| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 485 | Toxic only please! | WAATGM In The Making | KidPowered17 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/08/21 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Translation: I’m a heavy drinker with poor decision making skills, but you should marry me and deal with it. Oh by the way, here’s a “gift!” | Damaged Goods | KidPowered17 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Definitely worth waiting for right? | Chasing Chad | KidPowered17 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/22 03:21 PM |
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| 3 | Do You Know a Guy That is Top 5% on Dating App?Very much so. They cheat without hesitation or provocation, just because they want to. Hypergamy is real, and the amount of women willing to drop their husband/bf for what they perceive to be a “better deal” is staggering. If you’re what they think they want, they will do and put up with almost anything to get what they want. I haven’t paid for a formal date in over 2 years. I don’t buy flowers or gifts. The most I’ll do is buy a drink while I’m out at a bar, but only if it’s someone I’m already… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 06:25 AM |
| 12 | Do You Know a Guy That is Top 5% on Dating App?I’m slightly reluctant to say, but I think I may be included in the top percentiles. 6’3”, conventionally handsome, physician in a major city with my own practice. I drive a luxury sport sedan and live in a trendy city home that has been professionally decorated. No problem meeting women traditionally or online, I would average 20-25 matches a day in the apps. Out and around town, I can’t remember the last time I went and approached a woman, I usually wait and let them approach me or make themse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:44 PM |
| 21 | "I be feeling guilty for picking the wrong guy to build a family with".Not. My. Problem. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/08/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Alpha Women and Boss BabesAggressive, domineering and insufferable. Most need to be right at all times, and will argue the most minuscule points to stroke her ego. I’ve had a few of the boss chick types approach me in an attempt to form a “power couple,” but after watching their interactions with other people, I was wholly uninterested. I’d want peace, and not someone that has to prove a point at every turn. Interestingly enough, most of the true CEO/COO/CFOs that I know personally, are kind,caring and personable. They a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 03:21 PM |
| 13 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?So essentially, the women date/sleep with the top 10% guy, and when they can’t get the commitment they desire from him, they grab another guy and make the best of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:05 AM |
| 33 | [Video] 40yr old has been pumped and dumped again, she still doesn't know why its so hard to find a good men at 40, any hints?She seems like that type that would make your life a living hell if you didn’t appeal to her whims at a moments notice. Women like that have the same soulless, vapid look in their eyes. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/11/22 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Do we have any black brothers here who will take one for the team and give this putrachán her happy ending?What did I just read. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/22 05:40 PM |
| 25 | Q4M fidelity testingPersonally I’d welcome the test. Had a couple of exes that were still working through past issues of infidelity and trust issues. Showing them “proof” of me doing nothing more than going to work and coming home with no extracurricular activities would be vindicating, but at what cost? She’d still figure a way in her mind that I somehow manipulated the test or the people giving the test, and then we’d be back at square one. I guess the moral of the story is: go to therapy people! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Typically, I get a fair amount of attention compared to my non white counterparts, but a bit less than my white friends. Most of the women I’ve dated have been very beautiful, including a former print model, a small time movie star etc. Age range for me is 25-31, and I tend to date across ethnic groups, aside from white (preference mostly). I’m 38 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Non-white. My being bald still bruises my ego from time to time, despite being able to grow a full beard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 09:38 AM |
| 11 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?I’m not religious in the least. I remember church being very exclusionary when I was a child. Not my cup of tea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Thank you. Dating has still been a struggle recently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:41 PM |
| 5 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Thanks, I’m bad at putting colors together. My first thought was to hire someone, but then it would be too magazine-ish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Not sure if I understand what you mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:37 PM |
