but didnt liked it enough to make it smth you do on a regular basis, id say thats what people say is "bicurious"... women are more inclined to try it out for several reasons ...imo the big difference is that men find lesbian hot (and women know that), men want to see two women together, women, on the other hand, arent really eager to see two guys making out... I think that's one big reason why women are more keen to experiment, they like the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 08:13 AM
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i think this is what ur looking for original post https://pbs.twimg.com/media/D7bmXSdWwAETduZ.jpg comments https://amp.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/bscsdu/aita_for_flirting_with_19_year_old_girls_and/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:19 PM
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he's trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:36 PM
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"dont play hard to get, BE hard to get"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 03:29 PM
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A kind, humorous, attractive, professionally successful man with interests / hobbies who likes to spend time with me but doesnt need me for his entertainment. A man who impresses me, who has friends and is socially competent and prefareably has no children. A man whose presence enriches my life more than it puts a strain on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:45 PM
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i think im not really getting what we're talking/debating here, sry...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:14 AM
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The more you like the person the more you want things to become intimate, no? If this would be the case, no one would wait until marriage for sex I also don't imagine a man having plates on the side still not wanting to fuck you though, that's still a hint that he's not interested. So don't you think there are men waiting for a woman while visiting a brothel or call escorts on the side?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:08 AM
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They're equally bad but for different reasons imo, first is bad because my self esteem would be hurt, second is bad because my ability to trust a person would suffer, but I guess i wouldnt be in such a situation anyway... I love(d) all my BF's but i wouldnt have waited 3 months(!) to sleep with them, i really cant imagine a scenario where a man is so special that i would wait that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:57 AM
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And the worst is, women WANT men to be into them so much that they push for sex earlier, if the man quietly wait for 3 month women too will assume he's not into them. or that he fucks someone else in these 3 months
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:49 AM
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i myself LOOOOVE covering tabs when i go out with my girlfriends who make less than me i'm basically their sugar daddy so to me the fact that my guy friends like it isn't that weird? i totally get that, I often invited my bestie for food and drinks when she had no job, i liked it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:26 AM
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Oh my God, Karen! You can't just ask people if they're white!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 03:27 PM
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women like sex, they are just pickier than men ...how do i know this? I am a woman and i really enjoy having sex with men i find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:49 AM
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If you unironically think that women like sex, you're in for a surprise. ehm...women DO like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:45 AM
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Imagine being responsible for the plague that is incels... I would immediately demand all mod rights in all incel forums but thats just me xD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:03 AM
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all the time yeah no, it def doesnt happen "all the time" -.-
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:52 AM
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According to numbers released in June 2016 from the Adoption and Foster Care Analysis & Reporting System, of the nearly 428,000 children in foster care, 53,549 were adopted with public child welfare agency involvement. In the majority of cases (68 percent), married couples adopt children from foster care, followed by single females (26 percent). Three percent are unmarried couples, and the remaining 3 percent are single males. yeah, 3% of the male population doing it, most normal thing ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:51 AM
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Damn! Didnt know that...thanks for the info! xD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:16 AM
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it blows my mind that the movement was started by a woman wait what? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:10 AM
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There will never be a vast majority of men who want to raise children alone XD even if you want that , most men dont...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:01 AM
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yeah well, im like 99% sure if we as a society dont let single men adopt children (for obvious reasons) we dont start changing that when there will be articial wombs, also, most men dont want to raise children alone so the men who would be vocal about wanting that would mostly be pedophiles...no sane guy wants to be associated with that group
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:49 AM
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lol no its not ...also, the user tumbleweed mentioned single men arent allowed adopt children, so yeah, no guy will be allowed to get a child for himself to raise it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:22 AM
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oh ok, didnt know about that ... where I live it is theoretically allowed, but as there are far too few children and far too many adoptive parents, adoption is never possible for singles
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:20 AM
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And u think people in charge (governments) will allow men to raise children alone, just like that? o.O I highly doubt that... idk if you know the statistics about child abuse and male kindergarden teachers but im sure it wont be that easy for guys....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:00 AM
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Even if there are artificial wombs, people in charge will be very careful about guys who want to raise children alone, just as we as a society are suspicious about guys who want to work with little children
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:57 AM
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When I was young I dated a lot of dirty punk squatter types same, but even they showered and brushed their teeth...they just looked gross
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:03 AM
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is lack of hygiene really an issue with a lot of men? I am baffeld that this seems to be such a problem tbh!!! Where do you find these nasty guys? o.O ALL the men I know and interact daily with (friends, coworkers, relatives...) shower every day, brush their teeth, use deodorant and wear washed clothes ... that's the most normal thing in the world. Even my 75 y/o Grandfather shaved daily (!), showerd, put on cologne and wore clean, decent clothes...same goes for my 70 y/o dad When I read here th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:47 AM
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like in my mind I'm being eloquent and poignant, but my mouth is only saying every third word. yep, this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:00 PM
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because of statements like this 🤷🏽‍♀️ I think a high value man wouldn't want someone used up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:01 PM
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smart men ask, wise men know they are being lied to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:54 PM
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Of course, all men who dont ask women about their sexual history and who do not assume that every woman is a whore are lvm XD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:31 PM
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Well, yeah, your experience with older women will always be better you mean like women over 50? It gets easier the older they get, but women between 35 and 45 have been the "worse" so far... i'll try to be more mindful about how i interact with woman, maybe my observations are a bit off, idk...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:58 PM
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I'm sure the dynamic between ugly girls is different, they tend to get along better with each other. I think the level of attractiveness plays a big role, while i and my best friend are at eye level in terms of attractiveness, i notice that the dynamics change when female friends are less attractive ( they are more interested in my opinion and they act more according to what I tell them, while my best friend and I listen to what the other has to say, but do not necessarily act accordingly ) What…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:37 PM
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What is the 'female sexual matrix' can you expand? The women with whom you interact often in your daily life, eg: circle of acquaintances, work colleagues, classmates, ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:30 PM
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Most men won't, but for experienced guys it's easy to tell the type of person the girl is after talking with her for an hour or so. no... not really... this just seems like another revenge fantasy "just do what you want but the TRUE men see through you" But most men would question you, and at that point it's your choice to be truthful. they usually dont, like...never I think you overestimate men's ability to see through women ...the male ego, your penis and the prejudices of men towards women ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:19 PM
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But if you date from your social group, then guys talk. Even girls talk about that stuff, don't they? never did online dating, always dated inside my social group and never had any problems like that, guys dont talk as much as some guys think tbh, especially when they have hobbies they enjoy together ....sure some guy groups gossip like girls, but not all of them, just like not all girl friend groups gossip about other people edit: probably depends on how the relationship ended and how you behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:58 AM
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I am similar, because of that I would be interested in what it's like to be the "Queen Bee" and what rules apply in her "kingdom"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:32 AM
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If other men got you easily, that'll make the man see you the same way as what other men saw you. But how are men supposed to know what other men have to do to reach the same goal? How do men generally know about my past?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:29 AM
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Thank you very much for your contribution ...very interesting :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:17 AM
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I think it is difficult for many women (maybe people in general) to not be too demanding, but also not to be too reserved (especially if they are only average attractive). I assume it has become very difficult for many people through the internet and constant accessibility to assess how much contact is good / bad (especially because it varies depending on the person in question) ... i.e. my luck / or bad luck is that I'm not really aware of that (i never thought about "do i text to much, to litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:12 AM
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There is no cheat code you can reference on the internet to be able to be around people in real life. Eh, there are shelves of books with themes like "how do I behave in situation XY" ... books on "dark" psychology explain how to manipulate people, there are books on how people behave and how they behave when you bring them into specific situations ... Salesmen are often masters of manipulation and know exactly which buttons to press to get specific results. Human communication is not a mystery,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:35 AM
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Maybe women are no longer subtle enough, i can imagine men dont like to be aware they have to dance like a monkey (just to be clear, not that thats not how it works, im just saying men dont want to be aware they're the monkey), they probably dont mind seducing a woman but it shouldnt seem/feel like extremly hard work to them. The effort to get a certain woman shouldnt be too high, but also not too low.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:27 AM
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thanks for your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:15 AM
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What the fuck is with these retarded, edgy, made up names for every day normal things? Having certain terms makes it easier to discuss certain topics You're talking about having friends. I'm not necessarily talking about how to interact with women you're friends with. I'm talking about how women generally (no matter what relationship they have to each other) interact with each other, and which "social rules" should be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:05 AM
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Less cynical ... in my current relationship I have experienced for the first time the romance doesnt have to be cheesy and over the top and can just be lovely and nice; I've become a lot more romantic in the last few years (but maybe that's because my attitude towards most things has become more positive / more optimistic)...I was much more cynical in my teenage years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:58 AM
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I wouldnt care how a man got his money. His attitude torwards work, and what he does with his money, is what's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:15 AM
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But both men are desirable, both men can choose from a pool of women. Is it really relevant if one man can have 100 women and another 105 women, if some men can not even get one reasonably attractive woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:58 AM
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Is it really useful to discuss who is more successful when it comes to two almost identical HQ men? What kind of knowledge can be gained through this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:32 AM
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I can only speak of what I see in real life, and the women who are not ugly or fat have no problem finding a man in any age You can always be the "younger" chick, you just need to go for older guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:56 AM
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The women I know are in LTRs and when they are single, they are never single for a long time ... I'm 28
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:59 AM
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Has anything happened in the past between you two that you defend him so much ? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:39 AM
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He's definitively above average... :/ nah, not really
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:31 AM
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i thought so too, thats why i wasnt sure about him on the list, but i know a couple of women who think he's unattractive so i thought i add him as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:26 AM
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Mostly ... I have always had a weakness for skaters, punks, skinheads ... everything that is extraordinary and uninteresting to most women. My first boyfriend looked like a mix of Euronymous (Mayham) and Billy Joel Armstrong (Green Day).. I still remember the first time I saw him and thought, "I WANT THAT!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:17 AM
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At least I know a lot more women who have no problem with being single. "Being Single" seems to be more of a decision for women than for men. Men often seem to be involuntarily single when they are single
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:10 AM
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Yes, each of these men is unique and also has a talent or other trait that sets him apart from normal men most men i meet in RL. Also, they're famous and successful which is sexy. I probably would not find any of these men attractive if they were just a regular dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:05 AM
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he's certainly not handsome, id say he's normal but more on the uglier side of normal http://www.hotmodelsactress.com/actors/gallery/gal210/photos/3.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:01 AM
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So, women - who is a guy that you are attracted to (ie would actually fuck) that might make your friends say “ewwww!” ? Michael Cera (in "Superbad") Marylin Manson (around 2000) Rivers Cuomo ( late 90s) Alan Rickman (Always) Sid Vicious & (young) Johnny Rotten Steve Buscemi (in Reservoir Dogs) Billie Joe Armstrong (idk if he counts) Wiz Khalifa Styxhexenhammer666 (Youtuber)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:52 AM
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Female, straight, 28, NEVER!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:39 AM
11

well technically that is still "conditional" lol. you just had to be her kid. yes, but the love of a mother to her child is the most unconditional love that occurred to me, that's why I took it as an example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:18 AM
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I think they talk about unconditional love, like the love a mother feels for her child. Many people find it hard to accept that no one loves you unconditionally and that you cant expect that from other adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:10 AM
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I've literally been staring at a girl on this train for about 10 minutes. Edit: she just stared back at me! you exchanged smiles or anything? this sounds so awkward xD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:48 PM
1

I think it's very difficult to build a social network in your 30's, but it's possible, maybe you should focus on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:05 PM
1

good for them, they will have a big advantage over their peers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:02 PM
1

some men are dumb, many men have looked through the lie ( these men dont complain) in their teenage years or at the latest after the first break up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:01 PM
2

Exaggerated but do you think a mother tells her teenage son "do not be overly nice, that seems desperate"? I highly doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 05:57 PM
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I think it’s good to look inwards instead of externalizing I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 05:55 PM
1

My dad never really talked about boys other than the need to get a big tough guard dog to protect my sister and I ​ Fathers on the other hand let their daughters know (often indirectly) what boys really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 05:54 PM
14

You played yourself this! i think many people in general have a hard time accpeting that it took them a bit longer than other people to see through the "lies"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 05:47 PM
1

If I was to buy a sex doll, it would resemble a woman between ages 18-25 Just out of curiosity, where would you store this doll? Or would you just leave her sitting in the room?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 05:42 PM
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Where are you looking? Where do you expect to meet guys? I think these women dont really have to look for a stranger, they choose someone from the circle of acquaintances, at least thats what i would do, thats also what my single female friends do, they date guys they already know from somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 05:40 PM
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Idk why mothers would be telling their boys how to pick up women. Because women take over most of the parenting. There are many different constellations, physically absent fathers, emotionally absent fathers, fathers who work a lot, fathers who do not talk to their children ... in the vast majority of cases the mother is in the picture, the father isnt necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 05:11 PM
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why don’t men’s all mighty fathers tell them the truth about how bitchy and horrible all the women in their lives were? ​ Most abandon their responsibilities. u kinda answered your own question
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 05:05 PM
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Young men/boys are told this. they're also told about santa and stuff like that, some ppl are able to look through it earlier than others ...nobody owes you honesty!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:45 PM
2

so? many people are mentally ill or traumatized 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:11 PM
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i was refering to the slutty dresses chick in the dark neighbourhood 🤷🏽‍♀️ Also, men may have been lied to but at some point ur an adult and you have to take responsibility, u think women arent lied to? But keep whining, thats hot, i really enjoy your bitterness xD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:21 PM
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oh if i would say that in RL i would be called a victim blamer as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:13 PM
2

Dont walk slutty dressed in a shady neighborhood at night and be surprised if you get unpleasant attention...there, ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:08 PM
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women do NOT want a man that treats us badly or doesn’t respect us. and who are you to speak for all woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:04 PM
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they're not going to tell their sons that they're not good enough the way that they are well... they should... my mom did tell me this (because mothers treat their daughters differently) it's not some profound statement on your state of being, it's just a mother being supportive of someone that she loves. yeah well, being supportive and being helpful arent necessarily the same thing... Parents should guide their children and help them (which includes criticism), not be their cheerleader
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:00 PM
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I think that is quite possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:43 PM
3

fathers can perfectly explain this to sons and daughters just like mothers can Most people dont even think about WHY they do certain things and WHY they like / dislike certain people... here in PPD this is normal and we do it all the time, but in real life, few people / parents can explain their human behavior to their children or themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:14 PM
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they would tell their sons to be an asshole sometimes if they really wanted a girl lol. yep yep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:10 PM
2

