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DiscussionSell-Chemical7413/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:28 PM
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Most Northern European women are masculine (except for the tattoos, tattoos are considered trashy here).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:32 PM
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Passport bro is a desperate attempt at the end of the day...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:19 PM
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Look dude, whoever and wherever you are, I'm afraid to tell you that I don't have time to read everything in this thread, neither I have a moral duty to stay in the mindset you presented is the "etiquette every human being should have followed". You're trying to hard to make this me vs you issue, and I don't have the patience to talk to people like you. Have a great Monday
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:56 PM
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You are an offensive bunch, aren't you? No goalpost moving? You know I'm a different user right? Why is it intellectually dishonest to bring my own input? I'm a feminist and a social democrat. But anyone can claim to be a feminist. Just like anyone can claim to be in MRA. I'm not a naive idiot anymore, both feminism and MRA are filled with misogynist and misandrist idiots. It's intellectually dishonest to paint these sexist people as if they're a tiny little minority. They are more than a plural…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:36 AM
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If they could do that already, they wouldn't ask "where are the good men"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:21 AM
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Feminism is not a monolith. You know about TERF right? A lot of people in the radfem scene are regressive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:11 AM
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It follows normal distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:43 AM
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I am emotional and I get predictably angry when I'm hungry. Now does that require intuition? No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:45 PM
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From what I remember evolutionary psychology (which is quite different than evolution!) had the problem that majority of their theories cannot be tested. If you cannot test it, it's not science, it's philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:43 PM
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You just repeated yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:23 PM
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Carreer is a zero sum to a big extent. And looks are largely genetic. What do you think about it? Do you think most men go through sigma grindset to kiss a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:09 PM
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So the mods determined that. Got it. Would you be comfortable with this sub's mods?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:05 PM
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Blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:05 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/159pfyq/is_it_better_to_define_averagelooking_by/jtk7u8e/ Leave me alone, if you still don't understand it, tough luck. I already apologized for my behavior, which was my response to your disrespectful behaviour. I do this out of my personal values, it's nothing personal to you. Don't try to take advantage of my maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:44 PM
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That was just one point. Anyway you keep disrespecting me plus downvoting me (for revenge I guess?), it's really is not productive talking with you. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:28 PM
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No no it wasn't directed at you. I slept 3 hours smh I can't talk properly to save my life. What I mean is I'm talking another person in parallel but because the app glitches sometimes I replied to thr wrong comment. It also double, triple replies sometimes, which is an ongoing bug for the last 5 years. You have a very interesting family to be honest. I have my personal reasons as to not give too much personal info on Reddit but I'm a second generation bisexual immigrant in Northern Europe. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:24 PM
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I kinda get what you mean, but from here what we see is looted trains in the LA, crumbling infrastructure in NY during covid, rampant shoplifting in SF, ordinary people being shot in Austin in daylight is the daily news. So people here have the perception that the US kinda like Saudia Arabia if you know what I mean. Not saying it's true average European is brainwashed and has superiority complex and we are massively ignorant cunts as wel. That's what I mean by rough. The way I see it, people are…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:04 PM
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I kinda get what you mean, but from here what we see is looted trains in the LA, crumbling infrastructure in NY during covid, rampant shoplifting in SF, ordinary people being shot in Austin in daylight is the daily news. So people here have the perception that the US kinda like Saudia Arabia if you know what I mean. Not saying it's true average European is brainwashed and has superiority complex and we are massively ignorant cunts as wel. That's what I mean by rough. The way I see it, people are…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:03 PM
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And thanks for being mature and civil
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:57 PM
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No actually if you dig my comment I'm actually arguing with an actual misandrist but this app so glitchy man. I think my hand has more neurons than the entire department who manage this website's IT stack.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:54 PM
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Hmm, studies showed agreeable women are more feminine and attractive. But I think you kinda live in a rough area, so I'm really baffled here. I genuinely don't know what to think about this. But yeah I do like PEOPLE with integrity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:49 PM
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I used to use Apollo and now the Reddit admins decided to shut it. I'm having hard time using this app it's so glitchy. My bad, I will delete thst one. Sorry about it, I fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:46 PM
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I already complained about your behavior for invalidating my experience. But you also previously mentioned that diversity of thought is important. 1 Picking the least fashionable shitty photo for Tom Brady Trolling? Idk even about this one 2 Equating basketball with volleyball In reality women who play voleyball are rare, a good equivalent is women who go to yoga 3 Beating around the bush of living reality of hot guys in Instagram and Tinder, even when I asked twice 4 Creating a false dynamic wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:42 PM
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You didn't answer my question. I'm not 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:31 PM
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That puts you in the 95% quartier in online spaces unfortunately. Thanks for being a human of integrity, we need people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:30 PM
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She is talking about being bothered while grocery shopping or taking a bus, shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:26 PM
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First time I see someone apologize for something in here. Faith in humanity restored
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:25 PM
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I am actually curious yeah. I live in Europe and only beggars bother you in public here. PUA never happened here. But we also don't talk in bus stops and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:22 PM
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Approaching strangers is uniquely a US thing in the West
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:20 PM
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A bitter misandrist as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:19 PM
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I don't do any of that and people are still remote and chilly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:11 PM
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How did the members proved that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:11 PM
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Alright fair enough, but what do you think if the study used Tinder photos? Would you have the same objection? You're doing disservice with this one. On one had we have a guy with a shitty highschool headshot and on the other hand professional headshot of a woman in hijabi. They are not equivalent, but again why do my hot male friends get thousands of likes on Instagram if women are not turned on by photos? What you're missing here is it's also unflattering for men to rate women in bad headshots…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:10 PM
