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“Not wanting to be sexually abused is hating men” Male nature
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:53 PM
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The world leans much further right than we think. I’ve been saying this for ages but people don’t believe me. Conservative women don’t appreciate being cheated on or men who are flakey and weird. Conservative women aren’t reading the red pill and saying “wow what wise and noble gentlemen”. Conservative women don’t hate women. They don’t read men bashing women online and say “amazing!”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:12 PM
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They view it as time consuming, the “friend zone” and a slow strategy. They believe it’s more effective to hit on women everywhere. Then they actually don’t do it lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:13 AM
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Polygyny has been overthrown
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:09 AM
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I wrote a post telling men to get to know a woman a bit over time and men had a massive temper tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:47 AM
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And the wives and kids hated each other and the women demanded change once they had the right to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:07 PM
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No I am saying polygamy didn’t work. It made a shit ton of drama and political issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:32 PM
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Also, it's only not a fact if it's factually incorrect. If great men are not rejected due to hypergamy, then it's not a fact. But they are so it is. Also, even if it wasn't a fact, it still wouldn't mean that it's hate. It could be a mistake, for example. You literally believe women are so hypergamous that they are rejecting loads of great men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:10 PM
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I don’t see how any of this indicates women cheat 24 times on average on their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:50 PM
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The tea app is to find out who cheated. Not to find out addresses. The address feature is a feature on a bunch of websites.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:48 PM
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I didn’t say that’s what you do. I am saying this information is publicly available if you’re in the USA. I can send you one of these websites. There are thousands of them. Some are free some are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:28 PM
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I PM’ed you if you want a website that you can check to see this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:25 PM
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No this is not a scam and this is almost everyone that I know. Maybe you have a common name or don’t live in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:22 PM
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No our addresses and phone number etc are all publicly available unless we manually opt out and people can still find them if our family members don’t opt out too. And it’s very hard to opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:50 PM
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You can find almost everyone on the internet. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:49 PM
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Did you know that you can easily google people and find their name and address? Did you know that there are tons and tons of websites where you can look someone up by their name and phone number. I have found people with just a first name. Their address and phone number etc. it’s not really easy and this only happens sometimes. But the search function on the tea app is just a basic version of these websites.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:49 PM
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He’s useless to all the other kids that he’s biologically driven to produce and decides to not support. Again: Fatherhood is useless based on men’s description of their biology. If men want fathers to be taken seriously they need to stop claiming that it’s in their biology to produce multiple kids with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:23 PM
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You literally described women like that in this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:09 PM
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Clearly what men wanted didn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:49 PM
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It isn’t a “club” it’s skills and activities like dance, gymnastics, art, music, theater, and sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:24 AM
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This isn’t about fitness. This is about social skills, talents, and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:55 AM
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Then she can split the caregiving amongst men in her polycule. She would still have primary custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:54 AM
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Any parent who is uninterested in taking their kids to extracurricular activities and sports due to the inconvenience of it all is a shitty parent. Imagine not wanting your kid to learn gymnastics because it’s too stressful. Obviously don’t force the kid to do things they don’t want to do, but it’s an immense privilege to learn a new skill that can possibly pay for college or even be a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:00 PM
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So you’re agreeing with me. The father is useless. He is only there for a select elite group of his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:20 PM
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If he has a high notch count, he turns himself undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:12 PM
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The woman would have custody. The man is free to explore because men don’t really want the responsibility of child support or custody. The state can support the kid financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:11 PM
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Where is your source to your outrageous and disgusting claim that the average mother of 2 cheats on her husband with 120 sexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:38 PM
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What the fuck is an “act of infidelity”? And why would the average mother of 2 be cheating 120 times? Where is your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:37 PM
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No I am saying why would he have custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:54 PM
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That’s why we should shift the perspective and make it “having as many men as possible is desirable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:52 PM
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So you agree porn use is bad. and you’re saying that single men fantasize about multiple women at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:52 PM
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But how is he supposed to protect all of his children at the same time if he has multiple baby mamas?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:51 PM
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Well just as the man is seen as already valuable by other men, the woman with multiple partners will also be seen as already valuable by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:50 PM
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Well in the harem, men can compete with each other for the Queens attention, so this would fulfill their nature. This will also allow men to connect. Women love socializing and connection, so polyandry would be easy for women. And the men can date other women too as long as they aren’t stealing opportunities from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:49 PM
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Why would he have the kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:47 PM
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Because women would desperately be trying to build their harems to be more popular and socially praised. 4 men vs 100 men. 96 more men get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:45 PM
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Did they really back then? Because how many times is a person supposed to die if he has 10 different baby mamas with 20 different babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:43 PM
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This isn’t the gotcha you think it is because even men with a good personality watch porn and fantasize about impregnating multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:42 PM
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But while you were building society and impregnating a bunch of women, you weren’t present as fathers. Meaning biologically, the father’s role is unimportant outside of sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:42 PM
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No I view it as a solution to male loneliness and rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:15 AM
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Well yeah that is why multiple men is seen as high value. Because the woman would have to be highly desirable and youthful and beautiful in order to have a large harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:14 AM
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Now the broke dudes can be part of a harem. Even multiple harems at once. They would increase a woman’s status since 100 partners would be seen as high value and desirable, even if the men are broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:13 AM
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They aren’t 304’s, they are respected members of society with an agreed upon relationship dynamic and everything is done for free
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:12 AM
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If those men become a status symbol then they can become desirable. Let’s say a woman would have just had sex with 4 men in her entitle life. Now, in this society, her having had sex with 100 men would be seen as highly valuable and sexy and desirable. This means that 96 more men who may have been overlooked would now have gotten laid . It’s a win win situation because these men can also kind of be polyamorous as long as they don’t hoard women from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:11 AM
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Multiple guys told me that the reason they do things like marriage, start a family, etc etc is purely for sex and if they didn’t have to do these things, they wouldn’t. If the men feel possessive over 1 girl, they can also branch out and go for other girls, so long as the other men in society feel that they aren’t getting overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:09 AM
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It is a solution, and men would be viewed as status symbols. Having like 100 men would be seen as high value so a lot of men would be getting a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:08 AM
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Not just eliminate the stigma, but make it a status symbol to have multiple men in a sort of harem, but the men can also date around if they want to too. However, men dating around would be slightly frowned upon as potentially taking attention away from other men. But still okay and not a grave sin of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:07 AM
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The “loser” guys can try to join another “hive” and have multiple women too. And since men would be a status symbol lower value women wouldn’t mind being with a guy who has another woman. Also, men don’t like spending too much time with women, so it would be a way of allowing them to feel that they aren’t “emotional tampons”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:06 AM
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Making men a status symbol will make them desirable and dateable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:04 AM
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That is one of the reasons. Yes. And also men don’t find most women attractive enough and women have reactive sexual desire. If most men find you unattractive for anything then you aren’t going to react and be attracted to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:26 PM
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What do you think sex does? It produces children. You’re moving the goalposts. The main reason why men want a variety of partners is to spread their seed. That is their biology. Spreading their seed means that they are biologically inclined to produce a lot of kids. That is their biology. They cannot possibly be there for all of their kids and baby mamas unless they are rich. That is biology. That means that beyond sperm, biologically and due to instinct, a father is useless. It also means that …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:25 PM
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That doesn’t change a single thing I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:27 PM
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“The results further show that men pursue women who are more desirable than themselves. The reciprocated contacts are comparatively more homophilic. These results suggest that in terms of desirability, the similarity of partners is due to the subsequent mating processes (e.g., rejection) rather than due to initial preference for similarity.” Proof
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:02 PM
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The study says it: “The results further show that men pursue women who are more desirable than themselves. The reciprocated contacts are comparatively more homophilic. These results suggest that in terms of desirability, the similarity of partners is due to the subsequent mating processes (e.g., rejection) rather than due to initial preference for similarity.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:01 PM
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Facts say otherwise: “The results further show that men pursue women who are more desirable than themselves. The reciprocated contacts are comparatively more homophilic. These results suggest that in terms of desirability, the similarity of partners is due to the subsequent mating processes (e.g., rejection) rather than due to initial preference for similarity.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:01 PM
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The bald 5’2” Indian janitor will date someone equally unattractive. That is what upsets men. Also, why wouldn’t you want someone who doesn’t want you as you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:59 PM
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Most of your time and resources should be devoted to your kids or working to give them a better life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:58 PM
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What do you think sex does? It produces BABIES. Aka multiple children. And yes, where do your resources go after you die? You would rather give them to random people rather than your wife and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:29 PM
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Not really. How is a man supposed to biologically spend time with and provide for multiple baby mamas and their children? And you’re saying that these fathers don’t value giving all their resources and energy and time to the kids that they already have and want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:16 PM
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So biologically fathers are useless because partnering is difficult for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:13 PM
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If a man wants sexual variety because of his biology, that means the role of a father is biologically useless. Even if there is a “main chick” all the “side chicks” will have babies with a dad who isn’t invested in them. Unless you also promote polyandry where women can find other men to be the “main chick” for whilst also fulfilling other males’ desires for side chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:12 PM
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So evolution wise what is the role of a father beyond sperm?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:10 PM
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Why are you spelling everything like a MySpace post from 2006? That said, if men are meant to spread their seed as much as possible, then what is the role of a father, biologically? It seems to me that the father just provides sperm and is useless beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:08 PM
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Delusional take. A lot of men with porn addictions still have sex or choose porn over sex with their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:05 PM
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Men have to work to change the stigma against women with a high body count and against women who date around. By doing so, women will want more men and multiple men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:25 PM
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I’m arguing that the reason most women don’t want them is because they are socially conditioned to not want too many men due to fear of being labeled as a whore and viewing women with multiple men as a ran through white. I think we should shift the dynamic so that men are viewed as trophies and prizes and make it so that having multiple men is viewed as alpha as a woman. That way, women on dating apps will swipe right on more men and talk to more men and men will feel less rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:24 PM
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https://youtu.be/xv3Rubw7jpQ Shoutout to all the men who said that this isn’t mainstream. PBS literally reported on the manosphere. It’s mainstream. Even his dad and brother became red pilled for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:12 AM
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You literally are proving that men cheat more than women and lack loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:30 AM
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Men biologically don’t want to be the “one good man”. They consider it biologically inferior. Men want to be womanizers by design. Therefore, women should protect themselves by design and have multiple men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:29 AM
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No they don’t. Thats the answer to your question. Women are biologically more loyal than men are. Men monkey branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:04 AM
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No they aren’t. They just can’t. If a poor man becomes rich he builds a harem of 21 year olds mistresses and cheats on his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:58 PM
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Yes you are race baiting. The guy in that photo is literally Indian based on Google. You are trying to turn this into a conversation about race when it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:15 PM
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No he doesn’t. He just looks better. Thats it. Stop race baiting. You’re violating the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:07 PM
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Dating sucks. It sucks for everyone. Women go through it too, though you men taunt women when they go through it. Pick better women 🤷‍♀️ it’s hard to have empathy because women get ghosted all the time too. At least women don’t taunt men about it. That’s life. Move on and go back on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:56 PM
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So you can’t afford food, and then consider being food insecure easier than getting a second job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:55 PM
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Ideals are not always fulfilled. Most men would prefer a harem of 21 year olds but after a certain age they know that it’s not feasible and they settle. The difference is that women are content with settling and men always carry resentment about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:53 PM
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Stop race baiting. Are you happy? This guy is a 5/10 as well and better looking than the San Francisco womanizer. https://preview.redd.it/3c2l1t3akngf1.jpeg?width=474&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9b962792ff19955abf71a6a97bf39b8494a4f730
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:51 PM
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No it doesn’t. IRL ugly people date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:49 PM
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https://drbrighten.com/can-you-get-pregnant-any-time-of-the-month/ https://cummingwomenscenter.org/2024/02/26/when-can-i-get-pregnant-each-month/ https://health.howstuffworks.com/pregnancy-and-parenting/pregnancy/conception/exercise-hurt-chances-of-conceiving.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:36 PM
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Because there are now 3 men for every 1 woman. Encourage more women to join the apps to make things even.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:32 PM
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I think you’re wrong. I think women only want a guy who earns around what they make or more, which doesn’t always mean higher earning. It means they’re equal or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:31 PM
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No I am not. I can’t find “brown” guys when I google “average man” and I am not going to sit for an extended period on tiktok to find one. I used a stock photo from Google so as to not post someone random who is living their everyday normal life. He is slimmer. His beard is better maintained. He doesn’t have a puffy face. He is a 5/10 and the other guy is a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:30 PM
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Moving the goalposts I see. I think women should get into bodybuilding and bulking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:25 PM
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Except for men ranked lowest are less responsive to women ranked lowest than the other way around. And women message men on a normal curve while 66% of male messages go to the top 33% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:22 PM
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He isn’t attractive. He is AVERAGE. and you are race baiting. He’s a good 30 lbs skinnier and has a symmetric non puffy face. He also has a decent haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:20 PM
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Men don’t want women to join apps because they are afraid the women will get an ego boost. But that’s the ONLY WAY to make the ratios 50/50 1:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:17 PM
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You keep repeating yourself as if it’s a “gotcha”. It isn’t. Women, as I said repeatedly and you pointedly ignore, build attraction over time. They don’t get horny over strangers. We get to know one man because polyandry is frowned upon. If men de-stigmatize polyandry, then women will be open to dating multiple men at a time. They will be able to build attraction and get to know multiple men. In turn, more men will get more matches and dates. More men will feel fulfilled and get love and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:16 PM
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So you’re saying women should get into body building and get big and bulky so that they aren’t smaller and weaker than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:14 PM
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No it’s not. I always found work easier than losing weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:13 PM
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8 dates long periods This is 2 months maybe 1 month. Also how tf is he going to find a rotation of women if he struggles to find dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:13 PM
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No she wasn’t. Men are so hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:07 PM
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No I didn’t. You used harsh and hostile language to describe your wife. Don’t claim to be a victim of inference when you set yourself up to be inferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:02 AM
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As I said, women develop attraction over time. If men are seen as status symbols and multiple men is seen as high value, women will be more open to talking to multiple men to see what attraction builds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:42 PM
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Because the men here hate women. I repeatedly say men are delusional. So of course another man would agree with you. Men severely overestimate how attractive other men are and degrade how women look.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:12 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/lxpc7f24ohgf1.jpeg?width=1312&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fba010e0ef8641e85757625c89e76fe471197666 Male nature is to take a thin young woman and claim she’s a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:02 PM
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Yeah say “huh” because you don’t have anything else to say. I called you out for you being unnecessarily aggressive in the way you spoke about your wife and held you accountable when you tried to play victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:01 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/r2sv2fmwnhgf1.jpeg?width=1312&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=118d2de0ae73fc6043c19ab4fe81a43f0f971bfd Male delusion is thinking this is a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:00 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ads0hyd85hgf1.jpeg?width=975&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1df3c11ff0464c553577ff6916e542bde2a64872
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:16 PM
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The first woman is more attractive than both Nabela and the cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:15 PM
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You didn’t write less. You used inflammatory language because you wanted to seem like a dominant alpha masculine male. You could have just said “My wife works from home and has a less stressful job. I told her that to make things more equitable, she should do more chores like laundry and the dishes while she’s working from home. She agreed to the plan. I help whenever needed.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:48 PM
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People don’t need to get into a physical altercation to prove that they don’t like something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:45 PM
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Male delusion is thinking that girl is a 2 or 3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:44 PM
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No the woman in the video is above average. She’s easily a 7. The man is a 3. Nabela, his looksmatch, is a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:05 PM
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She is an above average woman and he’s a below average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:00 PM
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Most men are overweight or obese too. They don’t want their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:37 PM
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<image> Gaslighting 101. You now are whistling a different tune and claiming you had a polite conversation. However, earlier, you state that you came to her and told her that you should NEVER come home to dishes in the sink or laundry that hasn’t been done. You do not mention accommodations to her having a busy day or if she is stressed. You also describe her response not as getting defensive, but as a hissy fit. You also make zero mention of how hardworking she is. You insult her job and claim …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:49 PM
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That’s because it isn’t normalized for women to also have side dudes. We should normalize side dudes so that more men get more chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:46 PM
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It isn’t a flex. Like begets like. I act like men. If men want me to change, then they have to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:32 PM
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Women build attraction over time. They don’t feel random attraction towards strangers. We aren’t men who pop boners right and left because someone wore booty shorts at the gym. If polyandry becomes normalized and a status symbol, women will feel comfortable getting to know more men, especially on dating apps where there are more women than men. More men will get the chance to date and won’t be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:31 PM
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https://mazeoflove.com/tinder/ About 76% of Tinder users are male and only 24% female, a 3:1 gender ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:18 PM
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You’re talking about abortion. You detailed the conversation because you wanted to make a point about abortion. Abortion isn’t murder. Men are the violent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:16 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/9tg43uq70fgf1.jpeg?width=1122&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=99ae34b9bd5453cc98fcc6e558757cc865f9a312 Here you are complaining that women say men are the violent ones, which is a legitimate criticism of men. You use abortion to argue that women are violent, which is a bad faith argument because abortion is not a violent act. You were trying to deflect from valid criticism: men are more violent. If a man were to get mugged, it would be by another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:06 PM
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Then don’t whine about misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:53 PM
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Women can also be attracted to multiple men simultaneously, which is why I propose polyandry for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:45 PM
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Being able to play Netflix on the side doesn’t mean the work is easy or less time consuming. It just means that you don’t need to talk to people on the phone and can have background noise. Medical school isn’t easy but a lot of doctors play music or audiobooks in the background while they study. The way you also talked to her was hella hostile. “Never see dishes in the sink” “never see laundry that isn’t turned over”. WTF? You could have just said “hey now that you’re working from home, please d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:40 PM
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there are like 3-4 men for every 1 woman on dating apps. Men don’t want more women to join the apps to level the playing field. Polyandry is the answer. Actively encouraging women to have multiple male partners and considering it to be a status symbol to have multiple boyfriends much like having multiple girlfriends is a status symbol. Men would all get a chance to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:22 PM
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Dating apps notoriously have like 3-4 men for every 1 woman. Whenever I propose encouraging more women to join dating apps, men get really angry for some reason. So we have to work with what is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:13 PM
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Why do you think that theses guys would be taking care of one baby? They would be providing resources and support that the father isn’t biologically inclined to provide. And since these men also instinctively want multiple women, she has have multiple men because she can’t rely on just one man for resources. And since there is no free lunch, she would have to be in a relationship with these men. They