Thats the same as the "women like men that treat them poorly meme. its kinda true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:57 PM
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That's not the point, the point is that the feminist movement has achieved a lot, whereas TRP is small and doesnt do anything (except that men can vent anonymously on the internet)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:44 PM
5

if feminism has not achieved anything, why is TRP complaining so much about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:38 PM
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All people always lie about everything, that's life ...some people see through it earlier, others later .. maybe thats a modern version of "survival of the (mentally) fittest"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:36 PM
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And Fathers do? they should do it, but men are more "looking and imitating" rather than explaining , at least thats what i see when i look at how dads and sons interact with each other Thats some realy generalizing statments that make little sense tbh. idk man, makes a lot of sense when i look around in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:33 PM
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Women technically do the majority of child rearing and, in most cases, spend more time with their children. If mothers show or explain their daughters how to find a BF or how the BF should treat them, what is okay and what is not, its an eye-level conversation (two fishers are talking about the fisherman and his tactics) that does not work for sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:26 PM
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it was pretty fascinating for me as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:17 PM
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BUT men do have a better ability to overcome this lying. Some of these men formed a group online to talk about it. And TRP was born. lol yeah sure, women are so bad at networking and talking about their problems xD TRP is ridiculously small in comparison to the feminist movement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:03 PM
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Mothers usually dont tell their sons what women really find attractive because they often dont know it themselves. Men say they do not want bitchy, high maintanence women but in reality many men find these women great, women say they want a nice, emotional, understanding man, but wehn they actually have one they often dont like it. People are dumb, what they think they want, and what they really want, is often not the same Ask the fisherman, not the fish!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 12:56 PM
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I think when men say "Society lied to me" they often mean "My mother lied to me". Fathers are, in my opinion, more honest with their daughters when it comes to the intentions of men than mothers with their sons. Mothers are more inclined to tell their sons that they will find a girl if they are only decent and nice, Fathers on the other hand let their daughters know (often indirectly) what boys really want. Moms imo often times focus to much on not hurting their sons feelings, while dads care mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 11:49 AM
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ahh ok, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 11:08 AM
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I can only speak of myself, but I would take an older guy (10+ years older than me) to feel younger myself, not because I find him more attractive than a man in his mid 30s I wonder how many other women feel like this as well...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 10:31 AM
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i read your comment 4 times but im just to dumb to get it ...sry, cant answer, too stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 10:15 AM
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Cool, with this logic i can blame my guy for ALL my shortcomings...yay Windows arent cleaned - "sorry honey, you're not alpha enough to motivate me to clean"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:20 AM
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Id consider a cuckold relationship (me being the cuck) if I could clone myself ...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:15 AM
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33 here. I'm in a LTR with a woman who is seven months younger than me and I am very happy. so you and your GF are about the same age...7 month is like nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:14 AM
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It was "my fault", I just wasnt attracted to him anymore...it was strange at first and became more and more terrible and weird the longer it lasted (talking about a couple of months here). You dont notice it at first, someday suddenly I realized that it was weeks ago and I still didnt feel like it...at some point I broke up, I couldnt stand it anymore...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:43 AM
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also a good way to appear creepy but hey, you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:09 PM
1

Weight is basically your calorie intake vs usage per day I know that, and if you also eat unhealthy things in addition to the healthy things, you can reach the daily maximum limit even faster
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:58 AM
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or, she eats (besides the healthy things) unhealthy things as well...many people think eating a cucumber compensates for a chocolate bar
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:41 AM
1

Another good way to tell is to tickle them. yeah, that sounds like a good plan ....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 10:05 AM
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How exactly? Not at all, they believe this because they see through women who lie badly (which is incredibly funny, considering how gullible men are with women who they find attractive) ... its the same as the "all cheaters get caught sometime " saying ...no, many are never caught, you just do not hear about them. men being able to smell high n-count women is just another revenge fantasy, nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 10:03 AM
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Jokes on them! The definition of losers. It was not an accident that happened, the chinese did it intentionally and planned well in advance, they realized the consequences of the one-child policy for the people but did it anyway ... The Chinese dont care about the individual ( The consequence that many men will die alone is unimportant to the government ), just the well-being the mass is relevant. An excess of men causes only the best of the best to breed and the "bad" genes die out. (besides, m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 07:42 AM
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https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2019/01/22/15/8841608-0-image-a-1_1548170503211.jpg Women like her can be seen a hundred times a day ... she is cute but not extraordinary
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:11 AM
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She works out a lot and eats healthy. u can work out and eat healthy and still be fat (like the chick in the instagram feed)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:09 AM
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I think it depends on how they perceive the man who rejects them, imo women take rejection harder if it was a man to whom they have lowered themselves ("I take the ugly low quality man because he at least admires me") Friend of mine was played by a man who has no job, no home, no car, no ambitions and looks like a homeless person ( "misunderstood musician" type of guy) and now she's chasing him for idk how long...I dont think this whole situation is about a broken heart but an injured pride / eg…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:58 AM
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no, I think the most sought after and thus most successful women are constantly off the market and even if they are single, they arent really on the market, because they immediately get attention from other man they already know (friends, coworkers...)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:50 AM
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Of course they can, but that's irrelevant when we talk about a woman leaving you because of hypergamy ...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:40 AM
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I think men who are successful with women are just less affected by defeat. If a woman says no, he just tries it on the next woman. Have seen this with some male friends who just didnt take a "no" so personally (because they all have a slightly exaggerated self esteem)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:33 AM
5

I think I would break up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:18 AM
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You underestimate how important interpersonal relationships are for mentally healthy men & women ... neither an animal nor a porostitute can substitute, "being loved" by a human
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:15 AM
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try to be her best option, that way, you dont have to fear hypergamy ...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:14 AM
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ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:06 PM
1

Are you the sandman from the mgtow youtube channel? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:55 PM
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True, but that doesnt have to penetrate into every area of ​​life... but hey, if you enjoy it, you do you unchallenged biases lead to cultish warped ideologies its not that extreme but ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:34 PM
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That does not mean that doing a sport / being a fan of a sports club is not a hobby ...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:28 PM
2

I only look for it to challenge my own biases. why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:05 PM
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Following your logic, isnt it strange that, as a male, you're looking for a woman with an almost exclusive male character trait? Isnt it kind of the same as when women are looking for an emotional man who talks about his feelings, and then they are disappointed when they really have such a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:03 PM
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Because most girls are into the same things most men too Video games Sports Cars / motorbikes I have no problem with that, I prefer such men over for example "travelers" but all humans are somehow basic, not just women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:38 AM
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What surprises me though, is how the hell do men find such shallow women attractive? For every boring, superficial woman there is a man who has just as few interests as she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:36 AM
1

Thanks, but no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:39 PM
1

I actually saw I girl I was friends with in 2017. The other night. I tried to strike up a conversation just to catch up. She just walked off with her friend. Ok that sucks, you seem to have had really bad experiences with women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:40 AM
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socially they are being pushed out as not being appropriate from whom? o.O who cares what u do in your private garage, who even knows about it? women view the whole man cave thing, its largely negative. What? o.O Most women are hella glad if their man has his space in order not to have all his stuff lying around in the house
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:38 AM
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I mean we do. We have lads nights and such. Yeah i experience that too, there are girls nights and boys nights but mostly, when the men meet to i.e screw on their bikes or smth, the women come along and do something else (men in the garage, women in the garden) and for lunch / dinner you get together, it is not strictly separate and it does not seem to bother anyone, you have to say that they are all in relationships with people they actually like to spend time with,none of the man and woman see…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:33 AM
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I say they are in more demand than ever but what is happening due to current day politics is men know they can't push for men only spaces without push back from women and be called sexist. Why dont men then create such a place privately? Build a bar in a garage, buy beer, invite friends ... done!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:15 AM
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Have you never met a woman with whom you would like to be friends, because she is funny or interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:07 AM
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the OP asked explicitly about hobbies / interests so I responded to that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:52 AM
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why should people ask other people to join them in some activity if they are sceptical about it? o.O its not like the women ask if they can join, its the guys asking the gals to come with them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:06 AM
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it's not the worst thing if the woman tries to tame me and get me to be more responsible. I should also do that, but we all know that women are great at making men vastly more lame and, consequently, less attractive. Sry, I dont know what this has to do with the fact that my male friends would be happy if the female friends participated in their hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:59 AM
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huh...never had that feeling...the guys i know would be thrilled if one of their female friends would join them playing paintball/airsoft, or go to the football stadium or a hockey game with them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:41 AM
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Do men do that? Most men seem to like it when women share their hobbies...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:43 AM
2

then the quote seems to be correct ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:34 PM
2

oh ok, i somehow thought u where single...oopsie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:33 PM
1

I also don't know why people never seem to just say they have sex because it's fun or whatever. because thats not the reason why i had sex with people i didnt love Even though it was fun, "fun" was not the reason why I wanted to have sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:31 PM
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There are plenty of people whom I find attractive and whom find myself attractive that I am not sleeping with... Why dont you sleep with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:28 PM
4

Have you never argued with your car mechanic and suddenly thought that you actually want to dominate and have sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:27 PM
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It confirms that I am sexually attractive for the men I find sexually attractive Mastubation is a quick way to an orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:21 PM
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yep yep...being old sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:59 AM
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I personally couldnt care less about abortions, single motherhood and all that jazz but I understand that its important that other people (the government) are concerned about these topics. I am not a philanthropist who cares about the well-being of humanity, as long as its fine for me and my loved ones, idgaf 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:14 AM
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Where I live is abortion neither legal nor illegal, it is a gray area and will not be prosecuted and you have to pay for it yourself... btw unborn children will make no contribution to society ever so they are irrelevant for our conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:49 AM
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r/CoolStoryBro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:45 AM
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That's exactly what the state has!! The state can take your child away if the authorities think you're not fit to be a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:32 AM
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I'm not talking about a trashy woman, I'm talking about a literal homeless alcoholic woman with shit and vomit all over her body -.-
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:30 AM
3

you are an exception when it comes to disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:23 AM
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Yes? Since women have all the rights over children, why shouldn't they have all the responsibility? because both men and women of the current generation are dependent on the next generation... children, and their upbringing are not only private problems of individual women but national issues
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:16 AM
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These countries also have skyrocketing rates of male loneliness and childlessness. but hey, at least in these countries, prostitution is legal and affordable ... btw women in these countries are just as lonely as men...everywhere in the "first world" loneliness increases afaik Also, especially old people (70 and older) in these countries are lonely, according to statistics...a generation where many men have propagated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:54 AM
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ive seen a vid of two drunk homeless people having sex in bright daylight on the street yesterday, trust me, you would've been disgusted ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:06 AM
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They met their spouse because they were neighbors, co-workers, or neighbors or co-workers with one of their friends. That was the case with me, my parents and grandparents. I've never been on a real "date" (in the sense that I'm consciously doing something with a man, as a couple, hoping that this will develop a relationship), that does not seem like a thing in my circle (its getting more common because of tinder though). Maybe thats the reason there was no "dating" advice from my parents or gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:48 AM
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I understand what you mean, but I think my mom wouldnt even have done that, I think she wouldnt have said anything in particular beside "nice" or smth like that... but still, I never had the feeling that this was her business. Now that Im an adult, I talk to her about my relationship and rant about my BF but mainly because I can blindly trust my mother and know that she will not use anything I say against me, not because I think her advice can really help me (although she often has good advice).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:43 AM
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I think people are way too focused on finding someone "compatible" with them Perhaps it comes from the craving for individuality these days... in the past it might not have been so frowned upon to change for your partner...today, any request to change something about your own person is automatically viewed an attack I agree with you by the way, compatibility is overrated as long as you are on the same page about the important things (children, marriage, sexual desire ...).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 03:15 PM
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true, thanks for adding that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:03 PM
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I don't know about you guys, but every adult in my life has told me this. In my teenage years, older people/ adults never told me anything about love and dating, I didnt want to talk to my parents or grandparents about my love life and I certainly didnt want any advice from them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:48 PM
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nobody thinks like that, we're talking about primal instincts that are deeply rooted in humans
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 08:59 AM
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People (just like animals) want to be sexually wanted by other people ... that's about it. I dont see why guys need to have sex with someone to feel validated, like I thought that if a women showing interest would be enough. If a woman allows you to become intimate with her, it is the greatest form of affirmation a male can experience. It shows the male "I think you are attractive / strong / smart enough that I risk pregnancy"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 08:55 AM
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If I had a € every time a man called me "cold" and "emotionless"...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:36 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:32 AM
1

I just chose her because she is unable to attract men that come even close to me hot people/ high quality ppl can be insecure too, just sayin...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:13 PM
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if she has an internet connection you can't prevent shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:42 PM
1

People want to be sexually attractive to other people, what is important for sexual attraction? First and foremost ...your appearance. Beautiful people are usually not proud of their beauty two minutes Instagram, Snapchat, Tiktok or Youtube proves the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:52 PM
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Legalizing prostitution would just make relationships about love instead of sex (after a long transition period ofc). despite prostitution being legal men still cheat on their wives, marry women and divorce them, are virgins, sexually frustrated or addicted to porn. I think many people overestimate the effects of legalized prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:33 PM
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On another hand, it's much more validating to be rewarded for what you can 'personally' do, what you've achieved, your capabilities just because something else is more "validating" to you personally, doesnt make my statement untrue, besides, I am talking about the subconscious level here, of course, no man is running around out there consciously thinking "I wish some woman would want my genetic material"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:17 PM
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Of course, that happens subconsciously... you also dont think "my body needs xyz nutrients to accomplish this and this task" , humans just think "I'm hungry"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:15 PM
2

I just mentioned that I dont find my ex BF's attractive in any way because your statement sounded like an absolute truth which applies to all people Also, what you're describing can happy with any other guy as well, a new guy is probably more threatening than the ex , guess it always depends on how the relationship ended
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:05 PM
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This is my thought. If there has been a spark there, it can kindle again. Maybe it depends on whether you are the one who was left or the one who left. My ex is one of the most unattractive people to me, and i would NEVER hook up with him again, even thinking of kissing him gives me an "eww" feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 12:52 PM
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I think visiting a prostitute, and sex with a woman who desires you, satisfy two different things, the first one scratches a physical/biological, the second, in addition, an emotional "itching"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:32 AM
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Men want the validation that their genetic material is worthy of procreation, therefor, men want to be desired by women , which doesnt mean that men can not still have sex without that validation... it's like scratching with gloves, the itching goes away, but you're still not completely satisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:16 AM
1

I honestly dont think your height is the problem...i mean, you're huge compared to me and/or most women i interact with in RL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 07:29 AM
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i like watching other people debate, i find that most comfortable in written form, and I'm interested in human behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:14 PM
2

