Daily Community Chat Megathread

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-08T18:44:52+00:00

Still funny that women are expected to vet men or it’s our fault when we’re around shitty guys, yet guys here rationalize not vetting women whatsoever and then act like victims when most women they know are shitty.

baiser_vole · 2023-11-08T18:39:32+00:00

:/ I have a concert I want to go to, and the tickets are sold out. Even the black market has crappy tickets. I might just get those crappy tickets though. I really should be paying more attention to who’s coming to perform.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-08T18:34:14+00:00

I'm listening to the controversial Matt Healy episode of the Adam Friedland Show and it really isn't even that bad. Just sounds like how a bunch of guys talk when they're fucking around. Weird how women will push sex work is real work, then cancel men for not watching the right kind of porn. Weird though because the hosts are making way worse jokes and weren't cancelled. I'm starting to buy into this whole anti-woke stuff.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-08T18:32:13+00:00

Are women good at mate selection?

Peacesquad · 2023-11-08T18:28:35+00:00

Lori Harvey back to the streets lol

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-11-08T18:11:33+00:00

Stupid dating strategy is going for an already successful man. You're competing with everyone else.

Smart dating strategy is to identify winners before they win. Requires taking a risk and being intuitive/intelligent, so as usual people just want the quick fix.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T18:06:31+00:00

I hate hearing my mother talk about my disability. I covered my ears today when she tried talking to me about it. I just hate hearing about my embarrassing behaviors and how awkward I am. I've always had to hear how awkward and different I was, I just want to stop being embarrassed about myself.

relish5k · 2023-11-08T17:53:27+00:00

Im 2 weeks postpartum and first time mom. Honestly, I didn't expect postpartum to be this difficult. I heard stories about it, but all the pains, brain fog, traumatic birth, newborn... I cannot recognize myself anymore in mirror. My husband is not that helpful with baby but he works long hours and I'm forever grateful for that. I'm experiencing really bad cramps from birth and yesterday night I couldn't sleep. I knew I was getting only few hours of sleep before baby wakes up so l got up and put period cramp massager on because that's the only thing that saves me now (I'm breastfeeding therefore don't take painkillers). About 20 min later my husband woke me up screaming on me that he can't sleep from vibration. He woke up my son. I quickly to picked him up and exited the room but he followed us shouting how he can't take it anymore and how I'm selfish and lazy woman because I ask him to babysit our son so I can take a shower or prepare a meal). I was just crying and begging him to stop so I can feed my baby. I was thinking about calling my dad because I was scared. After he left I spent my night crying and thinking about what he said. I don't know if I really did something wrong?

When women are single, it’s because they are too picky.

When women leave their partners, it’s because they weren’t picky enough.

If anything, women should be pickier and more people should be single. Wouldn’t help the birth rate but would be great for the divorce rate.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-08T17:47:24+00:00

I have to be awake for 42 hours starting midnight yesterday. I took a 40 minute nap last night (doesn't count less than an hour). My joints are hurting a lot worse than usual. I feel like I need another adderall. A little pick me up. Bc otherwise I will pass out at my desk lol

I fucking hate election night. I wish I was warned about it earlier.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-08T17:39:26+00:00

Women love to talk about abortion but unable to abort an affair baby. Lmao

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-08T17:38:32+00:00

Can someone explain to me why sluts love Maya Angelou lol. Ever since the days I remember on MySpace in like 2005 to Facebook, to IG, to snap I seen girls who I know for a fact got trains run on them stay posting pics and quotes of her. She’s like their idol and inspiration. Like it got to the point when I matched with a girl on a dating site who had a Maya quote in her profile I knew I was smashing lol. Is it because she said she was a sex worker in her younger days? Which is weird cause many of these girls aren’t sex workers, they don’t get paid they just like to get ran threw(which is fine btw) I’m just curious

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-11-08T17:37:50+00:00

Since my last LSD experience I turned into a complete sociopath and lost all empathic feelings, it's great and bad at the same time

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-08T17:35:38+00:00

Bro, red pill men believe in being disciplined until its time to practice monogamy and be faithful to their SO.

Quite the irony, bro.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-08T17:34:53+00:00

I feel like a lot of parents place a ton of pressure on their kids to be scholars in school. Like I knew kids in middle school and high school who get anxiety in class because going home to their parents with an 85 was unacceptable, it was 95 and up. Some of these parents weren’t great in school either themselves which is kinda weird. You were a steady 77 student in high school.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-08T17:30:29+00:00

It's obvious that most of us are degenerates. What are your red flags?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-08T17:08:16+00:00

you're not an incel unless even prostitutes reject you

fakecels love appropriating true incel struggles

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-08T17:06:50+00:00

Last movie I saw in a theater was The Creator. The action was good and the art direction was probably the best thing about it, but I found it worked best if you just enjoyed the visuals and didn't think too hard about the plot holes, inconsistencies, and stuff that didn't make sense. Anyone see any good movies lately?

md8716 · 2023-11-08T17:04:25+00:00

I always feel sorry for people who say relationships or marriages are hard work.

