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"... But I've noticed women don't worship sports stars as much as men do! That's clearly better evidence than a peer reviewed study! 🤓"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:08 PM
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I'm not attracted to obese women is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:01 PM
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This is quite possibly the lamest thing I've ever seen on this sub. "Yea we're a nation of fat fucks...but don't mess with us! We have a big culture of physical fitness! 🥺" Good Lord man, this doesn't make you sound hard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:43 PM
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...Was a European a meanie to you on Reddit today
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:41 PM
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That seems to almost exclusively be a US issue, where sex education is distinctly lacking. Here's a comparison between Europe and the US. https://images.app.goo.gl/ek9UJzDtWy6uEGcy7 https://onlinedoctor.superdrug.com/std-us-eu.html (Source data from the WHO and CDC) And before you claim it, no there is not a distinct difference between reported rates of casual sex between the US and Europe (European countries tend to have higher reported rates than the US anyway) There is no giant, secret societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:23 PM
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I think you get to the crux of the actual issue well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:19 PM
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I think what you've listed is a good timeline for things (obviously all within parental buy in, even though that has its own issues).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:30 PM
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Mate, take it as you want, of its just the one, i wouldn't have found it so easily. That doesn't make any sense. If it's the most common example seen by far, then it's most likely because it's the most offensive example and is in no way representative of the wider picture. Keep thinking that our children are not brainwashed if you want Yep, I will continue to believe that kids aren't being brainwashed by the LGBTQ community to be sexual degenerates primed for abuse, because it's not true 🤷‍♂️ bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:09 PM
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Yea to me it just comes across as confirmation bias. You'll see dozens of angry, pathetic men but they'll trigger no pattern seeking behaviour because they're "normal". You see one angry, pathetic short man? "Wow, Napoleon complex much???"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:06 PM
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Ah, that one. The go to example. It's not a school and yes, I think it's inappropriate for kids. Again, occums razor. What's more likely, these idiots in this one example thought this act was OK for young kids, or that there's a grand conspiracy from the LGBTQ community to brainwash kids into being sexual degenerates and/or to groom them for sexual abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:53 PM
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As in you wouldn't want to make a living off a hobby you enjoy over a typical 9-5?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:50 PM
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And I know that you never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:49 PM
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The fact that is available for children and that is part of a space where children are is enough mate. Yes, you can absolutely argue that as the material is not appropriate for all school years at the school, it shouldn't be available in the library. Arguing that this is what kids are being taught is the disingenuous bit. It's also utterly ridiculous to present it as evidence of some sort of grand conspiracy when a far more believable reason is right there: they didn't check the book. Occums raz…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:49 PM
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Yea yea yea, woke agenda blah blah blah they're turning the kids gay blah blah blah the satanists are brainwashing kids into being sex slaves etc etc etc. Yaaaaaaawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:40 PM
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And you refuse to understand the difference between curriculum, i.e. what children are taught by their teachers, and a book that is available in a school library that isn't part of the curriculum and is completely optional, i.e. not being forced on any child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:38 PM
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I am not talking about basic sex, have you even seen the video I sent you? That book literally talks about sex in graphics detail. And that is not part of the curriculum, is it? It's a book that's available in the school library, i.e. completely optional and not forced upon any child. The examples presented by angry conservatives are a handful of books that at worst, include some material that may be inappropriate for the younger years that they teach. So what do conservatives do? Well, they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:35 PM
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Teaching kids who haven't reached puberty the absolute bare basics of sex? Yep, it is often part of the curriculum. I had sex education at 10, it was absolutely fine. We were taught what sex was, what its biological purpose is, what genitalia is and the girls were pulled aside to be taught about periods. Parents were notified beforehand that it was going to be taught. What parts of the curriculum are fundamentally inappropriate for pre-pubescent kids? And no, some books that are available in a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:30 PM
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There are plenty of schools where sex is taught to schools to young prebubescent cludren. Where is anything beyond the absolute bare basics of sex part of the curriculum for young, pre-pubescent children?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:27 PM
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Yea of course you'd rather be making a living off them, who wouldn't? The point is that there's value in them in of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:25 PM
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...So one book available in a school district's library selection? This is a moral panic in its purest essence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:19 PM
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Thus if you aren’t participating in this hedonistic fuckfest there must be something wrong with you. Rates of casual sex have been in decline since the 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:17 PM
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But the point in those hobbies and passions is that you enjoy them simply for the feeling they give you in of themselves. Being a great musician is still very worthwhile even if you don't make a penny off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:16 PM
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Having sex is seen as a sign of maturity for teenagers. Teenagers are desperate to be seen as mature adults. Ergo, they're desperate to have sex to prove themselves as no longer a child. ...That and they have enough hormones pumping through them to kill an elephant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:09 PM
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Ah, so that's why I think it's really hot when my GF says her boobs feel tender...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:58 PM
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Doesn't do it for me. For reference, I like plenty of popular things too 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:51 PM
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Film wise it's a mix of b-movies, horror, art house and cheesy classics. Music wise it's a mix of hip-hop, experimental, pop, electronica, punk and indie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:39 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:07 PM
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Some of my icks (30 year old man for reference): Marvel/Star Wars/Disney fans. Astrology, homeopathy, shitty spiritualism and believing in "energy" as some sort of mystical concept (fuck crystal girls) "Normie" taste in art. I'm sorry, I know it makes me a snob but I just can't date anyone who only listens to the biggest pop artists (or whatever is popular on TikTok). If that's you, more power to you, you are valid etc, you're just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:56 AM
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It’s probably a really stupid idea probably the dumbest I’ve had but I really feel having a baby together right now would solidify us as a family and bring me and her closer together. It would create a bond like no other. Yes, that is indeed the dumbest idea you've ever had. Far too many people have babies for this reason and it never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:44 AM
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One of the cornershops in town sells alcoholic slushies in summer, with just about every flavour you could wish for. It's delightful ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:29 AM
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Considering the OP's posting history, it's very likely a troll post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:14 AM
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Pre-drink or take other substances.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:13 AM
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Ah yes, because prohibition went so well...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:11 AM
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Of course it's complete bullshit. ...However a placebo effect still works 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:10 AM
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For the love of God, don't use this sub as a learning tool for your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:19 AM
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Brit here. You'll probably find some girls who think it's sexy, the main pull though is that you'll stand out. American accents seem to cut through a room, they just sound so piercing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:15 AM
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Yea very much struggle to believe his story is real considering his post history, dude has an obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:10 AM
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Because people are trained to think that spell checking is just looking for squiggly lines on a word document. Manged is a word, i.e. the red squiggly line won't appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:07 AM
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I've seen no gender split when it comes to dry ass conversationalists, it's one of the few things in which men and women are equal. We're all capable of being boring. Men have experienced the exact same thing that you've described: boring women whose conversational skills amount to "idk lol"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:04 AM
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Oh Lord you really don't know what you're talking about...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:02 AM
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...or they just think you're wrong mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:58 PM
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Tbh the vast majority of the time anyone asks to open up a monogamous relationship, they are either already screwing around or had someone in mind that they wanted to screw around with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:51 PM
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Idgaf about your respect 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:46 PM
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Yaaaawn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:42 PM
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I know I'm just an anonymous account on Reddit and you've probably heard this all before, but please reconsider. There is always something to live and strive for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:49 PM
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Lol, didn't downvote you. God you're obsessed with that accusation...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:39 PM
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Excusing male cheating, advocating for a shallow, meaningless lifestyle in service of a capitalist vision of masculinity, calling women whores at any opportunity, big ol' dollops of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:38 PM
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You're right, I won't, because I'm not in charge of society and not one to commit my life to activism. What are you doing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:36 PM
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u wha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:32 PM
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Yep, it's like far right terrorism. It's on us to get to the root cause of it, and for both it's social isolation and/or societal disillusionment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:31 PM
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That's literally all it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:25 PM
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That's why they do it. If they were to "debate" anyone who wasn't a drunk insta thot they'd get fucking wrecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:25 PM
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People can criticize a piece of media, don't give it the ol' "well don't watch it then! 🥲" It's absolute trash for bitter teenaged boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:21 PM
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They've usually burned a lot of bridges.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:28 PM
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Weak bars
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:27 PM
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It's odd because it's such a patriarchal and heteronormative view of sex, i.e. sex is only valid if there's a dick and a vagina involved. The people who opt for open relationships are often very progressive, how can they not see what they are reinforcing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:26 PM
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It's good exercise and it is quite social. If you're trying to figure out a route it's very much accepted to strike up a conversation to ask about it. However, it does have its fair share of dickheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:23 PM
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I'm not big into fish at all and to me fish sauce adds such a good flavour to meals. It's very likely the miso and kimchi you've tried had fish sauce in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:22 PM
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I'm not denying that height is very often an important factor in attraction. Even with that belief though, I can clearly tell when street interviewers are cherry picking the most controversial views.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:21 PM
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I'm not invalidating them, he's perfectly entitled to have whatever view he wants based on his experiences. I however am also perfectly entitled to think that based on my experiences, he's not correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:19 PM
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But the umami!! 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:30 PM
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It's evidently clear you don't know what you're talking about, but keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:28 PM
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Drunk girls are on truth serum basically and have no agenda. And plenty of people chat utter shit when they're drunk. The idea that alcohol is some sort of perfect truth serum is laughable. Can't say the same about those 'peer reviewed' studies Yes, they're absolutely more trustworthy than street interview rage bait of a handful of drunk women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:28 PM
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"You're so fit!" The drunk man with beer goggles declares
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:26 PM
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Sure sure sure, continue gobbling up rage bait then, it's where the real work is done of course 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:25 PM
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Like the 1-in-3 study of women experiencing sexual assault. It was survey data. Surveys obviously lead to participation bias, inaccuracy, etc. The peers in the peer-review process agreed that things like "unwanted requests for dates" constituted sexual assault. It's probably why the "1 in 5" is far more common nowadays as that one paper was scrutinised and found to be lacking. I barely see anyone of any credibility cite the 1 in 3. It's pure rage bait. They wanted the highest number possible to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:24 PM
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I just don't think they'd show what you think they would. Women are, in their natural state, incredibly mean. And I think that's an assumption based on your own biases 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:21 PM
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Yet when there's a research paper that supports your views, you'll swallow it up gladly, despite it being peer reviewed by "leftists" and "feminists".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:21 PM
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There's plenty of honest and interesting street interviews. Not my fault you only find edited TikTok trash That's exactly my point though. It's content that is geared towards controversial views, it's what the algorithm wants. Sure, there's probably loads of street interview content with far more mundane answers, it's very telling though that it doesn't get nearly as much attention and isn't used by redpillers/Blackpillers as evidence. I don't give a fuck about social studies and their methodolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:20 PM
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s perfectly consistent. Drunk people are just people without their filters. A) People chat shit when they're drunk too, it's not a truth serum. Drunk girls are a great resource if you're looking for a reality check as a short guy. And you have ZERO idea how many people were interviewed who didn't give the answers the interviewer wanted. If you take any of those street interview content seriously then I'm sorry but you're being had mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:14 PM
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My point is, most women will out right reject a guy for his in experience, even religious virgins. SMV > Virginity, for a man And I fundamentally disagree with that when it comes to religious virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:11 PM
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There isn't much difference between (edited) drunk street interviews and the average peer-reviewed paper from a university's psychology department. Particularly because all the "peers" agree with each other. That is just patently untrue. The peer reviewed study is far more transparent with its methodology presented for your scrutiny. The street interview content is heavily edited and produced solely to get men angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:10 PM
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So you would rather rely on a heavily edited video where you have no idea how many drunk people were interviewed who didn't give the answers they were looking for, over a study with a sample size in the thousands where its methodology is publicly available? ...This is some next level anti-intellectualism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:09 PM
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Redpillers/Blackpillers here will reject studies that don't align with their views because "they used self-reported data!", yet will happily use street interview content of drunk girls as evidence for their views... Come on fellas, keep it consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:04 PM
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Lol of course they do. Women care about body counts too, and a virgin woman who is holding out until marriage (or a very significant relationship) is very likely to expect the same in a man. This whole idea that chaste women are going to be gagging for the high n count manwhore is nothing but a redpill power fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:00 PM
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I'd rather be rejected outright but I get why girls do the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:57 PM
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Your ideal virgin waifu ain't going to be impressed with a high body count either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:56 PM
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This never really meshed with my experiences tbh. I'm in automotive engineering and they're all just standard blokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:54 PM
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It really doesn't matter who is saying it the truth is the truth you're talking bs we all know the truth it is for attention women are naturally wired for it at a base instinctual level but in a relationship it is not virtuous shouldn't be like that. You all "know" that because you're inclined to think that way due to your pre-existing misogynistic views of women. Again insecurity is anotherr bullshit word can't take it seriously up until the day you start calling the security cameras on your ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:57 AM
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its all about attention from other men No it isn't. It's about having fun with your mates and having a dance. People in relationships still like to get drunk and have a dance with their mates. This is a widely held position theres no source A widely held position with manosphere guys with a predisposition for insecurity and controlling behaviour, yes. watch the debate on any man woman podcast it amounts to men making the point with flawless logic Pahaha you mean shit like F&F where they "debate"…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:39 AM
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Is a girl that changes her hair color constantly a red flag? Low key yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:19 AM
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Human trafficking is very real, and this is the most common form. ....you wha Source please (also if you're going to claim that trying to baby trap someone is human trafficking, then I'm here to preemptively say no it isn't.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:17 AM
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Topless mirror selfie? Easily interpreted as douchey. Topless beach pic? Now that's how you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:14 AM
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Ah of course, a lazy false equivalency with barely any effort to equate the two. Someone hitting on you = passive. Having an emotional affair= an active choice. Your delusion that all women have a back up boyfriend ready to go is exactly that, a delusion. And no, "common sense" isn't a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:09 AM
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Thats what "girls night" amounts to in just about every case Source please. Claiming that girls/guys nights are just for cheating is the most insecure take I see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:07 AM
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Nope, someone who can't identify flirting at all just may well be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:36 PM
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Game ≠ personality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:49 PM
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Well it is a negative to her if she is after a serious relationship, yet everyone she encounters is only there for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:39 PM
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what adult says "toilet humor"? I mean it is the accepted term for crass, scatological humour. is this the new paternity test? No. is this really such a problem? are soooo many men finding the loves of their lives, who fully reciprocate their feelings, but they make one off-color joke and their one-and-onlys leave them at the alter? or is there just one guy who has a "toilet" fetish and keeps posting about it? No to all of those things, it's just the wildcard topic for the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:35 PM
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. is this really such a problem? are soooo many men finding the loves of their lives, who fully reciprocate their feelings, but they make one off-color joke and their one-and-onlys leave them at the alter? or is there just one guy who has a "toilet" fetish and keeps posting about it? It's one bloody post, so the answer is clearly no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:34 PM
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There is one clear downside to losing weight: Having to buy a whole new wardrobe of trousers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:31 PM
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Person decides that they're ready to move onto more serious relationships after having casual flings...how awful /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:30 PM
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Name me a case where a man has been arrested for sexual assault for looking at a woman in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:20 PM
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Tonight, on PPD! OP is unable to identify the ethical concerns with drugging someone without their consent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:19 PM
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If it's true that you don't know what flirting is and can't identify it at all, maybe it's something to bear in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:14 PM
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Are you possibly neurodivergent?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:59 PM
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Yes Honey, you can play Medieval 2: Total War all day today"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:58 PM
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Probably is a man ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:05 PM
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I provided evidence that they are hiding how many women rapists there are and the amount of men being raped often exceed how many women are raped (which you purposefully ignored) because this is true. If it isn’t true, why do they hide it? Errrr, no you didn't. You provided stats for how many men were forced to penetrate by a PERSON in 2012. You then inserted your own conspiracy theory that when they said "person" they actually meant "women", which you provided no evidence of. because this is tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:14 AM
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No you didn't. The data for "being forced to penetrate by a person" is NOT "being forced to penetrate by a woman". That is your assumption. I was giving you the benefit of doubt, but now it's clear you're just a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:53 AM
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"Women rape men at similar rates to men raping women. Here's my evidence." "No, that's not what the quoted study says. You have presented a version of it that is intentionally misleading." "....Well you see, you missed the ACTUAL point, and you pointing out a clear misrepresentation of the data that I've used to make my initial claim actually reinforces that point!" Get tae fuck 😂 you got caught out making an absolute claim based on misinformation (either intentional misinformation from yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:45 PM
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No no, don't deflect, answer the question. Did you change the quote to say "a woman" rather than "another person", i.e. intentionally misrepresenting the study, or did someone else do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:22 PM
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Because I'm 30 years old and don't particularly want attention from teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:17 PM
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...yea, that's not what you were saying. Like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:14 PM
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Like 16-19 (will inevitably include women in their early 20s as I can only go off what I see them as)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:07 PM
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turns out this was another fan fic post as the op being quoted had posted like 4 variations of this scenario I certainly should have assumed that... I think it's an out of place hypothetical, but the response was awful 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:06 PM
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So did you change it from "a person" to "women" or did you get it from elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:01 PM
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But...how? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:57 PM
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Like I keep posting proof that women rape as much as men do, it just doesn’t count in rape statistics when women do it. No you didn't. Here's the quoted study as I found it elsewhere: The CDC found in the 2012 data that 1.715 million[10] (up from 1.267 million in 2010)[11] reported being "made to penetrate" another person in the preceding 12 months, similar to the 1.473 million[10] (2010: 1.270 million)[11] women who reported being raped in the same time period. The definitions of rape and "made…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:55 PM
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No you didn't. Here's the quoted study as I found it elsewhere: The CDC found in the 2012 data that 1.715 million[10] (up from 1.267 million in 2010)[11] reported being "made to penetrate" another person in the preceding 12 months, similar to the 1.473 million[10] (2010: 1.270 million)[11] women who reported being raped in the same time period. The definitions of rape and "made to penetrate" in the CDC study were worded with extremely similar language.[11] "Another person", not "a woman". So the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:52 PM
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Your quote is intentionally misleading. Here's the quoted study as I found it elsewhere: The CDC found in the 2012 data that 1.715 million[10] (up from 1.267 million in 2010)[11] reported being "made to penetrate" another person in the preceding 12 months, similar to the 1.473 million[10] (2010: 1.270 million)[11] women who reported being raped in the same time period. The definitions of rape and "made to penetrate" in the CDC study were worded with extremely similar language.[11] "Another perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:51 PM
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That quote is intentionally misleading. Here's the quoted study as I found it elsewhere: The CDC found in the 2012 data that 1.715 million[10] (up from 1.267 million in 2010)[11] reported being "made to penetrate" another person in the preceding 12 months, similar to the 1.473 million[10] (2010: 1.270 million)[11] women who reported being raped in the same time period. The definitions of rape and "made to penetrate" in the CDC study were worded with extremely similar language.[11] "Another perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:50 PM
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Your quote is intentionally misleading. Here's the quoted study as I found it elsewhere: The CDC found in the 2012 data that 1.715 million[10] (up from 1.267 million in 2010)[11] reported being "made to penetrate" another person in the preceding 12 months, similar to the 1.473 million[10] (2010: 1.270 million)[11] women who reported being raped in the same time period. The definitions of rape and "made to penetrate" in the CDC study were worded with extremely similar language.[11] "Another perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:48 PM
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Wait a minute here, I think you've done the ol' Texas switch. Here's the quoted study as I found it elsewhere: The CDC found in the 2012 data that 1.715 million[10] (up from 1.267 million in 2010)[11] reported being "made to penetrate" another person in the preceding 12 months, similar to the 1.473 million[10] (2010: 1.270 million)[11] women who reported being raped in the same time period. The definitions of rape and "made to penetrate" in the CDC study were worded with extremely similar langua…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:47 PM
