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| 1 | Anyone else feel like they’re walking on eggshells when texting with girls? One wrong text and she’s done with you...If you think that | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 02:01 AM |
| 1 | MomentumJust always be gaming chicks. Skill comes from practice. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Where do I go from here?That's another thing I met here through work and I have a date sorted this week but don't know many of her colleagues or freinds | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Where do I go from here?The thing is I think she just broke up with her ex but don't know for sure how can i find this out with while not being to pushy | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Where do I go from here?Thanks dude just an update I went out drinking with one of the other girls. and sat there and really thought about it when I got home. I managed to organize a meet up I've promised her a surprise and we agreed to meet later this week I didn't call her and she seems keen! | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 11:11 PM |
| 2 | I finally got enough eggs for it!To early man you said it yourself | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Weird thing happened when I stopped oneitisFair I mean just stop till you want to pursue. Maybe make some more girl freinds | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Weird thing happened when I stopped oneitisStop fapping | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 02:08 PM |
| 14 | Has anyone around 19 hooked up with a cougar? How did you do it?I went traveling at 19, I was in Amsterdam at the time. and looking for some things to do; staying in a hostel not to far from center. I had met some adults that had been to a concert and smoked loads of weed with them. The next day they met up with another bunch. There's this really hot milf, didn't really say much at first. We headed to gay pride as it was on and partied I smoked a few joint with her and asked questions. She seemed cold but at one point we were watching boats go under the brid… | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl I friendzoned will be at the same party as me.She wants it really bad regect her and get with another girl there's nothing more attractive than having a girl crave you | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies attract the most girls?It is if your good | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 12:49 PM |
| 3 | What hobbies attract the most girls?You are right in your explanation of my post | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 10:19 PM |
| 3 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".But It can't hurt right | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 09:50 AM |
| 1 | What are your favorite seduction resources?Old simple pickup videos | /r/seduction | 16/07/16 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Never getting past two weeks2 weeks to date is long for some gurls if your not escalating she will become disintrested | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 10:15 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ill be there for 6, 6 okay yeah, we still on for 6 yeah? See you at 6 starbucks oka yeah 6 10 at star bucks. Are you there nearly in gunna be there in 10 for 6 yeah??? | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Feet to the fire: 30-day challengeUpdate??? | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Here's a compilation of the best techniques to overcome approach anxiety with womenJust the principle of Acting before you think | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Pull Any Girl! The 5 Psychological Triggers To Close The Deal Every NightI wonder if he genuinely beleives that the girl will never forget there experience | /r/seduction | 02/05/16 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Four months going out to bars. Still nervous/self-conscious out at bars.That feeling never goes away dude it gets easier to deal with but always there. You will never get any results if you dont try to achieve tthemset a goal and do it. Don't beat yourself up about it were all different and have fear problems etc but don't be your own worst enemy you will be fine keep at it!! | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 11:05 PM |
| 2 | How to beat the "competition"?also don't get jealous because when you do it will rub of on the girl she will notice it | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How to beat the "competition"?dont beat the competition, BE the competition | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Stuck in deep friendzone: I need help escalating with this friend who started seeing a guy.come on to her a little heavy make her guy Friend sound like a doush than flirt with other girs when you get shut down | /r/seduction | 26/01/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Stuck in deep friendzone: I need help escalating with this friend who started seeing a guy.let her know that you're into her don't hide behind it be the man | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 10:25 PM |
| 1 | What more can i offer! ?And for you, I think you think your really smart but are not. I'm not great with punctuation I'm so sorry. And in 20 study maths and physics at university. on my beside table is a copy of faringhight 451 my credit score is shitty properly? I'm not amazingly good looking and I have good taste in fashion don't have a tailor tho. I'm looking for a girl who I have a connection with whos got a rich personality and not to serious she has a good sence of humor becasue i think thats attactive. I read th… | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 07:47 PM |
| 1 | What more can i offer! ?Firstly I would say that that calling a community who is based on the improvement of sexual gain and self-help "sub-par" is generalizing. Speak for yourself i know I'm far from perfect; that's not to say I didn't come in over confident i apologize | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 07:23 PM |
| 2 | What to say to set up the date?call them then ? | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What to say to set up the date?hey would you like to go on a date with me, or suggest something that you could do together dont make it to far away from the intital set up main cause of flakes | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Girl hasn't made any effort to talk to me. Now what?i think that you should call the girl an arrange something or just talk your on the right path. don't expect her to contact you but don't try too hard. its easyer to get laid when your a virgin in my opinion if you tell a girl your a virgin she will be interested in that | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Have any of you ruined a date by trying to hard?thanks man i will read it over. i thikn that maybe it could be that i focused the conversation on me a bit to much im not always like that just with this specific girl, i think if a simmer occurrence happens i will get the girl to talk about her self more. i feel now that its important to get the girl to come to her own realizations for her interest in me rather than feeding them to her if you catch my drift. | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 12:39 AM |
