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Mr. President, there are reports that the Chads are harboring weapons of ass destruction. https://preview.redd.it/s7p6zinc27jc1.png?width=1200&format=png&auto=webp&s=39f511d972aac57df6c7fd13896af6cc7abc76cb
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:08 PM
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Second guy is literally me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:29 AM
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Might delete this account and come back less toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:25 AM
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What gets me is the red pill make mindset is like "girls in this age group were really difficult and rejected me, so I'm going to keep trying to pursue that specific age group as I get older and it gets more difficult" I don't get how my gender is so fucking dumb. I tried to get into the redpill manosphere stuff, but the podcasts are so stupid and out of touch and whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:23 AM
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Worst case scenario you strike out with two girls in a row and get labelled and creep and asked by the instructor not to approach the girls who are just trying to work out. Best case scenario you hit it off with two girls in a row but then get labelled a player and a creep and the instructor asks you to not sleep with the girls coming to her class.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:22 AM
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I got some homework for you guys. Add a bunch of random girls on tiktok or instagram and after about ten of them follow you back DM them after a few weeks and be like "do I know you from somewhere?" and act confused about how you ended up as mutuals but express the fact you think they're cool and you don't mind. Be a little flirtatious and then ask for snap. Just give it a try and see how things go. Worst that happens is you end up unfollowing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:17 AM
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oh yeah, that takes me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:13 AM
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Pls tell me what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:55 AM
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Maybe he wants to ban abortions? Seems pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:54 AM
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Yes. You know how when someone sees a spider and they tell their kids it's more scared of you than you are of it? It's like that whenever women are present. I'm the spider.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:53 AM
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Jon Stewart is hosting the Daily Show again. As a center left democrat, I might start caring about politics again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:49 AM
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"brilliance"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:47 AM
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Inside sounds good and visually was really cool, but I can't stand him and his shallow "hot takes" which are literally just whatever people were tweeting at the time. There was no real introspection or social critique. It was just safe leftist catch phrases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:46 AM
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I think it is easier to appreciate her if you get the references to different periods of american culture, americana in general and art and literature and stuff. Her music definitely has more appeal to the art crowd. I have a very nostalgic connection to her music because my partner is a big fan of her and we would listen to her music a lot in the early stages of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:44 AM
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Born to Die is a classic and would be in my top 50 albums of all time. I also like Ultraviolence. She is definitely one of the most influential artists of the past few decades. These are some of my favorites: https://youtu.be/Py_-3di1yx0?si=1IFCPB3lPx4ylau2 https://youtu.be/DuEEnZk4-48?si=lMUXNTc4cuNK6ZnU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=erD8y93Iqos https://youtu.be/vZJfb_ER-MA?si=UeLozXw2c-8_aWtR https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T5xcnjAG8pE
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:36 AM
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Start flirting with some of the girls from PPD, say something a little risky and see what you can get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:26 AM

Feminism is literally just incel yapping that got legitimized because of post-modernists needing something to do for their PhD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:23 PM
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I was on there a lot too. Getting off of that site was the best thing I did for my mental health. Tbh, I don't think I'd be as fucked up as I was if I had never gone on there. The epiphany came one day when talking with my girlfriend, she said "the reasons girls didn't sleep with you is because you're mean to them" I was always in the odd position where I could attract women, get them to be my girlfriend, but they would reject me when I tried to have sex. Since they had already had sex I would f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:17 PM
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Nietzsche wrote about the concept of master-slave morality. Essentially, due to religious influence, the meek are viewed as morally superior to the strong. The victim is absolved of any guilt because they are not the aggressor. My take is that since femininity is traditionally submissive to the masculine, this means there are seemingly less things to hold women accountable for. I think hormones definitely play a role in aggression and sexuality and men having higher levels of testosterone are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:05 PM
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I have to disagree there boss. My journey of ascension start by googling things like that. It is good to know the signs and to be able to reverse engineer that information to be more appealing to women. Wikihow had the keys back in the day bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:53 PM
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lmao, I'm the incel whisperer walking amongst them sharing tales of hope and inspiration like Mother Theresa or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:51 PM
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I identify with them though and I feel like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:41 PM
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Is manosphere culture a joke? And people have always lied about their numbers. You have to connect the dots yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:38 PM
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I remember seeing something about this the other day and I really disliked the wording. They said Incels are more likely to be autistic rather than autistic men are more likely to be incels. Autism precedes inceldom for men. And aside from the word, no shit men who struggle with socializing and have mental health issues also have trouble finding relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:33 PM
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When are the next statistics regarding male sexlessness going to drop. I remember the infamous one showing male sexlessness rose, and then another one a few years later showing female sexlessness rose, but it could easily be explained by the pandemic. I'm curious to see how the trend continues now that the pandemic is largely behind us and people have mostly returned to normal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:23 PM
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Theodore is short and fat. I doubt any girl would like him. It is Alvin for the Stacy girls and Simon for the Becky girls. Theodore is an incel posting on PPD complaining about hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:13 PM
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ohhh, sorry, my feeble male brain failed to realize a woman was being funny. Please spare me 🙏🏻 But yeah, tbh, Harry Potter or Marvel or any of that shit would be a HUGE deal breaker for me. I could forgive most anything, but that kind of stuff is too far for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:01 PM
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Bookkeeping is a job. She doesn't tortue the animals, she is just irresponsible with feeding them. I don't see where it says she is unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:54 PM
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Sucks, but there was only ever one choice 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:52 PM
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17 is legal in my state so that is realistically my only choice in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:49 PM
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I would enthusiastically choose Melissa, but the harry potter thing is a deal breaker. I don't know if I could overlook that. I would shame her into not being an adult harry potter fan anymore. One of my neighbors has a Platform 9 3/4 door mat and I became physically ill and filled with anger when I saw it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:43 PM
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No, I like gardening. Last night my partner and I pruned one of our plants and started propagating some of it. It's enjoyable working with natural things like that. But tbf, I think I have more girly interests. It seems all the guys here and the guys I work with are into video games and comic books and shit and all that stuff makes me cringe. It sucks because I never meet anyone with the same interests as me so, I don't know what this means for you, maybe it is, but not to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:30 PM
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Dominick is literally me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:25 PM
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I don't hear much about Britain accepting refugees. I know they obviously do, but I don't hear about it as much as in France or the USA. Probably the places that are becoming more conservative are the ones who see that progressivism doesn't work as well as it does in theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:23 PM
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Right 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:16 PM
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I do not fit in here at all. How many funko pops do you own?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:03 PM
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Do you think this post is normal behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:02 PM
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I guarantee you women will pick Sam. You should try to present both without your biases. What is the point of this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:45 PM
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The belief that looks are the only thing that matters for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:39 PM
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Zero tolerance policy is necessary. The majority of black pill supporters just repeat meme phrases and are incapable of actually discussing these topics or arguing their points. Whenever a black pill leaning sub has existed they prove they're incapable of arguing their point in good faith. The problem with the black pill is they convince themselves that unless you look like one of the three male models they are obsessed with, women will not like you. That is absurd and untrue. A simple trip to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:19 PM
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Yeah, I've heard that too. I don't think it is necessarily that they're better, just most men lack the vocabulary to identify different colors since women are more exposed to nail polish and lipstick and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:04 PM
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"Brown." ​ https://preview.redd.it/ddevrvslzyic1.png?width=220&format=png&auto=webp&s=07dcf28fd5916153ae5f3ce3ee266feb685f5435
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:58 PM
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#df986c
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:56 PM
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Wow. I'm not signing your yearbook now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:53 PM
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fetal alcohol syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:50 PM
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Why this girl looking like sid from ice age and the movie avatar had a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:47 PM
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It's a little funny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:56 PM
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And yes, that is a reference to the Lizzie McGuire yearbook episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:44 PM
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Why would someone pay that for a book ​ i just paid $100 for a yearbook You rock, don't ever change.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:44 PM
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I would treat other women like they were my partner when I had a partner, but my partner would find out I was treating these other women like they were my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:42 PM
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I did, but she'd always catch me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:38 PM
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I have no clue what you're talking about or who you're quoting. But like I said, women are met with more sympathy and more rebound opportunities so they don't experience the stress men experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:35 PM
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Not really nuance, just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:33 PM
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From violent men. The difference is that men recognize some men are dangerous. Women on the other hand project that all men are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:29 PM
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Plenty of reasons. Men are in more situations where gun violence might be advantageous. For example, men might be drawn to gangs for the upward social mobility and protection they provide. Women typically are on an equal playing field with other women. That is women tend to have equal worth and value. Men on the other hand are in direct competition with other men which creates tension and aggression and violence and causes men to seek out ways to boost their status within their culture. Sure, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:26 PM
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I base my opinions on women on TikTok street interviews. I should try your approach, you are very sensible and smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:18 PM
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I feel bad for women in this regard. They deal with menstruation and childbirth and often are reduced to their sexual function. And the hygiene products for these things they don't have a choice over are costly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:14 PM
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Make it yourself. It's pretty easy and a lot healthier, plus you can make a large batch and freeze it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:09 PM
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For real. Man or woman, the psychological mechanisms of chronically online hatred are the same. They use cherry picked examples to fuel their disdain on a group. It's no different than any kind of racism, sexism, homophobia, or any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:08 PM
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Because I wouldn't have spent a decade chasing something I missed out on and would have been ok with myself so I could have actually been sincere with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:28 PM
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Male inequality explained by author Richard Reeves Pretty good video. I don't typically read non-fiction, but I might check this book out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:21 PM
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Same. Or at least I used to be. Tbh as long as you're on a street going less than 30mph and you're often at a stop sign or street light, it isn't dangerous. I think it is ridiculous when I see people texting on the highway though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:18 PM
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No. My mom isn't in any of those groups. She probably would be if she was younger. But enough women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:14 PM
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American/10
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:13 PM
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If they brag about spinning plates then they're not single which further proves my point. Women tend to choose shitty guys and then deflect by saying the guys they don't choose are the shitty ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:09 PM
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I mean they're pretty popular in each city, so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:07 PM
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I know I say a lot of negative and toxic stuff here, but I just want to say I really love my wife and I'm so thankful for her. We had such a nice little date night last night. I admire her so much and I'm so lucky to have someone as wonderful and loving and kind as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:06 PM
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I hate this analogy. It is disingenuous to assume those guys are not good potential partners especially considering women have no problem dating men who abuse them and cheat on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:59 PM
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women are not a hivemind Then how come "are we dating the same guy" groups exist? Women aren't that unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:57 PM
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I have gf and was still suicidally depressed when one of my potential side chicks rejected me for having gf 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:56 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:53 PM
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Play. The. Boyfriend. Role. That is the trick. Serial monogamy. Fuck them good a few dozen times. Get them attached. Then move onto the next one. I wish I had realized this when I was a teenager, I wouldn't be the fucking sociopathic quasi BPD mess I am today and I could probably actually love someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:45 PM
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Pre-selection is red pill fantasy. Or at least red pill men typically misinterpret what preselection means. I wrongly assumed, like most guys, that if you can show that girls like you, it will make other girls like you. So I would brag about past sexual experiences and how many ex girlfriends I have. I had been involved with a few girls with the same first name so I'd say something douchy like "oh damn, I've got a bad history with girls named ______" And then I'd get all depressed when these gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:42 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:32 PM
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Are you saying men are inherently bad and there is no explanation for their behavior and women are inherently good?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:28 PM
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It is easier to be a woman so they are less crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:14 PM
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That's just me sticking to my morals Yeah, thats on you and your mindset like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:11 PM
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It's hard to be the better man when you forget you're trying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:31 PM
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Actually no, I was curious what these places are because I imagine they are predominately women. Like I said in another comment women have enough consolations in life to not have the same unending deep rooted trauma men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:29 PM
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I've only worked one place where that was a thing and it was definitely being pushed by the non-binary/trans team lead. I think it is goofy, but I just play along because social acceptance is important and it's not worth it to argue against things that have no effect on me. That is what the internet is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:25 PM
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Women are afforded the luxury of being "good" because society isn't against them as harshly as it is against men. There is a lot of consolation women receive that redeems them from having real, deep rooted trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:22 PM
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Where are these unmoderated places that are supposedly positive which you conveniently didn't name?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:21 PM
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Do women have thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:43 PM
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Her last name is coomer 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:41 PM
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Using words that exist in our lexicon is "attempting to sound smart?" Are you suggesting people should pretend to be inarticulate? Why? Even people with expansive vocabularies can make typing errors. "the former" and "the latter" are just phrases, stop trying to intellectualize it by inferring anti-intellectualism is somehow superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:40 PM
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I've thought about this before. It is definitely a little of both. I think it is a glimpse into true human nature though. I don't think people are good. When people are not anonymous they tend to virtue signal and create in-groups. When they are anonymous they tend to say and do things they likely wouldn't in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:31 PM
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You have way too much faith in humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:21 PM
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Behind what curve? It isn't a competition. Generally speaking, two people meet and like each other and date. That is the relationship. The past is mostly irrelevant. Except for guys like us who are hung up on our own insecurities, but at the end of the day we're responsible for our own misery because it all comes down to mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:19 PM
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I'm being sarcastic. It is ridiculous to think you can't have a normal love life past 24. It all depends on your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:41 AM
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How old were they when they had their first relationship? And good idea to end it. Go play the field and have some fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:34 AM
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How would you know? Have you been a 24 year old virgin male?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:31 AM
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u/MyHouseOnMars- please answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:24 AM
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Yeah, 23 is the cut off. Sorry bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:23 AM
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Social media DMs. Also, stop caring what people think and just approach girls. Learn what works and what doesn't. Go to the next area code so you are less likely to run into anyone you know. Learn to have open body language and have an inviting presence. Be nice and slightly flirtatious with everyone you meet. Learn about charisma and psychology and shit. Or don't and just keep complaining on the internet. Nobody is going to do it for you. I figured out how to get girls to like me by reading cos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:16 PM
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Of all the shit Andrew Tate did getting angry that people attack his chin is...... strange to say the least The problem is that if you attack his recessed chin or Donald Trump for being fat or wearing a hair piece or Ron DeSantis for wearing lifts because he isn't as tall as the other candidates, it alienates and also attacks all the men who have those traits that might not have the same character as the people you dislike. Does this mean men are on board with a body positivity movement? Of cour…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:31 PM
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Maybe guilty isn't the right word. Awkwardness? It just makes things worse though because the guy knows it's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:28 PM
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So what if it is? My mom would often give me hugs growing up so I really like feeling connected to the people I care about. My partner and I have been sick for a couple weeks so we haven't physically touched each other and I'm starting to feel anxious and lonely and worrying about what will happen to us if one of us was to die. Women are so adversarial and just hate men and want to invalidate their natural feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:52 PM
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For real. I used to be super progressive, but as I've gotten older and exposed to actual feminism I realized there is a reason traditional society was set up the way it was. It just works better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:47 PM
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Aren't they essentially the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:44 PM
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It's sort of freeing in a way. You know, any woman you're with is surely just settling for you so breaking up with them or being non-committal is kind of doing them a favor. Like we had fun, but I know you don't love me as much as you could so I should be with someone who actually values me. You can keep them around for sex or doing the fun relationship stuff, but committing isn't an ideal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:42 PM
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I've only seen women talk about love languages and they definitely use it as a tool to reject men without feeling guilt or admitting that they're just not attracted to the guy, It's just more astrology. As a man you have to understand these things from a woman's perspective so you can answer their questions correctly or reject them before they reject you so they feel confused and try to get your approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:37 PM
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Wow. Sorry I'm not entertaining enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:15 PM
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😃
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:48 PM
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All the doors are automatic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:44 PM
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Are we married? I would do it, but I'd be scared if she left I would be left with nothing. Guess I would just have to secretly steal money from her over the course of several years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:43 PM
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Cute. How tall is he? 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:42 PM
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Just found out more plates more dates is at least 6'1. I thought he was 5'10. Kind of crazy, all these red pill guys are 5'11 or taller. Really makes you think about all the black pill stuff and how it is for people who the red pill doesn't work for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:23 PM
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If you're a single woman on Valentines Day it is likely because you're giving your attention to a guy that doesn't want you. That is on you for choosing wrong. However, If you're a single man on Valentines Day it is likely because no girls want you and tbh that is a far worse experience. This is why men have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:22 PM
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True that. Balance. I struggle with balance, but tbh my weight gain has come from the food that is worth abandoning however highly addicting. Making your own meals makes it easier to not overeat since you're eating whole foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:49 PM
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I've heard the saying "nothing tastes as good as thin feels" and I have to disagree. This may be true for a lot of people since it seems most people do not know how to cook well, but as someone who is a pretty good cook and is also really picky when it comes to restaurants, there are plenty of things that are extremely delicious and make you feel really satisfied and happy while eating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:42 PM
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Very well said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:32 PM
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This is essentially my philosophy on the whole thing. Dating isn't fair, so why should we be? Do whatever you have to do without breaking the law. Whats the worst that happens? Some disgruntled girl thinks you're an asshole? Great, that is no different than all the millions of girls angry at their ex boyfriends. Look at Olivia Rodrigo and Taylor Swift, they've made careers off of demonizing their ex boyfriends. I had that realization young. Shitty guys get songs written about them, not shitty gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:39 PM
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same, women are going to be in these weird reverse harems where they willingly share "chad" meanwhile the non chad men will work the undesirable jobs like in india's caste system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:22 PM
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I would have sex with literally any woman I found attractive enough to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:20 PM
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Women's ideal body type for men is tall and thin which is unobtainable since it's genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:17 PM

I am scared to answer truthfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:50 PM

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:43 PM

Tbh lately I've been thinking about this concept of determinism. It took a lot of fighting to get where I am and I was able to hack my personality enough to get the results I wanted. I know we can break out conditioning, but it takes a lot of effort. You might not get the authentic chad or billionaire experience, but you could get something closer to it than you have now. It is just a matter of whether it is worth it or if it is better to learn to accept ones station in life. I just know I'd rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:43 PM

I don't see it as being weak willed, just doing what is effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:41 PM

Yeah. He was a total love bomber. I adopted a lot of my fuckboy tendencies by asking my partner open ended questions about him early in our relationship and reading her private messages when she wasn't around. A couple things I learned that were effective was when you get a new girl tell her you're going back with your ex so you can't be sexual anymore, but then still push for things to be sexual. That then establishes the dynamic of her being the side piece. The other is you do have to act like…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:39 PM

Because even if I identify and recognize the emotions, they're still there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:33 PM

My wife and I met in high school. We had a class together. We didn't talk then, and I dropped out of school, but for a couple weeks we were in the same class together. There was another girl in that class. Both of them dated the same guy that year. The guy took my wife's virginity and I don't know about the other girl, but I know they had sex. There was also a girl in the class next to ours that this guy also had sex with that same year. This guy, in the course of less than 6 months was having s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:30 PM

It still shows someone desires you which is a positive thing especially when you feel undesired.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:24 PM

You wouldn't get it because you're a woman and aren't starved for affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:21 PM

I feel you. The only advice I can give is you have to psychologically fuck with these girls. Find the ones with some trauma and family issues, and then give them everything they want. Lovebomb the fuck out of them, fuck them really good, and then take it all away and leave breadcrumbs that they can think they can get you back. Too many guys refuse to do it, but what do you gain from being moral? At the end of the day these guys are getting the girls who reject you so what do you owe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:15 PM
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Its about empathy. [...] What people do have, is empathy. We can empathize with women, just like we can empathize with immigrants, and like we can empathize with gay people. We can support agencies that advance the rights of these groups, even if we aren't a member of all or some of them. Very telling how you didn't include men in the list of people we can empathize with. Women aren't oppressed, if anything they have a better quality of life and better outcomes than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:10 PM

Everyone is so annoying about this shit. It's a fucking WEDNESDAY! sorry I don't want to get all dressed up and go out to a restaurant when all the other schmucks are going to be there and the service will be shit in the literal middle of the week. What is so wrong about moving all celebrations to the weekend? I don't care if we celebrate my birthday a week later when it's more convenient. I'd rather reschedule and actually enjoy it than be stressed out just to meet social conventions. Also...I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:50 PM

My assumption is that women are developing more looks-focused metrics due to the popularity of dating apps. I believe a conspiracy theory which posits that these dating apps are purposefully designed to leave both parties dissatisfied. For women they have an endless stream of options, however none are satisfying because it disregards their need to get a holistic sense of a potential suitor. For men they also get an endless stream of women which will spike dopamine based on the visual aspect of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:43 PM

That is what the experts say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:31 PM

I'm not a woman, but admittedly I think it is insecure and hurt men trying to demean women who they feel threatened by. I could never actually believe that, but I could see myself saying it to try to hurt those who I feel intimidated by. I don't know if I would ever actually believe it, but if you say something enough it becomes your reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:29 PM

It's definitely the number of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:07 PM

I can definitely do it without porn, but it is so much nicer to look at women who I normally wouldn't be able to attract. I guess men are just more visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:17 PM

For me it's because it is a testament to all the sex I missed out on. Knowing she has more experience than me makes me feel inferior. You can never truly reclaim your youth and even if you do have a hoe phase as a man when you're older it won't be the same because it is only a new experience for you as opposed to both of you. It's a little easier to deal with now because I did have a hoe phase in my twenties plus I shifted my mindset to view sex as something that should be fun and not a competit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:15 PM