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Men are lonely, that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:01 PM
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I think they are from the US, that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:57 PM
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Come to Europe...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:56 PM
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My apologies. But please try to argue in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:42 PM
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Stop hanging out with normies man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:41 PM
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Look, I don't really care about two of us in a personal sense. I’m not being contrarian. I’m not trying to tell you how you should feel. I’m telling you how I and women likely feel about this. Right, but you are not interested in my experience as much as yours. You just keep trying to speak over 3b men, while I'm telling you, I as a man, a little gay man too, it's not the case. Remember I never told you you were wrong with your attractions, but you keep invalidating me. It's just disrespectful. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:39 PM
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You had an edit. So you claim you're a researcher huh? Western education has gone down the hill man. Congrats, you found a one single shitty photo 💪 that proves everything!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:25 PM
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Bro, you need to touch grass man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:23 PM
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Ok fair enough, women are photo asexual I get it (I don't believe it, but let's get over with it). The sports bro headshot applies to men too. But the equivalent of basketballbro is not the volleyballsis. But anyway, how many women play sports anyway? If I see a woman in a yoga picture, I'm more aroused. I mean yoga woman is a whole trope in itself🗿 Do you even have male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:21 PM
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Arousal for men is also more than looks. Look, I'm half-gay, so I understand fashion. Have you ever not dressed in a sexy outfit? Are even you arguing in good faith? The hijabi picture has a beautiful woman. It doesn't get my dick hard. Simple as. Are you a contrarian for profession? Do you really believe what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:15 PM
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That's a really nice observation. I'm really impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:06 PM
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She sounds like her only ability is cooking and cleaning. This is in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:56 PM
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I mean duh, I'm not going to be aroused by a woman in burqa, no matter how beautiful they are. Beautiful is not the same as sexy. Ugly hot people exist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:47 PM
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I mean what you said applies to men as well? Why do you think bad photo lighting is a gendered issue? Yes, if your husband in this study and he uses a shitty photo and the study finds him unattractive, that's tough luck. But you know that these studies are done with thousands of people right? That's just noise. Also not all women are aroused by basketball. I myself wouldn't care about a volleyball player. Why do you think us two would have substantial effect on who's considered attractive becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:44 PM
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It's silly data, good for random convo, bad for actual serious discussion. Agree, that was my whole point. But the reason your analogy was off is that you posited that pairing up = liking that person AND no one else! It's a hypothetical scenario in a what's called thought experiment. It's an argumentative device. Do I really need to explain how silly that is? That's the whole point man. It's to show this data is useless. In your analogy we could assume that (extremely highly unlikely extremely p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:40 PM
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Ehh, I would say no. I assume by attractiveness you mean facial physical attractiveness. In that case obviously no. Some men like big boobs, some like small. Women's body is important to male sexual arousal. Sexually revealing clothes would also elevate the sexual arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:29 PM
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I am a little skeptical about women who are not aroused by photos, that's something I only hear in Reddit to be honest, but maybe yeah you're right. I'm not really following the thought process of the biases either. Of course everybody is biased. The opposite of bias is randomness. People don't choose their partners randomly, or else we would see higher number of interracial couples. There is however a fundamental flaw with the okcupid study I keep telling everyone, maybe you can follow my threa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:25 PM
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Would you say the same thing if we reversed the genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:20 PM
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Stop using instagram bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:16 PM
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Yes but the entire group rating like this will. Not necessarily, I just proved that it doesn't necessarily follow that. Your example also only works in a vacuum The whole point of my argument is we cannot use this metric to determine chad to normie ratio. It's useless. fails to account that a single good looking men can keep dozen women in rotation and that the women have access to more men thanks to social media and OLD. I'm not under a rock dude, I'm not arguing hot men don't exist. All I'm sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:14 PM
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Fair enough, give me your own spin then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:04 PM
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Y'all would benefit from a data science course
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:42 PM
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Exactly. The OKCupid graph does not necessarily tell that 80% of men are ugly. In a room of 20 men and 20 women, if each man and woman enter into an exclusive monogamous relationship, OKCupid study would find women find 19/20 of men unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:42 AM
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You too man, you too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:41 AM
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You are just pro-gender equality. Nobody equates the 3rd wave feminism with genderal equality. It's more commonn in Europe. Like most things Americans are largely against any kind of equality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:38 AM
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I think it's just a technique to reduce anxiety. If you take it seriously though, it's just brotalk for "just be confident bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:36 AM
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I don't know man, he is not ugly at all, it's just if I move my ass in the Southern US I feel like half of the black guys would be more handsome than him, but he is tall for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:34 AM
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You're saying as if all else is equal when it comes to Asian guys. Most asian guys are neotenous, can't grow beard, short, small eye sockets, have negative stereotypes attached... The guy you linked has hooded eyes. Are you a woman? Are you a man? Big eyes are attractive in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:29 AM
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But that's just status man. Michael Jordan is not handsome no matter how you slice it. The guy is attractive, sure. Handsome, no. Also black men handsome lol. There is a reason why you see black guys in all the media. I'm waiting for the day Indian men and Asian men are positively featured on Anglophone media
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:25 AM
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Yes but this affect is not captured by the okcupid study. Okcupid graph is mostly meaningless. It just means your average women lusts after 2/10 of the men she sees on the street. It doesn't mean much on the attractiveness of men. It heavily depends on the clustering as you said, but we cannot go and say these two are correlated therefore 80% men are ugly. That's not how you do the math And still then because of the issue #1, you might be a handsome fella objectively but still not enough for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:16 AM
