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| 12 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill... | Basic Question | Quarter_Century_Club | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 01:26 AM |
| 7 | Confusing Bedroom Situation | Basic Question | Quarter_Century_Club | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 02:25 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill Sexting | Basic Question | Quarter_Century_Club | /r/askMRP | 02/12/15 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Junior First Mate Drama & A Burned Out Wife | Quarter_Century_Club | /r/askMRP | 13/01/16 03:11 AM | |
| 5 | [FR] Making Good Progress | Quarter_Century_Club | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/15 11:50 AM | |
| 4 | Stronglifts 5x5 Help | Quarter_Century_Club | /r/askMRP | 17/02/16 11:39 PM | |
| 0 | Single Best Red Pill Starting Point? | Quarter_Century_Club | /r/askMRP | 24/11/15 08:01 PM |
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| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 Help1 - I've been dirty bulking and getting at least +500 kcal a day for several months now. My tracking and hitting macros hasn't been great though. Too many carbs for sure. 2 - Thanks. I'll check it out. 3 - I get 7-8 hours every day no matter what. Sleep has been very consistent for me. 4 - My shoulders have always been weak so I expected OHP to be a motherfucker. I'll check on the fractional plates. 5 - That BF % is based on calipers + body tape measurements. Could be a bit higher. Definitely re… | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 HelpI did the deload a few times and even at 3x5 I'm finding it very, very difficult to squat 200 with correct Form. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 Help220 is where I'm at on my progression. I can probably go #300 without an issue. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 HelpThanks for that info. Just to clarify, my DL hasn't stalled. 220 is where I'm at right now in my progression and I could probably get up to 300. Same with the bench, I can probably go a little further before a deload. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Stronglifts 5x5 HelpThanks for the suggestion. I've been doing them with thin socks or sometimes barefoot, which has been better for me than sneakers. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 HelpEverything I read about SL said you should only do the base program 3 days a week. I never say anything about accessory work. Are you suggesting I do that work on rest days? | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 HelpWhat website/template would you recommend as a starting point? | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 HelpMy form is great on the way down but after going below parallel, I have a very difficult time keeping the knees tracked and my back bends unnaturally as I slowly struggle back up. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 HelpEarly on I was doing pullups and dips on my MWF schedule but have mostly been doing just SL with no accessory. This week I started doing HIIT on Tu/Thurs. Nothing on weekends. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/16 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Thank you. No really, THANK YOU.Well done, brother! I'm a newbie in a struggling marriage and this is a great motivational post. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/02/16 01:00 PM |
| 4 | Quite possibly the nadir of Beta moldingIf I recall correctly, doesn't NMMNG reference WWII as essentially the beginning of that decline. Millions of fathers were lost during the war and this is when women gained much more value/status in society, which ultimately led us to our current predicament. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 01:27 PM |
| 0 | Can dread game work on somebody with extreme body image issues?Downgrade her to a plate. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 01:23 PM |
| 6 | I want to swallow the pill, but...If you don't like the nature of the forums then take note of the sidebar reading and get the fuck out. Was that hostile enough? There are several reasons for the "hostility". First, swallowing the red pill is very difficult for some and instead of swallowing, they'll taste it, hide it under their tongue, spit it back out, break it in half and over analyze the contents, etc. while they continue to pussy foot around with their blue pill ways.This people need the red pill but don't have the stones … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the budI was having difficulties with this as well and these helped me better understand the concept. http://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ Blue Pill Professor's video series https://youtu.be/ViICmjx2kVo (Also watch the next Vid - #4) | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 01:57 AM |
| 2 | FR, progress from noob and a beard shit test.My favorite quote of the night from her was "that's the kind of stuff you do in high school, not with your husband". So I just stared at her, then she blinked and said "I just heard that in my head, sounded pretty bad, huh?". Uh, yup. Just proves how far I have to go. The other day my wife and I are driving and I had Pandora on. It played a few hip hop classics from the 90s that are highly sexual and ones we both have always enjoyed listening to. I start casually leading the conversation towards… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 08:01 PM |
| 2 | FR, progress from noob and a beard shit test.This is the first I've heard of mojo upgrade and it sounds like an interesting tool if introduced in the right way. How'd you find out about it? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 02:15 PM |
| 2 | FR, progress from noob and a beard shit test.That is equally fascinating and maddening. It shows just how different our genders are. If I tell my wife, I like her jacket it's because I genuinely like the jacket. If my wife says I like your jacket, she genuinely hates the jacket and would rather I wear the other jacket that she said she hates because she actually loves that jacket. Mind = blown. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/16 02:09 PM |
| 1 | My context, and what is the interpretation of some important tests from my wife?So you're in a LDR with a "decent women" who only wants you for kids. That scenario couldn't be any more blue pill. | /r/askMRP | 15/01/16 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Vent/ VomitThis sub is as safe as it gets on the interwebs. The username is not tied to an email, the page automatically logs out after x minutes, etc. Only visit on your phone (incognito) and close the tab after every visit. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/16 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts On Bring Your Own LunchI've been bringing my lunch (and all other food) for years and it's so a win in so many ways. This week my daily menu is basically: Breakfast - Protein Shake AM Snack - Beef Jerky + Hummus w/Carrots Lunch - Salad w/Chicken and Hard Boiled Eggs PM Snack - Soup (Split Pea w/Ham this week) Dinner - Roasted Turkey Sandwich PM Snack - Oats Cereal w/ Milk, Nuts & Honey All of these snacks/meals are easy to throw together and a good balance of protein, carbs and fat. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/16 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Seeing "The Oldest Teenager in the house" in the fleshFunny, my wife said something similar like "you'd probably just blow through all the money". I haven't been the most financially responsible husband but blowing through millions of dollars (or in this hundreds of millions) is quite a fucking Grand Canyon-esque leap. I responded with "I'd put it all on black to double my winnings." She eyerolled and walked off. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Junior First Mate Drama & A Burned Out WifeDo you even lift, bro? Focus on the quality of time you spend with your 2 year old daughter, not the quantity of time. Are you following the Love and Logic parenting program, or something else? I do lift, bro. I'm 8 weeks into Stronglifts. As for parenting, I'm not following any program and have been winging it. Is Love & Logic the recommended resource for RP fathers? | /r/askMRP | 14/01/16 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Junior First Mate Drama & A Burned Out WifeYes, I am scared of my wife because she can be psychotic at times and I've dealt with varying degrees of emotional abuse over the decade we've been together. I'm working on changing these feelings and altering by behavior per the sidebar. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/16 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Junior First Mate Drama & A Burned Out WifeYou know what? With me they do. Why do they ask their mom? Because they know they can. Your scenario is us to a T. I'm the disciplinarian who sets boundaries while my wife is weaker and more likely to cater to her to avoid crying and tantrums. This is an area we need a lot of work on. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/16 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Junior First Mate Drama & A Burned Out WifeMy wife has had a few work trips and gone out a few times like this and after a few mins of crying, she's fine. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/16 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Junior First Mate Drama & A Burned Out WifeWhat's interesting is my daughter is usually very calm with me when we're alone. My wife has put her to bed just about every day since she first came home and over time, my daughter has cried more hysterically when Mom tries to leave the room. Recently we switched it up where Mom does all the reading before bed and I come in as the closet to get her down. As soon as my daughter sees me she stops crying, gets settled in and goes right to sleep. Not a peep after that where before she'd flip out (h… | /r/askMRP | 13/01/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Junior First Mate Drama & A Burned Out WifeIf you want to break her out of that mom phase, show your daughter that you are actually FUN to be around. Do shit with her. Devote attention to her. Play with her. Be fun for her. I'm already doing those things and I know my daughter enjoys being around me. Most of the issues are when we're together and Mom is around. I'm not sure if you are initiating while your toddler is running around awake, or you are doing it when she's napping or in bed at night. I only initiate when she's sleeping or aw… | /r/askMRP | 13/01/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Junior First Mate Drama & A Burned Out WifeAgreed. That's a win for all of us and I'll start some Outings asap. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/16 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Junior First Mate Drama & A Burned Out WifeMy wife is definitely over attached and always caving in to demands. I need to start taking her out more by myself and it's something simple and obvious that I hadn't really thought much about. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/16 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Junior First Mate Drama & A Burned Out WifeWe do the same. She goes to bed at 8 and sleeps through the night most of the time. That's not the issue. It's the hours before bed and throughout the week that I'm referring to in my post. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/16 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Just found the red pillLift, read and STFU for the first few months while you digest the material and slowly begin to unplug. The sidebar is your Bible and you should take notes while you plow through it all. There's going to be A LOT of anger and rage and a temptation at times to go full retard and completely nuke your relationship. That may end up happening but don't be the jackass that does it immediately before even grasping the full scope of your situation. Take your time and use Ask MRP for all your noobs questi… | /r/askMRP | 13/01/16 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Question on wife cheatingYou deserve better. Next her immediately and put all your time, energy and resources in bettering yourself and your kids' lives. | /r/askMRP | 10/01/16 02:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Another day in paradiseGreat hamster quoting right there! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 07:33 PM |
| 2 | How important is own social life outside of marriage?Good post and something I'm presently struggling with as well. I've always been introverted with a small social circle and am having trouble figuring out a plan to find new friends. I lost my way years ago and friends/hobbies went out the window. My schedule now is I wake up at 5am, workout in my basement gym, get ready for work, work 8 hours, dinner, a little time with family, sleep around 9. That's M-F every week. I suppose I'd have to cut sleep short to make the time for socializing. | /r/askMRP | 07/01/16 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I unplugged. I'm 34 years old and feel reborn. My observations...OK, will do. Thanks for that and for all your RP contributions. Incredibly helpful. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I unplugged. I'm 34 years old and feel reborn. My observations...Read through all the 'Approved & Mods' post history. Where would I find this? Didn't see it on the sidebar or in the search results. Thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Nice guy husband frustrates wife in bed.Can you elaborate on this? First time I've heard of doing it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Nice guy husband frustrates wife in bed.Watch a movie with light spanking degrading etc..... 50 Shades of Grey would be a good example. Terrible storyline and characters but varying levels of BDSM that she could comment on to drive the point home to this guy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Some sort of Illness or Injury or general not feeling well every dayThere should be an official red pill name for this phenomenon. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Broke frame big time... Dont think theres a way back after this one...Great idea! | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Broke frame big time... Dont think theres a way back after this one...Just because the sex is frequent, she's flirty and she talks to you doesn't mean the relationship is strong. Shes just working on her game with you so she can land that Chad Thundercock. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Broke frame big time... Dont think theres a way back after this one...And remember, she's not yours, it's just your turn with her. Also, AWALT. Have you already read The Rational Male - Year One? | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 03:33 AM |
| 4 | Broke frame big time... Dont think theres a way back after this one...The texting and whatever other behavior you're paranoid about are side effects of what I quoted from your post. You need to provide more detail about the backstory of your failing marriage so we know the context. Why is Rocky? Why did you break up? Why is she moving out? Those are giant fucking elephants in the room and you're busy asking questions about the damaged furniture. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 03:07 AM |
| 11 | Broke frame big time... Dont think theres a way back after this one...Silly me. Of course it's just banter and there's nothing at all going on behind your back with Luke Cockwalker or whoever else this bitch is giggle texting. I mean it's not like there's any reason AT ALL to be concerned here. So wife and I have been rocky for the last year. Shes broken up with me a few times and is not wearing her wedding ring. Also she is moving out in January for 6 months. You know what, forget I commented and shove your head back up your ass. You're clearly not ready for the … | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 02:23 AM |
| 11 | Broke frame big time... Dont think theres a way back after this one...Best case scenario is she's emotionally cheating. Worst case is she's riding his light saber on the weekends. It sounds as though she's going to move on. You need to prepare yourself by immediately beginning a lifting regimen (stronglifts, starting strength, etc.) and reading the Married Red Pill sidebar material. Mindful Action Plan is on there and I would suggest starting with that asap. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 01:44 AM |
| 3 | You never say "sorry"You need to read Mindful Action Plan immediately. You're in a toxic relationship and this woman is a walking mass of negativity that is killing your energy in so many ways. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 01:36 AM |
| 0 | Dad's Wife No RespectYou need to get him on TRP. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Plate dropped, came back, weird textIsaac was slaying mad pussy in his time. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | doing fuck all the entire day. life is spiralling out of control.Why don't you have a job? Why aren't you in school? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 05:30 PM |
| 4 | When should you apologize to a girl if you were in the wrong?You can use "mistakes were made" but no outright apologies. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Is sex really that good?Sex is worth it but shouldn't be your goal. You need to focus 100% of your energy on becoming a better Man. Start lifting heavy (you won't become "buff"), which will help you get Lean and lose fat. Looks can't be changed without extreme measures so instead focus on your wardrobe and have a good set of skin care products to keep your face clean. Lastly, read the sidebar material and start looking into joining local clubs/groups that you share interest with. Then, in a few months you can look back… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 02:43 PM |