I've found that marriage and relationships are way too easy and effortless if the 1) the girl is diligent team player that can trust and follow the guy's lead, 2) the guy is a good leader and generally a good dude who handles his shit and doesn't cheat, and 3) they both fuck regularly.

It's pretty simple, yet people constantly overcomplicate it. Particularly, chronically online overly neurotic "educated" people.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-08T16:57:39+00:00

The best thing about being a man is expecting nothing from any one. Like bro, I don't complain, I'm not entitled to nothing and I have to earn what I want, bro.

Life on enhanced hard mode

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-08T16:50:44+00:00

Ohio I guess "codified abortion rights" and "legalized recreational marijuana" and all the leftists are celebrating, but I am definitely full republican now because all I'm thinking is, "cool, they just normalized getting high and killing babies"

Anyways, I used to be cool and liberal, but I've seen what a leftist utopia looks like, and it is pretty awful. Progressivism is a race to the bottom. It is the "good times make soft men and soft men make hard times" thing.

The only progressive policies I support is being more of a welfare state like scandinavia, but socially I am way more conservative than I used to be.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-11-08T16:47:15+00:00

everyone is aware of the phenomena where a guy pays for a woman's rent/bills before theres really an established commitment. Does anyone know of someone where the roles were reversed?... The woman pays for the man's stuff?

Please share the story if applicable

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-08T16:33:06+00:00

Bro, to succeed at dating, you have to be a toxic f-boy who asks for s3x early. Proof -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17q6h3c/dating_this_guy_for_a_month_and_a_half_and_he/

Stay toxic, bro

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-08T16:31:46+00:00

They hate men, because men are more likely to resist.

RESIST, bro.

monster_lily · 2023-11-08T16:16:33+00:00

We have all been banned from using the vending machine at lunch

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-08T16:09:58+00:00

"PROVE TO ME THAT I SHOULDN'T KILL MYSELF AND THAT A GF ISN'T THE ONLY SOLUTION TO MY PROBLEMS. GIVE ME REASONS OR GIVE ME A GF! NOPE, NOT GOOD ENOUGH! THAT'S NOT A GOOD REASON!"

...I get that we should always endeavour to help but I ain't dealing with that fucking nonsense. Get tae fuck. That isn't a genuine cry for help.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-08T16:05:57+00:00

Sometimes I wonder about the women who talk such a big game here on PPD. I wonder about the men you all select. Who are they. How successful were they with women before you met them. How many romantic and sexual failures did they experience before being so lucky meeting you.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-08T15:59:12+00:00

If your spouse inherited a vacation house would you contribute towards the costs associated with it? Edit: To be clear, together you two can afford the costs and you rent the house out to make money.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-08T15:39:25+00:00

Only PPD will tell you that it's not normal to have friends

💔

monster_lily · 2023-11-08T15:36:21+00:00

Wahhhhhhh this is not fair 😢

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happy_discus · 2023-11-08T15:27:24+00:00

I hate working out so much. I work out every second day of the week since January and haven't gained a single bit of muscle mass.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-08T15:27:23+00:00

Threatening suicide to a bunch of strangers who don't know you is wild. And then demanding they give you a girlfriend to prevent your suicide is even wilder.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-08T15:13:46+00:00

I think someone having an unhealthy need for external validation (not only from the opposite sex but in general) is the best way to predict infidelity.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-08T14:58:25+00:00

it’s really fucked up to say “hey strangers, if you don’t give me a solution to fix my life then i’m going to kill myself”

Peacesquad · 2023-11-08T14:57:40+00:00

Did looksmaxxxxxxxing work for any of you men?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-11-08T14:57:36+00:00

If the biggest problem in your life is not getting the casual sex you want with the women you want I'm afraid you might be "living life on easy mode"

thetruthishere_ · 2023-11-08T14:57:22+00:00

New songs on the playlist.

On & On

Lose Control

Our Days Are Numbered

houstongradengineer · 2023-11-08T14:53:53+00:00

Q4M: have you ever been hollered at by a group of men from a driving car, or is this just something men only do to women? It happened to me, so I'm curious.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-08T14:49:44+00:00

I’m getting a lot of “situationship” content on my instagram feed. I don’t know how to tell y’all this but if you’re in the “talking stage” with a man for 3 months, y’all are fucking and he still hasn’t asked for commitment. He doesn’t like you, sis.

