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| 1 | How are you all doing?Any specific details you'd like to share? | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How are you all doing?Omg, I don't know. 2 years maybe? I've been so busy with life, kids, etc. Plus my Captain banned me from Reddit for a while so I could focus on my mental and physical health. Especially during my pregnancy. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How are you all doing?I made him change his mind. Also we found an arrangement that worked for us. His primary fear was financial devastation and disfunction for our potential family. After some planning, we came up with a financial situation that keeps us both feeling secure in building a family together. If you want specific details you can PM me. It's rather involved but wasn't that difficult since our lawyers gave us great advise and coached us along the way. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | How are you all doing?Thank you. And congrats to you as well! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How are you all doing?How do you feel you are doing on that road? | /r/RedPillWives | 20/08/21 07:42 PM |
| 3 | How are you all doing?Can you give the short version? | /r/RedPillWives | 20/08/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I turned 18. I’m ready for a new chapter of my life, but moving forward as MGTOW.The Discover-It is the first card I ever had. I used it to help build my credit back when I had virtually no credit. I'd recommend. There isn't really a card that's "made" for students. When you hear that language it's more of a marketing gimmick. Typically anyone can apply for a student credit card. When I hear "made for student" I just think "marketed towards students." You are doing very well by saving so much at your age. That's amazing really, But I need to let you know, in my humble opinio… | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/03/20 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I turned 18. I’m ready for a new chapter of my life, but moving forward as MGTOW.I'm so glad to hear that Sweetie. A few money and credit tips. Don't exceed 30% of the balance on your credit card. The credit reporting agencies would view that as irresponsible spending. Make sure the card you get doesn't have an annual fee. If you are pretty certain you aren't going to carry a balance then the APR doesn't really matter that much. One thing that might be nice is getting a card with cashback. Try a student credit card. Lots of college credit unions have them. Chase also has a p… | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/03/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Need help to overcome a crush I have on a girlMight I offer and alternative solution? It sounds to me like you are putting this woman on a pedestal. I would say ask her out and either get rejected or start dating her. Just don't commit. There are plenty of mgtow who still date for fun. That way you will get to see her in her entirety. Her good and bad side. She will remind you why you are mgtow. Every woman has red flags that you should be hyper aware of. Put minimal effort into her. Nothing wrong with a little fun as long as you manage you… | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/08/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?I see where you are coming from. My intention was to get people talking about there lives in a light hearted way. I have read through all the responses here and the results are wonderful. Dozens of men simply having a conversation and socializing. One of the most simple and human things we do as a species. If insighting something so wholesome is something you consider "low effort" or "pointless" then I apologize. | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/08/19 02:31 PM |
| 2 | How are you guys doing?PPD is an echo chamber of the same ideas of which I grew tired arguing against. Mgtow men I find easy to interact with because my man is former mgtow. The men here reflect his beliefs and being here helps me connect more with him. | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/08/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?I have spent a lot of time there. It didn't suit me. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Anxiety? | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?I'm sorry you feel that way. I understand where you are coming from. I have been here a while. You might call me an og. I hope I haven't done anything to offend. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Glad yo hear you are recovering. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Oh that sounds fun! What's your favorite recipe? | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Congrats! Do you teach public school? Any opinion on public school, private and home school. We are going to be homeschooling our girl. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?What did you do at the bachelor party? | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?A best buy credit card? What games do you play? | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Did you do it as a church event or secular? | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | A woman waltz’s into this forum and asks a question. If you answer her, you are being a simp.Every time I have asked questions here or engaged in conversation I feel like everyone was very civil. You guys are easy to talk to. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/08/19 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Rant: Thoughts on "You just need to find the right person" and "you just need to work on the relationship"They are just citing cliche's. Others being happy without a relationship can leave people valnerable and doubting. If you appear happy single then they will take it as an insult internally. Even if they don't realize it. If you appear unhappy they will think the cure is a relationship. You don't need marriage or cohabitation. To be happy. But in a society where people are taught from an early age how great it is you have to expect to hear people arguing for it. That is how indoctrination works. … | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/07/19 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Opinions On NawaltI know my answer is a bit late but I had some free time and was browsing my favorite subreddit when I found this. In my opinion Nawalts don't exist. A woman, given the chance, will look out for her own best interest and that of her children over her man. If she truly believes it is in her best interest. That is human nature. Unlike men, women haven't developed the nature or have been given the expectation that they need to sacrifice themselves for the wellbeing of their spouses. That is a man's … | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/07/19 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Is my SO testing my sexual commitment?I definitely agree about her being able to set her boundaries. I will say that there is a better way of approaching the situation than just saying no. Letting him know that he is wearing her out can be a very positive conversation if she gives it some thought. Its all about framing. Also congratulations OP. I love hearing about a positive sex life. Your captain is clearly very attracted to you. That is so nice to hear. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Being a wife vs. being a girlfriend -- a small thoughtYou said a marriage, not a wedding. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Being a wife vs. being a girlfriend -- a small thoughtAh then you disagree with the op then. Thanks fir your perspective. Where did you grow up? Marriage in my community was about the two people, not about a community. That's definitely not a universal understanding. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/19 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Men who leave after learning their kids aren't theirs aren't doing anything wrong (Found this page earlier and decided to share it.)Thank you for that perspective. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/04/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Opposing marriage is apparently hate speech?I see your perspective. I see it from a point of fraud. To us many scams are obvious yet fraud happens all the time. People do things the shouldn't do because they dont believe the consequences will happen to them. If you told everyone that got married that they would eventually go through divorce I think far less people would get married. Like...how many people bet their retirement savings on black? Not many because they know the consequences. Yet there seems to be a huge disconnect for men whe… | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/04/19 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Mgtow and the lbgt?This is a very interesting topic. From What I have seen lesbians have the highest rate of divorce and of abuse. Apparently not even women can stand women for long periods of time, generally. It is fascinating. I would like to see studies done on failing lesbian marriages. Image all the insticts and tactics women have developed to combat and manipulate men except it is attempting to be used on another women. Honestly that would make a good movie or t.v. show. I also find it equally fascinating th… | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/04/19 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Opposing marriage is apparently hate speech?I am an atheist and I subscribe to a subjectivr moral framework. That includes my belief that marriage is immoral because upon considering marriage there is no disclosure of the potential consequences of marriage. Most men who enter marriage do so without being informed about what it would mean to get married. The consequence. Without being truly informed they cannot make a rational decision to do it. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/04/19 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Men who leave after learning their kids aren't theirs aren't doing anything wrong (Found this page earlier and decided to share it.)That is how it should be. Many places don't care about men so they allow men to be a victim of fraud for the benefit of the woman, child, and ultimately the government who wont have to support the mother because they are forcing the man into wage slavery to support the fraudsters. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/04/19 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Men who leave after learning their kids aren't theirs aren't doing anything wrong (Found this page earlier and decided to share it.)This is very interesting. Many mgtow consider themselves to be abandoned by society. They believe that society doesn't care about men. Do you feel that way? If so how do you feel about your child risking his life for a society that wouldnt even care if he way homeless? That doesnt care about him? | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/04/19 10:32 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Thank you for the well wishes. People often do change. The most intimage of lovers can become the worst enemies. Those you love also have the power to hurt you the most. I am just glad my man took the chance with me. Just so you know you don't need to get married to give someone your things when you die. Just call whoever has your pension and add that person as a beneficiary. There is no practical reason to get married other than some tax benefits which don't outweigh the fact that you have just… | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/04/19 10:27 AM |
| 3 | I'm so happy with my boyfriend of 6 months that I'm becoming fearful and riddled with anxiety that I will lose him in the future.I am so happy to hear that you found someone that makes you feel that way. And you guys have the same age gap as my captain and I. Let me give you my perspective. What you are feeling right is WONDERFUL. It means you have found someone special. I have been with my man 8 years and I still feel that way just a bit. I no longer see it as a negative. It makes me happy to be a bit insecure. Stops me from becoming complacent. We are all human. There is always something that we can do to make our partn… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 12:57 PM |
| 3 | If you're a housewife, you can use your spare time for self-education. Don't let your intellect rot.We are going to ve homeschooling as well. Can you give some advice on it? What was your experience like? What did you learn? What is the difference between how it started and how you ended up after some time getting better at it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/19 12:43 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?I have an 8 year old adoptive son. Soon he'll be nine. And I am currently pregnant with another. I understand perfectly about not wanting some judge to get involved with our lives when we know the extreme biases of the family court. How judges get compensated based on how much child support they order. Same for alimony. My man and I arent married and we never will. We have been together for 8 years now. We have found a way to, as much as possible guard against the possibility of child support as… | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/04/19 11:41 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?I can tell you right now that if you have kids your actions will definitely be questioned constantly. Maybe not negatively but you will be explaining yourself A LOT. Though I am sure you meant it a different way. 😊 Is surrogacy legal in your country. | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/04/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Freedom and two kids? What does freedom look like to you? | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/04/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?What do you want? | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/04/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How to balance dressing in a way that makes me feel happy, confident, and pretty with how my husband wants me to dress?Have you talked to him yet about why he changed his mind. It was as I thought, you went outside. He probably saw you gettibg some male attention. Talking to him should clear things up rather easily if your interest is to actually make him happy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/19 11:07 AM |
| 1 | QuestionWhy not? | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/04/19 12:10 AM |
| 2 | How to balance dressing in a way that makes me feel happy, confident, and pretty with how my husband wants me to dress?Did you ever ask him more about his feelings? I only really feel sexy when my man approves of my attire or my appearance. Specifically because I am doing it for him. I know I am sexy in general because of how I look. I can wear sweatpants and get attention if I wanted to. It's not about clothes. Did you go out and get male attention? What happened in between him telling you it was ok and him telling you it wasn't. I can tell you right now this isn't about the dress itself. Someone suggested that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Older menIt typically takes a rather long time for a man to gain the things in his life that make him appear as an obviously suitable long term partner. Confidence, money, status, willingness to provide for a family. Unless he grew up in a family that pushed him to be that way many men simply aren't going to be that way until they get older and it comes either naturually or as part of their self improvement when they figure out that being more alpha is more conducive to meeting their life goals. Given th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Being a wife vs. being a girlfriend -- a small thoughtYea I actually got something completely different out of the data. I find the data skewed by its focus on a particular category of people. Older, middle class and upper middle class milenials. It shows me that they dont divorce in their 30's but I dont see the trend that they are staying married through their entire life. Time will tell. I am seeing a lot of older divorces and in my life marriage is no longer scene as this default state of awesomeness. We have completely different experienced an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Being a wife vs. being a girlfriend -- a small thoughtYou left out the part where it also showed the declining marriage rate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Being a wife vs. being a girlfriend -- a small thoughtThere are definitely arbitrary social benefits to being matried if you care abiut those type of things. My captain and I refer to each other as "partners" and it carries a certain aura of respect as well. It is of course very arbitrary in our case but we don't blame people for making that mistake. It is just one of those social norms which will probably become less and less common over time given the trend of reduce marriage rates and higher rates of divorce. I am glad it makes you feel special … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?I am glad to hear you are doing well. What is your worth. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?I am happy for you! And thank you Dear. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?What are you doing to work on your mental health? Oh you are a musician!? I am mostly just getting ready for the baby. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Yea I don't think anyone gets married expecting to divorce. It's a sad reality. I'm glad to hear you are still very active in your children's life. You said you are monogamous. What are you looking for in a partner? | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Thanks for sharing. How often do you see your kids? | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 12:07 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Oh ok! So describe to me what's awesome about the sound system? I don't know anything about sound systems. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 11:45 AM |
| 2 | How are you guys doing?So silly! | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 11:37 AM |
| 2 | How are you guys doing?Oh I see. What are you doing instead then? | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 11:36 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?What's perfect about the sound system? I'm sure there are plenty of random girl's to share the experience with in the short term. Though far from perfect I'm sure. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 11:33 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?Can you tell me about your experience a bit more? How long has it been since you've dated or had a casual encounter? What was it like coming back to the scene? What was refreshing about it and what were the redflags? | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 11:31 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?I work out yes. What's stopping you from working out? | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?What test? Why are you struggling? You think it's going to be super hard? | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys doing?You're so silly~ That's a really healthy breakfast. Do you work out? | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 11:18 AM |
| 1 | I still have Tinder and here comes springJust use a condom sweetheart. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/04/19 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Congrats to our little sub ..Yep yep yep! | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/03/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Congrats to our little sub ..I understand where you are coming from. We may be thinking of two different definitions of circle jerk. To me A circle jerk is when people in a community constantly agree with each other. R/aww is a Huge circle jerk of people agreeing that stuff is cute. You don't see half the people there calling stuff ugly or not cute and then having an argument about cuteness. No, it is actually one of the biggest circle jerks on Reddit. From my understanding of a circle jerk at least. I would imagine that if… | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/03/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain the cost/benefit to marriage?I have been with my man over 8 years. We have an adopted child and I am currently pregnant with another. We won't ever be getting married. Marriage is against my personal morals. Marriage is the stripping away of security from the richer party and giving it to the other party. It was one of the reasons that Robin Williams vomited suicide. Alimony was killing him. Marriage is a glorified insurance contract. Literally every benefit you can get from marriage you can easily get outside of marriage. … | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/03/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Congrats to our little sub ..I'm still glad to be able to be here~ | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/03/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Congrats to our little sub ..I think every subreddit is a circlejerk no matter how big. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/03/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | The biggest problem MGTOW and Redpill seem to have is that they dehumanize women.I'm glad you asked this. So lets take the case of a man that appears strong but is not husband material. Hypergamy would have me pursue him anyway because he is exuding things that are baseline attractive to my nature. Maybe he has the looks of Bradpitt or the Charisma of Oprah. Those are hypergamous. My nature dictates that I'll be attracted to him because of those traits give ME status were I to pursue. Good looks is associated with good genes as well. A might be attracted to a man that looks … | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/03/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | The biggest problem MGTOW and Redpill seem to have is that they dehumanize women.Can you explain why you think Hypergamy doesn't work? My SO and I have discussed hypergamy and all things "redpill" at length in our over 8 years together. A lot of why I am with him is in many ways due to my own hypergamy. It's not all of the reason, but it's definitely an important factor. He is a successful man who is rather charismatic and provides me with security. If it weren't for that we wouldn't be together no matter how much we "get along." Seeing as I want to raise children I need a m… | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/03/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why shouldn't I be suspicious and mistrustful of women?You shouldn't trust anyone who hasn't earned your trust. Like many have said, women are human. Humans are capable of great good and great evil. Trust only those who have shown themselves to be trustworthy, man or woman. If you are mgtow a more prudent question may be why should you trust a woman to be a good wife but that is a different conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/19 02:33 PM |
| 2 | How did/does pregnancy affect your sex life?That's what I was thinking. Though I'm a bit cautious because the pleasure is due to being upset by the situation. Like when we get really into it I find myself really crying. I can "feel" upset. That feeling is pleasurable and exciting. So you are saying that as long as I "like" feeling upset, it should be fine? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your children?I understand why you would think that way. My man, who is former mgtow, was raising children just fine without me so I know for a fact a prepared man is very capable of raising children quite well all by himself. Also I have been here for a while making posts. If you want to chat don't be afraid to message me! | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/03/19 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Just want to ventOh yea. I completely forgot about the Metoo risk. Totally agree. | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/03/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Just want to ventSure thing! So lets compare what happens when a man asks a woman out and when a women asks a man out, paired with social expectation. I'll start by stating a few facts that we should both agree on. A man is expected to chase. Men are groomed to be the one doing the courting. At least groomed by societal and social expectations. Men are supposed to impress the woman. Next, the "price of pussy" is very overinflated. Online dating sites like Tinder and Okcupid prove that. Simps are everywhere. Men … | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/03/19 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Just want to ventI'll make it real simple for you. We are cowards, women, girls, especially high school girls. And for good reason. It's riskier for us to initiate. Riskier in more ways than one. A girl out right asking a guy out is super brave. It's risky. It's not typically how things are done even in this age of feminism. Guys are still expected to be the ones chasing. All our job is to give you the green light and it's up to you to recognize the signal and then GO! The girls that asked you out I'd actually a… | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/03/19 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How are you raising your children?Thanks for sharing. I'm interested in your teaching method because it differs from mine. How would you go about teaching them how to think for themselves? You wouldn't give them any feedback at about what you thought about their decision. IF your child decided to do crack and wondered what it was like you'd say "Yea go try it and find out?" Where do you draw the line? | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/03/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your children?If you adopted a child I would include that as being your child. My son is adopted. So if you were to adopt a child how would you raise that child? What lessons would you teach a boy vs a girl? | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/03/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your children?You're so silly~ | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/03/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your children?Wow. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/03/19 12:43 PM |
| 1 | "Attraction Inequality and the Dating Economy"This is so interesting. It's nice to see stuff displaying what we already know. I'm thankful that my son won't have to go through that because he has someone who has already experienced this reality the hard way to guide him. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/03/19 11:55 AM |
| 0 | When age appropriate, why don't mothers teach their sons that being hot is the most important thing on dating and then coach them to be as hot as possible?My man is going to pretty much be solely responsible for teaching our son how to "get girls." I don't think I'd be best suited for doing it. Even if I was it may be a bit weird coming from his mother as opposed to his father. I can't garentee that my own gynocentrism won't get in the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/19 11:39 AM |
| 23 | So what do I have? A best friend who loves me and often tells me so.She never dreamed to be a house wife. Being a house wife is something she could have easily done in her 20's. What she dreamed of was to live her life any way she wanted without consequences. Now that she is facing those consequences she wants to make herself feel better by posting on Reddit for attention and social validation. Typical. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/03/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?You can only give your children the tools they need to succeed. It has to be their choice to use it. The way I see it is that we are raising them into being adults. The question you have about your daughter resenting you for teaching her to be feminine can be asked in the same way about teaching your son to be masculine. There are certain skills that boys and girls typically need to be successful. For example. Your son may HATE cleaning himself. Brushing his teeth. Ironing his clothes. Cleaning … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Going my own way but never stopped loving her.Times are definintely different. I think marriage and the gender dynamic of wife and husband is very effective or was effective back when gender roles were clear. It takes a lot to raise a child. Having someone who is dedicated to that task who is allowed to pull all of themselves into it instead of having to juggle some high paying career I believe is very healthy for the child. In the situation expecting the person raising children, tending to the house, cooking every meal, doing the grocery s… | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/03/19 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Going my own way but never stopped loving her.Absolutely. Prenups shouldn't be able to be thrown out by a judge. It undermines the entire idea of a prenup. What do you mean by independence between men and women? | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/03/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?What we've decided to do is continue to send our boy to public school but keep him enrolled in many sports programs and all-boys programs. He is really into football right now. It will probably be a while before girl's invade that space. I'm a very powerful force in his life. I help him with his homework every day but my Captain teaches him lessons periodically and bonds with him in ways that I don't. He helps me cook and do chores and we encourage him to pursue his own hobbies. We definitely ar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Going my own way but never stopped loving her.One thing that you possibly could have brought up is that the very true fact that marriage in no way at all keeps people from leaving each other. If you or her want to leave you can do so. You can do so physically or even emotionally. In fact marriage would be the exact opposite of what she wants. Because if things go bad she would rather be able to leave clean then have to go through a divorce with someone who doesn't like her. This is so tragic. This is what I am talking about in my other post… | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/03/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Going my own way but never stopped loving her.This is so bitter sweet. On one hand you avoided the trap and gamble of marriage, on the other hand you lost the love of your life. The fact that she couldn't be with you without having a government enforced insurance contract showed you her true character. Not to say anything bad about her personally. I don't know her. What I do know is that society still doesn't care about men. Marriage is designed for two things. To make it harder for two people to leave each other and to ensure that women do… | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/03/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | It's good to finally see guy friends not allowing themselves to remain friendzoned forever. "Don't wanna be more than friends but still want me as your emotional tampon? Nah, I'm out."Oh I didn't date anyone but him. I wasn't encouraging him to sleep with others. I just wasn't restricting him. He told me the type of woman he wanted to get serious with so I didn't date anyone else while I was actively seeking him for the long term. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/03/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | It's good to finally see guy friends not allowing themselves to remain friendzoned forever. "Don't wanna be more than friends but still want me as your emotional tampon? Nah, I'm out."That is a really long courtship. I wonder how your relationship would have been if you or her got married to someone else. It took me about 2 years to lock down my man. We were casual at the time. Basically he was dating multiple women but I was just going after him. I didn't have any male friends because I knew they would distract me. Hook up culture was very strong in college. I had a few opportunities to make male friends and that was around the time my man started sharing his experience with… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/03/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | It's good to finally see guy friends not allowing themselves to remain friendzoned forever. "Don't wanna be more than friends but still want me as your emotional tampon? Nah, I'm out."Unless they literally admit to Only being around you because you are attractive then it is egotistical to assume that. What if, what is most likely the case, they hang out with you because you are attractive And something else? Maybe they are attractive And enjoy the same movies. That is not a fake friendship because there are other things that make the friendship work. To call it fake is not only incorrect, but a severe lack of empathy and extremely egotistical. Are There people out there that … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/03/19 05:44 PM |
| 2 | It's good to finally see guy friends not allowing themselves to remain friendzoned forever. "Don't wanna be more than friends but still want me as your emotional tampon? Nah, I'm out."Unless that man is literally twirling his mustache in a dark room somewhere saying "I can't stand being around her but I am going to pretend to like her just so I can have sex with her one time", I would not call it fake. In fact it is a bit arrogant to think that way.. Think about that. The woman is asserting what another person feels. That feeling she has is based on her own insecurities. Humans are complex. They aren't black and white. A man can be friends and want more out of the relationshi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/03/19 04:24 PM |
| 5 | It's good to finally see guy friends not allowing themselves to remain friendzoned forever. "Don't wanna be more than friends but still want me as your emotional tampon? Nah, I'm out."The friend zone definitely exists. It is frustrating to see how little so many members of my own gender lack empathy. Rejection is a powerful thing. If someone I was friends with and really liked rejected me I would be really upset and would find it hard to be around them. Men are NOT assholes for taking care of themselves by avoiding toxic relationships with someone they like who rejected them. I know that women go through the same thing and they aren't assholes when they do it either. No one i… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/03/19 02:47 PM |
| 11 | Signs Your Not MGTOW#67This is very interesting. How much can men really be blamed for getting married? You all grew up in a society that indoctrinates you into believing that being married is the standard thing to do if you love someone. Most people and many communities never question that. Just "find the right person." It isn't even seen as a risk if you "find the right person". Maybe in hindsight you can notice it but before hand? When all of society told you to do it. Everyone you ever respected and trusted enforc… | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/02/19 01:19 PM |
| 15 | Just wife them up and be an ATM, bro! /sWhat qualifications does she have to be a house wife? Having a vagina? She didn't name not one thing that would make her even give off the impression that she would be a good house wife. Maybe put a picture of a plate of food she made or herself vacuuming. Something! Her definition of house wife is simply not having to work as her simp, cuck husband slaves away, only to come home to an unappreciative woman and a child telling him how much he isn't their "real father." | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/02/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think religious, submissive women are more desirable than feminist women? Or would you still recommend against a religious woman?What about the women of modern Satanism makes them special? | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/02/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How can women use MGTOW subreddits to destroy MGTOW?I plan to use my knowledge of redpill truths to prepare my son for the world and to stay as good as I can be to my man. That is why I am here. I don't seek to destroy any man. In fact I find myself agreeing and supporting much of the ideas behind mgtow and the men that follow it. I don't know about the intentions of other women. Were I a man i don't even know if I could endure a relationship knowing what I now now about human nature and my own nature. Hopefully our son will be far more prepared … | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/02/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Km k 9.mono k p9p | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/02/19 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Exactly. This wouldn't be a problem if she knows she never wants kids and doesn't care the quality of man she eventually settle down with. But if she wants a family and a higher value man then she did the exact opposite of what she needed to do. That's the stupid part. That's where I question their intelligence. They are either really delusional about their value or they had no foresight about eventually wanting a relationship and a family when they were younger. You can be a career women and ra… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 02:16 PM |
| 6 | Why Men Don't Show Up.Does that women personally know these other women who signed up or is she just assuming that because they have a career they are smart and funny. I'd question their intelligence if they got to 30 and couldn't lock down a good man. Lets be honest, all these women are over thirty. To have such bad foresight is not intelligent. I also disagree with the idea that these women are successful because they have careers. I personally believe that the measure of female success is more tradional, biblical,… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?I did not disagree with everyone who replied. I had a great conversation with multiple people. It was that person in particular wanting to start an argument and I specifically avoided a big philosophical argument and tried to stay on topic and in fact thanked her for her perspective. If you cannot see that than I'm sorry. I don't know what to say. I'd say reread my posts because I've had some great and pleasant conversations. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?I already have. I made this post because after reading the subreddit I went to go ask blue pillers directly about their opinion about what they do in their marriages and it was contrary to what I thought based on what I've read here. Which is why I made this post for clarification. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?I'm not sure what you mean at all. Can you clarify? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?I'll say the exact same thing Dear. It doesn't' hurt to admit when you are wrong. Try it. You won't die of a heart attack or anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 06:50 PM |
| 9 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?Thanks. That was really insightful and highlighted really well the diffference between a redpill relationship and one that is not in your mind. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?Thanks for the response. That sounds like it works out well. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?"I suppose there is a spectrum and one does not need a label to behave a certain way." Yes I'm getting this. Understanding that there is no real "red pill way" to be in a relationship is very helpful at understanding the community itself. I'm getting the impression that redpill women in many ways aren't that different from healthy blue pilled women. The biggest difference from what I've seen, that is pretty much universal, is that redpilled women "embrace" their femininity and employ girl game t… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 05:44 PM |
| 5 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?In that situation I'd wait for him to ask for my advice or wait for him to give me permission to give him advice. Also google maps really helps a lot though I know that's not really the full point of your post. So I guess I'll ask does you man ever get offended when you do things like tell him what to do in the same way you'd tell him what direction to go? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?Thanks for the detailed response. You seemed to describe a bad relationship. Can you describe a healthy blue pilled marriage and how it can compare to a healthy red pilled marriage. Try to only describe the blue pilled relationship in a positive way but still go into the reasons why it differs from redpilled teachings and a red pilled marriage/relationship. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?This is so interesting and I'm glad you clarified. I actually just made a thread asking about this exact topic. Among many in the redpill women community they actually denounced these gender roles as outdated and not really applying to their lives nor would they teach their sons and daughters about it. Many of them said that house work should be divided by time available, not by gender and that neither gender is more suited to it than the other. So I'm thinking that there is a large disparity an… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?Do have any ideas on where redpill communities gather in real life? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?Yea that's another thing to consider. The demographic of reddit. Thanks for that perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?My real life married friends scoff at the idea. If she's not in the mood, that's his problem. Yes this is the response I get in real life yet in the online communities many blue pilled say they do put themselves in the mood. I'm wondering how much they actually mean it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?What stereotypical gender roles do married redpill women accept? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 04:47 PM |