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:08 PM
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I don’t care. I hold men accountable. If men want to speak a certain way about women, then I will do the same back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:05 PM
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No woman can age backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:04 PM
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Men are hypergamous. Men think that their looksmatch is beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:04 PM
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That guy wasn’t an average looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:03 PM
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Yes? Are we looking at the same YouTube video?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:03 PM
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And I am saying you’re wrong and reflect male hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:02 PM
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I repeatedly say Nabela Noor is his looksmatch. https://preview.redd.it/5nnp2nl51dgf1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=70b532e19e7e4dc7b1dd5641dc439444e46c85ec And you are displaying hypergamy. She is his looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:26 AM
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What he said was bigotry against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:25 AM
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No I said that NABELA NOOR is his looksmatch. The girl in the video is much better looking than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:04 AM
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He’s a solid 3 too. He is her looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:27 AM
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It’s just a criticism of men. Why do men always interpret criticism as misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:20 AM
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I get accused of misandry when I repeat what men say about men. However, criticism of men and calling out their bullshit is not misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:13 AM
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Oh you claim they don’t want them enough, my bad!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:56 AM
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What do you think his BMI is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:56 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/knqpdob3lcgf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2b62b2607ae03e24af222cad8920c05238696d2b Bam
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:56 AM
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He didn’t date her, but her friend. But you do reflect male delusion if you think that he’s looks matched to a thin conventionally attractive woman. Nabela Noor is his looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:51 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/fb1v1582kcgf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=242e40ff1e74674915b50d8c363f6a6423423410 Calling out men’s bullshit is good woman behavior in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:50 AM
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Then stop bothering me when I call out men’s bullshit. I will save this and remind you next time you accuse me of misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:48 AM
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It’s bigotry. You do not need to “criticize” an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:46 AM
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Stop shitposting. I understand you think I am bashing men, but I can link you to the multiple men who insisted that this wasn’t hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:50 AM
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Sir you are very delusional if you think women were dating one man at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:49 AM
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Isn’t that what men tell women to do? Go for their looksmatch so that they find men who treat them well?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:49 AM
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For women there is. But not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:48 AM
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This dude is a womanizer. <image> Unattractive men also behave badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:48 AM
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https://youtu.be/YV6hsyqdt_E This guy has a pornography addiction According to the men here, since he’s obese and ugly, he should be a virtuous saint.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:49 AM
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<image> Male nature is insisting that this isn’t hateful towards women then claiming to be a nice and good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:47 AM
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Then they won’t be able to date everyone and not all men will get the attention they feel they deserve. Many will be ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:45 AM
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There isn’t an Orwellian construct of language. It’s right there. He says: Women enjoy ripping into men’s insecurities (aka cruelty) Women invalidate men (dismissive and mean) Women gaslight (women are emotionally abusive) Women lack self awareness (women are dumb and ignorant) Women are hypocrites Women are cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:45 AM
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Women do. You laugh because men are incapable of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:31 AM
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He is a “safe” option. Women aren’t men. Women build attraction over time while men have stringent standards and if a woman doesn’t meet them, she is classified as a pump and dump or placeholder or a wife that he mistreats.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:52 AM
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Nurses and teachers in the Bay Area make over $100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:01 AM
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Why do men always over inflate how attractive other men are? Do you guys not have eyes? He clearly isn’t a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:01 AM
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Men always over inflate how attractive other men are. He is absolutely not a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:59 AM
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The men here don’t realize how desperate women are for a good man. He looks like he would be wholesome and too unattractive to cheat. He looks like he would have a decent job and be nice. But clearly he has problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:47 AM
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The most popular men. If I looked at the most popular women I would see skinny OF stars with plastic surgery and fillers. This doesn’t mean that there aren’t less popular men who also manage to womanize.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:38 AM
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<image> This guy went viral on tiktok for being a serial cheater. As I said earlier, “AWDTSG” groups should be a bastion of hope for men. This guy is not a chad. At all. And he is a womanizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:06 AM
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However his role as a father is useless
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:58 PM
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Are you saying men are degenerates?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:58 PM
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Because men reluctantly settle
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:58 PM
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Then don’t claim women don’t want a good man!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:52 PM
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Men have always wanted much younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:30 PM
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Then men need to stop with this hypocrisy and whining that women want a man they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:26 PM
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Yes it is. He’s calling women cruel hypocrites. That is hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:11 PM
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See? Most women are too fat for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:10 PM
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He literally describes women as cruel hypocrites. What a disgusting way to speak about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:10 PM
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Wonderful men don’t go about ranting about how women like abusers on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:11 PM
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<image> She is kind. She also sings very well. Would you date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:10 PM
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Why dont men keep it in their pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:41 PM
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If only men didn’t whine that condoms reduce their sensation and insist that if a woman doesn’t have sex with them then she doesn’t find them attractive……
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:30 PM
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They go on these apps because they don’t want a man who is sleeping with other women. They don’t consider it an ego boost at all. And men blame the shit out of women for being cheated on. Even you claim women like to be cheated on or with men who have multiple partners because it gives them validation. It’s better for her to check for herself than find out later and have men humiliate her and say it’s her fault for picking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:29 PM
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So women should swipe right on everyone and date multiple men at the same time so that men don’t feel overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:18 PM
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Very weird that you claim men are victims of misandry when you say extremely hateful stuff about women. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:12 PM
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They don’t dox people. They say something like “lmk if anyone is sleeping with my man”. That isn’t doxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:09 PM
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Or they call women who get abortions violent murderers. They mock single moms then when a woman gets an abortion they use that to claim women are more violent than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:07 PM
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Where is the porn in the tea app? Anyone who posts porn there would get banned automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:05 PM
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I didn’t change any argument. I repeatedly say you can’t age backwards. Be grateful you are a man and can increase your income.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:21 PM
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Shitposting at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:53 PM
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You are engaging by replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:50 PM
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How many did you do when single?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:50 PM
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Making personal attacks means you lost the debate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:49 PM
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But you fail to say what his role is as a father
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:48 PM
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But a 30 year old woman can’t make herself 20. Earning money is always possible. Aging backwards isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:48 PM
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🤦‍♀️ If someone ghosts you at date 8 just go date other people. This isn’t rocket science. I got ghosted by a boyfriend. It isn’t the end of the world. I gave it a week or two then rebooted my dating apps and searched for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:47 PM
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Keep replying so you can feel that you got the last word and won.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:36 PM
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You just want a last word at this point because you lost the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:29 PM
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Not a good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:28 PM
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You’re not engaging because I called out what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:17 PM
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Then don’t complain about low success rates. How many cold approaches have you done this week?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:17 PM
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Anywhere. From anywhere. You guys act like a verbal promise to be exclusive is a wedding. It isn’t. If I am meeting a guy multiple times then I expect him to only be dating me and me only him. It’s hella gross to go on more than 2-3 dates with someone at the same time as multiple other people. It’s also gross to have a relationship be developing and actively scoping other girls out for dates and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:57 PM
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Yes an acquaintinship makes them non strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:56 PM
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Yeah the examples you listed haven’t been popular for at least a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:55 PM
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Literally you tried to say “women biologically make less money” as some kind of gotcha. But society is what created money, not biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:54 PM
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You literally just said that men battle the urge to punch each other in the face with testosterone. Thats what I have been saying for years. Men are more violent by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:52 PM
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It is a lot easier to make $100k a year, and a 20 year old woman is 20 only for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:50 PM
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You can give them a compliment and have a conversation then when you see them again have another conversation. Do this a few times and then ask them on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:49 PM
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But it’s much more successful when you get to know someone and have a few conversations with them first. It’s amazing how men get defensive and act like cold approaching is the method to success, despite women telling them repeatedly that it makes them uncomfortable. How many cold approaches have you done this week?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:48 PM
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Money only exists in society. You’re claiming that cavemen needed money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:22 PM
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So you are saying men are also violent naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:22 PM
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Cold approaching strangers has a drastically lower success rate. Men need to stop making complaint posts like OP’s when women literally tell them that they don’t want strangers cold approaching them. An acquaintance is not a close friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:21 PM
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Talking and having sex with multiple different people are completely different ballgames. Having multiple “talking stages” or dating multiple different guys for the first 1-2 dates is normal and is NOT having sex with them. Having sex with multiple different guys is not common. After 2-3 dates, some sort of exclusivity talk needs to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:17 PM
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Moving the goalposts from “making more money” to “be a millionaire”. And women cannot age backwards and losing more than like 10 lbs is incredibly difficult. Men can just earn more money to be attractive. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:34 PM
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However biologically men don’t like it. Proving my original comment right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:33 PM
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It’s also dramatically less likely to succeed. Men need to stop making posts like OP’s. We get it. You guys have a passion for cold approaching strangers and don’t like that women don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:32 PM
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Don’t accuse me of being a bot because you dont have a good answer. Going to a domestic violence shelter has a long waiting list and can take months. Men say an easy way to escape DV is to go on tinder. So if the DV shelter has a 3 month waiting list and the woman doesn’t want to go into the streets, a man proposed that she go on tinder and find a new guy to take care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:30 PM
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It’s just as hard as losing a massive amount of weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:27 PM
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I didn’t say “friendship”, I said “acquaintanceship”. This means you talk to the person 2-3 times and get a sense of if they are attracted to you or not, and if they are single and childless. Women generally don’t want complete strangers approaching them. The original post we are all commenting under is an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:26 PM
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Shelters have waiting lists that can take months. Especially domestic violence shelters. Do you not realize that you cannot just walk into one? They are usually full. For many women, escaping domestic violence means living in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:23 PM
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But the men are constantly battling their biological drive to look at and hit on other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:22 PM
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But biologically marriage is a daily battle for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:22 PM
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He paid for our college degrees cash, and paid off our house within like 10 years instead of the 30 year mortgage. All our cars were always purchased cash. I have never been in debt, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:20 PM
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But she can’t count on one man because he’s busy being polygynous. It’s best to have multiple men like a worker may have multiple streams of income.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:17 PM
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But you describe nothing that he has to offer besides sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:16 PM
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How is rejecting someone being hitler?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:15 PM
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A BDSM sex party is not your local grocery store. This is a party of people who want to have sex. I am not sure how this upset you so much that you made a post about it. And I don’t understand men’s passion about cold approaching strangers. When I said that the best method to meet women is to build an acquaintanceship and then ask them out after a period of time, men got OUTRAGED and insisted that the best method overall is to cold approach strangers. But then when women say they don’t want to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:09 PM
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Except for the male biological urge to sleep with bunches of women does exist in a vacuum. It has always been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:55 AM
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The below average man is also biologically wired to cheat and be with a bunch of women. Him being unable to doesn’t mean that he is virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:49 AM
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I don’t think men are biologically programmed to be degenerates and have a bunch of kids with a bunch of women, yet when I say this, men disagree and say that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:48 AM
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Fathers generally have no value beyond sperm. Based on what men say, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:48 AM
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But the analogy doesn’t work because I explained that a healthy biological instinct was corrupted by processed sugar. Men wanting 100 children with 100 women is just a baseline instinct that has not been corrupted or tampered with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:29 AM
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According to men yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:28 AM
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But his presence as a father is useless beyond his genetics. He doesn’t need to be there. He isn’t entitled to custody and is incapable of providing for multiple women and sets of kids unless he is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:20 AM
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The desire for sugar is based on a biological desire for fruits. Fruits contain a multitude of vitamins and minerals and fiber which makes you poop. They also contain seeds which, if you poop in the dirt, can grow into more plants. They also do not spike the blood sugar the same way that processed sugar does. They also contain water, which is hydrating. A sugar craving is a fruit craving.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:19 AM
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If a man is biologically inclined to not be loyal and to sleep with as many women as possible to produce as many children as possible…. Then biologically the father is useless. A man with 100 kids from 100 different women cannot possibly provide for and take care of 100 kids or be a meaningful presence in their lives. This biologically makes the woman the more valuable parent. And biologically, this also means that women should seek to have multiple male partners in her life and that she should …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:45 AM
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No I don’t think it’s hypocrisy. I think because so many men want paternity tests women are justified in posting men on these apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:42 AM
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No. Most 21 year old women find most 21 year old men attractive. Most 21 year old men find most 21 year old women attractive. The problem is that most 35 year old women find most 35 year old men attractive. And most 35 year old men find most 21 year old women attractive and most 35 year old women unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:40 AM
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My dad worked 3 jobs. 90 hours a week. Able bodied young men under 55 who don’t have any major mental health issues don’t have any excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:39 AM
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Just as FB bot Chad is more likely to use women for casual sex, the hot Stacy is going to be more likely to bully men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:16 AM
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This is a non sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:09 AM
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So you saying good girls doesn’t exist is not really true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:28 PM
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So they reluctantly settle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:25 PM
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And? How is this a “gotcha”? Men can actually find and get a girlfriend if they stop only wanting the top 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:25 PM
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*women who men find sexually attractive despise men for that because men are drawn to abusive behavior patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:23 PM
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So you agree that women don’t despite men who open up?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:50 PM
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And a lot of men strongly oppose trust but verify in the context of posting your boyfriend on the tea app.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:27 PM
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Ok well most women follow your command.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:27 PM
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So we agree that the girls are still good and good girls are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:26 PM
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I don’t despise men who open up. I am simply stating facts. Men want women who are emotionally unavailable and mistreat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:44 PM
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You talk about how women who are “good girls” don’t exist because they’re “down” for certain men. Aka willing to have sex. Meaning you believe good women don’t have sex and sex contaminates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:43 PM
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But you don’t seem to deny their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:30 PM
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If you were a woman, men would tell you that you’re beta buxxing your current partner and found the old partners more sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:26 PM
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Then there you go. Don’t whine about how women don’t like vulnerable men when you’re attracted to toxicas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:21 PM
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Is a woman no longer good to you if she’s willing to have sex with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:14 PM
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Why are you dating or friends with someone who dismisses your feelings? Men constantly blame women for mistreatment and abuse and accuse women of liking said abuse and mistreatment. Perhaps it’s the same for men. Perhaps men choose toxic and dismissive women because they find these characteristics attractive then claim to be victims when it backfires.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:13 PM
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Men already do it. Most of the men in this forum are vocal advocates for paternity tests at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:11 AM
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You are describing women as: selfish and cruel and rejecting great and amazing men due to their self absorbed cruelty and hypergamy. That is not a “fact”. That is HATE.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:58 PM
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No I know myself that it’s true. Most women are more desperate than men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:29 PM
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I guess it reflects women are more desperate than men think and their standards are quite low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:13 PM
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No a bastion of hope that if ugly guys can cheat, ugly guys can find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:06 PM
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No it doesn’t. The men there are unattractive. It should be a bastion of hope to men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:59 PM
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It is relevant. Men are more mean. Women are capable of meanness but men are doubly capable of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:59 PM
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I didn’t say all women are saints. I said men are meaner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:51 PM
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I am though. It’s men. Men are the bullies of the world due to testosterone. I don’t claim to be a feminist so I acknowledge that men are different from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:31 PM
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It’s men that I speak of. Women aren’t bullying or hostile to the level that men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:27 PM
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That doesn’t change that those places are chock full of cruel men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:17 AM
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Don’t say “it’s sad how you spend time”. I am literally proving to you that men are meaner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:07 AM
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No I am not this is tens of thousands of men in just a handful of examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:07 AM
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Ok then you don’t have proof of it. I am not asking about one woman. I am asking about thousands of women at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:04 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMbLDlZvzyr/ Men enjoy bullying sexual assault victims. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DL527z0uiPK/ Men enjoy bullying the plus sized park hoppers https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKIXNXVutyt/ Men insult this guy’s wife for being ugly https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJ7DGO3SGx9/ Men insulting this fat woman for dancing Men enjoy cruelty. The only way to be attractive for men is to be thin, young (18-25) and beautiful. Anything else and the man will resent you. Men can…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:04 AM
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I did. I showed you a ton of Instagram posts chock full of thousands of men per post being cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:03 AM
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That’s because you don’t have proof. Sorry. Men are a lot more cruel and hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:00 AM
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Then show me proof of a bunch of women calling a man hideous and mocking her husband. Not “your husband mistreats you find a better man”. But straight up what men do “your husband is chopped at least you can put a bag on his head when you sleep together”. Show proof of a bunch of Women doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:59 AM
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One person? I can link you like ten more if you want. This is extremely common amongst me online. Men are incredibly cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:54 AM
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Find me an example of women en masse bullying a man on the instagram comments section. Like making fun of his girlfriend or his appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:54 AM
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You feel that it is a fact. But it is a feeling, not a fact. They are not a description of the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:53 AM
