Swoledinger Archive

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1	Social media and women. I'd check your game son, shits not adding up. I'm 5'9", pretty ripped, but not top 100 ripped. Out of 10 girls I message, 6 reply. Out of those 6 I make plans with 3-4. Out of those 3-4 maybe one flakes. This is after 2 lines of conversation then asking them to grab a drink.	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/17 03:23 AM
0	Stop dating. Start inviting her over. I'm not going to invite randos back to the Bat Cave. You want crazy in your house? That's how you get crazy in your house. You have a girl meet you at a dive bar. It's great because they are cheap, scuzzy, and have become quite popular with girls out to prove something. Meet her there. Don't pay for shit. Play some pool. Go back to hers. It's really pretty simple. Stay on script.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/17 01:11 AM
45	The average number of sexual partners for men and women are EQUAL We will take a group of 20 people. 10 men, and 10 women. Pecking orders are established, as always. The top 2 men then get their pick of women, and equally women get their pick of men. You will find that women will more frequently pick the top tier of men. Men may sample a wider palate. Perhaps all 10 if he wants to play in the mud. number 1 Man has sex with women 1,2,3,4,5,6,7 number 2 Man has sex with 1,3,5,7,8,9,10 In the women's group 4 Women (1,3,5,7) have had sex with 2 men. 6 Women (2,4,5…	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/17 07:50 AM
3	Attraction Trumps Logistics Pretty much everything is negligible once attraction is built. The key is building that attraction. Logistics are just another piece of the attraction puzzle. You contradict yourself in the closing. If one ever finds their self in this situation they should immediately either a) find acceptable logistics or b) get away from the woman before attraction dies and reschedule when logistics are better. The good news is that logistics are negotiable, so it should not ever be a problem finding a place …	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/17 06:39 AM
5	Almost all men are stronger than almost all women: Graph Any useful links? As of 2012 it looks like the 24th best man (out of 25) would have won gold in women's by 3 minutes? In fact only 1 man wouldn't have won women's gold for distance open water swims. https://www.olympic.org/london-2012/swimming/marathon-10km-men https://www.olympic.org/london-2012/swimming/marathon-10km-women In free diving I see 1 event where a woman holds the record. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freediving	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/16 04:52 PM
2	Progressive Promotion: How Dating Down will aid you in becoming, slowly but surely, a Red Pill man From my own anecdotal experience dating down was an extremely poor experience for me. All in all the lower their number the more of a horrible pain in the ass they were. What they lacked in beauty, they made up in no other aspect. I never found myself thinking 'Im glad I gave her a chance'. Time is limited. Don't waste it.	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/16 04:25 AM
2	The Godfather of Pick-Up (and the Red Pill), Mystery, has a Facebook Meltdown Think about it like this. Ill start doing squats every day. You start researching the biomechanics, muscle insertion point, and optimal meal plans. I won't research squat theory. You won't do any squats. We meet back in one year and see who can squat the most weight. Here is the great thing about being human. We get better just by doing. If we are trying to go to Mars, yes we will need methodology. We are just trying to talk to people... So just go talk to people.	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/16 01:19 AM
67	We Don't Hate Sluts; We Just Recognize Their Low Value Sluts are to celebrated. The market is saturated with product and inventory is being moved at an all time low. No matter how low the price goes, women will still compete to be a better product. She will still seek validation. To differentiate herself (now that cost has leveled out at 0) she will improve her quality. I'm excited to see the levels of sluttiness the newest generation is bringing to the SMP. Now free those nipples, show dem titties, and get some validation you third wave feminist.	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/16 09:06 PM
0	[Red Pill Theory] Depressed Daddyless Daughters Look, it's the reason I date black girls. I never have to meet their dad. But for real. Thank you to all the absentee fathers out there regardless of race.	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/16 08:30 PM