| -1 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?I have no interest in arguing the validity of labels., Thanks for your answer in regards to the other aspect though. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?I could say the exact same for you. Farewell Dear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?Interesting. What about the blue pilled women that don't do that, which many would claim they wouldn't do. If you go into r/purplepilldebates or r/relationships and ask if there are any married women who refrain from complaining about their husband you'll definately find many. Are you saying that no redpilled woman does that in any way ever? Are you saying that blue pilled married women across all spectrems aren't taught to not complain and so all of them do it? Edit: I'll give a little more con… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?Labels are extremely useful. That doesn't seem much different from healthy blue pilled relationships. I'm getting a real sense of that the more I talk to married red pilled women. I'm not implying this is a good or bad thing, just an interesting observation. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?I don't have any real life red pilled marriages to compare to so I can't get a real sense of the difference between the two. There aren't exactly groups of red pill women societies besides maybe the Amish. So all I have to compare is online communities. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?So a big difference between blue pilled and red pilled is that while they both often say the exact same thing, blue pilled married women don't know that they are actually doing the wrong thing? They think they are being fair but they aren't? They think they are being considerate and supportive but they aren't? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?I have no real opinion about it. I was just curious. I can tell you what I think one type of successful marriage looks like but I'm not really here to say what people should do. I'll leave that speech for my children. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?It has been my experience that the blue pill stance boils down to a woman should only have sex with her husband if she is totally in the mood. I thought that too but when actually talking to a large number of blue pillers this was in fact not the case. They advocated for sex even when not in the mood. In fact most of them think that that is a common nototion, especially among their friends. I made a specific post about it in r/purplepilldebates. They actually seemed insulted that I would insinua… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?Thanks for that response. From outside looking in, how can a person tell if a redpilled person or blue pilled person really means what they say? I've met redpilled women who say they would feel treated unfair if their husband did certain things that would be beneficial to the husband but inconvenient to the women. Then the redpilled person advocates for the husband being "considerate" or "fair." Are these redpilled women simply outliers? Where do you draw the line between making your husband's l… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?What do I think what should be? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?Thanks for answering. What about personal responsibility? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 02:18 PM |
| 13 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?That sounds a lot like a healthy blue pilled relationship. I've gotten similiar answers from those who aren't redpilled so I'm trying to actually put my finger on the actual difference. If I go over to r/relationships or r/purplepilldebates and ask "Do you strive to support your husband? Do you strive to not needlessly nag your husband. Do you strive to make your husband's life better?" And so on, I'll get yesses to those answers. In fact I'll probably get some condescending "obliviously's" or o… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/18 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?"Submission is a good strategy not just for getting a man, but also for keeping him. And even if he's not going anywhere anyway, it's so much nicer to have a happy one around." That's the type of redpilled viewpoints that I've been missing lately. The value of submission and adding value to your man's life by doing things for them that you don't necessarily want to do or that would be inconvenient. Something they could definitely do themselves but you choose to do it to make their lives easier, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Once a redpilled woman gets married what is the difference between their redpill relationship and a bluepill relationship?She strives to show him respect, be sexually available, and be supportive in a world that tells women all day long they do not owe these things to her husband. I've actually gotten mixed opinion on this. There does not seem to be in any way a concensous that a redpilled woman should always be sexually available. Also what does that mean exactly? Are you saying that a redpill woman is more sexually available than a blue pilled woman in a good, healthy relationship? Does a redpill woman have more … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Phew! Because the way it was phrased sounded so sad. Only because you made an incorrect assumption. I don’t know how it adds any value at all but that’s just me (I do not care for housework). I guess it’s good to feel useful. It makes a person's life easier to do something for them that they don't have to do. That adds value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?My value is more than simple housework as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Define rich? Some people don't have the money to hire others. Or maybe hiring someone would eat into some funds that the other partner doesn't like? Not sure you'd have to ask the individual. Why would decide based on income and not time available? Depends on the relationship. With mine I'm adding value to the relationship by taking care of the house since my man doesn't have to do it or hire a maid. A thing he did before me. So if I wasn't doing it he'd hire someone else and I would be less use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Who decides what has to be done and to what degree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWBeing a decent human being should be a default state, not something to coerce someone into. Everyone has a different definition of what a decent human being is. Refer to that masochist example I gave you in private. If you cause a masochist pain you aren't abusing them because that's what they want. It would be disrespectful of you to disregard how they feel just because you wouldn't want to be in their place. They are adults. Their agency should be respected. That's what it means to be a decent… | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/12/18 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWAlright everyone in the house is sleep. I have time to give your post the attention it deserves. You're basically a glorified prostitute. I'm not saying this to insult you just your story really magnifies how fucked our society has become. At the same time it makes more sense to go with that sort of arrangement, it's probably the best a red pill aware man can hope for these days. In a way, under a certain perspective you could say that. But really, marriage, relationships, most are glorified pro… | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/12/18 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?No I didn't. I didn't say this is how it should be for everyone. I said that's what works for us. Please quote me in context or not at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?That's not what I said nor what I implied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Different folks, different strokes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWThis was a lot to unpack. When I have more time in going to respond to all of it. Ill tell you right now that this orangement isn't as dreary as you make it out to be. Ill go into more detail later. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/12/18 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Has no say? What are you talking about? Where did I say that? Did you respond to the wrong person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Its not something I can explain in one post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Its what your words meant by saying "dividing by income is silly." that means that income shouldn't be factored into division of labor. What so you think it means to call dividing by labor based on income silly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?So a person paying all the bills should have no barring on the devision of labor at home to you? Interesting. Thanks for sharing. I see there is a mix of beliefs on the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWI'm glad you asked. I'll try to break this down in detail. To him Mgtow is refusing to marry and cohabitate. I think he was living the mgtow life before mgtow was even a big thing. We won't marry but he did let me live with him under certain conditions. Which is why he doesn't consider himself mgtow now, but he is very redpilled. To him the choice to be mgtow was about a cost/benefit assessment that a relationship was too risky. He still enjoyed female companionship so he was spinning plates bef… | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/12/18 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?That's an extremely negative and cynical point of view. I'm sorry you feel that way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Personally I don’t really get splitting it by who makes more money if you both work similar hours. There is a lot of reasons and benefits to a woman taking on the housely duties even when working full time but that's another topic. Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?You acted like it’s so unusual for a man to say he doesn’t want to support a sahw. I didn't say this either. He said that he specifically wouldn't support a woman who didn't have a high powered career, regardless of whether or not she needed it to support herself. So essentially, he wants her for her status and ambition linked to her job. Which is a female trait. That's not something that I see is very common. Men aren't walking around braging about their women being a high powered CEO or a lawy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?So if someone is 50 years old and they control a few business that they built over decades, so they now are able to live off of passive income with little hours worked you'd say their effort to build that life doesn't matter. Especially if they are paying all of YOUR bills. I understand your perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?No it’s not. 70% of American women with children work. That has nothing to do with my comment. Why did you say this? Did I say that most women with children don't work? Who are you talking to? Did you comment on the wrong post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?"As far as who is “worth more” in the context of a relationship we shouldn’t be defining this in terms of earning potential. Why is there effort that is required to make a high income not being taken into account? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?You believe that house work is about human worth and not about effort? I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 08:21 PM |
| -2 | Division of labor at home?I severally doubt that. Especially in person. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 08:12 PM |
| -2 | Division of labor at home?Superior? I don't even know how you'd quanitify that. Is it a proven method for long term success. Yes. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?I of course teach our son how to do housework. Just like we'll teach our daughter math. However we think women are more naturally inclinded to housework and it compliments their femininiity so there will be more of a focus on it for our daughter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?Exactly. But I'm trying to make friends so I'm trying to find people who are more understanding and friendly. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Division of Labor at home?Advantages that can be given without marriage. If the difference between commited and not commited is granted legal goodies than we have them. Also six years is nothing. ...Ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWThat's a good question. He is 100% solidified in his beliefs. He has no desire to look more into the topic because he is living the life exactly the way he wants to live it. I'm here because I want to understand my man's perspective more. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?I've read your post like 3 times ... Why do you care what others think of you division of labor? All that matters is does it work for you? I care about my interaction with people in my life and whether it is positive or negative. You don't care if people you are trying to be friends with judge you negatively instead of being accepting? | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Division of labor at home?Before I moved in he had hired help. As I begin to show more he'll probably do that again. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?Oh I've already figured out what sounds right to me. I just pointing out that a lot of those types of comments are upvoted and usually the top posts of a lot threads. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWWell...he was before he met me. He is still very, very redpilled though. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Division of Labor at home?We disagree. You don't need a piece of paper to be committed. It doesn't stop people who don't want to be together from leaving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWWell, he did. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Division of Labor at home?Endearment yes. When I think of a boyfriend I think something with tentative commitment. We've been living together 6 years and have a child together with another one the way. He is definitely "My man" status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWWell most of my legal power over him is non-existant without marriage or common law marriage. My biggest strength is in family court. We will have a child together so that's the thing. That would be a monitary fight so we have come to an agreement to help protect his paternal rights as much as possible. Other than that I'm not aware of much of any other legal power I'd have over him without marriage. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWThere are laws that give a partner rights to your goods after X time of living together. Meaning men don't need to be married to be at women's mercy. Yes. That's called common-law marriage. Our state doesn't have it. Men's nature is to be protective and women's nature is to be protected. But that doesn't mean we live in an optimal world to do so. I couldn't agree more. This world really don't care about men. ESPECIALLY family court. To the best of our abilitity with the advice of our lawyers, we… | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWWe aren't married. What do you think is broken about the path? Our arrangement is actually rather unique. He let me into his life with the full iintention of protecting himself, his children, and even me from the broken system and we've tried to life our life with harsh redpill truths in mind. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?That sounds like a good deal~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Makes sense. Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?Thank you. This was very helpful. I'm still best friends with my child hood though she lives in another state. And I'm pretty close with my Captain's sister. Other than them I don't have many close friends but I'm trying to meet people by volunteering and looking for groups in the community. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWHe was former mgtow. He adopted the child and ran a foster home before I entered the picture. Are you saying because he wants to raise a family he is not redpilled? What do you define as redpilled? | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?most people are happy to see happy people. I think we may need to consider moving then. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?Many here would disagree. I see a ton of comments and posts here along the lines of "He isn't comprimising enough in the relationship therefore he is not a captain." Or "he isn't doing X for her or giving up X for her therefore he is not a good captain." I think there is a lot of confusion on what is and is not a good captain here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Do you apply that to employment as well. All employees time has the exact same value regardless of their job? From the CEO to the burger flipper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Division of Labor at home?Do you believe that the only type of people that can take care of themselves are those with full time high powered careers? If not, then why are you looking for only those types of people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?One thing that I often hear here is that certain disagreements make men "not a "real" Captain." I think some could spin your having to nag your captain as him not being captain material if he can't "man up and take on a bit of responsibility." Or maybe some of the "he sounds like a man-child. That's not a captain" would be thrown around. How do you feel about that. What makes you view your man as a Captain where others would insult him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/18 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWOh ok. I'm glad you clarified that. We have a son and my man was former mgtow. I know he is going to dish out the redpills so having the perspective of someone who was already raised that way is extremely valuable. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Division of Labor at home?Wow that's pretty unique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Division of labor at home?That's very interesting. So even though you make more you are ok with doing most of the housework. I've heard a lot of opposing opinions to that. How did you develop that mindset? Also where do you live? Maybe it's just my area or the places I've visiting where I'm meeting these judgmental people. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?Thank you for this perspective. I'm also trying to get opinions on raising our boy and coming child, who may be a girl. I was raised that it played to a woman's strengths to take care of the home. Even when I was attending school full time I was eager to clean my man's house when I could. If I do have a daughter I plan to teach her the value of a woman doing the housework. House work can be such a source of headache for even the best couples and I just don't think it's necessary if you just lear… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Basing on income is a silly notion and I never considered it. Silly in your opinion of course. Many would disagree. So if you made all the money and paid all her bills, what would you think would be fair for her compensating you for what you are bringing to the relationship? If you paid all her bills that would have no barring in the fairness equation in your mind? So if you were retired but made enough to pay for everything, you'd still feel llike the only fair path is to do half the labor beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWSo the only reason you didn't like your father is because he talked as if your relationships were going to end? That's it? He did everything else "right" as your father but you went through a period of time where you despised him because he didn't think your relationships would last? | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Why do you think my deal is shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Division of Labor at home?How can you make a story like that long? I don't understand how people get so judgmental about stuff like that but it definitely exists. Hell in this thread alone we see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?Oh so it's less about what she does and about you knowing that she hates it. Would you feel that way if she said she thought it was fair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?I think you have a bananas idea of how much time it takes to run a business. Depends on the business. And depends on what part they have in the business. And depends on what "runs" means. For my man some weeks it just means making a few phone calls to his realtor and property manager. Again- if we made significantly more than we do now, we would have significantly more hired help. I already make significantly more than him and do significantly more housework because I am home more. We base this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Division of Labor at home?I thought I explained it well . He makes the money, pays the bills, therefore I take care of the house . I essentially got "so what does he do on his day off? Nothing." Um...yea. He sits in his chair in his room and I vacuum under his feet while he relaxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?It would bother some because people can be naturally judgmental of arrangements they don't themselves like. Which is why I made this post. Talking to a few married women who gave me "looks" because I told them my man doesn't lift a finger in the home. I think it's rather natural to judge others and you kind of have to be trained not to. And if you aren't, well there is nothing stopping you from casting that judgement even if it's something as subtle as a "look." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?I don't understand why there is any drama or negotiation surrounding division of labor, we just do what we're good at/what we want to do and play the rest by ear. Apparently division of labor is a good reason why a lot of couples break up. Also when some people hear how others do it, and it's not something they would personally like, I feel like there is an internal judgement that goes on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Division of labor at home?That's very interesting. Where do you live, in general? Maybe it's a cultural thing. I live in the U.S. A blue/purple state. I get the exact opposite reaction. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?How would that change if you made more than her? What if she had more time? Let's say she stopped working and you paid all the bills? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?It was so shocking the first time I saw it, and still hurts me when I see it, after dinner the entire family goes and watches TV while his mom cleans up all the dishes and leftovers for like seven people. In my house everyone helped out with the cooking and cleaning, it seems so rude to just leave it all to mom. Have you talked to his mom and gotten the idea that she feels mistreated. I would personally feel pretty disrepected if someone was feeling sorry for me for a thing I liked or felt was f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?I'm glad to hear others having a similiar mindset than me. I'm seeing that there is not at all a popular consensus on this. Especially in non-redpill communities. So how do you make friends with married women who judge you based on your relationship with your man? What are you friendships like now? Do you just overlook that and focus on the things you have in common? Does them judging you sour the relationship? I've tried to make more real life female friends but I've gotten a bit put off. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?"If one was at home a lot more then they would do more I think. It's just what you do isn't it?" Not necessarily. My man sometimes doesn't work a lot in the week based on a few factors. Sometimes he goes weeks working less than 10 hours. He'll find plenty of things to fill his time but he isn't out making money. In that case I still do all the housework. What he does doesn't change my job. As long as he is paying all the bills I am doing all the chores. You would find this unfair or uneven? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?How would that change were your spouse making more money even if they worked the same amount of time? How would it change if you were making more money? How would it work if your spouse was making all the money but only needed to work like...20 hours a week? What if your spouse didn't need to work at all but still paid all the bills? Like they were retired? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?I do what I consider to be a fair share. Both work so it's fair. You'd have to be somewhat mean to have a partner who works all day and then not pitch in. Your post was too vague for me to understand. I don't know what your definition of "fair share" or "pitch in" means. Let me give an example. I think it's' fair for my man not to lift a finger when he comes home, even when he works half days, because it's his "fair share" is paying all the bills and keeping food on the table. That's fair to me.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Division of Labor at home?When we had a kid and talked about me being a stay-at-home dad, I explained to my husband that not even medical residents and soldiers are on call 24/7. I don't know what you mean here or what you are trying to say? What is the point of saying this? Ok so you watch the child 50/50. What about housework? How did you divide the housework? Also what was your rational for dividing the housework? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?What if your husband had a job that made 20 times more than you but he worked half the time you did? Like he had a job that generated a ton of passive income? Or maybe he just ran a business? So your personal division of labor is based purely on time in every circustamce? IF he worked a job he could do from home for half the amount of time you worked but made 10 times more and paid more of the bills you'd still expect him to do housework? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Unconsciously raised MGTOWI'd like to know more about the relationships between your father and mother. It sounds a lot like my current relationship. You said you ended up hating his guts? Was he neglectful? What response did you want from him that he didn't give you? Did he disrespect your girlfriends? Also how did things end with your girlfriends that made you change your mind about him? You said other people didn't like him? Can you go more indepth about this? Examples of this? How do people get to know him enough to … | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Division of Labor at home?How does your income and time match? Do you make about the same and spend about the same time at work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Division of Labor at home?Define "shit deal?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Division of Labor at home?I have never heard any BP person say the division of labor is based on income. That’s weird RP, scorekeeping nonsense. Just to clarify. You've never heard a person say "I work too so we share the house work?" That is necessarily about money. If your husband made 20 times more than you working the same amount of time with the same commute you'd say you should have an equal division of labor at home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Division of labor at home?When you were both working were you making about the same amount? If you were making the same would you have expected your husband to do chores at home. If you both worked full time but he made more money, same question. If you made more than him, same question. And a probably more important question. Would you have felt negatively about your husband if you both were working full time and he didn't want to do housework? Would you have felt mistreated? | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/18 03:40 PM |
| 2 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?I'm not going to say its a bad thing. That would sound judgement. I'm just going to give you my perspective. Anything that we'd disagree on where other couples would argue, I simply let my captain decide. He is the decision maker. He is guiding the ship. I as his first mate am trusted to give my perspective because my opinion is valued. My opinion is valuable because I'm his first mate. I'm useful. I trust him to steer the ship and get us where we need to go. I may suggest an alternative route b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/18 11:41 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] How much do looks and "personality" matter relative to each other?Thanks. I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/18 01:52 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?We do teach our son what healthy conflict is. It isn't arguing. We have conversations. If we have a disagreement we tell our son how it was resolved. Arguing can lead to things being said that shouldn't be. Arguing can lead to being unproductive. I believe in letting my Captain lead and unless his decision is dangerous or life threatening, which it never is, there is no reason for me to argue with him in front of our son. That is really important. Prioritizing what is and is not important to qui… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/18 01:52 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Make my profile all about what I offer to my future husband and be very clear that I'm looking for a serious and traditional relationship I don't see enough of this advice going around and this should definitely be top comment. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 12:32 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] How much do looks and "personality" matter relative to each other?Like others have mentioned, looks is a threshhold. If you don't meet that treshhold it doesn't matter your personality. So looks are extremely important so if you don't have it you are locked out of the dating pool until you get older and start to meet more desperate women who settle for "stability" over attractiveness. This is the guidance my man needed and guidance we'll be giving to our son. Society grows up telling boys to "just be yourself and be a good person and you'll find the one." Bull… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/18 12:27 PM |
| -4 | Thoughts on public school?Oh goodie. I'm glad to hear it. Did she teach you Allegra? | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on public school?You are hilarious. We voted for Bernie Sanders as well so that might make your head explode. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on public school?You're welcome Dear. If you ever want to chat just holler~ | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 04:39 AM |
| -1 | Thoughts on public school?"And I’ve also seen SAHMs be terrible mothers and wives. And sometimes things happen and they are left with nothing because they have no skills." I consequence of improper vetting and preparation. This is due to irresponsibility and something that could have been avoided with proper guidance. The man didn't even have life insurance or a 401k to pass down? "I think it’s tragic to rob a girl of being educated and potentially self sufficient, so god forbid something happens to her man she can at le… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on public school?What medical school did you graduate from? You still think that my post history lines up with my real life? Cute. Would you like a copy of my Captain and my medical history. I'm not a doctor but I've heard that's pretty important. I didn't go to medical school like you though so what do I know? Since you went to medical school and are licensed to give out medical advice and analysis I find it a bit strange that you are making judgement about medical procedures without even glancing at the medica… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on public school?Me going back and forth with people that don't agree with me is how I look to learn from those with opposing views. I challenge their views. And because this is the internet they are going to defend themselves and probably attack and/or challenge my views in various ways. Then based on the strength of their response I determine whether they have a good point and whether I should implement their view into my life. Well, I bring it up to my Captain at least. You can see a history of me doing just … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on public school?There aren't really many people I know in person with similar views to me so it helps to expand my horizon. Thanks for the support! Good luck in your life as well! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on public school?Like I said to someone else, the vast majority of women think they are excellent partners and excellent mothers. Often times that is not the case. I've seen far too many "great moms" who were less than they claim. I am not holding her back by preparing her for a life I think will lead to the most happiness. Am I holding her back by not teaching her Chinese? It's up to each family to decide what skills to teach their children. What skills to focus on. Not every skill is necessary for life. Differ… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on public school?"Just as it could take someone two minutes to learn the difference between IUI and IVF, it could’ve taken you the same amount of time to do same. Not sure what the point of that was." This was exactly my point. What's the use in interrogating me if my answer isn't going to convince the interrogator because the information is so easy to attain? I was specifically making this point which is why I say they are a troll. They aren't looking to have a conversation in good faith. That's pretty troll to… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Opinions about public school?Oh he is in sports. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/18 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on public school?"IUI doesn't have a higher chance of multiples" I absolutely LOVE that you gave this answer. Thank you so much. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about, clearly have never went to medical school and obviously didn't do any research before responding. Anyone who reads this could literally spend 2 minutes researching this to find out just how wrong you are. IUI when combined with fertility drugs (Which is often the case and would have been for us had we chosen to take that route) do… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 02:50 AM |
| -1 | Thoughts on public school?Good question. We wanted to reduce the chance of having multiples and there is a MUCH higher success rate with IVF. I was willing to go through the longer procedure to basically garentee success as much as possible. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on public school?I'm SOO glad you get what I'm saying. I want to give my children the best chance to live a happy life. And their children as well. I think there is a definitive metric for failure in all things. I hold myself to a high standard because I owe it to myself and my children. Being a wife who knows how to keep her man happy, persevere in bad times, come up with creative solutions to problems that would break other couples up. These qualities aren't inherent. They need to be honed. ESPECIALLY in our d… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 01:59 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on public school?Thank you! I think my main point is that good homemaking skills aren't taught In school and if there was a choice id much rather give her the opportunity to learn those than stem. She can learn stem in college if she wants. Early on we will teach her to focus on homely skills and developing wifely traits so even if she decides to go into stem she has the tools to actually be a great wife and mother. Every mother and wife think they are great. I disagree. If she doesn't focus early on honing thos… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/18 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Opinions about public school?John Taylor Gatto. I'll add that to my list asap. Thanks so much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Opinions about public school?Thankies. I appreciate the encouragement. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Opinions about public school?A lot of people going through my history. It's rather fascinating. Apparently people seem to be quite interested in my story and my life. Not all for benevolent reasons but it's still quite interesting non the less. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Opinions about public school?I'm getting that a lot lately~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 09:33 PM |
| -1 | Thoughts on public school?I respond to trolls and toxicity selectively Dear. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Opinions about public school?I just realized that I may not have been clear. We already have an 8 year old boy. We are just expecting another. We adopted our boy when he was 7 years old. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on public school?Ok Darling. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 09:27 PM |
| -1 | Thoughts on public school?You believe that the timeline of my posts are supposed to exactly line up with my real life? I understand Dear. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on public school?We will. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 09:17 PM |
| -2 | Thoughts on public school?You don't need to know calculus or chemistry to understand the world. Nor engineering, nor medicine. I'm also not going to be teaching my daughter to handle a gun nor hunt, nor fish or fly a helicopter. What education is defined as "understanding the world around them?" Neither me nor my man have degrees in STEM. Do we not understand the world around us? I passed basic subjects like highschool math, biology, etc. Beyond that what is required to "understand the world?" | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 09:08 PM |
| -2 | Thoughts on public school?I'll ask someone else then. Thanks Dear. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on public school?"People are happiest when they have a rich and complex understanding of the world, whether that's used to make money or not." Do you have any data, research or statistics to back this up? This goes counter to the old notion "ignorance is bliss." What are the happiness levels of the highly educated in comparison to the Amish? Are the Amish absolutely miserable because they have such a narrow world view. Please show me what research you saw that drew you to this conclusion. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 08:57 PM |
| -2 | Thoughts on public school?Do you also teach your children 5 languages or how to snorkel because they might enjoy it? I'm talking about specific fields of study that they may or may not use? Why should I go out of my way to teach my daughter calculus or...how to shoot a gun just because I can? Because she might enjoy it? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Opinions about public school?Thank you Dear. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Opinions about public school?NO! I don't know yet. I haven't been pregnant long enough. I'm just asking because what if we do have a girl? My questions would be relevant for a boy as well, just less so. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Opinions about public school?We live in an upper middleclass area and I am active in the school system so there haven't really been any red flags. I'll need to keep vigilant though. There are a few private schools near us that our boy could go for highschool and middle school if public education isn't to our liking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 07:08 PM |
| 0 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Middle class grandparents. I'm doing pretty well for myself now but I didn't have huge accounts before moving in with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Opinions about public school?I've read several books already so I'll continue my education on it. I just want to give our child the best chance at life. Our son helps around the house, plays sports, does mascline things, but also learning homely skills from mommy. I have the time to teach him everything. I'm actually thinking about homeschooling for our daughter. I want to have time to make sure she has as many tools for success as possible. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 06:57 PM |
| 0 | It's official. I'm pregnant!Thanks! Yea I heard napping when the baby naps is important. I think what I want to make sure is that our son gets plenty of attention. I'll probably have him help me a lot. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on public school?We learned a bit about military history in our sociology class and history class in high school. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on public school?I don't want my children to resent me because I omitted teaching them something that they may be interested in in the future. But I also only want to help them focus on things I think would give them the surest path to happiness. How can I balance this? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on public school?Do you teach your children about military? I don't want my son or daughter going into military service so we aren't teaching them about military history, theory,etc. We won't even have a gun in the house. IF they want to go into the military am I doing them a disservice by not teaching them now a skill they may use in the future? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 06:33 PM |
| -4 | Thoughts on public school?Do you teach your children about military? I don't want my son or daughter going into military service so we aren't teaching them about military history, theory,etc. We won't even have a gun in the house. IF they want to go into the military am I doing them a disservice by not teaching them now a skill they may use in the future? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Opinions about public school?Can't it be seen as indoctrination to give our red pill perspective and try to explain the blue pill perspective. If I say, "Your father and I believe this for this reason. And here is what other people believe and why." We wouldn't be giving the entire picture that may explain the beliefs of the otherside because even subconciously the fact taht we believe our side would mean we'll give a better argument and explanation for our side. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on public school?My child may be a girl and I want to make sure I'm preparing her properly for life. Honestly I'm not going to focus very much on her being a career women so I was looking for other perspectives. I genially believe that women are happier in the home or at least with a "low powered career." I feel like we had gender roles in order to help our children focus on what could make them most happy and successful in life. I want to reenforce that as well. If she tries to climb the corporate latter I genu… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on public school?It's a conversation I'd like to have. I went to college and get my associates. I took general education and don't really use much of anything I learned there. I go over my son's work and study with him but none of the skills I learned in college were anything I haven't already learned from middle school. So I'm generally curious about the topic. Do you believe there is only one answer to gender roles and it's a black and white answer to whether or not for some women or men certain skills are use… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Opinions about public school?How do you tell indoctrination from teaching them what you believe? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on public school?Why do you believe that gender roles were created in education? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on public school?Anything you learned from college that you couldn't learn with natural curiosity by reading on your own? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 06:02 PM |
| -13 | Thoughts on public school?How has knowing calculus helped you be a better mother and spouse specifically? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on public school?What STEM specifically helps you now? Which courses? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 05:47 PM |
| -18 | Thoughts on public school?What stem do you think she'll need beyond basic math? How would calculus help her be a good mother and wife? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 04:42 PM |
| -9 | Thoughts on public school?Men can be taught home skills at home. Unless you want your daughter to pursue a career what is the point of teaching them stem? Also where is your school located? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/18 04:37 PM |
| 7 | Opinions about public school?I have plenty of time and energy to do what ever is best for our son. I'll definintely be bringing this up to my Captain and looking into that book. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 03:04 PM |