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Yeah, this is the real polarizing look. I'm not sure if it happens in real life though. Fun thought experiment, if everybody found people attractive in a true randomness fashion at rate 10%, you would get that result for every living human being. Meaning 9/10 of people would find you ugly and the rest very beautiful, but it's replicated for each person This is one of the reasons why beauty is not subjective. It's on somewhere between
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:12 AM
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If we ignore celebrities and all that, is it realistic to expect big differences betwen the niche rating and the baseline rating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:09 AM
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Small eyes are attractive for men. I agree with the uncanny look though. He is like the bimbo insta girl for men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:04 AM
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I don't know if there are any studies on that, but I provided you the thought experiment there. In that thought experiment, every guy and girl gets laid, even though metric #2 is 1/20 and metric #4 is 1. You don't have any chads and stacies in that scenario. So these are not good metrics to begin with. They don't capture who is handsome and who is beautiful exactly. I'm expecting facial attractiveness to follow normal distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:01 AM
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I meant to reply to the guy you replied to. I hate the Reddit app
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:37 AM
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On personality: Top 10 Replicated Findings from Behavioral Genetics https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4739500/ ^ This is a must read regardless. It's the red pill of behavioral genetics Finding 1. All psychological traits show significant and substantial genetic influence Finding 2. No traits are 100% heritable Finding 3. Heritability is caused by many genes of small effect Finding 4. Phenotypic correlations between psychological traits show significant and substantial genetic mediati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:31 AM
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People just wanna feel special. In reality no one is the shit, and genes play a huge role in your life. People think this goes against their humanist narrative, it's become an ideology at this moment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:54 AM
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Really though, the number of times I ate something edible in whole Northern Europe except Michelin restaurants is handful. I can only imagine how much worse it is in average Joe's household. No one craves British food, I'm sorry. I don't even wanna go into the "oh but we got the whole world cuisine in London" shtick...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:53 AM
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You are conflating two principles. The following are related but different metrics. 1. One woman's assessment of N-many men's attractiveness 2. M-many women's average assessment of N-many men's attractiveness 3. Number of women one man can attract 4. Average number of women N-many men can attract I'm talking about #4, you're taking about #2. Or maybe I'm wronf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:46 AM
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This. And not even that, you can make yourself more hot to your wife as well. It's not that complicated. People like hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:27 AM
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I explained the reasons why the okcupid metric does not necessarily mean that 80% of men are unattractive here https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/159pfyq/is_it_better_to_define_averagelooking_by/jtgjm2j
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:18 AM
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Women are not a monolith man. You don't have to be 8/10 to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:16 AM
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What you're missing is most men agree on who's hot, but women don't have such a consensus
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:03 AM
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Tall people have short children, smart people have dumb kids, etc. But it doesn't mean these traits are not heritable. It would be pretty anti-scientific to claim that. There is a reason Dutch people are the tallest nation of earth, they are not the wealthiest ones either. This is just basic genetics, I don't know what to tell you, but it's not the gotcha you think it is Edit: Also a lot of people here don't understand that inheritance don't come from your parents. Inheritance comes from ancesto…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:00 AM
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Even NASA doesn't know exactly the position of planets, but they can estimate with 99.99999% accuracy, in fact this is the basis of going from mathematics to physics. In real life nothing is absolute, but it doesn't mean you are a dummy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:57 AM
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Oh I wasn't aware of that. Yeah, gaussian distribution only happens in simulations for demographics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:52 AM
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I think at this point, someone should build an online service for this. ChatGPT would have a field day with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:51 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:50 AM
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I'm talking about physical attractiveness only. Beauty of a man. I'm not arguing black pill is right, you can check my flair for that. Don't change the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:50 AM
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High quality studies go against your narrative, even some of the personality traits were found to be highly heritable. Genetics play a really big role in our lives and most people are not ready to hear this uncomfortable truth. Coming back to your point, if your mother had a crooked nose, and your father had a weak chin. You'd have a bad start, innit? What if your father started balding when he was 20 years old, and your mother had a rather ugly ears and you got them? I think at this point you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:48 AM
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While I agree it's a bit autistic to do that, that's basically how all the AI face rating algorithms do behind the scenes. AI is especially good at picking up these subconscious preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:34 AM
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You can be an average latino guy and average white guy and some women will prefer the latino one while others may prefer the white guy. It's not that complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:32 AM
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I explained above
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:30 AM
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Your graph is related but a different metric. There are two issues: 1. Physical attractiveness does not have to have a linear relationship with the number of women you can pull. Hypothetical scenario: you get better treatment at work because you're 6/10, but women still don't drop their pants at you, you're slightly better than average man looks wise 2. One woman rating 80% of men unattractive does not mean 80% of men are screwed. Imagine you're a student and in a class, there are 20 men and 20 …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:28 AM
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Below average is just code for "I'm not atrracted to"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:19 AM
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The problem with truerateme is that it was founded by incels, I don't think bell curve is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:18 AM
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Almost all heritable traits follow normal distribution (also known as bell curve). This is not a surprise, as predicted by a fundamental theorem in statistics called central limit theorem. It's one of the key concepts in mathematics. It applies to boob size, dick size, height, weight, atheltic ability, intelligence etc If physical attractiveness follows normal distribution, we expect to see 8/10+ to be 2 std dev above the mean, which means roughly top 5% of the population for both men and women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:15 AM
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Can't tell if sarcasm but I'll be optimistic on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:04 AM
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I am difficult, yes, I know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:03 AM
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Look it's nothing personal against you. I didn't have a grand agenda to today I'm going to argue with CinemaPunditry because how come she says something bad about men. The reality is I left a comment in my break. I just don't have time to scan all the 256 comments in this thread. Hope this will make you feel better. I genuinely don't think you're a shitty person, I just said we're not compatible. I'm also not compatible with the guy you argued.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:59 PM