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That was stupidity, not a lie, apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:40 PM
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Thank you. I never stated that male victims of rape were rare? Did I indicate that somewhere? Because that's certainly not my belief. I only stated that those cases of female teachers raping boys were rare, as well as men being forced to pay child support even though it had been proven they were not the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:36 PM
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I know that male adult victims are underreported, but I haven't seen any data regarding the underreporting of male child victims. It would be interesting (well, not interesting, more utterly disturbing) if there is data that indicates that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:17 PM
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Well, I think it's happened, I think I've progressed from "average guy" to "pretty handsome". Though I still have quite boyish good looks so the only attention I get from women is from teenagers...yeesh. Ah well, a GF so it would only be for an ego boost anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:15 PM
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Apologies, I don't believe I made my position clear. Male victims of abuse are far more common than people think. They're not taken seriously. They are stigmatized to an outrageous extent. Female abuse of men is downplayed. I believe in all of that. I asked for a source solely because they stated that women are more violent, abusive and rapey than men, and I was genuinely interested in seeing it. Someone has already provided a source for the abuse side of it which states that 70% of non-reciproc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:11 PM
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Women commit more IPV than men: https://aliesq.medium.com/extensive-research-women-initiate-domestic-violence-more-than-men-men-under-report-it-3bbaa4fbec9d Thank you for providing the link. That 70% of non-reciprocal violent relationships being with a female perpetrator stat is very alarming. I do wonder what they categorise as violence because ime, too many women think it's acceptable or permissible to slap their man if they're having a disagreement. Rarity of the cases doesn't justify lack of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:30 PM
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They'll never understand the joy of getting a hold of a copy of the Sun and looking at Page 3...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:23 PM
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Let me guess, she still hits you with the "I didn't do that!" to this day?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:16 PM
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Yea sorry mate, I just don't believe that you knew what consensual non-consent roleplay was, specifically of a misogynistic variety, knew that you fantasised about and got off to it, all before you even knew what masturbation was (which again, has NOTHING to do with your own misogynistic view towards women)...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:11 PM
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Sure sure, you had fantasies about "CNC", not rape! Before you even knew what masturbation was... Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:06 PM
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And honestly, because I keep having to post this same link because people keep pretending it is not true by ghosting me, I am not interested in getting the other sources because you will just disappear anyways like what always happens. I think that's more likely because it's a broken link 😂 Your entire counter argument is “referencing extreme, yet rare cases” but that is not a counter argument. These “rare” cases very existence proves my argument correct. This should NEVER happen. It certainly i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:04 PM
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Mm. I read comic books and played shooting games when I was kid too. Think that makes me a killer? Lol idiot. You and I both know it's the "I had fantasies about rape before I even knew about jacking off" bit that's the red flag... I say this out of nothing but the kindness of my heart: you're embarrassing yourself Uh huh, sure sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:58 PM
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Well, someone casually admitting to having fantasies about raping women before they even knew about masturbation like it's no big deal certainly wasn't on my PPD bingo sheet for today...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:55 PM
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You got a twofer? Oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:53 PM
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If thinking that there's a pretty clear link between a particular person having misogynistic views and having misogynistic rape fantasies is "as hominem", so be it. I did it, guilty as charged. Take me to debate jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:52 PM
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Oof well in that case I guess you're not getting any smarter anytime soon. Sorry about that. "I am smarter than you because I am a misogynist with misogynistic rape fantasies...but the two definitely have nothing to do with each other" It's a bold play, I'll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:45 PM
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Youre annoyed somehow that I was able to tell your youth so you assume it must be a bad thing: it isn't. I'm 30, my guy. Inb4 "Coulda fooled me! Your inability to accept that my misogynistic attitudes has nothing to do with the misogynistic rape porn I get off to is clearly just a sign of immaturity!" You ain't fooling anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:39 PM
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Second one. I would also appreciate some low effort dessert ideas (no cookies). It's surprisingly easy to make ice cream (at least that's what my mum tells me) and you can get all gourmet with the flavours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:37 PM
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I get that there's a difference between explaining reasons rather than providing excuses. The problem is that people very often use those underlying reasons as excuses. Sorry if I came across accusatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:34 PM
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instead you just sarcastically type something so you can cry sexism on my whole comment? I wasn't responding to your comment... unless this is the main account for that rape porn account... Yes, "men do the doing and women make babies" is pretty clearly a sexist comment. I disagreed with that assessment, hence I responded with that. Ngl, I have not seen many men use that tactic on here, kind of interesting. ...the tactic of answering the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:33 PM
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Nah cnc kinks were there since before I knew how to jerk off let alone form an analysis of reality. Sounds like your misogynistic rape fantasies informed your analysis of reality then 👀 And if you were fantasising about rape before you could even wank... Jesus Christ get some therapy. That's some serial killer shit. The problem is you can't separate hatred from physical or mental variation. Which is why you can't seperate the kind of porn someone watches from an unrelated discussion. I don't hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:31 PM
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The thing is that women are just as violent, abusive and rapey as men. Source please. We live in a world where women are raping children, being let off with a slap on the wrist and allowed to rape more children at her teaching job. And how many more men are caught sexually abusing children? Those stories of female teachers get more attention because they're noteworthy due to their rarity. I totally agree that many of them have been treated far too leniently and that's because of society's percep…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:29 PM
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So I would never justify any type of aggression towards them But you would justify a woman's aggression against a man? You can say you're not justifying all you want, but you then proceeded to justify why they should be treated differently...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:19 PM
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Sure bud, your misogynistic view of women has nothing to do with your misogynistic rape fantasies...yep, nothing to do with it at all 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:17 PM
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"Men do the doing and women have babies"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:16 PM
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No thanks, I'm not going to pretend a guy who is using their misogynistic rape porn account is here for good faith discussion 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:14 PM
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I'm glad he's living his best life ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:10 PM
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Oh great, ANOTHER alt account spewing absolutely bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:09 PM
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An angel!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:06 PM
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As long as you don't mind grooming the dog everyday and hoovering your house every waking minute 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:04 PM
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I agree, displays of aggression are treated differently with men vs women, particularly in family/relationship settings. The go to explanation is always "well men are more violent so there's more of a physical threat", but is that all we judge aggression on? The risk of it turning into a fight? Certainly not. All displays of aggression or excessive anger towards loved ones should be treated seriously, regardless of gender. Far too often I see women offered the get out of jail free card of "but h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:02 PM
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You what? ...Did you just unironically defend sexual predators? Talk about a mask off moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:41 PM
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If you just stick to sparring I doubt brain damage would be a risk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:40 PM
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Oh nooo....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:09 PM
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My GF loves Mina Li
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:53 AM
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Chewing hard foods isn't going to change bone structure as far as I'm aware. It may have an effect on the muscles but not bone. Your chin is certainly not "well developed" because you didn't chew with your front teeth (molars are for chewing).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:52 AM
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A fun silly one https://youtu.be/S5d-AajRd1M?si=KWFQ6tVOimdTObBz
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:58 PM
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A vintage classic https://youtu.be/DzCtS89km6I?si=fDUlvLZtGAH3dljA
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:27 PM
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Depends how good your beard is and how strong your jaw is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:14 PM
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It's rock music for people who don't want any sort of rebellion or edge in their art
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:37 AM
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I'm not disregarding this, but these dynamics still seem somewhat peripheral, moving the needle this way and that, but not altering the fundamental dynamic. I don't understand how societal and cultural treatment of gay people throughout history can be considered "peripheral". I do not think gay male culture would be nearly as woman free as lesbian culture is male free, even if all the things you list were removed from the equation. Gay culture is fundamentally impacted by how society treated the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:29 AM
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As long as you're ok with women lying about n-counts, previous dating history etc, then fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:19 AM
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You can't leave out the impact of homophobia in the equation. The threat of physical violence from male homophobia is always going to be greater than that of female homophobia, ergo avoiding straight male friendship groups has often been seen in history as an act of self-preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:13 AM
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Never claimed that I quoted you, was your general point not that they're overhated? Simmer down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:53 AM
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It's a long and complicated history that doesn't really have a concrete answer. Gay people in general haven't been able to rely on male role models for displays of self expression. Male role models throughout history tend to be those who conform to traditional roles and expectations, whilst female role models in media tend to be those who break those roles (big generalisation of course and rather exclusive to the 20th century) If you're someone whose feelings and inclinations don't conform to tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:52 AM
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Sure they're "overhated" but it doesn't come from nowhere. They're the perfect representation of the downfall of rock in the post-grunge era.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:20 AM
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hence why I'm paying so much taxes haha No way in hell that funding for IVF is affecting your tax bill to a significant extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:43 AM
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Q4A: do you think women should be allowed to have a child if they aren't in a relationship? Yes. If you say yes, do you think the procedure should be free / reimbursed by the state? No, IVF costs a tonne.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:29 AM
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Sure sure, bye bye 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:38 PM
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Do you know what's so sweet about this? I know you're embarrassed, that's why you're going with the "uhmm actually no you conceded" trolling route. It's delightful to see ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:33 PM
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I'll happily take the ban for this 🤷‍♂️ What a wet wipe, got schooled then ran to teacher 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:22 PM
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Aawwh you're going with that? 😂 Whatever helps you believe you came off as anything other than a complete fucking idiot by claiming that all of psychology agrees that genes dictate all human behaviour 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:15 PM
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Yep, that's Evo Psych's claim, which is not falsifiable. The rest of psychology would say that the passing down of said genes is not the be all and end all. So you see how your argument that "psychologists agree that genes can be passed down they agree with Evo Psych" was absolutely brain dead, right? All my lord l just can't with this nonsense anymore 🤣🤣 Yea yea go on, run along after getting your arse handed to you 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:11 PM
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I'm imagining him being like "yea that's crazy....so we fucking or what?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:05 PM
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It’s a place where non-black pill looks discussion can be had and contained. The subreddit was fine for 10 years and didn’t need to discuss looks but somehow it got over run with morons that can’t figure out that being fat and dressing like a loser is an issue now. And somehow it’s the fucking end all be all of discussion? Both red pill and blue pill understood this and it was never a topic of debate in the past because it was one point they actually agreed on Well I'll take your word for it, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:05 PM
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All of psychology would literally agree that children inherent their x-chromosome from their mother and xy from their father, that's behavioral and evo psych 101 And that's a WORLD away from claiming that ALL behaviours are driven by genetics. And no, that's not Evo Psych 101. That's genetics 101, which is not Evo Psych. I don't know why l'm still having this conversation because your friend was miseducated and now your just saying bs You're having this conversation because you got found out to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:01 PM
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Why? What is the point in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:44 PM
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Nah I'm just kidding, of course it's not going to apply to everyone, barely anything does
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:44 PM
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Most institutions can't the fund the course, in most universities your only option is just behaviorism(behavioral psychology) then completing the field which you can go into becoming a clinical therapist Ahh so you're rolling back your initial claim now? It is in fact not the accepted view of the whole academic field of psychology that all human behaviors are driven by genetics? You're now shifting the goal posts to just evo psych? The ol' Texas Switch. Evo psych/bio is another area because it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:40 PM
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And as you would know as a student of psychology, evo psych is not the dominant school of thought and its findings have come under intense criticism. ...Which of course you would already know. Anyways that proves my point that your friend has more to unpack in the psychology field Because she doesn't agree with your opinion of psychology that most would not accept? ...Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:20 PM
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Or....i hate to tell you...😉
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:10 PM
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Yes you did but that's not important Sorry fella, but I just didn't 🤷‍♂️ Lol this is funny, what psychology does your "authority" major in ? Now this l wanna know Master's degree from the University of Warwick in Psychological Research.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:09 PM
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Well aye if that's what you're into, it's right up your alley
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:58 PM
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I didn't downvote you 🤷‍♂️ What did you do to back up your argument? You did nothing but appeal to authority, so I asked my own authority. Sorry you don't like your own quality of argument thrown back at you. Someone's a wee tetchy I see...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:57 PM
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You wha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:43 PM
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Mate, you're the one who called bullshit first 😂 Proven wrong by what? Out of curiosity I asked my friend who has a Master's in Psychology about this, she said no, it's by no means a fundamental law of psychology that all behaviors are driven by genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:43 PM
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Women love that shit Well clearly she fucking didn't 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:17 PM
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That's not the overwhelming opinion of the field of psychology by any means. Don't bullshit. It's the theory that you subscribe to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:11 PM
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Fair enough! It's probably how she would have defined it rather than "booty call"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:10 PM
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Nope, they're not on the level of fundamental laws in a scientific context. They're nowhere near the level of the laws of thermodynamics, for example. They're elements of a compelling theory of human behavior, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:55 PM
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Well in this case, yes. OP assumed that a casual sex arrangement means that you don't have to care about them in any regards beyond sex, and she assumed that a casual sex arrangement means that it's a given they care about you beyond your puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:53 PM
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Their arrangement is what most people would label as "FWB", and I very much believe that's how they would define it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:49 PM
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Calling them "laws" is incredibly misleading, it's still very much a theory that is contentious and not widely accepted by the scientific community.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:47 PM
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People have different expectations of what a FWB means, some place more emphasis on the friends bit, others on the benefits bit. It's hardly manipulative to want your friend with benefits to see you beyond just your available puss. They just have different expectations, which is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:41 PM
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Well clearly she doesn't only value him for the sex he offers because she wanted to have an actual engaging conversation with him. Again, I don't think he's an arsehole, just that they both could have handled the situation better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:22 PM
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The responses are mixed, with most airing on "you're not wrong but didn't go about it the right way", which is perfectly fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:06 PM
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Saying "OK, can you leave please?" after indicating that you have no interest in her beyond sex is always going to come off rude. To think it's a "neutral" statement is just stupid. It's an indicator that you only value this person for the sex they offer. I don't think he's an arsehole, but certainly not great at reading a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:04 PM
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I'm assuming that he meant exchanging pleasantries (i.e. the "we talked for a bit") rather than an actual conversation that one may have with a friend or acquaintance. Of course, that's an assumption. I doubt they had a long, engaging conversation though, and OP himself said he felt awkward having an actual conversation with her. I get both sides. OP thought the expectation was clear, and she either got feelings or wanted to feel like she wasn't just an object that he fucks. Both aren't wrong im…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:54 PM
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I get that there's a need to ensure this sub doesn't become another overt incel sub that gets banned, but don't throw the baby out with the bathwater...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:45 PM
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Yea forgot to mention that both catching feelings is also a possibility 😂 The perfect mix really is a ONS where you have sex a few extra times, preferably if you're in different cities. That was my "best" casual sex arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:44 PM
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If you're even a slightly above average woman with a public profile, it's so fucking easy to get a follower count in the thousands. Of course you look through the following list and it's like 90% dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:41 PM
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When I was having the most amount of hookups, it was the loneliest I had ever felt. Though tbf that was because I had moved away for a job and had no friends in the place I moved to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:39 PM
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I'm glad it's an issue I won't have again, relationships are just more rewarding and simpler to manage imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:36 PM
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Fair play to those who can manage a FWB/Booty call but I've very rarely seen it ever work out well, almost always seems to end with one person catching feelings or the eroding of a pre-existing friendship. I became FWB with a pre-existing friend, we told ourselves things wouldn't get weird or awkward, but of course they did. I got a GF and it became pretty clear that it's almost impossible to say "here's my friend, X! We fucked for a while but dw, everything's a-ok 👍", so of course the friendshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:29 PM
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I'm normally OK with the rules here but the no looks based posts one is ridiculous. How the hell do you discuss dating without discussing looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:54 PM
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Classic tale: booty call catches feelings. Though if it is true that he doesn't give a shit about even having a conversation with her, then I get why she would feel weird about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:40 PM
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Nope, still got laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:33 PM
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Anyone who phrases it like it's some sort of guarantee of success is misguided or misleading. It's not a guarantee, nothing is when it comes to dating. But it's a pretty solid way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:32 PM
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Fine, remain a shut in then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:27 PM
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Having an active social life sounds silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:22 PM
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No, I won't stop telling socially isolated individuals that having a healthy social life is a good way of increasing your successes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:17 PM
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Well the root cause is that it's a large, resource rich, geographically isolated country with a large population that wasn't absolutely destroyed during WW2 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:13 PM
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And you know that because you've already been tested?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:12 PM
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Ah so it's just a disagreement over numbers. ...seriously though mate, get tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:04 PM
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If y'all want to be shut ins, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:03 PM
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The US is the largest economy in the world, that's pretty much why there's so many high paying jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:01 PM
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It absolutely happens ...Who is saying it doesn't? I haven't seen anyone claim that there's no women who like to travel and hook up. P.S. get tested asap. I nearly got Chlamydia from a girl who was travelling... backpackers can be super spreaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:57 PM
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Yep, you're entitled to believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:50 PM
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No. I've played that game before, it is either ignored or you'll find any way possible to dismiss it. Believe me, or don't. Either is OK with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:48 PM
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Reddit, Instagram, the artist formally known as Twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:46 PM
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And I have seen the collective calling out women for having an entitled attitude towards relationships. Woops 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:41 PM
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No, it's false for "LVM." A "LVM" has more chances of finding a partner if they have a healthy social life, over a "LVM" who is a shut in that doesn't have friends. If you disagree with that, then I'm sorry but that's pure blackpill brain rot. These women aren't getting any nicer. It's gotten a little cold out there. Haven't you noticed? Yea yea always women's fault blah blah blah you might as well give up and never try anything to improve your situation blah blah blah etc etc Crabs in a bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:40 PM
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Becoming religious for any reason other than "you believe in God(s) and want to express your faith" is pretty deceitful. Like bruh, God gonna figure that shit out pretty quick 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:36 PM
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Wasn't Solanis the one who was schizophrenic and wanted to kill Andy Warhol?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:33 PM
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And once again, exceptions to the rule don't disprove the rule. He's fine to believe that it hasn't worked for him and doesn't apply in his individual case, however to declare it as false for everyone because he, as one person's own experience, didn't find it to be true for himself? That's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:30 PM
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The graph is very unclear when it comes to percentages, but let's say the average of them is 5%. There's 6 different avenues there, so that's 30% overall. It depends what you label as "all the time". There's also studies that beg to differ, so the overall picture is pretty unclear. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/jul/12/two-thirds-of-couples-start-out-as-friends-research-finds
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:06 PM
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Ugly enough, short enough or poor enough to be considered completely undatable? Not a large amount in the slightest. None of this negates the rule that you have better chances being sociable vs being a shut in. Do you disagree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:03 PM
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Do you participate in church groups and events? They're your best bet for finding someone like minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:43 PM
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You're absolutely right, I would. Thank you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:42 PM
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How old are you? Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:41 PM
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Yep, he can say that, but he didn't 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:40 PM
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It really does depend on how you do it. If you're approaching it in good faith and not blaming women for your lack of success, then it's rare that you'll get the "YOU'RE NOT ENTITLED TO SEX/RELATIONSHIPS!!" response. You may however get the "work on other factors of your life, your lack of sex/relationships is not the main issue", which I do believe is dismissive. Romantic loneliness is certainly a cause for pain in people's lives and it's just silly to pretend it's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:39 PM
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Nope, his point is that being sociable and having a healthy social life doesn't help because it hasn't helped him specifically. I'd say the exact same thing to him even if he was 5'6: exceptions to the rule don't disprove the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:36 PM
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No all this because I’m tired of every other could be discussion becoming “you aren’t entitled to sex” Because it's a perfectly valid response to entitled attitudes 🤷‍♂️ I would say the same thing to any woman who was whining about not being able to find a relationship in an entitled manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:32 PM
2