| 11 | Opinions about public school?Every day I talk to our boy about what he learned at school. The thing I'm afraid is other people pointing out that it may be unnecessary for them to go to public school and have the chance of being indoctrinated because eventually they'll naturally take more after their peers than me or his father. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?Teaching a boy competency and self reliance is very red pilled. Redpill is about growth and adversity, not guarding and protection. This is completely arbitrary. Are you giong to not teach your child to look both ways before crossing or to wear a seat belt because redpill "isn't about guarding and protection?" You use these words so broadly that they become meaningless. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating advice"Many women." Arbitrary and meaningless. Many women are serial killers. "Many" is a useless descriptor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 01:21 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I didn't have to do the math myself. I have a financial adviser for that. I didn't realize you were seeking help nor was I trying to be helpful. I was sharing my experience and looking to gauge the experience of others. Since you can't handle someone living outside your little bubble of a world view I'll say farewell Dear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 01:18 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?33? What!? Ok. Now I know you haven't read literally any of my history even though you claim to know it exists. He is 38. And I don't know exactly how much he is worth. I assume he is a multi millionaire but I know he makes over six figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceI'm referring to when you said men who have a lot of sex. Not desperate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 01:01 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You mean like...oh I don't know....be the recipient of his life insurance and all his assets and property in his will (Partial with his children). Or maybe have a assortments of bonds, cd's, savings and investment accounts that could maintain my current lifestyle for 30 years or more with me sitting on my ass and doing nothing? Even WITHOUT his life insurance and rights to his assets if and when he gets injured or dies, which I currently have? Something like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 01:00 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?What does that mean? Would you give this advice to a wife? If so what things would you advice a wife in a good marriage to do to build up her life and independence when she is happy being a house wife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?My future is secure. So now, since my financial future is secure, what other complaints do you have now that we are passed your hilariously inaccurate assumptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceI didn't say what's top quality to you. I said high value. Society decides what high value is. Brad Pitt is high value regardless of if you personally like him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:41 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I have commitment and I have a secure future. Since you clearly went to law school and have a masters in finance to give accurate legal and financial advise for my state, what do you think marriage would provide me that I am not already getting? Besides a title and a overpriced piece of rock? What did my lawyer, financial adviser and accountant miss? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:40 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You put your whole relationship history on Reddit, girl. And you ignored literally all of it. You don't even know that I have finances set up for if he leaves me. You are hilarious. I have every single thing I want. What do you think I don't have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You don't have boundaries. A long time wish of yours was to have children. He didn't comply with that for 8 years. That is a huuuuuuge thing for a relationship and you let him trample all over that dream. I made a sacrifice because I was happy with him. Because I was in love with him. Doesn't mean I don't have boundries. Relationships require sacrifice. It just varies from relationship to relationship by degree. "These women personally told you they wanted to marry him?" They didn't need to tell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:28 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?If he leaves you for a younger model he is never going keep paying. Duh. That's accounted for. You would be useless he has a new silent vagina. That is literally all you are to him. And being somewhere where common law is a thing and he is paying the lawyers you are in a very bad place. Every single word you speak shows how little you know about our relationships. Literally just ask. You don't need to keep making a fool of yourself. Just ask Sweety. It's a waste of both of our time for me to kee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:22 AM |
| 0 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I've met a few of his plates in person. Unless you think he cast some kind of spell on me to make believe those women were real when they were actually illusions. I have plenty of boundries. He respects them all. We have created boundries that work for the both of us. You are just giving reasons why I'm valuable to him and make his life better. It's like you are looking for something wrong. He choose me because I earned it, I'm better for him than those other women that wanted him despite them a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:16 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Would you still have access to your accountant and financial adviser if he leaves you ? Yes. Their compensation is covered in my cost of living that I would be able to maintain for years were we to split. I'm not going to unpack your unhealthy world views here. You need to pay me for so much work ;) Translation, you have nothing. You are simply bitter and probably a bit jealous. Thanks for the talk Dear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Yet women were pursing him for commitment anyway and he turned them down. So again, given that women pursued him and tried to get him to commit, and he denied them, how can he be giving commitment to anyone with a vagina? Those are contradictory ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 12:04 AM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You didn't answer my question Darling. What will they have? What constitutes a healthy view? Healthy is an arbitrary term without meaning because everyone has a completely different idea of what is healthy. So what healthy view of sex would other single moms have that I don't? What healthy view of finances would other single moms have that I don't? Also it's very clear you have no idea what my financial situation is like nor what I know about finances. What year did you get you degree in finance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?I'm glad we understand each other Dear~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You have no job and no way of supporting yourself, so inevitable this ship sinks and your great plan is getting another man to take care of you. Unfortunately there will be no man who is willing to do this. After you have been in this fucked up relationship with a man who has groomed you since you were a teenager you will not fit with another man, he fucked you up! The only men you do fit with will never ever ever give you a chance because you will be a single mom and over 25. Those guys will no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:41 PM |
| 2 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?I will give the gift of certain aspects of TRP that would help reduce the chance that he ends up like my man did in his 20's. That doesn't mean every aspect of trp, like dread. But some trp definitely. Like hypergamy, women's attraction to status, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?So you do plan to discuss romance which necessarily encompasses being a good partner. Alright. I think we agree enough at this point. Thanks for the talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:28 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?The only reason he 'picked' you is because you are the only one who would accept this lifestyle. Isn't that why anyone picks anyone? They pick the person that would accept the lifestyle they want to live. This is a very useless statement. I wouldn't go on Reddit too much because you might see how hopeless the future is for you... I'll continue to humor you because I find talking to troll extremely entertaining. What references are you using to condemn my relationship. Let's see same data, stats,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You're not doing a job, you're just living in your own home. Define a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?What point did I present which you disagreed with? Lets start with a single point first, just to simplify things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?The sexism is so hilarious. I'm convinced you're a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Because they weren't totally to his taste? You have to admit you are reaching here. I'm his taste because I'm providing him something they didn't. Also, the things you are proclaiming to be work isn't work. Some other slut will figure out how to touch his dick the right way eventually. This is like saying that a mailman isn't actually working and didn't earn his check because other people can do his job as well. Most people who earn a check can have someone else do their job. Doesn't mean they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You are contradicting yourself. If it were just handed to me for having a vagina then why wasn't it handed to the women that came before me who had access to him? In fact, if he were just handing commitment to anything with a vagina, why wasn't it given to the first women? How did he get to a point of having multiple women having sex with him without commitment, many of which wanted commitment from him, if he were just handing commitment to anyone who had a vagina? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:11 PM |
| 0 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?We do "argue" well and it's definitely not something appropriate for the boy to see. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?They actually worked for it, it wasn't given to them because of their genitals but their output. Then we agree. As I explained my man was spinning plates. If he were just handing out commitment to any person with a vagina he would have settled down long before meeting me and would have not be spinning plates. He commited to be because I added something to his life and earned a place in his life beyond just having a vagina. So we agree now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:07 PM |
| 0 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Wow, that was one of the sexist things I've read on reddit so far. That was impressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:05 PM |
| 6 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?You can't refute an idea you don't even understand. And you expressed very clearly that you have no idea what my parental style is going to be. TRP isn't just one thing. There are a huge amount of different ideas that can be pulled from in different degrees and used in a huge amount of different ways. You having knowledge of trp as a whole clearly does not give you knowledge of how I'll implement SOME aspects of trp. If you do want to know, you can ask. If not then just keep arguing against your… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?So a person that goes to a job, does their task, exceeds and adds value to the company did not "earn" their pay check because their boss "handed" them the money? I worked, proved my worth, did things, and then got a reward for the thing I did. How is that different from like...earning a paycheck or an Emmy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?We simply tell them what we do. Arguing in the way that most couples do is not normal and not healthy in our view. Also arguing well is completely seperate from a couple arguing. He can go to debate club if that's important. Even if he does most people don't argue in relationships logically. We have conversations. We don't argue. Anything we would argue about we save for a better time in order to keep us on track. Plus it's better to address those things in a more controlled and less spontaneous… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?But also ultimately proving my point: women get everything handed to them. Handed to them? I worked for this relationship. My man was spinning plates when he met me and I earned my way into his heart. A lot of other women failed to get him and I didd because I was useful and I made his life better in pretty much every way. Something those thots couldn't replace. I wasn't handed anything. I earned this. And I'm rather proud of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:54 PM |
| 5 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?You clearly understand very little about what I believe and what I plan to teach. Since you understand so little how about you ask one question at a time until you have a full understanding. I don't really want to unpack all the falsehoods in your post. There are just so many that would be rather tedious. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I think it's pretty disengenious to compare an interest in russian cinema to THE DESIRE TO HAVE A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP. Since they are overwhelmingly likely to have this it was be quite ridiculous to not teach them anything about this. Unless you are expecting to have Asexual children. It's omitting useful information for no reason at all. Information they are overwhelmingly likely to find useful regardless of whether you personally think it's "required for their happiness." Why omit useful infor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Common-law marriage is still a thing, and if she lives with him in order to do all those "good woman" things, that's a way to get it. We live in a state without common law marriage. In fact most states don't have common law marriages. Our lawyers went over all this before I moved in. Literally you're arguing about status not requiring money while you're shacked up with a guy who has money and therefore status. You can't be this autistic so I'm assuming you're trolling at this point. I never said… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:45 PM |
| 3 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?If it becomes an issue I'm sure we'll consider putting them into a different school. We are putting our boy through public school mostly for the social environment. When he grows up he'll have to deal with all types of people and navigate a world filledd with different people and backgrounds. Best to teach him how to deal with that now. Teach him critical thinking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 10:42 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?What? I didn't beg him for anything. During that two years we were friends and on and off. You think that's strange to know someone and not be serious with them. What country are you from? Beg him to unfreeze his sperm? I didn't beg anything. He did so because he wanted to. Why would I put up with having a happy relationship? Where are you from where being in a happy relationship with someone you know for a while is so weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:40 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?We'll teach our children to be successful at everything they want to do. Unless she doesn't want to have any relationship at all then the skills and knowledge I give her will be very useful. I'll have the time to teach my children everything they need to know to be successful and get what they want and need. Why do you have so little time that you have to parse out what you teach? You sound really stressed if you don't even have the time to have a few conversations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?OK? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?He'll eventually become a beta-cuck. It's fine if that's his goal, but he's opening himself up to a terrible deal all around where the woman can destroy his life if she's bored. Without marriage how can she destroy his life? In this particular case, his hobbies actually do get hindered because he has less time and inclination and energy to actually explore them. He'll just end up doing something casually on the side and eventually the hobby completely passes him by and he just maintains a grip o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?The worst deal of all How is that the worst deal? Nah, women with options will just leave when they find something better Don't give them a chance to find better. He can't do what he wants anymore, because he's got a ball-and-chain (the wife) and kids (the anchor) dragging him down, and having to provide for them usually means he has to work that much longer hours, rotting his brain out at a thing when he'd really rather be doing something else. What if a man wants to support a family? What if t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Only with women who make less than that Well I'm a stay at home mom so that makes things easy~ Which means the only thing they care about at the end of the day is they money. Not the only thing. It's just always a factor. As you said, lots of guys have money. A good woman will be able to get commitment from a ton of different guys. So the guy she actually gets will have more than just money. Being the head of a household is basically having all the responsibility dropped on your shoulders while … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You simply didn't know the meaning of the words you used then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Charisma is rare and in a lot of ways only works if someone has money or status to back it up. Agreed. Though it doesn't take much money. A guy can do this making 40k easy. Not true, women expect a payoff eventually if they're serious about a guy Well yea, but this is regardless of status or his attractiveness. He could be the most attractivee guy in the world with the highest status and any woman who gets serious with him will expect access to his finances on some level . Even then, the man has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:12 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You are being ridiculous by using words you don't mean. So of course you would teach them key life skills. We just disagree on what those things are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You need to be physically attractive to display status if you don't have money Yes but it doesn't take much money to display status. Also charisma can offset some of that as well. You'll teach your daughter to suck cock on a wake-up? That's more likely to make her a slut than not Not if she only does it for the right man. I won't teach her that until she becomes an adullt. Far before that I'll teach her how to vet and be a good woman. Grandmothers don't count because they existed in a different … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceWhether or not you like them has nothing to do with whether or not they are top quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Then he's not an attractive man. Depends on the woman. You don't need to make a lot of money to display status. TRP teaches this. Women don't do that anyways. Then she isn't a good woman. I and my daughter will be. 99.99% of women aren't good women. Define goodd woman? I measure it by how useful she can be to her man. If that's the measurement the women in my family are. Well...not my mom, but my grandma. If they did, then women would actually be going after them. MGTOWs are more "YEAH WELL I DI… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:32 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I don't think rp men are going around telling their women how redpilled they are. By the time she finds out he is red pilled she would probably already have fallen for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Well we disagree. Unless my daughter plans on never being married, teaching her how to have the most happy and successsful marriage/relationships is extremely useful. IF she wants to be a female mgtow then sure. It's a waste of time. If she actually plans on living with another fully grown human being then teaching her how to be successful and happy at that is huge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You can hire people to do that, and they're cheaper than a wife is. No you can't. No one he can hire can do for him what a good woman can do. Plus who has money for that even if he makes 6 figures or higher, which he most likely won't. Who is going to cook him and his child every meal. Who is going to do all the house work every day? Who is going to kiss him on the cheek and massage his feet when he gets home? Who is going to wake him up with oral in the morning? No service exists. He can maybe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:02 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?That's a great way to get your kid ran over by a car. "I'm not going to teach them or remind them to look both ways or not to play in the parking lot because they should be smart enough never to need guidance or help and know exactly how to succeed at life as soon as they exit the womb." Good luck with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?What finance school did you graduate from? What do you know that my lawyer and accountant, who helped arrange my current relationship, do not? What year did you graduate since you are such an expert on finances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:49 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You must be a lawyer and accountant since both my lawyer and accountant approved and helped us orcustrate our arrangement. What law school did you graduate from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?But that's the primary thing women care about, and a dude who's attractive AND has money has no reason to settle with one woman, especially a modern woman, because she can't give him anything valuable that he can't already easily find himself He will for the right woman. The right women will make his life much easier, will add value to his life, will support him, will raise his children the way he wants them to be raised. The right woman is someone he can trust and grow with. There are simply th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Status is about more than just money. Also attraction is about more than just money. Otherwise she would have went for billy beta cuck when she were young. She waited because she wasn't attracted to him and still won't be when she eventually settles. Spending your life with someone you aren't attracted to because it's your only way to have a comfortable life sounds like nightmare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:36 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Why not do all of that at the same time? I will have plenty of time to do that. I don't know about you but I'm a stay at home mom. I'll be able to teach them literally everything I know. Why don't you think you'll have the time? You busy with a career? Is no one at home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Beta orbiting cucks are not high value. Which means as she gets older she only has access to beta orbiting cucks which makes her a failure to her younger self. She is settling. That's a pretty dreary consequence. I hope my daughter doesn't end up settling for some low quality man because it's the best she can get to commit. But if she does it will be her fault for not using the tools I'll teach her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You and your partner make exactly the same amount? To the dollar? That's impressive. well sure? lol nothing is "objectively" unfair, but I don't think it's unreasonable. My partner seems to feel the same way I'm sure if you made a big deal out of it and that partner is still your partner, your partner has made that concession. That adds nothing to your argument. right but in your situation you don't have a job or career or schooling (correct if wrong). I do have these things and they're importan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:29 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Sure it matters. But it's unnecessary. I never said Marriage didn't serve a purpose. But that purpose isn't as useful or relevent to today's day and age.You can replicate pretty much all the security of marriage without screwing your man. Which is something we did with the help of our lawyers and accountants. No matter what happens I'm taken care of financially and if he decides to leave me I'm not entitled to any of his money or property. I have my own. I don't need bullies with guns to steal h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?The consequence is her not having less and less access to high value men as she ages. The consequence is not finding an attractive man to build a family with at a living standard she likes. That's a pretty big consequence if you ask me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?for nearly every couple in my peer group (including those with kids), both people are working. the breadwinner thing doesn't really enter into it Yet it should. for me it does, though. I'm not particularly skilled at or excited about housework, and neither is my partner, and at the moment neither of us are fully employed so it makes sense for us to take turns doing the housework. If that split is more favourable to me or to him, that wouldn't be fair. I care about that both on a fundamental/phil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?My man is preparing our son for the most part. Anything I'm telling you "we" will teach is primarily going to actually be taught by him. Also you definintely need to prepare a girl otherwise she will waste her youth chasing bad boys and having frivelous sex because she doesn't know the consequences of her actions. She doesn't know that it gets harder as she ages. She won't know that things change when she hits the wall. She won't know that she is going to have to settle if she spent her 20's rid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Equal is perception. That you are doing more household chores doesn't mean you both are contributing equal to the relationship. Also most men are the breadwinners in the relationship yet many women expect men to help out around the house. Equal has nothing to do with it. You can't qualify equality so easily. It's about perception. If my daughter ever had this problem and she told me she had a good man I'd tell her to get a maid. I would also be wondering why she is the primary bread winner. If s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:12 PM |
| 3 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?Not everything on their own. Even you must admit that certain things need teaching. Plus if you wait for them to come to you having never taught them anything about how to get what they want it may be too late by the time you find out they need help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I shall~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:09 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?That is interesting thought. Yes, redpill isn't exactly my idea of the ideal world. If I could create the world I'd create a world where personality created eternal love. But this is the world we live in so this is the world I'll prepare my children for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?No they aren't, who is strawmanning now? Yes they are. You simply don't understand and clearly have no interest in looking outside of your narrow world view. The purpose of saying my man is because he has a mindset similiar to what you claim is negative. He has no practical use for other women outside of the family. So if you are going to cllaim anything about redpillers disrespecting women my man is necessaraily included in that because they say the same thing. Something you clearly misundersta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:07 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Why wouldn't you apply it to other daily hassles? It creates cohesion and unity if a woman takes care of it. She never has to stress about whether it's being done right because it's her responsibility. If she doesn't like it, hire a maid. Unless she finds a man that wants to do that stuff. But if she finds one that doesn't want to keep up her level of cleanliness and she is working, she can hire a maid. It's like 40 bucks a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:04 PM |
| 0 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Everyone who says that redpillers think that woman "have no value outside of sex" is going that far. Unless you would say that doctors have no use outside of medical diagnosis and treatment as being the same thing. My man has me and his family. He doesn't have very much use at all for women outside the family. Does that mean he sees them as objects or subhuman or something bad? Absolutely not. HHe also has no use for doctors outside of when he is sick. This doesn't in any way apply disrespect or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Depends on the woman's goals. There are plenty of redpilled women who work full time and still have a career. Now granted they STILL come home and take care of the house as well. The thing is that if a woman plans on getting pregnant then she simply is not best suited for having a high powered career like a man is. If the woman doesn't plan on getting pregant than sure, change teh dynamic. If she does plan on getting pregnant than that's going to hinder her earning potential and her career growt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:55 PM |
| 6 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?When my man was in his late teens and early 20's he had very little guidance when it came to romance. He was taught to be kind, generous, self reliant, trustworthy, hard working. He was taught to be a good friend and be respectful to others. This teaching left him to dry because he found himself in the friendzone through his entire life, rejectedd by every single women he asked out up until he left college. He was never taught game, the nature of women, hypergamy. He believed that simply being a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Is it about playing to each of your skills? Yes, very much so. Playing to our strengths. It's an arrangement that has worked for thousands of years. It's practical and efficent. The problem is finding the right partner who you can trust. Once that's done though then it's an ideal set up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?The claim wasn't little value. The claim was women have absolutely no value outside of sex. They aren't even valuable as human beings. They are essentiallly worthless, have no rights, and are subhuman who you should be able to rape without consequence. That's what it means to not in any way value a thing. You can do whatever you want to them without consequence. That's' what it means to treat an object or property. I haven't met any redpillers who believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:43 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?He works, I take care of the house. He makes important decisions, I offer my opinion if he asks for it or if I think he'd like it. Of course we respect each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Do you have any reason to believe that the number of redpillers who believe that women don't have rights and therefore are objects is the same or higher than the number of feminists who believe that all men should be killed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:38 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Of course you aren't. Our lawyers actually worked out our agreement. You don't need marriage to have security in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:35 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?No, I simply believe you misunderstand redpillers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I don't know what IANAL means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:31 PM |
| 3 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?We explain that seperately. He doesn't need to see the comprimise in order to know that it happened. We are very open and up front about our relationships and if our son has any questions he knows he can just ask us. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?We live in a state without common law marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?No. They go to public school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?We'll have to disagree here. I learned a lot from my grandmother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:08 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?And I'm saying you are a tomato. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Marriage used to be a fine institution. Now it's a shadow of it's former self. It's become a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You are a tomato. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:25 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?We'll agree to disagree. The law doesn't define all. It used to define a certain group of people as 3/5ths a person. We are together and committed. I don't give a damn what the law says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?So all gay couples were single before marriage became legal for them? We'll agree to disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:12 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?We are committed. Are you saying long term gay couples were single because they couldn't get married? All gay couples in America who were together exclusively for years before gay marriage became legal were single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Social security is garbage. My financial situations is completely taken care of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:08 PM |
| 3 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?It's something I'll discuss with my Captain about that. I'll probably make another post about just that topic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?We agreed when we became exclusive that he would be exclusive as long as we were together. If he wanted to start spinning plates again we'd split up. He has told me he doesn't miss it. It was a lot of work and he didn't always get everything he wanted from the relationship. I satisfy his needs better than spinning plates ever did. Proudly so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Is that so? You think red pill advice is congruent with advising women to be confident and to actively shut down disrespect from men? Or that it’s in line with the belief that men do not love unconditionally? Absolutely I do. Setting proper boundries and not accepting a violation of those boundries is very redpilled. Or even with the belief that most women are good and that you should give them as much as you expect? And that your dating attitude towards them is to treat them with kindness? Have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?A relationships is not required but typically it a very important process. Plus I'd rather teach them how to be successful in a relationship and then them not use it then having not tought them and they are lost if they want it. Which they are overwhelmingly likely to want because they are human beings. And it's in human nature to want sexual relations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:44 PM |
| 5 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?Yet don't children typically turn out like their parents? I want to give him the tools to succeed. It's his choice whether or not he uses them. I don't want to be too controlling or a helicopter parent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 05:42 PM |
| 4 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?Our child does go to a public school. I think what's really important is being actively engaged so I can defrazel him from any kind of toxic blue pilled teachings or shaming of his masculinity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 05:37 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You're just strawmanning redpill beliefs because it's easier than actually thinking for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceSo whether or not you like them has nothing to do with them being top quality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:28 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?That is very redpill actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:28 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?He used to spin plates. We are exclusive now and have been for 6 years. He spun plates first 2 years of me seeing him where he was very upfront about not wanting to be exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceSo Brad Pitt isn't top quality? What about Leonardo De caprio? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Having your son around women won't garentee he won't become bitter. Plenty of men were the friendzone guy that was around women a ton before becoming redpilled and going through the redpill rage. My man was at one point. At least until he started to improve himself in ways that women want. Then he started being able to spin plates once he embraced AWALT, female nature and hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Correct. You point please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 05:02 PM |
| 3 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?We plan to start early as well. We've already start on a basic level with our son. He is 8. So we will be taking an active role in their life when it comes to romance and sex.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Yes those are basic rights. Objects don't have basic rights. I can do what I want with my lamp. No so much my child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?If I ever have children, I won’t try to raise them in such a way that I’ll be shoving answers down their throat and more or less attempting to “teach” them that this is the way they should be doing things. Yes you will. You won't teach them to look both ways before they cross the street? You won't teach them to stop at a red light or put their seatbelt on? You will teach them tons of stuff they "should" be doing. What you MEAN to say is that you won't shove down their throats things you don't th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:57 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Voting is just one right and not having the right to vote doesn't mean you have no rights. In some society only those who have served in the military can vote. Doesn't mean that those who didn't serve don't have basic human rights. Right to not be raped, right to not be assaulted, right to not be stolen from. These are basic human rights that people would have with or withhout the right to vote. And no one is denying that women should have this. Therefore women are not objects. The arguments abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:55 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?That's symantics. Intevening and providing guidance on a needed basis means that sometimes you could give them redpill advice. It's so arbitrary and general. That's my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:49 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Unless men are treating them as without rights, which men aren't, then they are not treating them as objects. An object doesn't have rights. If you consider someone as having rights then they are't an object. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:48 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?That's an empty definition. If that's the case then all women who want a husband see husbands as objects because they " want to posses one." That definition so broad as to be meaningless. An object is something without rights and personhood. Even if there are men who want to use women that does not mean that they consider women as not having rights and not being sentient beings who's rights should be respected. If a man treats a woman as if she has rights, then, necessarily, he is not treating h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?No it's not. This is a strawman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:44 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?If I understand what I have heard correctly here in PPD is that men here value a woman's youth, beauty, and sometimes breeding capabilities. They are youth and beauty objects that can have sex that is it. Define object? This term is thrown around so much by feminists it's because a meaningless term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:36 PM |
| 13 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?We'll teach our son the same. ONly difference is we will show hiim specific guidance in regards to dating in relationships. Something my man didn't have and something we will not let our son go through. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 04:35 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?My man experienced the exact opposite. He wasn't taught any of this and he had attentive parents who simply didn't know the nature of redpill. WE are going to be more active and actually show specific guidance then just letting them "figure it out" which has a varieable success rate. We won't let our son go through a period of depression and suicide because they can't figure out why no girls like them like my man did in his early 20's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Of course. I understand it. What do you THINK AWALT means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:30 PM |
| 3 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Redpill concept does not teach that men and women are the same so it's not something I'll need to skip. Nor does trp teach that morality is for wimps so I won't need to skip that either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:27 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?We'll agree to disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:27 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?So do you believe I said "focus on looks and money" that literrally nothing else is being taught? So I'm not going to each them how to speak english because I didn't specifically say it? I'm not going to teach them how to make eye contact because I didn't specifically say it? Are you serious? What advice would you give your children to form healthy friendships? This was unrelated to your assumption that you made. I answer this completely seperate question. Healthy friendships is about finding so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?No you don't. You are strawmanning. Unless you specifically ask someone "are woman ONLY objects in the way I udnerstand objects" then you are making a strawman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:22 PM |