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Exactly. So don’t claim men are the less superficial gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:52 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMbLDlZvzyr/ Men enjoy bullying sexual assault victims. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DL527z0uiPK/ Men enjoy bullying the plus sized park hoppers https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKIXNXVutyt/ Men insult this guy’s wife for being ugly https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJ7DGO3SGx9/ Men insulting this fat woman for dancing Men enjoy cruelty. The only way to be attractive for men is to be thin, young (18-25) and beautiful. Anything else and the man will resent you. Men can…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:52 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMbLDlZvzyr/ Here is more male cruelty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:45 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKIXNXVutyt/ Nah look at how men are bullying this couple. Men are meaner and more superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:43 AM
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Apology accepted. That said, most women are not superficial and are more than happy with a less attractive man. Men don’t feel this way and are not happy with a less attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:54 AM
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It isn’t facts. Just because you feel that it’s factual doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:53 AM
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lol I thought men weren’t getting matches on dating apps so while they aspire to get with a younger woman they are stuck with their agematch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:56 PM
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Modern feminism does not view tons of casual sex as empowering. This is completely untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:42 PM
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A lot of women join these groups and apps just to make sure their boyfriend/ husband is not there. Not because they are unholy but to just verify. Trust but verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:20 PM
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He literally was a man saying this about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:19 PM
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I am not shitposting nor saying satire. I am repeating what men say about men and dating. It’s literally what the guy in the video was saying. Less than 1% of women meet their standards. Meanwhile that guy is attempting to derail the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:41 PM
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It is a medical procedure and the fetus doesn’t feel pain. If a man gets robbed or attacked, it’s still most likely going to be by another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:41 PM
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I am not race baiting but not all women can be white, and no one can age backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:40 PM
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Exercise doesn’t make people lose weight. Diet does. Working is easier than always eating 1200 calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:40 PM
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I think the problem is that men actively cheat or try to cheat. But sure, let’s blame women for men’s bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:39 PM
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No shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:38 PM
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I want to travel as much as money will allow. I also like to do things like try new restaurants or do day trips or hiking trips to places nearby. I wouldn’t be happy with a man who doesn’t want to do at least some of these things with me and who gets moody if I do it by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:51 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DK5VYvEOTNz/ Even red pill pages agree with me. This one proved men only want the top less than 1% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:34 PM
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They aren’t good men just because they may be attractive or charismatic or something. You’re encouraging men to base their sense of self worth on female validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:28 PM
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Again top 1% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:27 PM
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A man can just make money and he will have women be attracted to him, no matter what he looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:27 PM
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Maybe he actually likes the fat entitled single mother and they get along well and love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:56 PM
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Dodging the question. Would these men be happy with fat and ugly women in their late 30’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:55 PM
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So women are not misandrist when they repeat what you say: Men consider tinder a cheap escort service.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:52 PM
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Yes men view their wives and girlfriends as escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:50 PM
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Then I get accused of misandry when I say that men only want the top like 1% of women but here you are admitting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:49 PM
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Then I get accused of misandry when I say men view dating as a discount escort service.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:48 PM
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Remember that men say this: Men view a girlfriend as a type of escort
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:47 PM
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Under 30 Normal BMI Unmarried Conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:27 PM
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Yes it was a jab at me. Don’t pretend otherwise. You also admit that for most women, casual sex is for validation, not enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:49 PM
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Don’t insult my intelligence as a way to deflect from your poor communication skills. And your social circle is anecdotal evidence. Gen Z is notorious for hooking up less than their older counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:42 PM
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Online hookups is sexting and that is not actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:32 PM
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And these women find their looksmatch to be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:32 PM
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“A tiny niche of men like old women therefore all men do” Also calling them “hags” and saying they are “less liability” doesn’t help your case and just proves the guys are using them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:31 PM
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Don’t call me a ditz or make assumptions about what aesthetics I like as a way to make a jab at my intelligence. I am telling you what he said is bullshit. Men want hot women. Most women aren’t hot to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:30 PM
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They are dating unattractive women. Unlike the men here who hyper fixate on Stacies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:20 AM
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It’s a hateful description of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:20 AM
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I don’t understand what the “gotcha” is. You’re basically admitting that men have contempt for their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:33 AM
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Except for it’s a medical procedure, not an act of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:47 AM
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Most men find most young women attractive. Most women aren’t young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:32 AM
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As I said; Be brave like me. You can put a wig on and pretend you’re a woman. And go see what’s up on the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:32 AM
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The men there were fat. The guy isn’t ugly, just fat and average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:31 AM
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Literally pop a wig on and jeopardize your identity being stolen by 4chan like I did and go look at the men posted there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:31 AM
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It’s no longer pop culture feminism to claim casual sex is enjoyable. Most women see and understand that it is exploitation by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:30 AM
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Why the hostility? Men tend to only want hot women. That isn’t some secret. That’s why they constantly lecture us about the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:29 AM
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This isn’t a gaslighting tactic. It’s a positive and encouraging message that even ugly men can be players.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:29 AM
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It is factually incorrect to call abortion violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:28 AM
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Key word: Initially They can change their minds and realize he’s bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:31 PM
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I joined the app and I have never been cheated on to my knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:31 PM
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It’s not 2010 anymore and most women do not take pleasure in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:29 PM
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Nothing is trickling down these are just unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:23 PM
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<image> You can’t possibly say this is a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:22 PM
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What is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:21 PM
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Do not despair. The chads of the tea app have none of those features and are very diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:20 PM
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No it isn’t. A man is not a product but a human being. And if a man is sitting there saying “omg I can have sex with other women if I want to so if my wife doesn’t put out I am going to cheat” then he isn’t a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:26 PM
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It is abuse if he intentionally is misleading her. If he isn’t intentionally misleading her then it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:22 PM
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Ok so they aren’t born babies and they aren’t human children. This doesn’t change that if a man is going to get robbed by a rando, it will most likely be by another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:21 PM
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Then the standard for being a Chad is very low and easily achievable for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:11 PM
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That isn’t hostility. Nothing I said was hostile. I am simply pointing out that women are cool with dating unattractive men and find unattractive men handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:09 PM
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Bruh cheating is universally considered wrong unless you sit down and agree to an open relationship. It isn’t a “commitment timeline” to not cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:09 PM
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Being used for casual sex or as a placeholder isn’t exactly happiness or good treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:08 PM
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It sucks but he may have also actually cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:08 PM
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These are fetuses, not born babies. You are trying to deflect that if a man is walking down the street, his mugger is most likely going to be another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:06 PM
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I suppose you are trying to deflect men being violent against each other by hyper fixating on abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:37 PM
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Of course they post the man who hurt them. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:24 PM
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The men are FAT AND UGLY AND UNATTRACTIVE TOO. They are getting with their LOOKSMATCH. I thought the men here were angry that women didn’t want their looksmatch? Now you’re proving to me that men don’t and supporting what I have always said: men are hypergamous and don’t want their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:10 PM
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Yes they would. We aren’t men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:09 PM
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A lot of guys are very addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:09 PM
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What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:08 PM
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And those guys are creatures too. So it’s like a looksmatched pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:53 PM
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Based on what I saw. Why does it make you so defensive that ugly guys can be with multiple women? Based on what the men here say, most of the women whose photos were leaked were ugly too. So it was ugly men with ugly women. It’s a testimony for men to start going for their looksmatch rather than fixating on Stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:53 PM
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A description of the men already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:46 PM
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This is me looking on the app that I downloaded for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:38 PM
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I am not the one posting these men. And posting it on Reddit to say “look how ugly he is” versus posting it on tea app with a caption “this guy has a wife” are two radically different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:38 PM
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Yon do it to me. And I have to get to know you over the course of time to make sure that you aren’t someone bitter and vengeful as most of the men here are, then add you on discord and get to know you some more to ensure that you don’t ruin my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:37 PM
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Also there are men who literally photographed themselves with wigs and womens clothes on. If you are that desperate to see the app, you can do it too. I put my identity on the line to be on there and you can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:33 PM
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No is a complete sentence. If you want me to befriend you on discord and make sure you aren’t a bad person who is vengeful and trying to ruin my life, I will befriend you there and send screenshots of the app once I know you aren’t a bad person. If you’re interested, then PM me. But if not, then that’s it kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:31 PM
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7 drinks a day is not responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:31 PM
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They don’t give reviews. They literally just say one of three things: A) “here is Johnny from tinder. Is anyone else dating him? We may make things official soon and I want to make sure he isn’t cheating on me or anyone else. Also I want to make sure no one was abused by him.” B) “here is Samuel from Bumble. I dated him for 6 months and we even had sex. I found out he has a wife and another girlfriend! Stay away from Samuel!” C) “here is my ex boyfriend Tommy. He abused me and beat me. He lovebo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:29 PM
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Nope. I put race on there too and I am not going to get myself in trouble for race baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:26 PM
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Most of the men here just want Stacies and claim anyone who isn’t a Stacy is a slumpbuster.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:25 PM
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I am not going to get myself banned from Reddit or PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:24 PM
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This is high functioning alcoholism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:21 PM
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No. It’s amazing how men insist that this isn’t possible. That a guy who looks like that cannot possibly date multiple women. Instead of taking this as a message of hope, they get defensive. It shatters their manosphere world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:21 PM
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I am not going to dox the men on the tea app and risk getting banned from both Reddit and PPD. It seems to me that you have a hard time believing that unattractive men can be womanizers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:20 PM
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Alcoholism is extremely destructive and ruins families. Video games are okay in moderation but your professional and personal duties come first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:16 PM
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What bizarre mental gymnastics. Women select who they want to select. A metric for how good a man is is not based on how many women want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:16 PM
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I am not going to dox the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:15 PM
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It should be a message of hope for men who believe that only chads get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:14 PM
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That’s not how we determine if a man is good or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:10 PM
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No it’s a composite of the type of men on these apps. I conclude that you find this man so unattractive that you can’t possibly believe he is a womanizer. You think I am lying or making this up and are upset that I am not posting the actual men from that page. It shakes your world view that only chads can cheat. But this is reality. Men who look like this are more than capable of dating multiple women at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:10 PM
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Source: MY EYES.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:05 PM
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No but plenty of women do. <image> This is an AI version of the men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:05 PM
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Then it completely proves hypergamy wrong and it proves that women like their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:04 PM
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I’m not going to post the actual people. But I am glad we both agree that the men are not really attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:03 PM
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Yep then I get called a misandrist for saying men here hate women, but it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:57 PM
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And there you go. He also has 3 girlfriends and financially depends on one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:55 PM
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No shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:55 PM
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Yes I understand that is how the men of PPD are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:55 PM
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<image> Here is an AI version. This is not a real person and it’s not inspired by any specific one person. It is a combination of the people there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:54 PM
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No they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:46 PM
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<image> Here is a ChatGPT generated version of what the men look like on the tea app. This is an imaginary person who is AI generated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:44 PM
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Alcoholism and video games are bad habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:42 PM
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Yeah so many young and hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:39 PM
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I didn’t say the majority of men are cheaters. Don’t put words in my mouth. I did say that if a woman gets cheated on, men blame her for not vetting properly. This app helps women vet. The men on this app do not look like NBA players. <image> This is a Chat GPT version of the men on the apps. If these men can be players, then anyone can. THIS IS AI AND NOT A REAL PERSON.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:37 PM
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Sounds like this is more of a familial issue and complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:30 PM
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No they aren’t. I wish I could post screenshots. These are bottom of the barrel men. This should be inspiring and uplifting to the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:29 PM
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Yeah then they get cheated on or hurt and men blame them for not vetting them properly and even accuse them of liking abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:26 PM
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Yes it does lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:25 PM
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So you agree with me that men can be players if they stop hyper fixating on the Stacies of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:25 PM
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Well these men are ugly and unattractive and look like losers so it seems to me like the bar to be a Chad is super low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:24 PM
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The guys on that app are super ugly so it’s proof that any guy can be a player and it proves that the 80/20 rule is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:23 PM
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No they weren’t. They were dating ugly men who were even worse looking than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:22 PM
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Absolutely not. Most of these men on that app are bottom of the barrel losers and not at all attractive. If anything it proves that women like unattractive men. This should be motivating, inspiring, and a message of hope to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:22 PM
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Then that is a rough 20% because these guys are old and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:19 PM
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Except for these men are not the top 20% of men. They are mostly unattractive loser types. If anything the app shows that women are desperate. Men should take this as a message of hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:18 PM
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No it isn’t at all. It’s “is anyone else dating this guy?” Or “this guy cheated on me”. Most of the guys are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:16 PM
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No it isn’t. These are fetuses still in the womb. You claim to be pro choice but then are vehemently against any social programs to save these babies. Men are the violent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:14 PM
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No it isn’t. They are fetuses. Men are more violent with actual born people who have left the womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:07 PM
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No but just pop a wig on and they will let you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:03 PM
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Except they aren’t. These men are really truly ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:03 PM
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So now you’re moved the goalposts from OP’s claims that women just want Chads. These guys are not chads. They are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:56 PM
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Then don’t whine about how violent women are because of abortion lmfao. It’s a bad faith argument and it derails the conversation and detracts from the fact that men are violent against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:55 PM
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Go on the are we dating the same guy groups and tea apps. The men getting pussy are ugly and old and loser types. This should give you hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:54 PM
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Then her husband has to do the bulk of the housework and cooking and cleaning. I want a gender swapped modern dynamic. This means that just as the modern woman works full time and cooks and cleans and lives as a homemaker after work, I want this with the genders flipped. I want my husband to be a homemaker after work and I will go exercise at the gym while he’s doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:54 PM
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After work, the man comes home and watches tv or has a nice workout at the gym. His wife, who also is working a full time job, comes home and has to prepare dinner, cook, clean, and take care of the kids. I plan to have this with the genders swapped so I can maintain my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:53 PM
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Most men don’t do the majority of the housework. I expect whoever I marry to do most of the housework, regardless of who works more because men are stronger and have more energy and can do things more efficiently. While he’s cooking and cleaning, I plan to work out 2 hours a day to maintain my weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:51 PM
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Lmfao no it isn’t. I wish I could put screenshots too. I live in a big city area and these men are ugly. They are not chads whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:50 PM
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These guys are ugly. They don’t look like they have multiple options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:49 PM
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Have you seen the men on these apps? They look like Walmart goblins themselves. Most of them are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:49 PM
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Not all of the guys there are cheating. About half of it is women saying “hey I met this guy and want to make sure he is single and not actively dating anyone else or in a relationship.” Despite Redditors insisting women enjoy sharing a man, most don’t. And if a woman comes forward and says “hey that’s my boyfriend!” Then most women would be disgusted and break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:48 PM
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Considering that a man here told me that women have no excuse for being abuse victims because they can just search for men on these apps to screen them, it sounds like we are obligated to be on these apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:46 PM
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I’ve been saying this for years. Most men find most women unattractive and the average woman is unattractive. Most men want a top 20% woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:45 PM
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Men leak their girlfriend’s and wife’s nudes on 4chan on a regular basis so I am not sure why you think this is a “gotcha” moment. A guy here even posted a woman’s sexual texts with her first name and face and no man gave a shit and when he was called out by a woman he got defensive and insisted that no one here knows her so it’s okay. Men have never been good at maintaining privacy and boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:44 PM
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No these guys are loser types who look like if they miss 1-2 paychecks they will be struggling with homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:42 PM
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This isn’t a gotcha. The men there truly are ugly. You should say “wow! Us men have hope because look how many ugly men are able to cheat on women!” But no! Instead it makes guys bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:42 PM
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Yes most of them are ugly. It should be uplifting, motivating, and inspiring to the men here that so many ugly men can be players but instead they choose to throw a tantrum. These are NOT CHADS on these apps. They are weird looking loser types.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:41 PM
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This is an ignorant comment though because there is a wide range of men on the app, most of whom are unattractive, and most of them look like they are one or two missed paychecks away from homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:39 PM
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No they aren’t. I went on that app and it’s filled with ugly looking loser types. If they can find multiple women, then so can most men. These findings should be motivating, inspiring, and uplifting. It should be a beacon of hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:38 PM
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No they didn’t. The app is filled with ugly looking, weird looking, broke looking, loser looking, oftentimes old men. They aren’t Chads at all. It should be a source of inspiration for the men here that so many women are so desperate because some of those players are super ugly. If these weird looking men can be players, anyone can. And I live in a major metropolitan area.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:37 PM
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Those men should hop on the tea app because most of these men on there are not chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:34 PM
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If women are shallow, why are so many of these player men so ugly and weird looking and old? I am not impressed by the men on there and I am in a big city where there are a lot of Chad/ Stacy looking people. There are old and ugly and impoverished looking men on there. If anything, the app is a testimony about how non superficial women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:33 PM
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Apps like this specifically exist because women DONT want to date the same guy. They literally go on this app to ensure that whoever they are saying isn’t dating someone else at the same time. They also go on apps like this because they don’t want to be mistreated or abused. Also, instead of being bitter and accusatory and trying to make this a “gotcha” moment, be motivated and uplifted and inspired because MOST OF THE MEN THERE DO NOT LOOK LIKE CHADLY MEN. A lot of these men who supposedly have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:32 PM