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You're a difficult fella. I never said that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:53 PM
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Will the real slim shady please stand up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:49 PM
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Look, I argue with people each day, today you're the lucky one. I don't have a duty to be fair to everybody in every thread. This applies to everybody, including you. It doesn't say anything. I reply to you because you reply to me and tag my name ffs. Simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:48 PM
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It wouldn't be sexist, unless you are the collective consciousness of all women, or some women, because not all women and all that. I hope I'm not talking to an AI right now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:40 PM
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Then why are you asking me to come to defend you in Reddit? I don't have to attack every misogynist on earth to attack one misandrist. This is not the hypocrisy you think it is. Do you not understand how ridiculous that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:37 PM
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Hey it was a question though!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:29 PM
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Hey, if you have a problem with me let's discuss. There are a lot of misogynist here also. I call that out too but I ain't a paragon of virtue dude. I can't go on give lecture to everybody. I also work long hours you know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:28 PM
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Does CinemaPunditry have any integrity, people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:26 PM
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Does CinemaPunditry has any integrity, people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:24 PM
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Only hypersensitive when it's convenient to you I guess. Anyway I don't care, I just hope people like you are not the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:14 PM
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It's a rhetorical question smartass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:13 PM
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So your standard to say something sexist is it's okay when the sexist remark is relevant to the topic? Do you hold the same srandard for racism? I did not say anything about bluntly. Apply the same scenario. If you don't get offended by that I guess we're not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:11 PM
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Jesus, okay. That's very sexist of you. At least you're honest... I'll give you that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:07 PM
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I'm bi. I dated men and women. But I'm not a misandrist or misogynist. It's not that hard. I'm not going into the not all x/y/z thing. You didn't answer my question. If you're okay with your boyfriend saying something like that, I'm not compatible with you. There is nothing to discuss further
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:06 PM
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That explains well, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:03 PM
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I'm just saying cooking and cleaning is not a big deal here. Every adult student gets government subsidized rent and no one lives with their parents here. If you think these men are starving, that's on you I guess. About the food stuff, I was sarcastic, but let's not pretend we have a real cuisine up in the north. Europeans don't really have a food culture in the north. That was just friendly banter. If your men cannot cook and clean to save their life, that may be your preference, but I've neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:58 PM
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Men are not a monolith. We are all human, just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:53 PM
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So you think "Women feel no guilt" would not be a sexist remark. I'd dump my boyfriend if he said something like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:52 PM
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Fair enough, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:51 PM
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I don't what happens in the US but the number of people who require a woman to cook and clean is zero here. Most guys have specialized diets to support their gym hobby as well. Edit: oh you're from the Uk, do you even have real food there?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:38 PM
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Are there men who enjoy romantic gestures? I don't know any gay men who enjoy romantic encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:43 PM
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Soceity also tells it's okay to gain some weight, it's okay to work 9-5 and debt yourself to college degrees and mortgage. Soceity tells you should not fail ever, only follow the safe path. They say you should contribute to pension system even if your generation is royally fucked. They say these to women too don't worry. The lesson here is to stop listening to mediocre people. Let the normies be normies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:18 PM
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What was it about then? People came up with the Matrix analogy many times before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:11 PM
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So the original RP was anarchism (not in the colloquial sense, the political sense)?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:06 PM
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Of course no response. Basic empathy flies over the heads of misandrists
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:00 PM
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Look people, just go to Germany, Denmark, Netherlands, Belgium... Observe the couples there. Average European couple don't marry and split everything, including groceries. I know a Swedish couple, they were working in different locations, so they even searched for a location roughly in between the two companies. Now I don't argue you should be have an obsessive loyalty to equality like the Swedes I mentioned, this shit works in Europe, it's not some utopia you pretend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:22 PM
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This is a common mindset in Europe. There is a reason it's called going Dutch. Would you say people in those cultures shouldn't have married ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:18 PM
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Then you are a keeper
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:15 PM
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Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:52 AM
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You're still sour though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:35 AM
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Is it not insulting to you if you reversed the genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:15 AM
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We the middle class are time poor
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:05 AM
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Lesson here is that if you treat your man as a fool then you only attract the fools
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:03 AM
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I'm curious about your productive reason as to why you are here, since you're the one raising the bar for participating in Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:00 AM
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Agree. Don't forget that billions of people would love to do the same 9-5 office job too, even today. It's a big improvement to anyone who lived before 1970. This applies to women too by the way, lesbians, gays... Nobody is special. You live, you die. I hate this narcissistic attitude our generation has.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:53 AM
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Your sign off always gives me chuckles
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:49 AM
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It's due to the rising standards of the society. Not many years ago, an average man with a high school diploma could finance his wife and multiple kids, buy a house when he is 30, didn't pay college debt. He didn't have a fashion sense, never went to gym. He wasn't cool, but he was cool enough. Now the bare minimum is to have a Bachelor's degree, a set of captivating hobbies, a gym body, be tall, be a good lover in bed and a good listener...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:34 AM
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So in essence, white pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:21 AM