I’ve never been in a relationship but I’m pretty observant. The difference between men who want to be with you and genuinely get to know you vs men who only ever had sexual intentions with you are STARK. Even if they’re lying it’s pretty easy to tell by their actions or rather, inaction.

princedune · 2023-11-08T14:48:17+00:00

anybody else notice an uptick in tinder bots lately? ive gotten like a dozen matches this week, unfortunately all bots. I feel like chad when I look at my notifications though

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-08T14:45:31+00:00

I just realized something, I was the receiving end of a betabuxx situation. It is so weird, I don't think I'm a Chad at all. I'm too short and ugly and poor, but I've been on the receiving end of girls giving me money and gifts.

I think this really does come down to game, showermaxxing, and knowing your niche market appeal.

ArmariumEspada · 2023-11-08T14:44:08+00:00

I’m sick of this notion in society that male sexuality is dirty an perverted but female sexuality is mature, holistic, or morally superior. It’s not true.

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-11-08T14:39:34+00:00

Not saying that I'll suicide didn't get me a girlfriend. Saying that I'll suicide also didn't get me a girlfriend. What have you got for me that's better than suicide? I figured it wouldn't hurt to ask for help one last time, so this is it.

At this point I'll be better off by just killing myself. I see no reason to call a crisis hotline (or anything like that) because I've already tried that, and they tell me they can't help me.

If I say that I'm going to kill myself unless someone finds a woman to be my girlfriend, will someone finally find a woman to my girlfriend? Obviously, we're talking about a woman who also want that.

I'm at the point where, unless someone does that for me, I'll be better of just suiciding. I'm not going to justify why this is the case, it just is.

See, I tried to get a girlfriend on my own. I tried everything. Sorry, I don't have time to explain every thing I tried. I tried to get help with this and no one will help me.

For a long time suicide wasn't the default, best option for me. I tried asking for someone to find a woman to be my girlfriend without mentioning suicide, but no one would bother trying to help me.

Now that suicide is better for me than continuing to live without a girlfriend, I have also asked for help and mentioned that my default best-way-forward is suicide. I asked many, many times. Every time I asked they refused to help me, which means giving me what I asked for. When I tell the crisis hotline that my crisis is that I don't have a girlfriend they will hang up on me. I've tried calling back several times.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-11-08T14:01:08+00:00

PPD men think a single mom on welfare is living life on "easy mode" while some engineer nerd making 6 figures has the hardest life because he struggels to find an 18-year old bangmaid who's also a virgin.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-11-08T20:45:52+00:00

Men on Reddit: “if women don’t start going for less attractive men, they will all be used for sex and pumped and dumped! 😈 muahahahahahaha”

Women on Reddit: “well ok, I’ll just wait for commitment and a serious relationship to be established before having sex then”

Men on Reddit: 😡 😡 😡 😡 THIS IS MANIPULATIVE OMG YOU ARE USING SEX AS A BARGAINING CHIP I AM GOING TO GET SIDE CHICKS 😡 😡 😡 😡

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-08T11:50:34+00:00

CMV: Women complaining that their BF treats them like a "therapist" are just dealing with the same shit that men have been expected to accept for decades.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-08T22:57:36+00:00

Reminder: Caring about the 80/20 rule is just guys being upset that they dont have pretty privilege.

Most men fuck, most men date, so what is being ugly stopping for guys? Just no pretty privilege.

No convincing Stacy to be with you and you dont have money to pay for sex with her.
No getting a modelling gig, so no making money off being hot.
Shallow chicks arent willing to look past his bad personality because he’s not hot enough.

Other than pretty privilege, guys really cant tell you why its a big deal that 80% of guys are deemed ugly.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-08T23:13:44+00:00

Someone save me from myself. I’m planning on studying for a second masters.

demedermidimi · 2023-11-08T12:47:19+00:00

men who larp as women need to get more serious this shit is laughable

Willow-girl · 2023-11-08T14:08:40+00:00

A big shout-out to my man who did everything and I mean EVERYTHING around here yesterday, including the dishes!

My hands are a little less sore today -- they only hurt now when I actually try to do anything, lol. Also, I caved and asked the doc for some pain pills, and was gifted (well, not exactly gifted ... had to pay $16 since my pharmacy doesn't take my new insurance) exactly 9 Vicodin. (How did they determine that 9 was the correct amount, and not 8 or 10? Who knows?)

Of course, now that I can't do much, the weather is miraculously mild and sunny, when it rained nonstop for the two weekends prior. Grrr.

Gotta say I'm kind of enjoying being a lady of leisure here!

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-08T21:02:26+00:00

Lmao 3rd consecutive day of me feeling miserable and hopeless af. Getting the sense I am depressed again lol

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-08T09:02:21+00:00

I am first!

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-08T09:39:36+00:00

Here is my methodology for an experiment to gauge my attractiveness level.