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Because what he said was not valid. Usually women need to get to know someone a bit before they feel comfortable dating them. Most women don’t feel comfortable going out with a total stranger who has cold approached them. Building an acquaintanceship doesn’t kill attraction. If there was attraction there, waiting a short period to ask them out doesn’t kill attraction. It should build it up. If it doesn’t, then they were never attracted to you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:59 AM
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https://cybernews.com/cybercrime/sister-hong-scandal-telegram-tiktok/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:56 AM
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You condemn working and putting your kids into daycare, and you claim that having a stay at home mom was the way through most of history and was therefore superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:27 AM
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Bad faith argument because I put a range of dates from a few days to a few months and you fixated on the upper end of the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:21 AM
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What’s the PPD stance on Sister Hong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:34 AM
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That’s why you search for places where you can see people on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:31 AM
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I wasn’t suggesting that. You made it up. I proposed getting to know someone over the course of a few days to a few months depending on the context then asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:25 AM
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You insisted that making acquaintances with someone before asking them out takes away your agency and free choice. That is a super super wrong take.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:59 AM
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I think a lot of young men hate and resent women. Examples include believing non virgin women are worthless and resenting women who are overweight. I think most men tend to hyperfixate on young and beautiful women and are repulsed by their age and looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:29 AM
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It’s still agency for you to get to know someone and decide to ask her out. The absolute audacity for You to claim otherwise and claim that you don’t have free choice in this matter. Men 🍵
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:15 PM
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Then don’t use abortion as an example of violence. The end. You clearly don’t care about ending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:14 PM
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But you don’t want to have any programs support these women. You believe you are supporting another man’s family through your taxes. That means you don’t view this as violence because you don’t actually care about ending it. Your argument is null and void. Abortion is not violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:14 PM
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However you agree that without a lousy husband who is a burden, it gets much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:03 PM
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And how did he come to that conclusion? Usually women gain weight when married due to exhaustion and stress and a husband who is a burden unto them. When the husband is out, she’s less exhausted and stressed and can focus on her health and weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:02 PM
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Then stop defending it as a symbol of how violent women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:53 PM
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Those who don’t aren’t interested. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:53 PM
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How many cold Approaches have you done in the last week? It seems men preach about how cold approaches are superior but don’t actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:42 PM
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However if you truly believe there is a filicide crisis, then yon would be okay with your taxes saving those babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:30 PM
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No I asked how you plan to help single mothers. Financial help. Unless you actually don’t care about “filicide”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:29 PM
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How do you not have agency to select someone when they are your acquaintance? You’re literally saying “oh she seems cool, interested, and compatible and I talked to her a few times so I know she is single and doesn’t have kids. I am going to ask her out.” You are not losing an ounce of agency or free choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:51 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/zy0jsyF5yP Yes you do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:27 PM
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I am okay with it too. If we don’t get married after a certain period I would just leave. I am not sure what your “gotcha” is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:21 PM
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Then don’t advocate for women to be stay at home moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:20 PM
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No they don’t. Women are much more likely to end up homeless after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:20 PM
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Saying most women are not good partners is hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:19 PM
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Multiple posts and comments from men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:18 PM
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If you don’t want to continue it, then don’t answer. That is the rules of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:18 PM
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What benefits for single mothers do you propose to prevent fetus killings?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:18 PM
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Men don’t want women who are older than 25 or 30, even if they are 50+ years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:12 PM
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That isn’t the conversation. The fetus isn’t awake and conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:11 PM
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I get accused of hating men for simply repeating what men say about men, and far less dramatic things. For you to claim most women are bad is hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:11 PM
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Basic politeness is not soft. It’s basic politeness. Then men have the audacity to wonder why women go for abusers when so many of you defend abusive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:06 PM
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I didn’t. I was accountable and admitted to my single mistake, which you harassed and bullied me over, and you continued to harass and bully me over and make false accusations over. Aka verbal abuse. By definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:05 PM
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Once again, proving me correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:04 PM
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You could say the same for men who don’t make enough money to support a family. My dad worked 3 jobs to support us lmfao why are you so lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:04 PM
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Sounds like she was a Stacy if you put up with that. Men usually don’t put up with abuse unless they are attracted to the abuse or find the woman so hot that it doesn’t matter. This is how women get treated and spoken to when they are abused, so I am simply demonstrating equality since a lot of men claim women don’t value or demonstrate equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:01 PM
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Falsely accusing someone of lying and dishonesty is verbal abuse. https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-recognize-verbal-abuse-bullying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:00 PM
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Saying “no thank you” is NOT THE SAME THING as aggressively popping their balloon. I would just tell a man “sorry you’re not my type” but yall have a difficult time understanding how to do that and believe that aggression is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:54 PM
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Having sex with someone and basic niceties are completely different things. It seems to me that you think that sex and being a baseline level of polite are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:53 PM
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If a man thinks most women are bad, it means he hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:52 PM
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But you think most women are bad. That is hatred. It is bigoted and reflects a bias against women. It’s disgusting. Be accountable. I would have more respect if you just owned up to it and admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:52 PM
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It’s much harder to lose weight with a man who is a burden and who makes life more miserable and difficult. It’s amazing how little accountability men have for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:52 PM
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I understand that you think it’s piss easy, but it’s much easier without a man who is a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:51 PM
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That is a disgusting way to speak of your ex wife. You clearly didn’t find her attractive. What exactly did she blame you for? Was she exhausted and overwhelmed? If so, you being gone made her less exhausted less overwhelmed, and better able to handle her emotions without food.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:51 PM
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Making a mistake is not dishonesty. You are being a bully, as I said, and being verbally abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:50 PM
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I don’t see anything where you address benefits for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:49 PM
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It isn’t factual. It’s just hatred of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:45 PM
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Maybe it’s because men repeatedly tell women they are unworthy of marriage so they lower their expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:44 PM
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A good man doesn’t walk around saying the majority of women are unworthy of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:40 PM
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Oh yes it was. You were harassing me and attempting to get a “gotcha”. Now you are upset because I held you accountable for it. You also aren’t addressing the fact that you said that the man isn’t bad after displaying aggression and hostility because you don’t have anymore good arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:39 PM
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Yet you want a stay at home mom so your kids don’t go to daycare, rendering her homeless in the event of a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:37 PM
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I refuse to have kids, live with someone, or intermingle finances until I am legally married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:37 PM
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So then don’t whine about child support and alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:36 PM
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Why don’t you associate the weight gain and being unattractive with aging and stress and childbearing? Why do you blame the woman for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:35 PM
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Sounds like it’s a better idea to just break up than propose. Also engagement means nothing. Until we are married, I am single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:34 PM
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Good men don’t have this mindset though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:33 PM
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Then they aren’t good men lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:32 PM
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No you were being a bully and rude. You also continue to defend that the guy “may not be a bad person” when he is clearly showing a red flag of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:29 PM
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He is a bad person and they are justified in calling him that. Also, I refuse to give you the satisfaction you’re trying to bully out of me. I misread the comment you made, but the response you are giving is hostile, harassing, aggressive, and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:19 PM
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Surely you believe that single moms should get more support then? To discourage murder?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:17 PM
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Select?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:16 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:16 PM
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Except for every woman didn’t turn evil. You just believe most modern women are bad. Aka most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:16 PM
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I am sorry you can’t differentiate between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:15 PM
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As the other person said, people are entitled to basic politeness and human decency. Any guy who gets upset about this is a potential abuser because he thinks that this takes a great effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:15 PM
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I think there is plenty of context. Enough to reject him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:14 PM
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Sounds like you’re dodging accountability. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:39 PM
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Glad we are now in the same page and agree he was aggressive and rude and demonstrating abusive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:36 PM
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You didn’t “get” anything. You literally agree that it’s a massive amount of women. You somehow think it’s justified because “well I dislike some men so therefore I am gender neutral”. It still isn’t justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:35 PM
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So you agree that what he did was bad and he was a toxic and bad person. Glad we now agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:34 PM
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So you agree he’s a bad person and that the women were intelligent for rejecting him based on his aggressive and rude behavior. Glad we are now on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:34 PM
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Exactly. You don’t think it’s a good enough reason to reject him and you don’t consider it a sign of potential abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:27 PM
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But it does equal “not a good enough reason to reject a man, and not a reflection of toxic and abusive behavior”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:27 PM
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I linked many resources that many popular organizations consider it to be a slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:26 PM
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It does means that you don’t think it’s a display of abusive behavior and that his behavior is not a good enough reason for women to reject him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:25 PM
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Men who actively use slurs against others are abusive men and not exactly good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:19 PM
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<image> You literally said he did great, showed power immediately, established a standard, and filtered out everyone but his best prospects. That is condoning the aggressive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:18 PM
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Stop moving the goalposts. You insist that it is not a bad thing. https://preview.redd.it/cdvijvmpj8ff1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=836fee9e95f2fc48c5b0149120bf7fb680616f42
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:17 PM
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Except for you insist that the man in that video isn’t abusive, that he didn’t do anything wrong, and rejecting him on the basis of his rude and aggressive behavior is not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:15 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tranny https://www.transgendermap.com/guidance/resources/words/slang-slurs/ https://glaad.org/fact-sheet-for-reporters-derogatory-slurs-referring-to-transgender-people/ https://queer-voices.com/lets-talk-slurs-on-the-term-tranny/ It absolutely is a slur unless you identify as trans yourself. And no, if a woman did that to an ugly guy, women would say she was being rude and mean. At least you no longer are trying to argue that you don’t encourage women to date abuser…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:15 PM
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Oh yes you do. The guy who aggressively popped the other person’s balloon when it was rude, aggressive, and unnecessary was demonstrating abusive behavior. You repeatedly say he did nothing wrong and that he is simply expressing his preferences. You can have preferences without being hostile about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:11 PM
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Exactly. You dislike women. So own it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:07 PM
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Then a good plan to avoid abuse is to avoid men who are rude and disrespectful, like the man in that video. If he can publicly behave that way with strangers, he is more than capable of doing worse when he knows the woman or in private. And yes you do. You repeatedly say he is doing a good thing and he isn’t bad. Therefore, you believe rejecting him on the premise of being a potential abuser is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:06 PM
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It is. It is emotional abuse to be degrading and rude. Do not encourage women to pick abusive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:04 PM
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No he was rude and aggressive and displayed potentially abusive behavior. You guys gaslight the fuck out of women here and actively encourage them to pick abusers. He could have just said “sorry that’s not my thing” when it was time for them to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:02 PM
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Shouting at a woman is verbal abuse. Doing so in public adds am extra layer of abuse because it involves public humiliation. Also you can choose to not date someone transgender without being rude and aggressive about it. He could have said “sorry I am not into trans women” when the time to talk to each other came up. Calling transgender people “tranny” is a slur and reflects potential future abusive behavior. In this series, you don’t pop someone’s balloon for them. They pop it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:01 PM
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You literally put women down and blame them for picking men who engage in aggressive behavior in your comment from yesterday. Now you’re gaslighting women and encouraging them to pick a man who engages in rude and aggressive behavior. This is hypocrisy. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:57 PM
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<image> No he was rude and aggressive. You admonish women for picking toxic men yet actively encourage women to pick toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:55 PM
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<image> Here you are admonishing women for Picking abusive men. Yet you are actively encouraging women to date potentially abusive and aggressive men who rudely and aggressively pop someone else’s balloon. You also call single moms “whores” which is abusive and toxic behavior. You can choose to not date single moms without being a monster about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:55 PM
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You can have a preference without being aggressive and rude about it. He was both. These are signs of an abuser. You are encouraging women to Pick toxic and abusive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:52 PM
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It’s amazing how men tell us to “pick better men” than in the face of outright rude and aggressive behavior gaslight us and insist that it’s justified and not rude or abusive at all. The guy was rude and aggressive. He crossed a boundary and popped her balloon. He could have gone about this in a more polite way, such as saying “sorry trans women are not my type” but he had to be rude and aggressive. Maybe you find abuse attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:51 PM
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You’re proving OP’s point. You can choose to not date someone without being rude about it. He was being incredibly rude. He could have just told the lady “I am not into trans women, sorry” when it came time to chat and see who is compatible or not, and then moved on, but he chose to be rude and pop her balloon himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:49 PM
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If a man is opposed to marriage, then he isn’t a good man lmfao. A good man believes in marriage and aspires to get married one day, or, if he isn’t interested in getting married, stays celibate and doesn’t dangle marriage like a carrot on a stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:46 PM
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Can you word this more clearly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:44 PM
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I don’t think it’s murder. Do you believe in having robust social programs to help single moms to discourage abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:43 PM
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“Modern women” is a massive amount of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:43 PM
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Well race is not a topic of discussion here due to race baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:16 AM
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But it isn’t a debatable topic due to the risk of race baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:09 AM
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Yes it does. You were reaching in your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:08 AM
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It isn’t an act of violence because the baby isn’t born and is a fetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:09 AM
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Don’t bring up race in this forum because it’s a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:08 AM
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What kind of neglect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:08 AM
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Abortion is a bad faith argument. It isn’t the same thing as murdering a human who was already born.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:48 AM
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So you did have the acquaintances thing yet resent when women suggest it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:47 AM
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I didn’t make a personal attack. You did. You said I “eschew honest introspection, objective self observation, and objective self critique like it's the bubonic plague in favor of massive amounts of self-affirmation (frequently in self delusion).” You also made a point to race bait which I am not allowed to discuss based on the subreddit rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:47 AM
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Sounds like you are an advocate for not making it a double homicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:52 AM
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Don’t make personal attacks. Argue the idea instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:52 AM
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We there you go. It’s a bad faith argument. You are claiming abortion is violence against children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:51 AM
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The language you use and your beliefs reflect a pro life mindset. I lean more pro life myself, but I also support robber social services programs to help single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:43 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/99mawodp74ff1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7df7710567c498dccb1c5954d9ad32b5b69038f4
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:42 AM
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I understand that you’re pro life, but it only makes sense to be pro life if you’re also pro robust social services programs for single mothers so that they are incentivized to keep their babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:42 AM
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…… do you mean abortions? Show me a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:41 AM
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🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:38 AM
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But you openly said that you don’t approach and that you instead were approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:38 AM
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Karen is a negative stereotype. You’re admitting that you are negatively portraying women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:37 AM
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You did. You were race baiting and are continuing to try to race bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:36 AM
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Show me the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:35 AM
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You want to claim that I am accusing you of being an in*el when I wasn’t. I made no claim of the sort. That was your agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:20 AM
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It does matter because men are still the violent ones. And plenty of men become stay at home dads and homemakers. You must have to be willing to be with a woman who is unattractive, older, and a higher earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:57 PM
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Wrong. I highlighted it and described your language and what you said and how it was emotional. You don’t like it so you make a blanket statement to try to dismiss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:56 PM
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Men are the ones who are more likely to victimize each other in violence. And women work less hours and take more time off to take care of the kids and the home. They still work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:49 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/6yk28fhtx3ff1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=df14d9a6ee461e590459b296d08150355188fe95 I highlighted it for you. False accusations. Comparison to racism. Claiming women are toxic and responsible for their destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:47 PM
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It could be anywhere from a few days to someone you see daily to a few months to someone you don’t see daily. An acquaintanceship is like the most superficial and beginner form of friendship. It’s someone I make small talk with and who I see around, but who isn’t involved in my personal life. I don’t necessarily hang out with them them outside of the setting that I met them in. https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/acquaintance https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/acquaintanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:29 PM
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That’s why I am talking about being an acquaintance and not a close friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:05 PM
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I didn’t make any assumptions about your sexuality. You projected this onto me because you have an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:54 PM
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Not surprising given the emotional response you gave
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:54 PM
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It is hatred for women. You claim it isn’t but it is. Take accountability and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:46 PM
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Yes. I consider myself a modern woman. I am a woman living in modern times with rights and liberties. I do not support whiny men wanting to take this away or resenting it. And they call them prostitutes because why else would a woman want an ugly old foreign man? No one is genuinely attracted to these men. It’s a financial transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:46 PM
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I see a long essay with race baiting and no accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:23 PM
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No matter how true you feel what you say is doesn’t make it less bigoted against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:23 PM
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My family also came from a third world country, so don’t try that card on me. However “true” you perceive your bigotry against women to be doesn’t magically make it less bigoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:22 PM
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Ok well there you go. You have negative stereotypes of women. Calling this out isn’t an inferiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:33 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/zc8c7uahk2ff1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dd87242a994d5f36416a7f24628eaad68d170e11 Here you are claiming modern women enjoy bashing men and are ignorant to foreign values. This is quite a hateful view to have, and is not a neutral difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:11 PM
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Projecting a narrative onto women and accusing them of lying or being ignorant to their own behavior is misogynistic, condescending, and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:09 PM
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Because the differences you describe are worse. Here you are claiming that modern women have a superiority complex and inflated ego. This is saying women are worse. These are negative characteristics to have. https://preview.redd.it/v5ydlzf3k2ff1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=20ff2fcde75afc6409eafcd540709edae17d463d
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:08 PM
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Except for I did, and I addressed it, and you still aren’t answering. At least you admit to being rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:50 PM
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You don’t spell out your reasoning besides “feelings” and offer nothing to work with or debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:49 PM
1