| 2 | How to manages divorce, plates, time and be with my son?He's 14 and close to (if not already) going through puberty, discovering sex, getting oneitis, etc. Do you plan on introducing him to red pill concepts at some point? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Shit test interpretationBecause it is better for reasons you won't understand until you pull your head out of your ass. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Please speak sense into me, I think my girlfriend is a slutNo condom and cum inside her?? Uh...no. If she's okay with you doing that so quickly imagine how many other dudes have busted it up raw. No fucking thank you. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill SextingRight and I prepared myself for that outcome. I'll keep the texting to a minimum and stick to face to face Initiation. | /r/askMRP | 04/12/15 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Just a couple of quick questions about marriage/childrenDon't get married, don't have kids. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 09:22 PM |
| 1 | analyze: win or loss? [trick question]Nice! Doesn't get more direct than that. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Alphas: What's your opinion on Trump?It's fun watching the RNC be so uncomfortable and unable to control their leading candidate. He's unstoppable. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Don't try to manipulate your wifeSince I have become a more attractive, interesting, and positive person, she would rather fuck me than watch reality TV. That's one of my primary goals in the relationship. Our DVR capacity is damn near maxed out from my wife's reality shows yet she (used to) complains and gets overly emotional about there not being enough time in the day for anything. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill SextingThat's the kind of stuff I'd like to get during the day. I'll keep building my game and text game and see where it leads. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/15 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Sexting...as opposed to setting up arranged sex for later in the day or saying "I'm going to do X to you tonight". Leave it open ended so maybe it will happen today, tomorrow, on your lunch break. I've never had real success trying to get her worked up with the time and place already stated. I agree as a general principle. In my case, my wife tends to bog herself down in the morning and at night with small (Non urgent) tasks so I want her to know that tonight is for me and told her some of what I'm goi… | /r/askMRP | 02/12/15 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill SextingI'm going to try that next. Thanks for the suggestion. My wife works a few minutes away and I'd ultimately like to progress to a quick midday rendezvous. Have a ways to go first. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/15 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill SextingPoints taken. I'll try that if/when we get to that point. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill SextingThanks for the reply. I'm keeping it vague and opened ended for the most part but also letting her know that I plan on cavemanning her tonight or tomorrow morning. I also want her to understand that my drive is high all day (especially porn/fapping free) and sex needs to happen often - as long as my SMV and owning my shit are in order. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Cowboy Up, this stuff worksI was being sarcastic. It's all good though - I understand your point and appreciate your responses throughout RP. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 05:52 PM |
| 3 | What is an alpha way to ask for nudes?A million times this. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Cowboy Up, this stuff worksWow, thanks. That really cleared it up for me. I'm putting in the work and effort to own my shit but it's helpful to also get some detailed FRs to see what is working/not working for other RPers. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Lets define frame.Shit Test Encyclopedia This gives a solid explanation of frame. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Most important things to keep in mind?Stop being a lazy fuck and commit to studying/learning the concepts. Get a notebook or Word Doc and take notes each time you read. Then make a cheat sheet of all the most critical points. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you read a book?I started a Red Pill Bible in word. Anytime I read a RP article or book, I take notes and highlight important points. It's 46 pages / 15k words so far. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Erection Problem With Plate - Losing SMV?This x1000. Quitting porn/fapping will absolutely fix this problem. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Losing interest in womenYou sound like a good candidate for MGTOW. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Tinder F-close, how can I do this?Skip the coffee and just get her to your place. Don't overthink it. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Cowboy Up, this stuff worksMore details about how you turned it around would be helpful for us noobs. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Cowboy Up, this stuff worksI came. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok to like older girls?30 | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok to like older girls?It's pointless. These women are prewall and in your age group. Of course you pursue them. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 02:47 AM |
| 1 | "Natural" Alphas: How do you think your life has differed from "Learned" Alphas?Fair points and I understand that mindset. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Asked a girl to hang out, she told me she "has standards". How do I get over feeling shitty about this lmao?Obviously this chick is a low life and you have no reason to seriously pursue her so have fun with it. "I realize I'm way above your standards but I could make an exception if you persuade me." "Standards?! (laugh hysterically) "Yeah me too but once in a while I like to fuck low life bitches. Whatcha doing later tonight?" "Good to know all those dudes you're railing are meeting your standards. See ya later." "(Ignore her response and change the subject to something ridiculous.) Etc. You need to … | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 09:30 PM |
| 1 | is this oneitisDefinitely spend all your time and energy trying to bag this HB6, bro. Those high school girls with average faces and nice bods are so hard to come by and who knows when you'll EVER get another chance at one. Buy her flowers, sing a love song, talk to her constantly and make sure she knows how in love you are with her. She's the one, don't let her slip away!!! It's all riding on her!!! You're 17, with all of this insanely valuable Red Pill knowledge and you're tripping over yourself for this ave… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Is it ok to like older girls?I am a little bit weird about it, as I'm not into cougars per se, but I'm kind of interested in girls born between '87 and '90. So, you're going after those MUCH OLDER 26-28 year old girls. Is this a troll thread? | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Asked a girl to hang out, she told me she "has standards". How do I get over feeling shitty about this lmao?This was a shit test and you folded immediately. Where's your frame? Where's your AA/AM? You let her little words crush you? What was your exact verbal response and body language when she said that? | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 08:51 PM |
| 1 | "Natural" Alphas: How do you think your life has differed from "Learned" Alphas?Yeah, you're in the minority unless we're talking about some REALLY low SMV pussy. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How do i stop wanting to find someone while in monk mode so that i can work out my sh!t.Thanks. A typo on my part. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Random girl added me on fb?LMAO! She might be an ISIS operative! | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 06:29 PM |
| 1 | biggest shit test I've ever gottenYou didn't post a summary and TL:DR. Fail. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Need red pill advice on gameRejection is better than Regret. (Book of Pook) If you want this girl, go get her. Why are you basing decisions on what anyone else on your life feels, wants or says? They're not you and aren't affected by the consequences of your action or inaction in your love life. Go get her. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Abundance? Or Quality?Women would rather share a high value man than be saddled by a loser (Rollo). You'll have better success with those 9/10s when they know you have other options in play. If you appear to be single and waiting for a unicorn, you'll have a more difficult time landing the 9. Like others said, spin a bunch of plates, keep pursuing better quality, etc. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 04:48 PM |