Tick Tock Tick Tock tomorrow is Valentines Day. Hope you bought a gift for your someone special...Oh? what is that? Alone on Valentines day again? How sad lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:58 PM
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The patriarchy does not exist, but it should. What feminists define as the patriarchy is much more fair than any system they would implement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:56 PM
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Why should I, as a man, be concerned with feminism? Feminism makes it very clear they are focused on women's issues and feminism does not intend to solve the issues men experience. Feminism also makes it clear that there is no need to acknowledge their own biases even if it contradicts feminist beliefs. So why should I care about feminism or be an "ally" when based on their logic, there is no mutual respect between men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:53 PM

The thing is he doesn't even register as a Chad to me. He just looks like the kind of guys that works in landscaping or some shit and gets a beat red farmers tan in the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:46 PM

I was getting the ick watching him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:45 PM

He is 65 and looks like he has diabetes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:42 PM

They were putting their post game order in at Dennys and was told they're out of BBQ sauce for his chicken nuggies 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:36 PM

All those NFL guys have brain damage and roid rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:32 PM

Tbh the only thing I like about Taylor Swift is her producer Jack Antonoff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:32 PM

Even at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:31 PM

"He's an athlete in the super bowl! Of course it is acceptable for him to scream in his 65 year old coaches face! That is totally normal behavior!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:30 PM

I don't give a care about Taylor Swift, but considering people can't stop talking about America's sweet heart and her varsity all star boyfriend, I can't help but think how embarrassing he is for her. He yells, he acts brutish, and he just looks like a poor. I saw someone say that watching them kiss during the super bowl was like being forced to be part of a Disney high school rom com none of us consented to. I agree with that take. I like some of Taylor Swifts music even if I think she is a ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:25 PM

I think he is going to murder her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:18 PM

Not really insomnia, but probably depression even though I don't feel sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:11 PM

Sort of both. I only masturbate to help me fall asleep, but I use the visuals to get started. After that it does feel good so I keep going. Then after I have an orgasm I feel relieved and more relaxed so I roll over and shut my eyes as fast as I can and fantasize about having a better life. If I am unable to masturbate before bed I can't fall asleep and actually having sex doesn't put me in the same relaxed state that masturbating does. Tbh I am not even interested in sex or masturbation, I just…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:01 PM
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Literally me. I'm voting for Trump after being a down the ballot democrat since 2008. Why would I continue to vote for a party that views my demographic as the enemy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:40 AM
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I'm pretty sure the majority of black pill supporters are mentally deficient. If you watch any of their content they all sound pretty dumb. they have speech impediments and limited vocabulary and struggle to articulate their points well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:00 PM

Reminder to men to not get your lady some roses for VDay and to instead make her start a huge fight so you can have bomb ass make up sex the next day. Stay toxic kings 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:59 PM
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What he is saying is that men take more accountability for their actions, so it is actually worse when women cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:41 PM
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a guy literally had to direct me it was so embarrassing I bet you hated this so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:24 PM
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I really wish there was more information on this, but I know anything that would break the feminist narrative is suppressed. Like are there more MTF than FTM? Which one is happier? If women really believe life is easier as a man, why don't they transition?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:23 PM
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I don't see any benefit of being a "good man" in fact I don't see any benefit of being a good person. I think there is an argument that can be made about remaining good in the face of adversity, but all in all being a "bad" person carries a lot more benefit. I've grown this way based on experiences growing up. Usually the worst people have the most enviable lives. One problem with our outlook though is that are women truly happy about being promiscuous? I think we are becoming an increasingly at…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:03 PM
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It would be more noble to just admit you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:30 PM
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It is easy af to argue against Then argue against it. Change my world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:25 PM
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Disprove what I said then. If it's so dumb, you could easily argue against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:16 PM
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No. They hate the left because they're hypocritical and hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:15 PM
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Not to me. He looks very "where's my hug at?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:15 PM
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Virtually any woman who is of at least acceptable attractiveness and even a little below that could download tinder and within a few hours sleep with multiple model tier men. That reality is not true for men. As a fat 5'9 guy when I was dating I would have loved to experience a woman way out of my league just to see what it is like. Never would have happened. Even if I was in incredible shape the the majority of women would still reject me or need to be in a relationship with me before we had se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:11 PM
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One day women will bow before all men under 6'1 and will plead for their forgiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:52 PM
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Tbh I'd like that. I'm narcissistic af and the attention I'd get by being exposed for my bad behavior excites me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:50 PM
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Based. I still wouldn't date a porn actress long term though. The difference is shame. A lot of men are ashamed that they watch porn and do it in secret. Many men watch porn out of necessity. Unlike women we can't have all our fantasies fulfilled by just existing. But overall, I agree with you in the context of showing it to embarrass women is silly and rooted in their own insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:49 PM
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"Noooo that's different! It's women that need to be punished, not me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:45 PM
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He looks fine. Those are pretty good beard genetics. Not every guy wants to look like a hypermasculine video game character.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:38 PM
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Q4Anyone who participated in extra curricular activities in High School: My partner and I were talking last night about how when she was participating in an extra curricular activity she was so exhausted that she would wake up in the middle of the night in a panic due to thinking she was still there or at practice or had missed practice, etc. I know not everyone deals with that level of exhaustion, so I'm just curious what your experience was like and whether or not you dealt with true exhaustio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:36 PM
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I really do not think Taylor Swift is the marrying type and if either of them have any self awareness they know that their relationship will end eventually due to how hectic their schedules are and how involved with their work they need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:33 PM

New Vampire Weekend album dropping in a couple months 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:16 PM

Damn I thought there was some milf wrestling category and I got excited for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:15 PM

Honestly I feel bad because I harassed and sexualized girls when I was that age but it was only because my male friends were doing it. I wonder if they genuinely wanted to do it or if it was only because they saw other boys doing it too. There is one girl who me and my two friends would grab her butt when she was getting off the school bus. That is blatant molestation and I'm sure traumatizing for her. Of course the guys who did that were also the ones who got the most female attention so part o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:14 PM

Not getting to have sex during my sexual peak when everyone else around me was. I guess I can always inject black market TRT and lie about my age on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:10 PM
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That women are chaste and genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:08 PM
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Unless he said "Can you give me a ride to the school shooting tomorrow" and she said, "yes" I don't think she is responsible. Warning signs? They act like psychiatric care actually does anything. By their logic the society he grew up in which made him this way is responsible too. Her being arrested is a great moral failing by a justice system that doesn't know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:06 PM
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Funny how you show up and I start getting downvoted 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:23 PM
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Buy her a soda for valentines day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:23 PM
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Yeah. There is clearly a social shift happening, and hopefully these young men continue to stand up for themselves instead of being socially castrated by women. And like I said, women are openly adversarial to men. Women display what would only be described as a Napoleon complex if their attitudes and behaviors were coming from men, but because they're women they get a pass. Act like 10 years ago claiming a guy was mansplaining wasn't being used to shut down any male opinion. Women developed fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:21 PM
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I don't know the specifics of the case, but that is ridiculous. Unless she bought him the gun and let him bring it to school knowing he was going to do that, I don't think she is responsible for his actions. Why not arrest everyone who made him feel so alienated that he acted out in that way then? It's clear the legal system doesn't know what to do to stop these things from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:16 PM
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I know that is a made up scenario, but honestly good for them. Women have so much control over us but deny us basic human intimacy. Act like women aren't purposefully adversarial against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:11 PM
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I get where you are coming from. I know she would never cheat on me and if she did I would deserve it because I have struggled with being faithful in all of my relationships. The truth is we are just very codependent. We can barely function together, it would be so much worse if we were separated. We are both ok with this because we love and need each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:07 PM
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Last night I told my partner I wouldn't leave if she cheated on me. How badly did I fuck up? We were talking and she jokingly said I was controlling and I said I wish I was controlling, but I never have been. I explained to her that I wished I was controlling because I think being obsessive is such a strong and pure display of true love for someone and I feel that my inability to be controlling is a deficit on my end. I assume I might just be more secure though because my belief is that people a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:57 PM
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Definitely, but peer pressure is also strong. My mom definitely tried raising me with good morals, but I felt having good morals was a disadvantage when I saw it was usually the bad kids that had a more enviable experience. That is the problem with public schools. I'd rather my kids go to private school so they can be shitty in the rich kid way, not the pipeline to prison way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:44 PM
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Girls have often liked me because I will ask them to tell me about their day and then later in the conversation I will make references to things they've previously told me. I feel that the red pill says this is simp behavior and turns women off. These are the things I disagree with the red pill about because "being nice to girls™" has actually worked in my favor. Even their precious Andrew Tate was exposed for being a "lover boy."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:40 PM
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I was blue pilled in middle school but quickly realized that is inefficient. I had three honest crushes, all on girls out of my league. The red pill didn't start being a thing until the late 2000s, but it obviously existed well before that just under different names. As a concept it has always existed. It baffles me that some men make it well into adulthood without fully appreciating esoteric red pill truths. I couldn't imagine being an adult male still having the naive and hopeful attitude towa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:36 PM
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Men have it worse at every stage of life. I guess I've been aware of the red pill for so long I just assume this is common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:32 PM
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It's because they see the red pill stuff and think misinterpret "women respond well to this" to mean that women like that. Women like that stuff in spite of themselves. That is why I can't stand Andrew Tate. He gives off the wrong impression of being red pilled. Maybe it works if you're a millionaire dating escorts and sugar babies, but if you're a 20 something college student from the suburbs, you're going to scare the hoes away being openly misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:40 PM
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Nope. This stuff will always work. You just have to implement it right and not be obvious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:23 PM
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Dumb guys. I do all my seedy stuff in private. Hell, I even use an incognito browsing tab to watch red pill content lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:22 PM
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If men are smart they'll reverse engineer this information to benefit. She basically gave the blue print.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:21 PM
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Either that or he is stacy chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:59 PM
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Probably. I have a doctors appointment in a month and I am going to ask about propranolol because it treats high blood pressure and anxiety and adderall for the ADHD. I have an ADHD diagnosis from when I was a kid but I thought I could thug that shit out. I guess I was wrong. Are you still taking adderall? I worked with people who were on it and they'd freak out if their prescription was late so I really don't want to become like that, but if it helps me function like. a normal person I'll be ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:17 PM
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The problem is most men missed out on their prime and aren't truly able to experience sex during that period.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:14 PM
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W are more inherently immoral. If M are immoral it is only because W require us to be so. Had to rephrase since the censors restricted me from posting for not blindly following feminist delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:12 PM
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Good point. If the guy is so insecure that he would reject Marcus Aurelius because something undesirable happened to him, that is a reflection of his anxieties more than it is the character of Marcus Aurelius
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:11 PM
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Women are more inherently immoral. If men are immoral it is only because women require us to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:10 PM
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Stoicism doesn't protect you from experiencing negative emotions. You can still feel your emotions and process them. It is what you do in the face of those emotions. For example one man might use this as an excuse to hate women moving forward and hurt them emotionally. Another man, the stoic, would recognize we are responsible for our own actions and still be good in spite of the pain they've experienced. "It can ruin your life only if it ruins your character. Otherwise it cannot harm you—inside…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:07 PM
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True, but I think sometimes we need to have those moments to understand why they're not worth it. Otherwise you'll always be longing for something you missed out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:02 PM
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Cool, happy we could have this chat 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:01 PM
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That supposition relies on a belief that there are no better or worse stations in life. That everything just "is" which is an ok perspective to alleviate depression I guess, but it doesn't really play out in practice. Like, working 40 hours a week in an office making 60k a year is far better than having an erratic schedule being micromanaged at a fast food restaurant making 13k a year. I know obviously both people can be happy in their situations, but it isn't really about personal happiness and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:59 PM
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absurdism and being a fuckboy changed mine. I'm happy to hear you're doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:50 PM
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I used to be VERY spiteful about it. I was always angry and resentful because my girlfriends parents bought her a car when she turned 16 whereas I didn't learn to drive until I was 23. She was the one who taught me how to drive actually. I stopped being resentful because I learned first of all that everyone is dealing with some kind of issue in their life and also you get further being nice to people. Don't be mean to people who can help you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:48 PM
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Q4W/Q4BP: why do you find it so difficult to acknowledge and admit some people are inferior to other people? I'm going to have to connect a bunch of pieces here, but please follow me. I saw a Hoe Math video and he made a joke where he reduced women on hinge to having a job title like "Product Manager" and this seems like a very common job for a certain class of women. I, as a man with a lot of experience from college, tried to work in marketing but it just didn't pan out. I gave up and now I wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:45 PM
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Welp, it looks like I will be able to meet my metrics this week. Let's hope I can keep this up. It really isn't too bad, I just need to make myself focus and crank out as many things as I can in two or three bursts. I really need to get some kind of promotion. I'm in my 30s and have only worked entry level jobs. I've never been in a supervisory role.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:35 PM
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Send me a picture of you, if you're 6'2 and can't pull it is definitely your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:30 PM
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I've always found this scene from the Social Network to be really accurate: https://youtu.be/VlSkPA60ujQ?si=9TENGOC7II07U1wp
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:42 PM
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Didn't know russia was a city.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:34 PM
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I would happily date/sleep with most of those women. Then again, I don't really have problems with getting girls to like me, my problems are with self esteem and self worth. I think this is a good example that most of the guys here are just Stacy chasing. I will say though, I'm sure a lot of those women wouldn't be interested in me though. I'm sure most of them are "ran through" and still have superficial "preferences" like height. I know this probably sounds like a contradiction to people becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:23 PM
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it's not a double standard if the standards are meant to be different. What do you mean by this? How are the standards meant to be different?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:10 PM
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Same. I think this is what causes a lot of us to struggle, especially men. I learned that you have to push for a relationship right from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:08 PM

Basically the jist of it is that I am watching a movie about sex/porn and it is making me anxious and upset but the anxiety is from shame and insecurity. I struggle with having empathy for women because my own inferiority complex supersedes any remorse or emotional recognition I have for women. I definitely struggle with and identity with the concept of the madonna/whore complex and I think for me it is easier to view all women as "whores" in any scenario whether that is because they are satisfy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:16 PM

I need to think of how to word it properly so I can say everything I want to say without it being a word salad. I might put it into chat GPT tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:09 PM

I can see that about the personality thing. I think the other issue is that the primary demographic for these books/movies were young girls that were typically social outcasts or at least outisders in some way, so they would be more attracted to a man/character who has a seemingly under developed body. Someone with a good physique would be associated with either being older and/or more intimidating i.e. a jock or something. But even despite that, I think almost all women prefer a man who shows s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:07 PM

Jacob was just too entitled or something. He felt that because they knew each other since childhood and his family was connected to her dad that they had a deeper connection. I totally get that feeling from the guys perspective, it is a very male experience, however it is clear she felt a stronger connection with Edward. Plus, not to mention, being a vampire seems a lot cooler than being a werewolf, especially if you have a family of vampires you can live with forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:54 PM

There is something I really want to say, but I struggle to articulate things clearly sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:51 PM

Team Edward. It's so obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:40 PM

And it turns out women have no interest in physique, all they care about is height. I've never met a girl/woman who was "team jacob"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:40 PM

Q4M: So guys, have you bought your girlfriend anything for valentines da- oh, thats right, sorry...I forgot lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:18 PM
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Athletes are often seen as role models and we can't have young men knowing the kind of men women really are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:14 PM
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Recessed chins are mocked by everyone. It is just the chronically online have meta discussions which create awareness about these things. Like someone might be mocked for talking about gonial angles, but women are attracted to it even if they don't know the science behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:12 PM
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Mood. I'm focusing on supporting Israel. Tbh I have a thing for Jewish girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:45 PM
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You first
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:31 PM
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Gotta get right with the fascists before they take over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:29 PM
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Sure, but only if you can find it at Nordstrom Rack for 70% off 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:04 PM
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Center left. That is what I am. Based parents. I voted democrat since I could vote in 2008, but I am legitimately going to vote for Trump this time around and then probably never vote again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:39 PM
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They're dumb. Of course celebrities are attractive. They're celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:38 PM
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https://allpoetry.com/poem/14326889-The-Shoelace-by-Charles-Bukowski it’s not the large things that send a man to the madhouse. death he’s ready for, or murder, incest, robbery, fire, flood… no, it’s the continuing series of small tragedies that send a man to the madhouse… not the death of his love but a shoelace that snaps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:56 PM
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There was a really good movie with Adam Driver about this. It is called Hungry Hearts https://youtu.be/ftYRcmL1Yhk?si=zJLBI9gYG7vGSEKT
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:49 PM
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Thank you for your approval 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:42 PM
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You know for a fact MRAs are ridiculed and dismissed because feminism is favorable and has more popular support in society. A man who breaks away from conventional feminist wisdom is labeled an incel. Unless you agree with and support women regardless of their faults, you get shunned and excommunicated from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:39 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ what's wrong with women. A lot of things. Mostly they know they have options so they have no obligation to work through things when they get tough. They've also been indoctrinated by RomComs and Disney movies so they think they will meet prince charming where everything is perfect. My best advice for men who want to fuck around but can't get casual sex is to date like women. Date them long enough to sleep with them a few times, then break up and use some non-comittal excuse …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:57 PM
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I spent $20 on 4 books. the books are Crime and Punishment, Grapes of Wrath, Catcher in the Rye, and White Noise. Crime and Punishment I really want to read for the themes and philosophical insights and plus I hear it is challenging so I would like to see how difficult of a read it is. Catcher in the Rye I want to reread because I find a lot of the books we read in high school hit different when you're an adult. Grapes of Wrath is another great American novel so I want to read it for the first t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:51 PM
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I see plenty of TikToks with TONS of activity in the chat defending trans women. I also see plenty of TikToks with TONS of activity in the chat criticizing men. There are so many things in society where men are told they're wrong collectively but I never see that for women. Anytime a woman is criticized it is either explained away as not being wrong or the blame is somehow placed back on men. Are trans women unable to get jobs? Seems like there are discrimination laws that defend them. But ya kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:35 PM
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women from the 60s are peak, you're a decade early 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:15 PM
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You sure about that? They seem to have a lot of public support where as men are demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:04 PM
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Not really, life is easier as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:25 PM
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I don't know if it is just that I am a straight male, but I really think the wall is reversed. I think women look fine and even better as they age, but men tend to look worse. There are a lot of women I see in their 40s and 50s that still look really good and I find them attractive, but it is much less common to see a man that age who looks good. Maybe it is also the fact that women at that age with financial resources are more likely to get botox and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:23 PM

Read body language? She seems like she is heavily sedated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:56 PM

What if someone were to break up over it if they are in a long term relationship? Would you think they're shitty then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:56 PM

disingenuous take
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:26 PM

Men are so much more fair in love. My partner and I are both going to have significant amounts of loose skin. I couldn't imagine leaving her because I don't find it attractive. I guess men just understand love more authentically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:08 PM

Sure, but she doesn't even seem aware of her surroundings. There is another show called down for love which is a similar concept but shows people with down syndrome and some seem more cognizant than others. In her case I wonder if she even knows or understands what is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:06 PM

When I was a teenager I had a realization that sounds a bit crass now, but essentially my motto was if you're not paying me or laying me I don't give a fuck what you think about me. Now that I'm older I think a much more mature way to phrase it is if you're not benefitting my life in some way, then I don't owe you the effort of seeking your approval. Also just generally knowing your worth and preferring to surround yourself with supportive people helps a lot. Too often people feel they have to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:01 PM

Yup. It's good because we can spin a half true story and make it seem like we were high school sweet hearts. People love that. Life is all about appearances. The truth is I was 19 in the 11th grade with severe emotional issues stemming from my lack of sex and living in extreme poverty. I dropped out of the class two weeks in because I was going to KMS. She thought I sounded smarter and more intelligent than the other guys in her grade because I was familiar with a lot of the material and that im…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:57 PM

Why do you need friends for social media? Stop chasing the chad fantasy and take the dark and brooding outsider pill. Chase after girls with emotional issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:52 PM

Would you think a guy is a bad person for breaking up with a girl after he finds out she has loose skin from significant weight loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:49 PM

They've got the autism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:48 PM

I think the show has two primary appeals. One is for stressed out normies to wish their lives were as simple as theirs seem to be portrayed in the show, and the second is people who enjoy a spectacle. My partner and I like the show, but we can't help but think how exploitative it is. Like that clip for example, should that girl even be dating? Is she even aware of what is going on? I don't know. It's pretty infantalizing. I still like it though. That and shows like 90 Day Fiance are way better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:47 PM

social media dms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:38 PM

I dropped out of high school. She contacted me a year later and we've been together ever since. Ended up going to college together too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:25 PM

Yeah, you really can't quantify how much of your tax bill is actually going to any specific individual. I would have to estimate it is a fraction of a cent. You would need to know how many people receive each service and then how many people who receive that service meets the criteria you're upset about, how long they're on the service for, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:08 AM

So I put it into chatGPT and it estimates there are 20 million single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:06 AM

See, there are so many variables I don't even know how one could begin to even estimate this. It's such a scapegoat thing. I'd be more upset my taxes aren't providing more social relief programs than be upset at "single mothers" whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:00 AM
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So basically you'd need to figure out what percent of all mothers are single mothers, which is I don't know, but this link might have the info: https://www.statista.com/topics/1484/families/#topicOverview
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:57 AM

How would you quantify taxes going to single mothers? Let's say that the average income is 50,000 and at a 22% tax rate this means the average person would pay $11,000 in taxes. I have found the fact that, "25% of U.S. families are headed by a single parent, and 80% of single-parent headed households are moms — or 21% of U.S. children live primarily with a single mother, according to Census data." We would need to know how many single mothers there actually are. According to PEW research there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:55 AM