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Sorry for that man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:12 AM
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What's your longest relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:25 PM
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I think you're overblowing this one. You found a woman who doesn't like cars man, that's a unicorn. I'm sorry you lost this one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:23 PM
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Do tell me how you're not wasting it in PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:03 PM
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I missed the part where you are a nice guy in that anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:26 PM
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I genuinely think driving is dangerous... but don't understand why people risk their lives for cars
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:16 PM
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Make some short friends and the problem is solved
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:14 PM
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I'm all here for trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:56 PM
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What an empathatic response, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:12 PM
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I don't know, maybe you're not difficult in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:59 PM
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You're a difficult fella
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:15 PM
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You have a point but we're in a thread of anecdotes. What you want is a scientific study, which I can give
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:50 AM
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You do you man. You are the one bringing up about the possibility of an autism disorder. All I'm saying is your analogy was the textbook example of stilted speech, I know because I regularly hangout with people like you. Again do I have to remind you that I understood what you mean? You're not Hegel man, it really wasn't that of a high IQ analogy. We all unferstood what you meant. This is why you're arrogant. You think it's a problem with our intellect while it's a problem of how you speak. It r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:22 AM
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Lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:20 AM
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Bro even Poland does it. Imagine losing against Polish government.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:15 AM
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Agree, especially the manipulative ones. ASPD is a helluva drug
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:08 AM
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There are hormones that incentivize you to become monogamous. Some people have it higher or less. But even before that, the scientists have a method of uniquely identifying people from the way they walk. It's not something you can change, it's mostly genetic. Personality is also affected majorly by genetics. So I would say a lot of things we take granted are heritable actually, so why not monogamy? Some apes are monogamous, some are polyamourous. Are they socially constructed? I doubt so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:05 AM
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It's because usually women do not date down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:47 AM
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I promise you the opposite also happens man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:32 AM
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His fame came from the pronoun debate with a trans person...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:30 AM
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His fame came from the pronoun debate with a trans person...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:29 AM
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My understanding is that you can have high SMV and low RMV but not the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:42 PM
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Fait enough. But he turned out to be a turd, so it's a losing debate if you keep bringing Peterson. Because he turned out to be just that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:35 PM
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Low if she's intrestesting. Otherwise medium. She must be above average intelligence otherwise we won't get along well. Good manners, high EQ, little to no narcissism, confidence, extroversion are nice to have. Big boobs no boobs flat butt i don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:22 PM
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That's more like deadroom market value
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:17 PM
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Women always worked in all the countries. People had to work to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:14 PM
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Yeah I imagine Eastern European men wll be quite a shock to an American woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:12 PM
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I see. You are quite unlikely to find a young religious Orthodox man in Europe. At the same time I guess it's hard to find an Orthodox church in the US as well. Europe is generally quite irreligious aside from Poland, Italy and Greece I think. Maybe you can try Greece or Cyprus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:08 PM
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Plus Europe is... quite irreligious across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:24 PM
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Africa is very popular for central european women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:20 PM
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That was not my point at all, I'm not even Christian
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:17 PM
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Thanks. I think it's more accurate to say Catholic church went through changes and Orthodox remained loyal to the original teachings. From what I know they were unified before the great schism, but it depends on what one means by the older one. Anyway if I understand right, for you, being closer to the original church is an important criteria. You mentioned a conversion though, what's your current denomination?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:16 PM
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Agree, I had a similar comment but you explained better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:09 PM
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You sound like a Redditor man. Real people don't talk like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:05 PM
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Why would that be different for Orthodox?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:03 PM
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Ehhh, I wouldn't really recommend Eastern European guys for religious reasons either but to say a typical EE guy is roided out is a stretch. Actually most of the guys I met are quite nerdy. But Eastern Europe is a very big region so... The main problem with EE guys is they are from pos-soviet countries, unless you're in Poland (more Central European actually) something most people won't be religious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:00 PM
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Ehhh, I wouldn't really recommend Eastern European guys for religious reasons either but to say a typical EE guy is roided out is a stretch. Actually most of the guys I met are quite nerdy and skinny. But Eastern Europe is a very big region so... The main problem with EE guys is they are from post-soviet countries, unless you're in Poland or something most people won't be religious. And Poland is more central european actually, and they are catholic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:58 PM
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Plenty of devout Christians in Germany, you can try. Sundays are Sabbath (even legally) etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:49 PM
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She is considering going Orthodox and your suggestion is Mormons? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:48 PM
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Why not Catholic, serious question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:47 PM
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Today I learned I'm a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:26 PM
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Oh so you mean Hollywood? Got it. I thought nobody took Holywood so seriously in the US, or was I misled?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:25 PM
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Where are you guys getting this so called mainstream consensus from? Is it your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:21 PM