| 2 | How to proceed/escalate from this point?Hotel room. Should be one on every corner since you live in the busiest city on Earth. Or, find a way to get the aunt of the house for a few hours to get some alone time. The bottom line is if you truly want to fuck this girl, you'll stop making excuses and get it done. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 04:43 PM |
| 2 | The Timing and Buildup of Initiating Sexual ActivityLooks like it's kindle only. Does a hard copy exist? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 04:40 PM |
| 2 | I'm a fucking nobody at my office. Not good with work. Coworkers show they like me and all, but I get played all the time. Please help.Give some examples. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 03:09 PM |
| 1 | How. To. Stop. Caring.Is she a unicorn that shit rainbows? No? Okay, then next her and move on. Every second of dwelling on a missed opportunity is a missed opportunity to plate a new chick. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 02:59 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed/escalate from this point?Why the he'll not? Throw her in the back of the car and smash it. Also, what's the issue with your (and her) living arrangements that makes fucking difficult? | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 02:56 PM |
| 3 | relapsing into oneitis because of best sexShe's not a unicorn that shit rainbows. Keep spinning plates and you'll find a woman that will make you forget her. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 02:51 PM |
| 2 | I've Swallowed TRP, Been Reading Alot And Trying To Socialise But Everytime I Do I End Up Back Into Some Of My BP Ways.Great analogy. The dog also starts to overthink the situation. What if the water is dirty? Are other dogs judging me? Maybe I don't deserve this water. There was that time I drank from a lake and that thing (something negative) happened. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 02:44 PM |
| 2 | LTR: What is the right way to deal with suspicions of cheating that are based on circumstantial clues and diminished sex life?This is a clear case of oneitis and it's clear from your post that she has already cheated or is laying the groundwork. The relationship is over so it's time to man the fuck up and start focusing on improving yourself. The fact that you've been cheated on, disrespected, beat down, shit on, etc in the past has absolutely no bearing on this moment or the next. Stop dwelling on what happened and use your mental, physical and spiritual energy on self improvement right fucking now. Read TRP and marri… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 02:16 PM |
| 2 | How do i stop wanting to find someone while in monk mode so that i can work out my sh!t.Did you already read this this? | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 02:00 PM |
| 1 | What's Favorite Red Pill Article / Post?/u/jacktenofhearts has a great series on dread. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 01:57 PM |
| 1 | What's Favorite Red Pill Article / Post?Link? | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 01:55 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] Any RPers have problems with ED?My question is if any RPers have had to deal with ED (physical or mental)? I had very bad ED as a result of excessive porn/masturbation. I was fortunate (at the time) in the sense that my wife had a low libido so I just avoided sex with her. I ended up with a dead bedroom and now have the opposite of ED (raging boners daily) since I gave up porn/fapping for good. Good luck with your situation. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 01:48 PM |
| 2 | The Timing and Buildup of Initiating Sexual ActivityGreat point. I'll keep that in mind. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 01:37 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Tripped at the Finish LineJesus, that was a fucking drag to read through with zero payoff. Congratulations on sending a text and getting ghosted. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 03:39 AM |
| 2 | The Timing and Buildup of Initiating Sexual ActivityThank you, sir. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 02:17 AM |
| 3 | The Timing and Buildup of Initiating Sexual ActivityWhat book(s) would you recommend from Ian that focus mainly on Initiation? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 12:26 AM |
| 4 | The Timing and Buildup of Initiating Sexual ActivityGreat post. I'm a month in and in the process of fixing a dead bedroom. What's worked for me so far is less talking about sex and more forceful, spontaneity. Mild game and kino in the morning and after work and I initiate whenever the time feels right. 5am before our workout, evenings after baby is down, mid day on weekends, etc. Last night, we headed up to bed early and as soon as we walked in the bedroom (before her evening routine), I pinned her to the wall, we made out, I threw her on the be… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Direction NeededShe is not in to it. Her, "good because if you aren't nice then I'm not going to do it." The issue here isn't that she doesn't want to be dominated, it's that she doesn't want to be dominated by you. You make a bajillion dollars a year but your SMV is still not where it could be and you're not implementing any Dread (at least from what we can tell). Lift, read, STFU and Dread. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/11/15 09:15 PM |
| 3 | So happy I found this.I'm shifting from idling along toward death to grabbing life by her ponytail and fucking the shit out of her. That's the spirit. Fuck life right in the ass. | /r/askMRP | 30/11/15 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Any of you unwilling to eat a girl out because she may have stds?That's some STD roulette right there and not worth it imo. Many of those ONSs have seen a lot of cock. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I fix nofap induced PE?Kegel exercises. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Does age make a differenceYou think you started late as a senior in high school? SMH. There are some here (including myself) that are discovering this at twice your age or even older. Be thankful you found this now and enjoy the bounty of young, attractive women. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Monk ModeWorking out - Stronglifts 5x5 or Starting Strength will work wonders. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Is being boring something you're born with?Bill Burr, Patrice O'Neal (RIP) and Louis CK. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Long term worst case planning for divorceThis and Ask Married Red Pill. Cross post this in Ask and you'll get some great advice. If you want to stay in the marriage, you need to read BPP's and jaketenofhearts posts on Dread and start immediately. Also, start digesting all of the sidebar material on Married Red Pill. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 07:49 PM |
| 10 | What's your favorite RP quote?Don't listen to the fish when it tells you how to be a good fisherman. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | [Victim puke?] Is it possible to OD' on Red Pill?We had a fight months ago since sex was dwindling for a while. I told her that i was not attracted to her physically anymore. I just dont even want to be intimate outside of cuddling anymore. This has been a problem for months. I just dont see her in a sexual way anymore. She is trying and perhaps I need to put some effort into making her feel "sexually wanted" In one breath you complain about sex dwindling and in the next she's a whale that you don't want to stick your dick in anymore. In what … | /r/askMRP | 30/11/15 05:58 PM |
| 2 | LTR 2yr; she just asked for spaceThere isn't a whole lot to say that hasn't already been said. You are a prime candidate for immediate monk mode!, which will allow you to improve your SMV, develop your MAP, and clear the cobwebs from your head. Cut this bitch loose, immediate monk mode, lots of heavy lifting, reading, NGAF about women. | /r/askMRP | 30/11/15 05:37 PM |
| 2 | The real MRP and youThat's sort of where I'm at. I need to stop pussy footing and go all in with this shit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/11/15 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How to distinguish soft and hard no? What is caveman sex?The difference is that Chad knows women say all kinds of bullshit. He pays it no mind and then has a threesome with her and her sister. ...and before that they shared a $2 box of hot pockets. (can't find the reference post) | /r/askMRP | 29/11/15 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Sex and Blowjobs for the Busy Man / Tired CoupleGreat post. This is something I need to start implementing with my wife. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/11/15 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Happy Thanksgiving to Everyone!+1 I'm incredibly grateful to everyone here and across the manosphere for this red pill movement. Life changing to say the least. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/11/15 05:20 AM |