Notice how you resort to insults? Most women are not receptive to cold approaches from strangers. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:42 PM
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I read your comment. Stop being condescending. You believe women have an inferiority complex to men because of the way they reply to your comments. You offer no other examples nor explanation besides “feelings”. You then try backtracking by claiming “well I think that men also have an inferiority complex”. You could have easily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:41 PM
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I read the whole paragraph. Stop being condescending. Your first advice was to be particularly handsome so that women approach. This is the only advice you have taken. Presumably you’re particularly handsome and alpha/ Chadly. Your second advice was to cold approach women. However, you didn’t take this advice nor have any success to report with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:39 PM
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But you also didn’t cold approach. Your only advice is to be particularly handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:36 PM
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Men can earn more money. Women can’t age backwards to be desirable. Take comfort in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:32 PM
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When a man said to me that he enjoys flirting with other women and getting their numbers despite having a wife, I asked if his wife was okay with it. He said that she wasn’t okay with him obtaining numbers from other women. I said that sounds like soft cheating, and that he is likely trying to get an ego boost and feel alpha. He can take comfort in his success and alpha feelings. He got upset and said I was chronically single and should mind my own business. This is male nature in this forum. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:31 PM
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When men say things like “women just are inferior men” Or “women feel inferior to men” or “women like abusers” or “women are sexually attracted to abuse” or “women expire after 30” or “western women are all spoiled and entitled fat bitches”, the only reasonable take is to disagree. And when women disagree, men get upset and call them unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:26 PM
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Because it’s a disgusting argument. Most women don’t feel inferior to men. Fearing for your safety doesn’t mean you feel inferior. Most women don’t want to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:23 PM
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But you didn’t even take your own advice regarding gold approaching strangers. It looks to me like most men want to cold approach then get upset that most women don’t like this method.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:23 PM
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Whenever women engage with this sub, men get nasty and put them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:18 PM
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Literally Freud and ancient Roman’s claimed the same thing. That women feel inferior to men and have penis envy. It’s a heavily misogynistic take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:17 PM
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To me that doesn’t sound like the magic method you make it out to be and that acquaintanceship is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:17 PM
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So you didn’t cold approach your wife either but you believe it’s the best method.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:16 PM
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How many cold approached have you done in the last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:11 PM
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So how many cold approaches have you done in the last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:11 PM
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I have been on that apps and all it does is prove that everything men say here is wrong. Some of these serial cheaters look really unattractive. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJsbXzNygDo/ This guy looks like a thumb, and he managed to get two attractive girlfriends. He is not from the app. He has a semi popular Instagram page. If he can do it as a non Chad and all these weird looking guys on the tea app can do it, that should be uplifting, inspiring, and motivating to the men here who feel inse…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:22 PM
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Sounds like they have substance abuse issues (alcohol) which you said is a hallmark of an abuser. It sounds like they choose alcohol over maintaining their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:17 PM
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And they are abusing them. Bullying is verbal abuse wherever you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:15 PM
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Interesting response that indicates that you believe abuse is justified and acknowledge that abusive men don’t always look or act a certain way. I am glad we are now on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:15 PM
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Also most of the men here are verbally abusive and they don’t look like tattooed gang bangers. Most of them don’t have a criminal record or overt substance abuse. Yet the men here are verbally abusive and cause drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:10 PM
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This really shows male ignorance and naivety because those aren’t the only men that abuse women and cause drama. Examples: https://www.instagram.com/redbeardrants1 This guy doesn’t look like that and his entire page is devoted to humiliating and putting down western women. https://www.instagram.com/p/DMOZoEUSPp4/ All of the bitter and angry men on this post look like normies. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLwj0Z8Mkjj/ All of the men insulting this victim and calling her names look normal. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:05 PM
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You meet them at social activities where strangers WANT to interact like a social dancing club or church or a political group or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:34 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJzpX14RLie/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:02 AM
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So you’re saying men don’t like or care about good women and prefer abusive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:24 PM
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“Women are bad and are inferior”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:13 PM
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So you believe it’s worse for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:41 PM
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Then don’t claim women don’t understand men’s struggles and won’t succeed if they make a dating profile of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:02 PM
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Also it’s amazing that you claim that I hate men yet you hypocritically call women a “maze of trash”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:50 PM
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Most of the comments were men claiming that cold approaches are superior, and it was the vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:49 PM
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Despite your seething comment, you said absolutely nothing to argue my point. Men tend to enjoy humiliating women online. Even you chime in by making hateful claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:39 PM
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I am not stereotyping men as being awful. I am very clear with my intentions in my post. I am saying that men claimed en masse that cold approaching is the best way to meet women. However, I think many men resent that most women do not appreciate a cold approach and prefer a warm/ friendly approach where they get to know the guy a bit before being asked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:31 PM
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It isn’t passive aggressive and it was most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:57 PM
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Being overtly cruel and aggressive is blatantly worse than simply ignoring DM’s. No accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:47 PM
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You don’t have to want to date someone to be civil to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:40 PM
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Do you want me to sit there and count them? It was the vast majority of men. You are being condescending and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:40 PM
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Stop shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:39 PM
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<image> I don’t think you realize how nasty men are capable of being, especially online.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:53 PM
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What does budget control freak mean? Does she have to ask your permission to buy shampoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:43 PM
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<image> Friendly reminder that men enjoy humbling and humiliating women. Men think that being insulting is having a preference. He could have just swiped left but he wanted to hurt her and humble her. As evidenced by the meme, men think it’s Chadly to humiliate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:40 PM
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I am not backpedaling at all. I also made it clear that I meant ACQUAINTANCESHIP and not a close friendship. You seem to struggle to differentiate between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:38 PM
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It was a lot more than 3. It was like 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:37 PM
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No I describe it as becoming acquainted and getting to know a woman for a couple weeks before formally asking her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:35 PM
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Did you cold approach her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:33 PM
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It’s valid for nobody unless there is some kind of agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:15 AM
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Wow, what strong and angry language (as evidenced by using terminology like “bullshitting your point down our throats”) over common sense advice like “she’s just letting you down politely” and “you’re not obligated to be friends with someone who you have unrequited feelings for”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:15 AM
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I agree. You have a dynamic where it’s ok to flirt but not to share numbers. This guy made no mention of an agreement with his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:13 AM
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I think men should become acquainted with women and get to know them for a little while before asking them out. A multitude of men got offended and angry and insisted that cold approaching is the best and most efficient way to meet women. I suspected that most of these men don’t cold approach despite praising it as the best and most efficient way. I think that this comment section proved me right. Most men aren’t cold approaching and were just mad that I offered a suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:03 AM
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So you cold approach a bunch in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:45 AM
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I agree that this is the best way but a lot of guys got mad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:56 AM
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I agree but a lot of men piled onto me saying that meeting through mutual friends and social groups is a waste of time for men and cold approaching is the superior way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:56 AM
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So you want to cold approach but it hasn’t organically happened yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:25 AM
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Some guy said I was “chronically single” and that it’s simply between him and his wife when I said he was soft cheating if it wasn’t an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:25 AM
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Some guy called me “chronically single” and got offended when I said he was soft cheating by getting numbers from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:24 AM
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You repeatedly say you won’t engage. If you don’t want to engage, then don’t answer. That’s it. You’ve contradicted yourself many times and made a bad faith comparison of “hi” to “nice ass”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:17 AM
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Good luck kind stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:09 AM
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You didn’t call anything out. I didn’t contradict myself and I made it clear that men were telling me the complete opposite of what I believed. I gave men the opportunity to express their truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:09 AM
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Q4Men: How would you feel if your wife regularly got numbers from other men just for fun? She doesn’t call them though but she flirts with them to remind herself that she still “has it” and that she is “still hot”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:04 AM
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Where did I say anything of the sort? I told you that you can take comfort in feeling Chadly. Surely that should make you feel complimented and alpha and manly. Isn’t that the point of soft cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:03 AM
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So you just don’t want the women around you and use that as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:02 AM
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Success rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:01 AM
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You are trying to dodge accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:00 AM
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So why are t the guys here saying they cold approached mountains of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:00 AM
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But by a long time I meant a couple weeks and men lost their minds over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:00 AM
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So like 1 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:59 PM
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Sounds like I was right in my original thread and your attempt at a gotcha was unwarranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:59 PM
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So getting to know the women around you is a better method.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:58 PM
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Sounds like soft cheating. I guess you can take comfort in feeling like a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:25 PM
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So how many have you cold approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:00 PM
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So you believe cold approaching is the way but don’t partake
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:59 PM
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So why not “warm approach” and get to know women over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:46 PM
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Does your wife know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:44 PM
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You tell me. Men are the ones who insisted in the last thread that getting to know women over time is a major waste of time that leads to the “friendzone” and rejection. Men are the ones who insisted that the most effective way to get dates is to approach tons of strangers at a time and to cold approach a bunch of women. I personally believe most of these men are not cold approaching in bulk. But they tell me otherwise. I am allowed to change my mind and say “oh yes I guess men are running aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:44 PM
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And you asked both of them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:42 PM
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<image> You literally said that this is what you want. To get to know women over time. You accuse me of “bad faith” yet it’s bad faith to immediately backtrack on what you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:41 PM
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Did you cold approach your current gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:39 PM
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If I am wrong then why did most men insist in my last post that getting to know a woman over the course of a few weeks is a major waste of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:39 PM
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It didn’t “prompt” them to respond. Men who agreed with me had the opportunity to contribute, but didn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:38 PM
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Ok but when you were single, how many women did you cold approach each week? And did you cold approach your current girlfriend? Clearly you believe it’s a superior method.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:37 PM
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How long is a long time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:36 PM
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I meant one out of most men here. You’re the only one that practices what you preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:31 PM
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So why do men insist that this is the superior way to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:30 PM
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Who were these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:30 PM
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Accusing me of being malicious is a personal attack. You want to get to know women over time, but then that isn’t what the men in this forum say. They say that if the woman rejects them then they are stuck in the friendzone and that getting to know a woman over time is a waste of time if it doesn’t work out, meaning that it is something they don’t want to do. Bars, clubs, concerts, and parties do not attract the type of women PPD men claim to want. If you want a shy conservative woman, she isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:29 PM
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Why? Isn’t it the most effective method according to men here? Why does it have to be on a trip? What methods do you use locally?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:27 PM
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How many women have you cold approached this week?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:26 PM
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Yet most men didn’t and most men even got upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:26 PM
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How many women have you cold approached? And I repeatedly made it clear that men are to do this with multiple women. Not “putting their eggs in the same basket”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:26 PM
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I understand but the thread was composed of men and almost all the men were at a consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:20 PM
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Well “planting seeds” was what I described and overall most men believed that I was wrong and ignorant and wasting their time and that cold approaching is the best way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:18 PM
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So why is it that in my last thread men got so defensive and angry when I suggested getting to know women over time and insisted that cold approaching hundreds of women regularly is the only way to go?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:07 PM
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They also aren’t sexually aggressive nor pornographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:50 PM
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No one is belittling you. You repeatedly compared saying “hi” to saying “nice ass”. Your evidence that women didn’t want small talk and saying “hi” was an article about sexual harassment and how women don’t want to receive comments on their bodies from strangers, but nothing about saying hello. You also claim that refraining from being overtly sexual is how one becomes single at 35. Zero accountability. Nowhere did I express hate or belittle you. I repeated what you said. https://preview.redd.it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:49 PM
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“I cannot distinguish between saying ‘nice ass’ and ‘wow you’re good at soccer!’”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:55 PM
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So in 50 shades they don’t even have BDSM sex the first book and the guy makes her write all her limits. And she doesn’t like it so she runs away and cries. In twilight they don’t even have sex until marriage in the last book and the sex scene is glossed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:54 PM
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sexual tension porn 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:53 PM
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Not really. https://www.goodreads.com/blog/show/2887-the-100-most-popular-romances-of-the-past-three-years-on-goodreads
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:06 PM
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Can you list some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:57 PM
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It isn’t saying “nice ass” The article spells it out and has examples. https://preview.redd.it/7eauo064mnef1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1aa1eb09aa7124d01abc929edc5cf796656c86ac
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:53 PM
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Stop shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:39 PM
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Flirting is not saying sexual things. https://www.wikihow.com/Flirt
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:39 PM
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https://www.goodreads.com/blog/show/2887-the-100-most-popular-romances-of-the-past-three-years-on-goodreads
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:36 PM
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<image> Men ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:58 PM
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Literally you don’t say sexual things to a stranger on the street. You wait until you are dating and have a sexual dynamic. This also applies to online dating too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:58 PM
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Then enjoy a higher rate of rejection and women being more likely to find you a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:51 PM
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Why couldn’t they continue the conversation in a place that isn’t a private hotel room? There is always a sexual connotation with going to someone’s room or house.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:50 PM
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Then switch to a different church
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:49 PM
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What I described is the middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:49 PM
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I am not intentionally ignoring anything. In the strategy I provided in my post, I clearly spell out that the interactions start as platonic and when you get a sense that there may be mutual interest in each other, you build on that gradually. You don’t compliment them in a sexual fashion until a sexual relationship has been established.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:49 PM
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Ok well you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:47 PM
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An acquaintanceship is not a close friendship. It’s a casual friend at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:45 AM
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Other guys here equate small talk to catcalling strangers and propositioning women to come to their hotel room at 4 am.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:45 AM
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An acquaintanceship is not the same thing as a close friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:44 AM
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Watson described socializing with other attendees at a hotel bar until 4:00 a.m., then announcing she was tired and going to bed. After this, a man from the group followed her into an elevator and invited her to his room for coffee, which she declined.[36][23][39] Watson drew a parallel between the incident and her conference talk on sexual objectification the night before,[35][36] saying, "Guys, don't do that".[23][37][36][3] Why do you equate small talk with inviting a woman to your hotel room…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:43 AM
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An acquaintanceship is not a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:42 AM
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So you cold approached a bunch of random women and asked them all out on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:41 AM
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Not true at all unless you’re going to orthodox churches because men tend to enjoy orthodox Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:41 AM
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There is a major difference between saying “hi” and making small talk about the weather or something and saying “nice ass”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:02 AM
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Then all she’s going to do is say “wow that man is rude”. You aren’t teaching her a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:01 AM
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Yes. There is a guy here saying when he socializes with women he has no idea of how to tell if she’s interested in him or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:00 AM
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Yes women communicate interest. I understand social cues are hard to read but if a woman likes you then it’s obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:00 AM
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No that was the premise of the conversation. Using your language, not mine, don’t wiggle out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:22 PM
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You don’t wait around, you actively get to know multiple people and see who seems like a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:36 PM
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Most women are happy with men who would leave them in a heartbeat for a supermodel if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:36 PM
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A lot higher. Through small talk and getting to know someone you can gauge interest before you even decide to ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:35 PM
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<image> Except for that is what you said and for some reason you confound small talk and gaging if someone is interested with cat calling. Don’t try to wiggle your way out of this bad take.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:33 PM
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In the process you also talk to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:01 PM
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What I described has a higher success rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:01 PM
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This is an acquaintanceship not a close lifelong friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:00 PM
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It’s the description of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:00 PM
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This is how you find out if she is married. You aren’t forming a close lifelong friendship it’s an acquaintanceship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:59 PM
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This is an acquaintanceship not a lifelong friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:58 PM
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The ball isn’t 100% in her court. You’re deciding if and when you will make a move. It’s in your court. She can decide to do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:57 PM
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The lady knows you so you can gauge if she’s interested or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:57 PM
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It isn’t camping as a friend until she finds you attractive it’s getting to know her and see if she views you as a romantic prospect or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:56 PM
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That’s if she rejects you. If she rejects you, or you sense that she isn’t into you, then keep a polite distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:55 PM
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Yes you can just be polite and learn to read social cues if she feels uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:55 PM
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No but it’s easy to figure out when you get to know them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:54 PM
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You don’t have to stay friends with someone who doesn’t want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:54 PM
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It’s not romantic it’s getting to know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:53 PM
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Yes. She CLEARLY SAYS DO NOT GIVE YOUR UNSOLICITED OPINION ABOUT HOW A WOMAN LOOKS Saying “hello” is not giving your unsolicited opinion on a woman’s appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:53 PM
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It’s very easy if she’s around your looksmatch and agematch and seems into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:52 PM
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People are much more receptive to acquaintances than strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:51 PM
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I now have a Redditor insisting that men who say “nice ass” when catcalling women don’t have bad intentions and have good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:23 PM
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If she likes him then she will want to keep seeing him and will either continue the same walking path or notify him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:22 PM
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Yes. Go to a different activity and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:13 PM
1