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I don't know where you are but unless you're going to dancing or yoga, most hobbies are male only activities
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:03 PM
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Like other people said, this is an off topic discussion but just wanted to say, Jordan Peterson's own daughter was one of the girlfriends of Andrew Tate at the time. Plus he went to Russia and was put into coma for months to treat his Xanax addiction. If anybody thinks this guy has anything to say about masculinity, they are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:57 PM
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This is why you should not take Reddit seriously, especially the default subs. There is a reason why the word Redditor is an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:46 PM
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Bro if you wanna date in Asia, date in Asia, nobody's gonna to stop you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:45 PM
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Pop culture depictions are off topic. You are the one claiming people who have schizophrenia spectrum disorder are successful with RP. In that case we don't care about average dummy's schizo definition. Stay on the topic please Schizophrenia doesn't make you bad at socializing. Schizophrenia makes you unintrested in it, including sex man. Plus autism is a developmental disorder, meaning you're born with it. This is not the case with schizophrenia. Schizophrenics can't be arsed with RP. Believe m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:57 PM
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I'm as qualified as you are for sharing my experience man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:58 AM
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Fair enough, best of luck there I know there are a lot of therapists without sufficient education
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:57 AM
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Dude I'm on the spectrum I understand what you mean, I'm not some dumn hobo. But if you can't adjust your communication to your audience that's on you. But you call that "going lower than", holy arrogance batman🙄. So yeah maybe you're not as smart as you think you are. This is just basic communication skills, I'm sorry you didn't get this at all Yeah, going to psychiatrist without therapy in France, well good luck with that. That's not a bad idea at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:55 AM
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I think i replied to the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:50 AM
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Bruh have you ever seen an autistic person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:52 PM
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That's a self limiting belief. Again very common in this sub. First of all if you're that jaded you need therapy man. Secondly, I'm not sure if you went to therapist with high school diploma or smth but the goal of the therapy is not to accept your current life situation. You're not a slave being told to accept your fate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:47 PM
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Models is mostly about a guy bragging himself in a self patting blog post disguised as a self help book. I'm not sure why Redditors love it so much. My uncle had better dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:43 PM
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You're overthinking this and to be honest if you have the brains to study CS you can study human behavior way too easily. Your self limiting belief is holding you back. If you can pass leetcode you can study humans. For you an intuitive way would be to learn more about Game Theory. From there you can generalize a lot of life lessons to your career, love life and politics. Plus it's all algorithms
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:39 PM
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What do you think people get in therapy? Certainly your therapist does not transcend you into becoming a social skill god. They will tell you how social rules work, that's it. If you have better idea than thepraists, I'm all ears Also by the way, the way you used a black & white example for your analogy is a textbook symptom of autism. Most people would come up with a more relatable example instead of using logical extremes like in a philosophical forum. You may get some help from reading about …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:32 PM
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Wait wait wait schizophrenia and autism are quite different. Hold on there. Schizophrenia starts with what's called negative features, basically make you apathetic and emotionless, making socialization very unappealing, what's more brain's reward system shuts down, killing all the motivation. This won't make you successful with women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:25 PM
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Of course no response. Well bold claims require bold certifications. Way to go to dismiss the entire fields of science 🙄 Next time please have some hesitations before disrepecting scientists, they are in fact the most likely to have big brains among us. PhD is no joke, people spend their life for this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:08 PM
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You may want to look into /r/PSSD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:06 PM
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I'm bi so I should know :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:50 PM
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What do you think about this meta study? https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36227317/ (2022) For the lazy: This is from the journal Psychological Bulletin, so it's as credible as it gets. If you publish here, you're golden We conduct a comprehensive meta-analysis of gender differences in sex drive based on 211 studies, 856 effect sizes, and 621,463 persons. The meta-analysis revealed a stronger sex drive in men compared to women, with a medium-to-large effect size, g = 0.69, 95% CI [0.58, 0.81]. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:42 PM
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Comparatively, really? What do you think they are publishing? What's the current status according to yoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:25 PM
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Hmm, not really. Where I am everybody is kinda the same. And I mean everybody. Not just women. I was wrong the UK is kinda their own universe as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:23 PM
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If you're worrying about that, you're really young. But if you wanna live a neurotic life, so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:21 PM
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Such is the nature of neurodiversity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:20 PM
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I agree, but what you said can be summarized as avoid the crazies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:16 AM
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And you know this better than the people who are publishing these papers because..?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:07 AM
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Have you ever taken SSRIs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:04 AM
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Do you take SSRIs or something similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:02 AM
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Today I learned I'm low libido
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:00 AM
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Around 50% of people of 18-20 are virgins. Don't worry about that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:58 AM
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Same people also complain about women's body count. As if women with high body count grows on trees. It's because women are horny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:55 AM
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Yeah, if you ever wonder how much testosterone a women has to get laid, then you already lost
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:53 AM
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That's not Low T men. Low T men are 200-300. Women are significantly less T
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:50 AM
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I think it's their conservative upbringing. Their parents and their uncles told them to be a good student, earn money and women will come. Sooner or later they learn that they are not much different than women in the looks aspect. But unlike women you have to go to gym which is a big time sink and the rewards are not immediately obvious. Add in time spent on a working life with a suburban lifestyle spent time on car traffic. You get a very bad loop. By the time they groom and learn social skills…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:32 AM