| 44 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Witty, above average intelligence and income (physician), been in therapy for past issues, good relationships with friends and family. 6’4”, 200 lbs, shaved head with full beard, lives alone, no kids, own my own practice and also other business investments. Social drinker, non smoker, no drugs, gambling or anger issues. Frankly, I’m tired of doing fun stuff alone, and want someone sweet to come along. Oh and I need help decorating, I work a lot and haven’t gotten around to it. Caveat: I want to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 05:41 PM |
| 30 | You won't get any kids from this Danger Zone diva while she intentionally subjects her future child to the unfavorable statistics.She looks like a man in drag. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/05/22 03:42 AM |
| 12 | ~90% of child support goes to this mommy's needs.Long live the teachings of KS! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/05/22 01:24 AM |
| 4 | What do you think is average body count of a "top 20% man" is?Commenting anecdotally… On paper, I rank in the top 2-5% as far as height (6’4”), income (200+), career (physician) and even on something as subjective as facial attraction, 2 or 3 compliments a day on average. Most of the time, women hit on and approach me. Even when they are told that they are one of many, they double down and try to convince me that they are marriage material. Skin and hair products, toothbrushes, earrings etc are left out on the bathroom vanity, and no one says a word. When … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 10:59 AM |
| 24 | Women are more abusive than men in relationships and don't think that they could be because of society's messaging - "Men bad, women good"When we think of abuse, we tend to think of physical or financial abuse, directed at women. Emotional abuse is real and verbal abuse is real. Just as bad and a toxic behavior. Many women give the silent treatment to get their way, regularly accuse their partner of cheating, use profane language in arguments, and even justify physical violence. They sexually assault men and try to laugh it off as a joke or that it’s not a big deal. Many have been told for so long that they can do no wrong, especi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 01:22 PM |
| 10 | I love my husband but my best friend is smarter, healthier and better looking. And I'd rather have a baby by him. Why can't my husband understand that I'm doing this for us?I’m praying this was a troll post. Please let this be satire. Please. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/04/22 04:15 PM |
| 4 | [42-F] LF better, richer, generous man. Us her. You will not scam the scammer.I’ll give her that she’s kept up with her body, even though most of it is plastic surgery. That face is heavily filtered, and it still looks like it has some hard miles on it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/04/22 12:32 PM |
| 66 | What can we unanimously agree are dealbreakers in a relationship?As a man that dates women: Entitled behavior Verbally abusive Cheating/infidelity Terrible money management Heavy drug/alcohol abuse Keeping up with exes/orbiters Lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 01:50 PM |
| 2 | How many of you would become stepparents?I’ve seen that happen as well. Stepfather raised the girl from 4 years old, dad was a loser drunk. Guess who she wanted to walk her down the aisle? Bio dad, that is still such a drunk that he was asked to leave the resort because of his behavior. That was definitely my eye opener. A stepfather is a walking wallet and a bailout plan when a relationship fails. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 01:53 PM |
| 33 | Oh, how I love the shaming language of this aiteann: “if you aren’t secure enough to accept me for who I am, you’re not a real man!” So transparent, so laughable.Nurse and hairdresser? 🚩🚩🚩 IMO, the “man not boys” troupe is really saying “I want you to spend money on dates and not just invite me to come over. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/02/22 01:48 AM |
| 3 | TFW you're an obese single mom and call yourself "average" while demanding a 6-foot tall man...Chiming in as yet another brotha… I get pissed still. Why? Because this person has the nerve to get mad at me and demand I accept this half ass attempt at whatever she’s doing. Accept someone else’s kid and work myself to death so she can “study” art and then badger me all day about how bad men are. She can go play in traffic. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/02/22 06:22 PM |
| – | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketThat strategy really trips me out. Do you really think a self-made, wealthy man that’s smart enough to be in the top 5% of earners is stupid enough to let someone 10–20 years younger than him trick him out of more money that he’s willing to throw away on her? It just doesn’t make sense. He didn’t get to that level by being stupid and making bad decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 12:36 AM |