In contrast to animals, we humans have brains that allow us to question our instincts. The fact that there are people who bind themselves for a lifetime shows ,that monogamy is possible. We dont have to be slaves to our instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 01:37 PM
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The entertainment industry sells fantasies, not reality, reality doesnt sell well...i mean, who wants to watch a 0815 guy who comes home after his 9-5 job, shoves a ready meal into the microwave and then falls asleep in front of the TV on the couch? That doesnt sound like a fun series...Isnt hollywood actually called "the dream factory"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 12:41 PM
1

I wonder , when boobs come back in fashion ... the last few years it was nothing but butt, butt, butt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 07:12 AM
3

same...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:19 PM
5

a wife isnt a plate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:34 PM
1

how much younger, if i may ask? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:16 PM
1

it certainly varies from region to region
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:08 PM
1

yeah i dont
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:05 PM
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never been asked, had this convo with a bunch of women who have/had boyfriends and they also never been asked...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:04 PM
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I’ve read women’s public bathrooms are often worse than men’s and require more hours of cleaning. can confirm that Women, more than men, also seem to find cleaning cathartic I envy these women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:03 PM
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They absolutely do want to know, because it changes their perception of them... because no one wants to be that loser betacuck. you really think the majority of guys ask their GF's about their n-count? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:59 PM
0

but you were not ripped off ...that's like saying if I dont get a job I applied for, I was ripped off ... I was not ripped off, there were only better candidates than me Who wants to clean up an alpha-chad's used-up mess like a betacuck when you can instead figure out how to be the alpha-chad? i think most guys outside of TRP dont really care about that tbh, most dont even want to know what their lady did befor they met her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:54 PM
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but you were not ripped off, the seller has weighed advantages and disadvantages and decided that you are a bad deal ... It is not the buyer's fault to not buy inferior goods, it is the seller's fault not to offer better products than the competition your thought process is just a childish way of justifying your own shortcomings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:45 PM
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The first guy was probably charming and told the seller convincingly how much money he has and that the car purchase seems realistic, while you look around the shop and hope that the seller comes to you to makes you an offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:42 PM
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"older men are STUPID\DELUSIONAL for thinking they can get a younger woman" It depends on how old the woman is, no one will deny that a 45 year old can rather easily have a 35 year old girlfriend, but the common opinion here that the majority of middle aged men can have women in their early 20s (as long as they take care of themselves) is whats delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:29 PM
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Ltr'ing them and them dumping them is worse imo... there isnt really a nice way of telling someone you dont want to be exclusive with them if they want exclusivity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:06 PM
2

steak first
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:53 PM
3

I think many people in happy relationships have found each other without ever really looking for it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:50 PM
2

cool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:48 PM
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I can only say that neither I, nor the women in my social environment, would consider a man in his mid-40s as a potential relationship partner or one-night stand... but maybe there are women of this age who are just looking for a stable breadwinner or think mid 40 guys are yummy, i really dont know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:47 PM
1

* no intentions other than being sexually attracted to the person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:41 PM
2

mid 30s =/= early 40s my BF is 5 years older (mid 30s) and he is gorgeous ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:35 PM
1

You can't see if you're compatible with someone without actually going into it honestly to express your genuine motivations and intentions. But what if there are no intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:32 PM
2

Uhm yes? When I and my BF started "dating" , I had no idea if it would turn into a relationship or a flirt or maybe nothing at all ... figuring it out was part of the fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:31 PM
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Cant you just invite me for coffee or smth before we exchange such personal information?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:16 PM
2

man i wish i could but i dont have a bathtub :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:08 PM
1

ROFL are you for real? You don't think women are obsessed with aging and appearance? of course, but what I've noticed, I'm more extreme about it than other women my age... but who knows, maybe more women are like me and I just do not realize it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:03 PM
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i think that is different from person to person, some people just like a bit of mystery, others are afraid of uncertainty ... Personally, i guess it would be a bit of a turnoff because it would be too easy, I think many people need a small challenge to appreciate what they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:01 PM
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I want to look / feel young so i would never take a younger guy, that would make me look/feel old(er) next to him... buuuut Im obsessed with aging and my appearance so I dont think that I reflect the majority of women... my mom once had a younger boyfriend ( she was around 40 and he was 27 or something ) who was in love with her head over heels, she dumped him after a year or smth, I think they were just at different points in their lives and he couldnt keep up with her lifestyle (my mom wouldnt…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:45 PM
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the way you describe TRP, I think women might become more traditional on the surface to get what they want, but also cheat on their men more often
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:33 PM
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Why do some men often forget that, even if they pay attention to themselves, age doesnt make them more handsome. If you look after yourself, you can do damage control, but in 99% of the cases, you will not get more attractive. Semi-attractive 20-year-old men dont suddenly turn into Chad once they hit 40
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:17 PM
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And older dudes tend to underestimate exactly how old they look. 30 looks ancient to us. I think that happens veeery often
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:11 PM
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of course, a lot of young women secretly sneak into the homes of old men to get a piece of that fine middle-aged dick...thats totally what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:09 PM
5

Look at what the majority of women does and how old their husbands/boyfriends are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 01:52 PM
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if you mean this formula determines the uppermost limit of what is still in the realm of possibility then yes, i agree, but it seems to me more like many men use this formula as a rule of thumb to figure out what is easily in the realm of possibility for them, and that imo is unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 01:50 PM
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That's not true, men objectively prefer a certain age group and they prefer that age group their entire lives. It is kinda irrelevant what most men want if they cant achieve it in reality. Most women objectively would rather bang Jason Momoa instead of Paul, from the accounting department, but is that important? Was Jason Momoa ever a real option?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 01:34 PM
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As I said, ~90% of men over 40 are not attractive to me (even most of the guys who are in good shape) , the fact, there is a small minority of men, which are the exception, is kinda irrelevant to the average man (talking about big age gaps, not about 5 years or smth age gaps) , just as there are old women who have young men, of course they exist, but are they really worth the talk when we are talking about whats relevant to most people?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 01:30 PM
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What does your posting have to do with the fact that women can always be "the younger woman"? You pretend that the wishes of men are real possibilities, that's like saying my Honda is my second choice because I can not afford a Ferrari, the Ferarri was never a real option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 01:18 PM
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lol if he cant pick up a 20 year old and 28 year old me is his 'second choice' i couldnt care less...its not like guys would tell women that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:36 PM
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It's their biological clock. Totally! I also wanted to say that before ... you can compare them to childfree women who realize too late that they should have had children.... only that it doesnt matter to men whether women are childless or not, while women do care if men are successful or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:08 PM
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What is considered appropriate is decided by the majority of a society, and doesnt necessarily has to agree with what is possible from a scientific point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:04 PM
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. Combined with the fact that men overestimate themselves a lot more than women and I guess when you're (still) a loser at 40+ I guess the fact that you're a failure stings a lot more. Yep, many men probably think "someday i'll make it" but slowly they realize (in their late 30's ; early 40s)that if they have not made it until a certain point/age, the chances of "making it" get smaller and smaller. Also ...the next generation of men is motivated, thirsty and waiting to take the places of the old…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 11:38 AM
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Thats nice and all but a 60 year old dude being in a relationship with a 15 year old girl is still weird , no matter how normal it is for you and regardless of how you are trying to justify it... just ask parents if they would like it if their 15 year old daughter has a 60 year old boyfriend, I'm sure 99% of the parents would say no. And yes, fifteen year olds used to reign kingdoms, and were sold and married, and so on, but society has evolved and so have the socially accepted patterns of behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 11:20 AM
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Showgirls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:31 AM
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no, not really, at least not the people with whom i interact every day... there is a big difference between a 30 year old man and a 40 year old man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 08:26 AM
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maybe, but at least they dont have any gray chest hair, children, ex-wives and all that jazz, also, most men over 40 are in poor physical condition, sad/bitter (If you look at the facial expressions of some middle-aged men, you wonder "when will he buy a rope?") and financially very constrained (maintenance for the ex-wife or alimony, loans etc)... 40+ year old men dont seem to be fun to be around as far as I've noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 08:16 AM
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no, absolutely not, but some constellations are just very difficult to understand and I'm really sorry but have you ever heard 15 year olds talk? they are exhausting, annoying and at best pleasant, but never intellectually stimulating for an adult (at least not in a way that justifies a relationship) BF has a 15 year old nephew and he is a damn child! Being with him would be so so wrong, he just has too little life experience to gauge some risks, and after a few hours he is a pain in the ass! I …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:59 AM
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It wasn't about looks or age, it was about compatibility an almost 60 year old man who "clicks" with a 15 year old girl is just wrong and strange (and i personally dont belive it, he was in it for...yeah, i guess we all know why he was in it)...dafuq?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:42 AM
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At 41 it seems like 27/28 is the right fit. im 28 and to me, the vast majority of men in their early 40's are unattractive, female friends and coworkers say the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:26 AM
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idk man, im 28 so according to that rule my guy should/could be 43 and that to me is a bit gross tbh, i mean have u seen normal 43 year old guys, even the ones at my gym dont look sexy or attractive in any way, they either are skinny af or have a dad bod...and i say that as a woman who always thought to have "daddy issues" , but I realized I have daddy issues "from afar", i like the idea to seduce an older man / to be seduced by an older man but when I actually see 43 y/o men in real life the wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:06 AM
1

german
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:18 AM
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some men here have clearly stated what they want to be appreciated for so 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:22 PM
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never really thought about it that way!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:15 PM
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I like your answer and I agree, but I was hoping to get personal information from each man here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:15 PM
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...yep
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:59 PM
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I imagine poop in my ass hair more annoying than shaving...in my language we even have a word for it ..."winter cherries"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:55 PM
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aww that makes me happy :D i do alot of collages and this one was just a "quicky" but still, thank you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:52 PM
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hahahaha u welcome xD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:41 PM
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absolutely no idea but he was so surprised and a bit ashamed that he probably doesnt do it like that anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:40 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/VaWVi5H.jpg enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:39 PM
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but affection can take many forms ... a hug, a thank you, a present
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:28 PM
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I have been appreciated for a wide array of things what are these things? and how have the women expressed their appreciation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:27 PM
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50% of the all male patients he sees stand up before they start to wipe their asses after they poop omg a friend told me and a group of friends that yeaaars ago and we all were like "WTF man, thats not how it works" ... he was srsly baffled that he was the only one doing it that way...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:23 PM
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Then I have news for you ...^^
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:18 PM
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i didnt mean that, i meant normal gratitude/ appreciation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:17 PM
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a co-worker once said he needs wet wipes because, when he's done, it's like removing nutella from a shaggy rug
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:16 PM
2

Of course you dont only do it for your wife but if I fix my house in the rain while my wife is sitting in the house where it is dry and she does not appreciate that, I would pack my suitcase...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:09 PM
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it was meant semi-serious, therefore the smiley...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:07 PM
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just visit a gay swinger club or something (if you're heterosexual), try out how it feels to be desired by people you dont find sexually attractive ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:59 PM
4

And how would you like women to show their appreciation? Words? Deeds?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:52 PM
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Let's say you have a wife and a house and the roof is broken and in pouring rain you climb the roof and fix it ...wouldnt you care if your wife does not appreciate that and just says thank you, because that's the courtesy demands? She still repsects you, she just thinks it's your job that you do that, and it's completely normal and does not require excessive gratitude ...would you be ok with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:49 PM
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But what skills / personal qualities should a woman appreciate about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:43 PM
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huh...thats interesting, never thought that some people really just want to make the lives of people they love easier without expecting a sign of appreciation in return ...sounds lovely! But I think that you are a minority there... What I've seen in everyday life is that men and women want to be appreciated for the things they do but also for the personal qualities they possess
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:41 PM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:35 PM
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So men dont care if women are happy, proud or impessed about what they do / say as long as the woman respects them? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:30 PM
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I guarentee you trust is more important to most men then appreciation. i doubt that tbh but I'll keep in mind what you said :) thanks for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:26 PM
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If you do something for a woman, dont you want her to appreciate it? Dont you care if she's happy/proud/ impressed or not if you can fix the faucet, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:22 PM
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In the end, selfish and entitled people end up miserable. That sounds more like your personal desire and not like a fact ; you wish that these people are miserable, doesnt mean that they are actually miserable ...there are plenty of selfish entitled people who are pretty satisfied with their lives and themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 01:08 PM
2

Now I'm curious, did you take him back?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:14 PM
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not married =\= lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:24 AM
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Studies say that people are having less sex now than in the past. a local brothel owner in my town said the same thing, citing that as a reason why he had to close some brothels
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:20 AM
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yeah, no idea what their problem is then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:42 PM
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Im talking about men who have the sole custody, not of men who look after their children weekly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:31 PM
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I didn't suspect it and I was surprised, because women are also the most vocal about how difficult being a single mother is. A mother who leaves her child is much more outlawed socially than a man who leaves his child. If a man chooses such a woman as the mother of his children, other women will think that he can not be a high-quality man, otherwise he would not have selected a woman like that. At least, I think that's what happens to me subconsciously when thinking about dating a single dad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:23 PM
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I think most of the "it's only a piece of paper" people will not deny that it is still the gold standard of commitment for the majority of all people, to them, its just not the only way to be committed to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:27 PM
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I dont really know any gay men or women to know about the lgbt dating scene, I just assumed that some things are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:48 AM
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But there are actual consequences when you do this and although it has consequences to leave your wife, enough married men still do exactly that... a contract doesnt seem to stop men, if they really want to get out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:37 AM
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A few of my gay guy friends are in dead bedroom “platonic” relationships now that's surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:23 AM
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When people aren’t married they can just up and leave no questions asked. I have seen married women who have experienced the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:08 AM
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I think most men rather use other possibilities like hookers, callgirls, sugar babes, dolls, etc. before they seriously consider dick being an option
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:43 AM
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also find a long term relationship more easily than straight people Do they? I always thought it would be hard for gay men to find a partner who wants a monogamous relationship? Gay men are much more promiscuous and the dating pool is much smaller, i assumed it would be much harder to find an LTR 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:35 AM
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​ WTF, what is up with the downvotes on this thread. It's legit af people come on. the red flags you listed here probably arent red flags for most men ... height requirements are just as normal and understandable as weight requirements, shit tests are imo normal on both sides , also, most guys dont seem to have a problem with paying for a chick they really like and, last but not least, many guys like girls that act in a childish, playful way...maybe thats why you got so many downvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:07 AM
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No Children and marriage were never really an option for me , having children has been on my mind only since the last few years and im still on the fence about it... before that I was 100% child-free. I dont have the desire to bind myself legally to another person, and financially I dont need that either. I like relationships, i like someone with whom i can share my life and i like company, forever would be nice, but if not, that's okay too ... if i find someone who makes me happy i like to live…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:01 AM
2