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No I mean why not the pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:26 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:26 AM
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Depends on your goal I think. Autism will come up sooner or later if you're in a serious relationship. I would suggest to postpone the autism talk in the beginning of the relationship but if things go further, you shouldn't hide it from your SO. Your chances of stastifying average narcissist normie is very low, so go for understanding women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:01 AM
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Ehh, UK women are kind of their own world though. I live in Northern Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:55 AM
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If you really trust then why are you using condoms? Serious question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:55 AM
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Sounds like they found you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:28 AM
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Yeah, in multiple countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:14 AM
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I understand. Just remember this if anyone says autistic people don't have empathy. Normies don't either. Most people are stupid, intelligence is rare (top 5% of population), so maybe it will help you understand why people don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:11 AM
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Same experience here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:51 AM
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These people never had a hot friend irl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:50 AM
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You're thinking how this magical open source app will make you guys lifes easier. That's not gonna work. You need to have a sufficient female user base. Your app needs to be fun for your women. This is a network problem, not a technical problem. All this talk about ELO and open source. Blah, what is Tinder? A photo gallery with a chat room. That's really it. And a government mandated ID control? Lmao. 1984 is back boys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:39 AM
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Skill issue, depends on what kind of men you attract
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:32 AM
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Their problems are not only the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:56 AM
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Do Mechanical Turk with ChatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:53 AM
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You can take some drugs to explore this concept better. Ironically, yes, I used the same technique for my cardio sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:49 AM
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This is one of the best comments I read in the last fes months. Maybe consider making a post about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:30 AM
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Yes, maybe you are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:24 AM
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If you're so smart why do you talk like a meth addict?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:28 PM
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You definitely sound like a Redditor. There is something off with how you communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:55 PM
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People would tell you why it's your job to raise the kids in that scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:10 PM
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Most importantly, everyone would point out it's creepy before you opened your mouth if you were a woman. But now you said you were a man, you had to explain in detail why it's creepy. And that's in an anonymous online forum. As if you have no rights to be creeped out by someone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:43 PM
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That's a different topic, now you're talking about subjective perceived attractiveness of a man. Let's define attractiveness as number of women a man attracts by beauty only. That will be a bell curve, similar to height, intelligence, etc That way you take out an individual woman out of the equation. Otherwise it's hard to talk about who is attractive or not. Interestingly, height and intelligence are correlated with attractiveness and income already. Income is also correlated with attractivenes…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:16 PM
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It's okay, some people are not imaginative and they keep living in the same village their grandparents were born
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:14 PM
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I'd suggest to use the term mean instead of average, otherwise it's confusing for everybody. Mean American income is high, median American income is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:11 PM
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I think you can try Eastern Europe, cats and sensitive guys would work great there if you have some money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:57 PM
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Sorry I mixed you with someone else. But yeah I got a lot of comments here in this sub as if once you step out of New England you get to be eaten by zombies. I agree it's a privilege to move out, well partially. Immigrating on a whim is a privileged thing. Being forced to immigrate because of your living conditions is not. I think for most passport bros it's the latter, I don't think people would move abroad just to have some intimacy if they did have alternative choices. It's a reverse migratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:51 PM
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Dude I don't know where you're living, but my short friends don't have this problem. And I'm pretty sure guys here are a lot taller than the US. They are especially well respected within their fields. So yeah unless you live with cavemen, or you imagine something like American Psycho or something when it comes to respect. I'm just so baffled I can't even... Like you're aware cetain behaviours lose people's respect, right? That must have happened to you before, don't tell me you never lost respec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:44 PM
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That's not true, almost all genetic features have normal distribution (aka the bell curve). 8/10 is 2 standard deviation above the mean. That means 8/10 is witihn 5-10%. This is one of the fundamental theorems of Statistics, it's called central limit theorem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:46 AM
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Hard to get laid in the US without being a sinner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:43 AM
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Makes sense, so for you the only alternative other than the US is Bangladesh and Africa. Then I guess passport bro does not apply to you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:39 AM
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That's not a comment on your attractiveness in your area. It's a comment on how privileged you are. It's a wake up call to not be a cry baby and assume everywhere outside the US is slums
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:55 AM
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Not really, your average K-Pop star is quiet different than Taylor Swift
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:53 AM
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My point is if you're struggling, passport bro is an option. Also what are you guys are on about? Do you really think anywhere outside the West is Bangladesh? Come on now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:50 AM
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To be a virgin is no different, ultimately, from never having eaten Chinese food or having been to Disneyland. In fact, you could reasonably equate the two; more often than not, you wait for too damn long for a thrill that’s over in under 3 minutes and half the time you’re wondering what the big deal was. Sounds more like the guy is asexual or never had good sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:37 PM
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See the problem with being ND is like being LGBT. It's a group of exclusion, if you're not NT, your ND. It does not mean every ND is the same. Anyway I think that explains why your friends are that sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:20 PM
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I totally understand. Strangely I have the same family dynamic and I'm naturally sensitive also. Long series of traumas later I'm in a completely different plane, can't even cry now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:17 PM
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Best of luck man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:14 PM