I never got the point of being upset about taxes in this way. I'm upset my taxes don't go to universal healthcare. I don't get being angry at a group that is such a small fraction of the population when more tax money goes to the military than it does food stamps. Who cares where the tax money goes? You probably contributed all of $23 to that specific section of the pie chart which is dispersed through millions of people. You can't even really quantify that in an accurate way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:44 AM
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I don't think I'm depressed, but I know from watching Andrew Huberman that dopamine helps significantly with starting tasks. I have a doctors appointment in a couple months and I'm going to ask about medication for some of these issues. I just don't want to be hooked on medication, but honestly I'm so desperate to fix these things that I would take medication for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:04 PM
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Part of that comes from networking and showing interest and skill in a certain industry. What are you goals exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:59 PM
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Something I really struggle with, and I hope some people here can help, is that on paper I know what I need to do to be the person I want to be. I could write it all out, I could envision it, I could talk about it. None of it is unachievable or difficult to implement, but for some reason I just cannot do the things I know I need to do and I do not know how to stop that. The three major things are eating a reasonable amount, practicing good hygiene, and maintaining focus at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:49 PM
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Yup. And if it had remained for those guys it would be banned for being an "incel hub" and I guarantee you like other looks focused subs if one of those guys go there now, their posts would be ignored meanwhile women will have 300+ comments telling them how beautiful they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:35 PM
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And what if the solution doesn't work? It sounds like you're looking for a mentor, not a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:32 PM

idk man, but I don't think 5'9 is short, but I do think 5'4 is short. I'm 5'9 and I only like girls 5'6 - 5'10
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:18 PM

In what regard? It's from the movie the Matrix. I've never seen it, but I know it comes from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:23 PM

In the springtime, my partner and I visit this large cemetery that was constructed in the late 1700s to watch the geese. We see them arrive, have their babies, raise them, and then leave again when winter comes. A couple years ago one family caught our eye—they had only one gosling, likely losing the others. They were protective of it, a reminder of how tough life can be sometimes, but also the sweetness that it contains.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:18 PM

They're all that kind of girl. Even the "good" ones have a slutty side. It isn't a bad thing though. You have to integrate both sides of women otherwise you fall victim to the madonna/whore thing. It's all very Jungian.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:08 PM

You'll ask, find out she has been gang banged, then get all depressed and not get laid. Hold the tough questions until after you get your score up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:57 PM

I'm going to push my FOOTBALL TEAM STORY agenda until it becomes a meme because I find it hilarious. And I agree. One of the things I learned too late is to not ask questions you don't want the answer to. If you get your score up, then sure, ask and break up if you don't like it, but it's dumb to shoot yourself in the foot and perpetuate your sexlessness while simultaneously being upset that women have had more sex than you. Just get your score up and move onto the next one so you're in a positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:56 PM
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I know right. I don't even think women should be allowed to get diagnosed as autistic because it doesn't really make a difference for them in their quality of life as evidenced by many autistic women going undiagnosed until later in life. There are really no ways I can think that women have it considerably worse in life than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:52 PM
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Woman without a doubt. Minimal and easily obtainable beauty standards. Society trusts you. Women love creating cliques and girl clubs in the work place. The only way women have it worse is that they have to endure childbirth, but that is rectified by their choice whether or not to have children, and they are more likely to be victims of SA, but that is easily avoided by not putting themselves in dangerous situations. Even in both instances though, they are sympathized with by society where as me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:43 PM
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Why should a high body count matter for women but not for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:38 PM

It's your funeral son
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:36 PM

Eventually i'll ask her if she's ever had sex or been with anyone. I'm going to give you some fatherly advice and suggest you do not ask this until AFTER you've had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:33 PM

I don't KNOW for sure. You when the seemingly nice girl you're talking to reveals THE FOOTBALL TEAM STORY as if it was a normal Thursday night. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:32 PM

Wall is absolutely [redacted]. It's sad to me because the guys who perpetuate the idea of the wall existing are creating a self fulfilling prophecy and perpetuating their own misery. Teenage girls are the worst most flaky most insecure age to pursue. These guys are so obsessed with their pornographic revenge fantasy they they latch onto this delusion that at 40 they'll be able to attract countless 18 year olds. Women, in my experience, are a lot more sexually confident and open starting around a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:18 PM

No, couldn't be. Men's shared experience can't be valid because women say it isn't. When the women have spoken, it is settled. Aren't women wonderful? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:54 PM

In what way? The Israel-Palestine thing? It's clear that Israel has way more military might. It isn't even a war. People saying "from the river to the sea" are going to be in for a rude awakening when they realize the underdog only wins in the movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:01 PM

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:58 PM

Just encountered a perfect example of an internet phenomenon I've noticed where people end up defending things they don't agree with because they refuse to concede or find common ground with people they view as the enemy. I claimed mutual respect is more important than feminism Someone claimed that they refuse to respect men because men support Andrew Tate who they assert is a sex trafficker. I dislike Andrew Tate, but I am left defending him because he has not yet been found guilty of sex traff…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:03 PM
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Which question? Your loaded question that is attempting to strawman and move the goal post? Besides, speaking about Andrew Tate specifically, no trial has been set and they/he just won an appeal challenging the seizure of assets worth £10million. Substantiate your claim he is a human trafficker. And this is the other problem, this is a perfect example of something I've noticed about chronically online discussions and why I refuse to partake in them. You have got me defending Andrew Tate, someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:58 PM
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I have never once had the topic of Andrew Tate come up in my personal life. That is why it is chronically online and disingenuous of you to try so desperately to steer the conversation in that direction. I could explain why your logic is flawed, but I have enough experience to know that it wouldn't change a thing and is why it is indicative of the exact type of personality traits I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:40 PM
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consensually divide stuff in an equal way You described choosing which roles to fulfill in a relationship. You then are of service to each other by filling those roles and performing those duties. A refusal to fulfill any role or duty is a sign of not caring about the other person. I really don't get people who are so selfish in relationships or think things need to be divided "equally." What happens if someone gets sick? "oh, I'm not going to make you soup or take over doing the dishes because …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:40 PM
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I don't know what you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:34 PM

It is actually and still proves my point. It's pretty chronically online as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:33 PM
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I see this post reached the exact women I'm referring to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:43 PM
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You can do that without "serving the other". Sit down,talk,and consensually divide stuff in an equal way, according to each person's abilities/wants. You literally described mutually serving each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:42 PM

That is the kind of reactionary opinion I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:40 PM
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For real. I used to pack my partner lunches when she was working as a teacher because the mornings were hard on her and I would put a cheesy little note in there too. These little actions to make your partners day better are seen as a bad or demeaning thing, but I couldn't imagine being with someone who sees loving me as a burden or takes some highly individualistic approach to the relationship. What is the point of a relationship if you're not a partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:39 PM
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Envy mostly. I also had this realization when I was a teenager and would skateboard with some people from school. The thinner taller kids with the shaggy haircuts and clothes from Zumiez would get more female attention and were perceived as better skateboarders whether that was actually true or not. Thankfully I was/am attractive enough that I could improve my looks to the point of being desired by women, but there is definitely an envy about how unfair it is. We can tell ourselves that life isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:00 PM
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This is accurate. Even if you know female nature, it is hard to reconcile that with your previous world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:55 PM
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99% of gamblers walk away right before they make it big.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:54 PM

I think a lot of women foolishly adopt a feminist identity when what they really want is mutual respect. However, their anxiety and inferiority complex causes them to adopt more extreme beliefs. For example, on TikTok I have seen a number of instances where a post will show a woman waking up early to pack her blue collar husband's lunch. The comments are usually adversarial and consist of remarks like "could never be me" or "Are your husbands arms broken?" Feminists will oppose these simple acts…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:53 PM
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I agree. I don't think signs of aging are inherently unattractive or unaesthetic, and I think the concept of the wall is delusional. I also don't think that woman is unattractive either even if she has gotten a lot of work done. It's a personal choice and I'm sure for some women botox and other treatments make them feel more confident. It's a shame though that women recognize these things don't define us or our worth but still judge men for their immutable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:42 PM
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I think you know why. All of the red pill, all of the rhetoric and vitriol, all of the shaming of women is rooted in jealousy and insecurity. I'm pretty sure I'm the only guy who can admit this. The 18 year I was with who had a body count of seven? It made me sick to me stomach because it was a reminder of all the seemingly integral adolescent sex I missed out on and will never get to experience. Even my wife who was only with one guy before me was a point of contention because they had sex in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:50 PM
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Social media DMs. They get to have a better impression of you because it's social media. You're mostly competing with guys who send unsolicited dick pics. It isn't a dating app so their guard it down. There is minimal risk just like dating apps because as long as you don't message her more than once, she isn't going to expose you. These women are all strangers so you most likely don't have to ruin about damaging your reputation. Tbh, I think this approach could even work at any place women are. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:42 PM
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is 1cm even noticeable? I've seen a couple instances of penis enlargment surgery and the penis doesn't even look functional anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:32 PM

I wouldn't say women "deserve" abuse, but they do put themselves into situations where abuse is likely just like they put themselves into situations where "accidental" pregnancy and single motherhood is likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:50 PM

She downvotes me too and then denies it. She also blocks me once a week even though it's against the rules lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:48 PM
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Tbf, if the guy is saying they'd look great in a bikini or their skirt is making them aroused, he is being a creep at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:06 PM
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Women really think the existence of men they're not attracted to is some great act of violence against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:06 PM
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Even if it's gross, why should the men care?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:05 PM
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Courtship [of the mourning dove] begins with a noisy flight by the male, followed by a graceful, circular glide with outstretched wings and head down. After landing, the male will approach the female with a puffed-out breast, bobbing head, and loud calls. Mated pairs will often preen each other's feathers. The male then leads the female to potential nest sites, and the female will choose one. The female dove builds the nest. The male will fly about, gather material, and bring it to her. The male…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:58 PM
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And women still think they have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:22 PM
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Typical
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:22 PM
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How much money did he give you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:19 PM
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how tall
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:18 PM
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Are they pretending to be women, or are they acting feminine? If the latter, back in my day during the whole mid 2000s emo thing, there was a lot of appeal for feminine guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:11 PM
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Men and women being different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:49 PM

Most men are in the same boat. What is there to compete against?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:42 PM

As someone who is envious of women, I've thought about this before. I can't really compare myself to women because our experiences are different. Still though, the feeling persists. I think it has to do with feminism convincing us men and women are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:41 PM

I'll never understand why dog owners think they're superior. You stand around with their poop in a bag. They smell like wet dish towels. They bark at anything that moves. You have to take them out multiple times a day to poop and pee. If you leave them alone for a day they'll destroy your house and piss and shit everywhere. I knew a family that would put a gate up in the kitchen and in the morning would just clean up the dogs piss and shit. every day lmao. The whole think just reeks of insecurit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:38 PM

Everything good is banned. I got a warning the other day because something I posted here was "too serious" so your choices are 1.) post an original thread and have it get removed 2.) post in the daily chat and have it get removed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:29 PM

Do you know anything about the history of civilization?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:01 PM

It's just always funny to me when people reject the reason why we recognize "don't be a shithead" as what it is. Or worse "I don't need a sky daddy to tell me right from wrong" while living in a civilization built on the teachings of that "sky daddy."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:50 PM
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Just that life is easier for women. I remember going to the gym when in college and noticing that I would often see athletic looking guys with fat girls, but I never saw a super athletic looking woman with a fat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:46 PM
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Exactly. Age gap means nothing for power especially when women will also say "He's only dating young because girls his age don't like him" Like y'all females™ just demonstrated how it isn't a power imbalance lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:42 PM
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I'm a 30 something year old man and my IQ is at least average and I like astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:40 PM

I'm sure you're not at all instilling moral values that come directly from these religions though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:38 PM
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I actually wrote out a whole thing explaining why your assumption is wrong, but decided to delete it because I can tell posts/accounts like this are why we have the no incel topics discussion. You're going to take whatever the defeatist and pessimistic view is and then say anyone who disagrees with you is "coping" and your evidence is "hundreds of videos" whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:06 PM
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I can find hundreds of videos of women declaring they like hung men Bros only exposure to women is through a screen 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:17 PM
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I'm sorry you have to experience that. I'm surprised your username isn't a deterrent. I wonder how these guys even find you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:13 PM
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Disagree. Women have made it clear that height is more important than penis size. A penis that is too big can make sex unenjoyable. Having a large penis is male fantasy from porn. Women aren't using those monster dildos at home, they're usually using something small and compact or a vibrator. Women typically don't orgasm from penetration alone either. Yes, as a man I would be insecure to know her ex had a larger penis than me, but that is my insecurity, not her valuing me less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:07 PM
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That is good for you, but there are plenty of women who do. They're not going to know unless they try.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:02 PM
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It depends. I wouldn't necessarily call strategizing being desperate, however what you describe does make them sound like porn brained coomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:00 PM
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it’s like they don’t think. This is true, and you should be thankful it is the case. The ones you have to worry about are the ones who know how to hide their true intentions. The ones who won't even mention your age being the primary attractor and downplay it when it comes up. It's like how asians are disgusted by men who fetishize and sexualize them being asian. You have to not mention it even if secretly you are fetishizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:57 PM
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You're taking it too personally. As a man who advocates for DMing girls on social media and has had a lot of success doing it, really it's a numbers game. You specifically might not be interested, but there is no way to know that unless they try and likewise, I doubt you are the only one they're DMing. It's a shame, but this is also what I mean when I say men must become predatory in their approach. You can't just focus on one girl, you have to cast a wide net and then see what you get from thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:53 PM

Tbh I think men are more faithful, committed, and just. In my experience it is women who struggle with the existential dread of responsibility. For example the book my sister's keeper is all about a girl not wanting to donate a kidney or whatever to her dying sister. Bodily autonomy and all that. We know two things for a fact about women. They initiate most divorces and they are perfectly fine with setting arbitrary standards for dating. In women's defense though, I think they are much more comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:46 PM

You're good, you can comment under my posts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:41 PM

I think it is people getting their cues from movies and TV
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:41 PM

Reply to this and I'll let you know if it is ok if you comment under my posts or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:37 PM

This isn't even your post, and again I'm replying to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:36 PM

or specifically that she was gang banged at an NFL game or had relations with Oscar the Grouch lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:05 PM

I wasn't talking to you. I was talking to my good friend and associate RicePresident_
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:59 PM

For the crime of making the women a little upset 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:51 PM

They were on Twitter first. I want to see them out of curiosity. I'm shocked and amazed at how they're effectively being scrubbed from the internet. Typically something like this you can't get rid of. From what I've seen though they don't look that bad. Nothing I haven't seen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:47 PM

Went to a "club" last night. I'd say most people there just hung out with the people they were there with. I think the best thing to do as a guy is to take a girl you're already seeing to do things like this. When I was younger and my hormones were raging, I'd always fantasize about being the kind of guy who can go to a music festival or a night club and hook up with any of the dozens of random attractive women. Maybe that does happen, but I think mostly people are dating and not having one nigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:39 PM
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I severely underperform at work. Part of this is because I have trouble focusing. Another part is due to an unequal workload/distribution. I was sick all this week. I need to see a doctor. I was in the car for over 2 or 3 hours and the heat was on blowing all the dust around and my face and sinuses were so dried out so for the rest of the week I had asthma (undiagnosed), a sore throat, a cough, and post nasal drip. I'm finally feeling better, but I have no tolerance for being under the weather. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:08 PM
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What is dumb about it exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:57 PM
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I've read it, but not sure where. Probably the red pill subreddit several years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:57 PM

I'd be ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:35 PM

Women: You're not entitled to sex, male loneliness epidemic is a joke Also women: The orgasm gap means you have to make me orgasm 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:56 PM

I'm making fun of the way black pillers talk, I'm not being serious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:35 PM

I don't know. I don't open them and I throw them out in the morning. But probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:29 PM

Hell yeah. It beats having to get up in the middle of the night, stumbling down a dark hallway and tripping over the cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:27 PM

why wall of dudes? If you want to flip the roles, it would be walls of women doing this and I think most guys would enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:18 PM

My gf knows about my pee bottles and still loves me 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:14 PM

Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a man who is SUB5 to get gf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:13 PM

I don't think feminism is really about men's issues or has claimed to be. It is fundamentally about giving women equal rights. Make your own movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:09 PM

It's posts like this that make me realize why incel content isn't allowed. What you're saying is sort of valid, or at least approaching territory of being a valid critique, you're just phrasing it in such a nonsensical way. The real issue is that you feel overwhelmed by the obligations of life while feeling unfulfilled in other areas. That is a personal issue. Sex is a small facet of that, but it isn't the whole thing. Besides, with money you can enjoy other things. Go to a museum, climb a mount…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:08 PM

It's almost like religion codifies fundamental human truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:59 PM

I love christian apologetics. Atheist arguments are so weak because it is always attacking organized religion and not the source or the true thing that is God. Atheism should really be called anti-theism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:22 PM

nihilistic atheists when they still base their morality on western theology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:18 PM

I agree. I think atheism is illogical. I really like the aesthetic argument for God.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:16 PM

If someone was making AI content using a coworkers likeness and passing it around at work, I can see that being immoral and the person should definitely be reprimanded, fired, and even sued. That would cause undue humiliation to the colleague and legitimately damage their reputation and create a hostile work environment. But one of the biggest celebrities in the world right now? Get over it!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:18 PM
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I've never seen hentai, but those are fake scenarios to begin with. Written porn is still sexualizing someone without their consent so either sexualizing others without their consent is ok or it isn't, we can't really pick and choose since that is the fundamental moral question here. In both instances, it is clear that the erotic content is fictional. Any reasonable person would know that Taylor Swift didn't get gang banged at the playoffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:51 PM
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"Nothing has actually changed other than it's just easier to do what we always could do, which is make fake images of people." they literally said what you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:41 PM
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She should make a fake video of him sucking off a guy behind a 7/11 then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:40 PM
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Yeah, I was thinking about that too. This basically is an argument about freedom of speech. Taylor Swift is the biggest celebrity at the moment. The photos were clearly computer generated and fantasy. There was no intent to damage her reputation and no reasonable person would mistake the photos as real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:38 PM

I don't think there is really anything inherently wrong with AI or deepfake nudes. Women are all in an uproar about how it is an invasion of privacy and objectification, but these same women have no problem with reading and writing erotic fan fiction about their favorite celebrities. I think it is really just an example of how women are repulsed by men they're not attracted to being attracted to them. In regards to the Taylor Swift controversy, from the ones I've seen they weren't that bad but e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:22 PM
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Just another one of my daily epiphanies that I will probably forget about by tomorrow. Hopefully it sticks though because deep down I know it is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:17 PM
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You're going to realize as you get older things don't really change. The person you are now is who you are going to be forever. There might be marginal changes. You'll get better at doing things you dislike because you realize there is some benefit. You'll become more articulate and better at expressing yourself and your thoughts. But the traits that make up your mental, emotional, and interpersonal landscape really aren't going to change that much. Essentially, the existential things you strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:42 PM
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Same. The previous iteration was good for me. The text was large and easily readable. The hard edges of the text box made more sense for typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:34 PM
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I'm indifferent because life is already suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:32 PM
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33 actually, but what does that have to do with anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:32 PM
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I need to stop all the incel being bitter and adversarial and angry at women shit. I'm faking it when I do it. I don't really dislike women, I'm just insecure and need women's validation. I know all the shit I see on TikTok is just rage bait. I know that all the manosphere shit isn't indicative of all men just like the all the stuff I see about women and from women isn't an accurate portrayal of women. I'm aware and willfully letting myself believe stuff I don't actually believe. Women have alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:28 PM
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And to think the USA doesn't even have universal healthcare like virtually every other country. They take so much of our money in taxes but never give anything back to us and expect us to defend a country that doesn't look after us to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:40 PM
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This is what I was thinking while watching band of brothers recently. Why would anyone want to die for a country and a society that doesn't give a fuck about them. Tbh, I wouldn't even care if another nation did occupy my country. It would be exciting and entertaining to watch it unfold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:38 PM
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My partner and I got matching bracelets at a state fair. I had mine on my wrist for over 10 years. It broke recently so I'm disappointed about that. I'm just happy it didn't fall of when we were swimming at the beach so I'm able to still keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:36 PM
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Well, there are a couple things to note. Abusive relationships aren't like in the movies where you have the drunk man who beats his wife for not having dinner ready when he gets home. Often times abuse is much more nuanced and complicated. I think an incredible portrayal of an abusive relationship is this song by Kendrick Lamar: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUGyZM9rcnY Often times the abuse is a lot more precarious or coming from both sides. It might be minor and able to be excused as an acci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:33 PM
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Can someone please explain to me how hoe_math has received so much internet support. I remember getting his videos on TikTok in the early days and it just doesn't make sense to me. You have a faceless guy with a high pitched voice showing hand drawn diagrams as to why the dating market is skewed against men. Like I've seen other accounts post data from academic sources and the comment section is 50 different iterations of "bro needed to do a study on why he gets no bitches" How was hoe_math not …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:13 PM
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I don't like old reddit either. I like the previous iteration. It was nice and large for my geriatric eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:00 PM
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I don't like the way this new reddit layout looks, it's too small. In other news, I think it is absolutely hilarious that people are pointing out how awful Gen Z is aging. I am so here to witness their downfall and misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:39 PM
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What are you struggling with? There was a site we used in film school called celtx that handles all the formatting for you. Aside from that, writing the screenplay out as a short story or novel helps because it establishes the story line and allows you to critically examine if it is a good story or not. Also you don't have to work linearly, you can start at the end or the middle. A lot of people find that effective. The hardest thing for me was writing dialogue, but it's helpful to remember that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:01 PM
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I've met a couple girls that actually enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:55 PM