1	Stories From The Nightclub: The Tiger Theory Question for all who work at nightclubs/bars/stripclubs. How open to bribes/tips is everyone? I've started hanging out with old divorcees with lots of their ex-husbands money. We will go into a crowded spot, and they always seem to be able to "buy" us a table. These places will be nuts to butts. Maybe 10-12 people at a table. I'll be ordering a drink at the bar when I'll get a tap on the shoulder, turn around, and it's the bouncer. "Are you Swoledinger?" "Yeah" "A blonde lady got you a table ove…	/r/TheRedPill	27/05/16 01:59 AM
50	The Personality Trap If she is attractive and single over 30... What deep flaw lurks beneath the surface that has kept her single? If she was amazing someone would invest. Yet her stock has no buyers.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/16 09:54 PM
1	"Am I a misogynistic jackass?" Flip the script. "I didn't realize you were insecure at the time. You seemed pretty confident to me". You've changed the subject and now she will debate about how she's not insecure and/or you're an asshole. Double down with at "you seemed great but honestly this isn't going to work if you get hung up because I seek clarity in conversation. Specificity is the soul of narrative" Maybe I just like backhanded compliments.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/16 06:17 AM
0	How to bang on a first date - By Luke Mooney I get no benefit I would not have otherwise received. I am getting zero return on my investment. Yes, that investment does not work out well.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/16 11:46 PM
2	How to bang on a first date - By Luke Mooney Paying for a girls drinks shows you're paying for her time. I basically never pay for a girls drinks. After close to 1000 first dates I can say for me, I have a much higher success rate when I don't pay. About twice a year I might buy a girl the first drink and it just never works out well. Between the girl I'm on a date with and myself, I'm the funny one, the interesting one, and the one that arranged the meeting. The least she can do is pay for my drinks. And typically they do. Really, if you …	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/16 11:19 PM
3	Theory Weekend - No Stupid Questions Thread Part II This is fundamentally wrong. This is a basic level shit test that is easy to pass, and really only stands to up your SMV in her eyes. She's simply testing to see if she can shame you into submission. Any variation of "hahaha you're the jealous type eh? That's cute" will work. If you are actually hooking up another women you are presenting hard evidence of your SMV. Women do everything to beat out other women. If you are fucking two women they will start attempting to one up each other to demonst…	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/16 09:55 PM
1	White knights are more dangerous than you may think. Missed my mouth, you dirty girl.	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/16 01:56 AM
70	Beta orbiting a woman(who probably friendzoned him) so tightly that he claims he is getting "man periods" because "he is so close to her, his horomones are syncing up with her menstrual cycle" Oh man. I might have this too. When I'm around women on their periods its like a non-stop headache.	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/16 01:49 AM
1	The entire system sickens me, I'm ready to opt out. Rome is burning, but if you'd like I can show you how to party.	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/16 05:23 AM
1	Remember - They are watching you Your body language is huuuuuge. You smile, it makes you feel better. You hold a power pose, you get a bit of a boost. Any reason to not sit confidently and feel more confident?	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/16 05:04 AM
2	Gamer Girls Realistically not really. Depends if you mean locally or nationally/globally. Lots of local music scenes are extremely cliquey. The 'cool' kids are moderately talented and typically stay in their small local scene until they kind of fade away. During the these good times their SMV is off the charts for girls that follow that scene. I believe this is what faulters many budding careers. Their ego grows faster than their talent, they become difficult to work with before they have the leverage to be…	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/16 02:10 AM
1	Gamer Girls That's quite a bit of a logic feedback loop. If they were not doing for attention, you would never know about it. The fact you know about it means they do it for attention.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/16 01:48 AM
2	Women are fighting to get paid 'period leave' off work to cope with period pain. No HR department this week? Sweeeeeeet.	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/16 05:39 AM
23	Consider ghosting a lot of people after swallowing the pill. Exactly. I never understood why people deem it necessary to burn bridges. There are lots of ways to exit a friendship without salting the earth.	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/16 06:28 PM