| 3 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You arne't going to attract a long term partner without money, status or looks. It's symantics. By becoming self sufficient and financing your lifestyle that gives you money and some status. We are arguing symantics and you are strawmannering my beliefs into something else. You are trying to put on me this rigid, black and white belief system where "if I believe this then I must not believe that." INstead of me trying to remove all your assumptions just ask me a questiion for clarification the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?But why teach boys to seek women who will first and foremost prioritize looks and money? Why not encourage him to focus on developing himself and his own interests so that he is a more well-rounded person with more to offer than just a wallet? I didn't say this. I didn't say I'd teach our son to "seek" this. And having money and looks does not preclude encouraging him to focus on developing himself and his own interest. You made a ton of assumptions here and I kind of makes me not want to talk t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I said love is conditional and finite. Do you disagree? If you don't disagree then where is the argument unless you are trying to put in my mouth something I did not say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:11 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Those are pretty red pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?This makes no sense. I never heard anyone in redpill say that the only use for woman is her body and that woman are just objects. That seems like a troll strawman of redpill by some bluepill feminist who doesn't actually want to have their views challenged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:09 PM |
| 3 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I never said that men are ONLY valuable for what they can provide. Yet they are primarily valued for that and if you've raised a family you'd know that. If your father of your children was perpetually homeless and didn't want to work to help you raise a family all "love" you'd have for him would change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Yet people often turn out like their parents anyway. Lessons tend to stick even if they are ignored during the rebelious stage. I mentiioned that I am no longer religious after being raised in a conversative Christian household. I rebelled. Yet I still impliment many of the teachings I learned as a child. Just because I wasn't fully complicit in my grandparents teachings doesn't mean I ignored it all. I used what I thought was useful, like how to treat a man, and dropped what I thought wasn't us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:58 PM |
| 0 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?It's more about getting them a good, stable, monogamous relationships then getting them laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?There are more than one way to live a good, successful life. But there are certain frameworks that are most successful and for good reason. Locking your door at night is pretty helpful even if you believe in the good of people. Looking both ways before you cross the street. Not every teaching is indoctrination. We will give our child the tools to be successful and use those tools to find happiness. It's their responsiblity to decide which tools to use. They are responsible for their life and the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:55 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Um...what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:54 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?True love is unconditional and eternal. Telling your child that this exits and to chase it is deeply damaging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Conservative Christianity is very rigid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:49 PM |
| 3 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?My man figured it out on his own as well but one of the things he regrets in life is that he didn't have some one to teach him. He went throug ha period of deep depression and suicide because he was lost, lonely, and unable to relate to people romantically. That all could have been prevented with a little guidance. We won't do that to our child. He'll have the guidance and support he needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:48 PM |
| 0 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Um... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Makes sense if you don't believe the ideals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?No it isn't. If I'm a boxer and I enroll my son into boxing camp, I am guiding him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:43 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?That's rediculous. You need money to start a family. If that's the case then no one with a family is healthy because, whether your realize it or not, everyone who wants to start a family is after their partner's money to help them start and sustain that family. Now it's one thing to ONLY be after money. But every familly needs money and every woman who wants a family is after a man's money if only to help her raise a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Tossing them into an environment to learn is guidance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:41 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Of course. We are non-religious. I grew up in a heavily Christian household now I'm an athiest. Given that, we still subscribe to some Christian teachings and I'm very close and value the advice of my conservitive Christian grandparents. Despite being athiests I still use a lot of their teachings. Critical thinking is very important in my opinion but it should be tempered with guidance. A person should know to look both ways before they cross the street. Some things shouldn't be learned the hard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I'll ask you a few questions to clarify my understanding. Do you believe that, because we aren't married, if he were to leave me I'd then have nothing and he'd take our children away from me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?out of curiosity, what happens if one of your kids contravenes your expectations in a major way? like if your daughter decides she wants to dress/present and act more masculinely, or vice versa for your son? Like if our son decides he wants to be a stay at home husband? We'll let him know the consequences, teach him as best we can how to succeed at the things he wants, and let him live his life. What we teach them doesn't mean they HAVE to do it the way we want. We'll teach our son to be reliabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:36 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?What do you think love is? So any teachings you disagree with is indoctrination? I love the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:32 PM |
| 0 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I see your point. We try to find a healthy mix. Our son is in karate and football but he also plays videogames. Him and his father often play together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:30 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You can't build a family if you don't have money. You aren't going to attract them homeless either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:29 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?This is ridiculous. "If you don't teach them the way I would then you aren't teaching them to think cryptically." Are you going to back up your assertion with any data points or facts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?First thing is modeling good behavior. My man and I modeling is the start. My man puts food on the table, pays the bills, keeps us warm in the winter and cool in the summer. This is pretty much essential for a stable family. None of these things really is about personality. It's about work ethic, a sense of hard work, responsibility, MONEY. Now when it comes to teaching our child about her youth that will probably be a conversation during sex education. We will normalize sex education, teach the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Why ban electric devices? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:20 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Do you have any data or literally anything to back this up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:19 PM |
| 3 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?That's a lot of false assumptions. You must have practices a lot to be good at getting so many things wrong with so little words. IF you want to know how our relationship ACTUALLY works you can just ask instead of having your little circle jerk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:18 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Agreed. Double standard without context is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:16 PM |
| 6 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?In other words "someone is raising their child different from me therefore it's brainwashing." The internet is hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:14 PM |
| 3 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?We'll disagree. You aren't going to find the love of your life if you can't attract them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:14 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Yes, but you aren't going to find that person without the other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?How does teaching your son that personality is very low on the totem pole work out in practical terms? You do not want him to develop social skills or social awareness or an ability to interact with others? Good question. Developing social skills is just that, a skill. It comes with practice, trial and error. I see this as distinctly diffferenet from personality. Personality is something like kindness, selfishness, easy to anger, compassionate, reliable, mean. Just being charismatic is a shallow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:11 PM |
| 27 | How are you raising your boys and girls with redpill theory in mind?Modeling good behavior is probably the most important way we will be teaching our children to find success. We don't argue in front of our son, ever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/18 03:02 PM |
| 11 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?I disagree. Teaching people to think criticcally isn't going to garentee they "figure it out." The children of rich parents typically don't just "figure it out." They have guidance from the parents, mentorship, direction. I'll teach them a balance between thinking critically and giving my children propper guidance. Also society is NOT reinforcing gender roles. It's the exact opposite. Society is leading our children astray by trying to make boys be like girls and trying to make girls be like boy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:01 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?No bypass on looks No bypass on being masculine You have to be assertive to get anything in life, including for romance and sex Sport mandatory Bullying cannot be avoided, learn to address these shit tests No disney or personality brainwash, pragmatism about gender dynamic and feelings. I subscribe to all of this accept for the no Disney. We still watch Disney we just make sure we are teaching our son proper expectations. My man went on a rant about about the Hunchback of Notre damn in front of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 02:57 PM |
| 3 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?So... girls should just settle immediately, and boys shouldn't expect to be loved? What? Who said this? Who are you talking to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 02:50 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?Well we, or I'll say "I" am not necessarily teaching our boy to "get bitches." We are teaching him to be a competent man and find a woman like me and build a family with her. Maybe his father will teach him game but I'm not really a part of that conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 02:49 PM |
| 2 | How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind?You're so silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceEven top quality men. Doesn't really matter the type of man. Women are attractive regardless of whether or not they are ugly or socially awkward or all the other things that would make a man repulsive to women. Vagina is attractive on its own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceThe statement I am arguing against is when this was stated. And I quote. "Some people aren't attractive." This is simply false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceThat's exactly my point. Ugly women of all ages are attractive to men of all ages. They just need a vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceWe are not talking about beauty. We are talk ing about attraction. 25 year old men will be attracted and want to have sex with ugly 25 year old women. Whether they will want to settle down with them is another story. But attraction is about who you want to have sex with. And men will fuck pretty much any woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceTo all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceAww thankies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | [22F] "My boyfriend is the most genuine, golden-hearted, loyal person I know. But unlike my last boyfriend he doesn't have any other options besides me and it kind of turns me off."You don't have to wallow just because you see the truth. Just manage your expectations. People are people. We are capable of anything. That's like saying you don't want to lock your door because you don't want to believe that someone would break into your house. You can still live a good life and lock your door. You can still have relations, just set proper expectations and protect Yourself. My man was full blown mgtow when we met but now we've been living together over 6 years, have a child and… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | [22F] "My boyfriend is the most genuine, golden-hearted, loyal person I know. But unlike my last boyfriend he doesn't have any other options besides me and it kind of turns me off."I don't think that is realistic. There are always things that split people apart. If one of you goes to prison divorce is pretty much garenteed. I see romance and love is mutual illusion. Romance and love are transactional, tenporary, conditional. I think that a lot of men grow up indoctrinated with this fantasy about love being some transcendant force that is beyond condition. Its just not true and never has been. Perpetuating this idea is so harmful. Our son will grow up redpilled. He will use… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/18 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceYou're welcome dear. I'm wondering why you are thanking me. Do you believe that me being redpilled will benefit men other than my man and my son? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 09:54 PM |
| 2 | [22F] "My boyfriend is the most genuine, golden-hearted, loyal person I know. But unlike my last boyfriend he doesn't have any other options besides me and it kind of turns me off."What do you feel about romance and why do you think you feel that way? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/18 06:34 PM |
| 3 | [22F] "My boyfriend is the most genuine, golden-hearted, loyal person I know. But unlike my last boyfriend he doesn't have any other options besides me and it kind of turns me off."That's such a bummer. I'm hoping that doesn't happen to my son. Raising him to have proper low expectations of romance will hopefully alleviate that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | [22F] "My boyfriend is the most genuine, golden-hearted, loyal person I know. But unlike my last boyfriend he doesn't have any other options besides me and it kind of turns me off."What kind of trouble? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/18 05:55 PM |
| -1 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceAttraction is the measure of how well you attract other people. You are describing arbitrary traits that makes someone pretty or handsome. Women don't have to be pretty to be attractive. They are attractive by the very nature of having a vagina. Men will flock to them even if they look like Quasimoto. Women have a huge base line attraction that is regardless of their physical attributes as long as they have a working vagina. This same thing cannot be said of men. A young, fat ugly women is very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceDefine attractive in terms of a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 04:51 PM |
| 5 | [22F] "My boyfriend is the most genuine, golden-hearted, loyal person I know. But unlike my last boyfriend he doesn't have any other options besides me and it kind of turns me off."How do you guys find these people? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/18 04:49 PM |
| 11 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceAnd no, young women aren't seen as hot by virtue of their youth. This woman doesn't understand that beauty has a lot to do with your style, your weight, your weight distribution, your skeleton and facial structure. The great majority of women are just average regardless if their age. They absolutely are. This is a rediculous statement. A 40 year old woman who is fat and ugly is going to get far less attention than a 20 year old women who is fat and ugly. In fact you can prove this yourself. Go t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?Thank you Dear. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/18 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?I'm happy for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?Oh, sorry to hear. How are you doing now? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?How long were you with your ex and why did you break up? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How to bring back sex and passion into a relationship?Couldn't agree more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Going to the club aloneI'm going to give you some advice that is a little unorthodox and in fact probably most here would disagree. First I want to say that you are already on a good road by being open to rejection. I'd definitely say try what every one else is suggesting. Avoid bars but go out more in the day time to public places. Guys will hit on you if you seem approachable. The unorthodox advice is to try and approach guys. If you only wait for guys to approach you you are missing a lot of great guys who make sim… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Men Going Their Own WayI was looking for an answer from the man that originally made the claim. I wouldn't expect most men here to hold that view. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/12/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Men Going Their Own WayI'm not of the view that hermits are toxic. Someone else said they couldn't describe a man that refuses to have relationships with women who isn't toxic. I was just asking that person about their views. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/12/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Men Going Their Own WayWhat about being a hermit is not toxic? | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/12/18 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP explain women who legitimately date/ marry down?I'm not mad at you. The world is filed with liars and people without integrity. As long as you are no where near anything or mine, seeing as how you can't be trusted, your lack of integrity has no effect on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP explain women who legitimately date/ marry down?Even if you didn't use the specific words that's what your words meant. You specified a behavioral change your partner could exhibit that would make you divorce. So by your own admission were your partner to change in a way you didn't like, you'd break the most powerful promise you'd ever mske. The problem is the marriage vow says forever, no matter what. If you think there is a condition that would make you want to divorce then to get married means necessarily that you are a liar, you don't res… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | How does TRP explain women who legitimately date/ marry down?You want a relationship where everything goes right and your partner never changes in a way you disapprove. You are the reason marriage is dead. I'm just glad our son won't have to deal with you or your kin. We are not married. A marriage should be forever and unditional. If you get into the relationship without this mindset you are a liar, you lack integrity and you can't be trusted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 06:57 PM |
| 4 | How does TRP explain women who legitimately date/ marry down?If you think you will split with your partner over that then don't get married. That's a great reason to leave a boyfriend. Marriage is better or worse, through thick and thin. Not "as long as he takes out the garbage on time." Mindsets like yours is why we are teaching our son, nieces and nephews that marriage is horrible instution. I've been with my man 8 years and we have a child together. I'd never dream of putting him through the rigged institute of marriage. Marriage used to mean something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 06:49 PM |
| 2 | How does TRP explain women who legitimately date/ marry down?Actually it applies to those making less money even if they worked. Also that's a horrible reason the divorce and break your promise to god. That's not exactly helping your case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 06:33 PM |
| 3 | How does TRP explain women who legitimately date/ marry down?Its literally on the first page of Google when you look it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 06:11 PM |
| 5 | How does TRP explain women who legitimately date/ marry down?Absolutely. Most women marry men at their income level or higher. Those that marry below have a much higher rate of divorce. So a woman marrying down is rare and its much more likely to fail because its against a woman's nature to choose a partner far below her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 06:05 PM |
| 3 | How does TRP explain women who legitimately date/ marry down?What are you measuring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 04:27 PM |
| 3 | How does TRP explain women who legitimately date/ marry down?Where are you pulling that number? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 04:20 PM |
| 7 | How does TRP explain women who legitimately date/ marry down?How do you explain people winning the lottery despite the huge odds against it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Should Marriage even be a thing?One suspects that many of the latter wouldn't be eligible if they married the fathers of their children. By remaining single, they get Uncle Sam to pick up the tab. Seems to make sense These women stay in poverty. They can raise themselves out of poverty by marrying but not by remaining single. Also, some of the benefits of being married are nothing to sneeze at! For instance, I know a woman who was pregnant when her fiance was killed in a wreck. Had they been married, she would have been eligib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Should Marriage even be a thing?Our lawyers and accountants handled all things legal and tax related. It was rather simple. Marriage is completely unnessary. I think marriage is kind of the "for dummies" guide to relationships. It's probably most beneficial to the poor who can't afford laywers and accountants. For anyone who can afford even a basic lawyer and accountant marriage is extremely unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Should Marriage even be a thing?This is clearly not in good faith since you have no interest in learning about me nor my situation. I won't feed the troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Should Marriage even be a thing?Social Security survivor benefits in the event he dies or becomes disabled. Also, unless you're working and paying into S.S., you're going to be screwed at retirement age. He has life insurance and I'm included in his will so that's covered. What's next ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Should Marriage even be a thing?Interesting. My lawyer seems to disagree. What do you know that my lawyer doesn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Should Marriage even be a thing?What exactly do you think marriage would provide me that I don't have already? What do you know about my financial arrangement with my Captain. I'm going to assume you clearly haven't read up on the arrangement we've made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?My man would never cheat on me. He'd out right tell me to my face that it was over, why it was over, tell ME to pack my bags, and the relationships would end. Then he'd find someone else to satisfy his urges. Cheating is not in his character. He'd just be honest with me. As for marriage. No one really should get married with the idea that it's going to last forever because the marriage vows are impossible to keep. If your spouse started molesting your children you wouldn't stay together and marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 02:07 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: Should Marriage even be a thing?Marriage is just the government putting a gun to the man's head to support the wife even when she no longer wants to support him. It's not even a form of social security. It's like a forced pension that happens even if the person quits after just a few years. The man still has to pay the woman for services he is no longer receiving. (Well, the highest earner, which has historically been and still is the man). The woman's "sacrifice" in raising a family is considered and the man's sacrifice is co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Oh I see. Thank you for clarifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?Oh you were just dating him? I thought you said you were past the dating phase and he was your boyfriend? My mistake. It sounded like you also said that you would withhold treating your Long term relationships partner in certain special ways until you were married. I misunderstood. I apologize. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I'm not sure what your point is Dear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?If you are considering a man as material to be married then you should be done vetting enough to treat him as you would a husband. That's a bit manipulative to me, to withhold treating him special until he signs the marriage papers. However, I understand where you are coming from. Ideally, vetting should never really stop, but it shouldn't stop you from treating a good man like he deserves. Plus you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself. giving him the expectation that things are going to be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?I'm not knocking how you feel comfortable doing things. Just letting you know my perspective. To me any conflict we have gives us the opportunity to grow closer to each other. In fact, if the conflict isn't relationship ending it does not hinder our ability to be intimate. We've come up with a system where we only address each other in conflict in a sexual manner. One good piece of advice I see people say is to hold your partner's hand when you need to talk to them about something important, to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?It's more of a sense of reality. If a wife doesn't take care of her man he'll find someone else who will. You are especting for too much from men. You are essentially saying that if you find the right man he will not be a human being. That's unrealistic and just asking to be disappointed. You can't expect someone to stay faithful if you don't give them a reason to stay faithful. You are essentially advocating for the idea that if you choose the right man the wife's actions will have no effect on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I don't think I'll ever actually teach her about that. Directly. About when she starts asking I'll teach her about her body, about boundries, general sex education. The younger they learn and are educated the less likely they are to be single mothers, or have unprotected sex. I'm not a Christian btw. I was raised Christian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?It sounds like she chose poorly. Vetting is also an important part of keeping a man faithful. I'd have a ton more questions to ask about why your mother who you claim to be a model wife, chose so poorly. Most women don't know how to vet. It's not exactly taught in school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I think I heavily reduce the chance. My grandma, who has been married over 30 years, is just one of many pieces of evidence I have to attest to that. I've been with my man over 8 years and we can attest to that. You actually believe that a wife's behavior has absolutely no effect on her husbands behavior ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?There are no guarantees in life but having the mindset that your actions have no influence on the behavior of your husband is absolutely ridiculous. I control what I can control. I'm much more likely not to die in a plane crash if I never ride a plane. Sure, a plane could fall out of the sky and kill me. There are no guarantees. Doesn't mean I should do nothing to influence what happens. Extreme example but you get the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?That makes sense. If I'm sore I just do down on him or use my hand. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?I take care of him even when I'm mad at him. Especially when I'm mad at him or in a bad mood. He doesn't take a break from being a father because he is in a bad mood and I don't take a break from being an attentive partner because I'm in a bad mood. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I'm grooming my daughter to be in the mindset of always saying yes. Or at the very least, never outright saying no. So instead of saying "no I don't feel good." She would say "how about tomorrow morning Dear?" It's about mindset. If she chooses the right man it should never, ever be a problem. And I'll also be grooming her to vet properly. I'll also teach her to leave abusive relationships. If she feels she is in a relationships where she can't see yes all the time, where she feels she constantl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?This is the type of things ill teach my daughter if our baby turns out to be a girl. Its more about responsibility and taking control of your own life. Controlling every factor that we have the ability to control. Its about mindset. If I'm doing everything possible to remain attractive, make his life easier, keep his balls empty, he would be absolutely crazy to leave me or even cheat. How can he cheat when I leave him so drained? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Why would they lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?I don't like that you make it sound so transactional. I understand. Let me clarify. We have sex about twice a week. Thatt's very mutual in the way you describe. Yet, I go down on him daily because he REALLY likes me going down on him. I don't receive any physical pleasure from going down on him. It's just emotional satisfaction from a job well done. But he, often, gets to orgasm. That's transnational in a way. We aren't getting the same thing out of the action yet it's still a fair trade in my m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 12:39 PM |
| 6 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?That's so beautiful and I totally agree. I never turn him down. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 12:36 PM |
| 5 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?It was a joke~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 12:35 PM |
| 1 | It's official!My man was former mgtow and I got him. They don't say that all women will divorce them. They say that all women "can" and there is no protection against it if the woman tries. Even prenups are thrown out. If you find a good man and it turns out he is mgtow, just prove yourself to him. It's possible. I did and I'm literally living in my own personal utopia. You could too if you wanted to. If you know a mgtow that you like don't use the excuse that he is mgtow not to go after him. He'll cave to th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 12:34 PM |
| 7 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?It's why I avoid them. I feel much more of a kinship with women online. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?I'd even you'd get tired of your favorite food if you ate it every single day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 04:22 AM |
| 7 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?The women I know don't really talk about how eager they are to please their man. It's more about shittesting and complaining about their men. I was kind of the odd one out by not having something to complain about. At least not publically. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 03:49 AM |
| 8 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?Maybe its cultural because literally none of the married women I know do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?I don't own sweatpants so I don't think that would work for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?How does he return the favor? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Well he is 38. We had more sex earlier in the relationship but it's slowed down over time. But he still likes his oral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 02:00 AM |
| 8 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?I was raised in a conservative Christian household so I was taught that the woman serves God through service to her husband. I still believe in the fundamentals of those principles. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 01:51 AM |
| 11 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?I satisfy his sexual desires because it makes me feel desired This is another aspect of it that I think is underrated. Knowing that I'm the only one he'll let satisfy him. It makes me feel special. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?Some have said that their men don't find it sexy when they have sex but are not in the mood. My man never had a problem. Does yours? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/18 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?My man doesn't even seem to not enjoy me going down on him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?No, that's also rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I'm not talking about rape. I'm talking about a social standard where the woman is expect to do so willingly. Like...they are taught it's their job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?That's a part of most relationships. Sometimes one person wants to have sex when the other doesn't. No matter how close the libido are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?That doesn't answer my question dear? Why is it perfectly acceptable to expect a man to do something he doesn't like in service to a woman and his family but not acceptable to expect a woman to sometimes do something she isn't the mood for in service to her man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?What's wrong with that perspective? A man is literally keeping her alive, probably doing something he would rather not be doing. Why is it ok for him to sacrifice for her but not vice versa. Because women are weaker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?We are going to have to agree to disagree here. You can't choose your libido. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I said most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 11:03 PM |
| -1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Regardless of what you think people aught to do, do you believe that most married women have sex with this husbands most of the time when they aren't in the mood? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:49 PM |
| -1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?You should actually try it. It's only souless if you have a negative attitude. Sometimes I don't feel like cooking our son breakfast or packing his lunch box. Sometimes is rather just watch tv or read a book. I do it because I love him. Its not soulless just becAuse its maintenance. That's a negative self fulfilling prophecy. You must not work out or if you do you must absolutely hate it and receive no satisfaction because its necessary maintenance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Where in modern day is rape acceptable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:39 PM |
| -1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I "can" say no but it's definitely beneficial to always say yes. Or if not yes we set a time when to do it. Like "Can we play in the morning Darling?" Maintence like that is much easier when you grow up expecting to do it. Which is why it's harder for a adult to work out and eat right if they didn't grow up doing it. If you grow up with those values it's much easier to pull off I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I'd better~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I actually don't know. We have sex about 2 times a week but I go down on him daily. I think he just likes oral. He doesn't even orgasm every time but he expects it from me and I'm happy to oblige. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:26 PM |
| 9 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?This would be ideal. I think I've just been around a lot of married women who seem to revel in the fact that they only oblige their men sometimes and it doesn't seem like they do doing it a majority of the time when they aren't in the mood. I'm trying to get an alternative perspective from women who aren't actually around me. Maybe it's just the women in my area. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?You've met women who, the majority of the time when they aren't in the mood they have sex with their husbands anyway? Maybe the women I've met just have shitty relationships? So a man should expect that most of the time, if he has a good wife, she will have sex with him most of the time when she isn't in the mood? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?You answered my question, so thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?What makes you think this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I think I'd get kicked out of the house if that happened~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?You'd say it's fundamental if you only obliged 20% of the time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Yes I mean strickly always or at least a vast majority of the time. Not a "sometimes" thing. Like....it's a fundamental part of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?What are you asking here? Are you asking whether most women view marital sex the same way you do - i.e. that you're not always in the mood but you have sex anyway because you know it's good for the marriage and for him and for you? Are you asking if it's always been this way? Yes this is what I'm asking. I haven't met a married women who has this mindset. It's a "sometimes" thing. Not a "all the time" thing. Yes, I, and I think most men, would be fine with their women fucking them regularly even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I didn't say that. I said I've never met a woman who always fulfills her man's desires even when she isn't in the mood. I've talked to a few married women and they talk about it like it's a drag. And only sometimes. Which is why I wanted to discuss my relationships since it's so different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?Agreed. I definitely think sex should be limited until commitment is attained. If the goal is actually to find a long term partner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/18 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?We've actually been exploring a little bit of that recently. Though we have to postpone most of it because of the baby on the way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/18 09:50 PM |
| 7 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I've never met one. In fact it seems that most women hear disagree with that type of sacrifice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Was it? I'm getting mixed reports on this actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?We've never run into that problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?That makes sense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Oh. We have "just oral" quiet a bit. IT's very quick and easy. Especially with children in the house constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I would never be like 'blah, lets get this over with." More like "Ok Sweetie~" If I'm really not in the mood what we do is reschedule. We never just deny each other. I'd say something like "How about tomorrow morning?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Of course he knows. As much as he wants it no one Is going to want it that much. Personally I would feel really bad if my SO felt she had to do this just out of a sense of obligation or maintenance, it's not very flattering. I'd rather she fulfill my needs because she is actually attracted to me or she enjoys it. If I knew it was done because of "maintenance" i'd probably honestly not be in the mood anymore. The thing is that the very reason I do this for him is because I am so attracted to him.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I do need to clarify that sex for us isn't always "full blown." Often it's me simply going down on him really quickly. When you say sex are you talking about the full kit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 08:28 PM |
| 9 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?What about duty oral? Do you think he'd complain? My man actually has a larger libido then me so there is no physical way I can keep up with him. I've learned to enjoy oral beyond the physical pleasure of having sex. I can only compare it to washing dishes...if that makes sense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/18 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?I understand. I would never feel like he only valued me for sex because it is objectively not true. If I felt that way I'd be able to aknowledg ethat it is just my own insecurity and that he is a man and he wants sex because, to put it simply, sex feels good and you are literally the ONLY person he can get it from. I understand why you'd feel like he is intentionally devaluing you though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 08:24 PM |
| 9 | Do you satisfy your Captain's sexual desires even when you aren't in the mood? Why or why not?I'm not married and I think it should apply to any LTR that you think is serious. Unless of course it's just a emotionless fling. Well, it definitely apply it to my life. I don't want to impose what works for me on other women if they aren't comfortable with it. But it definitely keeps our relationship running smoothly and I'm surprised more women don't do it. The long term benefits seem obvious to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/18 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?You are so silly~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Was there ever a time where it was socially excepted for a woman to fulfill her man's sexual needs even when she wasn't in the mood?Can you define affection that you expect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: why do men marry the woman who is boring in bed and then get surprised when they land in a deadbedroom a few years later?If only these men realized that his value has gone up since marriage and hers has gone down because she is old and probably had a few kids. If these men knew their value they wouldn't be there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Men Going Their Own WayYou value relationships with women. That's your own personal value. You have made the risk/reward assessement and decided that the benefit you can potentially get out of being in a relationships with women is worth the ups and downs of a relationship. Unless you are saying that anyone who disagrees with you is unhealthy, then you MUST acknowledge that it is not inhertantly unhealthy or toxic to make a risk/reward assessment and say that relationships with women aren't worth the risk. I think tha… | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/12/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | It's official!I don't want a man who thinks that all women are crazy sluts who will leave them divorce raped, thank you... Good because no man actually thinks this. So you should have no problem dating a red pill guy as long as you aren't a crazy slut who shows red flags about her loyalty. The vast majority of redpilled guys wouldn't go through those length to avoid a family as my man. So you should have no problem. Again, as long as you are a loyal, feminine, useful woman you'll be fine. You should only be w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/18 04:25 PM |