| 46 | She needs the benefits of a husbandIf her neck hurts too much to work, you can bet your bottom dollar it’s going to hurt to much for any type of fun once you get home from beating yourself up to provide for her and another man’s kid. Why didn’t she make it work with him? Oh she was strong and independent until she wasn’t. I feel sorry for the poor soul that falls in this trap, she’s a stray that wants a place to stay. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/01/22 03:51 PM |
| 9 | Two kids from two dads, a bull ring, various tats...but NOW she wants to settle down and marry.I also recommend Mediocre Tutorials and Reviews. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/01/22 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Why is it considered insulting to be called "husband material" by women but it's a considered a compliment when women get called "wife material"?IMHO: wife material means just that, you’re someone that he wants to protect and provide for until he’s no longer on this earth. He wants to build a legacy with you. Husband material= you’re a good worker and I’m going to gladly put you to work for me after I’m done having fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 06:50 PM |
| 7 | 54-F wants a partner in crime, the next level, these are the requirements for you: happy, worldly, social, interesting, insatiable, sexy, gorgeous, tall, athletic. She: Aries, exotic, world traveler, love the ocean…Profile translation! Jeweler: sells crap on Etsy Wine: alcoholic lite Intimate: please me, I give sex when I’m happy. Exotic: I have a mole on my face somewhere. Fast cars: I want a Porsche, can’t fit in it though. Sailing: I take pictures, drink wine. You sail. Dogs: dogs are poorly trained and I don’t care. Traveler: ex lugged me to Mexico and France. Love the ocean: I want a beach house. You pay. Foodie: take me somewhere fancy for pictures. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 7 | 54-F wants a partner in crime, the next level, these are the requirements for you: happy, worldly, social, interesting, insatiable, sexy, gorgeous, tall, athletic. She: Aries, exotic, world traveler, love the ocean…Comment of the year imo. I wish I could make it go viral | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 27 | "Not your average southern barbie. I'm pregnant" - Strong Independent Woman, 2021.I was thinking the same thing. That’s an abnormally small waist, even for a 22 year old with no kids. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/10/21 11:55 AM |
| 3 | 46-F mom wants a boyfriend, If possible, fun, friendly, adventurous, sociable, tall, handsome, fit, and with moneyShe’s heavily filtered in the closeup, and doesn’t fully show her body in the other pictures. You’ll be unpleasantly surprised up close. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/10/21 10:48 PM |
| 144 | Are You Getting Daddy-Baited? Others Found This Helpful So Maybe You Will TooVery insightful. The only thing I’d like to add, is to watch out for the women that are in their early to mid 30s as well, even if they don’t have children already. They know their window is closing, so they can be desperate and conniving. They will act as if you are soulmates, and try to rush you along to the altar or into fatherhood. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/09/21 06:55 AM |
| 30 | Stop me if you've heard this one before: Single mother, looking for commitment, gotta be taller than her, and is self-admittedly crazyTranslation: provide for me and someone else’s kid, don’t discipline my crotch goblin, and make sure you’re exactly what I want to even have a chance in hell with me. Oh yeah, I’ll nag the hell out of you when I’m bored b | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/09/21 05:40 PM |
| 14 | Why do chads not want to have a relationshit with me 😢🥺😭? Because Sweaty they know that they can get away with fucking you like piece of meat with 0 commitment and no consequences. There are guys who want relationships but they r too subhuman for kaweens like yourself now, aren't they?Same here. Even being well over 6’ and easily netting 6 figures, their demands are still far fetched and unreasonable. Rent, never buy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/09/21 06:58 PM |
| 11 | The “right way”Not quite free, more like 10% | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/09/21 02:52 AM |
| 88 | The “right way”How do they always manage to find religion after having a kid or hitting the wall? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/21 09:40 PM |
| 11 | Late 30s career-oriented womyn sues dating agency after they are unable to procure six foot tall man who meets her list of criteriaI remember that segment. She’s “too attractive“ to date, but managed to get knocked up 2x. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/08/21 11:21 AM |
| 4 | Here are her deMANandsNo way this woman is 35. I don’t believe it one bit. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/08/21 04:45 AM |