What about laziness in only certain areas?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:47 AM
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I wonder if he would be happy if he could have her, or if he would be disappointed because she can not fulfill his expectations (his imagination of her)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:01 PM
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What you have described here has little to do with "weakness" imo, what you describe are things like ignorance and assholeism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:50 AM
6

Daaaamn O.O I watched Gladiator a few days ago, the difference is horrific! Im definitely not entertained!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:45 AM
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I think it's because women dont like it when men show weakness ...weak men are a turn off...i think someone cited u/Atlas_B_Shruggin couple of days ago where he said masculine men can use their "masculinity tokens" and afford to be weak in some situations, but first men have to prove their masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 11:22 AM
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I meant a man who knows i.e. that, when a woman says she wants a soulful man who can cry, that doesnt mean that he can completely let his feelings run wild and howl like a hound dog for every trifle, without the woman being influenced by this behavior (even if the woman herself thinks it wouldnt influence her) I really think the fisherman should not ask the fish how he was caught (this applies to both men and women, both of whom believe they want things they do not really want)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:45 AM
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sorry, comment was irrelevant after reading the last sentence so i deleted it... but a natural red pill man in my opinion would be a man who understands that women and men are very different and therefore often understand, act and react differently
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:41 AM
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agreed, deleted my comment bc i didnt read the last sentence... maybe make it bold?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:37 AM
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because I do not want my BF to sleep with other women and he also does not want me to sleep with other men ... an open relationship would never be an option, they leave a pale "I do not want to grow up" hippie taste in my mouth ... imo, you have to accept that you can not have everything in life, some things come with a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 12:14 PM
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but many men do have a milder version of some of the tendencies my friends father did. Self-control is the key ... I think you underestimate the ability of men to control themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 08:44 AM
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I'm fine, thanks Most women dont do the extra work, so it's relatively easy to stand relatively high in the attractiveness pyramid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 08:03 AM
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I dont know about others , but I'm definitely scared of aging and afraid of getting ugly. I was an ugly duckling and have understood relatively late (21 or something) that I look good. Now I want to maintain this state at any cost. I have no eating disorder, but in the eyes of some people my eating habits are certainly disturbed ( many colleagues thought at first I was anorexic or bulimic sick or something ). Do you genuinely think this is due to "pressure from men"? Its not "I want to look good…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:42 AM
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The fact that I know a couple of old women and middle-aged women, and see them being still seduced and ensnared by men their age or older, not only for sex but for time together, shows me that men actually enjoy spending time with women. Also, shared memories and a common past are worth a lot, there are certainly men who would not risk everything that was built and experienced together at a young age for 30 minutes of fun, just as there are women who readily do exactly that and cheat and have af…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:08 AM
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No one is attracted to a job But arent some jobs sexier than other jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:07 PM
1

Monogamy is a terrible evolutionary strategy for men in a culture where causal sex is readily available. it is an OTHER strategy, not a bad one, monogamy is optimal for men who are happy to help raise their young and to make sure the children have a good life and a good future; softening is necessary when men are involved in raising children
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:56 AM
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Did you always think you could do better and stay for comforts sake or was it for another reason? Quitting relationships was always very bad for me, if I have stayed longer than necessary, then because it took time to find the courage to break up and have "the talk"... I would never stay in a relationship because it is comfortable (-->it's not comfortable if I do not find the man sexy and attractive), if I'm not on fire for a man, his presence is extremely disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:47 AM
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nah where i live, prostitution is tolerated and placed under state control since 1850
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 09:15 PM
2

I use it to post collages I edit digitally for fun and to get some workout and food ideas, IG is also nice for staying in touch with people (i dont have fb). I generally like the app but i dont spend much time there anymore. The advertising is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 09:07 PM
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Not very often, and even if, its rather a short conversation...the BF is not so interested in why people do what they do and what makes them tick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 11:19 AM
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one way to increase the odds is self improvement, but i don't see much talk of this in fds. that would make you a "pick me" in that sub. I think in the sub it is more about achieving a maximum result with minimal effort, self improvement is a great effort and I think the women there exactly do not want that 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:45 PM
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i like a dude who can tolerate me watching stuff like that on the side and sometimes makes snarky,funny comments about it...bf hate-watched a couple of movies with me, it was always really entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:31 PM
1

If a woman can pass the same rigorous performance testing she deserves her spot on the team. I agree, men and women should meet the same standards for the same positions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 04:49 PM
2

yeah...id say i just call it a relationship ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 03:03 PM
2

what term would be more fitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:50 PM
2

or these men just like spending time with her because she is an interesting and entertaining person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:28 PM
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yeah well...different strokes for different folks, i doubt they think my mom is unattractive but yeah...my mom said she doesnt want an old guy so she's agreeing with you xD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:02 PM
1

depends on whether he can overcome his sexual inadequacies through exercise. But I think that often it is not a performance problem but simply the lack of "chemistry" between two people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:53 PM
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honestly i think its a bit weird that you cant wrap ur head around the idea that men actually like women and enjoy spending time with them 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:51 PM
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my mom is 60+ and currently two guys around her age are bending over backwards to ltr her (shes not interested in either of them and there wont be more than a friendly relationship; both guys know that)...seems like they enjoy her company, they go hiking, go to the cinema, theater or the opera, they have lovely dinners and wine tastings and whatnot...to me it seems men enjoy these activities more when a woman is present
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:17 PM
1

do you ask women how high their ncount is? i mean, how do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:36 AM
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I’d prefer no more than 10, and even then it’s pushing it for me personally. im like you on that matter but i doubt thats the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:33 AM
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to be needed for one thing (to be reduced to one thing) although you really want something completely different is never a nice feeling... but what does that have to do with the advice that women should leave men who do not satisfy them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:31 AM
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depends on how you define high
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:27 AM
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Dull but not very stressful job that supports you i have a job like that...its safe, the pay is good and goes up steadily, further education and career opportunities are available. i sit in a cozy office, surf the internet, read newspaper, drink coffee and so on...as long as the work performance is ok, noone bothers i have never felt the need to define myself through my job or enjoy my work, my job is there to earn money, nothing more ... as long as i dont hate what im doing, Im satisfied :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:15 AM
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they also tell their members to leave a guy if he's not good in the bedroom. but why should a woman stay with a man who can not satisfy her sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:56 AM
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I still think if a man asks enough questions he can find out about her past. yeah but i dont think man really want to know about a womans past or n-count 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:03 AM
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Isnt it normal that the way people live together changes when the social circumstances and everything else around usconstantly changes and develops? I personally dont understand how some people cant wrap their head around the idea that some people dont care about marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:10 PM
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I have yet to see that level of dedication from a forever bf/gf i do know some couples who are together for 15+ years which are dedicated and happy but yeah, probably depends on where on lives and other factors :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:03 PM
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eh ... i have seen enough married people who from one day to the next have left their partners/families, i have seen how spouses lie and cheat on each other, there are some legal benefits when you're married, that is true, but being married does not protect you from being treated badly or being abandoned...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:43 PM
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idk man...ive seen people sucessfully hiding the weirdest stuff (i mean some people hide having two families), you just dont hear about it cause they dont get caught
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:33 PM
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i still dont get what's wrong with young unmarried couples considering each other in life changing decisions 🤷🏽‍♀️ Do you mean that it devalues ​​marriage or that it is bad for the young couples or ...whats bad about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:26 PM
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That's what I consider "marital seriousness" that shouldn't be afforded to a non-married SO. why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:12 PM
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imo most men do not care to be left in the dark, very few really want to know the truth...no man ever asked me about it, female friends also never got asked afaik
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:10 PM
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lol no ... it is ridiculously easy to hide such affairs, photos can be deleted / throw away and if your friends are really your friends they lie for you ...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:40 PM
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Is it really like that in the US? Does a LTR doesnt mean anything? Because where I live you have some rights/benefits as BF/GF a non-life companion does not have, for example when it comes to health insurance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:26 PM
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most people arent honest about their n-count anyway so 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 07:38 PM
2

Summer flings and casual gf’s are pretty common. are they? from what ive noticed its more common to have a bf/gf or a fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 07:25 PM
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I think it's the option of seeing the most beautiful people through the internet, coupled with the fact that fewer and fewer people in the real world actually look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:35 AM
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When you are young it is not great because group dynamics drive so much Yes, I agree with you, it was not easy at school, so I had more male friends ...now, that im older, it gets easier, but it is still a bit difficult...I now have a group of female friends who have similar experiences, we get along well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:34 AM
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I was always too weird to give into social pressure... i wish i had this idgaf mentality 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:46 AM
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Mothers are fucking brutal to other mothers on how they raise their kids. one of the reasons why im still unsure about children...the social obligations that go along with the motherhood are not to be underestimated and other mothers are mercilessly when judging other mothers ( and their children )
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 08:14 AM
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Is it strongly preferable to date a person who has prior experience and knowledge about how to date/court? I dont think I would care much about that (if he's not weird otherwise), being a pet owner would be a bigger deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 07:40 AM
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they were too "easy" ... I think I need "assholes" as BF's tbh, the first two were cute, nice guys who wanted to make everything right for me, my current BF is not. I decided to stay with the man I want to have sex with, i lost interest in sleeping with the first two after 1-2 years, with my current BF it's still great after 6 years. I prefer a bumpy relationship with a man I find hot af over a good relationship with a man who doenst turn me on ( and no, I do not think there is a man who can do …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:06 AM
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I had 3 important relationships and in all three it was pretty similar. I have seen a man and thought to myself "I want exactly this one there, all to myself." I look at him today and still think "I'm glad he's mine" if we get on well with each other, it's more of a pleasant realization that I have a really great man and that I made a good decision, thats what makes me happy and satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:37 AM
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👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 04:50 PM
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Separate men and women from each other (building walls, divided cities) until the marriageable age, then let the partner choice happen in dark rooms without touching one another ... oh and of course you would have to abolish the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 12:05 PM
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ive also never had problems finding BF's but that doesnt mean thats the case for other women as well 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:49 PM
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I don't know what gives you the impression that men don't want a relationship, im not saying they dont want relationships in general, im saying they are picky about with whom they are in a relationship (two guy friends i know have been single for idk, years, until they met their current GF's, they had options but none of the women they met over the years met their standards so they didnt ltr them)...but yeah, maybe the women at my office are low quality (whatever that means), idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:42 PM
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What I see in real life are a million thirsty men begging to be the boyfriend of the girl of their choice. ok i dont see that or hear that from other women but yeah...i dont see thirsty men in RL, begging women to be exclusive with them...most single dudes i know are fine and arent eager to find a GF Men are only shagging them because they're on the lookout for their dream girl who they'll beg for a relationship with. So it's women who want a relationship and men are picky about that? So it's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:28 PM
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How are women the gatekeepers of LTR's? o.O I can only speak of what I see in real life ... and I often see young women (mostly coworkers) hoping that the man of their choice wants them as his GF, not just as a FWB...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:10 PM
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Oh sorry, I misunderstood the question, I wouldnt have a problem with dating a man who slept with prostitutes occasionally ... However, a man who has had Sugar Daddy relationships with women wouldnt be attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 10:14 AM
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No, I dont want a man for whom sex is so important that he makes it his profession. Besides, I do not want other people to know how my boyfriend looks naked / having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 09:30 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:55 AM
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never had one and would never have one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:54 AM
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i dont expect anything 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:39 AM
2

check out the neck pill damn 😲
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:01 PM
5

Well, her eyes are up there so...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:04 PM
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I do not understand why they are complaining about the patriarchy spreading lies in their sub. Because people are hypocrites! I dont understand why many men assume women are honest with them ... people (women and men alike) lie so much, especially when it comes to issues that could hurt feelings ... even your own parents and friends lie to you in order not to hurt you, this is interpersonal interaction 101
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:01 PM
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nah, we dont tell guys they're ugly for the same reasosn we dont tell our coworker shelly her new hairstyle looks like ass...being honest would be uncomfortable and nothing is to be gained
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:49 PM
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People lie to avoid uncomfortable confrontations 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:46 PM
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idk...male friend told me he was grossed out by her large feet 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:04 PM
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53% masculine 31% feminine I expected smth like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:47 PM
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yeah, i think so too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:41 PM
1

Men from Norway or Finland are, statistically speaking, more attractive than men from India or Pakistan. Women from Japan or Korea are, statistically speaking, more attractive than women from Ghana or Kenya . For the individual case, this is not really relevant ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:29 PM
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but a 8/10 desi with refined feats would struggle immensely most indian men just do not meet certain beauty standards... i mean the average height in india is 165 cm for men, that alone does not make it easier for Indians, compared to countries like Spain where the average man is 10 cm taller ...so the guy might be 8/10 in india but is a 5 in some other countries...same happens to average looking white guys when traveling to some asian countries, all at once they are pussy magnets while they wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:10 PM
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but a 8/10 desi with refined feats would struggle immensely most indian men just do not follow the usual beauty ideal ... i mean the average height in india is 165 cm for men, that alone does not make it easier for Indians, compared to countries like Spain where the average man is 10 cm taller ...so the guy might be 8/10 in india but is a 5 in some other countries...same happens to average looking white guys when traveling to some asian countries, all at once they are pussy magnets while they we…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:07 PM
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​ stop the were all equal bullshit. I'm not saying that we're all the same, I'm just saying that beautiful brown/dark-skinned people in white countries have it easier because they are considered exotic but yeah, maybe im wrong, thats just how i see it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 11:46 AM
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In white countries, dark-skinned people are exotic, in dark countries fair-skinned people are exotic ( provided they are attractive, this doesnt apply to your 3/10 parkistani living in Norway ) if something is rare, it is valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 11:30 AM
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Damn, that's tough, poor guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 11:29 AM
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I'm not talking about Somalis (I hardly see Somalis, and if then Somali men, very rarely Somali women), it's more about Turks, Romanians and Bosnians.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 11:04 AM
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Completely off-topic but did you also notice that Muslim women from a certain age all look the same and are dressed the same and that a very large number of them are overweight? and I mean I can only speak from my experience and my neighborhood (where I grew up), but they dont seem happy. The parents of my Muslim friends have never seemed happy either, they mostly seemed bitter...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:51 AM
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So basically it's just a woman with a problematic sexual organ who can't make bebe no, it is a man who thinks he is a woman and because of this discrepancy (and other factors) has mental problems and a mutilated genital area
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:43 AM
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and how does that express itself? or do you say that quite openly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:37 AM
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If this was the average baseline for transgender woman, do you think most men would just opt for a relationship with them? Transgender "women" come up with a different bag of problems ... I doubt that a man on hormones with mental health problems is easier to handle than a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:16 AM
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How do you feel about being complemented for having "Good Childbearing Hips" Classic compliment for thicker women imo Is this a good opener for a cold approach? I dont think that's what you like to hear from a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:58 AM
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Im getting irritated when someone, out of nowhere, simply changes the subject because he likes a different topic better. But yeah... I think our conversation is over Have a nice day :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:24 AM
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your comment was about the likelihood that many women settle for less, my comment was about that there are certainly marriages, where that is the case, and that it would be interesting to know in what extent this takes place ... and then you started something "BUT WHAT ABOUT MEN BLA BLA..."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:15 AM
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why exactly does that matter if the topic is, how much women actually settle for less than they think they deserve?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:02 AM
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I dont know if women, who would find him actually unattractive, would still find him sexy because of his voice...but i doubt thats whats happening in RL... I dont think that one thing can outweigh another when it comes to sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:55 AM
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Of course, there are women who have found their prince charming, but it would still be interesting how many women dont have, and just settle for a man they never really found attractive...its not like thats not happening
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:51 AM
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If it is not a striking voice such as that of alan rickman, I dont care about a mans voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:41 AM
1