The girls on the hook up site are probably closer to stacy or aspiring stacy, where as the asexual girls are probably closer to a femcel or something. I don't know the words to describe things. I was good with women in my whoring days, but I knew how to target the ones that would respond best to me. Usually girls that had Tumblr, suffered some kind of abuse in their past, quiet and awkward, etc. That ties into what I often say here where guys just stacy chase and that is why they fail. Like they…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:07 AM
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I don't want to be vegan again, but I would like to eat more plant based, but the problem is the non vegan versions of things just taste better. Yesterday and today my partner and I made grilled cheese sandwhiches and tomato soup. The soup we got yesterday had cheddar cheese and milk as the thickener but was too high in sodium. The soup we got today had less salt and was thickened with potato starch and it just doesn't taste anywhere near as good as the other one. I also dislike how vegan foods …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:48 AM
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Even if your fit it doesn't matter if you don't have the height or looks women crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:40 AM
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You're kind of proving my point. Women are universally loved. Maybe you can finally admit that men have it worse than women, but I doubt that. You'll come right to the edge, but never leap. But, I suppose being a woman allows you that comfort and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:39 AM
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That would be more inclusive/apply better to men, but seeing as how body positivity is primarily a women's movement and women experience less harsh beauty standards the "beautiful at any size" thing accurately applies to them. Let me ask you this, would it be fair of me to break up with a girl if I found out she had a large labia or uneven breasts? Like if I announced that out loud without any judgement or criticism and I said "I wasn't attracted to her because of her uneven breasts and large la…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:01 PM
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Isn't he cute? His name is Archie and he is so good with kids 😊 https://preview.redd.it/x08xqa1y2ndc1.png?width=2400&format=png&auto=webp&s=d31a7fb89fda3003aba2f79b7869c9d444c58b7b
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:36 PM
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I wish I knew for sure who keeps downvoting me. I have an idea. For the record, I never downvote anyone. I support free speech, even if it is speech I do not personally like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:33 PM
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Depends on a variety of factors. How big are the boobs? Are they being blatantly showed off? Could be a mixture of curiosity and lust. Could also be aversion and disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:32 PM
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how will you afford all the babies to meet his caloric needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:25 PM
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Back in my PUA days when I was studying body language the commonly held belief was that if they look down they are attracted to you, but if they look away they aren't. As a man I'm always so scared women think I'm checking them out when we make eye contact in public. I'm also scared women think I'm following them around the store. I remember when I was trying to get into skincare I would go down the skincare aisle at WalMart and would have to leave because there would always be women there. I ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:25 PM
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Looks have always mattered, but they matter even more so now. How is it easier to set yourself apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:23 PM
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Nothing. The only reason men get frustrated is because if you make me wait but the last 37 guys and their uncles you let hit on the first date, it kind of signals to me that you don't actually like me. Now that I'm older and wiser I have no problem with waiting, but likewise I'm not going to prioritize you so even if you're trying to "play it safe" you've already jeopardized the relationship. This actually happened with my wife and I. We started dating but she wouldn't have sex with me so I had …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:21 PM
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When people say that, it means that body positivity isn't about changing how we perceive each other, it's just about making people be quiet. So women as long as women aren't mean to the disgusting repulsive short men, the disgusting repulsive short man shouldn't have anything to be upset about. https://preview.redd.it/8peftuhxxmdc1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=c0f15e65963e46557529ef48ec8821003c8bfbb1
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:08 PM
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That is an over simplification/straw man, but acknowledging the subtext or true meaning of what you're saying, yes. I think if women really were in a place of TRUE alienation, they would have similar psychological reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:05 PM
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You have to admit that it's a good joke. Very clever play on words. I think girls like me because I'm charming and witty and clever. I wouldn't say this joke in particular to women, but women do tend to like my flirtatious word play.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:01 PM
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That and Add It Up by the violent femmes. But yes, a lot of this "obscure" hipster music was originally incel guys making music. This is what I mean when I say that back in the day a guy would write songs about unrequited love and gain social currency that way, but nowadays guys just complain on the internet and fester.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:55 PM
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I said men are criticized, women are not. Those criticisms are met with criticism where as the criticisms of men are not criticized and if they are, the men criticizing them get criticized.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:51 PM
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From men who are generally disliked by women and are recipients of these criticisms. Women however, like I said, can make these generalizations and it does not effect their social standing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:46 PM
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Thanks to feminism and body positivity movement And yet they still defend women having height requirements despite it being hypocritical and a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:44 PM
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Has a guy ever expressed interest in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:43 PM
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This is such a good joke, how am I downvoted like this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:41 PM
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The difference is that men would like the attention from women, but women despise and are disgusted by their customer base.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:40 PM

Looks mattering over everything else is getting more and more true every day. I feel bad for Gen Z men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:38 PM
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But they're not socially accepted criticisms where as womens criticisms of men are. If a man was to say these things, he would receive criticism in return. Right, the socially accepted consensus forth all three of the exampls I gave are 1.) You aren't entitled to women liking you 2.) Women look good for themselves, they don't have to look good for you 3.) Women are allowed to enjoy things If a man holds these opinions, he will be ostracized where as a woman holding negative opinions about a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:36 PM
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But women's opinions are valued much more than mens. They control what is socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:32 PM
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What is the difference? Behaviors of their gender I guess. For example men are criticized for being attracted to younger partners, but men are also criticized for criticizing women about being attracted to height. Men are criticized for the presumption that they lack good hygiene habits, but men are also criticized for criticizing women for wearing what some might perceive as too much make up. Men are criticized for playing video games, but men are also criticized for criticizing women for likin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:27 PM
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Surely calling Margot Robbie mid or making sexually suggestive remarks about underage girls isn't something that goes uncriticized
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:23 PM
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lmfao are you comparing me to Valerie Solanas?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:20 PM
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lmfao now I know how Valerie Solanas felt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:11 PM
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You can also add having kids too young or too old. I will concede that this is a common annoyance for women, I will say however these criticisms are usually coming from other women. Men would be quickly challenged for expressing any opinion on the matter that doesn't glorify women where as women in general criticize men in general and if you challenge that opinion you get called an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:09 PM
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Ariana Grande (had an affair with a married father) All I saw was women criticize him for being unattractive as if having an affair is fine if you're good looking. Nikki Haley (not MAGA enough) Critisized politically, not criticized for being a woman Kamala Harris (laughs too much, doesn’t do enough as VP) Critisized by political opponents, not because she is a woman Amy Schumer (too pro-Israel) This is the only woman who gets treated almost as badly as men get treated, but I still see women def…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:05 PM
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Sounds like more criticisms of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:00 PM
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Now I know how Joan of Arc felt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:44 PM
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I know it's not good to make generalizations, but I have to admit I do like women as a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:43 PM
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Examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:43 PM
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Yeah, I saw that post here. That isn't really criticizing women as a whole though, just that one womans decisions and I'm sure women are not ok with those criticisms either and if women do have a problem with her surgeries, they would likely blame it on men or find a way to criticize men in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:42 PM
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Even if the actions were to serve some good [...] they would still be considered toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:39 PM
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Nah, I just want women to realize their hypocrisy and double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:15 PM
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Can you provide examples of how women are always in the wrong and openly criticized? Do you also feel that men do not experience the treatment I described? If so, can you provide examples how that is so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:14 PM
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You ever notice how it is only men that are in the wrong and can be openly criticized?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:11 PM
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Do you really think one's mental illness could be cured or contained by sex? Sort of yes and sort of no. I think that early sexual success can definitely resolve anxiety surrounding self worth tied into sexual approval. I also think that access to consenting sexual partners can help alleviate anxiety surrounding ones self worth post puberty. I don't think mental health issues entirely would be cured, but myself for example having a hoe phase and even cheating helped resolve a lot of issues I had…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:10 PM
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I love seeing women suffer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:55 PM
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Working with and for men is far better than working with and for women. The worst bosses I've ever had were all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:46 PM
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Women don't do that because they don't experience the alienation and isolation that men do. I'm sure there would be a lot less school shootings and other acts of public mayhem if men could download an app that provided them with a non stop rotation of sexual validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:44 PM
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"Don't be boring" tells you right away they're going to shit test and make you jump through hoops while they're dry af.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:42 PM
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I don't know because this is all 90s romcom advice. I don't know any guys who have met women at yoga or pilates. It's like approaching in a book store or something. It just doesn't happen lol. You'd be better off working social media DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:41 PM
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I have a dream that my sons will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the length of their femur but by the content of their character
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:37 PM
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I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream that my sons will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the length of their femur but by the content of their character
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:36 PM
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I try really hard to ignore the fact that he did a marvel movie 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:30 PM
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He destroyed that watermain and set the house on fire. Even if the actions were to serve some good, they would still be considered toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:27 PM
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What fan fiction do you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:50 PM
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People still use Tumblr? I stopped using it was it was overrun with porn bots in 2017.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:48 PM
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riiiiighttttt, all the videos and comments thirsting over him are all me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:45 PM
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I guess my algorithm is only giving me the hate comments and videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:43 PM
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Because women have set him as the standard. 6'5 is less than 1% of men and personally 6'5 seems like a freakishly tall height, but that doesn't matter because that is the new standard. Despite this, women still will talk about "unfair beauty standards" because they choose to put on a little make up before work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:42 PM
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Because women are NPCs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:33 PM
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Finished watching Saltburn. It was ok. Lacked substance. The cinematography was good. I think it is cool that what would typically be such a niche movie is getting some widespread attention as opposed to another damn marvel movie coming out. My partner and I both like Barry Keoghan. Really enjoyed Killing of a Sacred Deer. Can't help but think two things. 1.) 99% of men will never get the Jacob Elordi experience. We will never be loved and desired to that capacity. We can still be liked and find…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:29 PM
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That is a bleak view. It's so much better now though, women can all girlboss share the same guy with 20 different women meanwhile 95% of men will die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:08 PM
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Definitely not, but like I said men and women have different experiences and I also have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:06 PM
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You would think that, but it's only true if all else is equal. Men and women have different approaches to dating. As a man, you get into this sort of grind or mindset and you have to constantly keep going. You can't turn it on and off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:01 PM
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Feminism was never about equality, it was about changing who is opressed. At least in "patriarchy" women were values, now in this matriarchal society only a very small group of men are valued. Patriarchy is far more fair than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:06 PM
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Women = abundance Men = scarcity You can't blame a starving man for stealing a loaf of bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:05 PM
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Nope, gen z brain rot. It's only getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:02 PM
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You know that make up sex is going to fire though especially after she broke down crying. Almost makes you want to actually cheat to see how crazy she can get
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:58 PM
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Literally a scene in Band of Brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:58 PM
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No, but that is all in the past so who knows since women are getting so much worse nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:57 PM
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Sure, but it's different when men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:55 PM
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I mean it is women posting, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:54 PM
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I'm married. I can't "interact with women" because that would be cheating and I don't do that anymore. Probably part of the reason why my disdain for them festers. I love my wife and think she is special and different, but the way my mind works, without a constant stream of validation I start getting insecure that I'm unlovable. Like, being committed, if anything happened and I was single again, how do I know anyone would ever want me again? But I love my partner too much to hurt her so I show h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:54 PM
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Me before the pandemic: Surely women can't be that bad, I'm a feminist ally after all Me after downloading TikTok and seeing women's true nature: https://preview.redd.it/d6gy20ynf1dc1.png?width=680&format=png&auto=webp&s=76825f1a65c19530c12551e08ab474f92a1d2f11
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:47 PM
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Average BPD female experience: omg he had to go to work so I cheated on him with like 5 different guys and dyed my hair red, life is so hard Average BPD male experience: https://preview.redd.it/k08e4jx9f1dc1.png?width=680&format=png&auto=webp&s=5883457960b87fe6720486de30b56eb94f617731
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:45 PM

I'm deadass laughing too so 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:43 PM

Finally you said something that is accurate and true and real and based and true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:39 PM

They have to be "terrible" because they're men and society favors women. It's the martyrdom of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:38 PM

I'm saying rich men, such as Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk, are despised despite gaining status in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:35 PM

Because women in general are infinitely more desired than men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:27 PM

Are you referencing neocoom? And regardless, sure I can date and have dated a lot, I've never really been single, but it's easier for women to be widely accepted whereas even if a man gains a lot of status, he will still be mocked like Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk. But if a guy looks like Jacob Elordi, he doesn't need to have any status and he will be loved by all women. You see how being a man in general is a losing endeavor compared to being a woman? Of course though, as a man you could go the inno…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:26 PM

How doesn't it? Women experience sexual liberation by being sexually liberated. How can a man be sexually liberated? Gooning to OF models making $50,000 a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:15 PM

Sure, but what is the alternative? To accept our inferiority and give up essentially? Women are the root cause of our self hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:06 PM

Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:03 PM

My disdain for women stems entirely from impotent rage. Being a man is such a peculiar thing. I am responsible for my own self victimization but the alternative is to accept and embrace ones own inferiority. Being a man is like being a snake that eats its own tail. Being a man is to never truly be free, to always have to live up to others expectations and satisfy their demands while being existentially obstructed by their perceived limitations of you. Men will never get to experience liberation …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:58 PM

Yeah, that is what I said too. I'm only a quarter into the movie, but it seems very try hard. It's a good concept and Barry Keoghan has played similar roles very well, but the movie so far lacks anything beyond the aesthetics of it. The shallow vapidness definitely mirrors the biggest supporters of it and their obsession with Jacob Elordi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:51 PM

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:46 PM

Shame I'm not that attracted to indian women 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:17 PM

I've worked with overweight attornies who are workaholics and extremely competent. That is why I don't get people who have the "fat people are lazy" perception. Most of them are fat because they're so busy. It's like how people say they're concerned for people's health when they're overweight, but have no problem with thin people chain smoking or binge drinking or doing cocaine. I've had coworkers in the past that would talk about how being overweight is unhealthy but couldn't go a shift without…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:06 PM

Always confirm. A message is not received until it is confirmed by the recipient.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:35 PM

I want to stop buying bottled water, but I'm really scared of drinking tap water thinking about how disgusting and gunk filled the pipes are. Even the idea of a water filtration system doesn't seem trustable to me. I don't want to accidentally get Flint, Michiganed because of an inept city government and lazy water authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:25 PM

Tennis is another example
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:21 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:07 PM

Make the most money It really is that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:01 PM

Started watching Saltburn last night. The cinematography is good. The acting isn't spectacular but I think this is a result of poor directing as Barry Keoghan was incredible in Killing of a Sacred Deer. I'm only a half hour in since I needed to go to bed. My partner and I watch a movie together every night with dinner. We enjoy foreign films and art films, but it's a shame we never get to watch a full movie anymore and have to watch them in two or three parts. Anyways, it's kind of heart breakin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:43 PM

Women care more about height than penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:43 AM

Girls have always paid for me for things, I guess I'm just lucky or something. I also didn't learn to drive until I was 23 so they'd give me rides too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:42 AM
1

Duality of man, it's the Jungian thing. The Devil and God are raging inside me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:13 PM
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My wife loves Doja Cat but she infuriates me so much because of this especially with that latest song. Women really love to flaunt what men know they can't have. And then women have the audacity to say that men are privileged when there is no way for men to ever be sexually liberated as a class because women despise us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:38 PM
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one caucus-goer said he was voting for Trump out of spite Literally me and I've voted democrat since 2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:36 PM
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Last night I had trouble sleeping and was thinking about how many good women have genuinely liked me and how due to my insecurities and perversions I was unable to accept and appreciate that love. How selfish of me. I mean it all worked out in the end, but I was such a terrible person and treated them in a way none of them deserved to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:34 PM
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Do wholesome women exist? The thing is, especially at your age, there are plenty of wholesome young men around you, but none of them would be appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:22 PM
1

Biggie smalls for mayor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:19 PM
1

While I will agree there are some toxic beauty standards for women This is untrue. As you stated, all female beauty standards are self perpetuated unlike male beauty standards which are coming from women. Women say all the time they dress how they do for themselves where as men try to dress for female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:18 PM
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Yes, but the smart ones realize they need to stop because it doesn't benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:12 PM
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I saw a quote from a movie that was like "You want freedom without responsibility, but only one group of people get that" "The president?" "Babies." I think that also applies to women and feminism. They want special treatment and to maintain any double standards which benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:11 PM
1

DM GIRLS ON SOCIAL MEDIA. It's literally so fucking easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:15 PM
1

Whoever will piss the most people off. Either DeSantis or Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:42 PM
1

post an example of your aesthetic. It doesn't have to be you, but someone who dresses similar to how you dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:39 PM
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I'll give an example. One time we were driving in the rain and this guy in a big ass truck drove through a puddle and it splashed into my girlfriends window so I chased the guy down and confronted him. Pretty assholish of me, but I think she liked that. Or another time we were in a shoe store and someone was trying to get shoes on the top shelf so the boxes fell on her and I confronted them about that. Both instances I came off like an asshole, but it was coming from a good place I'd like to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:55 PM
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I think I'm definitely number 2. When girls like me they like me HARD. But I'm only 5'9 and not that attractive. The trick I found is that you can't be an asshole TO the girls, you have to be an asshole FOR the girls. That was my biggest mistake with the whole "girls like jerks" thing. I thought if I bragged about other girls I had been with it would make girls want to compete for me. That is what PUA wisdom at the time said. What girls like is a guy who is outspoken and uses his outspokeness to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:53 PM
1

And I'm still able to pull lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:48 PM
1

I don't think I'm conventionally attractive. I've been told I look like Jack Black, Matt Dillon, and Liam Payne. None of them are known as being particularly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:42 PM
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That is my thing, I have a face that works better with glasses. I'm not entirely sure why. I think it breaks up the sections of my face or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:15 PM
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Post a picture of your glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:14 PM
2

Not even trying to be rude or ad hominem, a lot of virgin guys don't understand niches, or if they claim to they only acknowledge very mainstream niches or misunderstand what a niche is entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:13 PM
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How old are you? Glasses have been in for at least a decades now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:56 PM
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Out of touch, this is why you're a virgin bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:55 PM
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She had me blocked for a week and unblocked me so was just saying hi, jeez Men can't do anything in this MeToo era 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:55 PM
1

How much of a fashion faux pas is it to wear glasses when you don't need them? I feel like glasses can be a really good accessory especially in certain niches but the problem is I have near perfect eyesight. I could benefit from a pair of the lowest correction reading glasses probably, but it isn't necessary. Maybe when I go to the eye doctor I'll see if I meet the minimum requirements for a pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:40 PM
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Hi :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:34 PM
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Yes, but I'm bad at it because I figure what's the point. I use a cleanser, jojoba oil, a moisturizing cream, and azelaic acid. I working on getting my home very clean and I have a space in the bathroom dedicated to that with a stack of clean washclothes and a headband for holding my hair back. For some reason it is just difficult for me to maintain any positive habits in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:35 PM
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I would, I just don't want to have withdrawals. I see so many people become blubbering messes when their refill is going to be a few days late.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:38 PM
1

Is the woe-is-me content only apply to the incel content or can I complain for a bit about my inferiority complex and how I never get promoted at work and how I'm lazy and have trouble focusing and paying attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:28 PM
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I don't really care that much about n count, it just comes down to feeling like I missed out. I think now I'm over that though because I'm ran through myself, but I still wouldn't want a high or even mid n count woman just based on the principle of the situation. Like we have to keep these thots accountable for their actions. I just think sometimes about how when I was a teenager I had a friend (6'+ tall) who took a new girls virginity every month, had been with like at least 10 different women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:27 PM
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Now going off to war AND being a virgin? That would be awful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:15 PM
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I am genuinely confused by how what you said applies to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:15 PM
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I just finished episode 7 when they're now entering Foy. I am pretty media literate, obviously I get most war movies/series are going to have an anti war message. I'm just saying at that time I can understand why a young man would want to enlist compared to nowadays when nobody wants to enlist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:14 PM
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Been watching Band of Brothers. Couple things it made me think about. 1.) I think it was a lot easier to be patriotic back then because women didn't treat men like shit. If you were fighting for your country, you were met with respect and admiration. Nowadays why would a young man want to enlist to defend a country full of wealthy capitalists and women that don't care if they live or die? 2.) War is brutal and we're all relatively safe thankfully. It is kind of pathetic for a young man's biggest…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:04 PM
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Irrelevant since most have lost it at 14. Tbh 20 would be better because if she is 30 it means she is too finicky about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:35 PM

Her mother can explain how her choices led to that decision. That is not his child and he should be compensated for any money and time he put towards that kid, but of course since the courts are anti-man, the mother gets to go on unaffected and will ultimately play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:13 PM

Women when talking about men: My body my choice, you're not entitled to my time or emotional labor, you're actually a horrible human being and everyone can sense it. Women when talking about women: Where is your sense of fairness and justice? Have you no compassion? What about nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:04 PM