No it’s not. A lot of you guys have autistic interpretations of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:13 PM
0

It isn’t socially unacceptable and there is something you are misinterpreting like the guy who thinks catcalling and saying hi are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:07 PM
0

That’s life and saying. You spend time talking to multiple people and “wasting time” until you meet someone you want a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:06 PM
-1

Did you even read what you posted? Do you want me to copy and paste it? Her post is about not catcalling. She isn’t saying don’t say “hi” to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:05 PM
1

Nothing I described is dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:02 PM
0

That’s why you don’t cycle through the group of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:01 PM
2

That’s why at some point during the chats you ask “are you single”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:00 PM
1

Both you and her will get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:00 PM
2

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:59 PM
0

I know that his intentions are bad if he shouts “nice ass”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:58 PM
1

This is a social skills issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:57 PM
1

You literally go for people that already have the same habit like going to the gym at a certain time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:57 PM
1

Church? religious places. School. Gym. Social activities. Dance club. Meetup groups. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:56 PM
3

One out of most
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:56 PM
1

What’s the gotcha you are trying to make? I still don’t believe Kenya is applicable to the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:55 PM
1

They are looking for husbands, not casual sex. That doesn’t mean they are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:55 PM
4

They didn’t like him to begin with but didn’t want to be rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:54 PM
2

How did you give up your life? Aren’t you doing other stuff and talking to other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:54 PM
0

That’s the point of talking to them and getting to know them over time. Thats the entire premise of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:01 PM
8

Then don’t be their friend. Just keep a polite distance. Often women say “let’s just be friends” to politely reject someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:01 PM
2

Well good to hear!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:00 PM
-3

Obviously you just go for someone who is there to socialize and who isn’t deeply religious. Lots of women do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:00 PM
2

Then you’re asking for her number in a non romantic sense and that matches with what I listed in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:58 PM
1

Small talk is not stalking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:58 PM
1

No it isn’t. It sounds like you want to lie by omission. “She didn’t ask me so I won’t tell her”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:57 PM
2

This is why you don’t make a deep and profound friendship. It’s an acquaintanceship. This also gives you time to see if she seems into you. If she doesn’t, then keep distant and just be polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:56 PM
0

Ok so you have friendships. If you cold approached them, they likely wouldn’t be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:55 PM
4

Because the culture is different in non western places. I’m surprised they have sex easily as I believed that in Africa women are much more conservative about having sex than in the west. There also is likely a larger sense of community than in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:54 PM
0

It makes you a realistic option in her eyes rather than a creepy stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:53 PM
8

Because they were just being polite my friend. They literally were just rejecting him in a nice way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:52 PM
1

Don’t date exclusively for the first 2-3 dates but after that you should pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:52 PM
3

She’s more likely to think you’re creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:51 PM
2

None of them are men around my age. I do talk to men at the gym and church and actively seek social activities to meet others. A few of my friends do a dancing group and have met men there. Others have through church.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:50 PM
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These aren’t engineered random interactions these are intentionally trying to talk to someone who you see regularly. It isn’t stalking if it’s a place you regularly frequent as a part of your regular routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:49 PM
3

Sir You are in Kenya. Kenya is known for being more conservative about sex and has a completely different social scene than the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:44 PM
1

Asking out strangers at random nightclubs and bars will have less success than asking out women who you know from your social groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:42 PM
2

Numbers are much better with building an acquaintanceship then asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:39 PM
2

I don’t know my neighbors and still say hi when I walk by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:39 PM
2

You don’t have to be religious, and you aren’t limited to church. Church is an umbrella term for synagogue, mosque, etc. It sounds like the men here are just lazy and then get shocked when cold approaching strangers doesn’t work as planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:38 PM
2

And the cold approach method is going to get a shit ton more rejections and women thinking you’re a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:37 PM
0

If you already got to know her in your social circle, then it’s time to ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:37 PM
4

Then she’s more likely to say “no” because you’re a complete stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:36 PM
-2

What? It sounds like it’s a lazy approach. You see a cute woman at the gym or school or something and refuse to get to know her after doing a bunch of mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:32 PM
2

It’s not a good idea to become acquainted with a bunch of random women at the same gym and ask them all out at once. But one lady at the gym, one at church, one at the run club, one at the swing dancing group, etc. then you will have more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:31 PM
5

Churches are literally free and a lot of them have more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:29 PM
3

Most men here have not approached a ton of women. Most of them have maybe asked out 1 or 2 women IRL (not online) then gave up after rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:29 PM
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You aren’t forced to be anyone’s friend. You can choose to not be friends with someone who you have unrequited feelings for. You can also build an acquaintanceship with multiple women at the same time. Cute girl from the gym, cute girl at church, cute girl at the singles social group you found on meetup. Talk to them and see who is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:27 PM
-1

Saying hi is not creepy. You just do a head nod or hello. It depends on location, but people generally say hi to each other in their neighborhood. The advice I give is to build your own social circle. Go to social activities. And the gym has a group of people who go there regularly. You can get to know them and befriend them. If a woman doesn’t seem interested then just keep your distance and don’t talk to her much beyond polite pleasantries. If she seems interested, talk to her more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:26 PM
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Then you drop her politely. You say “oh okay, lucky guy” and then move on. She could easily say yes to a date then string you along as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:24 PM
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This sounds like an excuse to not talk to women. It sounds like you lack understanding of social cues like being a little flirtatious but not so much that you make the person feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:24 PM
-1

You don’t have to be friends with these women, you know. You aren’t in a friend zone unless you choose to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:22 PM
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You can talk to and get to know multiple women at once. Just don’t do it all at the same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:21 PM
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No it increases your chances even more to get to know someone. She knows you aren’t a threat and can hopefully see your good qualities that you hopefully have. It also gives you a chance to learn if she’s a single mom or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:20 PM
-1

You can do what I described with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:20 PM
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I agree but men get mad and claim women are bitchy and selfish for feeling this way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:19 PM
1

So you chose to defend sexual abusers by claiming their intentions may possibly be pure and wholesome. Lmfao. Catcalling is a form of sexual abuse and anyone with a modicum of common sense knows this. I guess you could argue that 0.0000001% of cat callers have a pure heart and just want to declare that they find a woman beautiful and make her feel complimented. You got me on that one! 99.99999% are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:54 PM
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Except for it isn’t. It’s accountability. Your comment isn’t a “gotcha” my friend. Catcalling is sexual harassment and wrong. It’s sexist propaganda to insist otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:39 PM
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My intentions are obvious: Accountability And the intentions of a catcaller are obvious: Sex Asking for sex from random stranger women is a bad intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:14 PM
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No he didn’t. Nothing I said was hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:01 PM
1

Except for it portrays women as stupid, vapid, unintelligent, and gullible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:00 PM
1

But you’re also sending the message that men are degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:30 PM
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If men include 16 year olds in their preferences then that makes them degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:28 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/sw7lfyxrj2ef1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=55c925ab53b436e6a2317c9ed9e495cd22ae4bd7 You literally claim that she doesn’t understand male nature when that is how you describe male nature and yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:02 PM
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You’re trying to weasel out of accountability. You have made a ton of comments like this and have made it very clear that you use women for sex. Here you openly admit to manipulating them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:58 PM
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You’re trying to weasel out of accountability. You have made a ton of comments like this and have made it very clear that you use women for sex. Here you openly admit to manipulating them for sex. https://preview.redd.it/cy5ifeb882ef1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=28b5a81a32601d902d01f5fbc124a226071a0dfc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:58 PM
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<image> Zero accountability. None whatsoever. You literally say right here So they push themselves onto a guy like me who is only going to use them for sex and eventually ghost when I'm loaded with new prospects. I also used to be that fat guy none of them wanted only too come crawling out of the woodwork when I got lean & muscular. So l'm now feeding into the attention I never used to get as I went from maybe 1 to 2 matches every few months to 10 to 20 matches every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:50 PM
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You literally brag about how you use women for sex and sex alone because you don’t find them attractive enough for a relationship. You talk about how you’re bitter that fat women didn’t want you when you were fat so now you punish them by using them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:48 PM
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If you’re single, IG is a way to keep in touch with certain men like a guy you talked to on tinder or a guy you have a crush on that you met in your life. Depending on age, some women use social media to meet a man. Selfies and cute pictures are a way to present yourself to family and friends as well as to potential dates in a tasteful fashion. When you’re in a relationship, you don’t need to catch the eye of the guy you matched with on tinder or your gym crush. There is nothing deceptive about …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:41 PM
1

I don’t know why some men promise to rescue their girlfriends but then don’t support them in building a career and independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:33 PM
1

https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/MIQZheh3Jj Already this is a typical PPD response.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:32 PM
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I don’t know what this has to do with demisexuality. They are already in a committed relationship, and have been for 1 year, so they presumably already know each other well enough to develop sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:58 PM
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Stop shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:29 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/QLtt2QUFIU PPD man dream relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:42 PM
1

I clearly point out that it’s the content of what he said AND the tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:15 PM
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It’s extremely easy to say “18” or to admit that men are degenerates who want a 16 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:54 PM
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That isn’t what I said at all. I said that the fact that women aren’t more medicated than men reflects that not enough men are seeking mental health care and are walking around with unmanaged mental illnesses and hurting people emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:39 AM
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The study doesn’t say these women were lesbian. They can be bisexual and decide they want to just be with women due to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:38 AM
2

Yes but men with untreated mental illness drive women crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:42 AM
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But I think it’s evidence that men’s mental health is untreated and neglected and men are more likely to be the crazy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:38 AM
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But medicated women aren’t the ones who will overreact and have behavioral issues. Unmedicated men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:35 AM
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<image> It seems to me that you’re dodging accountability. Why do you use mental health medication use as a way to prove that women are not wonderful? If this wasn’t the point of your comment, then what did you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:28 AM
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How does mental health medication affect how wonderful a person is in any way, shape, or form? Why do you use mental health medications as a way to reflect that women may not be wonderful?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:26 AM
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<image> Is a 16 year old a woman? And before you falsely accuse me of changing the topic again, here is the much earlier comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:25 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/65xk7iqshydf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=52701ce15eb474776efc7f8aac4927e74dee6cd5 No I am not. This is one of the comments way earlier. You repeatedly refused to address it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:24 AM
1

Yes they do I can find them online if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:23 AM
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I didn’t claim to be the victim. You claimed that women are not becoming homeless or at risk for homelessness after divorce. You claimed that men are victims instead women. I am saying you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:23 AM
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You present them taking mental health medications as a flaw that makes them bad and non wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:43 AM
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Is a 16 year old a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:42 AM
2

So are the majority of shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:42 AM
1

Yes but in that same OKCupid study 66% of men sent messages only to the top 33% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:41 AM
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But you’re also basing this on what you believe and not reality. So who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:22 PM
0

Having kids with a ton of different women is kind of BPD behavior for men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:21 PM
0

Well at least you can take comfort in the fact that you’re aloof and may feel alpha as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:21 PM
1

Tbh it sounds like he had BPD too and could understand her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:58 PM
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Don’t men complain that men’s mental health isn’t taken seriously enough? So why taunt women for getting mental health treatment? Instead you should encourage men to take treatment too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:36 PM
1

No it just says that women who are in female female partnerships are more likely to have experienced abuse but it doesn’t say from who. I believe it’s mostly from male exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:32 PM
1

Male response to emotional abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:31 PM
0

So what signs did you ignore?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:30 PM
2

What red flags did you ignore before it got to this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:29 PM
1

So you’re saying 16 year olds are most valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:26 PM
1

So you are saying minors are most valuable to rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:26 PM
0