2	How to handle "I have a boyfriend." "Just one? I've got like 10"	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/16 03:01 AM
3	News article shows more single women then men... and points out RP truths... SMH Hambeast butter troll has always been my favorite	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/16 04:02 AM
6	Opting out of the social contract I dont think you are using 'protection' correctly. Unless you're the mafia then you nailed it. "You've got all this nice stuff. Shame should something bad happen to it. If ya catch my drift" He was saying why use his physical strength to stop bad things from happening. You're saying if he doesn't go out of his way to protect you, you will go out of your way to harm him. (False accusation and social shunning) He has a live and let live mindset. You have a "serve or die" type mindset.	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 04:44 PM
1	How To Close: Tinder Edition I have a shirtless bathroom selfie. Girls message me to tell me they like my abs. If you look good no girls will disqualify you for it. "I was way into Ryan Gosling then I saw he had a shirtless bathroom selfie. Ewwwwww"	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 02:28 AM
11	Russians Bewildered by Cologne Rapes: 'Where Were the German Men?!' Let's say you try to defend her. You succeed. The man you beat up sues you for assault. Even if you win you will pay to defend yourself. You fail. You get beat up. You fail. You get beat up. When the cops show up you are assumed to be one of the rapists. You now face sexual assault charges. You fail. Mob kills you. Perhaps it's not a lack of ability to defend others, but the improbability of a positive outcome. You know how to ensure you don't lose that game? Just don't play. In the scheme of in…	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 02:13 AM
2	How likely am I to be the father? Nailed it. How ever small the chance, this is a small chance it could be his. In the extremely small possibility it is his, this is the only plan that doesn't have him locked down for life. Eliminating this option is poor tactical positioning.	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 01:33 AM
2	How likely am I to be the father? Hope for the best. Plan for the worst. First, do not be accusatory in any way. You need her to be agreeable with you. You need to really win her over, this will not work if she hates you. After about a week be honest with her, but word it very carefully. "You're an amazing woman. Having a child with you would be amazing. I just want everything to be perfect about it. First I would want a house. Then to be married. Then when we are 100% ready lets have a child together. I want to make sure we can…	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/16 02:05 AM
9	Being Red Pill is worse than committing violent crimes in women's eyes. And a lot of guys here refuse to date "ex"sluts. It's just another example of how they are at one end of the spectrum, then completely shift to the other end for the right guy.	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/16 11:51 PM
1	I have 1,923 Tinder matches that led to sex with over 100 women and someone said I should post here to answer questions Why is it impossible with the current algorithm? I pull >5% when I just copy paste the same series of messages.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/16 08:38 AM
1	Life-Hacks: The Male "Make-Up" Game I'm happy to change my stance when presented with new information. Do you have any sources? I can find lots of studies linking Kava with hepatotoxicity but am having a harder time find more than a forum post that disputes it.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/16 09:07 PM
2	Life-Hacks: The Male "Make-Up" Game Kava is pretty hard on the liver. Hard to recommend.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/16 08:04 PM
1	20% Of Men Sleep With 80% Women LIE - Statistics Suggest A 'Slut' Factor I think you need to do some field research. Given the right set of circumstances the vast majority (95%+) of women will have sex immediately after meeting the right man. 100% of women on tinder are DTF for the right man.	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/16 11:00 PM
3	Ugly girls are not nice. I find this behavior across both sexes. Someone who does not see value in themselves seeks to lower others value in an effort to preserve their own value. I usually flip the script on the person trying to neg me. "Who bullied you growing up?" (Pause for a second but don't allow them to respond), smile and chuckle, "don't worry we're not on the playground anymore, I won't let anyone throw mud at you. elbow nudge Now cheer up and let's have a good time!" At that point they either shut up and have …	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/16 01:08 AM