Approach 250 women that look my age (+/- 4 years)
Give a warm smile.
Say hello and ask for help with directions to a particular place.
Notice how much more willing some one will be to lengthen the conversation. Rationale being that someone would want to drag out the conversation with an attractive person.
Tally results and obtain an average.

Critique my methodology....

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-08T11:37:37+00:00

The German word for island is “Insel“. Coincidence? I think not.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-08T11:42:18+00:00

If it weren't for adderall I probably wouldn't be able to survive this schedule. Today concludes week 5 of working 2 jobs. Just like, 8 more to go I think? Before peak season ends and amazon starts firing people.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-08T12:09:08+00:00

Is listening to your gf talk about work for one hour every day "emotional labour"? Asking for a friend.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-09T01:37:34+00:00

why the fuck are people here so stupid

Is it unfair that hinge has a height preference but doesn’t have a weight/body type preference?

HoW aM I SuPpOseD tO KnOw HeR WeiGhT?

WITH THE PICTURE, USE YOUR EYES, YOU LIKE HER YOU SWIPE YOU DON'T? SWIPE THE OTHER WAY

you can't know how tall is someone unless they stand next to things, don't people know this?

jesus christ

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-08T19:28:50+00:00

The feminine urge to share location with your friend just in case the guy you are going on a date with decides to murder you ✨

Willow-girl · 2023-11-08T22:12:11+00:00

I love it when a plan comes together! Earlier I wrote about buying this nifty little medicine cabinet in an online auction. Imgur Today I sanded it out, wiped it down and my man removed the knobs and repainted it in this color to match our bathroom vanity, which is a repurposed Mission oak buffet. Imgur

Tomorrow after the paint is dry, I'll put the knobs back on (if I can get my hands to cooperate, lol) and hang it in place of the mirror. Can't wait to see how it looks!

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-09T02:46:10+00:00

QFM: dumbest shit you think is hilarious go!!!!!

scwizard · 2023-11-09T03:10:43+00:00

Remembering when I tried using bumble and it told me I would get more matches if I expanded my preferences to include men.

Also even though I said I'm not interested in men they'd still show me a few sometimes and I'd swipe left and it would be like "you've missed a potential match."

Why is bumble showing straight men to gay guys anyway?

relish5k · 2023-11-09T03:22:15+00:00

Q4M: if you lived in a society where polygyny was social acceptable, would you want to have multiple wives? Seriously - why or why not?

It honestly seems like a huge hassle and giant financial burden. I’m sure sex with multiple women is appealing and all but I would guess it’s more trouble than it’s worth.

RahLyt · 2023-11-08T11:39:05+00:00

Men do more "emotional labour" in relationships than women. CMV!

Just the fact that the perception is the opposite is clear evidence to me, that society prefers when men don't share their feelings.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-08T14:22:54+00:00

Q4W: “ If he wanted to, he would.” Agree/Disagree?

shmupsy · 2023-11-08T14:23:40+00:00

Recently we were talking about whether your girlfriend/wife should go clubbing without you. (for a girls night out) There was some good nuance in the discussion so I left with less of a hard stance against it.

But then I ran it by my wife and she added some perspective. She said the unique thing women get at the club is the experience of feeling hot. You get dolled up. You know men are going to be looking and that feels good. And then you dance it off and get catharsis. It's a sexually charged environment, but a responsible woman can resist the advances of any man. (which is part of the fun.)

I said ok now I better understand the club and why you can't get that from just any venue. I have gone to clubs but only understood it from my male perspective, which was pretty much prowling.

Then it occurred to me, and my wife agreed after considering it, that the male equivalent to this has to be the strip club. This is the place where a man gets the experience of feeling hot. Men aren't inherently hot just from getting dolled up. There are other complex social factors that make a man hot. But at the strip club, ladies that are out of your reach are all over you, and if it's not a skank club, it feels pretty damn good.

Looks like this already came up so I'll just leave it here.

To the guys saying they don't get it if there's no sex, I'll say I've only been a few times in my life to strip clubs. 2 or 3 times. I generally would not waste money like that. But this one time I went was magical. This is why guys like it. If you aren't in that place, then don't worry about it, but for some guys, it's totally valid and good.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T18:49:36+00:00

One-sided friendships are the worst. The people I hung out with growing up as a child I thought were different from everyone else because they fully accepted me with my disability. Recently I realized they were barely different from everyone else because they would rarely or just straight up never initiate to hang out unless I was the one to do it.

10+ years of knowing these guys and I never even had a single sleepover with them even though I expressed interest in one multiple times as a kid. I decided to see what would happen if I stopped initiating first this year and to no surprise no one reached out to do anything.

If only I knew what healthy friendship looked like as a kid, I wouldn't have to settle for garbage

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-08T19:30:30+00:00

Is being an incel mentally exhausting? Sometimes I read about what guys on here's lives are like and I am just like, "if that were me, I'd probably want to take 12 hour long naps all the time."