| 2 | FR: Went out sober; had a blast!i always find going out sober or only a few drinks has lots of benefits it can be good for you as well if your confident with it it reinforces your attitude to pick up it dosent mattter that you didnt pull what matters is that you moved foward !! | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | HELP! going to a party with loads of hot chicksany good openers you got at hand ? | /r/seduction | 31/12/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | HELP! going to a party with loads of hot chicksthanks dude what would you recommend for the nerves | /r/seduction | 31/12/15 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Facebook game please helpgood profile picture intresting content. not hard | /r/seduction | 31/12/15 07:11 PM |
| 3 | New Years Eve - First year of approachesall the best man im in a simmer situation tonight just stay high energy and learn from you mistakes, an no matter how hot she is theres always another shot ! happy new year !! | /r/seduction | 31/12/15 07:09 PM |
| 2 | [Question] When do you make contact after first date/ organize second?Rember that time before technology where you had to do that ? If you think it makes you desperate it will make you desperate. Do what you please I love going to people's houses and knocking for them when they don't expect it some of the many reactions I have got. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Quick question about dancing.Your showing that your attracted to her she will most likely take as a complement. | /r/seduction | 17/11/15 02:13 AM |
| 0 | [FR] F-Close Octoberfest weekendGood report would just like to know some more about abundance also how is it effective an a tale of t not working | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Finally went out alone for the first time. Any tips on going from dancing to talking and escalating?UPDATE How did it go after did you improve ? | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or DAE have a hard time applying seduction theory into practice, even though you agree with it and totally *get* why it works?I had a similar situation that I went though I used to watch all sorts of pick up videos but never be able to preform what I was learning. One day I meet this girl at the bus stop I just clicked and thought it won't do any harm to try and apply this (like I had done before with no results) and we just clicked I felt like I could say anything and I didn't care about the outcome. At this moment I realised with persistence and failure I wouldn't of got this far. The problem with you is that you don… | /r/seduction | 24/02/15 11:52 PM |
| 25 | 5 natural, playful openers for guys who hate canned linesWow dude this is gold. Well written and some great ideas! Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 24/02/15 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Trouble expanding social circleFind someone else who can get you invited | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Trouble expanding social circleHe is not your good friend then period | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Trouble expanding social circleMake friends with his friends aswell not just the kid your hanging with all the time and he doesn't sound like a very good friend by not getting you invited, but you must remember he feels the same as you so he might not have any pull with the party good luck | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 01:51 AM |
| 2 | The state of r/Seduction.I agree with you but how is having a go at the community going to fix things ? Your right that the quality of posts have got worse and worse people dropping to talking about there low level problems like not getting tinder dates or doing like one approach and horribly miss understanding simple things. But the people like us will sit here and complain but that's not productive or helping the community the best we can do for now is utilise the stuff that's good on here still while providing qualit… | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 01:47 AM |
| 1 | What to do when remembering her name comes off as seeming too strong?Don't focus on the name to much go up and be like do I know you ? And then guess her name. If executed correctly she will be intrigued that you can remember her name, which means something must of made you remember! | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Finally went out alone for the first time. Any tips on going from dancing to talking and escalating?No problem dude I better see that fr!! | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Past kino, need something else!Good for you. You have learnt a brilliant lesson today. You know that you should of kissed her and got your self to a more confutable state with her next time go for the kiss! For some timing the kiss put your face near hers look her in the eyes and go for it | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you get a girl with social anxiety out of her bubble?If you want to follow through with having sex with this girl get her to your house or hers when the moments right, don't let her push you into something you don't want to do, I can draw this from personal experience men need to be treated with respect as well not just woman. But if you let this experience go to waste you will regret and never forget it so it's up to you. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Finally went out alone for the first time. Any tips on going from dancing to talking and escalating?I would say if your drinking offer her one from the bar, or if it's not that sort of setting dance with others but keep an eye on her when you see her resting go and do the approach, if you have a little AA then I would think of something to say before hand like a complement about her dancing or something funny. Good luck looking forward to the fr !! | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Finally went out alone for the first time. Any tips on going from dancing to talking and escalating?Dancing is a very passionate thing for a lady and the kino will be getting her aroused. I would recommend try slipping in a couple words when dancing then it won't be so daunting to speak to her when you see her later or off the dance floor. Personally If I find a girl who I can dance well with I have found the right girl for me because of that original attraction of seeing and dancing with her and the emotional connection from the connectivity in the dance good luck ! | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 01:08 AM |
| 2 | No response to my next-day text after a great time at a party. What gives?How long have you known her if you meet her that night try sending an interesting text or something flirty. Don't just skip to the date; even though that's the end goal your trying to spark a response. Try to occupy your self with somthing worth your time and if she won't reply call her a day later. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 01:02 AM |