Now THIS is peak brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:27 PM
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...All this because women said not to lie in order to get sex? That's the trigger point for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:23 PM
18

The general rule is that dating is harder for short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:21 PM
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Bruh this is the exact same shit as "well my mate is 5'6 and he has a girlfriend, ergo being short is no hindrance to men whatsoever!" Just because you have failed despite being sociable doesn't negate a general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:09 PM
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It is thoroughly depressing that OLD has become the main forum for meeting potential partners. ...I say this as someone who met his GF on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:58 AM
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That's just one of the excuses that women who expect the man to pay for expensive dates use, it's just part of the suite of go to lines. "I want to filter out fuckboys", "I spent money looking good, so the man should pay for the date", "the man should have to work for this prize" etc etc. I'm very much glad I'm in a country where going Dutch is far more of a norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:55 AM
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The answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:48 AM
2

You are valid, King
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:33 PM
1

Not really, I'll think people are fit but it's not like I fancy them. May have something to do with having a GF, but I know that's not a barrier for many...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:02 PM
2

Stop spreading anti-boob propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:18 PM
1

I'll never turn down a nice ass in my face 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:09 PM
2

It's a psyop from Russia to get western men to abandon their ass obsession!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:04 PM
1

It's the best moment, boob reveals get burned into my memory
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:00 PM
1

It's more that if you're more into worshipping boobs over ass, then naturally the foreplay will be more sensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:54 PM
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Correct. I don’t disagree, but I think west euro women care more about looks than men do. My argument is that looks open the door 95 % of the time. If you are unattractive or normal in looks, and wish to date up, your best bet is to become a niche and/or join an ideology. You cannot compete with Chad on looks alone. West European women almost exclusively seek out the best looking man, for anything a man could provide in the past is now provided by either herself or the government. Women have alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:53 PM
7

If that were to occur, this sub would cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:47 PM
2

I saw a tweet saying that boob men are better in bed than ass men. Finally feel seen in my struggles to keep the boob man flame going ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:46 PM
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What mothers are teaching their sons that women are subservient beings who exist to cook, clean, get fucked and make kids? Of course traditional/conservative attitudes tend to get passed down through familial attitudes, but simply having a stay at home mother doesn't mean that those more sinister attitudes will naturally develop. This of course completely ignores the important role that men have to play in raising men, sons tend to look up to their fathers for inspiration as to how a man should …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:42 PM
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Yes, no one in their right mind is going to argue that conventionally attractive people don't have it easier in dating. The argument of the post is that women don't even like men because they aren't as obsessed with men's bodies as men are with women's. My overall point is that whilst that's true, it doesn't mean women aren't physically attracted to men or don't like them (yes, even "average men").
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:36 PM
2

What's most concerning is the amount of men who get absolutely shredded yet do zero cardio. Men be looking like Hercules yet get out of breath walking up 3 flights of stairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:26 PM
2

...you know that person is a dude right? They're agreeing with OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:22 PM
1