The Four Owls (Leaf Dog), Hopsin, Eminem, Kanye Apollo Brown & Guilty Simpson - Dice Game (that Album is a masterpiece ♥️)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:54 AM
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ive never been on a date like that so idk how it goes down in RL but i doubt its ALWAYS the Guy who brings stuff up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:00 AM
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whats there to plan? 🤷🏽‍♀️ A: Wanna go to the zoo and have some coffee afterwards? B: Yeah... that sounds nice takes about 3 minutes, is it rly that big of a deal o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:39 AM
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nope, body is good but face is totally not my thing ( lips too thick, the beard looks strange, the head is not properly shaved and he has terrible tattoos ) also I didnt hear what he said, I'm at work and watched the video without sound
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:25 AM
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they both short...but my dad is shorter, i think my mom is around 1,65 cm i assume so my dad must be around 1,63 or smth my dad came here because he got a job offer from a university...my mom was never poor, my grandparents were financially well off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:21 PM
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The rise in STD rates nationwide is actually driven by retirement communities... ew
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:51 PM
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may dad is black and my mom is white and im brownish .. i look more like my mom, me and my dad dont look alike at all beside the fact that we are both small af
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:46 PM
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depending on the guy and his lifestyle id say 10 years later
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 11:17 AM
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agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:39 AM
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prostitutes do not give the feeling of being desired ... and men also want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:57 AM
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They wont, men as well as women want confirmation that their genetic material is desirable for reproduction The men who would use sexrobots in a big way are not relevant to the SMP anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:54 AM
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Can you make your marriage "affair-proof"? didnt read the article but unless both people are together like, 24/7 ...you cant affair proof a relationship imo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:39 AM
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https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTbQ-yqtq1C7RlIGoW0QiTTrITATUhmtrhSxfB8OoFEEnAoVyZQ&s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:04 AM
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both
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:00 PM
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yep... best of both worlds :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:40 PM
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1/2 white 1/2 black; Austria; 28
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:37 PM
3