| 2 | How do I become a good wingman?A nice example of a wing. You see to girls one really hot and her ugly friend, you know that if you approach them her ugly freind will be in your way. So what my wing did was go straight up to the ugly one asked her if she wanted a drink or a dance leaving me the perfect opitunity to approach the hot girl. | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Should I risk getting with an attention seeker?I think hit it an quit it, she may spread lots of rumours than use them to your advantage you need to fuck her really well so that she tells all her friends then when it's all around school yeah you guessed it time to quit it. Now every one she gossips to wants to fuck you ! Win win | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 12:03 AM |
| 1 | When girls don't respond after setting up a dateYour right as well look at it like you have drawn a line of how far you will be pushed "3 chances" she will try to over step this to see if your a push over | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 05:11 PM |
| 2 | How important is "social value"?This guy gets it. In no way is it all about getting laid that just comes as a benefit from being a socially interactive person, who has the power to do an say what they want! | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 11:37 PM |
| 3 | When girls don't respond after setting up a dateYou should call her on the friday at about 2 pm this is a smart move because if she is truly into (like it sounds) then she will be waiting for your call the longer you leave it the more she will think about you or the date, don't leave it to long though good luck buddy. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | I need to meet new friends and more girls. [17/M]Hey man I can understand where you are coming form I had a similar situation when I was at your age I had my own little sub culture with mates we had a few girls in it though. Now what I would recommend is becoming friends with a girl from a good group and try to get a relationship you friends will want the same so will date girls in the same group thus creating a new group. But before you try to her something going like this your going to have to meet some girls. How to do this you ask, speak t… | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes you have to play hardball...You need to demonstrate value not disappear, if you hide for two months she's gunna be drawn to the other guy. Because well I'm guessing she has a sexual relationship with the other guy and not you. Your going to have to one up this asshole. I get that you have a connection with her that's valuable to you and her but she's tied in the middle you said it yourself "50/50" dont sit back and watch this go to waste. Why haven't you arranged a date as well I doubt she wants to sit In her work room and… | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 12:48 AM |
| 0 | Where to bring her back for the close when living with a host family?cant you bring a girl back while she is sleeping and sneak her out in the morning? hell you could even grab breakfast if it goes well. | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 09:20 PM |
| 1 | 2015's Official 30 Day Challenge Mega-Threadim going to start this on the 15th i have my 30 day calender already! | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to get her to "tell it to me straight" without coming off as a crazy person? Or am I just a crazy person?We live in a society of instant gratification. She most likely wanted a one time thing or to have someone there to satisfy her when she needs it, don't be to pushy. If your into her let her know in a subtle way but don't bombard her with texts keep your options wide an vast. | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 02:03 AM |
| 2 | What to do when you are pursuing two girls and they happen to both be at the same get-together?This guys right though unless you want to keep them separate, you should have them get Jealous of each other, this will show witch one wants you more. It's that throw up of confrontation that will push them towards you. it's now who can do the best not,do you meet my standards. Good luck happy hunting . | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 01:57 AM |
| 2 | How do you make hard to get girl more "open"?Dont forget to be confident and charming, try to catch her looking at you. and let me know how it goes ! | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 10:37 PM |
| 4 | 2015's Official 30 Day Challenge Mega-Threadi think we should have a sub Reddit for it and every 30 days we try to get new people, also they should have a few challenges a day getting progressively harder and have to post proof of compleated challenges! | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Would you guys be interested in a 2015 30-day challenge thread?are we going to set up a page ? | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 10:27 PM |
| 4 | How do you make hard to get girl more "open"?Sometimes you meet a girl that is hot and as a seducer of the community you want to talk to her. But the problem is you can't get much from her not being able to build the rapport up so you can start interaction on a deeper level. The key to getting her to respond well is to neg her just say something like "is your personality as good looking as your nails" or you could tease after a bit of Conversation with something like "it's cute how your nose wobbles when you laugh" these sorts of negs are … | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | (Advice needed!) Meeting her sober for the first timeBuild an axe to chop down the rest of her barrier woodsman. But in all seriousness you should keep meeting try to keep her occupied, if is is having a hard time trusting guys make her feel safe and secure around you. See her because you want to not because you feel like you have too! | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 09:45 PM |
| 1 | I fucking hate textingThe best approach to take would be to go for the call; in the past i have had trouble with trying to get girls to follow though meeting me, the solution you ask? CALL HER this will provide you with lots 'n' lots of advantages when setting up a date, for example: you will be able to hear her, you can now scout for whether she is telling you a lie. It will also make it more intimate and give you a better indication of how she is flowing with the convo you two are having, and if she actually wants … | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on girl whom i've made some progress with but unsure.Is there any proof of this other guy being real ? She might off told you this and is finding it hard to get of her chest. As for the not starting convos maybe she dosent know what to say or she might be slightly shy. Good luck anyway! | /r/seduction | 14/01/14 01:05 AM |
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