| 4 | Happy Thanksgiving to Everyone!My wife turned me down so I fucked the turkey instead and came in the gravy boat? Alpha or beta? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/11/15 05:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making Good ProgressWould you suggest it before MMSL? I assumed the books were ordered that way on the sidebar for a specific reason. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 01:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Making Good ProgressSex can happen anytime, anywhere, as you have seen. Push through the LMR's and it lets her know that you are taking what is yours. Plays into the DEVI very nicely. I know you didnt do it on purpose, but looks like maybe you got some talent. That's exactly how I've been treating her. That pussy belongs to me, I own it, I have the deed, and it's accessible whenever I demand it (other than shark week). It used to be awkwardly quiet when we'd have sex and I spent so much time GAF what pleased her. N… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 04:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making Good ProgressMy beta self came back strong in that moment and I felt bad about her feelz. Needs more IDGAF. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 04:12 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Making Good ProgressI'm definitely going slow and not trying to do an immediate 180. I have lived an extremely predictable life and routine marriage so any ripple will raise her level of concern. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 04:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making Good ProgressHave fun man, we don't have enough time on this world to waste even a single breath. Make her smile again, light that fire of tingles in her snatch, make her heart flutter, pick her ass up and spin her around just to remind her that your a powerful and youthful spirit who is 'back' and here to stay. This sentiment is particularly meaningful for me since I'm coming into RP at age 35. I have a lot of lost time to make up for so I'm hungry for this new life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 04:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making Good ProgressI did mean negging not begging. I have WISNIFG but haven't read it yet. I'm halfway through NMMNG and have been reading Rational Male & Pook. I'm taking notes and creating a RP Bible for myself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 04:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making Good ProgressNext time, I need to really use that anxiety to my advantage. Lesson learned. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making Good ProgressThank you for the deep analysis. I'm with a great woman forever, and it's up to her to be that woman, or get out of the way while I find her. This sums up LTRs / marriage so perfectly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 03:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Making Good ProgressI'm not at all looking for any kind of validation. My intention is to post occasional FRs and learn how I could have done better. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/15 03:54 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Her: [anotherredletter]... I like that you make me do this... Me: Shhhhh....... but I’m blown away by the results I’ve experienced so far. Literally! Nice field report. I'm working hard of my bedroom and going to start pushing for the blowjobs soon. | /r/askMRP | 25/11/15 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Reading MMSLP, and I looked up Athol Kay. Seeing his picture I lost a little faith. Is there something I'm missing?What exactly is the cube? Can you give a summary of the story? | /r/askMRP | 25/11/15 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Single Best Red Pill Starting Point?Thanks for the quick responses. | /r/askMRP | 24/11/15 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Single Best Red Pill Starting Point?Indeed. I'm sending this, the MRP guide for beginners and 12 levels of dread. Lift, read, STFU, sidebar after that. | /r/askMRP | 24/11/15 08:39 PM |
| 1 | I found a great and easy technique to handle even the toughest issues.Very helpful. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 07:19 PM |
| 1 | I found a great and easy technique to handle even the toughest issues.Exactly what I needed. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 07:18 PM |
| 0 | I found a great and easy technique to handle even the toughest issues.Can you give a few body language examples for us noobs? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Marriage - The Days of AntiquityThis. ... and following a religion is for the weak and meager. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 02:54 PM |
| 5 | The Danger Of A Mother's LoveGreat post and one that all young men need to see. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Getting older has its perks in the game but lets not give young guys in here false hope either.Stinky Stan was such an entertaining story. He's probably pounding some young pussy in his filthy garage as I type this. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Getting older has its perks in the game but lets not give young guys in here false hope either.Same here. Post some field reports to give us "young guys" some much needed insight into TRP post-40. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 03:03 PM |
| 4 | LTRs: Even when you win you are still losing (or why the fuck do I do this)Lifting, reading and STFUing until I'm further along in my reading and understanding. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 02:26 PM |
| 0 | To All Men Everywhere: I salute youShitberg indeed. Add to that the illegal immigration, ISIS threats, pathetic political situation, crumbling infrastructure, Failing schools, overcrowded prisons, obesity epidemic, etc and yeah, we're pretty much fucked. All American RPers should be creating a plan to get off the Shitberg before it completes sinks. It's not if but when. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 03:03 AM |
| 0 | To All Men Everywhere: I salute youI personally went up to all my male coworkers and reminded them that it's International Men's Day. Most of the women rolled their eyes and made nasty comments. Cunts. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 03:00 AM |
| 2 | LTRs: Even when you win you are still losing (or why the fuck do I do this)Just watched it and wow, that bitch is crazy. How can he live with that? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 02:53 AM |
| 1 | LTRs: Even when you win you are still losing (or why the fuck do I do this)As a TRP newb, understanding shit tests has been the most eye opening part of the process so far. I'm in a 10 year marriage and deal with daily nonsensical bullshit. Two quick examples: Came home from work and took care of all the kitchen chores (emptied dishwasher, cleaned out sink, cleaned all of mine, my daughters and wives dinner plates, stuff from work/daycare) all while my wife sits on her ass watching TV with my daughter. 2 hours later she discovers that I forgot to clean a bowl she broug… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Take control of your healthGood reminder on health. Testosterone below 500? Doctor:"oh thats in the normal range you're good to go". I'm in the low 300s and all of my blood tests/urine tests came back showing great health. Are they any RP threads that specifically deal with raising low T levels? Doc is pushing TRT and I'm not fucking with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 02:43 PM |
| 10 | Fixing an accidental apologyShe's still in high school and because of being that age,... ... was visibly pale after sex, both from blood loss... original look of disgust was because she was in a ton of pain. Goddamn, wtf are you doing to this girl!? Disturbing. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Missed ConnectionExcellent FR for us noobs. Thank you, sir - keep them coming. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 02:26 PM |
| 0 | The moment you start putting things togetherSo you discovered RP one year ago and haven't read a single book from the side bar? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 03:49 PM |