It gets taken way too far but it's certainly the most "simple" way of becoming more physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:20 PM
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1 in 5 men certainly don't have "beautiful women throwing themselves at them". The men who are physically attractive enough to such an extent that beautiful women will forgo their usual facets for developing physical attraction are very much outliers. Hence physical attraction does operate differently for men and women. I've had plenty of attention from women, but it's certainly different to male attention (which I have also experienced).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:18 PM
1

I mean, all of the examples you posted are the results of working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:09 PM
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Yes, heterosexual women are physically attracted to men. It's not in the same way that heterosexual men are physically attracted to women, but there is still physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:47 PM
1

Ayye that's better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:54 AM
1

Damn mate that's a weak attempt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:51 AM
1

Ahh just wanted to troll without it affecting your main then eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:48 AM
1

Yaaay another low effort burner account. What did you get banned for then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:46 AM
2

It's somewhat true but don't expect every obese woman to be a demon in the sack. I've had sex with two obese women in my time, one was great, the other was shit 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:26 AM
1

She'll either be those guys' rock bottom or their best "surprisingly great shag" story
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:18 AM
1

Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:54 AM
2

It's basically an impossible rule to implement, honestly at this point just do away with the rule entirely. Downvotes are inevitable. And it is disproportionally used by women against men for points they hate. I mean I've been downvoted by redpillers and Blackpillers plenty of times, doesn't feel disproportionate to me (though I am a man)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:54 AM
1

It's a lot but it's not too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:35 AM
2

Oh hell yeah, I've met tonnes of creepy girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:23 AM
1

You're going to die alone without your virgin waifu then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:21 AM
1

That's pretty pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:20 AM
2

True, we all gotta get cringey at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:44 PM
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How do you playfully question the bond between two people and accomplish this? I've asked a few times for examples of what you think he is suggesting people say to these women. I think it's pretty clear you have no idea. You know what negging is right? Do that but for a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:24 PM
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I mean OP thought that the guy who brings a guitar to a party is the most popular person there, so clearly he's from an older generation. Makes everything make a lot more sense in hindsight, but eh he seems pretty harmless, being a bit cringe is hardly the worst of crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:21 PM
3

You don't need to demonstrate it to me dw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:04 PM
3

I am well loved and very popular. It's just a fact of life you need to accept. Well, I'll take your word for it...but from my experience no mf who has to say "I am well loved and very popular!" is well loved and very popular. "Any man who must say I am the King is no true King."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:56 PM
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He might mean, for example, teasing that they might be more than just friends. Is the bond really just plantonic? Etc Sure, that's what he meant...come off it. You want them to like you and think you're funny and nice, it's social proof. You might be talking to a group of girls, pick up that fact one of them is the silly one, that's kind of her character in the group. After she does something silly you might joke that she is the "brains of the group" or something sarcastically. Obviously teasing…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:53 PM
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My motivation is to have a great time and break up the monotony of terrible drunks vomiting out their favorite songs. Getting laid is just the side effect. Come on mate, be real. It's straight out of the PUA playbook and you yourself are a PUA. Don't bullshit me and say your motivation is just to have fun, with getting laid being some unintended side effect. But let's say my motivation was to just be an unapologetic attention whore and get laid. Which it is. Again, let's be real here. It has wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:47 PM
1

...When was the last time you went to a party? Because this shit certainly isn't true in the slightest from my experiences of partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:36 PM
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Lots of shit gets discussed at great length here, doesn't mean that there's truth to it or that it applies to some random woman that you have no idea about 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:34 PM
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The purpose isnt to mess with their friendship, what a weird reading. That's the literal fucking reading. "to playfully question the bond between the two girls if there are a pair of them." What else do you think "bond" means in this context? And I'm very well aware of the PUA playbook for this kind of bullshit. You state an action which is designed to manipulate the receiver into being more receptive to your approach (e.g. to make them question their own sense of worth or to come between two fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:27 PM
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Did all those people know what your actual motivation for doing so was, i.e. to pick up girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:19 PM
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Bringing an instrument unprompted to an event in order to impress people is always going to come off as pretty cringe. It's a pretty blatant grab for attention, which is often considered cringey. It's the same energy as the guy who brings an acoustic guitar to a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:16 PM
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Oh yea, it just can't be that OP wasn't that charming or that she simply didn't fancy him. It just must be that she was fucked by some hot dude recently... it's always the girl's fault! It's never on you! It's far easier to make some ridiculous assumption!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:13 PM
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Whipping it out at a karaoke event unprompted is the cringe bit. Guitars are cool. Being that guy who brings an acoustic guitar to a party to impress people? That's cringe. Same for this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:10 PM
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"Just teasing" that is designed to "question" the bond between two friends? Get tae fuck. It doesn't matter if you say "it's just teasing 🥺", if you're doing it with the explicit purpose of coming between the friendship of two people then it certainly isn't """just""" teasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:06 PM
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The "established market"? The fuck? Fucking is fucking. There's plenty of cringe people who get laid, doesn't mean it's not cringe. Whipping out a harmonica at a karaoke bar in order to pick up girls is cringe, if they do get laid then it's just cringe shit performed by someone who had sex. Regardless of whether it works or not, peacocking (especially when taken to this degree) is pretty cringe. If it works, fair play to you. Your cringe shit worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:00 PM
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I ain't your targeted demo fella
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:13 PM
2

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:12 PM
5

Looks like it's not all about looks then...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:04 PM
9

You can still be cringe and get laid. Furries get up to all sorts of debauchery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:56 PM
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Yea I wouldn't mind, sometimes pictures flatter or do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:07 PM
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I think that age gap relationships do produce their own issues, at the end of the day though people are completely free to live their life how they want it. Holding gendered double standards regarding them is a big no no for me. It's all just "standards" and preferences" and whatever, but delusional, unrealistic or unreasonable standards are not immune to criticism. If you're some 40 year old guy who isn't particularly wealthy, and you're waiting for your perfect idea of a hot submissive 20 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:35 PM
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Redpillers/Blackpillers hanging onto outdated data and ignoring all other studies because it aligns with their views? Why I never /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:04 PM
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And how does he access so many females? He's not particularly good looking, and he has beta demeanors Jeez, almost like all this alpha/beta/sigma shit is bollocks....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:53 AM
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Have a couple games designed to poke fun at various aspects of a girls personality or to playfully question the bond between the two girls if there are a pair of them. ...Yea, that definitely is sleazy manipulation mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:27 AM
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Just anecdotal of course, but I've noticed a lot more Zoomers buck the trend of tattoos. Inevitably it'll become something more associated with the older generation (i.e. millennials) and will ergo become uncool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:06 AM
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It's certainly easier said than done, but it is the most effective way of becoming naturally charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:58 AM
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I think the tattoo boom will die eventually, it's already on a downwards trend imo. Like with all trends, they're temporary. Don't get a permanent modification to your body to fulfill a temporary trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:57 AM
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It seems like you're overly focused on hyperbole and whataboutism. "How can low confidence be the most unattractive trait? What about a guy who has zero control over his bowel movements??"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:55 AM
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That's some real vintage PUA level of cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:52 AM
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Actually that's a lie, mod says because it's a looks post (which is a silly rule, how can a sub that discusses sex/dating not acknowledge looks as a topic?)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:53 PM
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Probably because OP wasn't being civil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:52 PM
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Yes I think it's ridiculous how we treat the relationship between youth and beauty, however it's very difficult to deny there's no link. But to blame it solely on RP podcasts is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:06 AM
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This is probably the most ridiculous post I've seen from my fellow "bluepillers" (I hate any pill category but if I had to "pick a side", it would unfortunately be that) https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/KOOWQvPWVd No, it can't be that we've existed in an image based culture for decades upon decades. It can be that beauty has been tied to perceived youth for essentially our entire existence as a culture. It can't be that cosmetic procedures have become less expensive and far more easil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:43 AM
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Bruh, it's certainly not "red pill men on YT" causing this. Beauty has always been tied to youth and as cosmetic procedures have become less expensive and more prevalent, more older women are opting for it. It's because of our image obsessed culture. It's not because they watched some chuds on a podcast giving some rant about the "wall" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:38 AM
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Never underestimate the weird shit that men will get off to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:46 AM
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The holy Bible may preach peace, but when it is Christendom itself that is threatened, it is every Christian's duty to defend all that is holy. His Holiness, the Pope, has called a Crusade to reclaim the Holy Lands from the infidel, who would deny Christian pilgrims their right to visit the holy places. It is time for the armies of Christendom to put aside their differences and unite under one banner - the Sign of the Cross - and give back God's children what is rightfully theirs...or die trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:29 PM
3

I just redownloaded Medieval 2: Total War
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:41 PM
3

Why do people say it’s misogynistic to have sex with a woman that you wouldn’t commit to? Who says that? Literally never heard it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:39 PM
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Being hit on, cat called is a passive experience. Sure, it may offer some lessons but it's not substantial experience by any means. A woman isn't going to be relationship ready just because she got hit on and cat called.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:47 PM
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Well I can only speak for the UK. Humour is a crucial element of how we communicate with friends and partners (I know this is by no means exclusive to us but OP seems to only think it's an "Anglo" thing). Simply put, if they don't make you laugh then there's no basis for a friendship/relationship. Girls like funny guys because it's a sign of being socially adept, and it just feels good to be around someone who makes you laugh, laughing releases them feel good chemicals in the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:11 PM
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Everyone who has a strong accent doesn't think they have a strong accent 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:56 PM
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The pomp and "spectacle" of American football is simply something that's not conducive to UK sports culture. It's fine, it won't be a true reflection of UK sports culture but I don't have anything against British people who do enjoy American sports culture, I enjoy elements of it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:55 PM
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I know I was just being facetious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:47 PM
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It's definitely one of the best American accents
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:44 PM
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You think these guys go on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:44 PM
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Sure, it's my personal opinion, I don't give 2 shits about stats. Lol Well okey dokey, opinion discarded then 😅 No I'm saying at this point even PUA it's better than all of this whining men are doing here. At least they were doing something. Not just here arguing nonsense, listening to dumb shit, blaming women, etc. Now this is an opinion I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:42 PM
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It won't be a representation of UK sports culture, it'll be an Americanisation of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:40 PM
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Because the "successful" fisherman you know are most likely naturals that never struggled. "How do you do it??" "Idk man just talk to them"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:34 PM
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Ahhh more innocent times. Seeing a tiny peak of a girl's ass because her trousers were riding too low was the most exciting thing. Teenaged boys really are just horny lil gremlins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:33 PM
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I don't like it because it bolsters the argument for the European Super League in football/soccer, which makes an absolute mockery of the local fans who made those clubs what they are. We have very different sports cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:30 PM
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When it's fits the argument, plenty. What argument? Sorry, I don't understand what point your making? You're saying it's easier than ever to hook up, stats indicate differently. You say that PUA needs to be brought back even though its emergence coincided with that decrease in casual sex rates (not saying there's causation btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:29 PM
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Yea I've heard Germany is mad for the NFL. sold out even faster than in many US cities. Because whilst there's far less fans, there's far more scarcity for that product. Hence when there is a game or two in their country, it'll sell out. That’s why you’ll have a team eventually. Oh God please no 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:25 PM
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In the UK, NFL games will sell out stadiums, but the same can be said for Premier League games when they do pre-season tours of the US. It's still very much a niche sport here, though the very small fanbase is dedicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:18 PM
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Everyday we stray further from God's light
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:03 PM
1

Women love sex. Who's saying that women don't like sex? Bring pick up back at this point. I swear it was never easier to get laid like it is now. Rates of casual sex has decreased since the 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:59 PM
1

Y'all do make good burgers and media
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:42 PM
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Just make sure she's actually a match for you personality wise too. Who gives af if she's from a lower socioeconomic background, you ain't Rose and this ain't the Titanic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:18 PM
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I really just don't understand how it's such a big deal. It's one female protagonist out of the whole series. One. I just hope the story and characters are better, I hated Michael and Trevor (with Franklin just being kind of boring).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:03 AM
1

What do you feel you are lacking?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:27 AM
0

You think you have to be utterly perfect otherwise you have zero chance of romance/sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:07 AM
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Probably because the social expectation to get married was far stronger in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:49 AM
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Well yea, I'm not implying that they throw caution to the wind and go absolutely bonkers regardless of safety. If you get invited to parties, go. If the opportunity arises to take drugs, if you're comfortable with it and know how to enjoy them safely (and know which ones not to do), do it. That's my opinion. Hell I never even said you had to take drugs, just fucking go to parties, try them out and have fun. It seemed like you were implying partying is synonymous with drug taking, hence I gave my…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:07 PM
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What is there to respond to? You think partying and taking drugs, even if you're being careful and practicing harm reduction, is "boundaryless hedonism." I think that's sanctimonious bollocks. That's my response, sorry fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:51 PM
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Just say that it's important that you have access to boundaryless hedonism. Lol there it is. The typical sanctimonious tripe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:15 PM
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You're just pro-party culture because of retro-active FOMO. And you're just anti-party because you see it as "degeneracy" For the record, I've partied a lot since. However you want to socialise, do it. I just think that partying is fun and with harm reduction practices the risk can be minimised. Of course there's no such thing as zero risk, but if you don't want to take that risk it's fine, I just think the rewards far exceed the risks when done right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:27 PM
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“This post was unusually popular in your country!” It was a picture of someone’s sandwich... Why would I care?!? Mine was an empty packet of meat on the London Underground... Reddit wot u doing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:02 PM
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Rob a bank
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:51 PM
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I wouldn't necessarily say that peer pressure is the right way of achieving this, if anything it'll push socially isolated individuals further away. Parents in general should be OK with their kids going to parties. Freaking out over hypothetical worst case scenarios is not a reasonable approach to take when your kid gets to the age where parent-less parties become a thing. Teenagers should be taking risks, they should be engaging in behaviour that they wouldn't want their parents to know about, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:50 PM
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Bruh ngl this just sounds like mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:30 PM
1

When does your holiday allowance period start and end?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:50 AM
2

There's no secret really, they're just confident people who are socially adept.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:32 AM
1

Opens?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:29 AM
1

If you keep clicking the "I'm not interested in this" (or something akin to) button the algorithm should eventually get the message. I started getting brain rot Manosphere content on my YT feed after watching ONE video that someone linked here. I managed to get them off my feed after saying not interested for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:05 AM
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Your algorithm is fucked, but it's very easy for it to become fucked and fall into the trend. Ragebait is one of the easiest ways of getting clicks, with "raging at women" being one of (if not the) biggest sub-genre of it. It's very easy for young men to be sucked into that rabbit hole of content. You're curious about what women think, so you watch street interview content which is heavily edited and manipulated. You watch a few of those vids and boom, your feed is now nothing but blackpill brai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:54 AM
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Tonight, on "PPD Thinks Media is Reality"!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:19 AM
3

Nah, never turn down a free meal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:07 AM
2

If it slaps it slaps
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:06 AM
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Started off as rock, then became hip-hop, now it's experimental shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:11 PM
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....huh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:32 PM
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Define young
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:15 PM
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Not quite
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:15 PM
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Not sure how to feel that the biggest chuck goes to blackpills though. It should be "not that surprised"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:54 PM
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'tis the way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:48 PM
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I actually find it insulting to think that texting is an apt replacement for irl communication...what fucking dystopian nightmare is that??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:23 PM
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That's because social media and other online spaces have become the new third spaces. They've been replaced, not erased. Which yes, means that people's in-person social skills may have declined. But... They're not an apt substitute by any means. I don't agree with this. I don't think it's evident that people are socializing less or have less friends than before. People just socialize differently. Insteading of meeting up with friends in -person every day, they'll text every day and then meet up …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:18 PM
4