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This is true the only problems is when it comes to dating it's a lot more localized and the hierarchies are not always clear cut like in most human organizations. Your local Stacy could be ugly in another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:09 PM
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Lacking basic manners that your parents or middle school should have taught you about is part of your personality because even if you didn't have access to good example figures you should have the personality to be curious and learn how to behave either through life experience or internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:57 PM
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Yeah no wonder you people have difficult time dating if you think this is your Prince Charming. Western education sucks I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:53 PM
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What's your point? There are legit ugly people, are we going to ignore their misfortune? Have you ever been in a single situation you didn't want to be part of? Not everything is in our control
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:46 PM
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Yeah unless you're top 10% in your career, I struggle to see the point in wallowing yourself for why not being born a supermodel. Most of you guys grew up in the West, that's top 10% already
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:43 PM
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You don't heroic doses. Just normal and even micro doses can do the trick. Besides, you don't even need drugs to do that, but they certainly help. These are your mental barriers, self limiting beliefs we keep hearing from stupid people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:39 PM
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Any move besides trying to be a more confident, less neurotic version of yourself is a dead end. Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:37 PM
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Are they nerdy or on the spectrum of neurodiversity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:20 PM
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You are asking for rationality in dating. Most people are not rational when it comes to polarizing and controversial topics. Think religion, politics, football and so on. Dating is highly emotional and driven by unconscious. But yeah you got good observation skills
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:15 PM
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Are you a normie by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:11 PM
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You mean more like America and... Canada, France, UK, Ireland, Australia, Netherlands, Belgium, Denmark, Norway... Masculinity "crisis" is everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:10 PM
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If your only option is Trinidad, do that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:09 PM
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I think it's more about being a little mean demonstrates men's lack of anxiety and inhibitions. A man who is Mr. Perfect to his girlfriend will be the same to everybody else in his life, which is very unmasculine. And certainly something I don't recommend. It also doesn't mean you should be cavemen like a lot of guys in the US, it's a lot more subtle than that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:12 AM
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I don't know if you're really nice but one thing I noticed is that there are only a few genuinely nice people in the West. It's not that uncommon in different parts of the world. People then take the cynical view that nice people have ulterior motives, because they have never been really nice, and as a consequence never had nice friends or spouses. Real nice people don't virtue signal endlessly on social media, they go to charities, volunteer, become activists or martyrs, work on a generous prof…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:03 AM
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Average NT guy will struggle with how girls operate and have to learn how to behave through life experience when it comes to dating. Average NT gal may experience dating difficulties but not this exact issue. Most guys are usually easy to read, can't lie if their life depended on it, don't like to play mind games etc. Given that neurodivergencies impact people's social abilities in a negative way, it follows that guys with ND brain will have significant disadvantages compared to their NT counter…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:52 PM
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Agree but, I was the first one to remind that we're arguing about semantics, but I continued the thread because we had follow-up questions. Just an FYI if you don't want to get into circular arguments. If you want to understand better, maybe you can take a look at the class divisions in the UK. And it's totally fine to have a different opinion on money, I'm just saying that there a lot of cultural differences that you do not take into account. Having a yacht sounds a lot more upper class than ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:45 PM
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Chadfishing is for chronically online. Anyone who has a healthy social life would have at one point an attractive friend to have a glimpse on their dating life. No need for insane Nazi pedophile asking for nudes types of content. Just be friendly theory
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:29 PM
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Doesn't even have to be night clubs. A hot friend of mine had a girl approach him in daylight and go have some fun in the park in the same hour. Good thing I'm not straight but damn, so yeah immediately sucked off is not out of options. Ironically, it's a lot more probable than the few popular anecdotes I saw in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:24 PM
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This makes sense if you take the personality argument literally. Being friendly does not translate to being sexy automatically. Being sexy can also work against your friendliness. I know some people who struggle to make friends but they do well with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:19 PM
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I had a few friends who had turn down trans people in the very last moment... In fact, there is a reason why some trans people "pass" and some don't. It's about how they look, not how they posses their genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:15 PM
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I'm non-binary and understand what you're saying, don't bother if they don't get you, some people may never will. You're totally right, especially when you consider LGBT...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:13 PM
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Whatever fits your boat dude. I'm not your dictionary, and I'm not interested in bikeshedding
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:13 PM
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That's more about being well off and higher class. If you have a private chef you're wealthy. That's two different things but related. Plus I can get a private chef for much less in different parts of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:16 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:14 AM
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It's still insane because you can basically retire at your 40s with that kind of sustained income. Unless you're parents are at that kind of level... Well then why would you visit Reddit if you had that kind of money...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:08 PM
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You need anti-psychotics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:58 PM
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And... instead of reporting this horrific incident, somehow you mention it out of nowhere, on Reddit of all places. And I really doubt people who date billionaires spend their time on PPD. Yeah, cool story
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:54 AM
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Well this is a related but different question from you asked. Perfect is the enemy of the good. You can become shameless too if that's your goal. I don't promise it will be easy but if you really want it you can. No one is born uninhibited. And yes don't let the idealism fool you, in all kinds of cases, I'm a firm believer of pragmatism. I'm talking from my life experience, but you can start applying meditation and activities that will challenge your anxieties for starters. That could be dancing…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:07 PM
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It's easier to be extroverted when you have some social success, because then it's more enjoyable. You can indeed study what makes a good social interaction and get better at it, and once get better at it you get a sense of accomplishment which breeds further success. So it's a little bit of both, it just requires a little bit of self-awareness and motivation to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:12 AM
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