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RicDouchegado/r/seduction06/02/14 04:44 PM
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RicDouchegado/r/seduction05/02/14 07:12 PM
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Dude you're all over the place. First thing is why do you feel weird talking to girls before and between classes? You should be the epitome of socialness and be the guy they love to know and be around. Closing is definitely way far in your future, you need to get your basic social skills handled.
/r/seduction14/02/14 03:36 PM
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I think you should have shown sexual interest in her much earlier. As she enjoyed the breakfast you might have said "You are probably wondering why I asked you to breakfast." and if she says yes, then you say:"Well, I just thought you were the sexiest thing I had ever seen and even though I was as nervous as hell, I just had to ask you on a date." This would probably break the ice and make it possible to move the conversation to the topic of "you and me and what we think of each other" which is …
/r/seduction09/02/14 02:29 PM
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I think there's always something to be learned. If there's anything we all should know about women by now is they're incredibly irrational people. We love em, but even the best ones can drive you crazy. I'd even love to see FRs from married guys. Plus, it would probably give them incentive to keep gaming their lives. The point is that this is all for sharing knowledge, you'll never know what you can gain from someone else's r experiences.
/r/seduction07/02/14 02:42 PM
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While this is helpful I'm not really talking about those two moments of development, it's more the three or four months (or more) between meeting/fucking and possibly developing into an LTR. And also this is a matter of strategy. And while a lot of guys go "natural" and say they don't do strategy, there's still a set of behaviors we do while going through this.
/r/seduction07/02/14 02:38 PM
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Women have lives that don't just center on getting to my dick as much as possible. They also have fears, family obligations, jobs, etc. Your response is indicative of the bullshit that floods this sub regarding mid-game.
/r/seduction07/02/14 02:34 PM
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And you introduce that right away? Do you find that girls give the answer you want to hear and you have to red through bullshit, or are they straight forward and honest (almost laughed writing that)?
/r/seduction07/02/14 02:32 PM
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I don't have a question, I'm talking about the general approach that seduction and pickup takes to sharing knowledge.
/r/seduction07/02/14 02:29 PM
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I've never visited the relationships sub, but I don't think they come from the pickup/seduction community perspective. I could be wrong. But if it is then yes, that does address the issue I'm raising.
/r/seduction06/02/14 11:48 PM
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Yeah, it does. Honestly, I'm going to give your response and doc a few more read overs. Thanks for it though, definitely can see some things that need to be addressed.
/r/seduction06/02/14 11:41 PM
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I'm just saying that you, as a guy who has developed an open relationship, could help a lot of guys by sharing how you went about it with the same detail as you would in sharing how you got an 8's number in a bar.
/r/seduction06/02/14 09:17 PM
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But when I mention vulnerabilities, it's not just talking about your emotions. It's about talking about your values, your preferences, your family, etc.. everything that makes you special. Do you mind getting into this? You mean that you just let someone into your world? How and when do you start "opening up"? I can see the value of relationship reports, but you are in a community where the foundation was created on the concept of 'getting laid as much as possible' Yeah, and I think there's defi…
/r/seduction06/02/14 09:16 PM
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Huh? It would do you wonders to learn how to say things directly.
/r/seduction06/02/14 09:02 PM
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Huh? It would do you wonders to learn how to say things directly.
/r/seduction06/02/14 09:02 PM
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If I was saying "how do you get a girl's number?" You'd probably have a million ways to figure that out. By saying "all you have to do is seduce" is missing the point of being involved in a sub where you share strategies to get better and make things work more effectively.
/r/seduction06/02/14 08:03 PM
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I've had a totally different experience. If anything the easier it's gotten to meet women the harder it's been to evolve a relationship from them. They just start becoming too disposable.
/r/seduction06/02/14 07:57 PM
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I'm not necessarily talking about long term/marriage (even though I think it would be an evolution of the whole seddit sub) but just having women in your life. Sometimes they want to make it easy and just bang, sometimes not. And the ones that I really want to see a lot more usually are the hardest to pull into my life.