When do you want to host your pity party? I'll bring cake
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:09 PM
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Look, I totally get that far too much is made of the supposed epidemic of male "sexlessness". But to say that loneliness isn't a significant issue facing today's society, and that it's all just individuals skirting responsibility, is frankly pretty daft. The concept of third spaces have almost completely collapsed. Working is becoming more and more remote. We have a generation of younger people who are basically socially crippled due to an over dependency on online communication. People are drin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:01 PM
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I mean yea, it's a power fantasy: There's a super hot virgin waifu who will become a sex kitten for you and only you because you're just so damn appealing. Some just haven't figured out it's a fantasy yet unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:52 PM
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Paha if you want to label "most people have at least some sort of a moral backbone" as being "biased", you go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:43 PM
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Well yeah I expect people to give personalized advice, not some cookie cutter answer. So if someone who had committed a morally wrong crime asked for advice online, you would advise them on how to get away with said crime? Sorry buddy but it's just not how people work...nor should it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:58 AM
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Well a cheater is pretty much by definition a a morally compromised and selfish person so it would make sense to give them that advice then, right? So why would that mean that people think "oh this is a shit person, I'll give them advice that helps them continue to be a shit person"? You're either being needlessly contrarian or you have a bizarre inability to process how people think from a moral perspective... Why? You think the guilt might be too much to bear for them? Partly that, and the cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:42 AM
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I'm just saying that telling your partner is going to have real life consequences, probably them leaving you so yes giving the advice to tell your partner you cheated doesn't necessarily seem to be the best advice for the cheater to me If you're a morally compromised and selfish person, then yes it would seem like the "right" thing to do. It's advice that is rarely given because frankly, it's how a Cunt would think. You don't think being a coward and avoiding responsibility might end up the long…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:32 AM
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....which is presumably "don't ever tell them you cheated and get away with it Scott free"? Come on mate, you know that's not the right thing to do and you know why that's rarely given as advice. It's advising someone who has done something very wrong to be a coward and avoid responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:19 AM
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The right thing for your partner is to know the truth and not exist in a relationship that is based on a lie. Don't give me the "I'm protecting them by not telling them about me cheating!" bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:10 AM
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Yes, telling your partner about your infidelity is the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:06 AM
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I mean it was pretty obvious that a lot of people here base their views on assumptions rather than experiences (or base their whole worldview on the worst of teenaged behaviour during their school years).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:47 AM
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You're 17 aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:22 PM
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Oh I very much make fun of that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:42 PM
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Mate, Vedic Astrology is bollocks too. Just because it dates back thousands of years doesn't grant it any legitimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:52 PM
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True but they're certainly not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:38 PM
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There's a big difference between being sexually open minded and posting sexual content online. If you're cool with it, that's absolutely dandy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:35 PM
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I think you'd actually find more men who are comfortable with onlyfans over producing sexual content for free. At least with onlyfans there's a financial incentive, for the latter the only incentive is male validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:23 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:34 AM
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Could you expand on that please? I'm a guy and didn't think it stood out but all I can pick out is that his pictures are very samey and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:15 AM
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...Man just freely gave out his public tinder profile and images of his dick? Good lord, what is he thinking...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:14 AM
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And if you wanna take the guidance of one country's public health messaging on board, that's perfectly fine. Just don't try to lecture those who do like to have a drink every now and then, considering there is also plenty of medical evidence that alcohol in moderation has little effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:01 AM
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I was going to say that literally every single astrology girl I've met has used that line...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:57 AM
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His pictures are all very samey, nothing really stands out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:54 AM
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The three date rule is a very common belief, hell I heard of it before I even started dating. There's no "magic number". The three date rule is a popular one, but if you both want to fuck on the first date (or after whatever number of dates) then there's nowt wrong with it. Don't take the beliefs of Redpillers/Blackpillers so seriously, they are certainly not the representative view of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:52 AM
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I'm far too weak not to take this bait...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:50 AM
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I mean, men accompany their GFs to gigs they wouldn't otherwise go to all the time, or watch movies they wouldn't otherwise watch, or are fine with their GF having a room for their chosen hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:49 AM
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I can't really agree with this based on my personal experiences, I've met a lot of people who have a rather rigid physical type. I know a girl whose exes (and current partner) look almost identical. I know a guy who only dates tall, "Amazonian" looking women. I know a guy who only dates Mediterranean girls. I know a girl who only dates men with long hair. I know many girls who will only date "tall, dark and handsome". There's countless others that I can't be arsed to mention. Sure, a lot of peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:46 AM
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And those men are wrong and bad for personally insulting you. Have I been unkind to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:31 AM
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It's unfair to insult you, it's not unfair to challenge the assertions that astrology makes. It depends on context, if you offhand mentioned astrology then I'm not going to challenge it at all. If you start giving the whole spiel about it (which lots of astrology girls I have met do) then I'm going to call bullshit. If a friend started going on about the validity of phrenology, I'm going to call bullshit. Same for astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:28 AM
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I have looked into it, it's complete bollocks. Look, it's completely dandy that you're into it and as long as you don't give it too much credence then that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:22 AM
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From my dating experience, astrology girls tend to be a bit...mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:14 AM
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I mean, astrology is pseudoscience. It was originally considered a scientific theory during its inception until it was well and truly debunked, then had a revival as a "spiritual" belief during the 60s. Pseudoscience gets mocked all the time. People should show a base level of respect on a personal level, but if you're asserting that astrology has any sort of legitimacy as a model for personal relations then any challenges to that would be perfectly valid. The Taylor Swift mockery is a bit uncal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:13 AM
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Nah I just skim read it and made a stupid and obvious mistake, mistake corrected. This is why people accuse us of gaslighting haha. I don't think you meant anything bad by it BTW. In this case you would be correct for assuming that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:33 PM
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Oops never mind I've been dumb dumb. I don't think OP's position is reflective of women or society at large. The vast majority of people acknowledge that physical attraction matters and the media/popular culture reinforces this message over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:49 PM
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...Well I need to improve my reading comprehension. Apologies 😅 I don't think OP is reflective of a common attitude amongst society, the vast majority of women acknowledge that physical attraction matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:48 PM
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And nothing in there indicates that physical attraction doesn't matter at all, there's nothing that says those partners of those men weren't attracted to the conventionally unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:47 PM
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I don't agree just because there's plenty of women who will say they "struggle" in dating despite having numerous boyfriends, those relationships just didn't work out and that's a struggle to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:33 PM
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Sorry, don't see that version of it nearly as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:31 PM
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If your definition is “able to get casual sex relatively easily”, then most guys aren’t doing alright. It's ridiculous that this is treated as the sole marker of success for a lot of Redpillers/Blackpillers. "Yea I can get a GF pretty easily...but I want casual sex with hot women whenever I want! I'm such a failure 😭"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:24 PM
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I think that everyone feels like dating is a struggle, though yea it is tough out there for average men. It's not as difficult as people here make it out to be, not by any means. But you will feel like you're bashing your head against a wall sometimes. I'm an average guy with average guy friends, we've all had our struggles at points in time, but we've all found success at times as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:22 PM
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What is unreasonable or unrealistic about this? Because the vast majority of 18-28 year olds don't want to date a 48 year old man. He's not understanding (or refuses to understand) that his preferred age range is simply not a realistic expectation for 48 year old men to have (unless they're very very wealthy). Clearly, it is unrealistic because he hasn't gotten any matches or dates with them 🤷‍♂️ I'd say it's about as reasonable and realistic as women proportionately wanting a man over 180cm And…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:15 PM
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She looks like a mix of Bjork, Carey Mulligan and Cara Delevingne.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:08 PM
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I very much doubt this guy is sending flowers to every person he's been friends with every single one of their birthdays. You're entitled to your opinion but I think you're being purposely obtuse here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:05 PM
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It's a "romantic" gesture that shows commitment and thought. Yes, I can totally imagine someone thinking that this is a worthwhile romantic gesture. Unless he's doing it for all his friends (which there's no indication of such), it's absolutely a romantic gesture. Also likely knows she has a BF so this is as much as he can get away with whilst maintaining plausible deniability. And lol wasn't even a friend, just a tinder match.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:03 PM
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...yea definitely don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:00 PM
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....You really going to say with a straight face that this guy, who is sending flowers to the same woman every single birthday, despite not even being good friends, is just doing it for the sake of being "nice"? Doesn't have any romantic motives behind the gesture? Mate, come on. Don't play dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:58 PM
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He's entitled to have whatever preference he likes, that doesn't mean that preference can't be labelled as unreasonable or unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:56 PM
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Bruh, come on. It is weird. He doesn't know her all that well from the looks of it and sending flowers to someone you don't even speak to EVERY birthday is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:55 PM
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He is either desperate for you or utterly committed to the bit. If it's the latter, it's bizarre...but commendable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:53 PM
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Judging from some of the shit people say here, it's certainly not a guarantee. Poe's law and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:48 PM
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"That's just his preference!! Who are you to challenge it?? As we all know, we arbitrarily decided that preferences can never be challenged or questioned for reasons that will never be explained, no matter how unreasonable or unrealistic said preferences are..." Also "young at heart", fucking lol. You ain't fooling any hot 20 year old with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:46 PM
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OLD is pretty rough for black women, especially if she's in a city that doesn't have a particularly large black population. Of course there's inevitably going to be some hyperbole with what she's saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:26 PM
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Like shooting fish in a bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:17 PM
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"I am unable to find someone who wants to have casual sex with me, it's over for me" "Do you go to bars/clubs?" "No, I hate nights out" "Do you go to raves/festivals?" "Eww no, bunch of degenerate druggies" "Do you go to any parties?" "No, not my thing" "So you don't participate in any activity that is conducive to hooking up?" "Well women and chads can just go on dating apps and get laid easily if they want to" "OK, well you're not a woman or a chad, you gotta work with the parameters you got."…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:05 PM
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Beautiful lil fella ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:54 PM
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Very true, without knowing them personally it will inevitably come across as an empty platitude. It's the issue with all dating advice given to strangers on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:47 PM
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But I guess the problem is me, right? It always is, no matter what. Is this sarcastic or? Because yea, you are the common denominator...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:43 PM
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And y'all ain't Biggie 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:37 PM
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Yes, it does
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:53 AM
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Consuming mercury and other toxic metals in "moderation" won't technically kill you immediately earlier, doesn't mean it's a good idea And if it made you inebriated and considered within acceptable personal risk, hell maybe we'd do it. I'd hedge a bet though that mercury is far worse for you than alcohol even if both are taken in moderation. Why do people feel the need to drink to enjoy those things though, that's the real question. Because it makes it more fun and helps to bring down people's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:36 AM
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Not a woman, but yes that's going to make a lot of women uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:20 AM
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As in there are people in this thread explicitly stating that physical attraction doesn't matter at all and that personality is the only thing that matters when it comes to attraction? I mean OP states they know men who are not conventionally attractive yet got a partner because of their personality, that's not the same as stating that physical attraction doesn't matter at all for everyone. There's nothing in there that suggests that their partners aren't physically attracted to them. Thinking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:12 AM
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Well, the majority of comments from women on the thread itself indicate differently...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:59 AM
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Humanity has always sought vices. Hell, even a lot of animals enjoy being drunk too. If done in moderation, drinking alcohol can be a perfectly fine activity to engage in. It's fun to be inebriated and I don't see much wrong with enjoying a bit of Dutch courage. Of course if you're only capable of being charming after a drink, then that's an issue. Fun shit happens in bars. Dancing, singing, friends enjoying a laugh together, strangers becoming friends, strangers becoming lovers, humans need tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:46 AM
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The revenge fantasy of "Guy rejects girl who rejected him when they were younger because now she's a used up whores with kids" is so funny to me. Young boys like to imagine they're Batman, perennially single and bitter men in their 20s/30s like to imagine the above. But hey, I get it. I have little fantasies that I obsess over too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:18 AM
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Almost every woman I know would happily give most guys with a good personality a chance, regardless of their status or physical appearance. I just don't for the life of me understand where you guys get this idea from though... The only people I think who peddle this are mums, who of course are going to present a very idealised version of the world to their kids. The world is a constant enforcement of the message that physical attraction matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:09 AM
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So she's being tutored rather than she is the tutor? I still think it's likely it was a genuine offer of help. Again, doesn't mean it's not an invitation to ask her out but I wouldn't run with that as my primary assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:01 AM
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I mean there's a difference between "argument I don't agree with" and a troll argument. I've seen some ridiculous arguments here that I've still engaged with in good faith because OP clearly did. Of course, there's going to be people who are snarky even to a well constructed post that they happen to not agree with. I agree they're shitty, that's why I initially responded to you saying I was in broad agreement. More arguments should be engaged with in good faith...but certainly not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:00 AM
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Because a "this is stupid" reply rarely gets a response in my experience. The whole "ignore trolls and they'll go away" argument just doesn't hold up. If the top comments on a bad faith post are akin to "this is fucking stupid" then that tends to set the tone with no one engaging in what the troll actually wants, which is that back and forth. f it's a troll wouldn't at best the arguement be to post the true point with links to supporting data and ignore the "lol nah"s or to ignore the whole thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:44 AM
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Person X gives a stupid argument. Person Y says it's a stupid argument. Person X then shits a brick over an "ad hominem" attack, which it isn't. Discussion is then derailed and turns into a debate over whether or not it is and hominem. That's what they're getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:38 AM
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Not everything that is posted here is worthy of debate, or hell even possible to debate. Non-falsifiable, conspiratorial, absurd and outrageous takes with zero supporting evidence can't be "debated" as there's nothing to be debated. Good faith, well constructed responses need good faith, well constructed arguments as a pre-requisite. Also your point is based on the assumption that people giving these ridiculous arguments are approaching it with good faith and aren't trolling, which is just not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:32 AM
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Considering she is a tutor, it likely is just a genuine offer of help. Always a chance it was an invitation to ask her out, but I certainly wouldn't go with that as an initial assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:21 AM
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I mean rich Asian women tend to be pretty attractive regardless of make-up. Being able to spend a lot on make-up will inevitably make it look better in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:18 AM
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It really should be noted that these big transformative makeup looks are only going to look good on social media. If you were to look at them in person it would look way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:12 AM
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I broadly agree....but with a lot of the posts/comments here, the only valid response is "this is stupid", because they truly are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:07 AM
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I miss the days when people's makeup skills were nowhere near as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:00 AM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:59 AM
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I know, it's in the realm of hair grooming though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:52 AM
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It's a valuable trait...to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:40 AM
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Oh the Blackpillers took over a long time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:39 AM
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Beard hides weak chins
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:38 AM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:55 PM
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That's a good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:22 PM
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Keep it up! 10 pounds in a month is great progress. But I do have a ogre-like face so I don’t see that happening You'd be surprised with how much losing weight can improve your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:21 PM
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On a macro level yes, on a micro level no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:16 PM
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"People are made to feel ashamed for having perfectly normal bodies. Incredibly common and healthy bodily features such as cellulite, stretch marks, scars and even just glimpses of body fat are treated like they're disgusting aberrations by the media and popular culture. We need to encourage representation of normal bodily features so that people understand that no, they're not some freak for having said features. We'll call it body positivity!" "Sounds good, I shouldn't be made to feel like a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:26 AM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:12 PM
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Oh I get the point, I just think it's a lazy, cliché response that doesn't add anything and completely (and intentionally) misunderstands moral relativism as a concept. Hell they didn't even say it was "wrong", just that women's feelings on this subject shouldn't be ignored and considered incorrect as they are the ones being approached. Thank you for this awfully bad faith approach ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:30 PM
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...So you believe that the societal expectation that we shouldn't shit in the streets is in question because slavery was once accepted? Answer that directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:25 PM
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Goes right over your head huh Oh don't worry, I very much understood your terrible comparison. I just think it's a false equivalency. Just because a group of individuals socially believe it's okay or not okay at a time. Doesn't mean it's right. And absence of societal approval is no suggestion that it actually should be approved of. People currently believe it's not OK to shit in the streets, would you say "well, people thought slavery was OK back in the day! Why shouldn't we challenge the notio…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:16 PM
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Someone who has a chronic mental illness is a deal breaker for me. That's what I'm getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:04 PM
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Most people arent working out to be shredded. Most men are working out to gain muscle mass. Yes. I’m tired of having high blood pressure and having my PCOS aggravated. Im just not willing to drastically change my eating habits because it makes keeping the weight off impossible. Then why would you not just stick to cardio? Working out is inefficient when it comes to weight loss/control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:01 PM
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Well you asked a question, I answered 🤷‍♂️ Being on meds or not, it's a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:57 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I don't think wanting to be more physically attractive means that it's solely for the purpose of attracting people. More that you acknowledge that you have become more physically attractive, you see the results in the mirror looking right at you, and that's what drives people. For a lot of people it will be about attracting more people, but the results are enjoyable in of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:57 PM
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I'll go for another example then: Big Titty Goth GFs. Have you seen most BTGs? They're hardly conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:55 PM
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Why do so many people keep peddling the bollocks to themselves and others that they work out just for the health benefits and how it makes you feel inside? How it makes you look is clearly the main driver for working out religiously. Imagine you're a shredded guy, if working out gave you the same health benefits and rush of endorphins etc, would you have still done it if there was no sign of visible muscle growth? Hell take girls, would they be doing all those legs bums and tums workouts if it g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:49 PM
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Oh no, you actually think that's evidence...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:38 PM
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Finally something we can agree on 😅 The most simple answer is that they don't approach because they don't really need to. When I hear women go into detail as to why, they often reference some story about them approaching a guy once, getting rejected and wallowing about how it was oh so hard for them. ...Seriously? Men go through that shit over and over and over and you're acting like it's some traumatic, formative event in your life because it happened ONCE.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:15 PM
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I imagine what I think is close to reality, not some yassified version of them by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:07 PM
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I've always been confused by the attitude of "women don't actually thirst over nerds, they thirst over hot dudes who are dressed a bit nerdy" Like...yea? That's what everyone does, if they say they thirst over a specific trait it's rare that they aren't picturing the hot version of that trait. Take men thirsting over "athletic" women, are they really going to be including this woman in their thoughts? https://images.app.goo.gl/urSg4JrGbT4ZZYDAA The answer is obviously no, they're thirsting over …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:05 PM
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Pretty often
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:00 PM
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It does not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:59 PM
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As the resident expert on fat women let me assure you that fat women really, really don't like fat guys. And as someone who has known many fat women who have been attracted to, fucked and dated fat men, I disagree with your assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:58 PM
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Not necessarily, just another kind of issue to deal with. I've done both, both were bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:53 PM
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How's the rage scrolling been?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:49 PM
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I've been with women on anti-depressants before, it's not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:48 PM
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Why is tinder "real life" and this isn't? I wouldn't be surprised in the slightest if some of those women slid into his DMs. Again, is it a large percentage of women who will find him attractive? No. Does he fulfill a niche interest? Yes. Are there plenty of fat women who would be interested? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:43 PM
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For a second I thought you were talking about that Eddie Murphy film
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:41 PM
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Oh good, you've woken up to conduct your daily rage scroll of subs you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:35 PM
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What on earth is Norwood 2 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:32 PM
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Not a large percentage, no. He seems to be getting plenty of attention though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:31 PM
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Apologies, didn't mean it as a personal challenge to you or anything. I very often see here that someone will say "actually there are women who find X attractive" and instead of just accepting it, they try to negate it with "yea well only by fatties, 5/10 women, used up whores etc". Take this guy for example. Why does it matter if the cohort who find him most attractive are women who are also large? He's fat too. It just comes across as trying to reframe attraction as something that's only valid…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:31 PM
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Fair enough! It's probably more the glasses and styling choice, which of course does not a nerd make. But people have always taken adjectives like "nerd" or "athletic" with the implicit understanding of "+ they're hot."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:24 PM
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I far too often see it as a lazy retort to good faith criticism. Feel that Hollywood's obsession with IP driven media has completely stifled creativity and turned an artform into mindless content to appease people's obsession with nostalgia and brand recognition? "Just let people enjoy things!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:18 PM
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The answer to that is, so what? Is attraction only valid if it's coming from gym bodied Stacies?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:11 PM
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I've never understood why guys here come up with this sort of retort. They act like attraction is only genuine if it's coming from some 8/10 blonde with a fine ass and no gag reflex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:07 PM
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Shows you're good with your hands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:04 PM
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He's got a good jawline, good chin, nice eyes and a nice smile. He's not a bombshell or anything but I wouldn't say he's reflective of the average man, even if that average man had good style.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:03 PM
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Where are they declaring that he's a nerd?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:01 PM
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It would be really stupid to say that no woman can ever be attracted to a fat man. There's gonna be women who are into a large, burly man with a beard and tats.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:00 PM
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Then proceeds to say that bad parents raise bad kids, and that women do most of the nurturing whilst the man is at work. Then says that most women only reproduce so that they can justify being dependent on a man. Then at the end says that women choose who reproduces ergo it's their responsibility for choosing which genes survive. I know the playbook and it's dead obvious which end of the spectrum OP sides with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:49 PM
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Completely removes all agency and responsibility of men in the equation. Doesn't address the role of absent fathers. Doesn't acknowledge that men have a role to play in parenting. Doesn't acknowledge that having a baby requires two to tango. Doesn't acknowledge that men have agency over who they choose to fuck. It's a lazy attempt to blame all of the world's wrongs on women and negate men of any wrongdoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:40 PM
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Yet again, another "CHILDREN BAD BECAUSE WOMEN BAD" post. Yaaaawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:28 PM
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Good for you 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:22 PM
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Can you not work more? Can you not upskill? Change profession? Get 2 jobs? Sell something? Very often not when people have other commitments and payments to make and can't take the risk of pursuing a new career. It is an empty platitude. You're taking an issue which has many different variables and boiling it down to "well why don't you get more money??" It's an overly simplistic and dismissive answer that simply doesn't address people's realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:19 PM
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For me it would depend on how you look bald. If you've got the head and face shape for it, it's easier to just accept the bald look.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:03 PM
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It's just typical empty platitude bollocks. "Don't have money? Well, get money then, easy win 😎" It's just useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:01 PM
2

You gonna try to get me into a crypto scam or something 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:59 PM
2

Just pull yourself up by your bootstraps etc etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:57 PM
2