| -2 | BlowjobometerJesus man, I've read some discouraging field reports here but this takes the cake. I really feel for you, bro. According to my proprietary blowjob vaginawatt algorithm, you are receiving 3.75 blowjobs less per month than you should be as a high value, red pill Man. You're frequency of vaginal intercourse is calculating at 6.23 lower than the world vaginawatt index average for unplugged Men. How in God's name are you serving with that kind of low frequency? The only course of action is to immedia… | /r/askMRP | 18/11/15 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Stop caring about the feelZTypo. :-) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/15 04:26 PM |
| 5 | Stop caring about the feelZTimely post for me. My wife and I has plans all week to spend the day together some shopping, errands, birthday dinner for her. Half hour before we leave she gets pissed and gives an hour long ride of dirty looks and annoyed silent treatment. I STFU the entire time, held frame and didn't touch her or speak to her until she starting acting right. Gave no fucks about her feelz. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/11/15 02:46 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Past, present and futureLitz persists but it feels like he is trying to manhandle a cadaver onto a hospital trolley, there is no hard no, but also zero interest. Litz gives up and lies back onto the pillows and proclaims in a loud animated voice 'Tell the paramedics to hurry up, this one is unresponsive' Hilarity at its finest. My coworkers all looked up to see why I was laughing my ass off. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/11/15 05:23 PM |
| 11 | Kill yourself, no, seriously, kill your SELFGreat post. I just discovered TRP at 35 (married 10 years, 2 year old) and the amount of anger and regret is unfathomable. I'm halfway through NMMNG and Rational Man Year One and I feel my beta self dying as I digest each new concept. The only way I can keep myself from drowning in victim puke, negative emotions and self pity is to realize that it's better to have found TRP this late in life than to have never found it at all. I lived 35 years as a beta and I'm going to live the next 35+ as the … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 03:38 AM |
| 41 | Dying Slowly; The State of The Average ManLike gamma radiation, there's only so much female hamstering the male body can tolerate before cellular breakdown begins in earnest. Funny but probably true. I imagine after decades of blue pill living, death seems attractive and these men may even will it to happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Freak outs during drivingI deal with the same bullshit. Wife constantly warns me against speeding saying I'm going to get a ticket. Hasn't happened in the 10 years we've been together. Then she makes comments, gasps, barks orders, etc from the passenger seat. It's dangerous because I'm dialed in to traffic patterns and making quick decisions and she breaks my concentration by running her mouth. | /r/askMRP | 11/11/15 08:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A texting analysisUnderstood. I'm deep into Rationale Male - Year One and I am seeing the path that needs to be taken to achieve results like this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/11/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A texting analysisAs a RP newb, I can say I'm looking forward to the days where my radio silence is met with offers of sex. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/11/15 05:17 PM |
| 9 | Victoria Secret Models: The IDEAL female physique being tall, thin and YOUNG. No BBWS allowed!So many models these days look anorexic. When/why did this become the norm in fashion and why is it still the norm when such a large percentage of Americans are overweight/obese? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 03:52 PM |
| 2 | TRP has improved my marriage substantially. Things seem obvious in hindsight but it takes some medicine to fight the disease that society infects you with. Thanks redpill community.He doesn't even bother taking off his damn clothes, he just whips out his dick through the fly (the girls are all completely naked of course). The psychology behind it is powerful: "I must be naked for him, but he doesn't have to be for me. He doesn't try at all so he must be really high value." Very interesting observation. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Have some damn patience.Yup, 10 years and we have a 2 year old. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 07:17 PM |
| 7 | YOU are the Problem, Readjust Yourself to ImproveI'm happy to have swallowed it at 35 years old and 10 years into my marriage than to never have swallowed it at all. I look at it like this, I lived 35 years as a beta and I hope to have 35 more as an alpha. I'm going to live a happy, fulfilling life with or without her and be the best Man I can be. No time for regret. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationThere are times where I outright ignore but most of the time just a few words of acknowledgement. She has an army of hamsters that sometimes rapid fire unrelated thoughts that just don't need a reply. | /r/askMRP | 07/11/15 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Taking / Continuing TRP with an infant?You can't use hardcore red ideals until they are at least 4 1/2 years old, this is well documented. Which RP books/articles specifically talk about this? I'm the father of a 2 year old and need to get up to speed on this topic. | /r/askMRP | 07/11/15 07:09 PM |
| 3 | YOU are the Problem, Readjust Yourself to ImproveWomen are going to act in their nature. They will be deceitful and hypocritical. They will take advantage of you as much as you allow it. It is your job as a RP man to prevent this, to be in control, and to judge situations accurately. This is an excellent point. In regards to anger, I'm driving to work earlier this week and came to the sudden realization that 1)my wife is an alpha window, 2)I may have been cheated on a few years ago and 3)it's shocking that she stayed with me for so long. Most … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 02:41 AM |
| 2 | My roommate posted this gem today: enjoy TRP from a woman's mouth.Who in the fuck brings hot pockets anywhere? I don't even... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 02:30 AM |
| 17 | Have some damn patience.Thank you for the reminder. I'm a 35 year old lifelong beta that discovered RP a few weeks ago. I'm reading through the curriculum and taking my time with dread levels but there is an underlying force that just wants to go full RP immediately. There's so much lost time, so much anger, so much disappointment, and so much pain but genuine, satisfying progress needs to be slow and steady. I'm staying the course and controlling those emotions. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 02:28 AM |
| 3 | FR - Flying by the seat of my pantsIf she's a circus performer, she might get crabs in her beard if she gives oral. LMAO! Luckily I wasn't drinking or I'd need a new keyboard. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Wife is a planning drinks with a single guy, how to respondWhich red pill terms is she dropping? | /r/askMRP | 06/11/15 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Gather around, kids...it's time for your daily dose of AWALT!She's getting testy with you because she wants you to do what Chad didn't follow through on. This bitch is crazy and I'd stay far away. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Wife is a planning drinks with a single guy, how to respondHow long have you been married? Kids? Any financial entanglements? This appears to be a classic shit test on her part. She told you about this drink date to provoke a reaction and your plan is enter her frame by whining about how disappointed you are and that you have to trust her to be somewhere overnight. That's blue pill nonsense. You STFU about it and escalate your levels of dread immediately. | /r/askMRP | 06/11/15 02:25 PM |
| 2 | FR - Flying by the seat of my pantsNot a dig on him at all, just acknowledging the reality of that situation. I was Bob just a few weeks ago until I woke the fuck up. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Minimum Investment, Maximum ReturnYou mention going to the gym 5 nights a week. Presumably for an extended period of time. Be honest about the results.. Sounds like fuckarounditis. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Minimum Investment, Maximum ReturnThat's my Italian wife. Short temper, flies off the handle regularly and a lot of voice raising and yelling. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 01:02 AM |
| 4 | The better way to get the sex you wantOr should I continue to be aggressive and IDGAF to whether she's into it? I'm brand new to RP and this is the approach I've taken. When I want sex, I initiate and see it through to completion regardless of her level of enthusiasm. The other day, I came upstairs mid-workout at 6am and initiated (we NEVER have morning sex) . Got a few soft no's but she was somewhat intrigued. Lead here into a spare bedroom and she laid there with her hands behind her head like she was sun bathing. We went through … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/11/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | FR - Flying by the seat of my pantsIs it as outrageous in it's context as this? This dude is swimming in pussy. SMV = ∞ | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 09:41 PM |