0	Remember this when you go out. Don't ever give a hot woman power just because she is hot. Ain't no shame in my game. Shame is only possible if you have the capacity for it.	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/15 04:46 AM
1	Extreme Results Require Extreme Dedication (+ Kobe Bryant "All Day" Process) I can sell. I can manage people. If you've got the idea. Lets make some money.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/15 07:17 AM
2	Don't be stupid - wear a condom http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/policies/law/risk.html 4 in 10,000 for PIV to transmit if she HAS HIV. In that the HIV has to come from somewhere, it doesn't just pop up in 4 in 10,000 cases of having sex. http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/group/gender/men/index.html MSM is Men who Sleep with Men. Hint: White Hetero Men do not even appear on the chart. Get ready for SRS to blow this shit up. "Some women may be unaware of their male partner’s risk factors for HIV (such as injection drug use or having sex with other …	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/15 07:30 PM
1	Don't be stupid - wear a condom Unless there are new studies that have published, as a straight man that does not use IV drugs your chances of getting HIV are essentially 0. Now if you are having sex with women that are in these high risk catagories - 1)they have sex with homosexual men and/or 2)use IV drugs, then yes, you are very much in danger. But really lets aim for a higher caliber of woman. Either way, remember pregnancy is the riskiest STD.	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/15 06:14 AM
0	How to Turn a One Night Stand into a Plate If you were better in bed, and more exciting out of bed you wouldn't have this problem. I would say you're fucking this up pretty badly. After sex Oxytocin levels are elevated. Oxytocin is linked to trust and bonding. Have you ever laid with a woman after sex and just let her talk? We show trust by revealing ourselves to others. When she does this she feels closer to you. Sure you can start to usher her out if you've got stuff to do but do it with proper timing and tact. "You better enjoy these …	/r/TheRedPill	06/12/15 05:25 PM
13	New round of outrage on social media after top venture capitalist Mike Moritz of Sequoia Capital says he won't lower standards to increase women in the company VC is all about gett'n dat money. It's kind of humorous that anyone would entertain the thought that women are not employed more in VC because they are women. Follow it to its logical conclusion. They hire (and exploit) whom ever will net them the greatest profit. They only hire men because a. They would rather punish women than make more money? Nope. Whom ever would generate the most profit is who they will hire. b. They know they exploit their workers, so they protect women from the exploitati…	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/15 09:19 AM
7	Show Me The Ho Facts! I have literally had thehofacts.com registered for the last year. I was going to start a credit bureau for hos...	/r/TheRedPill	28/11/15 06:45 AM
1	Mother and daughter plan to poison husband/ father.. His statement Mr Patrick pleaded with the judge not to jail his wife and daughter but said the poisoning had 'broken me - I'm just a shell now'. 'Despite it all I'm still Jacqueline's husband and still Katherine's father. I almost pray for a suspended sentence or a tag.' He forgave them!? Now I understand why they tried to kill him.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/15 03:23 AM
21	Jezebel reader takes the red pill It's like giving a Porsche to a 15 year old. No one is that suprised when they wrap it around a tree.	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/15 11:03 PM
6	Honest question for this community Nailed it. To add: To move the discussion forward we must accept when things happen a majority of the time, we accept that as the standard. If I put 10 penguins in 10 cages with 10 polar bears, and 8 of the penguins got mauled couldn't we agree that its bad idea to house polar bears and penguins together? Do we need to try it another 10 times? (And yes I choose Penguins and Polar Bears because in nature never the twain shall meet.) There are always examples of great women, just like there are ex…	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/15 07:35 PM
3	CorporateLand: A Rat Race Survival Guide For New Rats Someone once tried to get me fired for sexual harassment. Here's where it gets fun. * Person leveling the accusations against me was... Another guy, Mike, that this girl had turned down. * She left the company about two weeks after I started. * Accusations against me were brought forth after she had not been with the company for almost a month. * The guy bringing the accusations had seen a note she left me on her last day. (It was all of 'We should hang out now that I don't work here anymore 555…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/15 07:47 AM