| 33 | It's cool r/niceguys. Let that NiceGuy™ (who's obviously a horrible person for wanting better for his friend) know he can find her on our sub along with the hundreds of women who rejected guys like him for jerks.I don't think you've met many actual nice guys. Nice guys a lot of the time are the friendzone guys who women love to be with plutonically and use as emotional tampons. My bestie has a few of these and it kind of annoys me about her. She talks about one of them. He is so kind, always there, listens to her, helpful compassionate, funny. She loves being around him. She just isn't attracted to him because he is "not her type." He isn't her type because he is a bit overweight and he is a bit sociall… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Men Going Their Own WayOn a different note can you tell me more about yourself? Why are you here in the MGTOW 2 channel? It doesn't seem like you are MGTOW. It seems like you are open to cohabitation and marriage. Am I correct? | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/12/18 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Men Going Their Own WayInteresting. I'm really enjoying this talk so I want to thank you again. In your opinion, can you think of a mindset that a guy could come up with to avoid all women that wouldn't be toxic? What would that look like? Describe a guy who chooses to avoid all women but who is healthy, not-bitter and not-toxic. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/12/18 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Men Going Their Own WayOriginally you said, and I quote... "I also have an issue with those bitter guys who say avoid all women completely, since this is bullshit as well." And then in your next post you called these men unhealthy. Are you changing your mind about this or did you simply mispeak? It seems to me, and correct me if I'm wrong, that you are saying that all guys who choose to avoid women to protect themselves are bitter and unhealthy. Are you now saying that, depending on their reason to avoid women, they a… | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/12/18 03:29 PM |
| -1 | Men Going Their Own WayThat's very interesting. You believe that the conclusion you have come to is healthy but any man that comes to a conclusion you don't agree with is "unhealthy." Thanks for answering Dear. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/12/18 03:16 PM |
| 9 | Single, educated and perpetually singleAfter listening to this woman, if I have a daughter I'm afraid to send her to college if this kind of stupidity is what a "college education" produces. She spend years and however much debt becoming a PHD but she hasn't even figured out that men like youth, beauty, and feminine qualities. She is a history major! What group of men in history were falling over themselves trying to Marry the old, out of shape, "intelligent" women over the young and beautiful women? This has to be a parody. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/18 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Men Going Their Own WayOh this is so interesting! If you'll indulge me dear, I have a few questions. I find it interesting that a self-proclaimed MGTOW is calling other men "bitter" for choosing a more extreme form of social exclusion from women. As a MGTOW, would you call your aversion to forming a cohabitive relationship with women bitterness? If not, what criteria do you use to determine what is a bitter decision and what is not? Mike Pence avoids being alone with every women that isn't his wife. Would you call Mik… | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/12/18 02:34 PM |
| 0 | It's official!Oh then I don't actually think you'll have a problem dating a redpillmen. Most men, even redpillmen, want a stable monogamous relationship with someone they can trust so they can build a happy family. Being redpilled is in reaction to the fact that many women simply aren't choosing them to do that. Women are passing men up and only choosing men when they are pass their prime. Take a redpillman or mgtow man and give him a good woman in a society that doesn't demonic man and he'll be happy to buil… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/18 12:27 PM |
| 2 | “Far too many young men have failed to make a normal progression into adult roles of responsibility and self-sufficiency, roles generally associated with marriage and fatherhood,”That's a really good point. I'm not sure if infinite easy access to success counts as a plus to men. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | It's official!I don't blame you. I'd imagine the relationship would be much more complex because they would have a low tolerance for bullshit. I found the challenge matched my personality. It made me a better spouse and pushed me to be the best I could be. I believe I've been a great mother so far and I'll continue to be. I think there is the idea that red pill women shouldn't actually seek red pill men. I understand why they'd say that. We definintely have to work harder for a red pill man. It's up to you to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/18 04:09 PM |
| 0 | It's official!True. I would be a single mother and that would decrease my smv and rmv. However it wouldn't stop me. I'd just have to apply a filter to my search and make sure I'm putting my value forward. I've seen single mothers land some pretty high quality guys. Its just not likely or common. Good men would still be out there for me. Still, you are right. Yet another reason to treat my man good right now. As a single mother i wouldn't have realistic access to a man of my captains qaulity | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/18 04:05 PM |
| 0 | It's official!Wow thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/18 10:46 AM |
| 1 | It's official. I'm pregnant!We've been talking about hiring a maid again, (he used to have a maid before I move on), or having my grandma move up here to help out during my first weeks after the birth. We are still figuring things out. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/12/18 02:30 AM |
| 2 | It's official. I'm pregnant!Just so you know I got pregnant through IVF. My man froze his sperm years ago. Apparently men do become less fertile as they age. It's definitely something to be aware of. Also thankies!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/12/18 02:28 AM |
| 1 | It's official!I'm American and didn't grow up with bilingual parents so I only speak english. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 10:56 PM |
| 5 | “Far too many young men have failed to make a normal progression into adult roles of responsibility and self-sufficiency, roles generally associated with marriage and fatherhood,”I fear for the next world War. It will be the first one where everyone has nukes. All it takes is one country to fire. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/12/18 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not MarriedCurrent legal and social climate as well. This 100%. But the thing is that women created this system. Feminism created this system and women failed to stand up to it. We are just as responsible as the feminists who pushed it. This is a female problem. "Let's say that one man is guaranteed to find a good woman and that she is "worth it". What's the point to even commit to her? Even more so since that if the relationship fails, the man will be more heavily punished?" This is exactly the problem me… | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/12/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not MarriedYes? | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/12/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | It's official. I'm pregnant!Thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | It's official!Aww thankies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | It's official!If they weren't published in English how can I read them? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 07:40 PM |
| 13 | “Far too many young men have failed to make a normal progression into adult roles of responsibility and self-sufficiency, roles generally associated with marriage and fatherhood,”This is so spot on. This problem shouldn't actually effect the few good women out there. It's SOOO easy to please a man and keep him happy. So many of these women simply aren't willing to do it. What I find especially sad about it is all of our boys who have been abandoned by the system because they weren't born chad or didn't develop a specific type of charisma to be in the top 20%. I fear for my son just a little. I think he might be a chad eventually, well, Tyrone. The top 20% of men are real… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/12/18 07:33 PM |
| 7 | Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not MarriedI think that this should count couples that are in long term commited relationships but haven't married. I suspect that a trend is growing. I've been with my man for over 8 years and we will soon have a child together but we won't ever be getting married. Marriage is an outdated concept according to us. (Not knocking those who are married). We don't need it but we are committed. That would probably up the numbers a bit. Still the problem remains the same. Women are no longer making it worth it f… | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/12/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | It's official. I'm pregnant!This is some great stuff here. I'll remember all of it. We live near his family and I'm really close to his sisters, grandma and mom so I think I'll look into the food train. We've actually thought about moving my grandparents near to us. It's been really crazy since the announcement. My man owns a few houses nearby next to his apartment building so I may talk to him and my grandparents about that. My grandma helping out directly would be a godsend. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | It's official. I'm pregnant!And the first six weeks after birth, you need to take extra good care of yourself. Birth takes a lot out of you. What do you mean by this exactly? What would "not taking care of myself" look like? And what would taking care of myself look like? What did that look like for you? What changed from before your birth to after? What did you need? What things would change if you could go back? | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/18 05:48 PM |
| 2 | It's official. I'm pregnant!Thanks for the encouragement. Can you tell me about your journey in terms of self care? What you felt you needed? What you gave yourself? What would you do differently if you could go back? Are you hoping for a girl or boy? No matter what I'll love my child with everything I am. Honestly I'm hoping for a girl. Get a bit more femininity in the house. But I'm happy either way! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/18 05:09 PM |
| 0 | It's official!"Great - then continue to use those skills with your child's father and "finding another man" is an unnecessary requirement." Of course. That's what I've been doing which is why I've not only locked down a former MGTOW, but also, in my own way, convinced him that it was a good idea to have a child with me despite his inititial apprehension. If our relationships were to end it wouldn't be because I'd forget how to take care of my man. It'd be because one of us would be UNWILLING to do the things … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | It's official!Any particular books of his you'd recommend? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | It's official!Thanks! It's been a dream of mine since as long as I can remember. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 01:03 PM |
| 1 | It's official!Thankies~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 01:01 PM |
| 1 | It's official!I'll definintely look at that. I'm considering everyone's advice and then I'll decide what's best for me. I love all the feedback! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 01:00 PM |
| -3 | It's official!This is a bit optimistic You are so silly. I know how to please a man and make myself valuable to a man's life. It's not optimism. It's simply realistic. Not to toot my own horn. It's just reality. Every redpillwoman would be able to pull a good man because she specializes in giving men what they want. It's not even a question. the fact you might lose custody of your kid There is absolutely no chance I would lose custody of my child. Just to clarify, I'd always have at least joint custody of our… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 12:59 PM |
| 2 | It's official!In what way is marriage more secure? If there is something we haven't thought of I'd be glad to hear it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 01:44 AM |
| 1 | It's official!I'd keep all the money has has given me so far and we'd live separately with joint custody. I'd then find another man to support me. Nice thing about our current arrangement is that I'll have money without having to be married to him. The advantage of this is because of the nature of spousal support. In most every case that I know of, spousal support stops if you get divorced and remarried. We will never get married so my spousal support comes in the form of the monthly payments he is already gi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 12:54 AM |
| 2 | "I grew up firmly believing marriage is a forever thing. Wife has an affair, moves out, and tells me to find another woman to make me happy. So I did. She's now upset that she no longer has enough money to live. Says she's devastated that she lost the person who loved her most in the whole world."You're welcome. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/12/18 12:38 AM |
| 4 | It's official!This is a rather interesting arrangement so I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I can't give up legal rights to my child that I birth. I'd still be responsible for it no matter what. I can't even give it up for adoption without the father's permission so legally it was a non-starter. What we decided to do was to tackle the inequality and bias of the family courts in a more direct way. One way men keep custody of their children in custody battles is simply having enough money to take the woma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | "I grew up firmly believing marriage is a forever thing. Wife has an affair, moves out, and tells me to find another woman to make me happy. So I did. She's now upset that she no longer has enough money to live. Says she's devastated that she lost the person who loved her most in the whole world."My man and I talk a lot about our relationship so there is a lot of detail. If you have any more questions feel free to ask. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 11:52 PM |
| 1 | "I grew up firmly believing marriage is a forever thing. Wife has an affair, moves out, and tells me to find another woman to make me happy. So I did. She's now upset that she no longer has enough money to live. Says she's devastated that she lost the person who loved her most in the whole world."Oh! So you are referring to his putting the "break up money" in the dresser near the door is me kind of tricking myself into being more committed because of the fear of him not being committed to me? Is that what you mean? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | It's official!Thanks Dear. The future is looking very bright. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 11:34 PM |
| 1 | "I grew up firmly believing marriage is a forever thing. Wife has an affair, moves out, and tells me to find another woman to make me happy. So I did. She's now upset that she no longer has enough money to live. Says she's devastated that she lost the person who loved her most in the whole world.""Maybe you could understand it better if I summed it up better? You make your decisions based on an imaginary restriction in order to unwittingly benefit from the outcome of doing so. You have to do it without realizing it because otherwise self-actualizing your process creates an additional layer of bias that would lead you to sabotage what is already working." Imaginary restriction? What do you think is imaginary about the restrictions I've accepted in my relationship? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 11:22 PM |
| 1 | "I grew up firmly believing marriage is a forever thing. Wife has an affair, moves out, and tells me to find another woman to make me happy. So I did. She's now upset that she no longer has enough money to live. Says she's devastated that she lost the person who loved her most in the whole world."The reason why women AWALT is because she has the capacity to dominate her male partner in mental gymnastics. Just because she isn't doing it at the moment is only an indication that she is satisfied with what she is getting out of it. That is the blunt way to say it, not the nice way. But do you agree with that sentiment for yourself? That you are benefiting from the relationship and the potential longevity of that commitment you experience now is but a small part in your willingness to adhere … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | "I grew up firmly believing marriage is a forever thing. Wife has an affair, moves out, and tells me to find another woman to make me happy. So I did. She's now upset that she no longer has enough money to live. Says she's devastated that she lost the person who loved her most in the whole world."That's a great question. I feel happy that my actions have very obvious consequences. I like the transparency, the certainty of knowing exactly what I have to do to keep my man happy and exactly what would make the relationship end. Also I know exactly how it would end. The process, the changes to my life and his. Lots of people commit themselves to others and then break up anyway. In fact our society makes it extremely easy to break up. People get complacent and lazy. My man putting his foot do… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 09:15 PM |
| 2 | "I grew up firmly believing marriage is a forever thing. Wife has an affair, moves out, and tells me to find another woman to make me happy. So I did. She's now upset that she no longer has enough money to live. Says she's devastated that she lost the person who loved her most in the whole world."I don't see it as a blockade. More like a safety net or contingency plan. You are more than welcome to ask those questions towards me. I'm very open about our relationships despite how unorthodox it may be. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | It's official!Thankies! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | It's official!Thank you so much. Yes I imagine this will be a different adventure all together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 08:43 PM |
| 0 | "I grew up firmly believing marriage is a forever thing. Wife has an affair, moves out, and tells me to find another woman to make me happy. So I did. She's now upset that she no longer has enough money to live. Says she's devastated that she lost the person who loved her most in the whole world."Barrier? I'm confused? What barrier are you talking about? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | It's official!Thankies~ I can really describe the feeling. It's everything I want out of life. Literally a dream come true. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 08:10 PM |
| 0 | "I grew up firmly believing marriage is a forever thing. Wife has an affair, moves out, and tells me to find another woman to make me happy. So I did. She's now upset that she no longer has enough money to live. Says she's devastated that she lost the person who loved her most in the whole world."What do you mean? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 08:09 PM |
| 2 | It's official!I mentioned to someone else that we aren't married. Having a child unmarried is a complicated matter in our current legal climate. Ensuring his parental rights was very important. Especially since he is the bred winner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 07:11 PM |
| 2 | It's official!That midwife is something I'll propose we look into. I'll be starting classes soon. You're the second person that recommended a baby pillow so that's a must. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 05:28 PM |
| 2 | It's official!Thank you so much for you support. I try to stay positive when ever I visit internet forums. Plus I always look prettier when I smile and am in a good mood. I've been smiling a lot lately~ I'll definitely be checking out all the things you mentioned. I have a lot of time on my hands and we are thinking about paying someone to help with the chores when things start to get hard for me. Thanks again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Well maybe if you tried dating the nice guy instead of friendzoning him for attention and favors, you wouldn't get fuckzoned.These guys are nice, kind and compassionate because that's what the fairy tells told them to be in order to be successful in the world. They've been lied to, probably because they didn't have strong male role models in their lives who could teach them how to really be successful. I'm so glad our boy will be taught what women REALLY want. Niceness, compassion, chivalry. These are dead ideals. Women want to guy who is a jerk and asshole in specific ways. Women want the guy who is selfish. My son w… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 04:53 PM |
| 4 | It's official!I'm going to be taking some classes. I want to be as confident and positive as possible. I've already started looking up pregnancy work outs and diet. So I'm implementing that. The diet and exercise part should be easy. I already make all the food plus it won't be hard to modify my current work out routine once I start showing. Probably hardest part about diet is teaching my man how to make the foods that I'll need. He hasn't cooked for himself in years. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 04:25 PM |
| 2 | It's official!Thankies~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 04:08 PM |
| 2 | It's official!We are not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 04:02 PM |
| 1 | It's official!Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 03:46 PM |
| 11 | It's official!I've been raising children for a while so I think I'm pretty set with that. I've even taken care of infants as a foster mother. I'm more interested in the topics of having a successful pregnancy. Reducing stress as to make my body full prepared for this baby. We only have so many attempts and I want to make sure I'm doing everything right within my control. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | It's official!I will. Thankies~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 03:41 PM |
| 6 | "I grew up firmly believing marriage is a forever thing. Wife has an affair, moves out, and tells me to find another woman to make me happy. So I did. She's now upset that she no longer has enough money to live. Says she's devastated that she lost the person who loved her most in the whole world."I'm absolutely convinced this is the case. My man has always kept "break up" money in the dresser next to the door incase things went south. It's symbolic but very effective. I've learned a lot about what "commitment" really means. Hint, it's just a word. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | It's official!What does that mean? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 03:29 PM |
| 11 | Classic alpha widow ruins their relationship with fiance with a single comment about ex lover.That's a great question. I want to add to Sol_install's answer. How I think about it is that every other woman can offer her body to a man. A good man, a man I'd want, he'd have more options than just me. By the very nature of him being a man I'd desire he has value in so far as many other woman would also desire him. He is special, high quality, rare, so I have to be special as well. You should find a woman who is going to add value to your life outside of mutual sex and reproduction. Because l… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/12/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Noooooo.... Not Picard too!He is a Hollywood actor in the liberal SJW bubble. Nothing to see here. | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/12/18 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Let's have an open realtionshipAm I horrible person for laughing at this woman? What really scares me is how these women so easily justified cheating on their men, as if they have no self control. Ugh. This is why I have a hard time making friends. It's hard to find other women that treat their men right. When I hear this kind of girl talk it literally sickens me. Laughing at her pain makes me feel a bit better though. That may make me a bad person especially since I'm supposedly supposed to be on her side. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/12/18 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Can a woman ever be good?!It depends on what you define as good. I've been with my man 8 years now. He was former MGTOW before meeting me. He is redpilled but allowed me to live with him because I've proven myself to him. Having said that, I'm self identified AWALT. A man can find a woman to add value to his life. They are rarer and rarer but they exist. However the value that she may add does not come without conditions. The value the woman adds is finite and temporary because there are always situations where a woman w… | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/12/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | How to "click" with my Captain in the long term.That's so encouraging thank you. I don't think this will be a problem any time soon. We'll be pretty occupied for at least the next 18 to 25 years~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/18 10:30 PM |
| -1 | How to "click" with my Captain in the long term.I did this for a while but we discovered the conversations seemed forced. I know a lot about what he likes but there is only so much to talk about. Sometimes I listen in to him and his gaming buddies. The difference in enthusiasm is night in day when he talks to them about stuff because he know they genuinlly like what he is talking about. Sometimes when he talks about his games my eyes kind of cross over. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/18 10:10 PM |
| 5 | How to "click" with my Captain in the long term.Aww I like the way your relationships sounds. I think I need to actively look for more friends with women in relationships. I'm thinking about attending some community activities to make more friends. I tried a while back but I didn't really enjoy the company. I think I'll try again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Wall Street Rule for the #MeToo Era: Avoid Women at All Cost - BloombergAsians simply weren't the group targeted by the proven racist government to scapegoat and exploit for profit and political gain. It was easy to exploit blacks off of the wave of racism which fueled things like the drug war, housing and lending discrimination, hiring discrimination. It was profitable for a group of minorities to be targeted and Asians simply got lucky. If the American slave trade took from China or Taiwan and not Africa, Asians would be in the exact same boat. No pun intended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do nice guys consistently lose out to men like this?I like that plan. Only thing I would add is that often even the career women end up with betabux because despite not "needing a man," a person with a second income makes things easier. Especially if the woman plans to have a child. Teaching the dangers of hypergamy is A+. If we do have a daughter that will be priority number 1. She'll need to know that to protect herself and make informed decisions about her actions so she can think about the long term consequences. One thing that I think would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why do nice guys consistently lose out to men like this?I don't know. You are half right I think. Incels definitely have a unique problem in that they can't get any attention at all from any women. They aren't the ones who are too picky. They simply have no options. Girls however, especially growing up within western society, have to deal with the issue of having too much choice which spoils them. Makes it hard for them to recognize a good man when they see one. So you end up having the "where have all the good men gone?" women. Or the "career women"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do nice guys consistently lose out to men like this?Why are you glad that you have daughters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do nice guys consistently lose out to men like this?I wish the Disney fantasy were true, or maybe we created a society where nice men were garenteed a good woman, like the Amish. But that's not the society we live in. Until that happens nice guys will continue to finish last and I won't let that happen to my son. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Why do nice guys consistently lose out to men like this?"? An unkind man does none of things things. If you'd like a deadbeat father go ahead and aim for them "unkind" ones." This actually doesn't make sense. This only makes sense in a world where a man would gain absolutely nothing for providing these things. In the real world a man gains emotional satisfaction from providing for his children and legacy. A man gains benefits from a good woman who provides utility to him in exchange for her support. "And let's hope you find a captain kind enough to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/18 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why do nice guys consistently lose out to men like this?We'll agree to disagree. There is a homeless man that gives away half his income to charity despite being homeless. If kindness was attractive he'd be absolutely swamped by women swooning over him. There is a case of a single man who spends his time taking in and fostering terminally ill children until they die. Since kindness is so attractive and he was on television women should be swooning over him and lining up around the block. Kindness is not attractive. It may not necessarily be unattract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do nice guys consistently lose out to men like this?Oh this is a great question! Watch what we do, not what we say. The easiest answer to the question is that, contrary to how most boys were raised, girls and women don't find the traits of "niceness" to be attractive. It simply isn't. You've been lied to Dear. What women are attracted to are superficial qualities. Confidence, Charisma, good looks, symbols of status. Generally. A woman may like that you are nice in a certain way but it's not the primary reason she likes you. You need to have other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/18 02:25 PM |
| 8 | "My fiancee [25F] revealed that she had sex with 20 people, several orgies, and sex in nightclub toilets before we met. I'm shocked and can't imagine such a person being the mother to my children."I'm thankful that I was raised with these lessons early. I don't know where is be if i wasn't. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/12/18 04:25 PM |
| 3 | OP in /r/relationships thinks that his fiancee's sexual history of having orgies and sex in club toilets is shocking and can't imagine raising kids with her. Comments all shame him for these viewsNever did I claim that N-count has any effect on parenting. I said it has a different effect on a man and woman. I didn't say it effected their ability to be good parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/18 03:35 PM |
| 18 | "My fiancee [25F] revealed that she had sex with 20 people, several orgies, and sex in nightclub toilets before we met. I'm shocked and can't imagine such a person being the mother to my children."Exactly. If you have the option to not be accountable for your choices, have your cake and eat it to, why wouldn't you take that option? It's the easy way. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/12/18 03:19 PM |
| 8 | OP in /r/relationships thinks that his fiancee's sexual history of having orgies and sex in club toilets is shocking and can't imagine raising kids with her. Comments all shame him for these viewsIf you acknowledge that getting something easy has a different effect on a person than working hard for it than we agree. Man have to work hard for sex, women don't. That you know a few "offbeat" men who have high N-counts does not mean they aren't working hard for it. In fact they'd still be working way harder than any woman to get sex. Showing that they have high value on the sexual market place despite you labeling them as "offbeat." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/18 03:17 PM |
| 11 | OP in /r/relationships thinks that his fiancee's sexual history of having orgies and sex in club toilets is shocking and can't imagine raising kids with her. Comments all shame him for these viewsAre you saying that getting something through merit and hard work has no effect on a person than if a different person got it with little to no effort at all? So in your mind climbing mount Everest on your own and taking a helicopter up to the peek of mount Everest are going to have the exact same effect on a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/18 03:07 PM |
| 68 | "My fiancee [25F] revealed that she had sex with 20 people, several orgies, and sex in nightclub toilets before we met. I'm shocked and can't imagine such a person being the mother to my children."It boggles my mind how so many girls don't understand why their sexual past would matter. Honestly if you are wild in the past you should be upfront about it and you should be just as wild if not more so with your current SO. I garentee she isn't as sexually open with her own man as she was with those past ones. She knew it would matter to him which is why she omitted those details. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/12/18 03:05 PM |
| 11 | OP in /r/relationships thinks that his fiancee's sexual history of having orgies and sex in club toilets is shocking and can't imagine raising kids with her. Comments all shame him for these viewsA man attaining sex is EXTREMELY different from a woman attaining sex. It's easy for us. If you don't know that already try online dating. It's very eye opening. What I did was I made a fake Okcupid and tinder profile with a man I deemed a little above average. I included the things I'd like to see in a good man. I got next to nothing. I then made another profile with picture of women I thought were low value. Overweight, single mothers, and made a ton of demands and didn't say anything about wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/18 02:44 PM |
| 2 | I have anxiety due to my ex dating a 21 year old, but I don't know why. (It might have something to do with jealousy)I've posted to r/redpillwomen multiple times. I'm a regular there. If you want some entertainment or just curious you can read through my post history. I don't agree with everything they talk about but I can still identify with a lot of their teachings. They still believe in marriage for one thing. I don't. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/12/18 05:53 PM |
| 6 | I have anxiety due to my ex dating a 21 year old, but I don't know why. (It might have something to do with jealousy)Thankies~ I just subbed. You can read my post history. I've been really delving more in depth into the redpill recently and upping my girl game. Plus reading stuff like this helps keep me humble and realistic so I don't get lazy and complacent. My man is a good man and he deserves someone worthy of him. All these women that don't know how to get a man I kind of feel sad for. Just a little. But then again I don't because it is actually very easy to please a man if you actually care to think about… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/12/18 04:47 PM |
| 6 | I have anxiety due to my ex dating a 21 year old, but I don't know why. (It might have something to do with jealousy)They only do that out of spite. Truth is if she were worth a damn she'd lock you down. I'm very confident that even when I'm 40 and older I'll be able to provide more for my man than any 20 year old. Women that can't will obviously be nervous about their man attracting younger women because they know all they really offer is sex and "companionship." Something which a high quality man can get from most women. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/12/18 03:22 PM |
| 9 | I have anxiety due to my ex dating a 21 year old, but I don't know why. (It might have something to do with jealousy)They try to make it out as if my SO is creepy or abusive because I started dating him when I was 18. They don't realize the underlying sexism of it. It's ironic. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/12/18 02:08 PM |
| 10 | I have anxiety due to my ex dating a 21 year old, but I don't know why. (It might have something to do with jealousy)It took me a while to understand that as the jealousy that it is. My SO is 12 years older than I am and we definitely get looks. Even when I tell some people on reddit our ages they get super annoying about it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/12/18 12:54 PM |
| 6 | I think my Gf has baby fever what to doYou are so silly! She definitely has the fever. What else does she have to do? Hold a baby in front of you and say "I WANT ONE!" Now that you know you have to decide whether you are ready. If she has the fever and you aren't that's going to cause a huge rift. I'd advice talking about this right away. Very few women can find happiness in a relationship when there is a disagreement on marriage and children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Got my kicks on the carousel of dicks, now give me that ring before the final bell ding.Lets be clear. What ever she wants out of men she is going to get regardless of what she says. She could be a convicted serial killer and men will still fall all over her. She has the body and face of a Greek goddess. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/11/18 03:16 PM |
| 0 | How do womanly duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth.He'd take care of me. I'm very confident of that. He'd just find someone else to help with all the other duties he, like he did before I entered the picture. So he'd hire a maid and nanny again, go back to cooking his own meals and doing more carryout. Sexually I would encourage him to find a way to satisfy that as well. Either he goes back to spinning plates or I'd encourage him to buy escorts. He has a high libido. We haven't had the conversation but I KNOW he wouldn't abandon me. But yes, you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/18 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Got banned.What's not perfect about this place? | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/11/18 11:15 PM |
| 4 | [24F] "You have 3 months to propose to me with a better ring than your buddy's fiancée or we're breaking up!"Even if she wasn't snooping this shows her true colors. She needs to apologize really fast. It sounds like she is letting a good man go because she can't control her emotions. I can see this going either way honestly. Giving an ultimatum is a pretty immature shittest. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/11/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How do womanly duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth.Thanks for the detailed response. I'm humbled to have heard so many experiences from so many different women. I'm glad I heard what people are capable of. One thing that stood out to me is someone who assured me that they are capable of taking care of their husband after child birth. At least a few weeks after, or a few months. It's all a matter of putting in the effort. My captain isn't going to stop taking care of me and I'm not going to stop taking care of him. That's one thing I'll avoid. I'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/18 01:03 PM |
| 6 | Sex dolls: a feminist perspectiveFeminism is cancer. Well, at least third wave feminism. It treats men like subhumans and women like actual human beings. The hypocrisy is sickening. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/11/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | How do womanly duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth.What emotional support do you wish he gave you and why did he not give it? Did he refuse after you asked? Did you not ask? Was he not the type to give the kind of support you were looking for? Thanks for sharing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | How do womanly duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth.I thought having biological children was never going to happen with your current boyfriend? Well...things are happening~ I don't want to be too excited until it's official, but things are happening. I think the biggest change is that you have another human being that is your responsibility. You need to care and protect this small thing for basically the rest of it's life. Physical and mental changes are relatively fleeting compared to this. I still want to make sure I'm a good spouse. I want to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 10:08 PM |
| 3 | How do womanly duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth.Thank you so much for this. Flylady system? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 05:30 PM |
| 3 | How do womanly duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth.Wow. That sounds like a lot. I can't wait though. Not that anything is official. Just...crossing fingers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 03:51 PM |
| 3 | How do womanly duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth.I think I have this scewed idea of time directly after giving birth. Am I supposed to be bedwritten for a few weeks or months? It doesn't sound like you were. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 03:40 PM |
| 6 | How do womanly duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth.So making an active effort helped. Also not using the pregnancy as an excuse to over eat or get lazy on the exercise. What about house hold chores. What expectations should we have for that? I do pretty much everything. Our son takes the garbage out and cleans his room and the bathroom, but I do everything else, including making breakfast and dinner. How did you manage those things again? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 03:19 PM |