Women when talking about men: My body my choice, you're not entitled to my time or emotional labor, you're actually a horrible human being and everyone can sense it. Women when talking about women: Where is your sense of fairness and justice? Have you no compassion? What about nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:03 PM
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I am married. I was her second, she was my third.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:33 PM
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Also important alongside n count is when she lost her virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:32 PM
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Yes. She would not check all the boxes due to her casual attitude regarding sex. I do not want a reformed hoe. I do not want a current hoe. I will sleep with a hoe, but I will not commit to a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:26 PM

noooooo u can't just hold women accountable, that would literally be the handmaids tale
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:22 PM

hmmmmm https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/192dyqp/wibta_if_i_abandoned_my_child/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:06 PM
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If we're a man of reproducing age on this sub, I don't think we have the mental capacity or wisdom to acknowledge not everything is about sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:11 PM
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I haven't seen it, but Black Swan comes up when I search "movies with flawed protagonists" There was a movie I really enjoyed called Pieces of a Woman and anything by Noah Baumbach or the Duplass brothers. These are more mumblecore slice of life dramas so all the characters have both good and bad traits, but those are my favorite kinds of movies. Also if you want the piece de resistance of this category, read The Sun Also Rises. I hated every. fucking. character. in that book, especially Lady Br…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:05 PM
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Lame. In Monster Lily's defense I understand how I can be offensive, but that is silly they blocked you for an innocent and well intentioned question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:59 PM
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It's the first sentence of Notes from Underground. While I haven't read it yet, I really like that sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:52 PM
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Getting the itch to read a novel again. I want to get into Dostoevsky. Should I start with the classic Crime and Punishment or Notes from the Underground? I read the first page of both and Notes from the Underground spoke to me more, however I feel as though Crime and Punishment being such a classic that it would be wiser to start with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:47 PM
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Meanwhile she was in an abusive marriage with a murderer for a decade, a pedophile before that who was my father, and a drug dealer and con man before that who was my brothers father. All three were cheaters too. Women ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:42 PM
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I am a sick man.... I am a spiteful man. I am an unattractive man. I believe my liver is diseased.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:40 PM
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I don't think this is too bad. You have a better chance of giving her an impression of you through instagram than on a dating app. The only thing I have a problem with is that I doubt she really knows what emo means. Post a pic of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:39 PM
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This is so Meta. I don't really care that I triggered monster lily so much she had to block me, but I wish I stopped seeing the [delete] [unavailable] 100 times a day. https://preview.redd.it/p9nue4rryfbc1.png?width=1384&format=png&auto=webp&s=4d3f6dd831afd64bcae35b8434faf98e77705f59
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:31 PM
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When my mom told me "Girls might not be dating you or sleeping with you, but at least they respect you and know they can trust you"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:29 PM
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What is an easy way to make AI pictures without having to sign up for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:10 PM
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ah, I understand I suppose. Yeah, I can see wanting to chase that nervous butterfly feeling being a cause of cheating. That is a shame though, I'd say those women and men who do that will never truly be satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:25 PM
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Hold up, are you saying women's sexual history matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:23 PM
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Just women who severely lack self awareness denying the male experience again, nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:22 PM
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This is true, but I dislike the wording. I stopped caring about morality or treating women well when I realized that they respond better to fuckboys. You have to be a little manipulative with them and play head games.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:22 PM
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I've been with my partner for 12 years and we still flirt. Like the other day we were coming in from the store and had just bought a broom and I poked her butt with the broom. I don't think flirting is necessarily lust and anxiety. I've never really felt anxious around women. I always looked at flirting as being playful to express interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:20 PM

I have never known a fat woman who had trouble getting laid the same way most men have trouble. Men are fine with fat women. It is women who have very strict preferences about height and other uncontrollable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:11 PM

You probably just don't know how to appeal to the female gaze or you're stacy chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:50 PM

I am fat, short, broke, and have a bulbous upturned nose and I still fuckboy maxxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:50 PM

fuckboy max and cheat a lot early in the relationship. Consider it a loyalty test. If she stays then she really likes you and you can slowly start being more genuine. This is basically what I did and it worked. Our connection is stronger than ever. It also helps if you can find a way to breed codependency and generally help her realize that she is better off without her toxic family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:48 PM

Why else would you approach? I don't get it. Also, just like women are entitled to reject men, men are entitled to express interest. Idgaf if women don't like being approached, it's hard as a man and you have to be strong and go after what you want. We don't have the luxury of endless options. I really think the best mind set for a man to have regarding women is to stop caring about what they think/feel. Like as a man you have to send out 10 DMs and hope that at least 1 will respond. You can't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:42 PM
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Define "everything." Besides, what I'm saying is already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:37 AM
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Women are more emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:11 PM
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Was talking about Handmaid's Tale the other day. Imagine if a man made a tv series or wrote a book about how in the future matriarchy women are going to have harems of 6'1+ men and any men who they deem inferior are subjected to be street sweepers and garbage collectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:10 PM
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Nope, just competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:45 PM
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Maybe in NYC, but I've never been there. I would say everyone I encounter is average height. Like 5'7 to 6'. Maybe one or two people out of a crowd I see will be over 6'1. My hometown though I have to say 6' or taller is the norm. But where I went to college and where I live now, all of which are still in NY that has been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:43 PM
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Because women who get cosmetology certificates only do so because they can't get a job anywhere else. It's like a cop out degree. Most of them are bimbos and suck at what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:23 PM
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Yes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDUDzSDA8q0
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:15 PM
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Probably because you're selfish and see the act of doing something for another person as demeaning. My partners parents were like this. They saw caring for their daughter as a burden. I remember one time in particular she got a phone call on the house phone which she doesn't use because she had a cell phone at this time and her mom never told her and said, "I'm not your secretary" Also, probably feminism has taught you that doing anything for a man means that you are a victim of patriarchy. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:14 PM
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"Oh? You think this attention women get from the gender they're attracted to is so great? Well why don't you go somewhere and get attention form a gender you're not attracted to and see how you like it! I are an woman and I are smart 👧🏻🍭"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:05 PM
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Because women shame men and men don't like being shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:03 PM
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Women don't put it in those terms, but they do say it is inappropriate and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:01 PM
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No. Probably not. Men encounter this kind of sentiment enough to know unless it is a resounding yes, then it is surely a no. For example, women will have a 30+ body count by 18. That is real. All of those things actually happened. The, "You're such a good guy (not for me), you're going to make a girl so lucky some day" is just a way to let them down easy. It's interesting how guys will always encounter the latter, it never or very rarely happens for them. It's like, why do they always encounter …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:59 PM
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Those women are valid to think it is creepy. Men are valid to be attracted to younger women. Women are valid to be attracted to height. Men are valid to be disgruntled about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:51 PM
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He’s my friend’s type Sure buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:49 PM
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I also said I'm probably a delusional man. We have a skewed (and I believe more fair) concept of attractiveness. We can look at a guy and see no glaring flaws, he doesn't look bad to us, but for women they see just see a binary of attractive or hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:47 PM
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You're 6'1. You are automatically above average. Can you send me a pic of you and I can give some advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:33 PM
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Maybe I'm just a delusional man, but I feel like he has potential. Definitely a 4 or 5 on the TRM scale, but I think he could get up to a 6. Hopefully if he got to a lower body fat it would take some of the fat from his cheeks away. That is the only thing really holding him back. Also his clothes look a little faded, I think he could have a little better style. Sure, that look can work on someone who is conventionally attractive, but for those of us who are not we have to work a little harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:31 PM
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Because he can be someone else's problem without shattering her own blue pilled world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:29 PM
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I could see my friend dating him. https://preview.redd.it/z08sh6q04nac1.png?width=965&format=png&auto=webp&s=d9917147830e786ecfc126f8515b9d001e3de224
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:28 PM
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Might hash this out into a CMV, but I was thinking about this at 8:34 AM like an absolutely rational and not at all psychotic human being totally does. Let's say a 40 year old guy is attracted to an 18 year old girl. He expresses that attraction and the girl is upset because she viewed him like a father figure. It is fair to say that his purpose is not to satisfy her preconceived notions of him. His attraction to her is valid and there is nothing wrong with it. Of course she doesn't have to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:24 PM
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I've cheated because women are shitty. But I also accept I'm shitty too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:10 PM
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New York State.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:09 PM
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Yeah, that is why I have no interest in seeking a diagnosis. It's more useful to treat the symptoms because a diagnosis doesn't really do anything besides give you an identity or something. I don't know. I'm just a shitty person. I do shitty things. That is what really matters, not some medical term.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:04 PM

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/House_of_Darkness_(2022_film)) It was actually pretty cool. A couple cringe parts, but it was a nice little movie. It was just very loaded "men are bad, boss babes need to get their revenge on these dirty dogs"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:09 PM
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Must be nice. I don't think I will ever have a healthy relationship with food. Being overweight just does something to your brain chemistry. Like even if I try to eat a normal amount of food like cookies or something, my mouth will salivate and my stomach will hurt with hunger pangs until I binge. It really fucking sucks being this way. It is like an addiction or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:06 PM

Oh, I see this thing about Barry Keoghan being short because he is 5'8 so that means since I'm 5'9 women must think I'm repulsive, let me ignore the probably 100+ women I've been involved with over the last two decades. But I want to be faithful so I have no way to prove I'm lovable. And the fucking irony is that I'm lovable! I'm in a long term relationship for fucks sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:02 PM

Alright, I'm going to be vulnerable for a second. I'm not diagnosed BPD, but I definitely have some signs. So like, you know how sometimes women will say to a guy "do you even know any women?" Like, you know, talk to women and get to know them so your opinion of them isn't bad. So I've talked about this pretty extensively, but since I started dating at around 15 I've been a habitual cheater. I've been very faithful from 2018 - 2022 where I had a slight lapse but then was caught and have been com…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:00 PM

They are not to be trusted because they have their own groups interests in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:48 PM

We all knew Disney was going to milk this cash cow to death. I don't like much nerd stuff, but I did love the original star wars trilogy growing up. What a shame they had to ruin it's reputation and run it into the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:44 PM

Act like women don't prefer female doctors
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:43 PM

Tbf I would prefer a male doctor over a female doctor. Women in those roles always have something to prove and they have bias against men so are incapable of being compassionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:40 PM

DeWalt. I like their logo better. I prefer red, but the Milwaukee logo looks like it should be on a beer or something. DeWalt looks very work zone and the yellow works for that as well. Ryobi looks like a japanese tech company that you'd buy off of amazon, and Makita being stylized as all lowercase doesn't give work zone. It is a good logo, but it would be better for a clothing or sneaker company or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:35 PM

Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Fwiw most red pill manosphere gurus are clueless as well, but if anyone says they know something for certain be very skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:30 PM

I agree with this. If you can make her orgasm and get into that state of being sexually submissive to you, then she is yours for life or at the very least the next few months. The issue nowadays though is who gets the opportunity to even try though and it is becoming increasingly harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:29 PM
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None. They're not my type. If I had to choose, the one sitting on the floor who gets up and touches her shoulder. The rest just look too instagram drake style or something. It isn't my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:10 PM
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Who told you that lie? lol Women. It is a pretty common sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:07 PM
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But women do those things for themselves, remember? And there have been a number of trends which showcase women purposefully try to make themselves more repulsive to men. I remember watching a video of Ryan Serhant from Million Dollar Listing and he said "I wear this suit for you" and that is such a common sentiment from men. We have to put effort into seeking approval from those around us where as women commonly say "I like to look good for myself."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:58 PM
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I get people are pro fat these days, which is fine, i'm more frustrated at the fact that aside from lean chicken breast most high protein sources are either higher in fat than protein or they're 50/50 which would mean you'd have to eat a shit ton of carbs to balance your macros out. Like if I had 3.5 oz of steak, I would have to eat 10 cups of broccoli to balance the macros out. ​ https://preview.redd.it/rg006v7cegac1.png?width=1600&format=png&auto=webp&s=3bdb06a4764f14bfa38104d22739b04b091a7f9b
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:54 PM
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So how do you cook your eggs? This first week of the new year I want to have eggs every day for breakfast, but it infuriates me because what is marketed as a "good source of protein" absolutely demolishes my fat macros especially considering I'm cooking them in butter. This is the kind of shit that made me go vegan in the first first place. Non vegan nutrition is just way too complicated, but I had low iron being vegan and it was annoying having to have special accommodations on holidays and whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:47 PM
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A good analogy for male and female dating dynamics is thinking of it in terms of a casino and gamblers. Women are the house and men are the gamblers. Women exist and men come to them. The men will most likely lose, and the women often win. Once in a while you might win, but the odds are stacked against you. Lift and Lurk is trying to tell me that the benefit of being a man is that you can approach women. That isn't a benefit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:10 PM
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There is absolutely no guarantee of that though. It's like saying the benefit of playing roulette is doubling the money you bet. In regards to dating, women are the casino and men are the ones gambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:09 PM
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Maybe that is just a big city thing. Where I live currently as a 5'9 man it is very rare for me to encounter men that are significantly taller than me. I often see men shorter than me with their partners. I live in a city with a population less than 50,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:06 PM
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Disagreeing is gaslighting? That is wild that you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:04 PM
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Your statement would make sense if women couldn't approach, but they can. And in no way can men "go get what they want" because they basically end up picking from the bargain bin as well. I don't see any benefit for the mans side of the dating dynamic especially considering the woman can more easily replace the man in her life than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:59 PM
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I have no clue how this guy wasn't labelled an incel and mocked off the internet. I mean he sounds like a nerd, he makes little hand drawn charts as to why women are bad with no supporting evidence to the validity of the chart, and yet somehow he got the support of TikTok and got 268k YouTube subscribers in a matter of months.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:57 PM
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You get you're further proving my point right? As a man, you have to be obnoxious essentially. Unless you're agreeing with me and I am just misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:47 PM
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So I'm misogynistic AND a gas lighter. There is nothing I'm doing that is gas lighting. In fact, I'd say it is almost impossible to gas light a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:44 PM
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So you're labelling me as misogynistic? Interesting, it seems all someone has to do to be misogynistic is disagree with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:44 PM
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I don't get what you're trying to say. Women get to choose from their incoming options. Men can approach but it is no guarantee of outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:32 PM
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Monster_Lily blocked me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:31 PM
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Women are inbound sales, men are outbound sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:30 PM
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You realize one of those is much easier than the others, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:30 PM
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How does this in any way express I'm mad about being old? I'm happy I was born a decade earlier. Besides, you're a girl so you're on the easier side of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:23 PM
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How are PPD men abusing women? The only men abusing women are the abusive ones women choose to be involved with. Such victim mentality. All Margret Atwood has taught women is how to self perpetuate their victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:21 PM
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You being able to claim the man is misogynistic is a way to justify disliking them. This is actually something from old school PUA, the hypothesis is that women are constantly looking for ways to disqualify men. Nowadays this can be seen by the red flag and ick trends and even by you saying that you dislike misogynistic men when you also get to determine who is misogynistic. And there isn't an alternative nor should there be one. We have agency so I can't fairly expect you to do anything you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:17 PM
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These girls still have the same benefit other women have. At the end of the day they still get to choose from the options which present themselves to them. I will say though, fat girls definitely are easier, but the ones with big tits and big asses have the same delusion regular women have because they get approached more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:11 PM
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I don't hate good men, I only hate misogynistic men. And guess who determines if a man you encounter is misogynistic or not 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:06 PM
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And ultimately the only thing stopping those bad men are the good men. I looked into the "98% of rapists are men" statistic and what I found is that actually less than .45% of men have committed an imprisonable offense. If you take out men committing crimes against other men or men only committing sexual assault, then the number is much lower. Feminists can't wrap their head around this and thing 98% being a big number means men are dangerous as a whole. It's like, what do they want that statist…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:05 PM
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women are still in danger LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:01 PM
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I really think Gen Z has regressed to the point where there is no hope for humanity. I see them talking about how Gen Alpha is bad, so it's clear it's only getting worse. I've seen people saying that things have changed and that if someone is older they don't know what the dating landscape is like nowadays and I always dismissed that idea because dating has always been difficult, but online dating is like an endless buffet of handsome men and along with social media, the idea of what a partner s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:59 PM
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A warning of what exactly? I've seen the show. I enjoyed the show. Elizabeth Moss is one of my favorite actresses. I have not read the book, but I hear season 1 is pretty close to the book. Regardless I'm sure I get the gist of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:36 PM
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I had a sopranos phase, the problem is that instead of just watching along with them I was eating along with them too. The show was ok, but I don't think it was as great and poignant as everyone made it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:34 PM
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Consider the fact that the Handmaids Tale's primary demographic is women. Why do women consistently seek out entertainment about things they dislike? Also, in what way are men even wanting this? Because we want to be appealing to women? Are you inferring that women see dating any man who is below the top 20% of men as some sort of bondage or punishment? Are you really that repulsed and hate men that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:33 PM
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I agree, I hate toilet humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:30 PM
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HEIGHT IS NORMALLY DISTRIBUTED IT RESEMBLES A BELL CURVE. 5'8 - 6' is the average height range of a US male. ​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:29 PM
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Completely logical, but I saw so many comments saying "5'9 is average so 5'8 is short"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:24 PM
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I think her and Hillary Clinton were the main examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:29 AM
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Still fucked up by this Barry Keoghan and Jacob Elordi thing. Saw a TikTok of women saying that 5'8 is short. The thing is Jacob Elordi is such a rare height. I think I might see someone who is 6'5 in public maybe once a year or less. I see way more men who are 5'8 and shorter. Despite this though, rather than having a concept of "average" women will think in a binary and say men are either tall or short. Not only that, Barry Keoghan supposedly rose from a life of foster care to become an academ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:27 AM

My blatantly sexist explanation is that they don't have to be. Being a woman is easier. It is easy to be virtuous when the world opens itself to you. I don't believe the patriarchy exists, but what feminists describe as patriarchy is absolutely necessary for society to function. I remember learning in my global politics class that when women achieve the same status as men in government, they tend to start advocating for wars at the same rate as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:28 PM

I have been an amazon prime customer since the early 2010s and it's always arrived when it said it would. Sometimes I've even gotten things the next day if I order early enough in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:24 PM
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STDs are incredibly high in nursing homes so I think old people are still hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:51 PM
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It isn't so black and white. But of course. Every interaction between humans is manipulative to some degree. It isn't necessarily a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:43 PM
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Nope, been in a relationship since 2012
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:12 PM
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I am dedicating this year to working on my physical and financial health. So far so good. For breakfast yesterday and today I've had two eggs, a mix of broccoli, bell pepper, mushrooms, and onions and two slices of ezekiel bread toasted with pasture raised butter and a cup of tart cherry juice. Lunch is either chicken or ground bison and either roasted potatoes or rice with a vegetable. Snack is greek yogurt with pineapple and honey. And dinner is whatever my partner and I decide on, but still w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:06 PM
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It isn't so much that they want women to date men they're not attracted to, it's that the looks threshold to be attractive to women is nearly impossible to meet whereas for women societally we find many different types of women attractive. I would say this is unfair, but I don't want to be accused of whining. Not only that, like you mentioned there is some rationality to this unfairness and inequitable distribution of attraction. With that said, however, I do think men should be more predatory a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:00 PM
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I'm going to appeal to the feminists with this one and say that all of the biggest help subs are male dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:03 PM
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Be complimented about how smart and handsome/beautiful you are, but at a much lower frequency Never be complimented for anything and looked at like you're quasimodo when you have to venture into civilization to run errands There, that is more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:44 PM
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Did you ever stop to think these men are acting out of a place of insecurity and inferiority themselves? It obviously doesn't justify their shitty behavior, but being unable to see her other content, it appears that she might even provoke these kind of comments. This is an interesting phenomenon I notice about women. They rebel against seeking approval from men by purposefully trying to repulse men which is still an act of seeking approval. Of course men are more aggressive online, they have not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:36 PM
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Same. Chad only exists in very large metropolitan areas otherwise they're very rare. This is solved easily though since the men complaining change their definition of Chad to suit each situation. I live in a small city and even in the suburb I moved from in a mid sized city, it's just normal people dating other normal people. I really think the problem is that a lot of these guys are just Stacy chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:28 PM
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Women are always like "ugly guys are so lucky because they get left alone, unlike us women who have to deal with people being a little rude to us, but we also are desired and wanted by virtually everyone we meet"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:25 PM
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My new years resolution is to wish everyone I see a happy new year until it gets weird. Yes, this is inspired by Curb Your Enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:22 PM
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Q4A would you rather: 1.) Be treated meanly by 1/3 of people, treated with indifference by 1/3 of people, and treated with love and kindness by 1/3 of people or 2.) Be treated with cold indifference and quiet disdain by all people all the time everywhere you go? There might be the rare 1 or 2 people who are kind to you though, but you're never sure if it's just out of pity or obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:16 PM
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Don't love it too much, it will become the next banned topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:14 PM
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That woman isn't ugly. Ugly men aren't "left alone." You say that like women are doing them some kind of favor. They're existentially rejected, alienated, isolated, and disregarded. All things feminists complain about. Women always say this, but I don't think they can truly comprehend what being "left alone" actually feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:08 PM

Consider this though, women can purposefully make themselves look weird, but still expect to be treated the same as if they followed social norms. Men on the other hand are unable to escape the limitations of their genetics. Women have it so easy they have to make their own problems. They are the definition of wanting freedom without responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:52 AM