I explained it’s the language. Not just the tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:56 PM
1

It still reads like a revenge fantasy. Men are angry that it’s unacceptable to cold approach strangers and feel a sense of justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:55 PM
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It’s the language he uses: Crying women on TikTok bemoaning how men no longer approach is the clue. The rules have changed. These women failed to return the serve. They probably didn't even notice they were approached in the first place. After years of app exhaustion, rejection, and being the sole drivers of courtship, many men have sub-consciously decided: if it's not mutual, it's not worth it. The passive luxury for shy women being pursued no longer guarantees outcomes. Now, both quiet types h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:30 PM
6

More than anything else this sounds like a revenge fantasy against women who don’t want to be approached by strangers in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:07 PM
2

The issue is that he starts with 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:00 PM
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Most women are not hubristic and arrogant, and saying “I am a 10” is not that. It’s a saying women say to reflect that they have value and confidence in how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:34 PM
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If you don’t talk to women and get to know them and ask them out on dates over time, then you aren’t going to get many dates, if at all. Male attention is only abundant in the most attractive women. Outside of dating apps, most women don’t get asked out all the time and most women are unattractive to most men. The only reason why women get matches and likes on the apps is because the men swipe right on everyone then select who they want to unmatch, sleep with and dump, or marry from there. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:45 PM
5

cheaper
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:42 PM
1

Leave it to men to think catcalling is a simple act of niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:38 PM
1

I believe the comment got deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:31 PM
1

That isn’t disgusting. Women need to make sure they don’t end up homeless or in poverty after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:30 PM
-1

Stop deflecting and derailing. Men constantly tell women not to have self esteem that is too high and to stay humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:28 PM
1

Yes because they won’t be at their prime anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:56 AM
6

How do we know he is not toxic and not an abuser?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:39 AM
1

And threatening to follow me across forums and reply to every single comment is harassment and violates the Reddit code of conduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:16 AM
1

You don’t have proof. So you revert to being uncivil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:15 AM
1

Per your profile, you have multiple deleted comments on this forum for bullying and incivility. It looks like you do this to multiple users here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:15 AM
1

This is a personal attack, and violates the rules of the forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:13 AM
1

It looks to me like you like to call people bots when you disagree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:12 AM
2

I didn’t. There you go again making up fake stuff and deflecting. And going on a witch hunt, which violates the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:11 AM
1

This is a child you are speaking of with a group of children. He is not a man, he is a boy. They are not women, but girls. And you have no way of knowing that he had a 5some or was dating all these girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:34 AM
3

How do you know that these high school girls were having a 5some with this high school guy???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:31 AM
2

How do you know that he had a 5some? How do you know that these girls weren’t just friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:31 AM
1

I’m sorry to hear. However you can take comfort in the fact that you are a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:09 AM
1

Don’t you have a ton of casual sex despite the cancer issue and being in financial distress? Doesn’t this prove you wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:59 AM
2

But it should be easy for you to answer. Surely you can prove that they are watching men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:35 PM
1

Deflecting again and again. Are the women watching the men or the women? Or are you going to be, I dare say, hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:30 PM
1

False. I have called out your bullying and attacks. You fail to provide evidence. I also notice that you also have a history of attacking others here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:30 PM
1

I didn’t ask about aggression. I asked about if they were watching men. Don’t try to change the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:25 PM
1

I asked if they are watching men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:25 PM
1

And that’s a personal attack. You are a bully and harasser. That is a fact, not an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:20 PM
1

Show me proof that women are watching other men. They aren’t. Men are the ones who don’t mind this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:19 PM
1

Because if they are watching other women it’s not the same as watching other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:14 PM
1

I didn’t say the women don’t know what they are doing? I said they do the paperwork. Usually because the men are too lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:10 PM
1

Yes you are harassing me and have been doing so for days. You follow me across threads and have been relentlessly bullying me. It’s gross and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:07 PM
1

Because they arent watching other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:06 PM
1

Men complain about women vetting. Men actively tell us that it’s ok to date a man who uses prostitutes. Men encourage us to date men who are broke or in poverty. Men actively encourage us to date men who hate women and who are red pilled or inc*ls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:04 PM
1

If they are married and watching men (not women) in the porn, then they are bad. They aren’t watching men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:02 PM
1

Disgusting comment for you to make considering I never condoned anything bad and you’ve done nothing but harass me repeatedly for days now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:55 PM
1

I did call them out. I said they pretend to cheat and are bad. There’s just like quadruple the number of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:54 PM
1

https://fightthenewdrug.org/porn-consumption-rates-among-young-adults-underreported/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:53 PM
5

Why would we cold approach a complete stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:49 PM
-1

No they aren’t because erotic literature is not the same thing as porn. Porn is bad. And it’s wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy more than 70% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:42 PM
1