| 11 | How do womanly duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth.How do you manage meeting your captain's needs despite your lowered sex drive? Especially if you start to feel insecure about yourself? I admittedly have a bit of fear about what child birth will do to my body. I take care of myself. I know my captain values my youth and beauty. It scares me to think that things could change afterwords. On some level I know that if I'm attentative to my man it's very unlikely he'll lose attraction for me but that fear is there. What really hit home was seeing hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 03:01 PM |
| 8 | How do womanly duties change upon pregnancy and childbirth.What advice would you give to your younger self to avoid the rift that grew in your relationship at that point in time? What did you fight about? What was unsatisfying for you and what was unsatisfying for your husband about your relationship? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/18 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Did you guys do anything for your Captain for International Men's day?We didn't either. We don't really "celebrate" holidays like that. My captain doesn't really like trying to go out of our way to do special stuff when we should be doing special stuff or each other every day. But...I like doing stuff like that so I made it a point to do something extra special just because it's something I like and it wouldn't inconvenience him. That's part of my love language that is no pressure on him. He appreciated what I did for him~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Announcing r/AsktheRealMenOh sounds like a lot of fun! I can't wait to engage. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/11/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?That sounds like a lot fun. Admittedly I'm too girly for that stuff too but that's what the man is for. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/11/18 12:45 PM |
| 9 | How could female mods hijack /r/AskMen?Women want to be where men are. It's simply in our nature. We know that we need men. Being aware of this nature is exactly why I have no hard feelings about being banned from page 1 for being a women. Men do need a place where their voice is heard over women, or just where their voice is the only voice. Women have those places and so should men. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/11/18 12:10 PM |
| 4 | What is your opinion about family?I'm very close with my ohana. I guess it just depends on your individual relationship with them. | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/11/18 01:40 AM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?Everyone has a different idea of what is healthy. Ill decide for myself what is best for me. Thanks for your perspective though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What does commitment mean to you?I'm absolutely sure I don't want marriage. Its against my morals. Id never put someone I love in such an unnecessary disadvantaged a compromising position. I do want children though. To be specific I want his children. I still haven't figured that out though. I'm kind of resigned to never having his kids but there is still a part of me that wants it. I'm not getting my hopes up though. I'm trying to focus on being a great mother to our adopted son. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/18 06:32 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?Yep. Most every girl wants to get married. There is no reason not to for most women. Admittedly I did too once upon a time so I understand where You are coming from. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/18 06:24 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?The wedding is just a big glorified party. What's not to get? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/18 05:56 PM |
| 3 | What does commitment mean to you?That's what I'm thinking. I want to have a wedding-like ceremony. I want to participate in the ritual. I want to be a princess for a day. I want to wear the dress~ I'm going to talk to my grandmother about it. She is more traditionally conservative. She is the person I've modeled myself after. She is married but she married in a time where marriage vows meant something. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/18 05:23 PM |
| 4 | What does commitment mean to you?I don't want to marry him. Marriage is more than just commitment. Marriage is "till death do us part no matter what." If you can think of a scenario where you would leave you shouldn't get married. Honestly, if a guy you were thinking about marrying asked me whether or not to marry you I'd heavily advise against it. Marriage is eternal and unconditional. If you don't believe that then don't get married. Just be together. But I realize that marriage is a dead concept. People don't really take mar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What does commitment mean to you?Not bio children no. He has an adopted son who calls me mother. I've commited to being a mother to who I consider to be my son as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/18 12:17 AM |
| 5 | What does commitment mean to you?Definitely something I'll be considering. Thanks for the in depth explanation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 07:35 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?So to you commitment isn't eternal. It's a thing to constantly strive for but is ultimately subject to failure. That's the mindset I'm trying to overcome. I've grown up believing that marriage is eternal and that those who get divorced were simply not commited enough. I'm starting to realize that commitment simply is not eternal, neither is marriage. It would be nicce if it was, but it's not. We can work for it, try our hardest, but push comes to shove there is always something that would make u… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 07:14 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?Yes, I know it's traditional for men to propose to woman but I'm asking why this tradition is redpilled. Not every tradition is redpilled. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 07:08 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?I'm confused as to why a proposal is taking the lead. It's simply asking a question. Let me try to put this another way. If I ask my man would he like me to cook dinner for him tonight or order out, am I taking the lead away from him because I'm asking him a question? What about the proposal is about leadership? I mean, ultimately if he proposes to me I'm the one who actually decides. Is that not leadership? I'm seeing a disconnect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 07:05 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?"I see these as two different things. People were getting married by their pastor LONG before the State started handing out licenses. If you don’t want marriage but some other type of commitment then I can’t help because it is outside of my knowledge/experience." It's purely the legal aspect he doesn't want. So that's why I've looked up non-legal ways to commit to each other. I don't want to get legally married to him. I've been looking around about the legality of marriage without the law sanct… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 06:50 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)No I didn't. I never claimed to want marriage. You simply didn't read very closely. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 06:47 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?No one "needs" a big ceremony. That's a very demanding way to go about it. I have desires and those desires deserve to be considered, not met. Also I'm still wondering why it isn't a girl's place to propose. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 06:47 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?This is a hindsight position and an unfalsifiable claim. You are basically saying "most people who divorce weren't REALLY committed to each other even though they said and thought they were." How can you falsify this claim? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 06:45 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?I think my problem with this is that even if you can right now, while in love, imagine yourself sticking through thick and thin, a lot of people, despite that imagining, simply don't. That's the reality I'm having trouble with. We can use all the words and afermations we want but in the right situation all of that falls apart. Or you get stuck in a marriage where you cannot bring yourself to love your partner for whatever reason. Lets use the extreme example that your spouse starts to molest you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)What I want isn't marriage really. What I want is the wedding. To a be the center of attention and a "princess" for a day. To be looked on with awe and envy and for people to look on and say to themselves "those two are so lucky to have each other." Marriage I'm not interested in. And FYI, gays can marry in a lot more states. If I remember the whole Kim Davis debacle was because two men wanted desperately to formalize their devotion to one another. Enough so, that they ran against her and beat h… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 05:29 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?I think this may be a "nice" thing to think right now, in the moment, but I seriously doubt you'd follow through with forcing yourself to be lonely forever because of the behavior of your husband. There would be dozens if not hundreds of ways for you to rationalize seeing someone else. Especially if you tell your story to others. I doubt anyone would support your decision to remain committed to your abusive husband in that situation. The fact that you think that is how you'd behave right now is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 04:37 PM |
| 3 | What does commitment mean to you?D'awww thanks~ I'm glad to see how listening to me more and more has changed your opinion about our relationship. That really humbles me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 04:28 PM |
| 3 | What does commitment mean to you?I'm always looking for ways to improve. I don't just accept anything. I do that in every aspect of my life. I don't accept that my cooking is good, I want to make it better. I don't accept that I had a good work out, I want to make it better. I don't accept that our son has straight A's, I want to push him to be as best as he can be. I bring that same energy to our relationship. But I make sure to taper that energy as well and think about anything I think would be too much. I have no interest in… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?Some people would call you insane and misguided for your belief, in that level of commitment. Staying married even if your husband started to molest your kids. I don't think many here or anywhere would ascribe to that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 04:24 PM |
| 3 | What does commitment mean to you?I'm interested why you believe that it is not the woman's role? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What does commitment mean to you?Every thread ever. No thread supports staying with a man the woman cannot respect, especially when the man refuses to change. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)The thing it's been 7 years! 7 years! And you are still just a bed mate. You can CALL yourself a partner that doesn't make you on. 7 years is a long time to not get a ring. 7 years is long time to get nothing more than live in sex. You believe that the only thing that makes two people partners is the ring? I'm asking this seriously. So gay couples who couldn't get married, they weren't partners? What makes the ring so special? What quality does "having the ring" give that those without the ring … | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 04:20 PM |
| 5 | What does commitment mean to you?I get what you're saying but "others have failed, so will I" will only become a self-fulfilling prophecy. This isn't my mindset. My mindset is "the vast majority of people who gamble at the casino lose. I'm very likely to lose as well. I should behave accordingly and temper my expectations, and set proper limits for myself. But still go play because I might win." That would be the better comparison. It isn't as black and white as you make it out to be. I'm sure if you made a "how to stay committ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 04:17 PM |
| 3 | What does commitment mean to you?This was a lot to take in and a very different perspective from most. I'm intriqued that you feel there is no better man out there for you. Others would disagree. Thanks for your perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 04:12 PM |
| 3 | What does commitment mean to you?If I were you, I would instead bring him the ideal that you would like to have a celebration of your love! A formal dinner/party where friends and family can stand as witnesses to your commitment to each other for example. This is exactly the type of thing I'm talking about doing actually. I just don't want to bring it up in a high pressure or disrespectful way. I want to propose a sort of non-legal marriages which would be a public celebration of our commitment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)A strong woman knows her worth. She is a wife, not a chattel, not a real live sex doll for a man who is indifferent to her. Agreed. That's one of the few things that make a strong woman. A strong woman isn't so scared of being abandoned that she settles for a life of pain and disappointment. Yep, we agree. A strong woman doesn't commit to a man until he has fully committed to her. A strong woman gets a ring on her finger, not a spot on the bed. This is pure conjecture and where we disagree. You … | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What does commitment mean to you?I'm seeing that there is a lack of information that is making people give advice that is not relevant to me. So I'll clarify. We've already had that talk multiple times. Before I moved in with him he made it clear exactly the type of relationship he wanted. That is without marriage and without me being legally bound to him. I agreed to that and other things that we tallked at length about. And then I moved in with him. I don't want to marry him and legally bind myself to him. I want to announce … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 04:01 PM |
| 4 | What does commitment mean to you?I think it would be a mistake to ignore the experience of others as a guide and reference for my own decision making. It's not about what I think NOW, it's about what I may think later. Just aknowledging the possibily of how the human mind changes is a big red pill. Saying something along the lines of "just stay commited!" isn't really that helpful when so many have tried just that and failed because they saw the commitment they made in the past as not worth upholding. It's like saying "don't ev… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 03:56 PM |
| 3 | What does commitment mean to you?I'm starting to realize that more and more. Really has me rethinking the idea of commitment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 03:27 PM |
| 6 | What does commitment mean to you?I want to take the time to thank you for the detailed response. I'll do my best to answer all of your questions and engage. The man should propose to you. Set up a conversation where you guys can talk about "your future". Before you do this, take a good, long look at yourself. A really good, long look and ask yourself what do you really want. This is the most important part. BE WILLING TO WALK AWAY FOREVER if the commitment conversation doesn't go the right way. 7 years is a long time to be toge… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 03:24 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)You simply don't realize your views about women. You are not strong. You do think women are weak. I am a strong black women who is responsible enough to make her own decisions and live with the consequences, good or bad, of those decisions. You don't think women can. Don't project your internalized self hatred onto others. NOt all women are as weak as you. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 03:14 PM |
| 2 | What does commitment mean to you?I'm not sure I understand the question. Are you suggesting that my proposing to him would be me not honoring his place as a leader? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 03:12 PM |
| 17 | What does commitment mean to you?I appreciate more and more that my man has an exit strategy for if things don't work out between him and I. I'm trying to rationalize having an exit strategy while also proclaiming commitment. To me commitment truly is a "no matter what," kind of thing but I think I'm starting to realize that that may be naive. I took the red pill about love. Love isn't eternal and unconditional. Love is temporary and very conditional. That was an extremely hard pill to swallow. I think I need to take the red pi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/18 02:11 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)I feel sad for you. Thinking all your life that women are weak and inferior. Anyways good luck hun. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)I didn't read past your first sexist and demeaning sentence. I don't really know why you hate your own gender so much. Please seek therapy. You have a lot of internalized misogyny. Say it with me, "I am a person, I am not an animal, I am not a child. I am capable of making my own decisions and being responsible for the consequences of my actions." Please seek therapy Darling. You aren't a child. You are a strong person. I don't know who terrorized you into believing otherwise but they are wrong.… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 01:36 PM |
| 0 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Please seak therapy for how little you think of women. Your sexism is disturbing. Women are people. They have feelings, thoughts, and most important of all, free will. We aren't animals or beasts. Please seek help. I'll pray for you. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 01:06 PM |
| 11 | N-countAbsolutely not. He was spinning plates when I met him. Very sexually experienced. Why do you ask? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/18 09:43 PM |
| 18 | N-countI couldn't agree more. When I first met my Captain he told me pretty much outright that he wasn't looking for anything serious because I wasn't a virgin. I got him anyway but the beginning of our relationship there was definitely a judgment based on my past sexual history. It matters. Even it it doesn't seem fair, it matters. Even though it matters it doesn't mean you can't get a good man. You may just have to work a little harder. N-count matters, age matters, beauty matters. It may seem unfair… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/18 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Job SearchingIt's hard for me to understand why people would choose to climb the corporate ladder when they have the option to be stay-at-home parents. If you guys had the option to stay at home, tend to the house, and maybe watch the kids, would you do that over pursuing a career? What's the appeal of a career in corporate America/EU? | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/11/18 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Update! How do I approach my Captain about exploring some new weird sexual adventures?Thankies~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/18 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on letting your guy pick (or have a say in) your outfits?Almost all my clothes at this point were chosen with his opinion in mind. A few outfit I have because I know his tastes but everything I wear is with his taste in mind. He loves it. It also helps that I know he has a clothing fetish and it's an easy way to get him riled up~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/18 04:31 PM |
| 4 | Just discovered this placeWelcome! | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/11/18 01:10 PM |
| 6 | Just got banned from page 1Congrats! Was banned for being a woman. Though I understand why! Still, welcome to the club! | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/11/18 09:45 AM |
| 6 | My thoughts on the walkout at Google protesting alleged sexual harassment of women there.I almost ashamed that I ever voted democrat. How could I have known they care so little about us? If only I'd seen that Malcolm X clip a little sooner. Also, Hey gurl~ | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/11/18 09:44 AM |
| 12 | (35M) My fiancee of 3 years (33F) hid her past in sex work from me. We waited until we were serious to have sex. This gave me the misimpression she viewed intimacy a certain way. Now I feel like a dunce and tempted to call of the wedding.The dishonestly alone should be grounds for rethinking the entire wedding. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/10/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach my Captain about exploring some new weird sexual adventures?I just realized that I actually know a lot about my man's kinks based on our past discussions and online activity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/18 11:50 AM |
| 3 | How do I approach my Captain about exploring some new weird sexual adventures?I will update. I'm going to be taking it slow | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/18 08:35 PM |
| 3 | How do I approach my Captain about exploring some new weird sexual adventures?Wow your relationship sounds so nice. We aren't actors but I think is like to try that. I'm going to put the idea out there slowly | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/18 05:07 PM |
| 3 | How do I approach my Captain about exploring some new weird sexual adventures?The rape fantasy part isn't really what I'm worried about. It's the abuse fantasy regarding the argument we had. It's more of fantasizing about him losing his temper. The rape fantasy is more of a biproduct. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/18 12:58 PM |
| 9 | How do I approach my Captain about exploring some new weird sexual adventures?Just hearing that it's not so uncommon from another person helps a lot. I think I've been so immersed in my relationship I've been devoid of outside perspective of other people's real sexual lives. Outside of what's on tv. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/18 12:51 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?I don't remember when we stopped eating meat, I think it was more of a slow transition. We don't do cereal very often. That's more of a treat. Breakfast is usefully oatmeal, eggs, and some fruits and veggies. A bit of a protein shakes, no sugar in that besides the fruit. It's our little man's favorite. I try to spice up breakfast. We eat only two meals a day to cut on calories. They are usually pretty starving by dinner time~ | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/10/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?I can really relate to that. I tried a few different diets, one with no sugar was pretty hard even though I tried to change up the meals. It was fun while it lasted. Another hard one is when we tried to go vegan. That lasted for a while but giving up eggs is just too much. So it's vegetarian for now and we are back to eating sugar. Next to no bread however, no rice. Still pasta. Though I make the pasta myself. Nothing with added sugar. I monitor our sugar intake. We pretty much only drink water.… | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/10/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?Are you doing keto right now? I'm not on any particular diet besides vegetarian. Of course I work out each day but I don't have to worry about alcohol in my diet. We don't keep it in the house. | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/10/18 08:23 PM |
| 2 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?I have no idea drinking her liquor was lower on carbs than beer. | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/10/18 08:13 PM |
| 2 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?Oh Whiskey. I could never get used to the taste. I'm a bit of a girly girl when it comes to drinks. Though I don't drink often. | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/10/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | “You know how to make a man feel loved”The fastest way to a man's heart~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | My Captain told me that I will forever have a place in his heart.D'awww. So cute. Especially coming from his parents. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?I'm am self identified AWALT. Thanks for giving me some of your time~ | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/10/18 12:59 AM |
| 2 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?I love the fanfiction media because I think it allows for creativity without having to be a trained writer. It also allows for a lot of growth. Pretty much everyone can find an audience no matter what level of writer you are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?Yes I write though I'm not a novelist or anything like that. Just in my spare time for my own entertainment and a few of my online followers. I used to write fanfiction now I'm writing my own original story. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?Writing like I mentioned. I have to finish up dinner of course but that's not special. Listening to audio books in bed? How does that work? | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/10/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?That's great! I might actually look her up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?It sounds like he knows what he wants! Glad to see you are adapting. Does he like your recipe or are you still experimenting? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/18 07:00 PM |
| 2 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?Oh the chat! How do I get access to that? I think it's fantastic that you take the time to read with your not quite son (if I remember correctly, he's your boyfriend's adopted son?). Yes, though still my little man~ What remodeling are you going to do specifically? Have you purchased the stove yet? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/18 06:31 PM |
| 2 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?Oh my god that is so cool! Do you have pictures~ I don't know that I'm writing a book necessarily. It's a story that just continues which I write on and off In my spare time. It's a romance fantasy. I share it online but always anonymously. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?You are so silly~ I've thought a lot about those things as well. I don't know if I'd be able to write about them though. | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/10/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?Congrats on the new position! | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/10/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?I get along with MGTOW men so I lurk here and other redpill places~ | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/10/18 05:41 PM |
| 2 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?I have a lot of questions if you don't mind~ Which series are you catching up on? Why do you journal and what about? What is going on at work that is going to make this week rough? | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/10/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?Yes there is~ What do you write about? | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/10/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | So what have you all done or plan on doing this weekend?It's a cheesy romance. I'd too embarrassed to talk about it. Romance fantasy. I do it just for me. I share it online in certain communities but always anonymously. That's a bummer about your phone. Hopefully things get back to normal soon for you. | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/10/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | My Captain told me that I will forever have a place in his heart.Thankies~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/18 05:09 AM |
| 6 | My Captain told me that I will forever have a place in his heart.Exactly. My man is so self reliant. He is a rock. I'm glad he has been my rock all these years. It humbles me. I know he doesn't need me but it feels good to know that I bring so much value to his life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/18 11:27 AM |
| 7 | My Captain told me that I will forever have a place in his heart.It's something I'll never forget. The feeling is beyond words. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/18 09:00 PM |
| 6 | My Captain told me that I will forever have a place in his heart.^ _ ^ | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/18 08:33 PM |
| 0 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?Yea I agree. Many here can't tolerate contradicting view points. I still find a way to get along with those that are open minded. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/18 05:01 AM |
| 0 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?How was I supposed to you know'd already read it? Especially since you STILL haven't given a reply or rebuttal to the comment or the link I posted. All you've said basically is "I'm not convinced." But you'd said nothing against the facts I've presented. You are dogmatic. This is why I don't like arguing with people over the internet. (And also in real life) It's pointless. Like arguing with the religious. You've already made up your mind. You asked me why I think Marriage is a trap and I answer… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)That makes sense. I don't think my self improvement is too hard but I think it is hard. Human nature isn't something that is so easily conquered and controlled, especially when society at large supports a woman who gives into her gynocentric tendensies and even encourages it. I think I've done really REALLY well for myself given my own nature. I honestly don't think I could do much better. The only thing I have to worry about now is my future, making sure I stay along the path. I'm as healthy an… | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/09/18 04:11 PM |
| -1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?Ah so you had no interest in opening your mind or reading the link I added. And the fact that you replied to me in the thread instead of in PM's shows your true intentions. Anyway, I didn't come to argue about marriage in a place where the goal is marriage. Just like I'm not going to go to a Christian forum and argue about the existence of God. I asked my question and I got my answer. Thanks for participating though. Well, I mostly give thanks to those that answered my question. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/18 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Blaming my female nature on what? I'm confused. What do you think I'm not taking responsibility for? I'm actively seeking advice on my journey of constant self improvement, coming to eye opening realizations along the way. Is self improvement and accepting reality bad in your eyes? What would you suggest as an alternative? | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/09/18 12:16 PM |
| -1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?It only sounds closeminded because you haven't heard the facts and stories about the biases and unjust laws. But if you are open minded allow me to educate you. I'll do it in PM's. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)I didn't say women were incapable of selfless love. I said we are incapable of eternal and unconditional love. And there is an abundance of evidence that proves that. What we call "love" today is not the love we were taught that existed as children. Our "love" today seems more like glorified prostitution. Where you only stay infatuated with a person as long as they are useful to you, as long as it's convenient. Most relationship built around love end for financial reasons. I don't consider that … | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/09/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | On going back to school, Post Red-Pill:According to Bad Pop age 35 for a man is when the big head overpowers the little head. | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/09/18 12:16 AM |
| -1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?Marriage in American isn't just an official frame for a long term committed relationship. Marriage is a legal arrangement, an insurance policy and a way for the government to extract money from the richer party to redistribute it to the poorer party without care for what's good for the FAMILY. Go watch a divorce court for just one day. Marriage is an insurance policy in our current legal climate. Judges rip families apart and take away custody from good, law abiding men and make them pay alimony… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/18 12:06 AM |
| -2 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?I wish that was how the sub actually was but most would assert that my relationship isn't commited simply because I refuse the trap, in my mind, of marriage. As if my relationship is somehow less than theirs. That's the kind of close mindedness I'm trying to encounter less of. If you think marriage is your path, then sure go for it, if it's right for you. You have your reasons. I take a different path to commitment and I have my reasons. Both seeking the same goal. But some have even gone as far… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?I'll reply to you through PMs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?That's really good advice. I think I have that relationship with my grandparents. Also my SO's sister. Maybe I should just focus on appreciate the relationships I already have instead of trying to actively seek out more. Try to strengthen my bonds with those already close to me. Another great option. Thanks again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?I'm not uncomfortable with other people taking a vow they can break at any time. I'm uncomfortable with other people insisting that my relationship is not as committed as theirs because they took a vow they can break at any time. Especially when we all have the same REAL goal. To maintain a long term, healthy, committed, happy relationship. My Captain has fostered dozens of children and we continue to do so till this day. He has a stable income and could retire today if he wanted. He is a law ab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?I don't participate in those threads. I'm just subscribed here so if I'm scanning through, that's what I see a lot. A lot of it is from the perspective of Wife and "my husband." Or "how do I vet a man for marriage." "Is this man marriage material." It's mostly marriage related even if it's just about dating. Because most here want the end goal to be marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?It comes up a lot. Especially in my real life. We're black. We spend a lot time around other black people. They are VERY judgmental. I don't know if it's the case for other races or cultures, but it is for this one. Especially since we aren't religious. Most black people are Christian. Especially black women. Many are devout christians. Couple the fact that I'm not the most articulate speaker in public. Sometimes I ramble when I get the chance. So I get judged a lot. Less so now than before, but… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?Yes which is why I post and comment here even though many here are actively hostile to me. I'm learning to filter out the stuff that I don't like or isn't relative to me. But I still just wanted to see if there was actually a community that was more fitted to me. I think everyone wants to find a community that most closely aligns to their beliefs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?All good ideas. I've had bad experiences in the past that have put me off trying again but I'll look into putting in another effort. If it doesn't work out then, well, it was worth a try. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 01:43 PM |
| 0 | I hope this question isn't too offensive. Just seeing what advice I can get. Are there any redpill subs for women that don't advocate for marriage?Wow, I guess not everyone is decent. Proving my point. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/18 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?Isn't a woman's relationship to God the highest form of commitment? And everything you said definitely makes sense. I'm going to seriously consider attending church and limiting the info I share based on where I am to fit in more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?Well for one we don't have weddings rings. That's a pretty big redflag. Also our adopted son looks nothing like us. Also we don't refer to each other as husband and wife in public, because we aren't. People are smart enough to figure it out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | I hope this question isn't too offensive. Just seeing what advice I can get. Are there any redpill subs for women that don't advocate for marriage?I already found a few nice and kind individuals here who pm'ed me because they were able to look past our differences in our viewpoints on marriage and actually give me sound advice. Sorry you aren't willing to be one of them. I'm still open if you want to pm in have a friendly chat~ | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?If you want to discuss my personal reasons for being anti-marriage then go ahead and send me a pm. I'm having some good conversations. This is why I post here. Lots of nice people once we get passed the marriage bit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I hope this question isn't too offensive. Just seeing what advice I can get. Are there any redpill subs for women that don't advocate for marriage?That's what I'm thinking. I'm going to rethink how I present myself online. Also having to only show aspects of myself doesn't actually sound too bad when I start to think about it. It makes me value that much more the fact that I can be 100% of myself around my Captain. Like a special thing we have together. Thanks so much! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/18 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?I'm not sure. I'll try to leave it off more. Though my main point is I want a community who I can talk freely with and where over 90 percent of the conversation isn't something like "in what ways in your marriage awesome! Why are you glad you got married? ISN'T MARRIAGE AMAZING!?" So you kind of get my dilemma~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 01:12 PM |
| 1 | I hope this question isn't too offensive. Just seeing what advice I can get. Are there any redpill subs for women that don't advocate for marriage?If you want to discuss that I'll do so in PM. I want to really avoid discussing that in the thread as to not derail the advice I'm looking for in this particular thread. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/18 01:07 PM |
| -3 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?Or avoid that group like I have been. Or make my own. Lots of options. I still watch this sub regularly. I just choose to comment infrequently relative to other subs. I'm still subscribed and the advice I've gotten here has been useful. So it's not a complete wash. Maybe I can attend church alone as to not cause my SO a headache. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 01:02 PM |
| 2 | I hope this question isn't too offensive. Just seeing what advice I can get. Are there any redpill subs for women that don't advocate for marriage?Maybe it's the way I talk. When I explain a situation, or a problem, or an event I typically put in a lot of details that may not be relevent. Like when I bring up our son I always mention he is adopted. I think it's relevent, but maybe not so much. But again, that sounds like tip toeing. Maybe if I change the way I speak? I don't know. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/18 12:58 PM |
| -1 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?Well when people ask me "why aren't you married?" I tend to answer honestly. What should my response be when people ask me that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 12:57 PM |
| -2 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?It's hard to talk about my relationship without bringing up the fact that we aren't married. Also I want to be around likeminded people. If I have to tip toe around that very important fact that will be a negative experience for me and make me not want to participate in that community. Case and point, I actually post and comment more on the MGTOW sub than I do this sub. Check my history. I do that because I gravitate naturally towards those who are more likeminded. Plus I try not to actively be … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 12:55 PM |
| 1 | I hope this question isn't too offensive. Just seeing what advice I can get. Are there any redpill subs for women that don't advocate for marriage?That's what we were thinking but we are anti-marriage and athiest. It's probably going to bring some confrontation that my SO isn't open to. Again, he is perfectly content. I don't want to bring extra negativity into his life just for the sake of satisfying my social desires. That's why I'm looking for more niche communities that I can participate in myself. We pursue our own hobbies and I'm looking to have a community of my own that he will approve of but also won't cause him a headache. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/18 12:51 PM |
| -5 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?sigh | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 12:49 PM |
| 1 | I hope this question isn't too offensive. Just seeing what advice I can get. Are there any redpill subs for women that don't advocate for marriage?The problem is that anytime I talk about our relationship the subject eventually comes up. Most of the time simply by someone asking "when are you getting married?" or the common "why aren't you married? You have a child together!" So the subject is kind of unavoidable for people who value marriage. I have more in common with the redpill community than any other community that isn't within my hobby. Reading and writing. But when talking about the every day of our lives there isn't really a good … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/18 12:48 PM |