How wonderfully dismissive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:55 PM
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Which costs a lot of money to look anywhere near good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:51 PM
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Nothing wrong with being in the initial stages of receding. Receding hairline plus having it long? Yea that's a no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:40 PM
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There's definitely a lot of leeway where you can get away with it, and I wouldn't begrudge any man for being reluctant to accept they'll never have hair again...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:28 PM
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Man's hairline starts to ever so slightly recede Everyone on social media - "EWWW GROSS, HE NEEDS TO ACCEPT REALITY AND SHAVE IT ALL OFF! HE'S DELUSIONAL! PAHAHA WHY CAN'T YOU JUST ACCEPT YOU'RE A BALD FUCK NOW??"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:23 PM
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Cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:20 PM
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Handsome guy who is good with his hands, that's going to attract women's attention... Needs to lower those trousers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:16 PM
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I mean yea, Redpill/Blackpill members' obsession with virgin women is definitely not reflective of men in wider society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:02 PM
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Most experts are completely retarded. Ahh anti-intellectualism at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:43 PM
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Having a baby will always change things. That doesn't mean your healthy happy relationship will inevitably go to shit, more that you have now have a lot more responsibility and with that will come some inevitable disagreements/challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:08 PM
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It's very telling that he assumed it was referring to him personally...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:05 PM
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Man has completely lost the plot, what a wet wipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:48 AM
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Yes, in that case I will happily call that mansplaining. If you are discussing healthcare with an implicit indication that you have prior knowledge then it would come across as condescending. Like I said, does it exist? Yes. Does it get applied too liberally? Also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:35 AM
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I mean, if the man is explaining something that she already knows without asking if she’s familiar with the principal, it’s mansplaining, because it’s based on the assumption that she doesn’t know rather than the knowledge that she doesn’t know. I think that always asking about what level of knowledge someone has on a certain subject just doesn't recognise how people talk. If you express a point that indicates that you don't know much about a subject (something that someone with a base knowledge…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:26 AM
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Mansplaining certainly exists, the problem is that like with all trendy terms, it gets applied far too liberally. I've seen men accused of mansplaining simply for answering an implicit question. I've seen men accused of mansplaining for explaining something to a woman who genuinely didn't have existing knowledge of a subject. There are some people who will happily label any man explaining anything (regardless of tone or approach) as a mansplainer if the recipient happens to be a woman, which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:13 AM
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There's a plausible deniability with erotic novels themselves. Whilst its primary function is eroticism, it's also a piece of art (using that in the very liberal sense of course) that is produced by a person with an artistic intent. With AI content, there's no plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:57 AM
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Those who have minimal struggles have more time to discuss struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:50 AM
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It's an interesting premise for sure. I think the most direct comparison would be with women writing and engaging with erotic fan fiction. Would there be a market for erotic/romantic AI tools for women? I think so, would it be larger than the market for men? I'm not too sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:49 AM
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I would agree that being the "safe" option is not the worst thing in the world and is often not as nefarious as it sounds. ...However I wouldn't begrudge any man for feeling that it's a hurtful and emasculating thing to be labelled as.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:35 AM
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"Let people enjoy things" is one of the worst phrases to ever come out of the 21st century.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:32 AM
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But but I thought this was just an incel theory not grounded in reality? The idea that some women do this was never in doubt, it's the quantity of them that people disagree with. You can find women who conform to any notion or trope, regardless of how out there they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:23 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:21 AM
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Cold approaching is a risk/reward assessment. Some people are comfortable with it, some are not. That's the risk you take. You can't dictate what people are or are not comfortable with in social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:14 AM
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On what level is marrying a 13 year old on par in any sense with not being comfortable with being cold approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:08 AM
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I'm a guy and I've never seen a woman irl give a shit about it, I've only seen it through spicy tweets. Not saying doesn't happen, there's plenty of ridiculous people in the world. I don't think it's a widespread phenomenon though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:01 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:17 PM
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Nope. I was disagreeing with your response. Thats it. Thinking that it has anything to do with the OP's argument is silly and i addressed that in my previous comment. Yet it's a position you agree with? The idea that all men are sexual predators isn't a common one amongst social media? Your first quote, where i called you out for gaslighting. So you disagree that the idea that all men are sexual predators isn't a common theme amongst social media? Dont even try with that cap, everyone and their …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:52 AM
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Not to stereotype too much, but I am yet to meet a woman who doesn't have at least some body dysmorphia...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:32 AM
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Whats that got to do with me? So,,, again, where did i say that all men are sexual predators? Because you were disagreeing with my response to that exact bloody argument, sorry that you couldn't keep on topic 🤷‍♂️ If you accuse me of gaslighting because I disagree that social media at large paints all men as sexual predators, I'm of course going to assume you don't agree with my position. but then you decide to pretend as if media doesnt have a negative depiction of men Where. gaslight him by st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:19 AM
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And then they refer to Bell Hook's, who's books are filled with sexist drivel, pseudoscientific nonsense, and who literally slept with her own students as a professor and then tried portray it as "helping their internal growth". That acknowledgment is not well-intentioned, its damage control for their ideology, patronising and is nothing but appropriation of male suffering to further their own ideological agenda. I haven't seen many feminists refer to Bell Hook, looked her up on Wikipedia and fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:11 AM
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You can still value stoicism as a trait whilst recognising that it can be damaging when taken too far. For example friendliness is a valued trait, but friendly to the extent that you're naive to the dangers that certain individuals can pose? That's when it becomes damaging. The man who remains steadfast and stoic in adversity is still a valued trait, it just shouldn't be expected that he remains stoic even when he's dealing with great mental distress that requires external support. "No man is an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:58 AM
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The vast majority of feminists would agree that patriarchal expectations and standards hurt both women and men. They do acknowledge that men can suffer under patriarchy too. The problem is that a lot of them take the stance of "we'll sort out women's issues first, then we'll talk about men", which is the equivalent of your mum saying "we'll see" when you ask if you're having pizza this Friday. There's still plenty of feminists who advocate for things such as male mental health, they just see wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:54 AM
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Is not reaching out for necessary support for mental health issues "anti-social behaviour"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:50 AM
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The framing of toxic femininity to "internalised misogyny" is such a self defeating move for feminists. All it does is isolate people from your argument because their first thought will inevitably be "hold on, why is it toxic masculinity for men, but toxic behaviours amongst women is just internalised misogyny?" It's essentially a terrible marketing decision. I'd say stuff like being catty towards other women, overt jealousy/envy of other women, only holding onto the traditional gender roles tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:28 AM
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No, you dont want to accept that you gaslight and argue in bad faith 😏. Get over it. People arent as stupid as you would like us to be. Lol sure mate, whatever makes you feel better. Where did i say that all men are sexual predators? ...it's the literal argument of the post that I was responding to. The one that you accused me of gaslighting for because I said it's not a mainstream opinion of social media. Good Lord man, get it together. Once again, where did i say that all men are sexual predat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:21 AM
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Gaslighting is gaslighting. Get over being called out. You guys REALLY don't know what gaslighting is... What? Men are assumed to be the bad guy in any situation that involves a man and a woman. And where does that indicate that all men are sexual predators? You're taking vague assertions (which are true in plenty of situations) and applying it to a specific and extreme claim. You have to prove otherwise The burden of proof is not on me for the claim that popular culture reinforces the message t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:05 AM
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Must be going mad then, thought it said "active social media".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:13 AM
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Ah didn't see your edit, thought you just meant social media in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:58 AM
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...So why would that not be a concern for you considering that the majority of affairs start in the workplace? If you'd forbid her from having an active social media account as that's "playing with fire", why are you not applying that same thought process to other facets?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:42 AM
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What about if she has a job? The majority of affairs start at work, surely you just can't take that risk and ergo you'd forbid her from working? After all, it's "playing with fire"...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:18 AM
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Gaslighting Yaaaawn you guys really love to cry this word whenever people disagree with you. It's pathetic. Men have been villainized and at the same time trivialized in popular media for decades now. You can stop the caping. With the messaging that all men are sexual predators? Bollocks mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:58 AM
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Yes that's a silly gendered stereotype present in media....not exactly portraying all men as sexual predators though, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:57 AM
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Where does it indicate that all men are sexual predators?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:05 PM
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Example please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:16 PM
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Where? When?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:15 PM
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I mean the problem is that people try to give general dating advice to someone they simply don't know. You have maybe a paragraph or two of context to go on (which are inevitably the biased words of the person in question), and you feel the obligation to offer help, hence very general advice and platitudes are given. So it's not really a problem with the phrase itself, just with people giving advice to someone they don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:28 PM
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It basically just means "don't put pussy on a pedestal". Don't treat them like they're some sort of mythological creature or some intricate puzzle to solve. You've really interpreted the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:13 PM
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...Really mate? Which one of them is accusing all men of being sexual predators? Go on. Jesus Christ, you guys are TERRIBLE at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:01 PM
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Is there an example of that here in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:27 PM
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It's just having a wank on stimulants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:20 PM
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Yay another shitty burner account.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:19 PM
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"I believe X" "I disagree with X" STOP GASLIGHTING MEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:59 PM
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Haven't had time to read it but it seems to give an OK breakdown: https://www.vox.com/2019/2/7/18210998/tinder-algorithm-swiping-tips-dating-app-science
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:55 PM
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If they don't very few of them say it out loud. Because it's a heavily moderated echo chamber of a sub. So at least 10% are actively speaking out against men, or at the very minimum complicit in the 2XC misandry circlejerk This is under the false pretence that all of 2XC's subscribers are active users. I am subscribed to subs that I haven't looked at in years. I'd have to talk to a mod to get harder numbers (they only get more damning from here because 2XC is one of the most highly interacted-wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:54 PM
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Men didn't explicitly go around claiming that women had to be deathly skinny either, but apparently that was still a relevant problem... because it was subtly implied in everyday life. I mean there were plenty of those direct claims but I get your point. There's posters about men's behaviour and men governing other men I've seen college posters to this effect which were mercilessly mocked online and often removed, are there national ones you are referring to? there's snide representations of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:47 PM
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I think they know that their argument is flawed, but by acting like some big brained anime character who can predict their opponent's every move, they hope you won't notice that they've presented the flaw in their own argument as some sort of pre-emptive gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:34 PM
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Oh right, that's far more acceptable. Build up rapport, assess if you're getting signals and proceed from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:18 PM
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Man needs to address his swipe ratio, that is far too many right swipes compared to left. He's completely fucked his standing in the algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:15 PM
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Does she work directly with you? What work environment is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:14 PM
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Yea I've noticed it too. They somehow think that acknowledging the obvious flaw in their argument negates it...not how it works buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:09 PM
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For example, asking someone out at work. Careful with that, could very much could blow up in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:36 PM
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...You know that predicting the obvious and correct response isn't some sort of "gotcha", right? Because yes, that post doesn't say that all men are sexual predators. Sorry that the correct response gets your knickers in a twist 🤷‍♂️ If you have to add the disclaimer of "aha, I know exactly what you're going to respond with!! You're going to point out the obvious fault with my argument!!" then maybe your argument just wasn't that good in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:10 PM
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You quit after the lightest of challenges to your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:57 AM
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13 million out of how many social media users? Oh, that's right. 4.8 billion. It would also be incredibly disingenuous to suggest that every single one of those 13 million believe that all men are rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:54 AM
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I am yet to see a twoX post that says all men are sexual predators. And yes, that is still a small amount of total social media users.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:54 AM
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...Well yea
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:47 AM
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So fast forward to today - where social media casts every man as a predator-in-waiting. A filthy degenerate who wants nothing but sex and will rape you without a second thought. i.e. a small amount of hyperbolic, vitriolic social media users whose views are routinely challenged and mocked. Meanwhile, the heroin chic era covered TV, film, magazines, newspapers and the entire fashion industry as we know it. I thought you were at least going to make a valid point about male body image and how that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:45 AM
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Some women are selfish enough to not give a shit if you have a GF. Some women will even see it as a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:01 AM
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Unless that work stuff is "I'm so sorry but can you cover my shift tomorrow? I've got an urgent matter" then yes, she's likely hitting you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:00 AM
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When I was single and a female friend would speak about how tinder isn't all that hard, I'd just offer to go on tinder while they watch...they changed their minds pretty quickly once they saw me swipe right and a match didn't magically appear each time 😅 I really don't blame women at all for having delusions around tinder. They'll swipe right on like 10% or less of profiles, and almost every single one of them will be an immediate match. Of course that's going to influence how you perceive it if…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:58 AM
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Some people will inevitably develop delusions due to their friendship circle. I had a friend whose home town friends were just gross frankly: loved coke, a scrap on a night out and thought being a dickhead to others was the height of comedy. The topic of body count came up and I was mocked for having slept with 17 women, one of the guys was like "mate that's nothing, I lost count at 100!" Later that night I saw the calibre of women he goes for... let's just say they were low hanging fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:34 AM
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...Yea I really don't think women are rushing out to beat up some 250lb guy because they saw it in a Marvel film.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:00 AM
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This is utterly hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:58 AM
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“The survey found that 3.8% of adults aged 16 to 74 – 1.6 million people – had experienced rape or attempted rape since the age of 16 – 7.1% of women and 0.5% of men.” Which is half of what you said earlier? That's the figure for all adults, the figure for women is right there in your quote. Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:20 AM
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Look in the actual study sourced by the Guardian. Which is half of what you said earlier? That's a combined figure of all genders, it clearly says 7.1% of women right there. ....you really aren't a logical thinker. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:06 AM
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1/4 includes getting your ass slapped at the club, so we’re free to ignore that one. If that was true, the figure would be far higher. That link is related exclusively to police reports, not study data.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:47 PM
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You should be aware of the worst possibilities, but expect the more likely ones. According to statistics, 13% of married women cheat. https://hackspirit.com/infidelity-statistics/ Meanwhile: "Nearly a quarter of women have experienced sexual assault or attempted sexual assault since the age of 16, while one in 14 have experienced rape or attempted rape, according to new figures from the Crime Survey for England and Wales." https://www.theguardian.com/society/2021/mar/18/ons-survey-finds-one-in-1…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:48 PM
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No no, address my actual argument above. You're not making a logical argument if you just say "but they're different" over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:30 PM
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Why? Why is assuming that all women are going to cheat on you if a better option appears OK, but assuming all men will sexually assault / rape you isn't OK if they're both for your own protection? If anything the latter is more justifiable as like you indicated, it's a far worse offense that comes with greater damage to oneself, thus it innately has more risk and ergo more rightfully feared. The potential damage from not being cautious of all men in regards to SA/rape is far greater than the pot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:12 PM
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And yes, it’s a good idea for both men and women to be on the lookout for all kinds of assault. Well there we go then, AMALT is a perfectly apt view to have if you want to be cautious about sexual assault and rape, as AWALT is a perfectly apt view to have if you want to be cautious of "hypergamous women" 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:51 PM
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Would your knickers have gotten into less of a twist if it was "all men cheat" instead? You can continue to think it's "illogical", I think it's perfectly fair to compare generalisations of negative traits. Sorry that women do less truly heinous things I guess... "Woman thinking man" fucking lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:35 PM
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Men don't like the term because it's used terribly and often as a laundry list of trivial complaints about men. I looked at determinants of toxic masculinity and most of it was just antisocial behaviour like acting violent and shit. Maybe men might be more receptive to the idea of reflecting and working on those behaviours then. I think there are negative elements of what being a "real man" is that go beyond just violent machismo bollocks. For example refusing to address and discuss mental healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:29 PM
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Ahhh the typical "oh yea? Well you're basically a woman and women are bad!" retort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:25 PM
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That's fine, you can continue to think negatively of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:20 PM
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I'm 39, I wonder if this is my body's last call I think that is a legit thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:19 PM
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It's not a guarantee for everyone of course, nothing is. How close are you to those 100+ people? Are you invited to nights out or parties, and meet their friends/acquaintances through that social engagement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:18 PM
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The negative elements of people's perceptions of masculinity (i.e. how a "real man" should behave and think) that cause harm to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:11 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:08 PM
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I've seen plenty of misconceptions of the phrase here and a lot of people assume it is equivalent to the traditional sense of masculinity, all aspects of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:07 PM
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AWALT maybe, but where are the guys crying about women assuming the worst lol Every time the topic of women's fears of sexual assault/rape comes up here. Like I said women already assume the worst so it's nothing new lol Sure, you can still believe in AWALT if you'd like
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:06 PM
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You know damn well they're still triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:04 PM
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Oh ffs not another burner account
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:04 PM
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Well to each their own, every girl I've dated who was big into astrology was a nightmare 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:03 PM
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No I don't, and I also don't believe you must have two behaviours of equivocal moral standing in order to make a comparison of generalisations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:02 PM
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Any mention of astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:00 PM
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Not really, they're the perceived negative threats that each sex pose. I've seen plenty of people here claim that any woman would cheat if someone of higher status approached them, that's a pretty horrible thing to believe of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:59 PM
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I've seen plenty of Redpillers say exactly that here. Come on, if it's not a belief common amongst TRP then AWALT simply wouldn't be a phrase. Also women already assume the worst of men so it's fair men do it too Cool, don't get mad when women treat you as a creep from the get go then 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:55 PM
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I very much doubt the Christian women you want would be perturbed by a lack of relationship experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:09 PM
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In the poetic sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:00 PM
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....'ite that's pretty hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:51 PM
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I agree with the last one on the point of "don't you want to be the guy who gets the girl in the end"...but they always seem to completely miss the point going the other way. Yes, men in general do want to be the guy you hooked up with. They want that ego boost, they want casual sex and they want to feel like they're desirable enough for a woman to be like "yea, we're banging now." I think the AF/BB is waaaaay overblown but you do meet and see girls with this attitude and it's just like...how ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:43 PM
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Good I can tell people to stop referring me to the almighty "sidebar bible" then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:43 PM
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I would say that generalising 50% of the population is vastly different to generalising a specific group with a specific belief system, but point taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:39 PM
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It would come across as so performative in person... Like yea, I know you're cis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:37 PM
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Well if the rumours are true, at least you're good in bed 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:25 PM
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I think some do, most women I've met certainly didn't indicate so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:24 PM
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I wish I could say she was the last BPD trainwreck I dated but alas, I had to go back in for another try (thankfully that one truly was the last and nowhere near as bad as the previous one)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:23 PM
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Just checking in case I've insulted your partner 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:21 PM
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... it's not you and your BF is it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:21 PM
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I rarely want to criticise other men's beards but that is truly foul
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:19 PM
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Ahh that time between ages 11-13 in school where the girls are taller than the boys is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:18 PM
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Get rid of that awful chin strap beard and probably. She's obviously into a more "bohemian" look so it's more of a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:17 PM
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It's alright, I believed a girl when she said her herpes sore was just a shaving rash. ...lo and behold, I get the text a week later saying it was in fact herpes and should get tested (which thankfully nothing showed).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:15 PM
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Not really, that's just a very heavy Toronto accent mixed with a multi-cultural urban infliction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:13 PM
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Twink death
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:11 PM
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The made up idea of the "Sigma Male"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:07 PM
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Shall I add the disclaimer of "*not all Redpillers but a significant proportion of them"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:05 PM
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You're not fucked but I do think it's a hindrance. Women generally are sus of men with few friends and a lacking social life, plus having a good social network is beneficial to meeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:56 PM
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Redpillers/Blackpillers - "It's best to assume all women conform to their worst tendencies as a means of navigating sex/dating, AWALT!" Women - "I'm going to assume all men are sexual predators until proven otherwise." Redpillers/Blackpillers - "That's not fair!! You're generalising men!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:35 PM
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Girl talking about a previous sexual encounter that makes the guy feel uncomfortable? Fairly common. Girl talking about the time a train was run on them by the football team? That's predominantly a Manosphere scare story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:55 PM
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I think unfortunately parents will often be that shallow. Given the choice they would opt for their child to be as good looking as possible, hence certain traits being valued far more highly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:54 PM
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From what I recall here in the UK, the amount of sperm donors has fallen because they introduced a rule where children of sperm donors have the right to know who their biological father is once they hit 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:46 PM
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Is that really an "ick" or is it just a deal-breaker based on your relationship values?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:32 AM
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Oh honey...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:30 AM
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I do wonder if I could give a girl the ick from discussing my sexual exploits...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:29 AM
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For those who believe that men can't get the ick, watch this video. https://www.reddit.com/r/me_irl/s/dHhH7XCJNp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:15 AM
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Yea it's definitely a chicken and egg and I have no idea which one came first. I have done therapy multiple times, it rarely helped anything. One literally ghosted me with no notice, then 3 weeks later said "oopsies I went on vacation". This is a commonly reported issue with therapy. I find it so weird how people think it's normal to say "oh you'll have to go through a lot of therapists to find one that's right for you"...sorry? It's normal to spend vast amounts of money on initial sessions with…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:14 AM
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Is it really that much of a surprise though? The majority of users are women, the majority of practitioners are women. Men are far less likely to see value in psychological treatment ergo are far less likely to see it as a worthwhile career for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:56 AM
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That's all you got? I am disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:15 AM
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This is the finest case of "speak for yourself" I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:13 AM
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...All this because you got banned from /r/sex? I got banned for calling someone who thought homosexuality was immoral a bigot. It's a very ban happy subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:13 AM
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Nah these are not the same women mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:08 AM
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Wheeey another bigot. Do one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:06 AM
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A BTGF fan I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:25 PM
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Probably about half.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:24 PM
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From the crowd who believe in AWALT...uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:17 PM
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Oh yea I'm not saying it's a morally good thing to do at all, just that the context is understandable. Thankfully I'd imagine we'd get a lot less of it in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:56 PM
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They would have grown up in a time when gay bashing was a legitimate thing, of course it would be drilled into them that liking men = bad and that you should suppress it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:25 PM
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Without knowing them personally, what else can be said other than very general advice? It's not about fault, it's about doing everything that is in your control. It's not your fault, but your dating woes are your responsibility to sort. If there's no attempts at help given then it's just a pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:19 PM
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Bigotry on that sub? Idk, it's just related to the typical cliché about self proclaimed "centrists".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:01 PM
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It's easier to laugh it off than acknowledge that it's fucked up and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:53 PM
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There was a study that showed some emotional problems stemming with it, but then again there are dozens of apologist studies as well from people trying to cope with the guilt. It's very telling that the only studies I've seen that are favourable towards the act of circumcision are American Medical Associations...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:45 PM
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It’s fucked up over here. My son had to stay in the hospital for a few weeks after he was born. The doctors scheduled and performed a circumcision without even asking and for no reason at all. That is truly disturbing. Hope you have the money for a lawsuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:42 PM
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American's attitudes towards circumcision are just utterly bizarre... I had an American GF, she was baffled that my penis was in its natural state.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:35 PM
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Redditor says that homosexuality should be a question of "sexual morality" Says that they want a more "homogenous society" Says that if homosexuality could be linked to a certain gene, they would eradicate homosexuality through eugenics Checks their profile, they post on /r/centrist frequently The jokes write themselves 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:28 PM
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It gets more and more sus. Bigotry + Eugenics, gee I wonder where I've seen that before...🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:10 PM
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If she's smoking 2 grams a day then yes, she should absolutely be able to tell the difference 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:09 PM
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And why are you suggesting that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:06 PM
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Nah I've known swifties of all sexual proclivities. ...to run a Stan account though? Yea, they ain't getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:05 PM
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To be extremely fair to her, she could have been confusing backy rush with being high...again, extremely fair to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:04 PM
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They're prevalent in straight populations but not to the same extent. Genetic signals that suggest a likelihood of developing cancer are found in people who will never get cancer, that doesn't mean they're not linked to cancer. You said in another comment that it's a question of "sexual morality", which is an obvious tell of a homophobe. You want it to be a choice so you can be steadfast in your bigotry. Get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:53 PM
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OK, find me proof that you can be turned homosexual through heterosexual promiscuity then, which is the argument of the post. You're also not correct about that either, there is evidence it is linked to genetic makeup. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/search/research-news/4482/#:~:text=There's%20no%20one%20'gay%20gene%2C'%20but%20genetics%20are%20linked,sex%20behavior%2C%20new%20study%20says&text=DNA%20from%20hundreds%20of%20thousands,with%20same%2Dsex%20sexual%20behavior https://www.nature.com/arti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:42 PM
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...Man was an active member of the armed forces and you believed that his shoulders were fucked up enough that he couldn't hold himself up in a push up position?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:01 PM
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Well for the purpose of fairness in sports, anabolic steroids are a controlled substance too. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it necessarily (unless you're a professional athlete) but drugs laws never make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:55 PM
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Statistically yes, in practical terms? Not necessarily. Depends what you mean by "in shape".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:49 PM
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I DJ in my spare time which is once again, dime a dozen. God damn, I'm a Normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:31 PM
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Oh yea I challenged them in the post itself but in a very lazy fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:23 PM
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I play guitar but I'm an absolute pleb at it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:21 PM
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Oooooh sorry mate, that's not evidence at all. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:21 PM
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Who is him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:20 PM
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Hell even just show me women finding unconventional features attractive in men lol, like men do in women. Nope, we did that previously and I showed you examples. You then shifted the goal posts to mean "show me a man with no unconventionally attractive features that women find attractive". Not playing that game, sorry. Only in relationships, which doesn't necessarily mean those guys are found attractive lol. And even then it's only some guys. Only some guys will ever get into a relationship? And…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:20 PM
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I get that Russia and China are trying to screw us but come on, you can't blame everything on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:11 PM
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You can get to know me better sweetie 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:07 PM
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Physical attractiveness may not be as important for women as men(with some caveats that I mentioned in the previous comment), but it's still very important for a good relationship lol, and again no data shows the average women finding average men attractive lol. Most women rate most men as below average in looks so yeah women do find most men unattractive So studies that show on average that women aren't physically attracted to 2D images of random average men, means that NO average man can EVER …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:06 PM
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Come on, you can do better than that if you want to insult me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:01 PM
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So do you think those relationships are actual relationships or just glorified fuck buddies? By the way, sorry if I’m sounding sassy, it’s not intentional. I’m genuinely curious of your thoughts. I wouldn't say "glorified", they're essentially fuck buddies with greater emotional intimacy, long term compatibility and that nuanced sense of a "spark". From my experience too many people seem to be marrying their fuckbuddies and not really caring about an emotion connection. Did an emotional connecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:00 PM
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Not a woman, ya donut.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:53 PM
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That relatively small figure are the ones they actually find attractive lol. In a room full of average looking men, did you read my hypothetical? That just shows men value attractiveness more than women, which isn't something I argued against lol. It's just that men find a wide range of women attractive lol while women find a very narrow range of men attractive. Also attractiveness would be much more valued by women if they only surveyed women that were 18 to 30, because in the past decade looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:48 PM
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Not applying myself fully in education and early into my career. My life is good, but it could have been better. In terms of social life, having a GF throughout University. Could have had a way better student experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:39 PM
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Women themselves say they find most men unattractive irl which is exactly what the data also shows. Because women are more selective in terms of what they find attractive. That also doesn't mean that they only find top whatever % chad Ubermenschen attractive. Just that if you had a room full of average looking men with one average looking woman choosing which is sexually attractive, it'd be a relatively small figure but would still find some of them attractive. Well show me some data that shows …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:29 PM
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Wheyy you guys now got two! Your world is made of your bias lol, data is less biased. Also I wonder how average you are lol plenty of men here call themselves average but turn out to be not. And a survey based on women's perceptions of 2D images of men is no reflection of how real life attraction works for women. I can assure you, they're all thoroughly average. Sorry mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:20 PM
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I understand it will be a lot harder for below average looking men, I've seen some proper uggo men get laid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:18 PM
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Lemme guess, the fucking OkCupid survey.... Lmao I could say the same for you. You are way too naive and fallen too much for the just world fallacy My world is that I'm an average looking man who has had casual sex with average looking women, and that the vast majority of average looking men I know have had casual sex. It may not be a just world, but certainly the real world 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:15 PM
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So no average looking men ever hook up with average looking women? No average looking woman is ever physically attracted to an average looking man? Mate, seriously. If that's what you legitimately believe, then this pill shit has completely rotted your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:08 PM
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If you believe it's legitimately impossible then I'm sorry, but you've gone waaaaaay too far down the rabbit hole. Normal looking people have sex with normal looking people. You really going to say it doesn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:00 PM
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That angle makes this post make a lot more sense, I thought it was just bizarre homophobic ranting (which it also is)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:55 PM
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And ergo fat women are much more "easy" than normal women are. So it's the exact same motivation that normal men have to fuck fat women. Man horny > wants easy access to casual sex > goes for someone that is more easy for them to fuck It's not a sign that it's impossible for an average man to fuck an average woman or any bullshit. It's simply that it requires more effort to fuck a woman on your level and men cba for that a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:44 PM
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Absolute claims of this scale require at least some supporting evidence. Otherwise it's exactly what this is, the ramblings of someone who is making outrageous assumptions that are not based on any semblance of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:29 PM
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So rather than believing that men are easy and there's enough men who are willing to shag anything due to their sex drive, you'd rather believe that "normal girls" are only exclusively having sex with "chads" and that means that "normal men" can only fuck morbidly obese women? This makes no sense. If it were true that access to women on your "level" would prevent you from sleeping with someone below your level, then why are chads having sex with girls below their station by fucking "normal girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:27 PM
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makes other kind of contact in a different way (like dancing next to you and making intense eye contact). See I wouldn't define that as approaching, that's an invite for you to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:58 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:57 AM
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It all comes down to this: Just do nice shit for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:35 AM
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Define "approach" because generally, women don't really "approach". The girls who flirt with me tend to be slightly more alt. The rare ones who were more brash and legitimately approached tended to be heavier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:33 AM
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One massive CITATION NEEDED in red flashing lights. This is one helluva brain rot rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:14 AM
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So what are your thoughts on open relationships and polyamorous relationships? They're forms of relationships that suit some, but certainly not most. And I think that's where it differs from person to person. Because I have witnessed friendships be very deep where people bare their souls to their friends, affirm them, worry about their well being, etc. to a very large extent. I have seen friendships that have been formed longer (and in a lot of cases outlasted) marriages, Yes there are some frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:53 AM
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If romance is just sex + friendship then every FWB is a romantic connection. You have someone you like to hang out with and chat with who you also fuck? You're in love! I don't think it can be boiled down to just a platonic friendship mixed with sex, it goes deeper than that. The emotional intimacy is stronger, affirmation is stronger, it requires more trust, you can't "cheat" on a friend and there's far more responsibility for your partner's wellbeing than there is for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:30 AM
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You seem to have an idea about what should be done about """Grogs"""" Go on, what is it? I've seen this thought experiment before, at least then it was just used to explain women's fear of men, rather than ominously musing about "what should be done about them"... I've also seen this same thought experiment played out before, except it was White Supremacists doing it...guess who they were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:20 AM
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It entirely depends on what she is like in a relationship. She could be an absolute nightmare. Having two marriages is still a pretty good sign that yes, there are men who are happy to date her. The twice divorced bit suggests there aren't many men willing to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:00 AM
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Because testosterone can be used as a performance enhancement?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:58 AM
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I'm just confused by the fact that apparently so many men go fishing... I've only known one guy who went fishing, yet every woman I know who has used OLD attests to their being a shit tonne of fishing pics. What is going on? Is this a conspiracy? How high does it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:54 AM
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I mean it's pretty well known that red heads are desired by men, did you not get that impression prior?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:48 PM
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I see the former a lot frankly. Dudes will get a GF and all of a sudden they rock up in clothes that don't fit their personality and that they're clearly not comfortable in. You ask them why, and they say "idk the missus told me to buy it". It's treating men like they're Ken Dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:47 PM
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I think that cliché gets used to justify some real shitty behaviours though. I myself think my wardrobe has been improved by my GF, but if she was coming from the place of "you don't know any better, I need to take control" I'd see it as condescending and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:42 PM
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You're being abused!! /s Don't get me wrong, there's certainly many women who are open to their man making suggestions. I think it's different when it comes to keeping the existing status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:39 PM
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Nah I wouldn't say all, but there are certainly blind spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:31 PM
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There's definitely a gendered double standard when it comes to dictating how your partner looks. People don't even bat an eyelid when a woman makes their partner change their hair, grow/shave a beard or chooses a whole new wardrobe for them. It's just considered fair game and helping them to improve. ...But if you say you made your GF/wife change her hair or chose what clothes she wears? Honey, you got a big storm coming. I get that there's differing views towards these things between men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:29 PM
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It's probably just the arbitrary line we draw in the sand when it comes to media censorship. If you say any visible boob is nudity, then you can't even show cleavage on TV. So they decided the nipple is the sign of true boobage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:18 PM
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I think at least subconsciously men rate nipples very highly. You didn't see a woman's boob unless you saw her nipple too 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:09 PM
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Around 5'10, fairly attractive but nothing to write home about. Now you're adding in other prerequisites because your assumption didn't work 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:08 PM
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I know two guys with dad bods (true dad bods, not just a fat dude) and they slayed when they were single. Bro, men with dad bods aren't a monolith 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:04 PM
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Most gamers are casual gamers who just want to shoot things or recreate their favourite sport. It's the same reason why lazy IP driven cash grabs have kept Hollywood going for over a decade now: Most consumers of media aren't that critical about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:59 PM
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As a former fat guy who now looks athletic, I can tell you most above average women aren't attracted to dad bods. Good thing that just about every single comment in favour of dad bods preface it or end it with "women aren't a monolith, I am only speaking for myself." They also distinctly say they're not just talking about a fat guy. ...Do you even read the shit you rage about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:57 PM
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"Women are the child rearers and are biologically driven to be so" Court of Law agrees "Wtf this is discrimination against men!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:54 PM
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Ayyyyye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:34 PM
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Da fuck is isogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:11 PM
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It's just proof that celebrities have some next level dysmorphia. How could anyone as beautiful as Anya Taylor Joy look in the mirror and think "yea, that cheek fat has got to go"? It's such a short sighted trend too. You naturally lose bucchal fat as you get older, removing it when you're young is going to ensure you end up looking like a gaunt demon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:11 PM
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Charli XCX Maya Jama Anya Taylor Joy (pre-bucchal fat removal 🥲)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:46 PM
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If you want bomb crazy puss just date a BPD girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:44 PM
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Talking to a girl who is literally a Nazi but wants advice on how to proceed... Mate, there is no proceeding. https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/s/2EPe1z2Nv4
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:42 PM
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Boy Betta Knoooow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:38 PM
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Mmmm making me hungry. Could murder a bhuna rn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:11 PM
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He makes a mean lentil curry 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:59 PM
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"Hmm someone provided a nuanced take on the value of looks in the dating market. Shall I respond with a similarly nuanced view? A more simple take that is still well worded and has supporting evidence?" ....Nah, that's too much work." But what about the 5'4 bald Indian janitor??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:48 PM
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Forgot that one 😂 fr tho I would personally say the woman is more attractive than the man (as in the ones making the prompts). Not by a huge chasm but it's noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:22 PM
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You know what the responses are going to be. "He's rich" "He's probably 6'3" "She's probably a BPD basketcase"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:17 PM
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It obviously increases your attractiveness. Of course not all women are into it, but there's a far larger group who find a shredded body hot than there is an out of shape, shlubby body (no, "dad bod" doesn't count.) I'm only hitting the gym now and I'm in a relationship. I notice a few more looks than I did before. My main glow up phase was going from chubby to lean when I was in my early 20s. Also how long does it take to get shredded at minimum if you're currently unfit? General rule of thumb …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:14 PM
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It's funny when you can tell a comment got under someone's skin. You say one thing that would apply to people here, all of a sudden that comment gets downvoted along with all your other comments for the day. Oof, someone's tetchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:10 PM
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I mean, how do you define when a survey is "done right"? I've seen plenty of survey data be tossed to the side which used a very similar approach to this one. I'm not challenging you on it btw just musing to the crowd. Don't get me wrong, I don't believe the theory that Incels are exclusively chasing "Stacies" or anything, I think that's a lazy myth. What I do believe though is that Incels give the words of attractive, social media girls too much credence and assume their views are true for all …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:03 PM
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Thank you, though doesn't this use self-reported survey data which is always shat on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:40 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:32 AM
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Not everything that causes heated debate is a psy-op.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:17 AM
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It's by no means a majority incel sub, but from the posts and discussions you wouldn't be blamed for thinking that. Far too many Redpillers who are really just Blackpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:16 AM
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It's a weird picture, because there are plenty of women who have experimented with other women who still identify as straight and no one bats an eyelid. Meanwhile for men it seems that once you've had a sexual encounter with another man, you're pretty much gay in the eyes of a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:52 AM
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Probably about a 3 on the bicurious scale? If I was single and very feminine boy approached me I may be curious about it. Don't know how I would feel afterwards and that's the crucial bit. I've dated two bi girls in the past, 1 was fun the other was a BPD nightmare. I have no bad feelings towards bi girls and I would happily date one if I was single. I think the ratio of bi girls Vs boys gets very much skewed by the fact that approx. 80% of bi men are still in the closet, with many citing the la…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:38 AM
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Oof someone's a grumpy lil sausage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:46 PM
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Yep, still insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:38 PM
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Not all single people go clubbing, and many people in relationships go clubbing with zero issue. It's not exclusively a "single person" activity by any means, it's not comparable to OLD. Terrible argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:36 PM
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Yes, I was adding to his point, not challenging it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:34 PM
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Well aware there's a double standard the other way too. Just commenting on how Redpillers see it. Oh how pathetic of me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:56 PM
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As in don't want to party. It's unfortunate for those who do!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:21 PM
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This statement falls into the category of not even wrong, it is vague to the point of meaninglessness. "respect" can mean anything. Good thing that we as a society agree on subjective definitions then. I believe that you know damn well what I mean but you're being disingenuous. People try to change each other's values all the time. It's called the open marketplace of ideas. The idea that a person's values is off-limits is absurd. A relationship is not academia, politics or even social media. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:05 PM
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Probably about right for people who go to parties regularly. People value nights out/partying less as they hit the age where marriage/kids are on the cards, they just don't have the energy or time unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:44 PM
1