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T19:40:22+00:00

Apparently when I was in pre-school, they had a camera in the classroom and my mother and grandma would be able to see the footage. Mother said grandma would cry and feel bad because I would be by myself and not be playing with anyone. So brutal, even from the very very beginning I was alone.

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-11-08T19:56:34+00:00

I love how the last four posts have been made by people with reddit generated names for throwaway accounts

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-08T20:02:55+00:00

Bro, if you have messed up mental health, are overweight and broke, leave women alone for a while and get on self improvement.

If you find that too hard, you might as well find more fulfillment playing COD all day and smoking weed.

monster_lily · 2023-11-08T20:17:24+00:00

I swearr why are some guys SO SWEET once you know them individually but once theyre in a group, you can literally feel that theyre all subconsciously competing to see who can be the biggest asshole

Gladboys · 2023-11-08T20:34:03+00:00

daily reminder that all effort is pointless if you don't believe in yourself.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T20:39:55+00:00

I wish desirables would get autism or something. They don't deserve the ability to attract partners

monster_lily · 2023-11-08T20:52:27+00:00

Should i go to the other parts of Ppd outside daily chat

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-08T21:48:46+00:00

I had an idea for a post but forgot...

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-08T21:57:09+00:00

Everyone out here talking about monsterlily being too young. I've been here since I was 16 and I turned out perfectly fine.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-11-08T22:44:25+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/comments/17qr1qf/this_picture_sums_up_living_with_my_girlfriend/

Alternate title "I'm living with a sociopath."

meteorness123 · 2023-11-08T23:05:55+00:00

Shampooing the ass is one of the best things about showering. It's very rewarding. In a "Finally, we have some order in the wood!" kind of way.

I do not miss.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-08T23:43:29+00:00

We have been talking about clubs, but what about pubs and sports bars? Those are fun. I still suck at bar games but I used to go there to write and talk with people.

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-09T00:11:50+00:00

Have any of you guys cat called anyone before? If so, why? Since moving to a big city I’ve been cat called more than all the times in my life previously, and it confuses me

scwizard · 2023-11-09T01:16:34+00:00

Omegle shut down.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-09T02:02:52+00:00

My friend in our group chat said I have no rizz. So brutal. 😞

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-09T03:05:27+00:00

Bruh why did my grandma have to fuck with my pillow? Not only does she CUT IT OPEN to wash it and then shove the cotton/plastic/whatever the fuck it is back inside, she also ripped off the label. Now I am stuck with a lumpy pillow and have to look through 30 different IKEA pillows that look the exact same to try to identify which one I bought 5 years ago.

monster_lily · 2023-11-09T03:11:21+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8AUB34F/

This is gonna be my new makeup style

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-08T10:38:11+00:00

Most teens go through a rebellious phase because their parents are controlling assholes. Half the time, the kids are rebelling against the religious/political dogma of their parents. Only a few percent actually become criminals/do something illegal.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-08T12:43:41+00:00

Q4All: Who never got Covid?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-08T13:12:36+00:00

OK guys, I have a very important question today: eating ass. Hot or not?

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-08T13:14:54+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/l089rndvi4zb1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=af0f3188aff79439bc232add5a0d4852bc42607b

Only ones I agree with is your house(unless we are already friends and you’re cooking dinner or something) church, or a family function (just awkward I think) unless maybe a plus one for a wedding if you already know eachother. Fast food I would say is a maybe like if we already did something like an activity and then got fast food I’d be fine but if we just like met up at a fast food place it’s a no from me. Only other place I’d say no is hooters or like a strip club for obvious reasons lmao

Peacesquad · 2023-11-08T14:33:27+00:00

Who hurt us?

leosandlattes · 2023-11-08T19:08:44+00:00

For the non-white people here: do you guys have an ethnic equivalent of Chad? If you don’t, what would his name be? What qualities would he have? What would he look like?

I think the closest thing in Asian-American culture is Kevin Nguyen… black t-shirt, gold chain, talks like a douche bag, loves raving and hitting the gym. You can find him at the boba cafe or the trendy Kbbq restaurant 😭

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-11-08T19:39:15+00:00

Are there any mods around? I've reported someone for not being civil several times in the last few hours and they haven't done anything about it.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T19:56:09+00:00

Is there any studies that cover the psychological effects of having no romantic experiences ever in your life as an adult? No way that kind of life has no impact on a person's wellbeing.

AreOut · 2023-11-08T20:06:14+00:00

a lot of girls fake being scared because (they think) it raises their perceived SMV

there, I said it

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-08T20:09:06+00:00

My daughter is a high school student. For the most part she gets good grades and stays out of trouble so our parenting has always been quite lenient.

We are very supportive (quietly) of her sexual development and try to make sure she knows the urges/feelings during puberty are healthy and natural (despite what ever the private school she attends may say).