| 4 | FR - Flying by the seat of my pantsSo much truth here! He got Chad'd. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 08:39 PM |
| 9 | An article my Wife just showed me"If you want more pussy all you have to do is pick up the goddamn milk." Ha! If only it was that easy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/11/15 08:37 PM |
| 1 | An article my Wife just showed meMen are far simpler. They need to be fed, they need to be appreciated, and they need to have sex. That is it. Really. No, that ISN'T it but these three elements are certainly part of a great marriage. I think this article means we'll but it's written very poorly. Not sure many blue pill wives will give additional fucks that their hubby isn't getting laid enough. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/11/15 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Vetting modern relationships for long term viability. TLDR A majority of women are unsuitable for marriage. My perspective on the ultimate goal of RP life and how to plan for that goal. A post 10 years in the making.One of the best posts I've seen in my short time on RP. If only this wisdom could be shared with the masses of young men who have no fucking idea what they're getting into. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Wife depressed, MRP Okey?That level of depression is serious especially when suicidal thoughts come into play. Do you know the source(s) of her depression? Career? Her family? Traumatic past? You and the marriage? As Captain of your Ship, you need to help guide and educate her if you have some idea if what the underlying issues are. Aside from that, you need to soak up all of the RP and MRP information and focus on becoming the best Man you can be. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/15 02:24 PM |
| 11 | I feel like an idiotYou're time is too valuable to play P. I. and try to unravel the mystery of whether she cheated. The trust has already evaporated, she's a habitual lier and frequently disrespects you. Cut her loose, spend all of your time, resources and energy becoming a better Man through the Red Pill. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/15 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Covert contract - sex for another baby, ovulating, & initiatingThink about this for a second -- you're FAR from being the man you want to be, yet you're willing to just willy-nilly get her pregnant for some quick action right now, but it might result in another human coming into this world. Are you in a place where you're ready to really handle that as the leader of your family? You must also consider the very real possibility of divorce -- a 3rd child will make it that much harder. You need to be truly outcome-independent and that only comes with long, har… | /r/askMRP | 05/11/15 02:10 PM |
| 6 | I'm in fucking tears right now. A woman used the justice system to ruin my life."attempting to contact her via 3rd party". Is that an actual crime? Absolutely retarded. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 01:58 AM |
| 1 | The importance of being earnest.Adding this to my curriculum. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationThanks for the reply. Those are all great points and I'm well underway with dread #1 and #2. We're actually having sex (obligatory for her) more frequently and I've moved passed the constant obsessing about it. Done letting it rule my thoughts. As for the username, I chose that because I only got on reddit for NoFap so seemed like a good idea at the time. I see your point though. Can usernames be changed while keeping the same account? | /r/askMRP | 05/11/15 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Coming up on 11 years - am I too late to grab the reins?And I'm confused -- she's the gatekeeper for sex, but the sex is fantastic? She shoots you down repeatedly, but she begs for your dick? Maybe you need to rewrite your post, because both of these things can't be true. This. Aside from the blowjob dilemma, it sounds like a pretty solid sex life. Women are always going to be the gatekeepers of sex but in your case it sounds like the gate is opened pretty often. As for the BJs, those will come later once you ramp up your dread game. | /r/askMRP | 04/11/15 08:10 PM |
| 2 | The importance of being earnest.Great post. Are there any subs that specifically talk about the Fed, oligarchs, etc? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 05:32 PM |
| 3 | The importance of being earnest.The charity/body shaming episode had me on the floor. The cum and boogers song at the end of the Yelp ep was great as well. This season is amazing! | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 05:30 PM |
| 2 | You can always work on game, regardless of location.What's you're blue pill excuse for "online being the only way to game right now?" Turn off the devices and get the fuck outside. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 05:21 PM |
| 1 | TRP stance on household choresExactly my stance. My wife wants the house like a museum and I don't mind reasonable clutter. We meet somewhere in the middle. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 05:10 PM |
| 2 | TRP stance on household choresSexual activity would be fun to track in a spreadsheet...unless of course you're success rate is low. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 03, 2015It is important be because you're informing her that sex is expected and later on in your RP progress, you'll begin punishing those rejections with varying degrees of withdrawing attention. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/15 03:20 PM |
| 12 | Read a muh'fuckin bookHe turned his life and marriage around by reading muh'fucking books, nigga. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/15 02:43 PM |
| 1 | How I beat Premature EjaculationThe interesting thing is that people that suffer from PIED tend to only have ED when they have real sexual encounters but dont experience any trouble when they use internet porn. That's exactly what I was dealing with at the height of my porn/fapping use. I could be rock hard for porn and a wet noodle during sex with my wife. The lowest point from me was having PIED when we were trying to conceive and I hate to watch porn before/during to keep my erection. So embarrassing and frustrating to look… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 05:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...Thanks. I subscribed and will check it out | /r/askMRP | 03/11/15 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill Boy Meets Red Pill WorldExcellent breakdown on blue pill marriage. This exactly the route I took for 8 fucking years and it got me nowhere. What has always been perplexing is sex is almost always mutual pleasure for all parties involved so why wouldn't my wife want to fuck me if I'm well groomed, in decent shape and taking care of business the way she likes it? On top of that, I'm doing chores, catering to her 24/7, doing stupid husbandry bullshit. There's literally NO reason not to fuck me! ... and then Red Pill raine… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/11/15 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Confusing Bedroom SituationAgreed. Today I came home and worked hard on STFU. I noticed she was talking more than usual and a lot of what she was asking me was minutia. What's interesting is I kept my work clothes (tailored shirt/slacks) on all night (usually I change to casual.immediately) and she started hamstering. Literally asked me 6-7 times why I was still dressed and was more attentive than usual. This was completely unintentional on my part but it really surprised me to see how a minor change can get the wheels tu… | /r/askMRP | 03/11/15 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 27, 2015I've had a number of interests over the years (and learned a lot from studying) but for the past 15 years I've been stuck in this "not quitting the day job" / "have to make x dollars" mentality. I'm LONG overdue for a career change and it's going to happen. Great points about the sex life and keeping my mouth shut. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Let's Talk Body LanguageWill do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationI'm not opposed to the gym and understand the importance for getting out of the house but 5am is the only time I can get in a solid workout and I dropped about a grand in the past few months for the home gym. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Let's Talk Body LanguageI've always been an introvert (deep thinker/introspective) but no social anxiety. I need to work on the eye contact and greetings. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Confusing Bedroom SituationThanks for the links. I haven't read those and will add them to my list. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationNothing...yet. Im reading, lifting and shutting the fuck up for the next few weeks and keeping the routine intact until I have absorbed the RP curriculum and have a definitive plan. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Confusing Bedroom SituationUnderstood. I realize I'm jumping way ahead of the process at times but there's a lot of anger, frustration and disappointment that is leaking out. STFU is the first step I need to master particularly because I've always been the beta that "talks things out". That has to stop. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationActually, I took those steps a few months ago and pressed her to get checked. She had a few blood tests exams, etc and all is well. I know part of the problem is she has a whole family of hamsters and she's always mulling over decisions, problems, grudges, which fucks with her sleep. Should be fun times when those hamsters turn their attention to me. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Confusing Bedroom SituationUnderstood. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationI did read through the dread and will start implementing those asap. We both work out at 5am - I have a basement gym and she does cardio upstairs in a spare room. I'd have go for a drive/go do something of interest outside the house in that scenario. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationIt's impossible for her to be cheating because we're together A LOT (more than is healthy for a couple, which is another area to address) and she has a very demanding job that requires constant work. I also don't believe she wants to cheat. Her world right now is caring for our daughter, running a charity and rest/sleep. She gives minimal fucks about anything else. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationRight. She knows I wouldn't divorce and the truth is that's the last thing I want. But, if our relationship continues to deteriorate and the db is unresolved then that option will have to be considered. I'm done with fapping. I want the steam to build because it raises my aggression for pursuing her, which I neglected so much in the past and keeps the fire strong for making these RP changes. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationIn all honesty, I would fuck me if I were her but I understand the point. She wants more alpha and I'm too beta and until I make the fundamental RP changes I'll be beta bux. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Confusing Bedroom SituationNeither of us have had side pieces (she's had a few FWBs before me) and no, my SMV isn't at that level yet. I'm sure in the right circumstances I could close one but there'd me quite a bit of rejection/failure. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationThank you. I'm essentially victim puking to her and need to employ more STFU. What's frustrating about her is I get literally 15-20 mentions of "I'm so tired" throughout the day that it's becoming comical. Regardless of whether I initiate, she still tells me how tired she is. I need to start firing back at that bullshit. Reading is going well. I'm compiling all the pieces I need to read and am taking notes as I go. There's a lot to digest but I'm starving for this info. The lifting is great. Wee… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/15 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Let's Talk Body LanguageWhat's the RP protocol for greetings in busy office environments? The campus I work I has thousands of people and I always over think whether to say hi, just nod, make/avoid eye contact, etc. with employees I don't know. Also, if you're walking past multiple people, what's the correct approach? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 27, 2015I'm fresh off the boat and 1 week into RP. For reference, I'm 35/married 8 years/2 year old. I'm lifting, reading and shutting the fuck up. My early progress report: Shit I'm Owning: Lifting - I dropped 40lbs early this year and have been lifting for the past few months. Just got a power cage and barbell/Weights for the basement gym and I'm 2 weeks into SL. I'm bulking with high calories and eating Clean about 75% of the time. Appearance - I've been dressing reasonably well but still wearing som… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/15 02:29 AM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...I've primarily been a loner but know that there's a void in my life because I lack friends, male companionship and a support network. One of many areas I need to improve on. | /r/askMRP | 31/10/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...Me getting angry or the wife (or both)? | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 07:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...Thanks, man. I appreciate it. I'll be in touch early next week after I get through some of the required reading. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 07:39 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...Thanks for the recommendation. I'll keep that in mind. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...Got it. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...That's perfect. I'll add it to my curriculum. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...That's the kind of feedback I need at this point. The harsher and more blunt the better. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 04:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...Thank you. Where can I read more about shit tests and comfort tests? I must have missed it the sidebar, resources and required reading. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...Agreed. I do need new hobbies/activities, which in turn will help with the lack of quality friends. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 03:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...Understood. I tend to rush in and go balls to wall so I'll be sure to slow myself down with this. Right now I'm just lifting, reading and S'ing TFU. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 02:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...Thank you. I learned about victim pukes and will correct that behavior immediately. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...One question for you guys. I forgot to mention that we have a child (2 years old) together. Does that affect any of the steps, process, thinking, etc or do I proceed as instructed? | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...I'm digesting the rest of the beginners guide today and will move on to some other required reading. I'm trying to take this in quickly and take swift action. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 01:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...I started a compilation of Alpha and beta behaviors and am going through each to eliminate my beta tendencies (there are a lot). As for the Alpha fucks/Beta bux, I now realize after all these years that most of my wife's previous boyfriends/FWBs that she's discussed with me were alphas and she settled down with me (a beta). Talk about a fucking enlightening... | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 01:06 PM |
| 3 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...I've taken the red pill in other areas of my life (food system, politics, etc) and am familiar with rabbit holes. I have always had a thirst for knowledge and my desire to fix my beta life is stronger than anything I've researched previously. I HAVE to fix this. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I'm that rare career beta that has arrived at the red pill...I've been genuinely lost at sea and none of my posts were trolling. My journey started by discovering I have extremely low testosterone (related to bring a career beta?), which led to examining my porn addiction, which led to NoFap, which opened up my world to a number of related subs. One of the positives in my life is that I've been working hard at my diet and fitness. Earlier this year I dropped 40lbs and have been bulking and lifting since. I have a basement gym and recentky picked up a powe… | /r/askMRP | 30/10/15 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Home Workouts?Buy a set of power blocks (adjustable dumbbells). $300 brand new for a set of 5-50 pounds so you'll be set for a long time. You might be able to find them cheaper on Craigslist. | /r/becomeaman | 09/10/15 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Go to a chiropractor once every few years even if there's "nothing wrong"I don't know about the chiropractic industry as a whole but my family's chiropractic has legitimately fixed a number of bone alignment/muscle ailments for myself and family members. The guy is absolutely legit and a godsend. | /r/becomeaman | 09/10/15 01:15 AM |
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