I'm in my 30s and I still go to parties. They're far more civilised of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:40 PM
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You're going to need more than a baseless assertion to convince a philosophy undergrad 🤓 I'll ask you again: Why is it inherently wrong to change people? What moral principle are you basing this on? People's sense of self, self expression, identity and interests should be respected both in a society and in a relationship (obviously within legal limits). This is crucial to building a relationship between two equals who love and appreciate who each other is to their very essence, rather than some …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:12 PM
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Why? Is there some moral injunction against changing people in the code of ethics? Because you chose to date someone, with knowledge of you they are as a person, then tried to change who they are. It's like if a girl got into a relationship with a guy who she knows likes to play video games, then demanded he stopped playing all video games for the relationship to continue. That's shitty. There's nothing immoral about trying to change someone. If they don't like it, the terms are clear: they can …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:44 PM
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...u wot I gave my opinion on a forum intended exactly for that. He's entitled to listen to what I have to say or ignore it, and nothing will change. If that triggers you, leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:41 PM
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The perception of abuse between men Vs women is a clear double standard and I see far too many people still justifying it. The amount of girls who will think nothing of a woman slapping or smacking their partner is disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:03 PM
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I haven't seen any stats or anything, but from what I've gathered it's becoming less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:00 PM
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You seem to know, and care, more about this "alpha" stuff than either me or OP. And you seem to assume I am "red-pill" for some reason too. What do you identify with then? Exactly. Which is what me, and OP are talking about. OP also mentioned that he discussed the boundaries with his girl from the beginning.... so exactly what you are talking about. There's nothing in there that states it's from the onset, don't bullshit. There's a difference between finding someone who fulfills a standard you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:59 AM
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Strippers at a stag/hen do is a perfectly reasonable no-no to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:54 AM
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That's fine, you're allowed any standard you want. It's your life. What is shitty is finding someone who doesn't fit that standard and trying to change who they are by setting "boundaries". Find yourself a girl who doesn't want to go on nights out, or would be OK with having no trips with female friends unless you're there. All I will say is, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:48 AM
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But an article from 2014 is OK? Practice what you preach. https://www.choosingtherapy.com/who-cheats-more-men-or-women/#:~:text=Placing%20focus%20on%20the%20research,cheating%20more%20often%20than%20women.&text=Other%20studies%20reference%20that%20percentage,men%20and%2020%25%20of%20women. From 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:42 AM
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From women you're supposed to assume they are wonderfull. Judging from all the public discourse you see on Reddit and the artist formally known as twitter, I frankly don't believe it. There's plenty of room for discussions around how women aren't perfect. As for the meme I think that relates more to the situation where one party is clearly pushing the boundaries of the relationship bur then gaslights their partner into thinking they are crazy for worrying about it. And that's representative of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:34 AM
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You are the only one here even mentioning the word "alpha" bro. Sounds like projection Projection of what? That I follow alpha bro science? Make it make sense. It's an incredibly prevalent notion amongst Redpilled influencers and content, who are the proponents of "alpha bro science". Did anyone mention that? You just pulled this out of the sky. First shaming, now strawman argumentation too. Because it doesn't fit your argument? Cool. It's "setting a boundary" just like demanding that your GF do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:32 AM
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I think you have a point around perception (or frankly, stereotypes) of "lad's nights out". That is a double standard that I see a lot. When it comes to not allowing their partner to have friends of the opposite sex? I frankly don't see it and I don't see a wide scale justification of one over the other. I see women chatting shit about why it's ok to demand it, and I see men chatting shit about why it's ok to demand it. It's not evidence by any means, but the meme of "you Vs the guy she tells yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:24 AM
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Ah, the shaming tactics. "Insecurity". It's not shaming, we all have insecurities in a relationship. I just want you fellas to acknowledge it instead of creating alpha bro science to justify it. If a guy was actually insecure, he wouldn't dare to actually establish boundaries in the first place So it's not insecure behaviour to demand that you check your partner's phone regularly? That's "setting a boundary" that you are not willing to have privacy in a relationship. You're chatting shit mate. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:15 AM
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You going to forbid your fiancée from having a hen do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:07 AM
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https://travmedia.com/showPRPreview/100020678#:~:text=A%20quarter%20(24.9%20per%20cent,cheated%20on%20a%20hen%20do. This one says cheating is twice as likely at stag do Vs a Hen do. Did you ignore this one in your Google search? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:06 AM
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Oh don't get me wrong, the women who do the same thing are just as bad. It's just that Redpillers will try and build a whole ideology around why their insecurity is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:57 AM
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"I found a few stories on Reddit relationship subs known for karma farming and fake stories, ergo it's a legitimate threat! I'll use anonymous Reddit stories to govern my relationship." You can find Reddit stories that justify any relationship insecurity. It's still insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:56 AM
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It’s not insecurity It is textbook relationship insecurity. You have anxiety around external factors and letting that affect your relationship. But if a girl is in a relationship with chad she should know he’ll get approached by many thirsty girls. And she has to learn that's part of the package, not enforce a rule in the relationship where he can't go and get drunk. Same with girls but she doesn’t have to be a stacy to get approached by men. I understand how desperate men are for any pussy so y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:51 AM
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But orbiters are absolutely a thing. The girl I dated before that made friends with a co-worker and monkey branched with no shame. I dated a girl in highschool that broke up with me right after we graduated to hook up with the guy she grew up with before she left. If you have legitimate reason to suspect that a guy is just trying to get in her pants, or legitimate reason to believe that she is having an inappropriate friendship with said person, then that's a different matter entirely. Being aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:29 AM
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The difference is that men won’t get approached on a nights out unless he’s in the top 1-5% of looks. Most men just get no action at all. So a woman dating a "chad" is perfectly justified in saying he's not allowed to have a night out? Women (and thus also your girlfriend) will get approached by many men and you have to trust her enough to reject all these approaches even when she’s drunk. Yes, you trust her. If you can't trust your GF not to gobble on dick after a few drinks, then don't be in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:23 AM
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Woman tells her boyfriend not to go on nights out and not to have female friends - "This bitch is insecure af, don't put up with that shit. Just typical female entitlement 🤷‍♂️" Man tells his girlfriend not to go on nights out and not to have male friends - "Hell yea that's some alpha shit bro! You're establishing boundaries and letting her know you have a spine, she'll respect your masculine strength 😎" ...Guys you're not fooling anyone. You're insecure, and that's OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:05 AM
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You got two nuclear options in your back pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:38 AM
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Keep it in the back pocket as a nuclear option if she keeps clapping on about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:34 AM
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I tell my Girl that going to the club is disrespectful and that i am against the concept off male friends. This are my boundaries for example. And she obeys that happily. I was totally with you, then you hit us with one of these...sigh Having a spine ≠ enforcing your own insecurities as "boundaries" in a relationship. I love how you guys try to reframe being terrified of your girl's male friends as some alpha shit 😂 just admit it's insecurity, you know it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:24 AM
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For me, the risks of getting into a bad relationship are outweighed by the rewards of getting into a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:02 PM
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examples were stop talking to men(unachievable, we were in HS), stop hanging out with friends more than him, friend's gf does [sex act] so she should too, she needs to "stop neglecting him" Yep, that's shitty. Plenty of women do the same. which are all demands he is entitled to make, reasonable or not. and she broke up with him, ofc. I don't think anyone should be entitled to make the demand of "stop talking to friends of the opposite sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:46 PM
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No 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:33 PM
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in this case it was making incredulous demands that he was technically entitled to make Like what? it's annoying because I could never imagine being as needy. but in a relationship it's mutual fulfilling each other's need is expected. my perceived imbalance is that he will have many more needs to fulfill than I do, and that will be annoying af Ah I see it's more an aversion to relationships themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:33 PM
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So under your definition all misogynists don't have any desire to fuck women? Be real mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:20 PM
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I usually go with the standard "fuck you ugly ass bitch, you ain't that cute anyway" That is so fucking lame
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:14 PM
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It's not the worst thing in the world but they're certainly not positive traits, are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:13 PM
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Define "annoying"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:13 PM
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He's only simped over because of Russian nationalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:50 PM
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...you based your whole perception of the world off a 16 year old's relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:50 PM
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Young Stalin maybe, dude was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:41 PM
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Yep, anyone who believes that street interview content is representative of the general public's opinion are fucking mouth breathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:39 PM
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Herpes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:37 PM
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'ite you trolling now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:36 PM
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And who is that 50 year old man getting attention from? Is it going to primarily be women in their 20s, or women in their 40s+?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:46 PM
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Damn Turkey u wild
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:27 PM
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I meant just don't be a -redacted- spouting out Andrew tate quotes and n count theories Just don't do that ever regardless 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:15 PM
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Well if you have evidence that the majority of men see it as being "cucked" as per OP's assertion, by all means.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:13 PM
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I understand the sentiment but the practicalities do matter. I completely agree that if you want a paternity test you can just do it behind the mother's back...not exactly an ethical move but hey, sometimes the right answer isn't the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:11 PM
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Eh, it's fun to argue 🤷‍♂️ And hell, maybe there's some chance it'll get through to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:02 PM
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Exactly, it's very much normalised. OP just seems to be chronically online and letting that distort his view of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:57 AM
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Dude we're on Reddit and posting in a sub where "Redpillers" and "Bluepillers" argue and achieve nothing. We all have better uses of our time 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:56 AM
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Well first off you don't need to pretend to be someone else to get drunk and have a frank conversation about sex. Just cut out that bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:53 AM
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And being in a tough situation doesn't mean I'll tolerate patheticness. If there are solutions available to you, fucking do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:52 AM
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No you ain't wrong, it's an utterly ridiculous belief. OP lives in a bubble where comments on IG videos are the majority view of men. Most men won't look down on someone for dating a single mum. It's also true that most people will have some caution around dating a single parent because of the added complexities, not because "but but but then I'll be a cuck! 😭"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:51 AM
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"We went on a few dates and he seemed to align well with me, then all of a sudden he completely changed and turns out he's a Republican. Eww no." It's pretty naïve to believe none of that shit will come up and the ruse will never be found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:48 AM
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A sudden personality change ain't going to go down well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:46 AM
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Nothing wrong with being lazy though and they can still complain about their lack of success in dating. Nah if they know something can be done, but just can't be arsed to actually do it and opt to complain endlessly instead then they can get fucked. It's a pathetic attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:45 AM
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Finding out whether your girl is a hoe - Go into the relationship pretending to be liberal and blue pill And once you've gotten your answer and proven she's not a "hoe" you're all of a sudden going to switch to being a conservative Redpiller?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:43 AM
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What if they're a Redpiller who thinks it's just too hard to improve their own SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:34 AM
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And what is a "compromising position"? Merely talking to someone of the opposite sex could be described as a "compromising position".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:34 AM
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And where does the "playing with fire" start?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:13 AM
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Not you unironically using the slippery slope argument... "Don't talk to anyone outside of your relationship or family, all cheating begins with a partner talking to someone outside of their relationship."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:09 AM
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It annoys me to no end how much the "no true Scotsman" fallacy gets thrown around, but there are definitely self identified Redpillers here whose views more align with that of Blackpillers. I do think however that they are no distinct entities as much as some may like to believe and there's plenty of cross over. Blackpill is essentially just Redpill but more nihilistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:59 AM
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I mean just a "I think X celebrity is fit"? That's not anything to get your knickers in a twist over. An obsessive crush? Yea that's fucking weirdo behaviour beyond the age of 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:49 AM
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But you know what? So did every single person who was cheated on. They loved and trusted their partner as much as you love and trust yours, as much as I love and trust mine. Not necessarily, I think a lot of people see warning signs that they choose to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:34 AM
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I appreciate the Redpillers who seem to have an "eh, it is what it is, better get cracking on anyway" kind of attitude. I may not agree with some of their views but they don't have any bitterness towards their perceived situation, just trying to play the hand they got. ...Unfortunately those guys are not the majority here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:34 AM
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I love it when you guys haphazardly throw shit around like "other men will see you as a cuck/sucker". ...by "other men" you mean the minority of men who are chronically online Manosphere Cretins. Oh noooo how will they cope? /s You say that most men see it as cuckoldry/being a sucker, what is your proof of that? And if you say IG comments I will laugh in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:21 AM
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What's with the 7th grade school book bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:18 AM
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The ones which are fun 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:38 PM
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1) no problem 2) have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:29 PM
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Damn you delivered 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:20 PM
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Cmon, you're making it easy to me lol. Why are you using a numbered list? Because I had three points to make and it's a nice clean format? Is not that deep, my mind is pretty much made anyway. There we go then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:20 PM
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You have a wonderful way of articulating things
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:13 PM
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You mean when jailbait was an active sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:11 PM
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1) not a woman. 2) no need to be snarky. 3) I've done the whole "find me links to comments" shit, it's always been a complete waste of time. Many apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:09 PM
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"i have no arguement,so I'm gonna just use personal attacks lol". I apologise if that's how it came across, I was just making sense of this insistence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:08 PM
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They do,go to ibiza at summer 🤷 Lol I literally have, it wasn't the case. Sorry. To the degree you describe it,it is lmao. And most Women don't really do that. Same that most men don't really care about boob and ass size. All I believe is that broadly speaking, women find tallness to be an attractive trait and shortness to be an unattractive trait. If that's too much for you, fine. There's nothing else to be had from this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:07 PM
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Nope, I don't play that game. Believe me or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:00 PM
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As if you don't do the same lmao. Never denied I didn't, unfortunately there's not any data from Iberia that I can see. And given that Spanish men are thought as like the hottest men in Europe and that many tourists hook up with Spanish men regardless of height, I hate to tell you bud, but women thirst over Spanish men because they fit the trope of "tall, dark and handsome" If you're going to tell me that 5'5 Spanish men slay just as much as the tall ones, then sure, I believe you...😉 Yeah bro, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:00 PM
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Oooohhh I get it now, you're insulted that someone would consider a fat woman to be on your level because you are short... This makes a lot more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:48 PM
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And I see plenty of women here being honest too 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:47 PM
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Lots of media with the "tall gf short bf" trope. And you think that makes it reality? And im from Catalonia,they preety much don't. I'll take your word for it...but frankly I doubt it. "Guys, Anglosphere is the entire world"🤡 Bruh you're treating Catalonia like it's the entire world too by claiming outright that height doesn't matter because of your localised, experience. Clod.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:46 PM
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What are you talking about? Tradcon brainrot is clearly a joke too 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:42 PM
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Well it's like how there's apparently loads of guys here who are rich, swimming in puss yet spend all their time arguing here and burning through alt accounts. People lie to make points.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:33 PM
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You throw beta around as an insult constantly stfu 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:31 PM
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Not really. Literally just "lol nah", good job 👍 Yeah. If anything there is even a cultural challenging of the notion. What does that even mean? Yes we are. Maybe its an American thing, but here most women won't give a shit about your height tbf. I'm in the UK, women very much care about height. That wasn't my point. The point is that,like boob and ass size,its not something many people care about that much Yep, just ignore all the studies I linked that suggest otherwise. Again, good job. Nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:26 PM
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It hasn't, unless you like a midget or something. Im 165cm,it has never affected me negatively. Good for you, I'm glad. Many other 165cm guys would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:19 PM
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It's truly a social movement!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:14 PM
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Was he harassing, or, in your opinion, was he just not picking up on - perhaps - subtle social cues. How long were you watching them? Did you hear everything they said to each other? It's hard to believe a person could get enough info. without also being a creepy spy to strangers. Why are you the person who gets to decide where the line is drawn? What's so bad about trying to talk to multiple women? How do you expect him to get better at reading social cues when he can't get relevant experience;…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:14 PM
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Oh I don’t really feel that way I’m just saying this is how red pill dudes will defend their position. I'll give you the benefit of doubt then. Same way women will say “I know a million friends who have experienced SA” and that’s why I hate being approached by dudes in public Saying "I don't like being approached by guys in public" is a completely different statement to "I don't think women should be allowed to vote" and you know it. Hell you could have gone with "All men are rapists" and that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:08 PM
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Yep, you called it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:47 PM
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I know many women who never vote ...mate wtf does this even mean. How is that by any means a "grain of truth" that women shouldn't be allowed to vote? From the looks of it, women vote more than men. https://cawp.rutgers.edu/facts/voters/gender-differences-voter-turnout So is that a "grain of truth" that in fact men should not be allowed to vote? 🤔 You've just listed a bunch of anecdotal observations that are barely related to the beliefs listed and claimed that it supports that there's some "gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:47 PM
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who has openly stated that she's in it for the grift. Where has she openly stated that? I mean I very much believe it's all a grift for her but never seen her confirm it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:43 PM
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What is your specific criticism of its methodology?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:36 PM
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Yep, and the feminists who say "yes all men" are bad too. Lazy whataboutism from yourself. Again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:29 PM
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"your feelings are always valid" "Let people enjoy things"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:27 PM
1