I don’t think good women have unrealistic expectations. But most women have realistic expectations. The OKCupid study proved this. Unattractive men replied less to unattractive women in the same percentile as them than the other way around. 66% of all male messages went to the top 33% of women while female messages were evenly distributed. So most women are realistic while most men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:42 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0022103109001048 This is the study. In that exact study you were talking about, men wanted women even more, regardless of if they were taken or not. And taken men were most interested in taken women than every other demographic. This is where the graphic comes from. https://preview.redd.it/sdwldovcnpdf1.jpeg?width=1008&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4837a25ed0e539a0796d71efa6922b0b22d7c78e And 25% of women versus 99.99999% of men pretend to cheat l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:40 PM
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It isn’t hypocrisy. https://palife.co.uk/news/half-of-women-reading-more-erotic-literature-during-lockdown/ Less than half of British women were reading literotica in the last year at the time of survey. Meanwhile almost all men regularly watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:36 PM
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That isn’t reality though. The reality is women are extremely realistic and men are not. The OKCupid study proves that women were open to dating everyone but men were not. 66% of all male messages went to the top 33% of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:25 PM
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First of all, I didn’t deflect. Right here, you attempted to deflect onto how women “want” taken men. But research indicates that taken men actually want outside women even more than women want taken men. Unless you want to admit that women perceiving a man as more attractive doesn’t mean she wants to be with a man who has a girlfriend. Whoops no you don’t. Second of all, watching porn when you are married is bad behavior. Mastrubating to women who aren’t your wife- fantasizing about cheating on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:24 PM
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What state? Porn is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:10 PM
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Why don’t you address how you enthusiastically derailed the conversation and deflected, as usual?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:09 PM
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Good men don’t view women as having massively inflated expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:02 PM
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Women just do the divorce paperwork. This doesn’t mean that they are the ones who want the divorce or do betraying things like cheating. Women get alimony when they become a stay at home mom. If you don’t want to pay alimony, then prepare for a wife that isn’t a homemaker and prepare to share the housework and childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:02 PM
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Smut is a niche literary genre. Meanwhile almost all men watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:00 PM
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If you aren’t on the same page then don’t defend his comment. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:59 PM
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<image> It absolutely is what we were talking about. This is what you chimed in on. He literally talks about porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:28 PM
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What do you think the majority of male porn watchers do? Sing musicals? They madtrubate to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:14 PM
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So then don’t defend saying boys don’t want something serious at 18. Either you do or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:03 PM
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A celebrity crush is not the same thing as actively watching naked people and mastrubating to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:02 PM
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Then you should have just said “women” instead of “western women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:01 PM
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My friend <image> Here is one od your fellow men like 3 comments down saying women should settle down at 16-20.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:54 PM
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Men also enjoy degrading how women look on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:53 PM
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Good men don’t think women as a whole treat men poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:52 PM
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“Men just want to mentally cheat on their wife. Men are not bad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:51 PM
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I don’t think good men have this attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:50 PM
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No good father would want his daughter with a man who writes angry rants on Reddit about how hypergamous women are and how western women are inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:49 PM
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I thought men hated women with high self esteem who believe they are 10’s lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:47 PM
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Men get bitterly angry if a woman had a non serious boyfriend in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:44 PM
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It is not hating men to state facts. And why do you derail the conversation to the scum manifesto? Where in this thread is that book brought up? Unless you admit to witch hunting and trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:42 PM
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Yes that’s called a joke. Old school and splitting are self contradictory. Men claiming that they don’t care about our achievements and careers then expecting us to split the bills is also self contradicting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:40 PM
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I'm aware. The point I'm making is that lots of women act like men owe it to them to give them free rides, buy them things, give them money, etc. That isn’t financial dependence. That is just wanting gifts and rides. Wanting to get paid for sex or a relationship is sugar babying. I have never seen a man refuse to date a woman because she won't pay for the first date, That isn’t financial dependence or one who won't marry a woman unless she pays all the bills. Is she contributing to the expenses?…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:32 PM
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Even if you know someone’s upbringing it doesn’t mean I would want to live with his parents. He can’t afford a family. He can go live with mine. Why is he with me if he doesn’t want to marry into my family?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:50 PM
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Yeah because you are trying to talk like a politician.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:49 PM
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It is insufficient. Women work in the western world. Non western women are much more likely to be dependent financially. If you don’t know enough about non western women to want to comment, then don’t use western ness as some kind of descriptor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:48 PM
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Think about it this way: Attached men are more Likely than single men to want attached women than women may want attached men or single men may want single women. Also watching porn while married is not decent or good behavior. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:47 PM
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So you’re just making up a roundabout way of saying that you believe that women are less mature than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:04 PM
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I don’t think women are more mature. I think women are less cruel than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:03 PM
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I really don’t care. I know my family. I don’t know his. I know my family is filled with good decent people who I can trust especially if I have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:14 PM
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No need to make personal attacks in defense of pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:43 PM
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False. It’s degenerate and exploitative in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:21 PM
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And what about older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:21 PM
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First of all, you don’t want to argue about romance vs smut because there is nothing to argue about. I corrected you on the definition. Second of all, even if big porn stars like their job, they are still being sexually exploited for money and they aren’t the only ones performing in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:06 PM
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I am okay with living with MY parents but not with his.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:05 PM
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And? These countries have severe financial issues. Do you dream of America having the same financial issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:39 PM
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You do. You claim women developmentally stagnate by watching the same vapid television show (love island) for 20 years and having no deep conversation topics. This implies that you believe women are stupid and immature. If you were trying to get another point across, then simply explain it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:38 PM
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Romance books are not the same and it’s delusional to make said claim. First of all, romance is not SMUT. SMUT is sexual lit erotica. Romance is a love story. Romance focuses on the plot and characters, and does not have detailed sex scenes. SMUT focuses on sex and explicit content. Second of all, books do not have actual live human beings who are possibly being trafficked or abused or underage. The “performers” aka the characters are entirely made up and not being touched or sexually abused. Ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:36 PM
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Then you should have made a gender neutral argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:30 PM
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Where is your source though that western women are allergic to financial independence? And why only western women? Women from non western cultures are more likely to want to be homemakers and provided for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:28 PM
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If you want to split a bill, you need to make sure the woman has a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:27 PM
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False. A lot of places have multi generational homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:27 PM
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This is a so if you’re not looking for a relationship then why should women take your advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:26 PM
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Most men are not decent. See the porn prevalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:24 PM
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Right after you made your little accusation that women act as if they are grown up and that men are not, a MAN chimed in and acted as if men are grown up and women are not. You cannot make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:23 PM
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All men’s responses: “I am not like that. How dare you show me evidence that I am like that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:22 PM
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So basically you are the genders flipped version of the original comment. <image> You believe men are grown up, enlightened adults while women are stupid little works who need to be trained like puppies. You are like a middle school man who talks about how girls their age are so immature as if you are better. Acting as if the other sex is just children is one of the best ways to see that someone is not mature themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:21 PM
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For example, look at this post from the ADHDWomen subreddit. Sounds like this woman's therapist tried to give her real advice when she was complaining about how she "literally cannot move" when it's time to clean her room. The therapist said "just do it", most likely out of disgust over her constant excuses. Do you understand that if she could just do it, she wouldn’t be going to a therapist? She clearly has some kind of mental block, and she needs to work on it. How disgusting that you would in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:17 PM
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Accusing me of not being able to read is a personal attack against my intelligence. You claimed just in your last comment that you don’t make attacks. But then immediately after, you made an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:11 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/5kad15u64ndf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=46a443b7a826269a59bf26a4fcf554a915323cd9 Here you are making six different comments to me. You have been repeating yourself over and over in each comment because you’re unsatisfied with the answers I give and you believe that by repeating yourself, you will get your point across. Earlier you said that repeating points is spamming. By your words, you are spamming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:09 PM
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Name calling, false accusations, and insulting someone’s intelligence are attacks. Not just that but they constitute verbal abuse. As you may notice, I did none of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:08 PM
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Saying something else is worse means that it is bad but something else is worse. And I answer the majority of comments I receive. At this point you just want a last word in. You also want to dodge accountability for witch hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:07 PM
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Except for I didn’t. And you aren’t the judge of what is and isn’t fact either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:06 PM
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Yes, you did, and you were very smug about it. Do you want me to quote your own comments? You might not read what people say, but I certainly do. No, I didn’t say it was a different guy. Stop repeating yourself, which is spamming. A lot of women here and in society do hate men, but that is not why I chimed in. I chimed in because you were wrong about the SCUM manifesto being a parody. I've said this repeatedly. This is why I keep saying that you don't read. You literally can't keep a fact straig…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:05 PM
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That is exactly what it is. What is it that you love to say? "Facts over feelings"? No it isn’t. And that’s a fact. You just feel differently. As I say: Facts. Over. Feelings. You could have stopped this anytime by either admitting you were wrong or ignoring me. You are doing this to yourself. So you admit that you are participating in a bannable and deletable offense. There you go. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:16 AM
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I am not spamming by answering the comments you make to me. If you wish to stop engaging in conversation, then don’t reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:11 AM
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I am not. You just disagree with me. That doesn’t justify making attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:10 AM
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I said it was bad by saying men do worse. Why do you keep repeating yourself? By your definition, this is spamming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:08 AM
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Because the fact is that I didn’t, and you’re literally projecting your feelings onto it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:07 AM
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No I didn’t. Now stop spamming me about this. I understand that you chimed in to defend that the scum manifesto is an example of how the women in this forum and greater society hate women. I understand you didn’t make the original comment, but that you defended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:59 AM
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No it isn’t. Now stop spamming me. And stop witch hunting and engaging in indirect personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:50 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/khj1w8vxxkdf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=10e9f89f713d6177aebfcfa3fb6d8439614a290f You’re admitting to violating the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:50 AM
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That is witch hunting my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:49 AM
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Again, stop repeating yourself. You said it’s “spamming” to repeat yourself yet you keep repeating your arguments over and over again. I didn’t condone anything she did. I also didn’t say men are responsible for what she did. I did say that it’s a parody of Freud . Which it is per Wikipedia. And this website https://anarwiki.org/wiki/SCUM_Manifesto And others. I also said repeatedly that men do worse. That isn’t blaming men for what she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:49 AM
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No I am not. Stop repeating yourself. Everyone understands how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:45 AM
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I didn’t say that it isn’t a different guy. You butt into the thread and defended it as a sound and reasonable example of how women hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:44 AM
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Stop repeating yourself over and over with the same verbiage and exact same sentences. We all know you can repeat yourself at this point. It’s spamming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:43 AM
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I didn’t blame men. I simply said men do worse. You don’t like that verbiage but it’s the truth. It’s a fact. Facts over feelings. You just don’t like that I didn’t flagellate women and put women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:43 AM
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Because you repeat the same question over and over. You’ve literally made like 4 different replies to like 4 different comments. You also witch hunted me into this conversation with the same talking points that you repeated over and over. That is spamming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:42 AM
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I repeat myself because you repeat yourself. For example, you asked me repeatedly to explain where I criticize what she said. When I repeatedly show you that I said what she said was bad, but men say and do worse, you simply repeat the same question over and over again, spamming it, because you don’t like the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:41 AM
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I did. Stop spamming this reply. You don’t like the way I criticize her. That doesn’t mean I didn’t criticize her. Stop spamming me with the same comment over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:40 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/64l93t11wkdf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eb2ede148a347f72d6c3105ebeb396a7f07951fa Here you are defending it as an example of how the women here hate men. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:39 AM
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I acknowledge that it’s bad. Saying men do worse means that what she did was bad, but that men do worse. Now stop spamming me with a false accusation. You don’t like how I said something, but that doesn’t justify you repeating your spamming. You aren’t going to win this argument. You don’t like what you said and are putting feelings over facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:13 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/4938u7k3rkdf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=164b0dba659cb7b288ea202233f54083ff9bba5f This is my direct response. I acknowledge that it’s bad here. I don’t need to say “she is bad”. I point out that the men do worse. Which is truth. Truth is not condoning bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:12 AM
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Holding you accountable is not a spam. I just made a list of your self contractions. I can repeat it here if you would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:11 AM
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The rhetoric is there. I provide evidence and links and screenshots. There is content behind it. Contradictions you have made so far: Accusing me of spamming you because I reply to your comments that you direct towards me. Accusing me of spamming you with accusations that you defend Freud despite you spamming me with multiple repeated accusations and witch hunting with a false accusation of the scum manifesto. Claiming that the scum manifesto is relevant, but that Freud is completely irrelevant …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:10 AM
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You falsely accused me of defending the SCUM manifesto multiple times. In fact, you spammed me with said false accusations. You even proceeded to go on a witch hunt and spread these false accusations to other comments on unrelated threads. That is spamming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:08 AM
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I don’t want to stop talking about Freud. You accusing me of being a bot doesn’t make you win this debate. You just made yourself look more and more wrong. You continue to make personal attacks. Let’s get back to the original point: You used the SCUM manifesto as an example of how women hate men. The SCUM manifesto was a parody (per Wikipedia) of Freud. It was based on Freud. You claim nobody cares about Freud. The scum manifesto is even less well known and less cared about than Freud. So point …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:07 AM
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Except I didn’t defend it. I very clearly explained that it is bad and posted proof. I just posted that men do worse and this made you very upset. Meanwhile, you’re out here claiming no one cares about a famous and well known psychologist who shaped modern psychology, which is Freud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:54 AM
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That isn’t criticism. You said it’s easy to criticize. That’s it. You also said no one cares about him as an attempt to deflect attention from him. I said the scum lady is bad. I also said men do worse. I was critical of her. You just didn’t like the way I criticized her. She also is multitudes less famous than Freud is. No one cares about her at all except for you. Interesting because she is dramatically less well known than Freud is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:53 AM
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The rules very clearly say “no personal attacks”. However, here you blatantly are admitting that you are making a personal attack. You also have contradicted yourself repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:51 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/3nc70xp1nkdf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b64a4da97c8843470555cd9cb2e3c477cb5d7c73 First of all, you accused me of spamming you when I simply reply to your comments. When I called this out, you said it’s “horseshit”. When I showed you proof that you accused me of spamming you, you called it “trolling”. Now you’re accusing me of spamming you AGAIN despite angrily and enthusiastically (as evidenced by cursing) denying the claim that you accused me of spamming. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:50 AM
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You also seem to give a big enough shit about Freud to keep discussing him all day for someone who insists no one cares about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:44 AM
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Since you claim Freud is easy to criticize, why haven’t you criticized it? And I do criticize it. I acknowledge it’s bad right here. I simply say the truth: men do it worse and more frequently. https://preview.redd.it/pw2909u6mkdf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4aaed21a79cc586ff37ccfa6fa8e12c134fb4783
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:44 AM
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What a strange comment to make. Freud was very relevant around that time and she criticized him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:42 AM
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Why do you make personal attacks? I haven’t mentioned a single thing about you personally. You called it “horseshit” when I said you accused me of spamming. I posted proof that you accused me of spamming. Then you revert to insults when called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:41 AM
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As you said: Nobody gives a shit about Freud. As I say: Nobody gives a shit about the scum manifesto. Waayyyyyyyyy less people than Freud. https://preview.redd.it/gcqnbh9ljkdf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d5e7d690e1a65ebf9b935f30bb56b38e2df8256b
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:29 AM
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Nobody gives a shit about the scum manifesto. I cannot repeat this enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:28 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/dq0jkuo0jkdf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=54dc5c6e5beef59be0b4187da85f7cdacfae021e As you said, Freud is stupid BS that is easy to criticize. Therefore, the scum manifesto is also easy to criticize. As you said, nobody gives a shit about Freud. Therefore, EVEN FEWER PEOPLE GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THE SCUM MANIFESTO BECAUSE ITS AN UNKNOWN BOOK So just as Freud is unimportant to you and to humankind according to you. So is the scum manifesto.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:28 AM
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Well in 1967, he was extremely relevant and she reversed genders on what Freud said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:25 AM
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Nowhere did I defend her. You make a false accusation and then have zero evidence to defend your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:24 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/njge29sa9kdf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=339f43791a9d553fe30b7023bd5943c2b0f98685 Zero accountability. Zilch. Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:32 AM
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Yes they are like apes because they are less evolved. Keep defending him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:29 AM
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Keep defending hate. https://preview.redd.it/mzc8k9t67kdf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4aad036a3f698380696e9dc3d0d363551b6e34d0
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:20 AM
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You keep repeating the horseshit that I am defending the SCUM manifesto. Using your logic, you are defending Freud. Unless you want to admit that it was a false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:19 AM
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No it isn’t. You dismiss Freud’s importance even though he’s a world famous psychologist. You dismiss how awful the things he said are. You are defending him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:06 AM
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And keep carrying water for Freud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:03 AM
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Just as you dismiss the importance of Freud I dismiss the importance of the scum manifesto. Since he’s so unimportant, her parody is unimportant too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:03 AM
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You accuse me of spamming but then have made 5 comments so far. Interesting. I am not defending that woman either. Yet you falsely accuse me. Like begets like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:02 AM
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I clearly say he says women are less evolved and therefore closer to apes than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:58 AM
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It’s called “I can fix him”. Women are thought to say the same phrase with men who have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:57 AM
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Quote where I defend it. You quoting the manifesto is not me defending it. I simply said she flipped the genders on what Freud said and you defend Freud saying women are less evolved than men from apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:33 AM
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Yet you claim he claims we all evolved from apes. But he believes women are less evolved. Therefore more ape like than men. Keep justifying and defending this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:32 AM
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*Can you quote where I JUSTIFIED WHAT SHE SAID? YOU ARE QUOTING HER. AND SHE IS REWRITING FREUD You can’t. Zero accountability for your false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:31 AM
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Yes but he claims women are less evolved and more ape like. Keep defending this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:30 AM
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https://www.pbs.org/youngdrfreud/pages/perspectives_women.htm You keep denying it’s real. That is how you defend it. You accuse me of defending things on the basis that I said it’s a parody of Freud so you must also be defending it yourself. You completely dismiss the disgusting shit Freud said and insist that it’s not right to parody it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:30 AM
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And you defend Freud saying that women are less evolved from apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:44 AM
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First of all, that isn’t the only thing Freud said: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_envy Second of all, he said women were less evolved from Apes than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:43 AM
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Can you quote where I said what she said is justified?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:41 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/2clmjl6fpjdf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ec1666756e22760338cc27dbe25ac5e49a4acfcb I could do this all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:40 AM
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The Wikipedia page clearly says it was a parody of Freud and I showed you that Freud said similar shit like comparing women to apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:39 AM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-bejeezus-out-me/201512/10-things-about-sigmund-freud-youll-wish-you-hadnt-learned Freud said: Lesbianism is mental illness Women are like APES This (according to Sigmund) is because only men have moral sense. We all evolve from apes, so no human is born with it. But boys acquire morality through the castration complex—the fear that their fathers will emasculate them for their misbehavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:24 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/k3ppia2r3idf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cede6bbf79f7e9dfc6f42861ae206b852cd2e976 Yeah no this is hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:17 PM
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Except for I am not saying the same thing over and over. I address each and every one of your points. It looks like I proved you wrong and you’re trying to salvage your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:16 PM
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So when men argue that hatred of women is limited to hidden corners of the internet they are just being dismissive or ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:24 PM
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Because according to Wikipedia it is. And according to Wikipedia, she literally flipped the genders on Freud. Where is your outrage at Freud? And everyone knows who Freud is. No one knows who this woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:24 PM
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Responding to the comments you make is not spamming. If you don’t want to interact then don’t engage. Dont respond and then whine when I respond back and falsely accuse me of spamming.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:22 PM
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So you agree with me that the manosphere is mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:13 PM
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Where is the SPAMMING that you speak of? And I see that my comments all have more than 2 upvotes. Who is “everyone”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:04 PM
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No it’s not because her motivation was that she was mad that Warhol was supposedly not letting her publish her book
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:04 PM
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Not once did I defend the action. You are making false accusations to defend your agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:19 PM
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Per Wikipedia, it’s satire. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valerie_Solana She also didn’t try to kill Warhol because he was a man, but because she believed he was intervening in book publication. Remind me why you are reprimanding me for citing many examples of men on this forum and explaining that they are representatives of men on this forum, but you’re defending the ideology that this woman from the 60’s and 70’s represents the women of purple pill debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:58 AM
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Nope. You’re trying to bait me into witchunting .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:56 AM
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Just because a woman has a conventional job and looks normal doesn’t mean she magically is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:55 AM
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Of all, it isn’t downplaying and distracting. It’s holding men accountable. You claim men are victims of misandry, but I am explaining to you that men do much worse. For one lady that attempted to murder Andy Warhol in the 1970’s, we have a bunch of men who actually kill women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:55 AM
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Of course I haven’t had casual sex. I am not a degenerate. But it’s delusional to think that women who do have casual sex are all happily sharing the same man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:53 AM
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I mean the men here. Those are what you call examples. The majority of men here behave in this fashion. It’s delusional for you to think that I can link every single comment ever made here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:52 AM
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You asked me for examples, and I provided them. I am not going to get myself banned for witchunting for linking the comments. Furthermore, I have no idea who you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:04 AM
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Most homeless shelter beds are for men, and women’s domestic violence shelters always have along waiting list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:56 AM
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I didn’t defend it once. I merely pointed out that men do worse and at a greater magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:55 AM
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You’re dismissing male nature and its gravity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:55 AM
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Describing women as selfish and cruel and rejecting great and amazing men due to their self absorbed cruelty and hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:59 PM
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https://www.vice.com/en/article/incels-elliot-rodger-misogyny-far-right/ https://www.vice.com/en/article/jake-davison-plymouth-incel-blackpilled-loner-kills-5-in-uks-worst-mass-shooting-in-11-years/ For every woman that does this there are many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:59 PM
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They aren’t. Unless you want a woman like blue face’s baby mamas then go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:23 PM
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<image> Men bashing single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:32 PM
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<image> Here is a man claiming women want to share a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:22 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SCUM_Manifesto?wprov=sfti1 IT LITERALLY SAYS THIS IS SATIRE OR PARODY.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:20 PM
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<image> This man was angry when I said that he shouldn’t call women landwhales.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:19 PM
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Quote me where I say men are monolithic hivemind. I don’t. What I am saying is that IN GENERAL, men speak to us this way online. Harsh, hostile, and aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:18 PM
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He’s literally questioning that women aren’t having sex. He believes men aren’t having sex, but women are. Thats why he doesn’t say “oh that’s not really true that both men and women aren’t having sex”. He says “it’s not true that WOMEN are not having sex”. That’s because he believes women aren’t sleeping with the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:18 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKmznSDpoU0/ Friendly reminder that MEN are the ones bullying him on TikTok, and not women. This guy is famous on TikTok. MEN mock him and make fun of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:01 PM
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I meant casual relationships with a man who they know is in a relationship of some kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:29 PM
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Getting that the women simply said the men were attractive. Not anything else. And you also brazenly ignored that taken men wanted to pursue other women the most. https://preview.redd.it/j174a1at99df1.jpeg?width=1008&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=600fab5c96bdb32b649561fd90c1bf7092858ecb
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:35 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/x0op1jc529df1.jpeg?width=1206&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9828ddbd227fa0584ebeddcaec62f2a4f25ec4c0 First of all, you claim that women don’t care about you. It’s self victimization. Second of all, it is sexual harassment: https://www.sace.ca/learn/what-is-sexual-harassment/ Per this website, sexual harassment includes: Unwanted discussion of sexual topics So yes, it is actually worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:54 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/r618vaks19df1.jpeg?width=1008&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c7745678d43d9b5e405b07b819dda4f0db51b9ea You also brazenly ignore that attached men are more likely to want attached women. Why are the authors of this study asking attached people who they would pursue? Considering that way more attached men wanted other women than both single and stacked women, do you believe that these men are going to go out and cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:51 PM
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https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/read+it+and+weep It’s meant to call me a loser. Furthermore, https://preview.redd.it/237thndj19df1.jpeg?width=1269&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=88c0933916677a6d39406233d1a8fce43856d712 This doesn’t mean they wanted to break up the relationship the man was in. The author uses the term “poaching” but it literally just indicates that the woman finds the man more attractive. I have a few married male friends that I would want to pursue. But they are married, so I don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:50 PM
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That is an indirect personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:45 PM
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<image> Here is another typical male response. Why should we have sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:23 PM
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You speak disrespectfully, yet you claim that you’re a victim and that you can’t expect sympathy from women. It appears to me like you are dodging accountability. I called you out and men out, and you don’t have a good answer. So you decide to be shocking and disgusting by talking about mastrubation and then claiming I am taking your original comment, that you eagerly defended, too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:20 PM
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I didn’t say that. You lament and claim to be a victim because women aren’t sympathetic. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Vix665BbRJ Yet when presented with why women are not sympathetic: male cruelty, you dismiss and deflect. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:16 PM
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I didn’t say we are perfect. I said that the men here are aggressive and cruel. You’re deflecting and making excuses because you know I am right. It’s very hard to have sympathy when this is the male outlook here. This is from like 5-10 mins ago. <image> You guys want to bully and “pwn” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:12 PM
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Here is the study, which you did not link me to. I had to search for it. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0022103109001048 This study was a survey done in 2009 on university students for school credit. The women simply said “yes I would want to date this man” more often when the guy was labeled as married or in a relationship. The authors of the study claim this is “mate poaching”, but the study doesn’t let me read the questions they asked. Saying “oh yeah he seems like a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:10 PM
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<image> It’s not that we don’t care. It’s that you guys speak to us this way. This is not your comment. But this is a typical PPD male response. He didn’t like that I said he shouldn’t call women “whales”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:54 PM
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No one is manipulating you. It’s called accountability. You cannot complain about how women are superficial and bitchy when you engage in superficial and bitchy (MEAN) behavior yourself. You aren’t a victim. You are a bully. And you’re projecting yourself onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:53 PM
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I feel bad for men who struggle to date. But women are also struggling. Most American women are not young or thin enough to be attractive to most American men. Men don’t want to admit this and get angry but then these same men complain about how fat American women are and how women expire after 30. A lot of the men here claim to be good men who are simply lonely, but then are abrasive, hostile, aggressive, and downright cruel. They enjoy taunting women and putting them down. Examples off of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:51 PM
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I feel bad for men who struggle to date. But women are also struggling. Most American women are not young or thin enough to be attractive to most American men. Men don’t want to admit this and get angry but then these same men complain about how fat American women are and how women expire after 30. A lot of the men here claim to be good men who are simply lonely, but then are abrasive, hostile, aggressive, and downright cruel. They enjoy taunting women and putting them down. Examples off of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:50 PM
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Link me the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:40 PM
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The red pill and manosphere is mainstream. These may be the “bottom dregs” but it’s also a huge portion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:38 PM
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Believing most or a sizable portion of women want to share one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:37 PM
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How disgusting to think most of a sizable portion of women actively want to pursue married men or men who have a relationship already. And knowingly, not unknowingly. Then you guys expect us to feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:35 PM
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Well there you go. You don’t feel sympathy for women and believe they are naive (aka dumb). So why should we feel anything for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:19 PM
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So you want sympathy for men’s trials and tribulations but then make a disgusting claim that women are all sharing the same men (either intentionally or being stupidly deceived). Then you dismiss what a woman says by saying “you’re a woman”. Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:19 PM
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You expect us to be sympathetic to men’s situation, then make the disgusting claim that the majority, or at least a significantly large portion of women, are all having sex with the same men and either are happy to be cheated on, enjoy casual relationships, or are too dumb to realize they are being cheated on. If you want sympathy, don’t mix it with false accusations and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:17 PM
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Then don’t make some snarky statement about how women don’t have a moral code
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:46 PM
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<image> It’s an attack on her character.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:36 PM
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