| 24 | Toxic only please!I’ll take “things that aren’t my problem” for 800 please. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/08/21 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Being abrasive never works, take heed.Rent it for a few weeks and then move her along. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/21 07:19 AM |
| 9 | Being abrasive never works, take heed.At first glance I thought it was a very hairy arm. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/21 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodBut are they chasing you for marriage, or just a weekend fling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Woman dumps her great boyfriend in her 20s because she thought she could do better after he built her self-esteem. Now few years later after dating shitty men she regrets what she did! Classic case of hypergamy gone wrong.Liliths mirror. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/08/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?Do you have an article link? I searched online and only found dead ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 10:22 AM |
| – | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?I just had this discussion with a girl at my office. Yes, it is 100% her body and she is more than able to post pictures of whatever she pleases, as long as everyone is consenting and she is of age. Following the same thought process, I am also 100% allowed to decide who I will pursue and carry a relationship with based on their actions. Would I ever try to control a woman? No. But I will definitely watch her actions, and move accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 12:20 PM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL]Do you believe average/below average people overstate how easy dating is for hot people in their gender?I wouldn’t necessarily say something wrong. Consider it this way if you will… In today’s hookup culture, most don’t hesitate to sleep with someone that they find with attractive traits. As a guy, I’m sure you’ve been with women that you would be with, but never date seriously. I seem to get a lot more “potential husband” attention than “fling” attention. Ultimately I guide the interaction to the level that I’m ok with and go from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 03:16 PM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL]Do you believe average/below average people overstate how easy dating is for hot people in their gender?I won’t necessarily say that it’s very easy, but I will readily admit, that I have much different experience than most of my friends. I get angry, because a lot of them are looked down on by women who feel like they are out of their league. For reference, I’m 6’4” (ish), A little under 90kg, workout frequently, play competitive sports with my friends that played in college or professionally. I won’t rate my looks on the scale, but I do get catcalled or approached by women a few times a week. Own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 02:16 PM |
| 13 | 38 yr old reality TV star from Bondi Vet claims “Men can’t love a successful woman” and complains about picking up the restaurant billBuy a dog, die alone. -Kevin Samuels | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/06/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | We have an self proclaimed "confident,sexy, independent," hispanic, single mother who only wants "big tall sexy black man or a big tall sexy Country man!!" ..... And you better be a gentleman otherwise she will put you in your place. Make a line boys.She’s built like a sweet potato… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/06/21 05:59 PM |
| 17 | Any more requirements sweetheart? (Easy left swipe)The 49ers. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/06/21 06:05 AM |
| 11 | 40yo with a kid and a poor attitude wonders why men only want her for sex.Which makes absolutely zero sense. If a guy is in the top 20% physically, top 10% financially, intelligent, well spoken and well travelled… Why wouldn’t he have a lot of women looking at him as a potential? If I fought for the past years to make myself a top 10% guy, there’s no way I’m letting some pretty girl thats a dime a dozen entertain multiple guys along with me. And most of the time, the girls from FDS, aren’t that cute and weigh more than me. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/06/21 06:18 PM |
| 6 | "You go and make over 130k USD annually, while I stay at home and sell Herbalife. Strong shoulders needed."Sheesh. How does she look without all of the filters? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/05/21 03:03 PM |
| 26 | A expensive dinner dateReason 101 why single mothers should be left alone. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/05/21 10:30 AM |
| 5 | This one goes out to all the single moms of r/niceguys and r/FemaleDatingStrategy.Yes don’t forget living with their parents. I know a baby mama that brags about making 100k a year and “not settling,” but she lives at home with her parents and kid at 33. It’s easy to get ahead and take lavish vacations when you’re not shelling out 2k in a mortgage every month. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/05/21 03:01 PM |
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