She started dating a year ago and we were supportive again. She’s known for a long time where she get condoms in the house with no questions asked. We even let her have an hour of closed door time with her bf, just to allow her that privacy.

Well the other day she had her bf and another male friend over and had her door closed. Honestly not a big deal. The closed door isn’t really an indication of anything sexual, just her wanting privacy.

Her bf and friend both came over quite a few times over the last week so I casually asked my daughter why suddenly they had an extra friend.

My daughter informed me that she was dating BOTH of the boys. Which I had no idea how to interpret. I basically told her she can’t do that and she got angry and tools me I’m just a boomer.

Am I in the wrong here? Obviously I could have been a bit more tactful in my response but are kids really dating in groups now?

LOL

monster_lily · 2023-11-08T20:19:05+00:00

Anyone else just have superb memory... Like today i saw a girl who i briefly knew in 4th grade but i didnt say anything because I knew for a fact she didnt remember me. Not even the first time this has happened. I remember literally EVERYBODY including ppl from this sub

meteorness123 · 2023-11-08T20:26:38+00:00

A new command I give you: Love one another.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-08T20:28:50+00:00

What is the point of podcasts? It is just guys sitting around talking. Nothing educational or informative. Kind of weird tbh. I can get JRE and having guests on to talk about special interests, but I'm checking out other episodes of Adam Friedland and it is just him and his friends sitting around making small talk. What a waste of time.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-08T21:06:54+00:00

Is the Passport Sis movement a thing?

Sillysheila · 2023-11-08T21:36:29+00:00

Does anyone else ever only have coworkers that are mostly much younger or older than them?

That seems to always happen with me. Right now I’m in a “older” workplace. My last one everyone was younger than me. It’s nice to not have to pretend to care about TikTok lol. But then I always feel bad on the flip side talking about my weekends cuz everyone else’s weekend is full of errands.

Responsible-Bet-9791 · 2023-11-08T22:44:36+00:00

If straight men who are native born in the US and make millions of dollars a year in their teens and 20s working no more than 50 hours a week - time and money to date - cannot get the attention of any girls without going 10 million km out of their way they will just leave the US and take all that tax revenue and spending with them.

Even worse they will just ruin the dating market globally by rotating into the newest 22 year old model on the dating market every year instead of settling down.

If societies want GDP they have to socially integrate the top earring men or they will just leave and all that tax and consumption goes with them.

This will even further ruin the dating market for the remaking women who have now lost a man who earns more than them.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-09T00:48:15+00:00

Women complaining about their guy friends hitting on them will never not fucking stupid to me. "I guess men can't just be friends with women." Well, you know what? There's some truth to that. The majority of guys will always have feelings towards their female friends. But if you notice this, why are you still fucking befriending men and acting shocked every single time they confess?

If it truly bothered you that much then you would stop befriending men. Super easy solution. God, this is such a nothing problem. Imagine if I said that shit. "Omg guys, everytime I make a new female friend, they always end up liking me. Why can't women learn to just be friends?" See how stupid I sound? Fuck, man.

Least_Volume_8591 · 2023-11-09T01:26:44+00:00

Unpopular Opinion: (straight) sex, dating, and relationship have all become much much harder than making money.

There seems to be no shortage of teenager and 20's millionaires and even billionaires yet dating appears to be impossible even for straight people in those groups - women as well since many of these millionaires are women.

Seems like non-straight dating has improved a lot so good for those people.

AethertheEternal · 2023-11-09T02:33:34+00:00

I hate my classmates. I’m glad they’re failing. I’m glad I won’t have to about these people for much longer.

monster_lily · 2023-11-09T02:48:43+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8AULPnV/

At least 5 ppl here look like him

monster_lily · 2023-11-09T02:51:14+00:00

I want grills or tooth gems so badddd i love teeth accessories... i WANT braces even tho I literally dont need them So the next closest thing is the grills not the full gold/silver oines but the ones that look like lines ofc my parents would not let me get that tho. And idk if its gang affiliated

monster_lily · 2023-11-09T02:54:23+00:00

I am so demotivated i swearr bc i have now 6 days to get my back handspring but the thing is though that usually after i get home from school i study/ do my homework but then before i start practicing it i need like 30 minutes to warm up my entire body and blablabla but the thing is that im SO fucking exhausted at the end of the day Idk what to do man

monster_lily · 2023-11-09T03:04:25+00:00

I need to watch priscillaa

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-09T03:08:28+00:00

https://youtu.be/X0bdlJ13SQI?si=_PffxiY-Is8YZDW1

Would you consider it pathetic to be watching these kinds of videos? 😓

monster_lily · 2023-11-09T03:09:42+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8AUHKPe/

Bro i used to watch this show and i SWORE they were such good dancers

monster_lily · 2023-11-09T03:48:38+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8AUDkoT/

Me explaining how certain things are ok when women do it but not men bc were just built different

Intelligent-Power749 · 2023-11-09T03:55:10+00:00

I’m back after 3 years. 2 years ago I started dating a girl and then had to end it (even though I didn’t want to). Now she’s a an activist and all over my social media feed.