/r/seduction06/02/14 07:53 PM
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From what I've experienced, the fundamentals of being a confident man will always remain, but how you connect with your woman is completely different. It's more about being emotionally open, without trying to 'game' her. If you ever want to get past that 3rd, 4th, 5th date you have to be willing to show your vulnerabilities I think the biggest problem I find myself in is questioning if I need strategy, or if "what I'm doing gives away my power." I don't think it's a lack of confidence, but I thi…
/r/seduction06/02/14 07:48 PM
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If you think that you haven't been with one.
/r/seduction06/02/14 07:44 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm not looking for advice, I'm saying that as much as there's material on overcoming AA there should be as much as dealing with a MLTR that isn't making the proper time. All these other comments saying "I don't get the problem" just goes to show that they haven't been more deeply involved with women and either hop from ONS to ONS or they're only dealing with fatties that worship their feet. Dealing with high demand women is way more complicated t…
/r/seduction06/02/14 06:16 PM
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This is what you do? That's kinda sad. Must take a lot of effort you could be spending on something productive.
/r/seduction06/02/14 05:16 PM
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In other words, facials only.
/r/MensRights06/02/14 02:07 PM
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It definitely makes things easier, but that doesn't mean you need it. The key is to stop second guessing yourself, build your confidence, and just stop worrying about things.
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:09 PM
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You probably shouldn't. I'll end up emptying out your bank account and stealing your identity to buy myself a car.
/r/seduction02/02/14 03:12 PM
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Just try different approaches. Nothing works 100% but you'll find your own style. But definitely go with fun, playful if you can.
/r/seduction02/02/14 01:19 AM
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First off you've got to lay more groundwork by creating more attraction. It sounds like you are having regular conversations, not fun, sexy, and flirtatious ones. Then when you've done that ask less, tell more. Instead of "do you want to go to coffee?" Tell "I'm going for coffee, you should meet up with me."
/r/seduction01/02/14 11:01 PM
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Truthfully dude, just go for it. There's nothing we can tell you in a single message that will instantly make you know how to talk to women. But, since you find yourself in this position start studying now, so you won't repeat this mistake in the future.
/r/seduction01/02/14 04:38 AM
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Who's she? Random girl or girlfriend?
/r/seduction01/02/14 04:30 AM
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Forget about it.
/r/seduction01/02/14 04:26 AM
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First step is to get distance. Stop spending time with her, get away. In other words, stop being her friend. Do it subtly, transition out slowly. You don't want her to think you're upset. Give it a couple of months, have other women in your life, and then try running into her, or sending a random text. After that hang out, but get a pretty good amount of alcohol involved (so she can safely, and with an excuse, spill her guts to you). Start getting physical only after you're starting to get a str…
/r/seduction31/01/14 02:21 PM
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" We do not need to be in the presence of our masters while discussing their oppression of us." HAHA!!!!!!! Damn right I'm your fucking master, biotch!
/r/MensRights31/01/14 02:11 PM
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That's not what this guy is saying. He's saying that you shouldn't be afraid to express yourself through your clothes. On the other hand, most guys are happy to just be part of the crowd.
/r/seduction31/01/14 01:56 PM
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What point are you trying to prove? If wearing a nicer shirt makes it easier to get laid even with all the inner game then why not do it? It just sounds like you're falling for the RPG mentality, that it's cooler when a Lvl. 5 barbarian defeats a dragon as opposed to a Lvl. 14 wizard. I'm doing this to meet women not prove anything (which, btw, shows weak inner game).
/r/seduction31/01/14 01:33 PM
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In Buddhism there's a concept called "mind and no mind". In other words, your thoughts are real because you have them, but they're not real because they're just electrical signals in your brain. Right now you are under control of your thoughts, rather than being in control of them. And it's really easy to think they're something tangible, because your thoughts sound like you. But it's really just a trick, and they're actually very easy to control. I'm sure this scenario sounds familiar: you're t…
/r/seduction31/01/14 01:08 PM
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Why not do both? It's not like doing one means you have to neglect the other. It can only improve your chances of success, and isn't that what you're going after?
/r/seduction31/01/14 12:57 PM
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