Heard HR complaints went down and everyone who attended was finally able to get some work done.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:47 AM
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Men can approach more than one woman in a scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:01 PM
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Yeah, dating apps are just a reflection of real life. I've had the most success DMing girls on social media. I would say I had an 80% success rate doing that. The trick is to know what type responds best to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:01 PM
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Are you from France?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:59 PM
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And it's important to note men have more reason to complain than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:56 PM
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Yeah, because women are only attracted to things that are outside of mens control. I'd say it's unfair, but I don't want to be accused of whining. It's just the way it is and there is nothing we can do about it, but it really goes to show that women have it so much easier and anyone who denies that is lying through their teeth. It's just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:54 PM
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I have red in my beard and I'm so scared that if I have sons they'll be red headed. I don't care if I have daughters because women are accepted lookswise no matter what they look like, but I would absolutely do gene selection. It's odd how women are always so progressive and probably hold the opinion that CRISPR is unethical, but they're the ones that make genes matter. If men ruled the world things would be so much more fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:52 PM
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That is a really good comparison, I never thought about it that way, but you're absolutely right. Women would be freaking out if that ever happened and yet that is exactly what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:49 PM
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Two X literally is just women complaining that their husbands don’t cook and clean enough Twoxchromosomes is women doing this, then turning around and festering with each other blaming all men for the actions of the men they chose. This is such a perfect example of women's logic, they'll be like, "well my boyfriend is a lazy slob which is why women won't date you because you, the man women aren't dating, has to be a lazy slob as well." Like what kind of backwards double hand spring mental gymnas…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:46 PM
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As long as someone showers and wears deodorant they shouldn't smell, but that isn't enough. I've seen women talk about this natural scent thing before too but it was years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:42 PM
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Logically you'd assume there is a height cap. Like 7' is freakishly tall, that is an anomaly that you rarely if ever see in real life. But it's often been said women are illogical creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:40 PM
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Every time. Women have so many options to make themselves attractive, but if a man isn't just naturally attractive there is nothing he can do. Knowing this, why do women still say they have harsher beauty standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:07 AM
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That isn't calling them subhuman, women literally act like children and are incredibly irresponsible. Every woman I know has been horrible with money and get them and their husbands into debt. And even if the red pill did call women subhuman, there are so many men actively speaking out against the red pill and the manosphere like r/IncelTears or r/TwoXChromosomes or any dating subreddit that literally will defend women in every situation. This tweet is much more accepted than anything you're try…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:04 AM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@giogiorabbit/video/7302181056474647840 Saw this on TikTok. It is becoming increasingly hard to deny that the looks threshold for men is getting more and more impossible to meet. Barry Keoghan is 5'8 which is around the average height for a man. Jacob Elordi on the other hand is 6'5 which is .07% of men. This is such an interesting trend with Gen Z. Either they are admitting what women refused to admit for years, or the internet and dating apps are allowing women to carry …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:59 AM

Same. I'm 5'9 and fat but I've got that boyish goofiness that girls love or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:30 AM

ok, I see. I was misunderstanding the numbers. It is 36% still thought, that is an awful lot more than men at 1.8 percent. Like shockingly drastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:26 AM

I prefer cheek kisses, but I don't actually kiss the person on the cheek, we just touch cheeks and kiss into the air.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:22 AM

I like kisses on the cheek. My partner thinks it is because I'm not attracted to her. I think kissing is kind of gross too. I like deep french kissing when having sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:21 AM

I do, but I also live in a lower cost of living area. I make 45k a year not including bonuses and side hustle money and my rent is $1160 so it is 30% of my income. Realistically I probably make closer to 50k. Despite that though, I still try to live very modestly. The economy is impossible unless you make 6 figures AND keep expenses low. Back when I was making 30k a year out of college my rent was 45% of my income but I refuse to live in the ghetto. I hate out of touch financial gurus or r/finan…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:19 AM

They match with more than half they swipe right on which is much better compared to men who only match with 1.9% of those they swipe right on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:09 AM

Thot daughter. Don't know what the big deal is if she is a good person. Also maybe she can bring some of her thot friends around for me 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:11 PM

How short could your partner get before you'd leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:10 PM

Women are like the Jeff Bezos of the dating market. I've thought of this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:06 PM

How so? Maybe that women also deserve some sympathy, but I think men are more deserving of sympathy and empathy because their struggle is worse. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:59 PM
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Our moderator who art on reddit Hallowed be thy name Thy subreddit come, it will be done On mobile as it is on desktop Give us this day, our daily thread And forgive us of our banned posts As we forgive those who commented against us Lead us not into inceldom, but deliver us from singleness For thine is the subreddit, the upvotes, and the trending posts forever and ever. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:55 PM

And despite that, due to your female privilege, you are still viewed positively by society. Like the old adage goes, women are born with their value, men have to earn their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:48 PM

Like I just imagine some woman going to a date with a clipboard tallying up points to determine the value of her date Red flags and icks. The check list is in their head but women really do look for excuses to not be attracted to a man and they're often arbitrary things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:28 PM

Hyperbole doesn't disprove what I'm saying. Beauty standards are much more rigid for men, whereas a woman can gain weight and still be attractive with many men preferring a woman with higher body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:26 PM

I'm not personally obsessed with it, but I think it is good to hold women accountable considering how strict they are with the preferences they apply to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:23 PM

unironically female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:20 PM

Something I've realized as I've gotten older is that being in shape is the most important thing you can do to look good as you age. Also, those women look like they'd be awful to deal with. I think the type of women men here are attracted to is why they struggle so much with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:18 PM

Made a couples letterboxd account. We also have a couples account on AllTrails. It's funny because I feel like this is the kind of thing on TikTok girls would be like "Me and who? 🥺" But the ironic thing is a lot of the girls that would say that most likely wouldn't date me in the first place. This happened one time when I was walking out of the grocery store with my partner and we were laughing and joking around and stuff, and some girl said something like "oh you two are so cute, it must be so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:13 PM

This is literature what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:51 PM

Can't tell height on TV. How tall are you? As long as you're close to average height you're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:50 PM

Guys, why aren't you Jim Halpertmaxxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:01 PM
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Q4A: have you ever given/gotten a hickey? Yes to both for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:11 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iOthk7SDlY this girl got a straight up hickey lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:10 PM
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So now that you're part of the inner circle, what do the mods think of me? 🥰 I'm a Leo so I need the validation and attention. Don't hold back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:08 PM
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Why is everyone so vanilla nowadays. Even that new Jack Harlow song on the radio is about being vanilla lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:06 PM
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Most I ever had in a day was 9 times. That new relationship sex drive goes hard af. Sex with a committed partner is so much better than random hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:04 PM
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Must have made someone mad, I am getting one downvote on everything I've commented this morning lmao. I think I know who it is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:35 PM
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I look and act young for my age so I think that was part of my appeal. Anyways, The youngest I was involved with was a 22 year old when I was 31. but up to my late 20s I was with some girls in their late teens. I'd say pretty consistently actually. It never felt weird so I don't know why you're making a big deal about it. They're just so much more unpredictable and guarded compared to girls in their 20s. But they do get more attached. Girls in their 20s don't give a fuck and embrace their slutti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:29 PM
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Wrong. The ire is the result of existential rejection by women. Of course men are frustrated with women, they are the judges of our worthiness. They are the Roman emperor giving the thumbs up or thumbs down as we fight to the death in the coliseum that is the dating marketplace. Women have the upper hand. They hold all of the power. Men are inherently oppressed, and just like any oppressed group they lash out and fight for power. Man is the proletariat of the world and women are given a throne b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:16 PM
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Because I've dated teens?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:59 PM
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Kohls? Nah, I shop at Burlington and Nordstrom Rack.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:44 PM
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Anyone been following Gypsy Rose Blanchard's release? She has a TikTok now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:40 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7voPx_U5EM Relevant to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:38 PM
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I miss the old days. 2007 was peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:27 PM
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Who the hell is giving that advice? When you're 30 dating teens requires a lot of skill, patience, and knowledge about women. Besides, wanting to date exclusively teens is going to lead to further frustration because they're all so flakey and still scared of sex. You need to date girls between 23 and 27 who are sexually experienced and are still deep in their hoe phase and actually enjoy it. No wonder y'all remain virgins. Y'all are so stubborn you can't give up what you want to get what you nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:08 PM
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Last night I scheduled out my time in Google Calendar. I have a planner for 2024, a notebook, and several little pocket notebooks. This year I am going to start a trend where I focus on one major goal for the entirety of the year. This year will be getting my health back in order. This isn't a new years weight loss resolution rooted in vanity, it is rooted in the realization that my body is falling apart and all of the adults in my life rapidly declined after they reached 50. I need to find a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:05 PM
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I am a fire sign supremacist. If you're a fire sign I'm going to automatically treat you better than other signs. Where are my Aries, Leos, and Sagittarius' at?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:53 PM
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I'm pro choice in theory, but the fact that men have no option in the abortion means it is hypocritical to expect a man to pay child support if the woman decides to have the baby. Your body. Your choice. Your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:36 PM
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Yes. I was in elementary school and was up early for the bus and my mom and I were outside and we saw two red objects in the sky that were following each other and then just disappeared. They were bright red and didn't fizzle out the way a meteor or space junk would.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:28 PM
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The US has never apologized for nuking Japan. I don't think any of us think it was necessary, but it is wild how nobody ever talks about it or questions it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:17 PM
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Depression, anxiety, stress, physical decline makes doing things much harder. There are so many things I want to do but I'm just too exhausted to actually do them. He might also just be uninterested in his life. Very American Beauty. Women don't think mens issues are valid, but we experience them so that makes them valid. We don't need women's approval of our struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:13 PM
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Find out her name, stalk her social media, find out what she is interested in and where she goes, create a situation where running into her is natural, use the information you gained to seem like her perfect match.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:10 PM
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Because we knew communism was spreading in Cuba so we had to nip that in the bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:45 PM
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Where did you get the recipe? Where have you had shakshuka before that you're comparing it to? Often in restaurants they use crazy amounts of salt and fat to make things taste good. Also, I found that any recipe from an independent blogger for whatever reason is going to be garbage. The only places I get recipes from are NY Times, Epicurious, Delish, Food & Wine, and a couple youtubers such as Sip & Feast, Brian Lagerstrom, Food Wishes and a couple others. https://cooking.nytimes.com/recipes/101…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:40 PM
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I wish I could 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:22 PM
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Fwiw, a lot of the things Gen Z considers millenials cringe for were really niche things that everyone already thought was cringe. Aside from that though, things like "delulu, side eye, it's giving, no but, mid," etc. are also going to be looked back on as cringe. Things like TikTok dances especially in public spaces, street interviews that border on harassment, eclectic fashion that is a fearful reaction to millennial fashion, etc. I guarantee you are not going to stand the test of time. Like, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:20 PM
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Do you not think Gen Z is cringe at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:59 PM
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Also Jodi Arias 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:26 PM
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She is kind of cute. Like realistic expectations cute. I understand this isn't a good photo of her, but it is a picture of her and her husband. Husband is fat. Haters will say he is beta buxxing. Maybe, but I see couples like this all the time. Like this is real for me and reflects what I see when I go out. But guys here think the only women that exist are the Instagram models on Fresh and Fit and the only way to get them is to be Andrew Tate or that other muscular guy with the button up shirts …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:26 PM

Give us this day, our daily thread and forgive us of our banned posts as we forgive those who commented against us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:47 PM

When I was seven momma took me to Communist Cell meetings they sold us garbanzos a handful per ticket a ticket costs a nickel and the speeches were free everybody was angelic and sentimental about the workers it was all so sincere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:46 PM

Of course. You can't force someone to do something they don't want to do, but if they value my input then it would be their decision and not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:46 PM

Soft men will always be rejected and unwanted. I don't think this is true. More like men who hold this belief aren't interested in the kind of women who like soft men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:44 PM

Women are in their right to be upset about guys commenting on thirst traps and I feel sorry for girls in relationships with guys like that. As a guy, I'll look but I would never comment or follow because it is humiliating to do so. The difference though is that for women they are getting the attention funneled right to them but as a guy you have to seek it out and get the other woman's approval which is already rare enough so there is less risk for men on social media to actually do something de…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:11 PM

Guys who are smart realize dating apps don't work and social media DMs get more success. I am estimating these numbers but I'd say my success rate with DMs was like 80% and my success rate with Tinder was less than 5% Like that is the thing, I'm realizing it isn't even being controlling, it is protecting her from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:00 PM

I've never been the controlling type. I wish I could be, but the truth is I never really cared enough. I always figured if a girl was going to cheat or entertain other men, that is on her and isn't my responsibility. I guess I'm just more emotionally stable than other people. But just saw something about how women shouldn't have instagram or social media in a relationship and I have to say I agree. I don't think I could bring myself to being that controlling, but why be with someone who would al…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:53 PM
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This is bro https://preview.redd.it/0wf4rz3kx19c1.png?width=1090&format=png&auto=webp&s=3ffe66b7ab5776d51438cfc45dacd4259c0fb364
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:11 PM
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You look like if a man and a woman had a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:55 PM
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I get the impression that he is the kind of guy who would look better in person or have better presence or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:53 PM
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The other guy looks like he'd be named Franklin or some shit. Fresh and Fit has that Timon and Pumba vibe ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:52 PM
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Has anyone had those blossom cookies before? I made some and they're so hard to eat. It's like they're designed to stab the roof of your mouth. They look cute, but who thought putting a big pointy hershey kiss smack dab in the middle of a cookie was a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:50 PM
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"You can't have discussions here where more things are permissible, you have to have it in the actual subreddit where it will be deleted"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:49 PM
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I actually have been approached a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:34 PM

I want to have sex with a midget girl so bad. Definitely one of those things that Chad gets a pass for fetishizing them I'm sure. Plus the last time I saw a midget girl was 2007 so they're so rare. Anyways, I'm in a very serious relationship now so that will never happen, but every once in a while I go down that rabbit hole. That dude is hung af though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:09 PM

They don't even need to be hot, I'd settle for cute or even just unoffensive to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:55 PM

this essentially <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:53 PM

tbf, he has gotten 15 matches in two years. He is clearly showing his interests and personality and comes across as a good guy who wants something real. Yes, the height will definitely hinder his results, BUT assuming he isn't just looking for hook ups, 15 quality matches in two years is a good rate of return. I never understood people who want a committed relationship but get frustrated when they have trouble looking for something sincere. I understand people who just want to hook up but get no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:50 PM

What about men who scorch their eyebrows off lighting the grill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:20 PM

Simps and pick mes are just the words used by people who are disgruntled at the opposite sex and upset at their gender compatriots not sharing their disdain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:19 PM
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My partner and I went to Ulta the other day. We've also been going to stores like Marshalls and TJ Maxx. These are generally discount stores that sell designer brands but for less. She bought a lot of make up and stuff for cheap. I couldn't help but think of something though and follow me here. 1.) Women complain about having to wear make up and having beauty products marketed to them 2.) Women complain that men don't have to put as much effort into their appearance But as a man, I am left with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:16 PM

The sad thing is, they're probably both describing the same scenario. She just laid there because she froze up and was scared bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:08 PM

This is based, but I have to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:08 PM

The good thing about something like eggs is that the fat in them makes the vitamins more bioavailable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:58 PM

it's still only 470-560 calories. That's the equivalent to two slices of toast and some butter. 2 slices of toast would be 200 calories, plus a little under half of a tablespoon of butter would be <50 calories so the bread and butter would be about 8g of protein and 240 calories actually. That long with a couple scrambled eggs seems like a nice well rounded breakfast that is pretty even macro split. This would probably be even better with Ezekiel bread as it would be 10g of protein for 160 calor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:50 PM

I've licked a couple too, but in my defense it was 2013 and was all the rage 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:34 PM

yeah I'm just fucking around. This is my whole bit. It's funny though because I've gotten nudes a few times by telling girls I've never been sent nudes before in my life lol Little did they know I had a google drive categorizing and organizing them all by name and date sent 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:27 PM

Not even that because I don't do protein powder, but it's just the fact that calorically, fat is providing most of the calories. If I think of something as high protein, I want most of the calories coming from protein like lean chicken breast. I guess one could also say that lentils or quinoa are a good source of protein even though most of the calories are coming from carbs. I'm not saying this in a "fat is bad" way since I know everyone is pro fat these days, just that if I have two or three e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:24 PM

Yeah well at least you get to have sex 🙄😤😢 I've never even been in the same room as a woman my entire life 😭😠😓
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:12 PM

Can someone explain to me why eggs are considered high protein. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:11 PM
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You mean "taxes"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:13 PM
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I did network a bit, but I moved to a smaller city where I didn't really know anyone. Things were a lot easier in my previous city when I knew more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:32 PM
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Now we know how Joan of Arc felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:03 PM
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Was that ever the case? The perception was always that it was trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:02 PM
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I don't ever get unsolicited offers. It kind of makes me sad too because I worked really hard on my linked in profile, posted several blurbs about my 5 years of experience, highlights of my work as a photojournalist which included photographing high profile events and people with worldwide name recognition. Working for a flagship university in my state. I don't want to come across as arrogant, but I am so proud of all the stuff I did in my brief career. On paper it looks good. Despite that thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:24 PM
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It's so interesting how similar we are. My first job out of college was at a TV station that was across the street from the apartment I moved into so my commute was also 5 minutes. It was definitely nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:18 PM

None. Every time I get a job offer I've taken it. Often I take the first job that comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:12 PM

NPR is the CEO of doing too much. I remember a segment on NPR defending cock fighting because "culture"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:11 PM
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The problem is that guys here don't want to get a starter girlfriend that will house train them so they can be more attractive to other women. That is the secret. You get a starter girlfriend. She points out all the times girls are interested in you. She helps you become more appealing to women, then you leverage those lessons to maximize your girlfriend getting potential. Instead they want the Chad treatment right from the start and they think anything less than that is an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:58 AM
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When I was in college there were these lectures in the media department and one of the first ones I attended was a professor from Toronto talking about the history of cat memes. There was also a class which focused on memetics, but I didn't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:52 AM
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I know this is an unpopular opinion, but I believe having an affair is the only way to truly emulate that experience. Sneaking around your partner takes the place of having to sneak around your parents. I know people aren't going to like hearing this, but being unfaithful helped me to work through a lot of my depression surrounding my virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:44 AM
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Damn, that's the kind of service you usually only get in France.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:41 AM
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These women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:41 AM
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I don't think Millenials and younger use Facebook much anymore. We were ran out by the boomers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:41 AM
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Last winter was brutal. There is currently an el nino. This is a rainy winter. It happens. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/El_Ni%C3%B1o Over North America, the main temperature and precipitation impacts of El Niño generally occur in the six months between October and March. In particular, the majority of Canada generally has milder than normal winters and springs, [...]. People don't understand the difference between weather and climate. Even if climate change is real (which I believe it is) there…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:39 AM
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I (ironically) feel that women are unable to truly relate to that song and it is strictly for the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:26 AM
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Add it Up by the Violent Femmes. It has obscure enough indie cred which they tend to love, and the lyrics are legit about being an incel a couple decades before incel was even a thing. https://genius.com/Violent-femmes-add-it-up-lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:25 AM

No, I'm just not attractive enough to be part of the "football team story." I have to get my degeneracy needs met through more nefarious methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:46 PM

I don't have a problem with gang bangs, it's just the fact I'll never get to be the kind of guy who participates in one 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:40 PM

What is the dating market place like in high school compared to the things people talk about on here? Tell us your observations, I'm really curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:16 PM

I know a lot of people think it is cheesy, but do you have any new years resolutions? Mine is to write a budget each month and track my expenses as well as keep a planner, a journal, and write to do lists every night. These are all tied under the umbrella of using pen and paper to organize different areas of my life. Last year I made a resolution to use the internet less and I was actually quite successful at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:50 PM

Women just don't understand. Explain to me how women can be compatible with 30+ guys by the time they're 19, but some guys just happen to be not compatible with anyone. It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:47 PM

https://youtu.be/OxDFyn7FMgQ?si=mtnIEvHWcaRwT6QV This is honestly the most relatable line I've ever seen in a movie. When I first heard it I felt understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:41 PM

You can weasel your way into being a fuckboy. Fuckboys just lie to increase their SMV. My go to line when I would start talking to a girl was saying I was watching my nephew. I don't have a nephew, but saying this made it seem like I was a good guy and family oriented. I would also lie about being at parties and shit. You just have to keep the facade up long enough to get laid then from there you do some mind fucking to make the girl attached to you. You know how guys will complain about girls f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:39 PM
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Feminists will be like "98% of sexual assaults are men, that means men are dangerous." But that statistic doesn't really tell us anything about how dangerous men are. When women use that statistic, the only possible resolution would be to make it 50/50 between men and women. Right, like if there was only 10 rapes that ever happened in the history of humanity, and 9 of those were men, then 90% of rapes would still be by men even though it's such a small percent of the population. You can scale th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:35 PM

Yes wear deodorant lol. Antiperspirant performs a different job than just smelling nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:34 PM

I read the OP, but I guarantee you some nerd ass bitch is in the comments like "I bet these guys don't even know the director of this movie was trans 🤓" People are so annoying. They learn one fact about something, then they see the trigger word and a filter runs in their head and they say the thing. Total NPC behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:33 PM
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More like rapists are unsalvageable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:31 PM

A good woman is hard to find. I think as men we need to maximize our own dating strategy and not be as fair in our approach since women are not fair in theirs. Basically, just be a fuckboy until one of the women you're involved with proves herself to be different. This is really the best strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:30 PM

Feminists will be like "98% of sexual assaults are men, that means men are dangerous." But that statistic doesn't really tell us anything about how dangerous men are. When women use that statistic, the only possible resolution would be to make it 50/50 between men and women. Right, like if there was only 10 rapes that ever happened in the history of humanity, and 9 of those were men, then 90% of rapes would still be by men even though it's such a small percent of the population. You can scale th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:26 PM

It's so odd when feminists are like "teach men not to rape!" like, sis, they're rapists, they don't fucking care. They're bad people, you can't reason with bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:18 PM

Because based on the options presented some will be better or worse. There is no bad because it is all relative. Women are privileged in that things get handed to them with little effort, but they can put in effort to increase the quality of their options. Men on the other hand will always be an option, so we have to improve ourselves to stand out to women in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:17 PM