1	'Too much pressure on guys to lift'. Boo-fucking-hoo. I can't help but laugh when anyone says they are worried about 'becoming too big'. It discredits the hard work every in shape person does. Diet control controls fat loss. Worship of the iron gods gains muscle. I've been doing this for over a decade. If you start today I've still got a decade on you. That's why they choose not to start. They see a long road and rather than take the first step, they suggest we setup camp here. No one working out has ever said 'oops I got too big/fast/strong'. Even…	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/15 03:05 AM
1	Woman describes types of Alpha, she and her friends have encountered. I'm the Trapdoor Spider. I'll just lay back in the cut then.... gotcha bitch! Then I'll never call again, because spiders don't have phones stupid.	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/15 05:30 AM
7	Bachelor in his 30s with a fun life, cool friends, and lots of options when it comes to women; red pill fantasy or attainable reality in the western world. Absolutely attainable. Once I hit 30 it all got much easier. You'll be amazing how much money you have when you stop spending any of it on women. While my peers may be getting married, I just step down 5-10 years and find a girl that would like to have fun.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/15 08:41 AM
3	In a thread about height, AskWomen faces an existential crisis - they can't admit to wanting tall alphas, but they can't help it! I think it's muscles and posture. Women over estimate my height by about two inches.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/15 06:45 AM
2	The "modern" feminist opinion on marriage: Don't DIVORCE SHAME! Your power a relationship is tied to your ability to walk away at any time. When you marry, if you attempt to walk away your risk everything. You are creating a power imbalance by handing all the power in the relationship to her. Here is the power to have half earnings, forever. Here is the power to tell the cops I hit you, have me locked up, and have half my earnings forever. Please don't let this unfettered power go to your head. Thanks! The divorce rate is around 50%. Flip a coin. Heads nothi…	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/15 06:31 AM
4	"I Wish My Boyfriend Dressed Like This" - women yearning for real men on pinterest I would say 2001 was taken near when he started cycling. 2003 was after a few cycles. 2005 was back to natty. 2007 back on cycling. Hair loss could be a leading indicator or just very, very unfavorably timed for him.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/15 06:08 AM
1	"I Wish My Boyfriend Dressed Like This" - women yearning for real men on pinterest We seem to be pretty close in build. I find that unless the shirt is tailored or tight enough it makes me look goofy and top heavy. A tailored shirt or tight vneck shows off my massive pecks and wide shoulders. A size or two too big also makes me look huge, in a good way. There is this odd place where the shirt is my size, but is tight in the chest/shoulders and loose in the waist that leaves me looking like a barrel with legs.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/15 06:02 AM
1	"I Wish My Boyfriend Dressed Like This" - women yearning for real men on pinterest Most of the body building community have combed over his photos, and a lot of them from the 2007-2010 time frame show direct signs of steroid usage. While he claims to be 100% natural - photographic evidence says otherwise.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/15 05:35 AM
13	Anatomy of the "Alpha Fucks" I agree with you. You can be dominant while still eating the pussy. It's a quality I attribute to so many of my plates boomeranging back. I don't call, or text, or think of them for months. Out of the blue they call because they want to hang out. I'm not buying them dinner or drinks. They just come over and we have sex. Not using your mouth is retarded thinking. Honestly you need to be more intuitive when you are with your partners. How deep is her breathing? Is she pushing into you or pulling b…	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/15 05:21 PM
6	Blowing off Kim Shattuck No. I work in music. People buy the band drinks while they are performing all the time. They do this by bringing them all to the front of the stage. She probably just thought you were a fan trying to buy the band beers.	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/15 06:59 AM
21	44% of American adults will suffer from obesity by 2030 I'd much rather all women become more attractive. If the 8s of today were considered 2s and 3s I'd be over the moon. Everyone getting fatter is worse for everyone. Everyone getting hotter is better for everyone.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/15 06:42 PM