Ever asked a man something while he was on the phone and driving?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:26 PM
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https://youtu.be/iuXR53ex4iI xD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:18 PM
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somehow I have to think of the two and a half episode in which Jake asks Allan if one needs to be smart for sex because he heard his mother and Herb having sex and heard her giving him instructions xD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:46 AM
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Define ugly. whatever you would call ugly; whatever you would consider unfuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:08 AM
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yeah...i guess i woulnd/couldnt do that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:47 AM
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It is like those people who are in extreme poverty and happy... yeah... I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 02:45 PM
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depends on whether you are the guy on right or left http://imgur.com/gallery/tze02l7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 12:42 PM
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Success in the sexual market is sex. idk...for some of my female coworkers, the validation that they could have sex is enough (they dont need to actually have sex to feel successful on the SMP)...thats why they're on tinder without intending to ever meet the guys who swiped right on them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:58 AM
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U sound like a younger version of my dad xD he was good-looking, creative, interesting, well-read and charming but had no control over his life (he is/was veeeery bad with money) ... now he is 72 years old and still has a "girlfriend" sometimes but no woman is willing to be with him for a long time ... he seems to have accepted that and does not seem to be unhappy with his life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:06 PM
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None of my RL friends/acquaintances know anything about Trp or Tbp i talk to my BF about it sometimes, he's listening but isnt really interested in it. He's more interested in "things" rather than "people"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:39 PM
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nope, even when/if I was objectively more attractive than my partner, I never had the feeling that my BF is lucky to have me...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 02:08 PM
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1.I confessed to my BF but i kinda knew he was into me Hmm...2 times or smth (ex BF's) 3.Happend a couple times in high school, met some of the guys later in life and they said the had a crush on me too but also didnt want to say anything 🤷🏽‍♀️...after school i never had a crush on someone who wasnt into me as well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 08:45 AM
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Masculine males (bodies, similar trend for faces) had more short-term sexual partners, and feminine females (faces) had more long-term sexual partners than their peers. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513804000765?via%3Dihub#! idk if thats helpful ...I googled it but then lost interest halfway....sry
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 02:04 PM
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if i go shopping looking for a particular dress but can't find it at the shop, does that mean my standards were too high? if u cant find one single dress you like in this day and age if you really want one then yes, your standards are def to high
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:30 PM
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yeah well ...didnt say its easy, possible and/or fulfilling to lower your standards 🤷🏽‍♀️ just saying that if you arent able to find someone who meets your standards, they are too high
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:23 PM
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its to high because you arent attracting people who are meeting these standards what would lowering that standard accomplish exactly? if ur standards are guys over 180cm or women with DD, lowering your standards would would increase your dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:16 PM
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than the standards are still too high... u just refuse to settle for less
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:06 PM
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my family is also very generous and helpful, my grandparents, my uncle and my aunt were very important caregivers for me ... my mom had a great social network (still has) and childcare is "free" where i live ... if i ask her if it was hard to raise me "alone" (without a husband) she says no...also, even though i love my father dearly, he would have been an additional burden for her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 05:21 PM
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I'm wondering why unwed women keep their bastard children. My mother wanted me and never intended to marry my father. She wanted a child, not necessarily a relationship. The bastard child will keep you poor and make you undateable My mother is retired now and financially very well placed and I feel like she prefers to be alone, especially as she gets older.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 04:31 PM
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what is more unbelievable to me that they went to her instagram in the first place, what were they doing there? I thought it is standard that companies google I their potential employees, and thus also see facebook and instagram profile 🤔🤔... they (school) told us years ago that you should be careful about what you post on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 04:12 PM
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Standards are not negotiable Preferences (i think what u mean with " compatibility ") may be negotiable. I.e if we (me and the man who wants to ban abortions) otherwise harmonize in all other areas (which is very unlikely) I could overlook it. This does not apply to standards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 10:43 AM
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nobody loves anyone for who they are (except for maybe your mom), people always love/like people for what they have to offer, be it their money, their looks, their status or whatever...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 10:13 AM
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Im almost 6 years in a relationship and we have never farted in front of each other, its not that hard...I also dont fart in front of other people, i fart when im alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 10:07 AM
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If a man thinks that abortions should be banned -> we are not compatible If a man is an unemployed junkie -> he doesnt live up to my standards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:59 AM
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Your standards are too high if the women / men who meet these standards are not interested in a relationship / sex with you. How high that is varies from individual to individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:50 AM
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No because you should be like that in public too if it feels natural. I'm really grateful most people dont think that way and strive to behave properly in public
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:30 AM
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Some women don't mind their husband's farting and stinking. yeah, some husbands are in dead bedrooms for a reason... Being yourself means doing (being) what feels natural. So outside, in public, you try to be washed, combed, neat and polite to/for complete strangers, but at home in front of the partner( who is the most important person in your life ), you can strip that facade and be your true, disgusting, rude self?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:21 AM
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What does "being yourself" mean anyway? Are you talking about being the worst version of yourself? Because I would be careful with that, attraction is not negotiable. And when you chew on your toenails, fart and stink, I think that the sexual attraction will not last long.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:11 AM
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Really not a single thing! Everything I've done so far has led me closer to my life now, and I love my life. I have no serious problems, enough money, a great BF, very good friends and a great family! I dont regret anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 06:07 AM
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idk remember where i read it but shouldnt narcs date other narcs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 05:44 AM
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Nothing is wrong with that per se, but it's unfair to the person who really loves you. If you want to make such a practical connection, it would only be fair to do so with a person who also does not love you and is just for convenience with you in a marriage/relati. But...do you think two people can have a child together and live together for a long periode of time if they dont love each other and dont desire each other (and also dont even have memories that they loved and desired each other onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:24 PM
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I would not have slapped her back (not because she did not deserve it, she definitly deserves a good slap, but because the danger of losing your reputation is too great) Nevertheless, running away, in my opinion,is not the right way... but if conflicts are such a problem for you then maybe you arent made for "fighting" and you just have to flee ...idk, i stand up for myself if necessary and its honestly very weird to see that other people dont do that out of fear what might could happen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:48 AM
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Only speculation but It seems to me that it could have been a "what does the guy think that he can address ME" situation, and the woman just wanted to demonstrate power (women are offended when they are approached by [in their opinion] unattractive males).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:42 AM
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To allow another person to slap you for no reason and without having to face any sort of consequences has nothing to do with respecting that person o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:20 AM
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As a woman, my first reaction in fear is definitely not slapping someone! She didnt slap him in order to harm him physically and to defend herself, but to publicly humiliate him!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:08 AM
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I rather just be a gentleman Being a gentleman doesnt mean saying nothing and not defending yourself if you're treated unfairly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:58 AM
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Very few people would have a instant response yeah but even fewer people apologize if they are slapped for no reason ...every comback wouldve been better including saying nothing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:54 AM
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As I already said, it is a pity that often conflict-avoidant people come in such situations... this situation would have been a folk festival for some of my male friends ! I have seen both women and men exposeing other people and their bad behaviour in public, and each time it was pretty clear who was to blame, and who was not, whether it was a parking lot or someone jostling someone... Of course, a conflict can always go out in one direction or another, but he would have been clearly right here…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:39 AM
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the crowd probably would have turned on you The crowd would have turned on him because he tapped her on the shoulder? why would they do that? No offense, but this mentality is why people, including women, behave rudely so much... because they do not have to fear consequences, not even public exposure To apologize was the most stupid and coward thing he could have done, it would have been better not to say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:20 AM
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Tell her loud and clear that you just wanted her attention to ask her something and that you have no sexual interest in her or her rude, disgusting personality? 🤷🏽‍♀️ Call her bitch or cunt to spice things up...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:46 AM
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I always find it a pity when conflict-stricken people come into such a situation ... on the basis of such a situation, and how one is dealing with it, one can "educate" several people at once
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:14 AM
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so I tapped her shoulder to get her attention and she turned around to look at me with anger then slapped me and said not to touch her. wtf o.O I immediately apologized why? for what? I do not know how other women / people practice this, but I generally do not touch people with whom I am not friends or related BUT, should I somehow want to grab the attention of a fellow human being and that's not possible verbally, I would tap someone's shoulder or back and I wouldnt be bothered if someone does …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:02 AM
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Anger management problems ... but it gets better and better... self-control is the key
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:24 AM
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when they wake up on their 30th birthday and see the wicked witch of the west staring back at them in the mirror made me laugh xD...thx!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:21 PM
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one thing does not neglect the other perhaps an emotional connection is a top priority for some women, but that does not mean that appearance of a guy is completely irrelevant...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:21 PM
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But if a woman needs an emotional connection in order to find a guy attractive enough to fuck, then Chad’s good looks and charm doesn’t matter because there’s no emotional attachment to him. her wanting an emotional connection does not mean that he can look like Quasimodo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:06 PM
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Women and men are not the same, and aging affects their attractiveness and people's social perception of them differently I never said that men and women are the same, only that, with 60, men AND women are equally unfuckable to the majority of people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:00 PM
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Men are better off for a certain period of time, then it goes down steeply for men and women alike ...also, an unattractive man does not turn into a george clooney just because he turns 50...not every man becomes a silver adonis, just as not every woman becomes a MILF, and when i look at real people, women and men dont think too much about their health, so i guess the milfs and george clooneys will always be the exception rather than the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:57 PM
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Like cars, people depreciate with age, but unlike cars, they don't think that they depreciate All people lose their "worth" as they get older, until at some point they are just a "burden" for their children, their spouses, and society in general ...men may have a few years longer ( if these men pay attention to their health, which most men do not do ) before their value is "lost"... but at 70 ( and that is high set imo ), people are old and unattractive and no one is interested in them anymore .…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:26 PM
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you'd only even know about the transition if you were told yeah, i doubt that tbh...id say most dont pass and the ones that do pass are just a very very tiny minority, another poster mentioned same goes for MtF
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 10:39 AM
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ive only seen a couple of these sort of women in general...how should i know if they are lesbians, trans men or just tom boys? o.O all i could notice was that these particular women want to be perceived as men but you could still see that they were women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:56 AM
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honestly, i would not care, there are prostitutes and i have no problem with being loved for what i have to offer (as a woman it's my look as a man it would be my money)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:05 AM
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But the reality is that I have no fucking clue if I would 100% be happier, or if it's worth it I think i kinda know what u mean, If a magic fairy would come and ask me if I would like to be transformed into a real> 170 cm tall man, I would immediately say yes, a life as a man I would be much easier for me... But a sex change doesnt make you a man, but a strange hybrid that in real life will be faced with many problems... :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:01 AM
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Children are amazing children CAN BE amazing but there is no guarantee for that there are junkies, rapists or murderers who had great parents or at least parents who have done their best ... it must be unbearable for a parent to know that you have done everything you can to raise your child well and in the end you raised a loser or worse, a criminal loser
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:50 AM
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I think a fair amount of people would agree they are attractive, masculine though. Do you agree with that at all? of course, there are women out there who find trans men attractive and masculine, one of those you mentioned is married so that shows that there are women who do not care about that :) then why wouldn't I pursue it? Idk, cutting off your tits, stuffing yourself with hormones and other medications seems to me like a very drastic step for something that does not pose an excessive probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:41 AM
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well, I get the "icky" feeling only if I know that he is trans, maybe some transman is so convincing that it is absolutely not recognizable that he was once a woman the trans men I've seen so far were either on youtube (where they are open about it) or in the RL, where I do not recognize the difference between a trans man and a butch lesbian...so, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:32 AM
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Nah. D: It's like for the FtM, some pass but they pass as weird and ugly. my judgment may be clouded because MtF are no potential sexual partners for me but to me they sometimes just look stunning... but so far I have only seen one or two in RL (bad ones), maybe photos are deceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:20 AM
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yeah no thanks ... but as I said, it may be that it is simply because I know that these are not real men ... cant help but get an "icky" feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:59 AM
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There are plenty of FTM that look "yummy" to me. Look up Aydian Dowling, Alex Bertie, Laith Ashley, Ty Turner...of course, our preferences could just be different and you aren't going to agree with these examples. These "men" all look very very small and their bodies look VERY unattractive to me, maybe it's because I know that they are trans and that turns me off ...idk...maybe I would not notice they are trans at first glance, but on closer look you realize that it is weird... but I'm probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:55 AM
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Seriously considering transitioning into a male or exclusively only dating/pursuing women so that I'll still be relevant and desirable in the dating field past the age of 25. living as a woman or as a man is still easier than living as transgender ... In addition, the chances are high that you look just like a feminine, very small, man... I have never seen a FtM transgender and thought "yummy" ( on the MtF side on the other hand, they already have some really hot results ) I'm not ugly, but I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 06:45 AM
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For every "uncultured" woman there is an "uncultured" man who is happy to have found a "simple" woman. Also table manners, for example, have something to do with culture ... every person I spoke to, who was already in china (or some other asian countries), was more or less disgusted...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 06:18 AM
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Definitly!...If I were a man, I would have had children for a long time, but as a woman, children have too many disadvantages (birth, breastfeeding, etc ...)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:00 AM
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What do you want what everyone wants ...to be sexually attractive to a large number of (good looking) people of the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 12:51 PM
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So is it about physical strength?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:21 PM
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Not saying this is not true, just trying to understand how "alphaness" is measured ... if it is not the ability to pass on your genes to as many of the best women as possible, then what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 10:18 AM
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if the position in the sexual hierarchy does not provide information about a man's alphaness / betaness, what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:52 AM
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But if a man is exceptionally successful, and can compensate for his physical inadequacies with his money and his status -> can sleep with the most beautiful women in the world and he is (in your opinion) still beta, what would make him an alpha? Isnt the fact, that he arrived at the top of the sexual food chain ( despite possible physical disadvantages ) an indication of his "alphaness"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:52 AM
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Except dress has a first and foremost use: protecting your body from the elements. in theory yes, in practice, we both know that many garments are rather impractical and are more used to the increased styling factor such as: high heels It's not the case of make up. The sole purpose of make up is to disguise in order to present yourself differently. Well, make-up has certain advantages, for example, sun protection factor (very important if you want to delay skin aging), nourishing ingredients ...…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:18 AM
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If it's worn daily, it's the sign of a deceitful person who is ok at presenting to the world something they're not. Being dressed is dishonest too then, because you can hide many beauty flaws under clothing Never been swimming with people you've never seen before without clothes, and then when you saw them in trunks/bikinis, you thought "ok.. I imagined that differently " ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:19 AM
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why is it weird not wanting to have a relationship with people who made sex a profession? o.O This is pretty much one of the most disgusting and degenerate jobs u can choose. Besides, everyone knows about it, everyone has seen your partner naked and doing things that you should actually keep private. Only certain kind of people wants to be filmed during sex and be paid for it and I think very few "normal" people think "Yes, that seems to me to be a reliable partner who makes good decisions in li…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:13 AM
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Women who want children probably say "no thanks", for women who dont want children, it is, I think, no big deal (maybe even a plus point)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:10 AM
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People in general rarely complain about things that benefit them, men and women alike
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:06 AM
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Well, life isnt fair...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:54 AM
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Ive never (knowingly) met a hermaphrodite, doesnt mean they dont exist...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:17 AM
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I've seen parents make a difference between boy and girl on many things, but I've never seen what you're describing here o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 08:51 AM
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what will keep men in a relationship or dating someone if sex is removed from the equation entirely? The hope that it will be better again In addition, imo most people are reluctant to give up things in which they have invested a lot of time and energy. I think many people will ask themselves questions like "Do I really want to throw away 30 good years just for a bit of sex?" if the case occurs and think about it for a long time before making a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 08:16 AM
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almost happend to me as well years ago ...#oopsie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:42 AM
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And you can pee while standing, you just never believed in yourself è_é Omg you're right, I can do it!!! \ believes in herself ** ​ \ pees all over the floor *...* (ノ•̀ o •́ )ノ ~ ┻━┻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:39 AM
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This is often the case at metal / punkrock shows/festivals (especially in the underground area) When i saw Amenra & Oathbreaker, I was alone on the women's bathroom while the line at the men's bathroom was very long
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:25 AM
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its a nice bonus of the being a woman ... just as a nice bonus of being a man is to be able to pee standing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:12 AM
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Then why don't they go crazy over billionaires and world leaders? Because you (meaning women in general) do not see them in the media all the time ... but i assume the women who come near such men, the women who move in these circles , do "go crazy" over them. I have no idea how the men behind big pharma companies look like (and I have no real interest in googling them, because these men are not a realistic option for me anyway) so how should I go crazy over them, i dont even know they exist..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:24 AM
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he played well but I havent found him sexy, he was more attractive in "the devils advocate" imo ( maybe it's because he was literally the devil )
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:35 AM
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Jonathan Groff (in Mindhunters) Kim Coates (in Sons of Anarchy) Tommy Flanagan (in Sons of Anarchy) Joe Cole (in Peaky Blinders) Charles Dance (as Tywin Lannister) Jeremy Allen White (as Lip in Shameless) Matthias „Matthi“ Tarnath (singer „Nasty“) Oliver Riedel (Bass Player „Rammstein“) Till Lindemann (Singer „Rammstein“) Gustaf Norén (Mando Diao) Carl Noren (Sugarplum Fairy) Machine gun kelly Randy Orton These are all men I find exceptionally attractive, but I think this has less to do with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 09:27 AM
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According to psychologist Dr. Graham Hole, it’s all to do with how intimately our hair is tied up with our whole concept of self-image One reason for changing your hair is to exert a sense of authority following a relationship breakdown, which can often lead people to feel like they’ve lost control over their lives. ‘It might be in order to make a statement, for example announcing "I'm in control of my appearance as well as my life"’ says Dr Hole. Another reason people change their haircut or st…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:16 PM
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I would never marry a man I dont find sexually attractive... dont know why I should do that ... so probably guy 1 if I had to choose between the two I can take care of myself financially, if that wouldnt be the case I would rather invest in education than looking for man with a good job. Both men would be accepted in my social environment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:08 PM
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- in my language they translate to "owner" and "woman" and I find that incredibly demeaning which language, if i may ask? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 05:50 AM
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miau 🐈
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:11 PM
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:* schoenen tag ...bussi baba
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:07 PM
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ber insgeheim wünschen die sich eh alle einen Heiratsantrag von ihren "Männern" sorry meine glaskugle is leider grade beim Mechaniker, aber vll kannste mir ja deine borgen, die scheint ja aufs "frauen verstehen" spezialisiert zu sein XD ehrlich mann lady du laberst nur müll ...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 11:26 AM