She was the last girl I dated and the reason why I decided to just give up socializing and just work.

Been just working for 2 years. Haven’t made friends. Haven’t spoken to anyone. Just been working and occasionally been visiting family.

But now I just saw her on social media and all those emotions I bottled up basically came back.

And since I don’t got friends or anyone (other than my family which would disapprove of my feelings for her) I’m sending this comment into the void of this place.

scwizard · 2023-11-09T05:43:07+00:00

Also you can't even look at porn on Twitter anymore because you get throttled instantly unless you pay. Lame...

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Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-08T09:13:58+00:00

The first hour of PPD megachat…

jaybalvinman · 2023-11-08T11:58:09+00:00

https://instagram.com/yailinlamasviralreal

What does everyone think of her bodywise?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-08T12:00:00+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalTeens/comments/17q9xo7/comment/k8auprx/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Mods, this regular user blocked me after downvoting all my comments. Please ask him to unblock me. Tyvm.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-08T13:42:59+00:00

Kpop fans are really weird. I listened to that one song by Junkook and Jack Harlow. Jack Harlow was half the song, but based the comment section, you'd think he wasn't even in it. Not one mention of him. Junkook's stans call him "Kookie," mega cringe.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-08T14:00:37+00:00

"Q4RP: How do you think redpill has changed from when it first became a popular thing (early 2000s) to now"

Yes but the message is still the same

I've been in the RP since 2010 from reading mystery on game to reading the rational male, to now F&F, it doesn't matter the content creator just you know the fundamentals material and it's purpose

MystiicFrost · 2023-11-08T14:08:29+00:00

Purplepillers with partners / FWBs:

How often do you wrestle in bed?

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T14:13:43+00:00

Maybe if I used communication cards when I was in school, I could've gotten a date.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-08T14:22:44+00:00

Young guys are definitely getting taller and taller, which means competition for younger mates gets harder and harder. I feel like those 19-23 yo middle and upper class boys are like 2-3 inches taller than men on average.

Onefamiliar · 2023-11-08T14:22:45+00:00

How do you do fellow gamers

Gladboys · 2023-11-08T14:26:25+00:00

Do you consider it passport bro-ing if you are in an immigrant family and you go back to your mother country and bring back a spouse?

Peacesquad · 2023-11-08T14:33:21+00:00

Ladies you can’t handle a bum living in his mom’s basement! Ugh where are the real women at!! Need some SECURE WOOMEN!!

Peacesquad · 2023-11-08T14:36:25+00:00

Hypergamy

mummydontknow · 2023-11-08T18:50:59+00:00

Do any of you have Chad/ Stacy parents or grandparents?

How did you feel when you realized your ancestors were actually hot?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-08T18:51:59+00:00

‘THE MARVELS’ debuts with 54% on Rotten Tomatoes.

Bro, even the critics hate woke movies now.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-08T19:45:07+00:00

Can you tell if a person has a good looking face from far away?

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-11-08T19:54:17+00:00

Is it a good sign if my male friends are reasonably good looking (as a male)? Does that mean it's not over for me since humans generally group around similar attractiveness and lifestyle?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-08T20:03:53+00:00

does this movie have a happy ending? (as in, the MC doesnt die)

https://preview.redd.it/iuaysv77k6zb1.png?width=470&format=png&auto=webp&s=ddd9e3415ff07589ab66d8e38cfd43898761ec18

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-11-08T20:23:09+00:00

I have 2 Stacey friends. It’s a humbling experience to say the least.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-08T20:26:28+00:00

Are there any sexual fantasies you feel like you need to fulfill before getting married?

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-08T20:59:52+00:00

I generally like where I live, but the worst part about it is how many old people live here. I work part-time at a fast-casual restaurant and I swear boomers are out to make my days as miserable as possible. Old people above a certain age are usually so sweet but like age 60-77 is the worst, especially for women. It’s also really hard to make connections with people my age or find activities with people younger than 40.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-08T21:05:50+00:00

Does anyone miss all the great comedy movies? I'm in the middle of watching Hot Tub Time Machine, great movie

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T21:18:03+00:00

When I go to therapy, would it be a good idea to let them know about my lack of romantic experience and the mental anguish it's causing me? I want to talk to someone about this without resorting to incel forums but I'm afraid I'm gonna hear bluepilled shit from the therapist