13	Why you shouldn't ask fish for fishing advice II - Why women hate RP advice On a guy that "Just Gets it" vs the guys that had to learn it. I believe it is tied to a demonstration of true wisdom. Your Natural Alpha, when confronted with new situations, addresses these from the lens of True Alpha. A reformed Beta, when confronted with these new situations has to intake the information available and attempt to process it in a way the True Alpha would. The Natural does it without thinking. The Reformed is forced to process the information then act. Only when a Reformed chan…	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/15 04:29 AM
16	Ordering Drinks: The Basics Learn your favorite whiskey. Favorite whiskey Old Fashioned. Done. If the bartender ever asks "What's in that?" just order a highball(Booze+mix, think whiskey coke/ gin and tonic) or a beer. For the love of god if you close your credit card after every order I will stab you. If you order at the bar, bus your own drinks. Typically at these places the bartender has to attempt to bus the place between making drinks. They see you return your glasses they will serve you faster. Find places/bartenders…	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/15 03:55 AM
2	The "half night stand" for the modern millennial woman: Just when you thought the CC wasn't enough! Rome is burning. RedRome1: Shit man, Rome is totally up in flames. RedRome2: It's not going to be the same as before... RedRome1: Well fuck it, lets grill some meat on it. RedRome2: May as well. BlueRome: OMG THERE MIGHT BE GIRLS IN THERE IM GOING IN! Runs in an immediately dies of immolation For me TRP has become about observing and interacting in the world we live in today. Rather than attempt to change all of society I choose to change myself to optimize my chances. It's the ability to recogn…	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/15 08:07 AM
17	Her n-count is just the top of the iceberg Which describes the 99%. Most women claim an N count in the 20-30 range. I've just started to guesstimate that state N count means per year.	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/15 07:33 PM
3	The "Fuck Boy" Phenomenon How is a fuck boy made? You fucked him! Anything negative said about the 'fuck boy' is just a reflection of yourself. If a guy only had sex with guttersluts who does that speak more of? The guy or the guttersults?	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/15 09:06 AM
4	28 year old woman on TwoX gets a cold hard slap of reality - high value men are avoiding her. Commenters furiously rationalize it away and tell her everything will be alright. Here's a simple true fact about the vast majority of guys. At 20, I looked back and realized how lame the 18 year old me was. At 25, I looked back and realized how much more awesome I was than when I was 20. At 30, I'm better then I was at 25 in every way. Current day, I'm the best yet. Why would anyone want to 'date' the lesser version of me given the choice. They wouldn't. A strategic spinster will pick up a man well below herself in terms of years, while he is on his way up, and before he has…	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/15 05:35 AM
1	Internet dating, Tinder and Social Media has made LTRs impossible You could cite a 50% divorce rate. That doesn't include all the relationships that didn't make it to marriage or those that cheated but stayed married. While not impossible, the smart money is not on LTRs.	/r/TheRedPill	29/09/15 12:05 AM
10	Educated Women & Vapidity I am currently attempting to gather more real life observations of a theory I've been kicking around in my head. I've noticed that those who have blown me away with their intellect do so by making connections others would miss. With problems or situations that on the surface seem completely different or unrelated, these great thinkers are able to find commonalities between them to solve the problem. These great thinkers are able to take knowledge from a previous experience and apply it to future…	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/15 06:15 AM
4	Thoughts on Tinder's transformation over the years. I believe there are two theories at play here. Humans minds have a harder time attempting to block information than to process it. Its called the Ironic Process theory. I can tell you to not think about sex. Your mind then has to do one of two things. Think about sex Think about anything other than sex - consciously attempt to block out sex Second. Why would someone need to state, unprompted, they are not going to do something. The simple fact is they don't. We are all pretty lazy. Without a pro…	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/15 05:39 AM