| -6 | Are there any redpill subs for women that doesn't advocate for marriage?Hm...so...lying. I don't know how I feel about that. Our relationship is built on honestly. Compromising the foundation of honesty and openness we've built for the sake of others doesn't seem right. Thanks for the suggestion though. I'll at least bring it up to my Captain. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/18 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Thanks Dear. Though I'm self identified AWALT. I'm glad I believe these things right now but everything is good right now. Our relationship haven't truly been tested. But I'll try to stay vigilant. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/08/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Well my SO lived next to a college so maybe you could do that. I know a lot of college girls party but many haven't yet. You may be able able to catch a freshman before they hop on the carosel. I'd already met my SO online before I got to college so I didn't ever get into the party scene because of his beliefs. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 11:16 AM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Ah, I agree with that. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/08/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)What would my post have to sound like in order to convince you that I cared about him? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Thanks for your perspective. You believe that people love unconditionally and eternally? If that's the case why do you think over 80% of women divorce their husbands if the husband goes to jail? "Only as long as you stay out of jail" seems like a condition to me. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)That makes sense to me. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)I think I know what you mean. I think I am very lucky myself. So the person I lost my virginity to was a boy in pretty much every aspect, even sexually. I feel like I lucked out by having the reverse experience of an alpha widow. My first time was so bad that when I met my SO, who was much much experienced, he kind of...blew my mind~ I don't know if there is a term for that. But my SO showed me what it was like to have sex with a man. I forget, are you currently with someone? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 10:46 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Are you anti-porn as a Christian? Is that a Christian thing or does it vary? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Silly~ | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Well you could find someone younger. My SO got me when I was 18. I'd only had one before him and it was a horrible and awkward experience with another virgin. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 09:29 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)I'd never dream of sleeping with anyone else. That would be relationship suicide. Now I've mulled over the idea of how I'd feel if he came to me representing the desire to sleep with other women. I know he'd ask me first. He tells me everything. I know that even if he does that, as long as I'm a good spouse, he'll comeback to me, I know he'll keep loving me because men love differently. What advice would you give were that day to come? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)All good points. I'm not going to argue you on the sex part. I definitely agree that sexual benefit is mutual. I would like to run an idea by you, tell me what you think. According to RP theory women have very easy access to sex, even from high value man. It's generally accepted that women can get pretty much most men, even men much higher in SMV, to have sex with her by simply being available. It may not allow her to lock him down, but at least she does get sex pretty much when she wants. It's … | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/18 09:08 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Thanks again for this. What biblical views do you follow that is counter to TRP? We aren't religious but we still learn from them. For example we model certain aspects of our relationship after the Amish. They have really low divorce rates because of the social environment they are in and the anti-gynocentric rules they follow. Also those that attend church regularly have much lower divorce rates than those that don't. I try to mimic that by getting involved with various Redpill communities. Tho… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)From my small understanding of economics, when something is useful but rare, it becomes more valuable. You are right, I shouldn't nag. Women do it anyway. Shouldn't that have some value that I don't? I mean, what are you chances of finding that? I shouldn't deadbedroom my man, women do it anyway. No value there for satisfying his EVERY sexual desire? Even when it doesn't always involve satisfying my own sexual desire. (Morning bj's, etc.) Yes he can cook and clean for himself and he did it befor… | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Thanks for this. Yes we are completely in harmony. I think our little man is going to do big things. He's already excelling in a lot of areas~ We are trying to keep him active but not pressure him. If he says he wants to do something we help him stick to it but we try not to pressure him to do something he isn't interested in. I was leaning that way at first. I really wanted him to learn to play the cello but he wasn't really enjoying it so we pulled him out of the class. I really like the sound… | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Maybe you're right. How much do you think being a permanent maid, cook, and nanny is worth? What about never nagging? That's got to be worth something? What dollar value would you give that? | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Low skilled? No woman is going to do for him in bed what I do hun~ Besides that I agree with what you are saying for the most part. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Thanks for taking the time to write this, what do you expect out of the women you seek, knowing their true nature? Would you marry? Bare biological children with them under the heal of our gynocentric laws? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)I wonder if you notice the irony. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)I would say very confidently that rhythm is a big part of our culture so most black people have rhythm~ He is in karate class right now. And he plays sports. I'll discuss dance classes with my SO. Thanks again! | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Thank you so much. This was so helpful and encouraging~ Why particularly do you enjoy dance or think that it's great for a children to learn as a skill. We are black so obviously we know how to dance in general. But you think we should give him dance lessons? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)I've heard that from many blue pillers who don't respect a woman's ability to make adult decisions about her own life direction. I ignore such blatant sexism. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)So are you saying that leadership cannot be taught? Or that leadership cannot be taught by me? What about his father? What if I just gradually explain to him the dynamic of his father and I's relationship? I think we provide a very good example of his father's leadership. What he says goes, we never argue, I even ask his permission to get up from the dinner table. Are things like that not going to teach him his value and how to lead respectfully. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Oh and I forgot to answer your second question. I say he purple pilled me because at the beginning he introduced me to Redpill concepts. I just didn't accept them all. That's why I say I was purple pilled. I knew of redpill theories I just didn't accept most of them. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)That's not the love we were taught to believe and it's not the love we grew up with. Love is unconditional, through thick and thin. It's not "as long as that person keeps a job or is always strong." You love a person for who they are, not what they do or what they have. That's why love last eternally. That's why you can love an ugly person, or a homeless man, or someone who is socially awkward, or someone who has fallen ill. The love you are talking about is the type of affection that really exi… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Even if he listens and obeys, he's still in your frame. What do you mean by this? What about my frame is stopping him from being able to accept the truth? Can I change my frame? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Confront? I'm a little confused. What exactly do you think I need to confront him about? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)I've been part of that sub for years. They don't believe in AWALT. And they definitely don't believe that women can't love. They are all about female sexual strategy. They don't really care about men, even though they've convinced themselves that they do. They are even pro marriage. They maintain the same narrative as the rest of society. They just learned how to more rig the game in the favor of women. I minds well post to r/relationships or r/thebluepill on this topic. I'd get the same respons… | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Good advice. What would putting on a jacket look like in terms of accepting that I can't experience "true" love? I don't think that's really a subject any one talks about. Society at large is blue pilled. Even red pilled women still believe in true love. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:37 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)How I see it is that I'm acknowledging I'm human and as a human being I'm capable of anything. I'm not a god that's immune to the behaviors that MILLIONS of other women have been subject to. I can assure you I love him more than anything. Though I'm not really here to convince you of that~ As for the type of man? My man. He is very honest and upfront about his thoughts and feelings. I moved into his house. He wanted to make sure I knew EXACTLY what I was getting into by accepting his conditions … | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Oh? Why do you say that? A lot of MGTOW have children, boys, and are forced to live in our gynocentric society even if they "check out." You don't think this topic is relevant to them? | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | A woman can't have it all and can't do it all.Is this woman Carmen Sandiego!? | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/08/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | A woman can't have it all and can't do it all.Can you tell me your story of family court. I like surrounding myself with people that have had these experiences, it grounds me and reminds me of my power and how easy it would be to act on my hypergamy. Knowing how messed up the whole system is helps me keep my own hypergamy in check. I know I'm doing the right thing because I'm constantly reminded of the consequences were I to slip. Cats, loneliness, depression, obesity. A redpill a day~ | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/08/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | A woman can't have it all and can't do it all.Well the fact that you got divorced 3 times to these older women you claim to get along with better doesn't really instill a lot of confidence in me~ Just based on your experience alone I'd say that simply being in the same age category doesn't make you compatible. I could be wrong though! There is a reason you are MGTOW. Doesn't seem like any age category is worth the risk for you and no woman regardless of age is a great match. Which makes sense. Again, I'm not afraid personally of not being a… | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/08/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | How to talk through his "justifications"?Why is this just an issue right now? Did he develop this trait or did he always have it and you simply ignored it until now? What things does he justify that you think he shouldn't? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/18 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Not a unicorn I thinkMmk. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/08/18 01:57 AM |
| 1 | A woman can't have it all and can't do it all.This makes a lot of since. Not having alimony be for life and having a cap on child support that is based on what the child needs, not the lifestyle that the woman wants. I don't want to get into the universal basic income argument. I'd like that but I don't know enough about it to really argue it. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/08/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | A woman can't have it all and can't do it all.You can look them up on Youtube. I first heard about them from the movie "The red pill." Me and my SO watched it together. HIGHLY recommended. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/08/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | A woman can't have it all and can't do it all.I'm at least an 8~ 5'4 120 pounds. I work out regularly. Also I haven't had kids and we don't plan to my body won't get damaged by pregnancy and child birth. I don't drink regularly. Only every few months at social events. No cigarettes, no drugs. We are vegetarian. (We cheat sometimes but usually only during family gatherings like thanksgiving and Christmas. We are black. No avoiding all the meat at those times). I also have big poofy hair, just the way he likes it. Hence my username. Before I … | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/08/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | A woman can't have it all and can't do it all.Why do I think my relationship will hit the skids? Short answer, I don't. I'm a good mother, and a good spouse. I don't plan on ever leaving my SO. But remember, his is former MGTOW and I am a woman subject to hypergamy. We've built our entire relationship on foresight, planning for the future. It's why we aren't getting married. I don't think our relationship is likely to fail but most people underestimate the chance that their relationship fails. Also he doesn't tolerate bullshit. If I go full… | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/08/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | A woman can't have it all and can't do it all.Exactly! I was considering crossposting this to r/redpillwomen and r/redpillwives but they are pro marriage and pro alimony. I know exactly what they'll say. They'll defend alimony and say something along the lines of "she gave up her best years to raise his children and gave up the ability to have a career, so she deserves half of his income for her investment into his kids." Yet they completely ignore a man's investment. Instead of keeping all his money to himself and keeping his time for hims… | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/08/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | A woman can't have it all and can't do it all.Thanks for the answer. What do you think would be more fair instead of having alimony? Alimony, child support, I don't think these things are fair at all. The woman, (typically) is being compensated for a service she is no longer providing after they get divorced. While I'm with my man I have access to his income. It makes sense that while I'm with him I can incure up to 50 percent of his income. ( I don't because he makes really good money, but you get my point.) I garentee that a lot of women … | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/08/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Not a unicorn I thinkThank you Dear. I hope you find your happiness and passion, regardless of whether you choose to spend your life with a woman. My man was happy for years without me in his life. He was already fostering and on the path to adoption. I'm just the cherry on top but he was fulfilled without me. You can be too. If you do seek women, remember AWALT ALWAYS applies. Woman are people, we are human, flawed and selfish. Just protect yourself dear and live a life you can enjoy and be proud of. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/08/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Not a unicorn I thinkI'm a self identified AWALT. I believe that under the right circumstances I'm capable of hypergamy just like any other woman. What he and I have done is formed a type of relationship where we have, as best as possible, removed temptation from me and made it so there would be very harsh consequences for me acting on my hypergamy, and very little reward if I were to do it. Given the right situation I'm sure I'm capable of cheating. Any human being is. I don't think I'd ever do that to my man but w… | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/08/18 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Not a unicorn I thinkDo you think that there aren't woman out there who do those but then years later divorce their men or cheat on them? It's telling that you didn't mention "loyalty" or "won't divorce me" or "won't cheat on me." Why are your standards so low? If you do want a woman who is loyal, who will never cheat and will never divorce, and who will always be the woman you can be happy with, how would you identify her and not be tricked by a chameleon like thousands of men are every year? I'd really like to kno… | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/08/18 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Not a unicorn I thinkCan you define a unicorn? | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/08/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone a patron of MisandryToday?Thanks for the warning. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/08/18 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone a patron of MisandryToday?Thankies~ | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/08/18 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone a patron of MisandryToday?My SO has as well. But we just adopted and only his names are on the papers so that is something he can do to put resources and commitment into the next generation and have someone carry on his name and his legacy. Even if the little man isn't his child by blood, it doesn't make a difference to us. He's our baby. And no matter what even if I relapsed and went full AWALT, because he adopted and only his name is on the papers, I have no ability to take his baby away from him, divorce-rape him, or … | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/08/18 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone a patron of MisandryToday?It's extremely frustrating. But men have been fighting for their rights for years and gotten basically no where. I have no hope that any of this is going to change any time soon. Especially not in time for me to have a child safely. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/08/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone a patron of MisandryToday?Oh Pooh. I don't think there is much hope anyway. That system really is rigged against children and men. Capitalism run a muk. All they care about is green. Very big eye opener. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/08/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone a patron of MisandryToday?I'd say we are still very much on topic. Your idea relied on the approval of the family courts. Discussing how corrupt the family courts are is relevant to the discussion to me. It definitely prevents that particular plan from being followed through. I doubt the private contract would overrule law. The problem is the interpretation of the laws which don't have the child's best interest in mind. Any other ideas? | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/08/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone a patron of MisandryToday?If the fate of the plans relies on the sensibilities of a judge then that pretty much crushes this. I don't trust judges or the law as far as I can throw them. We heard tales of gynocentric judges constantly. I'm not going to put anything important in their hands. They don't actually care about the wellbeing of children. Their decisions are partially responsible for the epidemic of single mothers who raise the future generation of violent criminals and poverty stricken. Family court is anti-fami… | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/08/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone a patron of MisandryToday?I'm getting a lot of pushback in r/legaladviceofftopic on just that. You can track the conversation here. https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladviceofftopic/comments/98qpba/is_there_anything_a_biological_parent_can_do_to/ I also made this post and it got locked by the mods without reason, maybe taking a look at that may be enhttps://www.reddit.com/r/legaladviceofftopic/comments/98sq7j/mi_how_can_i_bare_the_child_of_my_partner_without/lightening | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/08/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Oh that makes sense. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Worldbuilding? | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?It sounds fun. Why are the people fun to play with? | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/18 02:47 PM |
| 2 | From A WomanI'm glad you pointed to literature, a fantasy, to show how women love. It's telling how that was the first example you thought to give of how women love. I wonder if you can see the irony~ Caste and class no longer means what it once did. There are no castes. Class is no longer just defined by income or royal status, even though it is a big factor. Modern day class is also tied to attractiveness, education level, charisma. A person that gives a woman social status. Hypergamy is as much about sta… | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/18 01:11 AM |
| 1 | From A WomanThanks, though it seems you guys are doing just fine on your own~ Beware of chameleons. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/08/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Warhammer 40k? What's that? | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | From A WomanAlso people being happy with their second spouse is patently false. Second marriages have even higher divorce rates than the first. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 11:04 PM |
| 3 | From A WomanI think your mindset proves that women don't experience true love. That in and of itself is AWALT. Many men cheat but still love and want to be with their women. I garentee that the reason most men cheat is because the woman is being negligent sexually. Men do crazy things for the ones they love, and they love hard. In fact you wouldn't want to love as hard as many men. It's borderline psychotic. The fact that you so easily justify divorce is more proof of AWALT and hypergamy. It's why I'll be f… | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?That's awesome. What do you draw? | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Are you trying to be an artist or are you just doing it for fun? | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | From A WomanThanks for the detailed response. I think the idea of healthiness and respectfulness has little to do with why so many men go MGTOW. And it definitely has little to do with why I consider myself AWALT. You are right when you said those ideas are vague. So vague as to almost be meaningless. AWALT to me and to most MGTOW I've talked to is NOT the idea that every woman is intentionally out to get man and destroy men. It's not the idea that all women are evil. AWALT to me is a combination of a few t… | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Which concert? And what are you reading right now? | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I am curious as to why this sub was createdWell the biggest difference for me is that they don't auto-ban women. There is also a bit about the "culture" that is enforced on r/MGTOW through the type of bans they hand out and the type of behavior they allow and encourage, but I'll let others go more in depth about that. I just like the fact that I can talk here and join in the culture and dialogue. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 06:02 PM |
| 2 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Thanks! I will. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 05:33 PM |
| 2 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?I have my reasons~ | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 05:31 PM |
| 2 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Good. I'll add that to my list then! Oh yea~ I like it here a lot. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 05:12 PM |
| 2 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Open up the field of conquest? What do you mean? You think it will help me understand my man better? How do you know I'm a young woman? I tried to not include that in this post just to focus on what men are doing. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?What is "Thus spoke Zaratrustra about?" Would you recommend it? | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?What are you reading right now? | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Good advice. We've started to take the route. I read up a lot about the subject on my own, and the therapist is a big help. We've planned a family outing this weekend and it will be really nice. A nice and normal family outing. He hasn't had many of those, if any. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Congrats! | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Is that for religious, spiritual, or health reasons? | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | How will you be going your own way this weekend?Oh cool. What kind of dog do you have? And what is a STBXW? | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Thank you for this. I've been reading a few books and I think we are on a really good path. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/18 10:12 AM |
| 3 | From A WomanHey Girl~ Glad to see other women here too. It's very nice to see your perspective and I'm happy your able to have a reasonable conversation about such sensitive topics. I self identify as AWALT so it might be nice to bounce thoughts off of one another. I wanted to pick your brain a bit. What do you think AWALT means? If you've been watching redpill or mgtow videos you have probably heard the term. What are your thoughts on it? Can you elaborate on what you mean by "respectful and healthy?" Do y… | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/08/18 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?I'm going to treat my son like he is a person who has gone through serious mental trauma. I won't just ignore it as if it's not a series issue that needs to be addressed in a special way different from other children who grew up unabused and under the guidance and protection of loving parents. Most children probably don't go to therapy session once every two weeks. I'll treat him appropriately based on the guidance of the therapist, my captain, and personal intuition. I'll treat my son the way h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/18 02:00 AM |
| 3 | What about men who "love sluts"?What I would say is be creative but it's really simple to please a man. My Captain made it simple for me to know how to please him. He said a man likes "Peace, Pleasure, and Ease" to be brought to his life. Pleasure is obvious. At least it may seem that way at first. This often means regular sex but can mean many other things. You essentially just want to be a pleasure to be around. Laugh at his jokes, compliment him, touch him, make it obvious that you are attracted to him. Maybe do more person… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/18 08:40 PM |
| 2 | What about men who "love sluts"?Yes! I'm sure any man would love that. That would immediately make you stand out! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/18 08:15 PM |
| 0 | What about men who "love sluts"?If you have time to eat you have time to cook a meal. And if you don't have the time then the very first thing you need to do is make the time. I've talked to plenty of women who found a man while in school. Make the time. Otherwise why would a quality man make the time for you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?He is already in therapy. Good advice! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Done! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Thanks for the feedback. I hope things go well for you! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 01:03 PM |
| -1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?I'm glad to explain and defend myself if that's what it comes to. It's not my primary goal but I'll do it because I like to take in different ideas. I like the perspective of those here because, and this is changing a bit, I was thinking that the perspective of those here would be different than the brainwashed bluepilled masses. I've gotten some really nice advice when people actually stay on topic. So I think it's worth posting here even if I have to deal with some dogma. I deal with the same … | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Of course this isn't a RPW arrangement. RPW place too much trust on women and the courts. I place trust in my man. There is a big different between us. I didn't post here to argue about marriage and family courts. I posted to ask for advice about how and when to teach my son boundries. I'm not here to change minds even though I think you are all wrong about marriage. I'm here to get advice on how to teach my child. That's it. For those of you who actually answered my question I thank you. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 12:12 PM |
| 0 | Perspectives on raising a boy?I have no logical reason to believe that will happen. That's what trust means. I trust him more than the courts. That's what it boils down to. I've seen the courts destroy the lives of children. I have no reason to believe an otherwise good man would do something so atrocious. You simply trust the courts more than you do your man. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 12:04 PM |
| 0 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Ok. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Perspectives on raising a boy?It's not just about who I am, it's about my child. What if I become so bitter during a split that I am given the power to make a decision that is good for me but bad for the child? Who is going to be there to stop me? I used to hate my mother for a long time. But after years of therapy I've gotten past that. I realize now what women are capable of, what the courts of capable of. That's why when I learned about the rep pill, gynocentrism, it spoke to me immediately. It boils down to trust. I trus… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Thanks for this advice. We will definitely be talking to him. We make time for that every day. That's a really good idea and something we already do. I really appreciate the advice. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Perspectives on raising a boy?What is unfair? I'll tell you like I did everyone else. My own personal experience. My father was loving to me. I adored him. But my mother hated him for reasons unrelated to me. She lied about him in court when they split and one full custody of me, making me never able to see him again. He commited suicide. My mother treated me so horribly on her own she lost custody of me and I was rasied by my grandparents. I know what the courts are capable of. Fuck the courts. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Good. I want him to have the final choice. I trust his judgement more than I do my own. I trust him to act in the best interest of our child more than I trust a judge who has been known to give custody to crack addicts over law abiding men. It's about what I think is best for our child. I trust my man over the courts. I can link to you some cases if you don't believe that courts have made horrible decisions, that women have made horribble decisions. I can tell you about my relationship with my m… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?We have given our child stability and it does not require a vow. I know since you probably never tried it the idea is a foreign concept to you but stability can exist outside marriage and marriage does not garentee stability. If anything it makes maintaining stability harder because a split can become extremely difficult, expensive, and long. If we were to split tomorrow I'd stilll be in our boy's life. My Captain would do what's best for him. I'd move out and move into my own apartment nearby a… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/18 11:14 AM |
| 2 | What about men who "love sluts"?Instead of a first date, cook a meal for him. That will immediately make you different from 99% of women he has met. When you go over his house do some small chores for him. Don't be confrontational. Stroke his ego. Give him opportunities to lead. Ask his opinion on small things and then take his advice. Have boundries but be submissive and treat him like a worthy man until he proves he is not. If he is a worthy man then you should be doing those things for him anyway. Cook for him every time yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?I'll quote my captain. "I've concluded that internet addiction isn't a real thing as even the study you linked proves. It's at best, maybe a behavior addiction, but non-conclusive. It's as much of an addiction as sex addiction, or tv addiction, or basketball addiction, or piano addiction. Simply something that causes positive feedback which people continue to do a lot because it keeps providing that positive feedback. By the logic of these studies Kobe Bryant is addicted to basketball because he… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Thanks for your perspective. Despite making those vows people break them all the time. Words, promises, and vows don't keep people together. Action does. And that's what we will be teaching our children. If you mean to stay together with someone forever then do it. We don't need to make a vow which we can break at any time. He has already took on that commitment. I don't need him to sign a legally binding contract in order to do that. We'll stay with each other as long as it's healthy to do so. … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/18 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Perspectives on raising a boy?I'll probably leave that decision to his father. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Can you link that citation? I'll run it past my Captain. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Perspectives on raising a boy?I don't know about the knife but everything else makes lots of sense. I'll probably leave the building to his father. Depends, I'll run it by my captain. I could learn to and we could build something together but that may be something more appriopate for a father and son. I'm thinking about the Boy scouts for him. I want him to be part of a group with only other boys where boys can be boys. I'm cautious though about girl's being allowed now. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Perspectives on raising a boy?I'll explain to him the drawbacks of doing anything to the extreme. All things in moderation. Porn is fine though, and violent videogames, and movies with guns, etc. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Perspectives on raising a boy?I absolutely do not interfere with his teachings. In fact everything we teach him we agree upon. I'll be running my conversation here past him. He, (My captain), just said it was ok if I got some other perspectives. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Perspectives on raising a boy?Thank you! It was a very big step for me when it became official. I'm not going to overtly teach him anything redpill but I'm going to push a little harder to make sure he understands his ability to place healthy boundries. I'm going to make it simple. He is a foster child so I'm not actually sure he really knows how to set boundries well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/18 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Perspectives on raising a boy?He isn't just a 7 year old. He is a foster child. I want to make sure his needs are really being considered. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?He is doing sports so there is that. We are fostering another boy right now that is 5 so he has someone to play with besides me. My SO in him spend lots of time together. Usually playing video games but it's still very nice. I'm thinking about enrolling him in boyscouts. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/08/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Perspectives on raising a boy?I think I'm going to start focusing on teaching him boundries mixed with kindness. There is a difference between being kind and letting someone take advantage of you. It will be simple. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/08/18 08:00 PM |
| -2 | Perspectives on raising a boy?I'm probably just being overprotective. I pack him a treat for lunch and he has started to ask me for two. Says he is sharing it with a friend. A girl. I'm probably just overreacting. Sharing is nice. Though I'm still weary about him giving it away EVERY day. We don't believe in marriage. We live in America and with how unfair marriage laws are we've decided not to get married and just live with each other without the piece of paper. That's also the reason I wasn't included on the adoption paper… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Youtube MGTOW vs Reddit MGTOWI think those things are immoral, biased or not. People should not be able to sign their human rights away. We'll agree to disagree Darling. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/08/18 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Youtube MGTOW vs Reddit MGTOWBDSM culture doesn't remove human rights. Slaves have no human rights. If you believe that a person should be able to legally sign a paper to give up their human rights then we disagree on a moral level. Marriage is a horrible deal for men and an insurance contract. Men have been indoctrinated by society to believe that it's a sign of love when it's anything but. It's insurance for the women period. It's not love. I truly love my man and I don't need him to stab himself in the heart for me. I'll… | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/08/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Youtube MGTOW vs Reddit MGTOWDo you think people should be able to sell themselves into slavery if they agree to sign a piece of paper saying they "swear" not to ask for their freedom? | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/08/18 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Youtube MGTOW vs Reddit MGTOWGiving half your income to someone that is no longer committed to you makes no sense. Why would I continue to give someone access to my income in any way if they aren't providing me with the things they used to provide. If I worked and my man tended to the housues and watched the kids, how is it fair that I pay him half my income after we divorce and he doesn't contniue to provide me with house cleaning services, half of the meals he used to cook, half of the sex. Traditionally, a man provided i… | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/08/18 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Youtube MGTOW vs Reddit MGTOWLove and marriage is no longer what it used to be. True love is doing what's best for your spouse even if it comes with a sacrifice. If true love to you is only being with your spouse as long as they sign a piece of paper that says "I'm going to make men with guns steal half your money in case we ever break up," Then we have very different definitions of what true love is. True love to me doesn't involve legal contracts. Marriage these days is a glorified insurance policy for the woman in most c… | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/08/18 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Youtube MGTOW vs Reddit MGTOWI'll let someone else dissects all of these assumptions and falsehoods. I try not to be too confrontational. If you believe in marriage then get married. I'd never do it to my man but I won't try to control your behavior in any way. Just giving the reasons why I would never put my man in that position. I love him, there is absolutely no need for such an unnecessary process. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/08/18 08:44 AM |
| 2 | How to react to negative behavior from SO?I would personally never DREAM of fighting fire with fire in this regard. That's me personally. If I felt neglected I would examine my feelings and not make it his problems until we were able to sit down and talk about it. And we do that a lot. We have designated specific times to talk about anything that is on our minds. The rest of the time I eagerly follow without question even if I don't like his decisions in the moment. I do this because I truly trust his judgment. I'm not sure who gave you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/18 08:55 PM |
| 10 | If you want kids, how would you feel about someone who's not sure? Or vice versa.So I'm actually in a similar situation as you. I've been with my Captain officially for six years and he made it very clear from the beginning that he most likely didn't want kids. The best advice I can give is don't be with him unless you are ok, right now, with the idea of not having kids. After some time reflecting I've decided that I'm ok not having kids because I love him. We've since adopted and I love my little man to bits! But really, this is, in pretty much all cases, a deal breaker. It… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Is there a mirror image to woman gaming men? Books, websites, etc?What does not exist? That subreddit? I might have spelled it wrong. I'll fix it! | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/08/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Is there a mirror image to woman gaming men? Books, websites, etc?r/redpilledwomen There is an entire subset of redpill designed to help women game men, which just involves locking high quality men into committed relationships with them and keeping those relationships happy. I'm a member~ | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/08/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Learned about redpill/MGTOW for 5 years now and agree with a lot of it but do not believe in AWALT. What am I then?What do you mean by "it?" What has to do with staying together forever? | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/08/18 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Youtube MGTOW vs Reddit MGTOWBeing a woman has nothing to do with how bad marriage is for a man. Marriage is not bad for a woman. All the things you mentioned have nothing to do with marriage. We can get pregnant without marriage. We can get abused without marriage. We are considered sluts for sleeping around because it's extremely easy for us to get laid if we wanted and a man has to work hard or be gifted by genetics in order to have it that easy. Even then not even Brad Pitt would have such easy access to sex as your ave… | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/08/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Learned about redpill/MGTOW for 5 years now and agree with a lot of it but do not believe in AWALT. What am I then?I think it's mostly the laws and culture that is the problem no matter where you go to find the women. People tend to take the path of least resistance and act within what they perceive to be their best interest. That's why AWALT. An Eastern European woman that seems like a NAWALT is only going to remain that way as long as it's the path of least resistance. One she gets married, she no longer has to work so hard. Marriage is probably the worst thing you can do to yourself in a relationship if y… | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/08/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?That's interesting. How do they treat it? | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/08/18 09:57 AM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Thanks for the support. I am not a spiritual person and I do not think life is random. Why do you ask? | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/08/18 07:55 AM |