"It's her body and her choice, but also he owes child support" I used to be pro choice, but the fact men have no say in the matter really means we do need to legislate abortion. There are two choices, abortion isn't allowed except in very specific circumstances such as rape, incest, or severe birth defects, or up to 6 weeks, or abortion is allowed up to whatever term women want, but men can also withdraw their paternal rights carte blanche without a step dad taking custody and not have to pay a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:13 PM

As above, so below.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:08 PM

Aren't you already really thin? I feel bad for people that are much shorter than the average because your TDEE and BMR is so low already To lose weight some people would have to eat 800 calories a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:44 PM

Also they view women as less of a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:40 PM

I don't want to shatter your happiness, but if she was the other escort, it sounds like they were gassing you up to make your experience better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:34 PM
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Why would I entertain a woman's opinion on this when women are the ones who create these obstacles? If I am interested in a woman, it is my job to show her that I'm interested in her and it is equally her job to show she is interested in me. If she doesn't prove to me that she likes me based on my terms, then it is clear she doesn't like me as much as I like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:27 PM
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At the very least every girl I've been involved with I've at least made out with on the first date, so I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:39 PM
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If a guy isn't getting sex on the first time meeting the girl, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:38 PM
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Because women are less likely to kidnap someone than they are to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:22 PM
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What do you mean? Who are these others? And what are the lesser standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:15 PM
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And here's the thing, I'm not saying just because she doesn't jump into bed with you doesn't mean she doesn't like you, but as a man you are at an inherent disadvantage in the dating market, don't put your eggs into one basket because it is too high risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:14 PM
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Fwiw she is my wife now so it does kind of prove she is as into me as she could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:12 PM
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Unlikely. Every girl has an equivalent of the "football team story." It might not be an actual football team, but no girl is pure. Assume the worst until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:09 PM
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The quiet ones are usually the sluttiest. It is safer to assume every woman has a high body count until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:08 PM
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Are you really missing out on the love of your life if they're going to start the relationship with a wall up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:07 PM
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The sentiment isn't wrong. I've had a girl kidnap me before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:06 PM
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If you're not having sex the first time you meet her, she doesn't like you as much as she could.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:57 PM
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Because women don't care about their body count, only men do. That guy is right. Plenty of girls were willing to get physical with me on the first time meeting. We weren't even on a date in a lot of instances. That is how you know a girl actually likes you. Old PUA mentality which I agree with is that you can't really get to know someone until that intimacy barrier has been put down. So if a girl isn't willing to sleep with me, its clear she doesn't like me as much as I like her so I should be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:54 PM
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One of the things I hated so much about high school was all the arbitrary rules and shit. Do you have hall monitors during lunch? Like I was always so depressed because my friends were in the other lunches, but I could never leave since you could only go to the library during lunch twice a week. Especially when you're in highschool, like you're not a kid anymore, you should have some agency to make your own decisions about what to do with your time especially since a lot of you will be going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:40 PM
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I want my christmas present to be time freezing too, but I wouldn't be staying in my house 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:38 PM
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You must be young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:35 PM
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Tommy Boy and The Wedding Singer both have tropes where the attractive love interest is a piece of shit, but the girl ends up with the arguably unattractive good guy who saves the company.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:25 PM
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Not just that, but like you said, if the countries we're allied with have issues, we have to assist them militarily, so basically our huge military spending supplements other countries military which means they can allocate money into their healthcare system.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:08 PM
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Who cares, plenty of guys go on dates just to score free sex. If you don't want to be some woman's meal ticket, then either don't date those kind of women or make the first date something inexpensive or free, or tell her up front you want to go 50/50 for the first few dates. Guys need to understand we create our reality. If someone is toxic or doesn't improve our lives, we are under no obligation to deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:04 PM
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Tell me about it. I want to know what it was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:01 PM
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link it please
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:31 PM
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I wonder how many of those "experts" are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:30 PM
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Because I didn't want to be a garbage collector, construction worker, or work on an oil rig. I wanted to get a piece of paper so I could work in an office with air conditioning and wear second hand polo by ralph lauren and commit time theft by posting on reddit during working hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:29 PM
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I don't like comic book stuff, but Joker was an incredible movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:59 PM
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Apex fallacy. I realized that while enduring feminist lectures in college. Looked into it and realized it was an actual thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:58 PM
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Either you're strawmanning me or you're lying. I never said a woman would be rich just by showing their ass. I said that women have easier opportunities to make money by stripping or camming and that the standard for them to make money in those domains is much lower than it is for men. As a man you would need to be tall, athletic, have a large penis, good jawline, good head of hair, etc. As a woman you can have big or small boobs, big or small ass, be stick thin or fat, be tall or short, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:43 PM
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No. If a guy is sneaky it is only because we have to be due to women's sneakiness. Guys wouldn't have to lie about their height if women didn't make such a big deal about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:21 PM
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I don't think I said that because I don't talk like that. Can you copy and paste the exact sentence you're referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:19 PM
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So true. It took me way too long to learn this. If she isn't interested from day one, cut your losses. This is why sex on the first time hanging out is so important. A woman isn't even deserving of being taken on a date until you have some confirmation she likes you through sex. Dates are for lovers, not for prospecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:05 PM
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I remember a girl saying that her and her girlfriends had a picture hanging on the wall the top of which was marked at exactly 6' so when a guy comes over they know if he is really 6' or not. I often wonder if she was lying or serious about that. Either way, it is a perfect example of the sleaziness and sneakiness that is all too common for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:03 PM
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tbf good traits is like winning the genetic lottery. Having someone who won the genetic lottery is sort of like winning the lottery yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:02 PM
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Fresh and Fit is so fucking annoying, it's like The View for men. How does anyone actually like this garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:55 PM
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Cheated. A lot. Also I was pretty predatory/manipulative with how I pursued women. I don't really feel regret about any of this, but I stopped because I don't want to keep hurting my partner because she is a really good person who has been nothing but good to me. If I was ever single again I can't promise I wouldn't go back to how I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:09 PM
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Only an idiot would tell a girl he is looking for something casual 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:03 PM
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Cheating and leading girls on to get laid. It sucks, but dating is unfairly stacked against men so if men were smart they'd do what benefits them more often. At least that is what the successful ones do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:45 PM
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Hamza is legitimately based
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:19 PM
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No. I remember back in 2016 I was trying to open up my relationship but I decided not to because she didn't want to and I saw a reddit post about a guy who convinced his girlfriend to be open and he ended up not getting any girls but his girlfriend had a new guy most nights of the week and way more attractive men than him. Women will always be at an advantage, commitment and relationships are the only equalizer, but even then the woman still has more leverage because she could replace the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:16 PM
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This dialogue from American Horror Stories is so real and true. Toby: I'm really making an effort to relate to women more healthily, Dr. Krystal. Therapist: And yet, you are full of anger. Toby: You think I hate women? Women raised me. My whole culture is pure matriarchy. I love women. ( laughs ) Therapist: You love conquest, Toby. You're confused. You crave intimacy, and yet, you are addicted to the dopamine rush of these women on apps and one-night stands. Toby: Don't try and shame me, please.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:13 PM
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Open relationships only benefit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:06 PM
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I will never understand how a guy can be absolutely miserable in life but still refuse to abandon his moral code. My happiness is far more important than the well being of those around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:46 PM
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Tbh you're not wrong. If Johnny was smart he'd shack up with the single mom and keep looking on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:21 PM
1

Are you purposefully not getting what I'm saying? Even if a woman doesn't make it big, it is much easier to make some money doing OF or Chaturbate than it is compared to being a Twitch streamer or any other job a man would pursue. A girl could turn 18, sign up for Chaturbate that day, stream that night, and make some money from just being in front of a webcam. She wouldn't need any audience, followers, or subscribers. Men have to work harder than women, so it makes sense to respect men more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:13 PM

First of all who says these guys want a virgin woman? You're making a strawman up in your head. Second of all that's why you watch porn in secret and don't be a coomer about it 🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:54 PM
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I always find it odd how feminists/women will be like "we need more female CEOs and female movie directors!" But are never like "we need more female garbage collectors, construction workers, and more women working on oil rigs" The narcissistic gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:51 PM
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I saw an article once talking about how most abuse is actually reactive. This has played out in my own relationships so I have a lot of sympathy for men who retaliate when women constantly taunt us and push us until we snap and then they play the victim. Also consider how lesbians have higher domestic violence rates than gay men. Domestic violence is usually women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:50 PM

But CEOs 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:48 PM

I saw an article once talking about how most abuse is actually reactive. This has played out in my own relationships so I have a lot of sympathy for men who retaliate when women constantly taunt us and push us until we snap and then they play the victim. Also consider how lesbians have higher domestic violence rates than gay men. Domestic violence is usually women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:47 PM

Keep telling yourself that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:42 PM
1

Not really. It is easier to be attractive enough as a woman to be a stripper than it is to be attractive enough as a man to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:40 PM
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you don't get targeted for crimes from men either most homicide victims are men. Anyways, you want a more specific example? This conversation right now. I'm telling you about my experience and you're denying it and rejecting. I highly doubt you would be this adversarial if it was a woman talking about the glass ceiling™
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:39 PM

lmao I literally do. I've worked in social media marketing. Paint me a picture with words why what I'm saying is incorrect. -girls takes thirst trap -posts to insta -gets followers -some followers click link in bio -some of those followers that click buy some pictures or a video or alternately -girl signs up for chaturbate -guys peruse pages of girls -click on one they like -some of those guys who click will donate tokens It's literally the simplest thing and takes close to no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:35 PM

I'm so chronically online andrew huberman red pill I thought parents were now making their kids go outside to stand barefoot in the grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:00 AM

Are there any philosophers you feel more connected to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:52 AM

In what way? Is it easier than I realize?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:51 AM

I only like reading the classics. Hemingway is my favorite. I enjoy Camus, but his prose was more to supplement his philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:33 AM

Sure, you need an audience, but it isn't hard to find one when you're selling the most desired commodity in history. Women have an endless bank between their legs. You could set up an instagram and have hundreds of followers before you even post any content and the sites make it so easy to connect people with you. Like Chaturbate, you sign up, go live, people join your room and donate. Simple as that. I've dated two cam girls, I know a lot about how that works and while most girls aren't making …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:29 AM

Then sell a product you believe in and only sell to people who need your product.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:27 AM

Fwiw being a stripper seems shitty too. At least you wouldn't have to deal with perverted men putting their grubby little fingers on your waist. I enjoy sales when I've worked in the field. But I also enjoy being persuasive and overcoming objections.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:26 AM

Fellas, I have an answer to a question I've been asking for a long time. SALES is the closest we can come to compare and compete with women being strippers or doing OF. In sales you have almost unlimited earning potential and what you put into it is what you get out of it. Of course OF is easier, but that is the difference between men and women since we already know women are the privileged and pampered gender. But still, I wonder if the "sex work is real work" crowd would consider sales to be u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:14 AM
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Fellas, I have an answer to a question I've been asking for a long time. SALES is the closest we can come to compare and compete with women being strippers or doing OF. In sales you have almost unlimited earning potential and what you put into it is what you get out of it. Of course OF is easier, but that is the difference between men and women since we already know women are the privileged and pampered gender. But still, I wonder if the "sex work is real work" crowd would consider sales to be u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:13 AM
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You know what. I think sales is probably the best equivalent. In a way strippers have to have the same skills a sales person would have to extract as much money out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:09 AM
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Tbh, the same thing could be told to their sons. My partner and I are an anomaly but it's only because we're so codependent we couldn't live without the other. I think most emotionally well adjusted people are not capable of experiencing love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:07 AM
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Female stripper: https://www.reddit.com/r/stripper/comments/hf2srp/first_ever_time_stripping_18_vs_now_20/ Male stripper: https://www.reddit.com/r/stripper/comments/f763hj/is_this_sub_also_open_to_male_strippers/ Women are just such a low form of life. They're like children that always get their way just by virtue of being women but have the audacity to whine about how tough it is being a wittle girl. It's so pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:03 AM
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As a straight male with another specific characteristic I am seen as evil and the enemy and I have seen countless instances where I am treated with prejudice for putting in effort into things. For example when I was in college I worked my way up to editor of my school newspaper, but not without much active resistance from the girls club that was already in place. Thankfully the editor in the highest position wasn't involved in all that nonsense and gave me the promotion based on my work ethic an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:56 AM
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But they have to have the right genetics and be the kind of guy women wouldn't see every day, where as female strippers can be just average and still make a lot of money so it really isn't comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:53 AM
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I remember during the pandemic reading an article about people turning to OF to make money and the only guy they interviewed would do contracting kind of work in his underwear, BUT he was like 6'4 and Instagram model fit. That isn't obtainable the way being a stripper is for the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:52 AM
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Takes a long time to build a following, and even then there is no guarantee anyone will watch you stream. As a Stripper you can make bank starting on night one just by showing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:50 AM
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Because I want to get laid and to do so I have to diversify my Hoefolio?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:49 AM
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CIO takes too long and there is no guarantee you will find that position. Not to mention most C suites are over 6' tall. Banking is despised especially by the "sex work is real work" crowd. There might be a lot of jobs where men are highly paid, but they're also highly competitive, take having the right networking connections, and slogging away to hopefully realize that position by your 50s which would definitely be way past your prime and wouldn't allow you to be truly competitive with 18 - 23 …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:48 AM
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Takes a long time to build a following, and even then there is no guarantee anyone will watch you stream. As a Stripper you can make bank starting on night one just by showing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:43 AM
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As a stripper, can you think of a comparable job for men that could earn as much money as easily while also not offending any of the "sex work is real work but landlords are parasites" people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:25 PM
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I never promise exclusivity, but I have no problem with letting them assume. I have no control in what they think, that is on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:13 PM
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You're a far more moral man than I. I never promise exclusivity, but I have no problem with letting them assume. I have no control in what they think, that is on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:13 PM
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Feminism has overstayed it's welcome and is now focused on disenfranchising men. There is no such thing as the patriarchy, but what gets referred to as the patriarchy is entirely necessary for society to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:07 PM
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She could simply not mention that she was happily "easy for other men but not for you" and, you know, portray herself as someone worth dating. I'm over the hookup stage implies so much baggage and bad decisions and regret. No guy wants to take on that burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:03 PM
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No. But if she had her fun, don't expect to put the burden of settling down on some other guy who didn't have the same opportunities. I'd date long enough to hit it, then I'd dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:01 PM
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gods eepiest soldier
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:58 PM
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And for the next guy it will be 21. Who cares? If she isn't relationship material then break up with her and find someone else. Guys thing they have to take whatever comes by.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:53 PM

Eating canned oysters for the health benefits. This is the first time I've ever had oysters and I'm not sure what I think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:42 PM

That is funny. It's like even when guys try to get in on the game they still fumble it. Why are guys consistently so bad at this lol It's like they lack the emotional intelligence to connect with someone and get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:12 PM

Let me try to explain it. I'm fully aware my logic is likely toxic, but I struggle to see any other point of view. So, when I was 14 or so I always had the Disney belief that I would meet a girl and we would get married and we would be each others first for everything. First love, first kiss, first time holding hands. It wasn't malicious, it just seemed so much more pure and magical. I realized though over the course of the next couple years this is likely not possible. What I saw instead was a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:05 PM

What you're saying doesn't make sense. The chances weren't any better back then if you're getting rejected. I think you're trying to red herring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:36 PM

How old are you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:30 PM

You mean the ones that were smart enough to not let you know they were obsessed with your virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:30 PM

No, but to think you could "just start dating" in high school as a man is laughable. A lot of us don't have a choice like women and young girls do. If we're repulsive to women, there is little we can do to change that without putting in a lot of work which tends to have results in your late teens/early twenties depending on how early you started. For me I started making changes when I was 14, really hit my stride by 17, fell off for a bit, and came back around 23 and was slaying. I couldn't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:28 PM

Depends. But I have a feeling when you say fat girls you're talking about the ones with big tits, low cut shirts, and extroverted personalities. If you go for the greasy, dumpy looking ones then maybe. You can always help them clean themselves up and maybe get an attractive gf out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:25 PM

Having girly interests is only bad if you are a fat beta. As a fat beta, feigning interest in girly things has gotten me laid a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:22 PM

Why didn’t you start dating someone when you were in high school Women really don't get it. This is like Jeff Bezos level of whatever the word is when a rich person doesn't get what it's like being poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:21 PM

tbf I think some girls might like that set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:20 PM

Why don't men just make the first couple dates something free or low cost? Obviously these men aren't attracted to the kind of women who expect to be paid for, so why do they continue to chase after those women? I mean I know the answer, because we're desperate and don't have the freedom to be picky the way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:19 PM

Q4Men: Do you think having some girly interests is good for men to attract women? Q4Women: Do you think a guy having some girly interests is appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:16 PM

No, because you're going to chase after the cosplayers with good genetics that have a horde of thirsty, desperate orbiters. You're going to think a conventionally attractive women is unaware of how attractive she is because she is in a community that is typically associated with being a loser. You are not in these women's league and they surely are not virgins. Also, anime is a male dominated community. Find something that women like and be one of the token men in that domain. Like if I talk to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:12 PM
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Post an example of your personal style or try to describe it as best you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:57 PM
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Also fwiw, they were both pretty stylish. They definitely looked Gen Z aged, he was probably in the military, but he was wearing a patagonia pom pom hat, a brown and yellow earth tones plaid button up, skinny jeans, and white leather chelsea boots. The girl was wearing a tan trench coat, relaxed fit jeans, and chunky white sneakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:55 PM
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Such a chronically online question. Motherly as in portraying characteristics of being a good mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:51 PM
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Saw a guy that was about 5'5 with a girlfriend/wife that was about 5'7. I'm going to start taking pictures of couples in public and post them as proof against blackpill/incel arguments. I know it's probably creepy, but idc because I'm a weird guy with a horribly skewed moral compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:45 PM
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Probably because they're nice and more feminine and motherly. Good traits for a partner. What major/career are you comparing it too though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:41 PM
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Probably for the best. People are so miserable and chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:29 PM
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Yeah, I guess in HCOL areas. Probably why a lot of US cities are so poor, because people really are underpaid. It's confusing because I see some people say the trades pay well, but when I look into it I see welders are making $22/hour which is less than what I make in a data entry job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:28 PM
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Yeah, I've heard of her. Tbh the fan base kind of scares me though. It seems for anti men rad fem kind of crowd. I saw a guy on TikTok get harassed because he said he liked Fiona Apple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:14 PM
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Imagine waking up on a Saturday morning as a woman after a night out. You feel completely empty because men were only being nice to you to try to get laid. Your mother is harassing you about finding a husband and your job expects too much from you so you feel overwhelmed. You suffer through the female burden of knowing you'll never truly be seen as more than the sum of your parts and everyone wants to take something from you and your problems are never validated. You have another night of enduri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:10 PM
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There probably isn't much difference between the life of a stacy and the life of the average woman. Women can achieve something close enough to being a stacy just by putting on make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:07 PM
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It is because people talk about it online as if it is the bare minimum. To the average person on the street making 45k or 50k a year, a 6 figure income is considered rich. Like you only make 6 figures if you're the CEO of a company or in the highest management position which is very few people within an organization.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:03 PM
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I really don't get it. 400k a year makes you in the top 1%. Why do so many people who claim to occupy such a small fraction of the population spend their time on reddit and act so casual about it. Shouldn't you be hanging out with Bill Clinton or Warren Buffet or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:02 PM
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Same about the indie folk, I feel like that is the natural progression from emo. I had a really long period where the only band I listened to was Bright Eyes. I don't really like RnB, but I guess an artist adjacent to that I like is Blood Orange If you haven't heard of him, you'd probably like it since it sounds like we have similar music tastes https://youtu.be/hLQVaKH_miA?si=aLAcv2Oh_bIWqpds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:37 PM
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It blows my mind how famous Skrillex was, but very few people probably know about From First to Last https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Sh_sQpPxLI Also Steve Aoki who was also big in the EDM stuff at that time was in some hardcore bands too. Such a weird musical overlap. It never made sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:28 PM
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I was into that, but also more into being as obscure and pretentious as I could be lol What kind of music do you like now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:08 PM
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What kind of emo? 👀 What bands are you into?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:49 PM
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Skrillex isn't emo lol. FFTL is arguably emo, but they're more post hardcore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:49 PM
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Oh! That is actually really good! Or (I have sisters) or something to indicate emotional maturity. My only concern is that unless you're in the know about the cultural meaning of "therapy" for men, then it could read like you're mentally ill. That is one of the issues with these cultural signals, I've seen people be attacked for saying the right thing, because the person didn't know what they meant. (I know what love languages are) might be another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:43 PM
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It isn't a good analogy though because we're not deer and we operate differently in our societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:40 PM
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No, because there is a fair competition there. That sort of competition doesn't really apply to humans since, from a mans perspective at least, women's criteria is arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:15 PM
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There is this joke on tiktok where a guy will say he is doing something, like blatantly but jokingly pandering to women, and then in parenthesis be like "I'm 6'3 btw" I think it's really charming and playful, but like, what other attributes could be used as the punchline of that joke if a guy isn't actually over 6'1?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:14 PM
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alt accounts on PPD. I'm actually 6'4, sharp jawline, and make 467k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:12 PM
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They may not be forcefully sterilizing anyone, but they are showing clear preference for what they would consider as master genes. Plus, that is the other thing I would talk about, they alleviate themselves of responsibility by saying it is someone else's problem. It would be like saying no eugenicist is actually a eugenicist because those people could still reproduce somewhere else in the world. Actually, when I was in school we saw an experimental documentary about sperm clinics in Sweden and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:07 PM
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I mean this respectfully, or as respectfully as possible. I think it is really annoying when autistic or "neurodivergent" people talk about "masking" as if that isn't what literally everyone does. It's like, yeah, those people you think are normies just have manners. That is all masking is. Doing what is socially appropriate which is what everyone does. It's actually kind of condescending because the presumption is that the "neurotypicals" are just anyone they don't like or who makes them feel b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:41 PM
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The only way to overcome it is to have successful outcomes. That is the important part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:19 PM
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Maybe it is better to phrase it as they have a propensity towards eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:18 PM
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Maybe I'll make a post about my belief that women are natural eugenecists, but I think it would be removed for being looks based discussion. The reason I don't actually post is because the rules are too strict and I don't want to make a post to just have it removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:03 PM
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"I think I'm going to start making electronic music"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:55 PM
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What are you referring to? He is complaining about attracting women who are "in their early 20s" Virtually every age there he could potentially date, with the exception of 2 ages, but that also depends on his jurisdiction. I fail to see how what I said was offensive in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:52 PM
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Honestly it's because women don't have issues dating. They have issues getting men to commit, but they have other support groups to post in for that where they say the men are the problem and support each other to a fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:17 PM
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999% guys who don't meet the 666 requirement 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:17 PM
1