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Elitepartner forum ich kack mich ein 😂😂😂 Wahnsinnig seriöse Quelle wow sorry das ich keine wissenschaftliche studie dazu liefern kann, es existiert halt keine, aber es is aussagekräftig genug um zu sehen das es leute gibt die es so praktzieren..meinste nich? Ich muss gestehen ich kenne auch eine Handvoll solcher Frauen. wenn du selbst solche frauen kennst, wieso tust du dann so als wär ich völlig behämmert und rede nur müll? o.O Komme selber aus einer traditionellen Familie wo Ehe ernst genommen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 11:00 AM
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yeah ...i think so too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:39 AM
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I've even had women say that to me straight up, they wanted marriage because being a "girlfriend" sounded weird as they got older. do you think men have a problem with that? to be a "BF" with idk lets say 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:31 AM
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I think it just varies from one area to the area, just as there are many differences between states in the US :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:19 AM
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https://www.elitepartner.at/forum/frage/mein-freund-mein-lebenspartner-oder-mein-mann.22861/ hier kannst dir ja selber anschaun das die meinungen auseinandergehen ;) Ich spreche von meinem Freund auch als "mein Mann". Ich seh da kein Problem. Manche Paare wollen (auch nach Jahren) nicht heiraten (ohne dass das heißt, dass sie nicht "für immer" zusammen sein wollen) https://www.elitepartner.at/forum/frage/mein-mann-auch-ohne-trauschein-oder-mein-freund.10043/ und vll koennest ja das nächste mal n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:52 AM
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OP isn't German and just making things up i never claimed im german sooo.... Also, I've posted some links under another comment of yours to german forums (elitepartner) where exactly this is discussed, it's not uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:36 AM
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It's not though and your own comments only prove that. yes maybe that's just common where I live ..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:35 AM
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ohhh sorry ....took me a bit longer to get what u mean XD but still, in my experience, unmarried people say "my man" or "my woman" when talking about their partner, but yeah maybe that's different in bavaria :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:34 AM
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In spoken German people often use the noun „Mann“ with a possessive pronoun, so they say „mein Mann“, literally translated as „my man“ https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-German-word-for-husband
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:30 AM
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it is accurate, check out my other comments pls...also, not only germans speak german -.-
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:25 AM
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The German words for man and husband are identical, both are der Mann. While there are the words Ehemann and Gatte that unambiguously specifies a male partner in marriage, they are both quite formal and official, with Gatte bordering on old-fashioned (it survives in Begattung “copulation” and the corresponding verb begatten “to mate”, used only in reference to animals). So what you’d say, both as a woman and a man, is (mein) Mann, literally “my man”. Colloquial usage extends this to “my boyfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:24 AM
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Literally NO ONE there says "mein/e Frau/Mann" without actually being married. That's a pretty exclusive and meaningful title not easily thrown around. And unmarried people over 30 still refer to their partners as boyfriend/girlfriend. So no difference to English here hmm, im not from germany but the bavarian friend i have does the same thing so...idk I'm German and grew up in a small Bavarian town near Munich. and the experiences you made in a small town in Bavaria (the most conservative of all…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:17 AM
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My own gf even said to me the only reason she'd want to get married is for the titles. thats interesting! I wonder how many people (especially women) think like that...thanks for the answer :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:54 AM
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yeah... I thought so, these are some outliers ... In my country, you do not use these titles because you want to avoid them consciously, but because they just are not common... I think you cannot compare that to a few people who deliberately rebel against those titles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:13 AM
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Is it common for English-speaking married people to introduce their husband / wife as a "partner"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 07:48 AM
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I know, something about it sounds so stale, mature and boring here I dont know anyone who says "my EHEfrau", it sounds, as you say, very stiff and just not right... not even 60+ people do that afaik Or just "my woman/girl"/"my man/guy" sounds kind of nice. yeah i think so too but i can imagine its important for some people (especially the people who really want to get married for romantic reasons) to let other people know that you are married to that person...what u think?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 07:45 AM
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xD ur hilarious
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:16 AM
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You are just another example of someone who thinks they're more unique than they actually are. I do not think that I'm special at all, I was very left-liberal in my teenage years and the more I understood about economic and sociology , the farther to the political right I moved (and I think that's how most people are) . "the one who is not left in his youth has no heart, the one who is still left as an adult has no brain" The 6s and 7s who wouldn't quite socially dominate in normal society often…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:17 AM
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Yes and I think that's weird. Do you really find it strange that average people settle for other average people? o.O because that's the most normal, logical thing in the world ... What a complete waste of time that has been. life is just a string of distractions until we die
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:17 AM
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I guarantee you this old bag has no ability to lock down anyone of any status whatsoever. are we talking about women getting sexual attention or LTR's? I'm saying all else being equal it's always better to be more attractive than less attractive for women. its always better for all people to be attractive (pretty people get treated better and all), men and women alike, but if you look outside the window, many people are ugly as fuck and dont give a fuck about it....and the ugly, unstylishe ones …
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:03 AM
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I think the overlap is very big
/r/askTRP10/09/19 07:36 AM
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​ But what they often mean is they don't have anybody finding them attractive who they themselves find attractive. That's my point. https://metro.co.uk/2019/09/04/83-year-old-grandma-loves-using-tinder-to-find-younger-men-for-casual-sex-10682376/ Since she began using the app eight months ago, she claims to have met close to 50 men. Her Tinder bio reads: ‘Hattie, 83, fascinating older beauty. Seeking a steady younger friend/lover for a shared life of adventure and passion. No pro-Trump and no pl…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 07:32 AM
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Yes, but why? Because having short hair, for example, are more comfortable than long hair? Because make-up is a lot of work? Because you become more comfortable with age and have other priorities? Most Humans are lazy and try to be as comfortable as possible, thats why sweatpants are a thing
/r/askTRP10/09/19 07:00 AM
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Women doing completely counter-productive and stupid things IS weird. yet it is not women who complain that nobody wants to sleep with them and that nobody finds them attractive no matter what a woman looks like, she will never have a problem finding a man ... maybe not the man of her dreams, but very few people (men and women alike) get the partner of their dreams, the majority of people is satisfied with a mediocre partner ... It is rather strange how little you are able to realize that women …
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:57 AM
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I still find it weird that some women do this when the ability for most of them to attract relatively higher quality men is so easy if they just in any effort at all. You find it weird because you want to understand a woman with your men's brain, if a man has 10 women and the option of 15 is there if he puts in extra effort, men will probably put in the extra effort, but women dont operate like that. If a woman has a choice of 10 men that are acceptable to her and where she does not have to make…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:43 AM
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Why they keep fucking around with the basics is beyond me. Women act like looking good is hard for them, but it really isn't. As look as you stick to a few simple rules, you'll be okay (assuming basic genetics and symmetry are alright). Why would a woman care about attracting more men, if she can look like she wants and still find enough men? O.o You say you do not understand why women make themselves "intentionally unattractive" ... the answer is because they can do it and still find enough men…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:27 AM
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As a man, if you dont want to be cheated on, its your responsibility to behave in such a way that it doesnt happen, and heres some guidelines to do it. You can be the best partner there is and still be cheated o.O Ones own behavior is (at least not 100%) responsible for being cheated by your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 12:22 PM
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it still is that way for the majority of people
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:58 AM
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money is just the time you spent at work
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:36 AM
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I think many relationships fail because the partners love each other but do not really like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 06:28 AM
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For me, all three scenarios are ok, it depends on the man. I think I would prefer a man who chooses # 2 or # 3 to get to know me better. Somehow it seems more relaxed and less explicit, I like the illusion that it's casual. When you meet with friends, there arent any "I can imagine a relationship with you" vibes, when you meet for a date, it is very clear what the goal of this meeting is. I prefer to meet someone "on neutral ground", as a friend, and not as a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 06:23 AM
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When I saw my BF for the first time I immediately knew that I found him attractive. We met at work, i was a customer. He texted me (on FB) out of the blue and I knew that was not typical for him so I knew he also attracted me as well. We have often seen each other at concerts and in bars and talked and had fun, just two people in the same scene who got along well. We didnt "date" like he picked me up and we had a movie and dinner. We texted all the time and occasionally we met at certain events.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 10:36 AM
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If you have sex with a woman (you do not pay) then you get that good feeling of being desired. A feeling to be sexually attractive, so sexually attractive that a woman of her own free will wants to have sex with you. Prostitution takes away this feeling of being sexually attractive, even worse, you feel that you are sexually unattractive because you pay for something that other men get for free*. *Free in the sense that you do not pay "directly" for sex but indirectly (if you pay for dinner or s…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:40 AM
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You are either boring creepy terrifying
/r/askTRP27/08/19 10:51 AM
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and that this is why men typically don’t want to be with a woman who’s been with many men Idk man, I doubt that " promiscuous womens diminishing ability to pairbond " is the reason why most men do not want promiscuous women Situation 1: (One man & 100 women) One man can impregnate hundreds of women easily Situation 2: (One woman & 100 men) Several men can only impregnate one woman So from the point of view of species conservation, it makes sense that men are more promiscuous than women It makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 10:37 AM
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I'm trying to say that being an emotional individualist doesn't mean I'm in some sort of denial. oh ok ....good for you :) You phrased it as if individualism is in conflict with seeing humans as instinctual creatures. imo it often times is 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:19 PM
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idk what ur trying to say with ur comment tbh...sry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:15 PM
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haha yeah...try being the only one with a bag on a concert and suddenly you should turn into mary poppins and stuff two hoodies, three t-shirts, 8 cd's and 2 vinyl records into your bag
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:50 PM
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in the handbags of their GFs/Wifes/ female friends...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:19 PM
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I do not think that men consciously think "umbrella = female" They just have a for them unexplainable aversion to umbrellas and when women say "take an umbrella" they can not say exactly why they do not want it, it's just a feeling, so they just say something. ( Men often just say something, just that women shut up...its because women question things, men just dont think about. ) If women did not ask, men would not think about it. They would not take an umbrella, and would not know why they do n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:11 PM
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Only that I understand correctly, so if a man actively tries to not appear feminine, that is a sign of toxic masculinity? o.O Sorry english isnt my first language and i kind of dont understand your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:05 PM
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no, men simply perceive the world differently and value other things They mostly dont care if they are wet Besides, it's not the cold that makes you sick, but viruses
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:40 AM
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And? Women are wearing high heels, even though walking in them is impractical ... it is not always about whether something is practical An umbrella just conveys "I do not want to get wet" which can translate to " I think too much about my appearance " and vanity is not a trait that is very masculine or with which men want to be associated with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:37 AM
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Why is it "toxic" when men do not want to take umbrellas? I mean, nobody complains that most men dont carry handbags ...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:32 AM
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I have seen relaxed and hectic wedding ceremonies... anything can happen... but when parents start getting involved, things rarely get better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:26 AM
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I trust my mother blindly, she knows everything about me and my life, but she knows that it is MY life and that she can have an opinion( which I really appreciate ) but no influence on it. And no, parents who interfere in every decision of the adult child, are not a blessing and it is not a sign of affection or trust but a sign of control
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:19 AM
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my parents would never do that (even if they would pay the whole wedding) but there are cultures where the influence of the parents is ridiculously big, that must be terribly annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:54 AM
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Is it important if the term "Dead 'Bedroom" applies? You are sexually underutilized and sooner or later this will negatively affect your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:18 AM
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As much as you can afford and you are willing to spend? Borrowing money for a wedding is idiotic (but some people still do exactly that)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:22 AM
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I'd be worried that a red pilled man would be treating me like a specimen he's researched online instead of a human being If i were single, that would be the attraction (no idea if that's a good basis for something long term but i guess not XD). For my part, to some extent, I regard all humans only as a collection of genes, bones, flesh, and blood. It is sometimes really difficult to explain to very emotional individualists that we are beings with impulses and instincts (though these instincts d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 09:10 AM
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I dont think the redpill mindset is something permanent for most men, I think it's a phase. Many redpilled men "forget / ignore" their redpill philosophy for the "right" woman. ( doesnt mean that the woman is objectively better than any other woman, she only seems better / more special to the specific man ) That's why there are MGTOWs who are divorced twice (or more often). After a while, people become lonely (not all, but most people like to socialize) and become "careless" and suddenly a MGTOW…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:34 AM
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i think the majoirty of people who are looking for a relationship on online dating plattformes ARE desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:59 PM
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"This girl I met is interesting I'd like to get to know her more, if sex happens that is cool too, if not I made a new friend". yeah, i think thats often times how it is...and i prefer that way of finding a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:29 PM
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If you know men don't like it, why do it? lol if drugs are illegal, why do them? XD if downloading movies is illegal, why do it? women do it because they like sex but dont want to be judged for it...simple as that! This is like a player hiding his past because 'women are weird about it'. No, they aren't weird, they are concerned and rightfully so. yeah, well...life isnt fair and nobody owes you honesty ... I would get used to people lying to you, people often lie about a variety of things for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 11:51 AM
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when I saw two women gossip about me and insinuate I was creepy out of curiosity, why did the two women think you were creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 11:41 AM
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it worked for both my ex-BF's and my current BF and it also worked for a couple of male friends i have so ...idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 11:33 AM
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better safe than sorry 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:47 AM
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me personally, no (since I have no high n-count) but other women may are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:45 AM
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idk, I lie to my doctor about how many cigarettes i smoke ... is that smart? no, would he judge me? no (who cares)... nevertheless, I lie People are irrational sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:44 AM
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yes, even in anonymous polls and fwb's
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:40 AM
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because we know u guys are weird about n-counts ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:32 AM
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some guys just like fucking Women a lot if its not about validation the easiest way to have as much sex as possible would be paying for it, but guys who like to have a lot of sex normally enjoy the hunt as well which basically means they enjoy being desired by many different women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:02 AM
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Yes, admittedly I was never really single for a long time and when I had one night stands then always with men I knew for a long time, sex with strangers would never have been an option (and for me a man I know 3 weeks is still a stranger). and yes, in the gay scene, other rules seem to apply, I've heard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:23 AM
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I met all my BF's by chance, none of them actively sought a girlfriend. My current partner came from an LTR and actually wanted to stay single for a very long time so idk, it worked for my BF and ex-bf's just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:19 AM
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By actively looking for a partner do we mean sex or relationships? Relationships Trying to just get your dick wet was always a more casual process than trying to find a future wife agreed but i think people who are looking for casual sex look for it online or try to approach in bars and clubs and not in the grocery store or the park 🤷 but that's just assumptions, ofc i could be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:11 AM
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eh...idk, the majority of people who actively look for a partner look pretty desperate to me but yeah, there certainly are people who are looking for a partner and are not desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:05 AM
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Here's a slightly alien possibility for you all: How about you do nothing for the sake of women, and put all of your efforts toward the self? this i think a person (male or female) is the most attractive if he/she is not actively looking for companionship in the form of a romantic partner...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:51 AM
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I have is that the more promiscuous women I know will Not. Shut. Up about it Yep yep, totally agree!...I know one woman who used to be like that when we where around 16 or smth (no idea how she is now) ... I kinda liked it tho ^^ I like rumors and gossip :D I just meant that if you want to hide something, it's possible even in times of the internet, without any problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:18 AM
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You wouldn't date a loser from this forum in a million years so who cares? Men outside this forum have accepted the modern woman's sexual appetite. Although my partner has never explicitly said that the N-Count is important to him, he definitely would not want to have a relationship with the "village mattress" (I would not want to have a man with an exterm high n-count either) Those men are fucked in the head. They want some weird fantasy. thats your opinion, imo its totally fine to not be carel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:25 AM
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It makes no sense for a woman to lie about her past to anyone. Here in the forum, many men say that they are disgusted by women who have had many sexual partners Men have accepted that every woman out there has quite an extensive past some have, some havent if you're a guy who's been with many women that logically means that those same women have been with many guys too not necessarily But why is it that some women will still put on that good girl tiara and try to paint an image she isn't like o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:11 AM
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if both are about equally attractive (and by that I mean both of them look normal without anyone being hopelessly disfigured or overweight), I would always take the athlete... it may sound stupid but actors are professional liars and very strange people (my subjective opinion that is not proven by scientific facts) if you saw a fighter wreck an actor you would prefer the fighter being beaten up is not sexy, but of course it depends on the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:30 AM
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let me put it that way, when Im going to watch an MMA fight and I see the fighters on a photo I think "meh" ... when I see them fight in the ring then I think "yummy"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:17 AM
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doesn’t mind paying for his previous dates/fwbs How should I know what he did for his Ex? O.o I certainly do not ask for it, and he does not tell it himself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:01 AM
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if it wouldnt be important for men no incel would complain, they would simply visit prostitutes, but they dont ...why? because they dont just want sex, they to be wanted by women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:30 PM
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I dont think the sex robot can replace real women to 100% because men also want to feel desirable, and you only get that if a human consciously decides that he/she wants to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:45 AM
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Once women are essentially unnecessary for reproduction I'm not sure they'll have much to fall back on. Humans do not always have sex for reproduction I think most sex is had, without the intention to father a child Besides, you do not just have to create the child, you also have to take care of it, and few men want to take over the educational part of the mother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 09:33 AM
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In my field, I can't dominate by intimidating others or punching my way to success. It can be cut throat and vicious but its not going to get physical. I think thats the case in 99% of all professions except for idk martial artists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:26 PM
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I'm working-class myself and all of my partners have been, too, or at least started out that way. All of the UMC men I know seem totally beta to me ... i think that would probably be different if only UC men would be available
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:28 PM
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it has changed with the age (and also with the social environment in which I found myself [it will rarely be the case that a doctor and a biker compete for the same woman at a party]) ... The men I found attractive and masculine at the age of 18-20 are no longer attractive to me today At 18, I found bar fights and arguments with the police entertaining and the man who could drink the most and celebrate the longest was the best of the best. Today I would not even consider such a man rudimentary, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 10:32 AM
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yeah well...you may not judge people...i do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:54 PM
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I do not care which sexual preferences people live out privately so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:15 PM
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The heterosexual men i know who arent really crazy about spending time with gay men dislike a very specific kind of gay men ... flamboyant, loud, exaggerated gay men. Gay men who do not behave like comic characters usually they have no problems with...my BF is like that, he doesnt like flamboyant gay men but his Doc i.e. is gay as fuck and he really likes him. You do not realize he's gay though because he doesnt talk about his sexualiy with random people and doesnt behave extra "gayish".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 03:54 PM
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Maybe it has more to do with how you see yourself. Of course, if you have a too perfect idea of ​​yourself, finding a partner who is just as great as you belive yourself to be, is hard. Then of course you have the feeling that you have sattled for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 03:41 PM
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in that scenario the wife might even be fine with it if you dont tell her and rub it into her face
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:23 PM
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maybe because, as a man ,you dont see 50 year old men as a potential sexpartners but you imagine what it would be to bang their 50 year old wifes? cause i think the same about such couples ...only that i think the guys often times look gross while the wives are still looking nice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:21 PM