Sounds like you're talking to a limited demographic of women on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:24 PM
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Gee, it's almost like that's a very small minority of feminists... You're so close to getting it, keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:22 PM
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I had one friend who would do that, he was very odd around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:53 PM
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Yea that one!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:43 PM
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I miss the dude who thought everyone here was stalking him irl 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:40 PM
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It doesn't matter that you've done it. It is not very common at all. The fantasy part is that it happens often enough to make a significant difference beyond a one off. I'm not saying it's a super common occurrence, just maybe do something if you do see it. If someone helped every time it happened, regardless of how rare it is, then of course a difference will be made. I suppose each and every woman you "saved" confirmed how very, very bad she was being harassed by a guy, right? It was multiple …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:38 PM
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And no, you and me aren't losers Speak for yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:53 PM
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I mean, you can just replace "feminist theory" and "just world fallacy" with "Redpill theory" and "appeal to nature fallacy" and you'll have a completely apt summation of the Redpillers here too. Basically, we're probably all losers...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:50 PM
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I only see some that are delusional, most have pretty well adjusted views on dating but with some contrarian elements (which let's be real, we're all here to be contrarians...)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:43 PM
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Anyone else gotten DMs from some user called grand_duty that just say "correct" with a link to some guy's lecture about why you shouldn't have sex before marriage? Just wondering if it's a case of mistaken identity or just random schizo messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:13 PM
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i need to nichemax for the demographic of guys that like weird quiet (possibly autistic) girls who don’t leave the house. hopefully, the men in this demographic are 6ft+, make 7 figures, and act like Mr. Darcy. what are the odds? I'm not going to say the odds are not good...but they're not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:09 PM
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They don't, atleast to the insane schizo level some people here think Of course not to some of the crazy levels you see here, for example not every woman is only willing to date 6'0 men. Height is like boob size to most people: can be a bonus if you have it,it won't affect you if you don't have it. Forgive me, but if you're going to tell me that being a man who is shorter than average has zero effect on your dating prospects, then I'm going to assume you're being needlessly contrarian or just de…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:58 AM
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There's ways to be a "guy who is nice, kind and gentle" whilst still having traits that get incorrectly assumed to exclusively be "bad boy" traits. They want a kind hearted man who has a lot of love to give and would treat them right, who is also flirty, daring and willing to take risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:55 AM
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I most often think that the straw man of "bluepillers" is ridiculous, but sometimes I'll see some outrageous claims like "women don't care about height" and think that maybe they have a point... Guys, you can disagree with TRP and refrain from being needlessly contrarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:47 AM
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Not really. It can be an added bonus,but its not much important And being short is being at a disadvantage, from all evidence present. They dont. Some yeah do,but most women ain't height obsessed. They're not height "obsessed" but most don't consider shortness to be an attractive trait...are we really going to be challenging this notion? Nonsense. First of all, being fat is easily changed,and both sexes don't like it. 1) it's often not "easily" changed and b) it's irrelevant if it can be changed…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:24 AM
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That's not sensical lmao Is a woman with small boobs not average? That's absurd Purely from a statistical standpoint yes. Talking just from looks, it's no secret that women value height a lot when it comes to attraction. So yes, a short man can very much be considered below average from both a statistical stand point and an attractiveness stand point. If he ain't fat or severely ugly,how on hell isn't he average? Because unless you've been living under a rock, you would know that most women valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:03 AM
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A) the man is short, ergo not average. B) there is no indication the woman is a "1/10" C) saying that, if there's no physical attraction then that's enough in of itself and shouldn't be chastised for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:52 AM
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1) People who genuinely believe that a woman's vagina is permanently altered by having sex many times (spoilers: wrong) 2) People who want to believe that it permanently alters the vagina because they are weirdos who have some sort of revenge fantasy 3) People who just like it as an insult for promiscuous women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:00 AM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:21 AM
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No, they're not talking about labia when they say "loose pussy". They're talking about the vaginal canal not being tight. Girl, come on...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:21 AM
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"Women won't be my trad wife anymore ergo I'll do nothing to help anyone in need" Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:24 AM
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Your justice fantasy isn't a very common thing. It's hardly fantasy justice when I've literally done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:23 AM
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Those situations, when they are very certainly that way rather than any other possibility, are very rare. You simply can't tell what is really going on as someone who hasn't been participating in the interaction. I've unfortunately seen plenty of those scenarios during my time clubbing. That falls under the "excessive risk of being physically attacked" exception. How? What's he going to do? Track down and find the person who anonymously reported him to staff after he's been kicked out? Most men …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:12 PM
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Please answer the question in my edit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:56 PM
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And OP was trying to use their specific example to make a comment of all step fathers which is simply not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:50 PM
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And yet I've been called by people who got my number through various means before. Even when I didn't like it, I felt no need to freak out and threaten to call the cops. My number is not a closely guarded secret. Not the ridiculous attempt to compare it to telemarketing again... The desperation you have to make this seem normal is alarming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:49 PM
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Considering the reactions I've gotten here when I've trashed anime, it's Redpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:14 PM
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Of course it's about how he got her bloody phone number, how could it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:54 PM
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Good analogy 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:26 PM
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You considered the science, I like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:03 PM
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You know that's not the potentially illegal part, don't play dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:39 PM
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Go on I'm curious now. Please explain how labelling socially unacceptable behaviour is creepy and that the police should be involved in potentially illegal behaviour is an objective sign of mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:14 PM
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Yes, that's how their reaction sounded to me Say no more, subjective assessment based assessment. If I see a car going fast and I say "that's a fast car" it's not a subjective assessment Lol yes it is. What's subjective is going "fucking creepy loser". I'm sorry if you can't understand the difference. My apologies to you too, Sir. And apparently you cared enough to make another post about it above, too. Yet again, never said I didn't care or that I didn't have strong feelings 🤷‍♂️ You're not ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:11 PM
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Most likely thought the dust had settled enough to at least be amicable and that was her way of demonstrating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:29 PM
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You're right in that it's not your responsibility to actively put yourself in danger to combat other men's actions. If you directly intervene in a case of domestic abuse, it is unfortunately likely that a) you'll get attacked and b) the abused woman will not treat you as some sort of hero, she will more likely take the side of her abuser. There's ways you can help without putting yourself in harm's way. See a creepy dude who won't stop harassing a woman at the bar, but you're pretty sure it coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:21 PM
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God I hope that's fake... I understand crying from guilt, but crying in the shower with all your clothes on? That's some pathetic performative bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:07 PM
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I think if they're a regular customer and you've built rapport/established there is chemistry, it can be appropriate to ask them out (obviously depends how/when you do it). Asking out a customer who doesn't even know who you are? Absolutely fucking not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:56 PM
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"Women are ridiculous these days, you can't even access customer data to illegally obtain the phone number of some woman you delivered a parcel to months ago to ask her out without being called a creep!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:50 PM
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This is definitely just a power fantasy but I always thought it was pretty hot being the rebound shag 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:47 PM
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That was an objective statement given their responses. That's not an objective statement by any means, hell you even said they "sound" mentally ill, which means they appear mentally ill according to your subjective assessment. If you want to write my opinion off entirely because I called the dude a fucking loser, that's your prerogative. My opinion is that it's kind of pathetic to do so 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:39 PM
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"but to me those women sound mentally ill." Glass houses, fella. I'm not saying you have a problem, just that you have strong feelings on the matter and that's fine. I wouldn't begrudge you for using colourful language, yet you begrudged me for it 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:33 PM
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Thank you, that offers a lot more context. I think it's still far too much of a simplistic view, male celebrities have their bodies commented on too (though to a lesser degree). And to chalk it up to "girls are nice" is so utterly asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:31 PM
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Aren't dating for what timeframe?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:29 PM
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Your feelings are strong on it too, you cross-posted it to another sub just to give your feelings on it. It's OK to have strong feelings on subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:28 PM
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So you are assuming what she meant and don't have any information that actually confirms your interpretation, gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:24 PM
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I get angry at telemarketing calls, who doesn't? Hell, at least with telemarketing they most often obtain your data through legal means. This fucking loser broke GDPR legislation just to shoot his shot with some woman he delivered a parcel to (a woman who doesn't even remember him). So yes, this dude is a creepy loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:23 PM
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The only thing I can think of that's mildly inappropriate is he probably got her number from the company database, That's MILDLY inappropriate to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:15 PM
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What are your examples of "undateable" and "disgusting"? I'm not denying those men are certainly out there, but men will be told that they're stupid and come across as undateable simply for not knowing the unwritten rules of how to decide what pictures to show (i.e. 1 smiling selfie, 1 candid photo, 1 picture with friends, 1 picture doing an activity etc etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:13 PM
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https://twitter.com/PopBase/status/1724099150726549620?s=19
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:38 PM
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Whilst there's some dumb takes, they're at least offering perspective as to why Billie Eilish would personally feel that way, regardless of whether it's delusional (which is it and most women on the thread agree it is). It offers more to the discussion than just insulting her, which is what most of the men opted for (not too proud to admit that includes myself).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:11 PM
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Why? Why are you speaking for her? Why are you assuming that's what she meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:07 PM
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No, she's not. By any metric. Donut.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:05 PM
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And the premise itself is utter bullshit. 1) A Nice Guy™ is not just a guy who is nice. 2) The idea that all Nice Guys™ are fallen heroes who only became bitter and angry because their trust got betrayed by a woman is such an obvious fantasy. The fact that the most common complaint from Nice Guys™ is that they can't get a girl at all (of course believing that it must be because they're "nice"), not that they had relationships but were cheated on. 3) Even if all Nice Guys™ are the way they are be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:59 AM
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If I could delete one phrase from existence, it would be "just let people have fun"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:44 AM
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Clever! On a side note, it's annoying when women complain that their man always gets horny when giving them a massage. You're their partner, you're naked and they're touching intimate areas of your body. You should be worried if they don't get horny...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:39 AM
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I just don't think this view is in-keeping with actual statistics, it's a view based solely on your subjective experience. For marriages where at least one partner has a previous marriage, approximately half involved both partners having previous marriages. Hardly a great indicator that step dads are purely men who wouldn't have been picked prior, they broadly did get picked prior... https://www.smartstepfamilies.com/smart-help/marriage-family-stepfamily-statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:36 AM
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This post is ultimate proof that those who know very little of a certain subject are most confident in their knowledge of it. OP, this drivel is simply factually wrong on so many levels. Respect your own intelligence and do the bare minimum of research prior to posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:17 AM
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How does the throbbing erection help with cognitive capacity 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:29 AM
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"Here you go honey" Tosses you some rubber gloves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:16 AM
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Yep, and there are 5'7 dudes who have gotten laid a lot. Welcome to the world, no rule is true 100% of the time. What was that phrase that you guys absolutely love, "exceptions to the rule prove the rule"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:13 AM
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Yet another delusional celebrity who lives in a bubble. She can get tae fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:07 AM
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I think it's off base because most "Nice Guys" ARE genuinely nice, they just get their trust violated and get angry because of it. What a wonderfully subtle way of saying "they're genuinely nice! Believe me! They're just bitter and angry, the antithesis of nice, but don't worry because it's women's fault they're that way!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:06 AM
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Exactly. They don't get shut down because universities hate men or some bollocks, it's because they don't want to fucking sued.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:20 PM
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Asking for a paternity test in a monogamous relationship will always be tantamount to an accusation of cheating. If you have legitimate suspicions or reasoning to suspect they have cheated, absolutely go for it. If you're doing it without any legitimate suspicions or reasoning to suspect they have cheated, then you're still entitled to ask but don't be surprised if they get offended by your accusation of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:42 PM
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I think the ship would have sailed after 2 years... For me, the minimum number that would have me questioning their views and behaviours would be about 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:37 PM
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Bro, all women don't have the same opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:32 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:28 PM
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If you had a shelter which was at 5% capacity at any given time, then it simply wouldn't get funded. It's an unfortunate truth that even charity is determined by supply and demand. If the demand doesn't exist (or at least is very small) then the supply won't exist. That's not to say there's only a very small amount of male DV victims by any means, just that men are less likely to seek the work of a shelter if they were a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:26 PM
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Good thing that "them" are different women with different opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:23 PM
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Probably your 40s/50s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:35 PM
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Black propaganda?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:11 PM
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Exactly, some. They're exceptions which are usually in response to specific incidents such as hazing rituals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:05 PM
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Now, only male only spaces in the West are gay spaces, which automatically makes heterosexual male only spaces associated with homosexuality. Are university fraternities outlawed? No, they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:52 PM
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Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:24 AM
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I would love it if he did but alas
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:33 AM
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Because a lot of men online will rush to the defense of any man who is accused of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:21 PM
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Please refrain from the stupid analogies and say what you mean. Like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:18 PM
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I would broadly agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:04 PM
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If you can't see why she wronged him, but it's obvious to you how he wronged her, I no longer believe you consider men's perspective. But yes, he was shitty to her. I am a man. So yes, I consider men's perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:52 PM
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Then two people are wrong, hardly inconceivable 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:48 PM
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Someone studying for a bachelor's sure, a master's or PHD? That's a big jump (in general, of course there are some doss masters degrees)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:08 PM
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1) As demonstrated to you earlier, it's not grinding. https://www.google.com/search?client=ms-android-google&sca_esv=581256897&sxsrf=AM9HkKn9708s7tiAfJiAQwiMdGDmJz_8MQ:1699635028184&q=grinding+dance&tbm=isch&source=lnms&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjB8Ofw8bmCAxWKWUEAHS7AD9AQ0pQJegQIChAB&biw=412&bih=783&dpr=2.63 2) If he did feel uncomfortable with the dance (which he apparently didn't considering he said "it's the dress tho") he's entitled to air that with her...in private. 3) "Emotions" are not an excuse to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:02 PM
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Not that they don't fuck, it's that someone doing a masters or PHD often prioritise the workload of academia over a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:54 PM
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No it isn't, fella. Literally Google it, NONE of the examples look anything like that (bar one still from dirty dancing on a news article about grinding at school dances) https://www.google.com/search?client=ms-android-google&sca_esv=581256897&sxsrf=AM9HkKn9708s7tiAfJiAQwiMdGDmJz_8MQ:1699635028184&q=grinding+dance&tbm=isch&source=lnms&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjB8Ofw8bmCAxWKWUEAHS7AD9AQ0pQJegQIChAB&biw=412&bih=783&dpr=2.63 Now, if he was uncomfortable with the way she was dancing, he's entitled to air tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:49 PM
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Bruh that is not grinding on someone at all 😂 She is gently swaying from side to side, there's no hip action or simulated humping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:45 PM
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OK then, I'll disregard your opinion that it would be met with no criticism if it were the other way round then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:44 PM
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Oh come off it man, it's clearly shaming her for her choice of outfit and saying it's not fit for a mother to wear and doing so publicly. If he had an issue with it, take it up in person. Don't blast it on twitter, that's just an appalling way to handle a disagreement with your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:43 PM
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So you're telling me if you saw your partner grinding up on another person, you wouldn't feel some type of way? How dare men have emotions and boundaries lol Was she grinding on Usher? I can't see any evidence of it as the tweet was deleted. If she was grinding on Usher, then that's another topic entirely to dressing in a revealing outfit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:41 PM
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If you can find me an example of a woman publicly shaming her husband for dressing inappropriately that wasn't met with any criticism, I'm all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:36 PM
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And publicly shaming them into changing their behaviour isn't controlling? Publicly admonishing your partner for everyone to see over their choice of dress isn't controlling? Get tae absolute fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:29 PM
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And publicly shaming them for it? That's within acceptable limits?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:28 PM
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And publicly shaming them over that apparent breach of boundaries is no indicator? There's a huge difference between a private conversation regarding how you feel your partner should present themselves, and publicly shaming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:27 PM
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Nope, I just stated that I wouldn't mind dating a divorcee depending on their situation. That does not indicate that I would choose a divorcee over someone who has only dated casually. There was no leaning towards either answer, merely answering the title of the post rather than the stupid hypothetical in the body of the post. Reading comprehension, fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:24 PM
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"There are other places as bad as Israel ergo it's not that crazy!" This is the laziest whataboutism I've ever seen here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:13 PM
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The playbook is so predictable. Isn't it odd how every single famous woman who comes out with claims of abuse undergoes an attempted character assassination and attempts to invalidate her claims? Indeed, very odd 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:12 PM
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You really going to say there's zero correlation between controlling behaviours and abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:05 PM
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1) We have a generation of men who are more socially isolated than ever before. 2) Men are more reliant on OLD than ever before, which as there is a 4:1 ratio between men and women on them there's a supply and demand issue. What was the stat again, 50% of young men have never approached a woman irl before? 3) Young men have a lack of spaces to approach women. Gen Z party less, go on nights out less and spaces like youth and social clubs have become rarer. 4) Women have generally shifted towards …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:04 PM
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Losers always whine about their best, winners go home and fuck the prom queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:55 PM
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Thank you for agreeing with my choice of semantics ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:53 PM
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Inb4 "How do we know the security cam footage wasn't just sexual roleplay??"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:52 PM
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God I hope he was just an elaborate troll. Told everyone that he can't get a GF and that's why he's going to kill himself, and it's everyone else's responsibility to find one...yet it turns out he was receiving offers all along? Yea, he can get tae fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:48 PM
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What a fucking cretin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:47 PM
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Lesbians love my GF too, it's like moths to a flame
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:46 PM
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I mean, if you drank every single night, would you not say that's an addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:33 PM
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Can I change back? May as well go gay for a month 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:26 PM
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the women here will rail men who watch porn call them "pornsick" but ive like never seen a woman here say anything about women who create porn other than slightly positive things. it just doesnt make sense Being "pornsick" is clearly indicative of a porn addiction or obsession. It doesn't mean "a guy who occasionally watches porn and overall has a healthy sex life". . i can't call a pornstar a "whore" thats offensive to women here, do u see the disconnect now? You can, you have done it freely. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:21 PM
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"Sure, here's the code. Now if you'll excuse me, I have German housewives to fuck."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:19 PM
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...Didn't like that I think hypothetical questions like the one you asked are stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:17 PM
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ok so why is everyone so hard on the men who watch porn then?? I mean, are they? Porn usage seems very much normalised to me. those are the ones who are "addicted" in this scenario. do u see my point? Yea I see the point that people should be empathetic towards addicts, when it comes to just general porn use it's very much normalised and accepted (apart from with exposure to kids of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:16 PM
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Under what metric is it the worst city in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:10 PM
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if women dont like men consuming these pornstars products then they by definition think that there is something wrong with pornstars producing the content they do no? Again, it's the difference between usage and addiction. i guess they can technically view this morally however they want and there isnt really a right or wrong answer but placing the sole blame on men as usual is extremely convenient. I don't think anyone who puts "blame" on addicts are thinking the right way about it and being har…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:09 PM
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Yes, there are plenty of people who think that drugs can be harmful, but also believe that legalisation is the only route to true harm reduction. They believe that it's an industry that will continue to exist regardless of how hard your stance is against them in terms of policy, and if anything only exacerbates the issue. The solution therefore is a regulated market.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:07 PM
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it doesnt mean u have to be for the banning of alcohol it means that u have to not love bars, u dont have to think they should be closed to not like them A) they don't "love" sex workers, they just believe they should have the right to earn money that way and shouldn't be insulted for doing so. B) You don't have to not like bars to not like alcohol addiction. There's plenty of people who recognise the dangers of alcohol addiction, yet enjoy going to the bar for a drink or two. if u dont like alc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:59 PM
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Nope, it's not an either or because that's fucking stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:49 PM
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Cry me a river
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:48 PM
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believing there is nothing wrong with being a pornstar and thinking that men shouldn't watch porn or should watch less porn are two competing ideals. Shouldn't watch porn yes, that's a conflicting ideal. Thinking men should watch less porn? No, that's not a conflicting ideal. Again, you can believe that we as a society should drink less alcohol, whilst still believing that bars remain open. Do you think that advocating for the reduction of alcohol addiction means you must support banning the sal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:47 PM
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Depends what "cheat codes" you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:42 PM
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This is just sad mate...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:41 PM
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Women who are completely anti-porn and believe that no one should consume it, yet stand with sex workers and empower them? Bullshit fella. There's women who believe that sex workers should be respected and have a right to produce content, but also believe that porn addiction is dangerous. In the same way that you can believe alcohol addiction is dangerous but still believe that bars should have the right to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:40 PM
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Didn't downvote you 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:38 PM
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Simple, they're not the same women. You're conflating two different views that women share.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:34 PM
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Don't sit here and pretend that the majority of men don't see average looking women with average looking men all the time. "So many men" as in bitter men who moan online about their dating woes. Your position is nothing but selection bias as well as confirmation bias. You are not speaking for "most men".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:11 PM
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Yaaawn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:41 PM
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Yet more sensationalism. I've been clubbing for 10+ years, never have I seen any situation anything akin to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:39 PM
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Yep, and gay originally just meant happy. Welcome the world, the connotations and definitions of words shift all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:38 PM
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The definitions of words require acceptance by society at large, it's like currency. If the majority don't accept and believe in its value, or in this case definition, then it has no value. Just because a small group of people online say that "incel applies to every virgin who hasn't gotten laid yet despite wanting to", doesn't make it so. Especially if you're going to start saying that non-virgins are Incels too and that you can be an incel just because of a dry spell...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:04 AM
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1) I wouldn't call anyone going through a dry spell an "incel", even if it is a year long dry spell. 2) it's impossible to divorce the term incel from the blackpill ideology in which it developed from (yes, I know incel was coined by a woman, we're talking about the current understanding and usage of the word). A virgin who wants to get laid but hasn't yet isn't by default an incel in my mind, they need to hold blackpill beliefs for the nature of the term to apply. I do think it would be disinge…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:46 AM
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The parts that have merit are the ones that were broadly accepted by society prior to the formation of the TRP, so I would hesitate to call them true Redpill concepts. Shit like women generally like men with money/status etc. Redpill is somewhat correct about OLD, but takes the "80/20 rule" far too literally (i.e. that if you're not part of the top whatever % of men it's essentially impossible to get laid)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:33 AM
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Instantly loses all credibility by spouting "left brain/right brain" nonsense. That shit has been shown to be a myth for quite a while now. https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/right-brainleft-brain-right-2017082512222#:~:text=No%20evidence%20of%20%22sidedness%22%20was,than%20an%20anatomically%20accurate%20description.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:28 AM
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God damn, being stuck on a Grateful Dead tour and not even liking their music... My condolences...lots of free acid though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:25 AM
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Lol makes sense that it's trueunpopularopinion, that sub is a cesspit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:16 AM
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It may sense that this a power only Grateful Dead fans can unlock
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:12 AM
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Star Wars fans have war crimes to answer for
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:11 AM
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Some people express on social media that they don't want to be hit on at XYZ venue "Well, that's it then! No man can hit on any woman at XYZ venue! What is this world coming to??" Getting real tired of this sensationalism. To believe that you can't hit on women at fucking bar/club anymore is pure lunacy. Stop listening to the voices of some people and assuming it must be true for everyone. Hell, even if you do hit on someone who doesn't want to be hit on at that time, what happens? They say no t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:07 AM
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What if I've called actual Incels Incels? Or only called people Incels if they spew blackpill garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:46 AM
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It's just not the same though. We get to stand proudly, you have to squat like a coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:45 AM
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...please explain how you came to the conclusion that this sub has over a million members.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:44 AM
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Once for the novelty. There's a famous shit strip club in my home town that you just have to visit as a right of passage. It was fucking awful. It's a particularly tragic strip club, but I'm just not into the concept by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:42 AM
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Was going to go for a run but unfortunately my legs are crippled from leg day...arms it is 🤙
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:41 AM
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I don't do stupid hypotheticals like this. If I were older, I wouldn't have any issues with dating a divorcee, obviously dependent on her specific situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:39 AM
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Yea that's different, if they're completely blasé about it then that does hint at deeper character flaws. I would certainly think differently of my friend after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:31 PM
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I mean you're well within your rights to have whatever principles you want. I'm of the mind that an immoral action doesn't mean that someone is immoral forever (obviously within limits). I've known people who were great friends but terrible romantic partners, and vice versa. I personally wouldn't shun someone who cheating on their partner, I would criticise them for it but I wouldn't drop them completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:20 PM
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I still don't really know what you're suggesting, that the majority of attacks on a man's ego result in violence? That the majority of women have been violently attacked by men? Because I don't believe either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:18 PM
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Yes, I have friends who have cheated. my friend group logic is if he cant be loyal to his girlfriend how can he be loyal to his friends? I think you're in the minority fella. The majority of people, regardless of gender, wouldn't dump a friend because they cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:13 PM
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Oh shit you got me choked up too...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:12 PM
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This isn't just about "attacks" on someone's self esteem, it's comments that can inadvertently affect one's self esteem as well as life's inevitabilities, such as rejection and being dumped. But if you attack a man's ego, well, is he the sort to respond with violence? Unfortunately men in general have a greater propensity for violence due to natural biology. That doesn't necessarily mean that the ego itself is more fragile. Women generally don't want to be (but usually end up being) the ones who…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:09 PM
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Women deal with a lot of shit from men, but I'll never take it seriously when women talk about "male ego" like it's something that's unique only to men. Y'all will cry over anything that even remotely threatens to slightly stifle your self-esteem. Glass houses and all....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:47 PM
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Not a woman but yes yes yes yes yes a thousand times yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:35 PM
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I mean it does make sense when you take into account that you didn't think it was rude to tell someone out of the blue they'd be more physically attractive if they lost weight...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:32 PM
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You seriously had zero idea that people generally want to be physically attracted to their partners? I'll take your word for it, but I've never bought this overall narrative that all men are brought up believing that physical attraction doesn't matter and that they keep believing it past the age of 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:15 PM
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Were you unaware that you were overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:08 PM
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Well there we go, the knobheadery of your father is irrelevant. You don't want the kind of woman who would get knocked up by a convicted felon with mommy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:03 PM
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Because that's unsolicited advice. Giving people unsolicited advice out of nowhere and with no prompt, especially of a personal nature, is considered rude, intrusive and nosy. Come on man, this is basic social decorum.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:01 PM
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it's the majority of any subset of woman. The majority of women have dated convicted felons? Get tae fuck with that ridiculous claim. A good, studious, "morally upstanding"can still be a fucking trainwreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:54 PM
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Well, become an arsehole drug dealer then 🤷‍♂️ Like seriously. If knocking up some woman is all that matters to you, why not? The truth of the matter is that there's a subset of women who are either dumb enough, damaged enough, or enough of a trainwreck to fall for that shit. Do you want those women? No? Then the whole "but but but criminals get laid!" shit is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:48 PM
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Have they asked you what they could do to improve their physical attractiveness? Stating "you would look prettier if you lost a few pounds!" out of nowhere is an unsolicited piece of advice that comes across as rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:44 PM
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They absolutely have empathy for single men they know, my GF cares very much about her male friend who just can't get a date to save his life. What they don't care about is pity party ramblings online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:20 PM
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That bro is fucking embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:30 PM
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A man who exists outside of the hierarchy of men (i.e. Alphas, Betas etc) who doesn't have alpha traits yet still is very successful with women. ...Basically it's absolute bollocks created as a get out of jail free card for when people point out men who are not "alphas" yet are successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:23 PM
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Regardless of whether it's nature Vs nurture, anyone who says "if you're not attracted to fat people you're fatphobic" needs to take a permanent hiatus from everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:23 PM
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My interpretations about TRP are right, if you think otherwise then tell me where am wrong I don't want to have that debate again, we got nowhere last time. Then why do we've this debates ? If it was a popular social notation that men and women are different, we wouldn't always fight RP talking points, but then again it's always that on this sub The idea of the post was that any man who perceives female behaviour/views/attitudes and adjusts accordingly is in essence "Redpilled". That would mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:41 AM
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This is not an accurate representation of British Chinese food, I don't know a single mf who mixes chips with rice 🤢 We don't have cultured tastes by any means, but we love simple comfort food. It makes sense when you live here, the weather is so miserable that you need some comforting stodge. British Chinese looks awful but slaps when it's a Friday night, it's raining and you've got TV to catch up on. Chicken and cashew nuts with egg fried rice goes hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:14 AM
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I usually disagree with your interpretation of TRP but you're bang on here. Believing that physical attraction matters, that wealthy men are desired and that men and women are different when it comes to their perspectives on sex/dating is by no means exclusively a Redpill concept. To try and claim ownership over shit like "workout to make yourself more physically attractive" is utter lunacy, it's an incredibly basic notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:09 AM
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Once again, a Redpiller claiming exclusive rights over incredibly broad concepts that the vast majority of men (hell, people) agreed with long before TRP became a thing. "A wealthy man is an attractive prospect to women" SOOOOO REDPILLED
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:32 AM
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Yea I'm seeing results, nothing crazy but I didn't want crazy. Nah not really, I just mentally track it throughout the day. It's pretty easy to get your protein intake with a home cooked, protein rich dinner and protein drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:50 PM
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Nah I have with seasoning and sauces
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:38 PM
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Protein drinks and meat basically, lots of chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:30 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:09 PM
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Nah not really, I knew broadly what my league was and tried it on with women who are in that league and that I was sexually attracted to. I got a job in engineering after I left uni which wasn't hugely well paying, but enough so that I could have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:09 PM
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I'm into bro science by any means so I've just kept it very simple. For example, I just use the workout machines rather than free weights and try to aim for 100g of protein a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:06 PM
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Money nah, not to toot my own horn but I'm reasonably charming to new people so already had that in place. Went from having slept with 3 women to 17, mix of hook ups, flings and GFs (until I found my current GF of 5 years). I "looksmaxxed" when I was about 22 so inevitably just having fun in my 20s contributed to it. My physical type is pretty broad, I like all sorts of girls physically. Mainly tend to attract and be attracted to more alt/artsy girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:56 PM
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It's going good thanks, been a bit rocky recently because I went on holiday and got a horrendous flu afterwards. Back into the routine now though. I've seen good progress so far, been going since about May or June.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:52 PM
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It's pretty simple, more women were physically attracted to me than before 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:51 PM
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You're the kind of mf who believes that insect zombie fungus will affect humans like in the Last of Us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:50 PM
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This was a while ago, I've recently turned 30 and started hitting the gym properly because hey, if not now when?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:40 PM
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If you're not willing to actually listen to anything people are saying and reject everything outright, then it's not a "cry for help" by any means. Again, touchy feely didn't work, maybe tough love and calling them out on their nonsense will. I give a fuck about everyone that's suicidal, if however you're not listening to anything people are saying and coming at it from the position of "give me a GF now or I do it" then that's simply heinous guilt tripping that shouldn't be tolerated. It's more …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:27 PM
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Pretty much it, didn't hit the gym but I lost weight (particularly off my face which revealed that I do in fact have a jaw). Changed my haircut after years of leaving it shaggy and implemented the basics of style.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:26 PM
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What's your build like, are you naturally lean/skinny? Do you struggle to put on fat too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:24 PM
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Because he rejected everyone's genuine attempt to help with a snarky attitude and implies it's on us to prevent it. If the touchy feely approach didn't work, maybe tough love will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:20 PM
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Scroll down, some alt account went on a massive rant threatening suicide, that nothing other than having a GF can prevent it and that it's on everyone else to just give him a GF. He says it's a "cry for help" but he's just being obnoxious, combative and unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:18 PM
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Every second day of the week as in once every two days? If that's the case, then it's very likely you're just not getting enough protein.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:13 PM
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"PROVE TO ME THAT I SHOULDN'T KILL MYSELF AND THAT A GF ISN'T THE ONLY SOLUTION TO MY PROBLEMS. GIVE ME REASONS OR GIVE ME A GF! NOPE, NOT GOOD ENOUGH! THAT'S NOT A GOOD REASON!" ...I get that we should always endeavour to help but I ain't dealing with that fucking nonsense. Get tae fuck. That isn't a genuine cry for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:09 PM
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It's just based on what I've experienced and what others have told me. Being in therapy does not stop people from being an emotional burden, if anything it can make it worse because now they want to have debriefs on how therapy is going and what they've learned...which turns into another therapy session 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:06 PM
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Yes, it did. A lot. I didn't call it "looksmaxxing" because that's fucking stupid but I made a conscious effort to become more attractive, and it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:04 PM
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"No one has friends after they leave school. Nope, doesn't happen...I don't have any friends that I hang out with so it just must be true."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:03 PM
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Sell the fucker
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:02 PM
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And that doesn't mean that they don't treat their partner like a therapist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:02 PM
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Yea, women will do both instead...😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:16 PM
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I ain't eating a three course dinner without having dessert
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:25 PM
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People who actually give this list any credence are fucking morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:19 PM
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I love it when there's a brand new burner account that is supposedly a woman, yet speaks in the exact same way that a Redpiller/Blackpiller would, or fulfills a ridiculous straw man role that conforms to all Redpill/blackpill ideas. ....suuuuuure buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:50 PM
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I get the idea that as men are far less likely to seek therapy than women, some of that burden may get passed onto their partners. BUT the majority of women are not in therapy, yet from my experience the majority of women expect a quasi-therapist role from their partner. Being in therapy also doesn't mean that you won't treat your partner as a therapist too. This idea that women process their emotions and seek help only in the form of therapy is an utter nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:47 PM
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Emotional labour is a term that gets used and abused a lot. ...however there ain't no way it's reasonable to expect your partner to listen to you prattle on about work for a FUCKING HOUR EVERY DAY.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:11 PM
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So you do know who you think is pushing this "agenda"? Go on, say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:07 PM
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I've seen a few studies that support the opposite as well if I recall... Basically, it's a fucking mess that shouldn't be weaponised in the "gender wars".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:03 PM
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I'll never get people who don't have an alt account for porn...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:01 PM
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