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-11-08T21:21:18+00:00

I’m rich and I wanna let potential girlfriends know that I won’t marry them because of the divorce laws in my state (one of the harshest in the US). How do I broach the topic? I’m in my 30s and date a good number of 30-something’s who aren’t explicitly anti-marriage

catchtowards12345 · 2023-11-08T21:30:01+00:00

I just added male (♂️) and female (♀️) emojis to the Automod for flair recognition if you want to use that instead of writing it out in your flair.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-08T21:43:33+00:00

I just want to let you all know that I commend the brave Hamas fighters.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-08T22:22:42+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/mHbEdIYS1xk

would you let your gf do this (flaunt her body online) why or why not

saulbasedman · 2023-11-08T23:05:38+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/CzB9KuNNMI2/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

My type. So beautiful

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T23:27:33+00:00

My friend just called me and asked if I could see if mother would allow him to stay at our house since the people who are living with him plan on moving by the end of Dec. He reached out to others to our group so it's not just me. Also I have no clue what's gonna happen if he can't move in to any of our places.

I'm very anxious because I know 100% mother isn't gonna go for it and I don't want to have to deliver that news plus in general it's a really big ask. I rarely had people come over to the house because she just does not like having guests over, I cannot imagine her letting someone permanently staying.

I really don't want to ask her but I can't in good conscience lie to him and say I asked her.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-08T23:58:46+00:00

Women and third worlders have been a disaster for internet culture.

Maffioze · 2023-11-09T00:22:29+00:00

https://youtu.be/LjvUMr1-AAU?si=UaHOgYAdWMUTlc8h

These are the deepest rap lyrics I have ever heard.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-09T00:48:47+00:00

If you're a white guy who makes a somewhat decent income (>$60k) and you can't get any pussy in a Western country, you should honestly just consider SEAmaxxing. I've seen some absolutely horrible looking 50-year-old white dudes on TikTok with gorgeous Filipina girlfriends in their early twenties. These women will do anything for these dudes, because $60k is a ton of money in their home country and many of them dream of the social prestige that comes with having half-white babies (even if the father looks like an ogre).

Non-white men can also SEAmaxx but it's a lot harder. You'll need more money and more rizz than your white counterparts. Still worth considering if you haven't leveled up enough to deal with Western women's ridiculous standards.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-09T00:52:50+00:00

If you're a white guy who makes a somewhat decent income (>$70k) and you can't get any pussy in a Western country, you should honestly just consider SEAmaxxing. I've seen some absolutely horrible looking 50-year-old white dudes on TikTok with gorgeous Filipina girlfriends in their early twenties. These women will do almost anything for these dudes, because $70k is a ton of money in their home country and many of them dream of the social prestige that comes with having half-white babies (even if the father looks like an ogre).

Non-white men can also SEAmaxx but it's harder. You'll need more money and more rizz than your white counterparts. Still worth considering if you haven't leveled up enough to deal with Western women's ridiculous standards.

scwizard · 2023-11-09T01:02:09+00:00

I asked this couple sitting next to me at the bar i was having dinner at, if they'd work for a sports betting company if they were offered a bunch of money.

They were both like "wtf of course" and I said I wouldn't and i had a discussion with the female half about it. She told me I "care too much about other people." And for some reason it feels like she's saying I'm a loser.

monster_lily · 2023-11-09T03:18:31+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8AUhkV9/

No but im so happy i have my own laptop now bc our teacher was using goguardian and reading out peoples tabs i can not

monster_lily · 2023-11-09T03:26:50+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8AUkejQ/

Stop gaslighting me bc of who i find attractive 😢⛓️

scwizard · 2023-11-09T05:41:11+00:00

Was looking at tits on Twitter and saw this profile...

24 ♋ cancer she/her +18 please no minors, virgin dni if 35+

As a 34 year old virgin that hurts :( don't gotta call me out like that girl...

scwizard · 2023-11-09T07:14:04+00:00

With over 100,000 registered, Texas is the state with the highest number of sex offenders.

However, when observing data on the number of sex offenders per 100,000 residents, Oregon takes the lead, with 772.

PNW people explain this.

scwizard · 2023-11-09T07:28:06+00:00

we use the National Incident-Based Reporting System (NIBRS) to compare sex offenders among all 802,150 incidents of sexual assault reported to police across 37 states between 1991 and 2011. Findings indicated some broad similarities between groups, including the most prominent offense location (home), most common victim-offender relationship (acquaintance), and the rarity of injuries or drug abuse during crimes.

I guess a lot of these are stealthing then. That's what I think about when I think about non violent SA in her home with an acquaintance.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-09T08:11:55+00:00

Q4All: What is your guiltiest secret pleasure?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-09T08:12:51+00:00

No shitposting for me today. I have a "training" at the office all day. It's basically going back to school and listening to a teacher talk. Surprisingly, it's not that boring, but that's probably because it's only for one day.

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