| 2 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?I think MGTOW is the logical result of gynocentric man hating laws, and/or laws that neglect men for the benefit of women. I like this sub because it allows more open dialogue. I can have a voice and participate in the community. As opposed to the main MGTOW sub which simply bans all women. It's very important to me because pretty much my entire relationship with my man is built on a foundation of MGTOW and redpill philosophies. Understanding MGTOW, understanding the rigged system, understanding… | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/08/18 06:59 AM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?It makes sense why you'd ask that. A human can live without a lot of things they want. If I were to post a thread asking "how can I get a ferrari?" It might be nice to know my options and compare but it doesn't mean that I can't possibly live without the ferrari. I just like to know my options. And if the price is too high, then I'll live with having a less expensive car. It's just something to think about, that's all. Wanting something and being unable to live without it are two different thing… | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/08/18 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Kind of, when I have down time. I like browsing reddit and a few communities. I don't have social media so this is the closest thing to that for me. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/08/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Will do Darling. If you ever want to talk I'm here as well. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/08/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Well thanks for trying Dear. I appreciate the attempt. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/08/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Thanks for your input! I do accept it and understand it, which is why I haven't pressed him for months. But acceptance and understanding of his wishes doesn't mean my desires magically disappear. I just have placed my desires to the side because being with him is more important than that particular desire and this is not the hill I'm willing to die on. If I didn't accept it I would have left. I'm only still with him because I have accepted it. Doesn't mean I can't still potentially think of good… | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/08/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?I think I just wasted 3 minutes of my life watching it~ So many unfounded assumptions were made based on faulty premises. He didn't even properly define what an atheist is. Anyway, what was the reason you linked that video to me Dear? | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/08/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Thanks for the comment! I am taking responsibility for my actions as best I can by forcing myself in a situation where the consequences for acting on my gynocetrism will always outway any short term benefit of gynocentrism. This is not me trying to avoid the consequences of my decisions. This is me protecting myself. Like putting on a seat belt just in case I crash. I am taking responsibility for the fact that anything can happen. Human nature, female nature can be managed but it has sabotaged m… | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/08/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Thanks for your perspective. If 50% of marriages didn't end in divorce then I'd totally agree with you. If no woman ever left her husband because he didn't have enough money to maintain her lifestyle, I'd agree with you. If women didn't ignore and leave good men because those men weren't "exciting" enough, making them "fall out of love" after years of commitment, I'd agree with you. But those things do happen and has happened to millions of women. Women who end up miserable and alone in the long… | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/08/18 02:43 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Alimony is only paid out to married couples. I'm on MGTOW sub because my man is former mgtow and I'm trying to understand him better. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 09:54 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Why would he pay alimony to me? We aren't married and we don't live in a state with common law marriage. And we won't be getting married ever. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 09:22 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?What case has a court ordered that a man with legal custody and no criminal record give up his children to a woman who did not sire the children, he is not married to, and living in a state with no common marriage, and who is not in any way legally attached to those children or related to the children? | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Because he isn't asking for help. He is content. I'm asking for myself. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Can you please check that and quote me the statute that says that, in a state that doesn't have common law marriage, I'm able to ask for his property and rights to his children? What gives me that right exactly? Because I lived in his house for a certain amount of time? | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?I'm sorry...I don't quite understand what you are trying to say to me~ Can you rephrase? | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?How can I drag him to court for child support if the child is not mine legally? I want to reiterate that HE adopted the boy. His name is on everything. I am not attached to the child other than as the one who is "raising" him. I stay at home and he works. Legally I don't exist and the boy is not in any way associate with me. He's not mine. He was a child we were fostering. I would not be in the relationship I'm in without my man's guidance. He dictates the conditions we live under and I simply a… | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?You are absolutely correct. My problem is, given that I am AWALT and know what a woman is capable of, my fear is that I might one day change my mind. To me, AWALT is the admission that under the right circumstances I will act on what I perceive to be my best interest romantically and sexually even if it is detrimental to my man or even my own children. So if my man goes bankrupt, the gynocentrism in me would want me to leave him even though I am AT THE MOMENT extremely satisfied and content with… | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 08:18 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?I really appreciate the suggestion. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Another good idea. Is it selfish of me to want to actually go through pregnancy and birth the child myself? I feel like that's most girl's dreams. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Can I? The simple answer is I don't know, and I don't trust myself to do what's right because based on my own hormones my perception of what is "right" can very easily change. Lets say we do this and I'm 4 months pregnant and I tell someone what I'm doing and they shame me and convince me I'm in an abusive relationship. Most people who hear me describe our relationship say that I'm being abused. It annoys me, but that's one of the reasons I got rid of social media and only have a few very close … | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Just so you know I self identify as AWALT. We've had a huge conversation about this and I'm open to discussing why I think that way if you are interested. That sounds like an interesting scenario. I'm not sure my hormones and emotions would be in align to allow that. I could change my mind at any point during the process, which would put him at risk. Especially if I'm pregnant. As a self-identified AWALT, I don't really want to put myself in a position to sabotage us. I don't trust my hormones. … | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 03:06 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways we can have a child without putting my man (Former MGTOW) at risk?Thanks for that. We haven't talked about it in a while, especially after adopting the youngest. I was just curious. I posted this months ago and just wanted to see what you guys had to say. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/08/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Having boundaries in relationships is officially illegal. More reason to GYOW.That's exactly why I'd like to participate with those who identify as MGTOW. There are so many different stories and reasons and each experience is very valuable and adds to my understanding. There really doesn't seem like much of an incentive for men to settle down now a days. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/07/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Having boundaries in relationships is officially illegal. More reason to GYOW.I do really appreciate the inclusion. I understand the need for a male space and to not have that space dictated by outsiders. At the same time I'd like to be able to converse with members of that community as well. I was banned from MGTOW sub for being a woman but I'm trying to understand the MGTOW mindset because my man is formally mgtow before allowing me to move in with him and he has boundries that stem from his beliefs. "No marriage, no biological kids, no shared income, Etc. So I find it … | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/07/18 03:37 PM |
| 7 | What about men who "love sluts"?There is so much here that we don't know so I suppose I'll ask a few questions of clarification. When you fall for these guys, what do you mean by that exactly? Do you mean that they are sexually attractive and you desire to have sex with them or are you saying that these guys are husband material and you want them to be your husband? What are you looking for exactly in a guy right now? What are you goals and dreams for the future? You are early 20's so I hope you are working towards something. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/18 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?I don't mind at all! My pleasure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/18 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Meeting Men During Free Time?I know I'm writing a lot but I want to be as helpful as possible. I was thinking about telling you a little about myself to give you a picture of how I got what I wanted. I always knew what I wanted. I wanted to be my grandmother. I was raised by my grandparents for...reasons. They are old school traditionalists. Devout Christians. Been married over 40 years. Highschool sweethearts. They are the happiest, stablest people I've known. My Grammy is the typical housewife, my grandfather always worke… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/18 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Ah so you essentially want it all. A career, a family, to be a good mother and be a good wife. I'll let you know that it is an uphill battle. Not something that is unattainable, but definitely difficult. Not only because of what you want, but because of your standards as well. Having a man that makes a lot of money while also being handsome. I've seen your comments and it seems like you want a high paid man. You wouldn't want a driven man who only works as a manager of Mcdonalds. You'd probably … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/18 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Oh you have never had sex outside of a long term relationship? Good for you! What you described for yourself are things that pretty much every woman has. A nice smile. Being reasonably pretty. Having a good personality. If these are what you have to offer a man you may find it difficult to stand out. What sets you apart from other women? Lets say you find a man that you believe is high value. What's going to set you apart from all the other girls that are pretty, have a nice smile, and think the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/18 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?It is a phase that will pass. If you need help getting over an ex I can only suggest speaking to a close friend or relative or a therapist. Remind yourself why it didn't work out in the first place. At 24 you are fast approaching the wall. Right now you are at your prime market value. That will only deminish with time. If you ever plan to have kids then you owe it to yourself to secure a good man early. You will have must less options as you get older. Not only will your market value you down, b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/18 02:13 AM |
| 9 | UPDATE: Me (22/F) and my bf (31/M) broke up due to my past affair with his married best friendWhat could really help your situation is seeing a therapist. This is something that isn't going to ever really be ok. You lost something real that you will never really get back, and it is your fault. Coming to terms with that can help you move on. Taking responsibility for your actions can be a powerful step to becoming better. In your entire post you didn't mention once how he may feel about what you did. We of course know he is hurt, but we don't see how much you are aware of that. There seem… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?I definitely think Online dating is a good place to start as well. A man that pays can be desperate. He could also just be actively looking as well. There are a lot of quality men out there that many women pass up because they aren't 10's, or don't make as much money as them, or 6 feet tall. It's at least something to consider. Casting a wider net may be good to start and then as you adjust your expectations slowly cast a smaller and smaller net. Being realistic with your expectations and what y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Meeting Men During Free Time?One thing that can help you secure a good man is making sure that when you meet him you are actually able to attract him to you and get commitment out of him. What makes you worthy of a good man exactly? What attributes of yours would you use to attract and keep the right man if he were to enter your life tomorrow? Also is there a particular reason you, at the age of 24, aren't seeking commitment? Being open to long term commitment could help put you in the right mindset to find what you are loo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 01:04 PM |
| 2 | My Captain's uncle died and I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can to help him through this time.I believe it will, and I'll be there to support him every second of the way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/18 05:50 PM |
| 2 | My Captain's uncle died and I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can to help him through this time.Thanks you. I'll keep this in mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/18 05:50 PM |
| 2 | My Captain's uncle died and I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can to help him through this time.You are absolutely right. There is a big difference. I'm sad to see that since his uncle passed he hasn't turned on his xbox. They used to play on the xbox. Now he is just on the computer instead. His uncle wasn't his only gaming buddy on the xbox but it seems he's shunned the xbox all together. Which means he's shunning all his relationship on there. Not sure how healthy that is for him but I don't want to tell him how to greave. I'm trying to leave it to the therapist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | My Captain's uncle died and I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can to help him through this time.I would never call someone in that situation a loser but that's just me. I didn't take any offense. I know what you meant and I appreciate the feedback. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/18 03:32 PM |
| 3 | My Captain's uncle died and I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can to help him through this time.I agree with the job thing. We have plenty of money. He doesn't work for money. He is very well off. He works to keep his mind going and to keep himself occupied and productive. IF I weren't in the picture he'd be raising the kids full time. He can't just sit around all day and do nothing. He isn't the type. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/18 03:24 PM |
| 3 | My Captain's uncle died and I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can to help him through this time.There is nothing he could do to become a "loser" in my eyes. As long as he is not being toxic and abusive he is everything I need him to be. Thanks for the advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/18 03:23 PM |
| 3 | My Captain's uncle died and I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can to help him through this time.Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/18 01:41 PM |
| 8 | How do you know if you’re boring?It's relative. Your lifestyle wouldn't be boring to someone who does the same thing. Many men are the same way, especially gamers. I'd personally worry more about my ability to simply enjoy my time with my spouse while doing the things we both liked. If you like to read and he likes to watch tv, read while he watches tv. As long as you are doing something together that you both enjoy then you are no more boring than you both are alone. If you aren't bored alone and he isn't bored alone, you can … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/18 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Don't need no man!Oh I needed this laugh~ | /r/RedPillWives | 17/06/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Hurt by husband: Where to go from here?I'm glad I had the chance to clarify then~ Don't worry about it Sweetheart. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Hurt by husband: Where to go from here?There may be some confusion here. Let me clarify. I meant that those here are giving her advice from their perspective and the advice she is receiving from here seems to be good. Though this isn't the first time she has posted about this here and the problem with her husband has yet to be solved so maybe I'm wrong in thinking the advice she is receiving here is good advice. I don't want to proclaim strong in either direction so I'm just open to offering my perspective if she wants it. She probab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/18 09:28 PM |
| -2 | Hurt by husband: Where to go from here?That's ok Sweetheart. I'm used to it. My relationship with my Captain is rather unorthodox so my advice would be as well. I'm used to hearing others with strong opposite opinions. I appreciate your passion in trying to find the best solutions for the OP's situation. I can tell you mean the best. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/18 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Hurt by husband: Where to go from here?I'm glad to hear your sex life is very active and you still are in the mind to keep up with trying to be sexy. Thanks for your cander. What do you think has changed in him that makes it so your attempt to be sexy aren't working? Did you always feel like your attempts to be sexy were hit and miss or is that recent. From another's comments it seems this has been an ongoing issue with you and him. So much so that he sometimes jumps on to give his side of the story contridictory to yours. That makes… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/18 04:19 PM |
| -2 | Hurt by husband: Where to go from here?I see your perspective. You seem to have some strong beliefs and she seems to be in good hands. If she wants a different perspective then she knows I'm here to offer it. I'm not going to pretend my perspective is mainstream. She can private message me if she wants to hear an alternative opinion. Thanks for your input. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/18 02:51 PM |
| -5 | Hurt by husband: Where to go from here?I'd rather talk to her and get her full perspective and a full picture before making assumptions or jumping to conclusions. I don't think there is any good reason to humiliate anyone without their consent. But there may be an easy solution. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/18 11:36 AM |
| -10 | Hurt by husband: Where to go from here?I hope you get through this situation Dear. How is your sex life? Are you both as sexually active as your were in the beginning of the relationship? What are you doing for your man to make him feel sexy? Have you stopped being sexy with him recently? If he loved you as much as you say he once did then what changed with YOUR behavior. Be open to the possibility that it is all his fault but also open to the possibility that this is something you've done or stopped doing that has effected your man'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/18 11:26 AM |
| -1 | I did the tinder experiment and I don't see the point in living anymoreThough based on the definition of manipulation I like to think I'm using artful means to get what I want rather than unfair means. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 07:42 PM |
| -1 | I did the tinder experiment and I don't see the point in living anymoreHonestly had to look up what "persiflage" means. Yes, this kind of stuff is uplifting and it IS manipulation. You're 100% right. I'm a woman, if I want something of value I have to offer something of value. Stroking men's egos is something I can offer. I just happen to also think these things are true. Relationships, love, companionship, it's ALWAYS a trade. I do everything I can to bring value to my man's life. That includes internalizing the reasons that my man was originally MGTOW before meet… | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 07:29 PM |
| -1 | Well, whoever made this isn't wrong...Too true. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 07:18 PM |
| -2 | I did the tinder experiment and I don't see the point in living anymoreWill do! | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | When you suggest why a hit-and-run victim didn't press chargesWhy do you subject yourself to this? | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | The Onion: Woman Takes Break From Dating To Focus On Everything About Herself No One Could Ever LoveLearn to cook, clean, and give good head. Boom, betas and alphas alike will flock from miles away. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | "New Beginnings for New Fathers" a State of Ohio program to help men and parenting.I'm a bit confused. Is this for single fathers? What exactly do they help with? | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Well, whoever made this isn't wrong...Yep. Agreed. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 05:19 PM |
| -3 | I did the tinder experiment and I don't see the point in living anymoreYour value isn't based on how much attention you can get from women. Nor is the fact that women get attention from horny guys a sign that they have more value than you. I mean, in the eyes of society women are valuable and men are disposable, but you have value. In fact you have more potential for value than any of these tinder thots. You can give it to yourself. You are a man. You are greatness. If someone doesn't recognize that then they are blind. In the absence of outside voices you have to … | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 05:15 PM |
| 0 | women are literally joking about trapping us?My So has a Vasectomy~ | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 05:08 PM |
| -4 | Well, whoever made this isn't wrong...Children? | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 05:05 PM |
| 2 | [Lana the Japanese Sex Doll] I wish I had the cash even with the $150 off SALE she is still pricey.Oh that makes a lot of sense . | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 04:46 PM |
| -1 | You will NEVER see women cooperating like this.What do you mean? | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 04:45 PM |
| 2 | A quote from a female that understands the struggleOh ok. I didn't know that! Who invested computers and landline internet? | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 04:45 PM |
| -2 | You will NEVER see women cooperating like this.I guess so~ | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 02:26 PM |
| 2 | The reason the red carpet has gone 'Modest' is becuase the actresses were slated at the Oscars for wearing all black with the breast and cm vaginas on display. They know men won't jump on the #MeToo bandwagon for women dressed like prostitutes.It's self preservation and narcissism. Despite the lie that feminism has pushed, telling us that beauty is on the inside, women on some level know that that's bullshit. Men like pretty, young women. Period. That fact is as evident as gynocentrism. So in order to measure up, women do what ever they need to in order to appear young and beautiful, even lie. My SO told me not to wear make up early on because of the damage it does to the skin. HIs advice has worked wonders. Diet is a huge part of ski… | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Before and after #MetooOh ok, that would make sense. I was thinking that because of the symbols in the person's head and groin sitting down on the left that it was a woman trying to figure out how to get men's attention again. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 12:31 PM |
| 3 | [Lana the Japanese Sex Doll] I wish I had the cash even with the $150 off SALE she is still pricey.This is probably going to come off the wrong way but I don't know how to ask this in a better way. Why is her skin so dark? Isn't she supposed to be Japanese? Japanese are generally pretty pasty white. Unless they are going for some kind of Ganguro girl look. But then that's not how Ganguro girls look either. Are they sure this is a Japanese doll and not a Vietnamese doll? East Asian countries have more varied skin color. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 12:08 PM |
| 0 | You will NEVER see women cooperating like this.Did you just assume their genders!? | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 12:02 PM |
| 8 | Women roaming through parks at MIDNIGHT shoudnt be blamed we should blame little boys... WTF"Don't lock your door to your house while living in an area with high crime rate. Teach the thieves not to steal. Why should I lock my door?" A lot of feminism is about trying to relinquish women of the burden of personal responsibility and accountability for their actions. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 12:01 PM |
| 2 | The reason the red carpet has gone 'Modest' is becuase the actresses were slated at the Oscars for wearing all black with the breast and cm vaginas on display. They know men won't jump on the #MeToo bandwagon for women dressed like prostitutes.Wow...these women look like they came out of an Amish community. No disrespect to the Amish. At least they realize how plain women look when not covered in 10 points of fake-up and showing off their tits and ass. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 11:59 AM |
| 3 | AWALT at workIt's absolutely crazy how it's not longer acceptable to meet a spouse at work, to flirt at work. That's where so many people used to meet their husbands and wives. It's like feminist want society to collapse by destroying the creation of families. Next thing is you won't be able to flirt on college campuses or in high school. It will be mandatory expulsion to date a fellow student. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 11:56 AM |
| -1 | You will NEVER see women cooperating like this.Sexy. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 11:51 AM |
| 7 | How Homer Simpson represents the media’s destruction of great father and husband figuresTotally true. Though family guy is very redpilled. Pretty much every woman in that show is a piece of shit in some way. And the show has a lot of redpill clips. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 11:50 AM |
| 9 | Being pushed around for being a "Nice Guy" for too long, now turned into a complete asshole and I like it.Women killed nice guys. They ride on chad's dick, pass up all the good guys because those guys don't meet her ridiculous fantasy standards of attraction, then wonder why every man they are attracted to are assholes. Then in their 30's when they are sad and alone, probably a single mom, they wonder where all the good men are. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 11:48 AM |
| 5 | When companies are too afraid of #metoo...Are we sure this isn't an Onion article? | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Before and after #MetooI don't get the last image. Is he playing chess with a woman? | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 11:35 AM |
| 15 | EqUaLiTyI read that in Cartman's voice. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 11:34 AM |
| 5 | A quote from a female that understands the struggleAbsolutely. Men built society. The things that allow me to even have this exchange was built by a man. Men's blood, sweat, and tears. Women have lost sight of men's accomplishments and sacrifice. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 10:46 AM |
| 6 | A quote from a female that understands the struggleIf you feel my voice can contribute than I'm glad you do and I'll try more. That's very encouraging. I don't believe every man here feels the same, for good reason. Women's voices can be disruptive and derailing and that's the last thing I want to do. My man was former MGTOW so I try to understand the value of a man's voice. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 10:43 AM |
| 3 | A quote from a female that understands the struggleI try not to post here myself. A woman's voice is secondary in men's spaces. But I'll try to be supportive~ | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 04:55 AM |
| 1 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.Every human being can be a venomous snake in the right circumstance. Our agency is exactly the thing that gives us that potential. We all look out for our own best interest and that doesn't always coincide with the best interests of those close to us. Nor does it mean that we are doing what's actually best for ourselves nor our loved ones. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/18 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How do you spice up your LTR?Thanks for clarifying. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/18 04:09 AM |
| 4 | NEW - You have no clue what an object is!Wow she is gorgeous. I'm jealous. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 03:41 AM |
| 5 | A quote from a female that understands the struggleAgreed 1000%. I wish I could upvote this more. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 03:36 AM |
| 3 | A quote from a female that understands the struggleCan confirm. 4th wave feminism is coming. Women adapt very quick. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 03:35 AM |
| 9 | Mom busts teen son in bed with middle school counselorDid you just assume his gender!? | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 03:34 AM |
| 2 | How do you spice up your LTR?You are right, this sub also includes those things as well! I'll just step aside and see if someone else can give a better answer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/18 12:07 AM |
| 1 | She just "finessed" a free mealThanks for sharing your story. I agree 100% which is why me and my SO won't be getting married. He is former MGTOW and after everything I've seen I could never put him through marriage. I see it as abusive and exploitative at this point. I live with him but I don't have my name on anything. He owns the house, car, everything. We even live in a state without common law marriage. At any time he can kick me out of the house and I'd have no recorse. But he is a good man and I'll gladly take the same… | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/18 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you spice up your LTR?It's my pleasure to comment~ I just hope I'm being helpful. So based on what you are telling me neither of you are ready for a LTR, marriage, children, or anything that RedPillWomen generally want to help women achieve. I don't want to devalue your chosen path but this may not be the best place to ask for this type of advice. We are here to help women find commitment and security. It doesn't seem like you both are really ready for that. Maybe try a less...focused sub, like r/relationships or may… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 11:36 PM |
| 6 | How do you spice up your LTR?You two sound like you have a lot of fun! I'd like to ask what your goals are long term?Honestly, this lifestyle you've created with him doesn't sound sustainable. It seems like you both are constantly chasing the next high. Is this someone you plan on settling down with? Having kids? If so you may want to reevaluate your standards for "excitement" and "fun." Not saying you have to! I just want to make sure you aren't heading towards burn out. If you've already tried so much then it seems like w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Be this manMaterialistic? I'm so confused. Can you clarify what you mean? | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.I asked for suggestions regarding having a child with my man while minimizing my risk to him, not for opinions about whether your approve of my relations. And since you clearly aren't looking to do that by your first sentence, I didn't read past the first sentence. I'm not interested in those that aren't actually going to give me the suggestions regarding the topic I asked for. If you aren't going to give me suggestions on how we can have a child while minimizing my risk to my man then you aren'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | So this happened in my class?Take my upvote! | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | So this happened in my class?Women are masters of deception. Doesn't underestimate their ability to chameleon. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | So this happened in my class?You have the exact right idea. This is next level chameleon mode. AWALT is a fact of life. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 09:04 PM |
| 1 | So this happened in my class?Genuinely seeing their bullshit? I was advice cautious here. Women are evolving to adapt to the changes. They know that men are committing less than less. It doesn't matter what she says, she is looking out for her own best interest. AWALT always. She's an AWALT, anyone that agrees with her is AWALT, I'm an AWALT. If you want to pursue her or girls like her, more power to you. Just don't forget AWALT always applies. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | She just "finessed" a free mealDefinitely AWALT. If you could change anything about your relationship, besides leave her, what would you? | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | She just "finessed" a free mealAGreed! | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Guess I'm in the club now!Congrats! | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Brothel owner (completely legal in Nevada) wins Republican primary; women lose their mindsOh it's not a national law? | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Passing on wealthYou can still adopt. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good idea ?Women are distracting in the work environment. Maybe if they gave massages on breaks or something that would actually work. But not WHILE the men work. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Brothel owner (completely legal in Nevada) wins Republican primary; women lose their mindsWait, I thought prostitution was illegal in all states? | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Getting too comfortable?How would you feel if your husband started getting lazy at work? You make time and put effort into things that are important to you. If being a good spouse is important to you then put in the time. I think about how much of an impact it has on my Captain. How few fights we have, how much he smiles, how much he showers me with affection. He may not say it but he appreciates everything I do and I don't want to lose that. That keeps me in top shape. Otherwise you open yourself up to negativity from… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 05:55 PM |
| 0 | She just "finessed" a free mealIt happened to my SO. He was MGTOW before he met me. But realistically, our society as a whole isn't there yet. Our society isn't breeding women worth risking your security, peace of mind, resources, and time on. Every woman, even I, am AWALT. Women will adapt of course but who knows if they will be worthy even after they adapt. Especially with the rise of sexbots. Why risk it? Even for a "supposed" NAWALT unicorn. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 05:47 PM |
| 7 | Be this manSee this is the problem. What is she offering outside of her desire to receive his affection. Does she have a plate of food ready? Is she wearing something extra sexy? Is she washing his clothes, doing house work, walking the dog? What is she doing to bring value to his life? Nothing. And she expects a monopoly on his romantic affection in return. Please. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | She just "finessed" a free mealI think this should be the standard for anyone vetting spouses for LTR. It's intimate, the women shows a portion of her value, and it's far cheaper. Not to mention she gets the chance to show off other skills. The only issue is safety. But it's not like going on a dinner date with someone is going to oust them as a serial killer if they are one. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Even if there is a chance that MGTOW is 50% right and 50% wrong, GYOW anyways :)That's an apt comparison. I'll be teaching my children that marriage is an outdated concept. Doesn't mean they can't find a LTR though. Just no need to involve the government. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 05:36 PM |
| 1 | She just "finessed" a free mealMaybe try that. It would be more personal and you'd find out how good of a cook she is. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | RE: Fighting ResentmentFirst talk to him in a non-nagging way, presenting what's on your mind and asking if he can contribute a bit more. If after asking him, he either doesn't want to or doesn't do it to your satisfaction, hire someone else to do it. No need to cause a rift in the relationship over something so simple. Especially if you are working full time you should be able to afford someone to work on the yard every week or so. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.It seems like moving is our best option. It's being discussed between us now. Thanks for the help! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.I don't expect much out of random strangers. It is nice when they do care and I've had some great interactions here with some people who genuinely care and don't just want to get out there opinion. Unfortunately the people who genuinely care seem to be in a minority here. But my conversations with them has been very nice~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW theory: the secondary carouselNot sure. Though I do know that that women can and will start snagging up MGTOW and their resources. Don't know if that's a good or bad thing. Depends on the guy and what he's getting I suppose. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 03:55 PM |
| 2 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.We'll just have to disagree. Have a good one! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Netflix continues to sink even lower - Film crews are now banned from "looking at each other for longer than five seconds" to prevent sexual harassmentThis is what they wanted. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Kids the real victim of women..This is why I'll do anything to protect my kids by trusting an actual reliable father and limiting my power over him. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 03:43 PM |
| 6 | You Want to Really Red Pill Yourself?My condolences. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 03:18 PM |
| 3 | A successful Pro Wrestling company in Japan has been getting flack by overseas fans recently for being a "male only" company, demanding that woman be addedThe Japanese don't have feminism. I seriously doubt they'll care what some entitled, over privileged westerners have to say. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 03:16 PM |
| 8 | Even if there is a chance that MGTOW is 50% right and 50% wrong, GYOW anyways :)What is there to risk by going MGTOW? Any relationship is going to put you at her whim in some way if she has your baby or you live with her, or marry. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 03:15 PM |
| 5 | When that single mom is ready to date again...So true. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 03:12 PM |
| 5 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.Oh, you believe that because is afraid of something which happens to thousands of people every year, he should see a therapist? He also has a fear of heights so he avoids being a high places without some kind of safety device, a guard rail at minimum. Should he see a therapist for not wanting to be up really high without protection? He fears snakes as well and won't engage one if he sees one because many are poisonous. Should he go to therapy for that as well? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | She just "finessed" a free mealHave you ever had a woman cook you food on the first date? I did for my SO instead of going out. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 03:02 PM |
| 0 | She just "finessed" a free mealI'd rather just cook food for him instead. | /r/MGTOW | 14/06/18 03:01 PM |
| 0 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.I stopped reading the first 5 lines. As advice by my Captain I will be ignoring everything that isn't the actual advise I asked for since this is causing me so much unnecessary stress. Thanks for your time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 02:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.He isn't technically. A typo. I consider him to be so even if it's not bound in some legal document. I was a bit flustered when I wrote that. Being belittled and ignored is causing me a bit of stress. Sorry I misspoke. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 02:25 PM |
| 0 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.I've never felt so ignored in my life. Well...since I was a child. Under the advice of my Captain I'm going to ignore all posts that aren't a direct answer to my question. Feeling so unheard and so belittled is causing unnecessary stress and he can tell it's effect me. I stopped reading your response past the first two lines. If your response isn't the advice I asked for, consider it ignored. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.Technicalities. My name not being on a piece of paper means nothing to me. It won't make me any less they're mother if I raise them for 20 years. Do you have an answer to the actual question I asked? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 02:15 PM |
| 3 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.I was with you until your last line. He should go see a therapist because he wants to have control over his life and foster and adopt to make others better. He must be so insane. Kindness is seen as insanity today. Wow. We don't compromise. I haven't been trying to change him and he isn't completely closed off to having a child completely. He just doesn't want to have a child under the wrong circumstance. He froze his sperm. If he were completely closed off he wouldn't have bothered. He is leavi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 02:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.We will keep those price tags in mind. My husband would work out the details with me. He is very transparent about everything. We talk about everything that's necessary. You've gone to great lengths to discourage me and ignore me. I wonder if you can actually give a usual suggestion and answer to my question instead of constantly ignoring my agency and feelings. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm not really sure how to phrase this question so I guess I'll just ask for feedback on my situation.Why couldn't he send our child to America or Europe to study after we move to a third world county and get married? Or are you saying that would be too much work for YOU? Why couldn't we homeschool? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 01:42 PM |
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