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Carousel of 50 year olds sounds like it's worth the effort... working in an almost all female office (most of them are between 40 and 50) this sounds like a nightmare xD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:18 PM
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interesting posting but I dont know what to answer because I dont know what we're actually discussing anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:05 PM
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I think people used to have more mental problems than today, life was harder, war sucked and many people lost at least one loved one, they just didnt talked about it as much as we do now...no offense taken :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:27 AM
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If you were overall happy and are still in a good relationship with your parent/s, that's as good as it gets. They wont be perfect. i think so too, i have that and im perfectly satisfied, they are humans, they have flaws but i know they've tried their best...thats what matters to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:01 AM
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Then you need to open your eyes and stop saying silly things. well, I report what I perceive and most people have problems with themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:51 AM
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Why try your best when you can fail, is a poor argument I'm all for doing ones best, I'm just against being so naive to not having a back up plan if it doesnt work out the way one imagined
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:48 AM
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If I was pregnant and could not afford a child, I would find 700 somehow! No matter what I have to do ... Many women think differently, that's okay, but that does not mean that women are not themselves responsible if they get a child they do not really want (except in countries where abortion is illegal) ...and honestly, if i dont have 700(!) in my bank acc and i dont want a child i definitly would not have sex and risk getting pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:44 AM
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Then your claims are worthless and can be dismissed without consideration. so what? its not like im writing an exame here, im debating on the internet for fun with strangers xD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:37 AM
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Citation required. nah man, thats just my observation, I do not have to prove what I perceive in everyday life ;) but do you think it is very likely that a person experiences his entire childhood without trauma, be it on the part of the parents, the classmates, neighbors, teachers, friends etc. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:36 AM
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The world is overpopulated says who? and every year the population increases not in every country You obviously need to prove your claims. lol i dont need to prove anything, most people know its not enough if only MC and UMC are reproducing xD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:30 AM
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In many places abortion is illegal. obviously not talking about this places o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:24 AM
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Exactly. It's always the mother's bad choice. because the mother could have an abortion and the father could not? o.O weird question, in the end, the woman decides whether a child is born or not, not the man. When a woman decides to have a child she can not afford, she consciously makes the decision to transfer the responsibility to look after a baby financially and emotionally (which she and / or the father can not bear) to society
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:19 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:15 AM
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People having children they can't afford does not make a functional society actually we would have a pretty big problem population wise if only people who can afford it themselves reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:10 AM
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well...for now we are good..there are more people who want in than we can handle and the people who are already in produce like rabbits...so for the next two generstions we'll be fine...after that, who knows? ...maybe artificial wombs become a thing, idk maybe governments hand out money to couples who reproduce again, im optimistic we find a solution...and if not, well...end of humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:49 AM
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Alas this reverse tragedy of the commons ("the poor shall breed on our behalf") does not a solution make In how far is it no solution? in europe, we are importing just the people we lack, clearly they are not well educated (for now) and it will cost us some of our culture, but I can see it with my own eyes that the foreign poor, uneducated, give birth to our next generation of europeans and clearly, in other countries there is rural exodus and many villages and cities are abandoned, but is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:34 AM
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There will always be enough poor, uneducated people who will produce more children than they can feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:23 AM
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Prioritizing a good relationship with the right man naturally creates a child friendly situation with stability People are changing, people are lying, people are cheating, people are fleeing from responsibility, and all this can happen if they are in a loving partnership To believe that you can reduce the risk of being left to 0% if you do everything right when choosing your partner is a bit naive imo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:12 AM
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The children pay the price. I have "paid the price" and I can say that I have no more or less mental problems than my friends, whose parents are still married. One has a mummy complex (helicopter mom), the next one has deep fear of failure, a girlfriend can not be alone and always needs a guy and I have just light daddy issues, everyone has their burden to bear, all parents pass a harm to the child. Few people are 100% mentally stable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:59 AM
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Still on the fence but if I had children I would not be "scared" of being a single parent (of course It would not be an ideal situation and I would not wish it but if it turns out that way, I think I could deal with it) It would be important to me that my children have a good relationship with their father! I have a good education, a good job and can take care of myself and a child without any problems. I also live in a country with good access to childcare, good health insurance, a great public…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:42 AM
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but the women in poor areas where I come from marry at bigger rates than the ones with wealth but there are more poor women than rich men who are willing to rescue a poor woman ... and "rich men marry poor women" happens only in exceptional cases (usually one marries in the same class) A poor woman will eventually realize that simply no rich man will come and save her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:48 PM
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it is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 09:28 AM
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xD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 09:28 AM
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I purposely did not phrase it that way ;)
/r/askTRP11/08/19 09:27 AM
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women dont need to actually DO anything to be interesting for males...thats the reason men mostly dont care about womens careers ;) women dont need to earn the right to reproduce, they just need to be pretty (enough) and honestly, thats mens fault...men dont expect much from women 🤷
/r/MGTOW211/08/19 09:11 AM
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I dont know what having a hot child would really do for me, or how it would make them the human beings I am happy to have in my life. thats the reason im still on the fence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:56 AM
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How easily does this woman fall in love? She's had tons of boyfriends, is she crazy? how many are too many?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:48 AM
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because she's in love? o.O because she likes the company of a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:42 AM
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what number of BF's would be too high for a mid20 woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:40 AM
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I see that as very unhealthy and I don't want to be with someone who can't be alone. i dont think its necessarily a sign of not being able to be alone ...some women just get ltr'd quickly 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:38 AM
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empathising simply means im feeling what you're feeling. ..doesnt mean im sorry for you or that i even care empathy =/= sympathy
/r/askTRP10/08/19 08:13 AM
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i never understood why the fuck would i care whether it was pretty or not? i dont want children either (still on the fence tho) but i would be a bit disappointed if id have an ugly child tbh...I see people who are important to me as an extension of myself so that would be the reason im disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 08:06 AM
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most people would disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 07:40 AM
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Technology is already doing a decent job of accommodating baser needs and it’s only going to improve. it is, I think, very interesting what you've said here. I often see posts (not necessarily in this sub) asking if technology (sex robots i.e.) can eventually replace intimate contact between two people although technology has already done so in certain ways (in a somewhat primitive, improvable form)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:00 PM
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i dont get the meaphor...care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:38 PM
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I don’t take financial advice from broke people. eh...wut? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:35 PM
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i was one of these girls at the skate park and all of us got LTR'd pretty quickly (we all where around 13-15 at that time)...whats wrong with watching cute skaters doing tricks? o.O also... ofc the guys liked the attention 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:34 PM
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A girl that has a large male circle of friends but no one wants to have sex with? Is this happening often? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:30 PM
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still fits what i see in RL tho 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:26 PM
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nope...cant find it either 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:16 PM
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The survey, which questioned more than 2,000 women who have both sons and daughters, found that mothers were twice as likely to be critical of their daughters than sons – 21 per cent compared to 11.5 per cent. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1318036/Sons-really-mothers-favourites-88-cent-admit-treating-boys-differently.html
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:05 PM
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Mothers know that their daughters-in-law will not do the work, so they train their boys instead. cooking, cleaning, childcare, etc lol no, they do not, mothers expect much less from their sons than from their daughters. Sons are coddled and mothered by their mothers, sometimes until old age mothers have confirmed this in anonymous surveys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:35 PM
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Guys will fuck fat chicks and never tell their friends about them yeah well...i know you will now say "what do you know you're a woman" but i know and have seen enough guys turning down fat or unattractive women to believe most guys have no standards or are that desperate 🤷 I just think that women on this sub vastly underestimate the amount of girls who partake in these relationships. idk man...im around many women of all ages and the vast majority doesnt find the 0815 middle aged dad hot 🤷 but …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:29 PM
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I think women mostly hang out with other women in their own social status i think thats most people in general hang out with people in their own social status ...i mostly hang out with women in their late 20s in LTR's with guys 5~ years older...only few people in my social circle are single...same with the BF, he mostly hangs out with guys in LTR's or married guys 🤷 idk but we both know the people we hang out with since years and we all evolved pretty much in the same way (except for a few outli…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:17 PM
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You’re really underestimating how many damaged broken chicks probably...i dont know any broken chicks (or dudes) ...i guess in some social circles, this may be more common :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:11 PM
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Women bang dudes they don’t find ideally attractive from mere pictures all the time sure but its usually not the 15+ years older guy but the kinda ugly drummer you know from highschool who was nice and looks cool on stage...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:56 PM
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maybe some guys dont want to actually go out and bang a prostitute? Its not like prostitutes are a secret tip most guys need to hear off to know sex for money is available out there, some guys just dont want to have sex with a prostitute but are fine with mastubating to some online streamers 🤷 diff strokes for diff folks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:44 PM
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well...find a woman who hooks up with u on a first or second date then...its not like they dont exist 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:39 PM
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if you simply want sex and nothing else, why even bother dating? Why not just hire an escort/prostitute? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 01:21 PM
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why is it always dinner and expensive wine? o.O id say most people dont do dates like that...i bet its more common to meet over a cup of coffee or take a walk, chill at home or idk they go to the zoo 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 08:02 PM
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I think that the best solution would be to give a financial incentive as a government / insurance company ... as it is already the case with some child examinations (at least where I live)...but where i live, the gov and health insurance go hand in hand and health insurance is mandatory i guess its hard to compare
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:38 PM
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flawed = / = unfavorable for you personally otherwise i could say a plane is flawed because i personally prefer a pool on board
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:22 PM
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is a proof of our flawed animal bodies. it is not a flaw, it is necessary to ensure the continuity of the species
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:07 PM
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as a government, you can make it more appealing by offering money ...we do it like that here with certain medical tests for infants...if you do certain medical check ups with ur child til ahe 2--> you get a certain amount of money back from the insurancy ..."problem" is, neither governments nor insurance companies would gain something from mandatory paternity tests
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:05 PM
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MGTOWs are right in this definition. The only way to win this game is not participating. i thought mgtow is about not caring about such things and focusing on self improvement?...not about winning a game you chose not to play in the first place ...the way you put it it sounds like mgtow is just another pick up technique 🙄🤔 like "i act like i dont care and that way the women will come"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:00 PM
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some men enjoy the "dance"...others do not...i assume the men who find dancing partners easily have fun while the others do not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:49 PM
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Imagine a world where a paternity test was part of the process that would be the best way to deal with this issue imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:44 PM
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There is a whole movement of men going there own way a very small movement. And just because a man claims to be mgtow (Often, Mgtow is a reaction to divorce, separation ... but the anger phase does not last forever) and not chasing after women does not mean that he stays like that forever. I'm sure many mgtows will find a "unicorn" at some point, some stay with it, marry it, others are disappointed again, hold back and find the next "unicorn".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:38 PM
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supply and demand... if you have nothing to offer that the buyer wants, you have to change your strategy... not the buyer is doing something wrong, the seller is (wrong advertising, wrong target group, wrong appearance ...)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:01 PM
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You can only enjoy dancing if you have someone to dance with, even if its only for a short period of time. Those who never have anyone to dance will not enjoy dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:51 PM
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interesting
/r/askTRP07/08/19 03:31 PM
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People press certain buttons on other people to be able to estimate their behavior in certain situations. On the basis of these "games" and the decisions that a man makes in these "games", a woman decides whether or not she wants this man as a potential sexual partner / relationship partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:29 PM
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Now, you think you're going to find a 18-25 y.o. hot sub? Think again. Most are fat pigs who'll do anything for attention. Don't believe me? Join Fetlife and start perusing. The hot ones are primo and fought over endlessly, until they hit the wall, or get tired of playacting like they're submissive, get tired of being on call to some egomaniac Dom and forced to kneel for hours or eat out of dog dish or some bullshit. i've always wondered how the people who are active in bdsm online communties lo…
/r/askTRP06/08/19 04:48 PM
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The right thing to do would be leaving her and giving her the chance to find someone who truly values her
/r/askTRP06/08/19 12:40 PM
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agreed...therefore Being rich and famous makes you powerful. Period is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:30 PM
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At a closed court hearing on Friday, Britney Spears accused her father, Jamie Spears, of sending her to mental health treatment against her will, and asked to be freed from his control under her conservatorship, according to a new report. Still, Britney reportedly wants to completely end her conservatorship, which was put into place more than 11 years ago and allowed Jamie to control all of her assets https://www.google.at/amp/s/hollywoodlife.com/2019/05/13/britney-spears-conservatorship-hearing…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:21 PM
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I think it's more polite than answering a nice question with a single word... besides, I am not obliged to tell the truth to strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:15 PM
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britney spears is both, famous and rich but shes not even in control of her own money, let alone her kids or anything else in her life (her father is her legal guardian)she is more powerless than I am....on the other hand, Oprah is also rich and famous...but shes powerful (influental) as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:04 PM
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Im saying a dog was bred to love its owner just as an AI wife was programmed to love her owner. Neither one nor the other can replace what it feels like when a human loves you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:40 PM
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How do you keep your relationships from getting dry or stale over the span of years? small favors (bringing your guy a cup of coffee while he’s working, making breakfast in bed for the woman...) throughout the day are in my opinion a possibility to keep the spark. Just little gestures that show "Despite the long time we are together, I see you, as my life companion and it is important to me that you have the feeling of being noticed and cared for" small touches (a hug, a slap on the butt) or a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:36 PM
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dogs are bred to love their owner ... its not like they choose to be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:07 PM
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I think it's so weird for parents to give advice on this. yep...this!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 09:22 AM
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visits =\= users and dude its million...1,6 MILLION visits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:12 AM
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It helps a little nah man...it really really doesnt -.- the stuff we post here doesnt matter to other people out there....none of the people (friends, family, coworkers) i know even heard of reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:09 AM
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Even just talking about it is raising awareness talking about it on reddit in some small unknown subs =\= pushing it more into the public consiciousness....dude talking on reddit helps no one -.- even if you like the feeling of "fighting for smth"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:02 AM
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Kinsey solicited and encouraged pedophiles, at home and abroad, to sexually violate from 317 to 2,035 infants and children for his alleged data on normal “child sexuality.” Many of the crimes against children (oral and anal sodomy, genital intercourse and manual abuse) committed for Kinsey’s research are quantified in his own graphs and charts. For example, “Table 34” on page 180 of Kinsey’s “Sexual Behavior in the Human Male” claims to be a “scientific” record of “multiple orgasm in pre-adolesc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:28 PM
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Without judging, I think gyms have a women's area, because less women than men go to the gym....in many gyms I know are almost only men, thus a separate men's area is not needed
/r/MGTOW218/07/19 08:37 AM
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if you think so...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 09:27 AM
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if a woman stops having sex with her guy after birth and the sex never returns, its just natural to assume the women only wanted a child 🤷 might not be true but I can understand the train of thought
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 09:15 AM
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yep yep...it sounds horrible!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:35 AM
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To add to it, it seems that life sucks after having kids too so i dont know what people expect really I do not want to say that it is a big conspiracy of the parents, but without the internet I would never have found out what really happens after a birth and how that changes your body and life. Women dont talk honestly about births and possible (sometimes permanent) injuries ( at least not those I know) I think many parents just had a different idea about what it means to be parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:17 AM
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Why do you/men make that leap? If my guy doesnt want to have sex with me for lets say half a year, I would also feel unloved. If it's not about injury and pain after birth, but just a low libido, you sometimes have to take one for the team.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:09 AM
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It goes so far that I could not be with a man, if he has a certain dialect. Some dialects are an immediate turnoff!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:50 AM
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in the most reecent case i know, the guy left his wife and child for another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:05 PM
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ive seen a couple of divorces and i dont think a piece of paper makes a man stay if he really wants to leave ...also, i wouldnt want to be with a guy who is with me, just because he cant afford to get out of his marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:02 PM
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Why do men think most women will accept having their children outside of marriage? Because for many women marriage is not so important anymore, I know more small children from LTR's than from marriages. Why would he be good enough to have children with if he's not willing to marry me? I would also have a child without being married, I do not know why not. I am financially stable and if my guy wants to leave me he does that anyway. I associate having kids outside of marriage with not valuing your…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:49 PM
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If it's just about having many different sexual partners some men in my circle of acquaintances could be called "players". I wouldnt date any of those guys, but i've been friends with them for years, so this has other reason. What are your experiences with them? I can only speak as their friend but they are just normal dudes with normal jobs and normal hobbies (no chads or anything like that imo). They arent going out to meet women. They go out to have fun with friends, and when they meet a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:36 PM
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I understand what you mean, but I would not lease a car anyway. I just do not like the thought that it does not belong to me. But I know it's an emotional decision, not a rational one. Nevertheless, I know many people who see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:03 PM
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I understand what you mean but I do not like the thought of seeing a minus on my account (even for a short period of time), I can not work overtime and earn more, I have a fixed income. I've saved myself a (relatively good) cushion from which I can always withdraw money without being in the red in the end. I would rather save a little something together and spend it when I have it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:58 PM
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It may be worthwhile to make debts in some situations, I understand that, but I still would not feel comfortable to owe money to a bank. Id rather drive a shitty car that I can pay in full, and that then belongs to me as taking out a loan for a car. But for me a car is just a vehicle to get from A to B. A car enthusiast certainly sees it differently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:48 PM
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Why wait to have fun when you're 60? Idk, I would just not be able to sleep well if I would have debts, it would be very difficult for me to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:42 PM
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yeah, i know guys who do this as well but these guys could get women without paying for them as well, they are just not intersted in putting in all the effort. All the guys i know who visited prostitutes dont do it regulary and all of them could get laid if they would want to put in the effort...its rarely the virgins or sexually frustrated guys but maybe they just dont talk about it as open as the ones who could get laid either way 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:56 PM
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there are many non-chad type guys who are in relationships or have hook ups so these guys must do something right ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:15 PM
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not married but LTR...maybe marriage will happen some day but not anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:46 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:01 PM
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no, im 27
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:00 PM
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if that's your opinion ok, but I would not have sex with a dispassionate, bad-spoken idiot who behaves badly, even if he is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:57 AM
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