Why is that a problem? 🤔 Depending on your state or country those are all above the age of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:15 PM
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A point of infinite density, for some reason we will likely never understand, begins rapidly expanding all so some time in the inexplicably distant future you can goon to prolapse porn and feel lonely because girls filter you out because you're an inch too short to be considered by them. How strange it is to be anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:12 PM
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how teenage are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:03 PM

I want to write a screen play or some short stories, but it is the one form of art that I see no purpose in. Like if you make a song, a painting, take a photograph, etc. it is more of a passive sort of media where there is less participation required by the observer. But to write relies on someone actually putting in time and effort to read your words. I took a stab at poetry, but aside from one club I attended once in college, there really isn't an audience for this kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:38 AM

You have a son? Virgin Mary pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:31 AM

One man's cringe is another man's based. Also, it's "couldn't" care less. To say you could care less implies you could, in fact, care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:30 AM
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Do you really love the bed, or are you just saying it because you saw it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:27 PM
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yeah, I just like girls in general 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:24 PM
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Because that is what astrology is. Astrology isn't just magical thinking. It has a framework supporting it and is used to define ones personal life experience. What you're referring to is escapism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:23 PM
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That is a good way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:21 PM
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I don't see the connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:21 PM
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Question what you believe. <span class="md-spoiler-text">But don't question it too much because then that topic will be banned.</span>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:19 PM
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How would gaming, comics, and anime be astrology? They do nothing to make claims about supposed absolute truths the way astrology and the red pill does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:39 PM
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Because women aren't actually attracted to men in the first place. At least not in the way men are attracted to women. You know how women will say men consider women they find unattractive as invisible? Well, that is true for women, the only difference is their net of what is unattractive is far larger than ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:30 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/wiki/terms/#wiki_holding_frame
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:13 PM
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My maiden doesn't give a fuck about me when I'm sick. My mom would always pamper me, but my maiden views my coughing and sneezing as an annoyance 🙄 The modern state of feminism I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:50 PM
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33 to be exact 😤 And men get a little grumpy too ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:43 PM
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I'M SORRY IF IM BEING RUDE RIGHT NOW I LOVE YOU I'M JUST A LITTLE SICKY AND I'M ON MY MAN PERIOD I APOLOGIZE
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:41 PM
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Hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:40 PM
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I'll watch it for you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:39 PM
1

Oh wow, thanks for linking to the thread so we know what you're talking about 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:35 PM
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Everything is always my fault 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:34 PM
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I wish people would link to the things they want to discuss so we can make sure we are looking at the same thing. I like Taylor Swift, but she is known as being a terrible human being. The only good thing about her really is that she worked with Jack Antonoff, so it is more that I like his producing abilities (Lorde, Lana Del Rey, Bleachers, Fun, etc.) but the music she makes, especially with him, is catchy and has some indie rock sensibilities that make it appealing to a wider audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:33 PM
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The problem is you wouldn't know until it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:29 PM
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Fwiw, I would be willing to do both. I actually tried to start one one time, but they said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:28 PM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:27 PM
1

This thread is not showing up as a pinned post for me. What did I do 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:26 PM

Who are you trying to convince sweetheart?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:40 AM

You're not the type of girl this routine is meant to work on 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:40 PM

Nobody has to, but I cured my inceldom with this routine, so it will be read by those who need it most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:59 PM

Ok, I promised the routine a while ago, I'm going to drop it. Send a girl a DM, say "hey, you seem cool and I wanted to introduce myself" make small talk for a little bit. Say "I have to [something that shows responsibility like picking up your nephew from little league, you don't have to even have a nephew, just say it] and say, "you can message me on [text/kik(or whatever the equivalent is nowadays)/snapchat]" and give them the contact info. Make small talk for a couple days but get increasing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:45 PM

Rationally, yeah, he is shitty. However, women have pounded it into our heads about entitlement, how the friend zone isn't real, about not oweing anyone anything, etc. So while as a man, I have a much better concept of fairness than women do, women have made it clear they are not concerned with fairness unless it impacts them. Women make the rules that men have to play by. Don't get mad at us for adhering to the rules women make.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:31 PM

I really like that channel. Did you see the one where he snuck into the soviet hangar?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:55 PM

Just made this dressing: https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/218337/our-favorite-balsamic-vinaigrette/ It's pretty good. I omitted the salt entirely, I put some of it on a handful of arugula along with some shaved parmigiano reggiano and it's a really delicious, healthy, and simple recipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:49 PM

nah, disregard rules 1 and 2. Rules are meant to be broken after all. Really, the only way to be successful in dating as a man is to not give a fuck about women or their feelings. Just approach them and if one likes you, cool, you got your +1, now move onto the next while keeping the last one warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:51 PM

I realized the other day it has been about a decade since I last heard, "If you got time to lean you got time to clean" So thankful for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:43 PM

Get a few dozen under your belt. Lie and cheat. Get it out of your system. It helped to cure my depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:36 PM

I hate when that happens which is why I very rarely do anything. Or you go somewhere and the host is there, but you're the only person who shows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:33 PM

Sorry if this seems rude, it isn't directed at you, just something I've noticed and your comment reminded me of it. Something I don't get about people who want certain careers in the arts is they think it is all or nothing. If you want to be an actor, you have to be an A list celebrity, if you want to be a musician, you have to be in the billboard top 100 or on the cover of rolling stone. If you want to be an artist, you have to have your work showcased at MOMA. You can still have a career in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:32 PM

Honestly, this is how men should act. Too many men are desperate for women though. "Thank you for the two dates" is so based.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:11 PM
1

Sick, thank you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:52 PM
1

hey, can you tell me how popular Juicy Couture is in your demographic? My partner says it is having a resurgence and so she is reselling some things. I'm just curious and I guess trying to get a better understanding of the market. It seems the main appeal is the kitsch factor, like wearing it semi-ironically. Just wanted to hear your thoughts or if you notice this as a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:16 AM
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You have two options. Meet young but legal aged women in your jurisdiction, or work through women until you land on one who happens to be a virgin. If your intentions are too pure to partake in these morally gray actions, then stop complaining since you are the one who has the preference and that isn't anyones responsibility but your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:09 PM
1

I claimed women have a tendency towards eugenics and wasn't banned. I think it depends on how inflammatory it is and how well you construct your argument. Try to avoid any buzzwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:07 PM
2

I think Kate Bush is for the girlies what Joy Division and The Smiths are for the boys. Love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:43 PM
1

Because I have a fashion related question which I think she is better to ask. She seems more in tune with trends especially related to tiktok than others here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:32 PM
1

You know exactly who I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:18 PM
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That is wild. I can't imagine what kind of traumatic shit the algorithm could give a child. Everyone is getting so chronically online. There is a facebook group called "of course it's an age gap relationship" and their policy is you cannot in any way defend a relationship with an age gap. I even saw a post on reddit of someone asking if being a 18 year old dating a 17 year old is wrong when they had been dating for like 3 years already. People are crazy nowadays. And it's so odd because you very…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:56 PM
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Yeah they probably hear it from some Twitch streamer or an older sibling or something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:43 PM
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Lillth getting banned from PPD. https://preview.redd.it/p7lra48dsw5c1.png?width=800&format=png&auto=webp&s=d6642b27920d7ee9ef5999b245b4175504a53235
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:40 PM
1

ohhh I thought he said that to you lol I was like you'e not Epstein's type. That is weird af, but a little funny tbh. I bet you see a lot of things you have to correct them on, but are still funny deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:38 PM
1

I have a question for our resident Gen Z poster. When does she get out of school?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:34 PM
3

She is probably lurking and festering. Just absolutely chomping at the bit to share her insights with us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:33 PM
3

What does that even mean lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:32 PM
2

Listening to that Kate Bush album. I am not embarrassed to admit I first heard the song on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:29 PM
2

I think it is normal to get burnt out. Especially nowadays. I know for a fact if I was ever single again, I doubt I would find someone I love as deeply as the woman I've been with these 12 years. What is out there? Women who make Harry Potter, Taylor Swift, Disney, or Marvel movies their whole identity. I don't care about any of that. They're all so dull. The art heaux girls I would want to date are probably too into drugs or wouldn't be interested since I haven't been to grad school. I think an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:23 PM
1

First (Male)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:11 PM
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Welp, looks like feminism has accomplished everything it set out to. Let's pack it up boys, we can go home now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:10 PM
1

Interesting it does happen suddenly. Like I move just wrong and BAM! but then I kind of hunch over a bit and it goes away, but. if I try to sit up straight it hurts bad. I'll look more into this, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:01 PM
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I'm not "superficially hot," but there is nothing better than when a girl does that whole loose and limp kind of thing when you're holding hands or cuddling. Like complete submission and idolatry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:57 PM
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For a number of reasons. Some selfish and some not. My partner and I have no family, and the family we do have isn't very good. Having children and providing them a loving and supportive environment would hopefully lead to us being closer and having a healthier relationship. My wife and I are pretty codependent. Having children would be an extension of ourselves and if anything happened to the other, we would live on through that child. I don't want to be labelled an incel. My partner has always…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:54 PM
1

I'm obviously not on TikTok, but I have pretty severe rejection sensitivity dysphoria. I think at my worst I was juggling literally a dozen girls, but I remember I was legit going to kms because a few other girls rejected me. And the worst part is that I didn't even really like any of them, but it was all tied up in my own validation and need for approval from women. I remember with my partner we got access to our old PhotoBucket accounts which was a photo hosting site in the mid 2000s back when…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:27 PM
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I have no clue what any of this means
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:22 PM
1

I just went to a porn site to look at the ads, it's funny how many of them are just of men with with big penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:20 PM
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Can you describe some examples? It could be that they're not attractive to you personally. When I look at porn I definitely prefer either nudes I've been sent directly or girls that look like someone I could actually pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:19 PM
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Sometimes I get this really intense sternum pain. I am confident it is not heart related. Back in 2017 I went to a cardiologist and all the tests showed my heart was fine. It happened last night because I was leaning on the arm of the couch trying to balance my computer and the posture/pressure made the pain start. It only happens if I move certain ways and it stays in one location. I might also feel it in my chin or my arm, but again, it is just one location. This also happens when I go swimmin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:40 PM
1

Male orgasms are just easier to know when it happens. Women can have multiple orgasms and they might not display the same signs when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:30 PM
2

Do you have to really mean it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:27 PM
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No. I learned very young that genuinely liking the women you pursue is not productive. I have had several women who I was successful with though that stood out so in a way I guess those could be a crush, but having the puppy dog feeling for someone you don't know? Couldn't be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:57 PM

But they think they are. So if their behavior is excused, then the incel behavior has to be excused too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:55 PM
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don’t hurt anyone else. But rejection does hurt. Someone is always going to be hurt about something, so logically we aren't responsible for other peoples reactions to events. Men are much more capable of fairness and we have a moral concept of how the world should operate. Women, however, to avoid responsibility, disregard these concepts and prefer nihilism. "Women don't owe you anything" or "I'm not your mother" or even leftists in general saying, "It's not my job to educate you." So we end up …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:54 PM

Makes sense. Fwiw, I think most of the men here are wrong too. Maybe I'll delete and come back and be more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:13 AM

I think it definitely comes down to physical traits. The first one being thin and lanky allows them to be more eccentric. The second one has a much more mature vibe and the clothes don't really fit/accentuate right. Like the collar is too big and sloppily peaking out of the cardigan. She also has a certain timid shyness and anxiety about her it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:12 AM

watching you watching me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:57 AM

body type and physiognomy. That is all it comes down to. Do you think that person pulls it off? Can you show some examples of someone who doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:56 AM

That one actually does have a lot of reviews, I figured it had to be with how private and nondescript they were trying to make it look.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:45 AM

gotta make an account to read the reviews
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:39 AM

I don't know if I've ever met anyone named Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:31 AM

It's just some woman getting her Carrie Bradshaw on, nothing important to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:30 AM

Funny. Now women are using the word so it's suddenly acceptable and empowering. They knew all along what people meant by "alpha" and "beta" they just chose, like women often tend to do, to gaslight and act in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:29 AM

There is a business in my hometown that has black plastic over the windows and the door, and a sign that says "SPA" in neon lights. What are the odds this is one of those thai massage parlors where they give you a hand job?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:10 AM

Bro didn't even have the common courtesy to take you to a brothel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:08 AM

I'm making fun of myself when I say that because that is the kind of things women say to men. I know the things I say are often reprehensible, but I truly believe like 73% of what I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:08 AM

I was for 5 years. I'm not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:06 AM

Yes. at the beginning of the pandemic I was a vegan feminist ally who unironically was a Stalin apologist. Now I'm in my miserable little man era.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:49 AM
1

That would still show women have it easier, but women refuse to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:02 PM
1

He is so real for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:01 PM
2

Yeah, but the difference is that we align our perception of their beauty with that fact. However women disregard what men are and aren't capable of and so much of what they're attracted to is based on genetics and immutable traits. Obviously it's not all women. I'm not that stupid, but all women do tend toward that. Such as life though, just pointing out more examples of this belief of mine since I've talked about this with my partner and she disagrees with me. It's funny though because before m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:57 PM
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And they still say they face the harsher beauty standards in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:48 PM
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Since 2013. Honestly if you were an early adopter of MySpace it was so easy to get girls. Dating apps should be the lowest priority of your routine, social media DMs should be the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:45 PM
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I'd do it, but I'm spoken for. I think couples costumes are cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:38 PM
2

queen of the damned maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:37 PM
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Has anyone watched the Squid Game contest show? I am really angry about what Ashley did on the bridge and I cannot fathom why anyone would defend her and then turn around and say Mai is a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:35 PM
3

I remember in journalism classes, they really urged us to not get anonymous sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:32 PM
3

The thing guys here fail to realize is that real game is getting a legit girlfriend to house train you, then you basically adopt her personality to attract other women. Twilight? I'm totally team Edward! Lana Del Rey? Born to Die is a masterpiece. Bath and Body Works candle sale? It practically pays for itself, let's go! But men here are so scared of being "boyfriend material" so they hold out for some Chad fantasy that doesn't even really exist, and if it does it is for a very few number of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:00 PM
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Was fired from one job because I didn't want to come back to the office during covid. Was hired at a start up that laid off 80% of their staff. It's only a matter of time until something like this happens again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:57 PM
1

Yeah, I'm still contributing and learning and will probably get more aggressive with my investing as I understand how it all works better. How long have you been working? I didn't get my first real full time job until I was 27 so that doesn't help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:23 PM
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Interesting. I guess that is Gen Z. Its odd because I feel like I can connect with/relate to people up to 1998, but 2000 and after they feel like kids to me or something. I was born in 1990 and my partner in 1993 and I feel like we're more like zillenial than straight millenial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:11 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:07 PM
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What hope is there? You might work somewhere a couple years before the company is bought out and everyone is laid off. You'll probably get let go because of downsizing. You have to roll over your 401k every year if you even have enough money left over to contribute to it. I'm in my early 30s and I have about 2500 in my 401k. I had to toll some over to a new job and between checking my balance, requesting a check, and rolling it over I lost about $300. 2500 isn't even enough to live off of for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:07 PM
1

It sucks. Everyone does drugs. I'm scared of drugs, really fucks with being able to socialize because everyone is so casual about. It's crazy because during my drug phase literally nobody around me did drugs. Every girl I dated I wanted to smoke with, but none did. Now every single girl is a pot head and does cocaine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:01 PM
1

Is that song really that old? Covid has really messed with my sense of time. I thought it came out a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:57 PM
1

It's because we're millenials. Imagine having children and hearing that in the other room. Annoying af.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:54 PM
1

I'm fat and I had to be loud and charismatic to be listened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:54 PM
2

2013 - 2017 was peak women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:53 PM
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I like fake lashes on women though. I also like tattoos, septum piercings, and thick drawn on eye brows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:52 PM
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Why are you so concerned with semantics? It's irrelevant since most people when conceptualizing a vagina consider the whole thing. It's like if I said "this is the clitoris" and you were like "nooo, that's the clitoral hood"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:27 PM
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Yup. https://preview.redd.it/6j9frwmewb5c1.png?width=1170&format=png&auto=webp&s=94597ad782644a355e84ce8466710f6286ab78c0
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:25 PM
2

I was watching the Ethan Crumbley trial and it's funny how many people who would say "the brain isn't developed until 25!" want to give a 15 year old kid a life sentence. So much logical inconsistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:17 PM
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Anatomically, sure, but when someone is referring to the vagina, they're referring to the whole region, not just the vaginal canal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:16 PM
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How not? It is the labia which is part of what is colloquially referred to as the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:13 PM
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Nope. Of course someone struggling with this would talk about the issue they're struggling with. Either what you're saying is in bad faith, or you're purposefully deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:24 PM
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sorry, your boobs are just kind of uneven and it turns me off. You're a great girl though, I'm sure you'll find someone 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:22 PM
1

I'm just reporting what I saw play out. "come on babe, just the tip" or "if you don't, I'll find someone who will" kind of stuff or guys dating girls and then breaking up with them after they had sex. That was in high school anyways. Things are definitely different in people's 20s, but by that time there aren't any virgin women left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:21 PM
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I have questions, are you bitter because you don’t have sex or are you bitter because you are lonely? Women are willing to be friends with just about anyone and you except when there are expectations beyond friendship. How would you feel if you were married and your husband never wanted to have sex with you again? I know first hand girls freak out if you deny them sex. It isn't one or the other. A friendship, especially between a man and a woman, can only go so far in regards to intimacy. Would …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:18 PM
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Are you joking right now? This is such a blue pill deflection. Even if guys were to be selfless, it wouldn't change anything, right? The issue isn't the mends capacity to give love, it is the ability to have love reciprocated that is the problem. Of course that would be the problem they want addressed. And if a guy talked about how selfless he was, he would be told "nice guys aren't actually nice" It's a lose lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:15 PM
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they blame women. Prove this. Red pill is about self improvement to become a "high value man" to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:13 PM
1

Very well written. I think this is also generally why men are drawn to movies which women love to point out "it's satire! The director is actually a trans radical misandrist, the movie was meant to make fun of men!" Becoming Patrick Bateman or Tyler Durden is really one of the few antidotes to the struggle that men face. The female satire component ignores the reality for men. We can't just give up the way women do and fall ass backwards into a successful sex life or rise up the corporate ladder…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:13 PM
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Very well written. I think this is also generally why men are drawn to movies which women love to point out "it's satire! The director is actually a trans radical misandrist, the movie was meant to make fun of men!" Becoming Patrick Bateman or Tyler Durden is really one of the few antidotes to the struggle that men face. The female satire component ignores the reality for men. We can't just give up the way women do and fall ass backwards into a successful sex life or rise up the corporate ladder…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:12 PM
2

This is real and hurts so much to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:41 PM
1

From your list? Eyes Wide Shut. I've never seen Being John Malkovich, but I think I would like it so I should check it out. American Beauty is great too, but I think Eyes Wide Shut is far more epic and it was Stanley Kubrick's last film.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:37 PM
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This is the real equivalent to women's height preference. Imaging breaking up with a girl because you prefer innies and when she says why did you even have sex with me you say because you felt pressured into it and like you had to. I love weaponizing women's logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:34 PM
1

There's always the placenta
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:31 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:28 PM
1

I don't know man, maybe it's a generational thing but girls usually lose their virginity young because some guy is pressuring them into it or feeding them all sorts of lies. I don't know any girls that were eager or stressed about about losing their virginity the way men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:28 PM
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Like guys going around and bragging like it's some conquest or revenge porn kind of stuff. A girl gave me a bj once and told me not to tell anyone, and I went and told everyone because I was a stupid 16 year old boy and I wouldn't say it damaged her reputation, but looking back it was super disrespectful of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:50 PM
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Women don't appreciate this kind of humor. Took me longer to realize that than it should have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:43 PM
3

Probably fear of getting pregnant and fear of being humiliated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:43 PM
1

Wisdom is realizing that virgin women and young women are going to be scared of sex and you'd be better off dating a mid to high n count woman. Much less stress. But y'all want what you can't have so bad even if it ruins you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:34 PM
1

Because I want to be the first because other guys got to be the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:32 PM
1

muh steak and bacon ooga booga.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:31 PM
2

Steak really isn't as great as everyone makes it out to be. Chicken and fish are so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:31 PM
1

Make sure you clean it out after each use so it doesn't start to smell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:31 PM
3

Say what you want about me, but I'm in nobodies DMs 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:30 PM
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